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Speaker 1: It's only weeks before we go to Costa Rica.

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Speaker 2: I can't fucking wait.

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Speaker 1: I literally can't wait. I've been dreaming about it.

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Speaker 2: You guys, stop waiting and go ahead and book that trip.

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Speaker 2: Because we've handled everything for you. This is an all

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Speaker 2: inclusive experience. You're getting, first of all, a whole property takeover,

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Speaker 2: so our titties are about to be out.

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Speaker 1: Our titties are definitely going to be out.

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Speaker 3: We're going to have tarot readers, natal chart readings, a

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Speaker 3: goddess bath, excursion to the waterfall, daily yoga, gourmet meals.

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Speaker 1: You know that's top of my list because I likes

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Speaker 1: to eat.

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Speaker 2: We have a little beach party, a pool party. It's

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Speaker 2: gonna be a party all and I can't wait to

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Speaker 2: see you guys there. If you guys have been thinking

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Speaker 2: about prioritizing your self care and you're like, when the

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Speaker 2: fuck am I actually going to do this, this is

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Speaker 2: your sign to do it now. We have two different

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Speaker 2: retreats you can pick from, two different dates, the same

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Speaker 2: exact experience with a group of like minded women. So

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Speaker 2: stop waiting and fucking click that link and book that trip.

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Speaker 1: Girl, you don't have to be a mom to join us.

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Speaker 3: You just have to be a woman who wants to hang,

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Speaker 3: connect and have a good time and relax. So we're

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Speaker 3: so excited to see you in the jungle. And guess what,

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Speaker 3: you can even ask friends and family to contribute to

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Speaker 3: your trip. When people ask you what you want for Christmas,

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Speaker 3: tell them put some money on this retreat for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, there's a little link in the website where

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Speaker 2: you book your trip where people can make donations. So

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Speaker 2: go ahead and ask that baby daddy, as that lover,

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Speaker 2: ask that mama, ask whoever put five on my trip? Okay,

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Speaker 2: ho ho ho. Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 1: I'm Erica and I'm me and.

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Speaker 2: It's Wednesday, bitches, Happy Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Happy mother fucking Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Guys. We're back in New York City, our favorite place,

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Speaker 2: the place that when we're here, it's very highly recommended

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Speaker 2: that you join our Close Friends because more times than not,

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Speaker 2: we're up to some shit. We definitely have been up

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Speaker 2: to some shit. I'm so sorry if you're not part

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Speaker 2: of Close Friends, because then our stories have expired from

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Speaker 2: the Harder.

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Speaker 1: Soft show, which you didn't want to miss.

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Speaker 2: Wow, legendary. We are not a sex podcast. I've been

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Speaker 2: telling me a lot since that show. I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're not a sex podcast. No, because people always like

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Speaker 2: categorize us as that. Nope, Nope, we are fucking.

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Speaker 1: Pg as fuck compared to that parents parents fuck.

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Speaker 3: We try to be cool, but it doesn't compare to

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Speaker 3: the Harder Soft sex podcast.

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling, my dear.

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Speaker 2: I'm good. I you know, when I'm here, I just

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Speaker 2: love being here. There's like an energy in New York

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Speaker 2: that just speaks to my soul, my spirit. I'm staying

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Speaker 2: in Brooklyn, which I usually stay in the city, which

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Speaker 2: don't ever want to leave Brooklyn. People keep asking me

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I do love Brooklyn. And you know, it's

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Speaker 3: it's ninety eight degrees.

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Speaker 3: It's so nice, Like I feel creative when I'm in

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Speaker 3: New York and I just love it here. Can't wait

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Speaker 3: to we get that Brownstone baby, it's coming.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 3: Without further ado, we have a very special guest that

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Speaker 3: we actually met at the Hardersoft Podcast live show this weekend,

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Speaker 3: So please welcome the Lovely amazing, Sir Marvelous, Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 3: Hello professional dom cancer father extraordinaire.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'll do it all.

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Speaker 4: I'm so happy to be here with you. I am.

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Speaker 5: As soon as I stay, I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: I wanted to she's seen my own performance.

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Speaker 5: So BDSM to me, I'm not going to use the

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Speaker 3: Do you remember your first time? And you're like, wow,

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Speaker 5: And I was like, Wow, you know what if this

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Speaker 4: I just thought I was a freak.

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Speaker 4: My friend's like, yo, you're a big freaking all these

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Speaker 2: I was like, were these toys in your mom?

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Speaker 4: Well, your parents? You know us boys, teenage boys, we

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Speaker 1: Oh I had I had. I had a vibrator in

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Speaker 4: I was raised my grandmother, so she was more.

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Speaker 3: So it's safe to say she never found your box trick.

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Speaker 5: Literally, I was like, I was blow it away, and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I've been checking out your pins. He

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Speaker 2: is so marvelous. Is if you're watching this episode then

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Speaker 2: he's very looking quite dapper. Right now. He's wearing navy

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Speaker 2: blue suit with a burgundy tie, and he has.

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Speaker 1: These two pins.

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Speaker 2: One is a vibrator, yes, yes, At first I wasn't

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Speaker 2: sure what that was and I was like.

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Speaker 4: Oh, yeah, it's the magic one is magic.

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Speaker 1: I've seen that one. That's how I could identify it.

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Speaker 1: And the other is a whip floggerger podcaster. I told you,

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Speaker 1: I'm not even I know that ship.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, these are two of my favorite toys, probably

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Speaker 5: two of the most popular toys in general. So you know,

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Speaker 5: I might have to get a rose and put that

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Speaker 1: Up broad review about that rose. I gotta get that,

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Speaker 3: Actually, my sub said he was gonna I'm a sub,

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Speaker 1: If no one knew I do.

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Speaker 3: I have a sub in my DM specifically, and he

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Speaker 3: calls me Daddy Mila, and he actually said he was

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Speaker 3: going to send Erica and I money for the Rose.

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Speaker 4: More beautiful beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've heard great reviews about this rose. My friend

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Speaker 4: I'm so jealous.

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Speaker 5: We don't have as many great sex toy as far

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Speaker 3: Please ask Orlando that Nigga has about Oh yeah, next

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Speaker 2: What is appealing to you as a man like in

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Speaker 1: What are you looking for?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I think most men we just want something

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Speaker 2: I know, sounds crazy, it sounds accurate, it makes sense,

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Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure they have it now where you can

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Speaker 2: Oh they do shout out to satisfire. If you guys

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Speaker 2: We love Satisfire and that shit really works because I've

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Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, you.

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Speaker 2: Can also fuck to your own You can also fuck

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's something I love to do so and during

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Speaker 5: I connected to my playlist that everybody was getting that

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Speaker 4: Take them over to the cross and now this stuff

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well you talked about like exploring toys at a

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 5: So I went through a breakup with my ex fiance

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Speaker 5: So I was going through break and finally got my

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Speaker 4: I was like, you know, sell me some things. You

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Speaker 5: She's like, yeah, I want a man and control me,

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Speaker 5: tell me what to do, you know, fuck me hard

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Speaker 5: You're trying to steal my kidneys or some shit like that.

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Speaker 5: But I was like, you know, that's a red flag.

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Speaker 5: She let it go, and then we started a conversation

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Speaker 4: Tell me some things you like. Well, I like to

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Speaker 1: I'm maybe put that in my profile.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, long walks on the beach and being

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Speaker 1: Whoa.

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Speaker 5: So I'm like, yeah, that's a red flag because women

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Speaker 5: don't normally talk like that right away, and I got blocked.

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Speaker 5: And what happened was I remember her name, and I

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Speaker 5: and inbox are just mad like drippy tip videos.

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Speaker 4: Fuck it, I'm afreik to here. What's a drip Drippy

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Speaker 4: tip video is a video where you jerk up till

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Speaker 4: you come and the tip is drippy? Well, my, my,

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Speaker 4: my famous close it a drippy tip video because you

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Speaker 2: You went from red flag toppy tips.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I confirmed it was a real woman.

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Speaker 1: I was like, if anyone wants a dripping tip is.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, because I'm part of the reason. I'm not

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Speaker 5: gonna lie like money motherfuckers. So time, I'm like, my

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Speaker 5: concern was, is this a real person really talking like this?

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Speaker 4: Like if so, if not, what's the trap.

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Speaker 5: The videos were confirmation that this was a real person,

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Speaker 5: like her post like, she was very very active on

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Speaker 4: More like it, and now we can continue. And mind you,

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Speaker 5: She was trying not to give her too much information,

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Speaker 5: so successful. I like, you know what I mean, Yes,

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Speaker 5: I was like, you know, why would women want to

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Speaker 5: She was very much into fear play and fearing the

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Speaker 5: But at the time I wasn't at that level.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: I was trying to fake the funk as much as

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Speaker 5: But I did walk away with a lot of the

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Speaker 5: what stuff that I was into. I look at her

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Speaker 5: if you are the types of you know, create the playlist,

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Speaker 5: you know, turn the lights down, cook dinner, create that

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Speaker 5: you're creating the scene for that person, you know what

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Speaker 4: That's whole I've always been.

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Speaker 5: I'm the type of person like even before I you know,

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Speaker 5: I knew about the terminology. I'm like, I want to

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Speaker 4: So I was like, yeah, that's for me.

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Speaker 1: You like to curate the sexual experience.

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Speaker 2: You end up meeting her and okay, you guys ended

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Speaker 1: But she was more experienced. He couldn't cha through.

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Speaker 4: Your No, it wasn't that, it was through your level.

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Speaker 4: I just couldn't. I just couldn't keep up, Like she

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Speaker 4: I'm not. I tell people that I'm not a virtual domina.

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Speaker 5: I can't be like yeah girl, do do do do

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Speaker 5: And she was so busy that I couldn't get that

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Speaker 5: It was the most like my biggest underperformance. I could

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Speaker 5: just like I wasn't prepared. She literally hit me up

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Speaker 4: I would have known. I would have went a little harder.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I would have, you know, maintained her as a

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Speaker 2: You tell me about your first client experience? Okay, like

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Speaker 2: when did you actually start saying okay, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: maybe you didn't ask her it, maybe you just kind

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Speaker 4: It was literally somebody.

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Speaker 5: Well I was dating another woman at the time, and

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Speaker 4: But I was like, nah, no, women don't pay for

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Speaker 5: But once again, just to be clear, like you know,

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Speaker 5: I once I remembered, like you know that a lot

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Speaker 5: and she was like, you know, do you provide sessions?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, absolutely, yes, I do.

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Speaker 5: Mind you, I've never done it before for money, of course,

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Speaker 5: The types of play based on other doms that I followed,

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Speaker 5: experiences of other people. But once I realized it was

440
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,480
Speaker 5: money in it, I was like, Okay, have you ever.

441
00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:49,000
Speaker 2: Been flewed out?

442
00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:49,679
Speaker 4: Yes?

443
00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:51,800
Speaker 1: Where's where'd you get flipped? Like the farthest she'd been

444
00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:52,320
Speaker 1: flewed out.

445
00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:55,919
Speaker 5: Here so far Atlanta twice. So I'm excited.

446
00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,040
Speaker 4: Same client, no, two different clients.

447
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Speaker 3: I keep hearing there's a big there's a big market

448
00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:04,199
Speaker 3: for bitches that want to get dombed in Atlanta. I

449
00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:05,919
Speaker 3: think King Half also mentioned that to me.

450
00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,680
Speaker 5: King Half is a big inspiration from mine, Like every

451
00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,400
Speaker 5: time I saw I meet him, I mean I see him,

452
00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:12,200
Speaker 5: He's like, yo, make sure you get in your work,

453
00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,320
Speaker 5: get what you were Fro'm like, all right, thank you.

454
00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:20,119
Speaker 2: So you are a father yes, And I'm just wondering, like,

455
00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,679
Speaker 2: how do you balance what you do in fatherhood? Is

456
00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,399
Speaker 2: it something that you don't I mean, how are.

457
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Speaker 4: Your kids nine?

458
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:29,800
Speaker 5: Well, this month they both turned they both have a birthday,

459
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Speaker 5: so they will be ten and four.

460
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Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know, Like, are you with your child's mother?

461
00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 4: No?

462
00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:36,360
Speaker 2: Does she know what you do?

463
00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:37,440
Speaker 4: Yes?

464
00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:39,600
Speaker 2: How is that conversation? Was she supportive or.

465
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Speaker 5: Very very supportive? I've been blessed with the women in

466
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,920
Speaker 5: my lives that are very open minded and accepting. In fact,

467
00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,240
Speaker 5: my daughter's mother, me and her share her birthday is

468
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,359
Speaker 5: a day after mind, we have a lot of stuff

469
00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:56,360
Speaker 5: in common. We decided because she's she's more into other

470
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Speaker 5: things that I'm not. But we're really really good friends.

471
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Speaker 5: And I told to her about a lot of different

472
00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:04,160
Speaker 5: things that I experience, and so it's really really dope.

473
00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,240
Speaker 3: Well that's beautiful when you say a lot of other

474
00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,320
Speaker 3: things like kinky shit or just like other interests.

475
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:14,560
Speaker 5: I don't know how to really word it too much.

476
00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,960
Speaker 5: I don't know how to always say that.

477
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 2: You won't put her business on front.

478
00:20:18,480 --> 00:20:23,000
Speaker 4: I don't want to put okay, not in a negative way,

479
00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 4: but just you know, just cool thing. It doesn't.

480
00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,280
Speaker 5: Everybody's lifestyles are not going to align in that way.

481
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:30,000
Speaker 5: But just because you're willing to accept it, it's totally different.

482
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,880
Speaker 2: How have you ever thought about, like once your kids

483
00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 2: get old enough to be able to find you on

484
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,560
Speaker 2: Instagram or you know, just discover what you do, what

485
00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 2: that conversation is going to be Like?

486
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I watch a lot of like Essad

487
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,399
Speaker 5: and Jasmine and Kingdom War and how they do things,

488
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 5: and I love that they have like this parenting class,

489
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,600
Speaker 5: and I've been like tuning in on ways that they

490
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 5: navigate this because whether they've seen my page or somebody

491
00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 5: else's page, they're going to be exposed to a lot.

492
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,959
Speaker 5: And I'd rather be in control of how that happens.

493
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 5: I'd rather be able to sit down with them some things,

494
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 5: how to explore them, you know, not how to explore themselves.

495
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 4: Per se, but that it's normal that you do.

496
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 5: Now, Yeah, sex is normal, and how to navigate it

497
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 5: properly and you know, responsibly is something that's super important

498
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,640
Speaker 5: because I learned it, you know, in secret, and nobody

499
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,520
Speaker 5: knew when I was out here just doing whatever I

500
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:19,320
Speaker 5: wanted to do, and you know, that's that's just not

501
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,040
Speaker 5: what's recommended for anybody that's you know, at a young age.

502
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 5: So I'm hoping that when the age is appropriate, we

503
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:26,880
Speaker 5: can sit down and we can constantly continue to sit

504
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,840
Speaker 5: down and have these conversations and they'll feel comfortable.

505
00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 4: But you know, that's what my fingers crossed.

506
00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,120
Speaker 1: Of course, I mean I love that.

507
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,920
Speaker 3: I think like, first of all, it's not a traditional

508
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 3: conversation to have, especially amongst black people. We're not talking about,

509
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,919
Speaker 3: you know, the introduction of sex with your children, but

510
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 3: inevitably that's going to happen, Like that's human nature. We're

511
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:48,800
Speaker 3: going to experience and be like curious about pleasure, but

512
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:50,119
Speaker 3: to hope they get it from you.

513
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 4: Hell fucking it's the information for somebody else.

514
00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, the porn is not great.

515
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 3: And it's like, especially as a father of two daughters,

516
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 3: like that's important And I'm so happy that you're taking

517
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 3: that approach, you and your their mom, because I feel

518
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,439
Speaker 3: like it's really important for little girls to know like

519
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 3: that there's safe places and there's men that are going

520
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 3: to respect you and you know, respects your pleasure and.

521
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 2: Their pleasure is important.

522
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think like dads don't know to tell

523
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,359
Speaker 3: their children that yeah, and like you need this is

524
00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 3: what's important. If you're not getting this out of it,

525
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 3: it's not worth it. It's not for you, because I

526
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 3: think a lot of teenage boys are just fucking trying

527
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 3: to come and not him.

528
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Speaker 2: He was trying not.

529
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Speaker 1: Bro at sixteen.

530
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Speaker 4: It was.

531
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Speaker 5: There's so much communication in BDSM. I believe that if

532
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 5: it's one thing I want my daughters to take away

533
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 5: from who I am as a dom, you know, separate

534
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 5: from my personal life. It's just like, don't be afraid

535
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,639
Speaker 5: to communicate about the hard topics when it comes to sex,

536
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. And that's something that is

537
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 5: going to really propel themselves or keep them safe in

538
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 5: their journey because everybody hopefully is going to have an exploration,

539
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 5: you know, when it comes to sex. So just like,

540
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,840
Speaker 5: make sure you have those conversations that I need to,

541
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 5: you know, talk about what you desire, what you want

542
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,359
Speaker 5: to get out of it, what are your fears, you know,

543
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 5: stuff like that, and continue to approach that conversation every

544
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 5: time you have a different partner, a new experience.

545
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 4: You know, it's big, it's it's huge.

546
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 2: So I mean that's so to hear you say that

547
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 2: as a father so cool to me because I think

548
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,199
Speaker 2: a lot of times parents kind of put all this

549
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 2: pressure on the mom to have these conversations like.

550
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 3: Well, she got a period, you should be talking to

551
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 3: her about that.

552
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 4: Well, I'm scared about the period conversation.

553
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 2: I mean, but at least you're like, I definitely think

554
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 2: that there's conversations that maybe you know, your daughter might

555
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: feel more safe talking to, you know, the mom about

556
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,120
Speaker 2: because the mom has had a period, right, but we've

557
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: all had sex. I think it's important that both parents

558
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 2: have the conversation from the male perspective, especially if you

559
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 2: have daughters, like I know, for me, when I was young,

560
00:23:55,920 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: my dad literally was like, you know, niggas be cheating. Yeah,

561
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 2: he was like, niggas be cheating. He's like, your mom's

562
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,400
Speaker 2: gonna tell you there's like some like fantasy and like

563
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 2: you're gonna ride off in the fucking distance. And I

564
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 2: don't know if, like you know, that advice to my

565
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 2: dad or that statement that my dad said definitely has

566
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 2: affected me throughout my life for sure, in positive ways

567
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,959
Speaker 2: and in negative ways. Like in the positive of like

568
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 2: just being not getting caught up in a weird fantasy

569
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 2: of thinking that like people aren't people, and that people

570
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 2: don't have desires, and that you know, men are different

571
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 2: than women. That's one thing he's really always, you know,

572
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 2: told me, like the male mind is just different. It's

573
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 2: not the same. Don't try to compare the two because

574
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 2: you just cannot. But I think that having both parents

575
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 2: being able to talk to their child about sex, Like

576
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 2: if you're listening at home, like and you have kids

577
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,199
Speaker 2: that are you know, around this age, like both, and

578
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 2: you're married to your partner and you have a good communication.

579
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: I'm hoping because you're married, that you guys are on

580
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 2: the same page about that, and that it's not all

581
00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 2: on the woman to have these discussions and that the

582
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 2: father's getting involved and talking to their kids about this

583
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 2: because a lot of times that's like probably even a

584
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:04,199
Speaker 2: more hackful conversation, especially for a girl, I think. And

585
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 2: the boys too, boys need to know too, like, hey,

586
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 2: hey son, you know when you start, you know.

587
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 3: Exploring, I hope those fingernails are cleaned. And look at

588
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 3: his fingernails, fucking miracle man, well better than mine, his

589
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 3: fingernail Headstine.

590
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: If I didn't see him, I just saw those hands.

591
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: I'd let him touch me. I'm just saying slide those

592
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: under here.

593
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 2: I know that you take clients. Have you ever been

594
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 2: a client? Have you ever had a session?

595
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 5: Like I have paid many many doms to teach me things.

596
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 5: I have bottomed in those lessons, So technically.

597
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,160
Speaker 2: You explain what that means bottomed for people.

598
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 5: So for example, in order to learn fireplay, I had

599
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 5: to be the fire bottom. I had to be the

600
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 5: person that was on the table so to speak, you know,

601
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 5: getting the fire done to them. So that was something

602
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 5: the same thing with impact play. You know a lot

603
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,200
Speaker 5: of the times you want when before you hit somebody

604
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 5: with a particular tool, you want to know what it

605
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 5: feels like. So for my impact play lesson, I also

606
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 5: bottom for that, meaning like once again I was the

607
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 5: person that they demonstrated on just so I could understand

608
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,479
Speaker 5: what a person is going to be experiencing while I'm

609
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 5: hitting them or using fire any other.

610
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 2: Did you see fire use and that's what? How did that?

611
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 6: Like?

612
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 1: What was that?

613
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 6: Like?

614
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 2: I need to do that?

615
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 5: Okay, So my fire mentor is actually located in my bio,

616
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 5: so on all of my pages I have him linked there.

617
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,959
Speaker 5: Like if anybody wants to learn fireplay, get a fire kit.

618
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: My god, I think I need to learn it.

619
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Speaker 4: Things like that.

620
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Speaker 5: But you know, after seeing him perform, his name is

621
00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 5: Bobby fire about it. They called him the fire Marshall.

622
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 5: After seeing him perform, I was like, I have to

623
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 5: learn this.

624
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 4: I have to learn it.

625
00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 5: It was so dope. He was able to do so

626
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 5: much with it. He's incredible with the fire. That's what

627
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:36,679
Speaker 5: hence why they called him the fire Marshall.

628
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: So is he based in New York.

629
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 5: He's in Detroit. He's in Detroit, but he does do

630
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 5: virtual lessons. He travels, you know what I'm saying, all

631
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 5: types of things. So he's available for that dope.

632
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 3: Are you a switch? Like with your partner? Do you

633
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,720
Speaker 3: ever switch? Are you always?

634
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: For sure?

635
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 5: The interesting you bring that up because I just came

636
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 5: to that conclusion this morning.

637
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 1: While I was getting this morning Wow, look at that.

638
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 5: My I have historically always said that I am not

639
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 5: a switch, but I think I do, especially with the

640
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 5: right partner. With my partner currently, I'm big on being

641
00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 5: used in bed.

642
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 4: As much as I love, you know, being in control.

643
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 5: I love the idea of having my hands tied and

644
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 5: just using me like a meat stick and just doing

645
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,720
Speaker 5: all types of different things to me, and I'm big

646
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 5: on being smothered with her pussy, and that's something that

647
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 5: I really really enjoyed. So I was like, that does

648
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,120
Speaker 5: show like kind of simmis because I want to be blindfolded.

649
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 5: I have this thing, you know, when I'm not in control,

650
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 5: where like I like to close my eyes and just

651
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 5: let you do whatever you want to do to me,

652
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. But I also I've always

653
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,199
Speaker 5: believed that like I had to earn that experience, so

654
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 5: I go super hard. I feel like I'm overcompensating for

655
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 5: the idea that I want to one day be able

656
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 5: to just lay back and do things. I hate seeing

657
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 5: guys just like put their arm up and like touch something.

658
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 5: It like what did you do to get you excited?

659
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 4: Like you know what I mean. So I try to

660
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 4: put in a lot of work to be like yeah, so.

661
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 5: The last six days I've been holding it down since

662
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 5: my data, LIKEE just relaxed do some things to me.

663
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 5: And I really really enjoy those experiences where I'm able

664
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 5: to just like just just you know, zone out in

665
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 5: my own head and let you use me. So I

666
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 5: guess that is like a switch tendency, but it doesn't

667
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 5: happen as often.

668
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 2: Do you have any hard nos.

669
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,479
Speaker 5: Yes, just when it comes to sexuality, Like I'm not

670
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 5: into you know, anything that's not anyone that's not a

671
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 5: CIS woman. But other than that, probably Scott play. I'm

672
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:37,360
Speaker 5: not into Scott play. I'm not into blood play. There

673
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 5: are believe it or not, I want to be if

674
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 5: I want to be clear, there are separate you know experiences.

675
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 5: For example, like I mentioned on a Harder Soft podcast,

676
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 5: like I'm into messy ainal. You know what I mean,

677
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 5: because my uncle taught me, like if you're going to

678
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 5: do something, don't be afraid of what's going to happen.

679
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 4: You know what I mean. If you're going to have

680
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 4: a sex with a woman on her period, don't be

681
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 4: afraid of the blood like that uncle.

682
00:28:59,240 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 5: My uncle, nasty motherfucker, na motherfucker. But yeah, like once

683
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 5: you engage in a certain thing, you know what I mean.

684
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 5: So if you want how to deep throw your dick

685
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 5: and you throw up, don't you handle that shit? Like

686
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 5: you really got to make sure that, you know what

687
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 5: I mean, you're in control and you let a personal

688
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 5: so like when you're doing anal, shit happens.

689
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 4: It can happen.

690
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 5: Literally so you know, if it happens handleless year and

691
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 5: I have no problem with it. But the idea of

692
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 5: just somebody, you know, just playing with it just for

693
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 5: the sake of playing with it, or blood just to

694
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 5: play with it, Nah, not my thing.

695
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 3: I so appreciate you saying that. I feel like there

696
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 3: is such a I mean, just in kink in period

697
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 3: and BDSM, there's safety.

698
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: You know, you have to feel.

699
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 3: Safe and like niggas were trying to stick their dick

700
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 3: in your ass and like I don't even.

701
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: Know you that well, you need to relax or and.

702
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 3: Then like women, you have to really feel safe to

703
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 3: like be like anything can happen, and I feel safe

704
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 3: enough with this person that they're not going to like

705
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 3: make me feel weird even though you just put your

706
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 3: penis in my asshole, you know, Like I think rap

707
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 3: videos and music make people confuse, like put your thumb

708
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 3: in her ass Like, no, niggas, there's requirements you might.

709
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 5: Need at first, communication necessary trust. It's just they create

710
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 5: the fantasy that everything is just like straight to the point,

711
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 5: like they don't show you that when they do them

712
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 5: anals and those pornos, there's so much prepping that goes involved.

713
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 5: You know, a lot of people do things to get

714
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 5: themselves comfortable conversations. I had, you know, a bunch of

715
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 5: different things are happening before you get to that point,

716
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 5: but you don't see it.

717
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: I so I need first of all, being and Jamila,

718
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 2: I have been ever since we saw your performance. I

719
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 2: was like, we need to get this done immediately. So

720
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 2: I want to you know, I want.

721
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 4: To do that okay today.

722
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 2: But I also want to know because I was telling Jamila,

723
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 2: I was like, is he gonna burn her pussy?

724
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 3: She I don't know how you didn't hear her because

725
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 3: we were only We're only feet far away from you.

726
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: I was like, you got to shut up.

727
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 3: You're ruining the show for everybody.

728
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: Literally, I'm like, are were at the movies? Shut the

729
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: fuck up. She's like, oh, that was a pussy.

730
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 2: I was like, I was like, look you did get

731
00:30:58,880 --> 00:31:01,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, So can you explained before we go into it,

732
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: like the science behind what you do and how you

733
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 2: don't burn it just pussies?

734
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 4: Okay.

735
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 5: So the accelerate that we're using to create the fire

736
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 5: is alcohol, and a lot of times it's diluted with water.

737
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 5: So whenever you see ninety percent alcohol seventy percent alcohol

738
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 5: fifty percent alcohol.

739
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 4: That determines how.

740
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 5: Much water is and when water dilutes the alcohol, it

741
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 5: actually makes it burn at the lower temperature. So the

742
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 5: more water you have in the fire, the lower the

743
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 5: temperature is going to burn. So typically we use seventy

744
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 5: percent alcohol on average, and fifty percent if you're like

745
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 5: a super duper bigan is somebody that doesn't like any

746
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 5: type of temperature play. Fifty percent isn't super recommended because

747
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 5: it goes out really quickly and it's hard to work

748
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 5: with and manipulate. But seventy percent is around that that mark.

749
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 5: We use fire ones that are made for that purpose

750
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 5: of being able to transfer the alcohol to the person's body.

751
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, have you.

752
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: Ever fireplayed two women at one time?

753
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 5: Absolutely no, I was gonna say it did, but I've

754
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 5: done it, you know, in a room, but never at

755
00:31:58,520 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 5: the same time.

756
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: Well, it's about to pop your chair.

757
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 2: Today might be the day. They're marvelous.

758
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 1: Wait, I wish I wish I could show you guys

759
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: in the DMS.

760
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, remember us, are you free on Monday? Also,

761
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 3: can you do that thing you did at the party

762
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 3: that one of us? He was like, sure, I was like, Wow,

763
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 3: you ask and you shall receive.

764
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 5: I was so happy to see your a DM because

765
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 5: I was like, oh man, she didn't see my performance

766
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 5: and she she looked at me like. I was like,

767
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 5: can I go on your shows?

768
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 4: Like? What do you do? Like? Who are you?

769
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 2: The like?

770
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 4: We should be?

771
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 2: I should be a guest.

772
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 4: I'm like, for what what are you?

773
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: Wait? First of all, if you're ever approached.

774
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 3: To buy a gentleman in in a suit at a

775
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 3: sex party.

776
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 1: He's probably a dom. I literally asked her Landa.

777
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: I'm like, is like the suit the domb uniform. I

778
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,479
Speaker 3: feel like all the niggas who are dumbs like generally

779
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 3: kind of wear.

780
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: Suits or maybe it shows you in king half.

781
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 5: So that's to be clear, the majority of downasday well leather.

782
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 5: The suit thing is probably a fifty shades a great thing,

783
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 5: and the.

784
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 3: Level of sophistication, it's professional. I'm here like I'm here

785
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 3: a do some serious shit.

786
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 5: So yeah, my thing is I've been wearing suits or

787
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,760
Speaker 5: dressing up since I was sixteen. I got in a

788
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 5: lot of trouble when I was a teenager, and when

789
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 5: I came home from the juvenile attention, I lived with

790
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 5: my sister. My sister told me the only way that

791
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 5: you're I'm gonna agree to letting them, you know, send

792
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 5: you to my home, is if you agree to.

793
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 4: Change the way you dress.

794
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 5: Because at the time I was dressing like a straight hudlum, Like,

795
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 5: oh my god, I thought I was somebody totally different,

796
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 5: and she was like, yeah, you're gonna have wear dress

797
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 5: clothes even though you don't have a uniform at your school.

798
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 7: Why?

799
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: Wow? Why?

800
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,959
Speaker 5: And then I realized that I had to make it

801
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 5: work more and more and more and more, and it

802
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 5: grew on to me. My friends used to hate me.

803
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 5: Mind you being sixte years old. Your friend shows up

804
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 5: to a party in a suit. You see it all

805
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 5: the time. Please don't wear a suit. I'm like, I'm older.

806
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 5: It's like it's perfect, you know what I mean. So

807
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 5: it's definitely a thing.

808
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: You definitely look very dapper and good today, Sir.

809
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 4: I appreciate that so much.

810
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: What do you like your subs to call you?

811
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 4: I like sir sir.

812
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 2: We were talking earlier. You said you're not really into

813
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 2: the daddy thing. No, and that is that, and that's

814
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 2: because you are a daddy.

815
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 4: Yes.

816
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 3: I got to work on that because I'd be saying

817
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:12,720
Speaker 3: daddy during sex without consulting first, I have someone.

818
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,240
Speaker 2: I have had someone tell me, do not call me daddy,

819
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 2: like straight up, like before sex ever happened. Like it's

820
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 2: not my thing. Please, you can say anything you want,

821
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 2: but just do not call me daddy.

822
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: You want my dad and he's not a dad.

823
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 2: I want my dick to stay hard. No, he's not

824
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 2: a dad. I mean he kind of like raised a

825
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 2: child for a while. But I don't know what that

826
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 2: he said. He's like, I don't know what that is,

827
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 2: but I don't know why it is, Like I have

828
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 2: to look into that why it bothers me so much?

829
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 2: But I've realized that, like it turns me off.

830
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 4: Maybe because he lends a partner, because he knew myself,

831
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 4: he knew himself very very well.

832
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I respect it won't be gone. And

833
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,879
Speaker 2: that's true though, because I don't. I'm not a big

834
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 2: daddy person in the bedroom. Sometimes a little slipout depends

835
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: how much I'm being dommed.

836
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess that's true too.

837
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a sub so I think that may come

838
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 3: from that, cause I was like, why do I say that.

839
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: I don't watch that much porn. Where did I get

840
00:34:58,920 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 1: that from?

841
00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:01,600
Speaker 3: But I I think it is about you know, have

842
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 3: weird kinky like being dominated daddy fantasies, which is a

843
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 3: whole different podcast.

844
00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 5: But I mean, I prefer sir mainly because I just

845
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 5: feel like it's special to me, as you need to me.

846
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 5: Because especially when you're talking to vanilla people, they call

847
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:17,280
Speaker 5: everybody bay.

848
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 4: And this and that.

849
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 5: I'm like, don't call me babe, you know, don't call

850
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 5: me love, don't call me well, you call me king.

851
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 4: That's fine. But I prefer sir because it feels like

852
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 4: you took the time to appreciate what I like and

853
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 4: you called me that. It means a lot to me

854
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 4: that way.

855
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,320
Speaker 2: Well, sir, I'm ready for my session.

856
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: Oh yes, Sam, same sir.

857
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,439
Speaker 2: So I think we're gonna move the cameras a little

858
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: bit so that we can I don't I don't know

859
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 2: what needs to happen here. I don't know how much

860
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: space you need if we can stand here, or what do.

861
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,879
Speaker 3: You need to streme bend over this table because that's

862
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 3: what I imagine.

863
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 4: Just put you can just put your hands on the tape.

864
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 4: I'm gonna pull out my whole bag.

865
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, First of all, not only is he wearing

866
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 3: a suit and a tie, he came in with his

867
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,360
Speaker 3: fucking double bag, professional bag. I'm like, oh my gosh,

868
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 3: he's in the bag. I feel like Barney, you know

869
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 3: that magic fuck.

870
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 2: I'm just letting you guys know. Now you're gonna listen

871
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: to this, but if you want to watch this session,

872
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 2: you gotta join our Patreon. So make sure you go

873
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 2: to patreon dot com backslash Good Mom's Bad Choices if

874
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 2: you want to see the good Moms get dumbed by

875
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 2: sir marvellous.

876
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 1: Wow, my dreams are coming true. I love my job.

877
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 2: Where's it's Should we cut for just one second? Or

878
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 2: should we just keep going?

879
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know going Okay, I'm sorry.

880
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: I don't probably right here.

881
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna move this mic out the way. And

882
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 4: you guys said, like, put your hands on the.

883
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 7: Table, just our hands. Yeah, I got.

884
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 6: You.

885
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 4: Guys.

886
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: Didn't know what you're signing up for this Monday afternoon. Wait,

887
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: what what are you pull my ass out?

888
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 6: Are you sure?

889
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 4: Oh?

890
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 2: I woren't high waisted panties on purpose?

891
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,919
Speaker 1: My painties are caught in but I don't care.

892
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,280
Speaker 2: It's like I was like, I know he can't fire

893
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 2: me through my with my clothes, I will catch on fire.

894
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 2: But I feel like skin. Is that the whole point

895
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: is you need to feel skin, so that you can

896
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 2: feel the skin on the skin sensations.

897
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 3: The guys are closing the curtain. I did see a

898
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,720
Speaker 3: child's roaming around.

899
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 2: Doesn't need to see that?

900
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, never, you've never over heard of talking to some

901
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 3: marvelous about his kids discovering who he is. Can you

902
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 3: wait till our kids get old enough for this ship?

903
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 3: They're gonna be like, what the fuck have you guys

904
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 3: been doing all these years? They're both six, might will

905
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 3: be seven next month too.

906
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 2: My gosh, oh, I've never seen that. Is that a

907
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 2: flog to the metal, But the it's also called a flogger.

908
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 4: It's not living, So a flogger just happens to have

909
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 4: many flaws on it falls on it. The whips are

910
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 4: the ones where you see just one one. We'll make

911
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:12,280
Speaker 4: it where they're gonna have to deal with it.

912
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm ready?

913
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 6: Are you ready?

914
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,879
Speaker 2: So what's the best thing to do? Should I take

915
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 2: my pants off?

916
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 3: Should I just get We're trying to get naked so bad.

917
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 3: He's like, no, bitch, just give me your hand. I'm like,

918
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 3: so take my pants off or you want my titties out.

919
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 4: I feel like I've seen titties before. Well, I have this, Okay,

920
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 4: let's good.

921
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 7: Do a lot of editing.

922
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not gonna take your I can turn this way.

923
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 4: I like it.

924
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:42,320
Speaker 2: Do you have underworld?

925
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: I have underground?

926
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 4: So who's gonna go first?

927
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: I'll first go ahead?

928
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 1: Okay, come closer to the.

929
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 2: Well.

930
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 1: I'm sweating. I'm just getting so hot and I'm getting excited.

931
00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 4: So what I'm going to have you do is I'm

932
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:03,240
Speaker 4: going to actually have put your hands on this over forward.

933
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 4: Don't worry about your hair and stuff like that.

934
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 3: Please don't catch my friend's hair on fire.

935
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 4: I won't even be going close to that.

936
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so excited for you friend.

937
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 4: Maybe some lights could turn down, because it might.

938
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 7: It is totally fine.

939
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 3: He's getting her, he's prepping her with his hands. It's

940
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 3: very Does it feel warm? She's bent over the chair

941
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 3: right now and he's just warming her up literally with

942
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 3: hands and fire, with fans and fire, hands and fire.

943
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: Do you like that?

944
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 3: He's my sexy voice? How does it feel?

945
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: He's like he's literally touching you with the fire.

946
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 4: That is literally how it feels. I can show you

947
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,439
Speaker 4: the telling the front, but you would have to come.

948
00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 4: Let's see here.

949
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: Now she's up against the wall.

950
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 3: He's put her hands over her head, he's rubbing on

951
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 3: her body, her waist, he's going back for more fire.

952
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 3: Erica seems to be really enjoying this. She's really in

953
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 3: her subspace. Sorry now, mm.

954
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 6: That was it?

955
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 7: That was good? Okay, I smell that alcohol, Yeah, you could.

956
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 3: Smell Yep, he's choking her.

957
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 5: So the more sensitive positive body, for example, the nipples

958
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 5: and clad and things like that, it.

959
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 4: Just gets it. It's tightened, you know, when you're not

960
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 4: able to see, when you're tied up and all that

961
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 4: other stuff. So imagine being like you know, on my table,

962
00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 4: tied to the table, blindfolded. Music is playing, it's super

963
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 4: dark in the room or whatever, and all you do

964
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 4: is feeling like me going all over your body, touching

965
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 4: on your plaid and your nipples and things like that.

966
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 4: So that's how it feels.

967
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm getting hot and bothered in here.

968
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: Wait I have one.

969
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 4: Request though, Uh, thank of course, alright, Look.

970
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 2: I never I've been waiting for this moment.

971
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:23,240
Speaker 4: Okay, can I'm.

972
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 3: Alright consent. Guys, first you ask and then you shall receive.

973
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 7: God so a lot of times.

974
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:33,719
Speaker 4: Oh I can't see it on that side.

975
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 7: I'm right handed, but uh.

976
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:40,720
Speaker 1: Mm yeah, that ass is shaking. Baby.

977
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 3: Wow, that sounds really nice. Uh huh, your boddy looks

978
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 3: really good there.

979
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 1: I guess.

980
00:41:54,480 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 7: You don't you fucking get take mm.

981
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 1: He's telling her not to give up. My friend doesn't

982
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: give up.

983
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:09,760
Speaker 7: Such a quicker. Alright, m thank you, sorry anytime.

984
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 1: Oh oh wow, I'm sweating.

985
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 6: Okay, well, thank you.

986
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: Okay, I think it's my turn.

987
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 2: Oh friend, kay, where should I be?

988
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 7: Same? I? So I can start here, but I'm gonna

989
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 7: turn you on you.

990
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 4: It's that yeah, if you if you take off the top,

991
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 4: but just don't show the titties, then you don't have

992
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 4: to add it out so much.

993
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 7: So just don't point to the camera.

994
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 1: Na, you don't like my titties out my favorite place

995
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 1: to be.

996
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:44,200
Speaker 2: Okay, are you ready for my play by play?

997
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 4: I guess.

998
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 2: Jamila has turn taken her to her top off that

999
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,760
Speaker 2: she's turned around so we can't see her camouflage nipples.

1000
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,280
Speaker 7: You don't have to worry about slipping perfect.

1001
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 6: Okay, that's scared. MM.

1002
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:06,720
Speaker 7: Is that okay?

1003
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 4: I prefer yeses over okay?

1004
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,280
Speaker 6: Yes, okay, yes sir, yeah.

1005
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 7: I needed to be clear. Yes, a risk communications.

1006
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:20,479
Speaker 2: He's rubbing her back.

1007
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 6: Mm.

1008
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: She sounds like she's enjoying it.

1009
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 6: MM.

1010
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 2: I think he grabbed her t her tits.

1011
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 6: MM.

1012
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,320
Speaker 7: Is that okay? Okay?

1013
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:41,399
Speaker 6: Right?

1014
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 4: And okay, we can't do the front and cover yourself.

1015
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 7: They don't.

1016
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,439
Speaker 5: Uh, they don't deserve all that.

1017
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,560
Speaker 2: I get pick kicked off Patreon too, So.

1018
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 7: Let's see if we can try something a little bit different.

1019
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 7: Says you gonna put your knees on the share best

1020
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 7: for me to play your pastyle.

1021
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 4: Okay, yes, I don't worry.

1022
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 7: You're not gonna be hey.

1023
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,279
Speaker 4: Oh that'll be beautiful.

1024
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you.

1025
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 6: MM.

1026
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 4: I wonder how much they get to see stuff like

1027
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 4: this when they do other podcasts for people.

1028
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 6: MM.

1029
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:36,439
Speaker 7: Is it okay, I prefer yes, yes sir? Oh yeh

1030
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 7: yes sir.

1031
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 6: M yes, okay.

1032
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 7: I'm gonna pull this to the side and said, okay, uh,

1033
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 7: don't worry about the hair part.

1034
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 6: Okay, they don't.

1035
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 7: Bring my kid. I'm not fay. MM can you feel that? Okay?

1036
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 2: MM, I'm not being a good play by play person.

1037
00:44:58,840 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: I'm distracted.

1038
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:02,720
Speaker 4: I'm distracted, guys.

1039
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 2: I'm just we're still here.

1040
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 7: I couldn't have.

1041
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 2: A bad a huge, huge vagina.

1042
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:24,919
Speaker 7: Let me help you out here, job, I guess, thank

1043
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 7: you sir. Wow Mmmm.

1044
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 1: That was really nice.

1045
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 5: That's just one of the many kinks that I do

1046
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 5: and I try to like, sorry, I tried to incorporate

1047
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,239
Speaker 5: that in the middle of everything else. So it's just

1048
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 5: like a form of over overstimulating a person. So imagine,

1049
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 5: like I said that, going on while a whole bunch

1050
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 5: of other stuff, and be honest is super important. Lighting

1051
00:45:57,000 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 5: is important, temperature is important, and just creating a level

1052
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 5: of comfort with the person based on your communication. So

1053
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 5: that's why I always explain to people if you're ever

1054
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 5: going to book a dom and they don't take the

1055
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 5: time to go over, you know, consultation with you and

1056
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 5: like learn your kinks and your interest in stuff like

1057
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 5: run away. If that person is like, well, yeah, yeah,

1058
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 5: just send me this money. You know we'll come to

1059
00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 5: I'm like, nah, run away. If they're not going over,

1060
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,799
Speaker 5: what are your hard limits, your interests, what you want

1061
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 5: to experience, things of that nature, you know, maybe even

1062
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,879
Speaker 5: past experiences you know then run away.

1063
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: They're not a professional.

1064
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 4: Basically, I wouldn't recommend them, you know what I mean.

1065
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 4: And anybody that I know that does this, they're going

1066
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 4: to say the same thing.

1067
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 3: I actually had a dom I got dombed in a dungeon.

1068
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 3: And one of the things, which I know is a

1069
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: popular thing, is like yellow, green, red, green to keep going,

1070
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:50,880
Speaker 3: red stop, I don't like this, and yellow slow down excellent.

1071
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 3: So I think that was one of the things that

1072
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 3: I learned, you know, and obviously consent, but even just

1073
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 3: having any type of language to use during the session

1074
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 3: to engauge your comfortability is super important.

1075
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 5: Exactly because a lot of times, you know, when we're

1076
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 5: experiencing things, it's hard to find the right words. So

1077
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 5: having something to shortcut that is super important. So I

1078
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 5: use the same colors. I use green, yellow, red, and marveless.

1079
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 5: So whenever I asks a person what's your color, you

1080
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 5: can say marvelous.

1081
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 4: If you're feeling well, you know, well, well, okay.

1082
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 5: Great, you can say green. You can say marvelous is

1083
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 5: totally up to whatever. When you want to remember, you

1084
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 5: can say yellow. One thing that I do during my

1085
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 5: sessions I encourage bratting, so people.

1086
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 4: Were like, oh, I'm a brat.

1087
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, well, you got to be able

1088
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 5: to take what it take what that comes with, so

1089
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 5: I forever. Actually you know why I'm hitting. I'm like,

1090
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 5: what's your color? And you know it's green. You could

1091
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 5: say you can hit You don't have to hit me

1092
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 5: harder than that if you want to get a yellow

1093
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 5: out of me. Remember the whole point of impact players

1094
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,560
Speaker 5: to get to the point where you're releasing those endorphins.

1095
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 5: You're you're inducing those chemicals to be released from the brain.

1096
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 5: So a part of that has to do with like

1097
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 5: raising the adrenaline level.

1098
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 2: My impact play tolerance is low.

1099
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 3: Oh really, I just realized, well I'm not.

1100
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 2: I just realized what I remember when he was saying that,

1101
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 2: and I was just telling someone that, like, I don't

1102
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 2: really enjoy being spanked. Sometimes I do. It just depends,

1103
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 2: but if you do it consistently over time, it starts

1104
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 2: it hurts.

1105
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 5: So the way I do it, right, what I always

1106
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 5: encourage people to do is like you got to do

1107
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 5: the good to the bat. So I'm not big on

1108
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 5: doing impact play just cold meaning like I like to

1109
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 5: do other forms of stimulation. So when you do get

1110
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 5: to a yellow. I'm giving you a reward, so now

1111
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 5: your mind is looking forward to it. Like when I

1112
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 5: start to reach that point, the whole idea of just

1113
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 5: spanking someone just to spink, I'm like, when am I

1114
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 5: really going to get out of it? Unless you're into that,

1115
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 5: you know what I mean. So me, I'm going to

1116
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 5: have something on your clip vibrating the entire time. I'm

1117
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 5: going to have something on your nipples. I'm going to

1118
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 5: be talking in your ear, I'm going to be encouraging you.

1119
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 5: I'm going to be like really getting you involved, just

1120
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 5: versus like, you know, the same idea. It's one thing

1121
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 5: if I would to walk up to you and just

1122
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 5: spank you in the middle of the day versus like

1123
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 5: where you know you're having sex with somebody, you're about

1124
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 5: to come and they're hitting you at that right moment.

1125
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 5: It's all about time and place and how you do it.

1126
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:56,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1127
00:48:56,880 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 3: I do love a dirty bouth. Yeah, I like talk

1128
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 3: dirty in my ear. And also I really enjoy like

1129
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 3: being choked and slapped in the face a little bit,

1130
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 3: but like not all over and over, but like just

1131
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 3: a little Like no, bitch, what did I tell you?

1132
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 1: That's my thing? Right, now.

1133
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 2: Just in case you wanted to know, sir, thanks for

1134
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 2: letting us know. Wait, can you tell us what these

1135
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 2: tools are? What is this? And this?

1136
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 5: So this is one of my favorite floggers. I'm like

1137
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 5: I mentioned this is good for sensation play. You might

1138
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 5: have seen me use this at the play party.

1139
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. I saw the fire, but then I

1140
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 2: got lost.

1141
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 5: So you can. Yeah, you can drag it across a

1142
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 5: person's skin. A lot of times I always mention how

1143
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 5: I try to deprive a person's sensus. So maybe I

1144
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 5: might blindfold you a guy, and you'll tie you up,

1145
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 5: and that heightens the experience of something touching your body.

1146
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is nice.

1147
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 5: Yeah. So, and this is a flogger. This is just

1148
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:56,760
Speaker 5: that a Judgments brand. This is one of her floggers.

1149
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 5: I have the other one in my bag. But this

1150
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 5: is called a nunchuck flogger. I love this one because

1151
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 5: it's easier to do the actual act of flogging, because

1152
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:07,120
Speaker 5: it's just easier to twist.

1153
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 4: It has this little nunchuck on it.

1154
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 5: But I love it because it's a thudy flogger that

1155
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 5: doesn't hurt as much. The stincier ones aren't super common,

1156
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 5: but this one is just a perfect one. It gives

1157
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 5: you that good vibration that you need. So and these

1158
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 5: are my fire ones. These were made by Bobby the

1159
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 5: Man I told you a brother. Yeah, so that's that's

1160
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 5: what I brought for you guys today.

1161
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 3: Wow, that was so kind of you. You know, you

1162
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 3: didn't have to do any of that, So we really

1163
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 3: appreciate you.

1164
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:37,479
Speaker 4: I appreciate you. Guys.

1165
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:41,600
Speaker 3: We're really in our subspace now and we're embracing our

1166
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 3: submissive and I'm I'm gonna we might have to flow

1167
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 3: you out. You might have to go half on a

1168
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 3: ticket for Marvelous.

1169
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 5: I definitely plan on coming to LA. I'm gonna go.

1170
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 5: I plan on going to one of the Kinky Game Nights.

1171
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 4: Do you are you familiar with.

1172
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:59,120
Speaker 2: The No, what's the Kinky Game Nights?

1173
00:50:59,120 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 4: Oh?

1174
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll say their information. Kinky Game Night is based

1175
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 5: out in LA. They really are definitely a great group

1176
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 5: out there.

1177
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:05,360
Speaker 1: Are they black?

1178
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 4: Yes?

1179
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 2: Okay, let me need to tap into the community in LA.

1180
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 2: We're fucking sleeping over here and.

1181
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 3: We were flying to New York to do kinky shit

1182
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 3: because we don't know where the kinky black people are

1183
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 3: in New York.

1184
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 1: I mean in la. You know, that was one of

1185
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:18,239
Speaker 1: my That.

1186
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:21,120
Speaker 3: Was the thing I really I didn't play per se

1187
00:51:21,200 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 3: at the party this weekend. I did a lot of

1188
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 3: dancing in the mirror, had a lot of slow dancing

1189
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 3: with other people.

1190
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: But you know, it was really a joy to see.

1191
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:31,760
Speaker 3: I feel like because it was their first play party,

1192
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:33,799
Speaker 3: I feel like there was a lot of first timers there.

1193
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 3: But I did enjoy seeing a group of predominantly black

1194
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 3: people come together to invest in exploring their pleasure in

1195
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 3: a non traditional way. I think it's such a like

1196
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:51,240
Speaker 3: revolutionary act to prioritize your pleasure as a black person

1197
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 3: and like be open to it and do it in

1198
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 3: community and do it like to watch other.

1199
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, great communication, because people so that when you go

1200
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 5: to these parties, like you said, you have to fuck

1201
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 5: or pussy's gonna be served to you on a plot. No,

1202
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,479
Speaker 5: Like do you did you see how much Tahost spoke

1203
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 5: before even allowing us to go, giving us the rules

1204
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 5: and the breakdowns and like what to expect and you

1205
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 5: know how to act. You know that's something that you

1206
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 5: don't hear people aren't doing that with at Vanilla parties.

1207
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,840
Speaker 5: They're not like, hey, watch how much you drink and

1208
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 5: do this, and you know we have you know, these

1209
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,279
Speaker 5: things put in place so keep you protected. I've seen

1210
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 5: way more drama happen at vanilla parties than I think

1211
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,040
Speaker 5: I've never thank you, Lord, I have yet to see,

1212
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 5: you know, something pop off at a kinky party that

1213
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 5: was like, Wow, I feel unsafe or I feel you know,

1214
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 5: just not comfortable here.

1215
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,760
Speaker 3: You actually feel more safe, you feel more I felt

1216
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 3: so safe. I mean I wasn't really I wasn't doing shit,

1217
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 3: but I just felt safe to embrace everyone, Like I

1218
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 3: had a really beautiful slow dance for like three songs

1219
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,399
Speaker 3: in the middle of a room of people fucking, and

1220
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 3: like I was just like, this is really nice. I

1221
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:55,319
Speaker 3: actually thought about shout out to clip Talk. I thought

1222
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 3: about during that conversation we had with him. She's like,

1223
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 3: I really want to go to the sex party and

1224
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:03,360
Speaker 3: just be naked in full body paint and let nobody

1225
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 3: touch me.

1226
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 4: That's dope.

1227
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 3: And so I was there and I was like, I

1228
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 3: wasn't really feeling in the mood to like really do

1229
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 3: a lot, but I was feeling the energy and I

1230
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:13,839
Speaker 3: just channeled that. I was like, I'm just gonna dance

1231
00:53:13,880 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 3: with myself and maybe a couple others, but like I

1232
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 3: felt sensual but not obligated to be touched amazing.

1233
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: And there was like power in that.

1234
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:24,840
Speaker 5: I'm sure that's the way that they want everybody to feel,

1235
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 5: just powerful, Like every experience is supposed to be feeling

1236
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:28,600
Speaker 5: in power.

1237
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 2: And I think also the aftercare is really important too,

1238
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 2: like and that's what I loved. I loved like whenever

1239
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 2: we talk to people who are in this space, Like

1240
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,120
Speaker 2: actually when I went to the we went to the

1241
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,359
Speaker 2: Harder Soft Show and Daddy Half did a demo with

1242
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:45,320
Speaker 2: his sub and he was flogging her for a pretty

1243
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 2: long decent amount of time, and then afterwards it was

1244
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 2: so beautiful to see how he took care of her

1245
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 2: and embraced her and made sure she was okay. And

1246
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 2: I think that's so important, especially in those type of

1247
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 2: environments that like when you are in a space and

1248
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,000
Speaker 2: you're being vulnerable with someone sharing yourself, that you check

1249
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 2: in on them after you don't just like okay, we

1250
00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 2: fucked by peace.

1251
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, that messes up a lot of people, you know,

1252
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 5: because they you share yourself with them and then you

1253
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 5: don't know what their feedback is. So one thing that

1254
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 5: I encourage everyone to do, whether you're doing BDSM or not,

1255
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,840
Speaker 5: is do debriefs after every experience. So when I have

1256
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,840
Speaker 5: a session with someone, I'd break it down into four quadrants. First,

1257
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 5: what was your favorite part of the scene, what was

1258
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,720
Speaker 5: your least favorite part of the scene, And what's something

1259
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 5: you would want more of and what's something you could

1260
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 5: probably do without? And that is how you constantly increase

1261
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,480
Speaker 5: the experience because you know, especially when for myself when

1262
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 5: I'm doing sessions, I wanted to be catered, you know,

1263
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,759
Speaker 5: particularly for that person and each and every experience to

1264
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 5: get better and better. But you can do that sexually,

1265
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 5: like what's something you know, if you just had sex

1266
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:49,839
Speaker 5: with somebody, you know, like what was your favorite part

1267
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 5: of it?

1268
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

1269
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 5: Also, before you even go there, just make sure that

1270
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,560
Speaker 5: you create that safe space mentally by letting them know, like,

1271
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 5: you know, nothing that you say now is gonna you know,

1272
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,360
Speaker 5: I'm not going to like judge you on it or

1273
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:03,560
Speaker 5: make you feel bad or horrible, but I also want

1274
00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 5: that ability to feel safe, to allow it to be

1275
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 5: honest with you. And then you go into you know,

1276
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 5: my favorite parts when you was pulling my hair or

1277
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 5: choking me, or when you was eating my pussy and

1278
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 5: then or you might say, you know, what I would

1279
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 5: want more of is just a little bit more for

1280
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 5: a player. I want you to take I want us

1281
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:19,920
Speaker 5: to take our time a little bit more to explore

1282
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 5: each other. Or I love when you go deep, or

1283
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 5: I like when you go shallow, or like just try

1284
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 5: to you know, really debrief those moments, because that's the

1285
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,799
Speaker 5: way you increase it. That's the way you increase that

1286
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 5: pleasure each and every time.

1287
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate that. I think men don't always.

1288
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 4: Uh we ain't thinking of things.

1289
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 3: They don't they don't like the feedback. They take it personally.

1290
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:42,399
Speaker 3: The ego gets involved. So men, if you're listening, ask

1291
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,760
Speaker 3: for the feedback. You only get better. It's not about,

1292
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 3: like you know, telling someone they're not good in bed,

1293
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 3: but just improving. Everyone can get better. Yeah, I know

1294
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 3: you kind.

1295
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 1: Of did this out of order. Today.

1296
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 3: We usually start with an affirmation, but do you have

1297
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 3: an affirmation for us today?

1298
00:55:58,719 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: So marvelous.

1299
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,400
Speaker 4: Yes, I deserve success.

1300
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 3: I deserve success. I know that's fucking right. I deserve

1301
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 3: to be spanked. I deserve success. I deserve all the

1302
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 3: things that I want.

1303
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:15,319
Speaker 5: So I want to make a little disclaimer right here,

1304
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 5: myself is going to be so mad at me because

1305
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 5: I forgot I had my everything big with this morning,

1306
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:22,799
Speaker 5: and I forgot to use my gum before I came

1307
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 5: in here. So please, I really hope that nobody, you know,

1308
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 5: when I was breathing or whatever.

1309
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 3: No, no, nobody was thinking about that, thinking about that

1310
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 3: fire one.

1311
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 4: Nope, let me me pop that in there.

1312
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 3: Did you want to pull a card or we Well,

1313
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,399
Speaker 3: I did pull a card already while I was funny.

1314
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:45,560
Speaker 3: You asked, it's one eleven's you know I'm a witchy bitch.

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Speaker 3: It's which time the card I pulled today? It kind

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Speaker 3: of seems appropriate. It's the lever's The Lover's card means,

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Speaker 3: let's see what we got today. In the purest form,

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Speaker 3: the Lover's card represents conscious connections and meaningful relationships. The

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Speaker 3: arrival of this card in a tarial reading shows that

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Speaker 3: you have a beautiful, soul honoring connection with the loved one.

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Speaker 3: You may believe you have found your soulmate or life partner,

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Speaker 3: and the sexual energy between you both you guys, goes

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Speaker 3: way beyond instant gratification and lust to something that is

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Speaker 3: very spiritual and also tantric what yeah.

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Speaker 4: Though.

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Speaker 1: While the lover's card typically refers.

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Speaker 3: To a romantic tie, it can also represent a close

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Speaker 3: friendship or family relationship where love, respect, and compassion flow.

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Speaker 3: The Lover's card is open communication and raw honesty. Given

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Speaker 3: that the man and woman are naked, they are both

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Speaker 3: willing to be in their most vulnerable states and have

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Speaker 3: learned to open their hearts to one another and share

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Speaker 3: their truest feelings. They shape the container from which trust

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Speaker 3: and confidence can emerge, and this makes for a powerful

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00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 3: bond between the two. So I'm becoming a witch live

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Speaker 3: on the show every week.

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Speaker 5: Getting good because that was super accurate, and we're I'm

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Speaker 5: experiencing right now with my life with my partner.

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Speaker 1: How long have you guys been together?

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Speaker 5: I don't want to say. I don't want to say

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Speaker 5: because it's roughly new and everybody thinks that's right.

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Speaker 4: Well, just a lot longer, yea.

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Speaker 1: Cancers be knowing when we're in love, okay, exactly.

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Speaker 3: So I believe you and I'm happy for you, and

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Speaker 3: I'm really grateful that you came in here and shared

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Speaker 3: your knowledge and your energy with us and shared space.

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Speaker 3: This was beautiful and I feel more confident that I

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00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 3: want to be dombed in the future and that I

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Speaker 3: should pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Amen. And I need fire and I need fire.

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Speaker 1: Oh you don't do fire. Let me call you back.

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Speaker 3: I know someone who does. Please tell our guests where

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Speaker 3: they can find you.

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Speaker 5: My Instagram is ser Marvelist Kinks with an underscore, so

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Speaker 5: there's serve Novelist Kinks with an underscore or ser marvelous Things.

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Speaker 5: Please follow both pages because you know, Instagram be deleting us.

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00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 5: And when you go to my pages, all my links

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00:58:55,640 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 5: are in the bio, so you can find my Twitter,

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Speaker 5: my only fans, my email, all that I the information

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Speaker 5: that you can.

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Speaker 4: You can find me on there and.

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Speaker 2: We'll make sure to link all your contacts and the

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Speaker 2: episode description, so make sure you check that out.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate it.

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00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 2: Make sure you go follow our Patreon so you can

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00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 2: see all the fireplay that happened today. The link is

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Speaker 2: also in our episode description. And rate and review.

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Speaker 1: Us on Apple Podcasts. Well, yeah, you better rate and

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Speaker 1: review us. God damn it.

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Speaker 2: Rate and reviews. Scroll down all the way to the bottom.

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Speaker 2: Get that five star rating, leave us a nice little comment.

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Speaker 1: And uh oh wait should we do hoy oh?

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Speaker 2: Do you have a wry I mean, I'm sure you

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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 1: Jeez, christ I'm sure whose stories?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 5: Whatever did you think that? Another story? When I was sixteen,

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Speaker 5: I'm going to take it back there. I want to

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Speaker 5: say not recent, but my biggest horror story I could

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Speaker 5: say is when I was working at a storage company.

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Speaker 5: And I was using a storage company. I mean the

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Speaker 5: storage lockers as like my personal bedrooms.

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Speaker 4: So literally what.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, literally I would have them like I would have

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Speaker 5: because you know they so we sold blankets, boxes of course,

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Speaker 5: lockers and stuff like that. So I would take a

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Speaker 5: couple of moving blankets, throw it on the floor and

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Speaker 5: side an empty storage thing, and just like go to

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Speaker 5: work inside the storage.

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Speaker 3: That reminded me when I was in I lived in Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: There's this nigga that I used to fuck and I

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Speaker 3: hadn't seen him in a long time, and I ran

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Speaker 3: into him at the club and he was like, i've

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Speaker 3: been you know, like you should come home with me,

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Speaker 3: Come with me. So I was like okay, And this

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Speaker 3: nigga took me to his storage and fucked me in

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Speaker 3: the storage room. And I thought, I'm never telling anybody this.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy. Do you not have a house. I

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Speaker 1: don't know I did it though.

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Speaker 4: I was super look for me to be sixteen.

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Speaker 5: So I was working there and mindre you know, as

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Speaker 5: a teenager, you don't really get the free crib that

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Speaker 5: was what we called it back in the day.

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Speaker 4: We couldn't get the free cribs. So of this so

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Speaker 4: I had, like to me all of these miniature apartments.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, all I had to do was find one

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Speaker 4: of them. I would literally like maybe on the third floor,

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Speaker 4: locker three or four, just wait for me.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you're domine years.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Staddy about it.

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Speaker 3: I'm good to know I'm not the only one who's

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Speaker 3: got fucked in a storage container. Well, thank you so

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Speaker 3: much for sharing with us.

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Speaker 1: We love you and we'll see you next week. Bye bye.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, have you joined Patreon, where we offer even

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Speaker 1: more juicy content.

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Speaker 2: Yes, y'all, we have a secret episodes, secret segments, and

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01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 2: some very personal blog posts that we don't share on

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01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:42,680
Speaker 2: the interwebs, So make sure you go check out our Patreon.

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Speaker 2: That's patreon dot com. Backslash Good Mom's Bad Choices. As mothers,

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01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 2: we are constantly fucking needed. We are constantly needed our kids.

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01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:58,000
Speaker 2: They want snacks, they want this, they want that, they

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01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 2: got questions. Why why you get into the zone of

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01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 2: like constantly feeling like you might be needed for something,

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01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 2: like what do you need? What do I need? What

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01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:08,439
Speaker 2: do I need? How do I need? It's like hard

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01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 2: to get out of this this space of feeling like

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Speaker 2: something needs to get done. That's like one of the

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Speaker 2: hardest things for me is feeling like something needs to

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Speaker 2: get done if it's not I re needing something, if

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01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 2: it's not like me feeling like I must I gotta

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Speaker 2: post this thing, like someone is waiting for this, even

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01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 2: though no one is motherfucking waiting for me to post shit.

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Speaker 2: All the things that didn't get done, all of the

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01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 2: whatever the deadlines and you didn't meet today. Now a

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01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 2: you thinking about you? Nobody needs you right now. Stop

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01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:41,720
Speaker 2: feeling like you need to be needed because you don't.

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Speaker 2: Nobody needs to And that only I needed myself, that

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01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:48,960
Speaker 2: I needed to be there for me, that I needed

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Speaker 2: to be present from myself, that I needed to just

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Speaker 2: take a breath, and that was my only job in

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Speaker 2: that moment, was to be there for me.