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I'm gonna call it ten free 11 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: oh gifts, and hopefully we still get paid a sexy 12 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: item for him for her, and a third item you're 13 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: both enjoy plus free shipping. Um my favorite things I've 14 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: got on there was some like hempsy video like a 15 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 1: lavender smell and booty training boot anal booty training kit. 16 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 1: It's like Dee and um oh, I get the fishnet 17 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,520 Speaker 1: body stalking like Andre and basically it's like ten bucks 18 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: and then you just like can have him rip it 19 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: open him or her or whatever and just be a 20 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: slot with it on Adam and Eve dot com. Okay, 21 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: welcome guys to another episode of Horrible Decisions. Did your 22 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: girl Mandy b a K a k A full core 23 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: pumps a k A dead beach? Hi, I'm hungover? That's 24 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: your name today, bro? I honestly didn't even know my 25 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: own name, like two hours ago. I was so fucked up, 26 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: you know, like you know, and then I'm looking at 27 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: the flight and I'm like, oh, wow, we're taking a 28 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,760 Speaker 1: long time taxi. And well I could just send it 29 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 1: a flight number and technically and will me my fault 30 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: if I missed the episode? Now I have come to 31 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: the studio like I was super sick when we did 32 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: our episode with a pastor Cory. I mean not everywhere, 33 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: just ye and I mean like right now, like I 34 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: see two of you. You know what I'm saying, that 35 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't be a bad Actually, have you have you been 36 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 1: tested for corona respiratory? I hear you. I just want 37 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: to have you. Have you been tested? Now, y'all? Hear 38 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: a third voice on the mic. We haven't had I 39 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: noticed I was looking at the episode. We haven't had 40 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: cesasterone on the Goddamn Horrible Decisions podcast in quite some time. 41 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 1: Um So when booking today's guests, I was like, we 42 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 1: need a goddamn payenist in la Ron doing. I mean, yeah, no, 43 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: we got a lot of male listeners. Male perspectives are important. 44 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: I met sometime, al right. I forgot they'd be paying 45 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: up on Patreon. You're not about to jump me, No, 46 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: we're not so. So the thing is, many of our 47 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: heterocis men who have been guests really aren't that like. 48 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: So we hope that are female audi they'd be kind 49 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 1: of problematic here. We I could go down the list 50 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: of niggas ain't like, but I feel like that you 51 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: are the probably gonna kill you say, I know you 52 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: did our show, but I wasn't here that time. What 53 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,839 Speaker 1: did your guys my first time? This was the first 54 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: time on our show. Did you get canceled? Yeah, because 55 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: I don't No, No, I canceled it because I ended 56 00:02:54,680 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: up getting flew out anyway and a check. I mean, 57 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: technically you have to because it's a horrible decisions if 58 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: you have to make it, Like, I don't think it's 59 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: a bad reason to cancel. I don't think so. The 60 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: story I was, I was only type because I'm being 61 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: on communication only shemdicated to you like three days before 62 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: though Mandy hit me and said, YO, we want you 63 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: to come on do the show. I said, splendid, I 64 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 1: would love to come to the show. She said, all right, cool, 65 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: she books it canceled, No problem, no problem. Maybe a 66 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: month later, Yo, sorry about that time, Sorry about that. 67 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: I got you, all right, cool, let's figure it out. 68 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: And then that second time, I had to whole trip 69 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: trip yo, but I respected. She said, YO, I'm gonna 70 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: keep it a buck with you. I know I got 71 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: you on the show, but any of the international checks 72 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: the sanctity of this show. When Mandy has sex, it 73 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: really truly goes better. There's days like like what's up 74 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: with her? But I think everyone does better under those circumstances. 75 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: So that's why I didn't knock it. Right now. I 76 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:11,119 Speaker 1: know we've done an awful job introducing today's guests. We've 77 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: just been talking, so I do want to introduce him. Um. 78 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: If you guys are into listening or searching for another podcast, 79 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: Brandon is the host. Well he is one third roots pod. Um. 80 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 1: Also for the ladies, this is what y'all need to know. 81 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: I went to the Grassroots Podcast live show. It was 82 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: the best looking set event in a New York event 83 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 1: that I have ever been to him. My motherfucker. There 84 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 1: was former NFL player, isn't there that I used to 85 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: following Scott. I ain't gonna say the name, but I'll 86 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 1: let you know after the show. It was like Nigga's 87 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: dressing a little like Frox or whatever you call it, 88 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: with the motherfucking Scarnox like Frox Fox it was. It 89 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: was just it was, I don't know, you're not looking 90 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: for not for nothing, and we just had a good crowd. 91 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie like it was. It was a 92 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,919 Speaker 1: great crowd. Like a lot of people showed up, you 93 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: know what I mean. We sold out in less than 94 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: twenty four hours. That's amazing. Yeah, we have another event 95 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: which is going to be way better Saturday. About Grassroots 96 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: is about everything. It's about your upbringing. It's about what 97 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:22,919 Speaker 1: makes you you, what put you even in the seat 98 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: right now, like it's about where your path led you 99 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: and where it's going with sprinkles of like other little components. 100 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 1: So get it like you guys spelled it like right. 101 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: But secret about that you want to hear a secret? 102 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: The secret with that was that because Roots was taken 103 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 1: R O T, we went routes, which made more sense 104 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: for marketing perspective. It was actually better because horrible. That's 105 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 1: why I brought it up because when I when I 106 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: met you, I said, Yo, that's a hard name. Yeah, 107 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: like and um but yeah, so and I was on 108 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: his show. Oh my god, maybe two years ago now right, 109 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: that was a while ago. Um and so yeah, like 110 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: you guys sprinkling pop culture. So that's kind of what 111 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna do today. We're gonna talk about sex, dating 112 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: a relationship. But as it pertains to things that have 113 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: been going on on the timeline and with pop culture. 114 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: We often don't get to do um a lot of 115 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: episodes like on Trend because we pre record. But y'all, 116 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: this is episode one fifty seven we on Turn Baby. 117 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: We're talking about ship currently bites. Anyways, because you don't 118 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: talk about sex often, we wanted to start this off 119 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: with a little quick icebreaker. Um. We I want your 120 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: answers on these as well, because they're pretty um, well 121 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: depending on what she because she she's incoherent right now, 122 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 1: come about the plant, so we gotta make sure it's 123 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: not This is a job where you can come to works. 124 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: On our last Patriot episode, Shorty walked in. She was like, yeah, 125 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: I h I fucking left the studio right and I 126 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: was flying. I was like these buildings are I was 127 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: freaking out, but I mean it was good. So right now, 128 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: it's just I still have it in my system, but 129 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: you know, I've seen people. It's the funniest thing ever. Yeah. Um, 130 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: I'm kind of nervous because we have and Charlotte. I 131 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: don't really have anybody um that I'm really gonna like 132 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: beyond beyond. But Orlando we got like an afterpart, like 133 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get sucked up. Fucking Vinnie has been already 134 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: like I think we're gonna go out of Charlotte. I 135 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: don't know if you want to join us, but we 136 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: was getting so my best friend does our tour. It's 137 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: like as an assistant on our tour and so many 138 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: nights because I don't really go out during the shows 139 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: or whatever, it's like a lot of energy for me. 140 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: He'll look at me and he's like, I'm just gonna 141 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: go hang out with Mandy. Literally I have on my writer, 142 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: I have a bottle and literally he'd be like you 143 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: ready do shots, Like let's go, let's do it, And 144 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: they give you selling merch in between, you know, and 145 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: he does the job right, So we're gonna get into 146 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: the icebreaker, so this one and again, guys, bring these 147 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: two not only the timeline asking your followers, but also 148 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 1: bring it to your group chats. And I want to 149 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: know what your friends, how big of hose they are. 150 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: So the icebreaker for this week, would you rather have 151 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: group sex with strangers or group sex with all of 152 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: your exes? My exes? Yeah, like I could think of three. 153 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: I'd want to like train me right now because my 154 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: ex is an excess for a reason. M So they 155 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 1: didn't know. Yeah, so you wouldn't want to suck them 156 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: again stranger. But then my other thing is I'm weird 157 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: with strangers though too. That's That's what I'm saying, Like 158 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: there's a that's why I got to really think about 159 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: I may go exit just because that would be the 160 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: easier thing. Two of them are in the dick, and maybe, 161 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: like you know, he liked that little should be doing 162 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: when it would have to be excess. It would only 163 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: just because I feel like meeting people is a lot 164 00:09:12,280 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: of energy and and and he doesn't. There's a whole 165 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: lot of stuff with that. There's all that stuff with 166 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 1: that you've never been something like a sex club or 167 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:24,199 Speaker 1: anything to where you've had one night stands with any 168 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: type of strangers. Well, say, there's a way that I 169 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: conduct myself. I've been noticing with strangers like we're women 170 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: that I'm sleeping with, Like yesterday, um my boyfriend, I 171 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: stuff with this girl, and when she left, the sex 172 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: we have was totally different after she left, right, And 173 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:43,440 Speaker 1: it's always like this anytime we have sex with someone else, 174 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: like it's got to be like within twenty minutes and 175 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 1: they leave. I don't know if we're fucking because we're 176 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: still thinking about it, or if it's the aroma or what, 177 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: but it's like we start doing ship we want to do, 178 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:54,719 Speaker 1: and like during a three times it's more like about her. 179 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's interesting. So you got you guys 180 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: in your home or people pleasers to the person that 181 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: you're welcoming in, but the moment they leave, it's about y'all, right, 182 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: and then we'll start talking about it. So when she leaves, 183 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: the energy is still good though, like it's fright. But 184 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: there's a different like dynamic that goes on with strangers. 185 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: And I think it's because as givers were probably most like, Okay, 186 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: let's do what she likes. We make each other come 187 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 1: on time, and I feel like the strangers, I'll be 188 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: putting in more work. So with me when I do threesome, 189 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: the sex with the man is normally different because there's 190 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: things that maybe I'm allowed to do between us that 191 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 1: maybe when a third girl joins in, he like, all right, 192 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: don't don't be eating a finger in my ask while 193 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: with us, like maybe there's things that he doesn't want 194 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: everyone to know that I do with him in front 195 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 1: of someone else. I know what I've been in there before, 196 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,600 Speaker 1: like to where like certain things were saved until I 197 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: was by myself instead of in the threesome. I know 198 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 1: guys like that though that that don't give a fuck, 199 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 1: like they don't care, like Nas my man nas my 200 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 1: show is like in the previous like he's married now, 201 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,319 Speaker 1: but yes, I would know how nasty is he should 202 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: have came with NAS is crazy? Okay, nas is crazy? 203 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: Don't don't you got an ethicole? Now? I'm an, so 204 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: she's allowed to like so you have car blanche. I 205 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: mean blanche just means you have free reign to do 206 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 1: what you want because you know, there's some boundaries to it, 207 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: Like I to be honest with you, the last person 208 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 1: I did it, it was like this. It was more 209 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:30,599 Speaker 1: of like, okay, like this is someone you see on 210 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: the regular, like minding would rather me just like have 211 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 1: a moment, not even like not to be someone you're 212 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: emotionally tied to. Yes, because he knows I'm emotional. That 213 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: makes sense. So I'm like, why would you rather that? 214 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,679 Speaker 1: Wouldn't you rather have someone that's like, you know, like 215 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: my regular dude if I have to travel to l A. 216 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 1: Because then that puts him in jeopardy of being the 217 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 1: dude that's now just the guy that's on the side. 218 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: Why he would ever feel like that? Like, because I'm 219 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: that way too. So I didn't know we were alike. 220 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: So I've met her dude, and I think he's completely 221 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: opposite of like anyone that I'm like. I didn't know 222 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: we were a lot of like like in that sense. Um, 223 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: because to me, I said that if I were to 224 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: have an open relationship, I want you to just hit it, 225 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: quit it, and no emotional ties to any bitch that 226 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 1: you're sucking. So I'm like him, I would rather not 227 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 1: be emotionally connected to who you're having. But you know 228 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: that's hard for a bit like me because I'm just 229 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: like I want to like him when I want a vacation. 230 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: Nia was like throwing me to con and like, go, bit, 231 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: you have a good time because like and then of 232 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: course it can't happen because I'm like, I don't have 233 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 1: enough time to connect. I feel that though. That's why 234 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: I haven't done, which I didn't really know until this weekend. 235 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 1: We were just talking more about it openly, no local people, 236 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 1: and that makes sense. I get it. We moved too 237 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: much together where out everybody knows me from you and 238 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: you for me, And he was like, I just do 239 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: that makes sense. The second icebreaker is would you rather 240 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,679 Speaker 1: have a partner who asks for sex a lot or 241 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: one who asks for news a lot? Sex? Damn me too, 242 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: because you ain't even news bro, because it takes it 243 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: takes a lot of time. And then even if I 244 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: sound like archive ones niggas like if you just if 245 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: I just had pictures of my titties and they want 246 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 1: to ask, then they want to spread open, then they 247 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: want the lips, then they wanted from the the motherfuck 248 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: out with the whole camera and screenshots part What do 249 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 1: you mean now when you send a photo, you know 250 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:27,480 Speaker 1: how you can crop it or archive it's change date. 251 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: These motherfucker's got screenshot and photos separated in that message, 252 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: which really fucked up. No way, Yes, so you know 253 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: how I send news Now, if it's like for a 254 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: true request, I'll just be like this just here, it's fresh, 255 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: that's fresh. Titty even gonna tell you. I don't let 256 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:47,079 Speaker 1: him know it's gonna be archive. I say it's from 257 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: the archive. Nigga, I'm out, you're not getting anything up today. 258 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: I've done that. I'd be like, let me see what 259 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 1: I got. Yeah, like you're gonna be it's gonna be 260 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: archives because honestly, like my hair changes too much, girl, 261 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: my nails. They'd be calling me out. I'd be like, yes, 262 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: right now I'll be sending white nails and pink nails. 263 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: They'd be like, so you just switch your nails between pictures. 264 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 1: That's that's that's why sex is so much easier. Pictures 265 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: take away. There's too many things that you have to 266 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: do to send a picture the same. But women do 267 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: that though. Women take an abundance of pictures. No out 268 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: of here, no y'all got the ones with the feet 269 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 1: on the bottom, the one on your hand. No, no, no, 270 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: I believe that because that's think about it. Would you 271 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: would you ask a guy to send you an ask picture? Yeah? Yeah, 272 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 1: I have one. Actually, that's weird. That's weird. That's thinking 273 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: about that. I'm like, that's weird. Listen. So I'm a 274 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,200 Speaker 1: visual person, right, can you imagine an is standing in 275 00:14:44,240 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 1: there like this? That's so how I got it sent. 276 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: So he was on his way to work. It was like, 277 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: hold on, did he send it in work clothes? Well, 278 00:14:54,560 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: he pulled his pants that at ups. No, Now you 279 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: don't know he was. He has a real job. He 280 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: lives on the West Coast, and so I was already up, 281 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 1: up and going and he hit me on his way 282 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: to work. Wanted to talk nasty, and I was like, damn, 283 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: I really missed when you used to send me videos 284 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: of your ass. So, literally, he gets to the parking 285 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: garage of his job, he sets up the phone in 286 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: his niggers. He bends over in the Do you want 287 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: to see it? No? No, get pretty fucking lit. I've 288 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 1: been getting to cinema. So I appreciate I have that 289 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 1: visually that doesn't that's not odd to he be over. 290 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 1: He fingered his booty hole far bro look at any moona. 291 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: But y'all can't hear him because I got my air 292 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 1: pods in why you, because I'll be forgetting them. Holding god, 293 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: you had your air pods because if I heard this 294 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: nigga out in your ears like he did as pretty much. 295 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 1: Oh so we can't get it deep enough yet. Yeah, 296 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: this is nuts what he does. Oh my god, this 297 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: is disgusting. Alright, alright, we got but it was really good. 298 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: So he was fingering his booty hallway his middle finger 299 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 1: in the driver's seat of his car. The best videos 300 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: from my host. I'm not thine your Uber driver did that? 301 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying. Uber drivers to be 302 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: weird though in general. Yeah, I've met some really weird 303 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: Uber drivers with that where I was concerned for my safety. 304 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: I've got the most chatty ones. But I don't be 305 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: liking him talking like I'm talking on the phone, not 306 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 1: to you. I thought they had a silent ride option. 307 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: They do. They do have it, and they don't respect it. 308 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: There is a say you can you can easily say hey, 309 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: do you want conversation or not conversation and they still 310 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 1: will conversate with you or con verse with you rather. 311 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 1: You know, that is nothing missing that you're still You're still, 312 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: You're still there, You're still Don't you need a moment 313 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: listening to this ship Like, I know she didn't talk 314 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: about my pony hole on I know, but he got 315 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:23,439 Speaker 1: right it sucking a sex podcaster who literally is known 316 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 1: for this is the nigga paid when we ten times. 317 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm assuming that's the hairbrush nigga. No, it's not the 318 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: hairbrush nigga, this is nig p Yeah. I'm so curious 319 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: about y'all and just your dating stuff. Like, it's not 320 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: like we're gonna be like tired you Literally one of 321 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: the comments today just to let you know, will be damn. 322 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 1: They couldn't just shut the funk up and let this 323 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 1: nick the talk about his booty hole. Bitch? We do 324 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 1: we do? We need people the hotent. So the last 325 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 1: contact breaker before we get into the vanilla ship is 326 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,919 Speaker 1: would you rather find out that your partner slept with 327 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 1: your parents in the past or that your ex now 328 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: sleeps with your parents? Really, if I got a new nigger, 329 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: but if I'm like I'm about to say, It depends 330 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: where I'm at in life. Because if I'm single and 331 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: you now with my mom's and my part like that, 332 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 1: that's that's some other ship, Like that's crazy. But if 333 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: we're separated and I'm already in love someplace of rock 334 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: out whatever like that, I won't care at that point. 335 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 1: Like for me, would you get mad at your at 336 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 1: your mom or dad for sleeping with your I gotta 337 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: say mom or dad because you date both. I said, 338 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: would you would you be would you would be upset? Yeah? 339 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 1: I think families a weird boundary. The older I get friends, 340 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: to me, I think it's not a big deal, like 341 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: a friend sleeping with and like I just feel like 342 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 1: and I think that I've gotten that way because I 343 00:18:49,280 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: have a lot of gay friends and that community is 344 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 1: so small with lesbians and gay men that it's like 345 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:59,159 Speaker 1: a certain maturity level on learning your boundaries, communicating with 346 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 1: dating old partner and ship like that. And I'm like, 347 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: I like, I get it, You're already in a small space. 348 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: Um so like with friends like passing are around, I 349 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 1: think that's different. But I think families, like definitely now, 350 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: I think family is messy. Yeah, I think that that 351 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 1: could go bad but even to like my friends, like people, 352 00:19:14,960 --> 00:19:19,880 Speaker 1: so friends, I compartmentalize my relationships the same way whether 353 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: I'm dating as I do with my friends. So the 354 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 1: people who I consider my friends, a lot of them 355 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: have been in my life at least a decade plus, 356 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 1: um eight years plus, and so there are certain niggas 357 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 1: who are off limits, and we discussed which ones of 358 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:40,440 Speaker 1: those are. That's different though, like to me friends, family, 359 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: I'm not thinking like that's that serious. Yeah, that's me. 360 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't, That's what I'm saying, Like like 361 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 1: a someone that there was emotions with. Everyone knows you 362 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: think your crue or y'all, y'all know who you were 363 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: passionate about the guy you're just talking about in um 364 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: in l A or whatever. Right, definitely pass nigis to 365 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: my homegirld that that you've been like seriously intimate with 366 00:20:05,119 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 1: that beard bay one. But I just thought they were 367 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: both I kind of wanted to see the That's different though, 368 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:17,200 Speaker 1: that was for your pleasure, I'm saying, just nasty. You 369 00:20:17,280 --> 00:20:21,320 Speaker 1: know I was with him at the time too. Oh, 370 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: you were with him at the time, So this wasn't 371 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 1: ex this was you were in the current relationship. There 372 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 1: was a home girl that was in the same city 373 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 1: as him, and I was like yo, like linquids so 374 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: and it was like a whole back and forth texting 375 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 1: thing about how it was going. It was kind of hot. 376 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,719 Speaker 1: It was like I was jealous and turned on at 377 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: the same time. But I love that ship, like I 378 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 1: love being mildly jealous during ship like that. It's so 379 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 1: fucking it's sick. You're sick. That is kind of like 380 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 1: I've never heard. That's like it's like cut holding right there. 381 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,159 Speaker 1: You're feeling like you want to get in there. You 382 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,119 Speaker 1: might have a mild jealousy, but it could be like 383 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be like this huge. I'm not 384 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 1: like overwhelmingly jealous, like she's gonna take my nicked. But 385 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: like last night I didn't have sex with my man 386 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: while he was sucking a check, like he was sucking 387 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: the shit out of her and I was living it 388 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: and like I wanted to get some tick that I 389 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: was like staying and watching. Yeah, like I was a 390 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 1: little jealous, but it was like a hot jealous. There's 391 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: any therapists, let me know what's going on. That's now 392 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: I will refer you like I was watching her stuck 393 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: as dick and like she was super loud and long. 394 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 1: I've known him for a year, but we just got serious. 395 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 1: I'd say, like six months. Wow, you guys are breaking 396 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 1: some boundaries no point. So I mean, I really believe 397 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: that's why it's worked so well. Like I was just 398 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: sucking him and then we just started falling in love. 399 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 1: But like at the core of it, I know that 400 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 1: we're hosed. Like me and this nigger was on the plane, 401 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: I'm sick as fuck heading his lap flight attend and 402 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: walked by. She got a bad ass. I'm damn you 403 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: about to throw up. He's like, I think you ain't 404 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: feeling good, but did you see that, bitch? I'm like, yeah, 405 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 1: like I realized, like it's cross you just can't or 406 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 1: it could be just because it's good communication. That's important. 407 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 1: You think that it's a good communication to express to 408 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 1: your partner when you're looking at someone else. Though, absolutely 409 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 1: really think that. I think that that's honestly and open, 410 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,680 Speaker 1: and I think some people can't imagine if well, handling 411 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 1: it is something different. Handling it is something different. I'm 412 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 1: saying you as a person, is your responsibility to just 413 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 1: communicate your feelings and what's happening or what's not happening. 414 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: So when you do that, at least you kind of 415 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 1: take yourself off the hook where the person can't say, Yo, 416 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 1: you didn't know how I was feeling, You didn't know 417 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: what I was talking about, and you didn't know I 418 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 1: was into communication is the key to all of that. 419 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:47,399 Speaker 1: We were saying that this episode one I got we 420 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 1: got really upset with him recently because we don't fight, 421 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: and I got aggravated with something he didn't. He was like, 422 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 1: all right, well, I I just ain't gonna do that 423 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 1: a one. I was like, that's not the funk I 424 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,600 Speaker 1: want you to say. I want you to say, how 425 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,720 Speaker 1: are you going to fix it? I'm like, I'm a 426 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 1: good communicate it and you just sucking take what I 427 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 1: say and be like, Okay, I hate that. I want 428 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,119 Speaker 1: you to talk back and forth with me. You like 429 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 1: the dialogue back and forth. This is what I don't 430 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 1: understand about when you like what I don't understand. So 431 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:12,920 Speaker 1: let me let me ask you a question. Let me 432 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 1: let me ask Here we go, Yeah, here we go? No? No, 433 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: that sound like I'm tripping. You just said you agreed 434 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 1: with me. That's that's how I know y'all crazy, Yeah 435 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: you do. So listen, this this is my thing. This 436 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: is my thing. I know we've we've be tripped to 437 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:34,199 Speaker 1: b So my my only thing is when you when 438 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 1: you're talking about stuff like that, Like again, it just 439 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: goes back to communication. If we're having a dialogue, we 440 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 1: have some sort of understanding, it shouldn't matter as long 441 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: as we're on the same page. If we're not on 442 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 1: the same page, of course, it's gonna be conflict. Yeah, 443 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 1: so what what do you Yeah, I guess my question 444 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: is you're mad that he doesn't all for solutions. He 445 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: just makes it seem like what you said and that's it. 446 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: But this will do it like this is so this 447 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 1: is my thing. See that's that that that's you, right, 448 00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: I think it's I consider I've dismiss it. So I'm 449 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:05,199 Speaker 1: going to tell you what. This was not the actual 450 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 1: thing that happened, because I feel like that's too private. 451 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: But let's just say this. Let's say I cooked him 452 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: dinner and he's like, you know, I really like when 453 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: you make spinish better. You know what, don't worry about it. 454 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna cook anymore. That's what we'll do don't 455 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: worry I'm gonna do it any more. He's that type 456 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: of don't worry, I'll never do it again, just very dismissive, 457 00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 1: not like, Okay, I can make dinner for you again, 458 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: but what about blah blah blah. There's no resolution. He'll 459 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: just hear what I'm saying. And so when you say 460 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: that you don't like things, instead of maybe asking you 461 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: why you don't like it or how it makes you feel, 462 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 1: because you're very emotional with things you don't like that, 463 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 1: he says instead, Okay, you don't like it, fine, it 464 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: won't do it again like you would you think. Or 465 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,880 Speaker 1: maybe he knows that she's emotional and tries to dead 466 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 1: the beef before it gets to a beef because he 467 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: knows that she is crazy. He's not confrontational, but we 468 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 1: really don't fight at all. There's no disagreement. So I 469 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: guess that you almost taking it, But like sometimes I 470 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 1: feel like there is no disagreement because he'll just sit 471 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 1: with it. Like if I'm angry about so, I get 472 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 1: what you're saying. You think he's more so harboring things 473 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 1: versus communicating, like he'll just debt it and really not 474 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:17,520 Speaker 1: be over the situation, but we'll still just And I 475 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: think that's just the one thing when someone is like 476 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 1: just trying to appease you. And and he told me 477 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 1: like because I was very upset about it, and he 478 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: was like, I can't leave you flipping out over the 479 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 1: tiniest thing. And I was like, I just want you 480 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 1: to talk back to me, and he was like, but 481 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: I'm giving you what you want. I'm like, that's the thing, though, 482 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 1: because that does if you say, if he says, or 483 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 1: if you say, yo, I wanted to spinash whatever, I'm 484 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 1: really like that he says, all right, I won't make 485 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 1: it no more because he knows you don't like it. 486 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 1: He's giving you the answer. That's more like if I said, 487 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 1: can you put garlic in the spinage next time? You 488 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 1: know what, I ain't gonna make spinagh Then no, that's different. 489 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: That's different. That that's a little different. I can see 490 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: if he's like, no, I got you, ill laced it 491 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 1: next time or whatever. But if he's just dead, I 492 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I've never really been with 493 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: some that is that easy going about when I need 494 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 1: to like get something off my chest. Um, the last 495 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 1: person I did it was a really good communicator, just 496 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 1: like overly communicative, and he's more so like yeah, it's 497 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,719 Speaker 1: almost like to chill, but he owes. So maybe that's why, 498 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 1: probably why, that's probably why I ain't got time for 499 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: the bullshit. Tell him about something that's going on, like 500 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,280 Speaker 1: some argument in whatever, and he'd just be looking at 501 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 1: me and he'd be like, you are really arguing this 502 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: bitch on Instagram? Maybe like looking at me like out here, Well, 503 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: I want to get into this week's vanilla ship. Um. 504 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: It comes from New York Times, and I found it 505 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 1: interesting because I have vowed to be condom dick for 506 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,399 Speaker 1: the remainder of the year. Um due to seeing how 507 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: much live feaes costs with no insurance. UM, A little 508 00:26:51,760 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 1: bit what you got, not a little day back. No, 509 00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: at this point I wish because now I feel like 510 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: I paid a hundred and fifty dollars for no reason. 511 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 1: But anyways, So basically had an irresponsible sexual encounter in 512 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 1: the first month of January that led me to take 513 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:24,000 Speaker 1: the Plan b phill be Cool. However, for the last 514 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 1: two months now, I've had two periods a month. So 515 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: in February now I've taken Plan be before and it's 516 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: caused maybe one extra period, but the fact that in 517 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 1: I've already had four periods and it's fucking the end 518 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 1: of February March. I'm fucking pissed. So I go to 519 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 1: look up what periods me shouldn't have googled. Shouldn't have 520 00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: Google thought I was gonna die. It said, so it's 521 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 1: anywhere from tyroids to stress to all types of STDs. 522 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 1: So I was like, So, I was like, you know what, 523 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: fucking let me go get tested. So I went to 524 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 1: City m D because it's like it opens early, it 525 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: was during the week, and it was right between us 526 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 1: having to leave again to Texas. So I was like, 527 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,199 Speaker 1: you know what, let me go ahead and get get tested. 528 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,280 Speaker 1: So I go to City m D. They're like, um, 529 00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 1: what you know. Can you fill out for your insurance 530 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 1: or are you paying out a pocket? So I have 531 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: dental currently and I have prescription insurance, but I don't 532 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: have full health coverage yet, hopefully waiting for whatever contract 533 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: comes to see if we can get insurance do that 534 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 1: if not, whatever, So I'm like, I'm paying out a pocket. 535 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: It was two dollars just for the visit. I said that, 536 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 1: don't include nothing. No. Then I go and the doctor 537 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: comes out I'm gone through it, so I literally will well. 538 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: I went in thinking like well, I went and thinking 539 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 1: because I'm reading on Google that I'm gonna die. So 540 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 1: I went in thinking, whatever it costs, I'm gonna get it. 541 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 1: So I made them. So they drew blood, they did 542 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,280 Speaker 1: the blood drawing, and they did yarin and tested for everything. 543 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 1: So they're like, by the way, it's gonna take three 544 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 1: to five days. Bitch, we was in Texas. I'm nervous. 545 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh funk, I gotta wait for these 546 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 1: results now. So I get the results and clean nothing. 547 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 1: But now I need to make a reference to a 548 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,960 Speaker 1: guy no to what's going on? Yeah, because I'm just like, okay, 549 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: they're early menopause. Is it like there's just is it 550 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,520 Speaker 1: really just stressed with all the my grandma, well, my 551 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 1: grandma had menopause in her thirties and once you have metapa, Yeah, 552 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: so that's that runs of my family and that my 553 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: mom has. Now, if you were going through menopause, that 554 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:37,680 Speaker 1: would explain a lot. You shut you shut. Anyways, Anyways, 555 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 1: I realized I wasn't gonna sit here and charge Nigga's 556 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 1: three fifty for raw sex for the rest of the year. 557 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 1: So instead I'm gonna use condoms. Mandy, you have to 558 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: still get no I am, but I'm also using condoms. 559 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,360 Speaker 1: What you always talk about using, I do be using gun. 560 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: I ain't never had no worries long seven for all 561 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: them years with goddamn condoms. Period period came out changed. 562 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: Man get it, I get it. I get it, coronavirus, 563 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: all this bullshit. But I did want to say for 564 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: New Yorkers, Um, I only know about two places that 565 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: you could go for free ones in Chelsea, go to 566 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:18,640 Speaker 1: w w W. It's just three. Wouldn't have read it, 567 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 1: but they had three at the World. But it says 568 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: www one dot NYC dot gov. It's sexual health clinics 569 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: that are free. Um, basically you go. Um. I ain't 570 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: on front. I made too much. But I even told 571 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: on myself because I could have lied. They ain't even check. 572 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: But I ain't even saying was under what it was. 573 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: My friends right now they got their own businesses. I 574 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 1: ain't even gonna shut their names out of nothing like that. 575 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 1: All these holes on Medicaid, I said, bitch, do you know? 576 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: But they file their business returns and their personal because 577 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 1: they pay themselves. Something like I could apply for Medicaid, 578 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: but I don't want no Medicare fraud, so I ain't 579 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 1: even gonna sunk with that ship. I'm selling autom holes 580 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: like that. You should not be all medicaid, but you're 581 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: making over tanger in a money. What the fun is 582 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 1: you're doing medicaid? But anyway, wait, whit more in Orlando, 583 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 1: super easy. Don't even have to bring paperwork the center Orlando. 584 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it a honey with you. Okay. I 585 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,600 Speaker 1: went in there and I peed in like a Dixie cup. 586 00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: It wasn't know, like real, but it's free as fuck. 587 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 1: It's an l g bt Q center and they asked 588 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 1: like literally no fucking questions, like just free testing period, 589 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: nothing about myself, nothing, which I thought was dope because 590 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 1: that makes people feel a lot more comfortable. I'm gonna 591 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 1: have to look it up, but yeah, there's definitely some more. 592 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: Maybe we can put some of those on the descriptions 593 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: of this episode. Anyways, the Vanilla Ship, um, it's talking 594 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,840 Speaker 1: about condoms that have extra things to them. So sperm sides, 595 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: tingling gel and other condom add ons are doing more 596 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 1: harm than good. So if you are interested and and 597 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: maybe feeling like you're fully protected. UM, this article on 598 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: New York Times is saying that spermac spermicide and other 599 00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:00,200 Speaker 1: add ons to condoms can have negative effect some of 600 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 1: the vagina um, and it doesn't increase how well a 601 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: condom can actually prevent pregnancy. A sperm side free condom 602 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: with liberal use of an appropriate lubricant is the best 603 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: choice professional health. UM. I'm gonna actually put this link 604 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: as well because it does say that, and I didn't 605 00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,760 Speaker 1: know that when using condoms, they suggest that it's used 606 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,680 Speaker 1: also with lupe, so I know once again. UM. One 607 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 1: of the recent episodes, we talked about how a lot 608 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 1: of women are kind of insecure about having to use 609 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: lube with sex because we feel like we should just 610 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 1: be so wet that the guy knows how much for 611 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,719 Speaker 1: dripping and leaking, and if we're not, we think it's 612 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: something wrong with us. But it is saying that if 613 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: you are using um condoms to prevent irritation, you should 614 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 1: be using condoms with lubricant. UM. So that was interesting 615 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 1: that I thought I never understood the spermacide so as 616 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: you was saying that, I feel like I've learned that 617 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 1: in like eighth grade, the spermacide, that one sperm hits 618 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 1: the condom, that the ship that's on the condoms what 619 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 1: kills the sperm. That's how you prevent but in the condom. 620 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 1: But like, but maybe if it come out the condo, 621 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: but even if it comes out the condom once the air, 622 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying, can I be honest with you, I don't 623 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 1: really believe that should Let me tell you why, because 624 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 1: I was reading some stuff where it's like are they 625 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: myths or not? Like I was looking up some ship 626 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 1: for vanilla ship and it said that there's a common 627 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: saying that when sperm touches the air, it dies, which 628 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 1: is pretty much the case, but it's been proven when 629 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 1: doing um not turkey based in whatever I'm saying, like, 630 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 1: let me meet your with like, yes, God damn, but 631 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 1: yes that it will touch the air for a little bit, 632 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 1: and women are still getting pregnant either they're opening it up, 633 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,640 Speaker 1: they can't, or it's exposed. Not to mention, when men 634 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 1: jerk off and the cup sometimes it can be open 635 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 1: for a little bit. That is not always the case. 636 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,480 Speaker 1: That does make sense. How else do you guys, jerk 637 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: into a cup. It's not all the way. Don't touch 638 00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: their at least into a cup for money. Yet you 639 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 1: only never do it. I've never done that. I know 640 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,000 Speaker 1: people that have done it though that Like I know 641 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 1: people that make a living off that ship I'm saying, 642 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 1: like they like when they're loaded, Like yo, someone that 643 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 1: does this, Like how many kids is one person they limit? 644 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: But that's that's how much we know. Like women are 645 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 1: really like worth way more like our eggs worth thirty 646 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,759 Speaker 1: y'all sparm only worn't like fifty dollars, Like it's a 647 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,600 Speaker 1: huge I think. I don't know if it's you're talking 648 00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,239 Speaker 1: about surrogate prices for like I mean the egg you're 649 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 1: still gonna get like eight grand. I saw it when 650 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: I was probably looking on craigslist. You're getting at least 651 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,560 Speaker 1: eight grand for your eggs. It's like harvesting. You're yeah, bro, 652 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 1: like here you go. I mean it would make sense. 653 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 1: Hold the baby's the womb and everything everything that goes 654 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 1: into reproduction. It would kind of make sense just give 655 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: up an egg to one of my husband's. And I'm 656 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,080 Speaker 1: just really hoping I'm not the friend they asked first, 657 00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,359 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna do it, But like I think about 658 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,440 Speaker 1: it all the time. I'm like, if anybody ask me, 659 00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 1: I'm a few more years from this, Nike taking one 660 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: of my eggs. I just want to have my own 661 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 1: kid first, because I don't want to get too attached. 662 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 1: Other than that, I'll be like, y'all can't wait till 663 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: y'all start hearing um the pregnancy updates from Wheezy. This year, 664 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: it's coming, It's coming. Bro. Every time we're in the studio, 665 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,759 Speaker 1: everyone says, I'm gonna get pregnant this year, but you are, 666 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,759 Speaker 1: and y'all are about the year her pregnancy. I'm not keeping. 667 00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: But then where I get anymore, I am not already said, 668 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be a good mama. Bro. Let me 669 00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 1: tell you how. There's a hollo. We're not. You're not 670 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:42,320 Speaker 1: gonna squeeze bad, she said, I wanted to. I'm not 671 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,960 Speaker 1: watching the baby. Say I'm gonna watched the baby for you. 672 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: She told me that. Now I know there was a context. 673 00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, when I get pregnant, I 674 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: move up to New York so she can watch the baby. 675 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 1: She's like, that's not what I mean. I mean, I'm 676 00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 1: gonna watch the nanny watched the baby to make sure 677 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: she'll do nothing to it. She's hap be a bad mom. 678 00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: I think she said, was my mom used, you're gonna 679 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,640 Speaker 1: you ain't. You ain't gonna be a mama. She really 680 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: thinks I'm never gonna happin if you're a great mom. 681 00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, honestly, do think you'd be a great 682 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 1: mom just because you have that whole emotional thing. Yeah, yeah, 683 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 1: that oxy toasting. They're getting all that for me. It's 684 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: funny because I was just talking to my mom. I 685 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,919 Speaker 1: was like, bitch, what you did to us? Because all 686 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 1: of so, I grew up with two sisters. I'm about 687 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: to be thirty, my other sisters about nine. My other 688 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 1: sister is about to be twenty two or twenty three. 689 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,279 Speaker 1: I'd be freaking her age, I do, I know. I'd 690 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,080 Speaker 1: just be fregetting She was one of seven, so whatever 691 00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 1: the math is for that. Um, and none of us 692 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: have kids, mind you, I don't want kids. The sister 693 00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 1: under me can't really have kids because of epilepsy. But 694 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 1: she's also a lesbian, she don't really want kids. And 695 00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 1: then the one in the army she hates niggas just 696 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: like me. So I'm just like, Mom, you ain't never 697 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: gonna be a grandma. You better wait till I get 698 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 1: a kitten, because I'm gonna get a kidten after the tour. 699 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: Are you fucking what? Didn't what? Bro? This is? This 700 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: is the whitest thing ever. You know the black people. 701 00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:14,399 Speaker 1: I have cats, bitch, I love them. Well, I'm gonna 702 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: it's gonna be like me. I'm gonna make sure that 703 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:20,839 Speaker 1: cat has my personality. So it's gonna be you're drawing. 704 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 1: Did you just call me the sea word? You know 705 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:25,799 Speaker 1: what we're gonna get Before we get into this week's 706 00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 1: horrible decision, We're gonna get into another sponsor for this 707 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 1: week's episode. This week's episode, Guys is brought to you 708 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 1: by dipsy Um. I'm excited for um all of these 709 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:42,600 Speaker 1: apps that are bringing in just sexual awareness and focus 710 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,520 Speaker 1: on my happy man that this wasn't my idea, I 711 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 1: think um. I literally was reading the app, I was like, 712 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:52,359 Speaker 1: keep fucking kidding me. 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We are gonna skip y'all know, 746 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:37,640 Speaker 1: I like my little segment, but we gotta skip some 747 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: of these homes so we can get into the horrible 748 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 1: decision because, um, again, this is because we pre record. 749 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,359 Speaker 1: I'm excited to bring some of what's just been going 750 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 1: on in pop culture and getting you guys takes on 751 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,920 Speaker 1: what's been happening in other people's relationships, in your thoughts. Um. 752 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: So I'm not sure if you guys have heard the interview, 753 00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:59,839 Speaker 1: but little Baby y'all heard. He got a whole bunch 754 00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:02,600 Speaker 1: of I'm going on with all these girls saying they 755 00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 1: fucked him or whatever. But anyways, We're not going to 756 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 1: talk about the back and forth with the Instagram UM models. Instead, 757 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 1: I want to talk about his take on relationships. UM 758 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:17,000 Speaker 1: Little Baby says he isn't in love despite currently being 759 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 1: in a relationship with the baby mother of his child, Jada. 760 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 1: He says that he can funk with you, but not 761 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: love you. UM. I wanted to ask you guys as 762 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 1: thoughts on whether you can be with someone and not 763 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 1: love them. What constitutes you actually loving somebody? And when 764 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:37,759 Speaker 1: do you know you love somebody? So let's start with 765 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: the first one. I want to know what are your 766 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,439 Speaker 1: thoughts on whether or not you can be with someone 767 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 1: and not love them. I think that's just partnership. Yeah, 768 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 1: that's partnership. Like the same way when you when you 769 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 1: originally when you first meet someone, you're only just meeting 770 00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,560 Speaker 1: someone's representative. You don't love them. You're drawn to them 771 00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 1: or connected to them, but you don't love them. Once 772 00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,399 Speaker 1: you get in the relationship phase, that's when you start 773 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,839 Speaker 1: to develop the love and then manifests into something else. 774 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,719 Speaker 1: When when do you know that it's beyond like and 775 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,520 Speaker 1: you actually love them? Because he was like, Yo, I 776 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,040 Speaker 1: really funk with her. I funk with her, and you 777 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 1: know I got love for her, but I'm not in love, 778 00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 1: he said, he hasn't been in love with a woman. 779 00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,960 Speaker 1: When do both of you guys know that you've reached 780 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,000 Speaker 1: the love phase in a relationship. I know mine, what 781 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:24,760 Speaker 1: is yours? I think when I start um feeling empowered 782 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 1: by that person, not just somebody being like, oh yeah, 783 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 1: you're killing it in your podcast, I mean strategically thinking 784 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,320 Speaker 1: of how to help me grow. And when I'm concerned 785 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,920 Speaker 1: about themselves, about them almost like a family member, it 786 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 1: gets real family. It's weird, but it's not weird. Though 787 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 1: that's not weird. That's the start of it. I believe 788 00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 1: that I'm big on that. Like love for me is 789 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 1: everything else. But sex, Yeah, it's everything else. Best sex 790 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 1: is the caveat that's the cherry on top. That's that 791 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,439 Speaker 1: doesn't define it. Like it's the same way you people 792 00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 1: have one night stands all the time. That doesn't mean 793 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:58,919 Speaker 1: that you're in love with the person. It just means 794 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 1: you just see, there's is what I was trying to 795 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,919 Speaker 1: tell you seven. It was just sex. All of those 796 00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:07,000 Speaker 1: other elements. Fuck you, I don't like your face right now, 797 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:09,439 Speaker 1: but all of those other elements like y'all are saying 798 00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:12,839 Speaker 1: that would lead you to love someone or like someone 799 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,880 Speaker 1: beyond that which I cut like we never got there. 800 00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: I feel like you loved him, And this is no shame. 801 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: I'm being so serious for what he did to you. 802 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,480 Speaker 1: Make me come when you got upset. It was me, 803 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,920 Speaker 1: you and Shan Booty at lunch and when I heard 804 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 1: the way that he you were so disappointed that he 805 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 1: could have thought something like that of you. But but that, 806 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,120 Speaker 1: to me is my ego. But no, I really think 807 00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,239 Speaker 1: that it became from a place of hurt because you 808 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,719 Speaker 1: expected more from a person you've known so long. Yeah, 809 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:45,920 Speaker 1: I did expect more from but like to me, it 810 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,400 Speaker 1: looked like not like you were crying, but like it 811 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:53,680 Speaker 1: was like not but to me, here you hear, But 812 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 1: yeah I was. I was pissed. I could be pissed 813 00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,320 Speaker 1: without here's my question. Why why were you pissed? I 814 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,560 Speaker 1: think it's more so my ego. So I'm not gonna 815 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:05,040 Speaker 1: lie even with the so so here's the thing, um, 816 00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 1: and even for like the women listening, um who maybe 817 00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:09,920 Speaker 1: have been dealing with people for a long time, like 818 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:12,360 Speaker 1: there's still people in my phone that I was fucking 819 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,360 Speaker 1: went in high school, the lovers that I have currently 820 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 1: in my life that's known me through being poor, through 821 00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,560 Speaker 1: moving from Miami to New York and Atlanta, and just 822 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 1: the growth that they've seen over the last decade. Although 823 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 1: I'm still literally the same person personality wise and what 824 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:34,439 Speaker 1: I give to people, I've I've grown as a person. 825 00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 1: I've had a lot of growth over the years. So 826 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 1: to me knowing that I'm getting that respect from people 827 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,480 Speaker 1: who have seen me grow from someone who's been in 828 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 1: my life for seven years, literally from the start of 829 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: me starting college, making it through college, starting my first job. 830 00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 1: He's known us since the start of this podcast, and 831 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,440 Speaker 1: seeing where we've taken this podcast, I expected him to 832 00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:58,319 Speaker 1: have the same respect for me in that sense as 833 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:02,680 Speaker 1: my lovers have, and so in that instance, I felt 834 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 1: not only a level of disrespect, but my pride was 835 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,320 Speaker 1: shot because it's like, my nigga, you know everything that 836 00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:10,320 Speaker 1: I've been through over the last seven years, So for 837 00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,480 Speaker 1: you to almost demean me as being something less than 838 00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,879 Speaker 1: what we both know me to be now, I felt like, damn, 839 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:18,360 Speaker 1: so you're still looking at me as the bitch that 840 00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 1: you met seven years ago, because I'm not that bitch anymore. 841 00:44:21,480 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 1: So that's really that's really to me what it was. 842 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,840 Speaker 1: But now hold on, this is my only thing just 843 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:29,319 Speaker 1: playing Devil's advocate. Did you ever set a boundary where 844 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 1: you guys had that conversation and said, Yo, we've been 845 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,200 Speaker 1: doing this for X amount of years. I think we're 846 00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: a little bit more than that, and you sound like 847 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:37,640 Speaker 1: my friends. So I pretty much just goes to him, 848 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 1: we haven't since Octobers, and you grow up. That's you. 849 00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 1: That's your fault. You can't get mad at him if 850 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:46,520 Speaker 1: you never told him how you felt. But to me, 851 00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 1: but to me, that level of communication, we like it's 852 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,160 Speaker 1: seven years, I know. But then to me, I think 853 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:56,560 Speaker 1: I did just that and then like feeling and you're 854 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:58,840 Speaker 1: feeling should be hurt though, but not for those reasons. 855 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:01,120 Speaker 1: You just you just failed to come municate. He don't 856 00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,719 Speaker 1: know that he'd probably gonna hear this ship and be like, 857 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 1: oh ship were like I don't even know, Like, had 858 00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 1: you communicate, you probably would have been there. Ye. To me, 859 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,200 Speaker 1: my ego is just like it goes back to my 860 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: point of effective communication. Communication sults everything, the overthinking, the 861 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 1: emotional ship, the times where things are just running around 862 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 1: your brain, help the skeleton. You're thinking, I go to therapist. 863 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: I go to therapy. Well, I feel like I didn't 864 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 1: talk that way until going to therapy, Like I always 865 00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:29,600 Speaker 1: like to think that I like to talk things through, 866 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: but I didn't understand how to do it effectively and 867 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,520 Speaker 1: how much it was worth until therapy. Well, no, I'm 868 00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,560 Speaker 1: big on therapy, but even outside that, I've always been 869 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:38,919 Speaker 1: like this. I just don't talk like this is everyone 870 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: because everyone can't hear real ship. That's really what it is. 871 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,279 Speaker 1: So when platforms like this where you guys get it, 872 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:47,279 Speaker 1: it makes sense everyone can't hear real things like that. 873 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,840 Speaker 1: Most people can't couldn't hear. Hey, that's your fault and 874 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,960 Speaker 1: understand it, Like I said that to you and you 875 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 1: got it, because it's just communication. Someone someone less savvy 876 00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,120 Speaker 1: in a relationship or just in moving about, they wouldn't 877 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,000 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. They because a communicator or someone 878 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,719 Speaker 1: that can be good at communicating also has to be 879 00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,239 Speaker 1: someone that can take feedback, like you have to know 880 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,440 Speaker 1: when I'm talking to you, like you have to take 881 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 1: the help to me. It's also um a big thing 882 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 1: with confrontation. I'm not a fan of confrontation, and to me, 883 00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:24,919 Speaker 1: there there. I mean, I don't especially to me someone 884 00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:29,040 Speaker 1: where we're not necessarily grow like I don't argue with 885 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 1: pretty much anybody like me and my friends don't get 886 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,720 Speaker 1: into any b for drama, like I love my friends. 887 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 1: And then as far as my lover is, there's really 888 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:39,120 Speaker 1: not anything to argue about unless they don't give me 889 00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:40,600 Speaker 1: something when I wanted, you know what I mean, Like, 890 00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 1: so there's not really any real confrontation. And so I 891 00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:46,840 Speaker 1: guess in the sense of not only dating, but in 892 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 1: that situation, I was just like, instead of me even 893 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 1: hearing what he has to say back, I was just like, 894 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,919 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go said I'm not interested, just because 895 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 1: I felt like it would be a back and forth. 896 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: Don't that don't help you, because what happens is now 897 00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,680 Speaker 1: you're sitting here feeling the way, and he over here chilling. 898 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:01,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Like, well I'm chilling that because I'm not 899 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 1: interested in him anymore. Now you are. But six months 900 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:09,840 Speaker 1: later and I'm still what I only agree and I 901 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 1: don't know. I've done it two ways, right, I've done 902 00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 1: the ghosting thing, but sometimes sometimes you do sometimes kind 903 00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,440 Speaker 1: of a toxic nigger that's about to say when it's 904 00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 1: when it's a toxic person. But sometimes you have to 905 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 1: say something, almost like a Miliorities taught me that she 906 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,160 Speaker 1: came on I think her episode was eight. We had 907 00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,680 Speaker 1: like a breakup episode with her and she talked about 908 00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,160 Speaker 1: cutting cords and how like sometimes it ain't even for them, 909 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 1: it's like for you, it's for you. Sometimes you have 910 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,920 Speaker 1: to say when you got it off your chest, he 911 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 1: knows what you meant, what not, even back and forth. 912 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,399 Speaker 1: Just cut them, even if it never even fixes, even 913 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:45,640 Speaker 1: vice versa, like me talking to my significant significant other 914 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 1: or whomever. As long as I know I share what 915 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,359 Speaker 1: I'm good, I will sit in peace. You could yell, 916 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: do whatever, at least you know what it was. But 917 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 1: the moment you don't, it does way more for you 918 00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,600 Speaker 1: on you than what it does for them. Yeah, way 919 00:47:57,680 --> 00:47:59,759 Speaker 1: more because it's your hangdu well, we don't want this 920 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 1: because I feel like I'm being technogisal. Uh So the 921 00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:05,839 Speaker 1: next conversation I wanted to talk about if you guys 922 00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:10,399 Speaker 1: have seen what's been going on UM. Relationships UM, specifically 923 00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,359 Speaker 1: in the realm of celebrity are often on and off. 924 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:15,840 Speaker 1: So you've got Kailani and yg who just broke up 925 00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: for the second time recently Big Sean and Janet Ako 926 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,560 Speaker 1: Um who are back dating. Um. We know the card 927 00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 1: we know the Cardian. Also, I have been back and forth. 928 00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,839 Speaker 1: Apparently Lorie Harvey just posted a dog that she got 929 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:28,640 Speaker 1: two years ago from the Nigga Future and he had 930 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,440 Speaker 1: five babies in the last two years. I don't know 931 00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,680 Speaker 1: what relationship they got, but I wanted to talk about 932 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,879 Speaker 1: on and off relationships. How many times is too many 933 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,280 Speaker 1: times to go back to a relationship that is toxic. 934 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:45,320 Speaker 1: I think toxic is subject to for example, okay, the 935 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:48,480 Speaker 1: Cardian offset thing right. I saw someone called the relationship toxic, 936 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,239 Speaker 1: but I don't think it really is. This is a 937 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:53,920 Speaker 1: fun thing to say, but I'll just keep it hunt it. 938 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,320 Speaker 1: He's a hood nigger, she's a hood bitch. He'd be 939 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 1: fucking group behold, She'd be getting online and yelling and 940 00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 1: getting mad about it, and they make it up public thing. 941 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:03,759 Speaker 1: But I don't necessarily think that's toxicity. I think that 942 00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,640 Speaker 1: that's just the way they handle it. And I don't 943 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:07,919 Speaker 1: think that doesn't mean there's love there. I think they're 944 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:11,359 Speaker 1: just not the average couple that knows how to keep 945 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,640 Speaker 1: their ship to themselves, like they're used to their she 946 00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 1: is just a boisterous but cheating not toxic. That the 947 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,880 Speaker 1: cheating that part of the toxic part. I don't know 948 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 1: the level is. I think cheating is obviously it's disloyal, 949 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:27,480 Speaker 1: is designics. I don't know about toxic if you keepetting 950 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 1: toxic situation if you do, but I don't know if 951 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:36,120 Speaker 1: she's still getting like, here's what toxic is to me, right, 952 00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,520 Speaker 1: cheating if you can't deal with it. If it's not, 953 00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,320 Speaker 1: I don't know what their agreement is. I'm assuming a 954 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:43,880 Speaker 1: bit like Hardy might let him. I don't know, not 955 00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:50,239 Speaker 1: the way well, but I think they I think they 956 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,279 Speaker 1: both battle with that just because of who they are 957 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 1: on their stars, like that's a lot, but they're huge 958 00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:58,920 Speaker 1: to me. If they do have any arrangement of some 959 00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,040 Speaker 1: sort where he is a out to fun things. I 960 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 1: think the problem too when it comes to where she's embarrassed, 961 00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 1: because now the bitch is posting so like you don't 962 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 1: with no messy home. But what I'm thinking toxic, I 963 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,240 Speaker 1: guess I'm thinking of and I guess it's just general 964 00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:16,040 Speaker 1: use of the word lately. Maybe it's whether it's in 965 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 1: the show or in my recent you know, endeavors with 966 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,319 Speaker 1: people like toxic would be a relationship that I wasn't 967 00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:22,800 Speaker 1: sure was going on. Somebody was leading me on a 968 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:25,319 Speaker 1: lot of gas lighting. Yeah, man, that I knew wasn't 969 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,959 Speaker 1: good for me. Like Future, he's toxic. Agree, he's toxic. 970 00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 1: I'm just asking. I don't horrible decisions. Maybe that was 971 00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:39,439 Speaker 1: a horrible decision to ask. Don't think of that because 972 00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 1: of how he talks about women, Do you not think 973 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:47,040 Speaker 1: that he's toxic? And what we've seen in the realm 974 00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 1: of what what how he behaves, would you consider what 975 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 1: he does to be toxic? Yeah? Absolutely, I said, from 976 00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,480 Speaker 1: what I've seen be really piping his girl up. So 977 00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,120 Speaker 1: he seems to really be showing the love. He's just 978 00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 1: the Future seems like a fucking dog. Seems like a 979 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: dog to me. He obviously loves his girl. He's trying 980 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:11,320 Speaker 1: to be you can see him trying to fix it. 981 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,279 Speaker 1: Ye Wait, not right for my niggas A lot of 982 00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:18,879 Speaker 1: my vide Future leaking disrecords to the girls. Really, it's 983 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 1: really don't know. We gotta talk about that. Wait, what 984 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:25,360 Speaker 1: did Drake do? So is Drake toxic with his relationship 985 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:28,600 Speaker 1: with Babe? Drake is definitely toxic. D is emotional kefinitely. 986 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:30,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if he's toxic, So I think he 987 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,720 Speaker 1: know he's toxic, but in a way where it benefits 988 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 1: him as an artist, like it fuels him to make 989 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:40,800 Speaker 1: good records based off of this toxicity. Yes, and no, 990 00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,960 Speaker 1: I think he shows his emotions on his sleeve. And 991 00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 1: we don't get that out of a lot of artists. 992 00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 1: Name me one Drake record where he wasn't talking about 993 00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,399 Speaker 1: a girl where they either left him or he thought 994 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:56,080 Speaker 1: they were the one. Now we're here, right, nigga, Let 995 00:51:56,120 --> 00:52:01,800 Speaker 1: me think I thought about money? Yeah, yeah, but that 996 00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:09,239 Speaker 1: even that, even that siga but amount of times he 997 00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,759 Speaker 1: did make the little kim what I'm saying in every 998 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,080 Speaker 1: damn every record, I see what he's saying. Jake likes 999 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,440 Speaker 1: to talk about it. It's a marketing thing. It's a 1000 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:20,399 Speaker 1: good guy. Most artists talk about women, That's what I'm saying. 1001 00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 1: There's a difference though he does it. We just like it, 1002 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 1: future does it where it's kind of like really because 1003 00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,759 Speaker 1: Drake is a very relatable person from the sense that 1004 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,719 Speaker 1: he's a rapper who is a huge entertainer and superstar, 1005 00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,279 Speaker 1: but doesn't give me rapper energy all the time. When 1006 00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:37,000 Speaker 1: I think about a rapper, I think a Rick Ross 1007 00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:42,719 Speaker 1: of the future. And he used to be like, he's 1008 00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:46,520 Speaker 1: like a different life. He's polished. Yes, he is media trained. Yeah, 1009 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,279 Speaker 1: here's the lyrics that he said. I really thought this 1010 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,480 Speaker 1: was sucked up. Um, And everybody's like, I don't know 1011 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:55,000 Speaker 1: what you expected on him. So the lyric is, um, 1012 00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,840 Speaker 1: baby mama, baby mama fluke. But I love her for 1013 00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: who she is now Fluke definition is an unlikely chance 1014 00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:05,640 Speaker 1: our currents, especially a surprising piece of luck. So basically 1015 00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 1: they're saying, which, yes, he did not want her to 1016 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:12,920 Speaker 1: be his first baby mother. He was embarrassed. Um. I 1017 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:17,480 Speaker 1: think maybe he expected himself to have a higher quality 1018 00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:20,399 Speaker 1: of a woman for someone to be so public, Um, 1019 00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:25,320 Speaker 1: I really but I'm sorry, but I really hate hearing that, 1020 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,839 Speaker 1: because what is a higher quality woman Mary Harvey? Because 1021 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:33,120 Speaker 1: she's kid. No, we're not gonna do that. Everyone has standards, artists. Know. 1022 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:36,839 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, you can't be mad at him 1023 00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,560 Speaker 1: for feeling like, hey, I lowered my standards. I should 1024 00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 1: have caned her. But you don't feel about future right now? 1025 00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,920 Speaker 1: Not something Yeah, I used to drug Dylan Niggas Okay, 1026 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,320 Speaker 1: I have nobody to blame by myself if one of 1027 00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,319 Speaker 1: them get me pregnant, I know exactly what I'm doing. 1028 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,319 Speaker 1: I also know that when I'm sucking them niggas, they 1029 00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 1: could do better. But that's that's my point. You know 1030 00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 1: that you could do better. You're indulging because you want to, however, 1031 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 1: not because you have to because you talk about me 1032 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:09,759 Speaker 1: in a fucking song. I a context, because we all 1033 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,040 Speaker 1: know that he feels like he could do better. But like, 1034 00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,560 Speaker 1: you really just gonna go out and say that ship 1035 00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 1: when you're the one, it's your choice. I was gonna say, 1036 00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 1: here's my problem, and it's the same thing that Future 1037 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 1: is currently doing by not paying child support, by even 1038 00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:25,719 Speaker 1: taking as Eliza Rain one of the baby moms. He 1039 00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:29,719 Speaker 1: won't even take this, but here's the thing. He knows 1040 00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:31,759 Speaker 1: he sucked her. And the thing is still with Drake. 1041 00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:35,560 Speaker 1: If you fuck a woman raw, like, even if she's 1042 00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 1: a fluke and she's not to your caliber, at the 1043 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,640 Speaker 1: point that a man sucks a woman raw, you're opening 1044 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,920 Speaker 1: the gates to either catching something from her or getting 1045 00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:45,880 Speaker 1: her pregnant. That's it. There's only the one piece of context. 1046 00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say and trust me, I do not want 1047 00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:49,440 Speaker 1: to be against a woman on this one, right, But 1048 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like if I'm this high status 1049 00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:54,040 Speaker 1: of a rapper and I have no if I sucked 1050 00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,399 Speaker 1: the bitch, like I don't. I don't know how their 1051 00:54:56,440 --> 00:54:59,439 Speaker 1: sex went or whatever. But if I feel like you said, 1052 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,239 Speaker 1: I know, if we don't know if they sucked, he wrong, 1053 00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:10,520 Speaker 1: We don't know if like she's like maybe yours. These 1054 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:14,000 Speaker 1: celebrity niggas don't be asking for condoms. They just think 1055 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:17,840 Speaker 1: they're invincible to all things. So I would I wouldn't do. 1056 00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:23,200 Speaker 1: And I have a friend future like no, I'm serious. 1057 00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,160 Speaker 1: She just closed to that picture of her she just 1058 00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,880 Speaker 1: bought herself at home, and he posted proud of you, 1059 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,440 Speaker 1: and I guess. In the same day, Russell Wilson posted 1060 00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:34,399 Speaker 1: his son and he thought you and his little league game, 1061 00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 1: and everybody's like, wow, you see the difference, And I'm 1062 00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:39,520 Speaker 1: just gonna be I just feel like, why does everyone 1063 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,319 Speaker 1: carries me the fucking robber bro just because that whole 1064 00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:46,239 Speaker 1: ship's messy, Like that's the really thing about at the 1065 00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:47,600 Speaker 1: end of the day, that kid is going to be 1066 00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:49,439 Speaker 1: the one that's gonna be impacted once the kid gets 1067 00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:53,759 Speaker 1: older and can go back, we expect. But what's also 1068 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,360 Speaker 1: the thing is, I think Future likes to come across 1069 00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:59,239 Speaker 1: like he's not affected by what's going on, when he 1070 00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:01,840 Speaker 1: really is. He shouldn't be affected though he can't. And 1071 00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,520 Speaker 1: I'll tell you how. I know. Why do you mean 1072 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:05,880 Speaker 1: he shouldn't be affected. He's an artist, he's a rapper, 1073 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,120 Speaker 1: he's an entertainer. You can't go out and wear your 1074 00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:10,240 Speaker 1: heart and sleep. Most people can't do that. His brand 1075 00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:13,480 Speaker 1: is not to be emotional and talking about he shouldn't 1076 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,920 Speaker 1: be affected in the Yeah, in the eyes of the 1077 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 1: public is what I'm saying. You're never going to see him. 1078 00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:20,440 Speaker 1: I don't think at no point this entire year will 1079 00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,279 Speaker 1: you ever see him. Turnover at Leaf and said, Yo, 1080 00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know what's sad about that? I was 1081 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,320 Speaker 1: just thinking when you were talking about that, Um, what 1082 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,879 Speaker 1: fucking rapper boasts about being a good like I think 1083 00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,440 Speaker 1: of kids like that's about the only thing you hear. 1084 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:39,000 Speaker 1: No rapper ever really talks about being a great parent, 1085 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:47,759 Speaker 1: And it made me think about it. I don't know 1086 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:53,239 Speaker 1: about like a big family. Le well, he doesn't really talk. 1087 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 1: He doesn't really talk about his family like that though 1088 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,919 Speaker 1: he'll he'll mention it here in a social media post 1089 00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:02,239 Speaker 1: right he posted his dog her which q offset posts kids. 1090 00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:07,040 Speaker 1: But I mean lyrically like who really, like, Like it's 1091 00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:11,120 Speaker 1: just not really what rappersucking do. So it's just like 1092 00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:12,920 Speaker 1: that's why I'm like, what are we gonna expect out 1093 00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,200 Speaker 1: of him? You know? And it's weird. Like when I 1094 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:17,840 Speaker 1: was watching the Kobe funeral, I was like, bro, if 1095 00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:19,880 Speaker 1: this whole thing doesn't make you want to be a 1096 00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,000 Speaker 1: good dad, like, I don't know how men could watch 1097 00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,680 Speaker 1: that and not want to be in That whole experience 1098 00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:28,440 Speaker 1: made me want to be a better person though, Like 1099 00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,320 Speaker 1: I felt like that whole thing, like even now still 1100 00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 1: feel surreal. I don't really feel like he's gone. Yeah, 1101 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:35,680 Speaker 1: I don't feel like it hasn't hit me yet, but 1102 00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 1: the impact. Yeah, I was a brunch and got the 1103 00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:44,640 Speaker 1: update and I'll never forget. I looked at whatever, how 1104 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:47,360 Speaker 1: did you guys feel about people saying um, I thought 1105 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,760 Speaker 1: what Vanessa did was amazing, but I read some comments 1106 00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,960 Speaker 1: that said she seemed emotionless, and I was like, clearly 1107 00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:54,600 Speaker 1: they put her on his Danex before she got out there, 1108 00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,920 Speaker 1: because I wouldn't need a one people genuinely were like 1109 00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:02,280 Speaker 1: to say, I think people grieve differently. They I honestly 1110 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,000 Speaker 1: don't even think that she is aware of it yet, 1111 00:58:05,280 --> 00:58:07,280 Speaker 1: Like it hasn't really hit her, hasn't hit I think 1112 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:10,320 Speaker 1: she was most impacted by her by G Like you 1113 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 1: can see it, like when she was talking about Kobe. 1114 00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:14,560 Speaker 1: It was obviously you can see the hurt when she 1115 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,920 Speaker 1: went to G. She's experienced more love from I mean, 1116 00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,400 Speaker 1: more life from Kobe, but that was like her baby girl, 1117 00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:22,760 Speaker 1: like you could you could see it, you could see 1118 00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:26,000 Speaker 1: the hurt. I think for her it's a balancing act, right, 1119 00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,280 Speaker 1: Like she's still trying to balance out how she feels 1120 00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:30,600 Speaker 1: emotionally between all of this. And then on top of it, 1121 00:58:31,360 --> 00:58:34,320 Speaker 1: you know that people are looking for you to funk 1122 00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:36,880 Speaker 1: this up. I thought I thought those comments were cold. 1123 00:58:36,960 --> 00:58:39,920 Speaker 1: I saw one on MSNBC where someone said that, and 1124 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 1: I was shocked. Me to me, we have now opened 1125 00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:47,800 Speaker 1: up ourselves to see how strong Kobe was like as 1126 00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:49,680 Speaker 1: a leader, as a basketball player, as a father, as 1127 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:53,439 Speaker 1: a person. So to me, Um, I think it says 1128 00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:56,640 Speaker 1: a lot about we know the type of partners we choose. 1129 00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,919 Speaker 1: You wouldn't be with no weak as Nigga or no broke, 1130 00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:02,880 Speaker 1: asked Nigga or anyone that you feel like wouldn't match 1131 00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,280 Speaker 1: up to the person that you see yourself as. And 1132 00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 1: seeing that we saw the level that Kobe has exuded 1133 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:10,880 Speaker 1: over throughout his life, it would make sense that he 1134 00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:13,160 Speaker 1: would have a strong partner. And because we haven't gotten 1135 00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:15,280 Speaker 1: to seven us over the years, this is us first 1136 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,320 Speaker 1: time really getting to see how she was. But I 1137 00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:21,720 Speaker 1: don't think he would have chose a weak partner the 1138 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,200 Speaker 1: whole time I watched it when she first started, because 1139 00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:28,200 Speaker 1: I saw her Lauren was a little more broken, but 1140 00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:30,880 Speaker 1: that's why I said, but it was also just her man, 1141 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:33,600 Speaker 1: and it wasn't twenty years. And I'm not saying one 1142 00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:36,360 Speaker 1: ways more than the other, but I mean, you lose 1143 00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:39,920 Speaker 1: your kid and your husband the same. That's not that 1144 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,560 Speaker 1: Nipsey wasn't tragic. And the fact that you find out 1145 00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:45,160 Speaker 1: about it on social media, that's that That was the 1146 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:46,720 Speaker 1: part for me. It was just like, I know they 1147 00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:51,000 Speaker 1: gave her something to keep her straight because honestly, how sound. 1148 00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:53,080 Speaker 1: I don't even know how she's functioning now, like even 1149 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,320 Speaker 1: if she could, because I couldn't watch that Kobe like 1150 00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,240 Speaker 1: for you, I was crying too much. I was like, 1151 00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:00,160 Speaker 1: I'll watch bits and pieces. Yeah, I saw just the 1152 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:01,760 Speaker 1: one part where she spoke about Kobe and went to 1153 01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Gig and you could just see it like she was 1154 01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:05,720 Speaker 1: once it went to g She was trying to hold 1155 01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:08,000 Speaker 1: it together, like you could see it. And I was like, 1156 01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:12,440 Speaker 1: let me turn crazy now, just because um, seeing everything 1157 01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:17,720 Speaker 1: um in the media now, like with people losing children, 1158 01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,920 Speaker 1: it's like that's a grief that you know, thank God, 1159 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:24,320 Speaker 1: knock on wood. I haven't, but when I see it, 1160 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:28,840 Speaker 1: I literally always say, I don't know how people continue 1161 01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:31,680 Speaker 1: after losing people so close to them like that. That's 1162 01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:33,160 Speaker 1: really crazy. Before we get out of here, though, I 1163 01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:36,160 Speaker 1: did want to read through homemail real quick. UM, and 1164 01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:40,000 Speaker 1: this one, I'm sorry said home male male. Yes, you 1165 01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:41,960 Speaker 1: know it's a little bit of homel and even the virgins, 1166 01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:45,760 Speaker 1: this one is real home howing virgins have homema? What baby? 1167 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,760 Speaker 1: We met virgins at me, Well, they weren't virgins at 1168 01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:50,680 Speaker 1: our Houston show. I wish I knew their name. These 1169 01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:52,120 Speaker 1: girls came up and says and said, oh, they were 1170 01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:54,240 Speaker 1: Latin and chicks. We had a podcast when we were 1171 01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:56,440 Speaker 1: in college. We were virgins speaking about sex. But we 1172 01:00:56,480 --> 01:00:58,640 Speaker 1: were holed, we'd be second dick and fingering, but they 1173 01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:01,680 Speaker 1: weren't having penetrated sex. I was a home before I 1174 01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:09,320 Speaker 1: was sucking. Yeah. But and then I actually made one 1175 01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,640 Speaker 1: of the friend Zone Live show. Um, and I'm hoping 1176 01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:14,400 Speaker 1: she can come on version. She's the twenty six year 1177 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:18,560 Speaker 1: old version, so like, that's pretty interesting. Um. So the 1178 01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 1: whole mail for this week again, If you guys have 1179 01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:24,200 Speaker 1: any homemails, please send them to Horrible Decisions at gmail 1180 01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,400 Speaker 1: dot com. This one's a quick one and I actually 1181 01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:28,640 Speaker 1: had to do some research for it. I'm also curious 1182 01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:32,640 Speaker 1: to know if you guys know the answer to it. So, hey, guys, 1183 01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:37,400 Speaker 1: just a quick question. Can a couple create clamidia or 1184 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,360 Speaker 1: is it something that is contracted by having sex with 1185 01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:42,440 Speaker 1: multiple people. I've been with my boyfriend now for four years. 1186 01:01:42,800 --> 01:01:45,040 Speaker 1: I have not cheated on him, but I recently got 1187 01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,680 Speaker 1: tested and the doc said it's plamidia. Helped me. She 1188 01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:50,919 Speaker 1: wrote me, this girl wrote I guess she wrote many 1189 01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:52,960 Speaker 1: separately too, at like two am a few weeks ago, 1190 01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:59,840 Speaker 1: I was in the clubs. Is that a real question? 1191 01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,400 Speaker 1: It is a real question. I was embarrassed reading it, 1192 01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:08,840 Speaker 1: and then she wrote me back. Um, emails. I sent 1193 01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,600 Speaker 1: it to the horrible email because I wanted to talk 1194 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 1: about it. Um no what's her name? No? No, No, 1195 01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:17,959 Speaker 1: he can't create cheated. It's not living dormant. It didn't 1196 01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 1: just wake up and it happened. He gave it to you. Like. 1197 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 1: What really killed me about it was I looked at 1198 01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,360 Speaker 1: the time and I was thinking to myself, like, if 1199 01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:30,600 Speaker 1: you wrote a fucking podcast this late at night, this 1200 01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 1: nigga really had your mind working, your pH been off, 1201 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:39,440 Speaker 1: I've been whatever. She wrote me at sixty four pm 1202 01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,320 Speaker 1: on another day. So yeah, she wrote, and I just 1203 01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:45,520 Speaker 1: talking about yeah, so yeah, she wrote me the next day. Maybe. 1204 01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:47,920 Speaker 1: So I ended up looking into this because I was like, 1205 01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 1: I don't really know how STDs or maybe people can't 1206 01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,760 Speaker 1: create it together. I don't know, but STDs and in infidelity. 1207 01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:57,440 Speaker 1: So guys, if you're in a long term relationship and 1208 01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:01,480 Speaker 1: come across a positive result for STD, UM, I did 1209 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:05,320 Speaker 1: find that there are three ways that a couple can UM. Actually, 1210 01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:10,840 Speaker 1: now it's very well. Com it very well. If you 1211 01:03:10,960 --> 01:03:13,480 Speaker 1: become infected, it may not mean your partner cheated. Here 1212 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 1: are the three things. So your partner may have pre 1213 01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:19,720 Speaker 1: existing infections. UM, you guys have been together for four years, 1214 01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:22,080 Speaker 1: so this may not be the case for you. But 1215 01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 1: it does talk about the incubation period, so, um, your 1216 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,880 Speaker 1: partner may not have seen any sort of symptoms from 1217 01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,440 Speaker 1: the STD and then you guys got together and then 1218 01:03:32,520 --> 01:03:36,960 Speaker 1: got tested moving forward. Um, there's also the possibility of 1219 01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,240 Speaker 1: treatment failure. So an STD that occurs in a monogamous 1220 01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:43,680 Speaker 1: partner may actually be the reoccurrence of a previous infection 1221 01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:48,200 Speaker 1: that was treated but unsuccessfully. Some STDs are thoughts to 1222 01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,959 Speaker 1: have been resolved after treatment may defy. That's the same answer. 1223 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:53,760 Speaker 1: It's just pretty that's about to exist necessarily. They really, 1224 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:55,640 Speaker 1: they really trying to figure this out. They are. And 1225 01:03:55,680 --> 01:04:00,640 Speaker 1: then I oh, she wrote back and says, thank you 1226 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:03,280 Speaker 1: so much for the quick response. And so it's only 1227 01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,800 Speaker 1: oral or intercourse. So like he must have said, which 1228 01:04:06,880 --> 01:04:10,400 Speaker 1: we shook hands, we got corona from chlamydia. It was airborne. 1229 01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:13,240 Speaker 1: I swear to God for her to ask that. Wait, wait, 1230 01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:16,040 Speaker 1: she asked, I can't believe that was a real quick 1231 01:04:16,040 --> 01:04:17,960 Speaker 1: It was a real question. And we both of us 1232 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:21,640 Speaker 1: all our separate things, and it's only transmitted through sex 1233 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:23,680 Speaker 1: and oral sex. That's what she and I couldn't write 1234 01:04:23,680 --> 01:04:25,480 Speaker 1: her back. At that point, I was like, bro oh wait, 1235 01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:27,320 Speaker 1: she was making sure he didn't catch it in the air. 1236 01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what he said. I want to know 1237 01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:35,320 Speaker 1: what he said. I must go out of this one. 1238 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:39,640 Speaker 1: That is because you know, what's the sad part, the 1239 01:04:39,720 --> 01:04:42,200 Speaker 1: fact that she doctored up an email to write to 1240 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:46,680 Speaker 1: you like dense to where she couldn't google it. You 1241 01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:50,040 Speaker 1: think her head and when you live in it. Let 1242 01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:54,320 Speaker 1: me tell you, Nick, this can tell you anything. Sky 1243 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,440 Speaker 1: green and I'm like ship the reflective rainbow. Maybe I 1244 01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:02,240 Speaker 1: don't know Ship, because when when someone is sucking to 1245 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:06,240 Speaker 1: sit out of you, I'll believe it. I hear you. 1246 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:10,080 Speaker 1: But if someone can convince you that STD just magically 1247 01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:15,320 Speaker 1: appeared in the morning with your serial, something is wrong. No, 1248 01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 1: I said, with the serial something something is wrong. I'm 1249 01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:24,680 Speaker 1: telling you that's crazy. He must have wipe his ask 1250 01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:27,400 Speaker 1: and been like it was came from there. There's no 1251 01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:30,040 Speaker 1: way whoever made this roll of toilet paper? You know, 1252 01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:33,280 Speaker 1: let me call sharm incorporate right the fun now it 1253 01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:36,800 Speaker 1: was want to I want to give her some advice. 1254 01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:44,000 Speaker 1: I'm telling you stop going to them. That's the type 1255 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,320 Speaker 1: of nigger he is. That's exactly what he's saying. You 1256 01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:52,640 Speaker 1: know what type of nig he is? Wow? Wow, Okay, 1257 01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:59,720 Speaker 1: somebody start with wow they did it? So this is confirmed. Guys, 1258 01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:05,440 Speaker 1: he let it know if they or huh, you heard me? 1259 01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:10,120 Speaker 1: It's English English studio. I will tell you what my 1260 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:12,600 Speaker 1: when he live. So there's this girl that walked by. 1261 01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:14,680 Speaker 1: We were at the last lap and normally he tells me, 1262 01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:16,600 Speaker 1: but I can tell he was just like because this 1263 01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:19,800 Speaker 1: girl was not moving around, moving away, and I'm like, 1264 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,200 Speaker 1: did you this miss? And He's like, why are you 1265 01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:32,680 Speaker 1: acting like this? Why I'm with you? Now? The funny 1266 01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:34,280 Speaker 1: ship is he would have been like, yeah, I did it. 1267 01:06:34,600 --> 01:06:36,240 Speaker 1: She would have been mad because he got He gave 1268 01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:38,800 Speaker 1: her the answers did you like it? What do you mean? Like? 1269 01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:45,640 Speaker 1: Then you would have wanted more a week sessions today? 1270 01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,120 Speaker 1: If you guys would like to go take your route 1271 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:49,960 Speaker 1: over to the grass with this native thing. You know 1272 01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:54,680 Speaker 1: everything Brandon before we did meet. Let our listeners know 1273 01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:56,680 Speaker 1: where they can follow you, where they can find you, 1274 01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:59,680 Speaker 1: and where they can listen to your podcast Grassroos Podcast 1275 01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 1: on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, kill a h on Instagram, Twitter, everywhere. 1276 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:07,320 Speaker 1: What do your favorite episodes to tell people to listen 1277 01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,400 Speaker 1: to first, because when I start a new podcast, I 1278 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:14,320 Speaker 1: get too overwhelms. UM. I would say the Side High 1279 01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:18,160 Speaker 1: episode only just because he talked a lot about himself 1280 01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:21,320 Speaker 1: where you never really got to tear anything. He doesn't. 1281 01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,720 Speaker 1: He doesn't do a lot of interviews. UM. He rarely 1282 01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:26,560 Speaker 1: talks about just his struggles. That's a good place to start. 1283 01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,640 Speaker 1: Do you remember your number interview? I think so, But again, 1284 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:32,160 Speaker 1: last time I spoke to me, he was supposed to 1285 01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:34,440 Speaker 1: put out music and and it didn't come out. So 1286 01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:37,520 Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I don't really know. UM. There's honestly, 1287 01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:40,240 Speaker 1: if I'm with y'all, like y'all at one, I just 1288 01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:44,320 Speaker 1: I'm dropping tomorrow, Okay. So I mean there's just a 1289 01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:47,840 Speaker 1: lot of content that tell people to listen to UM. 1290 01:07:48,280 --> 01:07:49,680 Speaker 1: And a lot of people wrote us to me, like 1291 01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 1: what should we tell our friends? Number four is my 1292 01:07:52,040 --> 01:07:54,480 Speaker 1: favorite of all time? UM? I like the ones with 1293 01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:58,840 Speaker 1: our moms. I think Rory was a fun one. It's 1294 01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:00,680 Speaker 1: not my personal favorite it, but like it was a 1295 01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:03,560 Speaker 1: really popular one I like. UM, I hate to say it, 1296 01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:08,920 Speaker 1: I like our therapy episode. That's what I'm saying. Abe. 1297 01:08:12,240 --> 01:08:13,680 Speaker 1: I've been trying to get him on the show. Red 1298 01:08:13,720 --> 01:08:17,680 Speaker 1: Man has a foot fetish and directs like videos just 1299 01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:23,920 Speaker 1: for feet and he's red Man is, Yeah, he has. 1300 01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:29,679 Speaker 1: He has a whole marketing campaign like he's serious, serious, 1301 01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:34,320 Speaker 1: he's serious. If you listen to the episode, he goes 1302 01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:37,960 Speaker 1: into it like the video for it and everything here 1303 01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:41,639 Speaker 1: he's released Mandy video. She got background noise like whold 1304 01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 1: music don't do that and music now doesn't hold you. 1305 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,760 Speaker 1: So I haven't updated my only Fans feet page. So 1306 01:08:48,880 --> 01:08:51,479 Speaker 1: I'm out with Cutty Um getting drinks the other day 1307 01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:54,160 Speaker 1: and so we're talking about how everyone got their ship 1308 01:08:54,280 --> 01:08:56,320 Speaker 1: leaked on Only Fans and I'm like, yeah, shout, I 1309 01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 1: got my foot page, but I ain't updated since November. 1310 01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:59,800 Speaker 1: I gotta go on there. So I went on there. 1311 01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:03,639 Speaker 1: It says my pages could be deactivated if I don't 1312 01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,200 Speaker 1: update within the next seven days. So she's like, let's 1313 01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:08,519 Speaker 1: see how what you come over three on it all 1314 01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:10,240 Speaker 1: sitting in there, I was like, you know what, let 1315 01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 1: me go ahead and post my feet this week, so 1316 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:14,400 Speaker 1: I'll be I'll be updating if y'all are my only 1317 01:09:14,439 --> 01:09:17,320 Speaker 1: fan subscribers, I will be updating this week. Um, but no, 1318 01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:20,880 Speaker 1: thank you Brandon for finally coming on. I'm telling me 1319 01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:24,800 Speaker 1: about my hoss. So are your nails buffed or do 1320 01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:30,040 Speaker 1: you clear polish? Okay, they are feel very good. Fingering nails, 1321 01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:32,560 Speaker 1: by the way, like I would be fingered with. The 1322 01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:34,320 Speaker 1: ladies want to know and me, do you have a girlfriend? 1323 01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:42,360 Speaker 1: You're in a relationship. Listen, if I didn't flirt with you, 1324 01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:47,240 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be a sign of disrespect on the show, 1325 01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:49,519 Speaker 1: like it almost started where people would be like, oh, 1326 01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:51,840 Speaker 1: Wes so thirsty today. I just have to keep it up. 1327 01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:57,840 Speaker 1: At this point. If I don't flirt with I don't 1328 01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:00,000 Speaker 1: hold you at this point, who didn't. I think we've 1329 01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:02,479 Speaker 1: falling off, so we gotta keep it. You know what 1330 01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:07,960 Speaker 1: I mean. She didn't try to second leave. No podcasters 1331 01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,720 Speaker 1: are Brandon. Thank you for joining us again, you guys 1332 01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:14,040 Speaker 1: go check out the Grassroots podcast. Um again, i want 1333 01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:16,960 Speaker 1: to shout out to all of our patrons. I'm excited 1334 01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:18,920 Speaker 1: to see you guys in the upcoming city that the 1335 01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:22,479 Speaker 1: upcoming tours. But also guys, if you have reached and 1336 01:10:22,600 --> 01:10:25,920 Speaker 1: listened to all one hundred and fifty seven episodes, there 1337 01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:30,320 Speaker 1: are another sixty waiting over for you on Patreon, So 1338 01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:33,760 Speaker 1: go to Patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions. There's so 1339 01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:36,080 Speaker 1: much fun. I'd been walking up many outline and it'd 1340 01:10:36,080 --> 01:10:38,000 Speaker 1: be I hate it, I hate it. I'd be like, well, 1341 01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:41,720 Speaker 1: I guess we ain't got no outline. Y'all hear it? 1342 01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,439 Speaker 1: It's yes, I get I get perturbed. Um, but go 1343 01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,200 Speaker 1: ahead and again in order to find us because we 1344 01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:50,519 Speaker 1: do talk about a lot of sex. It is an 1345 01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:53,479 Speaker 1: eighteen plus platform, so you guys have to type in 1346 01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:57,960 Speaker 1: Patreon dot com back slash Horrible Decisions. Um. Also again, 1347 01:10:58,080 --> 01:10:59,720 Speaker 1: just thank y'all. I'm looking forward to seeing y'all on 1348 01:11:00,200 --> 01:11:02,960 Speaker 1: So get tickets now at Horrible Decisions dot com. Um. 1349 01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:04,880 Speaker 1: And yeah, you guys are about to hear a five 1350 01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:08,760 Speaker 1: minute bonus clip from one of our most recent bonus episodes. Again, 1351 01:11:08,800 --> 01:11:10,599 Speaker 1: I want to thank you guys for tuning into Yeah, 1352 01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:16,280 Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. Bye by bye bye, say 1353 01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:19,240 Speaker 1: bye bye, okay bye. You know. You know who's really 1354 01:11:19,280 --> 01:11:22,600 Speaker 1: putting out there is Elizabeth Hurley on her Instagram. Have 1355 01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:25,640 Speaker 1: you seen her Instagram? You guys don't know who this 1356 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:30,800 Speaker 1: Caucasian woman is. She's like a British and an Austin 1357 01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:34,080 Speaker 1: Powers movie. Yeah, she's putting it out. She's fifty and 1358 01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:37,240 Speaker 1: she she's not hiding at all. She's not hiding it 1359 01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:39,840 Speaker 1: at all. Look at her Instagram, she's not hiding it 1360 01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:42,080 Speaker 1: at all. No, she's like it's out the boy, the 1361 01:11:42,160 --> 01:11:45,960 Speaker 1: girls are out her whole body. She's out there. This 1362 01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:49,040 Speaker 1: is a very instagram. So I'm no, I'm telling she's 1363 01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:50,800 Speaker 1: just got video. She's got like videos of her just 1364 01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:54,000 Speaker 1: like dancing on bred open on this. I'm telling you 1365 01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:59,680 Speaker 1: she's not someone's gonna suck her. Freddie gives a Freddie 1366 01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:02,840 Speaker 1: gives like these white pitches in my neighborhood. He's a 1367 01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:06,080 Speaker 1: good he's a good man. Um. But like your Instagram 1368 01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:08,320 Speaker 1: is like she's she's not hiding it at all, which 1369 01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:10,840 Speaker 1: which I'm like, I think it's kind of cool, you know, 1370 01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:13,480 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, I don't give a funk out the oldest. 1371 01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:21,240 Speaker 1: It's a beautiful Mine's Angel Bassett. Oh yeah, Jackie Brown? 1372 01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:25,560 Speaker 1: Is she Jackie Brown? No? I don't know. Let me 1373 01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:27,880 Speaker 1: look at how don't you know the Amy Pohler movies. 1374 01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:32,960 Speaker 1: You don't know Jackie Brown, Eddie. Let me tell you. 1375 01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:35,800 Speaker 1: One of my friends was like, bitch, I was like, oh, 1376 01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:37,960 Speaker 1: it is Black History Month, girl, some something something like 1377 01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:39,840 Speaker 1: I can't remember what happened, and she was like, oh no, 1378 01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:42,599 Speaker 1: you can celebrate on the four tune. I was like, well, 1379 01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:48,920 Speaker 1: because you're half makes sense? What if it's a leap here? 1380 01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:53,200 Speaker 1: Can I get get more? Dude? That ship was so 1381 01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:56,280 Speaker 1: fucking funny. Although I really like to hold I hang 1382 01:12:56,400 --> 01:12:59,920 Speaker 1: on to my father's reeliness as non claim to being half. 1383 01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:02,960 Speaker 1: What's uh so your dad's from is really Israeli? Your 1384 01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:06,679 Speaker 1: mom's from New York, right, That's cool. If we dive deeper, 1385 01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:09,720 Speaker 1: there's like roots to like Bermuda and Jamaica from my mother, 1386 01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:14,200 Speaker 1: which I'm honestly Barbados in Jamaica. I'm honestly wondering if 1387 01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,880 Speaker 1: that's why I went through my whole reggae drug dealing 1388 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:19,920 Speaker 1: guy face like I'm going to the dance hall clubs. 1389 01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 1: And then I was like shake that thing and a 1390 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,760 Speaker 1: bettle of shake that thing. You're like this speaks to 1391 01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:34,040 Speaker 1: me or like deep in it like five's cartel, Okay. 1392 01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:36,200 Speaker 1: I was like, Sean, Paul, I can tell you something 1393 01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:39,519 Speaker 1: right now. Growing up in Toronto where I'm from, there's 1394 01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:43,519 Speaker 1: no African Americans. There's Caribbean Canadians because everyone's is black. 1395 01:13:44,520 --> 01:13:48,920 Speaker 1: Their mom and dad are usually usually it's Barbados, Jamaica, 1396 01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:53,760 Speaker 1: a lot of traded dad, Guyana, some Haiti. How did 1397 01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:58,880 Speaker 1: that happen? It happened because Canada was under the British Commonwealth, 1398 01:13:58,960 --> 01:14:01,639 Speaker 1: so it's easier to go there. Because Jamaica is unto 1399 01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:03,479 Speaker 1: the British common so you get a lot, So it's 1400 01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:06,000 Speaker 1: a lot easy to go there. Plus, uh, the immigration 1401 01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:08,120 Speaker 1: was easier. It was the doors were open a little more. 1402 01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:13,599 Speaker 1: So people like that's why Drake like yeah, what, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1403 01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:16,599 Speaker 1: But he's not Jamaican at all. His his dad's American. 1404 01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:19,599 Speaker 1: His dad's from Memphis, and his mom's like, like, I mean, 1405 01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:23,120 Speaker 1: I don't think Drake was so in my opinion, a 1406 01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:24,760 Speaker 1: lot of people don't think it's funny. But all his 1407 01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,519 Speaker 1: friends are straight up like parents are Jamaican and I 1408 01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:29,920 Speaker 1: grew up like that. I grew up in a very 1409 01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:33,919 Speaker 1: like a very black neighborhood in Canada, like all Jamaican 1410 01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:36,120 Speaker 1: all like, and you still sound like this guy. I know, 1411 01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:38,920 Speaker 1: I know, I know, I sound like a report in 1412 01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,439 Speaker 1: the news on in the area. But like it was 1413 01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:45,240 Speaker 1: like beef patties, oxtail, the best food you eat, food 1414 01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:48,320 Speaker 1: like that I love that food because they don't have 1415 01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:49,600 Speaker 1: it here. But when I was in New York, it 1416 01:14:49,640 --> 01:14:50,960 Speaker 1: was with my girlfriend and I was like, I walked 1417 01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:52,479 Speaker 1: by a place I had beef patties. It's just like, 1418 01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I have to get It's like why, I'm like, 1419 01:14:55,640 --> 01:15:02,040 Speaker 1: it's my culture, it's my friends culture. But I was like, 1420 01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:03,720 Speaker 1: I was like, she's like, what is it? When you 1421 01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:05,920 Speaker 1: explain to beef patty to someone who's white, or like 1422 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,320 Speaker 1: any anyone who's never had one, they're like, why is 1423 01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:10,760 Speaker 1: this so good? I go, what is it? It's a 1424 01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,599 Speaker 1: flaky yellow pastry with and like what's in the middle 1425 01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:17,400 Speaker 1: meat paste? It's like, wait, what did she have it? No? No, 1426 01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:21,639 Speaker 1: she's like she took one bite. She's like, my dad 1427 01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,040 Speaker 1: loves fat. I know they're so good. I grew up 1428 01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:26,720 Speaker 1: on that that in Minnesota's a lot of island people, 1429 01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:29,360 Speaker 1: so um. I just every time I think about Drake 1430 01:15:29,400 --> 01:15:33,679 Speaker 1: and Canada, I think about it, I'm saying dog, yeah why, 1431 01:15:34,720 --> 01:15:38,599 Speaker 1: But also like thing that's a big Jamaican one. Oh yeah, 1432 01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:42,040 Speaker 1: that's a big Jamaican one. I feel like people that 1433 01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:47,040 Speaker 1: are listening like what but ting means? Girl, I look 1434 01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:49,960 Speaker 1: at a nice thing you know. It's like like she's 1435 01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:54,320 Speaker 1: like a yes, just call her that. No, that's what 1436 01:15:54,439 --> 01:15:56,760 Speaker 1: I grew up with in Toronto, Like look at that ting. 1437 01:15:57,000 --> 01:16:00,880 Speaker 1: But you have a bunch of things. I don't know. 1438 01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:03,240 Speaker 1: No one knows really, Okay, I picked a very l 1439 01:16:03,320 --> 01:16:05,280 Speaker 1: a vanilla ship, and vanilla ship is our sex. In 1440 01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:07,720 Speaker 1: the news segment with just basically Eddie's podcast, but just 1441 01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:10,639 Speaker 1: about sex. It's not always sex. Could be sexual health, 1442 01:16:10,720 --> 01:16:14,080 Speaker 1: it could be whatever. So i'thing about pussy. So these 1443 01:16:14,200 --> 01:16:18,080 Speaker 1: vegan bloggers say it's fine to stop having your period. 1444 01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:21,600 Speaker 1: Gone to colleges disagree. So it's been recorded that like 1445 01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:26,880 Speaker 1: people that are vegan have way shorter periods. Um. But yeah, 1446 01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,519 Speaker 1: but the thing is, I actually tried one month to 1447 01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:33,960 Speaker 1: stop eating meat. Mine wasn't shorter, but I had no cramps, 1448 01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:39,040 Speaker 1: no cramps, that's a game change, and very very little bloating, 1449 01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:41,720 Speaker 1: like barely any Um. So it says they're giving up 1450 01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:44,360 Speaker 1: animal products that beat robbing and bloggers and they are 1451 01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:49,360 Speaker 1: shortly shortly after our experienced periods. Um that menstruation is 1452 01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:52,320 Speaker 1: a sign of a highly toxic diet, which is bullshit. 1453 01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:56,360 Speaker 1: What Yeah, if there's nothing to clean, there's no reason 1454 01:16:56,479 --> 01:17:00,599 Speaker 1: to men's straight and since raw food diet is your 1455 01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:05,160 Speaker 1: period naturally becomes lighter and or disappears altogether. Another vegan 1456 01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:08,800 Speaker 1: blogger says um she was thrilled when her period hit 1457 01:17:08,800 --> 01:17:10,880 Speaker 1: the road for nearly nine months. I still believe that 1458 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:13,960 Speaker 1: largely menstruation is toxicity leaving the body. So a lot 1459 01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:16,600 Speaker 1: of people are having these heavy, painful periods because of 1460 01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:20,400 Speaker 1: their toxic dieties. Now look, all right, I'm not I'm 1461 01:17:20,439 --> 01:17:23,120 Speaker 1: a guy. I'm a dumb guy. When you when you 1462 01:17:23,200 --> 01:17:26,160 Speaker 1: have your period, it's basically your eggs just shedding from 1463 01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:31,160 Speaker 1: the menstrual lining. You're eural lining, right yeah, and then 1464 01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:33,240 Speaker 1: you get you get you get some you possibly get 1465 01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:35,720 Speaker 1: some spotting, and then you just sucking outcomes out the 1466 01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:39,720 Speaker 1: egg goop out of your old pool right right further 1467 01:17:39,720 --> 01:17:42,439 Speaker 1: control where you said you possibly get spotted, drake, says 1468 01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:43,000 Speaker 1: Pani