Speaker 1: Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds?
Speaker 2: With Dean Aungler, Caylen Lurkey, and Jared Haven an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 1: What's going on? Everybody? Welcome to an all new episode
Speaker 1: of Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds? And it's my
Speaker 1: favorite kind of episode. Every single time Jared's gone, I
Speaker 1: just I feel like I've got the best time of
Speaker 1: my And I'm just kidding. Actually, Jared's not here this week.
Speaker 1: He has a Audrey's emergency? Is that what it was? Kaylan?
Speaker 3: I don't actually remember.
Speaker 1: It was something like that, something with work. But he's
Speaker 1: not going to be joining us this week, So it's
Speaker 1: just yours truly and Kaylin Cool and Kaylin and the
Speaker 1: Queen herself reporting live from Palm Springs, California, where she's
Speaker 1: sunbathing and tennis bawling and drinking non alcoholic rose because
Speaker 1: that's her thing nowadays. How is how is Palm Springs?
Speaker 1: You were, uh, the second you got to Palm Springs yesterday,
Speaker 1: you were very absent from talking to me, which is
Speaker 1: a good thing. I just forgee, that means you're having fun.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So yesterday flew from Aspen asked been to Denver,
Speaker 2: Denver to Vegas. Got straight in my car dubbed Palm Springs.
Speaker 2: It was a long travel day.
Speaker 3: Got there.
Speaker 2: The girls all met for lunch before we checked into
Speaker 2: the hotel, and I was like, can you just wait
Speaker 2: a little bit longer. I really want to margarita. So
Speaker 2: I went stopped hung out with them, and then I
Speaker 2: got the house. So they were like, we're going to
Speaker 2: go grocery shopping. You don't know us anything, We're going
Speaker 2: to get take care of it all, which was super
Speaker 2: nice of them.
Speaker 3: So then I came checked out the house.
Speaker 2: The house is pretty cool and it's Tyra banks old house,
Speaker 2: and it feels like Tyra Banks. Like when you're in
Speaker 2: this house, there's mirrors everywhere. It just feels like she
Speaker 2: would live here.
Speaker 1: Well that's cool. So at night one was good. It
Speaker 1: was a success.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I really hate being hungover, so I'm trying to take
Speaker 2: it easy on drinking. And I was drinking a lot
Speaker 2: of water, a lot of sparkling water.
Speaker 1: Oh that's good.
Speaker 2: I feel great this morning. Also, our my friend gave
Speaker 2: us these little patches to put on. She's like she
Speaker 2: typically takes them after she drinks, like the morning after.
Speaker 2: But we took them put them on our wrists while
Speaker 2: we were drinking, and I think that helped too. It's
Speaker 2: like pushing your body with itamins and stuff.
Speaker 1: Yeah, whenever I I don't really drink a lot anymore.
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes I do, sure, sure, But when I
Speaker 1: was like in my party days, if I ever remember
Speaker 1: to either take a couple advil in the middle of
Speaker 1: the like before going hard or whatever, like you know,
Speaker 1: at like midnight when you're still like some parting ahead
Speaker 1: of you, when you still have some parting ahead of you,
Speaker 1: or you take like some emergency at like eleven PM,
Speaker 1: so you're like a couple drinks in and you know
Speaker 1: you're going to be drinking more, and you can like
Speaker 1: plan ahead like that, which didn't happen often, but every
Speaker 1: time I did it, I felt amazing. It's like one
Speaker 1: of those like preemptive just get ahead of it sort
Speaker 1: of things.
Speaker 3: So it's so smart. It's something we should be doing.
Speaker 1: Every time, right, That's what I'm saying. We should be
Speaker 1: doing it, But I used to forget. I am I'm
Speaker 1: a little hungover. I had six beers yesterday, which is
Speaker 1: a lot for me, and just slept in my truck
Speaker 1: in the driveway of a friend's house. So just you know,
Speaker 1: could have been a little bit better of a night
Speaker 1: for me, but it's good that you have fun.
Speaker 3: Well, there's two things that I want to talk about. One,
Speaker 3: I was in Aspen.
Speaker 2: We were in Aspen doing our food tasting. But before
Speaker 2: we get to that, alistair has improved.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I sent Kalen a video. Our friend has a
Speaker 1: beautiful three and a half year old Golden Retriever and
Speaker 1: they were playing together yesterday and it was the most cutest,
Speaker 1: cutest moment. And I texted you that and you just
Speaker 1: kind of were like, yeah, that's cool. But I know
Speaker 1: you're busy, but I was like, you don't.
Speaker 3: I was very excited. Are you kidding me? I was
Speaker 3: very excited. In my text.
Speaker 1: You just sent one line and you said, oh, happy
Speaker 1: for him or something.
Speaker 2: I said, what with a bunch of exclamation points. I
Speaker 2: don't believe my eyes. A bunch of exclamation points. Whose
Speaker 2: dog is that?
Speaker 1: It's okay. I wasn't expecting much because you are on
Speaker 1: a girl's trip, so I was like, oh, she's busy
Speaker 1: to it everyone.
Speaker 3: I was like, well, guys, but I just.
Speaker 1: Wanted you to see him having a good time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's doing good. And now he's just passed that next
Speaker 1: to me, wiped out.
Speaker 2: How did you introduce them off leash?
Speaker 1: Of course I don't think I even have the leash
Speaker 1: with me.
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. But how like how did it go
Speaker 3: when they first met?
Speaker 1: He just walked into the house together and the other
Speaker 1: dog was in the house, and he was good right away.
Speaker 1: He's a good boy, you just especially when he when
Speaker 1: he doesn't have your nervous energy around him or about
Speaker 1: him being around to their dogs. He's a good boy.
Speaker 3: So he walked into the house and the other dog
Speaker 3: was super excited to see him, and he didn't growl,
Speaker 3: he didn't bark.
Speaker 1: He like growled and barked, but he didn't like bite
Speaker 1: and lunge. And that lasted for five seconds and then
Speaker 1: they were totally fine. And then we just like took
Speaker 1: him in the backyard and you know, alisair played for
Speaker 1: like ten seconds, which wasn't very long, but ten seconds
Speaker 1: for his little stubby legs is probably like two hours
Speaker 1: of exercise for a regular size dog. So he was
Speaker 1: pretty worked out after that, which was nice. They got
Speaker 1: along so well, Yeah, he's good. He Austin is like
Speaker 1: taking a picture of him at one point yesterday and
Speaker 1: he like freaked out and he wasn't even close to him.
Speaker 1: He was like three feet away. I think he was
Speaker 1: just like, you can't take my picture. So that was
Speaker 1: pretty funny.
Speaker 3: Yeah, did Austin pedimental.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's sneaking some pets in every once in a while.
Speaker 1: He's getting better.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're progressing with their aggressive dog.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's doing good. But yeah, so girls Weekend's good.
Speaker 3: About the wedding tasting?
Speaker 1: Yeah, do you want to talk about it? Yeah?
Speaker 3: It was so fun. Do you want to talk about it?
Speaker 1: I d share. Let's talk about it.
Speaker 2: So we flew to Denver two days ago at this
Speaker 2: point three days ago and drove Dean drove us to
Speaker 2: Aspen and we saw our wedding venue for the very
Speaker 2: first time without it being covered in snow. So we
Speaker 2: got to see kind of how the setup is going
Speaker 2: to be in a couple months, which was really cool.
Speaker 3: And then we slept at the property. It was it
Speaker 3: was great.
Speaker 2: And then the food tasting, so, I the way that
Speaker 2: the setup is with our wedding venue, my expectations for
Speaker 2: the food were so incredibly low. I was like, it's
Speaker 2: just a cool concept. Where we're getting married. It's gonna
Speaker 2: be awesome. The food's probably going to suck, but it'll
Speaker 2: be fine. And the food was incredible.
Speaker 1: Yeah, fresh farm to table food.
Speaker 3: I got a check from New York as well.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and no, it was great food. And we had
Speaker 1: like every meal that they offer. There's like four appetizers,
Speaker 1: one variant appetizer, and then five entrees and then like
Speaker 1: two desserts. And everything was very very good.
Speaker 3: And we ranked everything. There was a menu in front
Speaker 3: of us.
Speaker 2: We ranked everything before we ate it what we thought
Speaker 2: would be like first to last, and then we ranked
Speaker 2: it after we ate them and didn't show each other,
Speaker 2: and then we could like decide together based on those
Speaker 2: rankings what we were going to go with, and it
Speaker 2: made it pretty easy. Yeah, and we mostly did that.
Speaker 2: We did that because Dean thinks that I am easily persuaded,
Speaker 2: which I am, and so right, that's probably why you well,
Speaker 2: you don't like to ask me. You like to ask
Speaker 2: me how I like to movie before you answer, because
Speaker 2: you think that I'm going to change my answer depending
Speaker 2: on your answer.
Speaker 3: So I figure that's kind of why we did.
Speaker 1: That, right, of course, I don't think that's what you do.
Speaker 1: That is what you do, that is what I do.
Speaker 1: So I always try to get your opinion out of
Speaker 1: you first before I give mine, because I know that mine,
Speaker 1: good or bad, might sway to yours more than more
Speaker 1: than and that's not a bad thing.
Speaker 2: I think you said, I'll go with the flow you know,
Speaker 2: you take.
Speaker 1: You absorb information, and I think that's a good thing.
Speaker 1: You know, you you absorb it and you consider it
Speaker 1: and then you factor that into your answer.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, interesting.
Speaker 1: But there are certain things like for the food of
Speaker 1: the wedding, it shouldn't be anyone else's, Like no one
Speaker 1: else's opinion should matter about your own, Like you should
Speaker 1: pay the food that you want the most, you know.
Speaker 3: I know I kept thinking that too.
Speaker 2: I was like, well, what if you know this person
Speaker 2: doesn't eat meat, or we need to have this option,
Speaker 2: and then I was like, I don't know. Yeah, easily
Speaker 2: persuaded straight from Dean's wedding boughs. Yeah, but it made
Speaker 2: it a lot easier just to go through that list
Speaker 2: not show each other. And it's like the deviled eggs
Speaker 2: were so good. I got to the Girl's weekend and
Speaker 2: everyone's like, how is the food? And I'm like, I
Speaker 2: can't stop talking about the devil eggs. They were insane.
Speaker 2: Never had devil riggs so good.
Speaker 1: They had a nice caramelized onion on top to provide
Speaker 1: a nice crunch. Very delicious. So it also picked a
Speaker 1: nice stuffed mushroom, which typically I would never It was
Speaker 1: the lowest one on my pre ranking and the second
Speaker 1: highest on my post ranking, so it was very good.
Speaker 1: But then the bacon wrap dates were very good.
Speaker 3: But that's where the toss up was bacon wrap dates
Speaker 3: versus stuff mushrooms.
Speaker 1: What was the last one? A cbch A so vch
Speaker 1: was good, but it was on a plantain cracker, and
Speaker 1: the plantain cracker just to have the snap that we
Speaker 1: wanted it to.
Speaker 3: Yeah, the crunch. This is also.
Speaker 1: Crunch snap crunch.
Speaker 3: Pop snap crackle pop.
Speaker 2: And also so there's two tiers for the main courses.
Speaker 2: There's a skirt steak with salmon that's the less expensive one,
Speaker 2: and then the more expensive one is a ribbi with
Speaker 2: stuffed trout. And we liked the less expensive one more
Speaker 2: and I kind of feel like they're going to switch
Speaker 2: because everyone liked that more.
Speaker 1: It wasn't stuffed trout. I don't think was it it was.
Speaker 1: It was it was trout on top of mushroom and caviar.
Speaker 3: It was stuffed. Oh but the same thing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is all the same thing, I guess. But yeah,
Speaker 1: it was good. It was just a little too heavy
Speaker 1: on the mushroom. I'm not a big fan of trout
Speaker 1: and caviar. I don't have a find enough of a
Speaker 1: palette to enjoy caviar.
Speaker 2: So it was it wasn't caviar. It was row like
Speaker 2: the orange Sheppy put on top of salmon.
Speaker 1: It was roe. That's right. Maybe it was maybe that
Speaker 1: maybe roe was caviar though, do you oh maybe, I
Speaker 1: mean it's fish egg I guess, right, guess.
Speaker 2: But they did put caviar on the menu, and I
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I'm excited for caviar.
Speaker 3: It's not caviar.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And so we got skirt steaks salmon.
Speaker 3: And the salmon's from Alaska, so and I don't know,
Speaker 3: I'm excited about our menu.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my gosh. I was at the gas station
Speaker 1: yesterday and this guy was like staring at me. It's
Speaker 1: like super tall, goofy looking guy with big thick glasses
Speaker 1: on staring at me. And I was like, what's up? Man?
Speaker 1: And he's like he was like kind of scary looking
Speaker 1: because he's so tall. He's just like, oh, sick truck.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, thanks, is that years over there?
Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, come take a look at it.
Speaker 1: And so he like give me thirty minutes of not
Speaker 1: even like maybe it was like an hour of him
Speaker 1: like going into great detail about everything he's done to
Speaker 1: his truck, and it's a beautiful truck. And eventually I
Speaker 1: was like, how do you like? You know, what do
Speaker 1: you do for work? If you can afford all these
Speaker 1: great upgrades to your truck? You own a house and Aspen,
Speaker 1: you own a house in Jackson Hole. And apparently we
Speaker 1: went to high school together, but I don't remember. He
Speaker 1: was kind of like a kid.
Speaker 3: Can you remember that?
Speaker 1: He eventually because Austin was with me too, and Austin
Speaker 1: knew his sister. But but he was like, oh, I
Speaker 1: think I've heard of you before, and I was trying
Speaker 1: to like understand who he was. Never it didn't ever
Speaker 1: ring any bails. But it turns out he's an artist
Speaker 1: and he goes around making these giant sculptures of fish
Speaker 1: out of glass. And I was looking at his sculptures
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, Tom and Deerdre would love
Speaker 1: one of these so much. I have to get one.
Speaker 1: And I looked at his website and they were like
Speaker 1: eight thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, is it like that glass blowing thing
Speaker 2: or how does he do it?
Speaker 1: I thought it would be that glass blowing, but it's
Speaker 1: not like blowing. It's just I don't really know how
Speaker 1: glass sculptures work, but they're pretty. They're pretty cool. I
Speaker 1: was thinking about I want to get one for them,
Speaker 1: but there's no way I could afford it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good gig two thousand dollars per sculpture.
Speaker 1: There's got to be something else he's got. I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, he's got two houses and the most expensive
Speaker 1: places to live in America more or less, and he's
Speaker 1: got an eighty thousand dollars truck and he's like going
Speaker 1: to Turks and Kcos tomorrow. And I was like, dude,
Speaker 1: you have to be doing something the faiyu is to
Speaker 1: be able to afford that. You're not paying for this
Speaker 1: just by your glass sculptures. But but yeah, I want
Speaker 1: to get one of those for Tom and Deirdre as
Speaker 1: a housewarming gift. Maybe I can finagleo something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they love that. They love their fish.
Speaker 1: So what else are you guys doing out in Palm Springs?
Speaker 1: Fill us in.
Speaker 2: Well, we were supposed to play tennis, but it's pretty hot,
Speaker 2: so I think we'll play pickleball. One of my friends
Speaker 2: brought a portable pickleball net, so we're going to play
Speaker 2: pickleball on the patio.
Speaker 3: It's covered. And then just tan relax.
Speaker 2: We leave tomorrow, so it's just a chill I keep
Speaker 2: saying weekend. It's a weekday, but just a chill couple
Speaker 2: of days.
Speaker 1: How you were there for three nights, two nights.
Speaker 3: Mhmm, yeah, super quick.
Speaker 1: And then you go back to Vegas.
Speaker 2: Then I go to LA, and then I go back
Speaker 2: to Vegas to La. Oh see friends, work out?
Speaker 3: You know usual, you don't want to be home. I
Speaker 3: just I haven't seen my trainer in a while. Like
Speaker 3: to see her. Yeah, my blot's instructor.
Speaker 1: Oh gotcha.
Speaker 2: It sounds silly, but there is no one in Vegas
Speaker 2: that is can compare it to my blot instruct instructor
Speaker 2: in LA. And it sounds really dumb, but I'm obsessed.
Speaker 1: Well that's good. You should get a reformer for the house.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't. I need someone to
Speaker 3: motivate me.
Speaker 1: I could get in there and start parking at you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that'll do it.
Speaker 2: But also, like her classes are so insanely hard, to
Speaker 2: the point where I think, like my body's going to
Speaker 2: break down.
Speaker 3: I would never push myself to that point.
Speaker 1: M Yeah, right, I see what you're saying. It's hard
Speaker 1: to push yourself to that when you're at home working out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And we have like a little gym at the house,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, why would I work out in this
Speaker 2: gym at the house. And I have so much to
Speaker 2: do at the house. So like, be on someone else's
Speaker 2: our time is different for me than being at the
Speaker 2: house trying to work out.
Speaker 3: That's what I've realized.
Speaker 1: That's a good that's a good realization.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just feel silly for going to La to
Speaker 2: work out, but I'm also seeing friends.
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I mean, hey, you got nothing like holding
Speaker 1: you back. You should go and do it and have fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and maybe play tennis.
Speaker 2: The guy that Dean was talking about last week that
Speaker 2: he was falling around like little puppy dog. His wife
Speaker 2: is here, so we might go play tennis on Saturday.
Speaker 2: Apparently she's pretty good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she seems like an athlete. We did beat her
Speaker 1: at bags, but.
Speaker 3: She seems like she's not a good sign.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not a good sign. Yeah, Well, what else is
Speaker 1: going on in the life of Kaylen? Let's let's let's
Speaker 1: fill us in. I feel like, you know, I haven't
Speaker 1: talked to you in all day, so what was the next.
Speaker 2: I woke up this morning, I was like, oh, I
Speaker 2: missed you so much. I know I saw you yesterday,
Speaker 2: but it was such a quick trip.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Kaylen left so early from our wedding venue. We
Speaker 1: couldn't even explored anymore. We got in at night at
Speaker 1: like five pm, had two hours of photographs test.
Speaker 3: Wait, yeah, we should talk about photographer, the wedding photographer too.
Speaker 3: I forgot about it.
Speaker 1: And then we had our wedding tasting, and then we
Speaker 1: went to bed, and then we had to be up
Speaker 1: at five point thirty to drive Kaalin to the airport.
Speaker 1: And we didn't even get to enjoy it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but we had a great time. We enjoyed it.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: We showed up at.
Speaker 2: Four and our wedding photographer came and I think this
Speaker 2: is the coolest concept ever, so the wedding photographer doesn't
Speaker 2: like to meet you for the first time at the wedding.
Speaker 3: He likes to build a.
Speaker 2: Relationship and shoot you beforehand so you're comfortable on the
Speaker 2: day of the wedding. And I think that's so smart.
Speaker 2: I can't believe more people don't do that. So we
Speaker 2: met him, hung out with him. It was like photos here.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like a crazy photoshoot, which I think you
Speaker 2: probably appreciated.
Speaker 3: But he's nice, he's great.
Speaker 1: Have you seen any of the photos yet?
Speaker 3: No, not yet.
Speaker 2: But I think that's super important to have a wedding
Speaker 2: photographer you get along with, because if they annoyed the
Speaker 2: crap out of view or your wedding planter's annoy you,
Speaker 2: it's just not going to be a super enjoyable day
Speaker 2: because you're spending a lot of time with.
Speaker 1: Them, and you enjoyed him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's great. He's so sweet. Did you like.
Speaker 1: Him, Yeah, he's great, he's so sweet.
Speaker 3: Give me a real opinion.
Speaker 1: No, he's good. I just it's hard to meet someone
Speaker 1: for the first time and do something that you really
Speaker 1: just don't like doing, you know. It's like, but I.
Speaker 2: Think he did a good job. Of like we I
Speaker 2: don't know, we could have been more photos. It could
Speaker 2: have been like more painful for you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was pain either way. So he's a this
Speaker 1: guy for sure.
Speaker 2: But also we're like looking at the venue technically for
Speaker 2: the first time. So we're exploring and he's just taking
Speaker 2: photos of us exploring.
Speaker 1: And you you got angry at me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just wanted to get the photos over with.
Speaker 2: I don't like jumping from rock to rock on a river.
Speaker 2: I always think I'm gonna slip. And Dean was like,
Speaker 2: just do it, just do it, Just prove to me
Speaker 2: you can do it. And I'm like, just put your
Speaker 2: hand out, give me a hand, help me over this
Speaker 2: freak rock.
Speaker 3: And he was like, no, no, no, just do it.
Speaker 1: You're not giving it. I got I got mad, you're
Speaker 1: not giving the full context. We were walking through the
Speaker 1: woods and I was like, let me carry you through
Speaker 1: the woods. It'll be easier for you to get through.
Speaker 1: Jump on my back and I'll give you a piggyback round.
Speaker 1: And you're like no, dress. You were like, no, I
Speaker 1: don't need your help. You were wearing a long maxi dress.
Speaker 1: So it went very very far down surprise.
Speaker 3: You know what a maxie is.
Speaker 1: You're like, I don't need your help, and then I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, fine, you know that's great, good for you.
Speaker 1: And then we go out on these rocks and it
Speaker 1: was like a six inches of a gap where you
Speaker 1: literally can just step across so easily, and it wasn't
Speaker 1: scary at all, and you were scared. And then you
Speaker 1: were like, will you just give me your hand? I
Speaker 1: was like, no, apparently you don't need my help, so
Speaker 1: let's see if you.
Speaker 3: Can just do it so dramatic.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that's why you weren't giving me your hand,
Speaker 2: because I would wouldn't let you carry me on your back.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm trying to help out, and you said no
Speaker 1: to my help, and so I was just making sure
Speaker 1: that we stuck to that prescription.
Speaker 3: Of you're so stubborn, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: You're upburn for yeah?
Speaker 3: For what?
Speaker 1: For all of that too?
Speaker 3: No, I wanted to walk. I wanted to use my own.
Speaker 1: Legs right until it came to stepping six inches across
Speaker 1: the rock.
Speaker 2: I just wanted to get off the stupid river. It
Speaker 2: was getting cold. I was like, just give me a hand.
Speaker 2: It's going to go a lot faster if you just
Speaker 2: give me your hand and I can hop onto this
Speaker 2: rock in the middle of a river.
Speaker 1: Now you feel like such a bigger person though having
Speaker 1: done it yourself.
Speaker 2: Now you always say that rock, no, I feel the
Speaker 2: same size.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you don't. It's hard to like quantify or
Speaker 1: like recognize the growth that you made in that moment
Speaker 1: because it was such a you know, quick, little harmless thing.
Speaker 1: But you know, you.
Speaker 3: Always try to make it something bigger. It's not.
Speaker 1: You do it enough, And even if it's just a
Speaker 1: little bit, even if it's just one grain of sand
Speaker 1: on top of a little sand dune, it still adds up.
Speaker 1: And eventually that sand dune is going to be a
Speaker 1: little bit bigger, and you're gonna be a little bit
Speaker 1: more confident. And next time you have to step across
Speaker 1: the rock that's maybe seven inches wide, you're going to
Speaker 1: be like, I've stepped across six inches before, I can
Speaker 1: do seven inches.
Speaker 3: No problem, No incorrect, I disagree.
Speaker 1: It's okay, you don't have to agree. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: like it's just one of those things where baby steps
Speaker 1: lead to big, big changes and in your confidence of
Speaker 1: doing those things, And like I'm saying, next time you
Speaker 1: won't even You'll be like, don't help me, I don't
Speaker 1: even need it, right, I'm doing it for you, you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's true for sure.
Speaker 2: Well what else are you most excited about about the venue?
Speaker 2: We saw it for the first time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the cabins are pretty I.
Speaker 3: Liked I sipped really well in the bed.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, they're nice.
Speaker 3: Like they're cozy cab cabins.
Speaker 2: I don't even know if we were talking about the cabins,
Speaker 2: if we were saying that, but whatever.
Speaker 1: I was just thinking. I was just thinking about I
Speaker 1: was walking around that cabin and like the floorboards were
Speaker 1: loose and.
Speaker 2: Well, it's like it's a little bit rustic, mountainy, it's
Speaker 2: but it's They also did a good job of making
Speaker 2: it comfortable, like it's not supposed to be perfect new
Speaker 2: modern home.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you're right, you're right. It was nice.
Speaker 3: Sorry that the floorboards aren't up to your standard.
Speaker 1: Well, you know, floorboards. You want to step on a
Speaker 1: solid floor. You don't want to step on a creaky,
Speaker 1: scary floor that might collapse. But hopefully it's warm, because
Speaker 1: I guess we didn't have the heater on that night,
Speaker 1: and we were fine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I couldn't figure out the heater. But or I guess, yeah,
Speaker 2: but I think it's going to be fun. I slept great,
Speaker 2: and we slept in like the lowest cabin. There's like
Speaker 2: tears and we slept was on the lowest.
Speaker 1: It was Oh really, Yeah, So maybe the top tier
Speaker 1: cabin has solid floorboards.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well the other ones have like living rooms and
Speaker 3: kitchens and they're just larger, maybe a little bit better nicer.
Speaker 1: Austin said he stayed up there once over the winter
Speaker 1: on like a snowmobile trip, and he was like, it
Speaker 1: was freezing cold, the heater didn't work and insulated very well,
Speaker 1: and we had a wake up at six am to
Speaker 1: get ready and go out the day. And he was
Speaker 1: like it was awful because of how cool it was.
Speaker 1: But obviously in September.
Speaker 3: Exhausted, he really is just dragging this place down.
Speaker 1: Well, January is just a little different than in September.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the last time we saw him he was
Speaker 2: also saying stuff about it, how it's he'd never stay
Speaker 2: at that crappy place or something.
Speaker 1: We'll screw him. Yeah, he's don't even freaking invited to
Speaker 1: stay with us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's gonna be really fun. I'm excited. It
Speaker 2: was cool to see it for the first time again
Speaker 2: without snow.
Speaker 1: It was cool to see it for the first time
Speaker 1: again without snow.
Speaker 2: I'm like, whatever, I don't know. I'm sleeping, my brain's
Speaker 2: not working. Let's talk about your boys weekend.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, we stayed out until like five am gambling
Speaker 1: the first night, and so I went to bed at
Speaker 1: five thirty am. The next night, my friends came and
Speaker 1: we had a nice, beautiful hotel room at Red Rock
Speaker 1: Casino to bedroom suite, and they I had two buddies
Speaker 1: that were staying in the room with me, and I
Speaker 1: was like, well, I want you guys to have the
Speaker 1: bedrooms because you know, you're guests in our town, So
Speaker 1: you take the bedrooms. I'll sleep on the couch. There
Speaker 1: weren't like any extra blankets, and so I had these long,
Speaker 1: like these long, narrow blankets that I took from the
Speaker 1: like the foot of both of the beds that are.
Speaker 3: Just had blankets those just like decore and.
Speaker 1: I would just put one blanket on my right leg
Speaker 1: and the other blanket on my left leg, like that's
Speaker 1: literally as wide as they were. I would sleep, So
Speaker 1: I didn't sleep really well. Those nights either, and then
Speaker 1: Sunday I slept in our bed, but we had to
Speaker 1: wake up at like five am to go catch.
Speaker 3: Her plate and then to shoot for you.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay, yeah, I spent ten minutes taking of
Speaker 1: a drone video. Thank you so much for waking up
Speaker 1: ten minutes earlier. And then the next day we had
Speaker 1: to wake up again at five thirty am to drive
Speaker 1: you to the airport for you, because you had to
Speaker 1: go to the airport for you so much. And then
Speaker 1: last night I slept in the parking uh what a
Speaker 1: what was it called the driveway in my truck, and
Speaker 1: there was like next to a main road, and so
Speaker 1: like every thirty minutes a big truck would try by
Speaker 1: jarmy awake. So I just I just had him sleeping
Speaker 1: very well lately.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I same.
Speaker 2: The first night, Dean came home at five am, woke
Speaker 2: me up, tried to cuddle and I was like, it's
Speaker 2: five am.
Speaker 3: I don't want to cuddle right now.
Speaker 2: And then slept without you for two nights, and then
Speaker 2: when he came back, Dean like put his arm around
Speaker 2: me and then just started tapping my head.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, me up.
Speaker 2: And then I slept with a pillow over over my
Speaker 2: head and Deane just took it off my head in
Speaker 2: the middle of me sleeping, and I was like, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm using that. He's like, you'll be fine, took it.
Speaker 2: It's so rude.
Speaker 1: You weren't using the pillow.
Speaker 3: I'm using it on top of my head.
Speaker 1: What a weird You don't put pillows on top of
Speaker 1: your head. You put pillows below your head.
Speaker 3: When you're trying to cancel out noise. Yes you do.
Speaker 1: Mmm, well, sorry, I was asleep. I was asleep and
Speaker 1: didn't know what I was doing.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Anyways, I haven't been sleeping great either. My sleep score
Speaker 2: has been the lowest it's ever been. It's at fifty
Speaker 2: for the past day.
Speaker 1: Blasts Jese Louise.
Speaker 3: For you stealing pillows and stuff.
Speaker 1: Dean did this. Dean made my sleep suck because of this.
Speaker 1: Dean did this?
Speaker 3: Then, Yeah, I got to hold you accountable whatever.
Speaker 1: I was reading the comments on our Instagram page the
Speaker 1: other day.
Speaker 2: I was just about to say, should we talk about
Speaker 2: it about how.
Speaker 1: I don't want to celebrate our wedding anniversary and under
Speaker 1: other celebrator engagement anniversary. Everyone's so mean on Instagram.
Speaker 2: I know that there are two people who understood where
Speaker 2: you're coming from, Like, you chose a very important date
Speaker 2: for the date that we got engaged, and I think
Speaker 2: two people understood that, and the rest of the people
Speaker 2: were just being so mean, yeah.
Speaker 1: Super mean, And you chose a very non important date.
Speaker 1: Not that it's not going to be important, but it
Speaker 1: means nothing to me right now. The date of our
Speaker 1: wedding literally means nothing to me at the moment. Well
Speaker 1: it will, yeh will, yeah, it will. So right now,
Speaker 1: my feelings are the date that I chose is far
Speaker 1: more important than the date that we were basically given
Speaker 1: by some people, because that was the date that we
Speaker 1: had had to.
Speaker 3: Do it, you know, mm hmm yeah, I think.
Speaker 2: Also, I don't know, maybe you weren't being sarcastic, but
Speaker 2: I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I mean, I was like obviously hamming it up a
Speaker 1: little bit for the topic, but like that's just how
Speaker 1: I feel. I'm sorry. I don't think a random date
Speaker 1: that was given to us by a property because that
Speaker 1: was the only available date is important right now because
Speaker 1: nothing has happened on the date yet.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but once we get married, it will. But also
Speaker 2: the people, the things people are saying are just so awful.
Speaker 1: I think it's great that people get so passionate about it.
Speaker 1: You know, it's fine, No, but I.
Speaker 3: Don't like when people say mean things to you.
Speaker 1: But it's not even like they're saying mean things to me.
Speaker 1: They're sometimes saying mean things about you to me. You know,
Speaker 1: Like it's good that it's good that we can evoke
Speaker 1: some emotion in the podcast. I mean, that's what it is.
Speaker 1: People have disagreements about certain things in relationships. We just
Speaker 1: simply share ours publicly and outwardly, and it strikes to
Speaker 1: court with people sometimes, and that's fine.
Speaker 3: I'm fine with I don't think it's necessarily a disagreement.
Speaker 3: That was news to me. I was hearing it for
Speaker 3: the first time with everyone else.
Speaker 1: It was the first time I thought about it. And
Speaker 1: sometimes I just talk without really fully thinking about things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do that often on here. Yeah, you have
Speaker 2: there been any headlines about this? Dean refuses to celebrate
Speaker 2: wedding anniversary.
Speaker 1: But I'm surprised that there weren't, just because of the
Speaker 1: track record of those situations. But I stand by what
Speaker 1: I said.
Speaker 3: You know, I get where you're coming from.
Speaker 1: I'll celebrate our engagement date. You can celebrate our wedding anniversary.
Speaker 3: I get where you're coming from.
Speaker 2: I don't agree with it, because, like, once we get married,
Speaker 2: that's going to be an important date to you, right,
Speaker 2: I understand, but you just can't picture that right now.
Speaker 1: I guess, well, that's why I wanted to get married
Speaker 1: on October twenty fourth, but you wouldn't let me.
Speaker 2: So it would be our guest.
Speaker 3: This would be so small. Who can take off that long?
Speaker 1: If they love us, they would come.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, unfortunately, we already put all the money into
Speaker 2: this date and we can't change it.
Speaker 1: No. I get that, but you know people are saying,
Speaker 1: like you say it yourself, I'm stubborn. I need to
Speaker 1: be able to concede more in certain situations. And it's like, yeah, people, listen,
Speaker 1: I wanted more than anything to get married on October
Speaker 1: twenty fourth. I am giving concessions and saying, okay, fine,
Speaker 1: maybe we can get married in September instead of my
Speaker 1: least favorite month of the year.
Speaker 3: No, no, you gotta let go of that one.
Speaker 1: Now we have to celebrate a very meaningful day to
Speaker 1: us in a very bad month. And I'm not a
Speaker 1: bad month.
Speaker 3: There's one bad date, but it's not a bad month.
Speaker 1: The whole month is sullied by that one bad date,
Speaker 1: in my opinion, And maybe we can try to resurrect
Speaker 1: the month of September by starting it with this occasion.
Speaker 3: I don't think. I don't think it's dead. I don't
Speaker 3: think needs to be resurrected. But sure it's a it's.
Speaker 1: A grassroots movement to just, okay, maybe shine it in
Speaker 1: a bit of a better light.
Speaker 3: Most people like September.
Speaker 1: No, who likes September. I don't think I've ever even
Speaker 1: heard anyone sing sing the word September in a song
Speaker 1: like about waking up or anything like that.
Speaker 3: So, well, that's about waking up when it ends, so
Speaker 3: oh perfect for you.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that should be your first dance song. No,
Speaker 1: that's awful, that's very funny. I honestly thought he was
Speaker 1: that's perfect.
Speaker 3: He thought he was hyping up September.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just knew that he was talking
Speaker 1: about September. Who sings that.
Speaker 3: Third eye blind? I don't know.
Speaker 1: You. Every time I asked who sing something, you default
Speaker 1: the third eye blind. It's green one day.
Speaker 2: It will be Oh that makes sense? Close close to
Speaker 2: third eye blind?
Speaker 1: Everyone is close to third eye blind. That's why you
Speaker 1: can get awayway saying that. Yeah. But yeah, so there's
Speaker 1: me giving session. I wanted nothing more than to get
Speaker 1: married on Tuesday in October, and I always told that's
Speaker 1: a horrible idea, and so I said, Okay, fine, let's
Speaker 1: do it in September then, because that's what you want.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited for a wedding, even though it sounds
Speaker 3: like you're not.
Speaker 1: I'm not excited about the month.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: People in the comments were telling me I need to
Speaker 2: really put you in your place. This is what I
Speaker 2: but I took away from it and not just giggle
Speaker 2: and laugh at the things you're saying. But I also
Speaker 2: know that most of the things you're saying are just
Speaker 2: like ridiculous, and you're saying it for a reaction. So
Speaker 2: by putting you in your place, I'm giving you the
Speaker 2: reaction that you want. By laughing, I'm not giving you
Speaker 2: the reaction you want. So I'm doing the correct thing.
Speaker 1: Actually, what did dilemma your face to it? Think it's
Speaker 1: a catch twenty two. If you get if you put
Speaker 1: me in my place, I am being fulfilled in my
Speaker 1: quest to get a reaction. But if you laugh. Then
Speaker 1: it looks like you're not putting me in my place.
Speaker 2: To the like, I'm just passive and I let you
Speaker 2: do anything. I'm like, oh, it's quite the outs.
Speaker 1: So the thing you don't let me do anything, I
Speaker 1: am the one doing the thing. Getting married in September
Speaker 1: for you. When I want to get married in October,
Speaker 1: that's a big that's a big coggestion.
Speaker 3: You've said that a couple of times. We know that,
Speaker 3: Actually you say that like every episode of the podcast.
Speaker 3: We know that.
Speaker 1: But I'm.
Speaker 3: I wanted to get married in September.
Speaker 2: I was like, fine, you hate this month so much,
Speaker 2: let's just get married in October. I don't want to
Speaker 2: I don't want to deal with the back and forth
Speaker 2: of it. So let's get married in October. We go
Speaker 2: to the wedding venue. I've told this story so many times,
Speaker 2: but I have to tell it again. We go to
Speaker 2: the wedding venue and they're like, it's pretty cold in October.
Speaker 2: You're definitely guaranteed not you're more likely to get leaves changing,
Speaker 2: which is what you wanted, and better weather in September.
Speaker 2: So you said, let's doe September. I looked over to you,
Speaker 2: and I was like, are you sure? Are you sure
Speaker 2: you want to walk in this date? Because you were
Speaker 2: very adamant. You're very adamant not having September as our
Speaker 2: wedding month, and you were like, yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 3: It'll be better weather because.
Speaker 1: I'm so gracious and caring and giving and any that's
Speaker 1: what you wanted, and I'm selfless, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: this is for meaings.
Speaker 3: We're getting married in September. So it's like, it's.
Speaker 1: Of course, it's fine, it's fine now. But I'm just
Speaker 1: saying I feel like I get scrutinized for the things
Speaker 1: that I do wrong, but I never get any credit
Speaker 1: for the things that I do right.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: People are like, there's no compromise, it's Dean's way and
Speaker 2: that's it.
Speaker 3: That's not true. Actually, I get a lot of things
Speaker 3: that I.
Speaker 1: Want right, but right we just don't make up expectacle
Speaker 1: out of the things that you get that you want.
Speaker 1: We do make aup expectable spectacle out of the things
Speaker 1: that I.
Speaker 2: Well don't want because you put an emphasis on it.
Speaker 2: You're the one bringing it up, so it's kind of
Speaker 2: your fault.
Speaker 1: Sure, I think I need to take like a communication
Speaker 1: one a one class or something and get.
Speaker 3: Back to college.
Speaker 2: But from someone with a communications degree, I would agree, right.
Speaker 1: I'm a business guy. I only know business numbers, money stats, charts.
Speaker 1: But all that to say is it doesn't it doesn't
Speaker 1: necessarily affect me. So I'm okay with I'm okay with it.
Speaker 1: But the back, you know, it just I don't want
Speaker 1: it to affect you negatively. So I guess I don't.
Speaker 3: Like you when people are made. But I guess I'll
Speaker 3: get over it.
Speaker 1: I'll read some more Dale Carnegie or something and figure
Speaker 1: it out. But but yeah, So that's basically a quick
Speaker 1: synopsis of our past week. And you know, we're excited
Speaker 1: to get married in September. Not excited about the month,
Speaker 1: but excited about the The event will being really nice.
Speaker 1: And that's about it.
Speaker 2: It was very cool. I mean, the next time we'll
Speaker 2: be there will be our wedding day. And I feel
Speaker 2: like the menu tasting was just it was just so
Speaker 2: fun to be there and like sleep in the cabin
Speaker 2: before everyone else gets there and scope it out a bit.
Speaker 3: It was cool with you.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go back tonight.
Speaker 3: What why.
Speaker 1: Because one of the mountains I want to climb. Is
Speaker 1: kind of over in that direction anyways, And so I
Speaker 1: might as well go and do some stuff that I
Speaker 1: wanted to do before I had to take you to
Speaker 1: the airport, Like why I want to walk around that
Speaker 1: aspen grove and see if it's cool enough to consider
Speaker 1: doing anything over there.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't think the one behind the cabin is
Speaker 3: an aspen grove. I think it's just what's well, she.
Speaker 1: Said, there was a big circle where they could have
Speaker 1: the ceremony, So I just wanted to go check it
Speaker 1: out with these things we don't know. You don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, but I would like for Reid FaceTime you.
Speaker 1: If you do that, I'll FaceTime you. I just have
Speaker 1: your service up there.
Speaker 3: So okay, maybe take photos and videos then never mind.
Speaker 1: Okay, well yeah, so we'll figure it out. I guess
Speaker 1: we'll get to we'll get to where we need to
Speaker 1: be by whenever we need to be thereby. That's uh,
Speaker 1: that's that's great. Great, thanks for the update. We're going
Speaker 1: to take a quick break and we're going to bring
Speaker 1: in our guests, and you guys are not going to
Speaker 1: want to miss these guests. It is Taylor and Sophia Watts.
Speaker 1: You've probably seen them on TikTok. They are a young
Speaker 1: married couple and they are very, very cute. Come back
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