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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Andy, Welcome to the program. How

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Speaker 2: are you hey?

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Speaker 3: Thanks for having me on. I love the show.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if you still love it when this is over.

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Speaker 1: But waiting on the phone, of course, is what this

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Speaker 1: is called. We're trying to figure out why you may

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Speaker 1: have been ghosted by a woman named Amber, but we

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Speaker 1: need to know kind of the setup here. How did

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Speaker 1: you guys meet? How many days have you been on?

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Speaker 1: How to dose go? What's happening now? Kind of fill

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Speaker 1: us in if you would.

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Speaker 3: So basic GISs. I go out to Lollapalooza, right, go

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Speaker 3: out there to have a great time, great music, meet

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Speaker 3: great people, and everything is going great from top to bottom.

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Speaker 3: I'm having a blast. I'm meeting new people, you know,

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Speaker 3: some great bands are there. And I meet this beautiful

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Speaker 3: woman right and I feel like everything's sitting off. She's

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Speaker 3: cuecting all the right buttons, and I get her number

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Speaker 3: and we're planning to go on the second date. And

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Speaker 3: then nothing just just empty space. She's not responding to

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Speaker 3: any calls or texts or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: Now, I'm trying to play it.

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Speaker 3: Cool, but I don't. She seemed like she was really

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Speaker 3: into me at Laura Paluza and.

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Speaker 1: Now just nothing, man, the whole lot, Andy are we calling?

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Speaker 1: Are we calling Lalla Palouza the first date? Or did

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Speaker 1: you go on a date after that, like you got

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Speaker 1: her number and then went out, or we're saying Laala

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Speaker 1: was the date, Laura was the date. I see, So

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Speaker 1: you're now you were trying to set up a date basically,

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Speaker 1: but you did hang out all day at the music festival,

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Speaker 1: so that's yeah, okay, But so you was just follow

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Speaker 1: up that you were trying to accomplish.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, like she said she was into it.

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Speaker 2: She gave me her number.

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Speaker 3: It looked like all the signs were green. So I

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Speaker 3: don't understand the radio silent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess she could have ditched you at any

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Speaker 1: point too, Like, I don't know, you don't have to

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Speaker 1: hang It would be very easy to get rid of

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Speaker 1: someone at a festival with five hundred thousand people, you

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Speaker 1: know or whatever it is exactly. So yeah, she didn't

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Speaker 1: have to do that, shouldn't have to give you her number,

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Speaker 1: that's all.

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Speaker 2: That's all true.

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Speaker 1: But you have not been able to get ahold ever

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Speaker 1: since this great day at the festival, and you want

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Speaker 1: to know why.

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Speaker 2: You want to know what's going on? Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like, I don't want to be a

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Speaker 3: creep about it. You know, she's not into me. She's

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Speaker 3: not into me, but like it seems weird we would

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Speaker 3: spend a whole day together only for her to give

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Speaker 3: me her number and then not respond.

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Speaker 1: No, not a creep. People love being called surprised by

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Speaker 1: the radio. Yeah, well sometimes it works out. So let's

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Speaker 1: hope for the best. Andy, Let's call Amber. We'll see

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Speaker 1: if we can get her on the phone. You'll be

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Speaker 1: on the phone at the same time. You're welcome to

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Speaker 1: jump in at some point. Obviously. What we're trying to

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Speaker 1: do here is get you guys set up on what

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Speaker 1: would be the first date I guess away from the

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Speaker 1: A Lot of Palooza festival, and then we'll pay for that.

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Speaker 2: Sound good?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be awesome.

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Speaker 2: Let's find out what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Part to you of waiting by the phone after chaperone

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes on the Fred Show. Chaperone, It's

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show, Good morning Show, Bes, Shelley the Entertainer Report,

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Speaker 1: good news stories all coming up? Hey Andy, Hey all, right,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Amber. You met a lot of

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Speaker 1: palooz at the music festival. Well, you spent the whole

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Speaker 1: different acts and whatever got her phone number. You guys

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Speaker 1: have talked about going out on a real date. Away

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Speaker 1: from that, You've reached out. She's not responding, and you're like, well,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, you know, everything was going perfect. We

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Speaker 3: even you know, when we were leaving, she said I'd

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well let's call her now and we'll

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Speaker 1: see what's going on. Good luck, Andy, Thanks? Well, Hi

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Speaker 1: is his Amber.

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Speaker 2: Amber? Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now. I do need your permission to

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Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can which have for just a second,

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Speaker 1: do you mind?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, Well, thank you very much for calling on.

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Speaker 1: Behalf of a guy named Andy says you mention you

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Speaker 1: at Lallapalooza the music festival, of course, and you know,

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Speaker 1: just in case you don't know what it is, even

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Speaker 1: though you were there, I don't know why I'm saying

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Speaker 1: it like that. But anyway, he met you at Lala

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Speaker 1: and he say he spent the whole day with you,

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Speaker 1: and you guys have talked about going on a date.

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Speaker 2: I guess you gave him your number.

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Speaker 1: He called us and said he's been trying to get

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Speaker 1: a hold of you, really was looking forward to seeing

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Speaker 1: you again, and and he doesn't know why you're not responding.

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Speaker 2: So what's going on? Amber?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so yeah, I remember him. Of course we had

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Speaker 4: a great time, but towards the end of the night,

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Speaker 4: he tried to give me drugs.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she Well, he asked if I wanted to partake

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Speaker 4: in some extracurricular activities, and I'm just like, I'm not

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Speaker 2: So I kind of snuck away.

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Speaker 1: Now I don't want to get to it's a little early,

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Speaker 1: so like, I mean, are we talking like hard stuff

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Speaker 2: Know, and let's inject something. No, you know, I don't

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Speaker 2: know what are we talking? Heroin are somewhere in between

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Speaker 2: those like what are we doing?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't.

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Speaker 4: Really say exactly. He said extracurricular activities, and I just

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Speaker 4: don't want to. I just don't do any of that.

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Speaker 4: So I mean, because let's take it if it were marijuana.

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Speaker 4: I mean, people just walking around smoking that, like, that's

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Speaker 4: not right. So okay, so it was a little a

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Speaker 4: little harder than that, and you said no. And now

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Speaker 4: was he pushy about it or was he just like, okay,

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Speaker 4: no problem. No, he wasn't pushy about it. But I

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Speaker 4: just like, I'm just not about that at all. So

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Speaker 4: it just kind of like I knew that it wasn't

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Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna play devil's advocate here. You know, some

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Speaker 1: people like this kind of stuff in that environment, but

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Speaker 1: then it's not a part of their everyday life. So

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Speaker 1: you know, I can see why if this is, like

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Speaker 1: I don't know, the guy is that's super into drugs

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's possible, and he can totally how was he

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Speaker 1: But but even that is okay, even that's not for

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Speaker 3: It's not fair because I don't know a lot of

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Speaker 3: drugs that your users they only do it one time.

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Speaker 2: No, But I'm like, I'm only I'm only get it today.

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Speaker 1: But you've never heard of people that like that's not

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Speaker 2: I'm at the fish cancer Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: Well I was just trying to, you know, come up

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Speaker 1: mention that Andy is here and it's been listening. I'm

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Speaker 1: very very forgetful Andy. What's up with the drugs?

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Speaker 3: Nah, it's nothing like that, you know, kind of what

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Speaker 3: there having a blast, trying new things, and you know,

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Speaker 3: a moment. You know, you go out, you be adventrist,

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Speaker 3: you try something you don't normally do. So, you know,

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Speaker 3: I asked her if she wanted to partake in a

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Speaker 3: little extra curricular activity, right, and you know, nothing, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm not offering heroin, but like, at a certain point,

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Speaker 3: if you're not going to expand your mind when you're young,

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Speaker 3: When are you going to do it. We're gonna be

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Speaker 1: And listen to this. All a man is trying to

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Speaker 1: do is expand his mind. That's all he was trying

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Speaker 1: to do. No, Amber, Yeah, no for me, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't blame you.

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Speaker 3: I mean for one of its words. You like, you

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Speaker 3: said no and that was cool, you know, like not

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Speaker 3: trying to push this on anybody. But again it's just.

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Speaker 2: You know, the environment.

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Speaker 3: It's it's a way to add a little bit more

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Speaker 3: fun to an already good time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Look here, Aaron Rodgers, all he was trying to do.

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Speaker 1: Listen to this, Amber. All he was trying to do

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Speaker 1: we can we can let that go, can't we?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, he can finn himself all he wants.

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Speaker 4: But I'm not interested.

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Speaker 1: You weren't interested. It's even the experimentation, the fact that

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Speaker 1: he had it on him, the whole thing. It just

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Speaker 1: doesn't eared uncomfortable with it is what you're saying. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: not for me, which is fair. So look, Andy, it's

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Speaker 1: too bad because it sounds like maybe something was happening here.

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Speaker 1: But for whatever reason, she's you know, this is beyond

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Speaker 1: her comfort level. So it's a shame. But it's not

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Speaker 1: going to work out. I mean, Amber, I will ask

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Speaker 1: the question, do you want let's say, no drugs on

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Speaker 1: if he doesn't offer you.

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Speaker 2: Anything, No, I think I'm good. All right, Well, thank

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Speaker 2: you for your time Amber. Andy. I'm sorry it's not

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Speaker 2: going to work out, but good luck to you as well.

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Speaker 3: Hey, it's all good. People have fun out, people have fun.

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Speaker 3: If she ain't about that, she ain't about that.