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Speaker 1: Should I find a divorce lawyer?

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Speaker 2: You know, we always say get a divorce as early

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Speaker 2: there is a problem. Divorce.

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Speaker 1: Like, honey, you forgot to make coffee for me. Divorce divorce.

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Speaker 2: I don't need you, honey, I wish you would make

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Speaker 1: Divorce. I need to marry a robot that will make

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Speaker 2: What's coming around the corner. Boston Dynamics mixed with Chad GBT.

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Speaker 2: You got the perfect wife. That's happened, perfect lover. You

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Speaker 2: see how those Boston Dynamics things. You know for sure

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Speaker 2: there is getting rompy in the sheets. So last night,

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Speaker 2: make a good impression. I scoffed and arrogantly informed my

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Speaker 1: That's how you know he's going to crush it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's being super pompous and egotistical exactly makes the

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Speaker 1: Yeah. My wife's boss is a single lady in her fifties,

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Speaker 1: So far right, nothing could go wrong from here. But

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Speaker 1: And asked my wife to officiate the wedding. Soon she

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Speaker 2: I like my steak rare though I like it bleeding. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it makes sense. It all connections by vampire saying. Ah.

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Speaker 1: I sat there fidgeting with my knife and fork, worrying

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Speaker 2: Ate the steak and don't cause any problems, right.

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Speaker 1: No, the opposite. I knew I had to be decisive.

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Speaker 1: I grabbed the steak with my hand, I gently shook

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Speaker 2: Of the high school football literally, because god damn, that

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Speaker 1: Here's the big time f up. The window wasn't open either,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the football player.

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Speaker 1: This is literally like that guy wronging. It was like

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Speaker 1: Through that window? Literally like what, oh my god? So

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Speaker 2: She should to be fair, What are you doing throwing

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. This look then slowly morphed into one

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my wife's boss heard.

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Speaker 1: The thud of the steak on window impact and came quickly.

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Speaker 1: Probably gonna let yeah on the lawn and the driveway.

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Speaker 1: Like this plane is just so. And also also third

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Speaker 1: Yes? So you see, I have this really rare muscle

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna, but like, what option do I have?

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Speaker 2: It's like, what like Tourette's Tourette's threats. That's that's it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe this. I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry, etcetera, etcetera.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that I feel like, ohp is as smooth as

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Speaker 2: Hey, boss, I'm really sorry, but my husband is a

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Speaker 1: He's gonnas.

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Speaker 2: It's gonnas.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna throw it like the winning touchdown.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, oh man, Luckily he didn't go through your window.

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Speaker 1: Oh my right, Oh that would have been way worse. Actually,

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Speaker 1: Boss's name. I just had a good laugh over how

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Speaker 1: you will never live us down. Love you, moron. Oh

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Speaker 2: But if throwing its steak at a window isn't a

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Speaker 2: red flag, I don't know what is.

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Speaker 1: This man's whole demeanor in life philosophy is a red flag?

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Speaker 2: Juicy, red, dripping flat, Yes, it really is. My question

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, like leaving them over that,

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Speaker 1: but it's like, I think it's a good question of like,

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Speaker 1: what what's I feel like there's more under the surface.

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's more than meets the eye there.

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Speaker 2: This can't be an isolated incident.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I feel again, I feel like she

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Speaker 1: was reprimenting him over and over because this is not absolute.

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Speaker 2: He's cast stupid mistakes.

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Speaker 1: My god.

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Speaker 2: Well, I would love to know from our audience. One

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Speaker 2: is this a red flag?

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Speaker 1: Ye?

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Speaker 2: And two what's the worst thing that someone has done

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Speaker 2: at a dinner party? Oh? Man, I would love to

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Speaker 1: More but more. But he Uh.

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Speaker 2: ghosted me, befriended my sister, and is now my sister's bridesmaid.

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Speaker 1: I mean that cuts extra deep, Like not only did

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Speaker 2: It's like, hey, this is the version you had, like

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Speaker 1: We should have a series of like like supreme toxicity,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is pretty toxic. It's pretty toxic. This is

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Speaker 2: Yeah it's PCP, dude. PCP is a performance enhancing drug.

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Speaker 2: Is it? No? No, PCP is like like PCP turns

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Speaker 2: I only have one thing to say. Where can I

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Speaker 1: I mean the plug?

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Speaker 2: All right? So this is the situation I, twenty seven male,

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Speaker 2: I would. I would say, so let's let's let's get

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Speaker 1: What happened.

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Speaker 2: So my sister is getting married in November. Congrats to

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Speaker 2: your sister. We are really close and always have been.

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Speaker 2: So I find this whole situation even weirder. I've been

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Speaker 2: asked to be a groomsman on her fiance side. Cool.

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Speaker 2: I feel like like including like the like the brothers

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like what are you gonna do? Like, hey,

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Speaker 1: person I grew up with, get the fuck out of

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Speaker 2: Has like a like a dad ever been part of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess the groomsmen do. That is the thing.

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Speaker 1: Like the grooms and go to the bachelor party. I mean,

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Speaker 2: That would be an interesting one. That's all I'm going

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Speaker 2: to say. Me and him are cool, and it was

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Speaker 2: We're going back two years ago. So two years ago,

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Speaker 2: I met this girl named Tara or Tara twenty What

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Speaker 2: a terrible person. This is what really got oh all right,

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Speaker 2: twenty six female on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: We started talking daily.

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Speaker 2: It's getting hot and spicy.

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Speaker 1: She sounds in tallable, Hey you get them facetimed a lot,

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Speaker 2: We talked for over three months, three months of a

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Speaker 2: Of time, and I felt like it was actually going somewhere. Well,

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Speaker 2: after one of our nights, she completely ghosted me. Good,

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Speaker 2: I deserve it, I said to follow up text, but

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Speaker 2: by just one follow up text. I think three months,

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Speaker 2: Like you could do like a call, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get a couple of voicemail maybe an email, yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe like walk up to their house on MySpace message,

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Speaker 1: seen this woman? Lock them in their car and take

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Speaker 1: Simple things you could do, yeah, just normal, normal thing.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we're about non toxic relationships. Of course you do not

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Speaker 2: thinking the girl dad to Nevada were the Kings.

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Speaker 1: Of non toxicity. That is not we stand in non

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Speaker 1: toxic Kings.

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Speaker 2: We stand that's a podcast name, that is he calls

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Speaker 2: our non toxic Kings. The comments right now, I won't lie.

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Speaker 2: I was really upset. I even talked to my sister

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Speaker 2: Tara are now friends. Yo. After he like talked about

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Speaker 2: it and alright, like like I I would like if

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Speaker 2: it's like, yo, this girl just like like I mess

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Speaker 2: it like I'm like I met her and it's and

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Speaker 2: it's the girl from Tinder.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. One hundred.

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Speaker 2: Instantly tell and he was like, really broken up about it.

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Speaker 2: Why are you keeping this like a secret?

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Speaker 2: Apparently my sister got a new job. Tara recognized the

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Speaker 2: last name, reached out to her, and they became and

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Speaker 2: they became friends. But it's like, also not just regular friends,

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Speaker 2: such good friends. In fact that she is now a

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Speaker 1: Just for a second, I thought we were going a

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Speaker 2: I found out they were friends literally three weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: She never mentioned it to me, which is sus dude,

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Speaker 2: so sus blood over you know, crut.

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Speaker 1: That's what is on the bottom of my shoe. Damn, bro,

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Speaker 1: get off. Where's a dirty doormat? I can just rub you.

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Speaker 2: Into my See that sounds like like dirty talk dirty

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Speaker 2: same time serving to depending on the mat, you know.

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Speaker 2: I asked her if she knew it was the Tara

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Speaker 2: I got ghosted by, and she said Tara had told

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Speaker 2: what why did she ghost him. That's also what I

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Speaker 1: She's she's continuing her toxic queen behavior. I mean, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: too many toxic queens on Tinder? Do we stand?

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Speaker 2: I don't stand toxic queens. You know, there was there.

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Speaker 2: I had a toxic queen in my life and she dude,

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Speaker 2: wor's text? He ever? Where's text? He ever? Went on?

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Speaker 2: Two dates went super well. One of them was in

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Speaker 2: then it's too bad radio silence, too bid. Anyway, I'm

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Speaker 2: not mad about it. I don't even care. I don't

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Speaker 1: We we stan uh, oh god, I'm forgetting it. We

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Speaker 1: stand a self confident king, you know, a secure king? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But okay, it's fine, it's fine. I'm only like a

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Speaker 2: what I want to do for that entrance dance to

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Speaker 2: dance on the mat that I'm rubbing the shoe on

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Speaker 2: that you are on the bottom up because you're a

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Speaker 1: Tara, how do I enter you? Then you stop talking

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, we're wave. Patty can close your

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Speaker 2: doors on me. You can't enter anywhere anymore. I immediately

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Speaker 2: I know many of her bridesmaids and her had to

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Speaker 2: to put him back together.

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Speaker 1: If that's the case, this is a terrible approach.

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Speaker 2: I know. Or just like say that's what you're doing,

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Speaker 2: make it be known to be like you have to

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Speaker 2: do it with her? Yeah, she said she had her

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Speaker 2: how do you ghost my man and then ask for

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Speaker 2: him specifically? This is so weird. This is so weird,

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Speaker 2: the last name.

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Speaker 1: What if this is a part of a whole elaborate

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Speaker 1: ghosts him for like years, befriends the sister just to

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00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 1: come back and be like, now you will marry me

439
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: and be grateful forever. Maybe maybe that would be like

440
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: the greatest mind game of all time. I don't like toxic.

441
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, fuck dude, I don't like that. You think of

442
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 2: like this job done to a happy relationship.

443
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,919
Speaker 1: That's right, or so he said? Or is it? Or

444
00:22:55,960 --> 00:23:00,919
Speaker 1: am I a toxic king? You decide? Do we stand?

445
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,959
Speaker 2: Have you seen that guy where it's like stay toxic? Yes?

446
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 2: Great content, great content. I never responded to Tara and

447
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,800
Speaker 2: instead went to talk to my sister in person. Good idea,

448
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 2: and I got the same answers, and this time she

449
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 2: sounded offended that I asked for a different person. Why offended, ude,

450
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 2: it's weird. It's weird to ask, it's weird to ask

451
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 2: for this.

452
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 1: It's completely reasonable to not want to be paired. Yeah, Tara.

453
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 2: I told her how uncomfortable it made me, and she

454
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: told me to stop overthinking and just have fun. I

455
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,439
Speaker 2: said she didn't understand how hurt I was, and said

456
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 2: she had it. She said she had an idea, but

457
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 2: to just do it as her wedding gift. I feel

458
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 2: like the sister has something like like behind her side.

459
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: This is weird.

460
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: This is making literally no logical sense whatsoever.

461
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,840
Speaker 2: She said she wasn't going to so I said I'd

462
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:00,800
Speaker 2: be dropping out. My parents are calling me a whole,

463
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 2: But I don't think I am. It's a weird request

464
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 2: and I'm not about it.

465
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? Look here's I think. I

466
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,199
Speaker 1: think it's a bit of an exaggeration to drop I mean,

467
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: he only knew her for three months. I think it's

468
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 1: an exaggeration. But he should. He should be like, look,

469
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to the wedding. You're my sister. Like,

470
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be in there and support you, even if

471
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,360
Speaker 1: you don't like it in the moment, because like you'll

472
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 1: probably regret it when we're older. And but I'm not

473
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: gonna I'm just gonna be chilling there. I'm just gonna

474
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: be there at the wedding. Actually, maybe that's too much

475
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: of an overaction.

476
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I like, I think it's weird that the

477
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,440
Speaker 2: sister is making him do this. Yeah, but if I'm

478
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 2: thinking about my sister's wedding, it's it's still freaking weird. Yeah,

479
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 2: but like three months, Yeah, it's not a long time.

480
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 2: It's really not a long time. Your sister's wedding's like

481
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 2: forever potentially, Yeah, yeah, and like to withdraw over this three.

482
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 1: Months ghosted relationship. Yeah, you're you're absolutely right.

483
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 2: That's actually it's it's a little it's a it's too

484
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 2: much of a reaction. Yeah, you voiced your concern and

485
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: like that's kind of all you can do.

486
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. I would be like, could you just please just

487
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: tell me why? Like I still do it regardless if

488
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 1: she told her me or not.

489
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 2: But dude, I'm like, like she must have something in

490
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: her unders something here. I mean, it makes no sense.

491
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 2: I mean I think they're trying to set the back up.

492
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 2: I think that's very a very reasonable guess. And like

493
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 2: it seems like both of them might want because terrible

494
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 2: request requests, Like why would she's just so weird to him?

495
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: Maybe okay, you know what, Okay, Uh, maybe she's like

496
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 1: she feels embarrassed that she did ghost him, and she's

497
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 1: just embarrassed she was too embarrassed to reach back out,

498
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 1: and now she's like, okay, maybe this is like the

499
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 1: way back in. That is like, you know, but you

500
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: ghosted him, so you kind of have to live with that.

501
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is what it it's weird, dude, just just

502
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 2: you know, just say you're not interested. Just hey, just

503
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 2: like like it's it's really easy to send a text

504
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 2: saying like, hey, hey, hanging out. I really enjoyed spending

505
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:19,199
Speaker 2: time with you in North Carolina, but hey, you know,

506
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 2: just not interested at this point.

507
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:24,959
Speaker 1: So bye.

508
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 2: Very simple, very simple. That's all you have to do,

509
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 2: all you have to do. I'm totally still I'm talking

510
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: about the story.

511
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 1: Of course, of course this is not this is not

512
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 1: as chronicles. Yeah, which could be a whole a whole

513
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: show entirely.

514
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,239
Speaker 2: That that girl that I took to North Carolina, I

515
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 2: texted her, you showed you the text, and.

516
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 1: She applied with the whole haha.

517
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 2: She well, no, she give response. She gave me a full,

518
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 2: full response before very very bored response though, and then

519
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 2: I said something funny and then she just ha, hat

520
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 2: it which is brutal. Hey she she thought it was funny,

521
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 2: bro fucking brutal getting ha.

522
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's it's a it's a it's a pattern.

523
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a pattern. It's tough sheet. She community yeah, yeah,

524
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 2: no she she's done. She's done. I'm done. I'm done.

525
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 1: Clean slips over ladies and gentlemen. Tune into the next

526
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: episode to see the next adventure. The next episode of

527
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: Sam's Love.

528
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: Chronicles, I will see you on the Flippity Flop YEP

529
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 2: today fd up. When I thought a cute guy was

530
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 2: ghosting me, but little did I know I was ghosting him,

531
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 2: the ghosty becomes the ghost head.

532
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 1: That's right.

533
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,159
Speaker 2: I was at a party two weeks ago where I

534
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 2: only knew two people watch.

535
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: Fucking Losing eighty and what are you doing, bro, go

536
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: get go, get forty friends.

537
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's get one hundred new friends. When in walks

538
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 2: this guy who immediately gave me a really big smile.

539
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:10,640
Speaker 1: And I thought he.

540
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 2: Was so gorgeous. We ended up talking in the same

541
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 2: circle and he introduces himself. We start chatting and quickly

542
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 2: find the circle around us has disappeared and it's just us.

543
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 2: Oh some loan time. Also, I would just like to

544
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 2: say I have a ghosting story right now, and I

545
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:30,360
Speaker 2: need to tell it after this, yes, because currently it's

546
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,360
Speaker 2: happening and I'm so mad. I need a bro all right. Anyway,

547
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: He is so smart, his smile is outrageously cute, and

548
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 2: I love how he seems laser focused on me instead

549
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 2: of one of the many attractive women around the party,

550
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 2: that's right, And they're everywhere around the party, and they're

551
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: talking about their cool riah dates. You know about Rya.

552
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 1: That's like the celebrity yeah or something. Yeah.

553
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. As the night wore on, I found myself talking

554
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: to various different groups, but each time this guy would

555
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 2: appear again and again, and we end up just talking

556
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: to each other. Someone who neither of us knew came

557
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 2: up and said, we made an attractive couple. Oh, and

558
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,479
Speaker 2: I realized somehow, in the span of two hours, we

559
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: were already acting like a couple.

560
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: Wow, that's heat up moving quickly.

561
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow. It wasn't just me being sexually attracted him,

562
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: although I definitely was.

563
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: Yeah.

564
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 2: I felt so comfortable around him, and he was so

565
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: attentive to my needs. Sounds like it sounds like y'all

566
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 2: are a couple.

567
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: Bro, They're gonna get married.

568
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 2: By the at the end of the story, they're gonna

569
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: be married. I told him off hand I had allergies

570
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 2: to the dog at the party. Hours later, I started sneezing,

571
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 2: and he immediately knew what to do. Man, dude, man's

572
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: attentive his buck. Wow, he moved us outside. Oh, my gosh,

573
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 2: so so. She wouldn't so so, but.

574
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: He remember had analogy moved outside.

575
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, that's pretty curious. The perfect man sehns

576
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 2: got impressed. Wow, shut up. His smile was the thing

577
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: that immediately caught my attention, but it was the thoughtfulness

578
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 2: that made it so great. At the end of the night,

579
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 2: we catch an uber home and end up smacking lips

580
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 2: before the uber drops him off and give him my number.

581
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 2: There we go.

582
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: Nice.

583
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 2: Sunday comes in. I don't hear from him. Okay, I

584
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 2: get it. We both got home at four am, and

585
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 2: I was just and I too, just wanted to sleep

586
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: the day away. Monday comes silence, Tuesday even more silence.

587
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 2: And I know I've read it's uncool to text a

588
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 2: girl immediately because you want to seem super cool and

589
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 2: suave and wanted. But we're both in our mid thirties,

590
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 2: and I hoped you would realize that these mind games

591
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 2: are bullshit. Anyway, you likes someone, just text them when

592
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 2: you can. Life is too short to be with people

593
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 2: half interested in you. I agree, which is great advice.

594
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 2: That's great advice. Wednesday comes around and I'm a mixture

595
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: of angry and over it and insecure all at the

596
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: same time. Bro, this is where I am right now?

597
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: How dare he lead me on like this? Well, I

598
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 2: guess I'm glad I only wasted one night on this asshole?

599
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: Was I not pretty enough? All the thoughts raced them

600
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 2: my ahead and coalesced me typing his name and workplace

601
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: into Google to see if I can find him. Uh,

602
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 2: she's going on a stocking rampage at her place of work,

603
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 2: Like like, she's going to look up this guy and

604
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: see like where, who? Who the heck he is?

605
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's funny.

606
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 2: Turns out he was incredibly easy to find. I was

607
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 2: planning and just looking at him because I missed his face,

608
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: but I accidentally clicked the link that brought him to

609
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 2: his LinkedIn page. No, yikes, Now he'll know I stalked him,

610
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 2: which made me feel even worse. Probably feel crazy right now, Well,

611
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 2: says I was already on his page. I guess I

612
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 2: would look where he worked. Maybe he's not that interesting,

613
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 2: and I'd feel better about him ghosting me, right. Nope.

614
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 2: Turns out he's not only very smart, but also humble,

615
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 2: because his resume listed a dozen of different cool jobs.

616
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: Impressive schools and basically cool things he's worked on. Great.

617
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 2: I probably wasn't impressive enough for him. Wow, you know

618
00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:01,400
Speaker 2: he's just going through straight God. Yeah, blessing her mortalness. Now.

619
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 2: Thirty minutes later, he friends me on LinkedIn because I

620
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 2: guess he saw that she was stalking him. That's amazing,

621
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 2: Bunny Road. But he seemed surprised that I was reaching out.

622
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 2: He had evidently texted me that night and again the

623
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 2: next day, only to not hear back. He thinks that

624
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 2: I had ghosted him, and this is how we found

625
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 2: out my f up. When I gave him my phone number,

626
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 2: turns out I was off by one digit. Tipsy Me

627
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 2: isn't so great at typing or proof reading, which is

628
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 2: why you got to text the number right after. You know,

629
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 2: that's a that's a move. If I hadn't been a

630
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 2: creepy LinkedIn stalker or use uh to be friends car

631
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 2: Ooh yeah, well we'll show those very soon. If I

632
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 2: hadn't been a creepy LinkedIn stalker, it could have been months,

633
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 2: if ever, before we would have seen each other again.

634
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 2: Right now, we're laughing about it and setting up our

635
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:52,959
Speaker 2: first real dates. Wish me luck, which is amazing. It

636
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,960
Speaker 2: sounds like it all worked out. It does, but you

637
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 2: know what has it worked out?

638
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: Let me tell you?

639
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: John, Okay, okay. So I was at the beach on Sunday. Yeah,

640
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 2: I was with eve Wn Alexa right Christian's girl, Yes girl,

641
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 2: lady seeing person that sing Yeah. And Alex is an

642
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 2: attractive person and which makes her an incredible wing woman, right, Like,

643
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 2: if you have an attractive woman with you, it makes

644
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 2: it so much easier to talk to random girls. Literally,

645
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 2: everyone loves the women love attractive women and men dude,

646
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 2: it makes it so it's great. It's a hack brok.

647
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 2: So we get to the beach and we're supposed to

648
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,959
Speaker 2: meet some friends there and uh and no one's there yet,

649
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 2: and so Alex's like, oh, like where do you want

650
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 2: to set up? And I see this super cute girl

651
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 2: and orange bathing suit, and I'm like, let's sit up

652
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 2: right next to her, right, And so literally we post

653
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Speaker 2: up like like we're we are closer than you and

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Speaker 2: I are right now, like we're probably like one foot

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Speaker 2: away from her, and so we PLoP down, put the

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Speaker 2: towel right next to her, and then she has like

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Speaker 2: she's like reading book and she's like journaling on this

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Speaker 2: really cool looking journal, and so I'm like, is that

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Speaker 2: a journal? And then I strike up conversation with her

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Speaker 2: and she's so cool, dude, Yeah, she's so cool. She's

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Speaker 2: well traveled. She like randomly went to France to learn

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Speaker 2: French and like she had never spoken French before, and

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Speaker 2: she was just like she went to uci le like great, right, yeah,

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Speaker 2: and so I you know, we we're talking. It's going great,

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Speaker 2: and we're really hitting it off. And so then we

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Speaker 2: leave and I get her information and I DM her

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Speaker 2: and I say, hey, loved our beat chat. I've been

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Speaker 2: kind of wanting to get I've been kind of wanting

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Speaker 2: to get tipsy and poorly interpret modern art at a museum.

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Speaker 2: You in, right, great text, great text. Alexa helped me

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Speaker 2: on that, right, and she responded and said, hey, as

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Speaker 2: did I. Being tipsy is my favorite Being tipsy in

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Speaker 2: a museum is my favorite pastime. Sounds like a lot

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Speaker 2: of fun this weekend, right, So she's like.

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Speaker 1: Going so much in for it.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: Also, Alexa is like incredible at helping men get women

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Speaker 1: should dude.

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Speaker 2: She she helped me craft that first text. She should

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Speaker 2: become the new Andrew tape. No I'm literally only to

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Speaker 2: I am only listening to her for relationship advice. And

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Speaker 2: then I responded yesterday on Friday at Lack when there's

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Speaker 2: jazz at six pm, so we could do a little

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Speaker 2: wine and picnic, peruse the museum a bit, and maybe

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Speaker 2: find a place to dance.

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Speaker 1: Saw text two.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, she saw it twenty two hours ago. Yep, and

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Speaker 2: she has it responded.

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Speaker 1: So wait, wait so it's for Friday night. Yeah, shot

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Speaker 1: twenty two hours ago.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I opened the Instagram text saw it.

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Speaker 1: Also, we're texting on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: See, I always go for I feel like the number

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Speaker 1: is the vibe.

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Speaker 2: I actually think I think Instagram because it's like a lab. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: less intrusive, and also like you have more points to

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Speaker 2: reconnect because like if you post a story, like I'll

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Speaker 2: probably post a story tomorrow and then like maybe she'll

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Speaker 2: see it and then try to.

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Speaker 1: Go into this really great jazz coped to go dance alone.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I'm gonna be like I'm doing such cool

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Speaker 2: things without you. Yeah, but yeah, Alex, I think she'll

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Speaker 2: still respond because she was.

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Speaker 1: Like I twenty two hours, like if.

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Speaker 2: It was you know, twenty four hours, two more hours

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Speaker 2: and then this check us out here.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean it's it's look, it's borderline.

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Speaker 1: She's she's riding the line of like it's been too long.

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Speaker 1: I would definitely wait and give it some more space

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Speaker 1: and maybe maybe like, okay, so Thursday, say something. It

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Speaker 1: was Friday, it was Friday, Sunday we met. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: well yeah we got time.

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Speaker 2: Monday. Monday was when I sent the text last at

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Speaker 2: six pm. Yep.

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Speaker 1: So I mean yeah, probably like Wednesday morning, like yo,

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Speaker 1: we still want to go.

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Speaker 2: Lame? Yeah, it's so lame.

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Speaker 1: You know what else?

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Speaker 2: What else? You know? I think I posted a story

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Speaker 2: where I'm doing something cool. Yeah, and then she's like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Worked on my ASPS today, working out session.

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Speaker 2: But that's my story. Go for it, but fingers crossed,

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Speaker 2: She responds, fingers crossed for Sam.

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Speaker 1: Guys,