WEBVTT - Being in Tune with Yourself featuring Christian McBride

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<v Speaker 1>How many things are different since we met, since before

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<v Speaker 1>the pandemic, how my life has changed, and how a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people's lives and and how things that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't realize were so important are really the important things. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not just your career, and it's not just you

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<v Speaker 1>know how you show up at work. It's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>really the words that come out of your mouth and

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<v Speaker 1>how you live your life. Bobby, who are we talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you? For our last guest of the season. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited. Well, I cannot wait for you to meet

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Christian McBride, who is like it's even too

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<v Speaker 1>hard to even talk about his accolades. He is a

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<v Speaker 1>jazz musician, he is a bass player, and mostly he's

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<v Speaker 1>just the coolest, nicest guy. I can't even tell you

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<v Speaker 1>his spirit. So I'm really looking forward for you to

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<v Speaker 1>meet him. I can't wait. So here's our conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>Christian McBride. Hey, friend, Hey, what's going on? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen you since your birthday party? No right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for being there. It was great to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, thank you for inviting me. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I should we should talk first

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<v Speaker 1>about your mother, your father or Quest Love or any

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<v Speaker 1>of those other people, but we'll save that for offline party. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But but first of all, meet my co host Angelie. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>so nice to meet you. What a thrill pleasures all mine.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, he went to high school with Quest Love.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so cool. The two of you guys and boys

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<v Speaker 1>Demand and Joey Di Francesco and Kurt Rosenko amazing. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, but you guys didn't know any of you

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<v Speaker 1>guys were gonna be what you guys, are you right

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<v Speaker 1>or did you know? Well, what's interesting is that if

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<v Speaker 1>you could go back to you know nine, um, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>Joey d Francesco was actually the one who had you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he had he signed with Columbia Records when we were

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<v Speaker 1>juniors in high school, and he joined Miles Davis's band

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<v Speaker 1>uh just after, just right before our senior year of

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<v Speaker 1>high school. So uh, smart money was on Joey at

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<v Speaker 1>that time, so we knew he was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a big star. I mean, he already was a big

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<v Speaker 1>star by the time we graduated. Um, and Kurt, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even really know guitar with his main instrument

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<v Speaker 1>until like much later. Because he always played piano around

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<v Speaker 1>school boys. Two men. We kind of had a feeling

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<v Speaker 1>then we're going to be big um and Uh. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>herror and and Uh and Tyreek also known as black thought.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea they were going to become the

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<v Speaker 1>world icons that they became. Yeah, I mean of those

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<v Speaker 1>you guys listening a mirror is Quest Love, who started

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<v Speaker 1>when he was twelve. I heard him saying his wonderful

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<v Speaker 1>speech to you that he started as a kid playing

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<v Speaker 1>with his parents. Well right, well, enough enough about quests.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's okay. I'm my nickname for myself as

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<v Speaker 1>Ed McMahon, which is so not like. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're of a certain age, you have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell you're talking about? Ed? Yeah, people might

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<v Speaker 1>not get Yeah, well you know most people know your name.

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<v Speaker 1>You do win Grammys every freaking year. How many Grammys

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<v Speaker 1>do you have? Eight? Eight? Yeah? You hesitated. I did

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<v Speaker 1>the research. You do have eight Grammys, question, Bride, I

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<v Speaker 1>can confirm very Google search eight. And you know this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast is not to talk about all your accolades, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know the good stuff you do and who you

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<v Speaker 1>are and honestly how you do it Because you're on

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<v Speaker 1>the road more than you're off the road, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you do it? Like? What what? What do you pull

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<v Speaker 1>out of your hat to keep you going? Um? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, during the pandemic, I had to be very

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<v Speaker 1>careful with my words because wow, you know, we were

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<v Speaker 1>all being pummeled with this horrible thing that went on

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<v Speaker 1>around the world. It was actually I had mixed feelings

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<v Speaker 1>because to be in lockdown in my in my home

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<v Speaker 1>for two years was actually quite a blessing. I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>not being able to travel and actually just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>get in tune with myself and find out who I

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<v Speaker 1>was and and uh not be on the road for

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<v Speaker 1>a little while. But over the last I would say

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<v Speaker 1>seven months, it's been all back to pretty much normal.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I've I've been to Europe. I was there

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<v Speaker 1>for most of the month of March, and uh I

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<v Speaker 1>did a two week run at Disease in April, and

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<v Speaker 1>uh I was on the West Coast for most of

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<v Speaker 1>last month, and I'm going back again this month. So

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I don't know, I think, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>think most working musicians are just groomed to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the road and and do a lot of different projects. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, particularly as a bass player. Um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I think most rhythm section players, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>piano players, guitar players, bass players, drummers. We're always going

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<v Speaker 1>to play in more than one band, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>unless you do get lucky and playing a band that

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<v Speaker 1>becomes sort of like uh, you know, like the Rolling Stones,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like you know, they don't have to work

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<v Speaker 1>with anyone other than each other for the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>their lives. That's pretty much the you know yea, and

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<v Speaker 1>calling yourself a bass player, you're only the world's greatest.

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<v Speaker 1>You're one of the like it's been said, not not

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<v Speaker 1>by me, but you Google you and it's been said

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<v Speaker 1>you're the number one in the world. And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>for anyone that you know, probably saying like why is

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<v Speaker 1>Bobby have this, like you know, Jazz Superstar on her podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been friends for like, I don't know, a decade.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I don't even remember the first time of night

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<v Speaker 1>because yeah, uh, you know, Melissa and I have lived

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<v Speaker 1>in Montclair for almost seventeen years now, so I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we met you not too long. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to be moved to Mont Claire, so probably close to that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and our friend Rose Calli's house, who now moved from

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<v Speaker 1>my house to your, which is kind of funny. But

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<v Speaker 1>we met at dinner and you had a very charming

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<v Speaker 1>nickname for me, which you still call me sometimes because

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<v Speaker 1>I told you, I guess seventeen years ago. I was

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<v Speaker 1>so into flow right on exact and yeah, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know I got a little with a new name for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>probably b B Queen. We also my dad was with us,

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<v Speaker 1>whose name happens to be James Brown, so leads me

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<v Speaker 1>into like, go go talk to me about James Brown

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<v Speaker 1>and working with him and meeting him and what he

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<v Speaker 1>means to you. Oh man, Uh, definitely he's been my

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<v Speaker 1>my mused. I first saw him when I was about

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<v Speaker 1>six years old, six or seven years old, and I

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<v Speaker 1>saw him on the h on the Midnight Special. That's

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<v Speaker 1>that's another restaurance stepped out. Most people under thirty five

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<v Speaker 1>probably won't get um. But when I saw him on

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<v Speaker 1>the Midnight specially blew my mind. I've never seen anybody

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<v Speaker 1>performed like that, you know, just screaming and falling on

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<v Speaker 1>his knees and doing splits and you know, with with

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<v Speaker 1>the hair flinging all over the place. And the band

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<v Speaker 1>was perfectly choreographed, and he had two drummers, and I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was just like watching it was like watching

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<v Speaker 1>a Martian, you know, the hair was like one member

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<v Speaker 1>of the band. I feel like it was like and

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<v Speaker 1>and from that point on, um, I just fell deep, deep,

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<v Speaker 1>deep into a James Brown hole. My uncle, uh my

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<v Speaker 1>mother's brother, was a promotions and advertising manager for w

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<v Speaker 1>h A T radio in Philly, and uh so, I said, uncle,

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<v Speaker 1>but you have any James Brown records? And he just

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<v Speaker 1>like laughed, He's like, do I have any James Brown records?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, now, I've been collecting James Brown records since

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<v Speaker 1>I was a boy. You know. So you know how

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<v Speaker 1>the grateful dead have dead heads, Well, we became James

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<v Speaker 1>Brown heads. And we were inseparable James Brown cronies throughout

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<v Speaker 1>basically throughout the eighties. And then James Brown started having

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<v Speaker 1>a out of a lot of issues, you know, going

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<v Speaker 1>to jail, a lot showing up in the news. And

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<v Speaker 1>uh so, by the time I moved to New York

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<v Speaker 1>to start college, he was in jail. But I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that at some point he would get out and he

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<v Speaker 1>would reclaim his throne, which he which he did, and

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<v Speaker 1>I met him for the well, I met him when

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<v Speaker 1>I was a kid, but I don't really count that one.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time I met him as a professional musician

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<v Speaker 1>was backstage at the Apollo in and Uh. About four

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<v Speaker 1>months later, my first album came out, and the title

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<v Speaker 1>track of that album, which is called Getting to It,

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<v Speaker 1>was based off of the James Brown tune called get

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<v Speaker 1>It Together. So I sent that CD to Mr Brown

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<v Speaker 1>and Uh. About six months later, I saw him in

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<v Speaker 1>Europe at the Vienna Jazz Festival and we had a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation and he actually listened to my CD, and and

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<v Speaker 1>I really came this close to passing out. And U story,

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<v Speaker 1>but didn't you play with him? I played with him

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<v Speaker 1>at his UM sixty four birthday bash in Augusta, Georgia,

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<v Speaker 1>and I produced what was one of his last shows

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<v Speaker 1>in l a A at the Hollywood Bowl. Being friends

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<v Speaker 1>with James Brown. Uh, definitely had Uh it's obligatory drama.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's much too long in the story to tell now.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's another show. Oh yeah, no, I am sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a couple of women I want to talk about. First.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about your mom because I never

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<v Speaker 1>met her before. I couldn't believe number one, how young

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<v Speaker 1>she was and how like spirited. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>went to talk to her. Of course is from one

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<v Speaker 1>mom to another, because she was talking about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how raising you. There was nothing she wouldn't do, like

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<v Speaker 1>it was just the power of being your mom's and

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<v Speaker 1>I and I asked her and I just said, how

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<v Speaker 1>old are you? And she told me that she was

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<v Speaker 1>like sixteen when she had you. She was a kid. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so you guys grew up together. We did exactly right.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I always say that, you know, my my

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<v Speaker 1>mother was the she was the navigator of the ship.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she she's not a musician, but she has

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<v Speaker 1>got musician ears. Um. And I just remember, like anything

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do, she always went uh to great

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<v Speaker 1>lengths to make sure that I had a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>really check it out. Like for example, you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>as a kid, you you change occupations like weekly, Like

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<v Speaker 1>one week, I wanted to be a fireman. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know she would take me to the local firehouse

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<v Speaker 1>to meet the fireman. You know, um, I said, in

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<v Speaker 1>one week, I wanted to be a cop. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh boy, but she was like, Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>you if you really want to, let's let's figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how that could happen. And then that changed, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to be a base a pro baseball player,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh. She actually gathered some of the other moms

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<v Speaker 1>in the neighborhood to see if we can start a

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<v Speaker 1>little league team, but we couldn't sustain the momentum. And

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<v Speaker 1>and then when I finally decided that, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be a bass player, um, without flinching, my

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<v Speaker 1>mother said, let's figure out a way to get you

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<v Speaker 1>a base and uh and that one stuck, obviously. And

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<v Speaker 1>then your dad too, was you know, a musician, right,

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<v Speaker 1>he still is, he's uh, he's he's still uh plays,

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<v Speaker 1>he's based in Philly still, but you know he's on

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<v Speaker 1>the road now as much as he was back in

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<v Speaker 1>the seventies and eighties. And uh, you know, he tells

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<v Speaker 1>the story about when I saw him play with Michoel

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<v Speaker 1>Santa Maria, and I decided that I wanted to try

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<v Speaker 1>to give the base a shot too, and uh, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. So I came home and told my mom

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<v Speaker 1>and she said, let's make it happen. M It's amazing

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<v Speaker 1>that your mom would be so supportive. She never said

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<v Speaker 1>no to me. I'll never forget that. Yeah, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of incredible. But I feel like my daughter. My daughter

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<v Speaker 1>has a new idea every week and I indulge in like, yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know that I would take her and

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<v Speaker 1>buy the equipment and do all the things. And um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty awesome. And let's talk about the other woman

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<v Speaker 1>in your life, the woman who is your wife named

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<v Speaker 1>Melissa Walker, incredible singer, amazing, amazing. I mean a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of things. How many years you married again? Coming up

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<v Speaker 1>with seventeen? Wow? And and how do you how do

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do it being apart from each other? Like

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<v Speaker 1>how do you keep it together? Ah? Well, I've always

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<v Speaker 1>heard like, like the couples that that we know have

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<v Speaker 1>been together for a very very long time, spending a

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<v Speaker 1>significant time apart seems to help them stay together a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. But um, marre all little advice you won't

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<v Speaker 1>hear everywhere, but it's true. I think it might be true. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what it makes you makes you miss the

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<v Speaker 1>person you know? Um, and plus you know Melissa and

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<v Speaker 1>I have both working musicians, you know, so we knew

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<v Speaker 1>you know, our lives were similar, you know. Um. Obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>since Jazz House Kids started to become bigger and bigger

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<v Speaker 1>and game mormentum, she's game more momentum, she spent less

0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:26.640
<v Speaker 1>and less time on the road. But when we first,

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<v Speaker 1>uh started dating, almost twenty years ago, UM, I was

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of touring my latest album at that time,

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<v Speaker 1>and so, I mean we we both realized that we

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<v Speaker 1>had to figure out how to do something together because

0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I had my own band, she had her own band

0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:52.280
<v Speaker 1>at that time. Um. And then she had started this

0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:56.680
<v Speaker 1>nonprofit organization called Jazz House Kids. And at that time,

0:14:57.320 --> 0:14:59.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, that was just something that she was doing

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<v Speaker 1>on the side, you know, like every now and then

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<v Speaker 1>when she wasn't working as a singer, you know. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then as time progressed, she started spending more and

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<v Speaker 1>more time developing Jazz House Kids. And I decided that, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>well let's do that one together, you know. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very proud of what Jazz House Kids been able to

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<v Speaker 1>do over the last uh. I mean, she she started

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<v Speaker 1>Jazz House Kids before we met, but um, it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really become her main focus until I would say, like

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<v Speaker 1>our second or third year of marriage. We'll tell everyone

0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:37.800
<v Speaker 1>what Jazz House Kids is because it's pretty cool. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Jazz House Kids is a jazz educational foundation which is

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<v Speaker 1>based in our town, Mount Clear, New Jersey. And it

0:15:46.280 --> 0:15:51.520
<v Speaker 1>started out UM with h going into different schools, which

0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:54.400
<v Speaker 1>we still are. You know, Basically, a lot of public

0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:58.840
<v Speaker 1>schools in Essex County started losing their music programs and

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<v Speaker 1>so Melissa knew a lot of UH principles and teachers

0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:06.520
<v Speaker 1>in the school systems, so they would asked Melissa to

0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:10.760
<v Speaker 1>put a group of instructors and jazz artists to come

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<v Speaker 1>in and basically give different master classes and seminars and

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<v Speaker 1>jazz to their students. And UH, one school led to another,

0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:21.560
<v Speaker 1>one school led to another, and finally we were probably

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<v Speaker 1>in about five and six schools throughout Newark and Irvington

0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:30.880
<v Speaker 1>and the Oranges and UH in two thousand fourteen we

0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:37.400
<v Speaker 1>opened our own building, UH, thank thanks to Mr Rob

0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:42.760
<v Speaker 1>Brown and you know, UH since that time we've been

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<v Speaker 1>able to see UM probably over a hundred thousand kids,

0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:52.960
<v Speaker 1>which first started out only New Jersey, but now we

0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:56.240
<v Speaker 1>have students coming as far as London and South America

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<v Speaker 1>to our summer program. UH. And then after the summer program,

0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:05.080
<v Speaker 1>we started the Moncla Jazz Festival. So Jazz House Kids

0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:08.719
<v Speaker 1>has turned into quite the organization. Very proud of us

0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:12.760
<v Speaker 1>and you guys together or you started the Montclair Jazz Festival.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, you know what what happened? What the Monclad

0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:21.240
<v Speaker 1>Jazz Festival. It was completely accidental. Um. We were trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out what to do during the summertime because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we had we had staff. You know, we

0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:32.000
<v Speaker 1>couldn't put staff. You know, hey guys, you know, uh,

0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:35.240
<v Speaker 1>uh have a great summer, will pay you in September,

0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:37.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, So we had to figure out how to

0:17:37.720 --> 0:17:40.680
<v Speaker 1>keep it going. So we started a summer program two

0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:47.680
<v Speaker 1>weeks summer intensive, uh course. Um. And at the end

0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:52.560
<v Speaker 1>of those two weeks, we figured that we would start, um,

0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:54.679
<v Speaker 1>you know, just have like a little end of the

0:17:54.720 --> 0:17:58.080
<v Speaker 1>summer program concert for the kids. And so we had

0:17:58.119 --> 0:18:02.000
<v Speaker 1>this free concert in niche Wane Park and uh, at

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<v Speaker 1>that time, it was only the parents of the kids

0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:08.720
<v Speaker 1>who came to the summer program, which at that time

0:18:08.840 --> 0:18:14.200
<v Speaker 1>probably were I don't know, a hundred kids maybe, And

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<v Speaker 1>the following year we wind up getting like a hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and twenty five kids and more parents showed up in

0:18:20.119 --> 0:18:22.800
<v Speaker 1>a couple more people from the neighborhood showed up. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the third year, which I believe was two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>eleven maybe or two thousand and twelve, I can't remember. Um,

0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember what year was, we invited the great

0:18:35.840 --> 0:18:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Monte Alexander to come and uh perform with us. And

0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:41.600
<v Speaker 1>we didn't even have a piano. He played on like

0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:46.840
<v Speaker 1>a little keyboard. And at some point we looked at

0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:50.200
<v Speaker 1>each other with you know, let's invite another musician to

0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:54.040
<v Speaker 1>come and play, get a bigger stage, and let's see

0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:56.120
<v Speaker 1>what happens. And then next thing, you know, the mont

0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:59.880
<v Speaker 1>clar Jazz Festival was born. Now this is an annual

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<v Speaker 1>of in Montclair for yeah, and so when is it

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<v Speaker 1>happening this summer? Well, it's it's going to be happening

0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:10.639
<v Speaker 1>the weekend after Labor Day. Shame on me for not

0:19:10.720 --> 0:19:15.800
<v Speaker 1>knowing the exact dates, but um, the second weekend of September.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good, that's better than the summer. Yes, Well, do

0:19:20.480 --> 0:19:22.959
<v Speaker 1>you do the Newport Jazz every year because you were

0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:26.880
<v Speaker 1>the master of ceremonies or I know it's a bigger name.

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<v Speaker 1>What is what is your you know Newport Jazz? Yes, yes,

0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:35.239
<v Speaker 1>I've been artistic director of the Newport Jazz Yes, uh,

0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:40.760
<v Speaker 1>since and the man who created the Newport Jazz Festival

0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:44.440
<v Speaker 1>of the late George Ween. That man was an icon.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, he created the template for the music festival.

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<v Speaker 1>So every every festival has ever happened from Monterey, both

0:19:53.280 --> 0:19:58.160
<v Speaker 1>the jazz and the pop festival, Woodstock, the New Orleans

0:19:58.240 --> 0:20:01.840
<v Speaker 1>Jazz and Heritage Festival, which he started, the Hampton Jazz Festival,

0:20:02.359 --> 0:20:06.200
<v Speaker 1>the Old Cool Jazz Festival from the seventies and eighties, um,

0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:09.840
<v Speaker 1>all the way up to festivals now like Coachella and

0:20:10.000 --> 0:20:13.879
<v Speaker 1>Burning Man and Bonarum, all of these big music festivals.

0:20:14.480 --> 0:20:18.560
<v Speaker 1>That template was started by George Ween in nineteen fifty four,

0:20:19.119 --> 0:20:24.040
<v Speaker 1>and you know he became, uh, you know, literally one

0:20:24.080 --> 0:20:27.040
<v Speaker 1>of the most important figures in the history of music.

0:20:27.080 --> 0:20:32.600
<v Speaker 1>So uh, I knew George fairly well, not that well,

0:20:32.640 --> 0:20:38.680
<v Speaker 1>but fairly well. And in he asked me to join

0:20:38.840 --> 0:20:42.400
<v Speaker 1>him in Washington, d C. For a round table discussion

0:20:42.440 --> 0:20:45.359
<v Speaker 1>on the history of the Newport Jazz Festival. And I

0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:49.280
<v Speaker 1>was stumped because I thought, why is he calling me? Sure,

0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:52.040
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of other musicians who have a much

0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:55.280
<v Speaker 1>longer history with the Newport Jazz festival than I do.

0:20:56.080 --> 0:20:59.000
<v Speaker 1>And uh so I went down there and Dan Morgenstern,

0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:02.640
<v Speaker 1>who used to run the uh um at at at

0:21:02.720 --> 0:21:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Rutgers um he listened to the jazz studies. Uh, it

0:21:07.600 --> 0:21:09.560
<v Speaker 1>was just the three of us on this panel, and

0:21:09.560 --> 0:21:13.439
<v Speaker 1>and so that O'Brien was the moderator. And I'm just

0:21:13.480 --> 0:21:19.000
<v Speaker 1>sitting there like, why am I here? I w I

0:21:19.080 --> 0:21:25.840
<v Speaker 1>had no idea, So yeah, right exactly. So I suppose

0:21:26.040 --> 0:21:29.040
<v Speaker 1>I did a good job on the panel. And uh

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<v Speaker 1>the next year, George says, coming from my house for

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<v Speaker 1>for lunch, and uh, I said okay, And Melissa says, well,

0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:39.320
<v Speaker 1>what do you think he wants? I said, I don't know.

0:21:39.440 --> 0:21:42.359
<v Speaker 1>He might ask me to be uh you know, artists

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<v Speaker 1>and residents or something that at Newport next year. And

0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:48.520
<v Speaker 1>she said, I don't know if he was going to

0:21:48.600 --> 0:21:50.520
<v Speaker 1>ask you that. He could probably ask you that over

0:21:50.560 --> 0:21:53.960
<v Speaker 1>the phone, you know. Uh So I went over to

0:21:54.040 --> 0:21:58.119
<v Speaker 1>his apartment and I got there and he said, Christian,

0:21:58.119 --> 0:22:00.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you're here. Let's go into my office. And

0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:03.040
<v Speaker 1>he told his assistant to shut the door. And I'm

0:22:03.080 --> 0:22:07.200
<v Speaker 1>getting nervous, you know, like what does he want? And uh,

0:22:07.400 --> 0:22:10.160
<v Speaker 1>he says, you know, Christian, I've been. Uh, I've been

0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:12.600
<v Speaker 1>spying on you. You know, I've been. I've been. I've

0:22:12.600 --> 0:22:15.040
<v Speaker 1>been checking you out from Afar for a long time.

0:22:15.119 --> 0:22:17.440
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I've seen what you've been doing. You.

0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I already know what you've been doing as a bass player.

0:22:19.640 --> 0:22:21.240
<v Speaker 1>I've I've you know, I've been watching to do that

0:22:21.280 --> 0:22:23.600
<v Speaker 1>since you were a teenager. But like, you know, the

0:22:23.640 --> 0:22:26.200
<v Speaker 1>whole thing you were doing out of the Hollywood Bowl,

0:22:26.560 --> 0:22:28.400
<v Speaker 1>what you've been doing in n j pack, what you've

0:22:28.440 --> 0:22:30.399
<v Speaker 1>been doing with your wife and jazz I was kids,

0:22:31.280 --> 0:22:33.719
<v Speaker 1>what you've been doing on NPR and all this all

0:22:33.840 --> 0:22:38.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, serious sex, m and all this stuff. He said, Uh,

0:22:38.880 --> 0:22:42.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm stepping down from the Newport Jazz Festival. I'm eighty

0:22:42.480 --> 0:22:47.400
<v Speaker 1>nine years old, and it's about time, Um someone else

0:22:47.520 --> 0:22:50.600
<v Speaker 1>runs the ship and me and the board decided that

0:22:50.640 --> 0:22:54.280
<v Speaker 1>you'd be the person to run it. And uh, you

0:22:54.280 --> 0:22:56.440
<v Speaker 1>could have knocked me over with the feathers, like are

0:22:56.560 --> 0:23:01.280
<v Speaker 1>you kidding me? Really? And uh, he said, well, you know,

0:23:01.400 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 1>I like the fact that you don't seem to have

0:23:03.560 --> 0:23:08.000
<v Speaker 1>any particular musical biases, you know, it's I like the

0:23:08.000 --> 0:23:11.680
<v Speaker 1>fact that you worked with so many different types of artists,

0:23:12.160 --> 0:23:14.640
<v Speaker 1>and you seem at home with all of them. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way I want my festival run after. I'm going.

0:23:35.359 --> 0:23:37.520
<v Speaker 1>First of all, you've done so much I can't even

0:23:37.560 --> 0:23:41.000
<v Speaker 1>like begin to list it. You got a couple of podcasts,

0:23:41.000 --> 0:23:45.639
<v Speaker 1>you got radio, you got radio shows. What haven't you done? Like,

0:23:46.040 --> 0:23:48.600
<v Speaker 1>what haven't you done that you think? Wow? Like, do

0:23:48.600 --> 0:23:50.960
<v Speaker 1>you want a line of I don't know? Socks? I

0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:56.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Is there any weird things? That's what's missing.

0:23:56.240 --> 0:23:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I can see guys in jazz clubs wearing some really colorful,

0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:02.000
<v Speaker 1>cool socks. Well, I'm going to listen to you guys

0:24:02.000 --> 0:24:04.520
<v Speaker 1>on that one. So maybe, yeah, maybe I'll check out

0:24:04.520 --> 0:24:08.200
<v Speaker 1>the socks. Uh. I don't know what if I always

0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:11.240
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do? Um, Bobby, I'm glad you weren't around

0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:13.000
<v Speaker 1>when this happened. But I'll tell you something that I

0:24:13.040 --> 0:24:16.840
<v Speaker 1>did a little bucket list thing. Um. I went to Trend,

0:24:17.680 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 1>our local coffee shop in Montclaire on a Monday night

0:24:22.280 --> 0:24:26.880
<v Speaker 1>when they had opened Mica or comedy night. And so

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I did. I did stand up? Oh did phenomenal. I

0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:34.800
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I was phenomenal, but I didn't get booed.

0:24:35.400 --> 0:24:37.360
<v Speaker 1>We thought you did it. That's such a big deal.

0:24:37.440 --> 0:24:39.960
<v Speaker 1>It is hard. I took a stand up class ones

0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:42.720
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, never again. I mean it was

0:24:43.480 --> 0:24:45.560
<v Speaker 1>I took it at the forcing of my manager, my

0:24:45.600 --> 0:24:50.960
<v Speaker 1>old manager, Rich Nichols. You probably know because you know, yeah,

0:24:51.280 --> 0:24:55.320
<v Speaker 1>Rich was my old manager. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love

0:24:55.480 --> 0:24:57.600
<v Speaker 1>I miss him so much. But yeah, he was my

0:24:57.720 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 1>first manager when I was working at Google. It's a

0:25:00.320 --> 0:25:02.760
<v Speaker 1>really weird, long story that will not make any sense

0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:04.960
<v Speaker 1>in this podcast, but yeah, I'll tell you about that

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:06.680
<v Speaker 1>the other time. But yeah, he was. He was trying

0:25:06.680 --> 0:25:08.119
<v Speaker 1>to get me to do this sort of stuff like

0:25:08.160 --> 0:25:11.480
<v Speaker 1>interviews and stuff, and then he forced me. He said,

0:25:11.520 --> 0:25:13.159
<v Speaker 1>you have to get out of your head because I

0:25:13.160 --> 0:25:15.520
<v Speaker 1>would always have no cards and like prep. Bobby noses

0:25:15.560 --> 0:25:18.080
<v Speaker 1>about me with like my prep for interviews. He's like,

0:25:18.119 --> 0:25:20.320
<v Speaker 1>you need to take an improv class and you're taking

0:25:20.320 --> 0:25:23.120
<v Speaker 1>a stand up class, like absolutely not not doing it.

0:25:23.400 --> 0:25:26.439
<v Speaker 1>And I did both. And the improv was fun because

0:25:26.440 --> 0:25:27.920
<v Speaker 1>you just like get out of your head and it's

0:25:27.920 --> 0:25:31.040
<v Speaker 1>really good for like speaking. But the I mean, you're

0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:33.679
<v Speaker 1>a jazz musician, you know about improv though bad. But

0:25:33.880 --> 0:25:36.560
<v Speaker 1>the stand up I was like, this ship is hard,

0:25:36.840 --> 0:25:40.639
<v Speaker 1>Like I love stand up and it was I was like,

0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I am not funny, Like, I'm not not that kind

0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:47.040
<v Speaker 1>of funny. It's really hard, but yeah, Rich Nichols is

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:51.359
<v Speaker 1>who I made me do. Incredible world. This world is

0:25:51.400 --> 0:25:54.920
<v Speaker 1>always shrinking by the day. Yeah, I'm You're and Tarka

0:25:55.000 --> 0:26:01.000
<v Speaker 1>old friends, James Poyser the whole like rude script. Yeh yeah.

0:26:01.040 --> 0:26:04.520
<v Speaker 1>I went into Trend one day and the young lady

0:26:04.560 --> 0:26:07.879
<v Speaker 1>behind the cash registers said, uh, she says, you know,

0:26:08.160 --> 0:26:12.800
<v Speaker 1>I've heard your show on once here at Sexam. She said,

0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 1>I actually think you're funny. I said, well, thank you. Uh.

0:26:16.440 --> 0:26:18.639
<v Speaker 1>She said you should come do open NC tonight. I

0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:20.600
<v Speaker 1>was like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:22.880
<v Speaker 1>no way in hell I'm doing that. I am a musician.

0:26:23.320 --> 0:26:26.479
<v Speaker 1>I love comedy behind that's that's different than going up

0:26:26.520 --> 0:26:29.840
<v Speaker 1>on stage and and making a fool out of yourself.

0:26:30.040 --> 0:26:32.360
<v Speaker 1>You know. She said, no, I'm gonna put your name

0:26:32.400 --> 0:26:34.240
<v Speaker 1>on the list. I said no, no, no, don't do that.

0:26:34.359 --> 0:26:37.680
<v Speaker 1>Please don't do that. And she's like, look, be here,

0:26:37.760 --> 0:26:40.159
<v Speaker 1>seven thirty, I'm putting your name on the list. I

0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:45.359
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh ship, So I called the list. I said, listen, uh,

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:49.120
<v Speaker 1>go home, get a couple of bags back because we

0:26:49.200 --> 0:26:54.160
<v Speaker 1>might have to leave town around eighty. Can we catch

0:26:54.240 --> 0:27:01.200
<v Speaker 1>this on YouTube anywhere? It's got no open my god, wait,

0:27:01.240 --> 0:27:03.240
<v Speaker 1>I want to see Bobby do open Mike. I think

0:27:03.280 --> 0:27:06.200
<v Speaker 1>we need to do like Couples Night. I could try.

0:27:07.560 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 1>I could only do open mic night if I had

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<v Speaker 1>the Christian McBride cocktail that I'm obsessed with. So can

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us, Hollas more, what is in the cocktail?

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<v Speaker 1>It's the best thing I ever tasted, which I had.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually didn't know what was in it until I

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<v Speaker 1>got there. I mean I didn't create that. I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that was vodka in it. That's all I care about. Yeah,

0:27:29.440 --> 0:27:32.320
<v Speaker 1>me too, I'm a vodka drinker. But it was so refreshing.

0:27:32.320 --> 0:27:34.960
<v Speaker 1>There was a touch of soda, there was a touch

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<v Speaker 1>of line, and there was a little um not. It's

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<v Speaker 1>something that made it pink. Yes, it started with the

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<v Speaker 1>a yes, yes, yeah. I never knew that apperall and

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<v Speaker 1>vodka work together. So everything oh so Christian. You could

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<v Speaker 1>add a little hot chili to the operall. Here's a

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<v Speaker 1>hot tip. You put you stuff a bunch of like

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<v Speaker 1>tai chilis into the apple. Use it. No, it's really good.

0:28:02.600 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 1>And just infuse it and just like let it be.

0:28:05.160 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 1>I have one that's been baking in my liquor cabinet

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<v Speaker 1>for like a year, and it's gonna be solid like

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<v Speaker 1>a little kick. Yeah. And and also I've won one

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<v Speaker 1>very important question. What do you do for self care?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you do? Self care? Is self care what you do?

0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:30.239
<v Speaker 1>But do you pay it? I mean from traveling, it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you keep yourself healthy and feel good? I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what I have become an acupulture freak. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to think things like acupuncture and massages all man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's just some corny, hyhebrow stuff, but it

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<v Speaker 1>is not. I really wish that was more standard in

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<v Speaker 1>in American culture, you know, like I'm talking like serious,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like professional massus is and and acupulcture. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean that really does wonders from me. And do you

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<v Speaker 1>just get a strange person like you just get when

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<v Speaker 1>you go into town or call my acupuncturists at home

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<v Speaker 1>and I get her to give me a list of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like give me a network. Who should I

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<v Speaker 1>call in Chicago? Who should I call in l A,

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<v Speaker 1>Who should I call in San Francisco? Are you doing

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<v Speaker 1>this first specific ailment, not to get into your business.

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<v Speaker 1>But or is it like just general health and wellness

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<v Speaker 1>or is it for like pain, just general health and wellness. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>acupuncture is amazing. I'm a big fan. Yeah. About ten

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, UM, I threw my back out and I

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<v Speaker 1>never experienced serious back pain before. And so my friend,

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<v Speaker 1>the great drummer Lewis Nash, she said, oh, man, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta you gotta do accupuncture. I was saying, hey man,

0:29:46.080 --> 0:29:48.440
<v Speaker 1>that's that's when they stick all those needles in you

0:29:48.560 --> 0:29:51.239
<v Speaker 1>man nine doing that. It's another way. You gotta do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's worth it. So Melissa and I went and we

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<v Speaker 1>went to Chinatown and uh, and we had an accupuncture

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<v Speaker 1>session together, and uh, I thought, you know, just say

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<v Speaker 1>too bad. And eventually my back pain started going away.

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<v Speaker 1>And obviously took a lot of stretching and things to

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<v Speaker 1>go along with it, but I became hooked on it.

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:13.920
<v Speaker 1>I did it a lot when I was pregnant, like

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<v Speaker 1>all through my pregnancy, and I'm convinced that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>had a touch with largely uneventful pregnancy and like no

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<v Speaker 1>pain it was. And I'm sure that the accupucture an Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure like it kept me active the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was incredible. Trying to get my mother to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, oh no, I know my mom would do

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<v Speaker 1>it either. She's like all this kneat pain and like mom,

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<v Speaker 1>trust us, and she's like I'm not sticking needles, Like

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<v Speaker 1>just like trust us. Like we're Asian, we're Indians. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work. No, don't do it. S hard to break

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<v Speaker 1>the role school. And how about food? Do you eat

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<v Speaker 1>anything special? Or you eat everything? You've seen me? You

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<v Speaker 1>see my sheep? Yeah, you go up and down, you

0:30:58.200 --> 0:30:59.960
<v Speaker 1>go up and down. Yeah, I go up and down.

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<v Speaker 1>Um I've yeah, I fall off the wagon pretty hard

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<v Speaker 1>during COVID. I think you know um, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a particular I mean, I absolutely love, love, love,

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<v Speaker 1>love love Indian food, but I don't think it loves

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<v Speaker 1>me as much as I love Bere. There's a new

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<v Speaker 1>place that just opened. I'm gonna give you a tip.

0:31:29.640 --> 0:31:33.960
<v Speaker 1>It's called Basil. It's the best Indian food. It's Indian tie,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's more Indian and in time as like intensely

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:41.720
<v Speaker 1>spicy as other Indian food. It's in watch On Plaza.

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<v Speaker 1>So just f y I up and take out. You

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<v Speaker 1>will call me up and say, wow, I've never had

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<v Speaker 1>Indian tie. That sounds so young. Indian Chinese is like

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<v Speaker 1>a thing that's a whole genre of food, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with Indian Chinese. But I've never heard of Indian time.

0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 1>Indian time. Yeah, I think I have to use as

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<v Speaker 1>in my in laws and Bobby and Christian McBride and

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<v Speaker 1>Jersey and that the Indian type with Well, Mr McBride,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you, thank you for joining us. Are

0:32:10.880 --> 0:32:14.560
<v Speaker 1>you kidding? What an honor? Thank you for having me. Wait, Bobby,

0:32:14.560 --> 0:32:16.640
<v Speaker 1>you have to ask your final question, right, I always

0:32:16.680 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 1>ask everyone the same question. If people listening could hear

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<v Speaker 1>the advice of Christian McBride, what is the one thing

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<v Speaker 1>that they could do to change the course of their life?

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<v Speaker 1>Stop taking themselves so seriously? Amen, You're really We're really important,

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<v Speaker 1>but to an extent, we can be laughed at, at

0:32:43.760 --> 0:32:48.600
<v Speaker 1>particularly bar at ourselves. Yeah. Well, I just my only

0:32:48.640 --> 0:32:50.400
<v Speaker 1>regret in life is that I didn't see you on

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<v Speaker 1>the stand up. So I'm going to have to see

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody recorded on their phone, because I'm sure I'll

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<v Speaker 1>do it again one of these days when when no

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<v Speaker 1>one I hope you're all saying to do the movement

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<v Speaker 1>revisited again because I want to see that. Thank you. Yes, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know when I'm playing. Actually, we just got

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<v Speaker 1>an offer to do it up in Toronto, but I

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<v Speaker 1>know there's talk of us trying to do it maybe

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<v Speaker 1>at Carnegie Hall sometime. Okay, well that would be easier

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<v Speaker 1>for me to get to. But Toronto has come up

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<v Speaker 1>three times in the past twenty four hours, from not kidding,

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<v Speaker 1>from three very different people of everybody telling me it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to go to Toronto. You're gonna have so

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:31.600
<v Speaker 1>much fun in Toronto. So I think if you can

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<v Speaker 1>arrange it around my schedule, the company in Toronto, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean midtown's easier. I'm not gonna lie like about, sister.

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<v Speaker 1>Toronto is definitely the New York of the North. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And can everyone find out where you are on your website?

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<v Speaker 1>How do people Christian McBride dot com, Christian McBride dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you on Instagram and all that stuff? I'm on gram,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the Facebook, Twitter, all that all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok have you done? Have you done? TikTok? Have a

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok account? I don't really use it. Yeah, well we'll

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<v Speaker 1>save that for another day. Christian, I could sit here

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:10.719
<v Speaker 1>all day and talk. I just I just there's something

0:34:10.760 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 1>about you. From the second I met you, I just

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<v Speaker 1>love you, not because of what you do, because of

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<v Speaker 1>who you are. You are just one of those special spirits.

0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I'm just really feel grateful that you're

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<v Speaker 1>my friends. So thanks for coming on. Oh Bobby, the

0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:27.319
<v Speaker 1>feeling is more than mutual, you know that. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's an honor to speak with you, and Anjeli great

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you too, and yeah, let's get together and

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Rich Nichols and and all the Reeks crew

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<v Speaker 1>one of these days. I cannot wait. Well, I'll see

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<v Speaker 1>you at the next open mic, apparently be in line two.