Speaker 1: It's only weeks before we go to Costa Rica.
Speaker 2: I can't fucking wait.
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Speaker 2: You guys, stop waiting and go ahead and book that trip.
Speaker 2: Because we've handled everything for you. This is an all
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Speaker 2: so our titties are about to be out.
Speaker 1: Our titties are definitely going to be out.
Speaker 3: We're going to have tarot readers, natal chart readings, a
Speaker 3: goddess bath, excursion to the waterfall, daily yoga, gourmet meals.
Speaker 1: You know that's top of my list because I likes
Speaker 1: to eat.
Speaker 2: We have a little beach party, a pool party. It's
Speaker 2: gonna be a party all and I can't wait to
Speaker 2: see you guys there. If you guys have been thinking
Speaker 2: about prioritizing your self care and you're like, when the
Speaker 2: fuck am I actually going to do this, this is
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Speaker 1: Girl, you don't have to be a mom to join us.
Speaker 3: You just have to be a woman who wants to hang,
Speaker 3: connect and have a good time and relax. So we're
Speaker 3: so excited to see you in the jungle. And guess what,
Speaker 3: you can even ask friends and family to contribute to
Speaker 3: your trip. When people ask you what you want for Christmas,
Speaker 3: tell them put some money on this retreat for me.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, there's a little link in the website where
Speaker 2: you book your trip where people can make donations. So
Speaker 2: go ahead and ask that baby daddy, as that lover,
Speaker 2: ask that mama, ask whoever put five on my trip? Okay,
Speaker 2: ho ho ho. Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.
Speaker 1: I'm Erica and I'm me and.
Speaker 2: It's Wednesday, bitches, Happy Wednesday.
Speaker 1: Happy mother fucking Wednesday.
Speaker 2: Guys. We're back in New York City, our favorite place,
Speaker 2: the place that when we're here, it's very highly recommended
Speaker 2: that you join our Close Friends because more times than not,
Speaker 2: we're up to some shit. We definitely have been up
Speaker 2: to some shit. I'm so sorry if you're not part
Speaker 2: of Close Friends, because then our stories have expired from
Speaker 2: the Harder.
Speaker 1: Soft show, which you didn't want to miss.
Speaker 2: Wow, legendary. We are not a sex podcast. I've been
Speaker 2: telling me a lot since that show. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 2: we're not a sex podcast. No, because people always like
Speaker 2: categorize us as that. Nope, Nope, we are fucking.
Speaker 1: Pg as fuck compared to that parents parents fuck.
Speaker 3: We try to be cool, but it doesn't compare to
Speaker 3: the Harder Soft sex podcast.
Speaker 1: How are you feeling, my dear.
Speaker 2: I'm good. I you know, when I'm here, I just
Speaker 2: love being here. There's like an energy in New York
Speaker 2: that just speaks to my soul, my spirit. I'm staying
Speaker 2: in Brooklyn, which I usually stay in the city, which
Speaker 2: has been nice, and now I get like y, like,
Speaker 2: don't ever want to leave Brooklyn. People keep asking me
Speaker 2: to come to the city.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I do love Brooklyn. And you know, it's
Speaker 3: fall here, we get seasons. It's not like La where
Speaker 3: it's ninety eight degrees.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 3: It's so nice, Like I feel creative when I'm in
Speaker 3: New York and I just love it here. Can't wait
Speaker 3: to we get that Brownstone baby, it's coming.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 3: Without further ado, we have a very special guest that
Speaker 3: we actually met at the Hardersoft Podcast live show this weekend,
Speaker 3: So please welcome the Lovely amazing, Sir Marvelous, Hello, Hello,
Speaker 3: Hello professional dom cancer father extraordinaire.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'll do it all.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: I'm so happy to be here with you. I am.
Speaker 4: This is like super excited.
Speaker 5: As soon as I stay, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 5: I wanted to she's seen my own performance.
Speaker 4: Hopefully she bring me on the show.
Speaker 1: Oh we saw that.
Speaker 2: So he came up to me at the show and
Speaker 2: was like, uh. He mentioned he was like, oh, you
Speaker 2: should have me as a guest on your podcast, and
Speaker 2: I was like okay, and he was like, did you
Speaker 2: see my performance? And I was like no, I did not.
Speaker 1: However, but then we.
Speaker 2: Went to the play party afterwards and I saw his
Speaker 2: performance up close and personal. I was just like literally
Speaker 2: up close and personal, and I was.
Speaker 3: Like she was She was literally like talking to me
Speaker 3: like she was. It was like going to a movie
Speaker 3: and like the bitch is talking. I was like, I
Speaker 3: don't think you're supposed to be talking. I think he
Speaker 3: brought her pussy. That was a pussy, the fire, the
Speaker 3: fire her pussy. Okay, So if you guys don't know
Speaker 3: so Marvelous, you should go check him out. He's a dumb,
Speaker 3: but I don't know if this is true, but I'm
Speaker 3: gonna go ahead and say it. He specializes in fire play,
Speaker 3: and he was doing some magic tricks with that pussy
Speaker 3: with the fire and it looks a little scary. But
Speaker 3: I also I was like, can I happen to my pussy?
Speaker 3: I'm scared, but I want to try it.
Speaker 2: I was yeah, same, I was like, what how please? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Th fireplay is literally the epitome of what BDS that
Speaker 5: is to me, so on the outside looking in, a
Speaker 5: lot of things that we do in BDSM could be
Speaker 5: very intimidating, and fireplay is probably one of the most
Speaker 5: intimidating things to think about trying. Nobody wakes up like
Speaker 5: I want to put fire them up us here, right,
Speaker 5: But when you're in a room with somebody who's a professional,
Speaker 5: they could explain the science behind it, why it burns
Speaker 5: at a lower temperature, to sensation, it feels, all of
Speaker 5: that great stuff. Then you're like wow, like I can't
Speaker 5: believe I was so afraid to try, or you know whatever.
Speaker 5: Same thing with impact play and you know, everything else
Speaker 5: that we do.
Speaker 3: So well for our listeners who are vanilla because we're
Speaker 3: not a sex podcast, what is BDSM.
Speaker 5: So BDSM to me, I'm not going to use the
Speaker 5: traditional definitions or whatever. For me what I do in
Speaker 5: my personal life, I look at it as an extension
Speaker 5: of foreplay. So a lot of times I feel like
Speaker 5: four play is missing from the sexual experience. So a
Speaker 5: lot of the things that I do personally, I just
Speaker 5: look at it as four play sensation play. You know,
Speaker 5: whether it be taking away someone's ability to see, ability
Speaker 5: to move, these are ways to heighten the experience. Using
Speaker 5: different tools to create different sensations on the body to
Speaker 5: encourage blood flow is something that we are like big
Speaker 5: on when it comes to different forms of play. But
Speaker 5: everything is about just providing a different sensation from my experience.
Speaker 5: There are other psychological aspects to it, like when you
Speaker 5: talk about the dominant submissive versions of BDSM, where your
Speaker 5: people are in relationships in there, you know they have
Speaker 5: specific rules in ways that they go about, you know
Speaker 5: how they're going to navigate their dynamics.
Speaker 4: But for me, it's just for play. It's just full
Speaker 4: play for me.
Speaker 2: So how did you get into this play and how
Speaker 2: did you like? Yeah, has it been something that you've
Speaker 2: always felt a natural knack for or was it was
Speaker 2: it introduced to you by someone.
Speaker 3: Do you remember your first time? And you're like, wow,
Speaker 3: I do like to control a bitch. Wow, this seems fun.
Speaker 5: Well, to be honest, I'm less controlling than well. No,
Speaker 5: that's a lie, because I'm very directive when I am
Speaker 5: seeing with someone, but it's not so much that I
Speaker 5: want to control. What happened was I've always been into
Speaker 5: sex toys. I mentioned this all the time. I brought
Speaker 5: my first sex story when I was sixteen years old.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 5: And it was by accident, and I was just looking
Speaker 5: for a way to last longer in bed because I
Speaker 5: was dating a woman I was older than me at
Speaker 5: the time, and I kept coming fast. So I went
Speaker 5: on Google trying to find something to learn how to
Speaker 5: stop coming so fast, And then Google led me to
Speaker 5: these stories about women talking about their experiences sexually and
Speaker 5: how their only way they get to come is with
Speaker 5: their vibrator. And I was like, hmm, I kept hearing vibrator, vibratior, vibrator,
Speaker 5: and I'm like, let me go buy a vibrator. I
Speaker 5: used it during sex with my partner, and I was
Speaker 5: so entertained by how.
Speaker 4: Much pleasure she was experienced. I didn't even think about coming.
Speaker 5: And I was like, Wow, you know what if this
Speaker 5: one toy does this, let me see if I can
Speaker 5: buy more and more and more. And I just started collecting.
Speaker 5: I had no idea that a lot of the type
Speaker 5: of players that I was doing was kinky or anything.
Speaker 4: I just thought I was a freak.
Speaker 6: Oh.
Speaker 4: My friend's like, yo, you're a big freaking all these
Speaker 4: toys in your house.
Speaker 2: I was like, were these toys in your mom?
Speaker 4: Well, your parents? You know us boys, teenage boys, we
Speaker 4: have some secret hottest bots under the mattress. And all
Speaker 4: this as being a.
Speaker 2: Mom and opening up your son's drawer and being like.
Speaker 1: Oh I had I had. I had a vibrator in
Speaker 1: high school.
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, like a boy, my son, I'd be like, wow,
Speaker 3: I would be proud. I would be like, but my
Speaker 3: son is very he's very ahead of his game. And
Speaker 3: I am a proud mother.
Speaker 4: I was raised my grandmother, so she was more.
Speaker 3: So it's safe to say she never found your box trick.
Speaker 5: Actually, confessionist, the first time I've ever admitted this. I
Speaker 5: came home one day and all of my toys and
Speaker 5: pornos and stuff was on my bed.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Grandma.
Speaker 5: Literally, I was like, I was blow it away, and
Speaker 5: I knew that the home atendant had to help her
Speaker 5: take all that stuff out. My drawers because my hiding
Speaker 5: place I had these like like six tier draw big
Speaker 5: dresser draw, a big old fashioned dresser, and I said,
Speaker 5: and it was so deep. I used to pull the
Speaker 5: drawers out and put everything behind the draw and then
Speaker 5: put the drawer back in. And apparently I had something
Speaker 5: sticking out from under it, and they found it that way,
Speaker 5: and I came home and everything was laid out on it,
Speaker 5: and she was like, what is this.
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know, I don't know. My
Speaker 4: favorite it wasn't mine. It's not mine my room, but
Speaker 4: it ain't mine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I've been checking out your pins. He
Speaker 2: is so marvelous. Is if you're watching this episode then
Speaker 2: he's very looking quite dapper. Right now. He's wearing navy
Speaker 2: blue suit with a burgundy tie, and he has.
Speaker 1: These two pins.
Speaker 2: One is a vibrator, yes, yes, At first I wasn't
Speaker 2: sure what that was and I was like.
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, it's the magic one is magic.
Speaker 1: I've seen that one. That's how I could identify it.
Speaker 1: And the other is a whip floggerger podcaster. I told you,
Speaker 1: I'm not even I know that ship.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, these are two of my favorite toys, probably
Speaker 5: two of the most popular toys in general. So you know,
Speaker 5: I might have to get a rose and put that
Speaker 5: on here now because the Rose is stepping.
Speaker 1: Up broad review about that rose. I gotta get that,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: Actually, my sub said he was gonna I'm a sub,
Speaker 3: but I'm also a dom in my DMS.
Speaker 1: If no one knew I do.
Speaker 3: I have a sub in my DM specifically, and he
Speaker 3: calls me Daddy Mila, and he actually said he was
Speaker 3: going to send Erica and I money for the Rose.
Speaker 3: We've spent it on dinner, but maybe maybe he'll send.
Speaker 4: More beautiful beautiful.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've heard great reviews about this rose. My friend
Speaker 2: said it to me a while ago, and I was like,
Speaker 2: maybe you don't know. I was like, m But then
Speaker 2: I just keeps popping up, Like I swear, the last month,
Speaker 2: someone has like talked to me about this shit at
Speaker 2: least three to four times, So I think you have
Speaker 2: my money coming.
Speaker 4: I'm so jealous.
Speaker 5: We don't have as many great sex toy as far
Speaker 5: as but they're coming out more and more.
Speaker 3: Please ask Orlando that Nigga has about Oh yeah, next
Speaker 3: toy that a man like.
Speaker 2: What is appealing to you as a man like in
Speaker 2: a sex toy?
Speaker 1: What are you looking for?
Speaker 5: I mean, I think most men we just want something
Speaker 5: that's wet and warm to stick on things.
Speaker 2: I know, sounds crazy, it sounds accurate, it makes sense,
Speaker 2: but yeah.
Speaker 4: I think it would be dope.
Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure they have it now where you can
Speaker 5: like control the bluetooth, so like perhaps if your partners
Speaker 5: like on the other side of the world or whatever,
Speaker 5: they can control how.
Speaker 2: Oh they do shout out to satisfire. If you guys
Speaker 2: haven't tried satisfied, they have the SATISFI or connect app.
Speaker 2: We love Satisfire and that shit really works because I've
Speaker 2: used it across the country.
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, you.
Speaker 2: Can also fuck to your own You can also fuck
Speaker 2: to music.
Speaker 5: Yes, that's something I love to do so and during
Speaker 5: my sessions, I have one of the Lush toys and
Speaker 5: I connected to my playlist that everybody was getting that
Speaker 5: meal atn't play the party, but yeah, I connected to
Speaker 5: my playlist and as the playlist gets more intense, the sodas,
Speaker 5: the vibrations so during their massage, they're filling that experience
Speaker 5: and then once that happens, I.
Speaker 4: Take them over to the cross and now this stuff
Speaker 4: happens after that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well you talked about like exploring toys at a
Speaker 3: very young age. When did you, like, at what point
Speaker 3: did you become a professional dumb?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 5: So I went through a breakup with my ex fiance
Speaker 5: and I finally got my mojo bag got on Tender.
Speaker 3: Wait side note, he's a cancer was a table full
Speaker 3: of modern signs. Yes, you know we have a hard
Speaker 3: time letting go. Oh trust me, your people hoarders, I'll
Speaker 3: speak for you when I say I know.
Speaker 5: So I was going through break and finally got my
Speaker 5: mojo back and I joined Tender and I met this
Speaker 5: woman on there. At first, I didn't think she was
Speaker 5: a woman at all, mainly because the way she was speaking.
Speaker 5: As soon as we got as soon as the conversation started,
Speaker 5: she was like yeah.
Speaker 4: I was like, you know, sell me some things. You
Speaker 4: like you're into it.
Speaker 5: She's like, yeah, I want a man and control me,
Speaker 5: tell me what to do, you know, fuck me hard
Speaker 5: and treat me like a slut. And I'm like I'm like,
Speaker 5: this is literally like five minutes into the conversation, I'm like,
Speaker 5: no woman really speaks like that, especially you know, someone
Speaker 5: that seems to have so much going for yourself, Like
Speaker 5: why are you just throwing it so like red flag?
Speaker 5: You're trying to steal my kidneys or some shit like that.
Speaker 5: But I was like, you know, that's a red flag.
Speaker 5: She let it go, and then we started a conversation
Speaker 5: about something else, and then the conversation once again came up, like, hey, so.
Speaker 4: Tell me some things you like. Well, I like to
Speaker 4: be treated like a slut and whatever.
Speaker 1: I'm maybe put that in my profile.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, long walks on the beach and being
Speaker 2: treated like a slut, like a slat.
Speaker 1: Whoa.
Speaker 5: So I'm like, yeah, that's a red flag because women
Speaker 5: don't normally talk like that right away, and I got blocked.
Speaker 5: And what happened was I remember her name, and I
Speaker 5: looked up on Facebook at the time and I found
Speaker 5: her and apparently she had a lot of live videos
Speaker 5: and inbox are just mad like drippy tip videos.
Speaker 4: Fuck it, I'm afreik to here. What's a drip Drippy
Speaker 4: tip video is a video where you jerk up till
Speaker 4: you come and the tip is drippy? Well, my, my,
Speaker 4: my famous close it a drippy tip video because you
Speaker 4: know you're dripping.
Speaker 2: You went from red flag toppy tips.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I confirmed it was a real woman.
Speaker 1: I was like, if anyone wants a dripping tip is.
Speaker 5: I'm like, because I'm part of the reason. I'm not
Speaker 5: gonna lie like money motherfuckers. So time, I'm like, my
Speaker 5: concern was, is this a real person really talking like this?
Speaker 4: Like if so, if not, what's the trap.
Speaker 2: With a video? Sexual or they were just confirmation that
Speaker 2: she was a woman.
Speaker 5: The videos were confirmation that this was a real person,
Speaker 5: like her post like, she was very very active on
Speaker 5: Facebook and everything. So as soon as I sent all
Speaker 5: of those videos in those news or whatever, she replied
Speaker 5: literally like that's.
Speaker 4: More like it, and now we can continue. And mind you,
Speaker 4: she was she was very well off.
Speaker 5: She was trying not to give her too much information,
Speaker 5: but she she was very well off. That's why it
Speaker 5: was surprising to me because in her picture she looked
Speaker 5: so successful. I like, you know what I mean, Yes,
Speaker 5: she was a black woman, And once again I started
Speaker 5: to look at you know, I'm a big nurse, So
Speaker 5: I was like, you know, why would women want to
Speaker 5: be treated like this, especially women are successful. Then I
Speaker 5: came across these articles that was like a lot of
Speaker 5: times when people are very dominant in their regular lives,
Speaker 5: they desire to relinquish control when it comes to the
Speaker 5: bedroom and other experiences like that. So I was like, Okay,
Speaker 5: that makes a lot of sense, and I started reading
Speaker 5: more and more. What she was into wasn't my king
Speaker 5: per se. She wanted literally somebody to like, you know,
Speaker 5: slap her around, choke her, and she wants she loved.
Speaker 5: She was very much into fear play and fearing the
Speaker 5: person she was into. And there's no no shame in that.
Speaker 5: But at the time I wasn't at that level.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 5: I was trying to fake the funk as much as
Speaker 5: I could because I'm like, she she paid, she fine,
Speaker 5: she paid, She's a real she into everything, but it
Speaker 5: was just wasn't my thing. I couldn't keep it up long.
Speaker 5: But I did walk away with a lot of the
Speaker 5: terminology I learned. I walked through with a lot of
Speaker 5: knowledge in general, and I realized a lot of the
Speaker 5: things that you know that they say a dominant is
Speaker 5: what stuff that I was into. I look at her
Speaker 5: dominant as just a leader or the person who's you know,
Speaker 5: creating the scene, so to speak. So we're all dominant
Speaker 5: if you are the types of you know, create the playlist,
Speaker 5: you know, turn the lights down, cook dinner, create that
Speaker 5: ambiance for a person that's you being dominant because you're leading,
Speaker 5: you're creating the scene for that person, you know what
Speaker 5: I mean, or that experience, and.
Speaker 4: That's whole I've always been.
Speaker 5: I'm the type of person like even before I you know,
Speaker 5: I knew about the terminology. I'm like, I want to
Speaker 5: use this toy. Then I'm gonna go over here. Then
Speaker 5: we're gonna go in the living room, and then we're
Speaker 5: gonna go here, and we're gonna end over here. Like
Speaker 5: I had it all playing out of my head and
Speaker 5: it just works out so dope.
Speaker 4: So I was like, yeah, that's for me.
Speaker 1: You like to curate the sexual experience.
Speaker 2: You end up meeting her and okay, you guys ended
Speaker 2: up you know, fucking.
Speaker 1: But she was more experienced. He couldn't cha through.
Speaker 4: Your No, it wasn't that, it was through your level.
Speaker 1: One, your level one face domina.
Speaker 4: I just couldn't. I just couldn't keep up, Like she
Speaker 4: was always on flights and going here and there, and
Speaker 4: like she also was very much into the psychological thing,
Speaker 4: like I'm more like I'm not a dom on the phone.
Speaker 4: I'm not. I tell people that I'm not a virtual domina.
Speaker 5: I can't be like yeah girl, do do do do
Speaker 5: like I'm not that I'm more in person. I want
Speaker 5: to put my hands on you and things like that.
Speaker 5: And she was so busy that I couldn't get that
Speaker 5: leverage of like like my my semesters, because's like when
Speaker 5: they Philly's hands is a different thing, you know what
Speaker 5: I'm saying. So, because she was always busy and always
Speaker 5: on the goal, didn't never really cross paths. She came
Speaker 5: to New York City one time and she stuck me
Speaker 5: into her hotel. She had like a whole management team
Speaker 5: that she brought out the whole floor for but like
Speaker 5: yeah something, she was like, yeah, come on in, now
Speaker 5: we can get it in. It was like twenty minutes.
Speaker 5: It was the most like my biggest underperformance. I could
Speaker 5: probably say, you know what I'm saying, because it was
Speaker 5: just like I wasn't prepared. She literally hit me up
Speaker 5: and I was like, fuck, I wish.
Speaker 4: I would have known. I would have went a little harder.
Speaker 4: Maybe I would have, you know, maintained her as a
Speaker 4: client leader in the future. I don't know, whatever, can.
Speaker 2: You tell me about your first client experience? Okay, like
Speaker 2: when did you actually start saying okay, I'm going to
Speaker 2: accept money for this, master this, or maybe you have
Speaker 2: maybe you didn't ask her it, maybe you just kind
Speaker 2: of took a risk and said fuck it.
Speaker 4: It was literally somebody.
Speaker 5: Well I was dating another woman at the time, and
Speaker 5: she was like, you need to start charging for it.
Speaker 4: But I was like, nah, no, women don't pay for
Speaker 4: sexual experiences.
Speaker 5: But once again, just to be clear, like you know,
Speaker 5: BDSM is not sex, It's not synonymous for sex. So
Speaker 5: I once I remembered, like you know that a lot
Speaker 5: of people don't get to experiences. I was like, it
Speaker 5: is some value in it. This woman hit me up
Speaker 5: and she was like on Facebook one of my old pages,
Speaker 5: and she was like, you know, do you provide sessions?
Speaker 4: And I was like, absolutely, yes, I do.
Speaker 5: Mind you, I've never done it before for money, of course,
Speaker 5: and I just gave her a price. I was like
Speaker 5: two hundred bucks for an hour, and she was like, okay,
Speaker 5: tell me how do I pay you? Vemo this, that,
Speaker 5: and then I'm like sitting in cash up and now
Speaker 5: literally how it started.
Speaker 4: I was like, I got to make me some menus.
Speaker 5: And after that experience, it just kept going and going
Speaker 5: and going from there.
Speaker 4: I knew a lot of.
Speaker 5: The types of play based on other doms that I followed,
Speaker 5: than I watched and I studied under, but I wasn't.
Speaker 5: I never thought to do it professionally. I've only wanted
Speaker 5: to do it for my own personal pleasures and the
Speaker 5: experiences of other people. But once I realized it was
Speaker 5: money in it, I was like, Okay, have you ever.
Speaker 2: Been flewed out?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 1: Where's where'd you get flipped? Like the farthest she'd been
Speaker 1: flewed out.
Speaker 5: Here so far Atlanta twice. So I'm excited.
Speaker 4: Same client, no, two different clients.
Speaker 3: I keep hearing there's a big there's a big market
Speaker 3: for bitches that want to get dombed in Atlanta. I
Speaker 3: think King Half also mentioned that to me.
Speaker 5: King Half is a big inspiration from mine, Like every
Speaker 5: time I saw I meet him, I mean I see him,
Speaker 5: He's like, yo, make sure you get in your work,
Speaker 5: get what you were Fro'm like, all right, thank you.
Speaker 2: So you are a father yes, And I'm just wondering, like,
Speaker 2: how do you balance what you do in fatherhood? Is
Speaker 2: it something that you don't I mean, how are.
Speaker 4: Your kids nine?
Speaker 5: Well, this month they both turned they both have a birthday,
Speaker 5: so they will be ten and four.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know, Like, are you with your child's mother?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: Does she know what you do?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 2: How is that conversation? Was she supportive or.
Speaker 5: Very very supportive? I've been blessed with the women in
Speaker 5: my lives that are very open minded and accepting. In fact,
Speaker 5: my daughter's mother, me and her share her birthday is
Speaker 5: a day after mind, we have a lot of stuff
Speaker 5: in common. We decided because she's she's more into other
Speaker 5: things that I'm not. But we're really really good friends.
Speaker 5: And I told to her about a lot of different
Speaker 5: things that I experience, and so it's really really dope.
Speaker 3: Well that's beautiful when you say a lot of other
Speaker 3: things like kinky shit or just like other interests.
Speaker 5: I don't know how to really word it too much.
Speaker 5: I don't know how to always say that.
Speaker 2: You won't put her business on front.
Speaker 4: I don't want to put okay, not in a negative way,
Speaker 4: but just you know, just cool thing. It doesn't.
Speaker 5: Everybody's lifestyles are not going to align in that way.
Speaker 5: But just because you're willing to accept it, it's totally different.
Speaker 2: How have you ever thought about, like once your kids
Speaker 2: get old enough to be able to find you on
Speaker 2: Instagram or you know, just discover what you do, what
Speaker 2: that conversation is going to be Like?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I watch a lot of like Essad
Speaker 5: and Jasmine and Kingdom War and how they do things,
Speaker 5: and I love that they have like this parenting class,
Speaker 5: and I've been like tuning in on ways that they
Speaker 5: navigate this because whether they've seen my page or somebody
Speaker 5: else's page, they're going to be exposed to a lot.
Speaker 5: And I'd rather be in control of how that happens.
Speaker 5: I'd rather be able to sit down with them some things,
Speaker 5: how to explore them, you know, not how to explore themselves.
Speaker 4: Per se, but that it's normal that you do.
Speaker 5: Now, Yeah, sex is normal, and how to navigate it
Speaker 5: properly and you know, responsibly is something that's super important
Speaker 5: because I learned it, you know, in secret, and nobody
Speaker 5: knew when I was out here just doing whatever I
Speaker 5: wanted to do, and you know, that's that's just not
Speaker 5: what's recommended for anybody that's you know, at a young age.
Speaker 5: So I'm hoping that when the age is appropriate, we
Speaker 5: can sit down and we can constantly continue to sit
Speaker 5: down and have these conversations and they'll feel comfortable.
Speaker 4: But you know, that's what my fingers crossed.
Speaker 1: Of course, I mean I love that.
Speaker 3: I think like, first of all, it's not a traditional
Speaker 3: conversation to have, especially amongst black people. We're not talking about,
Speaker 3: you know, the introduction of sex with your children, but
Speaker 3: inevitably that's going to happen, Like that's human nature. We're
Speaker 3: going to experience and be like curious about pleasure, but
Speaker 3: to hope they get it from you.
Speaker 4: Hell fucking it's the information for somebody else.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, the porn is not great.
Speaker 3: And it's like, especially as a father of two daughters,
Speaker 3: like that's important And I'm so happy that you're taking
Speaker 3: that approach, you and your their mom, because I feel
Speaker 3: like it's really important for little girls to know like
Speaker 3: that there's safe places and there's men that are going
Speaker 3: to respect you and you know, respects your pleasure and.
Speaker 2: Their pleasure is important.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think like dads don't know to tell
Speaker 3: their children that yeah, and like you need this is
Speaker 3: what's important. If you're not getting this out of it,
Speaker 3: it's not worth it. It's not for you, because I
Speaker 3: think a lot of teenage boys are just fucking trying
Speaker 3: to come and not him.
Speaker 2: He was trying not.
Speaker 1: Bro at sixteen.
Speaker 4: It was.
Speaker 5: There's so much communication in BDSM. I believe that if
Speaker 5: it's one thing I want my daughters to take away
Speaker 5: from who I am as a dom, you know, separate
Speaker 5: from my personal life. It's just like, don't be afraid
Speaker 5: to communicate about the hard topics when it comes to sex,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. And that's something that is
Speaker 5: going to really propel themselves or keep them safe in
Speaker 5: their journey because everybody hopefully is going to have an exploration,
Speaker 5: you know, when it comes to sex. So just like,
Speaker 5: make sure you have those conversations that I need to,
Speaker 5: you know, talk about what you desire, what you want
Speaker 5: to get out of it, what are your fears, you know,
Speaker 5: stuff like that, and continue to approach that conversation every
Speaker 5: time you have a different partner, a new experience.
Speaker 4: You know, it's big, it's it's huge.
Speaker 2: So I mean that's so to hear you say that
Speaker 2: as a father so cool to me because I think
Speaker 2: a lot of times parents kind of put all this
Speaker 2: pressure on the mom to have these conversations like.
Speaker 3: Well, she got a period, you should be talking to
Speaker 3: her about that.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm scared about the period conversation.
Speaker 2: I mean, but at least you're like, I definitely think
Speaker 2: that there's conversations that maybe you know, your daughter might
Speaker 2: feel more safe talking to, you know, the mom about
Speaker 2: because the mom has had a period, right, but we've
Speaker 2: all had sex. I think it's important that both parents
Speaker 2: have the conversation from the male perspective, especially if you
Speaker 2: have daughters, like I know, for me, when I was young,
Speaker 2: my dad literally was like, you know, niggas be cheating. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he was like, niggas be cheating. He's like, your mom's
Speaker 2: gonna tell you there's like some like fantasy and like
Speaker 2: you're gonna ride off in the fucking distance. And I
Speaker 2: don't know if, like you know, that advice to my
Speaker 2: dad or that statement that my dad said definitely has
Speaker 2: affected me throughout my life for sure, in positive ways
Speaker 2: and in negative ways. Like in the positive of like
Speaker 2: just being not getting caught up in a weird fantasy
Speaker 2: of thinking that like people aren't people, and that people
Speaker 2: don't have desires, and that you know, men are different
Speaker 2: than women. That's one thing he's really always, you know,
Speaker 2: told me, like the male mind is just different. It's
Speaker 2: not the same. Don't try to compare the two because
Speaker 2: you just cannot. But I think that having both parents
Speaker 2: being able to talk to their child about sex, Like
Speaker 2: if you're listening at home, like and you have kids
Speaker 2: that are you know, around this age, like both, and
Speaker 2: you're married to your partner and you have a good communication.
Speaker 2: I'm hoping because you're married, that you guys are on
Speaker 2: the same page about that, and that it's not all
Speaker 2: on the woman to have these discussions and that the
Speaker 2: father's getting involved and talking to their kids about this
Speaker 2: because a lot of times that's like probably even a
Speaker 2: more hackful conversation, especially for a girl, I think. And
Speaker 2: the boys too, boys need to know too, like, hey,
Speaker 2: hey son, you know when you start, you know.
Speaker 3: Exploring, I hope those fingernails are cleaned. And look at
Speaker 3: his fingernails, fucking miracle man, well better than mine, his
Speaker 3: fingernail Headstine.
Speaker 1: If I didn't see him, I just saw those hands.
Speaker 1: I'd let him touch me. I'm just saying slide those
Speaker 1: under here.
Speaker 2: I know that you take clients. Have you ever been
Speaker 2: a client? Have you ever had a session?
Speaker 5: Like I have paid many many doms to teach me things.
Speaker 5: I have bottomed in those lessons, So technically.
Speaker 2: You explain what that means bottomed for people.
Speaker 5: So for example, in order to learn fireplay, I had
Speaker 5: to be the fire bottom. I had to be the
Speaker 5: person that was on the table so to speak, you know,
Speaker 5: getting the fire done to them. So that was something
Speaker 5: the same thing with impact play. You know a lot
Speaker 5: of the times you want when before you hit somebody
Speaker 5: with a particular tool, you want to know what it
Speaker 5: feels like. So for my impact play lesson, I also
Speaker 5: bottom for that, meaning like once again I was the
Speaker 5: person that they demonstrated on just so I could understand
Speaker 5: what a person is going to be experiencing while I'm
Speaker 5: hitting them or using fire any other.
Speaker 2: Did you see fire use and that's what? How did that?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 1: What was that?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 2: I need to do that?
Speaker 5: Okay, So my fire mentor is actually located in my bio,
Speaker 5: so on all of my pages I have him linked there.
Speaker 5: Like if anybody wants to learn fireplay, get a fire kit.
Speaker 1: My god, I think I need to learn it.
Speaker 4: Things like that.
Speaker 5: But you know, after seeing him perform, his name is
Speaker 5: Bobby fire about it. They called him the fire Marshall.
Speaker 5: After seeing him perform, I was like, I have to
Speaker 5: learn this.
Speaker 4: I have to learn it.
Speaker 5: It was so dope. He was able to do so
Speaker 5: much with it. He's incredible with the fire. That's what
Speaker 5: hence why they called him the fire Marshall.
Speaker 2: So is he based in New York.
Speaker 5: He's in Detroit. He's in Detroit, but he does do
Speaker 5: virtual lessons. He travels, you know what I'm saying, all
Speaker 5: types of things. So he's available for that dope.
Speaker 3: Are you a switch? Like with your partner? Do you
Speaker 3: ever switch? Are you always?
Speaker 1: For sure?
Speaker 5: The interesting you bring that up because I just came
Speaker 5: to that conclusion this morning.
Speaker 1: While I was getting this morning Wow, look at that.
Speaker 5: My I have historically always said that I am not
Speaker 5: a switch, but I think I do, especially with the
Speaker 5: right partner. With my partner currently, I'm big on being
Speaker 5: used in bed.
Speaker 4: As much as I love, you know, being in control.
Speaker 5: I love the idea of having my hands tied and
Speaker 5: just using me like a meat stick and just doing
Speaker 5: all types of different things to me, and I'm big
Speaker 5: on being smothered with her pussy, and that's something that
Speaker 5: I really really enjoyed. So I was like, that does
Speaker 5: show like kind of simmis because I want to be blindfolded.
Speaker 5: I have this thing, you know, when I'm not in control,
Speaker 5: where like I like to close my eyes and just
Speaker 5: let you do whatever you want to do to me,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. But I also I've always
Speaker 5: believed that like I had to earn that experience, so
Speaker 5: I go super hard. I feel like I'm overcompensating for
Speaker 5: the idea that I want to one day be able
Speaker 5: to just lay back and do things. I hate seeing
Speaker 5: guys just like put their arm up and like touch something.
Speaker 5: It like what did you do to get you excited?
Speaker 4: Like you know what I mean. So I try to
Speaker 4: put in a lot of work to be like yeah, so.
Speaker 5: The last six days I've been holding it down since
Speaker 5: my data, LIKEE just relaxed do some things to me.
Speaker 5: And I really really enjoy those experiences where I'm able
Speaker 5: to just like just just you know, zone out in
Speaker 5: my own head and let you use me. So I
Speaker 5: guess that is like a switch tendency, but it doesn't
Speaker 5: happen as often.
Speaker 2: Do you have any hard nos.
Speaker 5: Yes, just when it comes to sexuality, Like I'm not
Speaker 5: into you know, anything that's not anyone that's not a
Speaker 5: CIS woman. But other than that, probably Scott play. I'm
Speaker 5: not into Scott play. I'm not into blood play. There
Speaker 5: are believe it or not, I want to be if
Speaker 5: I want to be clear, there are separate you know experiences.
Speaker 5: For example, like I mentioned on a Harder Soft podcast,
Speaker 5: like I'm into messy ainal. You know what I mean,
Speaker 5: because my uncle taught me, like if you're going to
Speaker 5: do something, don't be afraid of what's going to happen.
Speaker 4: You know what I mean. If you're going to have
Speaker 4: a sex with a woman on her period, don't be
Speaker 4: afraid of the blood like that uncle.
Speaker 5: My uncle, nasty motherfucker, na motherfucker. But yeah, like once
Speaker 5: you engage in a certain thing, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: So if you want how to deep throw your dick
Speaker 5: and you throw up, don't you handle that shit? Like
Speaker 5: you really got to make sure that, you know what
Speaker 5: I mean, you're in control and you let a personal
Speaker 5: so like when you're doing anal, shit happens.
Speaker 4: It can happen.
Speaker 5: Literally so you know, if it happens handleless year and
Speaker 5: I have no problem with it. But the idea of
Speaker 5: just somebody, you know, just playing with it just for
Speaker 5: the sake of playing with it, or blood just to
Speaker 5: play with it, Nah, not my thing.
Speaker 3: I so appreciate you saying that. I feel like there
Speaker 3: is such a I mean, just in kink in period
Speaker 3: and BDSM, there's safety.
Speaker 1: You know, you have to feel.
Speaker 3: Safe and like niggas were trying to stick their dick
Speaker 3: in your ass and like I don't even.
Speaker 1: Know you that well, you need to relax or and.
Speaker 3: Then like women, you have to really feel safe to
Speaker 3: like be like anything can happen, and I feel safe
Speaker 3: enough with this person that they're not going to like
Speaker 3: make me feel weird even though you just put your
Speaker 3: penis in my asshole, you know, Like I think rap
Speaker 3: videos and music make people confuse, like put your thumb
Speaker 3: in her ass Like, no, niggas, there's requirements you might.
Speaker 5: Need at first, communication necessary trust. It's just they create
Speaker 5: the fantasy that everything is just like straight to the point,
Speaker 5: like they don't show you that when they do them
Speaker 5: anals and those pornos, there's so much prepping that goes involved.
Speaker 5: You know, a lot of people do things to get
Speaker 5: themselves comfortable conversations. I had, you know, a bunch of
Speaker 5: different things are happening before you get to that point,
Speaker 5: but you don't see it.
Speaker 2: I so I need first of all, being and Jamila,
Speaker 2: I have been ever since we saw your performance. I
Speaker 2: was like, we need to get this done immediately. So
Speaker 2: I want to you know, I want.
Speaker 4: To do that okay today.
Speaker 2: But I also want to know because I was telling Jamila,
Speaker 2: I was like, is he gonna burn her pussy?
Speaker 3: She I don't know how you didn't hear her because
Speaker 3: we were only We're only feet far away from you.
Speaker 1: I was like, you got to shut up.
Speaker 3: You're ruining the show for everybody.
Speaker 1: Literally, I'm like, are were at the movies? Shut the
Speaker 1: fuck up. She's like, oh, that was a pussy.
Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, look you did get
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So can you explained before we go into it,
Speaker 2: like the science behind what you do and how you
Speaker 2: don't burn it just pussies?
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 5: So the accelerate that we're using to create the fire
Speaker 5: is alcohol, and a lot of times it's diluted with water.
Speaker 5: So whenever you see ninety percent alcohol seventy percent alcohol
Speaker 5: fifty percent alcohol.
Speaker 4: That determines how.
Speaker 5: Much water is and when water dilutes the alcohol, it
Speaker 5: actually makes it burn at the lower temperature. So the
Speaker 5: more water you have in the fire, the lower the
Speaker 5: temperature is going to burn. So typically we use seventy
Speaker 5: percent alcohol on average, and fifty percent if you're like
Speaker 5: a super duper bigan is somebody that doesn't like any
Speaker 5: type of temperature play. Fifty percent isn't super recommended because
Speaker 5: it goes out really quickly and it's hard to work
Speaker 5: with and manipulate. But seventy percent is around that that mark.
Speaker 5: We use fire ones that are made for that purpose
Speaker 5: of being able to transfer the alcohol to the person's body.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, have you.
Speaker 1: Ever fireplayed two women at one time?
Speaker 5: Absolutely no, I was gonna say it did, but I've
Speaker 5: done it, you know, in a room, but never at
Speaker 5: the same time.
Speaker 1: Well, it's about to pop your chair.
Speaker 2: Today might be the day. They're marvelous.
Speaker 1: Wait, I wish I wish I could show you guys
Speaker 1: in the DMS.
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, remember us, are you free on Monday? Also,
Speaker 3: can you do that thing you did at the party
Speaker 3: that one of us? He was like, sure, I was like, Wow,
Speaker 3: you ask and you shall receive.
Speaker 5: I was so happy to see your a DM because
Speaker 5: I was like, oh man, she didn't see my performance
Speaker 5: and she she looked at me like. I was like,
Speaker 5: can I go on your shows?
Speaker 4: Like? What do you do? Like? Who are you?
Speaker 2: The like?
Speaker 4: We should be?
Speaker 2: I should be a guest.
Speaker 4: I'm like, for what what are you?
Speaker 1: Wait? First of all, if you're ever approached.
Speaker 3: To buy a gentleman in in a suit at a
Speaker 3: sex party.
Speaker 1: He's probably a dom. I literally asked her Landa.
Speaker 3: I'm like, is like the suit the domb uniform. I
Speaker 3: feel like all the niggas who are dumbs like generally
Speaker 3: kind of wear.
Speaker 1: Suits or maybe it shows you in king half.
Speaker 5: So that's to be clear, the majority of downasday well leather.
Speaker 5: The suit thing is probably a fifty shades a great thing,
Speaker 5: and the.
Speaker 3: Level of sophistication, it's professional. I'm here like I'm here
Speaker 3: a do some serious shit.
Speaker 5: So yeah, my thing is I've been wearing suits or
Speaker 5: dressing up since I was sixteen. I got in a
Speaker 5: lot of trouble when I was a teenager, and when
Speaker 5: I came home from the juvenile attention, I lived with
Speaker 5: my sister. My sister told me the only way that
Speaker 5: you're I'm gonna agree to letting them, you know, send
Speaker 5: you to my home, is if you agree to.
Speaker 4: Change the way you dress.
Speaker 5: Because at the time I was dressing like a straight hudlum, Like,
Speaker 5: oh my god, I thought I was somebody totally different,
Speaker 5: and she was like, yeah, you're gonna have wear dress
Speaker 5: clothes even though you don't have a uniform at your school.
Speaker 7: Why?
Speaker 1: Wow? Why?
Speaker 5: And then I realized that I had to make it
Speaker 5: work more and more and more and more, and it
Speaker 5: grew on to me. My friends used to hate me.
Speaker 5: Mind you being sixte years old. Your friend shows up
Speaker 5: to a party in a suit. You see it all
Speaker 5: the time. Please don't wear a suit. I'm like, I'm older.
Speaker 5: It's like it's perfect, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 5: it's definitely a thing.
Speaker 1: You definitely look very dapper and good today, Sir.
Speaker 4: I appreciate that so much.
Speaker 1: What do you like your subs to call you?
Speaker 4: I like sir sir.
Speaker 2: We were talking earlier. You said you're not really into
Speaker 2: the daddy thing. No, and that is that, and that's
Speaker 2: because you are a daddy.
Speaker 4: Yes.
Speaker 3: I got to work on that because I'd be saying
Speaker 3: daddy during sex without consulting first, I have someone.
Speaker 2: I have had someone tell me, do not call me daddy,
Speaker 2: like straight up, like before sex ever happened. Like it's
Speaker 2: not my thing. Please, you can say anything you want,
Speaker 2: but just do not call me daddy.
Speaker 1: You want my dad and he's not a dad.
Speaker 2: I want my dick to stay hard. No, he's not
Speaker 2: a dad. I mean he kind of like raised a
Speaker 2: child for a while. But I don't know what that
Speaker 2: he said. He's like, I don't know what that is,
Speaker 2: but I don't know why it is, Like I have
Speaker 2: to look into that why it bothers me so much?
Speaker 2: But I've realized that, like it turns me off.
Speaker 4: Maybe because he lends a partner, because he knew myself,
Speaker 4: he knew himself very very well.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I respect it won't be gone. And
Speaker 2: that's true though, because I don't. I'm not a big
Speaker 2: daddy person in the bedroom. Sometimes a little slipout depends
Speaker 2: how much I'm being dommed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess that's true too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a sub so I think that may come
Speaker 3: from that, cause I was like, why do I say that.
Speaker 1: I don't watch that much porn. Where did I get
Speaker 1: that from?
Speaker 3: But I I think it is about you know, have
Speaker 3: weird kinky like being dominated daddy fantasies, which is a
Speaker 3: whole different podcast.
Speaker 5: But I mean, I prefer sir mainly because I just
Speaker 5: feel like it's special to me, as you need to me.
Speaker 5: Because especially when you're talking to vanilla people, they call
Speaker 5: everybody bay.
Speaker 4: And this and that.
Speaker 5: I'm like, don't call me babe, you know, don't call
Speaker 5: me love, don't call me well, you call me king.
Speaker 4: That's fine. But I prefer sir because it feels like
Speaker 4: you took the time to appreciate what I like and
Speaker 4: you called me that. It means a lot to me
Speaker 4: that way.
Speaker 2: Well, sir, I'm ready for my session.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, Sam, same sir.
Speaker 2: So I think we're gonna move the cameras a little
Speaker 2: bit so that we can I don't I don't know
Speaker 2: what needs to happen here. I don't know how much
Speaker 2: space you need if we can stand here, or what do.
Speaker 3: You need to streme bend over this table because that's
Speaker 3: what I imagine.
Speaker 4: Just put you can just put your hands on the tape.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna pull out my whole bag.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, First of all, not only is he wearing
Speaker 3: a suit and a tie, he came in with his
Speaker 3: fucking double bag, professional bag. I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 3: he's in the bag. I feel like Barney, you know
Speaker 3: that magic fuck.
Speaker 2: I'm just letting you guys know. Now you're gonna listen
Speaker 2: to this, but if you want to watch this session,
Speaker 2: you gotta join our Patreon. So make sure you go
Speaker 2: to patreon dot com backslash Good Mom's Bad Choices if
Speaker 2: you want to see the good Moms get dumbed by
Speaker 2: sir marvellous.
Speaker 1: Wow, my dreams are coming true. I love my job.
Speaker 2: Where's it's Should we cut for just one second? Or
Speaker 2: should we just keep going?
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know going Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I don't probably right here.
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna move this mic out the way. And
Speaker 4: you guys said, like, put your hands on the.
Speaker 7: Table, just our hands. Yeah, I got.
Speaker 6: You.
Speaker 4: Guys.
Speaker 1: Didn't know what you're signing up for this Monday afternoon. Wait,
Speaker 1: what what are you pull my ass out?
Speaker 6: Are you sure?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: I woren't high waisted panties on purpose?
Speaker 1: My painties are caught in but I don't care.
Speaker 2: It's like I was like, I know he can't fire
Speaker 2: me through my with my clothes, I will catch on fire.
Speaker 2: But I feel like skin. Is that the whole point
Speaker 2: is you need to feel skin, so that you can
Speaker 2: feel the skin on the skin sensations.
Speaker 3: The guys are closing the curtain. I did see a
Speaker 3: child's roaming around.
Speaker 2: Doesn't need to see that?
Speaker 3: Yeah, never, you've never over heard of talking to some
Speaker 3: marvelous about his kids discovering who he is. Can you
Speaker 3: wait till our kids get old enough for this ship?
Speaker 3: They're gonna be like, what the fuck have you guys
Speaker 3: been doing all these years? They're both six, might will
Speaker 3: be seven next month too.
Speaker 2: My gosh, oh, I've never seen that. Is that a
Speaker 2: flog to the metal, But the it's also called a flogger.
Speaker 4: It's not living, So a flogger just happens to have
Speaker 4: many flaws on it falls on it. The whips are
Speaker 4: the ones where you see just one one. We'll make
Speaker 4: it where they're gonna have to deal with it.
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm ready?
Speaker 6: Are you ready?
Speaker 2: So what's the best thing to do? Should I take
Speaker 2: my pants off?
Speaker 3: Should I just get We're trying to get naked so bad.
Speaker 3: He's like, no, bitch, just give me your hand. I'm like,
Speaker 3: so take my pants off or you want my titties out.
Speaker 4: I feel like I've seen titties before. Well, I have this, Okay,
Speaker 4: let's good.
Speaker 7: Do a lot of editing.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not gonna take your I can turn this way.
Speaker 4: I like it.
Speaker 2: Do you have underworld?
Speaker 1: I have underground?
Speaker 4: So who's gonna go first?
Speaker 2: I'll first go ahead?
Speaker 1: Okay, come closer to the.
Speaker 2: Well.
Speaker 1: I'm sweating. I'm just getting so hot and I'm getting excited.
Speaker 4: So what I'm going to have you do is I'm
Speaker 4: going to actually have put your hands on this over forward.
Speaker 4: Don't worry about your hair and stuff like that.
Speaker 3: Please don't catch my friend's hair on fire.
Speaker 4: I won't even be going close to that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so excited for you friend.
Speaker 4: Maybe some lights could turn down, because it might.
Speaker 7: It is totally fine.
Speaker 3: He's getting her, he's prepping her with his hands. It's
Speaker 3: very Does it feel warm? She's bent over the chair
Speaker 3: right now and he's just warming her up literally with
Speaker 3: hands and fire, with fans and fire, hands and fire.
Speaker 1: Do you like that?
Speaker 3: He's my sexy voice? How does it feel?
Speaker 1: He's like he's literally touching you with the fire.
Speaker 4: That is literally how it feels. I can show you
Speaker 4: the telling the front, but you would have to come.
Speaker 4: Let's see here.
Speaker 1: Now she's up against the wall.
Speaker 3: He's put her hands over her head, he's rubbing on
Speaker 3: her body, her waist, he's going back for more fire.
Speaker 3: Erica seems to be really enjoying this. She's really in
Speaker 3: her subspace. Sorry now, mm.
Speaker 6: That was it?
Speaker 7: That was good? Okay, I smell that alcohol, Yeah, you could.
Speaker 3: Smell Yep, he's choking her.
Speaker 5: So the more sensitive positive body, for example, the nipples
Speaker 5: and clad and things like that, it.
Speaker 4: Just gets it. It's tightened, you know, when you're not
Speaker 4: able to see, when you're tied up and all that
Speaker 4: other stuff. So imagine being like you know, on my table,
Speaker 4: tied to the table, blindfolded. Music is playing, it's super
Speaker 4: dark in the room or whatever, and all you do
Speaker 4: is feeling like me going all over your body, touching
Speaker 4: on your plaid and your nipples and things like that.
Speaker 4: So that's how it feels.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm getting hot and bothered in here.
Speaker 2: Wait I have one.
Speaker 4: Request though, Uh, thank of course, alright, Look.
Speaker 2: I never I've been waiting for this moment.
Speaker 4: Okay, can I'm.
Speaker 3: Alright consent. Guys, first you ask and then you shall receive.
Speaker 7: God so a lot of times.
Speaker 4: Oh I can't see it on that side.
Speaker 7: I'm right handed, but uh.
Speaker 1: Mm yeah, that ass is shaking. Baby.
Speaker 3: Wow, that sounds really nice. Uh huh, your boddy looks
Speaker 3: really good there.
Speaker 1: I guess.
Speaker 7: You don't you fucking get take mm.
Speaker 1: He's telling her not to give up. My friend doesn't
Speaker 1: give up.
Speaker 7: Such a quicker. Alright, m thank you, sorry anytime.
Speaker 1: Oh oh wow, I'm sweating.
Speaker 6: Okay, well, thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, I think it's my turn.
Speaker 2: Oh friend, kay, where should I be?
Speaker 7: Same? I? So I can start here, but I'm gonna
Speaker 7: turn you on you.
Speaker 4: It's that yeah, if you if you take off the top,
Speaker 4: but just don't show the titties, then you don't have
Speaker 4: to add it out so much.
Speaker 7: So just don't point to the camera.
Speaker 1: Na, you don't like my titties out my favorite place
Speaker 1: to be.
Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for my play by play?
Speaker 4: I guess.
Speaker 2: Jamila has turn taken her to her top off that
Speaker 2: she's turned around so we can't see her camouflage nipples.
Speaker 7: You don't have to worry about slipping perfect.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's scared. MM.
Speaker 7: Is that okay?
Speaker 4: I prefer yeses over okay?
Speaker 6: Yes, okay, yes sir, yeah.
Speaker 7: I needed to be clear. Yes, a risk communications.
Speaker 2: He's rubbing her back.
Speaker 6: Mm.
Speaker 2: She sounds like she's enjoying it.
Speaker 6: MM.
Speaker 2: I think he grabbed her t her tits.
Speaker 6: MM.
Speaker 7: Is that okay? Okay?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 4: And okay, we can't do the front and cover yourself.
Speaker 7: They don't.
Speaker 5: Uh, they don't deserve all that.
Speaker 2: I get pick kicked off Patreon too, So.
Speaker 7: Let's see if we can try something a little bit different.
Speaker 7: Says you gonna put your knees on the share best
Speaker 7: for me to play your pastyle.
Speaker 4: Okay, yes, I don't worry.
Speaker 7: You're not gonna be hey.
Speaker 4: Oh that'll be beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you.
Speaker 6: MM.
Speaker 4: I wonder how much they get to see stuff like
Speaker 4: this when they do other podcasts for people.
Speaker 6: MM.
Speaker 7: Is it okay, I prefer yes, yes sir? Oh yeh
Speaker 7: yes sir.
Speaker 6: M yes, okay.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna pull this to the side and said, okay, uh,
Speaker 7: don't worry about the hair part.
Speaker 6: Okay, they don't.
Speaker 7: Bring my kid. I'm not fay. MM can you feel that? Okay?
Speaker 2: MM, I'm not being a good play by play person.
Speaker 2: I'm distracted.
Speaker 4: I'm distracted, guys.
Speaker 2: I'm just we're still here.
Speaker 7: I couldn't have.
Speaker 2: A bad a huge, huge vagina.
Speaker 7: Let me help you out here, job, I guess, thank
Speaker 7: you sir. Wow Mmmm.
Speaker 1: That was really nice.
Speaker 5: That's just one of the many kinks that I do
Speaker 5: and I try to like, sorry, I tried to incorporate
Speaker 5: that in the middle of everything else. So it's just
Speaker 5: like a form of over overstimulating a person. So imagine,
Speaker 5: like I said that, going on while a whole bunch
Speaker 5: of other stuff, and be honest is super important. Lighting
Speaker 5: is important, temperature is important, and just creating a level
Speaker 5: of comfort with the person based on your communication. So
Speaker 5: that's why I always explain to people if you're ever
Speaker 5: going to book a dom and they don't take the
Speaker 5: time to go over, you know, consultation with you and
Speaker 5: like learn your kinks and your interest in stuff like
Speaker 5: run away. If that person is like, well, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: just send me this money. You know we'll come to
Speaker 5: I'm like, nah, run away. If they're not going over,
Speaker 5: what are your hard limits, your interests, what you want
Speaker 5: to experience, things of that nature, you know, maybe even
Speaker 5: past experiences you know then run away.
Speaker 1: They're not a professional.
Speaker 4: Basically, I wouldn't recommend them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: And anybody that I know that does this, they're going
Speaker 4: to say the same thing.
Speaker 3: I actually had a dom I got dombed in a dungeon.
Speaker 3: And one of the things, which I know is a
Speaker 3: popular thing, is like yellow, green, red, green to keep going,
Speaker 3: red stop, I don't like this, and yellow slow down excellent.
Speaker 3: So I think that was one of the things that
Speaker 3: I learned, you know, and obviously consent, but even just
Speaker 3: having any type of language to use during the session
Speaker 3: to engauge your comfortability is super important.
Speaker 5: Exactly because a lot of times, you know, when we're
Speaker 5: experiencing things, it's hard to find the right words. So
Speaker 5: having something to shortcut that is super important. So I
Speaker 5: use the same colors. I use green, yellow, red, and marveless.
Speaker 5: So whenever I asks a person what's your color, you
Speaker 5: can say marvelous.
Speaker 4: If you're feeling well, you know, well, well, okay.
Speaker 5: Great, you can say green. You can say marvelous is
Speaker 5: totally up to whatever. When you want to remember, you
Speaker 5: can say yellow. One thing that I do during my
Speaker 5: sessions I encourage bratting, so people.
Speaker 4: Were like, oh, I'm a brat.
Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, well, you got to be able
Speaker 5: to take what it take what that comes with, so
Speaker 5: I forever. Actually you know why I'm hitting. I'm like,
Speaker 5: what's your color? And you know it's green. You could
Speaker 5: say you can hit You don't have to hit me
Speaker 5: harder than that if you want to get a yellow
Speaker 5: out of me. Remember the whole point of impact players
Speaker 5: to get to the point where you're releasing those endorphins.
Speaker 5: You're you're inducing those chemicals to be released from the brain.
Speaker 5: So a part of that has to do with like
Speaker 5: raising the adrenaline level.
Speaker 2: My impact play tolerance is low.
Speaker 3: Oh really, I just realized, well I'm not.
Speaker 2: I just realized what I remember when he was saying that,
Speaker 2: and I was just telling someone that, like, I don't
Speaker 2: really enjoy being spanked. Sometimes I do. It just depends,
Speaker 2: but if you do it consistently over time, it starts
Speaker 2: it hurts.
Speaker 5: So the way I do it, right, what I always
Speaker 5: encourage people to do is like you got to do
Speaker 5: the good to the bat. So I'm not big on
Speaker 5: doing impact play just cold meaning like I like to
Speaker 5: do other forms of stimulation. So when you do get
Speaker 5: to a yellow. I'm giving you a reward, so now
Speaker 5: your mind is looking forward to it. Like when I
Speaker 5: start to reach that point, the whole idea of just
Speaker 5: spanking someone just to spink, I'm like, when am I
Speaker 5: really going to get out of it? Unless you're into that,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So me, I'm going to
Speaker 5: have something on your clip vibrating the entire time. I'm
Speaker 5: going to have something on your nipples. I'm going to
Speaker 5: be talking in your ear, I'm going to be encouraging you.
Speaker 5: I'm going to be like really getting you involved, just
Speaker 5: versus like, you know, the same idea. It's one thing
Speaker 5: if I would to walk up to you and just
Speaker 5: spank you in the middle of the day versus like
Speaker 5: where you know you're having sex with somebody, you're about
Speaker 5: to come and they're hitting you at that right moment.
Speaker 5: It's all about time and place and how you do it.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I do love a dirty bouth. Yeah, I like talk
Speaker 3: dirty in my ear. And also I really enjoy like
Speaker 3: being choked and slapped in the face a little bit,
Speaker 3: but like not all over and over, but like just
Speaker 3: a little Like no, bitch, what did I tell you?
Speaker 1: That's my thing? Right, now.
Speaker 2: Just in case you wanted to know, sir, thanks for
Speaker 2: letting us know. Wait, can you tell us what these
Speaker 2: tools are? What is this? And this?
Speaker 5: So this is one of my favorite floggers. I'm like
Speaker 5: I mentioned this is good for sensation play. You might
Speaker 5: have seen me use this at the play party.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I saw the fire, but then I
Speaker 2: got lost.
Speaker 5: So you can. Yeah, you can drag it across a
Speaker 5: person's skin. A lot of times I always mention how
Speaker 5: I try to deprive a person's sensus. So maybe I
Speaker 5: might blindfold you a guy, and you'll tie you up,
Speaker 5: and that heightens the experience of something touching your body.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is nice.
Speaker 5: Yeah. So, and this is a flogger. This is just
Speaker 5: that a Judgments brand. This is one of her floggers.
Speaker 5: I have the other one in my bag. But this
Speaker 5: is called a nunchuck flogger. I love this one because
Speaker 5: it's easier to do the actual act of flogging, because
Speaker 5: it's just easier to twist.
Speaker 4: It has this little nunchuck on it.
Speaker 5: But I love it because it's a thudy flogger that
Speaker 5: doesn't hurt as much. The stincier ones aren't super common,
Speaker 5: but this one is just a perfect one. It gives
Speaker 5: you that good vibration that you need. So and these
Speaker 5: are my fire ones. These were made by Bobby the
Speaker 5: Man I told you a brother. Yeah, so that's that's
Speaker 5: what I brought for you guys today.
Speaker 3: Wow, that was so kind of you. You know, you
Speaker 3: didn't have to do any of that, So we really
Speaker 3: appreciate you.
Speaker 4: I appreciate you. Guys.
Speaker 3: We're really in our subspace now and we're embracing our
Speaker 3: submissive and I'm I'm gonna we might have to flow
Speaker 3: you out. You might have to go half on a
Speaker 3: ticket for Marvelous.
Speaker 5: I definitely plan on coming to LA. I'm gonna go.
Speaker 5: I plan on going to one of the Kinky Game Nights.
Speaker 4: Do you are you familiar with.
Speaker 2: The No, what's the Kinky Game Nights?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll say their information. Kinky Game Night is based
Speaker 5: out in LA. They really are definitely a great group
Speaker 5: out there.
Speaker 1: Are they black?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 2: Okay, let me need to tap into the community in LA.
Speaker 2: We're fucking sleeping over here and.
Speaker 3: We were flying to New York to do kinky shit
Speaker 3: because we don't know where the kinky black people are
Speaker 3: in New York.
Speaker 1: I mean in la. You know, that was one of
Speaker 1: my That.
Speaker 3: Was the thing I really I didn't play per se
Speaker 3: at the party this weekend. I did a lot of
Speaker 3: dancing in the mirror, had a lot of slow dancing
Speaker 3: with other people.
Speaker 1: But you know, it was really a joy to see.
Speaker 3: I feel like because it was their first play party,
Speaker 3: I feel like there was a lot of first timers there.
Speaker 3: But I did enjoy seeing a group of predominantly black
Speaker 3: people come together to invest in exploring their pleasure in
Speaker 3: a non traditional way. I think it's such a like
Speaker 3: revolutionary act to prioritize your pleasure as a black person
Speaker 3: and like be open to it and do it in
Speaker 3: community and do it like to watch other.
Speaker 5: Yeah, great communication, because people so that when you go
Speaker 5: to these parties, like you said, you have to fuck
Speaker 5: or pussy's gonna be served to you on a plot. No,
Speaker 5: Like do you did you see how much Tahost spoke
Speaker 5: before even allowing us to go, giving us the rules
Speaker 5: and the breakdowns and like what to expect and you
Speaker 5: know how to act. You know that's something that you
Speaker 5: don't hear people aren't doing that with at Vanilla parties.
Speaker 5: They're not like, hey, watch how much you drink and
Speaker 5: do this, and you know we have you know, these
Speaker 5: things put in place so keep you protected. I've seen
Speaker 5: way more drama happen at vanilla parties than I think
Speaker 5: I've never thank you, Lord, I have yet to see,
Speaker 5: you know, something pop off at a kinky party that
Speaker 5: was like, Wow, I feel unsafe or I feel you know,
Speaker 5: just not comfortable here.
Speaker 3: You actually feel more safe, you feel more I felt
Speaker 3: so safe. I mean I wasn't really I wasn't doing shit,
Speaker 3: but I just felt safe to embrace everyone, Like I
Speaker 3: had a really beautiful slow dance for like three songs
Speaker 3: in the middle of a room of people fucking, and
Speaker 3: like I was just like, this is really nice. I
Speaker 3: actually thought about shout out to clip Talk. I thought
Speaker 3: about during that conversation we had with him. She's like,
Speaker 3: I really want to go to the sex party and
Speaker 3: just be naked in full body paint and let nobody
Speaker 3: touch me.
Speaker 4: That's dope.
Speaker 3: And so I was there and I was like, I
Speaker 3: wasn't really feeling in the mood to like really do
Speaker 3: a lot, but I was feeling the energy and I
Speaker 3: just channeled that. I was like, I'm just gonna dance
Speaker 3: with myself and maybe a couple others, but like I
Speaker 3: felt sensual but not obligated to be touched amazing.
Speaker 1: And there was like power in that.
Speaker 5: I'm sure that's the way that they want everybody to feel,
Speaker 5: just powerful, Like every experience is supposed to be feeling
Speaker 5: in power.
Speaker 2: And I think also the aftercare is really important too,
Speaker 2: like and that's what I loved. I loved like whenever
Speaker 2: we talk to people who are in this space, Like
Speaker 2: actually when I went to the we went to the
Speaker 2: Harder Soft Show and Daddy Half did a demo with
Speaker 2: his sub and he was flogging her for a pretty
Speaker 2: long decent amount of time, and then afterwards it was
Speaker 2: so beautiful to see how he took care of her
Speaker 2: and embraced her and made sure she was okay. And
Speaker 2: I think that's so important, especially in those type of
Speaker 2: environments that like when you are in a space and
Speaker 2: you're being vulnerable with someone sharing yourself, that you check
Speaker 2: in on them after you don't just like okay, we
Speaker 2: fucked by peace.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that messes up a lot of people, you know,
Speaker 5: because they you share yourself with them and then you
Speaker 5: don't know what their feedback is. So one thing that
Speaker 5: I encourage everyone to do, whether you're doing BDSM or not,
Speaker 5: is do debriefs after every experience. So when I have
Speaker 5: a session with someone, I'd break it down into four quadrants. First,
Speaker 5: what was your favorite part of the scene, what was
Speaker 5: your least favorite part of the scene, And what's something
Speaker 5: you would want more of and what's something you could
Speaker 5: probably do without? And that is how you constantly increase
Speaker 5: the experience because you know, especially when for myself when
Speaker 5: I'm doing sessions, I wanted to be catered, you know,
Speaker 5: particularly for that person and each and every experience to
Speaker 5: get better and better. But you can do that sexually,
Speaker 5: like what's something you know, if you just had sex
Speaker 5: with somebody, you know, like what was your favorite part
Speaker 5: of it?
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.
Speaker 5: Also, before you even go there, just make sure that
Speaker 5: you create that safe space mentally by letting them know, like,
Speaker 5: you know, nothing that you say now is gonna you know,
Speaker 5: I'm not going to like judge you on it or
Speaker 5: make you feel bad or horrible, but I also want
Speaker 5: that ability to feel safe, to allow it to be
Speaker 5: honest with you. And then you go into you know,
Speaker 5: my favorite parts when you was pulling my hair or
Speaker 5: choking me, or when you was eating my pussy and
Speaker 5: then or you might say, you know, what I would
Speaker 5: want more of is just a little bit more for
Speaker 5: a player. I want you to take I want us
Speaker 5: to take our time a little bit more to explore
Speaker 5: each other. Or I love when you go deep, or
Speaker 5: I like when you go shallow, or like just try
Speaker 5: to you know, really debrief those moments, because that's the
Speaker 5: way you increase it. That's the way you increase that
Speaker 5: pleasure each and every time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate that. I think men don't always.
Speaker 4: Uh we ain't thinking of things.
Speaker 3: They don't they don't like the feedback. They take it personally.
Speaker 3: The ego gets involved. So men, if you're listening, ask
Speaker 3: for the feedback. You only get better. It's not about,
Speaker 3: like you know, telling someone they're not good in bed,
Speaker 3: but just improving. Everyone can get better. Yeah, I know
Speaker 3: you kind.
Speaker 1: Of did this out of order. Today.
Speaker 3: We usually start with an affirmation, but do you have
Speaker 3: an affirmation for us today?
Speaker 1: So marvelous.
Speaker 4: Yes, I deserve success.
Speaker 3: I deserve success. I know that's fucking right. I deserve
Speaker 3: to be spanked. I deserve success. I deserve all the
Speaker 3: things that I want.
Speaker 5: So I want to make a little disclaimer right here,
Speaker 5: myself is going to be so mad at me because
Speaker 5: I forgot I had my everything big with this morning,
Speaker 5: and I forgot to use my gum before I came
Speaker 5: in here. So please, I really hope that nobody, you know,
Speaker 5: when I was breathing or whatever.
Speaker 3: No, no, nobody was thinking about that, thinking about that
Speaker 3: fire one.
Speaker 4: Nope, let me me pop that in there.
Speaker 3: Did you want to pull a card or we Well,
Speaker 3: I did pull a card already while I was funny.
Speaker 3: You asked, it's one eleven's you know I'm a witchy bitch.
Speaker 3: It's which time the card I pulled today? It kind
Speaker 3: of seems appropriate. It's the lever's The Lover's card means,
Speaker 3: let's see what we got today. In the purest form,
Speaker 3: the Lover's card represents conscious connections and meaningful relationships. The
Speaker 3: arrival of this card in a tarial reading shows that
Speaker 3: you have a beautiful, soul honoring connection with the loved one.
Speaker 3: You may believe you have found your soulmate or life partner,
Speaker 3: and the sexual energy between you both you guys, goes
Speaker 3: way beyond instant gratification and lust to something that is
Speaker 3: very spiritual and also tantric what yeah.
Speaker 4: Though.
Speaker 1: While the lover's card typically refers.
Speaker 3: To a romantic tie, it can also represent a close
Speaker 3: friendship or family relationship where love, respect, and compassion flow.
Speaker 3: The Lover's card is open communication and raw honesty. Given
Speaker 3: that the man and woman are naked, they are both
Speaker 3: willing to be in their most vulnerable states and have
Speaker 3: learned to open their hearts to one another and share
Speaker 3: their truest feelings. They shape the container from which trust
Speaker 3: and confidence can emerge, and this makes for a powerful
Speaker 3: bond between the two. So I'm becoming a witch live
Speaker 3: on the show every week.
Speaker 5: Getting good because that was super accurate, and we're I'm
Speaker 5: experiencing right now with my life with my partner.
Speaker 1: How long have you guys been together?
Speaker 5: I don't want to say. I don't want to say
Speaker 5: because it's roughly new and everybody thinks that's right.
Speaker 4: Well, just a lot longer, yea.
Speaker 1: Cancers be knowing when we're in love, okay, exactly.
Speaker 3: So I believe you and I'm happy for you, and
Speaker 3: I'm really grateful that you came in here and shared
Speaker 3: your knowledge and your energy with us and shared space.
Speaker 3: This was beautiful and I feel more confident that I
Speaker 3: want to be dombed in the future and that I
Speaker 3: should pay for it.
Speaker 2: Amen. And I need fire and I need fire.
Speaker 1: Oh you don't do fire. Let me call you back.
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Speaker 1: And uh oh wait should we do hoy oh?
Speaker 2: Do you have a wry I mean, I'm sure you
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 1: Jeez, christ I'm sure whose stories?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 5: Whatever did you think that? Another story? When I was sixteen,
Speaker 5: I'm going to take it back there. I want to
Speaker 5: say not recent, but my biggest horror story I could
Speaker 5: say is when I was working at a storage company.
Speaker 5: And I was using a storage company. I mean the
Speaker 5: storage lockers as like my personal bedrooms.
Speaker 4: So literally what.
Speaker 5: Yeah, literally I would have them like I would have
Speaker 5: because you know they so we sold blankets, boxes of course,
Speaker 5: lockers and stuff like that. So I would take a
Speaker 5: couple of moving blankets, throw it on the floor and
Speaker 5: side an empty storage thing, and just like go to
Speaker 5: work inside the storage.
Speaker 3: That reminded me when I was in I lived in Atlanta.
Speaker 3: There's this nigga that I used to fuck and I
Speaker 3: hadn't seen him in a long time, and I ran
Speaker 3: into him at the club and he was like, i've
Speaker 3: been you know, like you should come home with me,
Speaker 3: Come with me. So I was like okay, And this
Speaker 3: nigga took me to his storage and fucked me in
Speaker 3: the storage room. And I thought, I'm never telling anybody this.
Speaker 1: This is crazy. Do you not have a house. I
Speaker 1: don't know I did it though.
Speaker 4: I was super look for me to be sixteen.
Speaker 5: So I was working there and mindre you know, as
Speaker 5: a teenager, you don't really get the free crib that
Speaker 5: was what we called it back in the day.
Speaker 4: We couldn't get the free cribs. So of this so
Speaker 4: I had, like to me all of these miniature apartments.
Speaker 4: I'm like, all I had to do was find one
Speaker 4: of them. I would literally like maybe on the third floor,
Speaker 4: locker three or four, just wait for me.
Speaker 1: Wow, you're domine years.
Speaker 2: Yes, Staddy about it.
Speaker 3: I'm good to know I'm not the only one who's
Speaker 3: got fucked in a storage container. Well, thank you so
Speaker 3: much for sharing with us.
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Speaker 2: All the things that didn't get done, all of the
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Speaker 2: Nobody needs to And that only I needed myself, that
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