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<v Speaker 1>Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds?

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<v Speaker 2>With Dean Aungler, Caylen Lurkey, and Jared Haven an iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Everybody? Welcome to an all new episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds? And it's my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite kind of episode. Every single time Jared's gone, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I feel like I've got the best time of

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<v Speaker 1>my And I'm just kidding. Actually, Jared's not here this week.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a Audrey's emergency? Is that what it was? Kaylan?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't actually remember.

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<v Speaker 1>It was something like that, something with work. But he's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to be joining us this week, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>just yours truly and Kaylin Cool and Kaylin and the

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<v Speaker 1>Queen herself reporting live from Palm Springs, California, where she's

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<v Speaker 1>sunbathing and tennis bawling and drinking non alcoholic rose because

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<v Speaker 1>that's her thing nowadays. How is how is Palm Springs?

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<v Speaker 1>You were, uh, the second you got to Palm Springs yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>you were very absent from talking to me, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a good thing. I just forgee, that means you're having fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So yesterday flew from Aspen asked been to Denver,

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<v Speaker 2>Denver to Vegas. Got straight in my car dubbed Palm Springs.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a long travel day.

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<v Speaker 3>Got there.

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<v Speaker 2>The girls all met for lunch before we checked into

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<v Speaker 2>the hotel, and I was like, can you just wait

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit longer. I really want to margarita. So

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<v Speaker 2>I went stopped hung out with them, and then I

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<v Speaker 2>got the house. So they were like, we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>go grocery shopping. You don't know us anything, We're going

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<v Speaker 2>to get take care of it all, which was super

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<v Speaker 2>nice of them.

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<v Speaker 3>So then I came checked out the house.

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<v Speaker 2>The house is pretty cool and it's Tyra banks old house,

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<v Speaker 2>and it feels like Tyra Banks. Like when you're in

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<v Speaker 2>this house, there's mirrors everywhere. It just feels like she

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<v Speaker 2>would live here.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's cool. So at night one was good. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a success.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I really hate being hungover, so I'm trying to take

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<v Speaker 2>it easy on drinking. And I was drinking a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of water, a lot of sparkling water.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's good.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel great this morning. Also, our my friend gave

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<v Speaker 2>us these little patches to put on. She's like she

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<v Speaker 2>typically takes them after she drinks, like the morning after.

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<v Speaker 2>But we took them put them on our wrists while

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<v Speaker 2>we were drinking, and I think that helped too. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like pushing your body with itamins and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, whenever I I don't really drink a lot anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean sometimes I do, sure, sure, But when I

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<v Speaker 1>was like in my party days, if I ever remember

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<v Speaker 1>to either take a couple advil in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>the like before going hard or whatever, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at like midnight when you're still like some parting ahead

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<v Speaker 1>of you, when you still have some parting ahead of you,

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<v Speaker 1>or you take like some emergency at like eleven PM,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're like a couple drinks in and you know

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be drinking more, and you can like

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<v Speaker 1>plan ahead like that, which didn't happen often, but every

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<v Speaker 1>time I did it, I felt amazing. It's like one

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<v Speaker 1>of those like preemptive just get ahead of it sort

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<v Speaker 1>of things.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's so smart. It's something we should be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Every time, right, That's what I'm saying. We should be

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, But I used to forget. I am I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little hungover. I had six beers yesterday, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a lot for me, and just slept in my truck

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<v Speaker 1>in the driveway of a friend's house. So just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>could have been a little bit better of a night

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<v Speaker 1>for me, but it's good that you have fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there's two things that I want to talk about. One,

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<v Speaker 3>I was in Aspen.

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<v Speaker 2>We were in Aspen doing our food tasting. But before

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<v Speaker 2>we get to that, alistair has improved.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I sent Kalen a video. Our friend has a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful three and a half year old Golden Retriever and

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<v Speaker 1>they were playing together yesterday and it was the most cutest,

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<v Speaker 1>cutest moment. And I texted you that and you just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of were like, yeah, that's cool. But I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're busy, but I was like, you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I was very excited. Are you kidding me? I was

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<v Speaker 3>very excited. In my text.

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<v Speaker 1>You just sent one line and you said, oh, happy

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<v Speaker 1>for him or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, what with a bunch of exclamation points. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't believe my eyes. A bunch of exclamation points. Whose

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<v Speaker 2>dog is that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. I wasn't expecting much because you are on

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<v Speaker 1>a girl's trip, so I was like, oh, she's busy

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<v Speaker 1>to it everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, well, guys, but I just.

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<v Speaker 1>Wanted you to see him having a good time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing good. And now he's just passed that next

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<v Speaker 1>to me, wiped out.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you introduce them off leash?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course I don't think I even have the leash

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<v Speaker 1>with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh. But how like how did it go

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<v Speaker 3>when they first met?

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<v Speaker 1>He just walked into the house together and the other

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<v Speaker 1>dog was in the house, and he was good right away.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a good boy, you just especially when he when

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have your nervous energy around him or about

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<v Speaker 1>him being around to their dogs. He's a good boy.

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<v Speaker 3>So he walked into the house and the other dog

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<v Speaker 3>was super excited to see him, and he didn't growl,

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't bark.

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<v Speaker 1>He like growled and barked, but he didn't like bite

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<v Speaker 1>and lunge. And that lasted for five seconds and then

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<v Speaker 1>they were totally fine. And then we just like took

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<v Speaker 1>him in the backyard and you know, alisair played for

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<v Speaker 1>like ten seconds, which wasn't very long, but ten seconds

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<v Speaker 1>for his little stubby legs is probably like two hours

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<v Speaker 1>of exercise for a regular size dog. So he was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty worked out after that, which was nice. They got

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<v Speaker 1>along so well, Yeah, he's good. He Austin is like

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<v Speaker 1>taking a picture of him at one point yesterday and

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<v Speaker 1>he like freaked out and he wasn't even close to him.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like three feet away. I think he was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, you can't take my picture. So that was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty funny.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, did Austin pedimental.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's sneaking some pets in every once in a while.

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<v Speaker 1>He's getting better.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're progressing with their aggressive dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's doing good. But yeah, so girls Weekend's good.

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<v Speaker 3>About the wedding tasting?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you want to talk about it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>It was so fun. Do you want to talk about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I d share. Let's talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So we flew to Denver two days ago at this

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<v Speaker 2>point three days ago and drove Dean drove us to

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<v Speaker 2>Aspen and we saw our wedding venue for the very

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<v Speaker 2>first time without it being covered in snow. So we

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<v Speaker 2>got to see kind of how the setup is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be in a couple months, which was really cool.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we slept at the property. It was it

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<v Speaker 3>was great.

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<v Speaker 2>And then the food tasting, so, I the way that

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<v Speaker 2>the setup is with our wedding venue, my expectations for

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<v Speaker 2>the food were so incredibly low. I was like, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a cool concept. Where we're getting married. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be awesome. The food's probably going to suck, but it'll

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<v Speaker 2>be fine. And the food was incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, fresh farm to table food.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a check from New York as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and no, it was great food. And we had

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<v Speaker 1>like every meal that they offer. There's like four appetizers,

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<v Speaker 1>one variant appetizer, and then five entrees and then like

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<v Speaker 1>two desserts. And everything was very very good.

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<v Speaker 3>And we ranked everything. There was a menu in front

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<v Speaker 3>of us.

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<v Speaker 2>We ranked everything before we ate it what we thought

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<v Speaker 2>would be like first to last, and then we ranked

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<v Speaker 2>it after we ate them and didn't show each other,

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<v Speaker 2>and then we could like decide together based on those

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<v Speaker 2>rankings what we were going to go with, and it

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<v Speaker 2>made it pretty easy. Yeah, and we mostly did that.

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<v Speaker 2>We did that because Dean thinks that I am easily persuaded,

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<v Speaker 2>which I am, and so right, that's probably why you well,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't like to ask me. You like to ask

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<v Speaker 2>me how I like to movie before you answer, because

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<v Speaker 2>you think that I'm going to change my answer depending

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<v Speaker 2>on your answer.

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<v Speaker 3>So I figure that's kind of why we did.

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<v Speaker 1>That, right, of course, I don't think that's what you do.

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<v Speaker 1>That is what you do, that is what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I always try to get your opinion out of

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<v Speaker 1>you first before I give mine, because I know that mine,

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<v Speaker 1>good or bad, might sway to yours more than more

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<v Speaker 1>than and that's not a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you said, I'll go with the flow you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you take.

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<v Speaker 1>You absorb information, and I think that's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you you absorb it and you consider it

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<v Speaker 1>and then you factor that into your answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are certain things like for the food of

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding, it shouldn't be anyone else's, Like no one

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<v Speaker 1>else's opinion should matter about your own, Like you should

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<v Speaker 1>pay the food that you want the most, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I know I kept thinking that too.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, well, what if you know this person

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't eat meat, or we need to have this option,

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<v Speaker 2>and then I was like, I don't know. Yeah, easily

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<v Speaker 2>persuaded straight from Dean's wedding boughs. Yeah, but it made

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<v Speaker 2>it a lot easier just to go through that list

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<v Speaker 2>not show each other. And it's like the deviled eggs

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<v Speaker 2>were so good. I got to the Girl's weekend and

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<v Speaker 2>everyone's like, how is the food? And I'm like, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't stop talking about the devil eggs. They were insane.

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<v Speaker 2>Never had devil riggs so good.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a nice caramelized onion on top to provide

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<v Speaker 1>a nice crunch. Very delicious. So it also picked a

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<v Speaker 1>nice stuffed mushroom, which typically I would never It was

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<v Speaker 1>the lowest one on my pre ranking and the second

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<v Speaker 1>highest on my post ranking, so it was very good.

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<v Speaker 1>But then the bacon wrap dates were very good.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's where the toss up was bacon wrap dates

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<v Speaker 3>versus stuff mushrooms.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the last one? A cbch A so vch

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<v Speaker 1>was good, but it was on a plantain cracker, and

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<v Speaker 1>the plantain cracker just to have the snap that we

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<v Speaker 1>wanted it to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the crunch. This is also.

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<v Speaker 1>Crunch snap crunch.

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<v Speaker 3>Pop snap crackle pop.

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<v Speaker 2>And also so there's two tiers for the main courses.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a skirt steak with salmon that's the less expensive one,

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<v Speaker 2>and then the more expensive one is a ribbi with

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<v Speaker 2>stuffed trout. And we liked the less expensive one more

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<v Speaker 2>and I kind of feel like they're going to switch

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<v Speaker 2>because everyone liked that more.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't stuffed trout. I don't think was it it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was trout on top of mushroom and caviar.

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<v Speaker 3>It was stuffed. Oh but the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is all the same thing, I guess. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was good. It was just a little too heavy

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<v Speaker 1>on the mushroom. I'm not a big fan of trout

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<v Speaker 1>and caviar. I don't have a find enough of a

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<v Speaker 1>palette to enjoy caviar.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was it wasn't caviar. It was row like

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<v Speaker 2>the orange Sheppy put on top of salmon.

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<v Speaker 1>It was roe. That's right. Maybe it was maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>maybe roe was caviar though, do you oh maybe, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's fish egg I guess, right, guess.

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<v Speaker 2>But they did put caviar on the menu, and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, I'm excited for caviar.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not caviar.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And so we got skirt steaks salmon.

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<v Speaker 3>And the salmon's from Alaska, so and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited about our menu.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Oh my gosh. I was at the gas station

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday and this guy was like staring at me. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like super tall, goofy looking guy with big thick glasses

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<v Speaker 1>on staring at me. And I was like, what's up? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like he was like kind of scary looking

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<v Speaker 1>because he's so tall. He's just like, oh, sick truck.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, thanks, is that years over there?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, yeah, come take a look at it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he like give me thirty minutes of not

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<v Speaker 1>even like maybe it was like an hour of him

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<v Speaker 1>like going into great detail about everything he's done to

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<v Speaker 1>his truck, and it's a beautiful truck. And eventually I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, how do you like? You know, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you do for work? If you can afford all these

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<v Speaker 1>great upgrades to your truck? You own a house and Aspen,

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<v Speaker 1>you own a house in Jackson Hole. And apparently we

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<v Speaker 1>went to high school together, but I don't remember. He

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of like a kid.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you remember that?

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<v Speaker 1>He eventually because Austin was with me too, and Austin

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<v Speaker 1>knew his sister. But but he was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I've heard of you before, and I was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to like understand who he was. Never it didn't ever

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<v Speaker 1>ring any bails. But it turns out he's an artist

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<v Speaker 1>and he goes around making these giant sculptures of fish

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<v Speaker 1>out of glass. And I was looking at his sculptures

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, Tom and Deerdre would love

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<v Speaker 1>one of these so much. I have to get one.

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<v Speaker 1>And I looked at his website and they were like

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<v Speaker 1>eight thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, is it like that glass blowing thing

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<v Speaker 2>or how does he do it?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it would be that glass blowing, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like blowing. It's just I don't really know how

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<v Speaker 1>glass sculptures work, but they're pretty. They're pretty cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking about I want to get one for them,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's no way I could afford it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good gig two thousand dollars per sculpture.

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<v Speaker 1>There's got to be something else he's got. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he's got two houses and the most expensive

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<v Speaker 1>places to live in America more or less, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>got an eighty thousand dollars truck and he's like going

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<v Speaker 1>to Turks and Kcos tomorrow. And I was like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be doing something the faiyu is to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to afford that. You're not paying for this

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<v Speaker 1>just by your glass sculptures. But but yeah, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to get one of those for Tom and Deirdre as

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<v Speaker 1>a housewarming gift. Maybe I can finagleo something.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, they love that. They love their fish.

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<v Speaker 1>So what else are you guys doing out in Palm Springs?

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<v Speaker 1>Fill us in.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we were supposed to play tennis, but it's pretty hot,

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<v Speaker 2>so I think we'll play pickleball. One of my friends

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<v Speaker 2>brought a portable pickleball net, so we're going to play

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<v Speaker 2>pickleball on the patio.

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<v Speaker 3>It's covered. And then just tan relax.

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<v Speaker 2>We leave tomorrow, so it's just a chill I keep

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<v Speaker 2>saying weekend. It's a weekday, but just a chill couple

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<v Speaker 2>of days.

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<v Speaker 1>How you were there for three nights, two nights.

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<v Speaker 3>Mhmm, yeah, super quick.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you go back to Vegas.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I go to LA, and then I go back

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<v Speaker 2>to Vegas to La. Oh see friends, work out?

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<v Speaker 3>You know usual, you don't want to be home. I

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<v Speaker 3>just I haven't seen my trainer in a while. Like

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<v Speaker 3>to see her. Yeah, my blot's instructor.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gotcha.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds silly, but there is no one in Vegas

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<v Speaker 2>that is can compare it to my blot instruct instructor

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<v Speaker 2>in LA. And it sounds really dumb, but I'm obsessed.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's good. You should get a reformer for the house.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't. I need someone to

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<v Speaker 3>motivate me.

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<v Speaker 1>I could get in there and start parking at you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that'll do it.

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<v Speaker 2>But also, like her classes are so insanely hard, to

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<v Speaker 2>the point where I think, like my body's going to

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<v Speaker 2>break down.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never push myself to that point.

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<v Speaker 1>M Yeah, right, I see what you're saying. It's hard

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<v Speaker 1>to push yourself to that when you're at home working out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And we have like a little gym at the house,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, why would I work out in this

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<v Speaker 2>gym at the house. And I have so much to

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<v Speaker 2>do at the house. So like, be on someone else's

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<v Speaker 2>our time is different for me than being at the

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<v Speaker 2>house trying to work out.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I've realized.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good that's a good realization.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just feel silly for going to La to

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<v Speaker 2>work out, but I'm also seeing friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No, I mean, hey, you got nothing like holding

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<v Speaker 1>you back. You should go and do it and have fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and maybe play tennis.

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<v Speaker 2>The guy that Dean was talking about last week that

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<v Speaker 2>he was falling around like little puppy dog. His wife

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<v Speaker 2>is here, so we might go play tennis on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>Apparently she's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she seems like an athlete. We did beat her

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<v Speaker 1>at bags, but.

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<v Speaker 3>She seems like she's not a good sign.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, not a good sign. Yeah, Well, what else is

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<v Speaker 1>going on in the life of Kaylen? Let's let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>fill us in. I feel like, you know, I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>talked to you in all day, so what was the next.

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<v Speaker 2>I woke up this morning, I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>missed you so much. I know I saw you yesterday,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was such a quick trip.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Kaylen left so early from our wedding venue. We

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't even explored anymore. We got in at night at

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<v Speaker 1>like five pm, had two hours of photographs test.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, yeah, we should talk about photographer, the wedding photographer too.

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<v Speaker 3>I forgot about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we had our wedding tasting, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>went to bed, and then we had to be up

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<v Speaker 1>at five point thirty to drive Kaalin to the airport.

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<v Speaker 1>And we didn't even get to enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but we had a great time. We enjoyed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>We showed up at.

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<v Speaker 2>Four and our wedding photographer came and I think this

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<v Speaker 2>is the coolest concept ever, so the wedding photographer doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>like to meet you for the first time at the wedding.

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<v Speaker 3>He likes to build a.

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<v Speaker 2>Relationship and shoot you beforehand so you're comfortable on the

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<v Speaker 2>day of the wedding. And I think that's so smart.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe more people don't do that. So we

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<v Speaker 2>met him, hung out with him. It was like photos here.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't like a crazy photoshoot, which I think you

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<v Speaker 2>probably appreciated.

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<v Speaker 3>But he's nice, he's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen any of the photos yet?

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<v Speaker 3>No, not yet.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that's super important to have a wedding

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<v Speaker 2>photographer you get along with, because if they annoyed the

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<v Speaker 2>crap out of view or your wedding planter's annoy you,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just not going to be a super enjoyable day

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<v Speaker 2>because you're spending a lot of time with.

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<v Speaker 1>Them, and you enjoyed him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's great. He's so sweet. Did you like.

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<v Speaker 1>Him, Yeah, he's great, he's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>Give me a real opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he's good. I just it's hard to meet someone

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time and do something that you really

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<v Speaker 1>just don't like doing, you know. It's like, but I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think he did a good job. Of like we I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, we could have been more photos. It could

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<v Speaker 2>have been like more painful for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was pain either way. So he's a this

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<v Speaker 1>guy for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>But also we're like looking at the venue technically for

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<v Speaker 2>the first time. So we're exploring and he's just taking

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<v Speaker 2>photos of us exploring.

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<v Speaker 1>And you you got angry at me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just wanted to get the photos over with.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like jumping from rock to rock on a river.

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<v Speaker 2>I always think I'm gonna slip. And Dean was like,

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<v Speaker 2>just do it, just do it, Just prove to me

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<v Speaker 2>you can do it. And I'm like, just put your

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<v Speaker 2>hand out, give me a hand, help me over this

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<v Speaker 2>freak rock.

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<v Speaker 3>And he was like, no, no, no, just do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not giving it. I got I got mad, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not giving the full context. We were walking through the

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<v Speaker 1>woods and I was like, let me carry you through

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<v Speaker 1>the woods. It'll be easier for you to get through.

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<v Speaker 1>Jump on my back and I'll give you a piggyback round.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're like no, dress. You were like, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need your help. You were wearing a long maxi dress.

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<v Speaker 1>So it went very very far down surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what a maxie is.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, I don't need your help, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, fine, you know that's great, good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we go out on these rocks and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like a six inches of a gap where you

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<v Speaker 1>literally can just step across so easily, and it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>scary at all, and you were scared. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>were like, will you just give me your hand? I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, apparently you don't need my help, so

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<v Speaker 1>let's see if you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can just do it so dramatic.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know that's why you weren't giving me your hand,

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<v Speaker 2>because I would wouldn't let you carry me on your back.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm trying to help out, and you said no

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<v Speaker 1>to my help, and so I was just making sure

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<v Speaker 1>that we stuck to that prescription.

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<v Speaker 3>Of you're so stubborn, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>You're upburn for yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>For what?

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<v Speaker 1>For all of that too?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I wanted to walk. I wanted to use my own.

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<v Speaker 1>Legs right until it came to stepping six inches across

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<v Speaker 1>the rock.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to get off the stupid river. It

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<v Speaker 2>was getting cold. I was like, just give me a hand.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to go a lot faster if you just

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<v Speaker 2>give me your hand and I can hop onto this

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<v Speaker 2>rock in the middle of a river.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you feel like such a bigger person though having

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<v Speaker 1>done it yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you always say that rock, no, I feel the

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<v Speaker 2>same size.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe you don't. It's hard to like quantify or

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<v Speaker 1>like recognize the growth that you made in that moment

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<v Speaker 1>because it was such a you know, quick, little harmless thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Always try to make it something bigger. It's not.

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<v Speaker 1>You do it enough, And even if it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, even if it's just one grain of sand

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<v Speaker 1>on top of a little sand dune, it still adds up.

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<v Speaker 1>And eventually that sand dune is going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit bigger, and you're gonna be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more confident. And next time you have to step across

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<v Speaker 1>the rock that's maybe seven inches wide, you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, I've stepped across six inches before, I can

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<v Speaker 1>do seven inches.

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<v Speaker 3>No problem, No incorrect, I disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, you don't have to agree. I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's just one of those things where baby steps

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<v Speaker 1>lead to big, big changes and in your confidence of

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<v Speaker 1>doing those things, And like I'm saying, next time you

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<v Speaker 1>won't even You'll be like, don't help me, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even need it, right, I'm doing it for you, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's true for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Well what else are you most excited about about the venue?

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<v Speaker 2>We saw it for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the cabins are pretty I.

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<v Speaker 3>Liked I sipped really well in the bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, they're nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Like they're cozy cab cabins.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know if we were talking about the cabins,

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<v Speaker 2>if we were saying that, but whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just thinking. I was just thinking about I

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<v Speaker 1>was walking around that cabin and like the floorboards were

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<v Speaker 1>loose and.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's like it's a little bit rustic, mountainy, it's

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<v Speaker 2>but it's They also did a good job of making

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<v Speaker 2>it comfortable, like it's not supposed to be perfect new

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<v Speaker 2>modern home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, you're right, you're right. It was nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry that the floorboards aren't up to your standard.

0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:09.879
<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, floorboards. You want to step on a

0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:12.080
<v Speaker 1>solid floor. You don't want to step on a creaky,

0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:17.000
<v Speaker 1>scary floor that might collapse. But hopefully it's warm, because

0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:19.240
<v Speaker 1>I guess we didn't have the heater on that night,

0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:20.000
<v Speaker 1>and we were fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I couldn't figure out the heater. But or I guess, yeah,

0:20:24.240 --> 0:20:27.200
<v Speaker 2>but I think it's going to be fun. I slept great,

0:20:27.560 --> 0:20:30.919
<v Speaker 2>and we slept in like the lowest cabin. There's like

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<v Speaker 2>tears and we slept was on the lowest.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Oh really, Yeah, So maybe the top tier

0:20:37.840 --> 0:20:39.800
<v Speaker 1>cabin has solid floorboards.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well the other ones have like living rooms and

0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:46.439
<v Speaker 3>kitchens and they're just larger, maybe a little bit better nicer.

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<v Speaker 1>Austin said he stayed up there once over the winter

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<v Speaker 1>on like a snowmobile trip, and he was like, it

0:20:53.640 --> 0:20:57.840
<v Speaker 1>was freezing cold, the heater didn't work and insulated very well,

0:20:57.840 --> 0:20:59.159
<v Speaker 1>and we had a wake up at six am to

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<v Speaker 1>get ready and go out the day. And he was

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<v Speaker 1>like it was awful because of how cool it was.

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<v Speaker 1>But obviously in September.

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<v Speaker 3>Exhausted, he really is just dragging this place down.

0:21:08.000 --> 0:21:10.359
<v Speaker 1>Well, January is just a little different than in September.

0:21:10.680 --> 0:21:12.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but the last time we saw him he was

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<v Speaker 2>also saying stuff about it, how it's he'd never stay

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<v Speaker 2>at that crappy place or something.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll screw him. Yeah, he's don't even freaking invited to

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<v Speaker 1>stay with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it's gonna be really fun. I'm excited. It

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<v Speaker 2>was cool to see it for the first time again

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<v Speaker 2>without snow.

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<v Speaker 1>It was cool to see it for the first time

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<v Speaker 1>again without snow.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, whatever, I don't know. I'm sleeping, my brain's

0:21:35.359 --> 0:21:48.879
<v Speaker 2>not working. Let's talk about your boys weekend.

0:21:50.080 --> 0:21:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, we stayed out until like five am gambling

0:21:52.560 --> 0:21:54.040
<v Speaker 1>the first night, and so I went to bed at

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<v Speaker 1>five thirty am. The next night, my friends came and

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<v Speaker 1>we had a nice, beautiful hotel room at Red Rock

0:21:59.000 --> 0:22:03.200
<v Speaker 1>Casino to bedroom suite, and they I had two buddies

0:22:03.200 --> 0:22:05.800
<v Speaker 1>that were staying in the room with me, and I

0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:07.119
<v Speaker 1>was like, well, I want you guys to have the

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<v Speaker 1>bedrooms because you know, you're guests in our town, So

0:22:10.560 --> 0:22:12.520
<v Speaker 1>you take the bedrooms. I'll sleep on the couch. There

0:22:12.520 --> 0:22:14.720
<v Speaker 1>weren't like any extra blankets, and so I had these long,

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<v Speaker 1>like these long, narrow blankets that I took from the

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<v Speaker 1>like the foot of both of the beds that are.

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<v Speaker 3>Just had blankets those just like decore and.

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<v Speaker 1>I would just put one blanket on my right leg

0:22:24.840 --> 0:22:26.640
<v Speaker 1>and the other blanket on my left leg, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>literally as wide as they were. I would sleep, So

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't sleep really well. Those nights either, and then

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday I slept in our bed, but we had to

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<v Speaker 1>wake up at like five am to go catch.

0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:38.800
<v Speaker 3>Her plate and then to shoot for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, okay, yeah, I spent ten minutes taking of

0:22:42.840 --> 0:22:44.800
<v Speaker 1>a drone video. Thank you so much for waking up

0:22:44.800 --> 0:22:47.080
<v Speaker 1>ten minutes earlier. And then the next day we had

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<v Speaker 1>to wake up again at five thirty am to drive

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<v Speaker 1>you to the airport for you, because you had to

0:22:50.520 --> 0:22:55.239
<v Speaker 1>go to the airport for you so much. And then

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<v Speaker 1>last night I slept in the parking uh what a

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<v Speaker 1>what was it called the driveway in my truck, and

0:23:01.520 --> 0:23:03.199
<v Speaker 1>there was like next to a main road, and so

0:23:03.320 --> 0:23:05.359
<v Speaker 1>like every thirty minutes a big truck would try by

0:23:05.520 --> 0:23:08.320
<v Speaker 1>jarmy awake. So I just I just had him sleeping

0:23:08.400 --> 0:23:09.040
<v Speaker 1>very well lately.

0:23:09.640 --> 0:23:11.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I same.

0:23:12.359 --> 0:23:14.880
<v Speaker 2>The first night, Dean came home at five am, woke

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<v Speaker 2>me up, tried to cuddle and I was like, it's

0:23:17.240 --> 0:23:17.840
<v Speaker 2>five am.

0:23:18.240 --> 0:23:19.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to cuddle right now.

0:23:20.119 --> 0:23:22.600
<v Speaker 2>And then slept without you for two nights, and then

0:23:22.680 --> 0:23:26.200
<v Speaker 2>when he came back, Dean like put his arm around

0:23:26.200 --> 0:23:27.800
<v Speaker 2>me and then just started tapping my head.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, me up.

0:23:30.840 --> 0:23:34.080
<v Speaker 2>And then I slept with a pillow over over my

0:23:34.160 --> 0:23:37.280
<v Speaker 2>head and Deane just took it off my head in

0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:38.760
<v Speaker 2>the middle of me sleeping, and I was like, hey,

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:42.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm using that. He's like, you'll be fine, took it.

0:23:42.240 --> 0:23:43.040
<v Speaker 2>It's so rude.

0:23:43.680 --> 0:23:45.199
<v Speaker 1>You weren't using the pillow.

0:23:45.400 --> 0:23:47.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm using it on top of my head.

0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:49.840
<v Speaker 1>What a weird You don't put pillows on top of

0:23:49.880 --> 0:23:51.439
<v Speaker 1>your head. You put pillows below your head.

0:23:51.280 --> 0:23:53.840
<v Speaker 3>When you're trying to cancel out noise. Yes you do.

0:23:54.720 --> 0:24:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Mmm, well, sorry, I was asleep. I was asleep and

0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:01.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't know what I was doing.

0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:02.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:24:02.560 --> 0:24:05.600
<v Speaker 2>Anyways, I haven't been sleeping great either. My sleep score

0:24:05.640 --> 0:24:07.680
<v Speaker 2>has been the lowest it's ever been. It's at fifty

0:24:08.040 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 2>for the past day.

0:24:09.200 --> 0:24:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Blasts Jese Louise.

0:24:11.160 --> 0:24:12.879
<v Speaker 3>For you stealing pillows and stuff.

0:24:13.320 --> 0:24:16.360
<v Speaker 1>Dean did this. Dean made my sleep suck because of this.

0:24:16.920 --> 0:24:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Dean did this?

0:24:18.880 --> 0:24:22.879
<v Speaker 3>Then, Yeah, I got to hold you accountable whatever.

0:24:24.400 --> 0:24:26.159
<v Speaker 1>I was reading the comments on our Instagram page the

0:24:26.200 --> 0:24:26.479
<v Speaker 1>other day.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just about to say, should we talk about

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:30.440
<v Speaker 2>it about how.

0:24:30.359 --> 0:24:32.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to celebrate our wedding anniversary and under

0:24:32.240 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 1>other celebrator engagement anniversary. Everyone's so mean on Instagram.

0:24:35.960 --> 0:24:37.840
<v Speaker 2>I know that there are two people who understood where

0:24:37.880 --> 0:24:41.000
<v Speaker 2>you're coming from, Like, you chose a very important date

0:24:42.240 --> 0:24:45.000
<v Speaker 2>for the date that we got engaged, and I think

0:24:45.000 --> 0:24:46.840
<v Speaker 2>two people understood that, and the rest of the people

0:24:46.880 --> 0:24:50.280
<v Speaker 2>were just being so mean, yeah.

0:24:50.160 --> 0:24:53.040
<v Speaker 1>Super mean, And you chose a very non important date.

0:24:53.560 --> 0:24:55.360
<v Speaker 1>Not that it's not going to be important, but it

0:24:55.400 --> 0:24:57.560
<v Speaker 1>means nothing to me right now. The date of our

0:24:57.560 --> 0:25:01.160
<v Speaker 1>wedding literally means nothing to me at the moment. Well

0:25:01.400 --> 0:25:04.640
<v Speaker 1>it will, yeh will, yeah, it will. So right now,

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:07.360
<v Speaker 1>my feelings are the date that I chose is far

0:25:07.400 --> 0:25:09.600
<v Speaker 1>more important than the date that we were basically given

0:25:10.040 --> 0:25:11.720
<v Speaker 1>by some people, because that was the date that we

0:25:11.760 --> 0:25:13.080
<v Speaker 1>had had to.

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<v Speaker 3>Do it, you know, mm hmm yeah, I think.

0:25:17.000 --> 0:25:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Also, I don't know, maybe you weren't being sarcastic, but

0:25:22.040 --> 0:25:22.400
<v Speaker 2>I wasn't.

0:25:22.560 --> 0:25:25.399
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I was like obviously hamming it up a

0:25:25.440 --> 0:25:28.840
<v Speaker 1>little bit for the topic, but like that's just how

0:25:28.880 --> 0:25:31.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel. I'm sorry. I don't think a random date

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:34.239
<v Speaker 1>that was given to us by a property because that

0:25:34.280 --> 0:25:36.480
<v Speaker 1>was the only available date is important right now because

0:25:36.520 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 1>nothing has happened on the date yet.

0:25:38.200 --> 0:25:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but once we get married, it will. But also

0:25:40.640 --> 0:25:43.679
<v Speaker 2>the people, the things people are saying are just so awful.

0:25:43.880 --> 0:25:46.159
<v Speaker 1>I think it's great that people get so passionate about it.

0:25:46.240 --> 0:25:47.439
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's fine, No, but I.

0:25:47.400 --> 0:25:49.040
<v Speaker 3>Don't like when people say mean things to you.

0:25:49.280 --> 0:25:50.840
<v Speaker 1>But it's not even like they're saying mean things to me.

0:25:50.880 --> 0:25:54.239
<v Speaker 1>They're sometimes saying mean things about you to me. You know,

0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 1>Like it's good that it's good that we can evoke

0:25:56.600 --> 0:25:58.679
<v Speaker 1>some emotion in the podcast. I mean, that's what it is.

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:02.159
<v Speaker 1>People have disagreements about certain things in relationships. We just

0:26:02.200 --> 0:26:05.840
<v Speaker 1>simply share ours publicly and outwardly, and it strikes to

0:26:05.920 --> 0:26:07.359
<v Speaker 1>court with people sometimes, and that's fine.

0:26:07.560 --> 0:26:10.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm fine with I don't think it's necessarily a disagreement.

0:26:11.240 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 3>That was news to me. I was hearing it for

0:26:12.880 --> 0:26:14.520
<v Speaker 3>the first time with everyone else.

0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 1>It was the first time I thought about it. And

0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:19.840
<v Speaker 1>sometimes I just talk without really fully thinking about things.

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:24.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you do that often on here. Yeah, you have

0:26:24.640 --> 0:26:28.119
<v Speaker 2>there been any headlines about this? Dean refuses to celebrate

0:26:28.920 --> 0:26:29.920
<v Speaker 2>wedding anniversary.

0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:34.560
<v Speaker 1>But I'm surprised that there weren't, just because of the

0:26:34.600 --> 0:26:38.359
<v Speaker 1>track record of those situations. But I stand by what

0:26:38.440 --> 0:26:38.800
<v Speaker 1>I said.

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:40.480
<v Speaker 3>You know, I get where you're coming from.

0:26:40.720 --> 0:26:43.840
<v Speaker 1>I'll celebrate our engagement date. You can celebrate our wedding anniversary.

0:26:44.880 --> 0:26:45.840
<v Speaker 3>I get where you're coming from.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't agree with it, because, like, once we get married,

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:53.200
<v Speaker 2>that's going to be an important date to you, right,

0:26:53.280 --> 0:26:56.040
<v Speaker 2>I understand, but you just can't picture that right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, well, that's why I wanted to get married

0:26:58.200 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 1>on October twenty fourth, but you wouldn't let me.

0:27:00.480 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 2>So it would be our guest.

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 3>This would be so small. Who can take off that long?

0:27:07.800 --> 0:27:09.320
<v Speaker 1>If they love us, they would come.

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, unfortunately, we already put all the money into

0:27:13.160 --> 0:27:14.840
<v Speaker 2>this date and we can't change it.

0:27:15.560 --> 0:27:18.040
<v Speaker 1>No. I get that, but you know people are saying,

0:27:18.080 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>like you say it yourself, I'm stubborn. I need to

0:27:21.359 --> 0:27:25.600
<v Speaker 1>be able to concede more in certain situations. And it's like, yeah, people, listen,

0:27:25.760 --> 0:27:27.879
<v Speaker 1>I wanted more than anything to get married on October

0:27:27.960 --> 0:27:30.920
<v Speaker 1>twenty fourth. I am giving concessions and saying, okay, fine,

0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:32.960
<v Speaker 1>maybe we can get married in September instead of my

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 1>least favorite month of the year.

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:37.520
<v Speaker 3>No, no, you gotta let go of that one.

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Now we have to celebrate a very meaningful day to

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:45.760
<v Speaker 1>us in a very bad month. And I'm not a

0:27:45.760 --> 0:27:46.200
<v Speaker 1>bad month.

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:48.040
<v Speaker 3>There's one bad date, but it's not a bad month.

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:50.920
<v Speaker 1>The whole month is sullied by that one bad date,

0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:55.040
<v Speaker 1>in my opinion, And maybe we can try to resurrect

0:27:55.080 --> 0:27:58.119
<v Speaker 1>the month of September by starting it with this occasion.

0:27:58.200 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 3>I don't think. I don't think it's dead. I don't

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:02.560
<v Speaker 3>think needs to be resurrected. But sure it's a it's.

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:04.760
<v Speaker 1>A grassroots movement to just, okay, maybe shine it in

0:28:05.080 --> 0:28:06.000
<v Speaker 1>a bit of a better light.

0:28:07.040 --> 0:28:08.240
<v Speaker 3>Most people like September.

0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:11.680
<v Speaker 1>No, who likes September. I don't think I've ever even

0:28:11.720 --> 0:28:15.639
<v Speaker 1>heard anyone sing sing the word September in a song

0:28:16.119 --> 0:28:17.640
<v Speaker 1>like about waking up or anything like that.

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:20.720
<v Speaker 3>So, well, that's about waking up when it ends, so

0:28:22.440 --> 0:28:23.359
<v Speaker 3>oh perfect for you.

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, that should be your first dance song. No,

0:28:28.000 --> 0:28:32.320
<v Speaker 1>that's awful, that's very funny. I honestly thought he was

0:28:32.840 --> 0:28:33.880
<v Speaker 1>that's perfect.

0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:35.360
<v Speaker 3>He thought he was hyping up September.

0:28:36.480 --> 0:28:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just knew that he was talking

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 1>about September. Who sings that.

0:28:41.680 --> 0:28:42.760
<v Speaker 3>Third eye blind? I don't know.

0:28:43.960 --> 0:28:47.120
<v Speaker 1>You. Every time I asked who sing something, you default

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:48.600
<v Speaker 1>the third eye blind. It's green one day.

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:52.000
<v Speaker 2>It will be Oh that makes sense? Close close to

0:28:52.040 --> 0:28:52.720
<v Speaker 2>third eye blind?

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Everyone is close to third eye blind. That's why you

0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 1>can get awayway saying that. Yeah. But yeah, so there's

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:01.560
<v Speaker 1>me giving session. I wanted nothing more than to get

0:29:01.560 --> 0:29:04.600
<v Speaker 1>married on Tuesday in October, and I always told that's

0:29:04.600 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 1>a horrible idea, and so I said, Okay, fine, let's

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:10.280
<v Speaker 1>do it in September then, because that's what you want.

0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:13.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm excited for a wedding, even though it sounds

0:29:13.560 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 3>like you're not.

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not excited about the month.

0:29:20.200 --> 0:29:23.040
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:29:23.160 --> 0:29:24.720
<v Speaker 2>People in the comments were telling me I need to

0:29:24.760 --> 0:29:27.080
<v Speaker 2>really put you in your place. This is what I

0:29:27.160 --> 0:29:29.680
<v Speaker 2>but I took away from it and not just giggle

0:29:29.720 --> 0:29:31.280
<v Speaker 2>and laugh at the things you're saying. But I also

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:32.920
<v Speaker 2>know that most of the things you're saying are just

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:35.680
<v Speaker 2>like ridiculous, and you're saying it for a reaction. So

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:37.600
<v Speaker 2>by putting you in your place, I'm giving you the

0:29:37.640 --> 0:29:40.040
<v Speaker 2>reaction that you want. By laughing, I'm not giving you

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:42.960
<v Speaker 2>the reaction you want. So I'm doing the correct thing.

0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Actually, what did dilemma your face to it? Think it's

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 1>a catch twenty two. If you get if you put

0:29:48.400 --> 0:29:50.640
<v Speaker 1>me in my place, I am being fulfilled in my

0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 1>quest to get a reaction. But if you laugh. Then

0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:56.240
<v Speaker 1>it looks like you're not putting me in my place.

0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:58.040
<v Speaker 2>To the like, I'm just passive and I let you

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<v Speaker 2>do anything. I'm like, oh, it's quite the outs.

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<v Speaker 1>So the thing you don't let me do anything, I

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<v Speaker 1>am the one doing the thing. Getting married in September

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<v Speaker 1>for you. When I want to get married in October,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a big that's a big coggestion.

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<v Speaker 3>You've said that a couple of times. We know that,

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<v Speaker 3>Actually you say that like every episode of the podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>We know that.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to get married in September.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, fine, you hate this month so much,

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<v Speaker 2>let's just get married in October. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to deal with the back and forth

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<v Speaker 2>of it. So let's get married in October. We go

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<v Speaker 2>to the wedding venue. I've told this story so many times,

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<v Speaker 2>but I have to tell it again. We go to

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding venue and they're like, it's pretty cold in October.

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<v Speaker 2>You're definitely guaranteed not you're more likely to get leaves changing,

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<v Speaker 2>which is what you wanted, and better weather in September.

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<v Speaker 2>So you said, let's doe September. I looked over to you,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, are you sure? Are you sure

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<v Speaker 2>you want to walk in this date? Because you were

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<v Speaker 2>very adamant. You're very adamant not having September as our

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<v Speaker 2>wedding month, and you were like, yeah, let's do it.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll be better weather because.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so gracious and caring and giving and any that's

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<v Speaker 1>what you wanted, and I'm selfless, and I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is for meaings.

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<v Speaker 3>We're getting married in September. So it's like, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, it's fine, it's fine now. But I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying I feel like I get scrutinized for the things

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<v Speaker 1>that I do wrong, but I never get any credit

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<v Speaker 1>for the things that I do right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>People are like, there's no compromise, it's Dean's way and

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<v Speaker 2>that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not true. Actually, I get a lot of things

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<v Speaker 3>that I.

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<v Speaker 1>Want right, but right we just don't make up expectacle

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<v Speaker 1>out of the things that you get that you want.

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<v Speaker 1>We do make aup expectable spectacle out of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Well don't want because you put an emphasis on it.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the one bringing it up, so it's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, I think I need to take like a communication

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<v Speaker 1>one a one class or something and get.

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<v Speaker 3>Back to college.

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<v Speaker 2>But from someone with a communications degree, I would agree, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a business guy. I only know business numbers, money stats, charts.

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<v Speaker 1>But all that to say is it doesn't it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily affect me. So I'm okay with I'm okay with it.

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<v Speaker 1>But the back, you know, it just I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>it to affect you negatively. So I guess I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Like you when people are made. But I guess I'll

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<v Speaker 3>get over it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll read some more Dale Carnegie or something and figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. But but yeah, So that's basically a quick

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<v Speaker 1>synopsis of our past week. And you know, we're excited

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<v Speaker 1>to get married in September. Not excited about the month,

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<v Speaker 1>but excited about the The event will being really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's about it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was very cool. I mean, the next time we'll

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<v Speaker 2>be there will be our wedding day. And I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like the menu tasting was just it was just so

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<v Speaker 2>fun to be there and like sleep in the cabin

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<v Speaker 2>before everyone else gets there and scope it out a bit.

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<v Speaker 3>It was cool with you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go back tonight.

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<v Speaker 3>What why.

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<v Speaker 1>Because one of the mountains I want to climb. Is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of over in that direction anyways, And so I

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<v Speaker 1>might as well go and do some stuff that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do before I had to take you to

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<v Speaker 1>the airport, Like why I want to walk around that

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<v Speaker 1>aspen grove and see if it's cool enough to consider

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<v Speaker 1>doing anything over there.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't think the one behind the cabin is

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<v Speaker 3>an aspen grove. I think it's just what's well, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Said, there was a big circle where they could have

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<v Speaker 1>the ceremony, So I just wanted to go check it

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<v Speaker 1>out with these things we don't know. You don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, but I would like for Reid FaceTime you.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do that, I'll FaceTime you. I just have

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<v Speaker 1>your service up there.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay, maybe take photos and videos then never mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well yeah, so we'll figure it out. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get to we'll get to where we need to

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<v Speaker 1>be by whenever we need to be thereby. That's uh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's great. Great, thanks for the update. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to take a quick break and we're going to bring

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<v Speaker 1>in our guests, and you guys are not going to

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<v Speaker 1>want to miss these guests. It is Taylor and Sophia Watts.

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<v Speaker 1>You've probably seen them on TikTok. They are a young

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<v Speaker 1>married couple and they are very, very cute. Come back

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<v Speaker 1>on Thursday and we'll talk to them on Thursday. So

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<v Speaker 1>stick to stick around for that, stick to it, stick tuned,

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