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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am

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Speaker 2: Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: being here with us. What's again? This is what we do.

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Speaker 1: This is how we do it. Book it up, book

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Speaker 1: it up. Boo yanna yanna ya yana. Yeah, okay, clearly

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Speaker 1: we have too much time on our hands. Oh my gosh. Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, we're just all that they're here. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 1: we totally and they keep coming, yes, which which we love. Yes,

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Speaker 1: So see you guys.

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Speaker 2: Life is good, All is well, All is great. Yes,

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Speaker 2: what's what's popping? What's your shady moment?

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Speaker 1: Oh? So this this is just I've had enough. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's just just this kind of a statement, like or

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Speaker 1: like waking kids up in the morning, shady, shady, and

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Speaker 1: I'm sick of it. I'm so sick of it. So

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Speaker 1: do they have an alarm? They do, and they don't

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Speaker 1: hear it. Okay, so then you have to go get them. Yes,

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Speaker 1: But actually I enjoyed that.

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed waking my kids up and like kissing on

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Speaker 2: them because they were half sleep and they couldn't tell

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Speaker 2: me get off.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, see I don't. It's first of all,

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Speaker 1: like I'm barely awake. You know, you're already like I've

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Speaker 1: been doing my thing. Yeah, So just imagine being like

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm struggling to get out of the bed, and

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Speaker 1: then I got to come in your room and be like,

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Speaker 1: wake up, wake up, wake up, get up, get up,

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Speaker 1: let's go wake up, wake up. Like maybe you should

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Speaker 1: have a different approach. I want to get like an

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Speaker 1: airhorn maybe yeah, be on your phone, oh oh yeah

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Speaker 1: maybe and just sent that thing off. But it's so crazy.

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Speaker 1: Carter has like three alarm set and and he still

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Speaker 1: don't get out, and he sleeps through him. And then

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Speaker 1: I'll call him on his phone and then I'll call

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Speaker 1: him and bring and ring AM I am I And

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Speaker 1: he has it's like loud. I can hear the phone

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Speaker 1: ringing from my room, you know what I mean. And

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Speaker 1: he through he's sleeping through it. That's funny. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: wake up. Oh my gosh, I can't wait until school

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Speaker 1: is just over like this, like this guy drives me up.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, so how long does it take? I

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Speaker 1: mean it's a good ten minute process. Okay, that's not

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Speaker 1: that bad. But it's both to him. Who's better Card

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Speaker 1: Carter Corey? I get up Corey. Corey is better Okay,

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Speaker 1: so he'll get up and gets get motivated. I mean

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Speaker 1: he's still not good, but it's better. He's like Carter

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Speaker 1: is like, I'm like, I don't know how you're sleeping

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Speaker 1: through all of this. It's crazy. So I'm like, if

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Speaker 1: anyone has any and I don't want to have to

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Speaker 1: like pour water on him and like stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, that's called waterboarding. I think his mouth

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Speaker 1: and his waterboarding not doing that, okay, but if anybody

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Speaker 1: has any tips, I don't know. Yeah, I'm thinking of

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Speaker 1: air horn. Might be the the air hoorn which is

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Speaker 1: on your phone.

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Speaker 2: It's like I think one of your like ring tone,

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Speaker 2: yes and who or you can probably even downloaded or

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Speaker 2: like YouTube it or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's a lot. What about wand he seems

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Speaker 1: like he pops up? He can pop up yeaeah. But

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Speaker 1: it's like, so since we take turns taking them school,

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Speaker 1: like Carter goes to school earlier, so he wakes up earlier.

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Speaker 1: So like on the days that I have to wake

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Speaker 1: Carter up. It's like, you know, make Wan do it

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Speaker 1: all the time. I know, but then there's no point

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Speaker 1: in like taking turns right, stop, stop, decade turns at

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Speaker 1: my point, I know. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I was out and about in the streets. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that my shady moment, and I met some guy that

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Speaker 2: I do know, I mean not, This wasn't like the

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Speaker 2: first time I spoken to him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, just give it perspective. So somewhere in the conversation

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Speaker 1: he says to me like, and I've never heard the

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Speaker 1: guy has never asked me this. Okay, So he was

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Speaker 1: like some So, so he's like, well, just out does

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Speaker 1: your vagina work? What? I was like, what the what

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Speaker 1: does your question work? But sometimes their penises don't work?

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Speaker 1: So but vagina's work? All right? How does it work?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what that means.

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Speaker 2: I'm so like, undone is this person asking you this question?

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Speaker 2: Me doesn't even matter? But he asked me did my

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Speaker 2: vagina work? And I was like, uh, for the rest

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Speaker 1: What else was the conversation about? I was like, how

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Speaker 1: do you? It was?

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Speaker 2: It was going on in the conversation, and then I'd

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Speaker 2: have been a lot of drinks. But anyway, he asked me, doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Work and didn't. It didn't make me feel like I

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Speaker 1: needed to let him see, right? Was he like trying

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Speaker 1: to find out clearly everybody?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I went crazy, but yeah, but I

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Speaker 2: I made a mental note actually because I said to myself,

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Speaker 2: no one's ever asked me this, and people need to

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Speaker 2: know that you should not be asking women does their

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Speaker 2: vagina work?

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Speaker 1: Right? But it's like, what kind of encounters has he

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Speaker 1: had that he that's even a question? It was It

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Speaker 1: was more alina joke. I think my ninety seven year

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Speaker 1: old grandmother on her death been vagina work. Maybe not.

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Speaker 2: I think it might be ninety seven drives. When do

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Speaker 2: you when do you think you'll not want to? Like

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Speaker 2: like you'll not care like I decided like if I

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Speaker 2: got married tomorrow right at seventy five, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't care who you sleep with, okay, like totally like

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Speaker 1: have added player? Okay, is there a number for you?

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Speaker 1: I've never really thought about that. So you're saying not

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Speaker 1: care meaning like yeah, my shop is closed, like go

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Speaker 1: do what you want. No, not, my shop is closed.

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Speaker 2: I still have sex with you, but like I don't

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Speaker 2: care if you're out there doing other things. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: can't see that angering me. I wouldn't probably wouldn't give

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Speaker 2: a shit, have at it. M.

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Speaker 1: I think it's so like you're I think it's hard

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Speaker 1: to pick a number because like you're seventy five, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: could be different than someone else's seventy five, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like there's some seventy five year olds

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Speaker 1: that are really decrepit, right, No, I'm and then there's

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Speaker 1: gonna be decresed. No, you're not, I'm saying, And then

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Speaker 1: you could be a seventy five year old that like

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Speaker 1: looks better than most fifty year olds or it's more

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Speaker 1: like active and totally.

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Speaker 2: But do I feel like being responsible for your sexual

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Speaker 2: pleasure right on a regular basis?

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Speaker 1: I want to. I want to like farm it out, yeah,

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Speaker 1: to others. I want to have, you know, go go

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Speaker 1: find others. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think seventy five is a good enough not

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Speaker 2: eight eighty is like too old. Yeah, seventy five is

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Speaker 1: Let's say he's okay, wait a minute, So if I'm

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Speaker 1: seventy five and he's like sixty two, oh yeah yeah

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Speaker 1: yeah he's living Levita Loca. Yeah yeah, So and then

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Speaker 1: he's going to bring back a STD. That part, well,

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Speaker 1: do you know that STD's run rampant in old nursing

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Speaker 1: homes retirement homes? Yes, because they're all like, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: this this time station went left. So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I say, well, okay, so it depends on

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Speaker 2: I'll revisit when I'm seventy five.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but as of.

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Speaker 2: Right now, my fifty some year old self says, listen, yes,

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Speaker 2: if you with me at seventy five, you can have

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Speaker 2: sex with whoever you want to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So they have to forward to Yeah, I can't

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Speaker 1: wait until she turned seventy five, and then you can

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Speaker 1: go for broke.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hand on your business line. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: nothing about it. Yeah, I don't want to know nothing

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Speaker 2: about it. Okay, just go do what you want to do.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and maybe in reverse, maybe I can, you know,

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Speaker 2: pick up a hot strapping twenty years there you go, Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, seventy five is getting is getting good?

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Speaker 1: Look good to me? What is wrong with me? I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I don't like how was that even a

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Speaker 1: thought process? Like, I don't know, listen, so I for

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Speaker 1: got to tell you all that. Are you telling me

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Speaker 1: you could imagine or envision getting married again, I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying that, but okay, I could be definitely in a

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Speaker 1: committed relationship for sure.

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Speaker 2: Okay, And yeah, whoever that guy is, listen when I'm

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Speaker 2: seventy five, you like on my birthday, like, go for it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm done, even seventy four like I'm done, Like I

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Speaker 2: don't want to do with this anymore.

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Speaker 1: But but seventy four it's a deal breaker. Seventy four

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Speaker 1: is a deil breaker. Seventy five have at it? Play, okay,

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Speaker 1: have at it? Yes, Okay, I love that you have

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Speaker 1: this planned out. Yeah I did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and you have no number eighty I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: eighty for sure. I want to know from women like

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Speaker 2: when Yes, that's a good question.

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Speaker 1: I just think that's so hard for me to predict

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Speaker 1: because I don't know where I'm gonna, like, what my

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Speaker 1: life is going to look like at that time. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But but Robin, I've had sex with men who are like,

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Speaker 1: who were very potent, I should say, and who could

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Speaker 1: go hours and hours.

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Speaker 2: Oh and at that point I wanted to find a

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Speaker 2: woman that could take over over it. So I mean

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Speaker 2: it's that so these thoughts go through my mind.

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Speaker 1: God is my point? Okay, yeah, okay, well yeah, so

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Speaker 1: that's all like depends on the scenario. Yeah, you know what,

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Speaker 1: So women, if y'all you're saying that when you're seventy four,

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Speaker 1: you're all right with you know, if if the guy

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Speaker 1: wants to go forever and forever, yeah, to go find

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Speaker 1: somebody else to go finish them off. No, like you

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Speaker 1: this gotta hold on. I would not be in a

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Speaker 1: committed relationship with a man that's going, Yeah, it's like

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Speaker 1: taking something to do that, like some horse lion maine tail,

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Speaker 1: which I'm not mad at. I'm not at fifty something.

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Speaker 1: I'm not mad at that seven listened.

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Speaker 2: Seventy is the is the year that I'm like, look

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Speaker 2: at here, ok this has got to be lasting eighteen

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Speaker 2: minutes and I'm done eighteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: Okay? Is that a long time? I think so when

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Speaker 1: you're seventy, oh my god, okay, that's not eighteen it's

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Speaker 1: good like every day, how often we eighteen minutes?

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Speaker 2: Every other day? Whoa, no, twelve minutes? Hey, you can't

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Speaker 2: get me three pumps and you're done.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm sorry. Minute twelve minutes. Twelve minutes is a

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Speaker 1: long time.

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Speaker 2: Seventy Okay, listen, I want somebody seventy to write in

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Speaker 2: and say and let us know what we do it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what we're doing at seventy. I want that, And I

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Speaker 2: want to know, like, are women understanding what I'm saying? Like,

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Speaker 2: there's got to be a point in life where you're

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Speaker 2: just like, I don't give a damn what you do,

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Speaker 2: especially if you've been with I mean you've.

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Speaker 1: Been with Wine forever. I'm sure like tomorrow you might

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Speaker 1: not give a damn. I mean, there's there are right

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Speaker 1: right tomorrow, wan have at it, right, There's there are

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Speaker 1: other housewives that I've been around that you know if

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Speaker 2: So last week we talked about White Lotus, and I

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Speaker 2: Woo Okay, Okay, it's probably gonna cost all your money, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: back and forth to La Okay, I watched that was

428
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 2: my thing. I was binging, Okay, I enjoyed it. Yeah yeah, okay,

429
00:22:58,880 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: what else watching?

430
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 1: I think? Are just I was watching The Resident, I

431
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: mean not the Resident, the night Agent, the the recruit,

432
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 1: the tourists, the tourist uh huh okay, the I already

433
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: said I i've't even talked about this early podcast. Yeah,

434
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 1: I'm still watching all these and then this is ridiculous.

435
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 1: I want to start watching White Lotus. Yeah yeah, so

436
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:23,680
Speaker 1: but right now I'm like, I think I'm going to

437
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 1: commit to Paradise and finish it. Okay, good, And then

438
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: of course like Traders was like in there too.

439
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:39,120
Speaker 2: Yes, and then you watched Potomac just kidding, you could

440
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 2: have watched okay to be told that that last episode yeah,

441
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 2: last episode of the reunion.

442
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 1: Yes, just freaking hilarious. Yeah. I haven't seen it. I

443
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,360
Speaker 1: mean I've seen like clips, I see clips. I feel

444
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 1: like I see the clips, I see the Church. Yeah okay, yeah,

445
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: yeah no, but I saw like there was a ton

446
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: of positive praise for it. So that's awesome that you

447
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 1: guys ended on a positive high note where people were like,

448
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 1: you know, entertain another excited for what's to come. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

449
00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 1: we shall see. Yeah, okay.

450
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 2: So I am watching most of those things, and god,

451
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 2: there was something else I wanted to of course. Oh

452
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 2: nineteen twenty three, that's back on.

453
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,439
Speaker 1: I don't know that. So you didn't watch Yellstone. Uh?

454
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,959
Speaker 1: And so Yellstone has eighteen eighty three. I think it's

455
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: eighteen eighty. Oh. I'm also watching Reacher. Okay, the hell

456
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 1: is that Reacher? That's like he's like a former army

457
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:41,400
Speaker 1: guy turned like vigilante that like kills people. Okay, yeah,

458
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: that's like season three. I love Reacher. Okay, okay, And

459
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty three is back on so in. Harrison Ford

460
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,719
Speaker 1: is in it, Helen Marin is in it. Ford how

461
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: old is he?

462
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,640
Speaker 2: He's he's still and he's still kicking and doing amazing

463
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 2: wow on the screen because he was in You never

464
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 2: saw Shrinking. You need to watch Drinking. It's good, it's funny. Okay,

465
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm I'm locked into nineteen twenty three. Okay,

466
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 2: locked in, Okay, okay, nineteen twenty three. Okay, I'm gonna

467
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 2: add that to my list. I'm Shrinking.

468
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: So will you also add Love and Hip Hop Atlanta? No, No,

469
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 1: because that's that's my show. So that's on right now.

470
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: It's on, It's on Prime.

471
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: Listen Crime, It's It's so they're no longer on VH one. No, Oh,

472
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 2: that's been that's they've been off VH one. Oh, it's

473
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 2: on Prime because I think there's they're under MTV, which

474
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 2: I think is under that maybe really Yeah, And I

475
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: saw Yandy at in La.

476
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: I forgot to tell her.

477
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 2: I wanted to tell her because I kind of stalked

478
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 2: people that I like. So Pea Valley, Yeah, you don't

479
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 2: know the Tyler guy, but Pea Valley. There's a girl

480
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 2: named Brandy, who was like the main stripper. I saw

481
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 2: her at the at.

482
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: The luncheon in l A. And I was like, girl,

483
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: and I wanted to just ask her, are you a stripper?

484
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: But I thought like that was rude, right, But she's

485
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: the most amazing stripper to not be a stripper, so

486
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: I kind of got around the question. Yeah, And she

487
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 1: told me that she is a dancer, so I can't.

488
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: I guess dancers are great strippers anyway. Yeah. That her

489
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: body's banging, She's just banging and beautiful. Wow. Okay, okay,

490
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:27,680
Speaker 1: who else was I talking about? You were? I don't know,

491
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 1: how do we care? Here? I saw somebody and I

492
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: was going, I want to tell them that they were

493
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: loving hip hop. Oh.

494
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 2: I saw Yandy, yeah and out there and I said

495
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 2: hi to her and all that, and I was with

496
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 2: Cynthia Bailey, so she's you know, was talking to us

497
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:40,920
Speaker 2: for a minute.

498
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 1: We took a picture. But I wanted to be like girl,

499
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: this season is good.

500
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 2: But in this season when DC is being accused of cheating,

501
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 2: so I felt like that would.

502
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 1: Have been weird. Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah.

503
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: But season's good. Okay, yeah, okay, already good Okay, yeah,

504
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 1: you know, everybody need a little ratchet. Okay, everybody need

505
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 1: a little ratchet. How do you have all of this

506
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 1: time to watch it? So all of these shows?

507
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 2: No, actually you're the one watching all these shows. You

508
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: ran off like ten shows. I don't know what the

509
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 2: hell you're talking. So so when I travel, I do it.

510
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 2: And I've been traveling a lot, like yeah, yeah, a lot. Okay,

511
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: but I'm about to saw that all the way down

512
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 2: so that I want to be home with the Buffalo rooms.

513
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 2: Mind you, I'm leaving somewhere in three days.

514
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: But that's not the point. Okay, So wait, we want

515
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: to talk.

516
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 2: Oh, we want to make an announcement about the matchmaker situation.

517
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 2: So we don't want y'all think that we've forgotten that

518
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 2: we are matching you guys and making love connections.

519
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: So we have somebody on it. Yeah, we're sorting through everything. Yes,

520
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: we got we got a lot of submissions. We're trying

521
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: to just sort through things. So just hang tight. We're

522
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: gonna start matching you guys. Yes, hang tight. So we

523
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: give us a couple of weeks, yes, okay, and then

524
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: we have we have some let's see, we have like

525
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: some some letters Okay, first we'll start with some flowers. Okay,

526
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: tell me I'm a mate thing. Yes.

527
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 2: By the way, the guy that asked me about if

528
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 2: my vagina works, I kind of felt like I was

529
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 2: being punked by Dick Hurts because that's something he would say,

530
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 2: your vagina worked, said.

531
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: Right exactly, yes, yes, yes, because that's what he does.

532
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 1: It could be Dick Hurts. It was not. It was not. Okay, okay,

533
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 1: all right, So this is from Dash Derek Dash. She says.

534
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: The subject is Giselle. Giselle joselle Yay said, Hey, ladies,

535
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 1: hope all as well. It's been a minute since I've

536
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: written in. But I had to give Jiselle her props.

537
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: I did not know what to expect from her twenty

538
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 1: one question show, but I decided to give it a shot. Boy,

539
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: was I glad. I went between my cousin Ayusha Carter,

540
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: who is a huge fan of you, ladies. Yeah, and

541
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: I we left our asses off the whole night. Great job, Jazelle,

542
00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 1: because I know doing a one person show is not easy. Also,

543
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: thank you for always being warm and welcoming to me,

544
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: whether verbally or in person. Robin, You're still my girl.

545
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: But I had to show love to justsell see and

546
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: I said at the show, Derek loves Robin. Now he

547
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: was not with his wife. His wife okay, because I

548
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: was cousin. Is that he sure really his cousin? He says,

549
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: my cousin between my cousin. Are you sure heard her? Okay? So,

550
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: and Derek, you know I love you and I was

551
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: so happy that you came. Yeah, he's just so cool cool.

552
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 1: You know who else was there?

553
00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 2: Remember when we during the pandemic, we got these gold

554
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,440
Speaker 2: Belly coupons from that guy or he.

555
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: Said, was like he met. He sent me a picture

556
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: of you guys together. He was there. See what is

557
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: his name?

558
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,719
Speaker 2: Okay, I think it's I think it's his wife. I'm

559
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 2: not sure, but so nice. It's such a nice guy.

560
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: And I felt he was like remember when I sent those?

561
00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 2: And I was like yeah, and I felt like saying

562
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 2: play you can keep saying that. Ike't consenting them because

563
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:50,840
Speaker 2: I love me some gold Belly.

564
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, he told me saw you Okay. So next,

565
00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: of course, is our favorite person my Homede Mohamma, Yes,

566
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: he says, hello, queens, it is your favorite person from

567
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: Toronto Mohammed. I just got back from NYC, where I

568
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: had the time of my life. Gazelle, you were amazing

569
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: and you commanded that stage, and the audience was so

570
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: excited to see you. After the show, so many people

571
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: came up to me and said, you're the infamous Mohammad.

572
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: We love you, not Mohammed as famous. Oh my god.

573
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: It was also nice to speak to Ashley and some

574
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 1: executives who all thank me for being a fan and

575
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: being so engaged. Thank you, Jazelle for making me feel

576
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: special and honored, even though I'm so mad that I

577
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: wasn't able to record when you said I was your

578
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: number one fan, Mohamed, right, really, I tried my best

579
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: to not be so loud and yell as much, but

580
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: some moments I couldn't help myself, particularly when Jazelle called

581
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: me out for being a warrior in the comment section

582
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: every Sunday. However, it is so nice to connect with

583
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: the little reasonably shady family we have created through attending

584
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: these Lives shows.

585
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, so and that happened, like Mohammed and Derek

586
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: they took a picture together. Oh that's so sweet, which

587
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 2: was really really nice. So then Mohammed being shady, he

588
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 2: came to my Chicago show, right, and then I did

589
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 2: a couple of the shows and like, I tweaked some things,

590
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 2: but it's pretty much the same show, right, yeah, because

591
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: I'm on tour, right.

592
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: He's like just the same show.

593
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: And I'm like, when Beyonce goes on stage, what does

594
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 2: she do? The same show? So you might switch a

595
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 2: song up or two, but it's the same. Yeah, so

596
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:38,479
Speaker 2: just think of ps Beyonce. Okay, my god, that was shady.

597
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: Mohammed. Mohammed is shady. That's why we love him. That's

598
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: why we love him. It's amazing. So now he says,

599
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: now onto the mess. Oh, okay, here we go. Asia

600
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: and I have a bit of a disagreement about this. Okay,

601
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: is it reasonable or shady to have your friend wait

602
00:31:56,440 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: ten minutes for you at the airport pickup lane because

603
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: you're getting your dick sucked in the air washed it? Yeah?

604
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: Who was who was getting Mohamma was getting his penis.

605
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 1: I can neither what confirm or deny that I made

606
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:15,719
Speaker 1: Asia wait. However, I think it's reasonable if you are

607
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: receiving it. I thinks it's shade. Yes, Mohammed, this is shady.

608
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 2: You're getting your first If you forget wait and forget

609
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: Asia waiting, you get your penis sucked at the airport

610
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 2: at bathroom.

611
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 1: No, no, to know how that happened?

612
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 2: Like, how did you get He's on a plane to

613
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 2: chat with somebody next to him, and then all of

614
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 2: a sudden, he's like they go it to the bathroom

615
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: to get it on.

616
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: This is what I'm thinking, This is how does this

617
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: stuff happen? But Muhammad is the type. But he's just

618
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: going to talk to everyone around him, right, And I'm

619
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: not mad at his mine and his business and being

620
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: quiet on the plane. He's just going to talk to

621
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: I'm just like, how do we get from the plane

622
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 1: to the to the bathroom? Gets to know? Now I

623
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: heard had sex and I shouldn't probably say this, but

624
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: I just like burnt out of my mouth. Let's keep going.

625
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: So in the lounge and like a private lounge, an

626
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: airport lounge, okay, because they have the showers in the

627
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: private rooms or whatever, So I have done that? Really

628
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: should I have said that? It's too late? Okay?

629
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: Anyway, A freaking that was because there was a shower

630
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 2: in there. So it's just kind of like what the

631
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 2: thing to do okay with a stranger, no, hell no.

632
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: And the guy that I was dating, we were meeting

633
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,600
Speaker 2: in the airport. He was coming from somewhere. I was,

634
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 2: you're like, and then it was like time to get

635
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 2: it on. Okay, so it made sense. Okay, Mohammed, your

636
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 2: ship don't make no sense? Yeah, yeah, you get I

637
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 2: don't you know what I'm I'm actually with Mohammed. I'm like,

638
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 2: if that, if my friend is getting his dick sect

639
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 2: in the airport.

640
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: Like, I'm like, go friend, like you right, true get it?

641
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: I mean you know what I'm saying. So I'm not

642
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: gonna be mad that. It's not a long time to wait, right, Yeah.

643
00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 1: I wait for you for hours, so ain't nothing. Yeah.

644
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: So I'm like, no, like, I'm with you, Muhammad on

645
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: this one. Asia can wait ten minutes. Ten minutes, it's

646
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 1: not a good deal. Maybe you know, go go sit

647
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: in the pick up lot or whatever. Like some of

648
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: the airports have those little distant lives. Yeah. Now it'd

649
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 1: been nice if you maybe like informed her or something,

650
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: yeah that you were gonna you need it a minute?

651
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but I'm not mad at that. Okay,

652
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 1: I'm I'm not either. Yeah, Okay, but that was so

653
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 1: that was Mohamed, Thank you Mohamma for that.

654
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: Airport. Yes, I love some airport shenanigans. Right, are you

655
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 2: probably the Mile High Club? I'm not okay, yeah, okay, continue,

656
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 2: I'm not. Yeah, that that would be like how do

657
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 2: you make that happen in the bathroom? In the bathroom,

658
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 2: which I've never done, and like this was a more

659
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 2: of a private situation. But like I feel like those

660
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 2: bathrooms are too small, too small and too gross.

661
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, the little discussed Yeah, for me, that's where I

662
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,479
Speaker 1: would be like this is just gross, Like I can't

663
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: like I can't get past the gross now. I just

664
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: feel like I would like bust my leg. Yeah, I

665
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: would run into Yeah, you get like a cramp, you

666
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 1: get a Charlie Hoy Charlie horse and your butt cheek

667
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 1: and stuff like you can have it. Yeah, yeah, unless

668
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: you're on like a private plane, like fine, go for it. Okay.

669
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 1: Here's another letter, this from Asia. She says him, my

670
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 1: rich aunties. I feel like I haven't written the two

671
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: of you in so long, but I need he writes

672
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: every week. Right, it's been a minute, okay, but yeah,

673
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,880
Speaker 1: but I need advice on this situation. Is it reasonable

674
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: or shady? So everyone knows how much I love my birthday.

675
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 1: It's literally my favorite holiday. Hmmm, it's not a holiday,

676
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 1: but okay, I plan to go to Aruba way back

677
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: in August. My birthday is February. Oh so she started

678
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: the planning in August for February birthday? Okay. I invited

679
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: two of my best friends and literally on January thirtieth,

680
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 1: he told me he was no longer able to come

681
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 1: because he had to buy new tires which were three

682
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, and also his phone bill came out, which

683
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 1: was another one hundred dollars. Mind you, we were set

684
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 1: to board the plane to Aruba on February third. Is

685
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 1: my friend shady for telling me a few days before

686
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: boarding the plane that he can no longer come? Is

687
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,959
Speaker 1: he shady for planning to only bring four hundred dollars

688
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:37,560
Speaker 1: to Aruba? Is he shady for literally watching all of

689
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: my stories on ig but not wishing me a happy birthday? Oh? Wow?

690
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: And last is this a boo? Is this like a

691
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 1: boyfriend her best one of her best friends? Okay? And lastly,

692
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: am I shady for cutting him completely off? Everyone's telling

693
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: me that this situation can be talked or worked out,

694
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: but I'm not interested. I feel like missing my birthday

695
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:07,919
Speaker 1: translates to you hate me, please help not you hate me. Well,

696
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,320
Speaker 1: if that's really her bestie, she know he should know

697
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 1: how important her birthday is, right, Yes, and he chose

698
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: to ignore it. Yes, so he's mad at her. So

699
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,479
Speaker 1: so he had the flight, So he had a flight

700
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: already and he didn't go. That's like he's losing money

701
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 1: on the flight. Yeah. And then also did he commit

702
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:32,399
Speaker 1: to like a hotel sharing a hotel room with someone? Yeah,

703
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: maybe he's shady as hell. Oh, he should have been

704
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: told her he won going. He probably didn't even buy

705
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,719
Speaker 1: a ticket, right, that's a good question. Did he even

706
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: have the flight? Did he even have did he even

707
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: book the hotel?

708
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 2: Or did he like so that Yes, he's totally shady,

709
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 2: And for me, I feel like, so, I don't know

710
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 2: how old as he is, but she's probably at the

711
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 2: age where it's like now it's the time to like

712
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,239
Speaker 2: figure out like traveling friends, because traveling friends are not

713
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 2: always like your regular friend. You're regular friends, So figure

714
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 2: that out. Yeah, you can't travel with everybody.

715
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: That's true. So maybe it's like Okay, don't cut him

716
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: off just because of that, because he maybe, yes, he

717
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:09,919
Speaker 1: might be your best friend, but he's not a good

718
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: traveling friend. And that's okay.

719
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, because people who travel, you know, you gotta

720
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:18,240
Speaker 2: you gotta be down for whatever.

721
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, not down for whatever, but you gotta be flexible,

722
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 1: right and honest. Yeah, and that's rare. You can't really

723
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: find out out here in these streets. Yeah. Yeah, So

724
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: so Asia, I would say, give him the benefit of

725
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: the doubts. You know, maybe traveling is not one of

726
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: his strong points, but hopefully he can still be a

727
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: good friend to you at home. However, the part that

728
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 1: is up, like he watched all her stories but didn't

729
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 1: wish her happy birthday.

730
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he didn't dispect that he didn't wish

731
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 2: her happy birthday and forget to watch like you didn't

732
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 2: say happy birthday? Like that's fed up, And we're not

733
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: gonna judge how much money he was going to take

734
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 2: to Aruba, Like yeah, if you could rock out them

735
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: four hundred dollars rock out right.

736
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm one under If Asia cust him out,

737
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm sure you know what I'm saying. Like, so that's

738
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: why he didn't wish her happy birthday. Yeah, yeah, that's

739
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 1: far happened. Yeah. You see, you're not telling all the facts, ma'am. Yeah. Yeah,

740
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: So give him the benefit of the doubt. He doesn't

741
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: have to travel. That's not the end of the world. However,

742
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: not wishing your happy birthday is not okay. But did

743
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: you cuss him out first? She did? Yes, All right,

744
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: there we go. We have Oh my god, all right,

745
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,879
Speaker 1: we are one more. This is like an advice letter. Okay,

746
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: this is from Patrick Hi. Patrick Hi, Patrick, He says,

747
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: hages Ellen Robin fans of the podcast for years. But

748
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,919
Speaker 1: let me get to this. I'm getting married on March

749
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 1: fifteenth to my fiance Does. So. I'm sorry, I think

750
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: we're a little late with this, but you know, this

751
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: is still a scenario to talk about. Congratulations Patrick and Does.

752
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,399
Speaker 1: Over the past month, we've been getting lots of calls

753
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: and text with questions like what day is the wedding?

754
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: Or I never got an invitation? What right even know?

755
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: We sent them out, sent them out back in October. Okay.

756
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:09,320
Speaker 1: We also included a color palette in the invitation and

757
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 1: on our wedding website. But now people are reaching out

758
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 1: saying they can't find an outfit in those colors. What's

759
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:22,479
Speaker 1: the color palette? Did you say it's right here? What? Okay,

760
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna hold this up the hell? So this is?

761
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 2: This is beige to a peach to maybe this isn't

762
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 2: print it right? Maybe to another light green, to a

763
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 2: dark green.

764
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I can't find anything in it either. Okay, I'm

765
00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: just saying to tell you it's a mass. I will

766
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: go for gold, find something gold maybe, yeah, gold? Or

767
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 1: but this is cream, this is creamy. This is cream

768
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 1: and beige. Yeah, this is a mess. But Patrick, Patrick,

769
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 1: you're wrong for this. But okay, okay, okay. As the

770
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 1: big day gets closer, it's becoming a bit overwhelming. Did

771
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: you guys experience anything like this when you got married?

772
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 1: How did you handle it? I'm planning to send out

773
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: a mass text next week as a reminder, but any

774
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: advice would be so appreciated. Oh, so here's our wedding website.

775
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: What does he want us to do on this wedding website?

776
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: Just send again together and yes, we still have some

777
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: things left on our registry check. You're wrong for this, okay,

778
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: So so congratulations once again. Sorry we are late with

779
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: this advice. But I think this is good, a good

780
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,959
Speaker 1: question because this is wedding season and you know stuff

781
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: like this will happen. First of all, a color You

782
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: sent a color palette to your guests and said, where's

783
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: something in this color? But that's not that's not rare

784
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: because a lot of people they have black weddings. Every

785
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 1: where's black. They have white weddings thereby, where's white. I'm

786
00:41:50,920 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: not mad at that, Oh really, okay, I'm mad at

787
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: the choicest I'm ad the what we we're here to

788
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: choose from. Okay, okay, okay, okay. So you don't so

789
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:02,760
Speaker 1: you think the color palette is and limiting. It's it's strange.

790
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 2: So and I'm not mad that also because when you're

791
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 2: when you look back at the pictures, it's esthetically looking red.

792
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,840
Speaker 1: They look nice. Yeah right, I get that. Okay, I

793
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 1: get the vision. See I could you can find something

794
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: nice and green?

795
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 2: I mean I have a bunch of green just because like, yeah,

796
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 2: this is I mean, if you're a man, it's screwed.

797
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: Yes, like a man has to get like a custom something. Yes,

798
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: that's true. I mean they could go to suit Supply

799
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 1: they can find something nice and suit supply, But I

800
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: also think it's I do. I do think it's unfair

801
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: to expect people to spend money on an outfit. So

802
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: it's like, if I don't have it in my closet,

803
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: I shouldn't feel required or forced to purchase something. Yeah,

804
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,400
Speaker 1: so I do think that's a little unfair and maybe

805
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: too much to expect from somebody, especially when the color

806
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: palette is like this. Now, if the color palette was black, black, white, gray,

807
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, yeah, that's normal colors or before

808
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: Yeah for these colors, I mean, yeah, some people might

809
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:04,439
Speaker 1: not want to spend the money.

810
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 2: This is my issue because he asks, does any of

811
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 2: this ever happen to us?

812
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: Nobody asked me about the date. Once you send out

813
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: the invitation, everybody has the date. Why nobody calling me

814
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: talk about what's the date? Again?

815
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 2: I'd be like, lose the invitation if you can't. So

816
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 2: my question, did you really send out invitation?

817
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: Well? Did you? What kind of invitations did you send? Yes?

818
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 1: Because I can't stand receiving evite invitations, you know what

819
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: I mean? Like I get a text message yeah with

820
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 1: an invitation? Why? I don't know. For whatever reason, it's

821
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 1: hard for me to keep track of Like I like

822
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: to look at something, I like to have something in

823
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: my hands, and so I feel like people should do both.

824
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: I understand the convenience of it, and a lot of

825
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: people do it now, but I do feel like it

826
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,959
Speaker 1: doesn't stick as much in my mind when I don't

827
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:59,400
Speaker 1: get like the paper invitation got it. I agree with that,

828
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 1: So I wonder what type of invitations you sent, and

829
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 1: especially like who are these people? Like, Okay, if you

830
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: sent digital invitations to older people.

831
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah they don't know, right, Yeah, they got a hard

832
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,839
Speaker 2: time getting up in the morning. Yeah right, but they

833
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 2: might have missed it.

834
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 1: They might have you know, I don't know. So that

835
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: scenario I think is I have more questions for that.

836
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 2: But any wedding it's gonna be drama, yeah, period, any events.

837
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of what kind of issues did

838
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: I experience at my wedding. I feel like, I mean,

839
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: I got married twenty over twenty years ago, and like

840
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: things are just so different. Everything was just much more traditional.

841
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 1: We weren't inviting people by evites now. Everything was like

842
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: you know, you send it in, send back the RSVP.

843
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: It was very like done the right way totally. So

844
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: I don't think I had like a bunch of nonsense.

845
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:55,800
Speaker 1: I will definitely say because one was in the NBA,

846
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 1: most of my guests did not bring a gift. What

847
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 1: what do you mean?

848
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 2: Oh, because they felt like y'all had it already. Yuess

849
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 2: so well did he did he invite NBA players.

850
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: Like up a few? But yeah, okay, yeah yeah they did.

851
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like, okay, let me let me

852
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 1: take you back. Most of the people on my side

853
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: brought againt. Wand's family decided to come on one side

854
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 1: like it's it's like immediate family, yes, but then it

855
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: is like the all the friends extended cousins.

856
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 2: As like hilarious. You know how you don't like celebrating

857
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: your birthday, Yes, I don't care. I definitely want to

858
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 2: celebrate my birthday, but I don't care about gifts from

859
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 2: a situation like that.

860
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah. I also people get like hung up with,

861
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, he bring me no gift. I don't

862
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: give a damn me neither. I never have. Yeah, I

863
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: think someone's presence is the gift, like you spent time

864
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: to like come here ever, or yeah, your presence is

865
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 1: the gift. Yeah for sure.

866
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 2: So I might not bring one because I don't care

867
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 2: about that. Yeah, right, so, but I do I try

868
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 2: to get people gifts.

869
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then and then usually it's like when you're

870
00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: bringing when you're getting gifts for people who aren't like

871
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 1: really in your immediate household, you really are getting them

872
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 1: something that's just like fluff kind of like yeah, well

873
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,680
Speaker 1: unless they have a registry, Oh that's stuff that they need.

874
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: I would just own a blender or two, right, or

875
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: what is your thing? A juicer or eight hundred dollars juicer?

876
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: Are you still using your juice? Really? Yes? I am

877
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 1: not not on the daily, okay, but yes I am. Okay,

878
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: what's your best combo? I like a carrot, apple and

879
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: ginger okay, and then apple and I like orange pineapple

880
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 1: and ginger. Are no bananas? Oh no, you can't use bananas. No,

881
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,400
Speaker 1: but it has a smoothie attachment. So I could do

882
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: like a smoothie, but I haven't done that yet. And

883
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 1: then I'll do like a green so and then I'll

884
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: do like a green apple. Cucumber situation. Gender, I put

885
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: gender in like everything, Yeah, okay, I love the cucumbers. Yeah.

886
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: And then it tried like a bunch of like liquid.

887
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: The cucumbers have a lot of Yes, no watermelon. I'll

888
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: wait till the summertime, like till the watermelons are good. Okay,

889
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 1: very good. I'm just glad you're still using it. Yeah.

890
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 1: What about that peloton of yours? Oh yeah, that thing

891
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: is dusty. Yeah, probably needs to be oiled. People stopped. Yeah,

892
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: well I don't know that to be the true case,

893
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: but anybody that I know what a peloton and using it. Yeah,

894
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: well so one one thing nowadays, I don't know if

895
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:52,240
Speaker 1: you see this, but like all of the fitness advice

896
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: that I see now is like that extreme cardio is

897
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: not the best for people like forty and over. Oh why,

898
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: I don't know something about our raises, our quarterzo levels

899
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 1: and blah blah blah ah. This they say like more

900
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 1: like steady state, like walking on an incline. It's like

901
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 1: better than doing like hardcore cardio and then strength strength training.

902
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:15,520
Speaker 1: So like that's one reason why I'm like not really

903
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: like focusing on it like that.

904
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:21,439
Speaker 2: But yeah, the other thing, it's just yeah, so there's

905
00:48:21,480 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 2: this suit that you can put on that like pulsates

906
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 2: your muscles.

907
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 1: It's kind of expensive. I'm thinking about getting it.

908
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 2: So I have know somebody that has it, and I

909
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 2: just want her to like use it for a little

910
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 2: while before I'm convinced that I need to spend twenty

911
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 2: five hundred dolls on something that I might have only

912
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 2: used once.

913
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: What so I mean it is? But your mouth is open,

914
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,280
Speaker 1: like you didn't spend twenty five hundreds on your juice?

915
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: Like stop, but what do you mean? The suit pulsates

916
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: your muscles and then what happens? So you look it

917
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 1: up to an app?

918
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 2: Okay, it's like, for instance, crunches. It gives you, like

919
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 2: in twenty minutes, like a thousand crunches to your stomach,

920
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 2: like you you just.

921
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: So like your arms, you it's a whole body. Okay.

922
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 2: So yeah, you follow the app and you look amazing

923
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:09,959
Speaker 2: after you take it, ok I think, So, you don't

924
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 2: know if it works. So I checked in with my

925
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 2: girlfriend who has had it for like a month or

926
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 2: so as a follow up, and she was like, she

927
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 2: loves it. Okay, I just need to give it a

928
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 2: little bit more time with her and then I'll jump

929
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 2: out there. Because you have to get measured for it.

930
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have to give your measures. Yeah, you

931
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 2: get to give you because it's a whole full body suit.

932
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: What is it called? She told me. I forgot, but

933
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: I think I think I might get it because you know,

934
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: you could be in your house and work it out.

935
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: You can be in your house chilling, just like building

936
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: muscle tone, like it's definition. Okay, yeah, you feeling it

937
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: as you want it now. I'm curious. I mean because

938
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:55,000
Speaker 1: three minutes ago you was like, what if it works,

939
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:57,600
Speaker 1: I'll be the get you know.

940
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but I need I just need to make

941
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: sure because you have to go through a whole You

942
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,200
Speaker 2: got to get the measurements. It takes, like, you know,

943
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,839
Speaker 2: weeks for you to get it because they got to make.

944
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: It all that. I've never heard of this. Yeah. Ever,

945
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:15,240
Speaker 1: it's a Los Angeles it's a West Coast thing. Okay, okay,

946
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: but I think it'd be great for people our age.

947
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: Yeah I said our age. I just threw you in mind.

948
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 1: In my decade, I'll mean there soon. Yes, all right,

949
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,640
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950
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