WEBVTT - | Ep 173 |  Does Your Vagina Work?

0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360
<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:08.680
<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:18.240
<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am

0:00:18.280 --> 0:00:19.200
<v Speaker 2>Jaselle Bryant.

0:00:19.400 --> 0:00:21.280
<v Speaker 1>What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for

0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:26.439
<v Speaker 1>being here with us. What's again? This is what we do.

0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:31.560
<v Speaker 1>This is how we do it. Book it up, book

0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:34.880
<v Speaker 1>it up. Boo yanna yanna ya yana. Yeah, okay, clearly

0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:38.199
<v Speaker 1>we have too much time on our hands. Oh my gosh. Yes,

0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:41.640
<v Speaker 1>all right, we're just all that they're here. Yeah. No,

0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:46.360
<v Speaker 1>we totally and they keep coming, yes, which which we love. Yes,

0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:47.480
<v Speaker 1>So see you guys.

0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Life is good, All is well, All is great. Yes,

0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:54.400
<v Speaker 2>what's what's popping? What's your shady moment?

0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:04.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh? So this this is just I've had enough. Okay, okay,

0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.240
<v Speaker 1>it's just just this kind of a statement, like or

0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:15.880
<v Speaker 1>like waking kids up in the morning, shady, shady, and

0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:18.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm sick of it. I'm so sick of it. So

0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:21.120
<v Speaker 1>do they have an alarm? They do, and they don't

0:01:21.160 --> 0:01:23.800
<v Speaker 1>hear it. Okay, so then you have to go get them. Yes,

0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.240
<v Speaker 1>But actually I enjoyed that.

0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:28.200
<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed waking my kids up and like kissing on

0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:30.040
<v Speaker 2>them because they were half sleep and they couldn't tell

0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:30.480
<v Speaker 2>me get off.

0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:33.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, you know, see I don't. It's first of all,

0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:38.120
<v Speaker 1>like I'm barely awake. You know, you're already like I've

0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:41.080
<v Speaker 1>been doing my thing. Yeah, So just imagine being like

0:01:42.319 --> 0:01:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm struggling to get out of the bed, and

0:01:45.120 --> 0:01:46.960
<v Speaker 1>then I got to come in your room and be like,

0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:51.280
<v Speaker 1>wake up, wake up, wake up, get up, get up,

0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:54.960
<v Speaker 1>let's go wake up, wake up. Like maybe you should

0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:57.280
<v Speaker 1>have a different approach. I want to get like an

0:01:57.280 --> 0:02:02.680
<v Speaker 1>airhorn maybe yeah, be on your phone, oh oh yeah

0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:06.000
<v Speaker 1>maybe and just sent that thing off. But it's so crazy.

0:02:06.120 --> 0:02:10.959
<v Speaker 1>Carter has like three alarm set and and he still

0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.280
<v Speaker 1>don't get out, and he sleeps through him. And then

0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:15.520
<v Speaker 1>I'll call him on his phone and then I'll call

0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.120
<v Speaker 1>him and bring and ring AM I am I And

0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:21.080
<v Speaker 1>he has it's like loud. I can hear the phone

0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:23.720
<v Speaker 1>ringing from my room, you know what I mean. And

0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:26.639
<v Speaker 1>he through he's sleeping through it. That's funny. I'm like,

0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:29.280
<v Speaker 1>wake up. Oh my gosh, I can't wait until school

0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:33.040
<v Speaker 1>is just over like this, like this guy drives me up.

0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:37.280
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, so how long does it take? I

0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:42.079
<v Speaker 1>mean it's a good ten minute process. Okay, that's not

0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:45.200
<v Speaker 1>that bad. But it's both to him. Who's better Card

0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:49.720
<v Speaker 1>Carter Corey? I get up Corey. Corey is better Okay,

0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:52.440
<v Speaker 1>so he'll get up and gets get motivated. I mean

0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:55.359
<v Speaker 1>he's still not good, but it's better. He's like Carter

0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:57.079
<v Speaker 1>is like, I'm like, I don't know how you're sleeping

0:02:57.080 --> 0:02:59.880
<v Speaker 1>through all of this. It's crazy. So I'm like, if

0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:01.639
<v Speaker 1>anyone has any and I don't want to have to

0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:03.359
<v Speaker 1>like pour water on him and like stuff like that.

0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:10.600
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, that's called waterboarding. I think his mouth

0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:17.680
<v Speaker 1>and his waterboarding not doing that, okay, but if anybody

0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.320
<v Speaker 1>has any tips, I don't know. Yeah, I'm thinking of

0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:22.840
<v Speaker 1>air horn. Might be the the air hoorn which is

0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:23.359
<v Speaker 1>on your phone.

0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:25.679
<v Speaker 2>It's like I think one of your like ring tone,

0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:30.079
<v Speaker 2>yes and who or you can probably even downloaded or

0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:31.160
<v Speaker 2>like YouTube it or something.

0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, that's a lot. What about wand he seems

0:03:36.560 --> 0:03:39.560
<v Speaker 1>like he pops up? He can pop up yeaeah. But

0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:44.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like, so since we take turns taking them school,

0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.360
<v Speaker 1>like Carter goes to school earlier, so he wakes up earlier.

0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:48.320
<v Speaker 1>So like on the days that I have to wake

0:03:48.400 --> 0:03:53.040
<v Speaker 1>Carter up. It's like, you know, make Wan do it

0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.680
<v Speaker 1>all the time. I know, but then there's no point

0:03:55.680 --> 0:04:01.040
<v Speaker 1>in like taking turns right, stop, stop, decade turns at

0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:03.360
<v Speaker 1>my point, I know. Okay.

0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:05.680
<v Speaker 2>So I was out and about in the streets. Yeah,

0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:10.600
<v Speaker 2>that my shady moment, and I met some guy that

0:04:10.680 --> 0:04:13.480
<v Speaker 2>I do know, I mean not, This wasn't like the

0:04:13.520 --> 0:04:14.760
<v Speaker 2>first time I spoken to him.

0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:19.400
<v Speaker 1>Okay, just give it perspective. So somewhere in the conversation

0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:21.600
<v Speaker 1>he says to me like, and I've never heard the

0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:24.920
<v Speaker 1>guy has never asked me this. Okay, So he was

0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:26.640
<v Speaker 1>like some So, so he's like, well, just out does

0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:31.680
<v Speaker 1>your vagina work? What? I was like, what the what

0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:36.960
<v Speaker 1>does your question work? But sometimes their penises don't work?

0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:41.800
<v Speaker 1>So but vagina's work? All right? How does it work?

0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:43.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what that means.

0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:47.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm so like, undone is this person asking you this question?

0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:50.200
<v Speaker 2>Me doesn't even matter? But he asked me did my

0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:53.280
<v Speaker 2>vagina work? And I was like, uh, for the rest

0:04:53.279 --> 0:04:53.719
<v Speaker 2>of my life?

0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:56.800
<v Speaker 1>What else was the conversation about? I was like, how

0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:57.240
<v Speaker 1>do you? It was?

0:04:57.720 --> 0:05:00.160
<v Speaker 2>It was going on in the conversation, and then I'd

0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:03.640
<v Speaker 2>have been a lot of drinks. But anyway, he asked me, doesn't.

0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Work and didn't. It didn't make me feel like I

0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:09.320
<v Speaker 1>needed to let him see, right? Was he like trying

0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:12.000
<v Speaker 1>to find out clearly everybody?

0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I went crazy, but yeah, but I

0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:22.080
<v Speaker 2>I made a mental note actually because I said to myself,

0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:25.000
<v Speaker 2>no one's ever asked me this, and people need to

0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:27.560
<v Speaker 2>know that you should not be asking women does their

0:05:27.640 --> 0:05:28.280
<v Speaker 2>vagina work?

0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:32.520
<v Speaker 1>Right? But it's like, what kind of encounters has he

0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:37.400
<v Speaker 1>had that he that's even a question? It was It

0:05:37.480 --> 0:05:40.000
<v Speaker 1>was more alina joke. I think my ninety seven year

0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:44.600
<v Speaker 1>old grandmother on her death been vagina work. Maybe not.

0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:49.120
<v Speaker 2>I think it might be ninety seven drives. When do

0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:52.640
<v Speaker 2>you when do you think you'll not want to? Like

0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.160
<v Speaker 2>like you'll not care like I decided like if I

0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:59.159
<v Speaker 2>got married tomorrow right at seventy five, I.

0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:02.160
<v Speaker 1>Don't care who you sleep with, okay, like totally like

0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.920
<v Speaker 1>have added player? Okay, is there a number for you?

0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:10.960
<v Speaker 1>I've never really thought about that. So you're saying not

0:06:11.160 --> 0:06:14.000
<v Speaker 1>care meaning like yeah, my shop is closed, like go

0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.000
<v Speaker 1>do what you want. No, not, my shop is closed.

0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:18.320
<v Speaker 2>I still have sex with you, but like I don't

0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:21.480
<v Speaker 2>care if you're out there doing other things. Yeah, I

0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:25.240
<v Speaker 2>can't see that angering me. I wouldn't probably wouldn't give

0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.000
<v Speaker 2>a shit, have at it. M.

0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I think it's so like you're I think it's hard

0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:33.760
<v Speaker 1>to pick a number because like you're seventy five, Yeah,

0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:35.960
<v Speaker 1>could be different than someone else's seventy five, you know

0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:37.760
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like there's some seventy five year olds

0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:43.039
<v Speaker 1>that are really decrepit, right, No, I'm and then there's

0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.280
<v Speaker 1>gonna be decresed. No, you're not, I'm saying, And then

0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:46.960
<v Speaker 1>you could be a seventy five year old that like

0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.640
<v Speaker 1>looks better than most fifty year olds or it's more

0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:52.800
<v Speaker 1>like active and totally.

0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:56.560
<v Speaker 2>But do I feel like being responsible for your sexual

0:06:56.640 --> 0:06:58.880
<v Speaker 2>pleasure right on a regular basis?

0:06:58.920 --> 0:07:01.120
<v Speaker 1>I want to. I want to like farm it out, yeah,

0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:04.280
<v Speaker 1>to others. I want to have, you know, go go

0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:05.200
<v Speaker 1>find others. Yeah.

0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:07.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think seventy five is a good enough not

0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:11.120
<v Speaker 2>eight eighty is like too old. Yeah, seventy five is

0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:11.760
<v Speaker 2>like and.

0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Let's say he's okay, wait a minute, So if I'm

0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:17.560
<v Speaker 1>seventy five and he's like sixty two, oh yeah yeah

0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:21.000
<v Speaker 1>yeah he's living Levita Loca. Yeah yeah, So and then

0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.880
<v Speaker 1>he's going to bring back a STD. That part, well,

0:07:23.920 --> 0:07:27.000
<v Speaker 1>do you know that STD's run rampant in old nursing

0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:32.400
<v Speaker 1>homes retirement homes? Yes, because they're all like, yeah, okay,

0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:34.640
<v Speaker 1>this this time station went left. So I don't know.

0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:38.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I say, well, okay, so it depends on

0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:40.560
<v Speaker 2>I'll revisit when I'm seventy five.

0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:41.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, but as of.

0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:45.400
<v Speaker 2>Right now, my fifty some year old self says, listen, yes,

0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:47.760
<v Speaker 2>if you with me at seventy five, you can have

0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:48.960
<v Speaker 2>sex with whoever you want to.

0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So they have to forward to Yeah, I can't

0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:58.760
<v Speaker 1>wait until she turned seventy five, and then you can

0:07:59.000 --> 0:07:59.720
<v Speaker 1>go for broke.

0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.400
<v Speaker 2>Okay, hand on your business line. I don't want to

0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:05.400
<v Speaker 2>nothing about it. Yeah, I don't want to know nothing

0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:08.160
<v Speaker 2>about it. Okay, just go do what you want to do.

0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:11.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, and maybe in reverse, maybe I can, you know,

0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:15.119
<v Speaker 2>pick up a hot strapping twenty years there you go, Okay,

0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:18.040
<v Speaker 2>all right, seventy five is getting is getting good?

0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:23.720
<v Speaker 1>Look good to me? What is wrong with me? I

0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't like how was that even a

0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:29.400
<v Speaker 1>thought process? Like, I don't know, listen, so I for

0:08:29.480 --> 0:08:30.960
<v Speaker 1>got to tell you all that. Are you telling me

0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:34.760
<v Speaker 1>you could imagine or envision getting married again, I'm not

0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:38.040
<v Speaker 1>saying that, but okay, I could be definitely in a

0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:39.600
<v Speaker 1>committed relationship for sure.

0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, And yeah, whoever that guy is, listen when I'm

0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:50.240
<v Speaker 2>seventy five, you like on my birthday, like, go for it. Yeah,

0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:53.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm done, even seventy four like I'm done, Like I

0:08:53.760 --> 0:08:55.000
<v Speaker 2>don't want to do with this anymore.

0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.959
<v Speaker 1>But but seventy four it's a deal breaker. Seventy four

0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:00.400
<v Speaker 1>is a deil breaker. Seventy five have at it? Play, okay,

0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:02.839
<v Speaker 1>have at it? Yes, Okay, I love that you have

0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:04.120
<v Speaker 1>this planned out. Yeah I did.

0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:08.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and you have no number eighty I mean, yeah,

0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:13.199
<v Speaker 2>eighty for sure. I want to know from women like

0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:15.040
<v Speaker 2>when Yes, that's a good question.

0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:17.360
<v Speaker 1>I just think that's so hard for me to predict

0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:19.959
<v Speaker 1>because I don't know where I'm gonna, like, what my

0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:21.960
<v Speaker 1>life is going to look like at that time. Okay,

0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:24.920
<v Speaker 1>But but Robin, I've had sex with men who are like,

0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:31.000
<v Speaker 1>who were very potent, I should say, and who could

0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:32.600
<v Speaker 1>go hours and hours.

0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh and at that point I wanted to find a

0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:40.240
<v Speaker 2>woman that could take over over it. So I mean

0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:42.880
<v Speaker 2>it's that so these thoughts go through my mind.

0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:45.360
<v Speaker 1>God is my point? Okay, yeah, okay, well yeah, so

0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:48.280
<v Speaker 1>that's all like depends on the scenario. Yeah, you know what,

0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:52.640
<v Speaker 1>So women, if y'all you're saying that when you're seventy four,

0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:56.160
<v Speaker 1>you're all right with you know, if if the guy

0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:59.600
<v Speaker 1>wants to go forever and forever, yeah, to go find

0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:02.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody else to go finish them off. No, like you

0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:04.839
<v Speaker 1>want to like stick it out and be like, okay,

0:10:05.320 --> 0:10:07.360
<v Speaker 1>this gotta hold on. I would not be in a

0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:11.160
<v Speaker 1>committed relationship with a man that's going, Yeah, it's like

0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:15.120
<v Speaker 1>taking something to do that, like some horse lion maine tail,

0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:17.960
<v Speaker 1>which I'm not mad at. I'm not at fifty something.

0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad at that seven listened.

0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:23.280
<v Speaker 2>Seventy is the is the year that I'm like, look

0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:25.880
<v Speaker 2>at here, ok this has got to be lasting eighteen

0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:27.880
<v Speaker 2>minutes and I'm done eighteen minutes.

0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay? Is that a long time? I think so when

0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:34.160
<v Speaker 1>you're seventy, oh my god, okay, that's not eighteen it's

0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:39.079
<v Speaker 1>good like every day, how often we eighteen minutes?

0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:45.640
<v Speaker 2>Every other day? Whoa, no, twelve minutes? Hey, you can't

0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:46.960
<v Speaker 2>get me three pumps and you're done.

0:10:47.040 --> 0:10:49.800
<v Speaker 1>No, I'm sorry. Minute twelve minutes. Twelve minutes is a

0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:50.199
<v Speaker 1>long time.

0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:55.240
<v Speaker 2>Seventy Okay, listen, I want somebody seventy to write in

0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:58.400
<v Speaker 2>and say and let us know what we do it. Yeah,

0:10:58.440 --> 0:11:00.920
<v Speaker 2>what we're doing at seventy. I want that, And I

0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:03.959
<v Speaker 2>want to know, like, are women understanding what I'm saying? Like,

0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:05.400
<v Speaker 2>there's got to be a point in life where you're

0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:06.679
<v Speaker 2>just like, I don't give a damn what you do,

0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:08.840
<v Speaker 2>especially if you've been with I mean you've.

0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:11.240
<v Speaker 1>Been with Wine forever. I'm sure like tomorrow you might

0:11:11.320 --> 0:11:15.000
<v Speaker 1>not give a damn. I mean, there's there are right

0:11:16.200 --> 0:11:20.000
<v Speaker 1>right tomorrow, wan have at it, right, There's there are

0:11:20.120 --> 0:11:23.000
<v Speaker 1>other housewives that I've been around that you know if

0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:25.000
<v Speaker 1>you look at them from the outside. Oh, there are

0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:30.400
<v Speaker 1>women housewives or real housewives like on Bravo. Okay, let's

0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:34.319
<v Speaker 1>move in front of the camera are like all about

0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:38.240
<v Speaker 1>their man, and then off camera are like, oh my god,

0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:40.400
<v Speaker 1>leave me alone. I hope like he can go whoever

0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:44.800
<v Speaker 1>he wants up today, I mean, yeah, currently, yeah, Okay,

0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I've heard you want to give us initials. Okay, I

0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:50.160
<v Speaker 1>was trying to get tea for the people.

0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:55.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, I mean, it's a it's it's I mean,

0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:57.400
<v Speaker 2>if there's something to be said about.

0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:00.959
<v Speaker 1>That whole dynamic. And I don't even know why we

0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:05.079
<v Speaker 1>are how we start talking about this. I don't either.

0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:05.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't either.

0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:08.240
<v Speaker 2>Moving on, Okay, I do want to say that I

0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:13.480
<v Speaker 2>went to a restaurant that I I'm okay, I has

0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:15.319
<v Speaker 2>to take to tell y'all about this restaurant because I'm

0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:17.280
<v Speaker 2>gonna be going there all the time because it's the

0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:19.000
<v Speaker 2>food is so freaking good, Okay, And I hate to

0:12:19.040 --> 0:12:20.679
<v Speaker 2>tell y'all that because then y'all gonna be there all

0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:22.600
<v Speaker 2>the time, and then y'all gonna take my reservation.

0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:28.400
<v Speaker 1>So but anyway, I'm gonna say it anyway. Dogan, I've

0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:31.640
<v Speaker 1>heard of d O G O N. It's in like

0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:37.520
<v Speaker 1>sushi is no no. Can you let me talk? Yes? Okay, okay, sorry, So.

0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:42.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you remember the old Mandarin n d C.

0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:46.280
<v Speaker 2>It's now the Salamander. Oh okay, Deborah not Debora le Child,

0:12:46.520 --> 0:12:51.480
<v Speaker 2>Sheila Johnson bought it. It's now the Salamander Hotel Beautiful

0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:54.880
<v Speaker 2>and dogon.

0:12:54.920 --> 0:12:58.280
<v Speaker 1>Is Chef kwame Yes, okay, Chef.

0:12:58.120 --> 0:12:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Kwamet is trying to think his name. Chef Wame who

0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:03.960
<v Speaker 2>has a restaurant in New York called Tatiana. I've been

0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:05.760
<v Speaker 2>at Tatiana, yeah, and it's very good.

0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:09.720
<v Speaker 1>This here Dogan takes that ship to a whole another

0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:15.160
<v Speaker 1>lovee really okay, the food is stupid good sick. Okay,

0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:19.360
<v Speaker 1>So what's the cuisine? So it's everything I like they have.

0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:22.880
<v Speaker 2>They had this branzino that was amazing, and then the

0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:25.040
<v Speaker 2>chef brought me out a fried It went on the menu,

0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:27.839
<v Speaker 2>so he brought me two dishes. He was like, it's

0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:30.679
<v Speaker 2>like a curry branzino and then like a fried branzino.

0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:35.840
<v Speaker 2>Then he's got like corn bread and mats not matzimo.

0:13:36.040 --> 0:13:38.960
<v Speaker 2>He had this lamb situation and the lamb is kind

0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:40.800
<v Speaker 2>of like fried but not really and it's also in

0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:41.600
<v Speaker 2>like a curry sauce.

0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:46.719
<v Speaker 1>So good. I mean everything now is it? Before that

0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:50.559
<v Speaker 1>was like African? Yes? I never went to that one, okay,

0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:54.240
<v Speaker 1>Keith Kith, I think, yeah, yeah, I never been. Had

0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I known, I would have definitely gone. Okay. But so

0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:00.520
<v Speaker 1>it's not Africa. The cuisina is not like its core

0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:06.959
<v Speaker 1>maybe but not maybe soul food more is with the

0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:10.319
<v Speaker 1>African twist. Okay, yes, the curry is throwing me off.

0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what cuisine is that? It's it's good, It's

0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.880
<v Speaker 1>it's good. It was popping. It was like the restaurant

0:14:17.960 --> 0:14:23.280
<v Speaker 1>was popping it. Clearly it's a hit. So I'm here

0:14:23.360 --> 0:14:25.400
<v Speaker 1>to say that it was and they treated me well.

0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:28.880
<v Speaker 1>And the hotel is beautiful. The hotel is the same. Yeah, yeah,

0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:31.000
<v Speaker 1>but it looked like I know the pictures. It looks

0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:34.120
<v Speaker 1>like they've they've revamped a little bit, but it's still

0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:35.200
<v Speaker 1>a beautiful hotel. Yeah.

0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh, definitely, Amandarin in DC, do gone if you if

0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:39.600
<v Speaker 2>you haven't tried it out, and if you want some

0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:42.640
<v Speaker 2>good food, if you're in the area, then definitely.

0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:44.160
<v Speaker 1>Check it out. Yes, thank you.

0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:51.440
<v Speaker 2>I've got to tell you all this because we have

0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:53.160
<v Speaker 2>a reasonably shady fan.

0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Her name is Lannie Love. Oh y'all know Love of course. Okay,

0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:59.880
<v Speaker 1>she was on The Real years ago. I think she

0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.360
<v Speaker 1>she started the reel or she was Was she an

0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:04.480
<v Speaker 1>EP on the reel? I don't think so. I think

0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:08.160
<v Speaker 1>she was just a hose co host. Anyway, I missed

0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:09.840
<v Speaker 1>The Real. I always like I like the I did

0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:12.920
<v Speaker 1>I like them? So I saw her in Los Angeles

0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:16.760
<v Speaker 1>and she was like, girl, I love that podcast Reason

0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.160
<v Speaker 1>and I asked her, I said, are you reasonable? Are

0:15:19.200 --> 0:15:22.040
<v Speaker 1>you shady? She was like I'm reasonable And I looked

0:15:22.040 --> 0:15:25.640
<v Speaker 1>at her, like the hell you not? You shady all

0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:27.560
<v Speaker 1>the time. But I love I love me some good

0:15:27.600 --> 0:15:29.560
<v Speaker 1>shady people I love. I love n you know. Yeah.

0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I follow her on Instagram and she she posts like

0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:36.280
<v Speaker 1>random stuff. It'll be like stuff that's like happening in

0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:38.480
<v Speaker 1>in you know, the news or whatever, and then like

0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:41.800
<v Speaker 1>I find it very informative. Yeah, but then some of

0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:44.880
<v Speaker 1>it has like a you know, there's like some humorous

0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:48.560
<v Speaker 1>or like funny things that she posts just about like

0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:51.040
<v Speaker 1>what's going on, and then we'll be like yeah, like

0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:52.440
<v Speaker 1>random like videos and stuff.

0:15:52.520 --> 0:15:55.200
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I like her, and she's you know, she's

0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:58.880
<v Speaker 2>somebody that's like consistent, like you know, she she gonna

0:15:59.280 --> 0:15:59.880
<v Speaker 2>give you what you get.

0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:00.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:05.000
<v Speaker 2>So last week we talked about White Lotus, and I

0:16:05.120 --> 0:16:08.360
<v Speaker 2>want to circle back to that because, okay, have you

0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:11.080
<v Speaker 2>heard about this four seasons jet?

0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:12.400
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So there's a four seasons, twenty day jet tour.

0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Woo Okay, Okay, it's probably gonna cost all your money, yeah, okay,

0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:25.800
<v Speaker 2>and I think you don't even money for it, Okay.

0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:29.920
<v Speaker 2>So it's they're offering an exclusive twenty day private jet

0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:33.720
<v Speaker 2>tour and it takes you to all of the White

0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:37.240
<v Speaker 2>Lotus locations. Oh so you go to Maui, that's where

0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:37.800
<v Speaker 2>they started.

0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh you go to the one in Sicily, okay, and

0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:44.960
<v Speaker 1>then they have this Thailand one h huh. So you.

0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:52.160
<v Speaker 2>Do this is gonna start in twenty twenty six, and

0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:54.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, you get your personalized wellness treatment.

0:16:54.560 --> 0:16:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay? How cool is that? Nice?

0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:58.000
<v Speaker 2>Does it tell you how much it costs? It does

0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:00.720
<v Speaker 2>not say, Okay, it says too much for us. Okay,

0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:05.560
<v Speaker 2>ps y'all can't afford this ship. That's really nice though, Okay,

0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:06.320
<v Speaker 2>but how nice is that?

0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.399
<v Speaker 1>So twenty days? Yeah, so you have to have a

0:17:09.480 --> 0:17:13.600
<v Speaker 1>ton of money and a ton of free times to

0:17:13.680 --> 0:17:14.280
<v Speaker 1>do that. Yeah.

0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:17.920
<v Speaker 2>But I mean, okay, first of all, and and let's

0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:21.120
<v Speaker 2>be clear to fly because I've been to Thailand. Yeah,

0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:24.800
<v Speaker 2>been a Maui to fly, and sely to fly from

0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:27.320
<v Speaker 2>Maui to Thailand. I don't even know what that looked like.

0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:30.159
<v Speaker 1>That looked like a headache, right that that looked like

0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do it, but maybe maybe Sicily

0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:36.439
<v Speaker 1>breaks it up. Something is breaking it up maybe right.

0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:39.119
<v Speaker 1>I think you even flying friends on where you're coming from.

0:17:39.119 --> 0:17:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Flying from Maui to anywhere, it's like it's a lot,

0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:43.640
<v Speaker 1>a lot, okay, but I guess it depends on where

0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:48.920
<v Speaker 1>you're originating. Yeah, yeah, but that's you know, no, that's fabulous.

0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:52.919
<v Speaker 1>And but Thailand is hard to get to. M hm.

0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:56.200
<v Speaker 1>You know, you gotta either fly in the Doha or

0:17:56.200 --> 0:18:00.359
<v Speaker 1>you gotta fly into Qatar and then okay, wait this

0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:02.840
<v Speaker 1>ridiculous or Abu Dhabi and you gotta wait like a

0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:06.040
<v Speaker 1>ridiculous layover and then get there. And they're in Pouquette,

0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:09.520
<v Speaker 1>which is where I did also a Girl's Trip. It's beautiful. Yeah,

0:18:09.560 --> 0:18:11.159
<v Speaker 1>like it. So I didn't know that they were tailand

0:18:11.359 --> 0:18:12.960
<v Speaker 1>but I started watching the first episode. I was like,

0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:18.000
<v Speaker 1>that looked like oh okay, yeah, than has a look okay, yeah, okay,

0:18:18.600 --> 0:18:20.320
<v Speaker 1>oh that's nice. Okay, So I want to share that

0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:20.880
<v Speaker 1>with the people.

0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:24.000
<v Speaker 2>Get in get into the four seasons private jets, yes,

0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:25.439
<v Speaker 2>so you can jet set around.

0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:29.080
<v Speaker 1>I also wanted okay, go ahead, you're gonna say no,

0:18:29.119 --> 0:18:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, so, speaking of White Lotus, do

0:18:31.160 --> 0:18:34.400
<v Speaker 1>we want to talk about other things that we're watching? Yeah,

0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:38.680
<v Speaker 1>go ahead, okay. So are you watching Paradise? Yes? Have

0:18:38.800 --> 0:18:43.680
<v Speaker 1>you finished it? Okay? Is it question? Yeah? Is it

0:18:43.760 --> 0:18:46.720
<v Speaker 1>eight episodes? I don't know, so I'm not there. I'm

0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:52.720
<v Speaker 1>only on episode five okay, I'm on seven. Okay. I

0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:56.000
<v Speaker 1>think it's at least eight episodes. But are they dropping them?

0:18:56.520 --> 0:19:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Are they not all released at once? Because I guess

0:19:00.119 --> 0:19:02.480
<v Speaker 1>whatever I've No, they're not okay, they're not okay, but

0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:06.919
<v Speaker 1>I've watched whatever I've watched. They're all available. Yes. But anyway,

0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:08.800
<v Speaker 1>it's like, of course you see all the hype online,

0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:11.040
<v Speaker 1>like people just talking about how good of a show

0:19:11.040 --> 0:19:12.719
<v Speaker 1>it is. So then I started watching, I'm like, oh,

0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:18.320
<v Speaker 1>this is actually it. It's okay show so episode seven

0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:21.879
<v Speaker 1>okay or maybe where I'm not there yet. Yeah, I

0:19:21.960 --> 0:19:25.440
<v Speaker 1>started really feeling like is this shit about to happen? So,

0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:30.000
<v Speaker 1>by the way, we can kind of give you that

0:19:30.320 --> 0:19:35.800
<v Speaker 1>it's okay, it's on Hulu. Yeah, it's very much the

0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:39.840
<v Speaker 1>end of times. Yes, and a president kind of like

0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:42.280
<v Speaker 1>flips the switch or whatever.

0:19:42.960 --> 0:19:45.680
<v Speaker 2>If there's flip to switch, if there's a flip to switch,

0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:47.480
<v Speaker 2>switch to flip, if there's a switch to flip.

0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:51.879
<v Speaker 1>And it just made me feel like can this happen, Yes, right,

0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:54.120
<v Speaker 1>can this happen? And then they go we can also

0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:58.320
<v Speaker 1>say this, everyone who is on a list gets to

0:19:58.400 --> 0:20:04.639
<v Speaker 1>go and live in a pseudo world right under a bubble. Yeah, okay,

0:20:04.880 --> 0:20:06.520
<v Speaker 1>if you're on the list, I can tell you right now,

0:20:06.520 --> 0:20:10.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm not on the list. Is that I don't want

0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.719
<v Speaker 1>to be on the list, to be honest, really, like right,

0:20:12.840 --> 0:20:16.240
<v Speaker 1>so I'm like, if if they were to announce right

0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.520
<v Speaker 1>now that I think I've said this before on this podcast,

0:20:18.600 --> 0:20:21.600
<v Speaker 1>like the end of the world is coming, like it's coming.

0:20:21.760 --> 0:20:25.280
<v Speaker 1>There's nothing we could do about it, like, and then

0:20:25.320 --> 0:20:28.560
<v Speaker 1>people start like trying to do something like building bunkers

0:20:28.600 --> 0:20:30.320
<v Speaker 1>and trying to do all this stuff to do something. No,

0:20:30.880 --> 0:20:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like literally just gonna go walk outside and lay

0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:36.360
<v Speaker 1>on the ground and just be like come, I'm here,

0:20:36.480 --> 0:20:38.520
<v Speaker 1>Just come get me. You know what I mean. That

0:20:38.640 --> 0:20:41.600
<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're a depression Okay, I can't so just

0:20:41.720 --> 0:20:43.440
<v Speaker 1>but if you if you could be on the list

0:20:43.480 --> 0:20:48.520
<v Speaker 1>with your family, that would be good, right, I guess.

0:20:49.000 --> 0:20:52.680
<v Speaker 1>But it's just like, oh, yeah, I mean watching this show,

0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:53.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't think I want to be on

0:20:54.080 --> 0:20:57.320
<v Speaker 1>that list, I know, because they not eat real, right,

0:20:57.440 --> 0:21:01.000
<v Speaker 1>but it's so cool. The food is all or bio.

0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. The food it's like chemical stuff, and

0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:10.320
<v Speaker 1>the sun is fake, you know, like yeah, the insects

0:21:10.359 --> 0:21:12.680
<v Speaker 1>and the birds, like those sounds are pre recorded and

0:21:12.720 --> 0:21:14.159
<v Speaker 1>all that type of stuff. I'm like, I don't want that,

0:21:14.680 --> 0:21:16.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, you know, just let me go, just take

0:21:16.560 --> 0:21:19.640
<v Speaker 1>me away. It's fine. But the show is interesting because

0:21:19.680 --> 0:21:22.480
<v Speaker 1>it's like it starts off like my type of show.

0:21:22.560 --> 0:21:26.040
<v Speaker 1>It's like secret Service and the President, yeah, and you know,

0:21:26.280 --> 0:21:28.399
<v Speaker 1>like the who Done it type of stuff, and then

0:21:28.440 --> 0:21:33.840
<v Speaker 1>you realize they're like living underground because the world ended,

0:21:34.400 --> 0:21:40.080
<v Speaker 1>and so then it also has like the fantasy type element.

0:21:40.160 --> 0:21:44.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I would call it fantasy. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

0:21:44.320 --> 0:21:48.040
<v Speaker 1>So that's kind of cool like that they have those

0:21:48.160 --> 0:21:52.720
<v Speaker 1>two genres kind of woven together. But yeah, there's a

0:21:52.800 --> 0:21:54.960
<v Speaker 1>lot of praise about it. There's a lot of praise

0:21:55.080 --> 0:21:58.639
<v Speaker 1>for Sterling K. Brown is his name right, that actor,

0:21:58.920 --> 0:22:02.560
<v Speaker 1>he's like the lead actor, and he's like fantastic. So

0:22:02.680 --> 0:22:04.840
<v Speaker 1>hopefully they get you know, a bunch of awards and stuff.

0:22:04.880 --> 0:22:07.960
<v Speaker 1>But so that is definitely definitely on my watch list

0:22:08.119 --> 0:22:10.600
<v Speaker 1>or recommended to you all to watch. Okay, what else

0:22:10.640 --> 0:22:15.199
<v Speaker 1>you've been watching so so I have. So I am.

0:22:15.359 --> 0:22:19.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm watching like multiple shows simultaneously. Yeah, which is not

0:22:19.320 --> 0:22:23.440
<v Speaker 1>good because then all the stories get like confused, confused,

0:22:23.520 --> 0:22:29.360
<v Speaker 1>like a minute that was my other show. Yeah, I'm

0:22:29.400 --> 0:22:32.560
<v Speaker 1>like so confused. So I started. Now, tell me if

0:22:32.560 --> 0:22:35.879
<v Speaker 1>you watched this Zero Day? Did you say that with

0:22:36.000 --> 0:22:39.080
<v Speaker 1>Appa Robert de Niro? I saw it, you saw it?

0:22:39.560 --> 0:22:42.840
<v Speaker 1>Is it worth finishing? Well? Did you how many episodes

0:22:42.840 --> 0:22:45.399
<v Speaker 1>are you in? I don't know, like two three? Girl?

0:22:45.600 --> 0:22:49.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, I enjoyed it. I watched it actually traveling

0:22:49.960 --> 0:22:51.800
<v Speaker 2>back and forth to La Okay, I watched that was

0:22:51.880 --> 0:22:57.160
<v Speaker 2>my thing. I was binging, Okay, I enjoyed it. Yeah yeah, okay,

0:22:58.880 --> 0:22:59.520
<v Speaker 2>what else watching?

0:22:59.520 --> 0:23:01.240
<v Speaker 1>I think? Are just I was watching The Resident, I

0:23:01.320 --> 0:23:06.320
<v Speaker 1>mean not the Resident, the night Agent, the the recruit,

0:23:07.480 --> 0:23:12.800
<v Speaker 1>the tourists, the tourist uh huh okay, the I already

0:23:12.840 --> 0:23:15.600
<v Speaker 1>said I i've't even talked about this early podcast. Yeah,

0:23:15.600 --> 0:23:18.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm still watching all these and then this is ridiculous.

0:23:18.200 --> 0:23:22.280
<v Speaker 1>I want to start watching White Lotus. Yeah yeah, so

0:23:22.400 --> 0:23:23.680
<v Speaker 1>but right now I'm like, I think I'm going to

0:23:23.720 --> 0:23:27.119
<v Speaker 1>commit to Paradise and finish it. Okay, good, And then

0:23:27.160 --> 0:23:29.800
<v Speaker 1>of course like Traders was like in there too.

0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:39.120
<v Speaker 2>Yes, and then you watched Potomac just kidding, you could

0:23:39.160 --> 0:23:44.080
<v Speaker 2>have watched okay to be told that that last episode yeah,

0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:45.240
<v Speaker 2>last episode of the reunion.

0:23:45.359 --> 0:23:47.639
<v Speaker 1>Yes, just freaking hilarious. Yeah. I haven't seen it. I

0:23:47.680 --> 0:23:49.360
<v Speaker 1>mean I've seen like clips, I see clips. I feel

0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:52.680
<v Speaker 1>like I see the clips, I see the Church. Yeah okay, yeah,

0:23:53.960 --> 0:23:55.560
<v Speaker 1>yeah no, but I saw like there was a ton

0:23:55.640 --> 0:23:58.359
<v Speaker 1>of positive praise for it. So that's awesome that you

0:23:58.440 --> 0:24:02.000
<v Speaker 1>guys ended on a positive high note where people were like,

0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:08.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, entertain another excited for what's to come. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:11.359
<v Speaker 1>we shall see. Yeah, okay.

0:24:11.520 --> 0:24:18.120
<v Speaker 2>So I am watching most of those things, and god,

0:24:18.160 --> 0:24:20.760
<v Speaker 2>there was something else I wanted to of course. Oh

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:22.399
<v Speaker 2>nineteen twenty three, that's back on.

0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:26.439
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that. So you didn't watch Yellstone. Uh?

0:24:27.000 --> 0:24:29.959
<v Speaker 1>And so Yellstone has eighteen eighty three. I think it's

0:24:30.000 --> 0:24:33.080
<v Speaker 1>eighteen eighty. Oh. I'm also watching Reacher. Okay, the hell

0:24:33.240 --> 0:24:36.440
<v Speaker 1>is that Reacher? That's like he's like a former army

0:24:36.520 --> 0:24:41.400
<v Speaker 1>guy turned like vigilante that like kills people. Okay, yeah,

0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:44.879
<v Speaker 1>that's like season three. I love Reacher. Okay, okay, And

0:24:46.440 --> 0:24:49.080
<v Speaker 1>nineteen twenty three is back on so in. Harrison Ford

0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:51.719
<v Speaker 1>is in it, Helen Marin is in it. Ford how

0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:52.359
<v Speaker 1>old is he?

0:24:52.760 --> 0:24:55.640
<v Speaker 2>He's he's still and he's still kicking and doing amazing

0:24:55.960 --> 0:24:58.639
<v Speaker 2>wow on the screen because he was in You never

0:24:58.720 --> 0:25:02.399
<v Speaker 2>saw Shrinking. You need to watch Drinking. It's good, it's funny. Okay,

0:25:03.840 --> 0:25:07.200
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I'm I'm locked into nineteen twenty three. Okay,

0:25:07.359 --> 0:25:11.160
<v Speaker 2>locked in, Okay, okay, nineteen twenty three. Okay, I'm gonna

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:12.399
<v Speaker 2>add that to my list. I'm Shrinking.

0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:17.560
<v Speaker 1>So will you also add Love and Hip Hop Atlanta? No, No,

0:25:18.040 --> 0:25:20.960
<v Speaker 1>because that's that's my show. So that's on right now.

0:25:21.320 --> 0:25:22.760
<v Speaker 1>It's on, It's on Prime.

0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Listen Crime, It's It's so they're no longer on VH one. No, Oh,

0:25:29.720 --> 0:25:32.320
<v Speaker 2>that's been that's they've been off VH one. Oh, it's

0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:35.160
<v Speaker 2>on Prime because I think there's they're under MTV, which

0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:38.720
<v Speaker 2>I think is under that maybe really Yeah, And I

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:40.840
<v Speaker 2>saw Yandy at in La.

0:25:40.840 --> 0:25:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I forgot to tell her.

0:25:41.560 --> 0:25:43.440
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to tell her because I kind of stalked

0:25:43.520 --> 0:25:47.720
<v Speaker 2>people that I like. So Pea Valley, Yeah, you don't

0:25:47.760 --> 0:25:51.960
<v Speaker 2>know the Tyler guy, but Pea Valley. There's a girl

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:55.160
<v Speaker 2>named Brandy, who was like the main stripper. I saw

0:25:55.240 --> 0:25:56.040
<v Speaker 2>her at the at.

0:25:55.960 --> 0:25:58.760
<v Speaker 1>The luncheon in l A. And I was like, girl,

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:01.320
<v Speaker 1>and I wanted to just ask her, are you a stripper?

0:26:01.600 --> 0:26:03.800
<v Speaker 1>But I thought like that was rude, right, But she's

0:26:04.240 --> 0:26:07.879
<v Speaker 1>the most amazing stripper to not be a stripper, so

0:26:07.960 --> 0:26:10.800
<v Speaker 1>I kind of got around the question. Yeah, And she

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:14.640
<v Speaker 1>told me that she is a dancer, so I can't.

0:26:14.840 --> 0:26:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I guess dancers are great strippers anyway. Yeah. That her

0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:23.040
<v Speaker 1>body's banging, She's just banging and beautiful. Wow. Okay, okay,

0:26:23.960 --> 0:26:27.680
<v Speaker 1>who else was I talking about? You were? I don't know,

0:26:27.720 --> 0:26:30.359
<v Speaker 1>how do we care? Here? I saw somebody and I

0:26:30.480 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 1>was going, I want to tell them that they were

0:26:32.040 --> 0:26:33.280
<v Speaker 1>loving hip hop. Oh.

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:36.920
<v Speaker 2>I saw Yandy, yeah and out there and I said

0:26:37.000 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 2>hi to her and all that, and I was with

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Cynthia Bailey, so she's you know, was talking to us

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:40.920
<v Speaker 2>for a minute.

0:26:40.920 --> 0:26:42.680
<v Speaker 1>We took a picture. But I wanted to be like girl,

0:26:42.840 --> 0:26:43.720
<v Speaker 1>this season is good.

0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:47.679
<v Speaker 2>But in this season when DC is being accused of cheating,

0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:49.560
<v Speaker 2>so I felt like that would.

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:51.880
<v Speaker 1>Have been weird. Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah.

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:55.840
<v Speaker 1>But season's good. Okay, yeah, okay, already good Okay, yeah,

0:26:56.160 --> 0:26:58.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, everybody need a little ratchet. Okay, everybody need

0:26:58.400 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 1>a little ratchet. How do you have all of this

0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:02.919
<v Speaker 1>time to watch it? So all of these shows?

0:27:03.160 --> 0:27:05.920
<v Speaker 2>No, actually you're the one watching all these shows. You

0:27:06.080 --> 0:27:07.359
<v Speaker 2>ran off like ten shows. I don't know what the

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:10.879
<v Speaker 2>hell you're talking. So so when I travel, I do it.

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:15.080
<v Speaker 2>And I've been traveling a lot, like yeah, yeah, a lot. Okay,

0:27:15.240 --> 0:27:17.080
<v Speaker 2>but I'm about to saw that all the way down

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:19.439
<v Speaker 2>so that I want to be home with the Buffalo rooms.

0:27:19.880 --> 0:27:21.760
<v Speaker 2>Mind you, I'm leaving somewhere in three days.

0:27:21.760 --> 0:27:25.840
<v Speaker 1>But that's not the point. Okay, So wait, we want

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:26.040
<v Speaker 1>to talk.

0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh, we want to make an announcement about the matchmaker situation.

0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 2>So we don't want y'all think that we've forgotten that

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:36.080
<v Speaker 2>we are matching you guys and making love connections.

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:39.960
<v Speaker 1>So we have somebody on it. Yeah, we're sorting through everything. Yes,

0:27:40.040 --> 0:27:42.040
<v Speaker 1>we got we got a lot of submissions. We're trying

0:27:42.080 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 1>to just sort through things. So just hang tight. We're

0:27:45.760 --> 0:27:48.480
<v Speaker 1>gonna start matching you guys. Yes, hang tight. So we

0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:51.080
<v Speaker 1>give us a couple of weeks, yes, okay, and then

0:27:51.119 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 1>we have we have some let's see, we have like

0:27:53.200 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 1>some some letters Okay, first we'll start with some flowers. Okay,

0:28:00.359 --> 0:28:03.040
<v Speaker 1>tell me I'm a mate thing. Yes.

0:28:03.359 --> 0:28:05.159
<v Speaker 2>By the way, the guy that asked me about if

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:07.359
<v Speaker 2>my vagina works, I kind of felt like I was

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 2>being punked by Dick Hurts because that's something he would say,

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:13.480
<v Speaker 2>your vagina worked, said.

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 1>Right exactly, yes, yes, yes, because that's what he does.

0:28:18.000 --> 0:28:21.240
<v Speaker 1>It could be Dick Hurts. It was not. It was not. Okay, okay,

0:28:21.800 --> 0:28:26.160
<v Speaker 1>all right, So this is from Dash Derek Dash. She says.

0:28:26.760 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>The subject is Giselle. Giselle joselle Yay said, Hey, ladies,

0:28:33.960 --> 0:28:36.080
<v Speaker 1>hope all as well. It's been a minute since I've

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:38.720
<v Speaker 1>written in. But I had to give Jiselle her props.

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I did not know what to expect from her twenty

0:28:41.200 --> 0:28:44.640
<v Speaker 1>one question show, but I decided to give it a shot. Boy,

0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:49.040
<v Speaker 1>was I glad. I went between my cousin Ayusha Carter,

0:28:49.120 --> 0:28:50.960
<v Speaker 1>who is a huge fan of you, ladies. Yeah, and

0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 1>I we left our asses off the whole night. Great job, Jazelle,

0:28:55.640 --> 0:28:59.520
<v Speaker 1>because I know doing a one person show is not easy. Also,

0:28:59.680 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 1>thank you for always being warm and welcoming to me,

0:29:02.520 --> 0:29:06.000
<v Speaker 1>whether verbally or in person. Robin, You're still my girl.

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:08.440
<v Speaker 1>But I had to show love to justsell see and

0:29:08.560 --> 0:29:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I said at the show, Derek loves Robin. Now he

0:29:11.240 --> 0:29:14.160
<v Speaker 1>was not with his wife. His wife okay, because I

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 1>was cousin. Is that he sure really his cousin? He says,

0:29:17.600 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 1>my cousin between my cousin. Are you sure heard her? Okay? So,

0:29:21.600 --> 0:29:23.160
<v Speaker 1>and Derek, you know I love you and I was

0:29:23.200 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 1>so happy that you came. Yeah, he's just so cool cool.

0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:27.600
<v Speaker 1>You know who else was there?

0:29:27.960 --> 0:29:30.480
<v Speaker 2>Remember when we during the pandemic, we got these gold

0:29:30.520 --> 0:29:32.440
<v Speaker 2>Belly coupons from that guy or he.

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:34.320
<v Speaker 1>Said, was like he met. He sent me a picture

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:37.480
<v Speaker 1>of you guys together. He was there. See what is

0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 1>his name?

0:29:37.800 --> 0:29:39.719
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I think it's I think it's his wife. I'm

0:29:39.720 --> 0:29:43.240
<v Speaker 2>not sure, but so nice. It's such a nice guy.

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:45.360
<v Speaker 2>And I felt he was like remember when I sent those?

0:29:45.400 --> 0:29:46.440
<v Speaker 2>And I was like yeah, and I felt like saying

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 2>play you can keep saying that. Ike't consenting them because

0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:50.840
<v Speaker 2>I love me some gold Belly.

0:29:51.720 --> 0:29:56.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, he told me saw you Okay. So next,

0:29:56.600 --> 0:30:00.480
<v Speaker 1>of course, is our favorite person my Homede Mohamma, Yes,

0:30:00.600 --> 0:30:03.720
<v Speaker 1>he says, hello, queens, it is your favorite person from

0:30:03.800 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 1>Toronto Mohammed. I just got back from NYC, where I

0:30:07.600 --> 0:30:10.240
<v Speaker 1>had the time of my life. Gazelle, you were amazing

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:13.040
<v Speaker 1>and you commanded that stage, and the audience was so

0:30:13.280 --> 0:30:16.080
<v Speaker 1>excited to see you. After the show, so many people

0:30:16.120 --> 0:30:18.800
<v Speaker 1>came up to me and said, you're the infamous Mohammad.

0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:22.200
<v Speaker 1>We love you, not Mohammed as famous. Oh my god.

0:30:23.680 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 1>It was also nice to speak to Ashley and some

0:30:25.960 --> 0:30:28.360
<v Speaker 1>executives who all thank me for being a fan and

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:31.440
<v Speaker 1>being so engaged. Thank you, Jazelle for making me feel

0:30:31.520 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>special and honored, even though I'm so mad that I

0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:37.440
<v Speaker 1>wasn't able to record when you said I was your

0:30:37.560 --> 0:30:44.200
<v Speaker 1>number one fan, Mohamed, right, really, I tried my best

0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:46.360
<v Speaker 1>to not be so loud and yell as much, but

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:50.160
<v Speaker 1>some moments I couldn't help myself, particularly when Jazelle called

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:52.600
<v Speaker 1>me out for being a warrior in the comment section

0:30:52.840 --> 0:30:55.960
<v Speaker 1>every Sunday. However, it is so nice to connect with

0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:59.480
<v Speaker 1>the little reasonably shady family we have created through attending

0:30:59.520 --> 0:31:00.320
<v Speaker 1>these Lives shows.

0:31:00.440 --> 0:31:04.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, so and that happened, like Mohammed and Derek

0:31:05.120 --> 0:31:07.080
<v Speaker 2>they took a picture together. Oh that's so sweet, which

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 2>was really really nice. So then Mohammed being shady, he

0:31:11.240 --> 0:31:14.280
<v Speaker 2>came to my Chicago show, right, and then I did

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:16.520
<v Speaker 2>a couple of the shows and like, I tweaked some things,

0:31:16.880 --> 0:31:19.680
<v Speaker 2>but it's pretty much the same show, right, yeah, because

0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:21.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm on tour, right.

0:31:21.800 --> 0:31:23.800
<v Speaker 1>He's like just the same show.

0:31:24.400 --> 0:31:27.840
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, when Beyonce goes on stage, what does

0:31:27.880 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 2>she do? The same show? So you might switch a

0:31:31.320 --> 0:31:34.200
<v Speaker 2>song up or two, but it's the same. Yeah, so

0:31:34.440 --> 0:31:38.479
<v Speaker 2>just think of ps Beyonce. Okay, my god, that was shady.

0:31:38.600 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 1>Mohammed. Mohammed is shady. That's why we love him. That's

0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:44.520
<v Speaker 1>why we love him. It's amazing. So now he says,

0:31:44.640 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 1>now onto the mess. Oh, okay, here we go. Asia

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 1>and I have a bit of a disagreement about this. Okay,

0:31:51.120 --> 0:31:56.120
<v Speaker 1>is it reasonable or shady to have your friend wait

0:31:56.440 --> 0:32:00.560
<v Speaker 1>ten minutes for you at the airport pickup lane because

0:32:00.560 --> 0:32:04.160
<v Speaker 1>you're getting your dick sucked in the air washed it? Yeah?

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:07.400
<v Speaker 1>Who was who was getting Mohamma was getting his penis.

0:32:07.520 --> 0:32:11.120
<v Speaker 1>I can neither what confirm or deny that I made

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:15.719
<v Speaker 1>Asia wait. However, I think it's reasonable if you are

0:32:15.880 --> 0:32:21.280
<v Speaker 1>receiving it. I thinks it's shade. Yes, Mohammed, this is shady.

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:23.680
<v Speaker 2>You're getting your first If you forget wait and forget

0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:26.080
<v Speaker 2>Asia waiting, you get your penis sucked at the airport

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:27.600
<v Speaker 2>at bathroom.

0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:31.280
<v Speaker 1>No, no, to know how that happened?

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:33.600
<v Speaker 2>Like, how did you get He's on a plane to

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 2>chat with somebody next to him, and then all of

0:32:36.120 --> 0:32:38.040
<v Speaker 2>a sudden, he's like they go it to the bathroom

0:32:38.080 --> 0:32:38.440
<v Speaker 2>to get it on.

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>This is what I'm thinking, This is how does this

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:44.400
<v Speaker 1>stuff happen? But Muhammad is the type. But he's just

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:46.880
<v Speaker 1>going to talk to everyone around him, right, And I'm

0:32:46.920 --> 0:32:48.600
<v Speaker 1>not mad at his mine and his business and being

0:32:48.680 --> 0:32:50.120
<v Speaker 1>quiet on the plane. He's just going to talk to

0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, how do we get from the plane

0:32:53.040 --> 0:32:55.480
<v Speaker 1>to the to the bathroom? Gets to know? Now I

0:32:55.600 --> 0:32:58.120
<v Speaker 1>heard had sex and I shouldn't probably say this, but

0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 1>I just like burnt out of my mouth. Let's keep going.

0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:08.680
<v Speaker 1>So in the lounge and like a private lounge, an

0:33:08.720 --> 0:33:11.680
<v Speaker 1>airport lounge, okay, because they have the showers in the

0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>private rooms or whatever, So I have done that? Really

0:33:15.440 --> 0:33:17.320
<v Speaker 1>should I have said that? It's too late? Okay?

0:33:18.160 --> 0:33:21.960
<v Speaker 2>Anyway, A freaking that was because there was a shower

0:33:22.000 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 2>in there. So it's just kind of like what the

0:33:24.440 --> 0:33:27.960
<v Speaker 2>thing to do okay with a stranger, no, hell no.

0:33:28.720 --> 0:33:31.320
<v Speaker 2>And the guy that I was dating, we were meeting

0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:33.600
<v Speaker 2>in the airport. He was coming from somewhere. I was,

0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:36.560
<v Speaker 2>you're like, and then it was like time to get

0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:40.520
<v Speaker 2>it on. Okay, so it made sense. Okay, Mohammed, your

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:43.080
<v Speaker 2>ship don't make no sense? Yeah, yeah, you get I

0:33:43.160 --> 0:33:46.600
<v Speaker 2>don't you know what I'm I'm actually with Mohammed. I'm like,

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:50.040
<v Speaker 2>if that, if my friend is getting his dick sect

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:51.000
<v Speaker 2>in the airport.

0:33:50.760 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 1>Like, I'm like, go friend, like you right, true get it?

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean you know what I'm saying. So I'm not

0:33:56.760 --> 0:33:59.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna be mad that. It's not a long time to wait, right, Yeah.

0:33:59.920 --> 0:34:04.120
<v Speaker 1>I wait for you for hours, so ain't nothing. Yeah.

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, no, like, I'm with you, Muhammad on

0:34:06.720 --> 0:34:09.880
<v Speaker 1>this one. Asia can wait ten minutes. Ten minutes, it's

0:34:09.920 --> 0:34:12.399
<v Speaker 1>not a good deal. Maybe you know, go go sit

0:34:12.480 --> 0:34:15.560
<v Speaker 1>in the pick up lot or whatever. Like some of

0:34:15.600 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 1>the airports have those little distant lives. Yeah. Now it'd

0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:20.880
<v Speaker 1>been nice if you maybe like informed her or something,

0:34:21.000 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 1>yeah that you were gonna you need it a minute?

0:34:22.840 --> 0:34:25.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, but I'm not mad at that. Okay,

0:34:25.360 --> 0:34:34.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm not either. Yeah, Okay, but that was so

0:34:34.360 --> 0:34:36.480
<v Speaker 1>that was Mohamed, Thank you Mohamma for that.

0:34:40.360 --> 0:34:46.000
<v Speaker 2>Airport. Yes, I love some airport shenanigans. Right, are you

0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:51.960
<v Speaker 2>probably the Mile High Club? I'm not okay, yeah, okay, continue,

0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm not. Yeah, that that would be like how do

0:34:56.160 --> 0:34:58.800
<v Speaker 2>you make that happen in the bathroom? In the bathroom,

0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:01.279
<v Speaker 2>which I've never done, and like this was a more

0:35:01.320 --> 0:35:04.279
<v Speaker 2>of a private situation. But like I feel like those

0:35:04.320 --> 0:35:07.400
<v Speaker 2>bathrooms are too small, too small and too gross.

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:09.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the little discussed Yeah, for me, that's where I

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:11.479
<v Speaker 1>would be like this is just gross, Like I can't

0:35:11.680 --> 0:35:13.600
<v Speaker 1>like I can't get past the gross now. I just

0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>feel like I would like bust my leg. Yeah, I

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:19.960
<v Speaker 1>would run into Yeah, you get like a cramp, you

0:35:20.000 --> 0:35:23.080
<v Speaker 1>get a Charlie Hoy Charlie horse and your butt cheek

0:35:23.120 --> 0:35:26.320
<v Speaker 1>and stuff like you can have it. Yeah, yeah, unless

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:30.320
<v Speaker 1>you're on like a private plane, like fine, go for it. Okay.

0:35:32.239 --> 0:35:37.800
<v Speaker 1>Here's another letter, this from Asia. She says him, my

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.399
<v Speaker 1>rich aunties. I feel like I haven't written the two

0:35:40.440 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 1>of you in so long, but I need he writes

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 1>every week. Right, it's been a minute, okay, but yeah,

0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:48.880
<v Speaker 1>but I need advice on this situation. Is it reasonable

0:35:48.960 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 1>or shady? So everyone knows how much I love my birthday.

0:35:51.760 --> 0:35:55.240
<v Speaker 1>It's literally my favorite holiday. Hmmm, it's not a holiday,

0:35:55.280 --> 0:35:57.759
<v Speaker 1>but okay, I plan to go to Aruba way back

0:35:57.800 --> 0:36:02.200
<v Speaker 1>in August. My birthday is February. Oh so she started

0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 1>the planning in August for February birthday? Okay. I invited

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:09.440
<v Speaker 1>two of my best friends and literally on January thirtieth,

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 1>he told me he was no longer able to come

0:36:11.440 --> 0:36:14.279
<v Speaker 1>because he had to buy new tires which were three

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:17.160
<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars, and also his phone bill came out, which

0:36:17.239 --> 0:36:20.480
<v Speaker 1>was another one hundred dollars. Mind you, we were set

0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:24.560
<v Speaker 1>to board the plane to Aruba on February third. Is

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:27.239
<v Speaker 1>my friend shady for telling me a few days before

0:36:27.280 --> 0:36:30.040
<v Speaker 1>boarding the plane that he can no longer come? Is

0:36:30.120 --> 0:36:32.959
<v Speaker 1>he shady for planning to only bring four hundred dollars

0:36:33.040 --> 0:36:37.560
<v Speaker 1>to Aruba? Is he shady for literally watching all of

0:36:37.680 --> 0:36:41.560
<v Speaker 1>my stories on ig but not wishing me a happy birthday? Oh? Wow?

0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:43.600
<v Speaker 1>And last is this a boo? Is this like a

0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend her best one of her best friends? Okay? And lastly,

0:36:50.040 --> 0:36:53.399
<v Speaker 1>am I shady for cutting him completely off? Everyone's telling

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:56.279
<v Speaker 1>me that this situation can be talked or worked out,

0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:59.040
<v Speaker 1>but I'm not interested. I feel like missing my birthday

0:36:59.440 --> 0:37:07.919
<v Speaker 1>translates to you hate me, please help not you hate me. Well,

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:10.320
<v Speaker 1>if that's really her bestie, she know he should know

0:37:10.400 --> 0:37:13.399
<v Speaker 1>how important her birthday is, right, Yes, and he chose

0:37:13.480 --> 0:37:17.040
<v Speaker 1>to ignore it. Yes, so he's mad at her. So

0:37:18.000 --> 0:37:21.479
<v Speaker 1>so he had the flight, So he had a flight

0:37:21.560 --> 0:37:25.719
<v Speaker 1>already and he didn't go. That's like he's losing money

0:37:25.760 --> 0:37:28.720
<v Speaker 1>on the flight. Yeah. And then also did he commit

0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:32.399
<v Speaker 1>to like a hotel sharing a hotel room with someone? Yeah,

0:37:33.320 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe he's shady as hell. Oh, he should have been

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 1>told her he won going. He probably didn't even buy

0:37:39.239 --> 0:37:41.719
<v Speaker 1>a ticket, right, that's a good question. Did he even

0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 1>have the flight? Did he even have did he even

0:37:44.719 --> 0:37:45.480
<v Speaker 1>book the hotel?

0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:48.200
<v Speaker 2>Or did he like so that Yes, he's totally shady,

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:50.040
<v Speaker 2>And for me, I feel like, so, I don't know

0:37:50.200 --> 0:37:51.880
<v Speaker 2>how old as he is, but she's probably at the

0:37:51.920 --> 0:37:53.400
<v Speaker 2>age where it's like now it's the time to like

0:37:53.480 --> 0:37:56.239
<v Speaker 2>figure out like traveling friends, because traveling friends are not

0:37:56.360 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 2>always like your regular friend. You're regular friends, So figure

0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:02.600
<v Speaker 2>that out. Yeah, you can't travel with everybody.

0:38:02.280 --> 0:38:04.319
<v Speaker 1>That's true. So maybe it's like Okay, don't cut him

0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:07.719
<v Speaker 1>off just because of that, because he maybe, yes, he

0:38:07.800 --> 0:38:09.919
<v Speaker 1>might be your best friend, but he's not a good

0:38:10.000 --> 0:38:11.520
<v Speaker 1>traveling friend. And that's okay.

0:38:11.920 --> 0:38:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, because people who travel, you know, you gotta

0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:18.240
<v Speaker 2>you gotta be down for whatever.

0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, not down for whatever, but you gotta be flexible,

0:38:21.360 --> 0:38:26.399
<v Speaker 1>right and honest. Yeah, and that's rare. You can't really

0:38:26.440 --> 0:38:28.440
<v Speaker 1>find out out here in these streets. Yeah. Yeah, So

0:38:28.719 --> 0:38:31.719
<v Speaker 1>so Asia, I would say, give him the benefit of

0:38:31.800 --> 0:38:35.200
<v Speaker 1>the doubts. You know, maybe traveling is not one of

0:38:35.280 --> 0:38:38.200
<v Speaker 1>his strong points, but hopefully he can still be a

0:38:38.280 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 1>good friend to you at home. However, the part that

0:38:40.600 --> 0:38:43.120
<v Speaker 1>is up, like he watched all her stories but didn't

0:38:43.120 --> 0:38:44.120
<v Speaker 1>wish her happy birthday.

0:38:44.239 --> 0:38:46.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean he didn't dispect that he didn't wish

0:38:46.360 --> 0:38:49.279
<v Speaker 2>her happy birthday and forget to watch like you didn't

0:38:49.360 --> 0:38:51.840
<v Speaker 2>say happy birthday? Like that's fed up, And we're not

0:38:51.880 --> 0:38:54.040
<v Speaker 2>gonna judge how much money he was going to take

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:56.319
<v Speaker 2>to Aruba, Like yeah, if you could rock out them

0:38:56.320 --> 0:38:57.920
<v Speaker 2>four hundred dollars rock out right.

0:38:58.160 --> 0:39:02.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I'm one under If Asia cust him out,

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you know what I'm saying. Like, so that's

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:07.719
<v Speaker 1>why he didn't wish her happy birthday. Yeah, yeah, that's

0:39:07.880 --> 0:39:13.359
<v Speaker 1>far happened. Yeah. You see, you're not telling all the facts, ma'am. Yeah. Yeah,

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:16.320
<v Speaker 1>So give him the benefit of the doubt. He doesn't

0:39:16.360 --> 0:39:19.880
<v Speaker 1>have to travel. That's not the end of the world. However,

0:39:20.040 --> 0:39:22.560
<v Speaker 1>not wishing your happy birthday is not okay. But did

0:39:22.600 --> 0:39:25.799
<v Speaker 1>you cuss him out first? She did? Yes, All right,

0:39:26.200 --> 0:39:28.440
<v Speaker 1>there we go. We have Oh my god, all right,

0:39:28.960 --> 0:39:32.879
<v Speaker 1>we are one more. This is like an advice letter. Okay,

0:39:32.920 --> 0:39:35.520
<v Speaker 1>this is from Patrick Hi. Patrick Hi, Patrick, He says,

0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:39.080
<v Speaker 1>hages Ellen Robin fans of the podcast for years. But

0:39:39.280 --> 0:39:41.919
<v Speaker 1>let me get to this. I'm getting married on March

0:39:42.000 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 1>fifteenth to my fiance Does. So. I'm sorry, I think

0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:46.160
<v Speaker 1>we're a little late with this, but you know, this

0:39:46.280 --> 0:39:50.000
<v Speaker 1>is still a scenario to talk about. Congratulations Patrick and Does.

0:39:51.000 --> 0:39:53.399
<v Speaker 1>Over the past month, we've been getting lots of calls

0:39:53.440 --> 0:39:55.800
<v Speaker 1>and text with questions like what day is the wedding?

0:39:56.680 --> 0:40:00.120
<v Speaker 1>Or I never got an invitation? What right even know?

0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:04.160
<v Speaker 1>We sent them out, sent them out back in October. Okay.

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:09.320
<v Speaker 1>We also included a color palette in the invitation and

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:13.799
<v Speaker 1>on our wedding website. But now people are reaching out

0:40:13.880 --> 0:40:17.319
<v Speaker 1>saying they can't find an outfit in those colors. What's

0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:22.479
<v Speaker 1>the color palette? Did you say it's right here? What? Okay,

0:40:22.520 --> 0:40:25.680
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna hold this up the hell? So this is?

0:40:26.080 --> 0:40:30.320
<v Speaker 2>This is beige to a peach to maybe this isn't

0:40:30.360 --> 0:40:34.719
<v Speaker 2>print it right? Maybe to another light green, to a

0:40:34.800 --> 0:40:35.319
<v Speaker 2>dark green.

0:40:35.480 --> 0:40:38.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I can't find anything in it either. Okay, I'm

0:40:38.520 --> 0:40:41.239
<v Speaker 1>just saying to tell you it's a mass. I will

0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:44.719
<v Speaker 1>go for gold, find something gold maybe, yeah, gold? Or

0:40:45.000 --> 0:40:47.560
<v Speaker 1>but this is cream, this is creamy. This is cream

0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:51.880
<v Speaker 1>and beige. Yeah, this is a mess. But Patrick, Patrick,

0:40:51.880 --> 0:40:57.719
<v Speaker 1>you're wrong for this. But okay, okay, okay. As the

0:40:57.760 --> 0:41:01.719
<v Speaker 1>big day gets closer, it's becoming a bit overwhelming. Did

0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:04.520
<v Speaker 1>you guys experience anything like this when you got married?

0:41:04.719 --> 0:41:06.759
<v Speaker 1>How did you handle it? I'm planning to send out

0:41:06.800 --> 0:41:09.200
<v Speaker 1>a mass text next week as a reminder, but any

0:41:09.239 --> 0:41:13.080
<v Speaker 1>advice would be so appreciated. Oh, so here's our wedding website.

0:41:16.200 --> 0:41:18.080
<v Speaker 1>What does he want us to do on this wedding website?

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:21.120
<v Speaker 1>Just send again together and yes, we still have some

0:41:21.280 --> 0:41:26.040
<v Speaker 1>things left on our registry check. You're wrong for this, okay,

0:41:26.400 --> 0:41:29.160
<v Speaker 1>So so congratulations once again. Sorry we are late with

0:41:29.280 --> 0:41:31.680
<v Speaker 1>this advice. But I think this is good, a good

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:34.959
<v Speaker 1>question because this is wedding season and you know stuff

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:39.000
<v Speaker 1>like this will happen. First of all, a color You

0:41:39.640 --> 0:41:42.120
<v Speaker 1>sent a color palette to your guests and said, where's

0:41:42.160 --> 0:41:45.120
<v Speaker 1>something in this color? But that's not that's not rare

0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:47.560
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of people they have black weddings. Every

0:41:47.680 --> 0:41:50.879
<v Speaker 1>where's black. They have white weddings thereby, where's white. I'm

0:41:50.920 --> 0:41:52.960
<v Speaker 1>not mad at that, Oh really, okay, I'm mad at

0:41:53.000 --> 0:41:55.600
<v Speaker 1>the choicest I'm ad the what we we're here to

0:41:55.719 --> 0:41:58.520
<v Speaker 1>choose from. Okay, okay, okay, okay. So you don't so

0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:02.760
<v Speaker 1>you think the color palette is and limiting. It's it's strange.

0:42:03.239 --> 0:42:06.560
<v Speaker 2>So and I'm not mad that also because when you're

0:42:06.640 --> 0:42:09.839
<v Speaker 2>when you look back at the pictures, it's esthetically looking red.

0:42:10.000 --> 0:42:11.840
<v Speaker 1>They look nice. Yeah right, I get that. Okay, I

0:42:11.920 --> 0:42:14.760
<v Speaker 1>get the vision. See I could you can find something

0:42:15.000 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 1>nice and green?

0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean I have a bunch of green just because like, yeah,

0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:21.200
<v Speaker 2>this is I mean, if you're a man, it's screwed.

0:42:21.600 --> 0:42:26.239
<v Speaker 1>Yes, like a man has to get like a custom something. Yes,

0:42:26.560 --> 0:42:28.480
<v Speaker 1>that's true. I mean they could go to suit Supply

0:42:28.560 --> 0:42:30.440
<v Speaker 1>they can find something nice and suit supply, But I

0:42:30.520 --> 0:42:34.920
<v Speaker 1>also think it's I do. I do think it's unfair

0:42:35.000 --> 0:42:38.080
<v Speaker 1>to expect people to spend money on an outfit. So

0:42:38.120 --> 0:42:40.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like, if I don't have it in my closet,

0:42:40.800 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't feel required or forced to purchase something. Yeah,

0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:47.400
<v Speaker 1>so I do think that's a little unfair and maybe

0:42:47.640 --> 0:42:50.359
<v Speaker 1>too much to expect from somebody, especially when the color

0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:55.200
<v Speaker 1>palette is like this. Now, if the color palette was black, black, white, gray,

0:42:55.360 --> 0:42:59.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Yeah, yeah, that's normal colors or before

0:43:00.840 --> 0:43:03.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah for these colors, I mean, yeah, some people might

0:43:03.480 --> 0:43:04.439
<v Speaker 1>not want to spend the money.

0:43:04.840 --> 0:43:08.239
<v Speaker 2>This is my issue because he asks, does any of

0:43:08.320 --> 0:43:09.080
<v Speaker 2>this ever happen to us?

0:43:09.320 --> 0:43:12.200
<v Speaker 1>Nobody asked me about the date. Once you send out

0:43:12.239 --> 0:43:14.719
<v Speaker 1>the invitation, everybody has the date. Why nobody calling me

0:43:14.760 --> 0:43:16.040
<v Speaker 1>talk about what's the date? Again?

0:43:16.520 --> 0:43:18.920
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, lose the invitation if you can't. So

0:43:19.400 --> 0:43:22.040
<v Speaker 2>my question, did you really send out invitation?

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:25.239
<v Speaker 1>Well? Did you? What kind of invitations did you send? Yes?

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:32.759
<v Speaker 1>Because I can't stand receiving evite invitations, you know what

0:43:32.800 --> 0:43:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean? Like I get a text message yeah with

0:43:35.200 --> 0:43:39.040
<v Speaker 1>an invitation? Why? I don't know. For whatever reason, it's

0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:41.040
<v Speaker 1>hard for me to keep track of Like I like

0:43:41.160 --> 0:43:42.960
<v Speaker 1>to look at something, I like to have something in

0:43:43.080 --> 0:43:46.239
<v Speaker 1>my hands, and so I feel like people should do both.

0:43:46.320 --> 0:43:49.800
<v Speaker 1>I understand the convenience of it, and a lot of

0:43:49.840 --> 0:43:52.680
<v Speaker 1>people do it now, but I do feel like it

0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:55.959
<v Speaker 1>doesn't stick as much in my mind when I don't

0:43:56.000 --> 0:43:59.400
<v Speaker 1>get like the paper invitation got it. I agree with that,

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:02.759
<v Speaker 1>So I wonder what type of invitations you sent, and

0:44:02.920 --> 0:44:05.800
<v Speaker 1>especially like who are these people? Like, Okay, if you

0:44:05.920 --> 0:44:09.400
<v Speaker 1>sent digital invitations to older people.

0:44:09.440 --> 0:44:12.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah they don't know, right, Yeah, they got a hard

0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:14.839
<v Speaker 2>time getting up in the morning. Yeah right, but they

0:44:14.960 --> 0:44:15.560
<v Speaker 2>might have missed it.

0:44:15.719 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 1>They might have you know, I don't know. So that

0:44:18.400 --> 0:44:21.560
<v Speaker 1>scenario I think is I have more questions for that.

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:26.440
<v Speaker 2>But any wedding it's gonna be drama, yeah, period, any events.

0:44:26.680 --> 0:44:28.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of what kind of issues did

0:44:28.800 --> 0:44:32.719
<v Speaker 1>I experience at my wedding. I feel like, I mean,

0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:36.239
<v Speaker 1>I got married twenty over twenty years ago, and like

0:44:36.400 --> 0:44:39.160
<v Speaker 1>things are just so different. Everything was just much more traditional.

0:44:39.280 --> 0:44:43.200
<v Speaker 1>We weren't inviting people by evites now. Everything was like

0:44:43.640 --> 0:44:45.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, you send it in, send back the RSVP.

0:44:46.440 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 1>It was very like done the right way totally. So

0:44:50.640 --> 0:44:52.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I had like a bunch of nonsense.

0:44:52.560 --> 0:44:55.800
<v Speaker 1>I will definitely say because one was in the NBA,

0:44:56.680 --> 0:44:59.360
<v Speaker 1>most of my guests did not bring a gift. What

0:45:00.080 --> 0:45:00.520
<v Speaker 1>what do you mean?

0:45:00.640 --> 0:45:02.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh, because they felt like y'all had it already. Yuess

0:45:02.800 --> 0:45:05.920
<v Speaker 2>so well did he did he invite NBA players.

0:45:06.080 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 1>Like up a few? But yeah, okay, yeah yeah they did.

0:45:09.760 --> 0:45:11.480
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just saying, like, okay, let me let me

0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:15.359
<v Speaker 1>take you back. Most of the people on my side

0:45:15.520 --> 0:45:24.840
<v Speaker 1>brought againt. Wand's family decided to come on one side

0:45:25.560 --> 0:45:27.880
<v Speaker 1>like it's it's like immediate family, yes, but then it

0:45:28.040 --> 0:45:32.120
<v Speaker 1>is like the all the friends extended cousins.

0:45:31.840 --> 0:45:37.080
<v Speaker 2>As like hilarious. You know how you don't like celebrating

0:45:37.120 --> 0:45:41.360
<v Speaker 2>your birthday, Yes, I don't care. I definitely want to

0:45:41.360 --> 0:45:44.560
<v Speaker 2>celebrate my birthday, but I don't care about gifts from

0:45:45.520 --> 0:45:46.520
<v Speaker 2>a situation like that.

0:45:46.719 --> 0:45:48.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah yeah. I also people get like hung up with,

0:45:48.840 --> 0:45:51.399
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, he bring me no gift. I don't

0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:54.279
<v Speaker 1>give a damn me neither. I never have. Yeah, I

0:45:54.360 --> 0:45:58.920
<v Speaker 1>think someone's presence is the gift, like you spent time

0:45:59.080 --> 0:46:03.279
<v Speaker 1>to like come here ever, or yeah, your presence is

0:46:03.320 --> 0:46:04.279
<v Speaker 1>the gift. Yeah for sure.

0:46:04.840 --> 0:46:07.759
<v Speaker 2>So I might not bring one because I don't care

0:46:07.800 --> 0:46:12.200
<v Speaker 2>about that. Yeah, right, so, but I do I try

0:46:12.239 --> 0:46:13.160
<v Speaker 2>to get people gifts.

0:46:13.280 --> 0:46:15.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but then and then usually it's like when you're

0:46:15.760 --> 0:46:18.200
<v Speaker 1>bringing when you're getting gifts for people who aren't like

0:46:18.320 --> 0:46:21.799
<v Speaker 1>really in your immediate household, you really are getting them

0:46:21.840 --> 0:46:25.719
<v Speaker 1>something that's just like fluff kind of like yeah, well

0:46:25.760 --> 0:46:28.680
<v Speaker 1>unless they have a registry, Oh that's stuff that they need.

0:46:29.280 --> 0:46:31.520
<v Speaker 1>I would just own a blender or two, right, or

0:46:31.680 --> 0:46:34.200
<v Speaker 1>what is your thing? A juicer or eight hundred dollars juicer?

0:46:34.400 --> 0:46:37.440
<v Speaker 1>Are you still using your juice? Really? Yes? I am

0:46:37.680 --> 0:46:41.279
<v Speaker 1>not not on the daily, okay, but yes I am. Okay,

0:46:41.400 --> 0:46:46.520
<v Speaker 1>what's your best combo? I like a carrot, apple and

0:46:46.640 --> 0:46:51.000
<v Speaker 1>ginger okay, and then apple and I like orange pineapple

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:54.440
<v Speaker 1>and ginger. Are no bananas? Oh no, you can't use bananas. No,

0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:56.400
<v Speaker 1>but it has a smoothie attachment. So I could do

0:46:56.480 --> 0:46:58.400
<v Speaker 1>like a smoothie, but I haven't done that yet. And

0:46:58.480 --> 0:47:00.480
<v Speaker 1>then I'll do like a green so and then I'll

0:47:00.520 --> 0:47:05.759
<v Speaker 1>do like a green apple. Cucumber situation. Gender, I put

0:47:05.800 --> 0:47:11.520
<v Speaker 1>gender in like everything, Yeah, okay, I love the cucumbers. Yeah.

0:47:11.880 --> 0:47:14.600
<v Speaker 1>And then it tried like a bunch of like liquid.

0:47:15.600 --> 0:47:22.160
<v Speaker 1>The cucumbers have a lot of Yes, no watermelon. I'll

0:47:22.160 --> 0:47:25.719
<v Speaker 1>wait till the summertime, like till the watermelons are good. Okay,

0:47:26.000 --> 0:47:27.799
<v Speaker 1>very good. I'm just glad you're still using it. Yeah.

0:47:27.880 --> 0:47:30.920
<v Speaker 1>What about that peloton of yours? Oh yeah, that thing

0:47:31.080 --> 0:47:39.040
<v Speaker 1>is dusty. Yeah, probably needs to be oiled. People stopped. Yeah,

0:47:39.200 --> 0:47:41.239
<v Speaker 1>well I don't know that to be the true case,

0:47:41.280 --> 0:47:44.520
<v Speaker 1>but anybody that I know what a peloton and using it. Yeah,

0:47:44.840 --> 0:47:48.600
<v Speaker 1>well so one one thing nowadays, I don't know if

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:52.240
<v Speaker 1>you see this, but like all of the fitness advice

0:47:52.400 --> 0:47:56.600
<v Speaker 1>that I see now is like that extreme cardio is

0:47:56.719 --> 0:47:59.839
<v Speaker 1>not the best for people like forty and over. Oh why,

0:48:00.600 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know something about our raises, our quarterzo levels

0:48:03.200 --> 0:48:05.359
<v Speaker 1>and blah blah blah ah. This they say like more

0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:08.239
<v Speaker 1>like steady state, like walking on an incline. It's like

0:48:08.840 --> 0:48:13.320
<v Speaker 1>better than doing like hardcore cardio and then strength strength training.

0:48:13.800 --> 0:48:15.520
<v Speaker 1>So like that's one reason why I'm like not really

0:48:15.640 --> 0:48:16.759
<v Speaker 1>like focusing on it like that.

0:48:17.400 --> 0:48:21.439
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, the other thing, it's just yeah, so there's

0:48:21.480 --> 0:48:24.880
<v Speaker 2>this suit that you can put on that like pulsates

0:48:24.960 --> 0:48:25.600
<v Speaker 2>your muscles.

0:48:26.800 --> 0:48:28.560
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of expensive. I'm thinking about getting it.

0:48:28.600 --> 0:48:29.960
<v Speaker 2>So I have know somebody that has it, and I

0:48:30.160 --> 0:48:32.120
<v Speaker 2>just want her to like use it for a little

0:48:32.160 --> 0:48:34.319
<v Speaker 2>while before I'm convinced that I need to spend twenty

0:48:34.320 --> 0:48:36.120
<v Speaker 2>five hundred dolls on something that I might have only

0:48:36.239 --> 0:48:36.640
<v Speaker 2>used once.

0:48:36.840 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 1>What so I mean it is? But your mouth is open,

0:48:40.239 --> 0:48:42.280
<v Speaker 1>like you didn't spend twenty five hundreds on your juice?

0:48:42.719 --> 0:48:45.440
<v Speaker 1>Like stop, but what do you mean? The suit pulsates

0:48:45.480 --> 0:48:47.640
<v Speaker 1>your muscles and then what happens? So you look it

0:48:47.680 --> 0:48:48.279
<v Speaker 1>up to an app?

0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:52.360
<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's like, for instance, crunches. It gives you, like

0:48:52.640 --> 0:48:55.680
<v Speaker 2>in twenty minutes, like a thousand crunches to your stomach,

0:48:55.800 --> 0:48:56.799
<v Speaker 2>like you you just.

0:48:58.480 --> 0:49:01.520
<v Speaker 1>So like your arms, you it's a whole body. Okay.

0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:07.080
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, you follow the app and you look amazing

0:49:07.160 --> 0:49:09.959
<v Speaker 2>after you take it, ok I think, So, you don't

0:49:10.000 --> 0:49:12.520
<v Speaker 2>know if it works. So I checked in with my

0:49:12.600 --> 0:49:15.040
<v Speaker 2>girlfriend who has had it for like a month or

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:18.880
<v Speaker 2>so as a follow up, and she was like, she

0:49:19.080 --> 0:49:21.840
<v Speaker 2>loves it. Okay, I just need to give it a

0:49:21.880 --> 0:49:24.839
<v Speaker 2>little bit more time with her and then I'll jump

0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:26.640
<v Speaker 2>out there. Because you have to get measured for it.

0:49:27.080 --> 0:49:29.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, you have to give your measures. Yeah, you

0:49:29.120 --> 0:49:31.279
<v Speaker 2>get to give you because it's a whole full body suit.

0:49:31.480 --> 0:49:35.000
<v Speaker 1>What is it called? She told me. I forgot, but

0:49:36.680 --> 0:49:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I think I think I might get it because you know,

0:49:38.280 --> 0:49:39.680
<v Speaker 1>you could be in your house and work it out.

0:49:39.800 --> 0:49:42.080
<v Speaker 1>You can be in your house chilling, just like building

0:49:42.200 --> 0:49:46.520
<v Speaker 1>muscle tone, like it's definition. Okay, yeah, you feeling it

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:50.520
<v Speaker 1>as you want it now. I'm curious. I mean because

0:49:50.640 --> 0:49:55.000
<v Speaker 1>three minutes ago you was like, what if it works,

0:49:56.239 --> 0:49:57.600
<v Speaker 1>I'll be the get you know.

0:49:57.880 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, but I need I just need to make

0:50:00.719 --> 0:50:02.640
<v Speaker 2>sure because you have to go through a whole You

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:05.200
<v Speaker 2>got to get the measurements. It takes, like, you know,

0:50:05.360 --> 0:50:07.839
<v Speaker 2>weeks for you to get it because they got to make.

0:50:07.800 --> 0:50:11.239
<v Speaker 1>It all that. I've never heard of this. Yeah. Ever,

0:50:11.480 --> 0:50:15.240
<v Speaker 1>it's a Los Angeles it's a West Coast thing. Okay, okay,

0:50:16.000 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 1>but I think it'd be great for people our age.

0:50:19.280 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I said our age. I just threw you in mind.

0:50:21.560 --> 0:50:25.880
<v Speaker 1>In my decade, I'll mean there soon. Yes, all right,

0:50:25.920 --> 0:50:27.640
<v Speaker 1>we're out of here. Guys. We love y'all so much.

0:50:27.680 --> 0:50:30.200
<v Speaker 1>You'll never forget to live your life. Either Reasonable Oh Sugar,

0:50:30.520 --> 0:50:39.920
<v Speaker 1>or both. By Reasonably Shady is a production of the

0:50:40.080 --> 0:50:44.919
<v Speaker 1>Black Effect podcast Network. For more podcasts, from iHeartRadio, visit

0:50:45.000 --> 0:50:48.440
<v Speaker 1>the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you listen to

0:50:48.520 --> 0:50:51.239
<v Speaker 1>your favorite shows, and you can connect with us on

0:50:51.360 --> 0:50:56.080
<v Speaker 1>social media at Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant and reasonably

0:50:56.560 --> 0:51:01.720
<v Speaker 1>Shady stated