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Speaker 1: welcome guys to another episode of Horrible Decisions. Did your
Speaker 1: girl Mandy b a K a k A full core
Speaker 1: pumps a k A dead beach? Hi, I'm hungover? That's
Speaker 1: your name today, bro? I honestly didn't even know my
Speaker 1: own name, like two hours ago. I was so fucked up,
Speaker 1: you know, like you know, and then I'm looking at
Speaker 1: the flight and I'm like, oh, wow, we're taking a
Speaker 1: long time taxi. And well I could just send it
Speaker 1: a flight number and technically and will me my fault
Speaker 1: if I missed the episode? Now I have come to
Speaker 1: the studio like I was super sick when we did
Speaker 1: our episode with a pastor Cory. I mean not everywhere,
Speaker 1: just ye and I mean like right now, like I
Speaker 1: see two of you. You know what I'm saying, that
Speaker 1: wouldn't be a bad Actually, have you have you been
Speaker 1: tested for corona respiratory? I hear you. I just want
Speaker 1: to have you. Have you been tested? Now, y'all? Hear
Speaker 1: a third voice on the mic. We haven't had I
Speaker 1: noticed I was looking at the episode. We haven't had
Speaker 1: cesasterone on the Goddamn Horrible Decisions podcast in quite some time.
Speaker 1: Um So when booking today's guests, I was like, we
Speaker 1: need a goddamn payenist in la Ron doing. I mean, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: we got a lot of male listeners. Male perspectives are important.
Speaker 1: I met sometime, al right. I forgot they'd be paying
Speaker 1: up on Patreon. You're not about to jump me, No,
Speaker 1: we're not so. So the thing is, many of our
Speaker 1: heterocis men who have been guests really aren't that like.
Speaker 1: So we hope that are female audi they'd be kind
Speaker 1: of problematic here. We I could go down the list
Speaker 1: of niggas ain't like, but I feel like that you
Speaker 1: are the probably gonna kill you say, I know you
Speaker 1: did our show, but I wasn't here that time. What
Speaker 1: did your guys my first time? This was the first
Speaker 1: time on our show. Did you get canceled? Yeah, because
Speaker 1: I don't No, No, I canceled it because I ended
Speaker 1: up getting flew out anyway and a check. I mean,
Speaker 1: technically you have to because it's a horrible decisions if
Speaker 1: you have to make it, Like, I don't think it's
Speaker 1: a bad reason to cancel. I don't think so. The
Speaker 1: story I was, I was only type because I'm being
Speaker 1: on communication only shemdicated to you like three days before
Speaker 1: though Mandy hit me and said, YO, we want you
Speaker 1: to come on do the show. I said, splendid, I
Speaker 1: would love to come to the show. She said, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: she books it canceled, No problem, no problem. Maybe a
Speaker 1: month later, Yo, sorry about that time, Sorry about that.
Speaker 1: I got you, all right, cool, let's figure it out.
Speaker 1: And then that second time, I had to whole trip
Speaker 1: trip yo, but I respected. She said, YO, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: keep it a buck with you. I know I got
Speaker 1: you on the show, but any of the international checks
Speaker 1: the sanctity of this show. When Mandy has sex, it
Speaker 1: really truly goes better. There's days like like what's up
Speaker 1: with her? But I think everyone does better under those circumstances.
Speaker 1: So that's why I didn't knock it. Right now. I
Speaker 1: know we've done an awful job introducing today's guests. We've
Speaker 1: just been talking, so I do want to introduce him. Um.
Speaker 1: If you guys are into listening or searching for another podcast,
Speaker 1: Brandon is the host. Well he is one third roots pod. Um.
Speaker 1: Also for the ladies, this is what y'all need to know.
Speaker 1: I went to the Grassroots Podcast live show. It was
Speaker 1: the best looking set event in a New York event
Speaker 1: that I have ever been to him. My motherfucker. There
Speaker 1: was former NFL player, isn't there that I used to
Speaker 1: following Scott. I ain't gonna say the name, but I'll
Speaker 1: let you know after the show. It was like Nigga's
Speaker 1: dressing a little like Frox or whatever you call it,
Speaker 1: with the motherfucking Scarnox like Frox Fox it was. It
Speaker 1: was just it was, I don't know, you're not looking
Speaker 1: for not for nothing, and we just had a good crowd.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie like it was. It was a
Speaker 1: great crowd. Like a lot of people showed up, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. We sold out in less than
Speaker 1: twenty four hours. That's amazing. Yeah, we have another event
Speaker 1: which is going to be way better Saturday. About Grassroots
Speaker 1: is about everything. It's about your upbringing. It's about what
Speaker 1: makes you you, what put you even in the seat
Speaker 1: right now, like it's about where your path led you
Speaker 1: and where it's going with sprinkles of like other little components.
Speaker 1: So get it like you guys spelled it like right.
Speaker 1: But secret about that you want to hear a secret?
Speaker 1: The secret with that was that because Roots was taken
Speaker 1: R O T, we went routes, which made more sense
Speaker 1: for marketing perspective. It was actually better because horrible. That's
Speaker 1: why I brought it up because when I when I
Speaker 1: met you, I said, Yo, that's a hard name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like and um but yeah, so and I was on
Speaker 1: his show. Oh my god, maybe two years ago now right,
Speaker 1: that was a while ago. Um and so yeah, like
Speaker 1: you guys sprinkling pop culture. So that's kind of what
Speaker 1: we're gonna do today. We're gonna talk about sex, dating
Speaker 1: a relationship. But as it pertains to things that have
Speaker 1: been going on on the timeline and with pop culture.
Speaker 1: We often don't get to do um a lot of
Speaker 1: episodes like on Trend because we pre record. But y'all,
Speaker 1: this is episode one fifty seven we on Turn Baby.
Speaker 1: We're talking about ship currently bites. Anyways, because you don't
Speaker 1: talk about sex often, we wanted to start this off
Speaker 1: with a little quick icebreaker. Um. We I want your
Speaker 1: answers on these as well, because they're pretty um, well
Speaker 1: depending on what she because she she's incoherent right now,
Speaker 1: come about the plant, so we gotta make sure it's
Speaker 1: not This is a job where you can come to works.
Speaker 1: On our last Patriot episode, Shorty walked in. She was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I h I fucking left the studio right and I
Speaker 1: was flying. I was like these buildings are I was
Speaker 1: freaking out, but I mean it was good. So right now,
Speaker 1: it's just I still have it in my system, but
Speaker 1: you know, I've seen people. It's the funniest thing ever. Yeah. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of nervous because we have and Charlotte. I
Speaker 1: don't really have anybody um that I'm really gonna like
Speaker 1: beyond beyond. But Orlando we got like an afterpart, like
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get sucked up. Fucking Vinnie has been already
Speaker 1: like I think we're gonna go out of Charlotte. I
Speaker 1: don't know if you want to join us, but we
Speaker 1: was getting so my best friend does our tour. It's
Speaker 1: like as an assistant on our tour and so many
Speaker 1: nights because I don't really go out during the shows
Speaker 1: or whatever, it's like a lot of energy for me.
Speaker 1: He'll look at me and he's like, I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: go hang out with Mandy. Literally I have on my writer,
Speaker 1: I have a bottle and literally he'd be like you
Speaker 1: ready do shots, Like let's go, let's do it, And
Speaker 1: they give you selling merch in between, you know, and
Speaker 1: he does the job right, So we're gonna get into
Speaker 1: the icebreaker, so this one and again, guys, bring these
Speaker 1: two not only the timeline asking your followers, but also
Speaker 1: bring it to your group chats. And I want to
Speaker 1: know what your friends, how big of hose they are.
Speaker 1: So the icebreaker for this week, would you rather have
Speaker 1: group sex with strangers or group sex with all of
Speaker 1: your exes? My exes? Yeah, like I could think of three.
Speaker 1: I'd want to like train me right now because my
Speaker 1: ex is an excess for a reason. M So they
Speaker 1: didn't know. Yeah, so you wouldn't want to suck them
Speaker 1: again stranger. But then my other thing is I'm weird
Speaker 1: with strangers though too. That's That's what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: there's a that's why I got to really think about
Speaker 1: I may go exit just because that would be the
Speaker 1: easier thing. Two of them are in the dick, and maybe,
Speaker 1: like you know, he liked that little should be doing
Speaker 1: when it would have to be excess. It would only
Speaker 1: just because I feel like meeting people is a lot
Speaker 1: of energy and and and he doesn't. There's a whole
Speaker 1: lot of stuff with that. There's all that stuff with
Speaker 1: that you've never been something like a sex club or
Speaker 1: anything to where you've had one night stands with any
Speaker 1: type of strangers. Well, say, there's a way that I
Speaker 1: conduct myself. I've been noticing with strangers like we're women
Speaker 1: that I'm sleeping with, Like yesterday, um my boyfriend, I
Speaker 1: stuff with this girl, and when she left, the sex
Speaker 1: we have was totally different after she left, right, And
Speaker 1: it's always like this anytime we have sex with someone else,
Speaker 1: like it's got to be like within twenty minutes and
Speaker 1: they leave. I don't know if we're fucking because we're
Speaker 1: still thinking about it, or if it's the aroma or what,
Speaker 1: but it's like we start doing ship we want to do,
Speaker 1: and like during a three times it's more like about her.
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's interesting. So you got you guys
Speaker 1: in your home or people pleasers to the person that
Speaker 1: you're welcoming in, but the moment they leave, it's about y'all, right,
Speaker 1: and then we'll start talking about it. So when she leaves,
Speaker 1: the energy is still good though, like it's fright. But
Speaker 1: there's a different like dynamic that goes on with strangers.
Speaker 1: And I think it's because as givers were probably most like, Okay,
Speaker 1: let's do what she likes. We make each other come
Speaker 1: on time, and I feel like the strangers, I'll be
Speaker 1: putting in more work. So with me when I do threesome,
Speaker 1: the sex with the man is normally different because there's
Speaker 1: things that maybe I'm allowed to do between us that
Speaker 1: maybe when a third girl joins in, he like, all right,
Speaker 1: don't don't be eating a finger in my ask while
Speaker 1: with us, like maybe there's things that he doesn't want
Speaker 1: everyone to know that I do with him in front
Speaker 1: of someone else. I know what I've been in there before,
Speaker 1: like to where like certain things were saved until I
Speaker 1: was by myself instead of in the threesome. I know
Speaker 1: guys like that though that that don't give a fuck,
Speaker 1: like they don't care, like Nas my man nas my
Speaker 1: show is like in the previous like he's married now,
Speaker 1: but yes, I would know how nasty is he should
Speaker 1: have came with NAS is crazy? Okay, nas is crazy?
Speaker 1: Don't don't you got an ethicole? Now? I'm an, so
Speaker 1: she's allowed to like so you have car blanche. I
Speaker 1: mean blanche just means you have free reign to do
Speaker 1: what you want because you know, there's some boundaries to it,
Speaker 1: Like I to be honest with you, the last person
Speaker 1: I did it, it was like this. It was more
Speaker 1: of like, okay, like this is someone you see on
Speaker 1: the regular, like minding would rather me just like have
Speaker 1: a moment, not even like not to be someone you're
Speaker 1: emotionally tied to. Yes, because he knows I'm emotional. That
Speaker 1: makes sense. So I'm like, why would you rather that?
Speaker 1: Wouldn't you rather have someone that's like, you know, like
Speaker 1: my regular dude if I have to travel to l A.
Speaker 1: Because then that puts him in jeopardy of being the
Speaker 1: dude that's now just the guy that's on the side.
Speaker 1: Why he would ever feel like that? Like, because I'm
Speaker 1: that way too. So I didn't know we were alike.
Speaker 1: So I've met her dude, and I think he's completely
Speaker 1: opposite of like anyone that I'm like. I didn't know
Speaker 1: we were a lot of like like in that sense. Um,
Speaker 1: because to me, I said that if I were to
Speaker 1: have an open relationship, I want you to just hit it,
Speaker 1: quit it, and no emotional ties to any bitch that
Speaker 1: you're sucking. So I'm like him, I would rather not
Speaker 1: be emotionally connected to who you're having. But you know
Speaker 1: that's hard for a bit like me because I'm just
Speaker 1: like I want to like him when I want a vacation.
Speaker 1: Nia was like throwing me to con and like, go, bit,
Speaker 1: you have a good time because like and then of
Speaker 1: course it can't happen because I'm like, I don't have
Speaker 1: enough time to connect. I feel that though. That's why
Speaker 1: I haven't done, which I didn't really know until this weekend.
Speaker 1: We were just talking more about it openly, no local people,
Speaker 1: and that makes sense. I get it. We moved too
Speaker 1: much together where out everybody knows me from you and
Speaker 1: you for me, And he was like, I just do
Speaker 1: that makes sense. The second icebreaker is would you rather
Speaker 1: have a partner who asks for sex a lot or
Speaker 1: one who asks for news a lot? Sex? Damn me too,
Speaker 1: because you ain't even news bro, because it takes it
Speaker 1: takes a lot of time. And then even if I
Speaker 1: sound like archive ones niggas like if you just if
Speaker 1: I just had pictures of my titties and they want
Speaker 1: to ask, then they want to spread open, then they
Speaker 1: want the lips, then they wanted from the the motherfuck
Speaker 1: out with the whole camera and screenshots part What do
Speaker 1: you mean now when you send a photo, you know
Speaker 1: how you can crop it or archive it's change date.
Speaker 1: These motherfucker's got screenshot and photos separated in that message,
Speaker 1: which really fucked up. No way, Yes, so you know
Speaker 1: how I send news Now, if it's like for a
Speaker 1: true request, I'll just be like this just here, it's fresh,
Speaker 1: that's fresh. Titty even gonna tell you. I don't let
Speaker 1: him know it's gonna be archive. I say it's from
Speaker 1: the archive. Nigga, I'm out, you're not getting anything up today.
Speaker 1: I've done that. I'd be like, let me see what
Speaker 1: I got. Yeah, like you're gonna be it's gonna be
Speaker 1: archives because honestly, like my hair changes too much, girl,
Speaker 1: my nails. They'd be calling me out. I'd be like, yes,
Speaker 1: right now I'll be sending white nails and pink nails.
Speaker 1: They'd be like, so you just switch your nails between pictures.
Speaker 1: That's that's that's why sex is so much easier. Pictures
Speaker 1: take away. There's too many things that you have to
Speaker 1: do to send a picture the same. But women do
Speaker 1: that though. Women take an abundance of pictures. No out
Speaker 1: of here, no y'all got the ones with the feet
Speaker 1: on the bottom, the one on your hand. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I believe that because that's think about it. Would you
Speaker 1: would you ask a guy to send you an ask picture? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have one. Actually, that's weird. That's weird. That's thinking
Speaker 1: about that. I'm like, that's weird. Listen. So I'm a
Speaker 1: visual person, right, can you imagine an is standing in
Speaker 1: there like this? That's so how I got it sent.
Speaker 1: So he was on his way to work. It was like,
Speaker 1: hold on, did he send it in work clothes? Well,
Speaker 1: he pulled his pants that at ups. No, Now you
Speaker 1: don't know he was. He has a real job. He
Speaker 1: lives on the West Coast, and so I was already up,
Speaker 1: up and going and he hit me on his way
Speaker 1: to work. Wanted to talk nasty, and I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: I really missed when you used to send me videos
Speaker 1: of your ass. So, literally, he gets to the parking
Speaker 1: garage of his job, he sets up the phone in
Speaker 1: his niggers. He bends over in the Do you want
Speaker 1: to see it? No? No, get pretty fucking lit. I've
Speaker 1: been getting to cinema. So I appreciate I have that
Speaker 1: visually that doesn't that's not odd to he be over.
Speaker 1: He fingered his booty hole far bro look at any moona.
Speaker 1: But y'all can't hear him because I got my air
Speaker 1: pods in why you, because I'll be forgetting them. Holding god,
Speaker 1: you had your air pods because if I heard this
Speaker 1: nigga out in your ears like he did as pretty much.
Speaker 1: Oh so we can't get it deep enough yet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is nuts what he does. Oh my god, this
Speaker 1: is disgusting. Alright, alright, we got but it was really good.
Speaker 1: So he was fingering his booty hallway his middle finger
Speaker 1: in the driver's seat of his car. The best videos
Speaker 1: from my host. I'm not thine your Uber driver did that?
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. Uber drivers to be
Speaker 1: weird though in general. Yeah, I've met some really weird
Speaker 1: Uber drivers with that where I was concerned for my safety.
Speaker 1: I've got the most chatty ones. But I don't be
Speaker 1: liking him talking like I'm talking on the phone, not
Speaker 1: to you. I thought they had a silent ride option.
Speaker 1: They do. They do have it, and they don't respect it.
Speaker 1: There is a say you can you can easily say hey,
Speaker 1: do you want conversation or not conversation and they still
Speaker 1: will conversate with you or con verse with you rather.
Speaker 1: You know, that is nothing missing that you're still You're still,
Speaker 1: You're still there, You're still Don't you need a moment
Speaker 1: listening to this ship Like, I know she didn't talk
Speaker 1: about my pony hole on I know, but he got
Speaker 1: right it sucking a sex podcaster who literally is known
Speaker 1: for this is the nigga paid when we ten times.
Speaker 1: I'm assuming that's the hairbrush nigga. No, it's not the
Speaker 1: hairbrush nigga, this is nig p Yeah. I'm so curious
Speaker 1: about y'all and just your dating stuff. Like, it's not
Speaker 1: like we're gonna be like tired you Literally one of
Speaker 1: the comments today just to let you know, will be damn.
Speaker 1: They couldn't just shut the funk up and let this
Speaker 1: nick the talk about his booty hole. Bitch? We do
Speaker 1: we do? We need people the hotent. So the last
Speaker 1: contact breaker before we get into the vanilla ship is
Speaker 1: would you rather find out that your partner slept with
Speaker 1: your parents in the past or that your ex now
Speaker 1: sleeps with your parents? Really, if I got a new nigger,
Speaker 1: but if I'm like I'm about to say, It depends
Speaker 1: where I'm at in life. Because if I'm single and
Speaker 1: you now with my mom's and my part like that,
Speaker 1: that's that's some other ship, Like that's crazy. But if
Speaker 1: we're separated and I'm already in love someplace of rock
Speaker 1: out whatever like that, I won't care at that point.
Speaker 1: Like for me, would you get mad at your at
Speaker 1: your mom or dad for sleeping with your I gotta
Speaker 1: say mom or dad because you date both. I said,
Speaker 1: would you would you be would you would be upset? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think families a weird boundary. The older I get friends,
Speaker 1: to me, I think it's not a big deal, like
Speaker 1: a friend sleeping with and like I just feel like
Speaker 1: and I think that I've gotten that way because I
Speaker 1: have a lot of gay friends and that community is
Speaker 1: so small with lesbians and gay men that it's like
Speaker 1: a certain maturity level on learning your boundaries, communicating with
Speaker 1: dating old partner and ship like that. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: I like, I get it, You're already in a small space.
Speaker 1: Um so like with friends like passing are around, I
Speaker 1: think that's different. But I think families, like definitely now,
Speaker 1: I think family is messy. Yeah, I think that that
Speaker 1: could go bad but even to like my friends, like people,
Speaker 1: so friends, I compartmentalize my relationships the same way whether
Speaker 1: I'm dating as I do with my friends. So the
Speaker 1: people who I consider my friends, a lot of them
Speaker 1: have been in my life at least a decade plus,
Speaker 1: um eight years plus, and so there are certain niggas
Speaker 1: who are off limits, and we discussed which ones of
Speaker 1: those are. That's different though, like to me friends, family,
Speaker 1: I'm not thinking like that's that serious. Yeah, that's me.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't, That's what I'm saying, Like like
Speaker 1: a someone that there was emotions with. Everyone knows you
Speaker 1: think your crue or y'all, y'all know who you were
Speaker 1: passionate about the guy you're just talking about in um
Speaker 1: in l A or whatever. Right, definitely pass nigis to
Speaker 1: my homegirld that that you've been like seriously intimate with
Speaker 1: that beard bay one. But I just thought they were
Speaker 1: both I kind of wanted to see the That's different though,
Speaker 1: that was for your pleasure, I'm saying, just nasty. You
Speaker 1: know I was with him at the time too. Oh,
Speaker 1: you were with him at the time, So this wasn't
Speaker 1: ex this was you were in the current relationship. There
Speaker 1: was a home girl that was in the same city
Speaker 1: as him, and I was like yo, like linquids so
Speaker 1: and it was like a whole back and forth texting
Speaker 1: thing about how it was going. It was kind of hot.
Speaker 1: It was like I was jealous and turned on at
Speaker 1: the same time. But I love that ship, like I
Speaker 1: love being mildly jealous during ship like that. It's so
Speaker 1: fucking it's sick. You're sick. That is kind of like
Speaker 1: I've never heard. That's like it's like cut holding right there.
Speaker 1: You're feeling like you want to get in there. You
Speaker 1: might have a mild jealousy, but it could be like
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be like this huge. I'm not
Speaker 1: like overwhelmingly jealous, like she's gonna take my nicked. But
Speaker 1: like last night I didn't have sex with my man
Speaker 1: while he was sucking a check, like he was sucking
Speaker 1: the shit out of her and I was living it
Speaker 1: and like I wanted to get some tick that I
Speaker 1: was like staying and watching. Yeah, like I was a
Speaker 1: little jealous, but it was like a hot jealous. There's
Speaker 1: any therapists, let me know what's going on. That's now
Speaker 1: I will refer you like I was watching her stuck
Speaker 1: as dick and like she was super loud and long.
Speaker 1: I've known him for a year, but we just got serious.
Speaker 1: I'd say, like six months. Wow, you guys are breaking
Speaker 1: some boundaries no point. So I mean, I really believe
Speaker 1: that's why it's worked so well. Like I was just
Speaker 1: sucking him and then we just started falling in love.
Speaker 1: But like at the core of it, I know that
Speaker 1: we're hosed. Like me and this nigger was on the plane,
Speaker 1: I'm sick as fuck heading his lap flight attend and
Speaker 1: walked by. She got a bad ass. I'm damn you
Speaker 1: about to throw up. He's like, I think you ain't
Speaker 1: feeling good, but did you see that, bitch? I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like I realized, like it's cross you just can't or
Speaker 1: it could be just because it's good communication. That's important.
Speaker 1: You think that it's a good communication to express to
Speaker 1: your partner when you're looking at someone else. Though, absolutely
Speaker 1: really think that. I think that that's honestly and open,
Speaker 1: and I think some people can't imagine if well, handling
Speaker 1: it is something different. Handling it is something different. I'm
Speaker 1: saying you as a person, is your responsibility to just
Speaker 1: communicate your feelings and what's happening or what's not happening.
Speaker 1: So when you do that, at least you kind of
Speaker 1: take yourself off the hook where the person can't say, Yo,
Speaker 1: you didn't know how I was feeling, You didn't know
Speaker 1: what I was talking about, and you didn't know I
Speaker 1: was into communication is the key to all of that.
Speaker 1: We were saying that this episode one I got we
Speaker 1: got really upset with him recently because we don't fight,
Speaker 1: and I got aggravated with something he didn't. He was like,
Speaker 1: all right, well, I I just ain't gonna do that
Speaker 1: a one. I was like, that's not the funk I
Speaker 1: want you to say. I want you to say, how
Speaker 1: are you going to fix it? I'm like, I'm a
Speaker 1: good communicate it and you just sucking take what I
Speaker 1: say and be like, Okay, I hate that. I want
Speaker 1: you to talk back and forth with me. You like
Speaker 1: the dialogue back and forth. This is what I don't
Speaker 1: understand about when you like what I don't understand. So
Speaker 1: let me let me ask you a question. Let me
Speaker 1: let me ask Here we go, Yeah, here we go? No? No,
Speaker 1: that sound like I'm tripping. You just said you agreed
Speaker 1: with me. That's that's how I know y'all crazy, Yeah
Speaker 1: you do. So listen, this this is my thing. This
Speaker 1: is my thing. I know we've we've be tripped to
Speaker 1: b So my my only thing is when you when
Speaker 1: you're talking about stuff like that, Like again, it just
Speaker 1: goes back to communication. If we're having a dialogue, we
Speaker 1: have some sort of understanding, it shouldn't matter as long
Speaker 1: as we're on the same page. If we're not on
Speaker 1: the same page, of course, it's gonna be conflict. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so what what do you Yeah, I guess my question
Speaker 1: is you're mad that he doesn't all for solutions. He
Speaker 1: just makes it seem like what you said and that's it.
Speaker 1: But this will do it like this is so this
Speaker 1: is my thing. See that's that that that's you, right,
Speaker 1: I think it's I consider I've dismiss it. So I'm
Speaker 1: going to tell you what. This was not the actual
Speaker 1: thing that happened, because I feel like that's too private.
Speaker 1: But let's just say this. Let's say I cooked him
Speaker 1: dinner and he's like, you know, I really like when
Speaker 1: you make spinish better. You know what, don't worry about it.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna cook anymore. That's what we'll do don't
Speaker 1: worry I'm gonna do it any more. He's that type
Speaker 1: of don't worry, I'll never do it again, just very dismissive,
Speaker 1: not like, Okay, I can make dinner for you again,
Speaker 1: but what about blah blah blah. There's no resolution. He'll
Speaker 1: just hear what I'm saying. And so when you say
Speaker 1: that you don't like things, instead of maybe asking you
Speaker 1: why you don't like it or how it makes you feel,
Speaker 1: because you're very emotional with things you don't like that,
Speaker 1: he says instead, Okay, you don't like it, fine, it
Speaker 1: won't do it again like you would you think. Or
Speaker 1: maybe he knows that she's emotional and tries to dead
Speaker 1: the beef before it gets to a beef because he
Speaker 1: knows that she is crazy. He's not confrontational, but we
Speaker 1: really don't fight at all. There's no disagreement. So I
Speaker 1: guess that you almost taking it, But like sometimes I
Speaker 1: feel like there is no disagreement because he'll just sit
Speaker 1: with it. Like if I'm angry about so, I get
Speaker 1: what you're saying. You think he's more so harboring things
Speaker 1: versus communicating, like he'll just debt it and really not
Speaker 1: be over the situation, but we'll still just And I
Speaker 1: think that's just the one thing when someone is like
Speaker 1: just trying to appease you. And and he told me
Speaker 1: like because I was very upset about it, and he
Speaker 1: was like, I can't leave you flipping out over the
Speaker 1: tiniest thing. And I was like, I just want you
Speaker 1: to talk back to me, and he was like, but
Speaker 1: I'm giving you what you want. I'm like, that's the thing, though,
Speaker 1: because that does if you say, if he says, or
Speaker 1: if you say, yo, I wanted to spinash whatever, I'm
Speaker 1: really like that he says, all right, I won't make
Speaker 1: it no more because he knows you don't like it.
Speaker 1: He's giving you the answer. That's more like if I said,
Speaker 1: can you put garlic in the spinage next time? You
Speaker 1: know what, I ain't gonna make spinagh Then no, that's different.
Speaker 1: That's different. That that's a little different. I can see
Speaker 1: if he's like, no, I got you, ill laced it
Speaker 1: next time or whatever. But if he's just dead, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I've never really been with
Speaker 1: some that is that easy going about when I need
Speaker 1: to like get something off my chest. Um, the last
Speaker 1: person I did it was a really good communicator, just
Speaker 1: like overly communicative, and he's more so like yeah, it's
Speaker 1: almost like to chill, but he owes. So maybe that's why,
Speaker 1: probably why, that's probably why I ain't got time for
Speaker 1: the bullshit. Tell him about something that's going on, like
Speaker 1: some argument in whatever, and he'd just be looking at
Speaker 1: me and he'd be like, you are really arguing this
Speaker 1: bitch on Instagram? Maybe like looking at me like out here, Well,
Speaker 1: I want to get into this week's vanilla ship. Um.
Speaker 1: It comes from New York Times, and I found it
Speaker 1: interesting because I have vowed to be condom dick for
Speaker 1: the remainder of the year. Um due to seeing how
Speaker 1: much live feaes costs with no insurance. UM, A little
Speaker 1: bit what you got, not a little day back. No,
Speaker 1: at this point I wish because now I feel like
Speaker 1: I paid a hundred and fifty dollars for no reason.
Speaker 1: But anyways, So basically had an irresponsible sexual encounter in
Speaker 1: the first month of January that led me to take
Speaker 1: the Plan b phill be Cool. However, for the last
Speaker 1: two months now, I've had two periods a month. So
Speaker 1: in February now I've taken Plan be before and it's
Speaker 1: caused maybe one extra period, but the fact that in
Speaker 1: I've already had four periods and it's fucking the end
Speaker 1: of February March. I'm fucking pissed. So I go to
Speaker 1: look up what periods me shouldn't have googled. Shouldn't have
Speaker 1: Google thought I was gonna die. It said, so it's
Speaker 1: anywhere from tyroids to stress to all types of STDs.
Speaker 1: So I was like, So, I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: fucking let me go get tested. So I went to
Speaker 1: City m D because it's like it opens early, it
Speaker 1: was during the week, and it was right between us
Speaker 1: having to leave again to Texas. So I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, let me go ahead and get get tested.
Speaker 1: So I go to City m D. They're like, um,
Speaker 1: what you know. Can you fill out for your insurance
Speaker 1: or are you paying out a pocket? So I have
Speaker 1: dental currently and I have prescription insurance, but I don't
Speaker 1: have full health coverage yet, hopefully waiting for whatever contract
Speaker 1: comes to see if we can get insurance do that
Speaker 1: if not, whatever, So I'm like, I'm paying out a pocket.
Speaker 1: It was two dollars just for the visit. I said that,
Speaker 1: don't include nothing. No. Then I go and the doctor
Speaker 1: comes out I'm gone through it, so I literally will well.
Speaker 1: I went in thinking like well, I went and thinking
Speaker 1: because I'm reading on Google that I'm gonna die. So
Speaker 1: I went in thinking, whatever it costs, I'm gonna get it.
Speaker 1: So I made them. So they drew blood, they did
Speaker 1: the blood drawing, and they did yarin and tested for everything.
Speaker 1: So they're like, by the way, it's gonna take three
Speaker 1: to five days. Bitch, we was in Texas. I'm nervous.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh funk, I gotta wait for these
Speaker 1: results now. So I get the results and clean nothing.
Speaker 1: But now I need to make a reference to a
Speaker 1: guy no to what's going on? Yeah, because I'm just like, okay,
Speaker 1: they're early menopause. Is it like there's just is it
Speaker 1: really just stressed with all the my grandma, well, my
Speaker 1: grandma had menopause in her thirties and once you have metapa, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that's that runs of my family and that my
Speaker 1: mom has. Now, if you were going through menopause, that
Speaker 1: would explain a lot. You shut you shut. Anyways, Anyways,
Speaker 1: I realized I wasn't gonna sit here and charge Nigga's
Speaker 1: three fifty for raw sex for the rest of the year.
Speaker 1: So instead I'm gonna use condoms. Mandy, you have to
Speaker 1: still get no I am, but I'm also using condoms.
Speaker 1: What you always talk about using, I do be using gun.
Speaker 1: I ain't never had no worries long seven for all
Speaker 1: them years with goddamn condoms. Period period came out changed.
Speaker 1: Man get it, I get it. I get it, coronavirus,
Speaker 1: all this bullshit. But I did want to say for
Speaker 1: New Yorkers, Um, I only know about two places that
Speaker 1: you could go for free ones in Chelsea, go to
Speaker 1: w w W. It's just three. Wouldn't have read it,
Speaker 1: but they had three at the World. But it says
Speaker 1: www one dot NYC dot gov. It's sexual health clinics
Speaker 1: that are free. Um, basically you go. Um. I ain't
Speaker 1: on front. I made too much. But I even told
Speaker 1: on myself because I could have lied. They ain't even check.
Speaker 1: But I ain't even saying was under what it was.
Speaker 1: My friends right now they got their own businesses. I
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna shut their names out of nothing like that.
Speaker 1: All these holes on Medicaid, I said, bitch, do you know?
Speaker 1: But they file their business returns and their personal because
Speaker 1: they pay themselves. Something like I could apply for Medicaid,
Speaker 1: but I don't want no Medicare fraud, so I ain't
Speaker 1: even gonna sunk with that ship. I'm selling autom holes
Speaker 1: like that. You should not be all medicaid, but you're
Speaker 1: making over tanger in a money. What the fun is
Speaker 1: you're doing medicaid? But anyway, wait, whit more in Orlando,
Speaker 1: super easy. Don't even have to bring paperwork the center Orlando.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it a honey with you. Okay. I
Speaker 1: went in there and I peed in like a Dixie cup.
Speaker 1: It wasn't know, like real, but it's free as fuck.
Speaker 1: It's an l g bt Q center and they asked
Speaker 1: like literally no fucking questions, like just free testing period,
Speaker 1: nothing about myself, nothing, which I thought was dope because
Speaker 1: that makes people feel a lot more comfortable. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: have to look it up, but yeah, there's definitely some more.
Speaker 1: Maybe we can put some of those on the descriptions
Speaker 1: of this episode. Anyways, the Vanilla Ship, um, it's talking
Speaker 1: about condoms that have extra things to them. So sperm sides,
Speaker 1: tingling gel and other condom add ons are doing more
Speaker 1: harm than good. So if you are interested and and
Speaker 1: maybe feeling like you're fully protected. UM, this article on
Speaker 1: New York Times is saying that spermac spermicide and other
Speaker 1: add ons to condoms can have negative effect some of
Speaker 1: the vagina um, and it doesn't increase how well a
Speaker 1: condom can actually prevent pregnancy. A sperm side free condom
Speaker 1: with liberal use of an appropriate lubricant is the best
Speaker 1: choice professional health. UM. I'm gonna actually put this link
Speaker 1: as well because it does say that, and I didn't
Speaker 1: know that when using condoms, they suggest that it's used
Speaker 1: also with lupe, so I know once again. UM. One
Speaker 1: of the recent episodes, we talked about how a lot
Speaker 1: of women are kind of insecure about having to use
Speaker 1: lube with sex because we feel like we should just
Speaker 1: be so wet that the guy knows how much for
Speaker 1: dripping and leaking, and if we're not, we think it's
Speaker 1: something wrong with us. But it is saying that if
Speaker 1: you are using um condoms to prevent irritation, you should
Speaker 1: be using condoms with lubricant. UM. So that was interesting
Speaker 1: that I thought I never understood the spermacide so as
Speaker 1: you was saying that, I feel like I've learned that
Speaker 1: in like eighth grade, the spermacide, that one sperm hits
Speaker 1: the condom, that the ship that's on the condoms what
Speaker 1: kills the sperm. That's how you prevent but in the condom.
Speaker 1: But like, but maybe if it come out the condo,
Speaker 1: but even if it comes out the condom once the air,
Speaker 1: I'm saying, can I be honest with you, I don't
Speaker 1: really believe that should Let me tell you why, because
Speaker 1: I was reading some stuff where it's like are they
Speaker 1: myths or not? Like I was looking up some ship
Speaker 1: for vanilla ship and it said that there's a common
Speaker 1: saying that when sperm touches the air, it dies, which
Speaker 1: is pretty much the case, but it's been proven when
Speaker 1: doing um not turkey based in whatever I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: let me meet your with like, yes, God damn, but
Speaker 1: yes that it will touch the air for a little bit,
Speaker 1: and women are still getting pregnant either they're opening it up,
Speaker 1: they can't, or it's exposed. Not to mention, when men
Speaker 1: jerk off and the cup sometimes it can be open
Speaker 1: for a little bit. That is not always the case.
Speaker 1: That does make sense. How else do you guys, jerk
Speaker 1: into a cup. It's not all the way. Don't touch
Speaker 1: their at least into a cup for money. Yet you
Speaker 1: only never do it. I've never done that. I know
Speaker 1: people that have done it though that Like I know
Speaker 1: people that make a living off that ship I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like they like when they're loaded, Like yo, someone that
Speaker 1: does this, Like how many kids is one person they limit?
Speaker 1: But that's that's how much we know. Like women are
Speaker 1: really like worth way more like our eggs worth thirty
Speaker 1: y'all sparm only worn't like fifty dollars, Like it's a
Speaker 1: huge I think. I don't know if it's you're talking
Speaker 1: about surrogate prices for like I mean the egg you're
Speaker 1: still gonna get like eight grand. I saw it when
Speaker 1: I was probably looking on craigslist. You're getting at least
Speaker 1: eight grand for your eggs. It's like harvesting. You're yeah, bro,
Speaker 1: like here you go. I mean it would make sense.
Speaker 1: Hold the baby's the womb and everything everything that goes
Speaker 1: into reproduction. It would kind of make sense just give
Speaker 1: up an egg to one of my husband's. And I'm
Speaker 1: just really hoping I'm not the friend they asked first,
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna do it, But like I think about
Speaker 1: it all the time. I'm like, if anybody ask me,
Speaker 1: I'm a few more years from this, Nike taking one
Speaker 1: of my eggs. I just want to have my own
Speaker 1: kid first, because I don't want to get too attached.
Speaker 1: Other than that, I'll be like, y'all can't wait till
Speaker 1: y'all start hearing um the pregnancy updates from Wheezy. This year,
Speaker 1: it's coming, It's coming. Bro. Every time we're in the studio,
Speaker 1: everyone says, I'm gonna get pregnant this year, but you are,
Speaker 1: and y'all are about the year her pregnancy. I'm not keeping.
Speaker 1: But then where I get anymore, I am not already said,
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be a good mama. Bro. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you how. There's a hollo. We're not. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna squeeze bad, she said, I wanted to. I'm not
Speaker 1: watching the baby. Say I'm gonna watched the baby for you.
Speaker 1: She told me that. Now I know there was a context.
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, when I get pregnant, I
Speaker 1: move up to New York so she can watch the baby.
Speaker 1: She's like, that's not what I mean. I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna watch the nanny watched the baby to make sure
Speaker 1: she'll do nothing to it. She's hap be a bad mom.
Speaker 1: I think she said, was my mom used, you're gonna
Speaker 1: you ain't. You ain't gonna be a mama. She really
Speaker 1: thinks I'm never gonna happin if you're a great mom.
Speaker 1: I don't know, honestly, do think you'd be a great
Speaker 1: mom just because you have that whole emotional thing. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that oxy toasting. They're getting all that for me. It's
Speaker 1: funny because I was just talking to my mom. I
Speaker 1: was like, bitch, what you did to us? Because all
Speaker 1: of so, I grew up with two sisters. I'm about
Speaker 1: to be thirty, my other sisters about nine. My other
Speaker 1: sister is about to be twenty two or twenty three.
Speaker 1: I'd be freaking her age, I do, I know. I'd
Speaker 1: just be fregetting She was one of seven, so whatever
Speaker 1: the math is for that. Um, and none of us
Speaker 1: have kids, mind you, I don't want kids. The sister
Speaker 1: under me can't really have kids because of epilepsy. But
Speaker 1: she's also a lesbian, she don't really want kids. And
Speaker 1: then the one in the army she hates niggas just
Speaker 1: like me. So I'm just like, Mom, you ain't never
Speaker 1: gonna be a grandma. You better wait till I get
Speaker 1: a kitten, because I'm gonna get a kidten after the tour.
Speaker 1: Are you fucking what? Didn't what? Bro? This is? This
Speaker 1: is the whitest thing ever. You know the black people.
Speaker 1: I have cats, bitch, I love them. Well, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: it's gonna be like me. I'm gonna make sure that
Speaker 1: cat has my personality. So it's gonna be you're drawing.
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Speaker 1: I'm excited to bring some of what's just been going
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Speaker 1: what's been happening in other people's relationships, in your thoughts. Um.
Speaker 1: So I'm not sure if you guys have heard the interview,
Speaker 1: but little Baby y'all heard. He got a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of I'm going on with all these girls saying they
Speaker 1: fucked him or whatever. But anyways, We're not going to
Speaker 1: talk about the back and forth with the Instagram UM models. Instead,
Speaker 1: I want to talk about his take on relationships. UM
Speaker 1: Little Baby says he isn't in love despite currently being
Speaker 1: in a relationship with the baby mother of his child, Jada.
Speaker 1: He says that he can funk with you, but not
Speaker 1: love you. UM. I wanted to ask you guys as
Speaker 1: thoughts on whether you can be with someone and not
Speaker 1: love them. What constitutes you actually loving somebody? And when
Speaker 1: do you know you love somebody? So let's start with
Speaker 1: the first one. I want to know what are your
Speaker 1: thoughts on whether or not you can be with someone
Speaker 1: and not love them. I think that's just partnership. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's partnership. Like the same way when you when you
Speaker 1: originally when you first meet someone, you're only just meeting
Speaker 1: someone's representative. You don't love them. You're drawn to them
Speaker 1: or connected to them, but you don't love them. Once
Speaker 1: you get in the relationship phase, that's when you start
Speaker 1: to develop the love and then manifests into something else.
Speaker 1: When when do you know that it's beyond like and
Speaker 1: you actually love them? Because he was like, Yo, I
Speaker 1: really funk with her. I funk with her, and you
Speaker 1: know I got love for her, but I'm not in love,
Speaker 1: he said, he hasn't been in love with a woman.
Speaker 1: When do both of you guys know that you've reached
Speaker 1: the love phase in a relationship. I know mine, what
Speaker 1: is yours? I think when I start um feeling empowered
Speaker 1: by that person, not just somebody being like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: you're killing it in your podcast, I mean strategically thinking
Speaker 1: of how to help me grow. And when I'm concerned
Speaker 1: about themselves, about them almost like a family member, it
Speaker 1: gets real family. It's weird, but it's not weird. Though
Speaker 1: that's not weird. That's the start of it. I believe
Speaker 1: that I'm big on that. Like love for me is
Speaker 1: everything else. But sex, Yeah, it's everything else. Best sex
Speaker 1: is the caveat that's the cherry on top. That's that
Speaker 1: doesn't define it. Like it's the same way you people
Speaker 1: have one night stands all the time. That doesn't mean
Speaker 1: that you're in love with the person. It just means
Speaker 1: you just see, there's is what I was trying to
Speaker 1: tell you seven. It was just sex. All of those
Speaker 1: other elements. Fuck you, I don't like your face right now,
Speaker 1: but all of those other elements like y'all are saying
Speaker 1: that would lead you to love someone or like someone
Speaker 1: beyond that which I cut like we never got there.
Speaker 1: I feel like you loved him, And this is no shame.
Speaker 1: I'm being so serious for what he did to you.
Speaker 1: Make me come when you got upset. It was me,
Speaker 1: you and Shan Booty at lunch and when I heard
Speaker 1: the way that he you were so disappointed that he
Speaker 1: could have thought something like that of you. But but that,
Speaker 1: to me is my ego. But no, I really think
Speaker 1: that it became from a place of hurt because you
Speaker 1: expected more from a person you've known so long. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I did expect more from but like to me, it
Speaker 1: looked like not like you were crying, but like it
Speaker 1: was like not but to me, here you hear, But
Speaker 1: yeah I was. I was pissed. I could be pissed
Speaker 1: without here's my question. Why why were you pissed? I
Speaker 1: think it's more so my ego. So I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie even with the so so here's the thing, um,
Speaker 1: and even for like the women listening, um who maybe
Speaker 1: have been dealing with people for a long time, like
Speaker 1: there's still people in my phone that I was fucking
Speaker 1: went in high school, the lovers that I have currently
Speaker 1: in my life that's known me through being poor, through
Speaker 1: moving from Miami to New York and Atlanta, and just
Speaker 1: the growth that they've seen over the last decade. Although
Speaker 1: I'm still literally the same person personality wise and what
Speaker 1: I give to people, I've I've grown as a person.
Speaker 1: I've had a lot of growth over the years. So
Speaker 1: to me knowing that I'm getting that respect from people
Speaker 1: who have seen me grow from someone who's been in
Speaker 1: my life for seven years, literally from the start of
Speaker 1: me starting college, making it through college, starting my first job.
Speaker 1: He's known us since the start of this podcast, and
Speaker 1: seeing where we've taken this podcast, I expected him to
Speaker 1: have the same respect for me in that sense as
Speaker 1: my lovers have, and so in that instance, I felt
Speaker 1: not only a level of disrespect, but my pride was
Speaker 1: shot because it's like, my nigga, you know everything that
Speaker 1: I've been through over the last seven years, So for
Speaker 1: you to almost demean me as being something less than
Speaker 1: what we both know me to be now, I felt like, damn,
Speaker 1: so you're still looking at me as the bitch that
Speaker 1: you met seven years ago, because I'm not that bitch anymore.
Speaker 1: So that's really that's really to me what it was.
Speaker 1: But now hold on, this is my only thing just
Speaker 1: playing Devil's advocate. Did you ever set a boundary where
Speaker 1: you guys had that conversation and said, Yo, we've been
Speaker 1: doing this for X amount of years. I think we're
Speaker 1: a little bit more than that, and you sound like
Speaker 1: my friends. So I pretty much just goes to him,
Speaker 1: we haven't since Octobers, and you grow up. That's you.
Speaker 1: That's your fault. You can't get mad at him if
Speaker 1: you never told him how you felt. But to me,
Speaker 1: but to me, that level of communication, we like it's
Speaker 1: seven years, I know. But then to me, I think
Speaker 1: I did just that and then like feeling and you're
Speaker 1: feeling should be hurt though, but not for those reasons.
Speaker 1: You just you just failed to come municate. He don't
Speaker 1: know that he'd probably gonna hear this ship and be like,
Speaker 1: oh ship were like I don't even know, Like, had
Speaker 1: you communicate, you probably would have been there. Ye. To me,
Speaker 1: my ego is just like it goes back to my
Speaker 1: point of effective communication. Communication sults everything, the overthinking, the
Speaker 1: emotional ship, the times where things are just running around
Speaker 1: your brain, help the skeleton. You're thinking, I go to therapist.
Speaker 1: I go to therapy. Well, I feel like I didn't
Speaker 1: talk that way until going to therapy, Like I always
Speaker 1: like to think that I like to talk things through,
Speaker 1: but I didn't understand how to do it effectively and
Speaker 1: how much it was worth until therapy. Well, no, I'm
Speaker 1: big on therapy, but even outside that, I've always been
Speaker 1: like this. I just don't talk like this is everyone
Speaker 1: because everyone can't hear real ship. That's really what it is.
Speaker 1: So when platforms like this where you guys get it,
Speaker 1: it makes sense everyone can't hear real things like that.
Speaker 1: Most people can't couldn't hear. Hey, that's your fault and
Speaker 1: understand it, Like I said that to you and you
Speaker 1: got it, because it's just communication. Someone someone less savvy
Speaker 1: in a relationship or just in moving about, they wouldn't
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. They because a communicator or someone
Speaker 1: that can be good at communicating also has to be
Speaker 1: someone that can take feedback, like you have to know
Speaker 1: when I'm talking to you, like you have to take
Speaker 1: the help to me. It's also um a big thing
Speaker 1: with confrontation. I'm not a fan of confrontation, and to me,
Speaker 1: there there. I mean, I don't especially to me someone
Speaker 1: where we're not necessarily grow like I don't argue with
Speaker 1: pretty much anybody like me and my friends don't get
Speaker 1: into any b for drama, like I love my friends.
Speaker 1: And then as far as my lover is, there's really
Speaker 1: not anything to argue about unless they don't give me
Speaker 1: something when I wanted, you know what I mean, Like,
Speaker 1: so there's not really any real confrontation. And so I
Speaker 1: guess in the sense of not only dating, but in
Speaker 1: that situation, I was just like, instead of me even
Speaker 1: hearing what he has to say back, I was just like,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go said I'm not interested, just because
Speaker 1: I felt like it would be a back and forth.
Speaker 1: Don't that don't help you, because what happens is now
Speaker 1: you're sitting here feeling the way, and he over here chilling.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Like, well I'm chilling that because I'm not
Speaker 1: interested in him anymore. Now you are. But six months
Speaker 1: later and I'm still what I only agree and I
Speaker 1: don't know. I've done it two ways, right, I've done
Speaker 1: the ghosting thing, but sometimes sometimes you do sometimes kind
Speaker 1: of a toxic nigger that's about to say when it's
Speaker 1: when it's a toxic person. But sometimes you have to
Speaker 1: say something, almost like a Miliorities taught me that she
Speaker 1: came on I think her episode was eight. We had
Speaker 1: like a breakup episode with her and she talked about
Speaker 1: cutting cords and how like sometimes it ain't even for them,
Speaker 1: it's like for you, it's for you. Sometimes you have
Speaker 1: to say when you got it off your chest, he
Speaker 1: knows what you meant, what not, even back and forth.
Speaker 1: Just cut them, even if it never even fixes, even
Speaker 1: vice versa, like me talking to my significant significant other
Speaker 1: or whomever. As long as I know I share what
Speaker 1: I'm good, I will sit in peace. You could yell,
Speaker 1: do whatever, at least you know what it was. But
Speaker 1: the moment you don't, it does way more for you
Speaker 1: on you than what it does for them. Yeah, way
Speaker 1: more because it's your hangdu well, we don't want this
Speaker 1: because I feel like I'm being technogisal. Uh So the
Speaker 1: next conversation I wanted to talk about if you guys
Speaker 1: have seen what's been going on UM. Relationships UM, specifically
Speaker 1: in the realm of celebrity are often on and off.
Speaker 1: So you've got Kailani and yg who just broke up
Speaker 1: for the second time recently Big Sean and Janet Ako
Speaker 1: Um who are back dating. Um. We know the card
Speaker 1: we know the Cardian. Also, I have been back and forth.
Speaker 1: Apparently Lorie Harvey just posted a dog that she got
Speaker 1: two years ago from the Nigga Future and he had
Speaker 1: five babies in the last two years. I don't know
Speaker 1: what relationship they got, but I wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: on and off relationships. How many times is too many
Speaker 1: times to go back to a relationship that is toxic.
Speaker 1: I think toxic is subject to for example, okay, the
Speaker 1: Cardian offset thing right. I saw someone called the relationship toxic,
Speaker 1: but I don't think it really is. This is a
Speaker 1: fun thing to say, but I'll just keep it hunt it.
Speaker 1: He's a hood nigger, she's a hood bitch. He'd be
Speaker 1: fucking group behold, She'd be getting online and yelling and
Speaker 1: getting mad about it, and they make it up public thing.
Speaker 1: But I don't necessarily think that's toxicity. I think that
Speaker 1: that's just the way they handle it. And I don't
Speaker 1: think that doesn't mean there's love there. I think they're
Speaker 1: just not the average couple that knows how to keep
Speaker 1: their ship to themselves, like they're used to their she
Speaker 1: is just a boisterous but cheating not toxic. That the
Speaker 1: cheating that part of the toxic part. I don't know
Speaker 1: the level is. I think cheating is obviously it's disloyal,
Speaker 1: is designics. I don't know about toxic if you keepetting
Speaker 1: toxic situation if you do, but I don't know if
Speaker 1: she's still getting like, here's what toxic is to me, right,
Speaker 1: cheating if you can't deal with it. If it's not,
Speaker 1: I don't know what their agreement is. I'm assuming a
Speaker 1: bit like Hardy might let him. I don't know, not
Speaker 1: the way well, but I think they I think they
Speaker 1: both battle with that just because of who they are
Speaker 1: on their stars, like that's a lot, but they're huge
Speaker 1: to me. If they do have any arrangement of some
Speaker 1: sort where he is a out to fun things. I
Speaker 1: think the problem too when it comes to where she's embarrassed,
Speaker 1: because now the bitch is posting so like you don't
Speaker 1: with no messy home. But what I'm thinking toxic, I
Speaker 1: guess I'm thinking of and I guess it's just general
Speaker 1: use of the word lately. Maybe it's whether it's in
Speaker 1: the show or in my recent you know, endeavors with
Speaker 1: people like toxic would be a relationship that I wasn't
Speaker 1: sure was going on. Somebody was leading me on a
Speaker 1: lot of gas lighting. Yeah, man, that I knew wasn't
Speaker 1: good for me. Like Future, he's toxic. Agree, he's toxic.
Speaker 1: I'm just asking. I don't horrible decisions. Maybe that was
Speaker 1: a horrible decision to ask. Don't think of that because
Speaker 1: of how he talks about women, Do you not think
Speaker 1: that he's toxic? And what we've seen in the realm
Speaker 1: of what what how he behaves, would you consider what
Speaker 1: he does to be toxic? Yeah? Absolutely, I said, from
Speaker 1: what I've seen be really piping his girl up. So
Speaker 1: he seems to really be showing the love. He's just
Speaker 1: the Future seems like a fucking dog. Seems like a
Speaker 1: dog to me. He obviously loves his girl. He's trying
Speaker 1: to be you can see him trying to fix it.
Speaker 1: Ye Wait, not right for my niggas A lot of
Speaker 1: my vide Future leaking disrecords to the girls. Really, it's
Speaker 1: really don't know. We gotta talk about that. Wait, what
Speaker 1: did Drake do? So is Drake toxic with his relationship
Speaker 1: with Babe? Drake is definitely toxic. D is emotional kefinitely.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's toxic, So I think he
Speaker 1: know he's toxic, but in a way where it benefits
Speaker 1: him as an artist, like it fuels him to make
Speaker 1: good records based off of this toxicity. Yes, and no,
Speaker 1: I think he shows his emotions on his sleeve. And
Speaker 1: we don't get that out of a lot of artists.
Speaker 1: Name me one Drake record where he wasn't talking about
Speaker 1: a girl where they either left him or he thought
Speaker 1: they were the one. Now we're here, right, nigga, Let
Speaker 1: me think I thought about money? Yeah, yeah, but that
Speaker 1: even that, even that siga but amount of times he
Speaker 1: did make the little kim what I'm saying in every
Speaker 1: damn every record, I see what he's saying. Jake likes
Speaker 1: to talk about it. It's a marketing thing. It's a
Speaker 1: good guy. Most artists talk about women, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: There's a difference though he does it. We just like it,
Speaker 1: future does it where it's kind of like really because
Speaker 1: Drake is a very relatable person from the sense that
Speaker 1: he's a rapper who is a huge entertainer and superstar,
Speaker 1: but doesn't give me rapper energy all the time. When
Speaker 1: I think about a rapper, I think a Rick Ross
Speaker 1: of the future. And he used to be like, he's
Speaker 1: like a different life. He's polished. Yes, he is media trained. Yeah,
Speaker 1: here's the lyrics that he said. I really thought this
Speaker 1: was sucked up. Um, And everybody's like, I don't know
Speaker 1: what you expected on him. So the lyric is, um,
Speaker 1: baby mama, baby mama fluke. But I love her for
Speaker 1: who she is now Fluke definition is an unlikely chance
Speaker 1: our currents, especially a surprising piece of luck. So basically
Speaker 1: they're saying, which, yes, he did not want her to
Speaker 1: be his first baby mother. He was embarrassed. Um. I
Speaker 1: think maybe he expected himself to have a higher quality
Speaker 1: of a woman for someone to be so public, Um,
Speaker 1: I really but I'm sorry, but I really hate hearing that,
Speaker 1: because what is a higher quality woman Mary Harvey? Because
Speaker 1: she's kid. No, we're not gonna do that. Everyone has standards, artists. Know.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, you can't be mad at him
Speaker 1: for feeling like, hey, I lowered my standards. I should
Speaker 1: have caned her. But you don't feel about future right now?
Speaker 1: Not something Yeah, I used to drug Dylan Niggas Okay,
Speaker 1: I have nobody to blame by myself if one of
Speaker 1: them get me pregnant, I know exactly what I'm doing.
Speaker 1: I also know that when I'm sucking them niggas, they
Speaker 1: could do better. But that's that's my point. You know
Speaker 1: that you could do better. You're indulging because you want to, however,
Speaker 1: not because you have to because you talk about me
Speaker 1: in a fucking song. I a context, because we all
Speaker 1: know that he feels like he could do better. But like,
Speaker 1: you really just gonna go out and say that ship
Speaker 1: when you're the one, it's your choice. I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: here's my problem, and it's the same thing that Future
Speaker 1: is currently doing by not paying child support, by even
Speaker 1: taking as Eliza Rain one of the baby moms. He
Speaker 1: won't even take this, but here's the thing. He knows
Speaker 1: he sucked her. And the thing is still with Drake.
Speaker 1: If you fuck a woman raw, like, even if she's
Speaker 1: a fluke and she's not to your caliber, at the
Speaker 1: point that a man sucks a woman raw, you're opening
Speaker 1: the gates to either catching something from her or getting
Speaker 1: her pregnant. That's it. There's only the one piece of context.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say and trust me, I do not want
Speaker 1: to be against a woman on this one, right, But
Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like if I'm this high status
Speaker 1: of a rapper and I have no if I sucked
Speaker 1: the bitch, like I don't. I don't know how their
Speaker 1: sex went or whatever. But if I feel like you said,
Speaker 1: I know, if we don't know if they sucked, he wrong,
Speaker 1: We don't know if like she's like maybe yours. These
Speaker 1: celebrity niggas don't be asking for condoms. They just think
Speaker 1: they're invincible to all things. So I would I wouldn't do.
Speaker 1: And I have a friend future like no, I'm serious.
Speaker 1: She just closed to that picture of her she just
Speaker 1: bought herself at home, and he posted proud of you,
Speaker 1: and I guess. In the same day, Russell Wilson posted
Speaker 1: his son and he thought you and his little league game,
Speaker 1: and everybody's like, wow, you see the difference, And I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna be I just feel like, why does everyone
Speaker 1: carries me the fucking robber bro just because that whole
Speaker 1: ship's messy, Like that's the really thing about at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, that kid is going to be
Speaker 1: the one that's gonna be impacted once the kid gets
Speaker 1: older and can go back, we expect. But what's also
Speaker 1: the thing is, I think Future likes to come across
Speaker 1: like he's not affected by what's going on, when he
Speaker 1: really is. He shouldn't be affected though he can't. And
Speaker 1: I'll tell you how. I know. Why do you mean
Speaker 1: he shouldn't be affected. He's an artist, he's a rapper,
Speaker 1: he's an entertainer. You can't go out and wear your
Speaker 1: heart and sleep. Most people can't do that. His brand
Speaker 1: is not to be emotional and talking about he shouldn't
Speaker 1: be affected in the Yeah, in the eyes of the
Speaker 1: public is what I'm saying. You're never going to see him.
Speaker 1: I don't think at no point this entire year will
Speaker 1: you ever see him. Turnover at Leaf and said, Yo,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know what's sad about that? I was
Speaker 1: just thinking when you were talking about that, Um, what
Speaker 1: fucking rapper boasts about being a good like I think
Speaker 1: of kids like that's about the only thing you hear.
Speaker 1: No rapper ever really talks about being a great parent,
Speaker 1: And it made me think about it. I don't know
Speaker 1: about like a big family. Le well, he doesn't really talk.
Speaker 1: He doesn't really talk about his family like that though
Speaker 1: he'll he'll mention it here in a social media post
Speaker 1: right he posted his dog her which q offset posts kids.
Speaker 1: But I mean lyrically like who really, like, Like it's
Speaker 1: just not really what rappersucking do. So it's just like
Speaker 1: that's why I'm like, what are we gonna expect out
Speaker 1: of him? You know? And it's weird. Like when I
Speaker 1: was watching the Kobe funeral, I was like, bro, if
Speaker 1: this whole thing doesn't make you want to be a
Speaker 1: good dad, like, I don't know how men could watch
Speaker 1: that and not want to be in That whole experience
Speaker 1: made me want to be a better person though, Like
Speaker 1: I felt like that whole thing, like even now still
Speaker 1: feel surreal. I don't really feel like he's gone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like it hasn't hit me yet, but
Speaker 1: the impact. Yeah, I was a brunch and got the
Speaker 1: update and I'll never forget. I looked at whatever, how
Speaker 1: did you guys feel about people saying um, I thought
Speaker 1: what Vanessa did was amazing, but I read some comments
Speaker 1: that said she seemed emotionless, and I was like, clearly
Speaker 1: they put her on his Danex before she got out there,
Speaker 1: because I wouldn't need a one people genuinely were like
Speaker 1: to say, I think people grieve differently. They I honestly
Speaker 1: don't even think that she is aware of it yet,
Speaker 1: Like it hasn't really hit her, hasn't hit I think
Speaker 1: she was most impacted by her by G Like you
Speaker 1: can see it, like when she was talking about Kobe.
Speaker 1: It was obviously you can see the hurt when she
Speaker 1: went to G. She's experienced more love from I mean,
Speaker 1: more life from Kobe, but that was like her baby girl,
Speaker 1: like you could you could see it, you could see
Speaker 1: the hurt. I think for her it's a balancing act, right,
Speaker 1: Like she's still trying to balance out how she feels
Speaker 1: emotionally between all of this. And then on top of it,
Speaker 1: you know that people are looking for you to funk
Speaker 1: this up. I thought I thought those comments were cold.
Speaker 1: I saw one on MSNBC where someone said that, and
Speaker 1: I was shocked. Me to me, we have now opened
Speaker 1: up ourselves to see how strong Kobe was like as
Speaker 1: a leader, as a basketball player, as a father, as
Speaker 1: a person. So to me, Um, I think it says
Speaker 1: a lot about we know the type of partners we choose.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't be with no weak as Nigga or no broke,
Speaker 1: asked Nigga or anyone that you feel like wouldn't match
Speaker 1: up to the person that you see yourself as. And
Speaker 1: seeing that we saw the level that Kobe has exuded
Speaker 1: over throughout his life, it would make sense that he
Speaker 1: would have a strong partner. And because we haven't gotten
Speaker 1: to seven us over the years, this is us first
Speaker 1: time really getting to see how she was. But I
Speaker 1: don't think he would have chose a weak partner the
Speaker 1: whole time I watched it when she first started, because
Speaker 1: I saw her Lauren was a little more broken, but
Speaker 1: that's why I said, but it was also just her man,
Speaker 1: and it wasn't twenty years. And I'm not saying one
Speaker 1: ways more than the other, but I mean, you lose
Speaker 1: your kid and your husband the same. That's not that
Speaker 1: Nipsey wasn't tragic. And the fact that you find out
Speaker 1: about it on social media, that's that That was the
Speaker 1: part for me. It was just like, I know they
Speaker 1: gave her something to keep her straight because honestly, how sound.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how she's functioning now, like even
Speaker 1: if she could, because I couldn't watch that Kobe like
Speaker 1: for you, I was crying too much. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'll watch bits and pieces. Yeah, I saw just the
Speaker 1: one part where she spoke about Kobe and went to
Speaker 1: Gig and you could just see it like she was
Speaker 1: once it went to g She was trying to hold
Speaker 1: it together, like you could see it. And I was like,
Speaker 1: let me turn crazy now, just because um, seeing everything
Speaker 1: um in the media now, like with people losing children,
Speaker 1: it's like that's a grief that you know, thank God,
Speaker 1: knock on wood. I haven't, but when I see it,
Speaker 1: I literally always say, I don't know how people continue
Speaker 1: after losing people so close to them like that. That's
Speaker 1: really crazy. Before we get out of here, though, I
Speaker 1: did want to read through homemail real quick. UM, and
Speaker 1: this one, I'm sorry said home male male. Yes, you
Speaker 1: know it's a little bit of homel and even the virgins,
Speaker 1: this one is real home howing virgins have homema? What baby?
Speaker 1: We met virgins at me, Well, they weren't virgins at
Speaker 1: our Houston show. I wish I knew their name. These
Speaker 1: girls came up and says and said, oh, they were
Speaker 1: Latin and chicks. We had a podcast when we were
Speaker 1: in college. We were virgins speaking about sex. But we
Speaker 1: were holed, we'd be second dick and fingering, but they
Speaker 1: weren't having penetrated sex. I was a home before I
Speaker 1: was sucking. Yeah. But and then I actually made one
Speaker 1: of the friend Zone Live show. Um, and I'm hoping
Speaker 1: she can come on version. She's the twenty six year
Speaker 1: old version, so like, that's pretty interesting. Um. So the
Speaker 1: whole mail for this week again, If you guys have
Speaker 1: any homemails, please send them to Horrible Decisions at gmail
Speaker 1: dot com. This one's a quick one and I actually
Speaker 1: had to do some research for it. I'm also curious
Speaker 1: to know if you guys know the answer to it. So, hey, guys,
Speaker 1: just a quick question. Can a couple create clamidia or
Speaker 1: is it something that is contracted by having sex with
Speaker 1: multiple people. I've been with my boyfriend now for four years.
Speaker 1: I have not cheated on him, but I recently got
Speaker 1: tested and the doc said it's plamidia. Helped me. She
Speaker 1: wrote me, this girl wrote I guess she wrote many
Speaker 1: separately too, at like two am a few weeks ago,
Speaker 1: I was in the clubs. Is that a real question?
Speaker 1: It is a real question. I was embarrassed reading it,
Speaker 1: and then she wrote me back. Um, emails. I sent
Speaker 1: it to the horrible email because I wanted to talk
Speaker 1: about it. Um no what's her name? No? No, No,
Speaker 1: he can't create cheated. It's not living dormant. It didn't
Speaker 1: just wake up and it happened. He gave it to you. Like.
Speaker 1: What really killed me about it was I looked at
Speaker 1: the time and I was thinking to myself, like, if
Speaker 1: you wrote a fucking podcast this late at night, this
Speaker 1: nigga really had your mind working, your pH been off,
Speaker 1: I've been whatever. She wrote me at sixty four pm
Speaker 1: on another day. So yeah, she wrote, and I just
Speaker 1: talking about yeah, so yeah, she wrote me the next day. Maybe.
Speaker 1: So I ended up looking into this because I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't really know how STDs or maybe people can't
Speaker 1: create it together. I don't know, but STDs and in infidelity.
Speaker 1: So guys, if you're in a long term relationship and
Speaker 1: come across a positive result for STD, UM, I did
Speaker 1: find that there are three ways that a couple can UM. Actually,
Speaker 1: now it's very well. Com it very well. If you
Speaker 1: become infected, it may not mean your partner cheated. Here
Speaker 1: are the three things. So your partner may have pre
Speaker 1: existing infections. UM, you guys have been together for four years,
Speaker 1: so this may not be the case for you. But
Speaker 1: it does talk about the incubation period, so, um, your
Speaker 1: partner may not have seen any sort of symptoms from
Speaker 1: the STD and then you guys got together and then
Speaker 1: got tested moving forward. Um, there's also the possibility of
Speaker 1: treatment failure. So an STD that occurs in a monogamous
Speaker 1: partner may actually be the reoccurrence of a previous infection
Speaker 1: that was treated but unsuccessfully. Some STDs are thoughts to
Speaker 1: have been resolved after treatment may defy. That's the same answer.
Speaker 1: It's just pretty that's about to exist necessarily. They really,
Speaker 1: they really trying to figure this out. They are. And
Speaker 1: then I oh, she wrote back and says, thank you
Speaker 1: so much for the quick response. And so it's only
Speaker 1: oral or intercourse. So like he must have said, which
Speaker 1: we shook hands, we got corona from chlamydia. It was airborne.
Speaker 1: I swear to God for her to ask that. Wait, wait,
Speaker 1: she asked, I can't believe that was a real quick
Speaker 1: It was a real question. And we both of us
Speaker 1: all our separate things, and it's only transmitted through sex
Speaker 1: and oral sex. That's what she and I couldn't write
Speaker 1: her back. At that point, I was like, bro oh wait,
Speaker 1: she was making sure he didn't catch it in the air.
Speaker 1: I don't know what he said. I want to know
Speaker 1: what he said. I must go out of this one.
Speaker 1: That is because you know, what's the sad part, the
Speaker 1: fact that she doctored up an email to write to
Speaker 1: you like dense to where she couldn't google it. You
Speaker 1: think her head and when you live in it. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you, Nick, this can tell you anything. Sky
Speaker 1: green and I'm like ship the reflective rainbow. Maybe I
Speaker 1: don't know Ship, because when when someone is sucking to
Speaker 1: sit out of you, I'll believe it. I hear you.
Speaker 1: But if someone can convince you that STD just magically
Speaker 1: appeared in the morning with your serial, something is wrong. No,
Speaker 1: I said, with the serial something something is wrong. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you that's crazy. He must have wipe his ask
Speaker 1: and been like it was came from there. There's no
Speaker 1: way whoever made this roll of toilet paper? You know,
Speaker 1: let me call sharm incorporate right the fun now it
Speaker 1: was want to I want to give her some advice.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you stop going to them. That's the type
Speaker 1: of nigger he is. That's exactly what he's saying. You
Speaker 1: know what type of nig he is? Wow? Wow, Okay,
Speaker 1: somebody start with wow they did it? So this is confirmed. Guys,
Speaker 1: he let it know if they or huh, you heard me?
Speaker 1: It's English English studio. I will tell you what my
Speaker 1: when he live. So there's this girl that walked by.
Speaker 1: We were at the last lap and normally he tells me,
Speaker 1: but I can tell he was just like because this
Speaker 1: girl was not moving around, moving away, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: did you this miss? And He's like, why are you
Speaker 1: acting like this? Why I'm with you? Now? The funny
Speaker 1: ship is he would have been like, yeah, I did it.
Speaker 1: She would have been mad because he got He gave
Speaker 1: her the answers did you like it? What do you mean? Like?
Speaker 1: Then you would have wanted more a week sessions today?
Speaker 1: If you guys would like to go take your route
Speaker 1: over to the grass with this native thing. You know
Speaker 1: everything Brandon before we did meet. Let our listeners know
Speaker 1: where they can follow you, where they can find you,
Speaker 1: and where they can listen to your podcast Grassroos Podcast
Speaker 1: on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, kill a h on Instagram, Twitter, everywhere.
Speaker 1: What do your favorite episodes to tell people to listen
Speaker 1: to first, because when I start a new podcast, I
Speaker 1: get too overwhelms. UM. I would say the Side High
Speaker 1: episode only just because he talked a lot about himself
Speaker 1: where you never really got to tear anything. He doesn't.
Speaker 1: He doesn't do a lot of interviews. UM. He rarely
Speaker 1: talks about just his struggles. That's a good place to start.
Speaker 1: Do you remember your number interview? I think so, But again,
Speaker 1: last time I spoke to me, he was supposed to
Speaker 1: put out music and and it didn't come out. So
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I don't really know. UM. There's honestly,
Speaker 1: if I'm with y'all, like y'all at one, I just
Speaker 1: I'm dropping tomorrow, Okay. So I mean there's just a
Speaker 1: lot of content that tell people to listen to UM.
Speaker 1: And a lot of people wrote us to me, like
Speaker 1: what should we tell our friends? Number four is my
Speaker 1: favorite of all time? UM? I like the ones with
Speaker 1: our moms. I think Rory was a fun one. It's
Speaker 1: not my personal favorite it, but like it was a
Speaker 1: really popular one I like. UM, I hate to say it,
Speaker 1: I like our therapy episode. That's what I'm saying. Abe.
Speaker 1: I've been trying to get him on the show. Red
Speaker 1: Man has a foot fetish and directs like videos just
Speaker 1: for feet and he's red Man is, Yeah, he has.
Speaker 1: He has a whole marketing campaign like he's serious, serious,
Speaker 1: he's serious. If you listen to the episode, he goes
Speaker 1: into it like the video for it and everything here
Speaker 1: he's released Mandy video. She got background noise like whold
Speaker 1: music don't do that and music now doesn't hold you.
Speaker 1: So I haven't updated my only Fans feet page. So
Speaker 1: I'm out with Cutty Um getting drinks the other day
Speaker 1: and so we're talking about how everyone got their ship
Speaker 1: leaked on Only Fans and I'm like, yeah, shout, I
Speaker 1: got my foot page, but I ain't updated since November.
Speaker 1: I gotta go on there. So I went on there.
Speaker 1: It says my pages could be deactivated if I don't
Speaker 1: update within the next seven days. So she's like, let's
Speaker 1: see how what you come over three on it all
Speaker 1: sitting in there, I was like, you know what, let
Speaker 1: me go ahead and post my feet this week, so
Speaker 1: I'll be I'll be updating if y'all are my only
Speaker 1: fan subscribers, I will be updating this week. Um, but no,
Speaker 1: thank you Brandon for finally coming on. I'm telling me
Speaker 1: about my hoss. So are your nails buffed or do
Speaker 1: you clear polish? Okay, they are feel very good. Fingering nails,
Speaker 1: by the way, like I would be fingered with. The
Speaker 1: ladies want to know and me, do you have a girlfriend?
Speaker 1: You're in a relationship. Listen, if I didn't flirt with you,
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be a sign of disrespect on the show,
Speaker 1: like it almost started where people would be like, oh,
Speaker 1: Wes so thirsty today. I just have to keep it up.
Speaker 1: At this point. If I don't flirt with I don't
Speaker 1: hold you at this point, who didn't. I think we've
Speaker 1: falling off, so we gotta keep it. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean. She didn't try to second leave. No podcasters
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Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. Bye by bye bye, say
Speaker 1: bye bye, okay bye. You know. You know who's really
Speaker 1: putting out there is Elizabeth Hurley on her Instagram. Have
Speaker 1: you seen her Instagram? You guys don't know who this
Speaker 1: Caucasian woman is. She's like a British and an Austin
Speaker 1: Powers movie. Yeah, she's putting it out. She's fifty and
Speaker 1: she she's not hiding at all. She's not hiding it
Speaker 1: at all. Look at her Instagram, she's not hiding it
Speaker 1: at all. No, she's like it's out the boy, the
Speaker 1: girls are out her whole body. She's out there. This
Speaker 1: is a very instagram. So I'm no, I'm telling she's
Speaker 1: just got video. She's got like videos of her just
Speaker 1: like dancing on bred open on this. I'm telling you
Speaker 1: she's not someone's gonna suck her. Freddie gives a Freddie
Speaker 1: gives like these white pitches in my neighborhood. He's a
Speaker 1: good he's a good man. Um. But like your Instagram
Speaker 1: is like she's she's not hiding it at all, which
Speaker 1: which I'm like, I think it's kind of cool, you know,
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, I don't give a funk out the oldest.
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful Mine's Angel Bassett. Oh yeah, Jackie Brown?
Speaker 1: Is she Jackie Brown? No? I don't know. Let me
Speaker 1: look at how don't you know the Amy Pohler movies.
Speaker 1: You don't know Jackie Brown, Eddie. Let me tell you.
Speaker 1: One of my friends was like, bitch, I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: it is Black History Month, girl, some something something like
Speaker 1: I can't remember what happened, and she was like, oh no,
Speaker 1: you can celebrate on the four tune. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: because you're half makes sense? What if it's a leap here?
Speaker 1: Can I get get more? Dude? That ship was so
Speaker 1: fucking funny. Although I really like to hold I hang
Speaker 1: on to my father's reeliness as non claim to being half.
Speaker 1: What's uh so your dad's from is really Israeli? Your
Speaker 1: mom's from New York, right, That's cool. If we dive deeper,
Speaker 1: there's like roots to like Bermuda and Jamaica from my mother,
Speaker 1: which I'm honestly Barbados in Jamaica. I'm honestly wondering if
Speaker 1: that's why I went through my whole reggae drug dealing
Speaker 1: guy face like I'm going to the dance hall clubs.
Speaker 1: And then I was like shake that thing and a
Speaker 1: bettle of shake that thing. You're like this speaks to
Speaker 1: me or like deep in it like five's cartel, Okay.
Speaker 1: I was like, Sean, Paul, I can tell you something
Speaker 1: right now. Growing up in Toronto where I'm from, there's
Speaker 1: no African Americans. There's Caribbean Canadians because everyone's is black.
Speaker 1: Their mom and dad are usually usually it's Barbados, Jamaica,
Speaker 1: a lot of traded dad, Guyana, some Haiti. How did
Speaker 1: that happen? It happened because Canada was under the British Commonwealth,
Speaker 1: so it's easier to go there. Because Jamaica is unto
Speaker 1: the British common so you get a lot, So it's
Speaker 1: a lot easy to go there. Plus, uh, the immigration
Speaker 1: was easier. It was the doors were open a little more.
Speaker 1: So people like that's why Drake like yeah, what, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: But he's not Jamaican at all. His his dad's American.
Speaker 1: His dad's from Memphis, and his mom's like, like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't think Drake was so in my opinion, a
Speaker 1: lot of people don't think it's funny. But all his
Speaker 1: friends are straight up like parents are Jamaican and I
Speaker 1: grew up like that. I grew up in a very
Speaker 1: like a very black neighborhood in Canada, like all Jamaican
Speaker 1: all like, and you still sound like this guy. I know,
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I sound like a report in
Speaker 1: the news on in the area. But like it was
Speaker 1: like beef patties, oxtail, the best food you eat, food
Speaker 1: like that I love that food because they don't have
Speaker 1: it here. But when I was in New York, it
Speaker 1: was with my girlfriend and I was like, I walked
Speaker 1: by a place I had beef patties. It's just like,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I have to get It's like why, I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's my culture, it's my friends culture. But I was like,
Speaker 1: I was like, she's like, what is it? When you
Speaker 1: explain to beef patty to someone who's white, or like
Speaker 1: any anyone who's never had one, they're like, why is
Speaker 1: this so good? I go, what is it? It's a
Speaker 1: flaky yellow pastry with and like what's in the middle
Speaker 1: meat paste? It's like, wait, what did she have it? No? No,
Speaker 1: she's like she took one bite. She's like, my dad
Speaker 1: loves fat. I know they're so good. I grew up
Speaker 1: on that that in Minnesota's a lot of island people,
Speaker 1: so um. I just every time I think about Drake
Speaker 1: and Canada, I think about it, I'm saying dog, yeah why,
Speaker 1: But also like thing that's a big Jamaican one. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a big Jamaican one. I feel like people that
Speaker 1: are listening like what but ting means? Girl, I look
Speaker 1: at a nice thing you know. It's like like she's
Speaker 1: like a yes, just call her that. No, that's what
Speaker 1: I grew up with in Toronto, Like look at that ting.
Speaker 1: But you have a bunch of things. I don't know.
Speaker 1: No one knows really, Okay, I picked a very l
Speaker 1: a vanilla ship, and vanilla ship is our sex. In
Speaker 1: the news segment with just basically Eddie's podcast, but just
Speaker 1: about sex. It's not always sex. Could be sexual health,
Speaker 1: it could be whatever. So i'thing about pussy. So these
Speaker 1: vegan bloggers say it's fine to stop having your period.
Speaker 1: Gone to colleges disagree. So it's been recorded that like
Speaker 1: people that are vegan have way shorter periods. Um. But yeah,
Speaker 1: but the thing is, I actually tried one month to
Speaker 1: stop eating meat. Mine wasn't shorter, but I had no cramps,
Speaker 1: no cramps, that's a game change, and very very little bloating,
Speaker 1: like barely any Um. So it says they're giving up
Speaker 1: animal products that beat robbing and bloggers and they are
Speaker 1: shortly shortly after our experienced periods. Um that menstruation is
Speaker 1: a sign of a highly toxic diet, which is bullshit.
Speaker 1: What Yeah, if there's nothing to clean, there's no reason
Speaker 1: to men's straight and since raw food diet is your
Speaker 1: period naturally becomes lighter and or disappears altogether. Another vegan
Speaker 1: blogger says um she was thrilled when her period hit
Speaker 1: the road for nearly nine months. I still believe that
Speaker 1: largely menstruation is toxicity leaving the body. So a lot
Speaker 1: of people are having these heavy, painful periods because of
Speaker 1: their toxic dieties. Now look, all right, I'm not I'm
Speaker 1: a guy. I'm a dumb guy. When you when you
Speaker 1: have your period, it's basically your eggs just shedding from
Speaker 1: the menstrual lining. You're eural lining, right yeah, and then
Speaker 1: you get you get you get some you possibly get
Speaker 1: some spotting, and then you just sucking outcomes out the
Speaker 1: egg goop out of your old pool right right further
Speaker 1: control where you said you possibly get spotted, drake, says
Speaker 1: Pani