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Speaker 1: y'all know how we start off every show, Well, what's

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Speaker 1: up with that dude? Yesterday had a call because I

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Speaker 1: have new representation. Yes, I am going to be represented

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Speaker 1: in this world in a different mind, I say, and

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Speaker 1: I look forward to that. Man. It's crazy because it's

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Speaker 1: an old friend of mine that I've known for fifteen

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Speaker 1: my former agent, like almost maybe in like a minute

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Speaker 1: to ship roll, I don't know, but basically my old

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Speaker 1: agent was a big dog out there, Nick Khan who

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Speaker 1: now runs the w w E. So shout out to

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Speaker 1: Ruber Khon Talent and Dave Mara Lees. Yes, that's how

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Speaker 1: you say it, Dave Mary Lee's He's just Dave to me,

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Speaker 1: But I gotta say his last name right to give

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Speaker 1: him for credit. All right, So I'm moving on up

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Speaker 1: like the Jeffersons out here, baby, and I love what

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Speaker 1: we've been doing so far. A lot of stuff going

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Speaker 1: we're doing. It's crazy, though, talking to him because he

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Speaker 1: sounds like my former agent and what y'all don't know,

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Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you right now because I tell

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Speaker 1: y'all everything over time. When I was at FS one

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Speaker 1: my first two years, I was represented by Nick Khan.

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Speaker 1: He made the move from me from ESPN to FS one.

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Speaker 1: Then he left to go run w W E great

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Speaker 1: terms we left on. We still talk. Saw him at

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Speaker 1: Whitlock also left at that same time. What people didn't

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Speaker 1: know is I didn't have an agent. Now that wasn't

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Speaker 1: because a lot of people didn't want me to be

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Speaker 1: their client. You know, I had suitors. I was a

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Speaker 1: pretty girl that was staying home every night. I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: I think about it and reflect now because deeply I

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Speaker 1: didn't see my future being brighter in sports media broadcasting

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Speaker 1: doing to what I was doing now. I saw me

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Speaker 1: but I ain't see me going higher. I saw me

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Speaker 1: And people like Matt pat McAfee as a proof of concept,

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Speaker 1: Ensemble casts, Okay, no more debate, Let's try and discuss,

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Speaker 1: but not discussed too much. Let's get high gloss, let's

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Speaker 1: story short, I didn't have an agent my last two years,

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Speaker 1: than that, it's too many damn mosquitos in this world

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Speaker 1: lying all right now, I'm speaking of pests or how

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Speaker 1: to get rid of trolls. Let's talk about this story

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Speaker 1: right here. It's called social deletion, but let's be real

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Speaker 1: about this. This was the Arkansas Arkansas coach Sam Pittman

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Speaker 1: saying he was frustrated with the negative consequences that come

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Speaker 1: he said he had to spend an ignortoning amount of

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Speaker 1: But what all comes with coaching football. Now, all that

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Speaker 1: endure that criticism. He said, as a coach, you can't

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Speaker 1: and look, it may lead to more criticisms, so be it.

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Speaker 1: an official football team account. Y'all want to talk to

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Speaker 1: And he said, if I do reactivate my Twitter account,

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Speaker 1: Come on, y'all, we always talk about the negative side

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Speaker 1: you spell Christopher boy? All right? So Christopher Columbus enter? Ah,

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Speaker 1: Do not ask me? That's just the first book report

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Speaker 1: I remember I had to do. So it takes me

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Speaker 1: back to the issues that come from social media, because

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Speaker 1: it always shames you. It could flatter you. But remember,

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Speaker 1: is the outside world's thoughts of you greater than your

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Speaker 1: belief in yourself and your thoughts of yourself? Right? So

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Speaker 1: it does matter that Joe name if to make sure

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Speaker 1: that the Jets still are the Jets, because when I

425
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,399
Speaker 1: was with the Jets, we out there getting it. I

426
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 1: predicted a championship and damnit we did it. Now don't

427
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,320
Speaker 1: look at the Jets. What the hell is this now?

428
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: Obviously these comments wouldn't land if Aaron Rodgers were the

429
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Speaker 1: quarterback because they would be doing better. Let's be real,

430
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 1: and then Joe Nama could sit back and just say, hey,

431
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,920
Speaker 1: let me fan the flames the greatness of Aaron Rodgers

432
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 1: and what his impact is. But he ain't there, so

433
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 1: now he gonna have to make sure everyone knows these

434
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: are not the Jets that we want, and especially Zach

435
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 1: Wilson is not the quarterback that we need. So how

436
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: is Zach feeling right now? Everyone always talk about New

437
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: York media, and I played in New York but not

438
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: at the professional level. But still it's New York media.

439
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:13,719
Speaker 1: I know it very well. This is how Zach is feeling.

440
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:19,760
Speaker 1: Zach has forgotten that he is playing a game of inches.

441
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: Football is a game of inches. Why is that important

442
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 1: right now for Zach Wilson to hear and know? Because

443
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: Zach Wilson has to remind himself that playing that game

444
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,640
Speaker 1: of inches means that you're closer than you actually think.

445
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: Let me say it again, it's a game of inches.

446
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 1: You lose these games, unless it's Denver in Miami, than

447
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: it's a game of yards. But everything else is a

448
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: game of inches. You know, you're that close from being

449
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,919
Speaker 1: the winner or being the loser, from playing well to

450
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 1: not playing well, to making that play to not making

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00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: that play. I tell you what Barry Sanders told me.

452
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 1: He said, the difference between a six yard loss tackle

453
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Speaker 1: for loss and a sixty yard touchdown. Go Barry is

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Speaker 1: six inches. And think about it. I mean time you've

455
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 1: seen a guy go like this, Oh he missed touchdown?

456
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,200
Speaker 1: Or are those catches now that everybody? The cornerback's hand

457
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: is right here and he catches touchdown inches. Zack Wilson,

458
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: you way closer than you think, because objects in the

459
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Speaker 1: mirror are closer than they appear. If you look in

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00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 1: your rear view mirror, you look in your side view mirrors.

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Speaker 1: You see the Zach Wilson who was bawling at BYU.

462
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 1: Remember him? You see the Zach Wilson who walking around

463
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Speaker 1: campus saying, yeah, I'm the man. And then you going

464
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Speaker 1: to BYU and you tah, I hope you was like, yeah,

465
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Speaker 1: and these are my women. If I went to BYU,

466
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Speaker 1: I'd be like, coach, is it true? He'd be like,

467
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Speaker 1: what's true? I'd be like you stop playing. You can't

468
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Speaker 1: recruit me. No, all the way, like I ain't going

469
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Speaker 1: to be yuunless I mean it's good right. We all

470
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: kicking it right, all of them. So anyway, Zack Wilson

471
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,720
Speaker 1: got he has to remind himself he's that close though.

472
00:24:58,000 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: I remember when I was playing great, and when I

473
00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: was isn't playing great? And literally I was playing okay,

474
00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 1: good bad, okay, and then it's just like, how can

475
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: it go like this? Everyone always says that the light

476
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: goes on, right, the game slows down. Click. You know why,

477
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 1: because you're that close. If it went clicking, you weren't

478
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: nowhere around you, wouln't even hear the click. You wouldn't

479
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: even see the click. It would be no clicking. It's

480
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,440
Speaker 1: just be like, what what you're talking about? So Zach,

481
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 1: I just laugh every time I see somebody's the man,

482
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Speaker 1: the senior on campus with the letterman jacket, and oh yeah,

483
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm in high school, I'm the man. And then go

484
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: to college freshman year. Uhuh, how do you play football again?

485
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, dog, relax, you're that close. Just put the

486
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: work in, man, and believe in yourself greater than all

487
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: those outsiders and how they're trying to project on you.

488
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: Right now it's not going well, don't get it twisted.

489
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 1: You suck right now. I mean your performance sucks. It's

490
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: that you don't suck it. What you putting out there whack.

491
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: But it's that close game of inches. Trust me, I

492
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: know you don't because in this situation, the game me,

493
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: people who have seen you play believe in you you're

494
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: coach Robert Sola. Even though he lying a little bit,

495
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: but he doing his job. He believes in you. But

496
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: all of us can be overruled by one person, Zach Wilson.

497
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 1: Don't overrule us in this situation. Now, let's talk about

498
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 1: coach Lyon because that does hurt the team because you

499
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: know why in this situation, we know he's lying because

500
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 1: Zach Wilson has messed up before, not started for this

501
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 1: team before. And we've had chance of other quarterbacks before,

502
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: and we went out and got Aaron Rodgers, gave him

503
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Speaker 1: a king's ransom, and we said our fortunes in future

504
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 1: is in Aaron Rodgers hand, and Zach Wilson, you sit

505
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: back and learn. And now Zach Wilson has to start

506
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: when we done already cast you away? Oops. Oops, what

507
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 1: do they say? Don't give up for show to get

508
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 1: more because your end up with no. And that's what happened.

509
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,720
Speaker 1: They gave up a for show and they for show

510
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: was gonna lose with Zach Wilson, but they gave it

511
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 1: up to get more because they wanted more wins out

512
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: of Aaron Rodgers. And now they got no quarterback out

513
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: of Aaron Rodgers or Zach Wilson crazy how the game goes.

514
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 1: But remember this man, don't let even a Joe name it.

515
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: From the weight that he carries and his name and

516
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 1: what he's saying make you forget how close you can

517
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: be to where you want to go game of inches,

518
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: and it's that close for Zack Wilson. So what do

519
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: y'all think about Zach Wilson right now? You think it's

520
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: the future of him or he done? I don't think

521
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 1: he toasted yet. I just don't. I think he does

522
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: need some mental makeup changes. I think he needs to

523
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: stop giggling on the sidelines. I think he needs to

524
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: express himself a little more. Fake it till you make

525
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,600
Speaker 1: it. It's okay to have a persona big dog. You don't

526
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: have to always show your true colors. Show some fake colors,

527
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's how a lot of

528
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 1: animals survive in the wild. Camouflage, chameleon, fake colors. Whatever

529
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 1: you gotta do to get yourself to where you gotta go.

530
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: So y'all think he's done or y'all think he got

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00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: a little life left. And what do you think the

532
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 1: fortunes of the Jets are there're fifty two guys in

533
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: that locker room like, oh God, hate this. And there's

534
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: one Zach Wilson. Will he revive himself and helped the

535
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: Jets survive this season? Yelloway, oh man. I've always been

536
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: called a nerd, always been called corny. So if you

537
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 1: call me that, you gotta get in line, because I've

538
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: been hearing it for a long time. I love you

539
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: guys out there, man. Project Transition dot org where we

540
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Speaker 1: meet the kids where they are and then we develop

541
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Speaker 1: that inner power within them and amplify for the world

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Speaker 1: to see. If you go to Project Transition dot org

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Speaker 1: right now, right now, not right now, you will get

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Speaker 1: this book. If you leave a recurring donation any amount,

545
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Speaker 1: weekly or monthly donation, my life is yours right there,

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Speaker 1: or you can leave a one time donation, or you

547
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Speaker 1: just leave your email. Just join the team and join

548
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Speaker 1: the movement. We have impact on these kids in the community.

549
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Speaker 1: All right, let's talk about who has an impact right now.

550
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 1: Sports media. My man Pat McAfee. His show looks amazing.

551
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: I love how they had the disclaimer in the beginning too.

552
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: They're like, look, basically, we're gonna cuss and we just

553
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: having fun. Up here, y'all tripping, don't sue us. I

554
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Speaker 1: like that, man, It's so good to see, all right.

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Speaker 1: So they had a recent episode on the show where

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Speaker 1: the producer Todd Schmidt interviewed Notre Dame's former head coach

557
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Speaker 1: Lou Holst. Salute first of all, whoo Lou hosts. So

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Speaker 1: Bobby Bouten first, let me just go at it. I

559
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: don't care they say comparison is the thief of joy.

560
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,920
Speaker 1: Well let's steal some joy, dammit. Because I grew up

561
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: on two coaches in the eighties. I have my coaches

562
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,240
Speaker 1: out there, coach Melvin Smith, senior coach Blue rest in Peace,

563
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,320
Speaker 1: had all my coaches, but demit. When I looked at TV,

564
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: I don't even know like the NFL coaches like that.

565
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 1: I heard of, you know, Tom Landry and stuff, but

566
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't watching them like that. I was watching Lou

567
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: Holst just sit there. I swear Lou hostess to be

568
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: sitting there with that hat on you but just looking

569
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: like this, and didn't Bob bout it looked like he

570
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: always chilling, like he always just he always ordered lemonade.

571
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 1: He just always like, yeah, I take a three piece.

572
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: Oh go run that testdown, like he just looked chill

573
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: and oh that th that used to give me hypes.

574
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Speaker 1: So when I saw Lou Holst was in this story,

575
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: obviously he got my energy up. Well, he was getting

576
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: impersonated by the producer Tye and he was doing an

577
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 1: interview with Lou Holts as impersonating Lou Hoats. So he

578
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: talking to himself in character, right, So he fully in character,

579
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 1: He got the costume, he got the prosthetic face, everything,

580
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 1: full character, all right. So during the segment, this is

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Speaker 1: what happened. The real Lou Hosts criticized Ohio State in particular,

582
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Speaker 1: saying under coach Ryan Day that the team looks softer

583
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: and that's led to some of their losses, right, and

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Speaker 1: he predicted Notre Dame was gonna win because of that assessment. Duh.

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Speaker 1: First of all, that's one of those rivalry rooting kind

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Speaker 1: of statements, like the rhetoric. Let me say that rivalry

587
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: rooting rhetoric, right, He ain't really reping, he just like,

588
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: how do I get to saying, no, the dyin't gonna win. Oh,

589
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 1: they look soft? Right, So that's how that went. Now,

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00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: Remember the real Lou host is saying this to the

591
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: fake Lou Holts and it gets around town. Let's just

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Speaker 1: say that. So here's a quote from it addressing this

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00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 1: after coach Ryan Day caught wind of it, and after

594
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: of course they win last second victory over No the Dame.

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Speaker 1: He said, I like to know where Lou Holts is

596
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 1: right now, what he said about our team, what he

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00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: said about our team. I cannot believe these coaches. First

598
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 1: of all, like yesterday, Dan Lanning stopped talking about hearing

599
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: know the cameras were there. Ye. It ain't a place

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00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: you go in this world right now where there's not

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00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: gonna be a camera, or you already know there's a

602
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: camera there and you hoping that it's there so you

603
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: can get caught for your recruiting purposes. So obviously coach

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00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: Day know that the this was gonna get back, right

605
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: He said, h I texted everybody I know from Ohio State. Uh,

606
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: this is what they were saying on the show. I

607
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: was like, I fucking love Ryan Day. I love the

608
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: fact that he was like, I was hitting old man.

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Speaker 1: I do not care what this guy said is out

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Speaker 1: of pocket. And now we got the back and forth.

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Speaker 1: You got McAfee just chimed in, loving the fact that

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Speaker 1: Ryan Day was like, Lou Hoats, I don't give a

613
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Speaker 1: damn you said something about my team, something about my bars.

614
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: We're about to go to war. And then Pat McAfee

615
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: going in tied like dog, I'm just faking Lou Hoax

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Speaker 1: and lou Holst is over there, like what's going on?

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Speaker 1: One thing about Lou Holst and I've worked with him

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Speaker 1: a few times. I could see why. He was a

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Speaker 1: hell of a coach and hell of a recruiter and man,

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Speaker 1: it's smart, wise but gentle like kind of like like

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Speaker 1: like I hate to say, this is gonna sound like

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Speaker 1: a Yoda, like you know, he was like, what you

623
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: feel wiser around that sucker? Man, I love that dude. Right,

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Speaker 1: So then all this was kind of like a little

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Speaker 1: bit of a joke, a little bit of serious and

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Speaker 1: you didn't you know where to go with this? Right,

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00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: So then lou Holas also joked about having dementia and

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00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: not fully understanding what he was saying during the interview

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Speaker 1: in the first place. What do we make of all

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Speaker 1: of this? He questioned whether Day was aware that lou

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Speaker 1: Holts was actually talking to a fake Lou Hoax because

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00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: Ryan Day came in a little hot one hundred came

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Speaker 1: in a little hotter than you think he should have

634
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Speaker 1: when he should have seen or known. The context of

635
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: this was like, dog, come on, it's Lou Holts rooting

636
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: for Notre Dame talking to a fake Lou Hoax. Maybe

637
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: it's not that serious, that deep, Okay. So then they

638
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: all kind of buttoned it up by saying, Hey, look

639
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: us being in the middle of the whole thing is

640
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: so dumb. I was laughing until I thought I was

641
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: going to pass out on Saturday Day night. That's what

642
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 1: happened on the Pat McAfee show. Kind of antics Day

643
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: up too over there. And it's crazy because sometimes you

644
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: get lost in not knowing the scenario the situation, like

645
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: Ryan Day probably did, and you just read it and

646
00:33:57,720 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 1: you just hear about it. He said, what are you say?

647
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: What I say? What? Oh? This is my moment. I

648
00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 1: can step up with Lou Holts and say something bad

649
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: about not to Day and get some of them recruits.

650
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:06,959
Speaker 1: Come over, Oldhillo, state I don't know why I got

651
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: that Ryan Day voice, and keep it going. So all

652
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: of that can work right now. It was taught from

653
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: a rivalry tongue. It was coming from a place of life.

654
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,439
Speaker 1: But he did say something I want to talk through.

655
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 1: How does the entire team get labeled soft? How do

656
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: you call somebody in combat sports and contact sports soft? Now,

657
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: let's be real. There are times when you don't want

658
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: to hit somebody for various reasons. You can have. I

659
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: had a separated ac joint in my shoulder. That man

660
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 1: that hurt. I didn't want to go and pound people. Now.

661
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: I couldn't run away from contact because you know, on

662
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: the football field, you don't go one hundred percent or

663
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 1: you one hundred percent guaranteed to get your ass hurt

664
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,879
Speaker 1: again and again. So there were times I didn't want

665
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 1: to hit because of injury. Was there ever a time

666
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: I didn't want to hit? Was there ever a time

667
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: I was soft just because the game? Yeah, I'll give

668
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,959
Speaker 1: you a moment. I had to go against Jamie Nails

669
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: one time in practice. Jamie Nail's weigh four hundred and

670
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: nineteen pounds at one time. And I remember telling you, guys,

671
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: and I keep reiterating that it's one thing to go

672
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: against a great player when they're on another team. Sixty

673
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: seventy reps for we playing once a season. Maybe we

674
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: don't play them at all. Maybe we gotta play them

675
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: twice because they're in our division whatever, one hundred and

676
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: twenty reps max. When they're your teammate, let me just

677
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 1: tell you what happens. You ain't gotta see a Wednesday Thursday,

678
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 1: Friday loop around, Gotta see him next Wednesday Thursday. You're like, God,

679
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 1: I had to hear Jamie Nils four nineteen pounds one

680
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: time we had to do Oklahoma drill, sir, And I'm

681
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 1: looking up and I'm like, I'm looking at it, like, coach,

682
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 1: this is a rhino. This is a moose. This is

683
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: not this is not a mammo like me. This is

684
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 1: a different animal. And I'm not lying. He knocked my

685
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: helmet in directions in it. I ain't supposed to go

686
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: ear pads on nose, you know, right here, the forehead

687
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: pad on the chin. And I was like and I

688
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 1: blacked out. See, I played in the era where we

689
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 1: didn't get concussions. We never said concussion. I don't think

690
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 1: I ever heard of play. I'm not lying concussion. I

691
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: heard of people getting knocked out, which was a concussion,

692
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: but concussed. Like Jimmy Garoppolo, he's in concussion protocol like that,

693
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: what play what we ain't even take what tent ain't

694
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: no medical tent food. We better go out there playing.

695
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: So when it happened to me and you know, Oklahoma drill,

696
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: you gotta go twice bow, I'm like wow. And then

697
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: right then I didn't want to hit him again. I

698
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 1: ain't lying. I swear to y'all. Wanted to quit football. Now.

699
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: There have been times I thought about my football mortality,

700
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 1: and I thought about quitting football when I was younger,

701
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: but I was like that moment. I was like, I

702
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: would do anything for a lifeline, get me out of

703
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: this next rep, because you gotta go twice coach. All

704
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: all right, Everybody like, ooh, I see you, Wiley, not

705
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: like in a good way, like I ain't dead yet,

706
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: I see you, Whyley, You're still alive. Nails ooh, nails

707
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:14,759
Speaker 1: walking like this boo getting dinged up again, And I

708
00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: remember putting my hand down and have to look up again,

709
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: and it was like I went from black to just

710
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: nails again. Who was just eating up the whole visual

711
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: screen again? And then you hear that whistle again, and

712
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: I swear I don't even know what happened. I don't

713
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: know what happened, but then you move on with the

714
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 1: rest of practice. Uh soft. I've always took exception to

715
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: soft when you're talking about combat, contact sport us, because

716
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: I ain't nothing soft about it. Even even the guys

717
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 1: who don't want to hit, like Dion Sanders, they say,

718
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: never want to hit, ain't nothing soft about him though.

719
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: He just don't want to hit somebody. And that ain't

720
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: the only way you measure someone soft, right Sometimes soft is, hey,

721
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: there's some adversity in front of you. Hey, we down,

722
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: we down five right now? When the ball one twenty

723
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,879
Speaker 1: two to go? Are you soft? You thought the game

724
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: was over? Are you soft? You don't want to believe

725
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 1: and drive us down here? Are you soft? You ain't

726
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 1: gonna run through the next wall? Are you soft? You

727
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like soft is mental too. It

728
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: ain't just physical express only physically. So I've seen some

729
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 1: guys who in crunch moments, critical moments, freeze up, you know,

730
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: not like don't want that challenge, avoid that, And I

731
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: see it with my little kids right now. Some kids

732
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 1: just don't want to go through the smoke. They just don't.

733
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: So I ain't take exception to her, But I just

734
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: wanted to talk a little deeper through what soft looks

735
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,399
Speaker 1: like and what is it mean? And what do y'all

736
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: think of Pat McAfee's show so far. I think it's

737
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 1: doing amazing. Everything I see about it. I love. I

738
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,919
Speaker 1: love the fact that I love the intros. I love

739
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: the fact that he's still at the crib. I love

740
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: all what I see And should head coach Ryan Day

741
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: should have took this a little lighter, right man? Maybe

742
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: he did take it lighter, but he was like this

743
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 1: a moment. I'm a rock. If Dan Landing getting props,

744
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 1: I'm about to get mine too, right. So, and do

745
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: y'all agree with what lujol said about Ohio State? Do

746
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: you think a team could be soft? I do. I

747
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 1: know what you're saying, But show me how. Don't just

748
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: say yeah, y'all sawt Why explain yourself? Well? Today I

749
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: feel like I was rolling blade. I'm sorry. All right,

750
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,920
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751
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,200
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752
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753
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754
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755
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756
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 1: in this book. You guys think I'm crazy, wait till

757
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: you read these crazy stories that really happened. All right,

758
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,120
Speaker 1: just get into this bonus topic and get Eddie in.

759
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: Tyreek Hill Michael Parson's got a little playful, playful back

760
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: and forth right now using their platforms. They're both on

761
00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 1: their podcast talking trash about each other. Man. It's pretty

762
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: fun to see. Basically, Tyreek Hill is saying that he's

763
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: a lion, not just a cheetah anymore, and Michael Parsons

764
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: is saying, look, bro, I love you, big dog, but

765
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: guess what you are. You may be a baby lion

766
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 1: a cup, but you are not a big lion yet.

767
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: So Parsons said, listen, Tyrek, if you come over my

768
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:22,240
Speaker 1: way and I see you coming my way, I'm sending

769
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 1: you to the tent. I'm sending you to the sidelines.

770
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: You're gonna say, hey, coach, I don't want nothing to

771
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: do with Michael Parsons. You don't want to do that.

772
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: I already said it once, I said it on social media.

773
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: My baby girl's getting cheetah print for Christmas. She's getting

774
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: a cheetah print. Come over here to my side of

775
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: my baby. Girl's getting cheatah print. All right. So that's

776
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,919
Speaker 1: what's funny about this. Now they went back and forth.

777
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: They having fun with it. You know, Miami is out

778
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 1: there eating balling out of control. I saw that Week

779
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: one when they came to play the Chargers. They just

780
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: got a tremendous, tremendous team speed. The skilled position players

781
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: are outstanding to a is to people forget. And this

782
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 1: is why I was always on the tour train. He

783
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: was the most efficient college quarterback in history. Think he's

784
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 1: gonna be all right in the NFL. Let's just say that,

785
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: all right, so we know all that goes. What I

786
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: want to talk about is how play play. All this

787
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: fun and games turns real once you cross the white lines,

788
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 1: once you are on the field. That switch that athletes

789
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: have the ability to compartmentalize with that switch because it's

790
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: really a psycho switch. It's really crazy to see. Okay,

791
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 1: because I played with guys who have that switch. Nice guys.

792
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,359
Speaker 1: I tell my Chris Bilman. If you don't know Chris

793
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:42,319
Speaker 1: Bilman is google him about that life Gladiator right now

794
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: during the work week, Chris Bilman is a nice guy,

795
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,720
Speaker 1: just walks around. Went to Ohio State. Guess he's soft

796
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: lou hoas, No, he ain't. So he walked around like this.

797
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:53,800
Speaker 1: I seen him a few times out with the double

798
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: decker stroller song with the family and stuff. Pro used

799
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 1: to wear pro wings, like just a normal like a

800
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 1: dad like all in dad, like hey Chris. He's like, Hi,

801
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:08,760
Speaker 1: how are you? Nice guy? Good dude. And then Sunday

802
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: would come around. He's the first one that I experienced.

803
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, like, I gotta go to that place,

804
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 1: to go out there on that field and do what

805
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: I need to do, okay, because I thought I was

806
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 1: already going to a good place, but he went to

807
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: a special place. So I'm looking at him like he

808
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: all of a sudden came in the locker room and

809
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 1: he's doing this. He's like terminator and I'm not lying,

810
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: not blinking and not breaking stare with nobody, just walking

811
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, so, you know you read the cues.

812
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: You're looking around like all right, I don't mess with him,

813
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: I guess right. Then you see him playing, You're like, yeah,

814
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: I know why. But then you watch him he's not

815
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 1: breaking stare. You're getting out of his way, and then

816
00:42:53,880 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: he had two smelling salts jammed up each nostril and

817
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: was walking around with him activated like this. I was like, damn,

818
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. So I'm glad he's my team.

819
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: He hit me all and then you saw how he played.

820
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: He was like, goodness. Now I juxtaposed that him and

821
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 1: a John Henderson. Remember Big John Henderson played for the

822
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 1: Jacksonville Jaguars. So psycho, so cycho, let go, just spitting yelling,

823
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,840
Speaker 1: walking up to the training staff. Slap me in my face?

824
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 1: What slap me again? Look at me. I'm faking to

825
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 1: slap and I ain't even hit myself. He's like, yeah,

826
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: don look, I mean I was like, I gotta go

827
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: there to go on that field. Now this is like

828
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: my nine tenth year lead, so I already know like

829
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: I ain't got to do all that. But there's a switch.

830
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,360
Speaker 1: You juxtaposed that. Contrast that with these guys like a

831
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: Ted Washington. Ted Washington, no game baby, sitting there on

832
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: his chair just looking around. He just be looking at people.

833
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 1: He'd be like, I know you ain't gonna do nothing.

834
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:01,640
Speaker 1: Just you. I got like old Grandma, Look I know

835
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna do nothing today. Look at you, boy,

836
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: Look at you? Boy? Is that a limp? You already?

837
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: You're already tight you already. Boy. You had a bad

838
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 1: practice last week. I know you ain't about to show it.

839
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: You just got jokes. You're like damn ted ted go

840
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: out there. Wah wah wah wah. Put them hands, them

841
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: palls on people, lock it down, Junior say out he

842
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: in the pregame, buddy, what's up? Guys? What's a great

843
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 1: day to be alive? Ain't? Oh my god, what would

844
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 1: you rather do than do this right now? I love you, man,

845
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: You're gonna be good, Like Junior's just this is you

846
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,239
Speaker 1: got a stand up show at one o'clock kick off,

847
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: just kicking it and then go out there sideline, sideline, sideline, sideline,

848
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:46,959
Speaker 1: crazy right, But there's a switch, and that switch is

849
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 1: how Michael Parsons, how Tyreek Hill are gonna be like.

850
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then for roastious out there, Lions, cubs, cheetahs,

851
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 2: whatever you want to call it, they're gonna get it in.

852
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,840
Speaker 1: So I just love when you see the meat and

853
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:08,879
Speaker 1: potatoes storylines, get some of the flavor. These guys going

854
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: back and forth woofing at each other, talking that trash.

855
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,520
Speaker 1: Who ain't gonna watch Oregon next time they play Colorado?

856
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: Just for more than anything, I want to see what

857
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: coach is gonna do now, Prime, what's your response to

858
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 1: that landing? You got the same kind of you got

859
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,240
Speaker 1: the same energy. Oregon, y'all gonna back that up. Colorado,

860
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: y'all gonna step it up. That's what I love about

861
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: sports man. You always got a chance to respond as

862
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 1: long as you do it the right way. So I

863
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 1: love when real play play turns to real, real real

864
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: on the football field. Tell me how you think this

865
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: helps in terms of the context of a game and

866
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 1: gets you invested and interested in it. It's all playful

867
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: until somebody really gets hurt, or somebody really gets on

868
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: that field to realize these hits really hurt and better

869
00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 1: player Michael Parsons or Tyreek Hill. Who's the real lion

870
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 1: out of those two? And who's the cub in that conversation?

871
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, it's trying to fuck us from comics,

872
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: fuckus from commas. Share t O and Shannon, let's talk

873
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: to it. I'm on Steven A. Smith's side on this.

874
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 1: I didn't like how he went at Max as unentertaining

875
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 1: as Max was. I try watching the shows, I think

876
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 1: to keep answering why you let him go needs to end,

877
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: especially if you and him don't rock with each other.

878
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: But to needed to mind his business because he know

879
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: he and that man no longer rock with each other. Also,

880
00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:30,280
Speaker 1: I get it, uh, I'm riding with Steven A. Smith.

881
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: When you go as a black man added black man,

882
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: that's what he meant, that a white man is blacker

883
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: than that black man. As a black man. You call

884
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 1: Stephen A Smith a sambo on National TV. You got

885
00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: all these people riding with you. But Steven A. Smith

886
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: is a journalist. His business is gossip. T O ain't

887
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,839
Speaker 1: winning this, okay, Stephen A. Smith deserves all the smoke

888
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: coming this way. It was totally uncalled for the dog

889
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: Max like that just to show off his power at ESPN.

890
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: Shannon better not outshine him or he's gonna catch some

891
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 1: of that secondhand smoke. Yeah. The thing about it is

892
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: Stephen A. Smith. I do not dislike stephen A. Smith.

893
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: I look forward to seeing stephen A. Smith again whenever

894
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,360
Speaker 1: that may be. I have no issue with him. What

895
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 1: I have an issue with is when someone does the

896
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: wrong thing, and I don't care who you are. I

897
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: was raised that way. My daddy didn't give a damn.

898
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:16,479
Speaker 1: When I came home, I said, Daddy, Daddy, they messing

899
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,719
Speaker 1: with me. He said, what you do first thing? He

900
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: ain't asked, but they did either. What you do? Now

901
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 1: tell him and he was like, what you really do

902
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,800
Speaker 1: because you know that wasn't the full story. Then I

903
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 1: tell him the full story and he like, you did

904
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: this wrong, that made them do that, and then they

905
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: did that wrong, and then you need to respond like this.

906
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 1: But my daddy never ever was lenient with me when

907
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 1: he knew I was in the wrong. I ain't gonna

908
00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: do the same. That's how I was raised. Look, you

909
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,719
Speaker 1: could do better than that, Steven A. Smith. Leave Max alone. Bro,

910
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna ever you You will never clarify that

911
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: properly because clarifying it properly means telling the truth, the

912
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: whole truth, and nothing but the truth, and that ain't

913
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: gonna make you look good. So leave it alone. We

914
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 1: get it. You lied about it, you did them wrong,

915
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it. It's all good now.

916
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: You and too, that's minor, that's I mean, it's major

917
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 1: to t because ESPN has been dogging them for years.

918
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: So I know why you're mad, But hey, both of

919
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: y'all took it out on somebody else. Lead that alone,

920
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: Oregon coach Travis Hunter wouldn't have made a difference. Oregon

921
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: could have actually scored more. It's different playing trash teams

922
00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 1: like Colorado State University against playing the league talent like Oregon.

923
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: It would have made a difference because psychologically he would

924
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: have inspired them to do more. I don't know if

925
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: the score is different, but the guys may have played better.

926
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: You can play better and still not score more. Sometimes,

927
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 1: you know, like you could have a win and to

928
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: be an ugly win, right, and you could have a

929
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 1: pretty loss and you also could just feel better about Okay,

930
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 1: we didn't do this and that. I mean, look, it

931
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: goes all ways. So you try and tell me Travis

932
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: Hunter on the field does nothing to them. That's ignorant.

933
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 1: We know that that ain't true. Maybe the score is

934
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: not closer, but at the same time, it doesn't mean

935
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: that the guys weren't gonna go out there and play better.

936
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 1: I've been in games before when we scored but we

937
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,760
Speaker 1: ain't moved a ball but we just scored big plays

938
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: or took advantage of the mistake. But that wasn't making

939
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: us feel the best because we're like everything we call

940
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: wasn't working. Just one or two plays here and there,

941
00:49:06,680 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: you know the game. Um, let's go here. The coach

942
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: for Oregon is great. He deserves all the props in

943
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: the world. Tired at Prime and his spoiled sons. Oh

944
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 1: we doing that, spoiled sons. Oh, the boys work. Stop

945
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: letting Instagram fool you. Stop letting well Off Media and

946
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: his production company fool you. The boys work. Everybody, no

947
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: one is good at anything without working. Can y'all stop that?

948
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: Remember y'all did that to Dwight Howard. He just rolls

949
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: out the bed. He's seven feet and he got muscles.

950
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,359
Speaker 1: Don't work out. See how many muscles you got? Right?

951
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: Think about it? Stop shanning his skip. Stephen A. Smith

952
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 1: didn't treat Max Killerman any better. In my opinion, he

953
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: was always kind of sending towards Max. Here we go. Honestly,

954
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 1: even though I think Skip was out of pocket, I

955
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: don't believe he really thought he was disrespecting Shannon on

956
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: any other He did exchange his skip. Just is who

957
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 1: he is. He's always been a guy that takes shots,

958
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,240
Speaker 1: low blows when he gets fired up and over emotional.

959
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 1: But I don't think he really lost respect for him.

960
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: Could be wrong, truth be told. I think it was

961
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 1: the other way around after some of their heated exchanges.

962
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: But where Skip might have thought everything was fine, Shannon

963
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: wasn't going for it. Yeah, look Skip, Skip fights barely

964
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: with the gloves on, like all right, if he's gonna

965
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: fight you, the gloves are on, but they're not tied,

966
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: they're not laced, and they're easy to slip off and

967
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 1: why and he expects you to do the same, except

968
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:35,399
Speaker 1: he can't take it the same. He expects you to fight,

969
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: but it hurts him. You know why, because I've seen

970
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:41,720
Speaker 1: when Shannon did fight back Skip, all of a sudden

971
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,359
Speaker 1: changes the conversation. So the way Skip fights is emotionally.

972
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: So people who are emotional they don't fight physically the same.

973
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 1: They stop doing this and then they start being passive aggressive,

974
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: or they start bringing up other stuff, or they start

975
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 1: talking about different things to try and get at you

976
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: right and you're like, what we're about to where you going?

977
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: And that's how Skip fights. So UFC Dana white. If

978
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 1: it's a contact sport like UFC or football, I care

979
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 1: quite a bit about transgenders competing. If it's non contact

980
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: sport like swimming, track and field or whatever, I could

981
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:17,240
Speaker 1: not care less. I care all the time the same amount,

982
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: just because I just know that men versus women in

983
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 1: sports is not a fair fight at the highest levels.

984
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 1: It's not, you know, man to women. I got boys,

985
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,279
Speaker 1: I got I got a boy, I got a girls.

986
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: Stop it. I'm a man. I play stop it. So

987
00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: I like to protect women. I like to protect men.

988
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 1: You simple as that. And then you hear about some

989
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 1: of these hits, some transgenders playing tackle football hurt, putting

990
00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 1: it in work, putting it, putting it work. All right?

991
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: You know how we finished every show, We finishing with

992
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 1: a why league is them? Yeah? Fall in love with

993
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:56,399
Speaker 1: the process and the results will love you back. Yes,

994
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 1: fall in love with the process and the results will

995
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: love you back. That's how the game goes, you know,

996
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: not just go through the process, go through the motions.

997
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: Fall in love with it, because you're gonna start to

998
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: find the subtleties. You're gonna find the little knioks and crannies.

999
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 1: You need to really do the job to another level,

1000
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: and then you're gonna love work. If you'll love working well,

1001
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 1: you're gonna outwork everybody. Right. And that's why I'm trying

1002
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: to condition my kids to doing right now. Stop complaining,

1003
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: don't mope, don't make it hard on yourself. Enjoy what

1004
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: you're doing, because you're gonna do it anyway, might as

1005
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 1: well have fun doing it. Find the fun in it.

1006
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 1: And there's always I say to them, because when we

1007
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: go out in public, then all of a sudden, they like,

1008
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 1: you know, kids don't understand those dynamics. They're used to

1009
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: controlled environments. Think about it at home, at a playdate,

1010
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 1: at a party, right, all still controlled, even though it

1011
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: may be chaos within it at school, etc. Right when

1012
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 1: you take them out in this round, you take them

1013
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: to a game or something, they're like, oh god, we

1014
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,439
Speaker 1: oh what are we doing? Oh? Why is it takes

1015
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 1: so long? Why are so many people here? Why is

1016
00:52:58,560 --> 00:53:01,120
Speaker 1: it so long? A lying to get some I'm like

1017
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: one word, I always say, one word. What's the word? Patience?

1018
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: The process teaches you you have to have patience. You're improving,

1019
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 1: taking a step forward, a step back, two steps forward,

1020
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 1: one step back, two steps forward, three steps back patience,

1021
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,919
Speaker 1: but still go through the process and love it. Love

1022
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: that patient process that you're enduring. Once you do that,

1023
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: guess what's gonna happen. And I don't know when it's

1024
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,360
Speaker 1: gonna happen. It happens faster for some, it happens in

1025
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: a long time. For some. Let's be real, sometimes it

1026
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 1: doesn't happen. You gotta shift gears, you gotta shift lanes,

1027
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: But the results gonna love you back because even if

1028
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 1: you gotta shift lanes, you're gonna go somewhere where you belong.

1029
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:38,319
Speaker 1: You're gonna go somewhere where you need to go. If

1030
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: you said I'm gonna open up a business and guess what,

1031
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 1: ah man, I'm about to sell me some gadgets, and

1032
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: next thing you know, the business of selling gadgets doesn't work.

1033
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: But your network, your inner software, what you did to

1034
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 1: all of a sudden coalesced and to make sure you

1035
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,640
Speaker 1: designated all the systems, that's what worked. People want to

1036
00:53:57,680 --> 00:53:59,760
Speaker 1: buy that from you, and we don't want your gadget,

1037
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 1: But damn how you service that, how you got that distributed,

1038
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 1: how you got that out there. It's sitting buying that.

1039
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 1: Then you can really sing it. Same thing with this show,

1040
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: Never Shut Up. I started off saying, I just want

1041
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: to tell the truth about everything, learn and une learn,

1042
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: and I might have a variety of topics. I know

1043
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 1: some topics ain't gonna go viral. I ain't stupid. Some

1044
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: topics people will be like, all right, that was a

1045
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,160
Speaker 1: good story, but I are you know, and I know

1046
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 1: certain topics will. And it's funny because you guys are

1047
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: the marketplace. So I give you the buffet, and I

1048
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: see what y'all eating. What y'all eating is we're covering sports,

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Speaker 1: but y'all really eating on We covering those who cover

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Speaker 1: sports like nobody else, and y'all like, yeah, take me

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Speaker 1: behind that curtain. Wow, they take me behind the veil,

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Speaker 1: Take me on that field, inside that huddle, inside that helmet.

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Speaker 1: That's what we're doing. So same thing I fell in

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Speaker 1: love with just doing the show, the process of it,

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Speaker 1: and now I'm loving the results because I'm reading what

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Speaker 1: you guys are loving as well. Thank you guys for

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Speaker 1: all the support. We are out here killing it. So

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Speaker 1: make sure whatever you're doing, whatever it is, just fall

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Speaker 1: in love, find it, make it fine, make it look good,

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Speaker 1: make it have backs, make it have face, make it

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Speaker 1: look good till you fall in love with that process

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Speaker 1: and the results will love you back. All Right, y'all

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Speaker 1: gotta do it. For More to It, check the show

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Speaker 1: notes for all the information on our topics today today.

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Speaker 1: Want to keep the conversation going, Let's talk. Find me

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Speaker 1: on all socials at Marcel's Wiley. More Too is a

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Speaker 1: production of Dan Patrick Production That Dude Entertainment and workhouse Media.

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Speaker 1: Show is executive produced by Dan Patrick, Marcell's Whilely, Paul Anderson,

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Speaker 1: and Nick Ponella. Thanks for all the love, ratings, and

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Speaker 1: Keep it coming because there's more coming from More to It.

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Speaker 1: Talk to y'all, Hellison