1 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: and everybody. 3 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 2: You don't know if you don't lie about that, right, 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 2: Lauren can't. 5 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, it's Laura L. Rosa and this is the 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: Latest with Lauren L. 7 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 2: Rosa. 8 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: This is your daily dig on all things pop culture, entertainment, news, 9 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: and the conversations that shake the room. Now, when we 10 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: talk about conversations that shake the room, we know that 11 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: y'all love when we bring the live conversations, the sit 12 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: downs here on the podcast. So I got something really 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: really special for all of my lowriders today if you've 14 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: ever seen the show Girlfriends. And I kind of feel 15 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 1: like a little like a dub when I say that, 16 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: because who hasn't seen the show Girlfriends? But if you 17 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: have or have not seen the show Girlfriends, we are 18 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: going to talk a lot about it today in this 19 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: episode because we have a icon joining us. 20 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: Ms Golden Brooks, who played Maya on. 21 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: The show, will be joining us to talk about in 22 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: our exhibition that has taking place in la June twenty 23 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: ninth in June twenty eighth at the Line Hotel in 24 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: La So. On June twenty ninth and June twenty eighth 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 1: or June twenty eighth and June twenty nineth. 26 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, why am I saying it backwards. 27 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: Like that you'll be able to come out and check 28 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: out some art pieces that were all created by black 29 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 1: women artists and photographers. Because Girlfriends, the show is turning 30 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: twenty five or has turned twenty five this year. So 31 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: we and when I say we, we talked to Golden 32 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: Brooks me Delaney George, who was the co founder of 33 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: DCDG and Co. 34 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 2: She put the whole exhibition together. 35 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: She figures out, like, you know, what is the focus 36 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: of the exhibition, who will be focusing on what? And 37 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: then you know, she puts all the pieces to the 38 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: puzzle together. So she brought me in with an amazing 39 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: dope artist named Brittany Bird. 40 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: Brittany is creating. 41 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: Some of the pieces in the show as well as 42 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: helping to you know, bring other artists into the show 43 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: as well. And in conversation with Golden Brooks, we got 44 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: to talk a lot about what the show meant to 45 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: us and pour into Golden Brooks maya from Girlfriends just 46 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: on her and what that looks like for us at 47 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: our ages and you know, we started watching Girlfriends so 48 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,960 Speaker 1: long ago. She you know, Golden Brooks is in this 49 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: conversation just receiving all of the flowers, but for a 50 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: lot of the conversations, she's kind of in awe still 51 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 1: of the impact of Girlfriends. 52 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 2: But mar Brock, I. 53 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: Kill Golden, Tracy Ellis, Ross Lynn at everybody who has 54 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: played on this series, Jill, Marie Jones. I think that 55 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: they all and somewhat and in some way understand how 56 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: important they are. But I think it's different when you 57 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: get to hear it firsthand from women creatives who've been 58 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: inspired by the work. 59 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: So that's what we're doing here. 60 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: So take a listen to this exclusive sit down with 61 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: Golden Brooks maya of Girlfriends as we celebrate twenty five 62 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: years of the show. All right, all right, morning morning, 63 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,079 Speaker 1: y'all are glowed up for lining and on a Sunday, 64 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: all of y'all are giving and all are glowing. I'm 65 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 1: really excited to be here. I've been in preparation for 66 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: this conversation. I've been watching a lot of Girlfriends and 67 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: conversations that I went back through some of the art 68 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 1: that we selected or that was a part of the 69 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: major selection, and we narrowed it down to for the 70 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: exhibition that is happening in LA and I don't know. 71 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 3: I think it's just so dope. 72 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: How you know, a show that we watch and now 73 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: have been able to rewatch with our mothers or grandmothers 74 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: and nieces, our aunties and you know, all these people 75 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: that are in our lives is now like we're now 76 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: talking about it in a way of art and exhibition. 77 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: I think that it's amazing to see art be able 78 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: to be communicated in so many different ways. So I'm 79 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: excited for this conversation. You know, I know you guys 80 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: are without introduction, but if you want to just say 81 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: hello really quick to the audience and lets them know 82 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: what part you guys are playing in this, you know, 83 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: twenty five year anniversary art exhibition that we're putting on 84 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: in LA that will be open to the public in 85 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: a few weeks. 86 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 3: I think that that would be a great way to 87 00:03:59,200 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 3: kick it off. 88 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, oh, Golden, you go ahead, Golden. 89 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 3: Oh you go first. 90 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, Well, Nati, Hi everybody on the live. 91 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 4: I'm Delaney George. 92 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 5: I'm the co founder of Creative Fine Arts Agency DCDG. Also, 93 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 5: this is our first iteration of our new brain child, 94 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 5: Iconic Visions, which basically partners legends like Golden works here 95 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 5: and other people of multiple industries, whether it's music, sports, entertainment, 96 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 5: and put them in the role of the curator. So 97 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 5: kind of like you said, Lauren, taking something that we 98 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 5: all know in love within our culture and then bring 99 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 5: it into find our in the galleries and putting a 100 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 5: contemporary towist on something that we all know and love. 101 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 5: So I'm super excited to be talking about this with 102 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 5: you all, but also to be bringing this to life 103 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 5: with so many incredible black women artists. That's what it's 104 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 5: really about, That's what's connecting us. So I'm excited to 105 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 5: get into it. 106 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 6: Hi, everybody in the live I'm so excited to be 107 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 6: a part of this project. My name is Brandan Bird, 108 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 6: and I am a multi high far artists and creative 109 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 6: and I am exhibiting a piece in the show and 110 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 6: I'm just like heartful. 111 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, Hi you guys. I'm Golden Brooks. 112 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 7: Aka my Denise Wilks. I just I I was asked to, 113 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 7: you know, sort of come along this journey and help 114 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 7: curate and just pick some amazing art pieces from some 115 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 7: of these you know, these artists, and. 116 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 3: To work with the d C d G, it's just 117 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:36,679 Speaker 3: it feels like such an honor. 118 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 7: I feel I feel very honored, and I'm I still 119 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 7: get really emotional when we were talking about any girlfriends 120 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 7: and just knowing. 121 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 3: That the show is still is still moving and and 122 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 3: and being. 123 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 7: Celebrated and empowering communities, and it's being used to to 124 00:05:56,000 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 7: as the muse for for this particular art exhibition. 125 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 3: It's mind blowing all of us. 126 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 7: Tracy, Jill Persia and I we're just blown away at 127 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 7: the amount of just love and support and still the 128 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 7: train is moving, and I think it just shows that 129 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 7: we need more of this, We need more representation and 130 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 7: just girlfriends to be able to be in the art space, 131 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,119 Speaker 7: which I love. I'm a huge art lover. I feel 132 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 7: very honored, So thank you for having me. 133 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 5: This is a show that we all know and love 134 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 5: and all girls, but now to be taking it from 135 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 5: the screen and putting it on canvas or gallery wall, 136 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 5: I think that's something that everybody can relate to. So 137 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 5: even if you're a person that's not traditionally trained harder, 138 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 5: you're not into it all the time. I think this 139 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 5: show is going to bring something for everyone to be 140 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 5: involved in. 141 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 7: It really is a collection about what sisterhood looks like. 142 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,239 Speaker 3: Yes, and the pieces are. 143 00:06:56,200 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 7: Beautiful, and I mean I think that girlfriend and what 144 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 7: it represents to me is the whole culture of what 145 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 7: it is to be and not just a brown woman, 146 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:11,239 Speaker 7: but but female womanhood, from our hair to our skin 147 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 7: to how we connect physically metaphysically. I mean some of 148 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 7: the art pieces were so metaphorical and and you know what, 149 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 7: I feel like, art is kind of like a really 150 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 7: good dish. Like some people, you may not know what 151 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 7: you're eating. You may not know all ingredients and sometimes 152 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 7: intimidating when you go to, you know, a certain restaurant, 153 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 7: you're like, oh, what is it? But once you eat it, 154 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 7: it's texture, it's feeling. You just you just know when 155 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 7: you know, and and you don't always have to have 156 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 7: the right terminology. But when you look at something and 157 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 7: it moved you and it evokes an emotion, that's when 158 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 7: you know that that piece is for you. 159 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 3: You know it's all feeling true. 160 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, and Golden, this is kind of like another full 161 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: circle woman for you, because you guys are The African 162 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: American Museum. 163 00:07:56,360 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 7: In DC we we were, We absolutely were our art. 164 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 7: It's just it's you know, I think because Girlfriends was 165 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 7: so iconic, I feel so. 166 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 3: Old when I say that, I'm like iconic. 167 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 7: But I think because it was one of the first 168 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 7: shows that actually celebrated or you know, maur bucka kill, 169 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 7: you know, hats off to her showing black women doing 170 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 7: yoga and eating sushi and. 171 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 3: Wearing fly clothes designer. 172 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 7: I think that was the first time I ever heard about, 173 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 7: you know, the well, not really the Burken Bag, because 174 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 7: Sex and the City did it, but you had women 175 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 7: of women of color wearing designer. 176 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 3: You know. We talked about it, and. 177 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 7: I just think that on so many levels it showcased 178 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 7: us in a way that we hadn't seen ourselves and 179 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 7: all of our flaws, you know. And I think that 180 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 7: that's something that I think women of color it was. 181 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 7: It opened up a whole new conversation piece on the 182 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 7: black woman and what that looks like, you know, and 183 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,560 Speaker 7: I think museums. I think it should be celebrated, and 184 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 7: I think Girlfriends really was sort of the catalyst for 185 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 7: a lot of other amazing shows that have that have 186 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 7: come after it. So I feel very proud to be 187 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 7: to be part of that. 188 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 1: Well, Golden kind of talked a little bit about what 189 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: the show meant to her, but for everyone else here, 190 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: I would love to know the first time you watched 191 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: this is like an Icebregger, first time you watched Girlfriends? What, 192 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: like what did it represent like right away to you? 193 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: And like, I feel like there's a version of us 194 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:36,479 Speaker 1: who watched. 195 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,439 Speaker 2: It now as we're older, But try. 196 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: And think back to like the very first time you 197 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: watched the series. 198 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 5: I'm like, I think I want to say it might 199 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 5: have been like around like maybe two thousand and. 200 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 3: Three or four. 201 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 5: My mom used to religiously watch Girlfriends like get a 202 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 5: and then tune in and like we would literally sit 203 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 5: in front of tea together. So in a way, Girlfriends 204 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 5: represents like a motherly bond for me because that's. 205 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 4: Something that my mom did together. 206 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 5: Like that was we ate our dinner watch Girlfriends, and 207 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 5: my mom would literally cold Maya's like, oh hell no 208 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 5: all the time, she's probably watching this get in here, 209 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 5: clean this rip. 210 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 4: Exactly. 211 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 5: So I mean that was definitely a bonding moment for 212 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:26,920 Speaker 5: me and my mom, Like so early early two thousands 213 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 5: for sure. And then it's like when I when I 214 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 5: saw just the imagery of these black women. I me 215 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 5: being that age, I didn't really get to Laura digest 216 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 5: like all of like the drama and the serious. Yeah, 217 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 5: but they were just so beautiful and like fabulous in 218 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:48,479 Speaker 5: the fashion in a stop. Like every single episode, everybody 219 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 5: was on point Tony with all of her designer and 220 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 5: her product. Like I was crazy because, like I mean, 221 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:58,079 Speaker 5: growing up in New Orleans, like I, we just did 222 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,120 Speaker 5: not see that type of caliber of black women. And 223 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 5: I think you said, like that golden like that didn't 224 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 5: just expose, you know, that exposed to everyone. 225 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 4: To like the fact that this is what we can be. 226 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 5: These black women do exist, and that was like my 227 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 5: first occurrences with it. It was inspiring to see that, 228 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 5: but also it was a bonding moment for me and 229 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 5: my mom. 230 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 3: I love that so amazing. 231 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,079 Speaker 6: I think I started watching it and maybe like two 232 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 6: thousand or two thousand and one, I was definitely like 233 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 6: in elementary school, but it was just like always on 234 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 6: in my house, and it was like, wait a minute, 235 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,599 Speaker 6: they're owning homes and miracle miles. 236 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 3: Right in the cities. They were, like y'all were. 237 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:41,839 Speaker 1: Because when I was thirty, I was like, wait, because 238 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: in Girlfriends they were like twenty nine, thirty thirty one, right. 239 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 6: Right, yeah, and like growing up it's like, oh wait, 240 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 6: twenty eight with real jobs, law firms. 241 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was cool for me to see. 242 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 6: Because it definitely gave me like inspiration, like you can 243 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,839 Speaker 6: be out landishly loud, you can be yourself, you can 244 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 6: be exceptionally beautiful. 245 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 3: So yeah, it was a lot of for me. Yeah. 246 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: Same, I agree with both of you guys sentiments. For me, 247 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: I think the first time I watched it younger, it 248 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: was just like it reminded me of like my group 249 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: of friends and like my family, like theirs, Like you 250 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: always have the aunt who has a great job and 251 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: you can tell her lifestyle. You go to her house 252 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: and it's like, oh my god, and then you got 253 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: your homework like it. There were so many different people 254 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 1: in one show, but they all were together, and I 255 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 1: don't think I've ever seen that, cause I think other 256 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 1: than that, a show that sits out to me is 257 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: like a Mosha. But it was different because she was younger, 258 00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 1: she was figuring things out. She was you know, like 259 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 1: there was a certain unapologeticness in Girlfriends for each character 260 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: in different ways, And I was young, like, wait, hold 261 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: on because she just wait because yeah. 262 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 2: So figuring all those things out as I was. 263 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 3: Learning and growing. 264 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 4: Now I'm like, oh. 265 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 3: They rewatch it different. The rewatch it's crazy. 266 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 5: I was like, wait, this is actually unhinged activities. 267 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 7: So do you guys feel like now you guys are 268 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 7: still so young, and I mean, and I know you 269 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,960 Speaker 7: watched it with your mom's when you look at it now, 270 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 7: even for me when I look at it now, you know, 271 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 7: twenty five years later, and I sometimes I see so 272 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 7: many memes now online like. 273 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 3: Who was the most toxic friend? 274 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 7: Or you know, but looking at it now, now that 275 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 7: you guys are older, more mature, does it resonate in 276 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 7: a way that do you feel something different? Do you 277 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 7: feel like you're more connected to one or the other 278 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 7: now that you're in a space of living your full, 279 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 7: flushed out lives. 280 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: Hell, yeah, oh my god, I'll be watching that. I'll 281 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: rewatched it a few years ago with my mom and 282 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: then I've just rewatched it on my own, just and 283 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 1: moving to New York and wanting to you know, you 284 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 1: have that girlfriend's like I want to take over the city, 285 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 1: to take over the world wide, and I feel like 286 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:05,480 Speaker 1: it depends on what I'm going through in the week 287 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm having. I might identify with a different character for 288 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,559 Speaker 1: a different reason, and I might need like I might 289 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: need to be Then and just be like free spirited 290 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 1: things are going to work out. I might need to 291 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: be Maya and be like I'm on, fuck this, this 292 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: is not happening. I might need to be Joan. I 293 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: might need to be Deal and be like hold on 294 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: cause from me, I deserve that, like you know what 295 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, it just depends on what I'm going through. 296 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 1: But Mark brock Iki, I think what it's so genius 297 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: about the show is that I've never I could really 298 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 1: watch it a thousand times and find a different reason 299 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 1: why I need it to watch it like the art, 300 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: the story doesn't get old. You watch it like I 301 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: need to see it again, girl. 302 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 4: That right. 303 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 6: Definitely timeless for sure, because like a lot of I 304 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 6: primarily work in fashion and art, but like a lot 305 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 6: of the fashion girls, they're like, oh it's touch sex 306 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 6: in the City, no shade, great show, but I resonate 307 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 6: more with like the characters of Girlfriends. 308 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 3: Oh Man, thank you. 309 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 5: It's differing for me too, because it's like I think 310 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 5: watching it as an adult, like the ages twenty eight 311 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 5: through like thirty one, thirty two. It's like it makes 312 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 5: you like they're still going through so many things that 313 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,520 Speaker 5: you would like imagine people not go through. And it's like, wow, 314 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 5: these are grown women around my age that's going. 315 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 4: Through the same thing. 316 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 5: It's just like it's okay to still be figuring out. 317 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 5: Like Girlfriends just showed such a spectrum of different types 318 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 5: of Black women, Like they were all different in their way, 319 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 5: but it's like their situations happen to all of us, 320 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 5: Like we're not you know, opposed to going. 321 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 4: Through an that. 322 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 5: So I feel like it's really for me to be 323 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 5: like you can be a career woman, can be like 324 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 5: on your stuff, but you're still going to have like 325 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 5: reality happen. 326 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 4: So I feel like Girlfriends is kind of like that's. 327 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 5: A hug that you need to be like, girl, like 328 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 5: you're okay, like you're figuring out and that's okay too. 329 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, that's you. Guys are so on it. I 330 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 7: love it. 331 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 3: I love it. 332 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 7: It's it really is crazy how it still holds up, 333 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 7: you know, and we're all still so very close and uh, 334 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 7: I mean the fashion we always talk about, you know, 335 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 7: what I would take this from Joe, you know, oh 336 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 7: you know, Lynn, let me let me get that little 337 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 7: black sashet or for real estate dresses and my little 338 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 7: sassy jeans. And I loved it. I love that we're 339 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 7: having this conversation. And I think we're all I mean, 340 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 7: as black women. I really think we're all those women, right, 341 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 7: I think we're all that, And I think we we 342 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 7: have to code switch. That's what we do as as 343 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 7: women of color, women in the arts, women in if 344 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 7: you know, if you're in the professional space, we you know, 345 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 7: we're a little bit of Maya when we're with our friends, 346 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 7: you know, the sister girl where and sometimes we have 347 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 7: to put on that hat when like Joan in the boardroom, 348 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 7: and and sometimes we're the perennial student where we're constantly 349 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 7: wanting to learn, like like Lynn, and I think we 350 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 7: wear so many hats as women of color that we 351 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 7: have to. And so I'm so proud of all three 352 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 7: of you for, you know, being in the space that 353 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:10,919 Speaker 7: you are. And I think people underestimate how art really 354 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 7: can inspire you, whether it's TV or an actual art 355 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 7: piece or. 356 00:17:19,880 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 3: Because we're removed by by what. 357 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 7: Is us and and something that's familiar and something that 358 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 7: gives us, you know, legiency to. 359 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,040 Speaker 3: To be that and to explore that and to express that. 360 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 7: So I just think conversations like this are really important, 361 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 7: especially for you know, you guys and and even younger generations, 362 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 7: so that they know it's okay, it's okay to to 363 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 7: to be you, you know, and I know that that 364 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:49,360 Speaker 7: we're living in a space right now where we're kind 365 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,239 Speaker 7: of told who we need to be. And social that's 366 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 7: another thing we always talk about. Girlfriends was around at 367 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 7: a time, but there was no social media. You know, 368 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 7: there was no Instagram, there was no I mean, I 369 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 7: think Facebook was just starting, but it. 370 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 4: Was a space maybe yeah, yeah, it was my space. 371 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 7: Right, but like you only found out about girlfriends by 372 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 7: word of mouth, like if you was you know. 373 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:13,919 Speaker 1: A. 374 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely was like a talking point and like it 375 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:22,840 Speaker 6: was that every point of black women lineage. I can 376 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 6: definitely say, from like grandparents to like my parents. 377 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 7: Right, I mean it was sort of like you had 378 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 7: to go to your local Sunday dinner or to church 379 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 7: or to a friend's house to talk about that episode. 380 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 3: Oh did you say when Joon did this? 381 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 7: Because you know that's also how you know that it 382 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 7: was the power of us, because you know, it was 383 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:48,639 Speaker 7: really like we'd have to get fan mail to hear 384 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:49,959 Speaker 7: what people were thinking. 385 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 4: It was like wow. 386 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:55,119 Speaker 7: So they would sit there and open up envelopes, you know, 387 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 7: and it's it's very interesting. We're in a different time. 388 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 7: So the fact that we're still having this conversation, it 389 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 7: just it really takes me a little bit emotional. 390 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 1: So all right, y'all, So that has been the sit 391 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 1: down with Golden Brooks. Now make sure again if you 392 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,280 Speaker 1: have not heard it enough throughout this conversation, you will 393 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,440 Speaker 1: hear right now that you come out. If you were 394 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: in la on June twenty eighth and June twenty ninth 395 00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:34,199 Speaker 1: to visit the exhibition, it will be open to the public. 396 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: You can go out, take a look at all the 397 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 1: art pieces, and you know, Golden will be there. It's 398 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 1: going to be a great time. It's going to be 399 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 1: a day full of creativity and conversation through the lens 400 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: of black women creators, which, of course, again, girlfriends, you know, 401 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 1: it was tea for that is that's what they gave. 402 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 2: Even though they weren't all artists. You know, they were. 403 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: Painting this campus of what real life looks like for 404 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: us as black women. It's twenty five years later, we 405 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 1: still celebrate it. So at the end of the today, 406 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: like I always tell you guys, y'all could be anywhere 407 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 1: with anybody having these conversations, but you choose to be 408 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:08,399 Speaker 1: right here with me. I appreciate you guys so much, Lowriders, 409 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: and I will see you guys in my next episode.