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Speaker 1: What's up y'all? Is your girl? Lex peak any Sugarl

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Speaker 1: dre and.

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Speaker 2: The Cold and you are tuned in to another episode

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Speaker 2: of Poor Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: We're kind of twitting, we kind of are.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm getting my hair like that next to the Boelocks.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm gonna switch on to the twist now.

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Speaker 1: Were about to switch, you know, I switch tag team,

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Speaker 1: Tag team back again? How that song? But it sounds

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Speaker 1: too high? Girl, no lead, I've escaped covid. Another week

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Speaker 1: escape covid. What happened girl? Girl?

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Speaker 2: This man that me and Line went out with the

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Speaker 2: other day she found out he had kobe So I

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Speaker 2: had to.

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Speaker 1: Go get tasty and it came back nakeative.

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Speaker 3: You know that's right.

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Speaker 1: I don't play them games. But yes, girl, it's crazy

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Speaker 1: out here. And it is because, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I read a report that said some countries I think,

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Speaker 2: I want to say Europe, they're about to just start

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Speaker 2: treating it like the flu.

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Speaker 1: I saw that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they about to get rid of the mask mandate

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Speaker 2: and stuff over there. I don't know if that's a

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Speaker 2: good or bad thing, though, because I feel like soon

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Speaker 2: the US will probably follow suits follow soup.

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Speaker 1: Bitch, we already done it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, we're not technically, not technically, but niggas

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Speaker 2: is not wearing masks. I mean, yeah, it's true. I

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Speaker 2: mean that's just because it's not super enforced over here.

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Speaker 2: But I mean they already did lift the mandate in

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Speaker 2: starting you know CDs, like I know in Houston they

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Speaker 2: had it in place, and now it's not anymore. The

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Speaker 2: same thing we hear. I just don't understand, Like it's crazy,

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Speaker 2: like people just don't want to wear a mask. Y'all,

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Speaker 2: don't want to wear condoms.

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Speaker 1: Y'alln't want to protect y'allself from nothing.

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Speaker 2: Don't give out here living, they said, yo, load like

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Speaker 2: you want to raw everything, raw air, raw pussing everything,

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Speaker 2: everything just raw, bitch.

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Speaker 1: I just that's not the kind of life we should

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Speaker 1: be living. It's not, but we live. He y'all get

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Speaker 1: y'all's ppe equipment. This is not over. But I wanted

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Speaker 1: to talk about all niggas real quick. What about you know?

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Speaker 1: He was old the man, So he was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why are you even outside?

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Speaker 2: Why did you know your munal system all the way right?

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Speaker 2: Why is we even out here, bro, and I.

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Speaker 1: Look at you. You got fucking Kobe at home on

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Speaker 1: his death.

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Speaker 2: You want to be outside with the young baddies, and

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Speaker 2: now you got Kobe.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about all niggas real quick, like

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Speaker 2: why dould they be so predatory? When he comes to

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Speaker 2: like younger women, he was so like weird, and I

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Speaker 2: felt like he kept over sexualizing me. It was just

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Speaker 2: so strange, Like at one point he was sitting on

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Speaker 2: He was like sitting across like we're hoavy arias, and.

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Speaker 1: He just kept being like come here and kept paving.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like come in, and he kept rubbing

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Speaker 2: the seat on the side of him, and I was

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Speaker 2: like no, which I was scared, and so he kept

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Speaker 2: I was like no, and girl, why he came sat

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Speaker 2: by me, said by me.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm being nice. I'm chatting it up.

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Speaker 2: With him, and shad he missing the side. So I

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Speaker 2: made him laugh too much. See he was missing the side.

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Speaker 1: You love that, you know I love him. Make a

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Speaker 1: nigga laugh, that's how you catch him.

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Speaker 2: That's how you catch if they got all their tea

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Speaker 2: be like, that's how you gonna see Like I said, oh,

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Speaker 2: hell nah, where the fuck your tooth head? Bro? But

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Speaker 2: what already you're probably missing a couple in that case,

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Speaker 2: so you have to make him and make him laugh

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Speaker 1: Then on top of that, it's like he smelled like

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Speaker 1: oh no again, why was you even outside? He had

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Speaker 2: Man had two of the little you know what, I'm

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Speaker 2: gold head with a blazer and some jeans. No, he

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Speaker 2: came dressed in his best trying to get.

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Speaker 1: Him one jeans and a blazer is dressed in your bed.

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Speaker 1: Never find me on my bend. Teacher in sEH grade,

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Speaker 2: So he had all he smelled like being gay. He

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Speaker 2: had on his little kangall had bad decisions. I feel

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Speaker 2: like this is ageism. He was just trying to go

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Speaker 2: out and have him a good time.

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Speaker 1: He was freaky.

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Speaker 2: He was real freaky. And Lin was like, he keep

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Speaker 2: why he kept whispering in your ear? I said, bach,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. At that point I had enough shots

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Speaker 2: He said he found him young, tender, Wait till he

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Speaker 2: get out the hospital on your.

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Speaker 1: Ass, because.

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Speaker 2: You are I'm not a good person. Let me just

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Speaker 2: say that you are not. Oh my god, I was

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Speaker 2: like this, nigga, why are older men like that?

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Speaker 1: Though? It's like, you're definitely old enough to be my granddaddy.

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Speaker 1: Like older men. No, I don't like nobody that old

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Speaker 1: brow wrinkled. I don't want you. How old do you

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Speaker 1: think he was? He looked like he was probably like sixty.

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Speaker 1: That's right up my alley, sixty. You were sixty years old?

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Speaker 1: Hell yeah, have you probably? I don't know everybody. You

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Speaker 3: No, as long as you are, as long as you're legal.

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Speaker 1: The oldest nigga I ever fucked.

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Speaker 2: Let me think. Okay, I'm thirty. The oldest dude I

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Speaker 2: ever had sex with was I think like forty four? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know Big Papa is in his fifties.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I never had sex with a nigga in his

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Speaker 1: fifty yeah.

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Speaker 2: Ever, but Big Papa different, like he cool. Forty something

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Speaker 2: is my max? Like anything passed like forty five. I

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Speaker 2: feel like I'm fucking my granddaddy.

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Speaker 1: Not for me.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you about to crawl put me in

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Speaker 3: your wheel. It's given. You know, I can use your

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Speaker 1: But I was like, niggas, that's that old You ain't

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Speaker 1: even got a fuck. You was giving them a little hand.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you don't they be horny. You just give

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Speaker 1: him a little hands. No, no, ma'am, no, ma'am. What

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Speaker 1: you mean, man, wanting the fuck?

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Speaker 2: I don't know why people think like all you gotta

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Speaker 2: do is turn the light off and put a little

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Speaker 2: lub in your hand.

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Speaker 1: They' not gonna know the difference. They oh, you are

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Speaker 1: not nice. You are not nice. That's what I would do.

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Speaker 1: Wa and then you're gonna be faking.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, oh man, that you know what When

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Speaker 2: you do that, it reminds me that story you told

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Speaker 2: when you was farting and you was not farting. Bro,

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Speaker 2: you out said, I was not farting. You You feel

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Speaker 2: like I kept parting. I'm fartigue which I partied one

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Speaker 2: one part.

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Speaker 1: It was one.

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Speaker 2: It was one food. It was one poots. It wasn't

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Speaker 2: even a part.

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Speaker 1: It was a poop. The difference, it is a difference.

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Speaker 1: A pooty is silent, and I told you that at

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Speaker 1: a fart is loud.

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Speaker 2: Oh you don't.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to do. I have a little shit

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Speaker 1: in it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm you're taking things too far. I don't know

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Speaker 4: fart I pooh, excuse me, not.

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Speaker 1: A pootin princess. You are a sick bit.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, so I was saying, every time I think

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Speaker 2: where you pot and you were saying that your pussy.

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Speaker 1: Was we I mean it was. That's why he didn't

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's just that's a little off.

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Speaker 2: That's a little selling me because I know you party

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Speaker 2: during sticks before you.

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Speaker 1: But I am list. I hope he hear it. I

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Speaker 1: just keep going. I look around a little bit. I

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Speaker 1: didn't lie. I didn't lie. It's not like he asks

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Speaker 1: because he didn't hear it, nor smelly. I just said

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Speaker 2: Couple of miles to cover tracks just in case, just

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Speaker 2: I thought, oh my god, all right, alrighty, let's move

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Speaker 2: on because I cannot missus poop. Okay, that's a new

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Speaker 2: that's a new meaning to push him pee.

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Speaker 1: I can't get off my mom put that in my bio.

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Speaker 1: Miss pushing, pushing pe. What's up? Y'all? Is your girl

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Speaker 1: like sul draighting the cold? Now?

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Speaker 2: Y'all know we're trying to get healthy in the new

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Speaker 2: the weight don't come off as easy. Food be sticking

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Speaker 2: to you. I hate getting the itis.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So today the Furst topic, we want to talk

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Speaker 2: about tough love versus a soft approach in friendships, relationships, members,

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Speaker 2: members of your family. Because I always see a lot

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Speaker 2: of people say things like, oh, I'm not gonna sugarcoat

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Speaker 2: things for my friends, or if you're doing something wrong,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you.

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Speaker 3: I don't care how blunt it is. You need to

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Speaker 3: know the truth.

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Speaker 2: And I just want to know what kind of approach

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Speaker 2: do you think is the best approach, tough love or

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Speaker 2: a softer approach?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like, you know.

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Speaker 2: You have to go based like based off of your friends,

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Speaker 2: because I feel like you can have a soft approach

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Speaker 2: with people, but you still got to tell them the truth.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm just big on litting my friends, and I

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Speaker 2: hope period he is what he is right, Like I'm

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Speaker 2: not about to sugarcoaty for you. I mean, I don't

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Speaker 2: think it's about sugar coating though necessarily, but you can

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Speaker 2: be a mean because I feel like if I'll call

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Speaker 2: you about something, like I want to advice on something,

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Speaker 2: you know what, maybe you should tell me the truth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's still gonna No. It ain't even about that.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like you a person who you follow

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Speaker 2: we never get mad at each other, so LEX know

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Speaker 2: And him be like no, who the fuck got your address?

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Speaker 1: And then I didn't want to ask somebody and then

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Speaker 2: Who else could it be? I just didn't want to

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Speaker 2: So I called Dray and I'm like, okay, so what

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Speaker 2: So I was like, well, Dre, what should I do?

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Speaker 1: say nothing.

440
00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,200
Speaker 2: I said, I wouldn't say anything to any either one.

441
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 2: And I wouldn't have like because I would have just

442
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,439
Speaker 2: waited to see who says something to me, because I

443
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,359
Speaker 2: feel like if I don't say thank you, eventually the

444
00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,360
Speaker 2: nigga would have been like, so you ain't getting my flowers,

445
00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 2: and then.

446
00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:27,879
Speaker 1: I would have known who it was. But you wouldn't

447
00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,119
Speaker 1: even let me get to that point. And she was

448
00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:33,520
Speaker 1: just like, I to call my other friends because I

449
00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 1: don't say that. You did, bitch. You absolutely did say that.

450
00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,520
Speaker 1: I have no reason to lie.

451
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 2: You absolutely said I'm not gonna say who the friend.

452
00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say the friend name it was. I

453
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,479
Speaker 2: just ain't want to, you know, I ain't gonna be

454
00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 2: kill a girl, y'all. I love killeroo.

455
00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,359
Speaker 1: Anyways, yeah, she talking about it.

456
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 2: I'm just called killer because you're not getting you not

457
00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,280
Speaker 2: it's not giving what he's supposed to give.

458
00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:02,639
Speaker 1: I wasn't the advice, wasn't giving you.

459
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:04,239
Speaker 2: Was like, well, I wouldn't say nothing to either one

460
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 2: of I wanted to cause a little chaos. But I'm

461
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,800
Speaker 2: just like, bro, I would like you asked me, what

462
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:11,920
Speaker 2: would you were asking me for my advice?

463
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,040
Speaker 1: So I'm looking at the situation like I am in

464
00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 1: your shoes.

465
00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 2: If I was in your shoes, I truly would not

466
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,199
Speaker 2: have said nothing to nobody because why you why you're

467
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 2: dumb ass send some ship to my house anonymously when

468
00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:23,880
Speaker 2: I fucked with.

469
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 1: You, because it was a nigga that you fuck with.

470
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 1: It was that ship. Ain't cute, nigga.

471
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,600
Speaker 2: You was about to cast some drama up in this beach.

472
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 2: I guess for me between us period, I just.

473
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 1: Wanted a little I'm a leo. I like a little chaos.

474
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 2: So that response wasn't chaotic enough for me, And honestly,

475
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 2: I just but she got mad. I was I was like,

476
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 2: this is not giving what it's supposed to give. I'll

477
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,679
Speaker 2: talk to you later, Blue. What face time'm doing? When

478
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 2: you hang up, bigger, talk to you tomorrow. See you

479
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 2: are recording beyond time.

480
00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 4: I was trying.

481
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:00,080
Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to hear it.

482
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 1: I was like, this, fucking beach. I was really I

483
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,639
Speaker 1: wanted to call you. Make I know you did not

484
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 1: just hang up in my face, you fucking beach.

485
00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 3: I was very not happy with you and your advice.

486
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:18,520
Speaker 1: You could have gained better two But anyways, Yeah, I

487
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 1: just like with your friends, though, you just.

488
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,359
Speaker 2: Have to know who you be dealing with and just

489
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 2: handle the situations accordingly. Like I said, lex is a

490
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 2: very sensitive like even for example, this situation in my face.

491
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,639
Speaker 2: It was, but she was, but she sensitive. So she

492
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,240
Speaker 2: got mad because I didn't tell what she wanted to eat.

493
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 2: Tell me in the moment, tell me what I want

494
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: to hear now later on. I mean, I'm a grown woman,

495
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 2: I'm living life. This is the whole purpose of why

496
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,439
Speaker 2: we even started to y'all comings below, let us know

497
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:49,439
Speaker 2: what you would need.

498
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 1: Because I know I was, like I was saying, when

499
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 1: I call my friends. She said, yeah, I would have

500
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 1: did the same thing. She don't talk like that. Did

501
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 1: you call Jazz want to say that.

502
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 5: Was not.

503
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 3: Say that definitely wasn't jazzmine she was.

504
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,439
Speaker 1: Jazz would be like friend fuck that. She would have

505
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 1: been like big big yeah, I would have been the

506
00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 1: sign of the that is. But yeah she was like

507
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I wouldn't say anything either.

508
00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 2: Oh I'm look, I'm a fire sign. I like to

509
00:23:31,119 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 2: she a fire sign too, but I like the drama.

510
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 2: Leo's are the most dramatic signs out of all the signs.

511
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: I think everybody knows that I wanted to Mama Tao ass.

512
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 1: Turn Leo can't sorry, But like I was like, I'm

513
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,120
Speaker 1: a little Chaoti too, though that's probably because my moon

514
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: needs Leo. I love a little Chaot.

515
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: Like what I was saying was I just feel like

516
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 2: I'm I'm not young, I'm thirty two. Like I'm navigating

517
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,360
Speaker 2: through life. Literally that was the purpose of us starting

518
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 2: this show. So every day decisions that I make, it's

519
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 2: not the smartest decision, it's not always you know, perfect,

520
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 2: But like I said, we're all just trying to figure

521
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 2: life out, and for me, I know what works for me.

522
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: I do like to hear the truth. Yes, I want

523
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 2: to know your opinions in the moment. It might not

524
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: be what I want to hear, but I know what

525
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 2: I need to hear, and I listen to you because

526
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 2: if you come at me mean, I'm not going to

527
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:27,439
Speaker 2: hear it.

528
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 3: I'm just be like me. I'm the type of person.

529
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: I'm a lee.

530
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 3: I'll be thinking everybody hating. I'm like, you're just jealous

531
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 3: because you didn't get no flowers.

532
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: Bro, this bitch is mud.

533
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 2: But what I'm saying is I know that that's not

534
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 2: the truth, of course, but I'm saying like it's like

535
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 2: how you say it, so I don't know.

536
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 3: Maybe he was having a rough morning I just said.

537
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 2: I mean he was like, well, bitch, I just wasn't

538
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: saying nothing, because why the fuck would you do that.

539
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 3: It's like, hold on, he was trying to be sweet,

540
00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 3: he wasn't trying to be.

541
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,479
Speaker 1: Harmful, lowkey. I did think he was calling me for

542
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: some like remedial advice, not reveal.

543
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 2: I definitely was like, not this calling me about the

544
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 2: fucking flowers? Like what does she do about some flowers

545
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 2: a nigga that she knows she fuck with? Well, that's

546
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 2: up for them to have your address and apartment. No, okay,

547
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,160
Speaker 2: but that's what I'm saying, so clearly it was one

548
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 2: of them, So I felt like what you needed to

549
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,200
Speaker 2: do was obvious. Wait until one of them niggas say something.

550
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,719
Speaker 2: That's why I was like, bro, and I probably was

551
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 2: having a bad day. Do you call me with that bullshie?

552
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 1: That's how you know life is good?

553
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 2: What am I stressed out about a nigga sent me flowers?

554
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 2: And what type of shit am I getting an eticoode

555
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 2: with her? Op about her calling me.

556
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: By the advice for the she.

557
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: I mean, we don't have nothing going on in life.

558
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 2: That was my action for the week, like.

559
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: Let let me have I really was mad. I was

560
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 1: really mad after that.

561
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 3: I said, oh, well, you know how to talk to me.

562
00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: You didn't do it properly. Love me in my love language.

563
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 2: I love you for you, I apologize, I thank you.

564
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,960
Speaker 2: I'll probably being a little bitch you were. It wasn't

565
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 2: about like I said, It wasn't about what you said.

566
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,679
Speaker 2: Sometimes when we'd be being beach, I'll be knowing when

567
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 2: you in a bad mood. Yeah, because I'll be talking

568
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 2: and the lake should just be like on the phone

569
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 2: and then I'll still be talking to me. She'd be like,

570
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: hold on real quick. I'm about to get in a shower.

571
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 2: I'mna call you big, And she never called big. Oh

572
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 2: that's my escape, y'all know. I took about three showers

573
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 2: and one day and Dre called me.

574
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: And that's when I'd be knowing she in a bad

575
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 1: mood because I'd be like, what did I do?

576
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 2: Honestly, I need to work on that since we're talking

577
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 2: about accountability real quick, because to me hurting my feelings,

578
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: I'd be like, she don't want to talk to me today,

579
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 2: Like what the fuck? You know?

580
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 3: It's too right, and you know what, I'm not gonna lie.

581
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,639
Speaker 2: Rapper Bay had called me the other day, and I

582
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 2: guess I was kind of being mean to him, but

583
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 2: I wasn't thinking about it because I had something else

584
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 2: going on.

585
00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: And he sent me along text.

586
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 2: Message the other day and he was like, honestly, I

587
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 2: call you and we be on the phone for like

588
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 2: two minutes and you be in a bad mood and

589
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: I can tell you just hang up and get off

590
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 2: the phone. He was like basically saying, like, I be

591
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: acting like he don't have feelings too, so I need

592
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 2: to stop having things going on and taking it out

593
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,480
Speaker 2: on other people as well. So I'm gonna work on

594
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: my I told everyone though around me, I'm working on

595
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 2: my accountability this year because, like I said, me being

596
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,479
Speaker 2: a leo, I feel like I'm always right, which I

597
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 2: am ninety nine point nine percent of the time, but

598
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 2: that point one percent time.

599
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: That like y'all are right, I can be like, Okay,

600
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: y'all are right.

601
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 2: One point one point one percent.

602
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you write ninety nine point nine percent. It's a

603
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: hard life. It's that Craig. Okay, next topic, all right,

604
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:46,879
Speaker 1: you're crazy. What's up y'all? Is your girl lex p

605
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 1: Any sugarl dra and the cold.

606
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 2: Now, y'all know we in the new year, we told

607
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 2: y'all were getting healthier and we're taking care of our

608
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 2: bodies from the inside and out. Yes, I think you

609
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,200
Speaker 2: know we're definitely at an age where it's very important

610
00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 2: for you to have a daily multi side of me,

611
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: and I think you know we all don't always eat

612
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 2: everything that we need to eat every day, so you

613
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 2: need something to fill in those nutrient gal Yes, over

614
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 2: ninety percent of women age nineteen to fifty are not

615
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 2: getting enough vitamin D just from their diet alone, and

616
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,199
Speaker 2: ninety five percent aren't getting their recommended daily intake of

617
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 2: key omega threes.

618
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: Like it ain't enough salmon to get all your own megas,

619
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 1: you know what I'm.

620
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:25,600
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622
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Speaker 2: nutrients up, all your vitamins and get your bone health,

623
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Speaker 2: blood health, antioctid and support all the little health things

624
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 2: that you need. Okay, Yes, and a clitical study was

625
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626
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Speaker 2: off and get your health phoned periods. So for the

630
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: next topic, we want us to talk about dating people

631
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 2: out of desperation because you know, we all know it's.

632
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: Hard out here.

633
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 3: It really is, it real.

634
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: It really is, Like it's really hard.

635
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 2: I feel like the dating scene is just trash for

636
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 2: both parties. Yeah, it's trash for niggas, it's trash for us.

637
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 2: You know, it just sucks. And so I just wanted

638
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 2: to talk about that because I think sometimes you know,

639
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 2: people get lonely and then they just fuck with anybody

640
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 2: because they don't want to be Remember that summer, No, okay,

641
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 2: we had a I'm gonna just say this. We had

642
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 2: a wild summer and me and Dreda just did some

643
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 2: unspeakable things and.

644
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: It was just that's why. Why are you speaking on it?

645
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 1: Because we need to.

646
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 2: It's okay, it's unspeakable while we speaking, because we.

647
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 3: Need to talk through this and work through it.

648
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: What do you want to discuss?

649
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 2: I want to talk about why more why you're not

650
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 2: even done? Okay, So I would say this, I did

651
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 2: something because I was.

652
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 3: I did something that I shouldn't have done.

653
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 2: Well, I'll say this, I fucked a person that I

654
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 2: had no business fucking, no business like, oh it's hot

655
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: even my Yeah.

656
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 3: You should be because who you fucked was just as.

657
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: Bad as mine. It was worse. No, it was just

658
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 1: as bad.

659
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 2: They were like, nah, it was pretty bad. Nah.

660
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: I feel like if I feel like, I think it's

661
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: just a shape of his head.

662
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 2: I think in the future, if it came out, like

663
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 2: if it ever came out publicly, I think yours would.

664
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: Be understood because of who it is mine.

665
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: He would be like, bitch, you should not be taking

666
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: advice from you.

667
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: But this is what I want my nigga head.

668
00:30:55,120 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: Oh fro you when this nigga, when that nigga that

669
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 2: she took his hat off.

670
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: I said, oh my boy, I didn't want to look

671
00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: you out. You're like, look down because you do. I

672
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: will was laughing out about the crock bro the nigga.

673
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,960
Speaker 1: The shape of this nigga had is wild.

674
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 2: I honestly feel like he has a lawsuit on his hands.

675
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: He needs to doe his parents the doctor.

676
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: Because who didn't shake your head? You know you're supposed

677
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 2: to shape a little baby head when they come out.

678
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 2: She was like this, she was missoling.

679
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 1: Him for DBL. She got that I will last figure.

680
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: I like this show. Okay.

681
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 2: So anyway, me and Drea had a bad summer and

682
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 2: we were just like doing whatever. So I feel like

683
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 2: the main problem why people date people out of desperation,

684
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: Like I've seen women fuck niggas who how be.

685
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: Dirty niggas who don't clean up after theirself.

686
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 2: And I'm not I'm just speaking on a woman perspective

687
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 2: because obviously I'm a woman, but I'm sure there's men

688
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 2: out there as well who have dated women that were

689
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: not well put together.

690
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: What nothing? What?

691
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sure there's been men talk after the show.

692
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: Did I do something? Okay? Oh?

693
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 3: All right, Oh my god, I hate it here.

694
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: Okay, So what was I saying?

695
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 3: Oh, when you date men out of desperation?

696
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 2: I'm sure men have dated women out of desperation like

697
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 2: a woman that's not necessarily you know, on your level,

698
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 2: that's not doing what you're doing, but you just don't

699
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: want to be alone.

700
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 3: And I still struggle with that.

701
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, But then let's talk about the people who I

702
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 2: feel like, are they prey on people who are going

703
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 2: through shit?

704
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: M do you? Because because me and my mom just

705
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: had a conversation about this.

706
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: I was talking to my mom about it earlier because

707
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 2: she knows about the whole situation or whatever, because she

708
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 2: was like, oh.

709
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: Don't you go record today? And I was like yeah.

710
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: She was like, what are y'all going to talk about

711
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:14,880
Speaker 1: on the show today?

712
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 2: So I was like telling her the topics and then

713
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 2: she was like, oh, well, maybe this is something.

714
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: We should get into for the second.

715
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 2: The second I mean the sixth topic, okay, because I

716
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: think this is more along the lines of the six topic,

717
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 2: but it could bring us into the sixth time right, So, yeah,

718
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 2: I definitely feel like people prey on people who are

719
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 2: going through things sometimes, like they'll try to act like

720
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 2: they be around because they care about you or they

721
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: care what you're going through the whole time, their motive

722
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 2: is to get what they want out of the situation

723
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 2: because they know that you're not really yourself.

724
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 3: Right, So do you feel like you were prayed upon?

725
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 1: Yeah? A little bit, I supposed to be, so.

726
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 2: Definitely, Okay, but I mean they know it's not. We're

727
00:33:58,280 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: like I think it is.

728
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying I'm literally.

729
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 2: I'm stressed to Today's episode has stressed me because what

730
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 2: is wrong with you?

731
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:25,240
Speaker 1: They see them with cerial You never let people forget

732
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:29,720
Speaker 1: this you think it's bug, because that's bug.

733
00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 2: Okay, let's get back to it. But anyways, like I

734
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 2: was saying, I feel like a lot of women need

735
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 2: to hear this, especially women. And maybe I'm being a

736
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 2: little biased, but I do feel like dating is harder

737
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 2: for women than it is for men.

738
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:42,399
Speaker 3: I do feel that.

739
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 2: Way also because I feel like, for the most part,

740
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 2: like and I am being a little biased, I am

741
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 2: speaking from a woman's point of view, so I know

742
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 2: probably this is the point one percent time where I'm wrong,

743
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 2: you know, I'll go ahead, and I met that. But

744
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 2: all the women I'm surrounded by a beautiful I'm not

745
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 2: even kidding, Like you know how people like, oh my

746
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 2: all my friends find no literally, all my friends are beautiful,

747
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 2: All my friends are smart, All my friends are doing

748
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 2: very well for themselves financially. Like when people talk about

749
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: what do you bring to the table and all that

750
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 2: dumb ass shit, Like my girls, we all exceed everything, bitch.

751
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: We is the motherfucking saying.

752
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: If I have to date a nigga who asks me,

753
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 2: what do I bring the table?

754
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: Please exy stage lib right.

755
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 2: So what I'm saying is I see all of these

756
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 2: women do all these amazing things. But honestly, when I

757
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 2: think about like the men that I have encountered, and

758
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 2: like men that are great and doing great things and

759
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: have a great personality, and it's like not a lot

760
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 2: of them out there, Like the likelihood of me meeting

761
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 2: a guy that has everything going on for himself and

762
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: not even looking at him for myself. Just in general,

763
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: being out in the world dating, I don't meet a

764
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 2: lot of men that just have a lot of great

765
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: things going on for themselves. So I feel like a

766
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 2: lot of times women we hate being alone. Let's just

767
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 2: admit it. Like, don't get me wrong, I love spending

768
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: time with myself. I'll be at I be by myself

769
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,240
Speaker 2: ninety percent of my week, and I love it because

770
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: I get to watch my own shows.

771
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 3: I get to eat the food I want to eat.

772
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 2: I told you on the past episode, I really kind

773
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,759
Speaker 2: of eat like sweety and it's embarrassing. So I like

774
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 2: to be at home and I like to eat my

775
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 2: meals by myself cause I don't want y'all to know

776
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 2: how I get down, you know what I'm saying.

777
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: So I like to be alone, probably be gassy.

778
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 3: I am not gassy.

779
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,399
Speaker 1: I am pooty. We don't fart.

780
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 3: We pooped, remember done, not the pretty pooter.

781
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 2: So anyways, like I was saying, I'm comfortable with being alone,

782
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: but it is not humanly possible to be okay with

783
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 2: being alone twenty four to seven. I don't care what

784
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 2: anybody says. You need human interaction. Like I'm not gonna

785
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,439
Speaker 2: lie that month we were off from like filming, I

786
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,800
Speaker 2: can like I think I saw mister Cabbo like one time,

787
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: but other than that, like I hadn't had human reaction,

788
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 2: like human interaction in a long time, Like I was

789
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 2: literally running to the studio.

790
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 3: Bitch, I was here at twelve fifty. We gotta be

791
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 3: here at two.

792
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: Not she was excited to see me.

793
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 2: Alright, pipe down, I was excited to see Like Ryan,

794
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 2: you lying, you excited.

795
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,959
Speaker 1: We was on the phone every day and you still

796
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: was exciting. But anyway, it's like I said, it's not

797
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: normal to be alone.

798
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 2: So I feel like sometimes we don't talk about being

799
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 2: alone too much, like everybody wants to talk about, Oh,

800
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 2: you should be comfortable being by yourself. You should be

801
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 2: comfortable if you don't love yourself, if you don't like

802
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 2: to spend time with yourself, then you need to look within.

803
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:26,160
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, okay, I like to spend time by

804
00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 2: myself and be alone.

805
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 3: But when do you draw the line?

806
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 2: And that's when I think people start being desperate, Like

807
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 2: that summer. I was going through something with throwback Bay

808
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 2: at the time, and my heart was broken and I

809
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 2: was just doing things and fucking people that were not

810
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 2: people person that I have no business fucking.

811
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't think I was desperate. I was desperate.

812
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:51,240
Speaker 2: I think I was drunk, but you were drinks because

813
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 2: I was sad. But I don't think it was because

814
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 2: I was desperate though. Well, I think I had a lot.

815
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: I just think I had a lot going on, and

816
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 2: I just was not my myself, right, you know what

817
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 2: I mean? I just was not myself. I wasn't acting

818
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 2: like myself. I was drinking a lot. And then I

819
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 2: feel like, you know, but one thing about me that

820
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 2: I think is really good, and I think you know

821
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 2: you have the same quality. Like we can always check

822
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 2: ourselves when we feel like we know we're doing things

823
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 2: that are like detrimental to our health or to just

824
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 2: our futures and what we want out of life. Right,

825
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 2: so I can always check myself and take a step

826
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:25,919
Speaker 2: back and be like, you know what, bitch, you're doing

827
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,240
Speaker 2: too much. You need to take a break from drinking.

828
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 2: And so I did my forty day fast.

829
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: You did do it right after that? I h hell yeah,

830
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: because that was what made me. I said, Beach, no,

831
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: you wall you Wali. You're drinking right now, you Wali,

832
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: Like you gotta stop drinking. You gotta stop drinking for.

833
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 3: It like that, I probably would have just became a nun.

834
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: It's that head, bro. I think he had a head

835
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: on that nigga was.

836
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 2: His head is definitely pushing Pete because the fauxhead go

837
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,959
Speaker 2: like pushing Pete.

838
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: And he got that ass.

839
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 3: Though he think I did call him.

840
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,239
Speaker 1: Think you said you what you call him? I'll say

841
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: his name is what we were trying to say.

842
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,359
Speaker 2: He think like Bernice, like, let's say his name is Eric.

843
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 2: I said he's Eric Burgos and he got mad.

844
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 3: He did I called him Eric?

845
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: Remember you called him? I said Eric? Remember you called

846
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 1: him the real sister.

847
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:28,800
Speaker 2: The real Eric's sister, like his name, but was it

848
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 2: used to be the real cow sister.

849
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 3: He think, as y'all, you are.

850
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 2: A dummy, But no, he call him that in real time.

851
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 2: About when I give these jokes, I'm give him in

852
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: real life, so I'm not calling you thick behind your

853
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 2: back he was. I mean he's not fat though he's

854
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 2: not fat at all. He just got a fat ass

855
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: and some cankles.

856
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 1: He got cankles. You had him up in the air.

857
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: How do you know he has cankles because you can

858
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: see a nigga ankles.

859
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 2: You was like, you had him up in the air,

860
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 2: is what I'm asking, No, bach, if you asked you

861
00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 2: did he's asked I deny it.

862
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: That ain't what I do. That ain't my ministreet.

863
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's up, y'all?

864
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,399
Speaker 1: Is your girl like feed any sugarls or in the cold? Now,

865
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 1: y'all know it's cutting season.

866
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 2: It's call. Everybody want to be in the house, but

867
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 2: they boom laid up and you know, and you know

868
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 2: what happens.

869
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: You know what happens.

870
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 2: Let me s WHI not having a baby these years.

871
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 2: So that's why y'all need to make sure the y'all

872
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 2: join the Pill Club. You know, it's super affordable so

873
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 2: that everybody can get control. Yes, I know, access to

874
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 2: healthcare hasn't been easy for everyone, so this makes it

875
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: super easy. The Pill Club carries over one hundred and

876
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Speaker 2: twenty FDA approved brands and shifts to all fifty states.

877
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,320
Speaker 2: And most birth control is free, you know, with insurance

878
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 2: or medicaid, but if you don't have it, it goes

879
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 2: as low as seven dollars just to get your birth control.

880
00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's super easy to sign up. It takes

881
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: five minutes.

882
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,600
Speaker 2: You can give the wait in line if the doctor's

883
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:59,280
Speaker 2: office can do everything online and you'll get an industry texture.

884
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 2: So you're gonna go to the Pill club dot com

885
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 2: slash Foremonds and also a ten dollars donation goes to

886
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 2: bedsider dot org, which helps low income individuals get access

887
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 2: to birth control. So you're gonna go to the pill

888
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,959
Speaker 2: club dot com slash ormonds and get your first birth

889
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 2: control care package and also donate to those in need,

890
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 2: and you must click the link at bedsider dot org

891
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 2: to make a donation.

892
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: And yeah, go to bill clubs dot com backslash protect

893
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: your old race.

894
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 2: So anyways, I really wanted to talk about that real quick,

895
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,399
Speaker 2: just because I feel like we all do things out

896
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 2: of desperation. But I think you need to know it's

897
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 2: okay to check yourself. But also you don't got to

898
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 2: realize when you're doing things that you know, you know

899
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 2: typically wouldn't do, and I feel like you have to

900
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 2: take a step back and ask your stuff, like why

901
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: am I doing this? Like I feel like I was

902
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 2: very unhappy in that moment, and then I went on

903
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 2: like a forty day fast and I just really stopped

904
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 2: keeping liquor and stuff at my house and even still

905
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: to this day, I don't drink when I'm at home

906
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,800
Speaker 2: by my I only drink when I mean social sittings

907
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 2: are when red work. And then on top of that,

908
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,879
Speaker 2: like I think a few months after that, my dad

909
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 2: passed away, So that just kind of changed my perspective

910
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: on a lot.

911
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 1: Of things too. And it just I don't know, I

912
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: don't know it's.

913
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 2: Like, but I just I do feel like we need

914
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 2: to understand ourselves a little bit better, because, like I said,

915
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,919
Speaker 2: you can become too comfortable with being alone. I hate

916
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 2: when people say you need to learn how to be alone.

917
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 2: That's why I was saying earlier, like we need to

918
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: learn where to draw the line. Because if you spend

919
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 2: too much time being alone and you're trying to get

920
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: too comfortable with being alone because of what society is

921
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 2: telling you, that's when you start doing desperate shit.

922
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 3: So if you feel like you're.

923
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 2: Being alone and you're tired of being alone, go hang

924
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 2: out with your friends, go outside and do something, because

925
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,359
Speaker 2: when you spend too much time being alone, that's when

926
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 2: you start doing shit out of desperation. No, that's all

927
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 2: I was saying. Sometimes I just feel like people just

928
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 2: be going through shit. I don't even feel like it's desperation.

929
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,399
Speaker 1: We're not in your sit situation in mine, but that's

930
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying I'm not.

931
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 2: You know, we're not talking about just each other specifically,

932
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 2: we just talking about in general when it comes to people.

933
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people You're probably right,

934
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 2: like a lot of people I think falling either one

935
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 2: of those two categories, like either you going through a

936
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,279
Speaker 2: lot of sheets so you just not really your selves

937
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 2: and you're doing some crazy sheet that you normally would do,

938
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 2: or like you said, you know, you just lonely and you.

939
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: Start getting a little desperate.

940
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: That's why we say a lot of people date people

941
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: out of desperation. We're specifically talking about people who do

942
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 2: things out of desperation, and desperation comes from.

943
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: I feel like loneliness.

944
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:39,479
Speaker 2: It's not normal to be spending seven days a week

945
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 2: by yourself.

946
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 1: I don't care what no.

947
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 2: Experts say, no therapists, no, I didn't go to school

948
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 2: for this shit, but I just feel like personally.

949
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: Human interactions are needed. You're not built.

950
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: Nobody is built to spend every day all day alone.

951
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 2: I agree with that, but I do think that you

952
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 2: have to adopt the mindset that being alone doesn't necessarily

953
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,879
Speaker 2: mean that you're a long lead, right, Because I feel

954
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: like everybody, like for example, even with you, it's like,

955
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 2: you have people that you could be around, right. Maybe

956
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 2: you just did not want to be around those people,

957
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 2: but you have people that you could be around. You

958
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 2: don't have to be at home seven days out the

959
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 2: week by yourselves, you know what I mean? You could

960
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 2: go around people, right. But I just feel like sometimes

961
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 2: people separate themselves when they going through shit, and then

962
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 2: they make their own self feel like they're alone.

963
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 1: But it's like, really, Unice, you're not. You're really not.

964
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: So sometimes you have to think about those type of things.

965
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 2: Too, before you make stupid decisions, because I feel like

966
00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 2: those were stupid decisions that me and you both made.

967
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 2: But sometimes you have to think about those things, like, Okay,

968
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 2: I might be alone because I'm by myself right now,

969
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: but I don't have to be like I have people

970
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 2: who I could call. I have people who I could

971
00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 2: be around, right, And sometimes you need to resort to

972
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 2: that before you result to resort to hanging with the

973
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: wrong person or fucking the wrong person. You know, which

974
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 2: brings us into the next topic, w b about because you

975
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 2: said the next topic bow about.

976
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: How you do that? Oh big and juicy?

977
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 2: They can they can't guess what all right, all right, Okay,

978
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 2: so I wanted to so basically going back to what

979
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: I talked about for the second like the topic we

980
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 2: just the barber said, that's what I wanted to get

981
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 2: into women's barb Like, I just feel like some people

982
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 2: like definitely pray on people and are like predatory in

983
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:50,879
Speaker 2: their way to where they want to, like like they

984
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 2: see you going through something like this my time and

985
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 2: they be like, this is my time. So the topic,

986
00:45:56,400 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 2: the topic is secretsy having sex with people that you

987
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 2: were embarrassed to ad meet you as makes me, which

988
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 2: that's why I said this kind of relates to the

989
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 2: last topic that we discussed because I think.

990
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:12,240
Speaker 1: We both wish that if we had.

991
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 2: Okay, had sex with that summer, that summer, the person

992
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 2: I was talking about in the last segment, if it

993
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,760
Speaker 2: got out, I wouldn't be embarrassed.

994
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: It's just more so like why did I do that

995
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: the second person from that summer?

996
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,879
Speaker 2: For me, Oh, if anybody ever found that found out

997
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,760
Speaker 2: my life, I would have to everybody would question everything

998
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: I've ever talked about on the show.

999
00:46:37,800 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: Literally literally, see.

1000
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:42,319
Speaker 2: I don't necessarily feel that way about the person I

1001
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 2: had sex with.

1002
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:46,319
Speaker 1: Now I'm talking about would question everything because I mean.

1003
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: We talk about bad b's and doing this and doing that,

1004
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 2: Like I mean, he not like I'm talking about your

1005
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: nigod your second good.

1006
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: Yeah he not? No, I mean he ain't. He ain't.

1007
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,360
Speaker 1: He ain't all the barrel. It seem like he like

1008
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: a bottom of the b.

1009
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 2: It's just kind of like I don't like that neither.

1010
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I need tell either. But honestly,

1011
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 1: your nigga is worse than both of minds.

1012
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 2: I really don't think so. Actually you think who is

1013
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 2: worse Your second? My second nigga is worse than yours.

1014
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 2: Your second nigga is worse than your first nigga and

1015
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 2: my nigga, my one nissa absolutely, because I'm gonna tell

1016
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 2: you why. Because the nigga that I accidentally Yeah, the

1017
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 2: nigga that I accidentally have, well, he's very low key.

1018
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 2: He mind his business, He not on the scene, and

1019
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,919
Speaker 2: he don't enough even if he do be telling people

1020
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 2: he fucks me? Who believe him? Not you lying on

1021
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 2: the pus?

1022
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: Where's the proof? Okay?

1023
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 2: Now your nigga, on the other hand, your second nigga,

1024
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 2: he's very.

1025
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: Much like.

1026
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 2: Not to say he out there because he wants to be.

1027
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:05,760
Speaker 2: He want to be, so I just feel like he's

1028
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 2: to me. He gives me a nigga who one day

1029
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 2: might name drop you because he trying to be out.

1030
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: There like this. Yeah, you know, and see this is

1031
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: the thing.

1032
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 2: I like secret sex. I feel like, this is what

1033
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 2: my mama said. Since you want to know what she says,

1034
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:24,240
Speaker 2: let me finish my life. I like secret sex because,

1035
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,960
Speaker 2: like I said, during that time, I was going through something,

1036
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 2: so that's what I thought I needed. So it was

1037
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 2: supposed to be a secret. So let me have my

1038
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,280
Speaker 2: secret sex. And then when I come to the realization

1039
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 2: that this is not what I need, I'm gonna get

1040
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 2: over it and I'm gonna move on. But let that

1041
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 2: still be a secret. So piped down, Well, this is

1042
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 2: my mama said. She said, why are you having sex

1043
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:48,359
Speaker 2: with somebody you embarrassed to say you had?

1044
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: Six week I didn't know at the time I was embarrassed.

1045
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: I wasn't embarrassed. At the time. You was horny. I

1046
00:48:55,880 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: was horny. You need it? You you okay? All right,

1047
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: all right? I did it more than once. Oka I

1048
00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:10,280
Speaker 1: was lonely, and I met my thoughts.

1049
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 2: Accountability is what I'm taking that point one percent of

1050
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 2: them popped up again.

1051
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: I was wrong. I was wrong.

1052
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have did it. Not once, not twice, it

1053
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:28,399
Speaker 2: was three times. It was you did and she woke

1054
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:29,840
Speaker 2: up the next morning bragging about it.

1055
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 5: I said, do it, bro.

1056
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 2: In my defense, I was still drunk the next morning.

1057
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,320
Speaker 2: That's how much liquor I was drinking. You called me,

1058
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 2: he was like, yeah, he about to come over us.

1059
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 2: I said, where you had, girl? Were about to go

1060
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 2: to the house?

1061
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: I said, you good girl? Yeah, like we about to touch it.

1062
00:49:52,040 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: I said, Bro, why did I do that? After the fact?

1063
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 2: And then after the fact, it's like he used to

1064
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,919
Speaker 2: be trying to, like because it was a setting where

1065
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 2: like we were always all around it, right, so like

1066
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 2: after the fact, he would always be trying to like

1067
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 2: flirt with me and shit, And I used to be

1068
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 2: being so.

1069
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: I used to be so mean.

1070
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,879
Speaker 2: But how do you recognize in a moment that you're

1071
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:21,400
Speaker 2: having sex with somebody that But I'm embarrassed about it.

1072
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 1: But I'll tell you I was being mean. I was

1073
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 1: being mean because I told you.

1074
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 2: That's how I feel about the situation when I looked

1075
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,759
Speaker 2: back on it, I feel like you definitely like this.

1076
00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 2: So you were imagin him because you felt like you

1077
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 2: took advantage, Yes, for sure, because he lied to me

1078
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 2: about other circumstances of the situation, which we won't get

1079
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 2: into on this show, but you know about. So everything

1080
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 2: about it just made me feel like you were like

1081
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 2: praying on me a little bit because you knew that

1082
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 2: I would never fuck with you for real, So you

1083
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 2: was using the information that you had and you were

1084
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 2: hiding things from me to try to get what you wanted.

1085
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 2: And so when I realized that, I absolutely was mean

1086
00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,760
Speaker 2: to him, because it was just like, that's mad fucking

1087
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 2: we If you have to be deceitful and you have

1088
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 2: to lie to somebody to have sex with them.

1089
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 1: You're like praying on them.

1090
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 2: But let me ask you this, say the circumstances weren't

1091
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 2: the circumstances, right, Like, you weren't going through anything, nothing

1092
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 2: was going on, and you fucked him or whatever. It

1093
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 2: doesn't matter what is going on, whether you were going

1094
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 2: through something or not.

1095
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 3: You're embarrassed to say that.

1096
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: You fucked him. Can we agree on that? Because we're

1097
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: talking about secrets.

1098
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 2: Because your mom said, don't ever fuck nobody, you'd be

1099
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 2: embarrassed of Like, if it came out and the whole

1100
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,760
Speaker 2: world knew that you fucked him, would you be embarrassed

1101
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 2: about it?

1102
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 1: No, because I would say that it happened in high school.

1103
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,280
Speaker 2: See, you gotta lie about it, so you are embarrassed

1104
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 2: about it. So what I'm saying is I didn't say that,

1105
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 2: but no, in the moment, do you know that you're

1106
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 2: having sex with somebody that you know you would be embarrassed?

1107
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: Well, I didn't because I was inebriated.

1108
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm saying.

1109
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 2: So in the moment, sometimes in the moment, you're not

1110
00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 2: thinking about that, That's what I'm saying. Like, in the

1111
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 2: moment when I was like, mess with that guy, I

1112
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, let me just see where it goes.

1113
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 3: Let me see if I like him.

1114
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: I didn't know.

1115
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 2: Like and now, obviously looking back on it, I was like, girl,

1116
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 2: you was drunk, you was hurting, you were trying to

1117
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 2: get over someone. Some I was, Oh, that's my favorite

1118
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:18,440
Speaker 2: Drake song.

1119
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 1: I love this.

1120
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. It's hard to recognize that

1121
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 2: in the moment. But you know what I've started to

1122
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 2: do honestly now, So we're talking about having secret sex

1123
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 2: and being and stop fucking people that you're embarrassed of

1124
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 2: that if it got out?

1125
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 3: Would you be embarrassed at my old ass age?

1126
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 2: I feel like this, if I went to a basketball

1127
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 2: game and I'm sitting courtside and I would be mad.

1128
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 3: I yeah, a baby, you know, because I didn't done

1129
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 3: that before.

1130
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: Period.

1131
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,320
Speaker 2: So if I'm at a basketball game and I'm sitting

1132
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:54,720
Speaker 2: courtside with a dude and I'm like, if the cameras.

1133
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 1: Come across us and I'm like trying to hide my

1134
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:57,719
Speaker 1: face and get mad, I don't need to be fucking you.

1135
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,719
Speaker 2: And you know what, well, first of all, dug, because

1136
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 2: why would you ever be sitting court side with a

1137
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 2: nigga you don't want to be seen with that's very visible.

1138
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:09,520
Speaker 2: You have a lot of I did that before I did.

1139
00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 2: We wasn't in court side, but we was like two

1140
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: rolls back that one time.

1141
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 1: He could have heared you, Durrea. That's mean I thought

1142
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: I liked him.

1143
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 2: I did, but why Okay, what I'm saying is if

1144
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 2: you're dealing with somebody and you would be mad that

1145
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 2: people found out, Like, honestly, I'm at the point of now,

1146
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 2: like if y'all found out who mister cobboy is, I

1147
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 2: don't give a fuck. Yes, I'm fucking someone and I

1148
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 2: like them. Who cares? Like That's how That's how I

1149
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,919
Speaker 2: am though, honestly. But I will even say, like even

1150
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: for like Rapper Bay like and never find out like Whopper,

1151
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: like this is somebody I was in love with and

1152
00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 2: we we dated, we were together. Like if y'all found

1153
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 2: out who he was, I don't care, Like we are

1154
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 2: all adults.

1155
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: Trying to think who I wouldn't care if people found

1156
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: out O week, dude, oh damn.

1157
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, Like I'm at the point

1158
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:10,839
Speaker 2: in my life where I really am like if y'all

1159
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 2: found out who this person is, because I always see

1160
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:14,359
Speaker 2: the comments like of people like.

1161
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:15,360
Speaker 1: Oh who is this? Who is this?

1162
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 3: And I'm like, you know what, if they found out,

1163
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 3: I wouldn't.

1164
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:20,400
Speaker 2: Care that embarrassed if nobody that I fucked with you,

1165
00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying that for that that that one.

1166
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,879
Speaker 2: But I wouldn't say we I fucked with him. We

1167
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,760
Speaker 2: fucked Y'ALLU we fucked y'all fucked hard.

1168
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:31,399
Speaker 1: You liked it.

1169
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:37,760
Speaker 2: You liked it too, you screamed his name. You screamed

1170
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 2: his name. You literally caught me and told me about it,

1171
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 2: and he said it was so good. No, I said

1172
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 2: it was it was straight. It surprised me. You went

1173
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:48,799
Speaker 2: back two more times. So why should I believe you? You

1174
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 2: said I fucked that nigga, but I fuck him in

1175
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 2: one day.

1176
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 3: No, it wasn't.

1177
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 2: Because you fucked him the night the sun the sun

1178
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,760
Speaker 2: rose and you fucked him again. That's too different days

1179
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 2: if the sun sets and rises, No, that's a different

1180
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:05,760
Speaker 2: Twenty four hours is twenty four hours.

1181
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: It was within the twenty four hour period.

1182
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 2: It was the twenty fourth, and you fucked him on

1183
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 2: the twenty fourth and the twenty fifth.

1184
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: But it had not been twenty four hours.

1185
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,879
Speaker 2: Still like twelve still two different days, all right, all right,

1186
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:19,839
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna break down Euphoria.

1187
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:21,439
Speaker 1: Bro.

1188
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 3: We can't spend too much time on you.

1189
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: We know we're not. We're not, we're not. But that

1190
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: show is light. It's wild. It's wild as fuss.

1191
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 3: So if it's light, let me just explain to people.

1192
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 2: You four years, so if you don't watch you four,

1193
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 2: if you're living under a rock, Eupouria is a show.

1194
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 2: Euphouri is a show on HBO's Around in twenty nineteen

1195
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,480
Speaker 2: or twenty twenty, Yes, ZM Day, And it's basically following

1196
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 2: high school students just going through life and going through love,

1197
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 2: experiencing shit that they're not supposed to experience, drug, alcohol, sex,

1198
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 2: all that shit. And I feel like it's relatable, Like

1199
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 2: we were doing shit in the high school we were

1200
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 2: not supposed to be doing. Yeah, maybe not that extreme. Yeah,

1201
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 2: I was about to say brow school. At least on

1202
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 2: my end of the spectrum for high school, it was

1203
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 2: not like that. Definitely heard about ship like that going on, though,

1204
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 2: because like at my school, we definitely had kids who

1205
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 2: would like get kicked out and have to go to

1206
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 2: like those alternative schools for kids who need drugs and stuff,

1207
00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 2: But it was never nobody in my close circle right.

1208
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:25,920
Speaker 2: And the way that drugs and sex are depicted on

1209
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 2: this show is just wild to me because when I

1210
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:30,640
Speaker 2: was fucking in high school, I wouldn't fucking like that.

1211
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: One.

1212
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 2: I wasn't fucking like that, But I mean, we really

1213
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:40,919
Speaker 2: fucking they be fucking. But I will say one thing

1214
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 2: I love about the show. I love how it's shot.

1215
00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,319
Speaker 1: First of all, Yeah, oh my god, A visual master pick.

1216
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: It really is.

1217
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:51,759
Speaker 2: It has that like it looks like it has like

1218
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 2: an automatic filter on it, like a set filter on it.

1219
00:56:55,160 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: It's perfect and it looks like you really look it

1220
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 2: looks like you're inebriating little bit. It has. It's like

1221
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,560
Speaker 2: I'm like foggy, that foggy look like the colors aren't bright.

1222
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 1: It looks really dark. So I love how they shoot it.

1223
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 2: Also, Zendia, I don't want to say her name wrong,

1224
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 2: is it is Zendiah Dah.

1225
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 3: So this is how I feel about her.

1226
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 2: She is a brilliant actress. And this reminds me of

1227
00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 2: something that Holly Berry said a long time ago when

1228
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 2: she first was breaking in the industry. She was like,

1229
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 2: it was so hard for me because I was and

1230
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 2: this is not conceded. I love that she said that.

1231
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 2: She said I was so beautiful people didn't take me seriously. Wow,

1232
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 2: she literally said that, And I feel like it was

1233
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 2: I feel like.

1234
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 3: I feel like it's the same.

1235
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:43,600
Speaker 1: Thing with Zendaiah.

1236
00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 2: I feel like, you know, we always saw her in

1237
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 2: these like Disney rolls, and we see her in these

1238
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 2: like Spider Man rolls, and her just being.

1239
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 3: Like the quirky, cute girl.

1240
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,080
Speaker 2: But her in this role, like she's really showing her

1241
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 2: acting chops and showing like, yes, I'm beautiful as fuck,

1242
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 2: but I can really fucking do this.

1243
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 3: And I can't.

1244
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 2: She really killing it amazing and I love and still

1245
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 2: be looking beautiful.

1246
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. Well, she no, she looks rough,

1247
00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 1: Like that's the point, Like she looks rough, but she

1248
00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 1: a pretty good. I mean, she's a pretty girl.

1249
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 2: But let's keep it real because you know what, I

1250
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 2: don't care how beautiful you are. Everybody that even looks

1251
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 2: remotely good, everybody has moments where you'll be like, I

1252
00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 2: would never post this, so this is not how I

1253
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 2: want to look.

1254
00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 3: And that's what I'm saying.

1255
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 2: Like that, and that's her life as rude. Rue just

1256
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 2: is always looking rough. She always looks tired. She always

1257
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 2: looks like she literally just rolled out of bed. So

1258
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 2: the fact that somebody like her, yeah, is absolutely gorgeous,

1259
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 2: can literally look.

1260
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 1: Like I just rolled out of bed and I'm having

1261
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: a rough day.

1262
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 2: It's relatable. It's relatable, especially for women out there that

1263
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 2: are extremely beautiful, but there's things that they care about

1264
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:52,560
Speaker 2: outside of their beauty.

1265
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 3: So that's what I'm talking about.

1266
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:55,600
Speaker 1: Me in real life. At the end of the day,

1267
00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: that's just life for everybody.

1268
00:58:57,240 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 2: I think people look at certain people, especially people in

1269
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 2: the spotlight, and you think, like all their lives is perfect.

1270
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 2: They don't go through shit. Everybody goes through she just

1271
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 2: cause you're pretty, it doesn't exempt you from going through

1272
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 2: life struggle. But not only that, Like, I feel like

1273
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 2: people look at a lot of times, they look at

1274
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 2: beautiful women like they can't be deeper than their looks,

1275
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 2: Like it's not nothing else there besides the surface level.

1276
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 2: That's why I brought up I Met Halle Berry interview

1277
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 2: because we all know Halle Berry's a legend obviously, but

1278
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 2: it's like nobody, Yeah, like nobody would take her seriously,

1279
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 2: Like they kept giving her remember when she played Yeah,

1280
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 2: she was typecasted, like when she was in the role

1281
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 2: of when she was in the Flintstone movie and she

1282
00:59:38,040 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 2: was like the baddie secretary with the short hair and

1283
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 2: all this stuff. It's like she was typecasted for a

1284
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 2: long time because they felt like she couldn't do anything

1285
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,520
Speaker 2: else besides being sexy. And that's what how a lot

1286
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 2: of people look at beautiful women.

1287
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: They do. I do disagree.

1288
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 3: What do you mean, you disagree only.

1289
00:59:55,640 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 2: Because like in Boomerange, she wasn't like the man like,

1290
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 2: she wasn't the sexy character.

1291
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: She was the smart girl that he feel for.

1292
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was like I'm not trying to be funny,

1293
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 2: and she bossed up and she became more six right,

1294
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 2: But you have to realize that during that time, like

1295
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 2: black cinema was not taken as serious as it is

1296
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 2: now and people don't look at like black like Boomerang

1297
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 2: is a classic for us, but I'm talking about like

1298
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 2: movies that people would see like on a broad I

1299
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 2: mean what you're saying, The flint Stones was definitely very

1300
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:26,959
Speaker 2: much more like something that was more.

1301
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,080
Speaker 3: Like Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

1302
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 2: So like it's like it was hard, but she wasn't

1303
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 2: even getting casted, That's what I'm saying. Like she wasn't

1304
01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 2: getting casted for these roles like I'm not trying to

1305
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 2: be funny and I'm not I'm not trying to compare.

1306
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,680
Speaker 2: But there's no reason, like Angelina Jolie was getting cast

1307
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 2: in these movies and Holly Berry wasn't, you know what

1308
01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:45,479
Speaker 2: I'm saying, because it was easy for them to take

1309
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 2: her serious because they were gonna give her a chance, Like, yeah,

1310
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 2: you're a beautiful woman, but she was white, so she

1311
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 2: could go ahead and do that.

1312
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 3: They're gonna give her a chance.

1313
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 2: They were they weren't even taking a chance on her,

1314
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:56,640
Speaker 2: Like she had to go through a lot for people

1315
01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 2: to even take a chance on her. And that's why

1316
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 2: I like that Euphoria is showing a beautiful woman being

1317
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 2: like I'm going through shit.

1318
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: I'm struggling with.

1319
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 2: I like Euphoria because I mean, I see a lot

1320
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 2: of the backlash that it gets and stuff online, and

1321
01:01:12,920 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 2: I be hearing about a lot of the backlash that

1322
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: I guess it gets, like from parents and stuff of

1323
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 2: like teenagers, but I think that parents probably I mean, Greennie,

1324
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 2: we're not parents, So I'm a tred like I.

1325
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:30,120
Speaker 1: Am a parent. All these bitches is my son grenned?

1326
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 2: We're not parents except for that, But I just feel

1327
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:39,280
Speaker 2: like parents, if anything, should look at the show and

1328
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 2: I feel like take heed. So that's what's going on

1329
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: like for your team right now, right and the times

1330
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 2: are just different because a lot of the shit that

1331
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 2: they be showing on Euphoria, I just feel like it

1332
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 2: was not It wasn't that shit wasn't going on when

1333
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 2: I was a teenager.

1334
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: What's the character's name, the thicker girl, Cat? Is that

1335
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: her name?

1336
01:01:56,720 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 2: Yes? Like a fu social media, the social media scene

1337
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 2: when she was laying in her room and she was

1338
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 2: just feeling the pressures of social media telling her this

1339
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 2: is what she's supposed to look like.

1340
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: She's so great, She's so She's like, but I'm not.

1341
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm going through some She's a cam girl.

1342
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 2: Literally, when I was in high school, it was no

1343
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:17,360
Speaker 2: cam girl. I bet you right now there's a girl

1344
01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:20,080
Speaker 2: in high school selling feet pictures and whether you feel

1345
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 2: like it's just feet that's sex work.

1346
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,120
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, So.

1347
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 2: I feel like even the scene with Cat's like she

1348
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:27,840
Speaker 2: feels so much pressure to be like she.

1349
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 1: Has, Yeah, like she has?

1350
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 2: That was like, yeah, that was not a thing when

1351
01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 2: we were in high school.

1352
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: You know what.

1353
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:41,480
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to find out Cassie's character Cassie since

1354
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 2: the beginning of the time, Home's Gonna be Yo.

1355
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 1: Cassie went outside behind that dick.

1356
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 2: And they be saying Cassie not a hole because she

1357
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 2: was in a relationship with all her boyfriends. So I mean,

1358
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 2: maybe no, let me tell y'all something and let me

1359
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 2: say this because I learned this from my.

1360
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 1: Home or not.

1361
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 2: The relationship with all her boyfriends was obviously a relationship

1362
01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:58,360
Speaker 2: with all the niggas that she ful.

1363
01:02:58,520 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 1: That don't mean nothing.

1364
01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 2: Let me tell you with Nate but it but also

1365
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter. Let me tell you something my homeboy

1366
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 2: told me a long time ago.

1367
01:03:05,720 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 1: Preston. It's my homeboy told me. He said, Yo, Presty,

1368
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:09,200
Speaker 1: he told me.

1369
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 2: He was like, I hate bitches that think that they're

1370
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 2: above other women just because everybody you fucked you've been

1371
01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,680
Speaker 2: in a relationship with, because guess what, she got twenty

1372
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:20,160
Speaker 2: bodies and you got twenty bodies. Bitch, you still got

1373
01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 2: dumped just because a nigga claimed you don't make you better.

1374
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 1: You still And.

1375
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:25,800
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I believe in BodyCount, but I'm saying

1376
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 2: I hate when people in general feel like, oh, but

1377
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 2: she was in a relationship.

1378
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 3: It don't make no difference, Bitch.

1379
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 2: We at the end of the day, because if you

1380
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 2: make everybody your boyfriend and I did it, but we

1381
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 2: still it don't.

1382
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 1: Matter because you still got dumped and you not with

1383
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 1: you love that nigga. You really down bad.

1384
01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why Cassie so down bad because she just

1385
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:50,000
Speaker 2: jumps in situations. I mean, no, she down bad to

1386
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 2: me because why is you out here fucking Yobi's friend, Nigga.

1387
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. You down bad, you know what?

1388
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 2: Because she's lonely and what do we say? Earlier?

1389
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 1: Leads to desperation becau because what was.

1390
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 3: The what's her boyfriend named? The ex boyfriend?

1391
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 1: Oh, the black guy. I can't remember it.

1392
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 2: I can't remember his name either, but either way, he's

1393
01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 2: in Collegeay. They broke up and she's desperate. She's tired

1394
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 2: of being alone. And that's what Maddie told her. She

1395
01:04:12,520 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 2: was like, you're so used to being a relationship, You're

1396
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 2: so used to being loved, and she don't know what

1397
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 2: to do. She's not comfortable being alone. Let's chat about

1398
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 2: how the girls don't like Maddie. People don't like bad bitches. True,

1399
01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 2: people don't like you, betcha. I don't give a fun

1400
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 2: I know that's right.

1401
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 1: Just the thing a botty?

1402
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:35,919
Speaker 2: I mean, and I don't know, I just I don't

1403
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 2: give I feel like people don't like that. I definitely

1404
01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 2: think people don't like babies. Oh yeah, people don't like

1405
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 2: bad bitches. Is they feel like Maddie. They feel like

1406
01:04:44,200 --> 01:04:46,640
Speaker 2: Maddie's character is just like surface level. She just wants

1407
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 2: to be with the most popular guy in school. But honestly,

1408
01:04:49,120 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 2: I like the fact that they're showing her being a

1409
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 2: babysitter and how much she loves that little boy.

1410
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 3: People don't look at that, like they don't look at

1411
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 3: little stuff like that.

1412
01:04:56,760 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 2: But that's why I love people that are like in films,

1413
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 2: and because they can see deeper storylines like Maddy loves that.

1414
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: Look, can we chat from a different perspective?

1415
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:09,080
Speaker 2: Like I hate when people try to make it seem

1416
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:13,120
Speaker 2: like certain girls are just surface level because of what

1417
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 2: they want out of life, especially when you look at

1418
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 2: their circumstance. It's like, look at the circum her circumstances

1419
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 2: on the show. Her dad is a fucking alcoholic herm

1420
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:24,320
Speaker 2: or something, yeah, like alcoholic bum.

1421
01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 1: Her mom is a nail text so.

1422
01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 2: Not saying no text her band, but she works at

1423
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:29,720
Speaker 2: like a nail shop, Like so she's not making the

1424
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 2: one No yeah, we're.

1425
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 1: Not saying it's a bad thing, but it's like her mom.

1426
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 1: It's not like she an entrepreneur.

1427
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 2: That like does nails for celebrities and how end people

1428
01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 2: and all that type of stuff. No, she she just

1429
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 2: works at a nail shop and she does nils, So

1430
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 2: I mean they live a very normal life. She's probably

1431
01:05:46,280 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 2: seen her parents struggle for her whole life, and she

1432
01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 2: knows that she has an advantage because she has pretty

1433
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 2: privileged and she looks good. So why not use that

1434
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 2: to your advantage. It's to get you a better life,

1435
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, if you come from a

1436
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 2: certain situation. I hate that people try to make it

1437
01:06:00,600 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 2: seem like that's a bad thing, just because that's not

1438
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:03,720
Speaker 2: the advantage.

1439
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:06,640
Speaker 3: You better flip that hair, do it? Go ahead, No,

1440
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,360
Speaker 3: flip it. You was about to flip it, flip that hair.

1441
01:06:09,480 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 2: I was really about to get my wine. But I'm

1442
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 2: just saying I don't like. I hate that people do that.

1443
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 2: Like it's like when people aren't in a situation, they

1444
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,600
Speaker 2: try to bash it. I will say that they're trying

1445
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 2: to understand it as if you wouldn't do the same

1446
01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 2: thing if you had the privilege.

1447
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: But you don't.

1448
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 2: But not only that, it's more than being beautiful. To

1449
01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 2: be beautiful and take advantage of that, you have to

1450
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 2: be smart and well. Yesterday about how people talk about

1451
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:36,240
Speaker 2: the Kardashians.

1452
01:06:36,440 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't.

1453
01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:38,560
Speaker 2: And don't get me wrong, I'm not even gonna sit

1454
01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 2: the pair line. I'm not a huge fan of them,

1455
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 2: but they're business minded people and I can't hate on that.

1456
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 2: I will never hate on somebody taking advantage of what

1457
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 2: they know they're good at. Because guess what looks hard enough,

1458
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 2: Whether y'all like to believe it or not, somebody can

1459
01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 2: look one way. That's why you see a lot of

1460
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 2: like bad bitches are handsome men never get nowhere because

1461
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 2: you can be beautiful, but you have to have a

1462
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 2: business mind and running a business and branding yourself is

1463
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 2: not fucking easy. Yes, we talked about these yesterday on

1464
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 2: the phone. Like people always love to say, oh, thea

1465
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 2: Kardashian's don't have any talent. They're not talented. It's a

1466
01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 2: talent to make people, to make people fuck with you

1467
01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 2: when you don't have a talent. Back to Euphoria, I

1468
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 2: love the fact that's they made a whole brand out

1469
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 2: of it. They did agree, But back to Euphoria, I

1470
01:07:26,360 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 2: will say also, I'm just having those in dying moment

1471
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 2: because I love her.

1472
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 1: I love that.

1473
01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 2: I also like the fact that she is an executive

1474
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 2: producer on the show, like and Drake he is, he is.

1475
01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:49,800
Speaker 3: I was just saying, we know, you just saying we know.

1476
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 2: But anyways, I like the fact that she executive produces

1477
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 2: a show because I feel like it just shows her

1478
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:57,440
Speaker 2: creative side. And the show is just so creative because honestly,

1479
01:07:57,480 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 2: if you really watch Euphoria, it's really about nothing. It's

1480
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 2: about nothing. We're just watching people live. It's like a

1481
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 2: reality show that's not a reality it's like a script show.

1482
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:09,720
Speaker 3: Euphoria is literally about nothing.

1483
01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 2: But that's why social media and content creating and everything

1484
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 2: is so wild nowadays, because honestly, the most interesting things

1485
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 2: are about nothing. We're just watching people live in a

1486
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 2: dramatic fashion. So I think that's why Euphoria is like

1487
01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:28,680
Speaker 2: so well shot, because you got to realize, where what

1488
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 2: town are they in? They're somewhere in California.

1489
01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:32,400
Speaker 1: Where are they at? I don't even know. I don't

1490
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:32,640
Speaker 1: even know.

1491
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:35,240
Speaker 2: I don't know where they're at either, but either way,

1492
01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:37,600
Speaker 2: it's like they're in this said, yeah, they're in this

1493
01:08:37,720 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 2: small town that's like nothing is going on. But the

1494
01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:44,800
Speaker 2: way it's filmed and its shot is dark. Everybody's sad,

1495
01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 2: everybody's so edgy.

1496
01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 1: It just makes it everybody is in love with jewels,

1497
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 1: and I love that for her. Yeah, I love that ever.

1498
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 3: Because everybody every town has that, And when I grew

1499
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:55,440
Speaker 3: up in a small.

1500
01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:57,560
Speaker 2: Town, well, I just like the way it portrays like

1501
01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,479
Speaker 2: transiend yeah people because.

1502
01:09:01,240 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

1503
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,000
Speaker 2: Sometimes you're attracted to people that are exactly the same

1504
01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:06,920
Speaker 2: sex as you, and people need to realize that. And

1505
01:09:07,040 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 2: you don't have to label yourself as anything just because

1506
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 2: you're attracted somebody to somebody that maybe doesn't identify as

1507
01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 2: a certain sex or whatever it may be. You would

1508
01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 2: just be attracted to people and that's okay. And just

1509
01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 2: because I'm attracted to you doesn't necessarily mean I want

1510
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:20,680
Speaker 2: to fuck you.

1511
01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:22,680
Speaker 3: I just think that you're attractive.

1512
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,479
Speaker 2: But I love the fact that they show that because

1513
01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:27,479
Speaker 2: I had a girl in my town that everybody used

1514
01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:27,800
Speaker 2: to love.

1515
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:29,680
Speaker 1: She.

1516
01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 2: I don't think she watches the show, but I still

1517
01:09:31,960 --> 01:09:33,840
Speaker 2: talk to her. One of my best friends growing up,

1518
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 2: her name was Taylor Didn't and everybody just loves Taylor.

1519
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 2: She was just beautiful and she just played all the

1520
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,320
Speaker 2: sports like everybody liked her.

1521
01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: She was like student council president, like all that good stuff.

1522
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 2: And I'm just like every town, every small town has

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01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 2: that girl that everybody loves.

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01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 1: So shout up to Taylor TV. That we used to

1525
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 1: call it that TV. And she had all the all

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01:09:56,640 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 1: the boys she did.

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01:10:00,160 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 3: Okay, she was and she still is a baddy. She

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01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 3: actually just got married.

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01:10:03,840 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 2: That was the one I went to when I went

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01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 2: to the Bachelo Red party.

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01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:09,439
Speaker 3: Taylor Love you grew up?

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01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:14,720
Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're gonna get into the bow.

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01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 1: I know you bet a bank head bounce.

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01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:20,120
Speaker 3: On a band bounce?

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01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:20,400
Speaker 5: I was.

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01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 2: Bank head bounces like this, I don't. I don't think

1537
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:33,160
Speaker 2: that's how you know. Yeah, no, I don't think that's

1538
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 2: my BAP of the Week is by an artist. Her

1539
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:39,000
Speaker 2: name is Amara, and it's called Sad Girls Love Money.

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01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:42,600
Speaker 2: She has a very high, high pitched voice, and I

1541
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 2: like it. I think it's the song has a vibe,

1542
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 2: but I really like it's a remix though. You gotta

1543
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,640
Speaker 2: listen to the remix with Klie. Is that how you

1544
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 2: say her name, Kali Ukus. I don't know how to

1545
01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:56,320
Speaker 2: say nobody, but yeah, so the remix.

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01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

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01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:00,760
Speaker 3: I haven't. I'm not much of a cal fan.

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01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:02,640
Speaker 2: I've only heard like a few songs by her that

1549
01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:06,720
Speaker 2: I really like because I'm more about like lyrics and

1550
01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 2: like how it makes me feel. So I haven't been

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01:11:10,280 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 2: a huge I'm not saying that she's bad because she's

1552
01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 2: a good artist.

1553
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 1: It's just not for me. But I like her.

1554
01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 2: On this song Callie's Verse, she kilt it. Her tone

1555
01:11:20,680 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 2: was just, it fit perfectly and she did what needs

1556
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 2: to be done. And honestly, I feel like sad girls

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01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:27,800
Speaker 2: do love money.

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01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:29,360
Speaker 1: I love the message of the song, like.

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01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 3: Bitch, I'm in a bad mood.

1560
01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 1: I just feel I feel better. I do feel better.

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01:11:34,320 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie like life was. Life used to

1562
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 1: be bad, it ain't because it's time.

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01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 3: It's time to ship. Hey, I don't care what you

1564
01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:48,800
Speaker 3: got going on in life.

1565
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:50,680
Speaker 2: Get on your ship, follow your dreams, do what you're

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01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 2: supposed to do, because I don't care what people say.

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01:11:52,960 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 3: Money makes life.

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01:11:54,200 --> 01:11:55,479
Speaker 1: You know what I love that about.

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01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:58,080
Speaker 2: I be so happy for you, thank you because I

1570
01:11:58,200 --> 01:12:00,880
Speaker 2: know I mean happy for you because I love the

1571
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:04,679
Speaker 2: fact that you finally be becoming okay with like popping

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01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:05,200
Speaker 2: yo shit.

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01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:08,000
Speaker 1: I mean like you used to like not want to.

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01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:12,280
Speaker 1: I still don't want to, but all right, I'll pop

1575
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:16,800
Speaker 1: it to you, and that's fake. I'm not fair because

1576
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 1: you be popping. I'm filtered. I'm not fake. I'm filtered.

1577
01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:23,080
Speaker 1: That's fake.

1578
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 2: So Poppy, Yeah, pop this ship LEXI Lex p and

1579
01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 2: a piece for Poppy And I'm pushing p I'm being

1580
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:37,680
Speaker 2: pushing Pee. I'm being pushing pushing. That's the name of

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01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 2: this episode, pushing Pee.

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01:12:39,120 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 1: Period.

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01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:44,360
Speaker 2: But no, I do feel like money doesn't solve problems.

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01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 2: Let me just say that it doesn't absolutely, but it

1585
01:12:47,040 --> 01:12:50,639
Speaker 2: definitely makes it a lot easier it do. But like, yeah,

1586
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:53,799
Speaker 2: like I said, tomorrow, sad girls love money. The remix

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01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:55,599
Speaker 2: feature in Kylie is a good song.

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01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:58,600
Speaker 1: It's a vibe. I like it. Okay, I'm gonna have

1589
01:12:58,640 --> 01:12:59,280
Speaker 1: to check it out.

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01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 2: My bot this week is Rumors by Gucci Main featuring

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01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:05,679
Speaker 2: Little Dirt.

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01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:06,600
Speaker 3: I haven't heard it.

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01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 1: It's good you were just listening to what I just

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01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 1: played it.

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01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:13,280
Speaker 2: I mean, I haven't heard I love Little Dirk. Every

1596
01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 2: time I hear his voice, I know it's him. His

1597
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 2: name is the Voice because he's literally the voice. Nice.

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01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:21,920
Speaker 2: He has a very recognizable voice. I like Little Dirt

1599
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:25,040
Speaker 2: and I like Gucci Mane, So how is it not

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01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 2: about it?

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01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:26,679
Speaker 1: Gucci man is legend.

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01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:29,599
Speaker 2: He is like, I love Gucci. I don't think there's

1603
01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:33,600
Speaker 2: any Buccie. Did you say I have an accent? No,

1604
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:35,719
Speaker 2: it's Gucci.

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01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:41,800
Speaker 1: That was strange. That's how the voice be on the song.

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01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 1: Give me a hot pitch voice. Pitch voice. It's good.

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01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:51,759
Speaker 1: Oh that glass it's trying to rap this. I'm a lady.

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01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:54,559
Speaker 3: Okay, So what's the name of the song again?

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01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:57,799
Speaker 1: I forgot hold on Gucci mane.

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01:13:57,680 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 3: Little dark rumors.

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01:14:00,360 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 1: Ooh you are good memory. All right, So now we're

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01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:05,640
Speaker 1: gonna get into our segment. Pour your heart out.

1613
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:07,680
Speaker 2: If you want your question answered on the show, make

1614
01:14:07,720 --> 01:14:10,720
Speaker 2: sure you email us at Askpoorminds at gmail dot com.

1615
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Speaker 2: in the subject and you'll get to skip the line.

1617
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Speaker 1: And we're gonna start. You want to start, you want

1618
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:20,240
Speaker 1: me to start? I'll start. What's up? Y'alls?

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Speaker 2: earlier today shout out with scy Me. One of the

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Speaker 2: be going through something to do therapy. Sometimes if you

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Speaker 2: just want to vent, have some to talk to get

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Speaker 2: things off your chist. I feel like, whether life is

1638
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Speaker 2: I think everybody also thinks that it's really expensive, but

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Speaker 2: Christy is very knowledgeable patient and provides unbiased information and

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01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is a testimony. You want to read

1655
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,400
Speaker 2: the original or this is the testimony or how you

1656
01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:52,800
Speaker 2: want to do it when I'm gonna read both of them.

1657
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:57,479
Speaker 2: So read the original first, then read the original, and then.

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01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:02,679
Speaker 1: You Okay, Hey girls, I have a testimonial for y'all.

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01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:04,200
Speaker 1: This is the original.

1660
01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 2: I've been dating this guy. He refers to me as

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01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:09,560
Speaker 2: his girl, but he has not asked me to be

1662
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 2: his girlfriend. We stopped talking for a while because he

1663
01:16:12,439 --> 01:16:15,120
Speaker 2: felt not ready. I was okay with what we had

1664
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:18,000
Speaker 2: going on, though I'm a mom and don't mind taking

1665
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:20,280
Speaker 2: things slow. But we've been hanging out a lot since

1666
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:23,400
Speaker 2: getting back together, going on dates, went out of town,

1667
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:27,719
Speaker 2: literally everything a boyfriend and girlfriend would do. What's bothering

1668
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:29,680
Speaker 2: me the most with him is that he doesn't like

1669
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:33,000
Speaker 2: my photos on social media. That's petty, but he likes

1670
01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 2: other girls photos. It drives me insane, y'all. But because

1671
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm not his girl, I feel like I can't really

1672
01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 2: argue with him.

1673
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:43,240
Speaker 1: About it. I have mentioned it to him before and

1674
01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:44,800
Speaker 1: he kind of just brushed it off, like.

1675
01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:47,200
Speaker 2: It's not that big of a deal. But it still

1676
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:50,320
Speaker 2: gets to me. Am I just being crazy and jealous?

1677
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 2: Or should I drop him like a bad habit? Okay,

1678
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 2: so this is the testimonial. I did not take y'all

1679
01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:58,760
Speaker 2: advice and continue to give all boy hill for being

1680
01:16:58,840 --> 01:17:01,719
Speaker 2: too happy on social media. He did end up asking

1681
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:03,439
Speaker 2: me to be his girlfriend, but he broke up with

1682
01:17:03,560 --> 01:17:06,120
Speaker 2: me months after and I was definitely hurt. A few

1683
01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 2: months later, I met a new man with more money

1684
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:11,160
Speaker 2: who actually hates social media and doesn't use it. Look

1685
01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:16,080
Speaker 2: at God period. So I'm basically all already you should

1686
01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:18,920
Speaker 2: have listened to exactly. Because you didn't listen to hing,

1687
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 2: you got your feelings hurt.

1688
01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:21,759
Speaker 1: But I'm glad you. Sabt have been a nigga.

1689
01:17:23,880 --> 01:17:26,400
Speaker 2: Hey, girls, I've been a patreot, I remember, for almost

1690
01:17:26,400 --> 01:17:28,240
Speaker 2: a year now, and I have always wanted to submit

1691
01:17:28,320 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 2: a question, but I was in a toxic ass relationship

1692
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 2: and he watched the show with me and he was

1693
01:17:33,600 --> 01:17:36,600
Speaker 2: real crazy. I didn't have anything good to say, and

1694
01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 2: even if he was uncertain he'd make me, he'd make

1695
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 2: my life. Hell if he knew or thought I wrote

1696
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:45,120
Speaker 2: in about him. I have been out of that toxic

1697
01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:48,760
Speaker 2: and abusive relationship since May, but the last time we

1698
01:17:48,880 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 2: had sex was September. Since then, I have been really

1699
01:17:52,200 --> 01:17:55,120
Speaker 2: focused on myself and my business. But out of the blue,

1700
01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:58,040
Speaker 2: a BDB pops up into my life and is applying

1701
01:17:58,240 --> 01:17:59,080
Speaker 2: major pressure.

1702
01:18:00,439 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 1: And he is thirty four, which is exactly what I need.

1703
01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 1: I know, that's right.

1704
01:18:04,920 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 2: He looks good and it's very, very successful, and it's

1705
01:18:08,040 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 2: doing everything to help me build my business, and it's

1706
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 2: just as successful.

1707
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:14,480
Speaker 3: Independently.

1708
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 2: I really don't want to be in a relationship, but

1709
01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 2: it seeming like that's the direction he's headed. I just

1710
01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:22,479
Speaker 2: know that sometimes good guys like this can be hard

1711
01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 2: to come by. But I'm still twenty four and just

1712
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:28,679
Speaker 2: found out how to exactly how to actually be single

1713
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 2: and live.

1714
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:30,519
Speaker 3: What should I do, y'all?

1715
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:33,120
Speaker 2: I literally have no friends that would even begin to

1716
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:35,439
Speaker 2: understand how to help me in a situation, So I

1717
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:39,080
Speaker 2: figured this was the perfect question for my internet besties.

1718
01:18:41,400 --> 01:18:44,799
Speaker 2: I feel like, first of all, this is sorry, go ahead,

1719
01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:46,599
Speaker 2: my bed, this is why we don't need one.

1720
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:48,640
Speaker 1: Now you can go. I was just saying, why you

1721
01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:49,520
Speaker 1: keep moving.

1722
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:51,600
Speaker 5: Go.

1723
01:18:54,160 --> 01:18:57,960
Speaker 2: I feel like, first of all, you always have to

1724
01:18:58,040 --> 01:19:00,040
Speaker 2: let your intentions know in the beginning. That's something that

1725
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:02,839
Speaker 2: we talked about, like you have to let your intentions

1726
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:04,439
Speaker 2: known so you don't even have to go through this.

1727
01:19:04,760 --> 01:19:07,240
Speaker 2: But I feel like, girl, you're twenty four. I don't

1728
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 2: feel like relationships are a big deal to me personally.

1729
01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 2: So if for now, if you want to commit to

1730
01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:14,280
Speaker 2: him and being a relationship, that doesn't mean you have

1731
01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 2: to get married and have his kids tomorrow.

1732
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:18,600
Speaker 1: But if this is the person you're enjoying, y'all are

1733
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:20,840
Speaker 1: having a good time and that's what he won't.

1734
01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 3: Just give it to him.

1735
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:22,680
Speaker 1: Girl, ain't no big deal.

1736
01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:24,840
Speaker 2: And if y'all don't work out, bit y'all don't work out.

1737
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:27,439
Speaker 2: I feel like people put too much pressure on being

1738
01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:30,840
Speaker 2: boyfriend and girlfriend. Boyfriend and girlfriend don't mean nothing now.

1739
01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:33,519
Speaker 2: The commitment and the seriousness comes whenever you get married

1740
01:19:33,560 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 2: and have kids, But being a relationship is not that serious.

1741
01:19:37,240 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 1: You single to you married? Why did you say that?

1742
01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:43,320
Speaker 1: Like you were from Baltimore? You single? To you you married?

1743
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:47,160
Speaker 1: You said to you bitch, no fun? Why did you

1744
01:19:47,640 --> 01:19:48,040
Speaker 1: say to you?

1745
01:19:51,960 --> 01:19:52,120
Speaker 2: Bro?

1746
01:19:52,479 --> 01:19:54,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I did not say that. I say you're single

1747
01:19:54,920 --> 01:19:55,679
Speaker 1: till you're married.

1748
01:19:57,080 --> 01:20:04,599
Speaker 2: I agree, though, Okay, I'm bothered because what she told

1749
01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:06,759
Speaker 2: me earlier. I'm sorry, I can't get off my mind.

1750
01:20:07,520 --> 01:20:09,519
Speaker 3: You know what she told me, Well, you said we're

1751
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:10,200
Speaker 3: gonna talk later.

1752
01:20:11,720 --> 01:20:12,280
Speaker 1: Question three.

1753
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:17,960
Speaker 2: But young girl, like like we were saying, I just

1754
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:19,840
Speaker 2: think you should have fun. I feel like y'all put

1755
01:20:19,880 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 2: way too much pressure on titles. Not that it shouldn't

1756
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:24,080
Speaker 2: be a title, because if you want somebody to take

1757
01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:27,559
Speaker 2: you serious, be adamant about the title. But it's also

1758
01:20:27,800 --> 01:20:31,160
Speaker 2: okay to have fun until you're ready for that, right.

1759
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:35,600
Speaker 2: So question number three, high ladies, My husband's family had

1760
01:20:35,600 --> 01:20:38,519
Speaker 2: a Christmas holiday party and I was invited. I already

1761
01:20:38,560 --> 01:20:40,720
Speaker 2: knew his baby mother was going to be there. My

1762
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 2: partner and his baby mother have a grown daughter, thirty

1763
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:50,880
Speaker 2: years old, Dawn. I'm sorry, age, I haven't even saying

1764
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:55,479
Speaker 2: I stepping on the my age. The baby mother is

1765
01:20:55,560 --> 01:20:59,559
Speaker 2: a part of the LGBTQ community, so I didn't mind

1766
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:02,120
Speaker 2: being a around her until his brother got on the

1767
01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:04,880
Speaker 2: mic and started honoring his baby mother for a favor

1768
01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:06,200
Speaker 2: she did twenty years ago.

1769
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:08,439
Speaker 1: He's giving ghosts in Tasha.

1770
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:12,439
Speaker 2: The only thing, the only thing that's bothering me is

1771
01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:15,280
Speaker 2: why did they choose to honor her and not everyone

1772
01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:19,200
Speaker 2: else who's been helpful in the family. I'm feeling disrespected

1773
01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 2: because of my husband's history with this woman. I spoke

1774
01:21:22,479 --> 01:21:25,000
Speaker 2: with some members of the family and everyone says nothing

1775
01:21:25,120 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 2: like this has ever happened, and they don't know why

1776
01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:30,479
Speaker 2: his brother chose to acknowledge his BM that night. I

1777
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:33,160
Speaker 2: feel as though the family was being shady. I have

1778
01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 2: been warned by some people in the family to be

1779
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:39,240
Speaker 2: careful of their shadiness. My husband has asked him to apologize,

1780
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:42,000
Speaker 2: but no one seems to care. Why is you I'm

1781
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 2: trying to finish the question a good one. Do you

1782
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:48,120
Speaker 2: think the family was being shady or am I overthinking? Bitch?

1783
01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:51,200
Speaker 2: Fuck them, They was being shady and they probably just

1784
01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:53,879
Speaker 2: like her and feel a type of way. But honestly,

1785
01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 2: guess what, it don't matter. You got him, that's your man,

1786
01:21:56,479 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 2: that's your husband. Don't even indulge in that. I never

1787
01:21:59,280 --> 01:22:00,960
Speaker 2: fight with the family. You know how you kill somebody

1788
01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 2: with kindness, So keep smiling and keep being the bad

1789
01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:04,200
Speaker 2: bitch that you are.

1790
01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:04,760
Speaker 1: You know who.

1791
01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 3: I never let them see you swim?

1792
01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:06,599
Speaker 2: You know who?

1793
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:09,160
Speaker 1: I don't fight Weed the family. Yeah, I don't know who.

1794
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 3: I really don't fight Weed a fan exactly. And that's

1795
01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:13,640
Speaker 3: what it sounds like.

1796
01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 1: It sounds like, hey, it sounds like the brother.

1797
01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:18,639
Speaker 2: Was trying to hurt your feelings, to make you mad

1798
01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:20,760
Speaker 2: because he feels some type of way about you. It

1799
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 2: has nothing to do with praising her like she's such

1800
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:26,880
Speaker 2: an amazing person. I have had a situation that I

1801
01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:30,040
Speaker 2: was dealing with and it wasn't a romantic relationship, but

1802
01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:34,040
Speaker 2: I had a friend who would always praise this other

1803
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:36,240
Speaker 2: girl and we were doing the same thing and it

1804
01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:37,840
Speaker 2: was like she kept me like, oh my god, she's

1805
01:22:39,760 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 2: and it was like, damn, bitch, can you let me

1806
01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 2: know that you feel some You know that you feel

1807
01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:44,920
Speaker 2: good about me too. But when people do that, it's

1808
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 2: because they jealous and they low key mad.

1809
01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 1: So don't react. Be the bad bitch you are.

1810
01:22:50,520 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 2: Keep your crown on and keep smiling. But yeah, I

1811
01:22:52,479 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 2: want to be mad about it. I mean, she BM

1812
01:22:54,640 --> 01:23:01,559
Speaker 2: you exactly. Okay, question for girls Houston in the house,

1813
01:23:01,600 --> 01:23:04,839
Speaker 2: and I love y'all. I have really big boobs naturally

1814
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:08,160
Speaker 2: since puberty. I am now a K cup at twenty one.

1815
01:23:08,520 --> 01:23:11,920
Speaker 2: I have always concealed my breast with oversized tea tops

1816
01:23:11,920 --> 01:23:12,599
Speaker 2: who laughed.

1817
01:23:15,520 --> 01:23:17,200
Speaker 1: I got quiet too. I got scared.

1818
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,240
Speaker 2: I have always been overlooked because of the way I

1819
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:23,559
Speaker 2: would dress. I've realized over the past year concealing them

1820
01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:26,120
Speaker 2: is not flattering to my body, and people notice them

1821
01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:28,879
Speaker 2: and always call me out on having big boobs anyways,

1822
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:32,479
Speaker 2: so I'm not really hiding anything. More recently, I've gotten

1823
01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:36,160
Speaker 2: into fashion that compliments my breast instead of concealing them. Well,

1824
01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:39,799
Speaker 2: with that comes stairs, lots of them, whether it's another

1825
01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:42,840
Speaker 2: woman or men, even if they are with their wife

1826
01:23:43,000 --> 01:23:45,840
Speaker 2: or girlfriend. Both of you girls give a body and

1827
01:23:45,920 --> 01:23:48,760
Speaker 2: we're outfits that show that. How do you handle and

1828
01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:51,920
Speaker 2: feel about stairs in public? I know there is nothing

1829
01:23:52,000 --> 01:23:54,120
Speaker 2: I can do, but I guess I'm asking how do

1830
01:23:54,200 --> 01:23:55,400
Speaker 2: you become comfortable with it?

1831
01:23:55,800 --> 01:23:56,040
Speaker 1: Girl?

1832
01:23:57,160 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 2: Girlfriend Caulx the Leo mean, y'all love atten cheese and i'matories.

1833
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:06,800
Speaker 1: With the Leo.

1834
01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:10,200
Speaker 2: Moon You know, they say what they say, your moon

1835
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,040
Speaker 2: sign is really like more so who you truly are

1836
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:15,000
Speaker 2: than your actual son.

1837
01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:17,879
Speaker 3: My moon sign is piscy, so that's why you're emotional.

1838
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:23,680
Speaker 2: Hell but anyway, but anyway, but anyway, so they say

1839
01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:25,479
Speaker 2: your moon sign is more of who you really are.

1840
01:24:25,640 --> 01:24:28,400
Speaker 2: So I said all of that to say, Me and

1841
01:24:28,520 --> 01:24:33,040
Speaker 2: Lex both like attention. So we wear the things that

1842
01:24:33,120 --> 01:24:33,439
Speaker 2: we wear.

1843
01:24:33,560 --> 01:24:36,360
Speaker 1: We know we gonna get attention. So it's not really

1844
01:24:36,400 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 1: something to think about. That's why you want that course.

1845
01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:42,840
Speaker 1: And it's fifty degrees outside. Girl, I wore a jackie

1846
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:52,040
Speaker 1: to don't. I wore these to record this, right, I

1847
01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:52,719
Speaker 1: wore a jacket.

1848
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:55,439
Speaker 2: But anyways, all I'm saying is, you know, when you

1849
01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 2: wear certain things and you dress a certain way, you

1850
01:24:57,560 --> 01:24:59,439
Speaker 2: have to be comfortable with the attention that you're gonna get.

1851
01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:02,160
Speaker 2: If you want to be be modest, if you want

1852
01:25:02,200 --> 01:25:04,679
Speaker 2: to be sexy, be sexy, but just nah, yeah, being sexy,

1853
01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:07,160
Speaker 2: you're gonna get a certain type of attention. Okay, so

1854
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:09,760
Speaker 2: let me say this. You have really big boobs, saying

1855
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:11,720
Speaker 2: you have a K cup. I get it because my

1856
01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:14,720
Speaker 2: boobs are massive. They're very, very large, So I get it.

1857
01:25:14,720 --> 01:25:16,400
Speaker 2: A lot of times people are staring at you just

1858
01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:18,439
Speaker 2: because they be like, damn, you got some big ass TVs.

1859
01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:21,160
Speaker 2: But honestly, you don't think it's sexualized. Yeah, I do

1860
01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:23,040
Speaker 2: think it's sexualized, That's what I'm saying. But it's like

1861
01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:25,120
Speaker 2: people are gonna stare at you more because your boobs

1862
01:25:25,120 --> 01:25:26,120
Speaker 2: are so fucking big.

1863
01:25:26,479 --> 01:25:27,639
Speaker 1: Like I get that a lot.

1864
01:25:27,800 --> 01:25:30,640
Speaker 2: I still do, and I will say this, sometimes you

1865
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:33,839
Speaker 2: just have to get comfortable within yourself and feeling confident,

1866
01:25:34,520 --> 01:25:37,240
Speaker 2: like that's just what comes with the territory of being

1867
01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:39,640
Speaker 2: an attractive woman and you have to just use it

1868
01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:42,000
Speaker 2: to your advantage and be confident. If you're not confident

1869
01:25:42,040 --> 01:25:44,519
Speaker 2: within yourself, you're always gonna feel some type of way

1870
01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:47,000
Speaker 2: when people are looking at you. Honestly, when people look

1871
01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:49,120
Speaker 2: at me, I'll be like, I know, I'm amazed too.

1872
01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:51,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm mean same like I know.

1873
01:25:52,600 --> 01:25:54,160
Speaker 3: You know, like when people stay every d I'm like,

1874
01:25:54,360 --> 01:25:55,120
Speaker 3: I'm shocked too.

1875
01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:59,200
Speaker 2: Every morning I'll be like, damn god, you did look

1876
01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:00,720
Speaker 2: at them, That's what I'm saying.

1877
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 3: So when people stare at me, I be shocked too.

1878
01:26:03,240 --> 01:26:05,479
Speaker 1: Like I know, nigga, don't be shocked.

1879
01:26:05,600 --> 01:26:07,280
Speaker 2: No, I be shocked because I'd be like, that's how

1880
01:26:07,320 --> 01:26:08,760
Speaker 2: I feel in the morning when I wake up, I'll

1881
01:26:08,800 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 2: be like.

1882
01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:11,880
Speaker 1: Oh, that's me, you know what I'm saying.

1883
01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:15,439
Speaker 2: So once you're confident, more confident within yourself, you don't

1884
01:26:15,520 --> 01:26:17,040
Speaker 2: understand why people are staring at you.

1885
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:19,919
Speaker 3: Like I'm one hundred percent sure, you're beautiful.

1886
01:26:20,200 --> 01:26:23,640
Speaker 1: Just get used to it. Not a bad thing. It

1887
01:26:25,000 --> 01:26:26,720
Speaker 1: would you rather be looked at or not looked at?

1888
01:26:26,840 --> 01:26:28,439
Speaker 1: Would you rather be looked at or overlooked?

1889
01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:32,040
Speaker 3: And you know what I'm saying. So it's not meeting.

1890
01:26:32,080 --> 01:26:34,040
Speaker 3: I'm excited about this song. First of all, let me

1891
01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:34,719
Speaker 3: talk about.

1892
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:37,920
Speaker 2: This group because this was like an era, This was

1893
01:26:37,960 --> 01:26:41,160
Speaker 2: a movement. This is this was like when we saw

1894
01:26:41,280 --> 01:26:43,439
Speaker 2: reality TV and we saw it on another level. We

1895
01:26:44,120 --> 01:26:49,719
Speaker 2: learned about boom Cats, you know, like we saw legends created.

1896
01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:51,960
Speaker 2: This is a legendary group and they only had like

1897
01:26:52,040 --> 01:26:54,360
Speaker 2: what two three ups, but the only ones that we

1898
01:26:54,439 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 2: listened to were the first two.

1899
01:26:56,840 --> 01:26:57,880
Speaker 1: So this is a song.

1900
01:26:58,880 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 2: I used to be in a group called All Dannity

1901
01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:05,360
Speaker 2: Insane when I was in high school. We weren't Danny Kane.

1902
01:27:05,360 --> 01:27:08,640
Speaker 2: We were Danny Insane because we was crazy with the

1903
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:12,160
Speaker 2: crazy vocals. I'm not making this up. You remember my

1904
01:27:12,240 --> 01:27:13,920
Speaker 2: friend Trey you was on Live with He was in

1905
01:27:14,040 --> 01:27:19,120
Speaker 2: Dannity Insane. So I just wanted to let you know

1906
01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:21,080
Speaker 2: I was in the group.

1907
01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:22,080
Speaker 1: I was in a girl group.

1908
01:27:22,280 --> 01:27:24,400
Speaker 3: I was We didn't perform.

1909
01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:28,679
Speaker 1: Nowhere, but I was in a girl group. Okay, you ready.

1910
01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:33,000
Speaker 1: This was about you.

1911
01:27:33,080 --> 01:27:37,280
Speaker 3: Gotta snap, snap, you tell me where you're ready for

1912
01:27:37,360 --> 01:27:37,600
Speaker 3: me to go.

1913
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:42,280
Speaker 5: Mmm, lady, I've been trying to think whatever's pulling the

1914
01:27:42,439 --> 01:27:45,360
Speaker 5: sun up, it's got a hole that's really making me

1915
01:27:45,560 --> 01:27:49,360
Speaker 5: wonder what takes it to get through.

1916
01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:51,799
Speaker 3: I gotta stick with you, my baby.

1917
01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:53,400
Speaker 1: Baby. Tell me.

1918
01:27:54,120 --> 01:27:59,760
Speaker 5: Maybe I'm foolishly over reacting. Being without you. I can't imagine.

1919
01:28:00,160 --> 01:28:02,960
Speaker 5: And it's just too close to the hall. I don't

1920
01:28:03,080 --> 01:28:06,680
Speaker 5: understand it. If we're boking the par do you hear me?

1921
01:28:07,320 --> 01:28:07,599
Speaker 2: Baby?

1922
01:28:08,000 --> 01:28:10,800
Speaker 1: How to believe in the things that make you and

1923
01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:15,599
Speaker 1: me win together? Don't you throw in the town. I'm

1924
01:28:15,720 --> 01:28:18,360
Speaker 1: keeping my promise saying you I got your back.

1925
01:28:18,520 --> 01:28:18,680
Speaker 2: Now.

1926
01:28:18,920 --> 01:28:21,559
Speaker 1: When the chips are down and it seems like it's

1927
01:28:21,600 --> 01:28:24,640
Speaker 1: so hot for you to move ahead, know that I

1928
01:28:24,720 --> 01:28:28,439
Speaker 1: am by your side. That ain't no if, but some babes,

1929
01:28:28,760 --> 01:28:29,719
Speaker 1: I want to stay.

1930
01:28:29,600 --> 01:28:30,840
Speaker 5: Down ride for you.

1931
01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:32,440
Speaker 3: We were supposed to harmonize.

1932
01:28:32,720 --> 01:28:35,240
Speaker 1: I was ready. Why did you finish? It was about

1933
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:40,640
Speaker 1: to be so good. We close with the bug with

1934
01:28:40,800 --> 01:28:44,719
Speaker 1: the foot. It's rushing the boat. You gotta get control

1935
01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:47,880
Speaker 1: of it. Let's take it back to three years ago.

1936
01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:52,040
Speaker 1: We can make it through whatever ever, and leaving was

1937
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:55,920
Speaker 1: not an option. Maybe never never? Why did you gonna

1938
01:28:55,960 --> 01:29:00,080
Speaker 1: beat your ass? Movie? That's what happened to me. It

1939
01:29:00,160 --> 01:29:03,839
Speaker 1: sounding like you mean forever ever? Now you don't believe

1940
01:29:03,960 --> 01:29:07,080
Speaker 1: in the thing that's worth the Fight's you everything that

1941
01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm missing? So give us?

1942
01:29:08,800 --> 01:29:09,640
Speaker 2: Can you hear me?

1943
01:29:10,920 --> 01:29:15,240
Speaker 1: Got me the things and me? You and me we together?

1944
01:29:15,760 --> 01:29:19,519
Speaker 1: Don't you throw in the town. I'm keeping my promise

1945
01:29:19,600 --> 01:29:19,840
Speaker 1: to you.

1946
01:29:20,200 --> 01:29:21,360
Speaker 3: I got your back.

1947
01:29:21,320 --> 01:29:23,960
Speaker 1: Now and the ships are down and it seems like

1948
01:29:24,080 --> 01:29:27,040
Speaker 1: it's so hud for you to move ahead. No that

1949
01:29:27,240 --> 01:29:31,200
Speaker 1: I'm by your side. There ain't no if m some babies.

1950
01:29:31,479 --> 01:29:34,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay down and ride for you, babe.

1951
01:29:38,479 --> 01:29:48,400
Speaker 2: Oh do you hear me?

1952
01:29:49,000 --> 01:29:50,760
Speaker 1: Penny, I got believe in.

1953
01:29:53,120 --> 01:29:58,200
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, dragons, we gotta hit that last note and

1954
01:29:58,360 --> 01:30:01,880
Speaker 2: you keep moving on and it's not time to move on.

1955
01:30:02,680 --> 01:30:05,559
Speaker 2: Let's hit that Cory what we gonna den? He would

1956
01:30:05,600 --> 01:30:08,120
Speaker 2: not let us in the group, Not boom Cat den,

1957
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:08,559
Speaker 2: He would not.

1958
01:30:08,640 --> 01:30:09,240
Speaker 3: Let us in the group.

1959
01:30:09,320 --> 01:30:11,880
Speaker 1: Right now? What was that lady name? Lord? Gets me

1960
01:30:12,520 --> 01:30:13,519
Speaker 1: boom cat beach.

1961
01:30:13,840 --> 01:30:15,519
Speaker 2: Now we're gonna start from here, and we're gonna hit

1962
01:30:15,560 --> 01:30:17,599
Speaker 2: this note and you gonna sing it to the end.

1963
01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:31,760
Speaker 1: Okay, you ready go like this? Okay, let's go. Do

1964
01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:32,600
Speaker 1: you hear me?

1965
01:30:33,200 --> 01:30:33,519
Speaker 2: Babby?

1966
01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:39,920
Speaker 1: I outa believe in then live you and me wins together.

1967
01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:44,320
Speaker 1: Don't you throw in the top. I'm keeping my promise

1968
01:30:44,360 --> 01:30:47,320
Speaker 1: seeing you. I got your bag. Now when the ships

1969
01:30:47,360 --> 01:30:49,600
Speaker 1: are down and it seems like it's so hard for

1970
01:30:49,680 --> 01:30:53,320
Speaker 1: you to move ahead, just no that I'm by side.

1971
01:30:53,960 --> 01:30:55,959
Speaker 1: There ain't no wh but some babies.

1972
01:30:56,200 --> 01:30:58,240
Speaker 3: I'm gonna stay down and ride for you.

1973
01:30:58,680 --> 01:30:59,120
Speaker 2: Baby.

1974
01:31:00,640 --> 01:31:02,680
Speaker 1: She changed the know with me. You wasn't supposed to

1975
01:31:02,760 --> 01:31:06,559
Speaker 1: change the note. Thank you. That's all the stars. Dude.

1976
01:31:08,280 --> 01:31:10,080
Speaker 1: You you were supposed to stay on the loan. No,

1977
01:31:10,520 --> 01:31:15,240
Speaker 1: why do you want to come find me in the box? Okay, why.

1978
01:31:17,560 --> 01:31:17,760
Speaker 2: Do that?

1979
01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:20,880
Speaker 3: We're not We're just doing this one line. We're doing

1980
01:31:21,520 --> 01:31:23,800
Speaker 3: if we can harmonize off No, I don't know about you.

1981
01:31:24,120 --> 01:31:33,360
Speaker 1: Just say this, I'm off work. Say why so we

1982
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:35,840
Speaker 1: can harmonize, so I can teach you. I don't need

1983
01:31:35,960 --> 01:31:39,479
Speaker 1: to be taught. Want to change? You changed your kids.

1984
01:31:39,560 --> 01:31:44,240
Speaker 1: You wasn't supposed to change seconds like this. I'm gonna

1985
01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:47,679
Speaker 1: stay down and what's your note. I'm gonna stay down

1986
01:31:47,800 --> 01:31:49,519
Speaker 1: and brothering you, bab it.

1987
01:31:50,080 --> 01:31:50,680
Speaker 2: That's the name.

1988
01:31:50,960 --> 01:31:52,200
Speaker 1: Try my nose exactly.

1989
01:31:52,640 --> 01:31:54,920
Speaker 3: So why when I went higher you went higher with me?

1990
01:31:55,720 --> 01:31:57,599
Speaker 1: No, you didn't go high, went off?

1991
01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:02,040
Speaker 2: Okay, so go like these Just I'm not you yourself.

1992
01:32:02,800 --> 01:32:08,599
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't get paid enough for this. Goodbye, it's been.

1993
01:32:11,240 --> 01:32:16,599
Speaker 1: It's been real. Crying the group. We did not make

1994
01:32:16,640 --> 01:32:21,120
Speaker 1: the band. She made the bend. No, you did'll next week.

1995
01:32:21,720 --> 01:32:23,880
Speaker 1: I did not make the band. You did not boom cat.

1996
01:32:24,320 --> 01:32:24,360
Speaker 5: No.

1997
01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:26,880
Speaker 2: What we need to sing is an actual Dubban song,

1998
01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:28,160
Speaker 2: because the Niggas was hard.

1999
01:32:29,000 --> 01:32:31,679
Speaker 1: One song they have. What was the song about the band?

2000
01:32:31,920 --> 01:32:38,839
Speaker 1: I forgot it was hard. They was I like Babs bab.

2001
01:32:40,400 --> 01:32:44,919
Speaker 2: If you like bouts rap abouts first Babs Babs.

2002
01:32:45,120 --> 01:32:47,599
Speaker 1: I don't remember what it was. Actually, I don't remember.

2003
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:52,080
Speaker 1: It was with a B or a p B. Maybe

2004
01:32:52,120 --> 01:32:53,639
Speaker 1: she was pushing B maybe.

2005
01:32:54,960 --> 01:32:58,960
Speaker 2: Maybe she was pushing Bright Here.

2006
01:32:59,880 --> 01:33:04,120
Speaker 1: I hated here baps. It was a bad look it

2007
01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:04,360
Speaker 1: up