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Speaker 1: Second Dat Date. We've been doing second date updates for
Speaker 1: a long time now. We've pretty much heard every single
Speaker 1: place you can meet somebody, but we haven't had anybody
Speaker 1: who's met on Instagram yet. You realize that met, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you haven't. We've not done a second day update with
Speaker 1: people who've met on Instagram until today. That's how the
Speaker 1: girl's on the phone for a second date update today
Speaker 1: met the guy that she wants to call. What's up? Amy? Hi?
Speaker 1: Are you doing it? Okay, I'm impressed. How did you
Speaker 1: even meet a guy on Instagram? It's pretty easy? Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people meet guys on him. Okay,
Speaker 1: I should rephrase that, how did you meet a guy
Speaker 1: that wasn't creepy on Instagram? There you go, that's a
Speaker 1: better way to say. Okay, that's there. I've gone out
Speaker 1: with some creepy guys on Instagram. So how did you
Speaker 1: meet this dude? Did he just hit you up one day?
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, nice picks? Now he started following
Speaker 1: me on Instagram, and I had been like on his Instagram,
Speaker 1: like liking his photos, that I wasn't following him yet.
Speaker 1: So then he started following me and he would like
Speaker 1: comment on my stuff, and he was I don't know,
Speaker 1: he seems really like funny, like the kinds of comments
Speaker 1: that he would make, they were really really clever, and
Speaker 1: he has the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen ever.
Speaker 1: Can I ask, did you guys? I mean, did you
Speaker 1: run in the same circles? Do you have friends of friends?
Speaker 1: Or is this a complete stranger? Is this actually a
Speaker 1: complete stranger? Wow? I am scared for you. That's I mean,
Speaker 1: that's my instant thing. It's like a guy's commenting on
Speaker 1: your Instagram page and you're willing to just meet him up. Hey,
Speaker 1: I do it all the time, by it happens a lot.
Speaker 1: Actually no, but I mean I didn't meet him right away, okay.
Speaker 1: And like I've been dating, I've been dating a lot
Speaker 1: of guys lately and just but just for fun. And
Speaker 1: like I'm young and I'm not looking for anything serious,
Speaker 1: like not really looking to settle down. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: somebody'll talk to someone on Instagram, will go out for
Speaker 1: a few drinks and it's like, not anything serious, it's
Speaker 1: just fun, all right, So tell us about your date
Speaker 1: with Rick. Then well, oh god, see that change things.
Speaker 1: So Rick and I, like we had talked for like
Speaker 1: a week or so before we met, so he seems normal.
Speaker 1: I knew he seemed normal and brolsom So we went
Speaker 1: and we grabbed drinks at a bar, and when we met, like,
Speaker 1: he gave me a really big hug, and I felt
Speaker 1: super comfortable with him from the very beginning. Like, you know,
Speaker 1: any of you were talking about creepy I don't know
Speaker 1: creeping people off of Instagram, Like I have met some
Speaker 1: creepy people out of Instagram, but it doesn't like that.
Speaker 1: With him, it felt like so easy and so good.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, your email does say that you
Speaker 1: don't remember too much of your date though. What happened there? Well, okay,
Speaker 1: usually when I go out, I have a couple of cosmos.
Speaker 1: That's normal. Um, so I did that, but I might
Speaker 1: have had an extra cosmo and I had a couple
Speaker 1: of other drinks as well. It happens to the best
Speaker 1: of us. You get excited, we're all amped up for
Speaker 1: meeting this cute guy then suddenly blacked out. Well I
Speaker 1: never flagged out, but it's good. But something kind of
Speaker 1: happened that was kind of kind of weird. Um, I
Speaker 1: don't remember all of it. So so we had a drinks.
Speaker 1: We went back to my place and Rick came with me.
Speaker 1: It's my place. Um, I remember that we we got
Speaker 1: in like a fight about something, like we were arguing
Speaker 1: about something I know, and I was like really emotional
Speaker 1: and he was really upset and I and he ended
Speaker 1: up leaving, but I was kind of drunk, So I
Speaker 1: don't know what happened, Like, I don't know if I
Speaker 1: did something wrong or if he is that the last
Speaker 1: thing you've heard from him. Yeah, did you text him
Speaker 1: and try to ask what happened? Yes, of course, Like
Speaker 1: I woke up in the morning and I remembered that
Speaker 1: like what I just told you, and then I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, what happened? So yeah, I tried to
Speaker 1: text him, and he's not answering anything, like you won't
Speaker 1: talk to me online anymore. He just kind of disappeared.
Speaker 1: So I don't know what happened, And you don't remember
Speaker 1: it all what the fight was about. No, like not
Speaker 1: at all. I just remember the part where I was
Speaker 1: really emotional and he was really upset, and then he left, okay,
Speaker 1: and I don't and I don't know why, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I just feel like I finally met a really good
Speaker 1: guy that I'm like, oh wait, actually maybe I could
Speaker 1: be in a relationship. And then I just like went
Speaker 1: through that up somehow. I'm sure you guys already got
Speaker 1: your first fight out of the way, which is nice.
Speaker 1: I was going to say, it sounds like there is
Speaker 1: a relationship already. All right, Well we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second day out date. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hang. Nobody wants to go out on a
Speaker 1: first date and get along the whole time, have chemistry
Speaker 1: or whatever. That's boring, right, that's old school dating. It's
Speaker 1: all about arguing. Now, A good first date should include
Speaker 1: at least one argument and an emotional breakdown. Which is
Speaker 1: why Amy's on the phone because she had a fabulous
Speaker 1: date with a guy named Rick. She actually doesn't remember
Speaker 1: a lot of the evening, but she does remember that
Speaker 1: they got in an argument at one point, she was emotional,
Speaker 1: He left her place, and they haven't talked since. Amy,
Speaker 1: why do you want to call him if you guys
Speaker 1: got in an argument? Yeah, because, like, up until we
Speaker 1: got in the argument, we were having a really good
Speaker 1: time and sorry, what was the question again? My question was,
Speaker 1: why do you want to call him if you guys
Speaker 1: got in a fight on your first date? I really
Speaker 1: want to know what happened. Okay? Are you like an
Speaker 1: emotional person that often brings up maybe paula ticks or
Speaker 1: religion or some sort of topic that people can find
Speaker 1: her No, not politics and religions. No, I mean like
Speaker 1: I have my moments, just like everybody like. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: I'll call him right now and see if we can
Speaker 1: find out what you guys were arguing about. Okay, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you. Here we go. Hello. Hi is Rick there? Yeah?
Speaker 1: It was Rick? Rick. How are you? Man? My name
Speaker 1: is jew Bill. I host a morning show Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. Um. Okay, are you serious? Yeah? Man,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? What? Well? I'm calling you
Speaker 1: today because I wanted to speak with you about a
Speaker 1: date you went on a date I went on. What's
Speaker 1: she talking about? I'm talking about a girl named Amy
Speaker 1: that you met off on Instagram? Amy. Yeah, we do
Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the Second Date Update. Basically,
Speaker 1: it's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them after, they
Speaker 1: email us to see if we can get you on
Speaker 1: the phone and ask what happened. Oh my god, So
Speaker 1: Amy has been trying to get a hold of you,
Speaker 1: but you're not returning into her phone calls or text messages.
Speaker 1: So she asked if we could get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask what happened? Are you serious? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: am usually wanted to allow my day win. I do
Speaker 1: even more than me. Amy wants to know because she says,
Speaker 1: you can't really remember the last part of it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: She did tell us a little bit about the date
Speaker 1: and said, you guys were arguing at some point, which
Speaker 1: is a great way to end a date. By the way,
Speaker 1: I thought it sounded really romantic lasting impressions. Yeah, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: it definitely was not romantic. So what was it? What
Speaker 1: are you guys arguing about? Do you remember? Yeah? I remember?
Speaker 1: I just I don't know if it's okay to talk
Speaker 1: about it on the radio, Like, I don't know she
Speaker 1: would be cool with that or well, she kind of
Speaker 1: has no choice because she agreed to do the second
Speaker 1: date update, So she wants to know, all right, So
Speaker 1: I went over to her place and we were making
Speaker 1: out in her bathroom and bathroom, um yeah, in her bathroom,
Speaker 1: just kind of like where we ended up, and things
Speaker 1: were getting hot and heavy, and you know, at one
Speaker 1: point my shirt came off and then she just kind
Speaker 1: of turned and she looked at the mirror and she
Speaker 1: started like freaking out and she looks at herself and
Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, I look so ugly, weird, sad, yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, no, you don't, not at all.
Speaker 1: She didn't write like she's gorgeous. So I'm like, no, like, no,
Speaker 1: you don't, right, And I'm trying to make her feel
Speaker 1: better and she's like, no, no I do. I do.
Speaker 1: And she's like working herself up and I'm feeling really
Speaker 1: weird because my shirts off, right, And then as I'm
Speaker 1: trying to calm her down, she starts to like argue
Speaker 1: with a like arguing over whether or not she looks pretty. Yeah,
Speaker 1: kind of She's like she's like, no, you don't know
Speaker 1: what you're talking about, Like you're lying to me. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm not, like you look fine. You
Speaker 1: look great, you look beautiful. You're like, I was just
Speaker 1: in here with my shirt off, making out with you
Speaker 1: because I think that you're attractive. Right, And eventually, like
Speaker 1: this kind of like half fight turns into like a
Speaker 1: whole fight. Like she actually was getting aggressive with you
Speaker 1: because you were telling her that she looked good out
Speaker 1: at me for calling her pretty? Did you think at
Speaker 1: first she was just fishing for compliments and then it
Speaker 1: took a weird turn? Yeah, I mean kind of I
Speaker 1: thought that, you know, because like sometimes girls get down
Speaker 1: on themselves, but like this was way beyond anything that
Speaker 1: I've ever seen before. She was just out of control,
Speaker 1: and so finally she's just like, you know what, like
Speaker 1: get out? What? Yeah, she kicked you out for calling
Speaker 1: her pretty, is what you're saying, right? Did she kicked
Speaker 1: me out of her bathroom and she locks the door
Speaker 1: behind her, but my shirt and my wallet were still
Speaker 1: inside the bathroom? Oh yeah, So she's in there freaking out,
Speaker 1: So would you like going ballistic? And she's like sobbing
Speaker 1: in there and I'm like, can I get my shirt back? Oh?
Speaker 1: I like did it take? Do you got your shirt back?
Speaker 1: I didn't get my shirt back. She just opened up
Speaker 1: the door at one point, and then threw my wallet
Speaker 1: at me and told me to get this out and
Speaker 1: I just ran home copless. That all right, Well that
Speaker 1: was an interesting evening for you. Any chance you'd ever
Speaker 1: talked to her again? Ever? I don't think so. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was just a little too crazy for me. Oh
Speaker 1: that's unfortunate because she's actually on the phone listening to
Speaker 1: this conversation. What, yeah, Amy, are you there? Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I don't remember that, like at all? Did that seriously happen?
Speaker 1: Did I seriously cry and they kick you out of
Speaker 1: my apartment? You've been listening the whole time that I
Speaker 1: was talking. Yeah, And I like don't remember any of that, Like,
Speaker 1: are you serious? Did I don't want to go out
Speaker 1: like that? Yeah? You did all of that? It was
Speaker 1: you don't remember anything. No, Oh my god, that's so funny.
Speaker 1: Maybe you think that's funny. You're not mortified. Mortified, No,
Speaker 1: it's kind of hilarious. Like did you hear that story?
Speaker 1: That's so funny. So it doesn't bother you that you
Speaker 1: were freaking out because apparently you didn't think you looked
Speaker 1: good that night and he thought you were pretty, and
Speaker 1: that pissed you up. I mean, you know, I think
Speaker 1: I was just like having a moment. I guess, like
Speaker 1: sometimes I have a moment, like it's totally need to
Speaker 1: just like have a moment. But then it's fine, Like
Speaker 1: he didn't have to leave, he didn't have to leave.
Speaker 1: I didn't have to leave. Threw my wall. I mean,
Speaker 1: then you told me to get this out, like you
Speaker 1: said those work? Why? God, I was drunk. We were
Speaker 1: having fun. I don't know, I having fun. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: I was, If I was at your place and you
Speaker 1: threw something at me and said get the f out,
Speaker 1: I would think that I would have to leave at
Speaker 1: that point or I would be in trouble with the law.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, wait, but I did you Rick?
Speaker 1: Did you like get a video of this? At least,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, Amy, a video? Nor did you get
Speaker 1: a video? You serious? I don't Why not? I could
Speaker 1: have totally posted that on Instagram. We'd have gotten so
Speaker 1: many like you would actually you'd actually post a video
Speaker 1: of you having this freak out online? Amy? Why not?
Speaker 1: I mean, like, obviously, right now, I think I'm pretty
Speaker 1: It's fine. Everybody has a meltdown every once in a while.
Speaker 1: I'm just like you know what, like if you can't
Speaker 1: handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at
Speaker 1: my desk. It's okay for people to see me like that.
Speaker 1: It's fine me, Amy. I gotta say when when Rick
Speaker 1: was telling this story, I was feeling so bad for you,
Speaker 1: and I thought we were going to talk to this
Speaker 1: like horribly like lacking self confident woman that was crying
Speaker 1: on the end of the line, And you were handling
Speaker 1: this way differently than I thought you would. I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, it's just life, life, and like happened sometimes, right,
Speaker 1: And I don't know. I just don't don't believe you
Speaker 1: didn't take a video and take a videos the next
Speaker 1: time you're having a meltdown like that, you know, to
Speaker 1: make sure somebody is there at a videotape it at
Speaker 1: all times. Amy, Well, then would you guys like to
Speaker 1: go out on a second date? Rick, I will pay
Speaker 1: for a second date. No, hell no, you might get
Speaker 1: a viral video out of the deal. This has not
Speaker 1: happened to me on a regular basis, Like girls that
Speaker 1: I'm with don't have freakouts and then kick me out
Speaker 1: of there at the place and feel my shirt. Well
Speaker 1: it sounds to me like you're not really living. I
Speaker 1: don't feel like everybody has these tents, okay, And like,
Speaker 1: I know that was probably a little much, but like
Speaker 1: if you knew me better, you would know that even
Speaker 1: though I was freaking out and I told you to leave,
Speaker 1: I wasn't really serious. I didn't really mean it. Like
Speaker 1: I know that, And just because I happened, I don't
Speaker 1: think that it means you shouldn't go out with me.
Speaker 1: Like you should still go out with me. I'm really fine,
Speaker 1: and like we can obviously have really great stories. See,
Speaker 1: like come on, you know what's fine as long as
Speaker 1: I can end this conversation right now, as long as
Speaker 1: we could finish this up. So if we can finish
Speaker 1: the phone call here, you'll go out with her again? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go out. So which one is it?
Speaker 1: You're confusing me. I can't tell when you're serious and
Speaker 1: when you're not serious. You're harder to read than she is.
Speaker 1: I want to end this conversation. I don't ever want
Speaker 1: to see her again. I'm fine, thank you. You're really
Speaker 1: really hot, but you are crazy in the morning. The
Speaker 1: text in at seven eight five nine two says that
Speaker 1: sounds a lot like my last date, Break and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the morning. Talking about today's second date update if
Speaker 1: you missed it, Amy wanted to call this dude named Rick.
Speaker 1: She didn't really remember much about her date because they
Speaker 1: were drinking a lot, but she did remember that they
Speaker 1: got into a big argument, and when we called him,
Speaker 1: we found out that while they were making out in
Speaker 1: her bathroom, out of nowhere, she saw herself in the
Speaker 1: mirror and then just started body shaming herself, and then
Speaker 1: Rick tried to console her, and she got more upset
Speaker 1: and then kicked him out and he had to walk
Speaker 1: home with no shirt. That's why he wasn't calling back.
Speaker 1: Amy didn't even remember anything about it. She just remembered
Speaker 1: them arguing and wondered why. And she thought the story
Speaker 1: sounded hilarious. That I think was the most shocking part
Speaker 1: of it all. Yeah, she was. She took it well,
Speaker 1: she did. Yeah, didn't take it well though, because he
Speaker 1: had to walk home with no shirt on. He thought
Speaker 1: maybe she's a little crazy. Yea, And no second date. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second day up, they
Speaker 1: don't have to do his email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back.