Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect
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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am
Speaker 2: Jaselle Bryant.
Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for
Speaker 1: being here with us. What's again? This is what we do.
Speaker 1: This is how we do it. Book it up, book
Speaker 1: it up. Boo yanna yanna ya yana. Yeah, okay, clearly
Speaker 1: we have too much time on our hands. Oh my gosh. Yes,
Speaker 1: all right, we're just all that they're here. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: we totally and they keep coming, yes, which which we love. Yes,
Speaker 1: So see you guys.
Speaker 2: Life is good, All is well, All is great. Yes,
Speaker 2: what's what's popping? What's your shady moment?
Speaker 1: Oh? So this this is just I've had enough. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: it's just just this kind of a statement, like or
Speaker 1: like waking kids up in the morning, shady, shady, and
Speaker 1: I'm sick of it. I'm so sick of it. So
Speaker 1: do they have an alarm? They do, and they don't
Speaker 1: hear it. Okay, so then you have to go get them. Yes,
Speaker 1: But actually I enjoyed that.
Speaker 2: I enjoyed waking my kids up and like kissing on
Speaker 2: them because they were half sleep and they couldn't tell
Speaker 2: me get off.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, see I don't. It's first of all,
Speaker 1: like I'm barely awake. You know, you're already like I've
Speaker 1: been doing my thing. Yeah, So just imagine being like
Speaker 1: I'm I'm struggling to get out of the bed, and
Speaker 1: then I got to come in your room and be like,
Speaker 1: wake up, wake up, wake up, get up, get up,
Speaker 1: let's go wake up, wake up. Like maybe you should
Speaker 1: have a different approach. I want to get like an
Speaker 1: airhorn maybe yeah, be on your phone, oh oh yeah
Speaker 1: maybe and just sent that thing off. But it's so crazy.
Speaker 1: Carter has like three alarm set and and he still
Speaker 1: don't get out, and he sleeps through him. And then
Speaker 1: I'll call him on his phone and then I'll call
Speaker 1: him and bring and ring AM I am I And
Speaker 1: he has it's like loud. I can hear the phone
Speaker 1: ringing from my room, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: he through he's sleeping through it. That's funny. I'm like,
Speaker 1: wake up. Oh my gosh, I can't wait until school
Speaker 1: is just over like this, like this guy drives me up.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, so how long does it take? I
Speaker 1: mean it's a good ten minute process. Okay, that's not
Speaker 1: that bad. But it's both to him. Who's better Card
Speaker 1: Carter Corey? I get up Corey. Corey is better Okay,
Speaker 1: so he'll get up and gets get motivated. I mean
Speaker 1: he's still not good, but it's better. He's like Carter
Speaker 1: is like, I'm like, I don't know how you're sleeping
Speaker 1: through all of this. It's crazy. So I'm like, if
Speaker 1: anyone has any and I don't want to have to
Speaker 1: like pour water on him and like stuff like that.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, that's called waterboarding. I think his mouth
Speaker 1: and his waterboarding not doing that, okay, but if anybody
Speaker 1: has any tips, I don't know. Yeah, I'm thinking of
Speaker 1: air horn. Might be the the air hoorn which is
Speaker 1: on your phone.
Speaker 2: It's like I think one of your like ring tone,
Speaker 2: yes and who or you can probably even downloaded or
Speaker 2: like YouTube it or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's a lot. What about wand he seems
Speaker 1: like he pops up? He can pop up yeaeah. But
Speaker 1: it's like, so since we take turns taking them school,
Speaker 1: like Carter goes to school earlier, so he wakes up earlier.
Speaker 1: So like on the days that I have to wake
Speaker 1: Carter up. It's like, you know, make Wan do it
Speaker 1: all the time. I know, but then there's no point
Speaker 1: in like taking turns right, stop, stop, decade turns at
Speaker 1: my point, I know. Okay.
Speaker 2: So I was out and about in the streets. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that my shady moment, and I met some guy that
Speaker 2: I do know, I mean not, This wasn't like the
Speaker 2: first time I spoken to him.
Speaker 1: Okay, just give it perspective. So somewhere in the conversation
Speaker 1: he says to me like, and I've never heard the
Speaker 1: guy has never asked me this. Okay, So he was
Speaker 1: like some So, so he's like, well, just out does
Speaker 1: your vagina work? What? I was like, what the what
Speaker 1: does your question work? But sometimes their penises don't work?
Speaker 1: So but vagina's work? All right? How does it work?
Speaker 1: I don't even know what that means.
Speaker 2: I'm so like, undone is this person asking you this question?
Speaker 2: Me doesn't even matter? But he asked me did my
Speaker 2: vagina work? And I was like, uh, for the rest
Speaker 2: of my life?
Speaker 1: What else was the conversation about? I was like, how
Speaker 1: do you? It was?
Speaker 2: It was going on in the conversation, and then I'd
Speaker 2: have been a lot of drinks. But anyway, he asked me, doesn't.
Speaker 1: Work and didn't. It didn't make me feel like I
Speaker 1: needed to let him see, right? Was he like trying
Speaker 1: to find out clearly everybody?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I went crazy, but yeah, but I
Speaker 2: I made a mental note actually because I said to myself,
Speaker 2: no one's ever asked me this, and people need to
Speaker 2: know that you should not be asking women does their
Speaker 2: vagina work?
Speaker 1: Right? But it's like, what kind of encounters has he
Speaker 1: had that he that's even a question? It was It
Speaker 1: was more alina joke. I think my ninety seven year
Speaker 1: old grandmother on her death been vagina work. Maybe not.
Speaker 2: I think it might be ninety seven drives. When do
Speaker 2: you when do you think you'll not want to? Like
Speaker 2: like you'll not care like I decided like if I
Speaker 2: got married tomorrow right at seventy five, I.
Speaker 1: Don't care who you sleep with, okay, like totally like
Speaker 1: have added player? Okay, is there a number for you?
Speaker 1: I've never really thought about that. So you're saying not
Speaker 1: care meaning like yeah, my shop is closed, like go
Speaker 1: do what you want. No, not, my shop is closed.
Speaker 2: I still have sex with you, but like I don't
Speaker 2: care if you're out there doing other things. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: can't see that angering me. I wouldn't probably wouldn't give
Speaker 2: a shit, have at it. M.
Speaker 1: I think it's so like you're I think it's hard
Speaker 1: to pick a number because like you're seventy five, Yeah,
Speaker 1: could be different than someone else's seventy five, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like there's some seventy five year olds
Speaker 1: that are really decrepit, right, No, I'm and then there's
Speaker 1: gonna be decresed. No, you're not, I'm saying, And then
Speaker 1: you could be a seventy five year old that like
Speaker 1: looks better than most fifty year olds or it's more
Speaker 1: like active and totally.
Speaker 2: But do I feel like being responsible for your sexual
Speaker 2: pleasure right on a regular basis?
Speaker 1: I want to. I want to like farm it out, yeah,
Speaker 1: to others. I want to have, you know, go go
Speaker 1: find others. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think seventy five is a good enough not
Speaker 2: eight eighty is like too old. Yeah, seventy five is
Speaker 2: like and.
Speaker 1: Let's say he's okay, wait a minute, So if I'm
Speaker 1: seventy five and he's like sixty two, oh yeah yeah
Speaker 1: yeah he's living Levita Loca. Yeah yeah, So and then
Speaker 1: he's going to bring back a STD. That part, well,
Speaker 1: do you know that STD's run rampant in old nursing
Speaker 1: homes retirement homes? Yes, because they're all like, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: this this time station went left. So I don't know.
Speaker 2: I mean, I say, well, okay, so it depends on
Speaker 2: I'll revisit when I'm seventy five.
Speaker 1: Okay, but as of.
Speaker 2: Right now, my fifty some year old self says, listen, yes,
Speaker 2: if you with me at seventy five, you can have
Speaker 2: sex with whoever you want to.
Speaker 1: Okay, So they have to forward to Yeah, I can't
Speaker 1: wait until she turned seventy five, and then you can
Speaker 1: go for broke.
Speaker 2: Okay, hand on your business line. I don't want to
Speaker 2: nothing about it. Yeah, I don't want to know nothing
Speaker 2: about it. Okay, just go do what you want to do.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and maybe in reverse, maybe I can, you know,
Speaker 2: pick up a hot strapping twenty years there you go, Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, seventy five is getting is getting good?
Speaker 1: Look good to me? What is wrong with me? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't like how was that even a
Speaker 1: thought process? Like, I don't know, listen, so I for
Speaker 1: got to tell you all that. Are you telling me
Speaker 1: you could imagine or envision getting married again, I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that, but okay, I could be definitely in a
Speaker 1: committed relationship for sure.
Speaker 2: Okay, And yeah, whoever that guy is, listen when I'm
Speaker 2: seventy five, you like on my birthday, like, go for it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm done, even seventy four like I'm done, Like I
Speaker 2: don't want to do with this anymore.
Speaker 1: But but seventy four it's a deal breaker. Seventy four
Speaker 1: is a deil breaker. Seventy five have at it? Play, okay,
Speaker 1: have at it? Yes, Okay, I love that you have
Speaker 1: this planned out. Yeah I did.
Speaker 2: Okay, and you have no number eighty I mean, yeah,
Speaker 2: eighty for sure. I want to know from women like
Speaker 2: when Yes, that's a good question.
Speaker 1: I just think that's so hard for me to predict
Speaker 1: because I don't know where I'm gonna, like, what my
Speaker 1: life is going to look like at that time. Okay,
Speaker 1: But but Robin, I've had sex with men who are like,
Speaker 1: who were very potent, I should say, and who could
Speaker 1: go hours and hours.
Speaker 2: Oh and at that point I wanted to find a
Speaker 2: woman that could take over over it. So I mean
Speaker 2: it's that so these thoughts go through my mind.
Speaker 1: God is my point? Okay, yeah, okay, well yeah, so
Speaker 1: that's all like depends on the scenario. Yeah, you know what,
Speaker 1: So women, if y'all you're saying that when you're seventy four,
Speaker 1: you're all right with you know, if if the guy
Speaker 1: wants to go forever and forever, yeah, to go find
Speaker 1: somebody else to go finish them off. No, like you
Speaker 1: want to like stick it out and be like, okay,
Speaker 1: this gotta hold on. I would not be in a
Speaker 1: committed relationship with a man that's going, Yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: taking something to do that, like some horse lion maine tail,
Speaker 1: which I'm not mad at. I'm not at fifty something.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that seven listened.
Speaker 2: Seventy is the is the year that I'm like, look
Speaker 2: at here, ok this has got to be lasting eighteen
Speaker 2: minutes and I'm done eighteen minutes.
Speaker 1: Okay? Is that a long time? I think so when
Speaker 1: you're seventy, oh my god, okay, that's not eighteen it's
Speaker 1: good like every day, how often we eighteen minutes?
Speaker 2: Every other day? Whoa, no, twelve minutes? Hey, you can't
Speaker 2: get me three pumps and you're done.
Speaker 1: No, I'm sorry. Minute twelve minutes. Twelve minutes is a
Speaker 1: long time.
Speaker 2: Seventy Okay, listen, I want somebody seventy to write in
Speaker 2: and say and let us know what we do it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: what we're doing at seventy. I want that, And I
Speaker 2: want to know, like, are women understanding what I'm saying? Like,
Speaker 2: there's got to be a point in life where you're
Speaker 2: just like, I don't give a damn what you do,
Speaker 2: especially if you've been with I mean you've.
Speaker 1: Been with Wine forever. I'm sure like tomorrow you might
Speaker 1: not give a damn. I mean, there's there are right
Speaker 1: right tomorrow, wan have at it, right, There's there are
Speaker 1: other housewives that I've been around that you know if
Speaker 1: you look at them from the outside. Oh, there are
Speaker 1: women housewives or real housewives like on Bravo. Okay, let's
Speaker 1: move in front of the camera are like all about
Speaker 1: their man, and then off camera are like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: leave me alone. I hope like he can go whoever
Speaker 1: he wants up today, I mean, yeah, currently, yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: I've heard you want to give us initials. Okay, I
Speaker 1: was trying to get tea for the people.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I mean, it's a it's it's I mean,
Speaker 2: if there's something to be said about.
Speaker 1: That whole dynamic. And I don't even know why we
Speaker 1: are how we start talking about this. I don't either.
Speaker 1: I don't either.
Speaker 2: Moving on, Okay, I do want to say that I
Speaker 2: went to a restaurant that I I'm okay, I has
Speaker 2: to take to tell y'all about this restaurant because I'm
Speaker 2: gonna be going there all the time because it's the
Speaker 2: food is so freaking good, Okay, And I hate to
Speaker 2: tell y'all that because then y'all gonna be there all
Speaker 2: the time, and then y'all gonna take my reservation.
Speaker 1: So but anyway, I'm gonna say it anyway. Dogan, I've
Speaker 1: heard of d O G O N. It's in like
Speaker 1: sushi is no no. Can you let me talk? Yes? Okay, okay, sorry, So.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you remember the old Mandarin n d C.
Speaker 2: It's now the Salamander. Oh okay, Deborah not Debora le Child,
Speaker 2: Sheila Johnson bought it. It's now the Salamander Hotel Beautiful
Speaker 2: and dogon.
Speaker 1: Is Chef kwame Yes, okay, Chef.
Speaker 2: Kwamet is trying to think his name. Chef Wame who
Speaker 2: has a restaurant in New York called Tatiana. I've been
Speaker 2: at Tatiana, yeah, and it's very good.
Speaker 1: This here Dogan takes that ship to a whole another
Speaker 1: lovee really okay, the food is stupid good sick. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what's the cuisine? So it's everything I like they have.
Speaker 2: They had this branzino that was amazing, and then the
Speaker 2: chef brought me out a fried It went on the menu,
Speaker 2: so he brought me two dishes. He was like, it's
Speaker 2: like a curry branzino and then like a fried branzino.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Then he's got like corn bread and mats not matzimo.
Speaker 2: He had this lamb situation and the lamb is kind
Speaker 2: of like fried but not really and it's also in
Speaker 2: like a curry sauce.
Speaker 1: So good. I mean everything now is it? Before that
Speaker 1: was like African? Yes? I never went to that one, okay,
Speaker 1: Keith Kith, I think, yeah, yeah, I never been. Had
Speaker 1: I known, I would have definitely gone. Okay. But so
Speaker 1: it's not Africa. The cuisina is not like its core
Speaker 1: maybe but not maybe soul food more is with the
Speaker 1: African twist. Okay, yes, the curry is throwing me off.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what cuisine is that? It's it's good, It's
Speaker 1: it's good. It was popping. It was like the restaurant
Speaker 1: was popping it. Clearly it's a hit. So I'm here
Speaker 1: to say that it was and they treated me well.
Speaker 1: And the hotel is beautiful. The hotel is the same. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but it looked like I know the pictures. It looks
Speaker 1: like they've they've revamped a little bit, but it's still
Speaker 1: a beautiful hotel. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh, definitely, Amandarin in DC, do gone if you if
Speaker 2: you haven't tried it out, and if you want some
Speaker 2: good food, if you're in the area, then definitely.
Speaker 1: Check it out. Yes, thank you.
Speaker 2: I've got to tell you all this because we have
Speaker 2: a reasonably shady fan.
Speaker 1: Her name is Lannie Love. Oh y'all know Love of course. Okay,
Speaker 1: she was on The Real years ago. I think she
Speaker 1: she started the reel or she was Was she an
Speaker 1: EP on the reel? I don't think so. I think
Speaker 1: she was just a hose co host. Anyway, I missed
Speaker 1: The Real. I always like I like the I did
Speaker 1: I like them? So I saw her in Los Angeles
Speaker 1: and she was like, girl, I love that podcast Reason
Speaker 1: and I asked her, I said, are you reasonable? Are
Speaker 1: you shady? She was like I'm reasonable And I looked
Speaker 1: at her, like the hell you not? You shady all
Speaker 1: the time. But I love I love me some good
Speaker 1: shady people I love. I love n you know. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I follow her on Instagram and she she posts like
Speaker 1: random stuff. It'll be like stuff that's like happening in
Speaker 1: in you know, the news or whatever, and then like
Speaker 1: I find it very informative. Yeah, but then some of
Speaker 1: it has like a you know, there's like some humorous
Speaker 1: or like funny things that she posts just about like
Speaker 1: what's going on, and then we'll be like yeah, like
Speaker 1: random like videos and stuff.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I like her, and she's you know, she's
Speaker 2: somebody that's like consistent, like you know, she she gonna
Speaker 2: give you what you get.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So last week we talked about White Lotus, and I
Speaker 2: want to circle back to that because, okay, have you
Speaker 2: heard about this four seasons jet?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, So there's a four seasons, twenty day jet tour.
Speaker 2: Woo Okay, Okay, it's probably gonna cost all your money, yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: and I think you don't even money for it, Okay.
Speaker 2: So it's they're offering an exclusive twenty day private jet
Speaker 2: tour and it takes you to all of the White
Speaker 2: Lotus locations. Oh so you go to Maui, that's where
Speaker 2: they started.
Speaker 1: Oh you go to the one in Sicily, okay, and
Speaker 1: then they have this Thailand one h huh. So you.
Speaker 2: Do this is gonna start in twenty twenty six, and
Speaker 2: you know, you get your personalized wellness treatment.
Speaker 1: Okay? How cool is that? Nice?
Speaker 2: Does it tell you how much it costs? It does
Speaker 2: not say, Okay, it says too much for us. Okay,
Speaker 2: ps y'all can't afford this ship. That's really nice though, Okay,
Speaker 2: but how nice is that?
Speaker 1: So twenty days? Yeah, so you have to have a
Speaker 1: ton of money and a ton of free times to
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah.
Speaker 2: But I mean, okay, first of all, and and let's
Speaker 2: be clear to fly because I've been to Thailand. Yeah,
Speaker 2: been a Maui to fly, and sely to fly from
Speaker 2: Maui to Thailand. I don't even know what that looked like.
Speaker 1: That looked like a headache, right that that looked like
Speaker 1: I don't want to do it, but maybe maybe Sicily
Speaker 1: breaks it up. Something is breaking it up maybe right.
Speaker 1: I think you even flying friends on where you're coming from.
Speaker 1: Flying from Maui to anywhere, it's like it's a lot,
Speaker 1: a lot, okay, but I guess it depends on where
Speaker 1: you're originating. Yeah, yeah, but that's you know, no, that's fabulous.
Speaker 1: And but Thailand is hard to get to. M hm.
Speaker 1: You know, you gotta either fly in the Doha or
Speaker 1: you gotta fly into Qatar and then okay, wait this
Speaker 1: ridiculous or Abu Dhabi and you gotta wait like a
Speaker 1: ridiculous layover and then get there. And they're in Pouquette,
Speaker 1: which is where I did also a Girl's Trip. It's beautiful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like it. So I didn't know that they were tailand
Speaker 1: but I started watching the first episode. I was like,
Speaker 1: that looked like oh okay, yeah, than has a look okay, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: oh that's nice. Okay, So I want to share that
Speaker 1: with the people.
Speaker 2: Get in get into the four seasons private jets, yes,
Speaker 2: so you can jet set around.
Speaker 1: I also wanted okay, go ahead, you're gonna say no,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, so, speaking of White Lotus, do
Speaker 1: we want to talk about other things that we're watching? Yeah,
Speaker 1: go ahead, okay. So are you watching Paradise? Yes? Have
Speaker 1: you finished it? Okay? Is it question? Yeah? Is it
Speaker 1: eight episodes? I don't know, so I'm not there. I'm
Speaker 1: only on episode five okay, I'm on seven. Okay. I
Speaker 1: think it's at least eight episodes. But are they dropping them?
Speaker 1: Are they not all released at once? Because I guess
Speaker 1: whatever I've No, they're not okay, they're not okay, but
Speaker 1: I've watched whatever I've watched. They're all available. Yes. But anyway,
Speaker 1: it's like, of course you see all the hype online,
Speaker 1: like people just talking about how good of a show
Speaker 1: it is. So then I started watching, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is actually it. It's okay show so episode seven
Speaker 1: okay or maybe where I'm not there yet. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: started really feeling like is this shit about to happen? So,
Speaker 1: by the way, we can kind of give you that
Speaker 1: it's okay, it's on Hulu. Yeah, it's very much the
Speaker 1: end of times. Yes, and a president kind of like
Speaker 1: flips the switch or whatever.
Speaker 2: If there's flip to switch, if there's a flip to switch,
Speaker 2: switch to flip, if there's a switch to flip.
Speaker 1: And it just made me feel like can this happen, Yes, right,
Speaker 1: can this happen? And then they go we can also
Speaker 1: say this, everyone who is on a list gets to
Speaker 1: go and live in a pseudo world right under a bubble. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: if you're on the list, I can tell you right now,
Speaker 1: I'm not on the list. Is that I don't want
Speaker 1: to be on the list, to be honest, really, like right,
Speaker 1: so I'm like, if if they were to announce right
Speaker 1: now that I think I've said this before on this podcast,
Speaker 1: like the end of the world is coming, like it's coming.
Speaker 1: There's nothing we could do about it, like, and then
Speaker 1: people start like trying to do something like building bunkers
Speaker 1: and trying to do all this stuff to do something. No,
Speaker 1: I'm like literally just gonna go walk outside and lay
Speaker 1: on the ground and just be like come, I'm here,
Speaker 1: Just come get me. You know what I mean. That
Speaker 1: sounds like you're a depression Okay, I can't so just
Speaker 1: but if you if you could be on the list
Speaker 1: with your family, that would be good, right, I guess.
Speaker 1: But it's just like, oh, yeah, I mean watching this show,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think I want to be on
Speaker 1: that list, I know, because they not eat real, right,
Speaker 1: but it's so cool. The food is all or bio.
Speaker 1: I don't know. The food it's like chemical stuff, and
Speaker 1: the sun is fake, you know, like yeah, the insects
Speaker 1: and the birds, like those sounds are pre recorded and
Speaker 1: all that type of stuff. I'm like, I don't want that,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, just let me go, just take
Speaker 1: me away. It's fine. But the show is interesting because
Speaker 1: it's like it starts off like my type of show.
Speaker 1: It's like secret Service and the President, yeah, and you know,
Speaker 1: like the who Done it type of stuff, and then
Speaker 1: you realize they're like living underground because the world ended,
Speaker 1: and so then it also has like the fantasy type element.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would call it fantasy. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So that's kind of cool like that they have those
Speaker 1: two genres kind of woven together. But yeah, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of praise about it. There's a lot of praise
Speaker 1: for Sterling K. Brown is his name right, that actor,
Speaker 1: he's like the lead actor, and he's like fantastic. So
Speaker 1: hopefully they get you know, a bunch of awards and stuff.
Speaker 1: But so that is definitely definitely on my watch list
Speaker 1: or recommended to you all to watch. Okay, what else
Speaker 1: you've been watching so so I have. So I am.
Speaker 1: I'm watching like multiple shows simultaneously. Yeah, which is not
Speaker 1: good because then all the stories get like confused, confused,
Speaker 1: like a minute that was my other show. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: like so confused. So I started. Now, tell me if
Speaker 1: you watched this Zero Day? Did you say that with
Speaker 1: Appa Robert de Niro? I saw it, you saw it?
Speaker 1: Is it worth finishing? Well? Did you how many episodes
Speaker 1: are you in? I don't know, like two three? Girl?
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I enjoyed it. I watched it actually traveling
Speaker 2: back and forth to La Okay, I watched that was
Speaker 2: my thing. I was binging, Okay, I enjoyed it. Yeah yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: what else watching?
Speaker 1: I think? Are just I was watching The Resident, I
Speaker 1: mean not the Resident, the night Agent, the the recruit,
Speaker 1: the tourists, the tourist uh huh okay, the I already
Speaker 1: said I i've't even talked about this early podcast. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm still watching all these and then this is ridiculous.
Speaker 1: I want to start watching White Lotus. Yeah yeah, so
Speaker 1: but right now I'm like, I think I'm going to
Speaker 1: commit to Paradise and finish it. Okay, good, And then
Speaker 1: of course like Traders was like in there too.
Speaker 2: Yes, and then you watched Potomac just kidding, you could
Speaker 2: have watched okay to be told that that last episode yeah,
Speaker 2: last episode of the reunion.
Speaker 1: Yes, just freaking hilarious. Yeah. I haven't seen it. I
Speaker 1: mean I've seen like clips, I see clips. I feel
Speaker 1: like I see the clips, I see the Church. Yeah okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah no, but I saw like there was a ton
Speaker 1: of positive praise for it. So that's awesome that you
Speaker 1: guys ended on a positive high note where people were like,
Speaker 1: you know, entertain another excited for what's to come. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we shall see. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2: So I am watching most of those things, and god,
Speaker 2: there was something else I wanted to of course. Oh
Speaker 2: nineteen twenty three, that's back on.
Speaker 1: I don't know that. So you didn't watch Yellstone. Uh?
Speaker 1: And so Yellstone has eighteen eighty three. I think it's
Speaker 1: eighteen eighty. Oh. I'm also watching Reacher. Okay, the hell
Speaker 1: is that Reacher? That's like he's like a former army
Speaker 1: guy turned like vigilante that like kills people. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's like season three. I love Reacher. Okay, okay, And
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty three is back on so in. Harrison Ford
Speaker 1: is in it, Helen Marin is in it. Ford how
Speaker 1: old is he?
Speaker 2: He's he's still and he's still kicking and doing amazing
Speaker 2: wow on the screen because he was in You never
Speaker 2: saw Shrinking. You need to watch Drinking. It's good, it's funny. Okay,
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm I'm locked into nineteen twenty three. Okay,
Speaker 2: locked in, Okay, okay, nineteen twenty three. Okay, I'm gonna
Speaker 2: add that to my list. I'm Shrinking.
Speaker 1: So will you also add Love and Hip Hop Atlanta? No, No,
Speaker 1: because that's that's my show. So that's on right now.
Speaker 1: It's on, It's on Prime.
Speaker 2: Listen Crime, It's It's so they're no longer on VH one. No, Oh,
Speaker 2: that's been that's they've been off VH one. Oh, it's
Speaker 2: on Prime because I think there's they're under MTV, which
Speaker 2: I think is under that maybe really Yeah, And I
Speaker 2: saw Yandy at in La.
Speaker 1: I forgot to tell her.
Speaker 2: I wanted to tell her because I kind of stalked
Speaker 2: people that I like. So Pea Valley, Yeah, you don't
Speaker 2: know the Tyler guy, but Pea Valley. There's a girl
Speaker 2: named Brandy, who was like the main stripper. I saw
Speaker 2: her at the at.
Speaker 1: The luncheon in l A. And I was like, girl,
Speaker 1: and I wanted to just ask her, are you a stripper?
Speaker 1: But I thought like that was rude, right, But she's
Speaker 1: the most amazing stripper to not be a stripper, so
Speaker 1: I kind of got around the question. Yeah, And she
Speaker 1: told me that she is a dancer, so I can't.
Speaker 1: I guess dancers are great strippers anyway. Yeah. That her
Speaker 1: body's banging, She's just banging and beautiful. Wow. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: who else was I talking about? You were? I don't know,
Speaker 1: how do we care? Here? I saw somebody and I
Speaker 1: was going, I want to tell them that they were
Speaker 1: loving hip hop. Oh.
Speaker 2: I saw Yandy, yeah and out there and I said
Speaker 2: hi to her and all that, and I was with
Speaker 2: Cynthia Bailey, so she's you know, was talking to us
Speaker 2: for a minute.
Speaker 1: We took a picture. But I wanted to be like girl,
Speaker 1: this season is good.
Speaker 2: But in this season when DC is being accused of cheating,
Speaker 2: so I felt like that would.
Speaker 1: Have been weird. Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: But season's good. Okay, yeah, okay, already good Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, everybody need a little ratchet. Okay, everybody need
Speaker 1: a little ratchet. How do you have all of this
Speaker 1: time to watch it? So all of these shows?
Speaker 2: No, actually you're the one watching all these shows. You
Speaker 2: ran off like ten shows. I don't know what the
Speaker 2: hell you're talking. So so when I travel, I do it.
Speaker 2: And I've been traveling a lot, like yeah, yeah, a lot. Okay,
Speaker 2: but I'm about to saw that all the way down
Speaker 2: so that I want to be home with the Buffalo rooms.
Speaker 2: Mind you, I'm leaving somewhere in three days.
Speaker 1: But that's not the point. Okay, So wait, we want
Speaker 1: to talk.
Speaker 2: Oh, we want to make an announcement about the matchmaker situation.
Speaker 2: So we don't want y'all think that we've forgotten that
Speaker 2: we are matching you guys and making love connections.
Speaker 1: So we have somebody on it. Yeah, we're sorting through everything. Yes,
Speaker 1: we got we got a lot of submissions. We're trying
Speaker 1: to just sort through things. So just hang tight. We're
Speaker 1: gonna start matching you guys. Yes, hang tight. So we
Speaker 1: give us a couple of weeks, yes, okay, and then
Speaker 1: we have we have some let's see, we have like
Speaker 1: some some letters Okay, first we'll start with some flowers. Okay,
Speaker 1: tell me I'm a mate thing. Yes.
Speaker 2: By the way, the guy that asked me about if
Speaker 2: my vagina works, I kind of felt like I was
Speaker 2: being punked by Dick Hurts because that's something he would say,
Speaker 2: your vagina worked, said.
Speaker 1: Right exactly, yes, yes, yes, because that's what he does.
Speaker 1: It could be Dick Hurts. It was not. It was not. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, So this is from Dash Derek Dash. She says.
Speaker 1: The subject is Giselle. Giselle joselle Yay said, Hey, ladies,
Speaker 1: hope all as well. It's been a minute since I've
Speaker 1: written in. But I had to give Jiselle her props.
Speaker 1: I did not know what to expect from her twenty
Speaker 1: one question show, but I decided to give it a shot. Boy,
Speaker 1: was I glad. I went between my cousin Ayusha Carter,
Speaker 1: who is a huge fan of you, ladies. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I we left our asses off the whole night. Great job, Jazelle,
Speaker 1: because I know doing a one person show is not easy. Also,
Speaker 1: thank you for always being warm and welcoming to me,
Speaker 1: whether verbally or in person. Robin, You're still my girl.
Speaker 1: But I had to show love to justsell see and
Speaker 1: I said at the show, Derek loves Robin. Now he
Speaker 1: was not with his wife. His wife okay, because I
Speaker 1: was cousin. Is that he sure really his cousin? He says,
Speaker 1: my cousin between my cousin. Are you sure heard her? Okay? So,
Speaker 1: and Derek, you know I love you and I was
Speaker 1: so happy that you came. Yeah, he's just so cool cool.
Speaker 1: You know who else was there?
Speaker 2: Remember when we during the pandemic, we got these gold
Speaker 2: Belly coupons from that guy or he.
Speaker 1: Said, was like he met. He sent me a picture
Speaker 1: of you guys together. He was there. See what is
Speaker 1: his name?
Speaker 2: Okay, I think it's I think it's his wife. I'm
Speaker 2: not sure, but so nice. It's such a nice guy.
Speaker 2: And I felt he was like remember when I sent those?
Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, and I felt like saying
Speaker 2: play you can keep saying that. Ike't consenting them because
Speaker 2: I love me some gold Belly.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, he told me saw you Okay. So next,
Speaker 1: of course, is our favorite person my Homede Mohamma, Yes,
Speaker 1: he says, hello, queens, it is your favorite person from
Speaker 1: Toronto Mohammed. I just got back from NYC, where I
Speaker 1: had the time of my life. Gazelle, you were amazing
Speaker 1: and you commanded that stage, and the audience was so
Speaker 1: excited to see you. After the show, so many people
Speaker 1: came up to me and said, you're the infamous Mohammad.
Speaker 1: We love you, not Mohammed as famous. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: It was also nice to speak to Ashley and some
Speaker 1: executives who all thank me for being a fan and
Speaker 1: being so engaged. Thank you, Jazelle for making me feel
Speaker 1: special and honored, even though I'm so mad that I
Speaker 1: wasn't able to record when you said I was your
Speaker 1: number one fan, Mohamed, right, really, I tried my best
Speaker 1: to not be so loud and yell as much, but
Speaker 1: some moments I couldn't help myself, particularly when Jazelle called
Speaker 1: me out for being a warrior in the comment section
Speaker 1: every Sunday. However, it is so nice to connect with
Speaker 1: the little reasonably shady family we have created through attending
Speaker 1: these Lives shows.
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, so and that happened, like Mohammed and Derek
Speaker 2: they took a picture together. Oh that's so sweet, which
Speaker 2: was really really nice. So then Mohammed being shady, he
Speaker 2: came to my Chicago show, right, and then I did
Speaker 2: a couple of the shows and like, I tweaked some things,
Speaker 2: but it's pretty much the same show, right, yeah, because
Speaker 2: I'm on tour, right.
Speaker 1: He's like just the same show.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, when Beyonce goes on stage, what does
Speaker 2: she do? The same show? So you might switch a
Speaker 2: song up or two, but it's the same. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: just think of ps Beyonce. Okay, my god, that was shady.
Speaker 1: Mohammed. Mohammed is shady. That's why we love him. That's
Speaker 1: why we love him. It's amazing. So now he says,
Speaker 1: now onto the mess. Oh, okay, here we go. Asia
Speaker 1: and I have a bit of a disagreement about this. Okay,
Speaker 1: is it reasonable or shady to have your friend wait
Speaker 1: ten minutes for you at the airport pickup lane because
Speaker 1: you're getting your dick sucked in the air washed it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Who was who was getting Mohamma was getting his penis.
Speaker 1: I can neither what confirm or deny that I made
Speaker 1: Asia wait. However, I think it's reasonable if you are
Speaker 1: receiving it. I thinks it's shade. Yes, Mohammed, this is shady.
Speaker 2: You're getting your first If you forget wait and forget
Speaker 2: Asia waiting, you get your penis sucked at the airport
Speaker 2: at bathroom.
Speaker 1: No, no, to know how that happened?
Speaker 2: Like, how did you get He's on a plane to
Speaker 2: chat with somebody next to him, and then all of
Speaker 2: a sudden, he's like they go it to the bathroom
Speaker 2: to get it on.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm thinking, This is how does this
Speaker 1: stuff happen? But Muhammad is the type. But he's just
Speaker 1: going to talk to everyone around him, right, And I'm
Speaker 1: not mad at his mine and his business and being
Speaker 1: quiet on the plane. He's just going to talk to
Speaker 1: I'm just like, how do we get from the plane
Speaker 1: to the to the bathroom? Gets to know? Now I
Speaker 1: heard had sex and I shouldn't probably say this, but
Speaker 1: I just like burnt out of my mouth. Let's keep going.
Speaker 1: So in the lounge and like a private lounge, an
Speaker 1: airport lounge, okay, because they have the showers in the
Speaker 1: private rooms or whatever, So I have done that? Really
Speaker 1: should I have said that? It's too late? Okay?
Speaker 2: Anyway, A freaking that was because there was a shower
Speaker 2: in there. So it's just kind of like what the
Speaker 2: thing to do okay with a stranger, no, hell no.
Speaker 2: And the guy that I was dating, we were meeting
Speaker 2: in the airport. He was coming from somewhere. I was,
Speaker 2: you're like, and then it was like time to get
Speaker 2: it on. Okay, so it made sense. Okay, Mohammed, your
Speaker 2: ship don't make no sense? Yeah, yeah, you get I
Speaker 2: don't you know what I'm I'm actually with Mohammed. I'm like,
Speaker 2: if that, if my friend is getting his dick sect
Speaker 2: in the airport.
Speaker 1: Like, I'm like, go friend, like you right, true get it?
Speaker 1: I mean you know what I'm saying. So I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna be mad that. It's not a long time to wait, right, Yeah.
Speaker 1: I wait for you for hours, so ain't nothing. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, no, like, I'm with you, Muhammad on
Speaker 1: this one. Asia can wait ten minutes. Ten minutes, it's
Speaker 1: not a good deal. Maybe you know, go go sit
Speaker 1: in the pick up lot or whatever. Like some of
Speaker 1: the airports have those little distant lives. Yeah. Now it'd
Speaker 1: been nice if you maybe like informed her or something,
Speaker 1: yeah that you were gonna you need it a minute?
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but I'm not mad at that. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not either. Yeah, Okay, but that was so
Speaker 1: that was Mohamed, Thank you Mohamma for that.
Speaker 2: Airport. Yes, I love some airport shenanigans. Right, are you
Speaker 2: probably the Mile High Club? I'm not okay, yeah, okay, continue,
Speaker 2: I'm not. Yeah, that that would be like how do
Speaker 2: you make that happen in the bathroom? In the bathroom,
Speaker 2: which I've never done, and like this was a more
Speaker 2: of a private situation. But like I feel like those
Speaker 2: bathrooms are too small, too small and too gross.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the little discussed Yeah, for me, that's where I
Speaker 1: would be like this is just gross, Like I can't
Speaker 1: like I can't get past the gross now. I just
Speaker 1: feel like I would like bust my leg. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: would run into Yeah, you get like a cramp, you
Speaker 1: get a Charlie Hoy Charlie horse and your butt cheek
Speaker 1: and stuff like you can have it. Yeah, yeah, unless
Speaker 1: you're on like a private plane, like fine, go for it. Okay.
Speaker 1: Here's another letter, this from Asia. She says him, my
Speaker 1: rich aunties. I feel like I haven't written the two
Speaker 1: of you in so long, but I need he writes
Speaker 1: every week. Right, it's been a minute, okay, but yeah,
Speaker 1: but I need advice on this situation. Is it reasonable
Speaker 1: or shady? So everyone knows how much I love my birthday.
Speaker 1: It's literally my favorite holiday. Hmmm, it's not a holiday,
Speaker 1: but okay, I plan to go to Aruba way back
Speaker 1: in August. My birthday is February. Oh so she started
Speaker 1: the planning in August for February birthday? Okay. I invited
Speaker 1: two of my best friends and literally on January thirtieth,
Speaker 1: he told me he was no longer able to come
Speaker 1: because he had to buy new tires which were three
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, and also his phone bill came out, which
Speaker 1: was another one hundred dollars. Mind you, we were set
Speaker 1: to board the plane to Aruba on February third. Is
Speaker 1: my friend shady for telling me a few days before
Speaker 1: boarding the plane that he can no longer come? Is
Speaker 1: he shady for planning to only bring four hundred dollars
Speaker 1: to Aruba? Is he shady for literally watching all of
Speaker 1: my stories on ig but not wishing me a happy birthday? Oh? Wow?
Speaker 1: And last is this a boo? Is this like a
Speaker 1: boyfriend her best one of her best friends? Okay? And lastly,
Speaker 1: am I shady for cutting him completely off? Everyone's telling
Speaker 1: me that this situation can be talked or worked out,
Speaker 1: but I'm not interested. I feel like missing my birthday
Speaker 1: translates to you hate me, please help not you hate me. Well,
Speaker 1: if that's really her bestie, she know he should know
Speaker 1: how important her birthday is, right, Yes, and he chose
Speaker 1: to ignore it. Yes, so he's mad at her. So
Speaker 1: so he had the flight, So he had a flight
Speaker 1: already and he didn't go. That's like he's losing money
Speaker 1: on the flight. Yeah. And then also did he commit
Speaker 1: to like a hotel sharing a hotel room with someone? Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe he's shady as hell. Oh, he should have been
Speaker 1: told her he won going. He probably didn't even buy
Speaker 1: a ticket, right, that's a good question. Did he even
Speaker 1: have the flight? Did he even have did he even
Speaker 1: book the hotel?
Speaker 2: Or did he like so that Yes, he's totally shady,
Speaker 2: And for me, I feel like, so, I don't know
Speaker 2: how old as he is, but she's probably at the
Speaker 2: age where it's like now it's the time to like
Speaker 2: figure out like traveling friends, because traveling friends are not
Speaker 2: always like your regular friend. You're regular friends, So figure
Speaker 2: that out. Yeah, you can't travel with everybody.
Speaker 1: That's true. So maybe it's like Okay, don't cut him
Speaker 1: off just because of that, because he maybe, yes, he
Speaker 1: might be your best friend, but he's not a good
Speaker 1: traveling friend. And that's okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because people who travel, you know, you gotta
Speaker 2: you gotta be down for whatever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not down for whatever, but you gotta be flexible,
Speaker 1: right and honest. Yeah, and that's rare. You can't really
Speaker 1: find out out here in these streets. Yeah. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: so Asia, I would say, give him the benefit of
Speaker 1: the doubts. You know, maybe traveling is not one of
Speaker 1: his strong points, but hopefully he can still be a
Speaker 1: good friend to you at home. However, the part that
Speaker 1: is up, like he watched all her stories but didn't
Speaker 1: wish her happy birthday.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he didn't dispect that he didn't wish
Speaker 2: her happy birthday and forget to watch like you didn't
Speaker 2: say happy birthday? Like that's fed up, And we're not
Speaker 2: gonna judge how much money he was going to take
Speaker 2: to Aruba, Like yeah, if you could rock out them
Speaker 2: four hundred dollars rock out right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm one under If Asia cust him out,
Speaker 1: I'm sure you know what I'm saying. Like, so that's
Speaker 1: why he didn't wish her happy birthday. Yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: far happened. Yeah. You see, you're not telling all the facts, ma'am. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So give him the benefit of the doubt. He doesn't
Speaker 1: have to travel. That's not the end of the world. However,
Speaker 1: not wishing your happy birthday is not okay. But did
Speaker 1: you cuss him out first? She did? Yes, All right,
Speaker 1: there we go. We have Oh my god, all right,
Speaker 1: we are one more. This is like an advice letter. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is from Patrick Hi. Patrick Hi, Patrick, He says,
Speaker 1: hages Ellen Robin fans of the podcast for years. But
Speaker 1: let me get to this. I'm getting married on March
Speaker 1: fifteenth to my fiance Does. So. I'm sorry, I think
Speaker 1: we're a little late with this, but you know, this
Speaker 1: is still a scenario to talk about. Congratulations Patrick and Does.
Speaker 1: Over the past month, we've been getting lots of calls
Speaker 1: and text with questions like what day is the wedding?
Speaker 1: Or I never got an invitation? What right even know?
Speaker 1: We sent them out, sent them out back in October. Okay.
Speaker 1: We also included a color palette in the invitation and
Speaker 1: on our wedding website. But now people are reaching out
Speaker 1: saying they can't find an outfit in those colors. What's
Speaker 1: the color palette? Did you say it's right here? What? Okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna hold this up the hell? So this is?
Speaker 2: This is beige to a peach to maybe this isn't
Speaker 2: print it right? Maybe to another light green, to a
Speaker 2: dark green.
Speaker 1: Okay, I can't find anything in it either. Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying to tell you it's a mass. I will
Speaker 1: go for gold, find something gold maybe, yeah, gold? Or
Speaker 1: but this is cream, this is creamy. This is cream
Speaker 1: and beige. Yeah, this is a mess. But Patrick, Patrick,
Speaker 1: you're wrong for this. But okay, okay, okay. As the
Speaker 1: big day gets closer, it's becoming a bit overwhelming. Did
Speaker 1: you guys experience anything like this when you got married?
Speaker 1: How did you handle it? I'm planning to send out
Speaker 1: a mass text next week as a reminder, but any
Speaker 1: advice would be so appreciated. Oh, so here's our wedding website.
Speaker 1: What does he want us to do on this wedding website?
Speaker 1: Just send again together and yes, we still have some
Speaker 1: things left on our registry check. You're wrong for this, okay,
Speaker 1: So so congratulations once again. Sorry we are late with
Speaker 1: this advice. But I think this is good, a good
Speaker 1: question because this is wedding season and you know stuff
Speaker 1: like this will happen. First of all, a color You
Speaker 1: sent a color palette to your guests and said, where's
Speaker 1: something in this color? But that's not that's not rare
Speaker 1: because a lot of people they have black weddings. Every
Speaker 1: where's black. They have white weddings thereby, where's white. I'm
Speaker 1: not mad at that, Oh really, okay, I'm mad at
Speaker 1: the choicest I'm ad the what we we're here to
Speaker 1: choose from. Okay, okay, okay, okay. So you don't so
Speaker 1: you think the color palette is and limiting. It's it's strange.
Speaker 2: So and I'm not mad that also because when you're
Speaker 2: when you look back at the pictures, it's esthetically looking red.
Speaker 1: They look nice. Yeah right, I get that. Okay, I
Speaker 1: get the vision. See I could you can find something
Speaker 1: nice and green?
Speaker 2: I mean I have a bunch of green just because like, yeah,
Speaker 2: this is I mean, if you're a man, it's screwed.
Speaker 1: Yes, like a man has to get like a custom something. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's true. I mean they could go to suit Supply
Speaker 1: they can find something nice and suit supply, But I
Speaker 1: also think it's I do. I do think it's unfair
Speaker 1: to expect people to spend money on an outfit. So
Speaker 1: it's like, if I don't have it in my closet,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't feel required or forced to purchase something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I do think that's a little unfair and maybe
Speaker 1: too much to expect from somebody, especially when the color
Speaker 1: palette is like this. Now, if the color palette was black, black, white, gray,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, yeah, that's normal colors or before
Speaker 1: Yeah for these colors, I mean, yeah, some people might
Speaker 1: not want to spend the money.
Speaker 2: This is my issue because he asks, does any of
Speaker 2: this ever happen to us?
Speaker 1: Nobody asked me about the date. Once you send out
Speaker 1: the invitation, everybody has the date. Why nobody calling me
Speaker 1: talk about what's the date? Again?
Speaker 2: I'd be like, lose the invitation if you can't. So
Speaker 2: my question, did you really send out invitation?
Speaker 1: Well? Did you? What kind of invitations did you send? Yes?
Speaker 1: Because I can't stand receiving evite invitations, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Like I get a text message yeah with
Speaker 1: an invitation? Why? I don't know. For whatever reason, it's
Speaker 1: hard for me to keep track of Like I like
Speaker 1: to look at something, I like to have something in
Speaker 1: my hands, and so I feel like people should do both.
Speaker 1: I understand the convenience of it, and a lot of
Speaker 1: people do it now, but I do feel like it
Speaker 1: doesn't stick as much in my mind when I don't
Speaker 1: get like the paper invitation got it. I agree with that,
Speaker 1: So I wonder what type of invitations you sent, and
Speaker 1: especially like who are these people? Like, Okay, if you
Speaker 1: sent digital invitations to older people.
Speaker 2: Yeah they don't know, right, Yeah, they got a hard
Speaker 2: time getting up in the morning. Yeah right, but they
Speaker 2: might have missed it.
Speaker 1: They might have you know, I don't know. So that
Speaker 1: scenario I think is I have more questions for that.
Speaker 2: But any wedding it's gonna be drama, yeah, period, any events.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of what kind of issues did
Speaker 1: I experience at my wedding. I feel like, I mean,
Speaker 1: I got married twenty over twenty years ago, and like
Speaker 1: things are just so different. Everything was just much more traditional.
Speaker 1: We weren't inviting people by evites now. Everything was like
Speaker 1: you know, you send it in, send back the RSVP.
Speaker 1: It was very like done the right way totally. So
Speaker 1: I don't think I had like a bunch of nonsense.
Speaker 1: I will definitely say because one was in the NBA,
Speaker 1: most of my guests did not bring a gift. What
Speaker 1: what do you mean?
Speaker 2: Oh, because they felt like y'all had it already. Yuess
Speaker 2: so well did he did he invite NBA players.
Speaker 1: Like up a few? But yeah, okay, yeah yeah they did.
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like, okay, let me let me
Speaker 1: take you back. Most of the people on my side
Speaker 1: brought againt. Wand's family decided to come on one side
Speaker 1: like it's it's like immediate family, yes, but then it
Speaker 1: is like the all the friends extended cousins.
Speaker 2: As like hilarious. You know how you don't like celebrating
Speaker 2: your birthday, Yes, I don't care. I definitely want to
Speaker 2: celebrate my birthday, but I don't care about gifts from
Speaker 2: a situation like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah. I also people get like hung up with,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, he bring me no gift. I don't
Speaker 1: give a damn me neither. I never have. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think someone's presence is the gift, like you spent time
Speaker 1: to like come here ever, or yeah, your presence is
Speaker 1: the gift. Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2: So I might not bring one because I don't care
Speaker 2: about that. Yeah, right, so, but I do I try
Speaker 2: to get people gifts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then and then usually it's like when you're
Speaker 1: bringing when you're getting gifts for people who aren't like
Speaker 1: really in your immediate household, you really are getting them
Speaker 1: something that's just like fluff kind of like yeah, well
Speaker 1: unless they have a registry, Oh that's stuff that they need.
Speaker 1: I would just own a blender or two, right, or
Speaker 1: what is your thing? A juicer or eight hundred dollars juicer?
Speaker 1: Are you still using your juice? Really? Yes? I am
Speaker 1: not not on the daily, okay, but yes I am. Okay,
Speaker 1: what's your best combo? I like a carrot, apple and
Speaker 1: ginger okay, and then apple and I like orange pineapple
Speaker 1: and ginger. Are no bananas? Oh no, you can't use bananas. No,
Speaker 1: but it has a smoothie attachment. So I could do
Speaker 1: like a smoothie, but I haven't done that yet. And
Speaker 1: then I'll do like a green so and then I'll
Speaker 1: do like a green apple. Cucumber situation. Gender, I put
Speaker 1: gender in like everything, Yeah, okay, I love the cucumbers. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then it tried like a bunch of like liquid.
Speaker 1: The cucumbers have a lot of Yes, no watermelon. I'll
Speaker 1: wait till the summertime, like till the watermelons are good. Okay,
Speaker 1: very good. I'm just glad you're still using it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: What about that peloton of yours? Oh yeah, that thing
Speaker 1: is dusty. Yeah, probably needs to be oiled. People stopped. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well I don't know that to be the true case,
Speaker 1: but anybody that I know what a peloton and using it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well so one one thing nowadays, I don't know if
Speaker 1: you see this, but like all of the fitness advice
Speaker 1: that I see now is like that extreme cardio is
Speaker 1: not the best for people like forty and over. Oh why,
Speaker 1: I don't know something about our raises, our quarterzo levels
Speaker 1: and blah blah blah ah. This they say like more
Speaker 1: like steady state, like walking on an incline. It's like
Speaker 1: better than doing like hardcore cardio and then strength strength training.
Speaker 1: So like that's one reason why I'm like not really
Speaker 1: like focusing on it like that.
Speaker 2: But yeah, the other thing, it's just yeah, so there's
Speaker 2: this suit that you can put on that like pulsates
Speaker 2: your muscles.
Speaker 1: It's kind of expensive. I'm thinking about getting it.
Speaker 2: So I have know somebody that has it, and I
Speaker 2: just want her to like use it for a little
Speaker 2: while before I'm convinced that I need to spend twenty
Speaker 2: five hundred dolls on something that I might have only
Speaker 2: used once.
Speaker 1: What so I mean it is? But your mouth is open,
Speaker 1: like you didn't spend twenty five hundreds on your juice?
Speaker 1: Like stop, but what do you mean? The suit pulsates
Speaker 1: your muscles and then what happens? So you look it
Speaker 1: up to an app?
Speaker 2: Okay, it's like, for instance, crunches. It gives you, like
Speaker 2: in twenty minutes, like a thousand crunches to your stomach,
Speaker 2: like you you just.
Speaker 1: So like your arms, you it's a whole body. Okay.
Speaker 2: So yeah, you follow the app and you look amazing
Speaker 2: after you take it, ok I think, So, you don't
Speaker 2: know if it works. So I checked in with my
Speaker 2: girlfriend who has had it for like a month or
Speaker 2: so as a follow up, and she was like, she
Speaker 2: loves it. Okay, I just need to give it a
Speaker 2: little bit more time with her and then I'll jump
Speaker 2: out there. Because you have to get measured for it.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have to give your measures. Yeah, you
Speaker 2: get to give you because it's a whole full body suit.
Speaker 1: What is it called? She told me. I forgot, but
Speaker 1: I think I think I might get it because you know,
Speaker 1: you could be in your house and work it out.
Speaker 1: You can be in your house chilling, just like building
Speaker 1: muscle tone, like it's definition. Okay, yeah, you feeling it
Speaker 1: as you want it now. I'm curious. I mean because
Speaker 1: three minutes ago you was like, what if it works,
Speaker 1: I'll be the get you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but I need I just need to make
Speaker 2: sure because you have to go through a whole You
Speaker 2: got to get the measurements. It takes, like, you know,
Speaker 2: weeks for you to get it because they got to make.
Speaker 1: It all that. I've never heard of this. Yeah. Ever,
Speaker 1: it's a Los Angeles it's a West Coast thing. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: but I think it'd be great for people our age.
Speaker 1: Yeah I said our age. I just threw you in mind.
Speaker 1: In my decade, I'll mean there soon. Yes, all right,
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