Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl? Lexp Any Sugarl Dray in
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Speaker 1: of Poor Mind where a drunk mind speaks sober. We
Speaker 1: gotta guess today, We gotta guess today. Now, y'all are
Speaker 1: going to love this. I know we have all been
Speaker 1: tuned into the Netflix hit Beauty in Black, and we
Speaker 1: have one of the stars of Beauty in Black former
Speaker 1: athletes a top Sespiannum.
Speaker 2: We got Juliana Horton about it.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you for joining.
Speaker 3: Actually, I'm really excited for.
Speaker 4: A week, so tell us.
Speaker 1: Give us like you know, what's been going on since
Speaker 1: Beating and Black has dropped. I know it's been a
Speaker 1: whirlwind for you.
Speaker 3: Beating Black has changed my life Number one new room.
Speaker 3: It's changed my life. U. The reception to the show
Speaker 3: has been great. It has been astounding, outstanding, and I
Speaker 3: just I love that everyone's watching it. It's really a
Speaker 3: show for the culture.
Speaker 1: It really I didn't know.
Speaker 3: I knew it was going to be big, I really did,
Speaker 3: but I didn't I really couldn't just fathom how big
Speaker 3: it was going to be. It's kind of crazy, like
Speaker 3: this is a show for the culture, and like I said,
Speaker 3: the perception has just been amazing. Everyone is watching it.
Speaker 3: The love I've been getting for playing a character that's
Speaker 3: kind of bad, it's not like not like, but it's like,
Speaker 3: I get a lot of love. It's weird.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun because and to be fair, everybody
Speaker 1: on the show is bad. Nobody on the show is good,
Speaker 1: So you know, yeah, I do want to start from
Speaker 1: the beginning though, because you know, you used to play
Speaker 1: for the Tennessee Titans. Yes, you are an athlete, and
Speaker 1: I always think it's so amazing when guys, especially athletes,
Speaker 1: athletes make that transition into something completely different because we
Speaker 1: do hear the stories of athletes kind of just like
Speaker 1: they don't play sports anymore, and then they just kind
Speaker 1: of get lost, you know, and there's no you know plan.
Speaker 1: B So talk about your transition for being a professional
Speaker 1: athlete to an actor.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So, like.
Speaker 3: I've always had it in my head, I got you. Yeah,
Speaker 3: God gave me a vision. God gave me a dream,
Speaker 3: and I just knew that I couldn't let life happen
Speaker 3: to me. I gotta freaking make what I went out
Speaker 3: of life. Basically, you know what I'm saying. So at
Speaker 3: the end of the day, it's like football was great.
Speaker 3: I love the sport. It was an amazing time, a
Speaker 3: grueling time, a learning time. I learned a lot of
Speaker 3: lessons playing football. Played it for seventeen years from seven
Speaker 3: years old at twenty four. But I always knew that
Speaker 3: like I was more of a person that was just
Speaker 3: good at football. Football didn't make me. It wasn't my identity.
Speaker 3: I see a lot of athletes and a lot of
Speaker 3: people they make sports their identity. I'm Julian Horton, and
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, God's given me a
Speaker 3: lot of talent, a lot of gifts, and I have
Speaker 3: to maximize what God has given me. See, the thing
Speaker 3: about is this God gives us life, that true gives
Speaker 3: us life. We all have life right now, but our
Speaker 3: gift back to God is what do we do with
Speaker 3: the gifts that He's given us. So for me, it's
Speaker 3: like it was because people ask me I wanted to
Speaker 3: change this football to act? Think that was it. It
Speaker 3: was seamless because I knew that I wanted to do
Speaker 3: acting at a young age. I know I wanted to
Speaker 3: do music at a young age. I knew I wanted
Speaker 3: to do sports. At a young age, I had three things.
Speaker 3: There was three. It's kind of like common too, because
Speaker 3: it's like niggas want to act, niggas want to do music,
Speaker 3: niggas want to do you know, sports. But I said, no,
Speaker 3: those are the things that I'm doing. Those are I
Speaker 3: am going to make a lot of money doing one
Speaker 3: of those three things. So after football had ended, I
Speaker 3: did music a little bit too, a little bit, but
Speaker 3: I knew that like acting, it could get me over
Speaker 3: the time, It can make me a career, It can
Speaker 3: make me a lot of money because I knew I
Speaker 3: could do it well because I know I'm a character.
Speaker 3: If I can transition and like formulate this energy that
Speaker 3: I have that God has given me, I can make
Speaker 3: a career out of this. And that's what I did.
Speaker 3: And it took patience, it took a lot of hard work,
Speaker 3: but by the grace of God, were here now. Yeah.
Speaker 5: And so with acting, would you say, because one fact,
Speaker 5: your cousin is Donald fin it's your first cousin, Yes
Speaker 5: it is. So would you say that you were inspired
Speaker 5: by him to really get into acting?
Speaker 1: And take you seriously, to be.
Speaker 3: Honest with you, because I love I love it I mean,
Speaker 3: I don't care to be honest with you. It's like
Speaker 3: that's a good question. Uh. Donald was just he's always
Speaker 3: kind of just been like a bragging point for me.
Speaker 3: But he wasn't the reason why I got into acting, though.
Speaker 3: I think it was more so I loved it. I
Speaker 3: loved this craft. I think I have an appreciation for
Speaker 3: true talent, true talent. I think today I think there's
Speaker 3: so many people getting famous and so many people making
Speaker 3: money doing things that are talentless, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: And I have appreciation for old Hollywood. I have an
Speaker 3: appreciation for it because it's like a respect that went
Speaker 3: into old Hollywood, just Hollywood period, especially with black actors.
Speaker 3: I've just seen that number on the call sheet I
Speaker 3: think on Apple TV. I respect those guys. Denzel's to
Speaker 3: Jamies and Wills and Morgan Freeman's to Lawence Fish Spurs,
Speaker 3: I respect those guys like I really truly respect those
Speaker 3: guys because it's like they took a dream, they manifested
Speaker 3: and they made it happen, right, And it's just like
Speaker 3: I've always just wanted to do that. So with Donald,
Speaker 3: he made it happen. He's been famous since I was born. Yeah,
Speaker 3: even a nineteen ninety like three.
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I mean that was when I was
Speaker 1: like three.
Speaker 3: So that was the thing. I was like him. The
Speaker 3: Titans football football, that's my cousin. But it's the dream
Speaker 3: has always been in me before that, though I have
Speaker 3: to see that happen to make me go and want
Speaker 3: to get that. It's just added on to it even
Speaker 3: more because me and Donald we talk. But Donald is
Speaker 3: you know Donald, you know Donald, Donald man, he'd be
Speaker 3: doing this thing.
Speaker 1: He's you know, he just did he help you in
Speaker 1: an these type of way?
Speaker 5: Because I'm not even because because that's what I was
Speaker 5: gonna say, because you know, in this industry people always
Speaker 5: say everybody is related to each other, and you kind of.
Speaker 1: Feed me in.
Speaker 3: But the thing about it is like I didn't ask
Speaker 3: Donald for nothing. I didn't. I didn't ask and think
Speaker 3: about it. His mother on Shirley passing director and an
Speaker 3: agent in New York City, didn't help. No one helped me.
Speaker 3: Didn't help me, you know what I Shirley told me.
Speaker 3: And I'll be in this is exclusion. I ain't gona
Speaker 3: lot to surely is is hard body, She's trill and
Speaker 3: I appreciate her for doing this. I asked her, I
Speaker 3: did it one time. No one even knows it because
Speaker 3: I haven't said this on any podcast. I asked for
Speaker 3: help one time. Once she said, that's your agent's job.
Speaker 4: I was like, damn right.
Speaker 3: And that's the family. That's the family I come from, though,
Speaker 3: And I appreciate that because that same person that I
Speaker 3: wanted to get connected with five years later book me
Speaker 3: on bed and black.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, and it was just me.
Speaker 3: So it was so it's like we are My family
Speaker 3: is tough love, Donald Faison tough love. It's like and
Speaker 3: I didn't ask Donald for nothing because and I still
Speaker 3: don't ask for nothing. We we watch each other stories,
Speaker 3: we talk here and there, but we don't like talk
Speaker 3: about acting at all. And it's crazy because I really
Speaker 3: do want to do something eventually. But it's also on
Speaker 3: some stuff like in this family, you got to prove it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you got to prove it. This family is a talent
Speaker 3: I remember, a talented family, a talented family. So it's like,
Speaker 3: no one wants to say we didn't give you a
Speaker 3: hand out. You're gonna prove it. Yeah, So you know,
Speaker 3: the way is how they family. But I'm telling you
Speaker 3: the Hortons and the Phaisons is coming. You know. You
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, It's coming. I'm telling you because
Speaker 3: it's like Donald had his whole career and it's like
Speaker 3: people don't even know that I am his cousin. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: my first cousin. That's my first cousin. Yeah, those are
Speaker 3: my people. I love Donald, but I think.
Speaker 1: Like, moving forward, are you going to be like the
Speaker 1: one that kind of like plugs your family and are
Speaker 1: you gonna be like the tough love too? Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: that's the goal to me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm plugging man for sure. That's just
Speaker 3: how you am. This is that's who I am.
Speaker 1: I like that though, because I feel like even because
Speaker 1: everybody has been giving like lebron Ship with Browny and
Speaker 1: all that stuff, I'm like, that's literally what you're supposed
Speaker 1: to do. We are just now catching up to that,
Speaker 1: like with the Black family, because now we're starting to
Speaker 1: you know, put people on. I want to make things
Speaker 1: easy for my.
Speaker 3: Future children, definitely.
Speaker 1: My friends or my family, like whoever. Like if you
Speaker 1: connected to me, girl, you good.
Speaker 3: Because it's like this, this this life is hard.
Speaker 1: It's hard enough already.
Speaker 3: This life is really hard for real hardt what the hell?
Speaker 3: I tell people that. That's why this the reception to
Speaker 3: the show is kind of crazy because people are screaming
Speaker 3: for me, and oh my gosh, I bro Before this,
Speaker 3: I was doing Uber and my transmission went out and
Speaker 3: I was broke. And so it's like I have a
Speaker 3: different appreciation and a different perspective for all of this
Speaker 3: because I got I'm not gonna say I hate the
Speaker 3: worst famous celebrity. I got known at thirty three. So
Speaker 3: I've learned so much in these years that God has
Speaker 3: given me. I've learned so many lessons. My wisdom has
Speaker 3: continuously increased, and I know that life is hard.
Speaker 5: It is.
Speaker 3: It is hard. It's for men because we got to
Speaker 3: make it happen. No one's given a shit, so at
Speaker 3: the end of the day, it's like, it's just a
Speaker 3: tough life we live. So that's why if God allowed
Speaker 3: me to have this blessing, I'm honor the position and
Speaker 3: pay it forward the best I can to help other
Speaker 3: people out because this, like I said, like I said, this,
Speaker 3: life is hard. It's tough. No one told us that
Speaker 3: when we're young.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I see both sides like I can
Speaker 5: understand sometimes why families feel like if they could help you,
Speaker 5: or sometime they don't really want to. Sometimes it's because, Okay,
Speaker 5: get it out the mudd. He's gonna teach you work ethic,
Speaker 5: it's gonna teach you hustle, it's gonna teach you ambition.
Speaker 5: But at the same time, why should they have to
Speaker 5: go through that if they have somebody who can already
Speaker 5: help them, who have already did all of the groundwork.
Speaker 1: So I kind of see both sides. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I want my kids to be a little spoiled, yet
Speaker 1: me too. They're gonna be silver spoon fed for sure.
Speaker 3: Facts.
Speaker 1: So I want to talk about the process, the audition
Speaker 1: process and then the actual film. And because you know,
Speaker 1: people love to talk about Tyler Perry and he shoot
Speaker 1: things in three days and gets it done and out
Speaker 1: there and y'all be on set for twenty hours. So
Speaker 1: how was the audition process? Was it quick? Was it
Speaker 1: long drawn out? Because like I said, we know that
Speaker 1: Tyler likes to do stuff quickly and get out. So
Speaker 1: how was the audition process?
Speaker 3: Man, it was anxiety ridden. I would say that because
Speaker 3: it's so funny because Netflix, I've been manifesting it so much,
Speaker 3: I would I say, I went only to Netflix because
Speaker 3: I had a movie I did called National Champions. In
Speaker 3: the movie I did called The re Education, I'm Molly Singer.
Speaker 3: They both went to theaters bombed, bomb damn. But at
Speaker 3: the same time they went to Netflix. And when they
Speaker 3: went to Netflix, everyone I told to go see the
Speaker 3: movie was literally sending me messages. You watch your movie, nigga,
Speaker 3: you kid Boomerange, you killing this nigga, My nigga, I
Speaker 3: told you to go see the theaters. You see it?
Speaker 3: So I knew right then, convenience. Human beings loved convenience. Yeah,
Speaker 3: especially COVID. Yeah, after twenty twenty, people love convenience. I
Speaker 3: ain't good. No, I don't want to go to the theaters.
Speaker 1: And movies go to TV so quickly now.
Speaker 3: Even like one of them days, like.
Speaker 5: It's already on NETFLIBC is number one though, yeah, no one, people.
Speaker 3: It made fifty one million in the box.
Speaker 1: It did amazing in the theaters.
Speaker 3: But I'm still I'm gonna watching when I have time.
Speaker 3: I still want to watch it. Yeah, I haven't watched it,
Speaker 3: but it's like he hit Netflix. Not everyone's watching right now.
Speaker 3: At number one, So I knew convenience, convenience, convenience. So
Speaker 3: back to your question, it's like that audition and that, uh,
Speaker 3: the whole thing, the whole project came across my agent's
Speaker 3: desk and I saw that it was on Netflix. Some
Speaker 3: I was like, sh Tyler Perry has a Netflix show
Speaker 3: coming on Tallerman has a Netflix show coming Because he
Speaker 3: had did the BT plus Amazon everything. He ain't hit
Speaker 3: no Netflix. He hit the Netflix movies with The Me
Speaker 3: and Copa's and The Jasmine Blues and a couple of
Speaker 3: other things. You did. What's the other movie he did?
Speaker 3: That's right, bitch, Yeah, movie exactly the movie.
Speaker 6: Yeah you're talking about about the Wig and yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: what's that the Old Lady again? Remember from Fall from
Speaker 6: Grace my Dog from I think he was in uh
Speaker 6: Glory Road, that dude, yeah from Glory Road.
Speaker 3: In the game he was yeah, yeah, he's a good actor,
Speaker 3: great actor. But it's like, so he's had those movies
Speaker 3: Netflix Original. Yeah, So I came across and I saw Roy.
Speaker 3: It's like he's he's doing high twenties, young thirties, black playboy.
Speaker 3: He uh, he has a drug addiction. He likes to
Speaker 3: fast life, and.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm like me, I know that.
Speaker 3: Sound like me.
Speaker 1: This guy sounds for me.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, I hang a lot too. I love
Speaker 3: I love having this conversation because you know, I like
Speaker 3: getting into the depths of it. When you see something
Speaker 3: like that, it's crazy because it's like that does sound
Speaker 3: like me. And I got an audition for it right now,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I would kill this shit. I would
Speaker 3: kill this ship. But then you know, as an actress, like,
Speaker 3: is it really gonna happen?
Speaker 1: Though?
Speaker 3: Right, You're really gonna book it? Because in my mind,
Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, you're gonna have to go against the
Speaker 3: best of the best. And I love that. I love competition.
Speaker 3: I'm a competitor. But at the same time, acting teaches
Speaker 3: you it's a subjective sport. This world we live in
Speaker 3: as actors, it's subjective. It's not objective. Like Lebron James
Speaker 3: sixty nine, two sixty he can dunk on niggas. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you're gonna get picked first nigga, right, Exeth Curry. Don't
Speaker 3: matter what you do, the best shoot of all time,
Speaker 3: you're gonna get picked. Yeah. Action is different because you
Speaker 3: can be the best actor of all time. And then
Speaker 3: somebodys be like, oh, you know he loved darker though, yeah,
Speaker 3: I like his slag a little bit more.
Speaker 1: And people deliver lines so differently.
Speaker 3: Your mind is yeah, like, man, hopefully I get this.
Speaker 3: So basically that's your question, Like I audition for it,
Speaker 3: and immediately three days later, Kim Coleman shot like Kim Coleman,
Speaker 3: she's the best. She had, she loved, she loved the auditions,
Speaker 3: and she was like, yo, when Julian to come to
Speaker 3: LA to do the in person auditions. So that happened
Speaker 3: on Thursday. I want you to stay with me right here.
Speaker 3: I want you to stay with me. That happened on
Speaker 3: a Thursday. They want they want me to come to
Speaker 3: LA next Thursday, next Thursday. So they got got the
Speaker 3: message from my agent like Kim, come loves me. They
Speaker 3: want you to fly out next Thursday. It's Wednesday, next Wednesday,
Speaker 3: now six days of past, and I ain't got no
Speaker 3: flight information nothing. So I take my agent like, yo, bro,
Speaker 3: what what's going on? Like I'm supposed to be going
Speaker 3: to LA next tomorrow? What's going I ain't got no
Speaker 3: flight information. I'm like, yeah, I'm sorry to tell you.
Speaker 3: That's Julian, but they went in a different direction. Real, wow,
Speaker 3: all right, that's cool, bro, I think give me blue balls, magga.
Speaker 3: But I said, I said, okay, and that's that's that's
Speaker 3: that's okay. And as an actor, I've been doing this
Speaker 3: ship almost sven years now, I'm like, yeah, you know this,
Speaker 3: that's a part of the business. Like you know you're
Speaker 3: not gonna get every part, and you know that it's
Speaker 3: very fickle. This game is very fickle. Boom boom boom.
Speaker 3: They made decisions out of fly whatever whatever, like a
Speaker 3: bet next, next project, man, and think about it long
Speaker 3: than I bet next. I didn't even like. I wasn't
Speaker 3: even sad over it for real. Yeah. So a week
Speaker 3: goes by. Next Wednesday, I'm literally in my basement. I
Speaker 3: know this ship for a fact. This is I get
Speaker 3: emotional talking about the ship. Agent hits me and sends
Speaker 3: me a picture of what Kim Coleman sent him and
Speaker 3: said it is Julian still available. So I'm like, bro,
Speaker 3: what's going on? I thought I didn't get the part.
Speaker 3: And it's like, no, bro, they ask and if you're
Speaker 3: still available or not. So I'm like, what's going on?
Speaker 3: They get like who what's going on, niggu why you you'll.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, like niggas playing my motion, Yeah exactly. This is
Speaker 3: a huge ass part. So I'm like, did I get it? Like, bro,
Speaker 3: what are you talking about? I left the ship. I
Speaker 3: left it alone because I said I killed the audition.
Speaker 3: I left it alone. Like, bro, it is what is
Speaker 3: the next one? And now you're telling me I have
Speaker 3: a chance again. He's like, bro, you're available or not.
Speaker 3: It's done. Niggas say it now. So he says I'm
Speaker 3: available whatever, and then like another two days go by.
Speaker 3: At the age, it's like, so I just got out
Speaker 3: the phone. We can come in and they're gonna make
Speaker 3: the decision the next two days, all right, okay, cool, nigga.
Speaker 3: Bet So Day one goes by nothing, Day two goes
Speaker 3: by nothing. Day three goes by nothing. All right, I
Speaker 3: didn't get it. Again these niggas fuck one. That's cool,
Speaker 3: I'm leaving it alone. A week goes by again nothing.
Speaker 3: So I remember this specifically. I remember my manager at
Speaker 3: the time. He called me and was like, yo, bro,
Speaker 3: like you're gonna do this. I had another audition for Netflix.
Speaker 3: It was like Emily in Paris or something like that.
Speaker 3: He said, you're gonna do this audition. I was like, yeah, Bro,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. Bro like yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3: And that was in the morning. Called me at ten
Speaker 3: in the morning. I'm chilling with my family stuff. At
Speaker 3: like seven o'clock at night, he calls me again. I'm
Speaker 3: thinking he's called me about the audition again because I
Speaker 3: haven't done it yet, and I like, I ignore it
Speaker 3: because I'm like, bro, get I'm gonna get to the audio.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. But he texts me He's like, bro,
Speaker 3: call me a SAP. So I'm like, all right, I'll
Speaker 3: call him. I'm like, what's up, bro, He's like, Bro,
Speaker 3: I have Rod on the phone. Who's my agent? So
Speaker 3: Rod and Tina are my agents. James is my manager
Speaker 3: at the time. Me and him, we're not together no more.
Speaker 3: Based on my brother, we're not together no more. But
Speaker 3: he calls me we're rotting Robbed on the phone, He's like, Bro,
Speaker 3: I didn't want to, like I started you or anything.
Speaker 3: I didn't want to like get your hopes up anything.
Speaker 3: But so basically I'm on the phone with Netflix lawyers
Speaker 3: right now, So I'm like, what are you talking about,
Speaker 3: Nigga because i'minking I dig it right, And he's like, so,
Speaker 3: I didn't want to. Like they're moving really kind of
Speaker 3: slow right now. I know we said we're gonna get
Speaker 3: the part in the next two days, but it didn't
Speaker 3: happen like that. They're taking more time than usual. I'm
Speaker 3: on the phone with Netflix lawyers and uh, basically doing
Speaker 3: like a background check on you to see if you
Speaker 3: can be Roy. So I'm like, what they do that background?
Speaker 1: About the background?
Speaker 3: Yeah, background, and that is a long story. So I'm sorry, celebrate.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm a little lit too right now. I
Speaker 3: feel I've been talking for two hours. So it's like,
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, God, forgive me Lord what we tell you?
Speaker 5: An exert out for real, because i feel like I'm.
Speaker 4: Watching a movie.
Speaker 3: Everyone watching me.
Speaker 5: I'm like, the picture and then you're doing the voice appreciation.
Speaker 3: So so he's like, go throone with the Netflix says,
Speaker 3: right now, I didn't want to start to you. I
Speaker 3: just want to handle business and then present the opportunity
Speaker 3: to you. Julian, I'm like, what do you mean, You're
Speaker 3: on the phone Netflix lawyers and he's like, I'm on
Speaker 3: the phone with Netflix lawyers, so I can tell you
Speaker 3: and in the next couple of hours they should be
Speaker 3: making the decision. So I'm like, what is going.
Speaker 1: The background check was a giveaway for me because they're
Speaker 1: not doing.
Speaker 3: That, is true. And then my manager at the time,
Speaker 3: James Trace, he was like, Yo, every time you do
Speaker 3: background checks, it usually usually got that thing. Lawyer, I'm
Speaker 3: not trying to get your host up, but usually got it.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, bro, I'm not getting my host up
Speaker 3: at all. This whole fucking process has been held. I'm
Speaker 3: not getting my host at all. And then I was
Speaker 3: at the gym and uh, I was just chilling and
Speaker 3: I was listening to music and then my music cut off.
Speaker 3: Someone's calling me. I said, be my mom, better not
Speaker 3: be my father, Better be my mother fucking agent agent.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, I'm like shaking a little bit. I'm like, oh, ship,
Speaker 3: I think this is the call. And then all my
Speaker 3: agents on the phone, Ron, Tina and James, my manager
Speaker 3: of agents, Julianne, you're there. I'm like, you called me.
Speaker 3: I answered, yeah, here, I'm here. We just wanted to
Speaker 3: tell you you got the part.
Speaker 1: Period. Did you cry? What did you do? What was exciting?
Speaker 3: I praise God? Yeah, I can almost cry think about
Speaker 3: it right now. I praise God and just like walked
Speaker 3: because I go to win. I'm gonna I'm not telling
Speaker 3: the niggas. The gym I go to. I go to
Speaker 3: the gym, get exactly. I go to this gym. I
Speaker 3: just walk around. They have a track there and I
Speaker 3: just I prayed for like an hour. Yeah, talking like
Speaker 3: we did it. We did it. We did it because
Speaker 3: I knew this show. I was like, this is the
Speaker 3: game change.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I've been acting for nine years and it's crazy Gota
Speaker 3: played football. It's so weird and it's like I did
Speaker 3: this whole journey. So if you really thought, like really
Speaker 3: thinking about I've been on this journey for twenty six years. Finally, Yeah,
Speaker 3: Netflix series series regular.
Speaker 4: And Tyler Perry. Tyler Perry.
Speaker 1: Paid because he's gonna.
Speaker 4: Use you over and over.
Speaker 3: He overpays too, because he wants to take care of people.
Speaker 3: And yeah, I got so much respect for that man.
Speaker 3: People talk a lot of ship here that they say
Speaker 3: this and whatever whatever, but it's like he takes care
Speaker 3: of his people. Yeah, yeah, he makes sure. He just
Speaker 3: make sure you straight. Because me and TP we don't
Speaker 3: have like a.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: We like because some of the actors they talk to
Speaker 3: him more and have his number in talking text. Me
Speaker 3: and TV don't even talk like that. But when I
Speaker 3: come on that set, he knows I'm about the business.
Speaker 3: He knows that. He even says, like you walking down,
Speaker 3: you be walking around intimidating yourself. I'm like, I don't
Speaker 3: mean to be intimidating, but it's like I think it's
Speaker 3: the athlete. To me, it's like, when I come on
Speaker 3: that set, I'm here to do a job and be
Speaker 3: the best. I'm not here to just like act And
Speaker 3: I say that a lot on a lot of podcasts,
Speaker 3: like I want to be the best. Like I love
Speaker 3: this craft. I love this craft so much because it's therapeutic,
Speaker 3: it's meditative, and it's you get to be a different
Speaker 3: version in yourself while still being yourself do right right,
Speaker 3: and it's just amazing these cameras and you get the
Speaker 3: pain of story and it allows you to be present
Speaker 3: for real and it really does like that's and your
Speaker 3: actings fake, make believe. I'm like, no, it's not. When
Speaker 3: I'm in the scene, you can't tell me I'm not roal. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I really be feeling like I got to get out
Speaker 3: of it, like oh, and it doesn't take me all
Speaker 3: low to get out of it. But it's like when
Speaker 3: I'm in it, I'm present. I can teach you to
Speaker 3: be present like crazy, and it's amazing.
Speaker 5: I don't know, I feel like that's what good actors do.
Speaker 5: They I feel like you're supposed to make people feel
Speaker 5: like they should have be able to differentiate from the
Speaker 5: real person and the world that they're playing. And yeah,
Speaker 5: you be doing your thing on the show, because I'd
Speaker 5: be like this Nigga is something else I appreciate, right,
Speaker 5: But the whole.
Speaker 1: Show is just crazy. It's such a good show.
Speaker 5: Like I have been glued in since episode one, like
Speaker 5: when I found out the sequel to season one was
Speaker 5: coming out, because that was the whole season. Yeah, but yeah,
Speaker 5: when I found out the second part of season one
Speaker 5: was coming out, I was like, oh yeah, And I
Speaker 5: love that all of the episodes come out at once,
Speaker 5: because I hate when episodes come out weekly because I
Speaker 5: be on the edge of my seat wait until the
Speaker 5: next week. So I love that everything drops at once
Speaker 5: and you could just binge watching.
Speaker 3: Fact. Netflix does a great job with that because even
Speaker 3: with Paradise is a great show.
Speaker 1: That was love Paradise so good. Oh my goodness, Oh my,
Speaker 1: I couldn't sah, oh my, I mean k Brown, Oh
Speaker 1: he is phenomenon. Is one thing I love about like
Speaker 1: actors now especially I feel like they don't We see
Speaker 1: actors get type casts all the time, and I feel
Speaker 1: like with somebody like him, like he has played so
Speaker 1: many different types of roles, like it's so good.
Speaker 3: It is so good that show. Because I think the
Speaker 3: great thing about Netflix is like it's the number one
Speaker 3: streaming service, so anything goes Netflix, people gonna watch it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of great shows on other networks Apple TV, Yeah, Amazon, Prime, Hulu,
Speaker 3: and there's always a couple of shows that get out
Speaker 3: of that like box and be worldwide with it. And
Speaker 3: I think Paradise is one of those shows because I
Speaker 3: kept seeing people talk about Paradise. Let me just see
Speaker 3: what it's about. James Marsden. I love talking about acting.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, James Marsden. It's so like charismatic.
Speaker 4: He's just it's hard not to like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he really James Marsden is like I like and
Speaker 3: think about it. I really appreciate this conversation, by the way,
Speaker 3: because this is some nerdy shit. I love talking like
Speaker 3: he was Cyclops and I was like ten years old,
Speaker 3: Oh my god, watching them at Cyclops.
Speaker 4: And because don't get me started by Marble.
Speaker 3: Exactly, so he's Cyclops and this back then when this
Speaker 3: when we first seen Hugh Jackman, this Wolverine in the bar,
Speaker 3: that's what the first X Men should be seeing. And
Speaker 3: to see James mars I always liked him. I was like,
Speaker 3: he just and he was in the Notebook and ship
Speaker 3: like that. But he's always had this this charismmatic approach
Speaker 3: to his his roles and I like people like that.
Speaker 3: He's just likable, yeah, very like. And then you put
Speaker 3: stlan k Brown with him and Paradise in it, and
Speaker 3: it filtered into the whole world. Everyone's watching them, but
Speaker 3: you have to wait every week for it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3: The way I call him it late and I saw
Speaker 3: like seven episodes in Yeah, I got it on late,
Speaker 3: so I got to see it back to back to back.
Speaker 1: That's how I was with Game of Thrones. I started
Speaker 1: watching on like season four or five, so I was
Speaker 1: able to binge wie and it was easy. But I'm
Speaker 1: glad you brought that up because I feel like in
Speaker 1: movies and shows, people always talk about the chemistry between
Speaker 1: like a merry couple or like, you know, boyfriend and girlfriend,
Speaker 1: just like you know, you you're married, and how y'all
Speaker 1: in public are like oh and then behind closed doors,
Speaker 1: y'all hate each other. But a lot of times people
Speaker 1: don't talk about the importance of like chemistry that you
Speaker 1: have to have, like between your character and your brother,
Speaker 1: like it really looks like y'all are siblings for real.
Speaker 1: So a lot of times people don't talk about how
Speaker 1: important it is to have chemistry with your same sex
Speaker 1: coworkers that are just like, oh, this is my friend
Speaker 1: or this is my brother, this is my mother. O.
Speaker 1: Can you talk about like that a little bit? Like yeah,
Speaker 1: how you have to work on that? Like that?
Speaker 3: That is can I drink speaking to call me in.
Speaker 1: Out of the shot too. You know, I love a
Speaker 1: little movie talk. Now I'll be watching movies all day.
Speaker 3: I'm a movie here at me. Let me say something like,
Speaker 3: first and foremost, a lot of my my cast makes
Speaker 3: my co stars. I love them eternally. What you said
Speaker 3: is so important for the success of the show. That
Speaker 3: is actually I gotta yeah, I gotta y'all amazing. I
Speaker 3: gotta keep saying that first.
Speaker 1: Thank you, gosh, thank you.
Speaker 3: We appreciate talk after I get to do this. This
Speaker 3: is my life is amazing. But it's like, it's way different.
Speaker 3: This is incredible. I have to I have to talk exactly.
Speaker 3: It's great. But that is a great topic and great
Speaker 3: like speaking point because like people don't know about that.
Speaker 3: People watch shows. This show is great, it's amazing. They
Speaker 3: don't really know what goes into it. Me and Steven,
Speaker 3: first time I met him, who plays Charles Energy comes
Speaker 3: to the set with his boombox and like comes, I'm
Speaker 3: like this nigga right here is different. Okay, but I'm
Speaker 3: Energy too, but I'm like different though I'm not the
Speaker 3: boombox guy. He's like, what's popping? That's that he always
Speaker 3: what's popping? You know, And he's just playing point the
Speaker 3: way he is. I'm like, this guy is funny.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: And from the get I was like, you know, we're
Speaker 3: brothers in the show. Yeah, they gotta no Yeah, and
Speaker 3: we just off rip off rip and we were cool
Speaker 3: from day one, and that really helped our energy on screen.
Speaker 3: It really helped it. Crystal Stewart I could cry. I
Speaker 3: could cry it by her. Yeah, that dog. Christal Stewart,
Speaker 3: I have like a special I was getting momtional talking
Speaker 3: about her. I know that stuff's crazy, but it's like
Speaker 3: she is one of the most special people I ever
Speaker 3: met in my life. She is the goat. Crystal Stewart
Speaker 3: is the goat, like because it's crazy because I filmed
Speaker 3: on a Saturday my first scene, and they had already
Speaker 3: been filming the whole week, you know, because acting different,
Speaker 3: everyone's scheduling and everything. Locations are different. I filmed them
Speaker 3: on a Saturday, and I film my first scene. I
Speaker 3: did it, and then we had to like go to
Speaker 3: this other location that was like two hours away to
Speaker 3: film this scene which we didn't even film, so we
Speaker 3: like drove in Maine, but it wasn't in main Because
Speaker 3: me and Crystal we knew that we were playing a
Speaker 3: husband and wife. We haven't really got to talk that
Speaker 3: much yet. We knew we're playing husband and wife, but
Speaker 3: that two hour ride, we just got to know each
Speaker 3: other and we talked about everything, and I mean everything,
Speaker 3: and it was like she was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: I didn't know you were like this because when people
Speaker 3: see me, they probably think I'm gonna act differently than Yah. Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was big anybody Jack And I'm really a goofball
Speaker 3: and I don't take life serious at all because the
Speaker 3: only thing you got to take serious in life is
Speaker 3: doing good for God, your career, your family, and that's
Speaker 3: really it. Everything that is a bonus. Have fun, nigga.
Speaker 3: We all leave this urf one day to have fun.
Speaker 3: So that's how I lived my life. And she was like,
Speaker 3: I didn't know you're like this. This is crazy and
Speaker 3: we bonded for the two hours and next you know,
Speaker 3: we're like this. Yeah, and every system we've been like this.
Speaker 3: So that is pivotal and crucial for the success of
Speaker 3: the show.
Speaker 1: I like her because you look at her and she
Speaker 1: gives like stone cold bitch. She does, but when you
Speaker 1: see her interviews, she is like these sweetest She's so
Speaker 1: sweet she is the sweetest person. I'm like, how is
Speaker 1: this the same part? Because I cannot stand her ask No,
Speaker 1: she literally what I said.
Speaker 5: That's when you know people are really really good at
Speaker 5: their craft, at their job, because they will make you
Speaker 5: hate the characters to the point that in real life
Speaker 5: you'll be like, I can't say in this first it's
Speaker 5: the same person speaking of your speaking of your other
Speaker 5: co stars. You're working with the legendary Debbie Morgan. How
Speaker 5: is that because she has been yeah, your mom on
Speaker 5: the show.
Speaker 3: She yes, Deie Morrigan, Yes, Miss Debbie. God. I can
Speaker 3: get emotional talking about these people because it's like such
Speaker 3: a life changing thing that's happened in my life. So
Speaker 3: it's so funny because you have the I think, the
Speaker 3: the the the young actors, and it's like it's like
Speaker 3: two groups young actors me Charles A. K, Stephen Northfleet,
Speaker 3: amber Raine Smith who plays Rain Taylor, Polo Door who
Speaker 3: plays Kimmy, Crystal Too plays Mallory, and then you got
Speaker 3: the old actors who plays Horrors, Malik Whitfield who plays Jules,
Speaker 3: Debbie Morgan plays my mom, Richard Lawson yea. So it's
Speaker 3: like he's like two different groups Debbie Morgan, and it's
Speaker 3: crazy because she was on that one show. Who knows
Speaker 3: the show? Who knows the show? Who knows the show?
Speaker 3: Out there? What show did you play on? Again? Put
Speaker 3: on the show. It's like my mommy to watch, well,
Speaker 3: I know she was in love and basket all my children,
Speaker 3: all my children, So my mom's like I loved all
Speaker 3: my children and then loving basketball playing the mother who
Speaker 3: is like, you know, he's working with it exactly. So
Speaker 3: seeing her and doing all these things and she gets
Speaker 3: to be my mom priceless.
Speaker 4: And I like seeing her because I said, it's all
Speaker 4: a parent. I don't cut now now.
Speaker 5: She said that though online she had ended up saying
Speaker 5: like she's been having the time of her life playing because.
Speaker 1: It's so different.
Speaker 3: She ass she has and she Miss Debbie is so sweet,
Speaker 3: She's so kind.
Speaker 1: You know what I like to do.
Speaker 3: I like hanging out with the old head. Yeah. I
Speaker 3: don't even try to call the old heads, but like
Speaker 3: Richard Lawson is funny, Michal Lawson Fox with me because
Speaker 3: I always love hanging out with old heads. They invite
Speaker 3: me to dinner the rest of their cast won go,
Speaker 3: I'll go. I need to hear it the stories.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they got some story.
Speaker 3: The energy, the essence of these people. I need to
Speaker 3: be around because I think it's like, bro, I look
Speaker 3: at my elak wet Field, man man, man man, I
Speaker 3: can get him fucking crying, get emotional. My fucking father
Speaker 3: was fucking crazy. Wouldn't make me and my brother at
Speaker 3: seven years old perform all dentation songs. Beauty's only skin deep?
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, my you can go just not.
Speaker 3: It's so many songs. He's temptations. Did my dad would
Speaker 3: make me perform this ship I'm six and seven, nervous
Speaker 3: as fucked in front of people randomly perform the temptations?
Speaker 1: Do it?
Speaker 3: Now? That sounds like you crazy? I like it.
Speaker 4: I got to ask.
Speaker 3: I see that now that my dad's just get me
Speaker 3: anxiety because you're so fucking the asshole. But ay, but
Speaker 3: the thing, but the thing about it, it's like he
Speaker 3: would make me perform these songs. And like, Otis is
Speaker 3: huge to Malik Whitfield. He's been acting for so long.
Speaker 3: So when I saw he was a part of the cast,
Speaker 3: I'm like, Otis, this is crazy. And to see now
Speaker 3: now and to see now our relationship because we were
Speaker 3: cool from day one. I told him, I said, I said,
Speaker 3: it's Woodfield. I just want to tell you, man, I
Speaker 3: review you, Bro, I review you. I gotta give your flowers.
Speaker 3: One of the greatest actors I've ever seen. I respect
Speaker 3: you so much. Temptations is one of my favorite movies,
Speaker 3: and he loved that. And we're super cool. I think everybody.
Speaker 3: I think me and like, he's like he's like my uncle,
Speaker 3: almost older brother type shit. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 3: we're super cool, and I love him and he's so great,
Speaker 3: and so to work with Debbie Morgan and to work
Speaker 3: with Malik Whitfield and Richard Laws, and to be around
Speaker 3: these people that have been in the industry for so long.
Speaker 3: I get emotional thinking about it because it's like it's
Speaker 3: greating us. Yeah, they've had to endure so many things.
Speaker 3: They've seen the seventies, naties, in the sixties when things
Speaker 3: weren't like really as open and as dope as it
Speaker 3: is now. You know what I'm saying, they had to fight.
Speaker 3: And with Tyler, what he's doing for black artists and
Speaker 3: black actors and actresses is priceless.
Speaker 1: I will always love Tyler Perry because people always like
Speaker 1: to say, oh my gosh, this a plot is so
Speaker 1: far fascist. So this is so dramatic. At the end
Speaker 1: of the day, he is doing something that Hollywood just
Speaker 1: wasn't doing, and it's given black actors jobs. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: to be mad at somebody that is keeping black people
Speaker 1: employed is crazy.
Speaker 5: And like he said, overpaying them at that because I
Speaker 5: saw an article two where he was saying how he
Speaker 5: paid Sicily Tyson for an hour of work one million
Speaker 5: dollars just because of all of the injustice that she
Speaker 5: endured throughout her career and not being paid properly.
Speaker 1: I think that's an amazing thing. Even when Duvel had
Speaker 1: came on here he was saying how he has made
Speaker 1: more money working with Tyler Perry than he ever made
Speaker 1: in the league he ever made.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, it's so funny you say
Speaker 3: that because I was always wondering. I said why because
Speaker 3: to me, my dream is like I want to be
Speaker 3: like Will Smith movie star. I want to be the
Speaker 3: biggest actor in the world, which I still do, and
Speaker 3: that's my dream. And I was always wonder said, why
Speaker 3: do people just like stay at Tyler Perry Land though
Speaker 3: they don't want to venture out the other things.
Speaker 1: Now you see, oh.
Speaker 3: Keeps niggas employed. It is paid and niggas on front
Speaker 3: of your TV. And it's really hard out here. This
Speaker 3: acting shit is hard. Not gonna lie to you. Even
Speaker 3: like while I'm doing Beating Black, auditions haven't been coming
Speaker 3: in like that. Really they have, like they because this
Speaker 3: is the thing. Once you do a show like this,
Speaker 3: it gets tougher because now all the things you're doing
Speaker 3: is like everything it has to be top notch. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I can't go down. Stay here now that opportunities are
Speaker 3: few in between because all the greats and all the
Speaker 3: great actors are going for one part right, So it
Speaker 3: makes it harder. So I understand now why people stay
Speaker 3: with T because it's YO TV. Don't keep be employed. Yeah,
Speaker 3: he don't keep me paid. I ain't got work six
Speaker 3: months out of the year. And it's more like you
Speaker 3: get this much amount of money. He gets so much
Speaker 3: money and then it's like, all right, enjoy a year.
Speaker 1: Do you know any other actors that auditioned for Roy
Speaker 1: anybody that we would know?
Speaker 3: No, I saw one dude's in Stagrad one time. That's
Speaker 3: pretty funny. But anyways, yeah, that's what you wanted. To say,
Speaker 3: it wasn't like that. It was just like it was
Speaker 3: just a different a different vibe. It's so different. It
Speaker 3: was like it was different. But shout out to him, though, shout.
Speaker 1: Out to him. Well, before we get into the topics,
Speaker 1: how what are we drinking today?
Speaker 7: Well, since we're talking about TP, mister Julian Horton over here,
Speaker 7: we're gonna call this.
Speaker 1: One beauty and black. All right, make sure y'all tune
Speaker 1: in on Netflix. This one.
Speaker 7: You're gonna have any spirit of choice in there. We
Speaker 7: have some muddled blackberries and some muddled basil. We added
Speaker 7: some lemon juice and a little bit of uzu and
Speaker 7: pineapple syrup, and then we topped it off with a
Speaker 7: little bit of lime sparkling water, and we garnish it
Speaker 7: with a beautiful basil, so still fresh herbal, very.
Speaker 1: Spring forward and very beauty and black. This is real,
Speaker 1: it's world juicy, it's good. It's a little.
Speaker 4: Yes.
Speaker 3: I love this beautiful. I can't. I can't get to
Speaker 3: shut my head.
Speaker 4: Julie, are you having a good today?
Speaker 1: Beauty and black? For real?
Speaker 3: I'm a vulnerable guy. I'm a very emotional guy. You
Speaker 3: are cry like six because I'm not. I'm not a
Speaker 3: my kismo. What's that word? My chismo? Not that nigga.
Speaker 3: I don't give a funk. Yeah, I'm bury in two
Speaker 3: of my emotions. What's your sign Sagittarius? All girl? Exactly exactly.
Speaker 3: I was thinking of Jesus Leo, what do you?
Speaker 1: I'm a tourist?
Speaker 3: Side made something?
Speaker 1: No, April.
Speaker 5: Actually between close close, you're going the wrong way, fourth close.
Speaker 3: Third second, Yeah, I am, I am.
Speaker 5: But the funny thing is people say that all the time,
Speaker 5: like in our comments and stuff. They be like, you
Speaker 5: kind of give aries vibes. Yeah, I'm aries, I'm aries tourist. Cuspy,
Speaker 5: I'm like right here, I am a custy.
Speaker 1: I love.
Speaker 3: And when's your birthday?
Speaker 1: August seventeenth? So you really because the death of me,
Speaker 1: there has no cusp.
Speaker 3: Nothing that's I am. I'm December twelve, twelve twelve.
Speaker 5: There you go, have a good birthday because then it
Speaker 5: is four thousands and twenty twelve.
Speaker 1: Your birthday was twelve twelve twelve.
Speaker 3: Exactly, you know what? You know what happened on twelve
Speaker 3: twelve twelve?
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 3: I turned twenty one?
Speaker 1: Oh that is great.
Speaker 3: I didn't make mistakes.
Speaker 1: God, it was turned up.
Speaker 3: On Jay twelve, Ja missed birthday back. We threw one
Speaker 3: crazy ass party. It's still it's top three to this day.
Speaker 1: No, that's so cool twenty one on twelve twelve, twenty one.
Speaker 3: On twelve twelve, Niggas was coming from Craigslist. It was
Speaker 3: like a project ex party.
Speaker 1: Craigslist is nuts.
Speaker 3: Your brother heard everybody's I said, bro, you came with
Speaker 3: four guys. There's no girls with you. I said, guess what,
Speaker 3: guess what, I'm not going to kick you out. I'm
Speaker 3: not going to kick you out. Go get more liquor
Speaker 3: though anything you want. Brott a girl exactly. And that's
Speaker 3: what happened. And it's like, so, yeah, it's not it's
Speaker 3: not by coincidence. You know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you definitely have fire sign energy. And I'm not
Speaker 1: even a person. I'm like, I'm really not into like
Speaker 1: a yeah, but like the base level I find interesting, like,
Speaker 1: you know, just the base level.
Speaker 3: I'm the same way because people are like, I don't
Speaker 3: believe it ship, Like, well, I'm like, okay, so the
Speaker 3: horoscope thing, Okay, I don't believe that this ship knows
Speaker 3: your future. I believe God and Yeshua, but like you
Speaker 3: just said the foundation and the base level of things
Speaker 3: it because they.
Speaker 1: It's very accurate.
Speaker 3: Because something I think some signs. Obviously there's like surface
Speaker 3: level ship like I like peace, everyone's but when it
Speaker 3: comes to savg is and like freedom and fun and
Speaker 3: like philosophical and kind of blunt and yeah, every nigga
Speaker 3: I met it's like that for sure.
Speaker 5: My best friend is such a serious and she's like
Speaker 5: that too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I do agree.
Speaker 5: I feel like it's it's certain things that if everybody
Speaker 5: is this sign, like they normally have these things in common.
Speaker 5: Like I feel like with tauruses, people say we're like,
Speaker 5: really stubborn. I haven't really met a hors. It's not stubborn, I.
Speaker 3: Tell you so. Peop were like, it's fake, it's fake.
Speaker 3: I saw that Karen Kieran Kolkin was saying that when
Speaker 3: he was with Coleman Domingo, the actuals and actress. It's
Speaker 3: like she's take I'm like, bro, I don't know, Bro,
Speaker 3: it's it's it's.
Speaker 1: Just it's it's pretty. It would be sometimes I'll be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're definitely.
Speaker 3: Giving this because the thing about it, I didn't know
Speaker 3: about the ship until my ex girlfriend who I'm not
Speaker 3: even gonna say her fucking name, but she she she,
Speaker 3: she's such a sage. It's such a sad nigga. I say,
Speaker 3: what does that mean. It's like was in college. It's
Speaker 3: just it's such a sad and now I looked up
Speaker 3: like the foundation of it in like the character wristics,
Speaker 3: you know, freedom open honest, yeah, times and does kind
Speaker 3: of sound like me a lot of energy. She was
Speaker 3: a Capricorn and we sucked.
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure.
Speaker 3: I don't know. Socked in.
Speaker 1: Sign that was in a long term relationship with a
Speaker 1: Capricorn as well. Never again horrible.
Speaker 5: As a Taurus that has dady a Capricorn.
Speaker 1: I have watched paint draw that entertained me more.
Speaker 3: Capricorn is so like nothing but my homeboys cool, but
Speaker 3: the girl Capricorn, and then it might be cool for
Speaker 3: another nigga, not for me.
Speaker 4: But it's like on his death bed a com Yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I feel like that's when when your mol and rising
Speaker 5: has to like count to because of Capricorn.
Speaker 1: Capricorn. She was.
Speaker 3: She was mad at me because like you think you're
Speaker 3: a free spirit, nigga, I'm like, yeah, I'm free, Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm real live life. So the thing about it, so
Speaker 3: my thing was like I looked at the worst compatible
Speaker 3: signs and new mirror on the list, Sagittarius, Capricorn, they
Speaker 3: hate the freedom of a Sanitarius. They're they're passive, mystic
Speaker 3: and realistic, and I'm just like Capricorns here, no one's
Speaker 3: can thank God at the end of the day. So
Speaker 3: so so so I'm not going in I'm going crazy.
Speaker 3: But it's like it was literally describing the problems we're
Speaker 3: facing in real time. And that's when I was like,
Speaker 3: maybe there is some truth to the zodiaction because this
Speaker 3: is my theory. I always think of it like God
Speaker 3: made it on some ship, like yeah, if you're in
Speaker 3: this category, you're this way. You're in this category, you're
Speaker 3: this way. If you're in this born, if you're born
Speaker 3: this day, you're this way. Because like God could do
Speaker 3: it because he's he's the creator, he's in the Alpha
Speaker 3: and Omega. He couldn't make everyone like personally just different, different, different,
Speaker 3: But I think he's putting niggas under like categories. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 3: you're sad, y'all free, Libro you this way and get
Speaker 3: Cabricori this way, and go find it. The niggas that
Speaker 3: mess with you and mess with you for.
Speaker 1: Real, mesh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you know, you know it's a positive and
Speaker 3: a negative thing. And it's like, because you know, fire
Speaker 3: and air spos to match, and if you think about
Speaker 3: the elements, it makes sense. So if you think about fire,
Speaker 3: it's burning the bushes burning. What is what makes fire
Speaker 3: spread air? When it's everywhere?
Speaker 5: Now?
Speaker 3: Oh fuck exactly because I need that. I need someone
Speaker 3: to be like you can be yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure?
Speaker 3: Earth and water and earth right here? What makes earth
Speaker 3: grow water? And what puts out fucking fire? Water? And
Speaker 3: what just fire burned Earth's ship? That's at truth to
Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 5: But you know what they say about sacretaries men, They
Speaker 5: say that y'all have issues with monogamy.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3: I think that's all means cameras, cameras.
Speaker 1: Sagittaries mean they love to They love the freedom of
Speaker 1: being able to day open. He was all about about
Speaker 1: six times he did freedom.
Speaker 5: He said freedom. Like that that's what sparked the thought.
Speaker 5: I said, freedom, haven't even we haven't.
Speaker 3: Okay, one more time, one more time freedom.
Speaker 1: Yeah, my friend is like that too, that's what.
Speaker 5: Yeah, across the board with sagittaries though, because like I said,
Speaker 5: my homegirl is like that, I'm gonna cry.
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Speaker 5: Start with topic number one, would you say in a
Speaker 5: relationship for status or status or image? I think that
Speaker 5: it's a really good topic because I don't know if
Speaker 5: y'all have heard of lavender marriages, but it's a particular
Speaker 5: couple I want to say.
Speaker 1: Who they were on.
Speaker 5: A blog like a few weeks ago, and people were
Speaker 5: in the comings that they think that they're in a
Speaker 5: lavender marriage.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, with.
Speaker 5: A man and a woman and obviously she's a singer.
Speaker 1: And he is like a producer. Okay, but explain to
Speaker 1: the people what a lavender marriage is.
Speaker 5: Basically when two people get married to kind of the
Speaker 5: cover one of the people's hidden secrets, like the person
Speaker 5: might be a lesbian, but they feel like it will
Speaker 5: affect their image, to affect their career if the world knows.
Speaker 5: So they get in a marriage with say one of
Speaker 5: their homeboys, one of their best friends, to create the
Speaker 5: facade that they are a happy couple, they have children together,
Speaker 5: everything because it's a good looking it's about status an image,
Speaker 5: but in real life they have whole separate life or
Speaker 5: like the woman might have a girlfriend on the side,
Speaker 5: the guy might have a woman that he's dealing with
Speaker 5: on the side, but they're just together for the immages.
Speaker 1: M hm. So, And there is another side to lavender
Speaker 1: marriages as well, because sometimes lavender marriages is like an agreement.
Speaker 1: They still want that family structure. But you know, it
Speaker 1: may be a gay guy and she like, you know,
Speaker 1: so lavenger marriage, like she said, it's an arrangement. And
Speaker 1: I think that's interesting, especially for you, Like now that
Speaker 1: you know, you went from like you said, you were
Speaker 1: driving uber and now you're literally on everybody's TV screen
Speaker 1: and we see this a lot pr relationships or things
Speaker 1: like that. So do you feel like now like it
Speaker 1: would be like, you know, if you popped out with
Speaker 1: a little sizza or a kid, keep palm or do
Speaker 1: you feel like that's something that you would do.
Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't do it. I'm to trill, but nigga trial.
Speaker 3: You've been in Texas, trill real whatever, trill whatever. Okay,
Speaker 3: Now I wouldn't. I wouldn't do that. Yeah, I just
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. I just don't give a ship.
Speaker 3: Now you know what really keeps mind? Keep going?
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Look we're in it now.
Speaker 4: I'm a little teaty.
Speaker 1: Now get into a safe space because I'm not gonna lot.
Speaker 1: I don't think I get what you're saying. Like you
Speaker 1: a little too real. But I feel like sometimes when
Speaker 1: you got a little press run, they don't got to
Speaker 1: be like we in love or Mary.
Speaker 4: But if we can show up to a little red carpet.
Speaker 1: Event together whole hands, take some pictures, get the blogs talking,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't.
Speaker 4: I would do that.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't knock anyone for doing that because I definitely
Speaker 3: understand the objective behind it and the principle behind it,
Speaker 3: because it does work in the media medium makes people
Speaker 3: famous for real of course, because that's you know, it's crazy.
Speaker 3: I was like going to different topics. You know, it's crazy.
Speaker 3: I don't like call myself. I hate call myself a
Speaker 3: celebrity or famous. I don't like saying that. But this
Speaker 3: notable ship that's happened to me, I'm still me, and
Speaker 3: I do like dumb ship, and I don't make my
Speaker 3: bench sometimes and and it's like you're so meat. I'm
Speaker 3: messy sometimes and I'm broken and all this ship and
Speaker 3: I think that, like I don't even know what the
Speaker 3: fucking I wanted to do with this because that Jack
Speaker 3: just said fucking niggaships yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so yeah,
Speaker 3: so it's like, yeah, I don't think I have to
Speaker 3: do that. I think you would, though I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: If somebody presented to you and it made sense, I
Speaker 1: think you would do it.
Speaker 3: I couldn't do it because I'm too like this is
Speaker 3: thinking about me, and this is why I want to
Speaker 3: promote realness. I hate celebrity culture. I hate it. I
Speaker 3: hate this ship, I really do. I'm not gonna say
Speaker 3: I hate it. I just like it because, like I
Speaker 3: just said, media and people have elevated certain people to
Speaker 3: a certain stratosphere and a certain fucking I can't even
Speaker 3: think of the word looking for but anyway, certain straight sphere.
Speaker 1: And we're idolizing the wrong things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like my thing is this and this is the truth.
Speaker 3: I'm not perfect. I'm a sinner. I make mistakes. But
Speaker 3: when I say God is the greatest, I mean that.
Speaker 3: And I'm not perfect. I make mistake. I me and
Speaker 3: God talk. We talk, and I say, I know, I
Speaker 3: know I'm doing this right now. I gotta get better.
Speaker 1: I know I do.
Speaker 3: But it's like I have this reverence for God and Yesua,
Speaker 3: that's so high that like we're all. We're all. This
Speaker 3: is fucking same we are. I always say this, and
Speaker 3: I fuck it, we're more on poor minds. If a
Speaker 3: nigga came in here right now with a gun, I know,
Speaker 3: it's just so stupid to say. And I'm not trying
Speaker 3: to bet that Nick came around and popped it and
Speaker 3: threw it at us and we didn't know, and it
Speaker 3: blew up all of our faces. We all be gone.
Speaker 3: No one's handcock, no one's.
Speaker 4: I don't watch a few movies, now, you don't know
Speaker 4: what I can do.
Speaker 3: No one's Superman, no one's Batman, no one's Flash, no
Speaker 3: one is all these people. So that's why I'm like,
Speaker 3: I want to promote realness as best as I can.
Speaker 4: Okay, I like that.
Speaker 3: So it's like, that's why I'm with the people. That's
Speaker 3: why I meant. I'm at Frontier Airlines twenty nine C
Speaker 3: in the back near the bathroom. I was it went
Speaker 3: viral my nigga Jason Bob and shot my nigga, Jason Bobby,
Speaker 3: I shot Tmo, my brothers, Tim Sanders, Jason Bob and Max,
Speaker 3: Tanji Beko, b David. Who I'm missing, Who I'm missing,
Speaker 3: Paul Dawson, A Bear, Bo Abert, fly Jack King, Jerry Mitchell,
Speaker 3: shout out everybody. Yeah we do. But my thing is
Speaker 3: like this I'm in. I am here with the people,
Speaker 3: and I am here to be real. I don't give
Speaker 3: a shit about none of this ship. I am just
Speaker 3: utilizing when God's given me, and that's it. That's why
Speaker 3: I get back to God. I have to do it
Speaker 3: because I can live a great life have great support
Speaker 3: around me. So my thing is like, I just have
Speaker 3: to do it. But I don't care about the image.
Speaker 3: I don't give a fun. You know, you know what
Speaker 3: makes me, know what makes me happier than anything. You're
Speaker 3: a great actor. Yeah, you're a great football player. You're
Speaker 3: a great beat maker. Damn he may just beat Come
Speaker 3: on that, okay, Damn, Julian, you can really act. Damn, nigga,
Speaker 3: you are a great football player who score touchdowns. Damn
Speaker 3: you can hoop, nigga. No, why I take pride in
Speaker 3: that because God gave me that. God give me that.
Speaker 3: All this other ship, I still drive the same fucking car.
Speaker 1: Oh now ask me to tea.
Speaker 4: I don't give ibeing my hootiet.
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't get that.
Speaker 3: Ain't mean is like my thing is like I don't care.
Speaker 3: You know, reverse psychology is a thing.
Speaker 5: It is.
Speaker 3: It helps me when more people love me because of that,
Speaker 3: because it's like I'm just being myself. I don't care
Speaker 3: about the change. I don't care about the jewelry. I
Speaker 3: don't care.
Speaker 4: I don't care a.
Speaker 1: Little bit because you kind of you do.
Speaker 4: Got that ice that they got my and that moys
Speaker 4: and night Yes right now, he said, more than night, TikTok.
Speaker 3: For the last six months, I've been taking these chains off.
Speaker 3: They come in the shower with me, they come to
Speaker 3: bed with me, they come everywhere.
Speaker 1: That looks nice though, you point, that's realize.
Speaker 4: Can we put the two together.
Speaker 1: That's real right too?
Speaker 3: It is right no one gives a fun.
Speaker 4: Well okay, let me say this, no one cares.
Speaker 1: I do agree with you on that. I feel like
Speaker 1: it is time to get back to a little more realness.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes we have disconnected that we are still
Speaker 1: human beings. I don't care if you're an influencer, a singer, rapper, actor.
Speaker 1: So like how we were talking about, like the car situation,
Speaker 1: Like if you see somebody who is on TV and
Speaker 1: this and that and they're just like in a regular car,
Speaker 1: Cause that's me.
Speaker 4: Can I get it?
Speaker 1: I could buy a freaking brand new whatever right now
Speaker 1: if I wanted to. But I'm like, do I drive
Speaker 1: all the time?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 4: Or do I care? But you might see somebody who
Speaker 4: got it all and they have a nice car.
Speaker 1: I think there's more important things to judge somebody by,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I'm not saying that
Speaker 1: it's wrong if you do indulge in the jewelry or
Speaker 1: the things.
Speaker 3: That's not wrong.
Speaker 1: Everybody should indulge in things in their life, but stop,
Speaker 1: Like if you see somebody that's in twenty nine C
Speaker 1: on frontier, who cares he getting there?
Speaker 4: Do you want him to show up for his.
Speaker 3: Screen test to not right now camera? Who got me?
Speaker 3: I can fly private period by a cyber truck. I
Speaker 3: can buy a lambo, I can buy all that shit.
Speaker 3: I can buy it all. I don't give a fuck,
Speaker 3: right because at the end of the day, it's exact
Speaker 3: where am I gonna go?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I dropped my daughter off for school and I fucked
Speaker 3: up to the gym two hundred down a dollar car
Speaker 3: for what, impress who? I don't care. So I'm gonna
Speaker 3: drive my twenty fifteen shit that's paid for, that has
Speaker 3: one hundred thousand plus miles on it. And if you
Speaker 3: don't give it, and if you can't fuck with me
Speaker 3: because of that, then I don't want you anyway. Oh
Speaker 3: come on, Now that's the word.
Speaker 5: I think it's just all about preference. Like some people
Speaker 5: buy nice things because that's what they like, that's what.
Speaker 5: But then it's like, if you don't care about that,
Speaker 5: you shouldn't have to feel the pressure from society to
Speaker 5: have things that you don't care about.
Speaker 1: Some people really don't care, you know, they.
Speaker 3: Don't care at all. Because my thing is this my
Speaker 3: energy and aura and my personality God's given me is enough.
Speaker 1: That's what somebody should be dating you for, not about.
Speaker 3: The thing, beause you know, you know, you know. When
Speaker 3: it's all said and done, I'm going to release a memoir.
Speaker 3: Everything else is a bonus. Everything else is a bonus.
Speaker 3: There's a couple of things they need to get done.
Speaker 3: I need, okay, God. When I was four years old,
Speaker 3: I told myself, you need to believe in God. You
Speaker 3: need to take care of your family, and you need
Speaker 3: to maximize for God to give me a I'm thirty
Speaker 3: three years old. I went to the NFL. Then it
Speaker 3: wasn't there long. I went there six months. Oh sh
Speaker 3: like a bad relationship. Six months. I played in the SEC.
Speaker 3: I played against Florida, Alabama, Ohio State, LSU, Georgia, all
Speaker 3: the teams that I looked at when I was younger
Speaker 3: coming up and played on n C double A football
Speaker 3: when I was playing, I played against them. I went
Speaker 3: to their stadiums. I did it. I wanted to be
Speaker 3: an actor. I did it. Make music. I did it.
Speaker 3: So it's like three years old and I did it.
Speaker 3: Everything else is a bonus. Sound yeah, everything else is
Speaker 3: a bonus.
Speaker 1: They're a lot in your thirtieth.
Speaker 3: Grace of God. God is the greatest, So it'sych That's
Speaker 3: why I have the mentality. If I didn't have this entirey,
Speaker 3: I wouldn't do that shit. I live for other people.
Speaker 3: Or I cared about tangible things and materials things, I
Speaker 3: couldn't get shit done. I don't give a fuck. All
Speaker 3: my friends know day like Jullian favorite quote, I don't
Speaker 3: give a fuck because I don't.
Speaker 1: But that I ain't gonna lie. That'd be my favorite quote. Industry.
Speaker 1: You have to be that way, though, because if you
Speaker 1: care too much, you're gonna get lost in the sauce
Speaker 1: and you're gonna get forgot about. I always say the
Speaker 1: main people who I see have longevity, it's people who
Speaker 1: are unapologetically themselves. Yeah, and they don't and they're outside
Speaker 1: because a lot of times people try to make people
Speaker 1: feel bad for who they are, like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: you need to calm down. Oh you're doing too much,
Speaker 1: you're so extra, you're so this, but this is who
Speaker 1: I am. And I hate when people do that because
Speaker 1: they'll be like, oh, you need to calm down, you
Speaker 1: need to God gave me this, So who are you
Speaker 1: to tell me to stop what God gave me?
Speaker 3: That ship. You know what, I literally like, you.
Speaker 1: Cannot make me feel bad about who I am. I
Speaker 1: have been created in God's image.
Speaker 3: That's it. That's it.
Speaker 1: No, I was just gonna say, so, yeah, because we
Speaker 1: be always off topic, we might.
Speaker 4: Need to get into the bed.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's.
Speaker 3: Beautiful. This is a good conversation to be beautiful, Jim
Speaker 3: carry ship brush somebody else in that.
Speaker 1: I love Bruce.
Speaker 3: Movie beautiful. That's what coming, nigga, what you want?
Speaker 4: Do you want to get into the badground?
Speaker 5: Because because I feel like we need to close out
Speaker 5: the topic. So I was gonna say, I personally feel
Speaker 5: like I could be in a PR relationship. I absolutely
Speaker 5: think I could be in a PR relationship, but I
Speaker 5: don't know. I don't feel like I wanted to be something.
Speaker 5: Thank you, I agree, but but I feel like I
Speaker 5: wouldn't want to.
Speaker 3: But I did another shot.
Speaker 5: I don't take a shot too. We gonna see hopefully
Speaker 5: I don't be drunk.
Speaker 3: Black women the best black women, the best in the world. Though,
Speaker 3: thank you so beautiful. I just can't thank you.
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Thank you. It's very sweet.
Speaker 3: Take that other bullshit that did out, It's okay, exactly.
Speaker 3: I'm weird.
Speaker 1: It's so we a little weird. I think everybody is
Speaker 1: a little weird.
Speaker 3: Shout out to shame.
Speaker 1: We're wrapping it up. It's just gonna wrap it up.
Speaker 5: So yeah, I personally feel like I could be in
Speaker 5: a relationship like that, but I would have wanted to
Speaker 5: be long term though, like I feel like, I don't know,
Speaker 5: would be to serve a purpose, Like to serve a
Speaker 5: purpose and then once the purpose is served, I'm out
Speaker 5: because I don't know. I feel like at heart, I
Speaker 5: am a hopeless romantic and I'm a live girl. So
Speaker 5: I want to be in a relationship with somebody.
Speaker 1: That I genuinely really love.
Speaker 5: Having status and for luxury and lifestyle and cloud that's
Speaker 5: just not enough for me.
Speaker 1: I don't get me started. I feel like girl to
Speaker 1: the core. I don't care how many times my heart
Speaker 1: gets broken. I'm gonna fall in love again, yeah and
Speaker 1: again and again because it's fun, it's beautiful.
Speaker 5: So I do feel like I would do it, but
Speaker 5: it has to strictly be a job.
Speaker 1: But the reason I probably I say I could do
Speaker 1: a pr relationship, but I probably couldn't because I'm gonna
Speaker 1: end up really liking you for real, and that's how it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like we can really follow.
Speaker 1: I think I say this all the time being like
Speaker 1: I watch people that are actors, Like I'm not an
Speaker 1: actor obviously, but like you see stuff like Brad Pitt
Speaker 1: and Angelina Jolie how they were on set and they
Speaker 1: fell in love. Damon Wayne just went on Club Sha Shay.
Speaker 1: He was talking about I saw that how he would
Speaker 1: struggle because he was on set and he's thinking this
Speaker 1: chemistry is real and then he she go off and
Speaker 1: do a movie. She got the same chemistry with the
Speaker 1: next yame today.
Speaker 4: Yes, So it's like me, that's gonna be me. I
Speaker 4: can't tell the difference. I thought you loved me, Yeah,
Speaker 4: you would fall in love.
Speaker 5: I don't be like, all right, three months up, it's
Speaker 5: been real.
Speaker 3: You can pr relationship me though, Yeah you couldn't.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I know howary is mean.
Speaker 3: I'm a real nigga and I believe it. And it's like,
Speaker 3: I don't like, You're gonna have fun, fun, fun, fun,
Speaker 3: That is me.
Speaker 1: I'm all about fun.
Speaker 3: It's gonna be it's gonna be hilarious. You're gonna love
Speaker 3: my friends, you know my gosh. I like being a
Speaker 3: part of this and at the end of the day,
Speaker 3: exactly ain't gonna have fun and it's gonna be so
Speaker 3: fucking great. God, more meditations, more everyone does. The tangible ship.
Speaker 3: We're gonna learn about real deep, personable human ship. And
Speaker 3: that's when you get that's when you really get people though,
Speaker 3: could be yourself and you're gonna laugh.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I think if you can make me laugh,
Speaker 1: because I don't think nobody for me. I realize my
Speaker 1: weakness is a man that makes me laugh.
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Speaker 1: I didn't want to Yeah, I wasn't ready to go.
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Speaker 1: shouldn't cheat that.
Speaker 5: I did cheat one time though, when I was It
Speaker 5: was when I was in college though for.
Speaker 1: Real though, Okay, I just graduated coach.
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Speaker 5: my high school I cheated on my high school boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's into the bowl.
Speaker 3: I got. I got, although I got something for y'all got.
Speaker 3: We're gonna get into this.
Speaker 1: We don't get into the baby.
Speaker 3: That's a host to haul.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.
Speaker 3: We're gonna get into this. But I got some world
Speaker 3: exclusive ship for y'all coming.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he did say he.
Speaker 1: Had some announcements to make, So we're gonna get We're
Speaker 1: gonna do the ba.
Speaker 3: I got a homeboy named Man on the Mission aka
Speaker 3: Tim Sanders. See this is the thing. I'm an actor,
Speaker 3: football player. Oh man, he did this. I'm also a
Speaker 3: music producer period, and I have an artist I'm working with.
Speaker 3: We're a duo. And I have an engineer that's actually
Speaker 3: close to me that's here right now. Is that Tim
Speaker 3: A Wall My engineer Wall All My engineer, Tim Sanders
Speaker 3: is the artist, and we got some ship that's about
Speaker 3: to take over the world. I'm telling you, I had
Speaker 3: a lot to you by the grace of God. Like
Speaker 3: we talked about Tyler Perry films fast. So what does
Speaker 3: that mean. I have a lot of time time to
Speaker 3: do what I want and have money to fund what
Speaker 3: I want, and so at the end of the day
Speaker 3: we come.
Speaker 1: In all.
Speaker 3: Is he's a he is.
Speaker 4: I'll say this because.
Speaker 1: It's off topic. But one thing like I'm very very
Speaker 1: particular about, like the behind the scenes stuff, like I
Speaker 1: care about how we look on camera. I care about
Speaker 1: the coloring. I care about the audio. So I really
Speaker 1: was like so unhappy with poor minds for years about
Speaker 1: how things were sounding because I'm like, this sound is awful.
Speaker 4: Would not get it right for nothing?
Speaker 1: When I tell you, I've had nothing wrong with the
Speaker 1: audio since a wall being So we're gonna give a
Speaker 1: wall his flowers right now. Also on top of that,
Speaker 1: like DJing got a ear like me, I can tell
Speaker 1: the type of music that all listens to. We got
Speaker 1: to say like music you.
Speaker 3: You like me, because like I'm very just particular. Yes,
Speaker 3: like Tim the artist I work with, he's here right now,
Speaker 3: show Tim Sanders. He's more like, let's do it, nigga.
Speaker 3: But I'm more like every frequency, every hurts, every sound
Speaker 3: I hear it. Yeah, because you do that when you're
Speaker 3: a producer. You listen to things you just don't to say,
Speaker 3: go do it. I think a lot of artists do
Speaker 3: that now. I think it's like, yeah when everything first
Speaker 3: thing that comes to my mind doing it. It's like
Speaker 3: bro Reasonant Drake has had such a long time in
Speaker 3: this industry. Kendrick J. Cole whatever really drizzy. They're cerebral,
Speaker 3: you gotta be cerebral, and this ship I think a
Speaker 3: lot of people just don't be cerebral things. I just
Speaker 3: get it to go. It's like, bro, you gotta take
Speaker 3: your time with this. And at the end of the day,
Speaker 3: a wall does that, and I can tell y'all do that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're very meticulous when it comes to four minds
Speaker 5: for sure, because I feel like your product matters, you know,
Speaker 5: especially when you get to a point to where you
Speaker 5: can afford to make it better. Like I understand when
Speaker 5: people don't have the greatest audio or the greatest visuals,
Speaker 5: when you don't have the money to do it, and
Speaker 5: especially if that's not something that you're talented in and
Speaker 5: it's not your forte. But when you can afford to
Speaker 5: make things top not, you need to invest in yourse
Speaker 5: because who else is going to you have to you know,
Speaker 5: you have to give.
Speaker 1: A bed finally time to get in the beg. Do
Speaker 1: men feel responsible for a woman's sexual confidence?
Speaker 8: You know?
Speaker 1: Like, have you ever hyped up a woman's performance in bed?
Speaker 3: Like if it was bad? No?
Speaker 5: Never, No, what I'm saying, So you be straight up
Speaker 5: like this ship trade.
Speaker 3: I don't say it's trash. Have you ever hyped performance,
Speaker 3: and Dad even was mad.
Speaker 5: To be honest with you, Wow, you thinking about it,
Speaker 5: talk about it.
Speaker 3: So it's like it's more so like I don't think
Speaker 3: a woman from pharmacy bad can be made because like
Speaker 3: I'm the leader, so it's gonna go how I go.
Speaker 3: So it's really like, but head game can be mad. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I know we're getting a little freaky.
Speaker 1: But it's the bad topic head game.
Speaker 3: Head game can be mad, And I never fucking let
Speaker 3: anyone know the head game is mad. I'm really, really,
Speaker 3: really really supportive.
Speaker 1: But that's the problem having sexual confidence.
Speaker 3: But I also told the truth though I say, I say,
Speaker 3: you know what, you're doing a great job, and this
Speaker 3: is some of the best shit I've ever got in
Speaker 3: my life.
Speaker 1: But do you be telling the truth?
Speaker 3: Is how do it? This is how you got to
Speaker 3: tell the truth in a fucking particular way. OKA say
Speaker 3: you're doing a great job. I'm talking about this ship
Speaker 3: right here. It's fantastic. That's one of the best head
Speaker 3: I've ever got. But I was waiting for the but this,
Speaker 3: I do it too, because I'm doing a good He's
Speaker 3: gonna ask so much ship to it exactly, I'll do it.
Speaker 3: I said, but have you ever tried to like do
Speaker 3: this and do that, and then if you do that,
Speaker 3: you won't just be great, you'll be the fucking goat
Speaker 3: And they're like, you're right, and then do it. I'm like, yes,
Speaker 3: I got what I wanted.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good way to do it.
Speaker 3: Niggas be like you checked out. You gotta just fucking
Speaker 3: know how to in there, because you know, head is
Speaker 3: the greatest together you can keep that actually, because I
Speaker 3: got to tell people that, because because like head is
Speaker 3: a signature thing. Sex is, like.
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like there's a difference between like
Speaker 1: having like good pussy and good sex. Though sometimes people
Speaker 1: have both. Sometimes people have won or the.
Speaker 3: Pushy good sex good push your good head, no good
Speaker 3: pushy good sex.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like you because you can, Yeah, because
Speaker 5: you're a pussy, because you could be good because of
Speaker 5: the anatomy of it, because they get with all of
Speaker 5: these things.
Speaker 1: But the sex is about what.
Speaker 3: You do in bed.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: But that's that's why I told you, Like, I'm so
Speaker 3: glad we're having this topic because it's the real thing.
Speaker 3: If it's good, you have a good pussy, it's gonna
Speaker 3: be good sex.
Speaker 5: But it might not be might not know how to ride,
Speaker 5: she might not know how good, she might not know
Speaker 5: how to put that.
Speaker 1: She might be like this that I feel. But I guess,
Speaker 1: I guess.
Speaker 3: I guess I control the situation because like if I'm
Speaker 3: doing some ship from the back, I'm gonna make sure
Speaker 3: that ship is arched up in the way it needs
Speaker 3: to be to make sure it's good.
Speaker 4: But you might be fighting because she might be trying
Speaker 4: to dip in.
Speaker 3: Joy. She's she's not gonna do that though, she's not
Speaker 3: gonna do that, because I'm saying, if you do that again,
Speaker 3: it's over. If you do that ship again, it's over.
Speaker 4: She might be like what, but I watch it more
Speaker 4: than me.
Speaker 3: No, you need to stop doing that. I don't like that.
Speaker 3: So you need to fucking conform, I'm saying right now.
Speaker 3: And most of the time, more times than not, they're
Speaker 3: gonna get in line. But a man and I'm bigger,
Speaker 3: and they're gonna be like, all right, whatever you want,
Speaker 3: and then if then God is gonna be good.
Speaker 4: That's what I mean.
Speaker 3: But writing is But writing is another topic because writing
Speaker 3: it I think writing in head is signature ship, meaning
Speaker 3: that like way she will want ship, nigga, I ain't
Speaker 3: never had her like that. When she gave me a head,
Speaker 3: I ain't never had it like that. That's signature ship.
Speaker 3: But like getting it from the back or you're doing
Speaker 3: missionary you have like some ships is a man's thing,
Speaker 3: Like you're in control, you're doing your ship, and if
Speaker 3: it's good pussy, it's gonna be good sex. That's because
Speaker 3: and if it's wet and it's good, I mean a
Speaker 3: nigga ain't going, you know.
Speaker 1: I think sexual confidence in a woman comes from us
Speaker 1: feeling sexy. Yes, So if we're getting back to the topic,
Speaker 1: it's like, do men feel responsible for a woman's sexual confidence?
Speaker 1: I think women need to do what we feel makes
Speaker 1: us sexy because that's what makes the sex enjoyable. Like
Speaker 1: good pussy, good pussy cool, that's true. But once you
Speaker 1: feel sexy in the bedroom and a man is complimenting you,
Speaker 1: you start feeling sexy, so you start performing. So that's
Speaker 1: when the sex and the pussy get is good and
Speaker 1: it's an overall great experience that.
Speaker 3: That actually is facts because because you know, when you're
Speaker 3: doing that and ship and whatever, whatever, it's like you
Speaker 3: can like something turns up. Yeah, but she's feeling sex
Speaker 3: in alchemy and the chemistry. It's like this shit is
Speaker 3: like it's like tennis now going back and forth and
Speaker 3: the shit is perfect.
Speaker 1: Now, you're right, Feeling sexy in the bedroom is like
Speaker 1: a cheat code. So for men and women, I know,
Speaker 1: it's like a lot of disconnecting the bedroom because they
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, men gonna anyway, and I don't get
Speaker 1: my nut. As a woman, it is our duty to
Speaker 1: have confidence within yourself to feel sexy, because that's gonna
Speaker 1: make the sex way more enjoyable. If you feel like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she's into it because I'm so fucking
Speaker 1: fine and I'm the baddest bitch in the world, that's
Speaker 1: gonna make you show out.
Speaker 3: That's gonna god damn right, oh gosh, and thust my head.
Speaker 3: Now it's crazy. But he going going keep going. I know,
Speaker 3: I know, I know. Slow it down now, slow it down, now,
Speaker 3: slow it down now. But you're absolutely right.
Speaker 1: He has a really good point.
Speaker 3: Do you have a great point, because that that ship
Speaker 3: has I'm thinking about that ship now. No, you're right though,
Speaker 3: cause it's like like I said, something, something switches.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's it's sexual confidence. Some switches you're with a
Speaker 1: man who you're like, oh, I don't know if he
Speaker 1: likes me. I'm just trying to do this so I
Speaker 1: can get my rent paid, and you're not really doing
Speaker 1: it because you feel sexy in this moment and you're
Speaker 1: turned on and you're like I cannot wait to sit
Speaker 1: on this dick, like I need this now, and I
Speaker 1: know that he's looking at me like I am the
Speaker 1: last donut left in the ship LEAs oven bitch, like
Speaker 1: he needs to be like saying, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. But I change you ever had ship?
Speaker 3: Please?
Speaker 4: You ever had a ship?
Speaker 1: Please? Don't? Okay, you know.
Speaker 3: Fire the Twins man.
Speaker 1: So I want to say I don't think that it's
Speaker 1: men's responsibility for a woman to have that sexual confidence,
Speaker 1: but I think they can help. I think it can
Speaker 1: help for sure.
Speaker 5: But do y'all feel like being honest, like sexual honesty
Speaker 5: is a turn off or can like ruin the mood?
Speaker 5: Because I feel like sometimes that's probably why people don't
Speaker 5: like to tell the person that they have in six
Speaker 5: we oh you're not really doing a great job, because.
Speaker 1: They don't want to ruin the mood and turn them off.
Speaker 3: Like I said, you have you have to know how tole.
Speaker 1: Like you have to know. But also I think that's
Speaker 1: with emotional immaturity. If a man that I care about,
Speaker 1: because at this age, I'm not having sex with nobody
Speaker 1: I don't care about. So if I'm having sex with you,
Speaker 1: I want you to tell me what you like. I
Speaker 1: want to do exactly how you want it, what I
Speaker 1: puts it on filming Now, I gotta turn this nigga out. Period.
Speaker 4: That's how I look.
Speaker 1: For me. I feel like I want my man to
Speaker 1: tell me what I need to do. How can I
Speaker 1: upgrade this puss it? Because I'm telling you how you
Speaker 1: can upgrade that dick for me. So it needs to
Speaker 1: be a conversation. A nigga can upgrade that dick for me,
Speaker 1: Like I said, for me, sex is a it's a
Speaker 1: build up. So the sex starts once it's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I know we finish, go on a good date night.
Speaker 1: You don't plan the night out. You're gonna sent me
Speaker 1: flowers already earlier in the day. You pick me up.
Speaker 1: It's like the vibes vibe and we going to a
Speaker 1: dimly lit restaurant. Drinks are coming in yeah, like the
Speaker 1: conversation is flowing and you're not even being overly sexual.
Speaker 1: You just putting your hand on my leg. Damn baby,
Speaker 1: you look really good.
Speaker 4: You look so beautiful.
Speaker 1: It's the subtle ship. This pussy is throbbing now.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you mean ready, it's definitely all about the build
Speaker 5: up to the men at the day, start at the date.
Speaker 5: It actually start way before then, and while we at dinner,
Speaker 5: it's not right when we get in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: Yes, So men who know how to build up all day,
Speaker 1: you're finna get the best pussure in the world.
Speaker 5: Hey, and I think that's really a good point, which
Speaker 5: you said too, because that's good that you can take
Speaker 5: constructive criticism. But as another woman, I do feel like
Speaker 5: the female ego is fragile. So yeah, a lot of
Speaker 5: women they get offended when you tell them why. They
Speaker 5: don't want to hear that because everybody think they coutchie
Speaker 5: good first and foremost. Will you ever run into somebody
Speaker 5: and they'd be like, nah my couchie miaul she trash.
Speaker 1: I say this all the time. You be saying no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, I say this. It's a man out there
Speaker 1: right now who's washing. This is like Lex has the
Speaker 1: best pussy I've ever had in my life. And there's
Speaker 1: probably another nigg who like Lix shit so fucking med
Speaker 1: Because it's the experience. Everybody's experience is different.
Speaker 5: I could talk about the like if you got good
Speaker 5: Kouchie is a universal, I.
Speaker 1: Mean she is.
Speaker 4: Now, do I think I got trash like?
Speaker 1: No, But I do think I've given better experiences, especially
Speaker 1: in my younger years. In my thirties, no, because I'm
Speaker 1: not even having sex with a man that it's not
Speaker 1: already there. But in my twenties absolutely. But I say
Speaker 1: all that to say because it's some men out there
Speaker 1: who I probably think has the worst dick in the world,
Speaker 1: and then there's another girl who was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: he was like my world around. So I think it's
Speaker 1: just about that chemistry. But I also think that shows
Speaker 1: the difference between somebody who can take construction of criticism.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna hurt my feelings because I know my
Speaker 1: coachie good and I know what I can do in
Speaker 1: the bed. So if you're giving me criticism, this is
Speaker 1: just what you like. Because this last nigga didn't like
Speaker 1: when I did that, but you love it when I
Speaker 1: do that, yeah, is crazy. I'm just saying I'm a
Speaker 1: little y'all know me, I'm a little older, so i
Speaker 1: can teach the girls a little one too, But I'm also.
Speaker 3: Teaching goddamn so that was fucking awesome. I mean, I'm
Speaker 3: saying I was just I was just here. Just y'all watch,
Speaker 3: She's so honest.
Speaker 1: I think sex, that's how I am. Sex is meant
Speaker 1: to be enjoyed. So if we're not honest, how can
Speaker 1: we not enjoy?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not laying there for those sakes that I'm
Speaker 5: not having a good time.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry this seriously though, and I think that comes.
Speaker 4: We never get tired of a compliment.
Speaker 3: I'm just being honest. You just that was fucking wow.
Speaker 4: I'm here further.
Speaker 1: You know why I say this because though I'm not
Speaker 1: being funny. In my early twenties, I had a lot
Speaker 1: of bad I used to have a lot of bad sex.
Speaker 1: I did not enjoy sex. I was doing it because
Speaker 1: I felt like this is what my man want. It
Speaker 1: wasn't for me, and I just had like a turn.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, because.
Speaker 3: Because the reason why I love this ship is because
Speaker 3: you made a great point. So some girls told me
Speaker 3: like Nigga, his dick, don did this, whatever, whatever, whatever,
Speaker 3: And then some girls were like you just said joining
Speaker 3: sex is the best, right, But it's like it all
Speaker 3: depends on, like you said, the chemistry, because as guys,
Speaker 3: you think our dicks are hard one hundred percent not
Speaker 3: all the time, right, It's just a special girl takes
Speaker 3: this moment. It takes the alchemy and the chemistry to
Speaker 3: make some shit be one hundred percent in the morning.
Speaker 3: Sometimes that shit gonna be seventy and you might get
Speaker 3: seventy percent, and then you're gonna be just like, yeah,
Speaker 3: his dick was not at but chick, it's like it's
Speaker 3: like it's like it's like, yeah, you didn't you didn't
Speaker 3: do nothing.
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 3: I did it just to do it. Yeah, it just happened.
Speaker 3: Compared to that girl that's like she's doing everything right
Speaker 3: chemt She's right. My ship's one hundred bangs are bulging,
Speaker 3: Shit's want to pop off my body because it's so
Speaker 3: fucking engoraged. It's like this, it's like this, and then
Speaker 3: you're gonna get the best ship now because it's that way.
Speaker 3: And I'm glad you talked on that because some girls
Speaker 3: on college are ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it goes both ways.
Speaker 3: They can't get heart for the condom, and now I'm
Speaker 3: barely can fucking even do ship because like I don't
Speaker 3: even feel that your ship's sucking dry ship that we're
Speaker 3: working there.
Speaker 4: Take it out, take it up, you gotta let it out.
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, So so then you get a
Speaker 3: girl that's like, everything's perfect, The motherfucker's perfect. The fucking
Speaker 3: 's right is meditative, and it's like, now I'm one
Speaker 3: hundred percent and now she's getting the best ship ever.
Speaker 3: And now she's gonna talk to her friend Julian. Is
Speaker 3: that nigga? And you got someone else's gonna say, Julian sucks.
Speaker 3: So when you said that, I really appreciate it.
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: But you have to be okay with that.
Speaker 1: I am okay with that because I know who I
Speaker 1: am in the bedroom, because I have that sexual confidence
Speaker 1: within myself.
Speaker 5: I know I know.
Speaker 3: If I'm if I'm going National Championship mode, come on,
Speaker 3: so not the super Bowl. If I'm going to Super Bowl,
Speaker 3: God and Judd, I'm ready I leave nigga. If I'm
Speaker 3: going that mode, stop playing. Stop. But you have different modes,
Speaker 3: different modes.
Speaker 1: But I believe that sexual confidence should not depend on
Speaker 1: anybody else. Confidence in general should come from yourself. I
Speaker 1: feel like you can learn. Like I always say this,
Speaker 1: like a lot of times I didn't have confidence on
Speaker 1: my personality because I used to be like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I'm so loud, I'm so this. Andre was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: you're funny, like people love you, and like she used
Speaker 1: to pour into me. So I say all that to
Speaker 1: say because even though she would always tell me that,
Speaker 1: it wasn't until I felt it and I believed it.
Speaker 1: So I think that comes with any type of confidence,
Speaker 1: confidence with your looks, your personality, your sexualness, anything it
Speaker 1: has to come from with then, So I think my
Speaker 1: sexual confidence came from I know I'm sexy, I know
Speaker 1: I'm fine, I know what I can do in the bedroom.
Speaker 3: And I'm being serious as thank you.
Speaker 2: Ship he said, Look people, he said, Heaven. We love
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Speaker 3: I didn't cry, but I'm just like, you don't understand
Speaker 3: across to make wan come out, I just show appreciative.
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Speaker 3: Around, just like we We all leave earth one day.
Speaker 1: We do. We do.
Speaker 3: So it's like the fact that I get to live
Speaker 3: a life that like once I do it because it's
Speaker 3: gonna be a time and I pray to God. I
Speaker 3: think I'm gonna living one hundred three years old. I
Speaker 3: was three. It's like when I'm on my deathbed and
Speaker 3: I'm oldys fucking I'm wrinkly and that's over with. I
Speaker 3: can literally just say, like, are you you let it
Speaker 3: all out? You left no stoneum turned. So when I
Speaker 3: have a MoMA like this with y'all and y'all beautiful
Speaker 3: as ship, it just adds to that. And that's why
Speaker 3: I'm just like, I have such a good two of
Speaker 3: the spirit, gratitude spirit, and I'm so And I'm talking
Speaker 3: about God a lot, not because I'm perfect, but I
Speaker 3: think it's because He gave us the opportunity to do this.
Speaker 3: I'm not perfect, fuck up and God knows that we
Speaker 3: have an I'll be telling God, please have pacial on me.
Speaker 3: I'm working. Yes, I'm working. He knows my heart thought
Speaker 3: and I'm not even trying to be like he knows
Speaker 3: my parents. I'm gonna do everything. No, I'm full of love.
Speaker 3: My foundation is full of love. My foundation is full
Speaker 3: of gratitude. But it's like he gave us his opportunity.
Speaker 3: He literally did. That's why I talk about him, and
Speaker 3: he gave us his opportunity. Could if you think about it,
Speaker 3: sometimes God could have catched this pitch black and like
Speaker 3: there'd be nothing, there's no world, we wouldn't even know,
Speaker 3: there would be no consciousness, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: But instead he gave us consciousness. He gave us the
Speaker 3: ability to do things and have opportunities for things. And
Speaker 3: when I sit with y'all, I just like I can't
Speaker 3: fathom it. Sometimes I can't. It could have so fucking
Speaker 3: amazing thanks on a Wednesday afternoon, I can fucking come
Speaker 3: here with two beautiful women, talk my ship, talk with y'all,
Speaker 3: have my friends around, having aim too much. But I
Speaker 3: know God has blessed me because I have this mindset,
Speaker 3: because he's like he knows for a fact, Julie is
Speaker 3: never gonna get to ahead himself because he's always gonna
Speaker 3: He's always going to never forget me. God knows that
Speaker 3: about it.
Speaker 1: Always, Or you would like pray for the time you
Speaker 1: have now. I was, I was, I was.
Speaker 3: I don't even know man, like I was going to
Speaker 3: court for a fucking adderall charge ten years ago. Every month,
Speaker 3: twelve hours I had to drive twelve hours my mom's
Speaker 3: pickup truck that Billy ran having these conversations with God.
Speaker 3: And the thing about it is like I never one
Speaker 3: time doubt it. I never one time I didn't think
Speaker 3: this is possible. I knew this ship was gonna happen.
Speaker 3: I knew what was gonna happen, and and and and
Speaker 3: they just go back to my point, the fact that
Speaker 3: it just happened. And I'm so full of gratitude. I
Speaker 3: make a beat, I make a song, a walls engineering
Speaker 3: my nigga tims in the fucking building, and at the
Speaker 3: end of the day, I got drinks being poured up.
Speaker 3: This is how life lie. Let me let me tell
Speaker 3: you some ship right now. Let me tell you some
Speaker 3: ship right now, camera one, wherever you camera get me.
Speaker 3: I did everything and have done everything I said I
Speaker 3: was gonna do. And a lot of and and and
Speaker 3: a lot of niggas can't say that. And that's why
Speaker 3: I'm so fucking full of gratitude. I did that ship,
Speaker 3: and and and and and I don't talk about it
Speaker 3: a lot because I get got all the praising, the glory,
Speaker 3: but it's like for a nigga to have this dream
Speaker 3: of four years old, that's what I get.
Speaker 1: I'm waiting, but let me ask you this.
Speaker 3: It's like, it's like it's crazy. I just can't believe it.
Speaker 3: I just can't believe it. It's fucking wild. Like I
Speaker 3: had a ship at four years old and this nigga
Speaker 3: did it. I'm gonna cry. Sorry about to stop it.
Speaker 3: I'm not doing it though, keep going because like it's
Speaker 3: like it's insane to me, but this nigga did it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should be proud of you. That's amazing. It is.
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, I don't give a
Speaker 3: ship because because like most people in this life, I
Speaker 3: look at life sometimes and I'm just talking candidly to y'all.
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. I'm talking candidly because I
Speaker 3: look at people sometimes and it's like I look at
Speaker 3: there's so many people living in this world that don't
Speaker 3: have their dreams. Man. Because whether it was fear, whether
Speaker 3: it was time, didn't play to your cards, whether it
Speaker 3: just you didn't leave, gives me a lot of factors
Speaker 3: in it. The fact that like God has allowed me
Speaker 3: to see my dreams manifest and I get to be
Speaker 3: around people that are also living their.
Speaker 1: Dream It's beautiful.
Speaker 5: And I just feel like it's a testimony to like
Speaker 5: when faith's and hard work meet because you because you
Speaker 5: always had the faith, like what you were talking about
Speaker 5: with what you were going through ten years ago, you
Speaker 5: always had the faith within you put the work in
Speaker 5: in this manifestation of God's grace.
Speaker 1: It really is because I think a lot of times
Speaker 1: people don't realize, like God will give you the keys,
Speaker 1: but you have to walk to the door. He's not
Speaker 1: gonna push you there. You He's gonna give you the keys,
Speaker 1: but you gotta walk me up. And you got to
Speaker 1: sit there with a key. It's one hundred keys on there,
Speaker 1: but you gotta sit there, and you gotta keep don't.
Speaker 1: You gotta keep going, you know what I'm saying. And
Speaker 1: I and like I said, we can all all feelings
Speaker 1: because we've all been through our trials and tribulations.
Speaker 3: And things like that.
Speaker 1: But I think everybody on this earth has talents, everybody
Speaker 1: has something special. God didn't make us separate. We're not separate.
Speaker 1: Everybody is the same. But what is the difference is
Speaker 1: that the perseverance. And a lot of times I thank
Speaker 1: God that I didn't stop, because there's people out there
Speaker 1: you'll be like, oh my god, they're so talented or
Speaker 1: so that because they stop, or they be so close
Speaker 1: they stopped, And I thank God that. I always say this,
Speaker 1: my faith is stronger than my doubt because I never stopped.
Speaker 1: I said, I don't know how, I don't know how.
Speaker 1: You just got to keep going. And I think us
Speaker 1: just sitting here in this room is a testament to
Speaker 1: that that you just don't stop. You can't stop because
Speaker 1: if you do stop, it's gonna get worse. What's the
Speaker 1: point of stopping? What is the point of stop? Once
Speaker 1: you stop, you gotta start over again. What there's no
Speaker 1: there is no good coming out from stopping. And even
Speaker 1: though it gets tough and you're like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I haven't done it, I haven't done it, but it
Speaker 1: gets worse if you stop. And well, no, I was
Speaker 1: just not saying. It's like the age old saying it.
Speaker 5: People always say nothing good comes from staying in your
Speaker 5: comfort zone. You have to be uncomfortable to grow and
Speaker 5: to get to where you're trying to go.
Speaker 3: And like, I'm just happy that, like y'all, myself included
Speaker 3: everyone here. History books, history books at a lot to
Speaker 3: a lot to ang a lot to. I just I
Speaker 3: just love Washington. I just love Washington, T Washing T.
Speaker 3: I just love Washington. I just love Washington, DC. Right,
Speaker 3: And you know, I love history. I love history, Like
Speaker 3: I said I have, I have a reverence and respect
Speaker 3: for a lot of the greats. Even if it's like
Speaker 3: presidents that there's some bullshit, they still did it. You know,
Speaker 3: even Donald Trump, it's the fucking jackass. He's crazy, he's wild,
Speaker 3: he's an idiot. Think it's a president say so, And
Speaker 3: now I say that, It's like, well, I don't go
Speaker 3: to Washington here. I just left yesterday. It's like I
Speaker 3: see the statues and at the Lincoln Memorial and at
Speaker 3: the Washington Memorial. I'm thinking about all the people and
Speaker 3: Martin Luther King making the speech. I think, Lincoln Memorial,
Speaker 3: Thomas Jefferson, the National Smithsonian Black History Museum. It's like
Speaker 3: these people and the reason when I said Trump, it's like,
Speaker 3: cause like Trump's an asshole, but he still took control
Speaker 3: of his life and made some out of himself. He's
Speaker 3: a fucking dickhead. Whatever. Whatever. I'm not. I'm not I'm
Speaker 3: not trying to get into politicians ship. But it's like
Speaker 3: there's this like small respect for niggas that like still
Speaker 3: make some of themselves because the end of the day,
Speaker 3: it's like you could have chose the latter.
Speaker 1: Wow, he was already read.
Speaker 4: White man in America.
Speaker 1: I said this the other day on decision decisions. If
Speaker 1: you're a white man in America and you're not rich,
Speaker 1: you just fucking suck because the keys of life are hated. See,
Speaker 1: they are don't feel you are fit male in America
Speaker 1: and you're not rich and successful. That's your own thought.
Speaker 1: Give props to Barack Obama because those were the people
Speaker 1: that are you know what I'm saying, like you said,
Speaker 1: Martin Luther King because it's harder, But I get your
Speaker 1: delusion point because I think delusion.
Speaker 4: Successful.
Speaker 5: It's always successful. Everybody that is successful.
Speaker 1: He's delusion.
Speaker 3: So crazy about America though, America, And I'm so glad
Speaker 3: we having this conversation because it's like my thoughts, America
Speaker 3: is like a weird ass place. This how the we
Speaker 3: live on. I love living here. I'm appreciative. It's the
Speaker 3: best country in the fucking world. I'm probably being American
Speaker 3: whatever type ship. But it's like, I'm proud that was
Speaker 3: like nigga, but like America is kind of fucked up
Speaker 3: too though. I thought about the other day and I
Speaker 3: went to Will Smith's page. Will Smith had posted like
Speaker 3: the thirty year anniversary of Bad Boys, right, he had
Speaker 3: tagged Michael Bay. I went to Michael Baks's Instagram page.
Speaker 3: I'm Michael Bay. He's a great director, Michael Michael Bay.
Speaker 3: He said like, yeah, he had a video of him
Speaker 3: meeting Trump and he did a secret service Super Bowl
Speaker 3: commercial and it was a dope ass commercial. America has
Speaker 3: been founded because this and the third it had like
Speaker 3: Teddy Roosevelt in it and Franklin Delano Roosevelt in it.
Speaker 3: And I was like, it's so crazy because like America
Speaker 3: is amazing, but niggas really stole this bitch. Yeah, literally
Speaker 3: stole this bitch.
Speaker 1: And I installed it from the Indians.
Speaker 3: Americans and it's like it made me feel weird because
Speaker 3: I'm like, we're so prideful about being an American. I
Speaker 3: know this is going like a whole different way right now,
Speaker 3: but I thought we're just like talking.
Speaker 4: Shit is what we do.
Speaker 3: But It's like, niggas really came to this bitch in
Speaker 3: fourteen ninety two and.
Speaker 1: We're like, this is ours. But not only that, motherfuckery.
Speaker 1: On top of that, they did not expect this to happen.
Speaker 1: They didn't expect a black man to be on the
Speaker 1: number one show on Netflix. They didn't expect two black
Speaker 1: girls to create an empire a poor mind. They didn't
Speaker 1: expect Tyler Perry to be a billionaire. They didn't expect
Speaker 1: jay Z. That's what I'm saying. We are doing things.
Speaker 1: That's why I said, I get the delusional talk because
Speaker 1: every successful black person in America, even if you are
Speaker 1: making six figures a year, you are an anomaly because
Speaker 1: we were not supposed to do this. They are confused,
Speaker 1: they are mad, and that is why.
Speaker 3: So you know, it is what it is. And then
Speaker 3: again it's like America was built and then it's like
Speaker 3: we do get these opportunities. So it's like it's kind
Speaker 3: of like a double edged sword because I be thinking's
Speaker 3: sometimes it's like going back to fourteen ninety two and Ship,
Speaker 3: and I'm thinking about the Pilgrims and Ship like that.
Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, I'm like, damn, I think it's really stolarship. Nag,
Speaker 3: it was chilling, but wouldn't. I'm not gonna say nothing
Speaker 3: else because because because my thing is like it was
Speaker 3: native American's mindset to to to expand like this, and
Speaker 3: I think that I think it's really the thought America
Speaker 3: is more so like expansion fast, do whatever you want.
Speaker 1: So you're saying he's good because.
Speaker 3: That and and to be honest with you, that is
Speaker 3: the I'm glad you asked that because that is the
Speaker 3: question that you asked. It's like, damn, that's fucked up.
Speaker 3: They that's fucked up. How the hell they do that?
Speaker 3: But then it's like, would have would it have been
Speaker 3: these skyscrapers in the fucking building? The niggas like it's
Speaker 3: such a weird it's and we can't do nothing about it.
Speaker 3: Were just here, We're the latest advantage time in the world.
Speaker 3: But at the same time, it is it's a it's
Speaker 3: a weird phenomenon. I will say that because it's like
Speaker 3: have you seen the flower moon? Oh? Yeah, that's so
Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying. It's like, I'm not shi it
Speaker 3: is fucked up, it's up up, it's fucked up. I'm
Speaker 3: not I'm not trying to even speak on like I
Speaker 3: love Native Americans the best, but it's like, but it's
Speaker 3: also like I don't know what they because I'm getting way.
Speaker 3: This is like, this is like the in house conversation
Speaker 3: going on. But it's like I keep going, I don't
Speaker 3: want to get too deep with this ship because that
Speaker 3: can get deep, and it's like, no, I like it.
Speaker 5: I love having conversations like these because I feel like
Speaker 5: for most people, it's just about I get where you're
Speaker 5: coming from and I agree with you. But I think
Speaker 5: for most people it's like more so about the morals.
Speaker 5: But yes, so they just feel like it was wrong.
Speaker 5: It was wrong to come here and ripe and pillage
Speaker 5: and steal everything from them.
Speaker 3: It definitely was wrong.
Speaker 5: But at the end of the day, when it comes
Speaker 5: to morals, I always say, how much morals do most
Speaker 5: people really have? Like people would love to have morals
Speaker 5: when it comes to certain things, but I feel like
Speaker 5: most people don't.
Speaker 3: Really. It's so funny you say that because somebody be like, damn,
Speaker 3: they really did that shit fucked up, But they're being
Speaker 3: They'll be in their five bedroom house like yeah from
Speaker 3: other people. So it's like so it's like, nigga, you
Speaker 3: wouldn't be able to do that ship if that's why
Speaker 3: it's tricky. Yep, that's why it's so tricky because it's
Speaker 3: like nigga, yeah, we wouldn't be happy able to have
Speaker 3: this conversation. You know.
Speaker 1: People love to be fast out right about what he.
Speaker 3: Just fucked up. It's just fucked up. That's what I'm
Speaker 3: gonna say. It's fucked up and it's messed up and
Speaker 3: we can't control it. I agree twenty five.
Speaker 1: Now, we wouldn't know that was in fourteen.
Speaker 3: Because I wouldn't have done it like that. I would
Speaker 3: have came in and like, Yo, this land is fucking
Speaker 3: great man. It is been like yo, yeah, my nigga,
Speaker 3: my nigga. Because I wanted to ask you what I
Speaker 3: would have done, but I would have done it. Came
Speaker 3: down said, oh ship like this ship fire, Oh ships
Speaker 3: so much land here?
Speaker 1: Bro?
Speaker 3: Hey bro, how about this. We should come up together
Speaker 3: with a game plan. Okay, we come, we want we wanted,
Speaker 3: we want to expand we came on this boat. We
Speaker 3: was on this bitch for fucking thirty days, going on
Speaker 3: choppy ass water. We had a fight. We had to
Speaker 3: fight some niggas didn't even make it. Dog, I'm still
Speaker 3: grieving over my nigga jumped overboard this bitch. Y'all had
Speaker 3: a nice ass land here. I think it's it. I
Speaker 3: think we should expand this bitch and I think about it.
Speaker 3: I think we should come together because I don't want
Speaker 3: to fucking just play show. I don't want to fight.
Speaker 3: I don't want to kill somebody. I don't want to
Speaker 3: torment nobody. I want us to be a peaceful coalition together,
Speaker 3: and let's expand this bitch.
Speaker 1: Baby.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we can do it together. Y'all can be
Speaker 3: fucking governors and mayors and presidents. We can be governors,
Speaker 3: maids and presidents. And that's all they've done it. Then again,
Speaker 3: I think, I think, I think maybe they ran into
Speaker 3: some like no, yeah.
Speaker 1: That's definitely what that brand is.
Speaker 4: And then like niggas was not like listening, okay, and
Speaker 4: then okay, and then they wrote Pocahontas to make us
Speaker 4: say ship.
Speaker 1: Was sway under the blue Cormon.
Speaker 3: I don't know. This is crazy how we got here.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I loved y'all so amazing, y'all beautiful.
Speaker 3: I tell y'all four minds is amazing. I don't know
Speaker 3: how we got here, but this is the thought that
Speaker 3: happened in my head though, because I just left DC.
Speaker 3: That's what I would have done, though. I would have
Speaker 3: tried to be like, no, we ain't doing that, man,
Speaker 3: like come on, man, please, nigga, like I don't want
Speaker 3: to niggas some niggas.
Speaker 1: I know that's going to ever happened though, because they
Speaker 1: were darker skinned people, so they automatically went on that
Speaker 1: land and looked at them as slaves and you're beneath me.
Speaker 1: I don't even think that's what happened, as far as like, oh,
Speaker 1: let's try, and they were like, no, it.
Speaker 3: Was never Do you think they came in some gangster ship.
Speaker 4: They came over here, watch some y ens.
Speaker 1: Damn.
Speaker 4: They definitely didn't. They went the lock up. They wasn't talking.
Speaker 1: They know, it was none of that was negotia. It
Speaker 1: wasn't no negotiation. It wasn't even a chance.
Speaker 3: I thought they had. I thought they had a dinner first.
Speaker 5: They were giving cet.
Speaker 3: I thought they had a dinner first, and they had
Speaker 3: a little The.
Speaker 1: Truth behind Thanksgiving. I'm gonna send you a documentary about
Speaker 1: the truth about Thanksgiving booth because.
Speaker 5: We're gonna get really never want to eat turkey again.
Speaker 4: Hey, you're gonna turn beach. I'm telling you guess what.
Speaker 3: We all can agree. The culprit, you know, the culprit
Speaker 3: is right. It was Therit, the white the white man.
Speaker 3: I'm a white best friend. It ain't about you, So.
Speaker 1: All right, we all move off. Ever since I was
Speaker 1: a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining myself
Speaker 1: and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and opinions
Speaker 1: on anything pop culture. For the past few years, I've
Speaker 1: heard your requests. But now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all,
Speaker 1: let's get into the teeth with love lexp Tasty. One
Speaker 1: thing that I've.
Speaker 5: Put on the list, y'all, is never settled, And if
Speaker 5: you're an avid listener of poor Minds, then you probably
Speaker 5: have heard me say these numerous times. Like I say
Speaker 5: these all the time, I've always felt this way. Don't
Speaker 5: ever settle for anything in life if it's not exactly
Speaker 5: what you want. Don't let people tell you that you
Speaker 5: cannot get what you want out of these life.
Speaker 1: Because it's absolutely possible.
Speaker 5: I had so many people when I was in my
Speaker 5: twenties telling me that the things that I wanted was unrealistic, unreasonable,
Speaker 5: and if I had listened to those people, I wouldn't
Speaker 5: be where I am today.
Speaker 1: It's not for anybody else to understand that.
Speaker 5: As long as you know what it is and you
Speaker 5: willing to put the work in to get the things
Speaker 5: that you want, you don't have to settle. And don't
Speaker 5: let people convince you that you have to settle. It's
Speaker 5: usually people that are settling in their own lives that
Speaker 5: try to, you know, make other people feel like, oh,
Speaker 5: you can't do this, or you can't make that happen.
Speaker 1: You're thinking too far outside the box. How you gonna
Speaker 1: do that?
Speaker 5: Up now, boo, you can't do that. I could do
Speaker 5: whatever I want to do, okay, and I will, so yeah, don't.
Speaker 1: Don't move over. So now it's time to get into
Speaker 1: the box.
Speaker 5: At about about.
Speaker 1: First of all, we are way over time.
Speaker 3: We are we are having fun, though we are having fun.
Speaker 1: Back of the week is like the song please that
Speaker 1: we've been jamming this week, whatever music you've been listening to.
Speaker 3: Ship y'all, hold on, y'all.
Speaker 1: Somebody called him back. Somebody who called him back. I
Speaker 1: don't know about to.
Speaker 4: Having I'm weak.
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 3: We got a phone call going, Hey, I'm on Poor Minds,
Speaker 3: Poor Minds podcast right now, right, I gotta check this out.
Speaker 3: And we were just talking about we were talking about
Speaker 3: relationships and like adoration and gratitude.
Speaker 5: Is it?
Speaker 1: I can't see?
Speaker 3: And uh, I called you because I wanted to like
Speaker 3: just say hello to you in front of everybody and
Speaker 3: ship let.
Speaker 1: Me see, so I can't see.
Speaker 5: How are you when you coming on the show?
Speaker 1: All right?
Speaker 4: Are we finna set it up?
Speaker 1: Okay? You?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 4: Okay, God, Julie gods an exclusive though.
Speaker 1: I'm good. How are you? Mm hmmm.
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
Speaker 2: He is.
Speaker 5: He has really great energy. We have really been enjoying
Speaker 5: this episode. We can't wait to have you on the
Speaker 5: show too.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, you gotta come back to the A.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I love you, bro. I just wanted to say,
Speaker 3: what up? I love you, bro? Call me, I love you, bro.
Speaker 3: We'll talk.
Speaker 1: Now. Y'all couldn't see, but that was the Charles Malik
Speaker 1: which field on FaceTime, just something like that's what we
Speaker 1: do over here. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 5: Nothing too crazy, I'm too crazy. Okay, So now listening
Speaker 5: to the bop of the week, So my bop of
Speaker 5: the week.
Speaker 1: Y'all know. I love Alex Eisley. Y'all know she is
Speaker 1: like an R and B sensation. She has been doing
Speaker 1: music for a long time, but she just finally finally
Speaker 1: dropped a new single called Hands and y'all know, just
Speaker 1: about putting your hands on me and making me feel
Speaker 1: real good. Shout out to Alex Eisley, keep dropping that music.
Speaker 1: We have been waiting so, y'all, I'm so glad she's
Speaker 1: dropping more music. We had her at the l A show.
Speaker 1: We did so shout out to my girl, Alex Eisley.
Speaker 3: Alex, how you doing, period?
Speaker 4: What is this an exclusive?
Speaker 1: Is this you? Tim? Period? Big Tim Tim.
Speaker 3: Said, don't be too amazing, Thank you, thank you? Now
Speaker 3: when that drops summer.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we're ready.
Speaker 5: Stopping so damn I can't play it on my birthday.
Speaker 1: It's all right.
Speaker 4: I got in a video like this, you know it's crazy.
Speaker 3: That is going to be like I think the we're
Speaker 3: gonna have to have like a like a video case
Speaker 3: I did Instagram.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not gonna lie. My homegirl works
Speaker 1: for a record label. Stopping she and she sent me
Speaker 1: like this TikTok thing to She was like, we're trying
Speaker 1: to make this little filter you up, can you make?
Speaker 1: Can you make a video? When I tell you I
Speaker 1: made it and it got a million views?
Speaker 3: It was so for me.
Speaker 4: So I got y'all, bro, I got over.
Speaker 1: You know the only reason I did that videos because
Speaker 1: Kellen made I remember.
Speaker 3: That's stop it part because because because it bed traving
Speaker 3: that ship. Cool, but it's really a stop it part
Speaker 3: because that's really mood because like a quick quick So
Speaker 3: like I did this video yesterday. We were in the
Speaker 3: studio a video yesterday. Huh you did a video yesterday.
Speaker 3: It's like I was like in the studio, look at
Speaker 3: this ship.
Speaker 1: Oh you was lead.
Speaker 3: I know, that's right exactly. And we didn't stop a
Speaker 3: nigga nigger. Right.
Speaker 1: What you've been listening to all right?
Speaker 3: Is this listening session? We haven't Yeah, I've been listening
Speaker 3: to every day period. It's called every day No no, no,
Speaker 3: that's called tropics. Any dropping the summer time, we got
Speaker 3: some other ship you can work out.
Speaker 1: You know, we're gonna say that.
Speaker 3: We're gonna say, right, I'm getting ahead of myself.
Speaker 5: So I've been listening to so y'all know Leon Thommas
Speaker 5: has the song, but everybody's been listening to this song.
Speaker 5: But he just came out with the remix with Chris Brown,
Speaker 5: the Cbe remick and you know anything Chris Brown to gold.
Speaker 5: He's he has and what was already a head of course,
Speaker 5: like a crazy little rat. I do like but love,
Speaker 5: but I also am a Chris Brown, and like I
Speaker 5: like Chris Brown.
Speaker 1: I'm a Chris Brown staying. I gotta let the remix
Speaker 1: run a few times. I like him.
Speaker 3: Let me say some about Chris Brown. Chris Brown, he's
Speaker 3: at Chris Brown is a fucking goat. I met the
Speaker 3: nigga in l A two years ago at one of
Speaker 3: his parties and ship he was first. He's so cool
Speaker 3: but like.
Speaker 1: He just his ear is different because she has an
Speaker 1: R and B ear and a pop ear.
Speaker 3: No, not the Mutt remix.
Speaker 1: It didn't do it for me.
Speaker 3: It didn't, it didn't need him. But it's still fire.
Speaker 1: It's cool. That's original song. I love Chris Brown, so
Speaker 1: this is not no to him. It's cool, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: But I get I get it, I get it.
Speaker 3: You listen to it. Ten times.
Speaker 1: A few times. I only listened to it one. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's the same song, just you know, from Chris Brown.
Speaker 3: He's a beast, and I'm so glad he's getting his
Speaker 3: flowers because that nigga's been around for a long time.
Speaker 3: And it's just like he man, Mutt is insane. That
Speaker 3: is one of the best songs of the year. But
Speaker 3: then you go to this album Vibes on Lie. Yes
Speaker 3: it is, but it's just like his album. I don't
Speaker 3: know why he didn't, like submitted for the Grammys. It
Speaker 3: would have won the Grammy. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 3: know he did. I don't think he did, because that
Speaker 3: would have won a Grammy for Best rm ME Album,
Speaker 3: for sure. I think so, yes it is. It's like
Speaker 3: I think I played it five million times.
Speaker 1: It's a slid.
Speaker 3: It's really tim My nigga tim Well just playing the song.
Speaker 3: It was a bro. I was playing Mutt a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's a bro bro bro play yes, play, yes it is.
Speaker 3: And then I haven't stopped playing that for two months,
Speaker 3: trade cause like, tell me that it's mine. Yes it is.
Speaker 3: You know, tell me to put some mind.
Speaker 4: Okay, now, tell me put some mind.
Speaker 1: Jeri. All right, now do you give good advice?
Speaker 3: Good? Great advice?
Speaker 1: Okay, So we're going to get into our favorite segment
Speaker 1: of the week. It's support your Hearts Out segment, where
Speaker 1: you know, we read a question and we give good advice.
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Speaker 5: First off, love y'all down. I want to stay anonymous,
Speaker 5: but I need advice. I've been with my kid's father
Speaker 5: for nine years. We got together when I was seventeen
Speaker 5: and he was twenty three. He's always taken care of me.
Speaker 5: We have two kids and another one on the way,
Speaker 5: and he's a great dad. I've always been big on
Speaker 5: oral hygiene. I'm a registered dental assistant, so that matters
Speaker 5: a lot to me. From the start, he avoided opening
Speaker 5: his mouth too much or tongue kissing. I later found
Speaker 5: out he had parodonal disease. I did let him know
Speaker 5: about his condition, and he ended up going to the Dennis.
Speaker 5: They told him he would eventually need a full mouth extraction,
Speaker 5: or he could just let his teeth fall out on
Speaker 5: their own. He told me that growing up, his mom
Speaker 5: never took him to the dentist. When I first met him,
Speaker 5: his teeth were covered with crown, so it wasn't obvious.
Speaker 5: Later down the line, he ended up getting veneers in Mexico.
Speaker 5: Now Here we are nine years later, he's thirty and
Speaker 5: talking about marriage, which is great and I want the same.
Speaker 5: He's a great father, he gets money, stays out the way,
Speaker 5: and he's fine. He really checks all the boxes and
Speaker 5: in today's world, men like that are hard to find.
Speaker 5: The only thing I can't get over is his oral hills.
Speaker 5: I can't even be intimate with my own man the
Speaker 5: way that I want to. I want to kiss him,
Speaker 5: like really kiss him, but I just can't.
Speaker 1: What would y'all do in any situation? And how would
Speaker 1: y'all handle that?
Speaker 3: Come on, man, come on, come on, Oh, he don't
Speaker 3: have no teeth. This is this is the thing about that. Okay, First,
Speaker 3: and from us person, from us, that's crazy taking off.
Speaker 3: Second off, this if that's your man of nine years.
Speaker 3: How you have not had the relationship to just be
Speaker 3: honest with each other? Yeah, my girl, fucking breast stink,
Speaker 3: teeth stab, gets your teeth fixed. At the end of
Speaker 3: the day, I love you, just that your teeth fucking
Speaker 3: suck and at the end of the day, your breast stinks.
Speaker 3: And then the day I'm tired of doing this ship
Speaker 3: with you? Why are they coming to poor you? Tell
Speaker 3: that nigga that So the end of the day, it's like,
Speaker 3: just tell him, say, Babe, your breath stinks, like ship,
Speaker 3: you have halotosis, paradontal disease. Listener means not working, crass
Speaker 3: white chips ain't working, and the crests mouth flash ain't working.
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, is this You need
Speaker 3: a fucking full makeover, bab and then full makeover. I
Speaker 3: love you to death. At the end of the day,
Speaker 3: I am getting aggravated and fucking annoyed. Yeah, by your
Speaker 3: breath and your fucking teeth. So please get him fixed.
Speaker 5: There you go, because I feel like if he has
Speaker 5: paradontal disease, he needs to let all of those he
Speaker 5: needs to get all of those teeth, and then he
Speaker 5: needs to go get in plenty shit. But I feel
Speaker 5: like y'all have already been together for like nine years
Speaker 5: a girl, so he probably feel like she we good.
Speaker 5: He probably feels like you're not tripping something.
Speaker 1: I would have been saying something along long long time ago.
Speaker 3: If you can't be best friends for your partner and
Speaker 3: get another girl.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you said a word with that, that's true.
Speaker 1: You should be comfortable as hell. Yeah, I would never
Speaker 1: let my best friend like if Drea was like a
Speaker 1: little I'd be like a little tart.
Speaker 3: You gotta let people know.
Speaker 1: Or vice versa. So if I can't tell my man
Speaker 1: that vice versa, my man should be the first one
Speaker 1: telling me if my breastk is he the one that's
Speaker 1: in my face? And I feel like over and she
Speaker 1: said everything is cool, but that girl that should be
Speaker 1: number one. World hygiene is very very, very very important.
Speaker 5: And I get that different people have different least of
Speaker 5: priorities of what's important to them, but I feel like
Speaker 5: mental health needs to be higher on your least than some.
Speaker 1: Of the other stuff.
Speaker 3: No, it's facts, big facts. Even that pushy said, she
Speaker 3: what have you done?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 3: Wash right now?
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about like a little gym sweat. We
Speaker 1: ain't talking about anything else. Sometimes you get from the
Speaker 1: gym and you think you can lay down on the
Speaker 1: couch and pussy my stank a little bit them balls?
Speaker 1: Might that bay them balls? Stink a little bit.
Speaker 4: About the back there?
Speaker 1: Go wash the ball up.
Speaker 3: I'm real cleaning, I'm real big on hygen.
Speaker 1: You.
Speaker 3: I wipe my fucking balls so fucking much and have
Speaker 3: rashes almost. I fucking I write from so much. I
Speaker 3: want to. I want to be so clean and pure.
Speaker 3: I want you to enjoy it when you do it.
Speaker 3: Push that puss. I gotta going a shot right now, exactly,
Speaker 3: going there, right now, nigga, go in there, get your
Speaker 3: love well oness, so on, put that ship on right now.
Speaker 3: Come on, love Wells exactly, you love Wellness. Put the
Speaker 3: cream on your shop exactly, and fucking make sure that
Speaker 3: she is pure. I want to have a good experience
Speaker 3: when I from the back. I want that to be
Speaker 3: pure and nice. I don't have to have that SpongeBob
Speaker 3: shi it happened. I don't need that ship. I need that.
Speaker 3: I don't need that.
Speaker 1: I need to feel good squeaky clean, because.
Speaker 3: When it's clean, oh my gosh, you get into it more.
Speaker 3: Get turn over. You turned over your turn over and
Speaker 3: they come back. You know.
Speaker 1: I'm saying though, and that's what I'm saying from head
Speaker 1: and so everything gotta smell good. But you have nice tea.
Speaker 1: You have not got a nice tea?
Speaker 3: Thank God, thank God.
Speaker 1: Let us know, thank you what you got coming up?
Speaker 3: What you got. I've been talking my ass off. I
Speaker 3: don't even know what's happening anyways for minds.
Speaker 1: Huh, yes, let us know where.
Speaker 5: We can find you and what you got coming up?
Speaker 5: I'm glass you had a ball because you've been having
Speaker 5: a time. You've been cutting What is it about the
Speaker 5: taller Perry crewst Crystal.
Speaker 1: She didn't drink Chris.
Speaker 3: Chris had christ from from the.
Speaker 1: Team and then we had the bell.
Speaker 3: I was cutting up to you, like we mean, I
Speaker 3: didn't even know each other that much, but I got
Speaker 3: so much respect for that nigga.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's he's really pure and he's very he's very smart.
Speaker 3: Is so pure because we we we kind of have
Speaker 3: the same like are I'm wild wol it's crazy you'll.
Speaker 1: Be cutting up. It was like why not?
Speaker 4: Why not talking all the Perry and everybody they're not.
Speaker 3: You can say that, but he said he the base.
Speaker 1: Don't worry.
Speaker 3: She's sucking great. You can get Stephen Norfley over here though.
Speaker 3: Stephen North, He's fucking amazing.
Speaker 1: I'm asking now because you say to switt people.
Speaker 3: On Jael Carter, Varney, litt Rico ross littli felt lit
Speaker 3: which lost lit small love my people, my people, what
Speaker 3: you said? You asked what I got coming out? What
Speaker 3: do you y'all? Maye me feel so comfortable. I love
Speaker 3: y'all so much, thank you.
Speaker 1: That's our goal. We like making people on beautiful.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, well gay, gorgeous. I can't even fathom it. Man,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna cry, And.
Speaker 1: Now, are you in serious? I've seen one.
Speaker 3: Y'all, y'all to deserve all that happens, thank you. I
Speaker 3: don't know what's going on with y'all loves life, loves life.
Speaker 3: I know honingt going. I don't know what's going on
Speaker 3: with y'all love life, I know what's going on with
Speaker 3: y'all's man, I don't know what's going on. I pray
Speaker 3: and hope that y'all get everything life. Thank you, y'all
Speaker 3: deserve it. All are so fucking perfect, beautiful, beautiful, so beautiful.
Speaker 3: Your skin is so pretty.
Speaker 1: We have very we have very cares.
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty, thank you, so nice. I'm in fucking no
Speaker 3: care about over here. Y'all. Y'all are so fucking gorgeous.
Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. I'm being serious. Okay,
Speaker 3: what I have coming up so so so so uh.
Speaker 5: So.
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, Beating in a Black Season two is coming out.
Speaker 1: I'm excited.
Speaker 3: We already filmed it, already filmed. And uh, let me
Speaker 3: tell you something. I'm crazy.
Speaker 1: Season two, you was quiet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I was crazy season one. Season two,
Speaker 3: I'll be like, oh my gosh, you're losing a little bit.
Speaker 3: I think Tyler did that because he saw He just
Speaker 3: knows that he wants because I get a lot of
Speaker 3: attention being Roy. I get a lot of attention being
Speaker 3: Roy because who I am. Because who I am. I
Speaker 3: could be an actor that goes into the abyss and
Speaker 3: like not say anything, but I'm Julian, I'm out, I'm
Speaker 3: with the people. I'm in the airport. I'm like, I
Speaker 3: just want to live life. And and by the grace
Speaker 3: of God, I got this opportunity to be just with
Speaker 3: the people and like I'm fucking maximizing to the like craziness,
Speaker 3: but like, yeah, but beating. By season two, I'm really
Speaker 3: cutting it. Gosh. I read the scripts. I was like, Tyler,
Speaker 3: what the fuck? It's not cutting up in the way
Speaker 3: I had to cut up in season one either. It's
Speaker 3: more so he a real fuck boy because you was
Speaker 3: a odd Yeah, because because he's where I was more
Speaker 3: like mean, you were cheating. Season two, I'm more like
Speaker 3: wild season when I was mean and like quirky season
Speaker 3: two Wild. This nigga is insane. He don't give a
Speaker 3: funk but nothing. That's what season two is. Well.
Speaker 5: I'm so glad that your character is gonna be on
Speaker 5: seasons because y'all had me a little stress because.
Speaker 1: I had thought you died.
Speaker 3: People telling me that even though the fucking even though
Speaker 3: the fucking scene, I don't give a fuck about this
Speaker 3: this team where I got pushed out the window. I
Speaker 3: do all my stunts. I know.
Speaker 1: That's why Tom Cruise.
Speaker 3: I try to do all my stunts period. Even in
Speaker 3: their mind that seem was just like I wish I
Speaker 3: did everything.
Speaker 4: That's see, are you craggy?
Speaker 3: I just wish everything because you can tell my stunt
Speaker 3: double in the scene and it's.
Speaker 1: Like, no, you can tell. Yeah, well we couldn't tell.
Speaker 1: We definitely couldn't. We could not tell tell.
Speaker 3: Guess what though some top of you about it and
Speaker 3: it had millions of views. Obviously not Roy.
Speaker 1: Because if you would have did your own stunt and
Speaker 1: you would have gotten hurt, Yes, okay, until you get hurt.
Speaker 1: I've been hurt before, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 4: That is a lot.
Speaker 3: Got scar. I got scars.
Speaker 1: Ually, where can the people follow you at? I got
Speaker 1: that burnwark on my leg that's from the scar.
Speaker 3: This from Black Spartans, Julian, Where the follow you? They
Speaker 3: not tell them what?
Speaker 1: They can follow you?
Speaker 3: You find me at A I'm gonna be I'm gonna
Speaker 3: be like how niggas think I act? Mm hmm, seeing
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Speaker 3: it is. This is how niggas thinks acts. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: ask this for the rest of the show.
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Speaker 3: Dude time, I think now there your mind? You say,
Speaker 3: he asks, he doesn't sign. That ain't a good sign.
Speaker 9: Change your mind. Good conversations and some rose got the
Speaker 9: mind come out, yo, mimy, Hey, hey, hey.
Speaker 3: Telling the Dutch it so what? Hey, I'm a crush
Speaker 3: criminal on me? I'm a crush. How thought they need
Speaker 3: every touch? She asked me, having a night. I don't
Speaker 3: know an a rush, enjoying the moment. So h having
Speaker 3: paying the bills.
Speaker 5: Then they needed a something is flat as fun.
Speaker 1: She's stopping that, she's up.
Speaker 3: She's saying that ship is match around and making it up.
Speaker 1: I'm doing a uber girl. I'm always an situate, y'all.
Speaker 1: I was gonna keep it a bug.
Speaker 5: You give me that ship, and I'm stuck wild way
Speaker 5: because a lot of broke niggas run away riding around
Speaker 5: town and they looking for my face.
Speaker 1: Gotta prayd of got above you. Girl.
Speaker 5: You know that savage love you, and I hope that
Speaker 5: should feel the same.
Speaker 1: For you, and I hold that can change.
Speaker 3: I know that savage love you, love you.
Speaker 1: Gotta turn my turn out.
Speaker 3: Put on that choppings.
Speaker 4: All right, well, dropping turn my c T turn b.
Speaker 3: Put on that tropic. Yeah, I'm saying you right now, tropics, God,
Speaker 3: he said, playing topics and blastic. I want that ship
Speaker 3: to be so motherfucking loud. Hey, hey, play shoppings right now, trying.
Speaker 4: You turn my beach.
Speaker 1: Rally?
Speaker 4: What the fuck? J Elliott J J L D in
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Speaker 4: Is this