WEBVTT - Down with the Swirl 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.119 Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:16.200 and the Black Effects, And. 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:18.200 Just like that, we're back on the air. 0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:20.400 Welcome back to He had another Cafoly reckless episode with 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:23.280 your girl, just hilarious. My girl Taylor is here. Say 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:26.599 hi to Taylor, Taylor, say hi to the listeners. And 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:29.840 we do not have voice memos today again, but we 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:31.760 do have a passage. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:36.680 Guys. Now, I did read this story before coming on here. 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:40.800 Because I realized I gotta start reading this shit because 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:44.600 I be the e limit of surprise. Don't be surprising, 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:48.440 like sometimes it'll be up and down when it comes 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:52.400 to me reading episode. And y'all, and this is my 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:54.040 first time reading it, just like is your first time 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:56.480 hearing it. Sometimes that should because some of the stories 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.400 be like, all right now, you could have read this 0:00:58.440 --> 0:01:01.320 back to yourself in fiction, your own mess, but anyway, 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:04.160 for real, because some people just be My baby father 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:07.080 just came home from jail. He's on my couch. I 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:09.160 got seven kids by him. What should I do? 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:10.119 Excuse me. 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:12.319 The five? 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:17.080 You have eight kids, ma'am. Anyway, so we're gonna jump 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:17.440 right in. 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:20.920 I want to know if you can relate to my 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:24.560 situation because I've been in eleven I've been in a 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:28.200 I've been in a what see what I'm saying? 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:32.840 This is why y'all got it? Lord? And look I said, 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:35.840 I read this one too. I catch that raw shit. 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:39.039 I think I think it was so good because I 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.120 ain't never had nobody write me about no ship like this. 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.000 I think I just want to tell it. But anyway, 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:45.000 I'm gonna try it one time. Let's let's start it over. 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:50.720 I've been in an eleven year relationship with a less 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:53.880 melanated being, and I'm just trying to figure it out. 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:57.080 Yeah, woman, she white and for. 0:01:56.960 --> 0:02:01.680 Sure, nah, less melanated being. No, he must be one 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:03.960 of them grand rising queen niggas, because what you mean 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:07.360 a less melanated being? I by just saying a fucking 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:14.480 white woman, and shit the audensity anyway, so uh, And 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:16.960 I'm just trying to figure it out. Am I supposed 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:20.080 to be in this relationship? I grew up saying that 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.680 I would never date outside of my race, but I 0:02:22.720 --> 0:02:25.800 feel that she trapped me. Oh sir, you willingly fucked 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:29.000 that white woman and you ended up falling in love 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:30.200 with the blue eyed devil's bear. 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:30.840 That's on you. 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:33.680 I really don't like to say black or white because 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:34.720 I don't see color. 0:02:34.919 --> 0:02:35.640 That's your problem. 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:40.359 Now, I've dated a lot of black women, but it 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.720 seems like all black women that I've dated likes confrontation, 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:47.080 and I've never been This is triggering to tailor. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:48.800 Does your mom black? 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:54.040 Yeah? More than likely he got Mommy issues just seem yeah, yeah, yeah, something. 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:54.919 I don't see color. 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:57.120 Well unless you see if you wanted that don't work, 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:59.920 bit baby. 0:02:58.800 --> 0:03:00.519 Calling him a bit to night that it's me, y'all. 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:03.640 I don't see color, y'all and not. But but you 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:06.000 write and me talking about this white woman. 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:09.000 You can tell me how, I bet you see color? Now? 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:12.000 The fuck day a white woman long enough? Jonathan may 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:15.080 just see color now be I bet he did only color? 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:16.160 He ce is black? Now? 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:20.760 Shit anyway? All right? 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:22.720 And then he said, but it seems like all black 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:26.040 women likes confrontation, or at least the ones that I've dated, 0:03:26.240 --> 0:03:29.280 and I'm never enough for them. Anything I do is 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:31.200 never enough, and I've done a lot. 0:03:31.919 --> 0:03:32.760 Please believe me. 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:36.960 The expectations are different in every way. And when I 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:40.720 met the girl that I'm with now, it's totally different. 0:03:41.400 --> 0:03:44.680 But what I've come to find is when explaining my 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:49.640 childhood or taking her around family, or even certain injustices 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:53.160 that we face as black people, she does not connect. 0:03:53.720 --> 0:03:56.280 Don't know why, and don't know how to get her 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:56.600 to do. 0:03:56.680 --> 0:03:58.160 So what do you think? 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:05.400 First of all, excuse me, but you don't see color? 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:09.560 He got some fucking nerve right in me this ship. 0:04:09.920 --> 0:04:13.800 Wait, so he's so the white queen that hey, yo, 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:18.240 the white queen because I don't see color. He just 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.880 I want her now she wants. He wants her to 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:22.479 do what now? 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:26.880 He wants her to be able to connect with he said, 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:30.000 when he finds when he talks about how he grew 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:33.400 up and the injustices that we face as black people 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:37.520 and things like that, he doesn't know why she can't 0:04:37.520 --> 0:04:40.800 connect to that, Like, why can't she just get it? 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:45.000 Crazy girl? 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:46.840 I remember, listen, let me just give you just one 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.080 little example, and I'm gonna get back to this next mass. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:49.840 Anyway. 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:53.440 I remember I had a homeboy, right, and he was 0:04:53.520 --> 0:04:54.960 dating the white girl. This is the first time ever 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:56.720 dating a white girl. Right, And this is around the 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:59.600 George Floyd times, right, and he was she was his neighbor. 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:01.800 Right. They just started dealing with each Ovin. 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.839 Yo, when all that shit happened, you know, and George 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:11.000 Floyd was murdered and everything right by Derek Shovin, this 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:18.680 bitch sent him fifty dollars and says so sorry, I'm sorry, 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:19.560 And he. 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.400 Was like, why the fuck you send me fifty dollars? 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:22.120 What do you mean you sorry? 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:25.760 She was like, I saw the horrific n do I 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.720 saw the horrific story on the news about George Floyd, 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:32.480 George Floyd dying, and I'm just I'm so sorry. I 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:35.479 know that it's disturbing for you, and you know, so 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:41.040 here's just, you know, fifty dollars and an apology for. 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:44.640 What your people are fucking going through. Fifty dollars. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:49.120 I don't know what the fucks and yo, and Yo, 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.400 Shorty probably really didn't mean no fucking home. 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:54.400 Yeah, she probably didn't. That's the crazy like are you 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:55.839 are you retarded? 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:59.920 That's hilarious crazy, that's funny, Taylor, that's funny as shit. 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.240 And Yo, it really really like he laughed too. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:05.000 He was just like, what the fuck you I mean 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:07.840 you could donate this to George Floyd's family. I hate 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:10.120 it's not my like cousin or nothing, but it's just 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.599 it's just weird, Like do you think this makes me 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:13.120 feel better? 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:15.520 Or this is this your way of I. 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:18.040 Don't know, paying homage or like, is this your this 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.400 is how you give condolences to blacks? You just send 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:23.240 them fifty dollars in the sorry and fifty dollars girl, 0:06:23.320 --> 0:06:24.479 What then am I supposed to do with that? 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:27.719 Exactly? At least at least yeah, a thousand? 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:32.160 Yeah, oh god, that's because she been sitting on that 0:06:32.200 --> 0:06:37.640 black dick of yours and she yeah, yeah, she just 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:40.800 feels bad. Yeah, that's funny. They said that was the 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:42.560 last time you ever ever fucked with her? 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:44.080 Last time. 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:46.480 I was like, yeah, because they just don't get it. 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:49.640 So to this guy's dumb ass point, so how you 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:53.440 wanna so how does he bring down black women like that? 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:55.360 Yes, exactly, but you don't see color. 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:57.320 But you said black women, but you ranted to refer 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:02.640 to your girl as a lesson melanated being you're Caucasian, queen. 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:03.839 I don't understand. 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:08.200 But you said when I've dated black women, yeah, they're 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:12.960 all confrontational, they all have different expectations. What I don't 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:16.280 rember having this conversation Like back when I was in 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:19.720 high school. Because is it that word being conversational or 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:20.640 are you just doing function? 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:23.400 We just start tolerating exactly, we don't tolerate. 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.760 Y'all can walk all a little bit of motherfuckers, the 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:28.880 other women, the women of other in that category. 0:07:28.960 --> 0:07:30.760 Yeah, you can walk all over them. You're not about 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:31.640 to do that over here. 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:33.880 Hold up, hold up, I know this shit getting good, 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.200 But listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial. 0:07:36.240 --> 0:07:37.400 If you love me, you'll listen. 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:41.840 And then we were all raised by black women, like 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:43.760 you know, when I say we all, I mean black. 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:46.480 You know I was raised by black women. 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.400 I'm pretty sure all those black women that you did 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:51.400 before were raised by black women. And when you are 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.520 raised by black women in her right mind, you are 0:07:53.560 --> 0:07:57.920 taught very young. Don't take no shit off nobody, especially 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.360 not no fucking man, you know what I mean? Like, 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:02.360 you have to respect it. You have to be respected. 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:04.720 You have to you know, you shouldn't have to demand 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:06.800 respect in a relationship, you know. 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:11.360 But now what kind of what kind of women are 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:12.000 you going for? You? 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:14.320 And that's the thing, because I will say he said 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.400 every woman that he's dated, So that means you just 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:19.800 attract those type of women you are traded those type 0:08:19.800 --> 0:08:21.880 of women and you don't like that, or this is 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:24.440 the thing. Maybe he did like it, or he met 0:08:24.800 --> 0:08:27.680 he met her on a humble, met Katie on a 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:32.000 fucking humble and she did everything that this nigga didn't 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:34.280 even have to asks like she and he just was like, 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.720 oh shit, this type of this type of woman exists 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:38.319 and she's not black, but she's not black. 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:39.720 Let me just see where it goes. 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:42.080 Or I'm thinking like if if he wants to talk 0:08:42.120 --> 0:08:45.199 to her about the injustice and everything else, are you 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:48.720 going for the girls that are there's no she to you, 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:51.400 but not to you. I'm saying to a man the seals, but. 0:08:54.360 --> 0:08:55.120 That's what it is. 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:59.480 Yeah, straightforward Blunt will tell you she will hurt your 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:02.360 fucking feeling, is not even mean to So are you 0:09:02.360 --> 0:09:05.200 going for those type of women that don't stand for 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:09.840 like yeah, alpha like very dominant women, like alpha independent 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:12.840 women who don't need a man, but they want a 0:09:12.880 --> 0:09:14.120 man at the end of the day, Those type of 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:17.040 women that because he said every black woman that he 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.040 has dealt with, so it seemed like he wan't to 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:22.120 talk about the whole injustice and everything else. 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:24.240 Yeah, yeah, are you that type of guy? 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:26.440 And then you want a girl that's or even to 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:30.680 relate to how he grew up. Yeah, like she can't connect, 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:32.680 and then you ask me for advice to try to 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:33.400 get her to connect. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:34.680 She can't connect. 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.720 That's like what johnthan Majors told Grace Jabari, I want 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:40.560 you to be my my Coretta because no, but he 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:45.720 told her that before he told Megan good And and 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:47.760 I bet Grace was like, you're what, Who's that? 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:51.120 The fuck? I don't know, y'all fucking history. 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:55.599 I hope Meghan's not his first black woman, though I 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:57.480 don't know. I hope she's not either. That's what the 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:59.680 fuck we should have asked him. I should ask him, 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:00.960 this is your first black woman? 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:03.439 For real? I don't know. 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:05.320 I feel like it is. I feel like he that 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:08.680 brother has a new light over him. He's glowy. He's 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:10.960 never smiled this much. And I ain't even been knowing him. 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:12.679 I don't even know his ass, but I feel like, Yo, 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.800 whenever he hear Meghan's name, he lights. 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:19.080 Up like it's a different aura about him. He had 0:10:19.120 --> 0:10:20.400 probably had a question her for. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:25.360 He or I wouldn't say that, uh uh, he probably 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:28.120 had a crush on Reese Witherspoon or somebody something like that. 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:30.680 You know, a Meryl Streep or something like that. 0:10:31.280 --> 0:10:32.760 But you don't know what you love until it hits 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:34.480 you in your face, and you'd be like, oh shit, 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:36.880 because I'm not going to say that it's the first 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:40.880 black woman that he dated, but just you gotta dig 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:42.679 into his past, like look at his past and look 0:10:42.760 --> 0:10:44.640 like he was attracted to white women. 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:46.840 You found me like because I remember, you know. 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:53.199 I had an asked that he he did it white 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:57.040 women before he did it like black women too. But 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:01.080 his last relationship was I think, with the white woman whatever. 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:10.040 And and I could tell, I could tell and the 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:13.440 sense he wasn't like a Jonathan Majors, but like he 0:11:13.480 --> 0:11:15.120 didn't like I. 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:19.160 Wasn't just going with the flow with ship, yeah, saying 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:20.119 stuff like that. 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:22.200 Oh his daughter is beautiful, No, his daughter he has 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:23.680 So Jonathan Majors has a daughter. 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:28.760 I just looked her up and she this is his daughter. 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.600 Ain't no way his baby mother can be white. Oh 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.280 that's why I heard so maybe. 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:40.200 Yeah, okay, yeah that's his daughter, his daughter. It's not 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:40.839 really a lot. 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:41.320 I know. 0:11:41.600 --> 0:11:44.320 He did speak on her very briefly in the interview 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:46.480 that he did up at the breakfast club, but he 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:49.280 never because I didn't even know he had a daughter. 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:55.840 It's not like, oh wait, I so is this understanding 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:56.360 that okay? 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.360 Because it's only one picture of her online at all, 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:02.679 Like let me say, let me see, let me see, y'all. 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.719 Hold up, we we got to get I'm gonna get 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:08.520 along the roads to reach out to see who, uh 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:11.840 see if we can get some other pictures of his daughter. Yeah, 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:19.840 it's literally one is one picture, and I believe Yeah, yeah, 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:27.800 this is this right here. Yeah, daughter as a daughter 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:32.920 of acclaimed actor Jonathan Yeah, beautiful little black princess. It 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:34.679 don't seem like my mother is white to me. She 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:40.960 looks very melanated. She is a full melanated being. So, yes, 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:44.079 what I think your dumb ass should do, sir is 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.080 and don't take that those type of way, you know, 0:12:47.120 --> 0:12:49.480 because I'm sure your girlfriends called you worse behind your back. 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:55.120 I know she couldn't wait, you're a fucking nigga a. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:56.920 Girl. 0:13:00.440 --> 0:13:03.440 But he's very confusing because he's still talking about like, oh, trapped, 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:04.680 I feel trapped. 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:07.280 I feel like she trapped me. I feel like he's 0:13:07.280 --> 0:13:08.120 not telling them something. 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:12.040 I feel like, all right, cool, you're regretting being with 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:13.880 her because she don't know how to connect her, then 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:15.040 it's probably something else. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:17.320 Yeah, just break up with her, that's it. 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:19.080 Break up with her instead of trying to get her 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:21.640 to understand your childhood, and you're gonna instead of trying 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.840 to get her to understand who you are culturally the 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:27.360 fuck because those are it's it's white women out there 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:30.960 who understand that too. He sounds like he does have 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:34.560 identity crisis, but that that's deeper, that's within him. So 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:36.559 just break up with her and go get some help. 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:41.200 Go get some help, but don't try. He's saying weird 0:13:41.280 --> 0:13:43.080 less like that's weird. 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:43.920 That is so weird. 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:49.280 Yeah, less melanated. Yeah, she's a less melanated being. And 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:51.360 he don't see color. But all the black women that 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:54.079 he's dated is too much for him. So blah blah 0:13:54.080 --> 0:13:55.560 blah blah blah. Yeah, you don't know. 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:56.080 Who you are. 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.760 I think that white woman told you a little bit 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:01.920 further back from who you are are, and I just 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:03.960 feel like you need to go and discover who you 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:05.920 are and love on yourself and love who you are 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:06.839 and where you come from. 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:09.040 Before you date. Okay, Now we. 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:11.360 Got a commercial and if you click off this podcast, 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:12.680 I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:13.360 Listen. 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:19.640 Not saying interracial relationships are words are bad, but trust me, 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.760 But if you want someone to because I thought about 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.840 that during the George Floyd stuff chilling, I don't think 0:14:25.600 --> 0:14:28.800 I would be able to like considerin stuff like this happens, 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:32.880 I would want to have a deal. But I'm saying 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:38.880 when that was happening, I would want a black Yeah, yeah, absolutely, 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:40.840 because they can relate, they understand. 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:43.720 But not saying people are not going to be able 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:45.200 to That's why I said it's women. 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:47.840 It's white women out there who definitely understand who would know, 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:51.160 you know what I'm saying, Like they and they're more 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.920 open to learning about a culture. And you know, if 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:56.320 you just closed minded about shit, then no, you know, 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:59.240 or if you're not that type of person and his 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.560 girlfriend that type of person. That's why you're up there 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:04.240 talking about did I get brainwashing into liking her? Or 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:07.440 did I get trapped like that's not the relationship for you? 0:15:08.400 --> 0:15:12.280 All right, all right, what we're going to do? So 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:14.800 what you're doing. 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:20.600 Because this man, I just feel like it's like I 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:23.360 don't like people like that, Like you get into a 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.520 relationship with a white woman and you just feel like, 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:30.480 you know, yeah, bring down black or yeah, you don't 0:15:30.480 --> 0:15:31.520 even trying to do intentionally. 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.080 That's what I'm saying. I know it's not intentional. 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:38.040 Like you need to look at maybe the woman that 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:38.880 you're going. 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:44.520 For, yeah yeah, and also look aside yourself too. Yeah yeah. 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:48.480 Are you confrontational like you're trying to it seem like 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:50.720 what you bring to his table is not good enough? 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:55.640 What are you bringing? What if he don't bring nothing? Yeah, 0:15:55.960 --> 0:15:56.320 we don't. 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:59.760 Because he said all women got different expectations. He said, 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:03.320 well he bring what he does is never enough. I 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:05.000 want to know what, what do you think you're bringing 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:06.000 to the table? Mm hm? 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:08.680 Because maybe that white woman takes care of him, yeah, 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:09.640 hm hmm. 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:14.400 Maybe she's paying all the bills. Maybe he he a 0:16:14.400 --> 0:16:16.960 little spoon, she had a big spoon. Maybe all that. 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:19.680 I wonder if he met her family and if she 0:16:19.760 --> 0:16:22.320 met his yah, because that's his girlfriend. 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:28.200 Lloyd. Well maybe he didn't. Maybe she didn't. 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:30.040 Meet his family because he says she can't even connect 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:31.280 when he talked about his childhood. 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:35.600 Yeah, probably not. Maybe I don't know, maybe he could have. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:36.600 What are some. 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.600 Interracial relationships that we've seen in the public eye that 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:45.320 have seen to work. And when I say by rachel, 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:47.760 I mean I mean I mean black and white. There's 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:51.120 a lot of black women that date white men. Yeah, 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:57.280 there are, yeah, but how I wanted Okay, because Serena Is. 0:16:57.480 --> 0:17:00.360 We saw Dona Oh, Serena william Serena Willis saying, I 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:06.680 mean Serena Williams. She's with alex o'hannan, Zoe Sodna. 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:10.919 I didn't know she was. She's married. Okay, Also Tika something, 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:12.280 she's married. 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:15.560 Who is the girl? I'm so sorry you forget your 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:17.760 name because I don't want to keep seeing precious. But 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:22.320 the Courtney Citibey thank you her? 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:25.320 She's the white man girl. Yes, let me look that 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:27.320 up because maybe that's wrong too, you're. 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:30.440 Talking about thank you, you know, but I think let 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:33.480 me see, let me see Courtney. 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:35.280 I think that's her name. 0:17:36.640 --> 0:17:42.520 But I think, now, what are some some white men, yes, 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:44.119 some black men who ended up with white women. 0:17:44.800 --> 0:17:46.960 Yeah, Jamie Fox, he was with Katie Holmes. 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:47.480 Yeah. 0:17:47.920 --> 0:17:54.119 Still never we stole from otherfucking tom they never know. 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:55.760 Her name is Bori Bay. 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:00.320 And you're talking about thank you Courtney what you ain't 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:01.879 even know how to you call our prushures. So I 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:04.120 don't want to know. At least I knew her acting her, 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:06.320 and that's not the only role she plays. I know 0:18:06.440 --> 0:18:07.399 she was that girl and. 0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:17.240 Empire. Yeah yeah, yeah she was in that. 0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:19.960 She was an assistant. Yeah she was yeah, yeah, she 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:21.120 was funny and that ship too. 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:27.159 But that was all. Who are with white women Jamie Fox? 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:28.040 Not with her no more. 0:18:28.240 --> 0:18:29.200 But he was. 0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:34.840 Exactly it's it's right hard to find. No, there's like 0:18:34.920 --> 0:18:38.160 that guy name a football player. He's with the white 0:18:38.200 --> 0:18:41.400 woman and he was like, cheers to mix babies. 0:18:42.520 --> 0:18:44.480 Because girl, I seen the football I mean a clip 0:18:44.480 --> 0:18:46.960 of a football player who was I think they was 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:49.719 up there like bridal shower, no, their baby shower. 0:18:49.760 --> 0:18:50.760 They had a dinner. 0:18:51.080 --> 0:18:53.440 And they put there they was doing the toes and 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:55.640 they put their glasses to the air and said, yeah, 0:18:55.640 --> 0:19:00.080 it's chairs to mix babies. Yeah, there was a This 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:03.520 is a person I had and I was one of 0:19:03.640 --> 0:19:06.280 Charlemage's like done in the days that he goes. 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:09.119 I also want to think my white wife, Yes, y'all, 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:12.000 I'm also proud that my wife is white. Yeah, like yeah, 0:19:14.160 --> 0:19:14.640 every guy. 0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:19.400 Yeah, wait what about Donald Glover childish game being on? 0:19:20.160 --> 0:19:23.240 Donald Glover is married to a white woman, is he? 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:27.560 Jez was married to Jeannie May. Yeah. 0:19:27.760 --> 0:19:33.840 And Chris Brown. Chris Brown, he was with no white woman. 0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:36.480 Yeah, but he he's not with no black woman either. 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:40.879 Rihanna was the only black one that he was with. Hu. 0:19:42.359 --> 0:19:47.040 I mean publicly, That's what I'm saying publicly. Mm hmm. 0:19:47.400 --> 0:19:49.160 But see, you know, I. 0:19:49.119 --> 0:19:54.560 Realized is different dating a white woman before well not 0:19:54.640 --> 0:19:59.480 before he was dating Kendall Jenner whatever he said, Rocky 0:19:59.640 --> 0:20:02.080 was dating and Kendall Jinner. How to fuck that one 0:20:02.080 --> 0:20:02.600 slip by me? 0:20:03.640 --> 0:20:04.199