WEBVTT - This Made Me Cry FT. Julian Horton 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:26.000 What's up, Y'all's your girl? Lexp Any Sugarl Dray in 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:28.800 a cold and you are tuned in to another episode 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:32.599 of Poor Mind where a drunk mind speaks sober. We 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:39.000 gotta guess today, We gotta guess today. Now, y'all are 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:43.200 going to love this. I know we have all been 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:47.879 tuned into the Netflix hit Beauty in Black, and we 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:52.159 have one of the stars of Beauty in Black former 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:55.920 athletes a top Sespiannum. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:01:00.120 We got Juliana Horton about it. 0:01:01.000 --> 0:01:02.280 Well, thank you for joining. 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:07.120 Actually, I'm really excited for. 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:10.720 A week, so tell us. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:12.360 Give us like you know, what's been going on since 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:13.800 Beating and Black has dropped. I know it's been a 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:14.520 whirlwind for you. 0:01:15.000 --> 0:01:18.039 Beating Black has changed my life Number one new room. 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:21.560 It's changed my life. U. The reception to the show 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:26.560 has been great. It has been astounding, outstanding, and I 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:29.520 just I love that everyone's watching it. It's really a 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:30.560 show for the culture. 0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:32.640 It really I didn't know. 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:35.640 I knew it was going to be big, I really did, 0:01:36.280 --> 0:01:39.000 but I didn't I really couldn't just fathom how big 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:41.120 it was going to be. It's kind of crazy, like 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:44.240 this is a show for the culture, and like I said, 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:46.760 the perception has just been amazing. Everyone is watching it. 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:52.280 The love I've been getting for playing a character that's 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:55.840 kind of bad, it's not like not like, but it's like, 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:58.000 I get a lot of love. It's weird. 0:01:58.440 --> 0:02:02.400 It's gonna be fun because and to be fair, everybody 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:05.480 on the show is bad. Nobody on the show is good, 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:09.720 So you know, yeah, I do want to start from 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.440 the beginning though, because you know, you used to play 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:15.280 for the Tennessee Titans. Yes, you are an athlete, and 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:20.880 I always think it's so amazing when guys, especially athletes, 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:24.720 athletes make that transition into something completely different because we 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:27.040 do hear the stories of athletes kind of just like 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.560 they don't play sports anymore, and then they just kind 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:34.240 of get lost, you know, and there's no you know plan. 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:37.160 B So talk about your transition for being a professional 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:38.520 athlete to an actor. 0:02:38.960 --> 0:02:39.160 Yeah. 0:02:39.240 --> 0:02:39.600 So, like. 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:45.440 I've always had it in my head, I got you. Yeah, 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:48.600 God gave me a vision. God gave me a dream, 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:52.040 and I just knew that I couldn't let life happen 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.120 to me. I gotta freaking make what I went out 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:56.720 of life. Basically, you know what I'm saying. So at 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:59.520 the end of the day, it's like football was great. 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:03.840 I love the sport. It was an amazing time, a 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.040 grueling time, a learning time. I learned a lot of 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:10.840 lessons playing football. Played it for seventeen years from seven 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:13.959 years old at twenty four. But I always knew that 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:19.919 like I was more of a person that was just 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:22.440 good at football. Football didn't make me. It wasn't my identity. 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:25.320 I see a lot of athletes and a lot of 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:30.359 people they make sports their identity. I'm Julian Horton, and 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:31.959 at the end of the day, God's given me a 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:33.639 lot of talent, a lot of gifts, and I have 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:37.360 to maximize what God has given me. See, the thing 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:40.680 about is this God gives us life, that true gives 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:42.880 us life. We all have life right now, but our 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:45.840 gift back to God is what do we do with 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:48.720 the gifts that He's given us. So for me, it's 0:03:48.880 --> 0:03:52.320 like it was because people ask me I wanted to 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:56.880 change this football to act? Think that was it. It 0:03:57.080 --> 0:04:00.480 was seamless because I knew that I wanted to do 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:02.720 acting at a young age. I know I wanted to 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:04.520 do music at a young age. I knew I wanted 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:07.320 to do sports. At a young age, I had three things. 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:09.840 There was three. It's kind of like common too, because 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.600 it's like niggas want to act, niggas want to do music, 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.520 niggas want to do you know, sports. But I said, no, 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:18.040 those are the things that I'm doing. Those are I 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:19.680 am going to make a lot of money doing one 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:23.360 of those three things. So after football had ended, I 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:25.080 did music a little bit too, a little bit, but 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:28.680 I knew that like acting, it could get me over 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:30.720 the time, It can make me a career, It can 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:31.920 make me a lot of money because I knew I 0:04:31.920 --> 0:04:33.560 could do it well because I know I'm a character. 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:38.040 If I can transition and like formulate this energy that 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:39.840 I have that God has given me, I can make 0:04:39.880 --> 0:04:41.720 a career out of this. And that's what I did. 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:44.320 And it took patience, it took a lot of hard work, 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:48.120 but by the grace of God, were here now. Yeah. 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:51.880 And so with acting, would you say, because one fact, 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.760 your cousin is Donald fin it's your first cousin, Yes 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:57.080 it is. So would you say that you were inspired 0:04:57.120 --> 0:04:58.880 by him to really get into acting? 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:00.159 And take you seriously, to be. 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:07.160 Honest with you, because I love I love it I mean, 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:09.400 I don't care to be honest with you. It's like 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:19.359 that's a good question. Uh. Donald was just he's always 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:20.960 kind of just been like a bragging point for me. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:23.360 But he wasn't the reason why I got into acting, though. 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:26.680 I think it was more so I loved it. I 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:30.080 loved this craft. I think I have an appreciation for 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:35.320 true talent, true talent. I think today I think there's 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:38.720 so many people getting famous and so many people making 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:42.840 money doing things that are talentless, you know what I'm saying. 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:46.600 And I have appreciation for old Hollywood. I have an 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:51.200 appreciation for it because it's like a respect that went 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:55.400 into old Hollywood, just Hollywood period, especially with black actors. 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:58.520 I've just seen that number on the call sheet I 0:05:58.640 --> 0:06:02.200 think on Apple TV. I respect those guys. Denzel's to 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:05.600 Jamies and Wills and Morgan Freeman's to Lawence Fish Spurs, 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:09.920 I respect those guys like I really truly respect those 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:14.000 guys because it's like they took a dream, they manifested 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.080 and they made it happen, right, And it's just like 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:19.440 I've always just wanted to do that. So with Donald, 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.640 he made it happen. He's been famous since I was born. Yeah, 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:24.560 even a nineteen ninety like three. 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:27.280 I think, yeah, I mean that was when I was 0:06:27.400 --> 0:06:27.800 like three. 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:30.720 So that was the thing. I was like him. The 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:35.880 Titans football football, that's my cousin. But it's the dream 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:37.920 has always been in me before that, though I have 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:40.720 to see that happen to make me go and want 0:06:40.760 --> 0:06:43.080 to get that. It's just added on to it even 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:46.800 more because me and Donald we talk. But Donald is 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.920 you know Donald, you know Donald, Donald man, he'd be 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:50.520 doing this thing. 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:53.040 He's you know, he just did he help you in 0:06:53.080 --> 0:06:53.840 an these type of way? 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.360 Because I'm not even because because that's what I was 0:06:57.400 --> 0:07:00.400 gonna say, because you know, in this industry people always 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:03.279 say everybody is related to each other, and you kind of. 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:03.680 Feed me in. 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:05.680 But the thing about it is like I didn't ask 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:09.360 Donald for nothing. I didn't. I didn't ask and think 0:07:09.360 --> 0:07:15.360 about it. His mother on Shirley passing director and an 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:19.680 agent in New York City, didn't help. No one helped me. 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:22.400 Didn't help me, you know what I Shirley told me. 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:24.000 And I'll be in this is exclusion. I ain't gona 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:28.440 lot to surely is is hard body, She's trill and 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:30.920 I appreciate her for doing this. I asked her, I 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:33.880 did it one time. No one even knows it because 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.840 I haven't said this on any podcast. I asked for 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:41.160 help one time. Once she said, that's your agent's job. 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:45.200 I was like, damn right. 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:47.480 And that's the family. That's the family I come from, though, 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:50.920 And I appreciate that because that same person that I 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:54.240 wanted to get connected with five years later book me 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:54.960 on bed and black. 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:56.840 Oh wow, and it was just me. 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:00.320 So it was so it's like we are My family 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:04.240 is tough love, Donald Faison tough love. It's like and 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:06.080 I didn't ask Donald for nothing because and I still 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:09.200 don't ask for nothing. We we watch each other stories, 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:10.840 we talk here and there, but we don't like talk 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:13.880 about acting at all. And it's crazy because I really 0:08:14.000 --> 0:08:19.480 do want to do something eventually. But it's also on 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:23.480 some stuff like in this family, you got to prove it. Yeah, 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.360 you got to prove it. This family is a talent 0:08:26.600 --> 0:08:31.640 I remember, a talented family, a talented family. So it's like, 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:33.760 no one wants to say we didn't give you a 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:35.719 hand out. You're gonna prove it. Yeah, So you know, 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:37.240 the way is how they family. But I'm telling you 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:40.800 the Hortons and the Phaisons is coming. You know. You 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:43.280 know what I'm saying, It's coming. I'm telling you because 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:45.880 it's like Donald had his whole career and it's like 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:51.320 people don't even know that I am his cousin. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:56.560 my first cousin. That's my first cousin. Yeah, those are 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:58.480 my people. I love Donald, but I think. 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:01.040 Like, moving forward, are you going to be like the 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:02.920 one that kind of like plugs your family and are 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:07.720 you gonna be like the tough love too? Okay, I'm 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:09.520 that's the goal to me. 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:14.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm plugging man for sure. That's just 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:15.880 how you am. This is that's who I am. 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:19.640 I like that though, because I feel like even because 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.719 everybody has been giving like lebron Ship with Browny and 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.640 all that stuff, I'm like, that's literally what you're supposed 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:28.240 to do. We are just now catching up to that, 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:30.439 like with the Black family, because now we're starting to 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:33.000 you know, put people on. I want to make things 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:33.680 easy for my. 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:35.479 Future children, definitely. 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:37.360 My friends or my family, like whoever. Like if you 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:39.040 connected to me, girl, you good. 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:42.880 Because it's like this, this this life is hard. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:44.959 It's hard enough already. 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:50.760 This life is really hard for real hardt what the hell? 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:54.079 I tell people that. That's why this the reception to 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.280 the show is kind of crazy because people are screaming 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:59.839 for me, and oh my gosh, I bro Before this, 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.920 I was doing Uber and my transmission went out and 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:07.920 I was broke. And so it's like I have a 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.800 different appreciation and a different perspective for all of this 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:13.439 because I got I'm not gonna say I hate the 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:19.199 worst famous celebrity. I got known at thirty three. So 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:21.720 I've learned so much in these years that God has 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:24.640 given me. I've learned so many lessons. My wisdom has 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:29.680 continuously increased, and I know that life is hard. 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:30.439 It is. 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:34.000 It is hard. It's for men because we got to 0:10:34.040 --> 0:10:36.360 make it happen. No one's given a shit, so at 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:38.800 the end of the day, it's like, it's just a 0:10:38.880 --> 0:10:42.200 tough life we live. So that's why if God allowed 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:45.319 me to have this blessing, I'm honor the position and 0:10:45.520 --> 0:10:48.040 pay it forward the best I can to help other 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:51.480 people out because this, like I said, like I said, this, 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:53.880 life is hard. It's tough. No one told us that 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:54.480 when we're young. 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:57.520 Yeah, I mean, I see both sides like I can 0:10:57.679 --> 0:11:02.120 understand sometimes why families feel like if they could help you, 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:05.680 or sometime they don't really want to. Sometimes it's because, Okay, 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:08.120 get it out the mudd. He's gonna teach you work ethic, 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:10.440 it's gonna teach you hustle, it's gonna teach you ambition. 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:13.640 But at the same time, why should they have to 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:15.960 go through that if they have somebody who can already 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:18.120 help them, who have already did all of the groundwork. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:20.240 So I kind of see both sides. I don't know. 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:22.160 I want my kids to be a little spoiled, yet 0:11:22.200 --> 0:11:24.400 me too. They're gonna be silver spoon fed for sure. 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:25.439 Facts. 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:29.480 So I want to talk about the process, the audition 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:32.599 process and then the actual film. And because you know, 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:35.000 people love to talk about Tyler Perry and he shoot 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.760 things in three days and gets it done and out 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.640 there and y'all be on set for twenty hours. So 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:44.559 how was the audition process? Was it quick? Was it 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.800 long drawn out? Because like I said, we know that 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:49.160 Tyler likes to do stuff quickly and get out. So 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:50.640 how was the audition process? 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:56.560 Man, it was anxiety ridden. I would say that because 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:03.640 it's so funny because Netflix, I've been manifesting it so much, 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:06.320 I would I say, I went only to Netflix because 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:08.760 I had a movie I did called National Champions. In 0:12:08.840 --> 0:12:11.680 the movie I did called The re Education, I'm Molly Singer. 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:18.280 They both went to theaters bombed, bomb damn. But at 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:21.400 the same time they went to Netflix. And when they 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:23.839 went to Netflix, everyone I told to go see the 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:28.280 movie was literally sending me messages. You watch your movie, nigga, 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:35.959 you kid Boomerange, you killing this nigga, My nigga, I 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:37.559 told you to go see the theaters. You see it? 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:44.640 So I knew right then, convenience. Human beings loved convenience. Yeah, 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:50.319 especially COVID. Yeah, after twenty twenty, people love convenience. I 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:52.720 ain't good. No, I don't want to go to the theaters. 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:55.320 And movies go to TV so quickly now. 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:56.880 Even like one of them days, like. 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:03.520 It's already on NETFLIBC is number one though, yeah, no one, people. 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:05.520 It made fifty one million in the box. 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:06.920 It did amazing in the theaters. 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.400 But I'm still I'm gonna watching when I have time. 0:13:09.480 --> 0:13:11.319 I still want to watch it. Yeah, I haven't watched it, 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:15.040 but it's like he hit Netflix. Not everyone's watching right now. 0:13:15.120 --> 0:13:19.439 At number one, So I knew convenience, convenience, convenience. So 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:24.440 back to your question, it's like that audition and that, uh, 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:28.560 the whole thing, the whole project came across my agent's 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:32.800 desk and I saw that it was on Netflix. Some 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:37.520 I was like, sh Tyler Perry has a Netflix show 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:41.439 coming on Tallerman has a Netflix show coming Because he 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:45.320 had did the BT plus Amazon everything. He ain't hit 0:13:45.440 --> 0:13:47.199 no Netflix. He hit the Netflix movies with The Me 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.360 and Copa's and The Jasmine Blues and a couple of 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.880 other things. You did. What's the other movie he did? 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:56.319 That's right, bitch, Yeah, movie exactly the movie. 0:13:56.400 --> 0:14:01.600 Yeah you're talking about about the Wig and yeah, yeah, 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:07.400 what's that the Old Lady again? Remember from Fall from 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:10.800 Grace my Dog from I think he was in uh 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.240 Glory Road, that dude, yeah from Glory Road. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.360 In the game he was yeah, yeah, he's a good actor, 0:14:17.400 --> 0:14:19.640 great actor. But it's like, so he's had those movies 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:25.800 Netflix Original. Yeah, So I came across and I saw Roy. 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:32.680 It's like he's he's doing high twenties, young thirties, black playboy. 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:35.720 He uh, he has a drug addiction. He likes to 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:37.680 fast life, and. 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:41.280 I'm like, I'm like me, I know that. 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:44.120 Sound like me. 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:45.600 This guy sounds for me. 0:14:45.920 --> 0:14:48.560 So I'm like, I hang a lot too. I love 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.360 I love having this conversation because you know, I like 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:53.480 getting into the depths of it. When you see something 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:58.440 like that, it's crazy because it's like that does sound 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:02.880 like me. And I got an audition for it right now, 0:15:03.000 --> 0:15:06.680 and I'm like, I would kill this shit. I would 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:09.920 kill this ship. But then you know, as an actress, like, 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:11.920 is it really gonna happen? 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:12.160 Though? 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:14.960 Right, You're really gonna book it? Because in my mind, 0:15:15.080 --> 0:15:16.680 I'm like, yo, you're gonna have to go against the 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:18.960 best of the best. And I love that. I love competition. 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:21.760 I'm a competitor. But at the same time, acting teaches 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:26.920 you it's a subjective sport. This world we live in 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:30.000 as actors, it's subjective. It's not objective. Like Lebron James 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.560 sixty nine, two sixty he can dunk on niggas. Yeah, 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:37.440 you're gonna get picked first nigga, right, Exeth Curry. Don't 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:39.080 matter what you do, the best shoot of all time, 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:42.080 you're gonna get picked. Yeah. Action is different because you 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:43.680 can be the best actor of all time. And then 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:46.760 somebodys be like, oh, you know he loved darker though, yeah, 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:48.720 I like his slag a little bit more. 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:51.040 And people deliver lines so differently. 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:55.160 Your mind is yeah, like, man, hopefully I get this. 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:58.920 So basically that's your question, Like I audition for it, 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.960 and immediately three days later, Kim Coleman shot like Kim Coleman, 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:08.120 she's the best. She had, she loved, she loved the auditions, 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:11.280 and she was like, yo, when Julian to come to 0:16:11.400 --> 0:16:17.520 LA to do the in person auditions. So that happened 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.320 on Thursday. I want you to stay with me right here. 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:20.960 I want you to stay with me. That happened on 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:24.320 a Thursday. They want they want me to come to 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:28.360 LA next Thursday, next Thursday. So they got got the 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:31.120 message from my agent like Kim, come loves me. They 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:35.200 want you to fly out next Thursday. It's Wednesday, next Wednesday, 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.400 now six days of past, and I ain't got no 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:42.960 flight information nothing. So I take my agent like, yo, bro, 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:44.520 what what's going on? Like I'm supposed to be going 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:46.200 to LA next tomorrow? What's going I ain't got no 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:49.520 flight information. I'm like, yeah, I'm sorry to tell you. 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:55.280 That's Julian, but they went in a different direction. Real, wow, 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:58.880 all right, that's cool, bro, I think give me blue balls, magga. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:02.440 But I said, I said, okay, and that's that's that's 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:05.320 that's okay. And as an actor, I've been doing this 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:07.200 ship almost sven years now, I'm like, yeah, you know this, 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:09.360 that's a part of the business. Like you know you're 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:11.800 not gonna get every part, and you know that it's 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:15.440 very fickle. This game is very fickle. Boom boom boom. 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:19.200 They made decisions out of fly whatever whatever, like a 0:17:19.240 --> 0:17:22.280 bet next, next project, man, and think about it long 0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:24.800 than I bet next. I didn't even like. I wasn't 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:29.560 even sad over it for real. Yeah. So a week 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:34.080 goes by. Next Wednesday, I'm literally in my basement. I 0:17:34.119 --> 0:17:36.840 know this ship for a fact. This is I get 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:40.679 emotional talking about the ship. Agent hits me and sends 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:45.320 me a picture of what Kim Coleman sent him and 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:49.760 said it is Julian still available. So I'm like, bro, 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:51.920 what's going on? I thought I didn't get the part. 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.320 And it's like, no, bro, they ask and if you're 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:56.960 still available or not. 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Yes, I'm raying a 0:18:57.880 --> 0:19:02.080 call and I'm lexp and together we are traveling from 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:07.320 Charleston to the streets of Cardaina. We're eating good m 0:19:07.960 --> 0:19:12.080 drinking good here, and experiencing the beauty of different cultures, 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:16.600 taking me to incredible destinations with a special focus on 0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:17.639 the black experience. 0:19:18.040 --> 0:19:23.280 Still Queens One Glow, Endless Possibility Travel Queens Serious premiere Wednesday, 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:24.240 April twenty thirty eight. 0:19:24.920 --> 0:19:25.280 My hope. 0:19:25.680 --> 0:19:33.800 Yeah, like niggas playing my motion, Yeah exactly. This is 0:19:33.840 --> 0:19:36.399 a huge ass part. So I'm like, did I get it? Like, bro, 0:19:36.560 --> 0:19:38.879 what are you talking about? I left the ship. I 0:19:39.000 --> 0:19:41.959 left it alone because I said I killed the audition. 0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:44.520 I left it alone. Like, bro, it is what is 0:19:44.600 --> 0:19:46.200 the next one? And now you're telling me I have 0:19:46.280 --> 0:19:49.879 a chance again. He's like, bro, you're available or not. 0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:54.199 It's done. Niggas say it now. So he says I'm 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:59.280 available whatever, and then like another two days go by. 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:02.560 At the age, it's like, so I just got out 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:06.199 the phone. We can come in and they're gonna make 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:11.160 the decision the next two days, all right, okay, cool, nigga. 0:20:11.280 --> 0:20:14.880 Bet So Day one goes by nothing, Day two goes 0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:18.280 by nothing. Day three goes by nothing. All right, I 0:20:18.359 --> 0:20:21.480 didn't get it. Again these niggas fuck one. That's cool, 0:20:21.680 --> 0:20:24.960 I'm leaving it alone. A week goes by again nothing. 0:20:26.600 --> 0:20:30.479 So I remember this specifically. I remember my manager at 0:20:30.520 --> 0:20:33.399 the time. He called me and was like, yo, bro, 0:20:33.640 --> 0:20:37.679 like you're gonna do this. I had another audition for Netflix. 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:39.560 It was like Emily in Paris or something like that. 0:20:39.640 --> 0:20:41.439 He said, you're gonna do this audition. I was like, yeah, Bro, 0:20:41.440 --> 0:20:43.359 I'm gonna do it. Bro like yeah, I got it. 0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:46.080 And that was in the morning. Called me at ten 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:49.560 in the morning. I'm chilling with my family stuff. At 0:20:49.560 --> 0:20:52.320 like seven o'clock at night, he calls me again. I'm 0:20:52.400 --> 0:20:54.879 thinking he's called me about the audition again because I 0:20:54.920 --> 0:20:58.840 haven't done it yet, and I like, I ignore it 0:20:59.040 --> 0:21:01.160 because I'm like, bro, get I'm gonna get to the audio. 0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:04.320 I'm gonna do it. But he texts me He's like, bro, 0:21:04.480 --> 0:21:08.360 call me a SAP. So I'm like, all right, I'll 0:21:08.400 --> 0:21:10.560 call him. I'm like, what's up, bro, He's like, Bro, 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:14.040 I have Rod on the phone. Who's my agent? So 0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:18.000 Rod and Tina are my agents. James is my manager 0:21:18.080 --> 0:21:20.159 at the time. Me and him, we're not together no more. 0:21:20.200 --> 0:21:22.159 Based on my brother, we're not together no more. But 0:21:22.280 --> 0:21:25.439 he calls me we're rotting Robbed on the phone, He's like, Bro, 0:21:26.000 --> 0:21:29.040 I didn't want to, like I started you or anything. 0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:31.320 I didn't want to like get your hopes up anything. 0:21:31.640 --> 0:21:36.359 But so basically I'm on the phone with Netflix lawyers 0:21:36.400 --> 0:21:39.000 right now, So I'm like, what are you talking about, 0:21:39.080 --> 0:21:42.600 Nigga because i'minking I dig it right, And he's like, so, 0:21:42.720 --> 0:21:44.440 I didn't want to. Like they're moving really kind of 0:21:44.440 --> 0:21:46.840 slow right now. I know we said we're gonna get 0:21:46.840 --> 0:21:48.320 the part in the next two days, but it didn't 0:21:48.359 --> 0:21:51.160 happen like that. They're taking more time than usual. I'm 0:21:51.200 --> 0:21:53.880 on the phone with Netflix lawyers and uh, basically doing 0:21:53.920 --> 0:21:57.600 like a background check on you to see if you 0:21:57.680 --> 0:22:01.520 can be Roy. So I'm like, what they do that background? 0:22:03.840 --> 0:22:04.640 About the background? 0:22:05.040 --> 0:22:09.520 Yeah, background, and that is a long story. So I'm sorry, celebrate. 0:22:10.320 --> 0:22:14.080 I mean, I'm a little lit too right now. I 0:22:14.080 --> 0:22:16.480 feel I've been talking for two hours. So it's like, 0:22:16.760 --> 0:22:21.960 I'm so sorry, God, forgive me Lord what we tell you? 0:22:22.040 --> 0:22:24.080 An exert out for real, because i feel like I'm. 0:22:23.920 --> 0:22:25.320 Watching a movie. 0:22:26.359 --> 0:22:27.000 Everyone watching me. 0:22:27.080 --> 0:22:31.840 I'm like, the picture and then you're doing the voice appreciation. 0:22:32.520 --> 0:22:34.720 So so he's like, go throone with the Netflix says, 0:22:34.800 --> 0:22:36.680 right now, I didn't want to start to you. I 0:22:36.760 --> 0:22:39.760 just want to handle business and then present the opportunity 0:22:39.880 --> 0:22:42.239 to you. Julian, I'm like, what do you mean, You're 0:22:42.280 --> 0:22:45.359 on the phone Netflix lawyers and he's like, I'm on 0:22:45.440 --> 0:22:47.080 the phone with Netflix lawyers, so I can tell you 0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:49.720 and in the next couple of hours they should be 0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:54.760 making the decision. So I'm like, what is going. 0:22:56.080 --> 0:22:58.160 The background check was a giveaway for me because they're 0:22:58.160 --> 0:22:58.600 not doing. 0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:03.680 That, is true. And then my manager at the time, 0:23:03.920 --> 0:23:07.920 James Trace, he was like, Yo, every time you do 0:23:08.000 --> 0:23:13.640 background checks, it usually usually got that thing. Lawyer, I'm 0:23:13.680 --> 0:23:16.359 not trying to get your host up, but usually got it. 0:23:16.440 --> 0:23:18.320 So I'm like, bro, I'm not getting my host up 0:23:18.359 --> 0:23:22.280 at all. This whole fucking process has been held. I'm 0:23:22.320 --> 0:23:24.600 not getting my host at all. And then I was 0:23:24.640 --> 0:23:29.560 at the gym and uh, I was just chilling and 0:23:29.720 --> 0:23:33.880 I was listening to music and then my music cut off. 0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:41.080 Someone's calling me. I said, be my mom, better not 0:23:41.160 --> 0:23:46.080 be my father, Better be my mother fucking agent agent. 0:23:47.320 --> 0:23:51.400 So I'm like, I'm like shaking a little bit. I'm like, oh, ship, 0:23:51.480 --> 0:23:56.280 I think this is the call. And then all my 0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:58.840 agents on the phone, Ron, Tina and James, my manager 0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:03.399 of agents, Julianne, you're there. I'm like, you called me. 0:24:03.600 --> 0:24:08.560 I answered, yeah, here, I'm here. We just wanted to 0:24:08.640 --> 0:24:10.520 tell you you got the part. 0:24:11.200 --> 0:24:14.960 Period. Did you cry? What did you do? What was exciting? 0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:19.080 I praise God? Yeah, I can almost cry think about 0:24:19.080 --> 0:24:22.160 it right now. I praise God and just like walked 0:24:22.640 --> 0:24:25.040 because I go to win. I'm gonna I'm not telling 0:24:25.080 --> 0:24:26.680 the niggas. The gym I go to. I go to 0:24:26.800 --> 0:24:31.359 the gym, get exactly. I go to this gym. I 0:24:31.520 --> 0:24:34.240 just walk around. They have a track there and I 0:24:34.440 --> 0:24:37.119 just I prayed for like an hour. Yeah, talking like 0:24:37.720 --> 0:24:40.680 we did it. We did it. We did it because 0:24:40.680 --> 0:24:43.520 I knew this show. I was like, this is the 0:24:43.640 --> 0:24:44.280 game change. 0:24:44.440 --> 0:24:44.640 Yeah. 0:24:45.320 --> 0:24:48.160 I've been acting for nine years and it's crazy Gota 0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:49.960 played football. It's so weird and it's like I did 0:24:50.040 --> 0:24:52.200 this whole journey. So if you really thought, like really 0:24:52.200 --> 0:24:57.240 thinking about I've been on this journey for twenty six years. Finally, Yeah, 0:24:57.560 --> 0:25:00.840 Netflix series series regular. 0:25:00.760 --> 0:25:06.040 And Tyler Perry. Tyler Perry. 0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:07.120 Paid because he's gonna. 0:25:06.960 --> 0:25:08.680 Use you over and over. 0:25:09.040 --> 0:25:11.600 He overpays too, because he wants to take care of people. 0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:14.040 And yeah, I got so much respect for that man. 0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:17.000 People talk a lot of ship here that they say 0:25:17.080 --> 0:25:20.280 this and whatever whatever, but it's like he takes care 0:25:20.320 --> 0:25:24.240 of his people. Yeah, yeah, he makes sure. He just 0:25:24.359 --> 0:25:27.400 make sure you straight. Because me and TP we don't 0:25:27.560 --> 0:25:28.080 have like a. 0:25:30.240 --> 0:25:30.520 I know. 0:25:32.880 --> 0:25:35.159 We like because some of the actors they talk to 0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:37.520 him more and have his number in talking text. Me 0:25:37.600 --> 0:25:39.680 and TV don't even talk like that. But when I 0:25:39.760 --> 0:25:41.960 come on that set, he knows I'm about the business. 0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:45.399 He knows that. He even says, like you walking down, 0:25:45.560 --> 0:25:47.840 you be walking around intimidating yourself. I'm like, I don't 0:25:47.880 --> 0:25:50.880 mean to be intimidating, but it's like I think it's 0:25:50.920 --> 0:25:52.760 the athlete. To me, it's like, when I come on 0:25:52.840 --> 0:25:55.320 that set, I'm here to do a job and be 0:25:55.440 --> 0:25:58.399 the best. I'm not here to just like act And 0:25:58.440 --> 0:25:59.960 I say that a lot on a lot of podcasts, 0:26:00.000 --> 0:26:02.640 like I want to be the best. Like I love 0:26:02.760 --> 0:26:08.720 this craft. I love this craft so much because it's therapeutic, 0:26:09.640 --> 0:26:15.200 it's meditative, and it's you get to be a different 0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:18.240 version in yourself while still being yourself do right right, 0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:21.359 and it's just amazing these cameras and you get the 0:26:21.400 --> 0:26:23.840 pain of story and it allows you to be present 0:26:23.960 --> 0:26:27.440 for real and it really does like that's and your 0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:30.920 actings fake, make believe. I'm like, no, it's not. When 0:26:30.920 --> 0:26:35.840 I'm in the scene, you can't tell me I'm not roal. Yeah, 0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:37.600 I really be feeling like I got to get out 0:26:37.640 --> 0:26:40.000 of it, like oh, and it doesn't take me all 0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:41.159 low to get out of it. But it's like when 0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:43.040 I'm in it, I'm present. I can teach you to 0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:45.199 be present like crazy, and it's amazing. 0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:47.760 I don't know, I feel like that's what good actors do. 0:26:47.880 --> 0:26:50.320 They I feel like you're supposed to make people feel 0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:52.399 like they should have be able to differentiate from the 0:26:52.520 --> 0:26:55.440 real person and the world that they're playing. And yeah, 0:26:55.520 --> 0:26:57.239 you be doing your thing on the show, because I'd 0:26:57.240 --> 0:26:59.840 be like this Nigga is something else I appreciate, right, 0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:01.240 But the whole. 0:27:01.080 --> 0:27:03.320 Show is just crazy. It's such a good show. 0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:06.040 Like I have been glued in since episode one, like 0:27:06.080 --> 0:27:08.879 when I found out the sequel to season one was 0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:12.400 coming out, because that was the whole season. Yeah, but yeah, 0:27:12.400 --> 0:27:14.040 when I found out the second part of season one 0:27:14.160 --> 0:27:15.879 was coming out, I was like, oh yeah, And I 0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:18.440 love that all of the episodes come out at once, 0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:21.440 because I hate when episodes come out weekly because I 0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:23.320 be on the edge of my seat wait until the 0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:25.800 next week. So I love that everything drops at once 0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:27.240 and you could just binge watching. 0:27:27.600 --> 0:27:29.560 Fact. Netflix does a great job with that because even 0:27:29.560 --> 0:27:31.080 with Paradise is a great show. 0:27:31.760 --> 0:27:38.119 That was love Paradise so good. Oh my goodness, Oh my, 0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:43.760 I couldn't sah, oh my, I mean k Brown, Oh 0:27:43.840 --> 0:27:48.720 he is phenomenon. Is one thing I love about like 0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:53.200 actors now especially I feel like they don't We see 0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:55.800 actors get type casts all the time, and I feel 0:27:55.880 --> 0:27:57.879 like with somebody like him, like he has played so 0:27:57.960 --> 0:28:01.200 many different types of roles, like it's so good. 0:28:01.400 --> 0:28:06.680 It is so good that show. Because I think the 0:28:06.720 --> 0:28:09.240 great thing about Netflix is like it's the number one 0:28:09.440 --> 0:28:12.440 streaming service, so anything goes Netflix, people gonna watch it. 0:28:12.520 --> 0:28:12.720 Yeah. 0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:18.800 There's a lot of great shows on other networks Apple TV, Yeah, Amazon, Prime, Hulu, 0:28:19.720 --> 0:28:22.840 and there's always a couple of shows that get out 0:28:22.880 --> 0:28:25.520 of that like box and be worldwide with it. And 0:28:25.600 --> 0:28:27.920 I think Paradise is one of those shows because I 0:28:28.040 --> 0:28:30.920 kept seeing people talk about Paradise. Let me just see 0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:34.320 what it's about. James Marsden. I love talking about acting. 0:28:34.320 --> 0:28:41.880 I'm sorry, James Marsden. It's so like charismatic. 0:28:43.200 --> 0:28:45.520 He's just it's hard not to like. 0:28:45.800 --> 0:28:48.400 Yeah, he really James Marsden is like I like and 0:28:48.600 --> 0:28:51.520 think about it. I really appreciate this conversation, by the way, 0:28:51.560 --> 0:28:56.560 because this is some nerdy shit. I love talking like 0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.080 he was Cyclops and I was like ten years old, 0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:01.440 Oh my god, watching them at Cyclops. 0:29:01.000 --> 0:29:05.840 And because don't get me started by Marble. 0:29:05.680 --> 0:29:08.760 Exactly, so he's Cyclops and this back then when this 0:29:08.880 --> 0:29:11.480 when we first seen Hugh Jackman, this Wolverine in the bar, 0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:14.280 that's what the first X Men should be seeing. And 0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.440 to see James mars I always liked him. I was like, 0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:19.080 he just and he was in the Notebook and ship 0:29:19.160 --> 0:29:22.680 like that. But he's always had this this charismmatic approach 0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:25.320 to his his roles and I like people like that. 0:29:25.520 --> 0:29:28.160 He's just likable, yeah, very like. And then you put 0:29:28.200 --> 0:29:31.760 stlan k Brown with him and Paradise in it, and 0:29:31.840 --> 0:29:34.520 it filtered into the whole world. Everyone's watching them, but 0:29:34.680 --> 0:29:36.000 you have to wait every week for it. 0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:36.640 Yeah, I know. 0:29:37.240 --> 0:29:40.040 The way I call him it late and I saw 0:29:40.240 --> 0:29:44.200 like seven episodes in Yeah, I got it on late, 0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:45.520 so I got to see it back to back to back. 0:29:45.800 --> 0:29:47.920 That's how I was with Game of Thrones. I started 0:29:47.920 --> 0:29:49.960 watching on like season four or five, so I was 0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:52.760 able to binge wie and it was easy. But I'm 0:29:52.760 --> 0:29:54.920 glad you brought that up because I feel like in 0:29:55.200 --> 0:29:58.160 movies and shows, people always talk about the chemistry between 0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:02.040 like a merry couple or like, you know, boyfriend and girlfriend, 0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:05.080 just like you know, you you're married, and how y'all 0:30:05.200 --> 0:30:07.440 in public are like oh and then behind closed doors, 0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:08.880 y'all hate each other. But a lot of times people 0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:11.480 don't talk about the importance of like chemistry that you 0:30:11.640 --> 0:30:13.840 have to have, like between your character and your brother, 0:30:14.480 --> 0:30:18.400 like it really looks like y'all are siblings for real. 0:30:18.880 --> 0:30:20.280 So a lot of times people don't talk about how 0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:22.920 important it is to have chemistry with your same sex 0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:25.480 coworkers that are just like, oh, this is my friend 0:30:25.560 --> 0:30:27.480 or this is my brother, this is my mother. O. 0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:30.040 Can you talk about like that a little bit? Like yeah, 0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:32.040 how you have to work on that? Like that? 0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:36.640 That is can I drink speaking to call me in. 0:30:36.640 --> 0:30:39.240 Out of the shot too. You know, I love a 0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:41.719 little movie talk. Now I'll be watching movies all day. 0:30:41.720 --> 0:30:44.240 I'm a movie here at me. Let me say something like, 0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:47.440 first and foremost, a lot of my my cast makes 0:30:47.480 --> 0:30:52.400 my co stars. I love them eternally. What you said 0:30:52.560 --> 0:30:57.320 is so important for the success of the show. That 0:30:57.520 --> 0:31:01.280 is actually I gotta yeah, I gotta y'all amazing. I 0:31:01.360 --> 0:31:02.600 gotta keep saying that first. 0:31:02.960 --> 0:31:06.040 Thank you, gosh, thank you. 0:31:06.160 --> 0:31:08.760 We appreciate talk after I get to do this. This 0:31:08.800 --> 0:31:13.280 is my life is amazing. But it's like, it's way different. 0:31:14.640 --> 0:31:19.280 This is incredible. I have to I have to talk exactly. 0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:24.920 It's great. But that is a great topic and great 0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:27.120 like speaking point because like people don't know about that. 0:31:28.320 --> 0:31:31.080 People watch shows. This show is great, it's amazing. They 0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:34.720 don't really know what goes into it. Me and Steven, 0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:42.520 first time I met him, who plays Charles Energy comes 0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:45.560 to the set with his boombox and like comes, I'm 0:31:45.600 --> 0:31:49.800 like this nigga right here is different. Okay, but I'm 0:31:49.960 --> 0:31:51.560 Energy too, but I'm like different though I'm not the 0:31:51.640 --> 0:31:56.520 boombox guy. He's like, what's popping? That's that he always 0:31:56.600 --> 0:32:00.160 what's popping? You know, And he's just playing point the 0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:03.040 way he is. I'm like, this guy is funny. 0:32:03.400 --> 0:32:03.600 Yeah. 0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:05.720 And from the get I was like, you know, we're 0:32:05.720 --> 0:32:08.520 brothers in the show. Yeah, they gotta no Yeah, and 0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:12.840 we just off rip off rip and we were cool 0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:18.720 from day one, and that really helped our energy on screen. 0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:24.760 It really helped it. Crystal Stewart I could cry. I 0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:31.200 could cry it by her. Yeah, that dog. Christal Stewart, 0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:34.920 I have like a special I was getting momtional talking 0:32:34.920 --> 0:32:36.640 about her. I know that stuff's crazy, but it's like 0:32:37.280 --> 0:32:41.400 she is one of the most special people I ever 0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:46.400 met in my life. She is the goat. Crystal Stewart 0:32:46.600 --> 0:32:52.120 is the goat, like because it's crazy because I filmed 0:32:54.280 --> 0:32:57.680 on a Saturday my first scene, and they had already 0:32:57.680 --> 0:33:00.320 been filming the whole week, you know, because acting different, 0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:04.040 everyone's scheduling and everything. Locations are different. I filmed them 0:33:04.040 --> 0:33:05.800 on a Saturday, and I film my first scene. I 0:33:05.880 --> 0:33:09.160 did it, and then we had to like go to 0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:12.200 this other location that was like two hours away to 0:33:12.320 --> 0:33:15.360 film this scene which we didn't even film, so we 0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:18.920 like drove in Maine, but it wasn't in main Because 0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:21.080 me and Crystal we knew that we were playing a 0:33:21.120 --> 0:33:23.120 husband and wife. We haven't really got to talk that 0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:25.760 much yet. We knew we're playing husband and wife, but 0:33:25.880 --> 0:33:28.040 that two hour ride, we just got to know each 0:33:28.040 --> 0:33:34.120 other and we talked about everything, and I mean everything, 0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:35.600 and it was like she was like, oh my gosh, 0:33:36.040 --> 0:33:38.680 I didn't know you were like this because when people 0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:41.720 see me, they probably think I'm gonna act differently than Yah. Yeah. 0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:46.160 It was big anybody Jack And I'm really a goofball 0:33:46.600 --> 0:33:48.120 and I don't take life serious at all because the 0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:49.440 only thing you got to take serious in life is 0:33:49.520 --> 0:33:52.320 doing good for God, your career, your family, and that's 0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:54.760 really it. Everything that is a bonus. Have fun, nigga. 0:33:55.280 --> 0:33:57.320 We all leave this urf one day to have fun. 0:33:57.400 --> 0:33:59.080 So that's how I lived my life. And she was like, 0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:01.440 I didn't know you're like this. This is crazy and 0:34:02.760 --> 0:34:04.520 we bonded for the two hours and next you know, 0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:07.680 we're like this. Yeah, and every system we've been like this. 0:34:07.840 --> 0:34:14.000 So that is pivotal and crucial for the success of 0:34:14.040 --> 0:34:14.319 the show. 0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:16.719 I like her because you look at her and she 0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:19.880 gives like stone cold bitch. She does, but when you 0:34:20.000 --> 0:34:23.800 see her interviews, she is like these sweetest She's so 0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:26.400 sweet she is the sweetest person. I'm like, how is 0:34:26.480 --> 0:34:29.960 this the same part? Because I cannot stand her ask No, 0:34:30.320 --> 0:34:32.319 she literally what I said. 0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:35.120 That's when you know people are really really good at 0:34:35.160 --> 0:34:37.360 their craft, at their job, because they will make you 0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:39.719 hate the characters to the point that in real life 0:34:39.760 --> 0:34:42.359 you'll be like, I can't say in this first it's 0:34:42.400 --> 0:34:45.239 the same person speaking of your speaking of your other 0:34:45.320 --> 0:34:48.719 co stars. You're working with the legendary Debbie Morgan. How 0:34:48.840 --> 0:34:51.560 is that because she has been yeah, your mom on 0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:52.000 the show. 0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:59.160 She yes, Deie Morrigan, Yes, Miss Debbie. God. I can 0:34:59.200 --> 0:35:02.080 get emotional talking about these people because it's like such 0:35:02.080 --> 0:35:06.160 a life changing thing that's happened in my life. So 0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:09.400 it's so funny because you have the I think, the 0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:13.520 the the the young actors, and it's like it's like 0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:17.960 two groups young actors me Charles A. K, Stephen Northfleet, 0:35:18.320 --> 0:35:20.719 amber Raine Smith who plays Rain Taylor, Polo Door who 0:35:20.719 --> 0:35:23.600 plays Kimmy, Crystal Too plays Mallory, and then you got 0:35:23.640 --> 0:35:31.160 the old actors who plays Horrors, Malik Whitfield who plays Jules, 0:35:31.239 --> 0:35:36.239 Debbie Morgan plays my mom, Richard Lawson yea. So it's 0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:40.399 like he's like two different groups Debbie Morgan, and it's 0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:43.680 crazy because she was on that one show. Who knows 0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.000 the show? Who knows the show? Who knows the show? 0:35:46.040 --> 0:35:49.839 Out there? What show did you play on? Again? Put 0:35:49.880 --> 0:35:53.480 on the show. It's like my mommy to watch, well, 0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:55.640 I know she was in love and basket all my children, 0:35:57.400 --> 0:36:01.480 all my children, So my mom's like I loved all 0:36:01.520 --> 0:36:05.040 my children and then loving basketball playing the mother who 0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:09.800 is like, you know, he's working with it exactly. So 0:36:10.680 --> 0:36:12.480 seeing her and doing all these things and she gets 0:36:12.480 --> 0:36:15.480 to be my mom priceless. 0:36:15.440 --> 0:36:17.160 And I like seeing her because I said, it's all 0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:18.640 a parent. I don't cut now now. 0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:21.200 She said that though online she had ended up saying 0:36:21.239 --> 0:36:24.520 like she's been having the time of her life playing because. 0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:25.160 It's so different. 0:36:28.480 --> 0:36:31.920 She ass she has and she Miss Debbie is so sweet, 0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:33.440 She's so kind. 0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:34.400 You know what I like to do. 0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:36.880 I like hanging out with the old head. Yeah. I 0:36:36.920 --> 0:36:38.440 don't even try to call the old heads, but like 0:36:38.560 --> 0:36:43.160 Richard Lawson is funny, Michal Lawson Fox with me because 0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:48.440 I always love hanging out with old heads. They invite 0:36:48.480 --> 0:36:50.560 me to dinner the rest of their cast won go, 0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:53.960 I'll go. I need to hear it the stories. 0:36:54.120 --> 0:36:55.120 Yeah, they got some story. 0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:57.800 The energy, the essence of these people. I need to 0:36:57.880 --> 0:37:00.680 be around because I think it's like, bro, I look 0:37:00.680 --> 0:37:06.000 at my elak wet Field, man man, man man, I 0:37:06.080 --> 0:37:09.879 can get him fucking crying, get emotional. My fucking father 0:37:10.120 --> 0:37:14.279 was fucking crazy. Wouldn't make me and my brother at 0:37:14.320 --> 0:37:19.799 seven years old perform all dentation songs. Beauty's only skin deep? 0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:28.400 Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, my you can go just not. 0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:33.439 It's so many songs. He's temptations. Did my dad would 0:37:33.480 --> 0:37:36.320 make me perform this ship I'm six and seven, nervous 0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:39.759 as fucked in front of people randomly perform the temptations? 0:37:40.280 --> 0:37:40.480 Do it? 0:37:40.600 --> 0:37:45.920 Now? That sounds like you crazy? I like it. 0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:46.680 I got to ask. 0:37:47.480 --> 0:37:51.040 I see that now that my dad's just get me 0:37:51.080 --> 0:37:54.239 anxiety because you're so fucking the asshole. But ay, but 0:37:54.320 --> 0:37:57.160 the thing, but the thing about it, it's like he 0:37:57.200 --> 0:37:59.600 would make me perform these songs. And like, Otis is 0:37:59.680 --> 0:38:02.960 huge to Malik Whitfield. He's been acting for so long. 0:38:03.960 --> 0:38:05.319 So when I saw he was a part of the cast, 0:38:05.360 --> 0:38:11.239 I'm like, Otis, this is crazy. And to see now 0:38:13.200 --> 0:38:16.640 now and to see now our relationship because we were 0:38:16.680 --> 0:38:18.600 cool from day one. I told him, I said, I said, 0:38:19.600 --> 0:38:21.600 it's Woodfield. I just want to tell you, man, I 0:38:21.840 --> 0:38:24.760 review you, Bro, I review you. I gotta give your flowers. 0:38:24.920 --> 0:38:28.200 One of the greatest actors I've ever seen. I respect 0:38:28.239 --> 0:38:30.840 you so much. Temptations is one of my favorite movies, 0:38:31.680 --> 0:38:39.760 and he loved that. And we're super cool. I think everybody. 0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:43.600 I think me and like, he's like he's like my uncle, 0:38:43.760 --> 0:38:46.640 almost older brother type shit. You know what I'm saying, Like, 0:38:46.719 --> 0:38:49.959 we're super cool, and I love him and he's so great, 0:38:50.080 --> 0:38:52.040 and so to work with Debbie Morgan and to work 0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:54.840 with Malik Whitfield and Richard Laws, and to be around 0:38:54.960 --> 0:38:57.160 these people that have been in the industry for so long. 0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:00.480 I get emotional thinking about it because it's like it's 0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:03.680 greating us. Yeah, they've had to endure so many things. 0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:06.600 They've seen the seventies, naties, in the sixties when things 0:39:06.640 --> 0:39:10.200 weren't like really as open and as dope as it 0:39:10.320 --> 0:39:12.399 is now. You know what I'm saying, they had to fight. 0:39:13.080 --> 0:39:16.040 And with Tyler, what he's doing for black artists and 0:39:16.120 --> 0:39:19.040 black actors and actresses is priceless. 0:39:19.280 --> 0:39:22.880 I will always love Tyler Perry because people always like 0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:25.560 to say, oh my gosh, this a plot is so 0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:28.480 far fascist. So this is so dramatic. At the end 0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:32.080 of the day, he is doing something that Hollywood just 0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:35.320 wasn't doing, and it's given black actors jobs. I'm sorry 0:39:35.360 --> 0:39:37.520 to be mad at somebody that is keeping black people 0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:40.120 employed is crazy. 0:39:40.040 --> 0:39:42.920 And like he said, overpaying them at that because I 0:39:43.080 --> 0:39:45.320 saw an article two where he was saying how he 0:39:45.440 --> 0:39:48.200 paid Sicily Tyson for an hour of work one million 0:39:48.280 --> 0:39:51.000 dollars just because of all of the injustice that she 0:39:51.160 --> 0:39:53.600 endured throughout her career and not being paid properly. 0:39:53.680 --> 0:39:56.400 I think that's an amazing thing. Even when Duvel had 0:39:56.440 --> 0:39:59.960 came on here he was saying how he has made 0:40:00.160 --> 0:40:02.359 more money working with Tyler Perry than he ever made 0:40:02.400 --> 0:40:04.080 in the league he ever made. 0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:05.680 You know what I'm saying, it's so funny you say 0:40:05.719 --> 0:40:09.120 that because I was always wondering. I said why because 0:40:09.280 --> 0:40:12.360 to me, my dream is like I want to be 0:40:12.480 --> 0:40:15.560 like Will Smith movie star. I want to be the 0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:18.640 biggest actor in the world, which I still do, and 0:40:18.760 --> 0:40:21.560 that's my dream. And I was always wonder said, why 0:40:21.600 --> 0:40:23.799 do people just like stay at Tyler Perry Land though 0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:26.000 they don't want to venture out the other things. 0:40:27.640 --> 0:40:30.080 Now you see, oh. 0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:36.319 Keeps niggas employed. It is paid and niggas on front 0:40:36.320 --> 0:40:40.640 of your TV. And it's really hard out here. This 0:40:40.840 --> 0:40:44.160 acting shit is hard. Not gonna lie to you. Even 0:40:44.320 --> 0:40:47.560 like while I'm doing Beating Black, auditions haven't been coming 0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:50.840 in like that. Really they have, like they because this 0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:52.960 is the thing. Once you do a show like this, 0:40:54.520 --> 0:40:58.439 it gets tougher because now all the things you're doing 0:40:58.840 --> 0:41:01.600 is like everything it has to be top notch. Yeah, 0:41:01.800 --> 0:41:06.400 I can't go down. Stay here now that opportunities are 0:41:06.520 --> 0:41:09.400 few in between because all the greats and all the 0:41:09.480 --> 0:41:12.759 great actors are going for one part right, So it 0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:15.920 makes it harder. So I understand now why people stay 0:41:15.960 --> 0:41:18.279 with T because it's YO TV. Don't keep be employed. Yeah, 0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:21.279 he don't keep me paid. I ain't got work six 0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:24.960 months out of the year. And it's more like you 0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:26.920 get this much amount of money. He gets so much 0:41:26.960 --> 0:41:29.560 money and then it's like, all right, enjoy a year. 0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:32.480 Do you know any other actors that auditioned for Roy 0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:35.400 anybody that we would know? 0:41:36.800 --> 0:41:41.440 No, I saw one dude's in Stagrad one time. That's 0:41:41.480 --> 0:41:47.879 pretty funny. But anyways, yeah, that's what you wanted. To say, 0:41:48.680 --> 0:41:50.040 it wasn't like that. It was just like it was 0:41:50.320 --> 0:41:53.320 just a different a different vibe. It's so different. It 0:41:53.440 --> 0:41:57.200 was like it was different. But shout out to him, though, shout. 0:41:57.000 --> 0:41:59.160 Out to him. Well, before we get into the topics, 0:41:59.200 --> 0:42:00.360 how what are we drinking today? 0:42:00.719 --> 0:42:04.200 Well, since we're talking about TP, mister Julian Horton over here, 0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:05.520 we're gonna call this. 0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:08.319 One beauty and black. All right, make sure y'all tune 0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:09.920 in on Netflix. This one. 0:42:09.960 --> 0:42:12.239 You're gonna have any spirit of choice in there. We 0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:15.800 have some muddled blackberries and some muddled basil. We added 0:42:15.840 --> 0:42:17.800 some lemon juice and a little bit of uzu and 0:42:17.880 --> 0:42:21.000 pineapple syrup, and then we topped it off with a 0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:23.640 little bit of lime sparkling water, and we garnish it 0:42:23.680 --> 0:42:26.759 with a beautiful basil, so still fresh herbal, very. 0:42:26.719 --> 0:42:30.640 Spring forward and very beauty and black. This is real, 0:42:31.800 --> 0:42:34.760 it's world juicy, it's good. It's a little. 0:42:36.239 --> 0:42:36.399 Yes. 0:42:37.960 --> 0:42:41.680 I love this beautiful. I can't. I can't get to 0:42:41.719 --> 0:42:42.480 shut my head. 0:42:43.760 --> 0:42:45.640 Julie, are you having a good today? 0:42:46.400 --> 0:42:47.560 Beauty and black? For real? 0:42:48.880 --> 0:42:51.080 I'm a vulnerable guy. I'm a very emotional guy. You 0:42:51.320 --> 0:42:55.880 are cry like six because I'm not. I'm not a 0:42:56.760 --> 0:43:00.319 my kismo. What's that word? My chismo? Not that nigga. 0:43:01.000 --> 0:43:03.799 I don't give a funk. Yeah, I'm bury in two 0:43:03.880 --> 0:43:09.520 of my emotions. What's your sign Sagittarius? All girl? Exactly exactly. 0:43:10.120 --> 0:43:13.759 I was thinking of Jesus Leo, what do you? 0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:14.840 I'm a tourist? 0:43:15.520 --> 0:43:17.480 Side made something? 0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:18.400 No, April. 0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:26.200 Actually between close close, you're going the wrong way, fourth close. 0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:31.440 Third second, Yeah, I am, I am. 0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:34.200 But the funny thing is people say that all the time, 0:43:34.320 --> 0:43:35.960 like in our comments and stuff. They be like, you 0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:41.960 kind of give aries vibes. Yeah, I'm aries, I'm aries tourist. Cuspy, 0:43:42.120 --> 0:43:45.320 I'm like right here, I am a custy. 0:43:45.640 --> 0:43:45.960 I love. 0:43:47.760 --> 0:43:48.560 And when's your birthday? 0:43:48.800 --> 0:43:55.480 August seventeenth? So you really because the death of me, 0:43:55.800 --> 0:43:57.279 there has no cusp. 0:43:57.239 --> 0:44:03.480 Nothing that's I am. I'm December twelve, twelve twelve. 0:44:03.719 --> 0:44:06.600 There you go, have a good birthday because then it 0:44:06.680 --> 0:44:08.880 is four thousands and twenty twelve. 0:44:08.920 --> 0:44:10.600 Your birthday was twelve twelve twelve. 0:44:10.840 --> 0:44:13.640 Exactly, you know what? You know what happened on twelve 0:44:13.680 --> 0:44:14.200 twelve twelve? 0:44:14.280 --> 0:44:14.760 What happened? 0:44:15.360 --> 0:44:16.239 I turned twenty one? 0:44:16.640 --> 0:44:19.320 Oh that is great. 0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:20.920 I didn't make mistakes. 0:44:22.040 --> 0:44:23.200 God, it was turned up. 0:44:23.239 --> 0:44:27.359 On Jay twelve, Ja missed birthday back. We threw one 0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:32.680 crazy ass party. It's still it's top three to this day. 0:44:32.840 --> 0:44:36.440 No, that's so cool twenty one on twelve twelve, twenty one. 0:44:36.480 --> 0:44:40.920 On twelve twelve, Niggas was coming from Craigslist. It was 0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:42.400 like a project ex party. 0:44:42.560 --> 0:44:43.640 Craigslist is nuts. 0:44:43.880 --> 0:44:48.719 Your brother heard everybody's I said, bro, you came with 0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:51.520 four guys. There's no girls with you. I said, guess what, 0:44:51.960 --> 0:44:54.000 guess what, I'm not going to kick you out. I'm 0:44:54.000 --> 0:44:56.319 not going to kick you out. Go get more liquor 0:44:56.360 --> 0:45:01.759 though anything you want. Brott a girl exactly. And that's 0:45:01.800 --> 0:45:03.960 what happened. And it's like, so, yeah, it's not it's 0:45:03.960 --> 0:45:05.279 not by coincidence. You know. 0:45:06.200 --> 0:45:09.520 Yeah, you definitely have fire sign energy. And I'm not 0:45:09.600 --> 0:45:11.520 even a person. I'm like, I'm really not into like 0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:15.759 a yeah, but like the base level I find interesting, like, 0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:17.000 you know, just the base level. 0:45:17.040 --> 0:45:18.719 I'm the same way because people are like, I don't 0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:23.800 believe it ship, Like, well, I'm like, okay, so the 0:45:23.920 --> 0:45:27.879 horoscope thing, Okay, I don't believe that this ship knows 0:45:27.920 --> 0:45:32.000 your future. I believe God and Yeshua, but like you 0:45:32.160 --> 0:45:35.520 just said the foundation and the base level of things 0:45:36.680 --> 0:45:37.680 it because they. 0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:41.040 It's very accurate. 0:45:40.800 --> 0:45:46.160 Because something I think some signs. Obviously there's like surface 0:45:46.239 --> 0:45:51.239 level ship like I like peace, everyone's but when it 0:45:51.280 --> 0:45:53.759 comes to savg is and like freedom and fun and 0:45:54.000 --> 0:45:59.440 like philosophical and kind of blunt and yeah, every nigga 0:45:59.480 --> 0:46:01.480 I met it's like that for sure. 0:46:02.120 --> 0:46:04.080 My best friend is such a serious and she's like 0:46:04.160 --> 0:46:04.480 that too. 0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:07.240 Yeah, so I do agree. 0:46:07.360 --> 0:46:11.400 I feel like it's it's certain things that if everybody 0:46:11.560 --> 0:46:14.400 is this sign, like they normally have these things in common. 0:46:14.520 --> 0:46:16.400 Like I feel like with tauruses, people say we're like, 0:46:16.560 --> 0:46:19.920 really stubborn. I haven't really met a hors. It's not stubborn, I. 0:46:20.080 --> 0:46:22.279 Tell you so. Peop were like, it's fake, it's fake. 0:46:22.880 --> 0:46:26.759 I saw that Karen Kieran Kolkin was saying that when 0:46:26.800 --> 0:46:29.279 he was with Coleman Domingo, the actuals and actress. It's 0:46:29.320 --> 0:46:32.600 like she's take I'm like, bro, I don't know, Bro, 0:46:32.719 --> 0:46:33.440 it's it's it's. 0:46:33.400 --> 0:46:37.560 Just it's it's pretty. It would be sometimes I'll be like, yeah, 0:46:37.880 --> 0:46:38.719 you're definitely. 0:46:38.440 --> 0:46:40.320 Giving this because the thing about it, I didn't know 0:46:40.360 --> 0:46:42.880 about the ship until my ex girlfriend who I'm not 0:46:42.920 --> 0:46:46.360 even gonna say her fucking name, but she she she, 0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:50.520 she's such a sage. It's such a sad nigga. I say, 0:46:50.560 --> 0:46:53.879 what does that mean. It's like was in college. It's 0:46:53.960 --> 0:46:57.239 just it's such a sad and now I looked up 0:46:57.880 --> 0:47:00.480 like the foundation of it in like the character wristics, 0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:09.080 you know, freedom open honest, yeah, times and does kind 0:47:09.120 --> 0:47:11.560 of sound like me a lot of energy. She was 0:47:11.600 --> 0:47:14.920 a Capricorn and we sucked. 0:47:15.239 --> 0:47:15.919 Yeah for sure. 0:47:16.800 --> 0:47:22.080 I don't know. Socked in. 0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:25.640 Sign that was in a long term relationship with a 0:47:25.680 --> 0:47:28.840 Capricorn as well. Never again horrible. 0:47:28.600 --> 0:47:30.680 As a Taurus that has dady a Capricorn. 0:47:34.040 --> 0:47:36.680 I have watched paint draw that entertained me more. 0:47:37.880 --> 0:47:43.000 Capricorn is so like nothing but my homeboys cool, but 0:47:43.520 --> 0:47:45.640 the girl Capricorn, and then it might be cool for 0:47:45.680 --> 0:47:46.600 another nigga, not for me. 0:47:46.960 --> 0:47:52.439 But it's like on his death bed a com Yeah, 0:47:52.520 --> 0:47:53.080 I don't know. 0:47:53.360 --> 0:47:56.720 I feel like that's when when your mol and rising 0:47:56.920 --> 0:47:59.440 has to like count to because of Capricorn. 0:47:59.520 --> 0:48:00.480 Capricorn. She was. 0:48:00.640 --> 0:48:02.640 She was mad at me because like you think you're 0:48:02.640 --> 0:48:05.480 a free spirit, nigga, I'm like, yeah, I'm free, Yeah, 0:48:05.680 --> 0:48:09.560 I'm real live life. So the thing about it, so 0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:14.280 my thing was like I looked at the worst compatible 0:48:14.360 --> 0:48:21.080 signs and new mirror on the list, Sagittarius, Capricorn, they 0:48:21.160 --> 0:48:24.279 hate the freedom of a Sanitarius. They're they're passive, mystic 0:48:24.320 --> 0:48:28.080 and realistic, and I'm just like Capricorns here, no one's 0:48:28.120 --> 0:48:30.480 can thank God at the end of the day. So 0:48:30.600 --> 0:48:33.000 so so so I'm not going in I'm going crazy. 0:48:33.239 --> 0:48:37.560 But it's like it was literally describing the problems we're 0:48:37.680 --> 0:48:42.279 facing in real time. And that's when I was like, 0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:47.960 maybe there is some truth to the zodiaction because this 0:48:48.080 --> 0:48:50.560 is my theory. I always think of it like God 0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:52.360 made it on some ship, like yeah, if you're in 0:48:52.400 --> 0:48:54.319 this category, you're this way. You're in this category, you're 0:48:54.360 --> 0:48:57.000 this way. If you're in this born, if you're born 0:48:57.040 --> 0:49:00.400 this day, you're this way. Because like God could do 0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:02.960 it because he's he's the creator, he's in the Alpha 0:49:02.960 --> 0:49:05.959 and Omega. He couldn't make everyone like personally just different, different, different, 0:49:05.960 --> 0:49:09.279 But I think he's putting niggas under like categories. It's like, yeah, 0:49:09.440 --> 0:49:13.759 you're sad, y'all free, Libro you this way and get 0:49:13.840 --> 0:49:16.400 Cabricori this way, and go find it. The niggas that 0:49:16.520 --> 0:49:18.040 mess with you and mess with you for. 0:49:18.080 --> 0:49:19.600 Real, mesh. 0:49:21.000 --> 0:49:24.520 Yeah, because you know, you know it's a positive and 0:49:24.560 --> 0:49:27.200 a negative thing. And it's like, because you know, fire 0:49:27.480 --> 0:49:32.880 and air spos to match, and if you think about 0:49:32.920 --> 0:49:35.879 the elements, it makes sense. So if you think about fire, 0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:39.919 it's burning the bushes burning. What is what makes fire 0:49:40.000 --> 0:49:44.600 spread air? When it's everywhere? 0:49:44.680 --> 0:49:44.759 Now? 0:49:44.840 --> 0:49:47.719 Oh fuck exactly because I need that. I need someone 0:49:47.760 --> 0:49:49.120 to be like you can be yourself. 0:49:49.400 --> 0:49:50.640 Yeah, for sure? 0:49:50.800 --> 0:49:54.399 Earth and water and earth right here? What makes earth 0:49:54.480 --> 0:50:00.480 grow water? And what puts out fucking fire? Water? And 0:50:00.600 --> 0:50:09.000 what just fire burned Earth's ship? That's at truth to 0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:10.080 That's all I'm saying. 0:50:10.160 --> 0:50:12.400 But you know what they say about sacretaries men, They 0:50:12.440 --> 0:50:14.719 say that y'all have issues with monogamy. 0:50:15.800 --> 0:50:16.320 Mm hmmm. 0:50:16.920 --> 0:50:19.080 I think that's all means cameras, cameras. 0:50:20.080 --> 0:50:23.040 Sagittaries mean they love to They love the freedom of 0:50:23.200 --> 0:50:27.200 being able to day open. He was all about about 0:50:27.239 --> 0:50:29.160 six times he did freedom. 0:50:29.280 --> 0:50:32.959 He said freedom. Like that that's what sparked the thought. 0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:39.520 I said, freedom, haven't even we haven't. 0:50:39.680 --> 0:50:49.000 Okay, one more time, one more time freedom. 0:50:49.480 --> 0:50:53.480 Yeah, my friend is like that too, that's what. 0:50:56.120 --> 0:50:59.839 Yeah, across the board with sagittaries though, because like I said, 0:50:59.880 --> 0:51:01.839 my homegirl is like that, I'm gonna cry. 0:51:02.680 --> 0:51:04.560 He got to crawl for the seven song. 0:51:06.520 --> 0:51:08.919 Joy Job. 0:51:10.600 --> 0:51:12.839 You need a little more Jack. We're probably gonna get 0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:15.319 a tier by the end of the episode. Okay, what's 0:51:15.400 --> 0:51:17.279 up y'all? As your Girl XP and it's your Girls 0:51:17.320 --> 0:51:19.200 Tray on a call. 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I think that 0:53:41.000 --> 0:53:42.600 it's a really good topic because I don't know if 0:53:42.640 --> 0:53:47.800 y'all have heard of lavender marriages, but it's a particular 0:53:47.920 --> 0:53:49.000 couple I want to say. 0:53:49.080 --> 0:53:50.759 Who they were on. 0:53:51.160 --> 0:53:54.440 A blog like a few weeks ago, and people were 0:53:54.440 --> 0:53:56.960 in the comings that they think that they're in a 0:53:57.040 --> 0:53:57.880 lavender marriage. 0:53:57.880 --> 0:53:59.040 Wow, okay, with. 0:53:59.080 --> 0:54:02.759 A man and a woman and obviously she's a singer. 0:54:02.600 --> 0:54:06.120 And he is like a producer. Okay, but explain to 0:54:06.160 --> 0:54:07.640 the people what a lavender marriage is. 0:54:08.080 --> 0:54:14.279 Basically when two people get married to kind of the 0:54:14.800 --> 0:54:18.400 cover one of the people's hidden secrets, like the person 0:54:18.520 --> 0:54:21.560 might be a lesbian, but they feel like it will 0:54:21.600 --> 0:54:24.680 affect their image, to affect their career if the world knows. 0:54:24.760 --> 0:54:26.480 So they get in a marriage with say one of 0:54:26.520 --> 0:54:29.880 their homeboys, one of their best friends, to create the 0:54:29.920 --> 0:54:32.640 facade that they are a happy couple, they have children together, 0:54:33.080 --> 0:54:36.000 everything because it's a good looking it's about status an image, 0:54:36.200 --> 0:54:39.520 but in real life they have whole separate life or 0:54:39.600 --> 0:54:41.640 like the woman might have a girlfriend on the side, 0:54:42.120 --> 0:54:44.719 the guy might have a woman that he's dealing with 0:54:44.840 --> 0:54:46.640 on the side, but they're just together for the immages. 0:54:46.760 --> 0:54:49.840 M hm. So, And there is another side to lavender 0:54:49.880 --> 0:54:52.720 marriages as well, because sometimes lavender marriages is like an agreement. 0:54:53.239 --> 0:54:56.759 They still want that family structure. But you know, it 0:54:56.840 --> 0:54:59.840 may be a gay guy and she like, you know, 0:55:00.160 --> 0:55:03.800 so lavenger marriage, like she said, it's an arrangement. And 0:55:03.920 --> 0:55:08.440 I think that's interesting, especially for you, Like now that 0:55:09.000 --> 0:55:10.600 you know, you went from like you said, you were 0:55:10.680 --> 0:55:15.560 driving uber and now you're literally on everybody's TV screen 0:55:16.120 --> 0:55:19.719 and we see this a lot pr relationships or things 0:55:19.800 --> 0:55:21.680 like that. So do you feel like now like it 0:55:21.680 --> 0:55:23.920 would be like, you know, if you popped out with 0:55:23.960 --> 0:55:26.279 a little sizza or a kid, keep palm or do 0:55:26.400 --> 0:55:28.960 you feel like that's something that you would do. 0:55:29.600 --> 0:55:33.280 No, I wouldn't do it. I'm to trill, but nigga trial. 0:55:33.400 --> 0:55:39.320 You've been in Texas, trill real whatever, trill whatever. Okay, 0:55:39.560 --> 0:55:43.920 Now I wouldn't. I wouldn't do that. Yeah, I just 0:55:44.880 --> 0:55:47.480 I don't give a fuck. I just don't give a ship. 0:55:48.719 --> 0:55:50.960 Now you know what really keeps mind? Keep going? 0:55:53.280 --> 0:55:55.480 Go ahead, Look we're in it now. 0:55:55.480 --> 0:55:56.280 I'm a little teaty. 0:55:56.360 --> 0:55:59.560 Now get into a safe space because I'm not gonna lot. 0:55:59.719 --> 0:56:02.239 I don't think I get what you're saying. Like you 0:56:02.320 --> 0:56:05.160 a little too real. But I feel like sometimes when 0:56:05.200 --> 0:56:07.600 you got a little press run, they don't got to 0:56:07.640 --> 0:56:08.759 be like we in love or Mary. 0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:10.799 But if we can show up to a little red carpet. 0:56:10.520 --> 0:56:13.720 Event together whole hands, take some pictures, get the blogs talking, 0:56:14.080 --> 0:56:14.560 I wouldn't. 0:56:14.560 --> 0:56:15.040 I would do that. 0:56:17.120 --> 0:56:21.080 I wouldn't knock anyone for doing that because I definitely 0:56:21.200 --> 0:56:24.200 understand the objective behind it and the principle behind it, 0:56:24.239 --> 0:56:30.439 because it does work in the media medium makes people 0:56:30.600 --> 0:56:34.240 famous for real of course, because that's you know, it's crazy. 0:56:35.320 --> 0:56:38.960 I was like going to different topics. You know, it's crazy. 0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:43.320 I don't like call myself. I hate call myself a 0:56:43.400 --> 0:56:48.040 celebrity or famous. I don't like saying that. But this 0:56:48.200 --> 0:56:51.960 notable ship that's happened to me, I'm still me, and 0:56:52.120 --> 0:56:54.440 I do like dumb ship, and I don't make my 0:56:54.480 --> 0:57:00.640 bench sometimes and and it's like you're so meat. I'm 0:57:00.680 --> 0:57:05.080 messy sometimes and I'm broken and all this ship and 0:57:05.200 --> 0:57:08.480 I think that, like I don't even know what the 0:57:08.520 --> 0:57:10.080 fucking I wanted to do with this because that Jack 0:57:10.200 --> 0:57:18.280 just said fucking niggaships yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, so yeah, 0:57:18.320 --> 0:57:20.720 so it's like, yeah, I don't think I have to 0:57:20.760 --> 0:57:22.480 do that. I think you would, though I wouldn't. 0:57:22.720 --> 0:57:26.320 If somebody presented to you and it made sense, I 0:57:26.440 --> 0:57:27.080 think you would do it. 0:57:27.200 --> 0:57:31.440 I couldn't do it because I'm too like this is 0:57:31.480 --> 0:57:32.800 thinking about me, and this is why I want to 0:57:32.840 --> 0:57:38.680 promote realness. I hate celebrity culture. I hate it. I 0:57:38.800 --> 0:57:41.560 hate this ship, I really do. I'm not gonna say 0:57:41.560 --> 0:57:47.560 I hate it. I just like it because, like I 0:57:47.680 --> 0:57:54.000 just said, media and people have elevated certain people to 0:57:54.160 --> 0:57:58.600 a certain stratosphere and a certain fucking I can't even 0:57:58.640 --> 0:58:02.640 think of the word looking for but anyway, certain straight sphere. 0:58:03.400 --> 0:58:06.840 And we're idolizing the wrong things. 0:58:07.000 --> 0:58:09.439 Yeah, Like my thing is this and this is the truth. 0:58:09.440 --> 0:58:12.760 I'm not perfect. I'm a sinner. I make mistakes. But 0:58:12.880 --> 0:58:14.760 when I say God is the greatest, I mean that. 0:58:14.920 --> 0:58:17.720 And I'm not perfect. I make mistake. I me and 0:58:17.800 --> 0:58:20.040 God talk. We talk, and I say, I know, I 0:58:20.120 --> 0:58:21.800 know I'm doing this right now. I gotta get better. 0:58:21.840 --> 0:58:22.200 I know I do. 0:58:23.040 --> 0:58:27.240 But it's like I have this reverence for God and Yesua, 0:58:27.600 --> 0:58:32.720 that's so high that like we're all. We're all. This 0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:37.320 is fucking same we are. I always say this, and 0:58:37.640 --> 0:58:40.440 I fuck it, we're more on poor minds. If a 0:58:40.520 --> 0:58:42.760 nigga came in here right now with a gun, I know, 0:58:42.840 --> 0:58:44.640 it's just so stupid to say. And I'm not trying 0:58:44.640 --> 0:58:53.480 to bet that Nick came around and popped it and 0:58:53.520 --> 0:58:55.040 threw it at us and we didn't know, and it 0:58:55.160 --> 0:58:56.840 blew up all of our faces. We all be gone. 0:58:57.520 --> 0:58:59.840 No one's handcock, no one's. 0:59:00.200 --> 0:59:01.800 I don't watch a few movies, now, you don't know 0:59:01.880 --> 0:59:02.360 what I can do. 0:59:02.560 --> 0:59:06.840 No one's Superman, no one's Batman, no one's Flash, no 0:59:06.920 --> 0:59:09.080 one is all these people. So that's why I'm like, 0:59:10.360 --> 0:59:12.880 I want to promote realness as best as I can. 0:59:13.280 --> 0:59:14.000 Okay, I like that. 0:59:14.240 --> 0:59:17.120 So it's like, that's why I'm with the people. That's 0:59:17.160 --> 0:59:20.640 why I meant. I'm at Frontier Airlines twenty nine C 0:59:20.960 --> 0:59:24.280 in the back near the bathroom. I was it went 0:59:24.360 --> 0:59:26.720 viral my nigga Jason Bob and shot my nigga, Jason Bobby, 0:59:26.760 --> 0:59:31.280 I shot Tmo, my brothers, Tim Sanders, Jason Bob and Max, 0:59:31.400 --> 0:59:35.960 Tanji Beko, b David. Who I'm missing, Who I'm missing, 0:59:36.120 --> 0:59:43.920 Paul Dawson, A Bear, Bo Abert, fly Jack King, Jerry Mitchell, 0:59:44.240 --> 0:59:48.760 shout out everybody. Yeah we do. But my thing is 0:59:48.880 --> 0:59:53.720 like this I'm in. I am here with the people, 0:59:54.000 --> 0:59:55.800 and I am here to be real. I don't give 0:59:55.800 --> 0:59:57.840 a shit about none of this ship. I am just 0:59:58.000 --> 1:00:02.160 utilizing when God's given me, and that's it. That's why 1:00:02.160 --> 1:00:03.360 I get back to God. I have to do it 1:00:03.360 --> 1:00:05.520 because I can live a great life have great support 1:00:05.560 --> 1:00:08.320 around me. So my thing is like, I just have 1:00:08.400 --> 1:00:11.240 to do it. But I don't care about the image. 1:00:11.720 --> 1:00:14.920 I don't give a fun. You know, you know what 1:00:15.000 --> 1:00:18.600 makes me, know what makes me happier than anything. You're 1:00:18.600 --> 1:00:22.880 a great actor. Yeah, you're a great football player. You're 1:00:22.880 --> 1:00:27.480 a great beat maker. Damn he may just beat Come 1:00:27.520 --> 1:00:35.959 on that, okay, Damn, Julian, you can really act. Damn, nigga, 1:00:36.000 --> 1:00:38.800 you are a great football player who score touchdowns. Damn 1:00:38.800 --> 1:00:41.760 you can hoop, nigga. No, why I take pride in 1:00:41.840 --> 1:00:45.080 that because God gave me that. God give me that. 1:00:45.480 --> 1:00:49.680 All this other ship, I still drive the same fucking car. 1:00:49.880 --> 1:00:51.640 Oh now ask me to tea. 1:00:53.440 --> 1:00:56.000 I don't give ibeing my hootiet. 1:00:56.320 --> 1:00:57.600 I don't care. I don't get that. 1:00:57.680 --> 1:01:01.600 Ain't mean is like my thing is like I don't care. 1:01:03.280 --> 1:01:05.560 You know, reverse psychology is a thing. 1:01:05.880 --> 1:01:06.120 It is. 1:01:06.440 --> 1:01:08.880 It helps me when more people love me because of that, 1:01:09.000 --> 1:01:11.360 because it's like I'm just being myself. I don't care 1:01:11.400 --> 1:01:13.840 about the change. I don't care about the jewelry. I 1:01:13.880 --> 1:01:14.200 don't care. 1:01:14.240 --> 1:01:14.680 I don't care a. 1:01:14.680 --> 1:01:15.960 Little bit because you kind of you do. 1:01:16.120 --> 1:01:22.440 Got that ice that they got my and that moys 1:01:22.480 --> 1:01:33.400 and night Yes right now, he said, more than night, TikTok. 1:01:36.920 --> 1:01:39.720 For the last six months, I've been taking these chains off. 1:01:39.840 --> 1:01:41.480 They come in the shower with me, they come to 1:01:41.520 --> 1:01:43.120 bed with me, they come everywhere. 1:01:42.760 --> 1:01:48.200 That looks nice though, you point, that's realize. 1:01:48.720 --> 1:01:49.800 Can we put the two together. 1:01:50.320 --> 1:01:52.600 That's real right too? 1:01:53.200 --> 1:01:55.840 It is right no one gives a fun. 1:01:56.080 --> 1:01:59.920 Well okay, let me say this, no one cares. 1:02:00.000 --> 1:02:01.760 I do agree with you on that. I feel like 1:02:02.040 --> 1:02:05.680 it is time to get back to a little more realness. 1:02:06.240 --> 1:02:11.480 I think sometimes we have disconnected that we are still 1:02:11.600 --> 1:02:14.640 human beings. I don't care if you're an influencer, a singer, rapper, actor. 1:02:14.960 --> 1:02:17.600 So like how we were talking about, like the car situation, 1:02:17.920 --> 1:02:20.800 Like if you see somebody who is on TV and 1:02:20.880 --> 1:02:22.520 this and that and they're just like in a regular car, 1:02:22.640 --> 1:02:23.040 Cause that's me. 1:02:23.240 --> 1:02:23.720 Can I get it? 1:02:23.800 --> 1:02:27.680 I could buy a freaking brand new whatever right now 1:02:27.680 --> 1:02:29.960 if I wanted to. But I'm like, do I drive 1:02:30.200 --> 1:02:30.720 all the time? 1:02:30.880 --> 1:02:30.920 No? 1:02:31.160 --> 1:02:34.320 Or do I care? But you might see somebody who 1:02:34.440 --> 1:02:35.840 got it all and they have a nice car. 1:02:35.920 --> 1:02:39.120 I think there's more important things to judge somebody by, 1:02:39.920 --> 1:02:41.720 you know what I'm saying. So I'm not saying that 1:02:41.800 --> 1:02:45.760 it's wrong if you do indulge in the jewelry or 1:02:45.840 --> 1:02:46.120 the things. 1:02:46.160 --> 1:02:46.760 That's not wrong. 1:02:47.040 --> 1:02:49.280 Everybody should indulge in things in their life, but stop, 1:02:49.360 --> 1:02:51.040 Like if you see somebody that's in twenty nine C 1:02:51.200 --> 1:02:53.120 on frontier, who cares he getting there? 1:02:53.160 --> 1:02:54.440 Do you want him to show up for his. 1:02:55.400 --> 1:02:59.160 Screen test to not right now camera? Who got me? 1:03:00.040 --> 1:03:02.600 I can fly private period by a cyber truck. I 1:03:02.680 --> 1:03:04.760 can buy a lambo, I can buy all that shit. 1:03:05.120 --> 1:03:07.720 I can buy it all. I don't give a fuck, 1:03:07.840 --> 1:03:10.680 right because at the end of the day, it's exact 1:03:10.720 --> 1:03:11.440 where am I gonna go? 1:03:11.960 --> 1:03:12.160 Yeah? 1:03:12.960 --> 1:03:15.200 I dropped my daughter off for school and I fucked 1:03:15.280 --> 1:03:17.600 up to the gym two hundred down a dollar car 1:03:17.720 --> 1:03:23.479 for what, impress who? I don't care. So I'm gonna 1:03:23.520 --> 1:03:27.640 drive my twenty fifteen shit that's paid for, that has 1:03:27.680 --> 1:03:29.840 one hundred thousand plus miles on it. And if you 1:03:29.880 --> 1:03:31.560 don't give it, and if you can't fuck with me 1:03:31.600 --> 1:03:33.479 because of that, then I don't want you anyway. Oh 1:03:33.640 --> 1:03:35.240 come on, Now that's the word. 1:03:35.360 --> 1:03:37.760 I think it's just all about preference. Like some people 1:03:38.400 --> 1:03:40.600 buy nice things because that's what they like, that's what. 1:03:40.720 --> 1:03:42.640 But then it's like, if you don't care about that, 1:03:42.840 --> 1:03:45.480 you shouldn't have to feel the pressure from society to 1:03:45.600 --> 1:03:46.880 have things that you don't care about. 1:03:47.720 --> 1:03:49.520 Some people really don't care, you know, they. 1:03:49.400 --> 1:03:52.480 Don't care at all. Because my thing is this my 1:03:52.720 --> 1:03:57.600 energy and aura and my personality God's given me is enough. 1:03:58.000 --> 1:04:03.080 That's what somebody should be dating you for, not about. 1:04:02.840 --> 1:04:04.640 The thing, beause you know, you know, you know. When 1:04:04.680 --> 1:04:07.680 it's all said and done, I'm going to release a memoir. 1:04:08.520 --> 1:04:12.000 Everything else is a bonus. Everything else is a bonus. 1:04:13.080 --> 1:04:15.280 There's a couple of things they need to get done. 1:04:15.320 --> 1:04:17.600 I need, okay, God. When I was four years old, 1:04:17.920 --> 1:04:20.920 I told myself, you need to believe in God. You 1:04:20.960 --> 1:04:22.200 need to take care of your family, and you need 1:04:22.280 --> 1:04:25.480 to maximize for God to give me a I'm thirty 1:04:25.520 --> 1:04:28.560 three years old. I went to the NFL. Then it 1:04:28.640 --> 1:04:32.520 wasn't there long. I went there six months. Oh sh 1:04:32.960 --> 1:04:38.160 like a bad relationship. Six months. I played in the SEC. 1:04:39.360 --> 1:04:46.080 I played against Florida, Alabama, Ohio State, LSU, Georgia, all 1:04:46.160 --> 1:04:47.880 the teams that I looked at when I was younger 1:04:47.920 --> 1:04:49.840 coming up and played on n C double A football 1:04:49.880 --> 1:04:51.640 when I was playing, I played against them. I went 1:04:51.680 --> 1:04:55.000 to their stadiums. I did it. I wanted to be 1:04:55.040 --> 1:04:58.200 an actor. I did it. Make music. I did it. 1:04:58.600 --> 1:05:01.240 So it's like three years old and I did it. 1:05:02.280 --> 1:05:05.200 Everything else is a bonus. Sound yeah, everything else is 1:05:05.200 --> 1:05:05.600 a bonus. 1:05:05.760 --> 1:05:07.480 They're a lot in your thirtieth. 1:05:07.160 --> 1:05:10.040 Grace of God. God is the greatest, So it'sych That's 1:05:10.120 --> 1:05:12.400 why I have the mentality. If I didn't have this entirey, 1:05:12.400 --> 1:05:14.280 I wouldn't do that shit. I live for other people. 1:05:14.400 --> 1:05:17.600 Or I cared about tangible things and materials things, I 1:05:17.640 --> 1:05:21.600 couldn't get shit done. I don't give a fuck. All 1:05:21.640 --> 1:05:23.640 my friends know day like Jullian favorite quote, I don't 1:05:23.680 --> 1:05:25.280 give a fuck because I don't. 1:05:25.360 --> 1:05:31.440 But that I ain't gonna lie. That'd be my favorite quote. Industry. 1:05:31.480 --> 1:05:33.640 You have to be that way, though, because if you 1:05:33.800 --> 1:05:36.280 care too much, you're gonna get lost in the sauce 1:05:36.320 --> 1:05:39.040 and you're gonna get forgot about. I always say the 1:05:39.240 --> 1:05:42.960 main people who I see have longevity, it's people who 1:05:43.040 --> 1:05:48.120 are unapologetically themselves. Yeah, and they don't and they're outside 1:05:48.800 --> 1:05:51.120 because a lot of times people try to make people 1:05:51.200 --> 1:05:53.280 feel bad for who they are, like, oh my gosh, 1:05:53.320 --> 1:05:55.640 you need to calm down. Oh you're doing too much, 1:05:55.720 --> 1:05:58.480 you're so extra, you're so this, but this is who 1:05:58.560 --> 1:06:02.000 I am. And I hate when people do that because 1:06:02.320 --> 1:06:03.760 they'll be like, oh, you need to calm down, you 1:06:03.840 --> 1:06:06.600 need to God gave me this, So who are you 1:06:06.720 --> 1:06:08.400 to tell me to stop what God gave me? 1:06:08.640 --> 1:06:11.200 That ship. You know what, I literally like, you. 1:06:11.280 --> 1:06:13.480 Cannot make me feel bad about who I am. I 1:06:13.600 --> 1:06:15.160 have been created in God's image. 1:06:15.280 --> 1:06:16.440 That's it. That's it. 1:06:18.400 --> 1:06:20.000 No, I was just gonna say, so, yeah, because we 1:06:20.160 --> 1:06:22.120 be always off topic, we might. 1:06:22.120 --> 1:06:22.960 Need to get into the bed. 1:06:23.880 --> 1:06:25.640 Yes, it's. 1:06:28.280 --> 1:06:32.840 Beautiful. This is a good conversation to be beautiful, Jim 1:06:32.880 --> 1:06:34.680 carry ship brush somebody else in that. 1:06:35.200 --> 1:06:36.160 I love Bruce. 1:06:37.880 --> 1:06:41.240 Movie beautiful. That's what coming, nigga, what you want? 1:06:41.280 --> 1:06:42.400 Do you want to get into the badground? 1:06:42.720 --> 1:06:44.800 Because because I feel like we need to close out 1:06:44.840 --> 1:06:47.880 the topic. So I was gonna say, I personally feel 1:06:48.000 --> 1:06:52.440 like I could be in a PR relationship. I absolutely 1:06:52.520 --> 1:06:54.240 think I could be in a PR relationship, but I 1:06:54.280 --> 1:06:56.439 don't know. I don't feel like I wanted to be something. 1:06:57.280 --> 1:07:01.960 Thank you, I agree, but but I feel like I 1:07:02.040 --> 1:07:02.680 wouldn't want to. 1:07:04.840 --> 1:07:05.840 But I did another shot. 1:07:06.480 --> 1:07:08.840 I don't take a shot too. We gonna see hopefully 1:07:08.880 --> 1:07:09.520 I don't be drunk. 1:07:09.560 --> 1:07:11.920 Black women the best black women, the best in the world. Though, 1:07:12.080 --> 1:07:15.240 thank you so beautiful. I just can't thank you. 1:07:15.400 --> 1:07:18.320 I appreciate that. Thank you. It's very sweet. 1:07:18.920 --> 1:07:25.520 Take that other bullshit that did out, It's okay, exactly. 1:07:26.160 --> 1:07:26.640 I'm weird. 1:07:27.520 --> 1:07:29.240 It's so we a little weird. I think everybody is 1:07:29.240 --> 1:07:29.720 a little weird. 1:07:30.840 --> 1:07:32.800 Shout out to shame. 1:07:35.400 --> 1:07:37.720 We're wrapping it up. It's just gonna wrap it up. 1:07:37.800 --> 1:07:39.800 So yeah, I personally feel like I could be in 1:07:39.880 --> 1:07:41.440 a relationship like that, but I would have wanted to 1:07:41.480 --> 1:07:43.760 be long term though, like I feel like, I don't know, 1:07:43.840 --> 1:07:46.360 would be to serve a purpose, Like to serve a 1:07:46.440 --> 1:07:48.840 purpose and then once the purpose is served, I'm out 1:07:48.920 --> 1:07:51.840 because I don't know. I feel like at heart, I 1:07:51.960 --> 1:07:53.920 am a hopeless romantic and I'm a live girl. So 1:07:54.000 --> 1:07:56.640 I want to be in a relationship with somebody. 1:07:56.440 --> 1:07:57.880 That I genuinely really love. 1:07:58.600 --> 1:08:01.920 Having status and for luxury and lifestyle and cloud that's 1:08:02.080 --> 1:08:03.040 just not enough for me. 1:08:03.520 --> 1:08:07.040 I don't get me started. I feel like girl to 1:08:07.120 --> 1:08:09.480 the core. I don't care how many times my heart 1:08:09.520 --> 1:08:12.720 gets broken. I'm gonna fall in love again, yeah and 1:08:12.840 --> 1:08:15.720 again and again because it's fun, it's beautiful. 1:08:16.280 --> 1:08:18.080 So I do feel like I would do it, but 1:08:18.200 --> 1:08:19.519 it has to strictly be a job. 1:08:19.640 --> 1:08:22.479 But the reason I probably I say I could do 1:08:22.520 --> 1:08:25.040 a pr relationship, but I probably couldn't because I'm gonna 1:08:25.080 --> 1:08:29.040 end up really liking you for real, and that's how it. 1:08:30.840 --> 1:08:32.679 Yeah, like we can really follow. 1:08:32.880 --> 1:08:36.479 I think I say this all the time being like 1:08:36.880 --> 1:08:38.640 I watch people that are actors, Like I'm not an 1:08:38.640 --> 1:08:42.120 actor obviously, but like you see stuff like Brad Pitt 1:08:42.200 --> 1:08:44.160 and Angelina Jolie how they were on set and they 1:08:44.200 --> 1:08:47.320 fell in love. Damon Wayne just went on Club Sha Shay. 1:08:47.400 --> 1:08:49.439 He was talking about I saw that how he would 1:08:49.479 --> 1:08:52.400 struggle because he was on set and he's thinking this 1:08:52.600 --> 1:08:55.360 chemistry is real and then he she go off and 1:08:55.400 --> 1:08:57.120 do a movie. She got the same chemistry with the 1:08:57.200 --> 1:08:59.120 next yame today. 1:08:59.360 --> 1:09:03.000 Yes, So it's like me, that's gonna be me. I 1:09:03.080 --> 1:09:05.960 can't tell the difference. I thought you loved me, Yeah, 1:09:06.120 --> 1:09:07.040 you would fall in love. 1:09:07.800 --> 1:09:10.439 I don't be like, all right, three months up, it's 1:09:10.520 --> 1:09:10.920 been real. 1:09:12.200 --> 1:09:15.080 You can pr relationship me though, Yeah you couldn't. 1:09:17.200 --> 1:09:17.560 I don't know. 1:09:17.600 --> 1:09:19.080 I know howary is mean. 1:09:20.560 --> 1:09:23.120 I'm a real nigga and I believe it. And it's like, 1:09:23.200 --> 1:09:27.639 I don't like, You're gonna have fun, fun, fun, fun, 1:09:27.960 --> 1:09:29.400 That is me. 1:09:29.560 --> 1:09:30.559 I'm all about fun. 1:09:30.840 --> 1:09:32.600 It's gonna be it's gonna be hilarious. You're gonna love 1:09:32.680 --> 1:09:34.439 my friends, you know my gosh. I like being a 1:09:34.479 --> 1:09:36.040 part of this and at the end of the day, 1:09:37.200 --> 1:09:39.320 exactly ain't gonna have fun and it's gonna be so 1:09:39.439 --> 1:09:45.760 fucking great. God, more meditations, more everyone does. The tangible ship. 1:09:45.760 --> 1:09:50.920 We're gonna learn about real deep, personable human ship. And 1:09:51.040 --> 1:09:53.360 that's when you get that's when you really get people though, 1:09:53.439 --> 1:09:55.200 could be yourself and you're gonna laugh. 1:09:55.439 --> 1:09:57.880 Yeah, that's why I think if you can make me laugh, 1:09:58.640 --> 1:10:01.320 because I don't think nobody for me. 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Honestly, I've never been the problem. 1:11:37.880 --> 1:11:42.240 I've always been amazing as your wonderful is you're alias 1:11:42.960 --> 1:11:44.440 amazing girlfriend. 1:11:44.800 --> 1:11:48.360 I really am leg what you don't think used the problem. 1:11:48.439 --> 1:11:51.479 We used to be cheating. First of all, that I 1:11:51.640 --> 1:11:55.680 cheated one time in college, but he cheated first. He 1:11:55.880 --> 1:12:00.479 forced my hand. I was for you chie. He cheated 1:12:00.560 --> 1:12:02.280 on that man. I did cheat on that man. When 1:12:02.280 --> 1:12:05.519 I moved to Atlanta. He forced my hand. He forced 1:12:05.560 --> 1:12:09.639 my hand too. He did not force hand. He didn't 1:12:09.680 --> 1:12:12.160 put that hand uncle she he did. 1:12:12.760 --> 1:12:13.680 He forced me to. 1:12:14.800 --> 1:12:17.439 He was just right now. 1:12:17.520 --> 1:12:19.640 He wasn't treating you right. But see that's where I 1:12:19.760 --> 1:12:22.280 feel like, that's when you should just leave. I didn't 1:12:22.280 --> 1:12:23.240 want over cheating. 1:12:23.320 --> 1:12:24.800 I didn't want to Yeah, I wasn't ready to go. 1:12:25.840 --> 1:12:28.600 I had to make sure you're supposed to leave. You 1:12:28.640 --> 1:12:29.479 shouldn't cheat that. 1:12:29.920 --> 1:12:32.160 I did cheat one time though, when I was It 1:12:32.280 --> 1:12:33.519 was when I was in college though for. 1:12:33.600 --> 1:12:36.760 Real though, Okay, I just graduated coach. 1:12:37.840 --> 1:12:40.840 I was like a freshman in colleague. It was with 1:12:40.960 --> 1:12:43.400 my high school I cheated on my high school boyfriend. 1:12:47.680 --> 1:12:53.120 Okay, so it's into the bowl. 1:12:55.120 --> 1:12:59.040 I got. I got, although I got something for y'all got. 1:13:00.600 --> 1:13:01.479 We're gonna get into this. 1:13:01.640 --> 1:13:02.639 We don't get into the baby. 1:13:02.680 --> 1:13:04.800 That's a host to haul. 1:13:06.040 --> 1:13:06.599 You know what I mean. 1:13:07.000 --> 1:13:09.599 We're gonna get into this. But I got some world 1:13:09.720 --> 1:13:12.519 exclusive ship for y'all coming. 1:13:12.600 --> 1:13:13.519 Oh yeah, he did say he. 1:13:13.560 --> 1:13:15.680 Had some announcements to make, So we're gonna get We're 1:13:15.680 --> 1:13:16.120 gonna do the ba. 1:13:16.520 --> 1:13:19.200 I got a homeboy named Man on the Mission aka 1:13:19.520 --> 1:13:22.360 Tim Sanders. See this is the thing. I'm an actor, 1:13:22.800 --> 1:13:25.840 football player. Oh man, he did this. I'm also a 1:13:25.960 --> 1:13:29.640 music producer period, and I have an artist I'm working with. 1:13:29.800 --> 1:13:32.800 We're a duo. And I have an engineer that's actually 1:13:32.880 --> 1:13:38.120 close to me that's here right now. Is that Tim 1:13:38.720 --> 1:13:44.000 A Wall My engineer Wall All My engineer, Tim Sanders 1:13:44.040 --> 1:13:49.479 is the artist, and we got some ship that's about 1:13:49.520 --> 1:13:52.240 to take over the world. I'm telling you, I had 1:13:52.240 --> 1:13:55.280 a lot to you by the grace of God. Like 1:13:55.320 --> 1:13:58.280 we talked about Tyler Perry films fast. So what does 1:13:58.360 --> 1:14:03.479 that mean. I have a lot of time time to 1:14:03.560 --> 1:14:05.240 do what I want and have money to fund what 1:14:05.360 --> 1:14:06.920 I want, and so at the end of the day 1:14:07.560 --> 1:14:08.280 we come. 1:14:08.160 --> 1:14:15.760 In all. 1:14:17.200 --> 1:14:19.000 Is he's a he is. 1:14:19.360 --> 1:14:21.040 I'll say this because. 1:14:20.760 --> 1:14:25.720 It's off topic. But one thing like I'm very very 1:14:25.840 --> 1:14:30.680 particular about, like the behind the scenes stuff, like I 1:14:30.800 --> 1:14:32.519 care about how we look on camera. I care about 1:14:32.560 --> 1:14:36.280 the coloring. I care about the audio. So I really 1:14:36.520 --> 1:14:40.479 was like so unhappy with poor minds for years about 1:14:40.479 --> 1:14:43.599 how things were sounding because I'm like, this sound is awful. 1:14:44.280 --> 1:14:46.360 Would not get it right for nothing? 1:14:46.640 --> 1:14:49.120 When I tell you, I've had nothing wrong with the 1:14:49.160 --> 1:14:51.160 audio since a wall being So we're gonna give a 1:14:51.280 --> 1:14:55.880 wall his flowers right now. Also on top of that, 1:14:58.600 --> 1:15:02.120 like DJing got a ear like me, I can tell 1:15:02.160 --> 1:15:05.080 the type of music that all listens to. We got 1:15:05.160 --> 1:15:06.680 to say like music you. 1:15:08.840 --> 1:15:14.439 You like me, because like I'm very just particular. Yes, 1:15:14.680 --> 1:15:17.320 like Tim the artist I work with, he's here right now, 1:15:17.400 --> 1:15:20.519 show Tim Sanders. He's more like, let's do it, nigga. 1:15:20.600 --> 1:15:27.200 But I'm more like every frequency, every hurts, every sound 1:15:27.640 --> 1:15:29.880 I hear it. Yeah, because you do that when you're 1:15:29.880 --> 1:15:31.920 a producer. You listen to things you just don't to say, 1:15:32.400 --> 1:15:34.040 go do it. I think a lot of artists do 1:15:34.120 --> 1:15:36.880 that now. I think it's like, yeah when everything first 1:15:36.880 --> 1:15:38.280 thing that comes to my mind doing it. It's like 1:15:38.360 --> 1:15:41.320 bro Reasonant Drake has had such a long time in 1:15:41.439 --> 1:15:47.080 this industry. Kendrick J. Cole whatever really drizzy. They're cerebral, 1:15:48.080 --> 1:15:49.640 you gotta be cerebral, and this ship I think a 1:15:49.640 --> 1:15:51.439 lot of people just don't be cerebral things. I just 1:15:51.520 --> 1:15:52.960 get it to go. It's like, bro, you gotta take 1:15:52.960 --> 1:15:54.400 your time with this. And at the end of the day, 1:15:54.479 --> 1:15:57.800 a wall does that, and I can tell y'all do that. 1:15:58.080 --> 1:16:02.160 Yeah, we're very meticulous when it comes to four minds 1:16:02.240 --> 1:16:05.240 for sure, because I feel like your product matters, you know, 1:16:05.400 --> 1:16:07.120 especially when you get to a point to where you 1:16:07.160 --> 1:16:09.760 can afford to make it better. Like I understand when 1:16:09.800 --> 1:16:12.400 people don't have the greatest audio or the greatest visuals, 1:16:12.439 --> 1:16:14.439 when you don't have the money to do it, and 1:16:14.600 --> 1:16:17.040 especially if that's not something that you're talented in and 1:16:17.120 --> 1:16:20.439 it's not your forte. But when you can afford to 1:16:20.560 --> 1:16:22.760 make things top not, you need to invest in yourse 1:16:23.240 --> 1:16:26.040 because who else is going to you have to you know, 1:16:26.160 --> 1:16:28.000 you have to give. 1:16:28.040 --> 1:16:32.439 A bed finally time to get in the beg. Do 1:16:32.680 --> 1:16:37.920 men feel responsible for a woman's sexual confidence? 1:16:38.000 --> 1:16:38.160 You know? 1:16:38.360 --> 1:16:41.080 Like, have you ever hyped up a woman's performance in bed? 1:16:41.240 --> 1:16:42.880 Like if it was bad? No? 1:16:43.800 --> 1:16:47.920 Never, No, what I'm saying, So you be straight up 1:16:48.000 --> 1:16:49.320 like this ship trade. 1:16:49.080 --> 1:16:54.080 I don't say it's trash. Have you ever hyped performance, 1:16:54.160 --> 1:16:55.080 and Dad even was mad. 1:16:56.920 --> 1:17:02.840 To be honest with you, Wow, you thinking about it, 1:17:03.800 --> 1:17:04.280 talk about it. 1:17:04.479 --> 1:17:07.080 So it's like it's more so like I don't think 1:17:07.080 --> 1:17:10.360 a woman from pharmacy bad can be made because like 1:17:10.640 --> 1:17:13.000 I'm the leader, so it's gonna go how I go. 1:17:13.920 --> 1:17:17.639 So it's really like, but head game can be mad. Yeah, 1:17:18.120 --> 1:17:20.320 I know we're getting a little freaky. 1:17:20.120 --> 1:17:22.760 But it's the bad topic head game. 1:17:22.840 --> 1:17:25.479 Head game can be mad, And I never fucking let 1:17:25.520 --> 1:17:27.920 anyone know the head game is mad. I'm really, really, 1:17:28.040 --> 1:17:29.120 really really supportive. 1:17:29.560 --> 1:17:34.040 But that's the problem having sexual confidence. 1:17:34.240 --> 1:17:36.920 But I also told the truth though I say, I say, 1:17:36.960 --> 1:17:39.960 you know what, you're doing a great job, and this 1:17:40.120 --> 1:17:41.320 is some of the best shit I've ever got in 1:17:41.360 --> 1:17:41.679 my life. 1:17:41.720 --> 1:17:42.719 But do you be telling the truth? 1:17:43.120 --> 1:17:44.640 Is how do it? This is how you got to 1:17:44.720 --> 1:17:48.080 tell the truth in a fucking particular way. OKA say 1:17:48.120 --> 1:17:50.439 you're doing a great job. I'm talking about this ship 1:17:50.479 --> 1:17:53.080 right here. It's fantastic. That's one of the best head 1:17:53.080 --> 1:17:57.920 I've ever got. But I was waiting for the but this, 1:17:58.040 --> 1:18:00.800 I do it too, because I'm doing a good He's 1:18:00.840 --> 1:18:03.360 gonna ask so much ship to it exactly, I'll do it. 1:18:03.439 --> 1:18:06.760 I said, but have you ever tried to like do 1:18:07.240 --> 1:18:10.360 this and do that, and then if you do that, 1:18:11.400 --> 1:18:13.559 you won't just be great, you'll be the fucking goat 1:18:14.439 --> 1:18:17.040 And they're like, you're right, and then do it. I'm like, yes, 1:18:17.040 --> 1:18:17.679 I got what I wanted. 1:18:18.360 --> 1:18:19.720 Okay, that's a good way to do it. 1:18:20.800 --> 1:18:23.040 Niggas be like you checked out. You gotta just fucking 1:18:23.120 --> 1:18:27.040 know how to in there, because you know, head is 1:18:27.160 --> 1:18:30.439 the greatest together you can keep that actually, because I 1:18:30.520 --> 1:18:35.040 got to tell people that, because because like head is 1:18:35.120 --> 1:18:37.559 a signature thing. Sex is, like. 1:18:39.520 --> 1:18:42.400 You know, I feel like there's a difference between like 1:18:42.479 --> 1:18:45.599 having like good pussy and good sex. Though sometimes people 1:18:45.640 --> 1:18:48.479 have both. Sometimes people have won or the. 1:18:48.800 --> 1:18:51.479 Pushy good sex good push your good head, no good 1:18:51.479 --> 1:18:52.160 pushy good sex. 1:18:52.520 --> 1:18:58.439 Yeah, I feel like you because you can, Yeah, because 1:18:58.439 --> 1:19:01.160 you're a pussy, because you could be good because of 1:19:01.200 --> 1:19:03.920 the anatomy of it, because they get with all of 1:19:03.960 --> 1:19:04.400 these things. 1:19:05.160 --> 1:19:06.680 But the sex is about what. 1:19:06.800 --> 1:19:07.840 You do in bed. 1:19:08.200 --> 1:19:08.400 Yeah. 1:19:08.400 --> 1:19:11.120 But that's that's why I told you, Like, I'm so 1:19:11.200 --> 1:19:13.360 glad we're having this topic because it's the real thing. 1:19:15.120 --> 1:19:17.200 If it's good, you have a good pussy, it's gonna 1:19:17.200 --> 1:19:17.719 be good sex. 1:19:18.360 --> 1:19:20.559 But it might not be might not know how to ride, 1:19:20.960 --> 1:19:23.439 she might not know how good, she might not know 1:19:23.479 --> 1:19:23.920 how to put that. 1:19:24.360 --> 1:19:29.240 She might be like this that I feel. But I guess, 1:19:29.280 --> 1:19:29.559 I guess. 1:19:29.760 --> 1:19:33.720 I guess I control the situation because like if I'm 1:19:33.760 --> 1:19:36.240 doing some ship from the back, I'm gonna make sure 1:19:36.280 --> 1:19:38.360 that ship is arched up in the way it needs 1:19:38.439 --> 1:19:39.760 to be to make sure it's good. 1:19:39.840 --> 1:19:44.439 But you might be fighting because she might be trying 1:19:44.439 --> 1:19:45.000 to dip in. 1:19:47.840 --> 1:19:51.720 Joy. She's she's not gonna do that though, she's not 1:19:51.760 --> 1:19:53.880 gonna do that, because I'm saying, if you do that again, 1:19:53.960 --> 1:19:57.080 it's over. If you do that ship again, it's over. 1:19:57.640 --> 1:20:00.680 She might be like what, but I watch it more 1:20:00.760 --> 1:20:01.000 than me. 1:20:01.400 --> 1:20:03.240 No, you need to stop doing that. I don't like that. 1:20:03.720 --> 1:20:08.680 So you need to fucking conform, I'm saying right now. 1:20:09.240 --> 1:20:12.439 And most of the time, more times than not, they're 1:20:12.479 --> 1:20:14.840 gonna get in line. But a man and I'm bigger, 1:20:15.040 --> 1:20:17.720 and they're gonna be like, all right, whatever you want, 1:20:18.080 --> 1:20:21.559 and then if then God is gonna be good. 1:20:22.240 --> 1:20:22.920 That's what I mean. 1:20:23.160 --> 1:20:27.719 But writing is But writing is another topic because writing 1:20:27.840 --> 1:20:33.160 it I think writing in head is signature ship, meaning 1:20:33.240 --> 1:20:38.000 that like way she will want ship, nigga, I ain't 1:20:38.120 --> 1:20:40.439 never had her like that. When she gave me a head, 1:20:40.520 --> 1:20:42.840 I ain't never had it like that. That's signature ship. 1:20:42.920 --> 1:20:44.519 But like getting it from the back or you're doing 1:20:44.600 --> 1:20:47.519 missionary you have like some ships is a man's thing, 1:20:47.760 --> 1:20:50.720 Like you're in control, you're doing your ship, and if 1:20:50.760 --> 1:20:55.000 it's good pussy, it's gonna be good sex. That's because 1:20:55.560 --> 1:20:58.560 and if it's wet and it's good, I mean a 1:20:58.680 --> 1:20:59.720 nigga ain't going, you know. 1:21:00.160 --> 1:21:03.479 I think sexual confidence in a woman comes from us 1:21:03.800 --> 1:21:06.800 feeling sexy. Yes, So if we're getting back to the topic, 1:21:06.840 --> 1:21:09.759 it's like, do men feel responsible for a woman's sexual confidence? 1:21:09.840 --> 1:21:13.080 I think women need to do what we feel makes 1:21:13.240 --> 1:21:16.640 us sexy because that's what makes the sex enjoyable. Like 1:21:16.720 --> 1:21:19.640 good pussy, good pussy cool, that's true. But once you 1:21:19.760 --> 1:21:23.519 feel sexy in the bedroom and a man is complimenting you, 1:21:23.920 --> 1:21:27.280 you start feeling sexy, so you start performing. So that's 1:21:27.360 --> 1:21:29.439 when the sex and the pussy get is good and 1:21:29.479 --> 1:21:31.840 it's an overall great experience that. 1:21:32.040 --> 1:21:36.040 That actually is facts because because you know, when you're 1:21:36.200 --> 1:21:38.160 doing that and ship and whatever, whatever, it's like you 1:21:38.240 --> 1:21:41.639 can like something turns up. Yeah, but she's feeling sex 1:21:41.920 --> 1:21:46.280 in alchemy and the chemistry. It's like this shit is 1:21:46.479 --> 1:21:49.760 like it's like tennis now going back and forth and 1:21:49.800 --> 1:21:50.639 the shit is perfect. 1:21:50.680 --> 1:21:53.920 Now, you're right, Feeling sexy in the bedroom is like 1:21:54.040 --> 1:21:56.840 a cheat code. So for men and women, I know, 1:21:57.000 --> 1:21:59.120 it's like a lot of disconnecting the bedroom because they 1:21:59.120 --> 1:22:00.920 feel like, oh, men gonna anyway, and I don't get 1:22:00.960 --> 1:22:03.920 my nut. As a woman, it is our duty to 1:22:04.040 --> 1:22:07.760 have confidence within yourself to feel sexy, because that's gonna 1:22:07.760 --> 1:22:10.720 make the sex way more enjoyable. If you feel like, 1:22:10.760 --> 1:22:13.120 oh my gosh, she's into it because I'm so fucking 1:22:13.160 --> 1:22:15.200 fine and I'm the baddest bitch in the world, that's 1:22:15.240 --> 1:22:16.280 gonna make you show out. 1:22:16.400 --> 1:22:20.439 That's gonna god damn right, oh gosh, and thust my head. 1:22:20.479 --> 1:22:25.640 Now it's crazy. But he going going keep going. I know, 1:22:26.720 --> 1:22:29.640 I know, I know. Slow it down now, slow it down, now, 1:22:29.920 --> 1:22:32.800 slow it down now. But you're absolutely right. 1:22:32.840 --> 1:22:34.040 He has a really good point. 1:22:34.520 --> 1:22:36.000 Do you have a great point, because that that ship 1:22:36.120 --> 1:22:39.160 has I'm thinking about that ship now. No, you're right though, 1:22:39.200 --> 1:22:42.960 cause it's like like I said, something, something switches. 1:22:43.240 --> 1:22:47.439 Yes, it's it's sexual confidence. Some switches you're with a 1:22:47.560 --> 1:22:49.080 man who you're like, oh, I don't know if he 1:22:49.240 --> 1:22:50.760 likes me. I'm just trying to do this so I 1:22:50.840 --> 1:22:53.080 can get my rent paid, and you're not really doing 1:22:53.120 --> 1:22:56.000 it because you feel sexy in this moment and you're 1:22:56.080 --> 1:22:57.800 turned on and you're like I cannot wait to sit 1:22:57.880 --> 1:23:00.760 on this dick, like I need this now, and I 1:23:01.000 --> 1:23:03.200 know that he's looking at me like I am the 1:23:03.320 --> 1:23:06.920 last donut left in the ship LEAs oven bitch, like 1:23:07.160 --> 1:23:10.080 he needs to be like saying, That's what I'm saying. 1:23:10.680 --> 1:23:14.240 That's what I'm saying. But I change you ever had ship? 1:23:14.280 --> 1:23:14.559 Please? 1:23:14.920 --> 1:23:15.559 You ever had a ship? 1:23:15.600 --> 1:23:18.200 Please? Don't? Okay, you know. 1:23:22.640 --> 1:23:24.439 Fire the Twins man. 1:23:24.600 --> 1:23:26.680 So I want to say I don't think that it's 1:23:26.800 --> 1:23:30.879 men's responsibility for a woman to have that sexual confidence, 1:23:30.920 --> 1:23:32.840 but I think they can help. I think it can 1:23:32.920 --> 1:23:33.439 help for sure. 1:23:33.520 --> 1:23:37.080 But do y'all feel like being honest, like sexual honesty 1:23:37.200 --> 1:23:39.479 is a turn off or can like ruin the mood? 1:23:39.680 --> 1:23:41.960 Because I feel like sometimes that's probably why people don't 1:23:42.040 --> 1:23:43.639 like to tell the person that they have in six 1:23:43.720 --> 1:23:46.040 we oh you're not really doing a great job, because. 1:23:45.760 --> 1:23:48.040 They don't want to ruin the mood and turn them off. 1:23:48.160 --> 1:23:51.599 Like I said, you have you have to know how tole. 1:23:52.439 --> 1:23:55.200 Like you have to know. But also I think that's 1:23:55.280 --> 1:23:59.200 with emotional immaturity. If a man that I care about, 1:23:59.600 --> 1:24:01.800 because at this age, I'm not having sex with nobody 1:24:01.840 --> 1:24:04.840 I don't care about. So if I'm having sex with you, 1:24:05.120 --> 1:24:07.800 I want you to tell me what you like. I 1:24:07.880 --> 1:24:10.320 want to do exactly how you want it, what I 1:24:10.560 --> 1:24:13.839 puts it on filming Now, I gotta turn this nigga out. Period. 1:24:14.320 --> 1:24:15.200 That's how I look. 1:24:17.080 --> 1:24:19.439 For me. I feel like I want my man to 1:24:19.520 --> 1:24:22.080 tell me what I need to do. How can I 1:24:22.200 --> 1:24:24.880 upgrade this puss it? Because I'm telling you how you 1:24:24.920 --> 1:24:27.680 can upgrade that dick for me. So it needs to 1:24:27.720 --> 1:24:34.800 be a conversation. A nigga can upgrade that dick for me, 1:24:35.720 --> 1:24:38.400 Like I said, for me, sex is a it's a 1:24:38.560 --> 1:24:43.400 build up. So the sex starts once it's like, Okay, 1:24:43.439 --> 1:24:45.320 I know we finish, go on a good date night. 1:24:45.760 --> 1:24:48.000 You don't plan the night out. You're gonna sent me 1:24:48.120 --> 1:24:51.200 flowers already earlier in the day. You pick me up. 1:24:51.800 --> 1:24:53.760 It's like the vibes vibe and we going to a 1:24:53.840 --> 1:25:00.360 dimly lit restaurant. Drinks are coming in yeah, like the 1:25:00.439 --> 1:25:04.519 conversation is flowing and you're not even being overly sexual. 1:25:05.200 --> 1:25:07.840 You just putting your hand on my leg. Damn baby, 1:25:07.880 --> 1:25:08.559 you look really good. 1:25:08.760 --> 1:25:09.759 You look so beautiful. 1:25:10.320 --> 1:25:13.439 It's the subtle ship. This pussy is throbbing now. 1:25:13.520 --> 1:25:16.519 Yeah, you mean ready, it's definitely all about the build 1:25:16.640 --> 1:25:20.200 up to the men at the day, start at the date. 1:25:20.280 --> 1:25:23.840 It actually start way before then, and while we at dinner, 1:25:24.000 --> 1:25:25.799 it's not right when we get in the bedroom. 1:25:25.920 --> 1:25:30.120 Yes, So men who know how to build up all day, 1:25:30.640 --> 1:25:32.519 you're finna get the best pussure in the world. 1:25:32.680 --> 1:25:35.000 Hey, and I think that's really a good point, which 1:25:35.040 --> 1:25:37.760 you said too, because that's good that you can take 1:25:37.800 --> 1:25:42.439 constructive criticism. But as another woman, I do feel like 1:25:43.200 --> 1:25:48.960 the female ego is fragile. So yeah, a lot of 1:25:49.120 --> 1:25:53.800 women they get offended when you tell them why. They 1:25:53.840 --> 1:25:56.120 don't want to hear that because everybody think they coutchie 1:25:56.120 --> 1:25:58.800 good first and foremost. Will you ever run into somebody 1:25:58.800 --> 1:26:01.200 and they'd be like, nah my couchie miaul she trash. 1:26:01.640 --> 1:26:04.160 I say this all the time. You be saying no, no, no, 1:26:04.240 --> 1:26:07.800 no no, I say this. It's a man out there 1:26:07.960 --> 1:26:10.240 right now who's washing. This is like Lex has the 1:26:10.360 --> 1:26:13.639 best pussy I've ever had in my life. And there's 1:26:13.640 --> 1:26:16.720 probably another nigg who like Lix shit so fucking med 1:26:17.640 --> 1:26:21.320 Because it's the experience. Everybody's experience is different. 1:26:21.800 --> 1:26:23.960 I could talk about the like if you got good 1:26:24.040 --> 1:26:25.840 Kouchie is a universal, I. 1:26:25.880 --> 1:26:28.960 Mean she is. 1:26:29.120 --> 1:26:31.000 Now, do I think I got trash like? 1:26:31.080 --> 1:26:34.160 No, But I do think I've given better experiences, especially 1:26:34.200 --> 1:26:36.559 in my younger years. In my thirties, no, because I'm 1:26:36.600 --> 1:26:38.800 not even having sex with a man that it's not 1:26:38.960 --> 1:26:43.720 already there. But in my twenties absolutely. But I say 1:26:43.760 --> 1:26:45.720 all that to say because it's some men out there 1:26:45.760 --> 1:26:48.000 who I probably think has the worst dick in the world, 1:26:48.280 --> 1:26:50.599 and then there's another girl who was like, oh my god, 1:26:50.720 --> 1:26:54.320 he was like my world around. So I think it's 1:26:54.479 --> 1:26:57.120 just about that chemistry. But I also think that shows 1:26:57.160 --> 1:27:00.760 the difference between somebody who can take construction of criticism. 1:27:01.120 --> 1:27:02.920 You're not gonna hurt my feelings because I know my 1:27:03.000 --> 1:27:04.880 coachie good and I know what I can do in 1:27:04.960 --> 1:27:07.560 the bed. So if you're giving me criticism, this is 1:27:07.640 --> 1:27:11.200 just what you like. Because this last nigga didn't like 1:27:11.280 --> 1:27:13.560 when I did that, but you love it when I 1:27:13.680 --> 1:27:20.200 do that, yeah, is crazy. I'm just saying I'm a 1:27:20.320 --> 1:27:23.720 little y'all know me, I'm a little older, so i 1:27:23.800 --> 1:27:26.519 can teach the girls a little one too, But I'm also. 1:27:26.439 --> 1:27:32.280 Teaching goddamn so that was fucking awesome. I mean, I'm 1:27:32.320 --> 1:27:34.800 saying I was just I was just here. Just y'all watch, 1:27:35.120 --> 1:27:35.880 She's so honest. 1:27:38.000 --> 1:27:40.160 I think sex, that's how I am. Sex is meant 1:27:40.200 --> 1:27:43.200 to be enjoyed. So if we're not honest, how can 1:27:43.240 --> 1:27:43.720 we not enjoy? 1:27:43.840 --> 1:27:45.680 Yeah, I'm not laying there for those sakes that I'm 1:27:45.720 --> 1:27:46.599 not having a good time. 1:27:46.760 --> 1:27:52.280 I'm sorry this seriously though, and I think that comes. 1:27:53.040 --> 1:27:54.479 We never get tired of a compliment. 1:27:54.520 --> 1:27:59.240 I'm just being honest. You just that was fucking wow. 1:28:00.960 --> 1:28:01.960 I'm here further. 1:28:02.040 --> 1:28:03.960 You know why I say this because though I'm not 1:28:04.120 --> 1:28:06.400 being funny. In my early twenties, I had a lot 1:28:06.520 --> 1:28:08.519 of bad I used to have a lot of bad sex. 1:28:08.840 --> 1:28:11.000 I did not enjoy sex. I was doing it because 1:28:11.320 --> 1:28:13.560 I felt like this is what my man want. It 1:28:13.720 --> 1:28:15.920 wasn't for me, and I just had like a turn. 1:28:16.439 --> 1:28:18.719 And I'm like, because. 1:28:18.479 --> 1:28:20.960 Because the reason why I love this ship is because 1:28:21.080 --> 1:28:25.200 you made a great point. So some girls told me 1:28:25.320 --> 1:28:28.320 like Nigga, his dick, don did this, whatever, whatever, whatever, 1:28:28.439 --> 1:28:30.920 And then some girls were like you just said joining 1:28:31.080 --> 1:28:33.559 sex is the best, right, But it's like it all 1:28:33.680 --> 1:28:38.080 depends on, like you said, the chemistry, because as guys, 1:28:38.240 --> 1:28:41.160 you think our dicks are hard one hundred percent not 1:28:41.240 --> 1:28:44.479 all the time, right, It's just a special girl takes 1:28:44.560 --> 1:28:47.040 this moment. It takes the alchemy and the chemistry to 1:28:47.200 --> 1:28:49.240 make some shit be one hundred percent in the morning. 1:28:49.400 --> 1:28:52.000 Sometimes that shit gonna be seventy and you might get 1:28:52.080 --> 1:28:54.240 seventy percent, and then you're gonna be just like, yeah, 1:28:54.280 --> 1:28:57.720 his dick was not at but chick, it's like it's 1:28:57.800 --> 1:29:00.000 like it's like it's like, yeah, you didn't you didn't 1:29:00.120 --> 1:29:00.519 do nothing. 1:29:01.160 --> 1:29:01.360 I was. 1:29:01.600 --> 1:29:03.960 I did it just to do it. Yeah, it just happened. 1:29:04.600 --> 1:29:07.280 Compared to that girl that's like she's doing everything right 1:29:07.840 --> 1:29:11.320 chemt She's right. My ship's one hundred bangs are bulging, 1:29:12.120 --> 1:29:14.479 Shit's want to pop off my body because it's so 1:29:14.720 --> 1:29:19.519 fucking engoraged. It's like this, it's like this, and then 1:29:19.520 --> 1:29:22.120 you're gonna get the best ship now because it's that way. 1:29:22.760 --> 1:29:25.000 And I'm glad you talked on that because some girls 1:29:25.040 --> 1:29:26.639 on college are ship. 1:29:26.960 --> 1:29:30.000 Yeah, it goes both ways. 1:29:30.920 --> 1:29:32.559 They can't get heart for the condom, and now I'm 1:29:32.800 --> 1:29:34.840 barely can fucking even do ship because like I don't 1:29:34.840 --> 1:29:37.080 even feel that your ship's sucking dry ship that we're 1:29:37.439 --> 1:29:37.840 working there. 1:29:38.600 --> 1:29:42.320 Take it out, take it up, you gotta let it out. 1:29:43.479 --> 1:29:45.360 I was like, yeah, So so then you get a 1:29:45.439 --> 1:29:49.439 girl that's like, everything's perfect, The motherfucker's perfect. The fucking 1:29:49.840 --> 1:29:52.640 's right is meditative, and it's like, now I'm one 1:29:52.720 --> 1:29:55.160 hundred percent and now she's getting the best ship ever. 1:29:55.160 --> 1:29:56.640 And now she's gonna talk to her friend Julian. Is 1:29:56.720 --> 1:29:59.280 that nigga? And you got someone else's gonna say, Julian sucks. 1:29:59.640 --> 1:30:01.760 So when you said that, I really appreciate it. 1:30:01.800 --> 1:30:02.479 But that's what I'm saying. 1:30:02.680 --> 1:30:05.240 But you have to be okay with that. 1:30:05.479 --> 1:30:07.240 I am okay with that because I know who I 1:30:07.400 --> 1:30:10.320 am in the bedroom, because I have that sexual confidence 1:30:10.640 --> 1:30:11.480 within myself. 1:30:11.680 --> 1:30:12.680 I know I know. 1:30:14.439 --> 1:30:17.880 If I'm if I'm going National Championship mode, come on, 1:30:18.000 --> 1:30:21.280 so not the super Bowl. If I'm going to Super Bowl, 1:30:23.240 --> 1:30:29.720 God and Judd, I'm ready I leave nigga. If I'm 1:30:29.720 --> 1:30:35.719 going that mode, stop playing. Stop. But you have different modes, 1:30:36.200 --> 1:30:36.760 different modes. 1:30:36.800 --> 1:30:39.479 But I believe that sexual confidence should not depend on 1:30:39.600 --> 1:30:43.560 anybody else. Confidence in general should come from yourself. I 1:30:43.600 --> 1:30:46.240 feel like you can learn. Like I always say this, 1:30:46.439 --> 1:30:48.640 like a lot of times I didn't have confidence on 1:30:48.880 --> 1:30:51.160 my personality because I used to be like, oh my gosh, 1:30:51.200 --> 1:30:53.200 I'm so loud, I'm so this. Andre was like, bitch, 1:30:53.200 --> 1:30:55.400 you're funny, like people love you, and like she used 1:30:55.400 --> 1:30:57.760 to pour into me. So I say all that to 1:30:57.840 --> 1:31:00.519 say because even though she would always tell me that, 1:31:00.880 --> 1:31:03.720 it wasn't until I felt it and I believed it. 1:31:04.080 --> 1:31:06.320 So I think that comes with any type of confidence, 1:31:06.560 --> 1:31:10.400 confidence with your looks, your personality, your sexualness, anything it 1:31:10.479 --> 1:31:12.360 has to come from with then, So I think my 1:31:12.520 --> 1:31:15.720 sexual confidence came from I know I'm sexy, I know 1:31:15.800 --> 1:31:18.360 I'm fine, I know what I can do in the bedroom. 1:31:18.880 --> 1:31:24.880 And I'm being serious as thank you. 1:31:26.600 --> 1:31:39.400 Ship he said, Look people, he said, Heaven. We love 1:31:39.520 --> 1:31:41.080 to create the environment. 1:31:44.240 --> 1:31:46.760 You. 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We do. 1:34:22.880 --> 1:34:25.920 So it's like the fact that I get to live 1:34:25.960 --> 1:34:28.400 a life that like once I do it because it's 1:34:28.439 --> 1:34:29.880 gonna be a time and I pray to God. I 1:34:29.880 --> 1:34:31.800 think I'm gonna living one hundred three years old. I 1:34:31.880 --> 1:34:36.680 was three. It's like when I'm on my deathbed and 1:34:36.760 --> 1:34:39.560 I'm oldys fucking I'm wrinkly and that's over with. I 1:34:39.640 --> 1:34:45.280 can literally just say, like, are you you let it 1:34:45.360 --> 1:34:48.200 all out? You left no stoneum turned. So when I 1:34:48.240 --> 1:34:51.919 have a MoMA like this with y'all and y'all beautiful 1:34:51.920 --> 1:34:55.479 as ship, it just adds to that. And that's why 1:34:55.560 --> 1:34:57.560 I'm just like, I have such a good two of 1:34:57.640 --> 1:35:01.080 the spirit, gratitude spirit, and I'm so And I'm talking 1:35:01.080 --> 1:35:03.680 about God a lot, not because I'm perfect, but I 1:35:03.760 --> 1:35:05.640 think it's because He gave us the opportunity to do this. 1:35:06.600 --> 1:35:09.680 I'm not perfect, fuck up and God knows that we 1:35:09.760 --> 1:35:12.880 have an I'll be telling God, please have pacial on me. 1:35:13.439 --> 1:35:16.639 I'm working. Yes, I'm working. He knows my heart thought 1:35:17.280 --> 1:35:18.479 and I'm not even trying to be like he knows 1:35:18.560 --> 1:35:21.519 my parents. I'm gonna do everything. No, I'm full of love. 1:35:21.840 --> 1:35:24.240 My foundation is full of love. My foundation is full 1:35:24.240 --> 1:35:28.560 of gratitude. But it's like he gave us his opportunity. 1:35:29.720 --> 1:35:32.080 He literally did. That's why I talk about him, and 1:35:32.160 --> 1:35:35.400 he gave us his opportunity. Could if you think about it, 1:35:35.520 --> 1:35:38.720 sometimes God could have catched this pitch black and like 1:35:38.880 --> 1:35:41.160 there'd be nothing, there's no world, we wouldn't even know, 1:35:41.400 --> 1:35:43.240 there would be no consciousness, you know what I'm saying. 1:35:43.880 --> 1:35:45.880 But instead he gave us consciousness. He gave us the 1:35:45.960 --> 1:35:49.519 ability to do things and have opportunities for things. And 1:35:49.680 --> 1:35:53.639 when I sit with y'all, I just like I can't 1:35:53.760 --> 1:35:58.679 fathom it. Sometimes I can't. It could have so fucking 1:35:58.760 --> 1:36:03.519 amazing thanks on a Wednesday afternoon, I can fucking come 1:36:03.600 --> 1:36:07.360 here with two beautiful women, talk my ship, talk with y'all, 1:36:08.479 --> 1:36:16.400 have my friends around, having aim too much. But I 1:36:16.520 --> 1:36:18.719 know God has blessed me because I have this mindset, 1:36:19.200 --> 1:36:23.880 because he's like he knows for a fact, Julie is 1:36:23.920 --> 1:36:26.519 never gonna get to ahead himself because he's always gonna 1:36:26.840 --> 1:36:31.280 He's always going to never forget me. God knows that 1:36:31.439 --> 1:36:31.760 about it. 1:36:31.800 --> 1:36:35.640 Always, Or you would like pray for the time you 1:36:35.760 --> 1:36:37.280 have now. I was, I was, I was. 1:36:37.960 --> 1:36:41.880 I don't even know man, like I was going to 1:36:42.040 --> 1:36:48.519 court for a fucking adderall charge ten years ago. Every month, 1:36:49.000 --> 1:36:51.479 twelve hours I had to drive twelve hours my mom's 1:36:51.520 --> 1:36:55.360 pickup truck that Billy ran having these conversations with God. 1:36:55.479 --> 1:36:58.400 And the thing about it is like I never one 1:36:58.600 --> 1:37:02.479 time doubt it. I never one time I didn't think 1:37:02.520 --> 1:37:05.360 this is possible. I knew this ship was gonna happen. 1:37:06.040 --> 1:37:07.840 I knew what was gonna happen, and and and and 1:37:08.080 --> 1:37:10.000 they just go back to my point, the fact that 1:37:10.120 --> 1:37:13.000 it just happened. And I'm so full of gratitude. I 1:37:13.160 --> 1:37:16.240 make a beat, I make a song, a walls engineering 1:37:16.439 --> 1:37:18.640 my nigga tims in the fucking building, and at the 1:37:18.760 --> 1:37:20.880 end of the day, I got drinks being poured up. 1:37:21.200 --> 1:37:23.920 This is how life lie. Let me let me tell 1:37:23.920 --> 1:37:25.240 you some ship right now. Let me tell you some 1:37:25.320 --> 1:37:27.240 ship right now, camera one, wherever you camera get me. 1:37:29.120 --> 1:37:33.320 I did everything and have done everything I said I 1:37:33.400 --> 1:37:36.600 was gonna do. And a lot of and and and 1:37:36.720 --> 1:37:40.760 a lot of niggas can't say that. And that's why 1:37:40.800 --> 1:37:45.000 I'm so fucking full of gratitude. I did that ship, 1:37:45.080 --> 1:37:46.680 and and and and and I don't talk about it 1:37:46.680 --> 1:37:48.719 a lot because I get got all the praising, the glory, 1:37:49.000 --> 1:37:52.880 but it's like for a nigga to have this dream 1:37:52.960 --> 1:37:57.840 of four years old, that's what I get. 1:37:59.080 --> 1:38:02.240 I'm waiting, but let me ask you this. 1:38:02.400 --> 1:38:05.400 It's like, it's like it's crazy. I just can't believe it. 1:38:05.800 --> 1:38:09.320 I just can't believe it. It's fucking wild. Like I 1:38:09.520 --> 1:38:11.840 had a ship at four years old and this nigga 1:38:11.880 --> 1:38:15.760 did it. I'm gonna cry. Sorry about to stop it. 1:38:15.800 --> 1:38:20.720 I'm not doing it though, keep going because like it's 1:38:20.800 --> 1:38:24.160 like it's insane to me, but this nigga did it. 1:38:24.560 --> 1:38:30.360 Yeah, you should be proud of you. That's amazing. It is. 1:38:30.520 --> 1:38:32.040 At the end of the day, I don't give a 1:38:32.080 --> 1:38:36.000 ship because because like most people in this life, I 1:38:36.160 --> 1:38:39.680 look at life sometimes and I'm just talking candidly to y'all. 1:38:40.479 --> 1:38:43.439 I don't give a fuck. I'm talking candidly because I 1:38:43.520 --> 1:38:45.720 look at people sometimes and it's like I look at 1:38:45.800 --> 1:38:49.400 there's so many people living in this world that don't 1:38:50.280 --> 1:38:54.760 have their dreams. Man. Because whether it was fear, whether 1:38:54.760 --> 1:38:59.200 it was time, didn't play to your cards, whether it 1:38:59.360 --> 1:39:01.439 just you didn't leave, gives me a lot of factors 1:39:01.479 --> 1:39:03.760 in it. The fact that like God has allowed me 1:39:04.400 --> 1:39:06.720 to see my dreams manifest and I get to be 1:39:06.840 --> 1:39:09.679 around people that are also living their. 1:39:09.600 --> 1:39:12.760 Dream It's beautiful. 1:39:12.920 --> 1:39:15.920 And I just feel like it's a testimony to like 1:39:16.280 --> 1:39:18.720 when faith's and hard work meet because you because you 1:39:18.800 --> 1:39:20.599 always had the faith, like what you were talking about 1:39:20.640 --> 1:39:22.680 with what you were going through ten years ago, you 1:39:22.760 --> 1:39:24.479 always had the faith within you put the work in 1:39:24.600 --> 1:39:26.639 in this manifestation of God's grace. 1:39:27.439 --> 1:39:29.320 It really is because I think a lot of times 1:39:29.360 --> 1:39:31.960 people don't realize, like God will give you the keys, 1:39:32.040 --> 1:39:34.160 but you have to walk to the door. He's not 1:39:34.280 --> 1:39:36.599 gonna push you there. You He's gonna give you the keys, 1:39:36.640 --> 1:39:38.600 but you gotta walk me up. And you got to 1:39:38.680 --> 1:39:41.760 sit there with a key. It's one hundred keys on there, 1:39:41.840 --> 1:39:44.840 but you gotta sit there, and you gotta keep don't. 1:39:44.880 --> 1:39:48.320 You gotta keep going, you know what I'm saying. And 1:39:49.000 --> 1:39:52.719 I and like I said, we can all all feelings 1:39:52.720 --> 1:39:56.120 because we've all been through our trials and tribulations. 1:39:55.520 --> 1:39:56.120 And things like that. 1:39:56.720 --> 1:40:01.840 But I think everybody on this earth has talents, everybody 1:40:02.000 --> 1:40:06.080 has something special. God didn't make us separate. We're not separate. 1:40:06.200 --> 1:40:08.760 Everybody is the same. But what is the difference is 1:40:08.920 --> 1:40:13.679 that the perseverance. And a lot of times I thank 1:40:13.880 --> 1:40:16.360 God that I didn't stop, because there's people out there 1:40:16.400 --> 1:40:17.960 you'll be like, oh my god, they're so talented or 1:40:18.000 --> 1:40:20.559 so that because they stop, or they be so close 1:40:20.600 --> 1:40:25.640 they stopped, And I thank God that. I always say this, 1:40:25.800 --> 1:40:28.400 my faith is stronger than my doubt because I never stopped. 1:40:28.400 --> 1:40:30.040 I said, I don't know how, I don't know how. 1:40:30.560 --> 1:40:32.720 You just got to keep going. And I think us 1:40:32.840 --> 1:40:34.479 just sitting here in this room is a testament to 1:40:34.560 --> 1:40:37.360 that that you just don't stop. You can't stop because 1:40:37.360 --> 1:40:40.360 if you do stop, it's gonna get worse. What's the 1:40:40.439 --> 1:40:42.920 point of stopping? What is the point of stop? Once 1:40:42.960 --> 1:40:45.320 you stop, you gotta start over again. What there's no 1:40:46.160 --> 1:40:50.639 there is no good coming out from stopping. And even 1:40:50.680 --> 1:40:52.880 though it gets tough and you're like, oh my god, 1:40:52.920 --> 1:40:54.320 I haven't done it, I haven't done it, but it 1:40:54.360 --> 1:40:58.040 gets worse if you stop. And well, no, I was 1:40:58.080 --> 1:40:59.880 just not saying. It's like the age old saying it. 1:41:00.040 --> 1:41:02.960 People always say nothing good comes from staying in your 1:41:03.000 --> 1:41:05.760 comfort zone. You have to be uncomfortable to grow and 1:41:05.880 --> 1:41:06.880 to get to where you're trying to go. 1:41:06.960 --> 1:41:11.439 And like, I'm just happy that, like y'all, myself included 1:41:12.479 --> 1:41:20.320 everyone here. History books, history books at a lot to 1:41:21.360 --> 1:41:26.439 a lot to ang a lot to. I just I 1:41:26.600 --> 1:41:30.040 just love Washington. I just love Washington, T Washing T. 1:41:30.479 --> 1:41:33.200 I just love Washington. I just love Washington, DC. Right, 1:41:34.880 --> 1:41:38.560 And you know, I love history. I love history, Like 1:41:38.640 --> 1:41:40.879 I said I have, I have a reverence and respect 1:41:41.680 --> 1:41:43.479 for a lot of the greats. Even if it's like 1:41:43.640 --> 1:41:47.760 presidents that there's some bullshit, they still did it. You know, 1:41:48.360 --> 1:41:52.759 even Donald Trump, it's the fucking jackass. He's crazy, he's wild, 1:41:52.880 --> 1:41:57.160 he's an idiot. Think it's a president say so, And 1:41:57.280 --> 1:41:58.800 now I say that, It's like, well, I don't go 1:41:58.880 --> 1:42:04.080 to Washington here. I just left yesterday. It's like I 1:42:04.160 --> 1:42:08.479 see the statues and at the Lincoln Memorial and at 1:42:08.520 --> 1:42:12.320 the Washington Memorial. I'm thinking about all the people and 1:42:12.439 --> 1:42:15.880 Martin Luther King making the speech. I think, Lincoln Memorial, 1:42:15.960 --> 1:42:22.360 Thomas Jefferson, the National Smithsonian Black History Museum. It's like 1:42:23.560 --> 1:42:26.640 these people and the reason when I said Trump, it's like, 1:42:26.760 --> 1:42:31.240 cause like Trump's an asshole, but he still took control 1:42:31.280 --> 1:42:34.160 of his life and made some out of himself. He's 1:42:34.200 --> 1:42:36.920 a fucking dickhead. Whatever. Whatever. I'm not. I'm not I'm 1:42:36.920 --> 1:42:38.720 not trying to get into politicians ship. But it's like 1:42:40.360 --> 1:42:43.120 there's this like small respect for niggas that like still 1:42:43.200 --> 1:42:44.800 make some of themselves because the end of the day, 1:42:44.800 --> 1:42:46.559 it's like you could have chose the latter. 1:42:47.200 --> 1:42:49.080 Wow, he was already read. 1:42:51.040 --> 1:42:52.240 White man in America. 1:42:52.520 --> 1:42:55.080 I said this the other day on decision decisions. If 1:42:55.120 --> 1:42:57.240 you're a white man in America and you're not rich, 1:42:57.280 --> 1:43:00.200 you just fucking suck because the keys of life are hated. See, 1:43:00.479 --> 1:43:05.120 they are don't feel you are fit male in America 1:43:05.200 --> 1:43:07.679 and you're not rich and successful. That's your own thought. 1:43:09.479 --> 1:43:13.599 Give props to Barack Obama because those were the people 1:43:13.640 --> 1:43:16.240 that are you know what I'm saying, like you said, 1:43:16.439 --> 1:43:20.320 Martin Luther King because it's harder, But I get your 1:43:20.360 --> 1:43:22.760 delusion point because I think delusion. 1:43:23.800 --> 1:43:24.400 Successful. 1:43:25.360 --> 1:43:28.000 It's always successful. Everybody that is successful. 1:43:28.520 --> 1:43:29.200 He's delusion. 1:43:29.880 --> 1:43:32.280 So crazy about America though, America, And I'm so glad 1:43:32.280 --> 1:43:37.000 we having this conversation because it's like my thoughts, America 1:43:37.360 --> 1:43:41.000 is like a weird ass place. This how the we 1:43:41.120 --> 1:43:46.120 live on. I love living here. I'm appreciative. It's the 1:43:46.240 --> 1:43:49.960 best country in the fucking world. I'm probably being American 1:43:50.040 --> 1:44:02.280 whatever type ship. But it's like, I'm proud that was 1:44:02.360 --> 1:44:04.760 like nigga, but like America is kind of fucked up 1:44:04.800 --> 1:44:07.600 too though. I thought about the other day and I 1:44:07.680 --> 1:44:10.439 went to Will Smith's page. Will Smith had posted like 1:44:10.560 --> 1:44:15.439 the thirty year anniversary of Bad Boys, right, he had 1:44:15.520 --> 1:44:19.599 tagged Michael Bay. I went to Michael Baks's Instagram page. 1:44:19.920 --> 1:44:23.920 I'm Michael Bay. He's a great director, Michael Michael Bay. 1:44:24.360 --> 1:44:28.680 He said like, yeah, he had a video of him 1:44:28.880 --> 1:44:31.920 meeting Trump and he did a secret service Super Bowl 1:44:31.960 --> 1:44:35.200 commercial and it was a dope ass commercial. America has 1:44:35.240 --> 1:44:37.600 been founded because this and the third it had like 1:44:37.720 --> 1:44:40.240 Teddy Roosevelt in it and Franklin Delano Roosevelt in it. 1:44:40.880 --> 1:44:44.439 And I was like, it's so crazy because like America 1:44:44.520 --> 1:44:50.639 is amazing, but niggas really stole this bitch. Yeah, literally 1:44:51.400 --> 1:44:53.360 stole this bitch. 1:44:54.280 --> 1:44:56.160 And I installed it from the Indians. 1:44:56.479 --> 1:45:00.360 Americans and it's like it made me feel weird because 1:45:00.360 --> 1:45:02.800 I'm like, we're so prideful about being an American. I 1:45:02.920 --> 1:45:05.160 know this is going like a whole different way right now, 1:45:05.320 --> 1:45:07.080 but I thought we're just like talking. 1:45:06.920 --> 1:45:07.600 Shit is what we do. 1:45:07.960 --> 1:45:11.560 But It's like, niggas really came to this bitch in 1:45:11.560 --> 1:45:13.880 fourteen ninety two and. 1:45:13.920 --> 1:45:20.200 We're like, this is ours. But not only that, motherfuckery. 1:45:20.360 --> 1:45:24.519 On top of that, they did not expect this to happen. 1:45:24.920 --> 1:45:28.080 They didn't expect a black man to be on the 1:45:28.160 --> 1:45:30.439 number one show on Netflix. They didn't expect two black 1:45:30.479 --> 1:45:32.880 girls to create an empire a poor mind. They didn't 1:45:32.920 --> 1:45:35.400 expect Tyler Perry to be a billionaire. They didn't expect 1:45:35.640 --> 1:45:38.880 jay Z. That's what I'm saying. We are doing things. 1:45:38.960 --> 1:45:42.160 That's why I said, I get the delusional talk because 1:45:42.520 --> 1:45:46.640 every successful black person in America, even if you are 1:45:46.760 --> 1:45:50.200 making six figures a year, you are an anomaly because 1:45:50.240 --> 1:45:52.960 we were not supposed to do this. They are confused, 1:45:53.040 --> 1:45:55.240 they are mad, and that is why. 1:45:55.760 --> 1:45:57.960 So you know, it is what it is. And then 1:45:58.040 --> 1:46:01.640 again it's like America was built and then it's like 1:46:02.280 --> 1:46:04.720 we do get these opportunities. So it's like it's kind 1:46:04.720 --> 1:46:06.320 of like a double edged sword because I be thinking's 1:46:06.520 --> 1:46:09.320 sometimes it's like going back to fourteen ninety two and Ship, 1:46:09.360 --> 1:46:10.920 and I'm thinking about the Pilgrims and Ship like that. 1:46:11.960 --> 1:46:15.000 I'm like, damn, I'm like, damn, I think it's really stolarship. Nag, 1:46:15.200 --> 1:46:19.160 it was chilling, but wouldn't. I'm not gonna say nothing 1:46:19.200 --> 1:46:22.479 else because because because my thing is like it was 1:46:22.600 --> 1:46:28.000 native American's mindset to to to expand like this, and 1:46:28.080 --> 1:46:30.599 I think that I think it's really the thought America 1:46:30.720 --> 1:46:35.240 is more so like expansion fast, do whatever you want. 1:46:35.280 --> 1:46:37.560 So you're saying he's good because. 1:46:39.240 --> 1:46:41.920 That and and to be honest with you, that is 1:46:42.080 --> 1:46:44.680 the I'm glad you asked that because that is the 1:46:44.840 --> 1:46:47.200 question that you asked. It's like, damn, that's fucked up. 1:46:47.200 --> 1:46:50.360 They that's fucked up. How the hell they do that? 1:46:50.479 --> 1:46:53.720 But then it's like, would have would it have been 1:46:53.760 --> 1:46:56.680 these skyscrapers in the fucking building? The niggas like it's 1:46:56.720 --> 1:46:59.439 such a weird it's and we can't do nothing about it. 1:46:59.520 --> 1:47:02.000 Were just here, We're the latest advantage time in the world. 1:47:02.520 --> 1:47:04.400 But at the same time, it is it's a it's 1:47:04.439 --> 1:47:07.120 a weird phenomenon. I will say that because it's like 1:47:09.720 --> 1:47:14.880 have you seen the flower moon? Oh? Yeah, that's so 1:47:15.120 --> 1:47:19.360 that's what I'm saying. It's like, I'm not shi it 1:47:19.479 --> 1:47:22.640 is fucked up, it's up up, it's fucked up. I'm 1:47:22.640 --> 1:47:24.160 not I'm not trying to even speak on like I 1:47:24.240 --> 1:47:29.800 love Native Americans the best, but it's like, but it's 1:47:29.800 --> 1:47:36.000 also like I don't know what they because I'm getting way. 1:47:36.439 --> 1:47:38.320 This is like, this is like the in house conversation 1:47:38.960 --> 1:47:43.320 going on. But it's like I keep going, I don't 1:47:43.320 --> 1:47:44.840 want to get too deep with this ship because that 1:47:44.960 --> 1:47:47.400 can get deep, and it's like, no, I like it. 1:47:47.479 --> 1:47:49.920 I love having conversations like these because I feel like 1:47:50.200 --> 1:47:53.360 for most people, it's just about I get where you're 1:47:53.360 --> 1:47:55.280 coming from and I agree with you. But I think 1:47:55.280 --> 1:47:57.920 for most people it's like more so about the morals. 1:47:58.200 --> 1:48:00.719 But yes, so they just feel like it was wrong. 1:48:01.040 --> 1:48:03.599 It was wrong to come here and ripe and pillage 1:48:03.760 --> 1:48:05.720 and steal everything from them. 1:48:05.840 --> 1:48:06.599 It definitely was wrong. 1:48:06.640 --> 1:48:09.639 But at the end of the day, when it comes 1:48:09.680 --> 1:48:13.360 to morals, I always say, how much morals do most 1:48:13.400 --> 1:48:15.719 people really have? Like people would love to have morals 1:48:15.760 --> 1:48:17.200 when it comes to certain things, but I feel like 1:48:17.240 --> 1:48:17.840 most people don't. 1:48:17.840 --> 1:48:22.040 Really. It's so funny you say that because somebody be like, damn, 1:48:22.320 --> 1:48:24.360 they really did that shit fucked up, But they're being 1:48:24.479 --> 1:48:27.839 They'll be in their five bedroom house like yeah from 1:48:27.880 --> 1:48:30.120 other people. So it's like so it's like, nigga, you 1:48:30.120 --> 1:48:33.160 wouldn't be able to do that ship if that's why 1:48:33.240 --> 1:48:36.599 it's tricky. Yep, that's why it's so tricky because it's 1:48:36.680 --> 1:48:38.880 like nigga, yeah, we wouldn't be happy able to have 1:48:38.960 --> 1:48:40.519 this conversation. You know. 1:48:41.000 --> 1:48:43.160 People love to be fast out right about what he. 1:48:43.240 --> 1:48:44.840 Just fucked up. It's just fucked up. That's what I'm 1:48:44.840 --> 1:48:47.400 gonna say. It's fucked up and it's messed up and 1:48:47.760 --> 1:48:50.360 we can't control it. I agree twenty five. 1:48:50.439 --> 1:48:53.400 Now, we wouldn't know that was in fourteen. 1:48:54.280 --> 1:48:55.639 Because I wouldn't have done it like that. I would 1:48:55.640 --> 1:48:57.679 have came in and like, Yo, this land is fucking 1:48:57.760 --> 1:49:01.360 great man. It is been like yo, yeah, my nigga, 1:49:01.640 --> 1:49:08.760 my nigga. Because I wanted to ask you what I 1:49:08.800 --> 1:49:10.640 would have done, but I would have done it. Came 1:49:10.720 --> 1:49:15.400 down said, oh ship like this ship fire, Oh ships 1:49:15.439 --> 1:49:16.439 so much land here? 1:49:16.600 --> 1:49:16.680 Bro? 1:49:17.760 --> 1:49:23.679 Hey bro, how about this. We should come up together 1:49:23.760 --> 1:49:27.360 with a game plan. Okay, we come, we want we wanted, 1:49:27.880 --> 1:49:30.360 we want to expand we came on this boat. We 1:49:30.560 --> 1:49:33.479 was on this bitch for fucking thirty days, going on 1:49:33.640 --> 1:49:36.560 choppy ass water. We had a fight. We had to 1:49:36.680 --> 1:49:41.080 fight some niggas didn't even make it. Dog, I'm still 1:49:41.120 --> 1:49:45.800 grieving over my nigga jumped overboard this bitch. Y'all had 1:49:45.840 --> 1:49:48.800 a nice ass land here. I think it's it. I 1:49:48.840 --> 1:49:51.560 think we should expand this bitch and I think about it. 1:49:52.800 --> 1:49:54.519 I think we should come together because I don't want 1:49:54.560 --> 1:49:58.519 to fucking just play show. I don't want to fight. 1:49:58.560 --> 1:50:00.439 I don't want to kill somebody. I don't want to 1:50:00.479 --> 1:50:03.800 torment nobody. I want us to be a peaceful coalition together, 1:50:04.120 --> 1:50:05.360 and let's expand this bitch. 1:50:05.439 --> 1:50:05.719 Baby. 1:50:05.920 --> 1:50:08.160 Yeah, and we can do it together. Y'all can be 1:50:08.280 --> 1:50:10.799 fucking governors and mayors and presidents. We can be governors, 1:50:10.840 --> 1:50:13.920 maids and presidents. And that's all they've done it. Then again, 1:50:14.000 --> 1:50:15.880 I think, I think, I think maybe they ran into 1:50:15.960 --> 1:50:18.200 some like no, yeah. 1:50:18.080 --> 1:50:19.680 That's definitely what that brand is. 1:50:20.280 --> 1:50:23.320 And then like niggas was not like listening, okay, and 1:50:23.400 --> 1:50:27.519 then okay, and then they wrote Pocahontas to make us 1:50:27.560 --> 1:50:28.320 say ship. 1:50:28.240 --> 1:50:30.559 Was sway under the blue Cormon. 1:50:30.720 --> 1:50:33.040 I don't know. This is crazy how we got here. 1:50:33.120 --> 1:50:36.160 I'm so sorry. I loved y'all so amazing, y'all beautiful. 1:50:36.320 --> 1:50:38.680 I tell y'all four minds is amazing. I don't know 1:50:38.720 --> 1:50:39.840 how we got here, but this is the thought that 1:50:39.920 --> 1:50:41.920 happened in my head though, because I just left DC. 1:50:42.800 --> 1:50:44.280 That's what I would have done, though. I would have 1:50:44.360 --> 1:50:46.519 tried to be like, no, we ain't doing that, man, 1:50:46.680 --> 1:50:48.800 like come on, man, please, nigga, like I don't want 1:50:48.800 --> 1:50:50.759 to niggas some niggas. 1:50:50.800 --> 1:50:53.160 I know that's going to ever happened though, because they 1:50:53.200 --> 1:50:56.479 were darker skinned people, so they automatically went on that 1:50:56.600 --> 1:50:58.560 land and looked at them as slaves and you're beneath me. 1:50:59.080 --> 1:51:01.240 I don't even think that's what happened, as far as like, oh, 1:51:01.360 --> 1:51:03.960 let's try, and they were like, no, it. 1:51:04.080 --> 1:51:07.519 Was never Do you think they came in some gangster ship. 1:51:07.680 --> 1:51:10.559 They came over here, watch some y ens. 1:51:11.080 --> 1:51:11.400 Damn. 1:51:11.760 --> 1:51:15.439 They definitely didn't. They went the lock up. They wasn't talking. 1:51:15.880 --> 1:51:18.120 They know, it was none of that was negotia. It 1:51:18.200 --> 1:51:20.639 wasn't no negotiation. It wasn't even a chance. 1:51:20.439 --> 1:51:22.160 I thought they had. I thought they had a dinner first. 1:51:22.920 --> 1:51:30.640 They were giving cet. 1:51:30.760 --> 1:51:32.160 I thought they had a dinner first, and they had 1:51:32.160 --> 1:51:33.880 a little The. 1:51:33.920 --> 1:51:37.920 Truth behind Thanksgiving. I'm gonna send you a documentary about 1:51:37.920 --> 1:51:40.480 the truth about Thanksgiving booth because. 1:51:40.200 --> 1:51:42.639 We're gonna get really never want to eat turkey again. 1:51:42.800 --> 1:51:46.240 Hey, you're gonna turn beach. I'm telling you guess what. 1:51:47.160 --> 1:51:50.439 We all can agree. The culprit, you know, the culprit 1:51:50.560 --> 1:51:54.400 is right. It was Therit, the white the white man. 1:51:55.080 --> 1:51:58.680 I'm a white best friend. It ain't about you, So. 1:52:01.320 --> 1:52:05.640 All right, we all move off. Ever since I was 1:52:05.720 --> 1:52:11.640 a little girl, I've loved being on camera, entertaining myself 1:52:11.960 --> 1:52:15.680 and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts and opinions 1:52:16.000 --> 1:52:20.400 on anything pop culture. For the past few years, I've 1:52:20.479 --> 1:52:27.519 heard your requests. But now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all, 1:52:27.720 --> 1:52:38.200 let's get into the teeth with love lexp Tasty. One 1:52:38.360 --> 1:52:39.040 thing that I've. 1:52:38.920 --> 1:52:42.559 Put on the list, y'all, is never settled, And if 1:52:42.560 --> 1:52:46.400 you're an avid listener of poor Minds, then you probably 1:52:46.479 --> 1:52:49.840 have heard me say these numerous times. Like I say 1:52:49.920 --> 1:52:53.200 these all the time, I've always felt this way. Don't 1:52:53.280 --> 1:52:55.759 ever settle for anything in life if it's not exactly 1:52:55.840 --> 1:52:58.720 what you want. Don't let people tell you that you 1:52:58.840 --> 1:53:01.280 cannot get what you want out of these life. 1:53:01.080 --> 1:53:02.719 Because it's absolutely possible. 1:53:03.080 --> 1:53:04.960 I had so many people when I was in my 1:53:05.080 --> 1:53:10.560 twenties telling me that the things that I wanted was unrealistic, unreasonable, 1:53:10.800 --> 1:53:13.519 and if I had listened to those people, I wouldn't 1:53:13.520 --> 1:53:14.519 be where I am today. 1:53:14.920 --> 1:53:16.760 It's not for anybody else to understand that. 1:53:16.880 --> 1:53:18.880 As long as you know what it is and you 1:53:19.040 --> 1:53:20.920 willing to put the work in to get the things 1:53:21.000 --> 1:53:23.680 that you want, you don't have to settle. And don't 1:53:23.760 --> 1:53:25.720 let people convince you that you have to settle. It's 1:53:25.760 --> 1:53:28.760 usually people that are settling in their own lives that 1:53:29.200 --> 1:53:32.599 try to, you know, make other people feel like, oh, 1:53:32.720 --> 1:53:35.360 you can't do this, or you can't make that happen. 1:53:36.000 --> 1:53:38.880 You're thinking too far outside the box. How you gonna 1:53:38.920 --> 1:53:39.080 do that? 1:53:39.760 --> 1:53:42.840 Up now, boo, you can't do that. I could do 1:53:43.120 --> 1:53:46.919 whatever I want to do, okay, and I will, so yeah, don't. 1:53:46.920 --> 1:53:50.559 Don't move over. So now it's time to get into 1:53:51.000 --> 1:53:51.559 the box. 1:53:51.720 --> 1:53:55.000 At about about. 1:53:56.920 --> 1:53:58.439 First of all, we are way over time. 1:53:58.800 --> 1:54:02.360 We are we are having fun, though we are having fun. 1:54:06.439 --> 1:54:09.160 Back of the week is like the song please that 1:54:09.280 --> 1:54:11.680 we've been jamming this week, whatever music you've been listening to. 1:54:12.040 --> 1:54:13.439 Ship y'all, hold on, y'all. 1:54:15.240 --> 1:54:17.920 Somebody called him back. Somebody who called him back. I 1:54:17.960 --> 1:54:18.720 don't know about to. 1:54:20.320 --> 1:54:21.840 Having I'm weak. 1:54:23.720 --> 1:54:24.439 What's going on? 1:54:24.800 --> 1:54:30.920 We got a phone call going, Hey, I'm on Poor Minds, 1:54:31.760 --> 1:54:35.440 Poor Minds podcast right now, right, I gotta check this out. 1:54:36.160 --> 1:54:38.200 And we were just talking about we were talking about 1:54:38.240 --> 1:54:41.760 relationships and like adoration and gratitude. 1:54:41.960 --> 1:54:42.120 Is it? 1:54:42.400 --> 1:54:42.960 I can't see? 1:54:43.160 --> 1:54:45.960 And uh, I called you because I wanted to like 1:54:46.160 --> 1:54:49.040 just say hello to you in front of everybody and 1:54:49.120 --> 1:54:49.960 ship let. 1:54:49.920 --> 1:54:52.000 Me see, so I can't see. 1:54:53.560 --> 1:54:57.920 How are you when you coming on the show? 1:55:00.960 --> 1:55:01.400 All right? 1:55:08.600 --> 1:55:09.720 Are we finna set it up? 1:55:12.000 --> 1:55:13.240 Okay? You? 1:55:15.040 --> 1:55:15.280 Yes? 1:55:16.040 --> 1:55:19.200 Okay, God, Julie gods an exclusive though. 1:55:21.520 --> 1:55:35.400 I'm good. How are you? Mm hmmm. 1:55:41.600 --> 1:55:42.040 Mm hmm. 1:55:48.880 --> 1:55:49.280 He is. 1:55:49.440 --> 1:55:51.920 He has really great energy. We have really been enjoying 1:55:51.960 --> 1:55:54.200 this episode. We can't wait to have you on the 1:55:54.240 --> 1:55:54.680 show too. 1:55:57.240 --> 1:56:06.120 Yeah. Yes, you gotta come back to the A. 1:56:07.480 --> 1:56:11.600 Okay, yeah, I love you, bro. I just wanted to say, 1:56:11.600 --> 1:56:23.240 what up? I love you, bro? Call me, I love you, bro. 1:56:23.360 --> 1:56:23.800 We'll talk. 1:56:25.920 --> 1:56:28.960 Now. Y'all couldn't see, but that was the Charles Malik 1:56:29.080 --> 1:56:32.560 which field on FaceTime, just something like that's what we 1:56:32.640 --> 1:56:33.800 do over here. You know what I'm saying? 1:56:34.640 --> 1:56:37.520 Nothing too crazy, I'm too crazy. Okay, So now listening 1:56:37.600 --> 1:56:39.320 to the bop of the week, So my bop of 1:56:39.360 --> 1:56:39.560 the week. 1:56:39.600 --> 1:56:42.960 Y'all know. I love Alex Eisley. Y'all know she is 1:56:43.120 --> 1:56:45.360 like an R and B sensation. She has been doing 1:56:45.440 --> 1:56:48.160 music for a long time, but she just finally finally 1:56:48.320 --> 1:56:51.280 dropped a new single called Hands and y'all know, just 1:56:51.320 --> 1:56:54.000 about putting your hands on me and making me feel 1:56:54.040 --> 1:56:56.520 real good. Shout out to Alex Eisley, keep dropping that music. 1:56:56.600 --> 1:56:58.600 We have been waiting so, y'all, I'm so glad she's 1:56:58.640 --> 1:57:00.760 dropping more music. We had her at the l A show. 1:57:00.880 --> 1:57:03.720 We did so shout out to my girl, Alex Eisley. 1:57:05.920 --> 1:57:07.440 Alex, how you doing, period? 1:57:09.520 --> 1:57:10.760 What is this an exclusive? 1:57:12.880 --> 1:57:15.960 Is this you? Tim? Period? Big Tim Tim. 1:57:15.880 --> 1:57:22.280 Said, don't be too amazing, Thank you, thank you? Now 1:57:24.480 --> 1:57:26.240 when that drops summer. 1:57:26.440 --> 1:57:27.839 Okay, okay, we're ready. 1:57:29.720 --> 1:57:32.480 Stopping so damn I can't play it on my birthday. 1:57:32.840 --> 1:57:33.400 It's all right. 1:57:33.680 --> 1:57:37.840 I got in a video like this, you know it's crazy. 1:57:38.800 --> 1:57:42.800 That is going to be like I think the we're 1:57:42.800 --> 1:57:45.400 gonna have to have like a like a video case 1:57:45.400 --> 1:57:46.480 I did Instagram. 1:57:46.480 --> 1:57:48.920 I was like, I'm not gonna lie. My homegirl works 1:57:48.920 --> 1:57:52.520 for a record label. Stopping she and she sent me 1:57:52.640 --> 1:57:55.080 like this TikTok thing to She was like, we're trying 1:57:55.080 --> 1:57:57.960 to make this little filter you up, can you make? 1:57:58.240 --> 1:58:00.280 Can you make a video? When I tell you I 1:58:00.360 --> 1:58:01.920 made it and it got a million views? 1:58:02.360 --> 1:58:03.200 It was so for me. 1:58:03.600 --> 1:58:06.280 So I got y'all, bro, I got over. 1:58:06.840 --> 1:58:08.680 You know the only reason I did that videos because 1:58:08.760 --> 1:58:10.320 Kellen made I remember. 1:58:10.640 --> 1:58:15.120 That's stop it part because because because it bed traving 1:58:15.840 --> 1:58:18.160 that ship. Cool, but it's really a stop it part 1:58:19.360 --> 1:58:24.720 because that's really mood because like a quick quick So 1:58:24.880 --> 1:58:26.440 like I did this video yesterday. We were in the 1:58:26.440 --> 1:58:31.000 studio a video yesterday. Huh you did a video yesterday. 1:58:31.560 --> 1:58:33.440 It's like I was like in the studio, look at 1:58:33.480 --> 1:58:33.760 this ship. 1:58:36.680 --> 1:58:37.560 Oh you was lead. 1:58:39.280 --> 1:58:41.400 I know, that's right exactly. And we didn't stop a 1:58:41.480 --> 1:58:43.800 nigga nigger. Right. 1:58:43.840 --> 1:58:45.440 What you've been listening to all right? 1:58:46.920 --> 1:58:49.360 Is this listening session? We haven't Yeah, I've been listening 1:58:49.400 --> 1:58:52.160 to every day period. It's called every day No no, no, 1:58:52.560 --> 1:58:56.560 that's called tropics. Any dropping the summer time, we got 1:58:56.640 --> 1:58:57.600 some other ship you can work out. 1:58:58.720 --> 1:58:59.480 You know, we're gonna say that. 1:58:59.520 --> 1:59:03.320 We're gonna say, right, I'm getting ahead of myself. 1:59:05.520 --> 1:59:08.480 So I've been listening to so y'all know Leon Thommas 1:59:08.560 --> 1:59:11.280 has the song, but everybody's been listening to this song. 1:59:11.680 --> 1:59:14.560 But he just came out with the remix with Chris Brown, 1:59:14.680 --> 1:59:19.600 the Cbe remick and you know anything Chris Brown to gold. 1:59:21.080 --> 1:59:25.720 He's he has and what was already a head of course, 1:59:27.000 --> 1:59:29.880 like a crazy little rat. I do like but love, 1:59:29.960 --> 1:59:32.200 but I also am a Chris Brown, and like I 1:59:32.320 --> 1:59:33.040 like Chris Brown. 1:59:32.840 --> 1:59:34.920 I'm a Chris Brown staying. I gotta let the remix 1:59:35.040 --> 1:59:36.400 run a few times. I like him. 1:59:37.200 --> 1:59:40.960 Let me say some about Chris Brown. Chris Brown, he's 1:59:41.000 --> 1:59:44.920 at Chris Brown is a fucking goat. I met the 1:59:45.000 --> 1:59:48.000 nigga in l A two years ago at one of 1:59:48.040 --> 1:59:50.120 his parties and ship he was first. He's so cool 1:59:51.120 --> 1:59:51.560 but like. 1:59:53.200 --> 1:59:56.600 He just his ear is different because she has an 1:59:56.680 --> 1:59:58.200 R and B ear and a pop ear. 1:59:59.360 --> 2:00:00.680 No, not the Mutt remix. 2:00:01.880 --> 2:00:02.840 It didn't do it for me. 2:00:03.080 --> 2:00:06.040 It didn't, it didn't need him. But it's still fire. 2:00:06.680 --> 2:00:10.320 It's cool. That's original song. I love Chris Brown, so 2:00:10.400 --> 2:00:12.720 this is not no to him. It's cool, you know 2:00:12.760 --> 2:00:13.200 what I'm saying. 2:00:13.240 --> 2:00:15.800 But I get I get it, I get it. 2:00:15.960 --> 2:00:17.320 You listen to it. Ten times. 2:00:18.640 --> 2:00:21.080 A few times. I only listened to it one. I mean, 2:00:21.120 --> 2:00:24.760 it's the same song, just you know, from Chris Brown. 2:00:25.920 --> 2:00:28.720 He's a beast, and I'm so glad he's getting his 2:00:28.840 --> 2:00:30.760 flowers because that nigga's been around for a long time. 2:00:31.280 --> 2:00:37.200 And it's just like he man, Mutt is insane. That 2:00:37.400 --> 2:00:38.680 is one of the best songs of the year. But 2:00:38.720 --> 2:00:42.120 then you go to this album Vibes on Lie. Yes 2:00:42.200 --> 2:00:45.560 it is, but it's just like his album. I don't 2:00:45.560 --> 2:00:47.920 know why he didn't, like submitted for the Grammys. It 2:00:47.960 --> 2:00:49.560 would have won the Grammy. I don't know. I don't 2:00:49.560 --> 2:00:52.320 know he did. I don't think he did, because that 2:00:52.360 --> 2:00:54.560 would have won a Grammy for Best rm ME Album, 2:00:54.640 --> 2:00:57.560 for sure. I think so, yes it is. It's like 2:00:58.640 --> 2:01:00.640 I think I played it five million times. 2:01:00.760 --> 2:01:01.560 It's a slid. 2:01:02.200 --> 2:01:04.640 It's really tim My nigga tim Well just playing the song. 2:01:05.040 --> 2:01:08.640 It was a bro. I was playing Mutt a lot. Yeah, 2:01:08.720 --> 2:01:11.520 it's a bro bro bro play yes, play, yes it is. 2:01:13.840 --> 2:01:18.040 And then I haven't stopped playing that for two months, 2:01:18.120 --> 2:01:21.400 trade cause like, tell me that it's mine. Yes it is. 2:01:22.360 --> 2:01:24.240 You know, tell me to put some mind. 2:01:24.440 --> 2:01:27.360 Okay, now, tell me put some mind. 2:01:27.560 --> 2:01:31.520 Jeri. All right, now do you give good advice? 2:01:32.160 --> 2:01:32.840 Good? Great advice? 2:01:33.200 --> 2:01:35.640 Okay, So we're going to get into our favorite segment 2:01:35.680 --> 2:01:38.400 of the week. It's support your Hearts Out segment, where 2:01:38.640 --> 2:01:41.560 you know, we read a question and we give good advice. 2:01:41.680 --> 2:01:43.320 If you want your question answered on the show, make 2:01:43.320 --> 2:01:45.720 sure you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail 2:01:45.760 --> 2:01:47.520 dot com. If you're a Patreon member, make sure you 2:01:47.560 --> 2:01:49.320 put that in the headline and you get to skip 2:01:49.400 --> 2:01:51.040 the line. I think we're gonna do one today. 2:01:51.640 --> 2:01:51.760 Dre. 2:01:51.880 --> 2:01:53.440 You want to read George, you want me to readmind, 2:01:53.640 --> 2:01:54.840 I can read it. Okay, go ahead. 2:01:55.160 --> 2:01:58.240 First off, love y'all down. I want to stay anonymous, 2:01:58.280 --> 2:02:00.720 but I need advice. I've been with my kid's father 2:02:00.840 --> 2:02:03.560 for nine years. We got together when I was seventeen 2:02:03.600 --> 2:02:06.280 and he was twenty three. He's always taken care of me. 2:02:06.680 --> 2:02:08.760 We have two kids and another one on the way, 2:02:08.960 --> 2:02:11.560 and he's a great dad. I've always been big on 2:02:11.800 --> 2:02:15.080 oral hygiene. I'm a registered dental assistant, so that matters 2:02:15.120 --> 2:02:18.960 a lot to me. From the start, he avoided opening 2:02:19.040 --> 2:02:22.200 his mouth too much or tongue kissing. I later found 2:02:22.240 --> 2:02:25.400 out he had parodonal disease. I did let him know 2:02:25.640 --> 2:02:28.720 about his condition, and he ended up going to the Dennis. 2:02:29.080 --> 2:02:31.959 They told him he would eventually need a full mouth extraction, 2:02:32.560 --> 2:02:34.360 or he could just let his teeth fall out on 2:02:34.440 --> 2:02:37.280 their own. He told me that growing up, his mom 2:02:37.400 --> 2:02:39.680 never took him to the dentist. When I first met him, 2:02:39.720 --> 2:02:42.720 his teeth were covered with crown, so it wasn't obvious. 2:02:43.400 --> 2:02:46.400 Later down the line, he ended up getting veneers in Mexico. 2:02:47.000 --> 2:02:49.920 Now Here we are nine years later, he's thirty and 2:02:50.040 --> 2:02:52.800 talking about marriage, which is great and I want the same. 2:02:53.200 --> 2:02:56.080 He's a great father, he gets money, stays out the way, 2:02:56.280 --> 2:02:59.240 and he's fine. He really checks all the boxes and 2:02:59.320 --> 2:03:01.640 in today's world, men like that are hard to find. 2:03:02.080 --> 2:03:04.680 The only thing I can't get over is his oral hills. 2:03:05.040 --> 2:03:07.200 I can't even be intimate with my own man the 2:03:07.280 --> 2:03:09.160 way that I want to. I want to kiss him, 2:03:09.480 --> 2:03:11.440 like really kiss him, but I just can't. 2:03:11.880 --> 2:03:14.600 What would y'all do in any situation? And how would 2:03:14.640 --> 2:03:15.720 y'all handle that? 2:03:16.320 --> 2:03:19.120 Come on, man, come on, come on, Oh, he don't 2:03:19.120 --> 2:03:22.360 have no teeth. This is this is the thing about that. Okay, First, 2:03:22.360 --> 2:03:25.720 and from us person, from us, that's crazy taking off. 2:03:26.000 --> 2:03:29.040 Second off, this if that's your man of nine years. 2:03:29.640 --> 2:03:32.640 How you have not had the relationship to just be 2:03:32.720 --> 2:03:35.520 honest with each other? Yeah, my girl, fucking breast stink, 2:03:35.960 --> 2:03:38.480 teeth stab, gets your teeth fixed. At the end of 2:03:38.480 --> 2:03:40.200 the day, I love you, just that your teeth fucking 2:03:40.360 --> 2:03:42.200 suck and at the end of the day, your breast stinks. 2:03:42.440 --> 2:03:43.960 And then the day I'm tired of doing this ship 2:03:44.040 --> 2:03:49.000 with you? Why are they coming to poor you? Tell 2:03:49.040 --> 2:03:50.840 that nigga that So the end of the day, it's like, 2:03:51.880 --> 2:03:56.040 just tell him, say, Babe, your breath stinks, like ship, 2:03:56.880 --> 2:04:00.960 you have halotosis, paradontal disease. Listener means not working, crass 2:04:01.000 --> 2:04:03.640 white chips ain't working, and the crests mouth flash ain't working. 2:04:03.880 --> 2:04:05.480 At the end of the day, is this You need 2:04:05.520 --> 2:04:08.840 a fucking full makeover, bab and then full makeover. I 2:04:08.960 --> 2:04:10.520 love you to death. At the end of the day, 2:04:10.600 --> 2:04:15.240 I am getting aggravated and fucking annoyed. Yeah, by your 2:04:15.360 --> 2:04:19.560 breath and your fucking teeth. So please get him fixed. 2:04:19.880 --> 2:04:22.520 There you go, because I feel like if he has 2:04:22.600 --> 2:04:26.240 paradontal disease, he needs to let all of those he 2:04:26.320 --> 2:04:28.800 needs to get all of those teeth, and then he 2:04:28.920 --> 2:04:31.120 needs to go get in plenty shit. But I feel 2:04:31.200 --> 2:04:34.120 like y'all have already been together for like nine years 2:04:34.120 --> 2:04:36.560 a girl, so he probably feel like she we good. 2:04:36.720 --> 2:04:38.960 He probably feels like you're not tripping something. 2:04:39.040 --> 2:04:42.880 I would have been saying something along long long time ago. 2:04:43.000 --> 2:04:44.600 If you can't be best friends for your partner and 2:04:44.640 --> 2:04:45.560 get another girl. 2:04:45.640 --> 2:04:48.000 Oh yeah, you said a word with that, that's true. 2:04:48.120 --> 2:04:51.520 You should be comfortable as hell. Yeah, I would never 2:04:51.720 --> 2:04:54.040 let my best friend like if Drea was like a 2:04:54.080 --> 2:04:55.840 little I'd be like a little tart. 2:04:56.040 --> 2:04:57.040 You gotta let people know. 2:04:57.280 --> 2:04:59.920 Or vice versa. So if I can't tell my man 2:05:00.240 --> 2:05:04.160 that vice versa, my man should be the first one 2:05:04.280 --> 2:05:05.960 telling me if my breastk is he the one that's 2:05:06.000 --> 2:05:07.840 in my face? And I feel like over and she 2:05:07.960 --> 2:05:10.720 said everything is cool, but that girl that should be 2:05:10.880 --> 2:05:15.080 number one. World hygiene is very very, very very important. 2:05:15.120 --> 2:05:17.120 And I get that different people have different least of 2:05:17.200 --> 2:05:19.640 priorities of what's important to them, but I feel like 2:05:19.720 --> 2:05:21.720 mental health needs to be higher on your least than some. 2:05:21.760 --> 2:05:22.440 Of the other stuff. 2:05:23.000 --> 2:05:28.120 No, it's facts, big facts. Even that pushy said, she 2:05:30.760 --> 2:05:31.600 what have you done? 2:05:31.920 --> 2:05:32.400 What's going on? 2:05:34.360 --> 2:05:36.840 Wash right now? 2:05:37.680 --> 2:05:40.400 But I'm talking about like a little gym sweat. We 2:05:40.480 --> 2:05:43.840 ain't talking about anything else. Sometimes you get from the 2:05:43.880 --> 2:05:45.400 gym and you think you can lay down on the 2:05:45.440 --> 2:05:48.080 couch and pussy my stank a little bit them balls? 2:05:48.160 --> 2:05:52.160 Might that bay them balls? Stink a little bit. 2:05:54.800 --> 2:05:55.400 About the back there? 2:05:55.440 --> 2:05:56.520 Go wash the ball up. 2:05:57.480 --> 2:05:59.680 I'm real cleaning, I'm real big on hygen. 2:05:59.800 --> 2:05:59.840 You. 2:06:00.280 --> 2:06:03.040 I wipe my fucking balls so fucking much and have 2:06:03.200 --> 2:06:07.400 rashes almost. I fucking I write from so much. I 2:06:07.480 --> 2:06:09.200 want to. I want to be so clean and pure. 2:06:10.720 --> 2:06:12.240 I want you to enjoy it when you do it. 2:06:14.120 --> 2:06:19.000 Push that puss. I gotta going a shot right now, exactly, 2:06:19.160 --> 2:06:21.840 going there, right now, nigga, go in there, get your 2:06:21.880 --> 2:06:24.280 love well oness, so on, put that ship on right now. 2:06:24.560 --> 2:06:28.440 Come on, love Wells exactly, you love Wellness. Put the 2:06:28.760 --> 2:06:32.640 cream on your shop exactly, and fucking make sure that 2:06:32.680 --> 2:06:34.800 she is pure. I want to have a good experience 2:06:34.880 --> 2:06:37.400 when I from the back. I want that to be 2:06:37.480 --> 2:06:39.960 pure and nice. I don't have to have that SpongeBob 2:06:40.000 --> 2:06:42.640 shi it happened. I don't need that ship. I need that. 2:06:43.480 --> 2:06:44.120 I don't need that. 2:06:44.240 --> 2:06:47.560 I need to feel good squeaky clean, because. 2:06:47.680 --> 2:06:52.000 When it's clean, oh my gosh, you get into it more. 2:06:53.880 --> 2:06:57.080 Get turn over. You turned over your turn over and 2:06:57.120 --> 2:06:58.920 they come back. You know. 2:07:00.400 --> 2:07:03.160 I'm saying though, and that's what I'm saying from head 2:07:03.200 --> 2:07:06.040 and so everything gotta smell good. But you have nice tea. 2:07:06.800 --> 2:07:08.040 You have not got a nice tea? 2:07:08.240 --> 2:07:09.800 Thank God, thank God. 2:07:11.920 --> 2:07:14.520 Let us know, thank you what you got coming up? 2:07:14.600 --> 2:07:17.280 What you got. I've been talking my ass off. I 2:07:17.320 --> 2:07:20.360 don't even know what's happening anyways for minds. 2:07:20.440 --> 2:07:22.960 Huh, yes, let us know where. 2:07:22.760 --> 2:07:24.280 We can find you and what you got coming up? 2:07:26.720 --> 2:07:29.840 I'm glass you had a ball because you've been having 2:07:29.880 --> 2:07:34.240 a time. You've been cutting What is it about the 2:07:34.400 --> 2:07:39.000 taller Perry crewst Crystal. 2:07:38.920 --> 2:07:41.000 She didn't drink Chris. 2:07:41.160 --> 2:07:45.800 Chris had christ from from the. 2:07:47.280 --> 2:07:48.440 Team and then we had the bell. 2:07:49.440 --> 2:07:52.200 I was cutting up to you, like we mean, I 2:07:52.320 --> 2:07:54.760 didn't even know each other that much, but I got 2:07:54.840 --> 2:07:55.960 so much respect for that nigga. 2:07:56.360 --> 2:08:02.920 Yeah, he's he's really pure and he's very he's very smart. 2:08:03.200 --> 2:08:05.720 Is so pure because we we we kind of have 2:08:05.760 --> 2:08:11.879 the same like are I'm wild wol it's crazy you'll. 2:08:11.720 --> 2:08:14.160 Be cutting up. It was like why not? 2:08:14.560 --> 2:08:20.960 Why not talking all the Perry and everybody they're not. 2:08:21.600 --> 2:08:24.520 You can say that, but he said he the base. 2:08:25.040 --> 2:08:25.440 Don't worry. 2:08:27.080 --> 2:08:29.840 She's sucking great. You can get Stephen Norfley over here though. 2:08:29.880 --> 2:08:32.080 Stephen North, He's fucking amazing. 2:08:33.240 --> 2:08:36.320 I'm asking now because you say to switt people. 2:08:36.160 --> 2:08:40.680 On Jael Carter, Varney, litt Rico ross littli felt lit 2:08:41.160 --> 2:08:48.600 which lost lit small love my people, my people, what 2:08:48.800 --> 2:08:50.720 you said? You asked what I got coming out? What 2:08:50.800 --> 2:08:52.720 do you y'all? Maye me feel so comfortable. I love 2:08:52.800 --> 2:08:53.960 y'all so much, thank you. 2:08:54.600 --> 2:08:58.240 That's our goal. We like making people on beautiful. 2:08:58.600 --> 2:09:03.720 Oh my gosh, well gay, gorgeous. I can't even fathom it. Man, 2:09:04.760 --> 2:09:05.600 I'm gonna cry, And. 2:09:05.640 --> 2:09:08.720 Now, are you in serious? I've seen one. 2:09:13.000 --> 2:09:15.920 Y'all, y'all to deserve all that happens, thank you. I 2:09:16.520 --> 2:09:19.040 don't know what's going on with y'all loves life, loves life. 2:09:19.240 --> 2:09:20.800 I know honingt going. I don't know what's going on 2:09:20.840 --> 2:09:22.920 with y'all love life, I know what's going on with 2:09:23.040 --> 2:09:25.880 y'all's man, I don't know what's going on. I pray 2:09:26.000 --> 2:09:30.520 and hope that y'all get everything life. Thank you, y'all 2:09:30.560 --> 2:09:37.320 deserve it. All are so fucking perfect, beautiful, beautiful, so beautiful. 2:09:37.640 --> 2:09:39.000 Your skin is so pretty. 2:09:39.600 --> 2:09:42.360 We have very we have very cares. 2:09:42.640 --> 2:09:49.360 Yeah, pretty, thank you, so nice. I'm in fucking no 2:09:49.560 --> 2:09:53.200 care about over here. Y'all. Y'all are so fucking gorgeous. 2:09:53.480 --> 2:09:57.440 I don't know what to do. I'm being serious. Okay, 2:09:57.480 --> 2:10:01.240 what I have coming up so so so so uh. 2:10:03.320 --> 2:10:03.360 So. 2:10:03.640 --> 2:10:06.840 Uh yeah, Beating in a Black Season two is coming out. 2:10:07.280 --> 2:10:07.839 I'm excited. 2:10:09.440 --> 2:10:14.640 We already filmed it, already filmed. And uh, let me 2:10:14.760 --> 2:10:17.560 tell you something. I'm crazy. 2:10:17.720 --> 2:10:19.640 Season two, you was quiet. 2:10:20.720 --> 2:10:22.160 Yeah, I think I was crazy season one. Season two, 2:10:22.200 --> 2:10:24.440 I'll be like, oh my gosh, you're losing a little bit. 2:10:24.800 --> 2:10:29.080 I think Tyler did that because he saw He just 2:10:29.280 --> 2:10:32.800 knows that he wants because I get a lot of 2:10:32.880 --> 2:10:36.560 attention being Roy. I get a lot of attention being 2:10:36.640 --> 2:10:39.040 Roy because who I am. Because who I am. I 2:10:39.080 --> 2:10:41.040 could be an actor that goes into the abyss and 2:10:41.160 --> 2:10:45.120 like not say anything, but I'm Julian, I'm out, I'm 2:10:45.160 --> 2:10:47.640 with the people. I'm in the airport. I'm like, I 2:10:47.760 --> 2:10:49.760 just want to live life. And and by the grace 2:10:49.800 --> 2:10:51.560 of God, I got this opportunity to be just with 2:10:51.680 --> 2:10:58.040 the people and like I'm fucking maximizing to the like craziness, 2:10:58.920 --> 2:11:04.240 but like, yeah, but beating. By season two, I'm really 2:11:04.320 --> 2:11:10.440 cutting it. Gosh. I read the scripts. I was like, Tyler, 2:11:11.560 --> 2:11:15.760 what the fuck? It's not cutting up in the way 2:11:15.880 --> 2:11:17.840 I had to cut up in season one either. It's 2:11:17.920 --> 2:11:23.160 more so he a real fuck boy because you was 2:11:23.160 --> 2:11:26.960 a odd Yeah, because because he's where I was more 2:11:27.040 --> 2:11:32.320 like mean, you were cheating. Season two, I'm more like 2:11:32.880 --> 2:11:37.840 wild season when I was mean and like quirky season 2:11:37.920 --> 2:11:43.520 two Wild. This nigga is insane. He don't give a 2:11:43.560 --> 2:11:46.680 funk but nothing. That's what season two is. Well. 2:11:46.720 --> 2:11:49.320 I'm so glad that your character is gonna be on 2:11:49.440 --> 2:11:51.760 seasons because y'all had me a little stress because. 2:11:51.520 --> 2:11:52.360 I had thought you died. 2:11:53.760 --> 2:11:56.480 People telling me that even though the fucking even though 2:11:56.520 --> 2:11:58.840 the fucking scene, I don't give a fuck about this 2:11:59.680 --> 2:12:03.920 this team where I got pushed out the window. I 2:12:04.040 --> 2:12:06.080 do all my stunts. I know. 2:12:06.160 --> 2:12:07.120 That's why Tom Cruise. 2:12:07.960 --> 2:12:11.480 I try to do all my stunts period. Even in 2:12:11.560 --> 2:12:15.680 their mind that seem was just like I wish I 2:12:15.760 --> 2:12:16.640 did everything. 2:12:17.360 --> 2:12:19.400 That's see, are you craggy? 2:12:20.800 --> 2:12:23.040 I just wish everything because you can tell my stunt 2:12:23.120 --> 2:12:24.440 double in the scene and it's. 2:12:24.440 --> 2:12:28.600 Like, no, you can tell. Yeah, well we couldn't tell. 2:12:28.680 --> 2:12:31.280 We definitely couldn't. We could not tell tell. 2:12:32.280 --> 2:12:35.160 Guess what though some top of you about it and 2:12:35.240 --> 2:12:38.720 it had millions of views. Obviously not Roy. 2:12:42.520 --> 2:12:44.760 Because if you would have did your own stunt and 2:12:44.800 --> 2:12:48.960 you would have gotten hurt, Yes, okay, until you get hurt. 2:12:49.800 --> 2:12:51.520 I've been hurt before, it doesn't matter. 2:12:51.720 --> 2:12:52.440 That is a lot. 2:12:52.600 --> 2:12:53.879 Got scar. I got scars. 2:12:54.520 --> 2:12:57.320 Ually, where can the people follow you at? I got 2:12:57.360 --> 2:12:59.520 that burnwark on my leg that's from the scar. 2:13:00.760 --> 2:13:04.960 This from Black Spartans, Julian, Where the follow you? They 2:13:05.760 --> 2:13:06.320 not tell them what? 2:13:06.400 --> 2:13:07.040 They can follow you? 2:13:09.040 --> 2:13:12.360 You find me at A I'm gonna be I'm gonna 2:13:12.360 --> 2:13:17.160 be like how niggas think I act? Mm hmm, seeing 2:13:18.400 --> 2:13:22.880 they can follow me at A Julian Horton twelve, Instagram, Twitter, 2:13:23.640 --> 2:13:28.280 on snap Chat two Julian Horton twelve the number twelve 2:13:28.480 --> 2:13:32.480 after that, So j U L I A N H 2:13:32.520 --> 2:13:36.360 O R till in one two that's that's that's how 2:13:36.360 --> 2:13:39.600 it is. This is how niggas thinks acts. I'm gonna 2:13:39.600 --> 2:13:40.720 ask this for the rest of the show. 2:13:41.760 --> 2:13:49.520 Over the shot over over, Yeah, damn it oh, five o'clock. 2:13:50.280 --> 2:13:52.040 Holy well, this is. 2:13:52.040 --> 2:13:55.480 A two hour episode. We'll see y'all next week by y'all? 2:13:55.800 --> 2:13:57.400 Is that God? Bless y'all, y'all. 2:13:57.240 --> 2:13:59.879 Shop music, beauty collection, dot com. 2:14:02.040 --> 2:14:04.080 Liners, Matt all. 2:14:04.000 --> 2:14:04.240 Of the. 2:14:06.200 --> 2:14:10.880 Amazing, amazing, God. Damn you see a smile? You see 2:14:10.880 --> 2:14:11.240 your skin? 2:14:12.080 --> 2:14:12.600 Did you see? 2:14:12.760 --> 2:14:19.360 Do you see that? They see me every week, every week, 2:14:20.120 --> 2:14:24.040 every day, every second, mill a second question the ship down. 2:14:24.400 --> 2:14:27.480 Subscribe to by YouTube three exactly. 2:14:27.520 --> 2:14:30.400 You can see me twice a week week. 2:14:30.840 --> 2:14:36.040 This is exactly. I'm not pushing nothing. You're good, Thank you. 2:14:37.400 --> 2:14:40.040 She's amazing to all right, y'all, make. 2:14:39.960 --> 2:14:44.600 Sure y'all share the content like subscribe, follow all that 2:14:44.680 --> 2:14:47.320 good stuff. And let me say this before we close off. Y'all, 2:14:47.800 --> 2:14:51.320 there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds. 2:14:51.400 --> 2:14:55.600 It's p O. You are underscore in I N d S. 2:14:55.800 --> 2:14:58.800 Y'all are tagging the wrong poor mind page. If you 2:14:58.880 --> 2:15:01.320 see at poor mind with no underscore, that is a 2:15:01.400 --> 2:15:04.400 fake page. Do not follow that page. Okay, they blocked 2:15:04.440 --> 2:15:07.560 me Andrea and the poor Minds page on both so 2:15:08.000 --> 2:15:13.760 we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok. It 2:15:13.920 --> 2:15:16.840 is p O. You are underscore in my nds, all. 2:15:16.840 --> 2:15:20.120 Right, and we gotta held a fake Facebook page on. 2:15:20.200 --> 2:15:22.280 The Facebook pages it's our face. 2:15:22.480 --> 2:15:25.200 The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the 2:15:25.320 --> 2:15:27.760 least amount of filow So if you're on Facebook, one 2:15:27.840 --> 2:15:30.960 that's ours got the least amount of but one that's 2:15:31.120 --> 2:15:33.000 not us got like two hundred and fifty. 2:15:34.080 --> 2:15:35.760 Make if you actually look at the content, because the 2:15:35.880 --> 2:15:38.960 caption is like whoever it is, don't speak English, because 2:15:38.960 --> 2:15:41.440 their captures are like bumba claude? Should men? 2:15:41.600 --> 2:15:44.920 Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? 2:15:45.080 --> 2:15:45.240 Yes? 2:15:45.360 --> 2:15:45.400 No? 2:15:46.680 --> 2:15:49.000 Check answer below block block. 2:15:51.640 --> 2:15:53.200 Like that's literally with the captions. 2:15:53.360 --> 2:15:54.920 I'm like, what that DDG is? 2:15:55.000 --> 2:16:00.480 Bumba claude, bumba claud j ld period. 2:16:03.520 --> 2:16:05.800 I watch you right now if I really had in 2:16:05.880 --> 2:16:06.400 my way. 2:16:09.640 --> 2:16:12.960 J'ad in the building condo mind. 2:16:15.440 --> 2:16:24.240 Dude time, I think now there your mind? You say, 2:16:24.320 --> 2:16:28.320 he asks, he doesn't sign. That ain't a good sign. 2:16:29.400 --> 2:16:36.760 Change your mind. Good conversations and some rose got the 2:16:36.879 --> 2:16:42.440 mind come out, yo, mimy, Hey, hey, hey. 2:16:43.800 --> 2:16:48.080 Telling the Dutch it so what? Hey, I'm a crush 2:16:48.600 --> 2:16:50.920 criminal on me? I'm a crush. How thought they need 2:16:51.000 --> 2:16:54.040 every touch? She asked me, having a night. I don't 2:16:54.040 --> 2:16:57.600 know an a rush, enjoying the moment. So h having 2:16:57.760 --> 2:16:59.000 paying the bills. 2:16:59.000 --> 2:17:01.840 Then they needed a something is flat as fun. 2:17:02.160 --> 2:17:07.040 She's stopping that, she's up. 2:17:07.440 --> 2:17:10.480 She's saying that ship is match around and making it up. 2:17:10.959 --> 2:17:14.520 I'm doing a uber girl. I'm always an situate, y'all. 2:17:14.640 --> 2:17:15.840 I was gonna keep it a bug. 2:17:16.200 --> 2:17:18.720 You give me that ship, and I'm stuck wild way 2:17:20.080 --> 2:17:23.560 because a lot of broke niggas run away riding around 2:17:23.720 --> 2:17:26.240 town and they looking for my face. 2:17:27.720 --> 2:17:29.640 Gotta prayd of got above you. Girl. 2:17:29.720 --> 2:17:32.080 You know that savage love you, and I hope that 2:17:32.120 --> 2:17:33.439 should feel the same. 2:17:35.720 --> 2:17:40.400 For you, and I hold that can change. 2:17:41.920 --> 2:17:44.960 I know that savage love you, love you. 2:17:45.080 --> 2:17:48.039 Gotta turn my turn out. 2:17:56.800 --> 2:17:58.359 Put on that choppings. 2:17:59.440 --> 2:18:04.080 All right, well, dropping turn my c T turn b. 2:18:05.640 --> 2:18:13.120 Put on that tropic. Yeah, I'm saying you right now, tropics, God, 2:18:14.080 --> 2:18:18.440 he said, playing topics and blastic. I want that ship 2:18:18.520 --> 2:18:25.160 to be so motherfucking loud. Hey, hey, play shoppings right now, trying. 2:18:25.080 --> 2:18:29.039 You turn my beach. 2:18:31.400 --> 2:18:32.119 Rally? 2:18:33.320 --> 2:18:38.000 What the fuck? J Elliott J J L D in 2:18:38.080 --> 2:18:38.600 the building. 2:18:40.879 --> 2:18:44.000 My name of SA twelve. Jut, my name is SA 2:18:44.080 --> 2:18:49.480 twelve of Alections Trail, Houston, at our Texas right here, Georgia, 2:18:49.840 --> 2:18:50.480 at the end of the day. 2:18:50.600 --> 2:18:50.720 Is this