WEBVTT - Under Lox and Key 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell I Suck At Dating with de Younglert and Dared 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:11.080 Haven and I heard radio podcast What's going on? Everyone? 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:14.319 Welcome to an all new episode of Help I Suck 0:00:14.800 --> 0:00:17.880 At Dating. This week's episode is out on time. I 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:19.799 like to think at least at least we're recording on 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:24.200 our normally scheduled record date. So hopefully, hopefully you listening 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:26.640 to this on a nice Sunday afternoon. No bachelor party 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:31.000 in Cabo this week. Yeah, think the sweet Lord above us, 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:34.040 because I can only do one of those per lifetime. 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:36.680 Probably I was. I was a wreck after that. Man, 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:38.479 I feel like everybody was a wreck. Ben was like 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:40.920 I needed two days to recover. He lost his voice. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:43.680 He was tired, exhausted, and like, good god, man, what 0:00:43.720 --> 0:00:45.199 did you guys do? I went to bed at like 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:48.600 eleven o'clock every night. I was quite comfortable. I played 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:51.040 golf of the balls a couple of days ago, um, 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:52.760 which was it would probably be like what would that 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:55.400 be like? We got back on a Sunday. I played 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:58.120 golf with the balls on that Wednesday, and he was like, Dude, 0:00:58.200 --> 0:00:59.760 I like, this is the first time I've gotten out 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:03.080 of bed d since getting back from Kabo. Like, he goes, 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:05.160 I've lived a very privileged life and I can easily 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:07.199 say that that was the hardest day of my life 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:09.560 getting back from Kabo to Los Angeles. What did you 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:12.760 guys do the last night? I think he got a 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:14.920 stomach book. I think he ate something that was that 0:01:14.959 --> 0:01:17.320 messed him up a little bit. Oh god, I gotta god. 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:20.280 I do remember Saturday night we were all like playing 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:22.720 beer pong or whatever, and he went to bed super early, 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.039 and I was like, dude, stopping such a wiss, like 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:27.120 let's go, it's last night. And he was like there 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.800 literally is no no way, no chance I can possibly 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:32.319 do anything tonight. But but yeah, I'm finally get back 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.240 to normal. And it's funny because I leave tomorrow from 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:39.959 Mexico again. So yeah, don't you give it a wedding. Yeah, 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.880 my brother is getting married and saw Yalita. That's right 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:46.680 to Paradise, So he's getting married in Paradise. Yeah. Also 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:49.840 very funny story. So when I was playing golf with Wales, 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:52.040 I was talking about this trip and I was like, yeah, 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:54.840 I'm staying in Salalita. My brother is getting married down 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:56.480 there at the resort, and Walls goes, oh are you 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.680 staying at Villa a More And I go, yeah, we're 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:00.520 staying at Villa More. How the heck did you know that? 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:03.040 And he goes, that's the place that I stay at 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:05.960 when I'm bartending for Paradise. Oh, so you're gonna have 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:07.480 to let us know how nice it is. See what 0:02:07.560 --> 0:02:10.480 does Cours look like? Isn't that so funny? Though? The 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:13.120 place that Well stays at to bartend Paradise is the 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:16.440 same resort my brother randomly booked to get married at. Yeah, 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:19.799 that's crazy. So I'll have firsthand experience down there. I 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:21.880 guess how close it is is it to the resort 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:25.040 that we film on? We checked it's a thirty minute walk. 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:27.560 Thirty minute walk, okay, so Well stays very close to 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:30.519 the resort. Yeah, we're we're definitely gonna go check it 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:32.080 out while we're down there, because we're Caitlin and right 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:33.760 on there for like four days. Oh that'd be nice. 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:35.680 Too bad you guys that aren't doing there in June, 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:38.040 because then you could just say hello to all the 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:40.600 cast and crew down in Paradise while you were there. Well, 0:02:40.639 --> 0:02:42.800 since I'm driving, I might like I might catch them 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:45.720 at the beginning of filming says TBD. Also, this is 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:48.399 a secret to Klin, so don't tell her. But uh, well, 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:50.480 I don't know if I should say hopefully she doesn't 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.600 listen to the podcast. I just like, I don't want 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:54.560 someone that listens to the podcast, like d m her 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.400 on Instagram or something. It's not that secret and it's 0:02:57.400 --> 0:02:59.919 not that special. But our very first date, Caitlin and 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:03.200 I went to this restaurant in point to Varta. Uh, 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:05.440 and I found out what restaurant it is, And so 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.520 I'm gonna take her back to that restaurant. What a guy, 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.359 big extravagant dinner. Yeah, it'll be nice. That would be 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:13.720 so nice. She's gonna love it. I'm not gonna say anything. 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:15.120 I'm just gonna walk into the restaurant and see she 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.760 picks up on the fact that it was the place 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:19.959 we had her first date. What if she doesn't, I'll 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:22.000 throw her off the bom. Say what happens if the 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.600 dinner is over, you pay the check and you're like, uh, 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:26.600 you haven't said anything all dinner about the fact that 0:03:26.639 --> 0:03:29.359 this is the first place went to a date on Yeah. 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:30.959 I emailed the restaurant. I was like, hey, can you 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:33.160 give us like some preferential treatment, you know, maybe like 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.680 put some rose petals out. They haven't gotten back to 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:38.520 me yet, but tvd well hopefully they dude, that'd be 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:41.320 so nice. Wait, was that your first date outside of Paradise? 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.840 Like you guys left and then you know that, you 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:45.560 know how like you take go down at the date card, 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:46.960 you asked someone at a date, you go on a day. 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.480 So that was the dinner date we had the night 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:51.200 we had a night date. So we just drove straight 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:53.760 to the restaurant. That's where you She said that you 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:57.240 live a pretty cool life. Yeah, yeah, it's funny. Actually 0:03:57.560 --> 0:03:59.680 I was taking I was taking a number two today 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:01.080 and I was passing some time, and I watched the 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:05.480 YouTube clip of it. It sounds like life is a 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:07.880 pretty funny Uh, pretty funny to go back and take 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.320 a trip down memory lane. Uh so yeah, we'll see. 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:13.119 Maybe I'll I'll tricker to jumping into the pool again 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:17.520 this time and I don't know, not in the first time. Well, 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:18.920 I don't know if you remember. I mean, it's obviously 0:04:18.920 --> 0:04:21.160 a very small detail that only probably me and her remember. 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:22.760 But we were like cold hands and we're all right, 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:24.599 we're gonna jump in the pool. On three and then 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:26.599 we go one to three and she jumps and I 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:30.680 don't jump. Ah, what a what a Dean move, What 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.920 a jerk. It's very classic. Did you jump in afterwards? 0:04:33.920 --> 0:04:37.560 Obviously No, I put my clothes back on and left. Yeah, alright, 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.560 I'll see you later, Kalin, good day. See you back 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:43.440 in the resort. Yeah, I jumped in obviously. Um. But yeah, 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:45.080 it'll be funny. It'll be It's just so funny that 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:48.000 my brother decided to get married there, So I'm like 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:50.440 driving down and going to hang out. His wedding is 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:52.880 next weekend, so we've I've got four or five days 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:55.520 to drive down. It's like twenty four hour drive. My 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:58.479 buddy from Colorado is coming out and driving down with me, 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:01.560 so at least little bit take shifts and stuff. And 0:05:01.600 --> 0:05:05.840 then after the wedding, I'm gonna fly back up to Vegas, uh, 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:07.200 and then hang out for a couple of days and 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:09.240 then fly back down to get my van and like 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:12.320 drive down, drive around Mexico. So yeah, maybe, you know, 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:15.440 maybe Paradise will uh see me lurking around in the 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:17.200 shadows and be like, you know what, Dean, just come 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.000 on like host the show for us. We you know, 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:23.200 we really could use your talent. Christ isn't back yet. 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:25.240 We need a host because we haven't figured it out yet. 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:28.400 Uh what was I gonna say? Yeah, dude, you're gonna 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.120 be spotted and people are gonna have rumors that you 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:32.880 and Calin are broken up, and yet you're back filming Paradise. 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:36.480 Here it comes, Dean, You are you and ashleyna do 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:38.400 anything for Paradise because didn't you guys do something for 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:42.400 Matt season? Ashley did something for Matt season. We did 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:47.120 something for Tatious season where we hosted, um, what was 0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:49.840 it like, the man Baby Challenge that's right now. That 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:51.839 was a lot of fun, and then ash went back 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:54.800 on Matt season and hosted a group date there. We 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:57.640 didn't do anything for Katie season spoiler alert, so you 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.839 will not see Ashley and minds faces on there. And 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:02.800 then Paradise of course, dude, we would love to go 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:06.000 down to Paradise. It's it's a little weird, not weird, 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:08.720 but we're obviously trying to get pregnant right now, so 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:11.880 that depends. Uh, you know, we'd have to learn more 0:06:11.880 --> 0:06:14.359 about Zeka if that is still a thing, which I 0:06:14.360 --> 0:06:15.839 don't know if it is down to Mexico. I haven't 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:17.760 done enough research, but that all would have to be 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:19.839 taken into consideration. But we'd love to go down and 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:24.680 make a cameo. We were actually down there for four 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:29.080 four straight years fifteen, sixteen, seventeen eighteen nineteen, five straight years. 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:31.600 We were down there for something. We were on Paradise 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:34.120 and Tails in fifteen, Tails of sixteen tilS and seventeen 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:36.400 Carly and Evan got married. We went down there two 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:41.000 thousand eighteen we got engaged. Uh in two thousand nineteen, 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:45.600 maybe we didn't do anything well two year Kaylin and 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:47.240 I were there. I don't remember you being there, but 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:49.560 I was. I was only there for a few days there. Yeah, 0:06:49.600 --> 0:06:52.080 did we do anything? I don't remember anymore tills the 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:54.840 nineteen was the year we got married. So maybe on 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:56.960 an I'm losing track of time. We were down there 0:06:57.000 --> 0:06:59.680 for something. I don't remember what the hell it was, though, 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:03.600 isn't that Chris Oh, Christ and Crystal's wedding, Kristen Crystal's wedding? 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:08.400 That is right? Good memory, my friend? Wow, isn't that 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:10.680 crazy to think that they were married? Like where Crystal 0:07:10.760 --> 0:07:13.559 now has a kid with a new guy. Beautiful child. 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:16.280 Congratulations to them both. Chris is in San Diego. He's 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:19.440 a day trader. Hopefully he's making tons of money. I 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:21.840 can't get into day trade and the super bullish market, 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:23.800 and he's definitely making No I'm just kidding. The market's 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:25.640 been so barished the past two weeks. It has been 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:27.880 absolute brutal. That's what I keep hearing, Dude, I can't 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:30.440 get into the stock of the day trading. I tried. 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:34.640 My My heart rage just goes from a hundred down 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:36.960 to fifty on my blood pressure is up and down. 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.320 I can't do it. I cannot do it. I don't 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:40.960 know how you guys do it. You're just on this 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.120 app and you're like, oh, I'm up a hundred, I'm 0:07:43.120 --> 0:07:45.840 down two hundred, I'm up three hundred, I'm down four hundred, 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:47.680 I'm up fifty. And it's like, I can't do it. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:49.800 I can't do it. Like my anxiety is through the roof. 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:52.320 I don't know how people do this. I've got a 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:54.640 I've got a really bad experience. Actually, just two days ago, 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:57.680 uh my one of my best friends called me. He's like, hey, 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:00.680 I want to invest in this like crappy little coin 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:02.920 and I was like, Okay, that's a dumb idea, but 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:06.720 like I'll tell you how to do it. But it's well, 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:10.680 it's it's Doge Alan, it's Doge plus a lan, and 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:12.640 it's like, in order to like buy the coin, it 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.240 to go through this weird process that I've done with 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:15.840 a bunch of other things before. So I like walked 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:17.160 him through it and he's like, okay, cool. I bought 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:19.520 worth and I was like, oh, you know what, like 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:21.640 screw it, Like I'm in this with you. I'll put 0:08:21.640 --> 0:08:23.520 a thousand dollars in and I was up like five 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:25.080 hundred bucks a couple of days later, so I was like, 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:26.520 you know what, I'm happy with that. I'm just gonna 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.640 pull out and sell it. And then a week and 0:08:29.640 --> 0:08:32.520 a half later it had gone up like twenty times, 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:34.520 so I would have made twenty thou dollars but I 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.200 sold it all. And then my friend who put in 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:40.320 is up like thirty grand and I'm like, Mike, dude, 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:43.000 you're crushing it with this investment, and he goes, yeah, 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:44.679 I'm still I'm gonna keep holding it like I think 0:08:44.720 --> 0:08:46.640 it's gonna go higher. And I was like, dude, I'm 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:48.800 I'm missing out, so I like bought a bunch more 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:53.840 like dollars worth and then literally literally the very next 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:57.600 day it goes and it drops and I like, literally 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.800 all my money it's gone up. It's gone back up 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:02.320 a little bit since, but it was one of them. 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:05.160 It was like the most terrifying investing moment I've ever 0:09:05.200 --> 0:09:06.960 had in my entire life. I can't do it, man, 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:09.640 It's just like I've lost money, I've gained money. I'm 0:09:09.640 --> 0:09:11.280 all over the place, and it's like, you know what, 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.600 I just want to keep my money. If there's something 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.840 that I really believe in, I will invest, Like I 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:18.880 invest a little bit in crypto, but even that, I'm like, 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:21.920 is crypto the future? Or is this all just a fugazi? 0:09:22.040 --> 0:09:24.600 I don't know. But we should probably stop talking about 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.920 the stock market, seeing how we are a dating podcast. 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:31.080 We do have a special guest coming up, Austin Kievich Uh. 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:34.480 He is the creator of a luxe club app and 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:37.560 the Luxe Club UH. It's a dating app. It's a 0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:43.160 private membership based dating app for Jews with quote ridiculously 0:09:43.360 --> 0:09:47.640 high standards UH, and it's apparently being called the new Riyah. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:49.559 I don't really know, but I'm excited to talk to 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:52.400 him about the dating app. Why it's Is it specific 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.719 for Jewish people with high standards? I don't know. We're 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:58.640 gonna find out. I just wanted to congratulate you real 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:00.760 quick before we moved on anywhere else. Before I couldn't 0:10:00.760 --> 0:10:02.560 bring it back to this. I saw a n Aashley 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:05.800 Stories that you have four straight four a's in college. Oh, well, 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:08.080 thank you very much. I appreciate it. Yes, I got 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:10.920 my grades back. I was very nervous, as you might 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:13.440 remember from the Bachelor party. I was writing papers while 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:16.800 I was there, and uh, I was not nervous that 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:18.560 I was going to fail, but I was nervous, like, 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:21.080 what if I gotta see that's gonna just suck. I 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:22.520 I just want to get a's and bees. And then 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.320 I ended up getting three a's in one A minus. 0:10:25.360 --> 0:10:28.000 So I got straight a's, which was great and very exciting. 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:31.640 I'm very proud. I worked hard. So, um, are you 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:34.120 still waiting for one more grade? Though? Nope, I only took. 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:35.920 I took four classes this semester and then I have 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:37.800 one more to take in the summer and then I graduate. 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:39.079 But the one I take in the summer is my 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.599 second language. So it's it's I took Italian one on 0:10:41.720 --> 0:10:43.480 one this year, and so I'm gonna take Italian one 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:45.400 or two during the summer with the same professor. So 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:49.400 I feel pretty confident about that. Nice, there's there's going 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:51.559 back to school. Does it like kind of encourage you 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:53.400 or like invigorate you to like go to a graduate 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:55.680 program or anything like that. No, because I don't know 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:58.160 exactly what I want to do if I want to 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:01.080 even do anything with my degree, like we talked about before, Really, 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:03.680 really I just wanted to go back get my bachelor's 0:11:03.720 --> 0:11:06.080 because I invested so much time and money into school 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:07.640 and I really just wanted to finish and get my 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:09.920 degree and be able to, you know, say that I 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:12.240 have my bachelor's, put it on resume, see if it 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:14.640 helps me in any different way. Plus, like, you know, 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:16.959 it's all virtual right now, So school is I'm not 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:21.880 gonna say easier, but far easier to attend to submit things. 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:23.439 You know, you don't have to submit it in person, 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.320 you don't have to be in class in person. Everything 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.440 is virtual. So I just literally opened up my laptop 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:31.960 and I'm in class. So that's been an extremely satisfying 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:35.080 part about going to class during the pandemic. Um but 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:38.880 thank you, man, I appreciate it. So it's uh, it's 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:41.760 it's cool. We'll see You took a funny approach to it. 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:44.280 You like, you basically went to a car dealership, I 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:47.520 bought a car, got exactly what you wanted, and then 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.360 never put any tires on it. And then you came 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:51.040 back to it five years later and you're like, you 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:53.120 know what, it's time to put some tires on this thing. Yeah, 0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:55.160 it's time to finally you use this thing and put 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.800 some tires on there, some really good tires. Yeah. I'm 0:11:57.800 --> 0:12:01.040 happy for you, man, I'm proud of you. Yeah. Yeah, 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:03.040 I mean there's not I wish I had like more stories, 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:06.120 but unfortunately, because of the pandemic, you were not in class. 0:12:06.160 --> 0:12:09.040 So it's like I don't interact with any of my classmates. 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:11.120 Most of them I haven't seen their faces because they 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.640 don't have their camera on during zoom, which I felt 0:12:13.640 --> 0:12:16.160 really bad for the professors. I'd always have my camera on. 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.839 Very infrequently would I not have my camera on. But 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:20.760 I felt bad because it would just be the professor 0:12:20.880 --> 0:12:23.680 lecturing it's like this right here, and then your camera 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:26.520 would be off and then they're just talking to whoever 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:29.120 the hell knows, and I felt bad. So I was like, well, 0:12:29.160 --> 0:12:30.840 I'm gonna put my camera on, you know, I'll be 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:33.840 the goody two shie student. But whatever worked out got a's. 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:39.240 They probably got cs that I know you kind of 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:41.880 talked about this, and obviously it would probably not even 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.040 be in the Code of Ethics for a professor. But 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:46.559 did any of the professors like, oh, you're Jared Habin 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:52.480 from a from Bachelor. I think there may have. I 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:55.960 think two of my professors may have known who I was, 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:59.080 which I was nervous about going in because it's always 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:03.600 weird um for your professor to know who you are. 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:05.520 I mean, as a student, could you imagine going to 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:08.040 a class and then walking in and you know your professor. 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:13.679 That already creates like an uncomfortable environment, not for anybody 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:15.920 in particular, but for me at least. I always felt uncomfortable. 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:17.160 I was like, I don't want to know my professor. 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:18.600 I don't want to know my other students. I just 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:21.360 want to get in, learn and get out. But to 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:25.280 my professor's one. I had a professor previously years ago, 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:27.520 and then I took him again this year and he's awesome, 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:30.160 awesome guy. And they never said anything, but like I 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:32.960 think they knew, Like were the hints that you're they 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:36.440 were giving you just vibes. It's the best way I 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:40.720 can describe it, almost as if they knew me. UM 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:44.400 and one another was a female professor and again never 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:49.600 said anything. Was never uncomfortable, but just like tonality, just 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:52.080 like there was like a sense of familiarity, and I 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:55.800 was like, I think they might know me from Bachelor. 0:13:56.240 --> 0:13:58.920 What's been your what's been your favorite thing you've learned 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:04.400 this semester? Uh in a class setting. That's a good question. 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:11.760 My favorite thing I've learned? Um? I Well, I took 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:15.680 geography one on one and I learned mapping. I learned 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.760 how to map online with a website called r G 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:22.000 I S and that was pretty interesting. My final project 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:25.320 was about um serial killers that can tell you where 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:29.040 my brain is, but um, most specifically about Jack the 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:32.000 Ripper because he's fascinating and so I was able to 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:35.120 create some maps about where the murders of Jack the 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:40.800 Ripper took, place, distance between them, UM, things of that nature. Uh, 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.680 you know, time, place, location. So that was fun to do. 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:50.360 Learning more about the White Chapel murders as they're known. Um. 0:14:50.480 --> 0:14:52.840 And then yeah, my history course is one was a 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:55.600 post independence African course, which was pretty interesting. We learned 0:14:55.640 --> 0:15:00.720 a lot about um uh you know, like to scramble 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:05.440 for Africa uh, and African nations gaining their independence uh, 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:09.360 you know, mostly in the nineteen sixties, late nineteen fifties. Uh. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:11.680 And a lot of the political issues that you know 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:15.320 have has faced Africa uh today and a lot of 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:18.320 the roots are from colonialism. So learning about that was 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:21.560 pretty interesting and eye opening. And it's you know, hard 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:23.600 to learn about those things. And we can see that, 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:25.920 you know, a lot of parts of the world, there's 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:29.480 some very tragic things going on. Obviously in Palestine right now. 0:15:29.960 --> 0:15:34.560 What's going on over there is is horrific um. But uh, 0:15:34.840 --> 0:15:37.880 I guess just learning it's hard to really pinpoint everything. 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.320 You know, one specific thing that I learned about that 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.000 was great because my history course is a lot of 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:46.160 it is just about like you know, civilizations falling or 0:15:46.520 --> 0:15:49.640 political corruptness or things of that nature. And the Italian 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:52.360 was fun too. Uh. But anyway, we don't have to 0:15:52.360 --> 0:15:55.160 go through like this whole row of things. Sorry, I'm 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.600 just like explaining my life away right now. I don't 0:15:57.640 --> 0:15:59.840 hate it. I like that you're the first thought is 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:02.160 to go to Jack the Ripper, and I can empathize 0:16:02.200 --> 0:16:04.760 with you because one of my favorite podcasts besides this one, 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:08.800 of course, is Crime Junkies and the Crime Junkies episodes, 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:10.960 every single one of them is great, but the most 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:15.160 fascinating ones are always the serial killer episodes. They're just 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.520 so they're so exciting. It's like, what do you take 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.040 a crazy turn? And then all of a sudden you're like, 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:20.680 how's this guy not caught yet? And then they're like 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:22.800 they go to their property and they unveil like ten 0:16:22.840 --> 0:16:25.360 more bodies, and you're like, this is awful and insane. Dude, 0:16:25.360 --> 0:16:29.240 we're obsessed with serial killers. Like as a society, why 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:31.280 do you think be watched sixty minutes? Why do you 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:33.080 think what was the serial Killers show that was directed 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:35.120 by David Fincher on Netflix? I forget it, but it 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:38.240 was a huge success or Zodiac or all these movies 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:40.680 seven you know what I mean, Like there's something inherently 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:46.200 interesting about it. It's horrific and terrible, but yet like captivating. 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:48.560 So anyhow, it just says like a lot of us 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:52.920 as human beings were just horrible people really in the core. Um, 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:54.480 that's why it's nice. It's nice to be able to 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:56.320 plug in like grand theft auto or something and just 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:58.920 like be like, Okay, I don't want to do that. No, No, 0:16:59.000 --> 0:17:02.360 totally watched Disney you know that's good with ash ashes 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:08.000 just like the most like fluffy butterfly optimistic person you'll meet. 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:10.639 So like being around her is uh it makes me 0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:13.520 feel better about life in a lot of ways. Um. Well, 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:15.080 we do have a guest coming up. Holy crap, we 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:17.760 didn't talk anything about dating. That's okay. Sometimes, you know, 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:20.119 in in life and on this podcast, we have to 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:21.960 really branch out. We have to talk about things that 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:23.880 are happening in our own lives, you know what I mean, 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:30.480 serial killers, schooling, first dates. Yeah, but else, I don't know. 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:31.800 That's all I got for you on that one. We 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:34.600 do have Austin Kevitch. I hope I'm saying his last 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:40.359 name properly. I'm terrible with names. Austin Kevin created Lux, 0:17:41.040 --> 0:17:44.040 the Lux Club app. He is coming up right after 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:57.520 this break. Stay tuned, all right, welcome back to help 0:17:57.560 --> 0:18:00.960 buy suck at Dating. Jarre A Dean here, and we 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:04.119 have very special guest. He is the creator of the 0:18:04.240 --> 0:18:09.159 locks Club app. It is a dating app specifically for 0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:14.600 Jews with quote ridiculously high standards. It is Austin. Kevin. Austin, 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:17.199 thank you so much for joining us today. Thank you 0:18:17.240 --> 0:18:19.720 for having me. I'm excited. Did I pronounce your last 0:18:19.800 --> 0:18:24.200 name right? Because I'm terrible with names. Levitch you did, Kevin? 0:18:25.560 --> 0:18:28.720 How did you? How did you? Now? You're just adding 0:18:28.800 --> 0:18:31.880 letters and yeah, I'm just butchering Kevich, I said, Kevin. 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:33.560 The first time you know what it was was because 0:18:33.880 --> 0:18:36.960 I read it off the screen, off our rundown, So 0:18:37.000 --> 0:18:38.840 I read it properly, and then I was on the 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:40.960 zoom looking at your face, and then for some reason, 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:45.240 Levitch just came in my head. So Austin Kevich said 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:52.399 it properly. K to the L classic mistake classic in 0:18:52.400 --> 0:18:56.080 the alphabet. Yeah, there's somewhere around there. So Austin, you 0:18:56.200 --> 0:19:00.879 created this dating app. Locks Club app is, like I said, 0:19:01.119 --> 0:19:05.880