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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mila. Happy Wednesday, bitches.

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Speaker 3: Oh hi, wow, that big done.

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Speaker 2: Happy hump Day bitches.

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Speaker 1: Hi. Hi, are you craving it? I'm good.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's combobulated. I am because I'm in a new set.

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Speaker 3: If you're on YouTube right now, you'll see that we're

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Speaker 3: somewhere else. We're in a magical place in the forest.

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Speaker 4: Of shann Boodroom's house, the magical Shan boodroom backyard.

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Speaker 3: This setup looks familiar. It's because you watch her show. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to show you.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 3: So we have Shan Boodram and Jared. Wait, Jared, what's

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Speaker 3: your last name?

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Speaker 2: Brady Brady?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wow.

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Speaker 2: I feel we're so lucky we've had We've had Shannon.

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Speaker 1: Was it this year?

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Speaker 3: No, we haven't had chann On since we did chan

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Speaker 3: like a long time ago. We weren't on her show. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we haven't had chann On since she became a mom.

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Speaker 2: Oh really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh wow?

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Speaker 2: We just had Jared just on not too long ago.

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Speaker 5: Just fucking Jared.

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Speaker 1: We love you, Jared.

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Speaker 6: Were he shamed the single mothers?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, hey, what you mean?

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Speaker 1: They knew what I meant. You have to know Jared

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Speaker 1: to know that he came home so stressed out about it,

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Speaker 1: and there was this moment and I just I hope

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Speaker 1: to know what I meant. I was cracking the funk up,

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Speaker 1: like what they knew meant?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, make sure you check out that episode.

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Speaker 3: It was in June where we were highlighting.

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Speaker 4: Zaddi Vie Zaddy June, and this this month we're highlighting

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Speaker 4: all the couples we know, and so it's coughing season November.

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Speaker 4: Because we aspire to be married women. We want to

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Speaker 4: be good vibes. So we're getting all the advice.

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Speaker 2: Do you aspire the marriage? Yes, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If I aspire. That feels like I don't know if

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Speaker 3: I'm inspiring for it. But if it happens, great.

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Speaker 1: Sign me up. Give me that ring.

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Speaker 2: God damn it. I really want to just have the

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Speaker 2: party and where the dress.

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Speaker 3: I think I'm traumatized I had the ring. Let's just

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Speaker 3: make sure what works first. It's all for a long

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Speaker 3: period of time. It's yeah, I guess that would be

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Speaker 3: something I aspire to have a long period of time

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Speaker 3: relationship that works and is healthy.

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Speaker 2: Amen. Because marriage is not the goal if it's not healthy.

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Speaker 3: Marriage is a social construct.

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Speaker 2: It is especially for women.

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Speaker 3: Well it's also like for the government. It can't have

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Speaker 3: certain rights.

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Speaker 5: It is.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's all types of shit, But I'm so

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Speaker 3: happy you guys are married.

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Speaker 1: Yea every tax season, when did you guys get married?

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Speaker 1: Were you guys?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I guess you guys had just gotten married when

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Speaker 4: we did that first episode back in the dzay we

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Speaker 4: stalked Shan very hard and we were successful, and you.

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Speaker 2: Guys brought over the high this dude to my home.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, shout out to you. And he fell he

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Speaker 2: fell asleep during the episode.

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Speaker 3: Was it was it was it boring or probably maybe

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Speaker 3: I don't know. He fell asleep and then like stopped

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Speaker 3: recording for like ten minutes of the episode.

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Speaker 4: Was and then we had to put in like all

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Speaker 4: these video, like all these other videos that didn't make sense,

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Speaker 4: and we're like, what the fuck are you doing? He

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Speaker 4: really has, He's done like everything for us since then.

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Speaker 4: He did like our intro video. If you guys just

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Speaker 4: saw that, he's bomb. He's fine too. He's our friend's husband.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: She was like, what the fuck you bring to my house.

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Speaker 2: We're like, yeah, you're at you welcome all our friends?

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Speaker 1: Is fine.

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Speaker 2: How are you guys doing?

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Speaker 5: We're great, We're we're half asleep. You know, two children

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Speaker 5: now two under two? Yeah, two under two and uh okay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure that life is one run like run,

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Speaker 1: one run, look at me, look at me. That's how

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Speaker 1: un right into the one long run rerun. It's one

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Speaker 2: You know how little kids talk? Do your kids talk

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Speaker 2: like that?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Actually? And then I went to hear and then my friends,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Last night in the bed and my daughter was talking

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Speaker 3: to me about Twitches. You know, have you've seen this

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Speaker 3: show with Tea and Tamara. It's this new show.

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Speaker 2: They brought it back.

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Speaker 4: They brought I think it's just on Netflix because it's

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Speaker 4: Halloween season.

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Speaker 1: Well, they brought it back.

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Speaker 3: And she was telling me about it before she went

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Speaker 3: to bed, and she was half awake because she was

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Speaker 3: like delirious, and she's and then and then and then,

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Speaker 3: and I was like what she was kept talking. I

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Speaker 3: was like, I'm lost, But that's our life.

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Speaker 1: The expression on your face, that's life. Are the babies

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Speaker 1: sleeping through the night.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sometimes we'll get a magical night, you know sometimes,

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Speaker 5: but most of the time like their tag team and

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Speaker 5: their machine gunning us right now, so one will one

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Speaker 5: and the other one will kick up. So it's like

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Speaker 5: constantly life, you know, full full court press. Right now.

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Speaker 1: We're in a really un sexy sleep situation right now too.

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Speaker 1: We don't sleep together anymore, no what one of us

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Speaker 1: sleeps with the newborn and one of us sleeps with

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Speaker 1: the one point eight year old.

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Speaker 3: So, and that's because if you don't, then no one

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Speaker 1: Well the.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, essentially, if we're all if we're either all in

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Speaker 1: For that, they'll be like the other one, they'll be

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Speaker 3: Oh that's sure, they're gonna wake the other one up

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Speaker 3: and then everyone's fucked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we want to get out of this world right now.

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Speaker 2: It's a pleasant place.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, we didn't do the sleep training.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, everyone says that, but I'm like, how fuck

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Speaker 1: do you train sleep? Like, I don't know but if

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Speaker 1: people do it, you let them cry out. I'm surprise

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Speaker 1: Shan's not on it. She seems like she'd be militanty.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't seem like that. But I'm not actually at

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Speaker 1: that parent at all. Okay, but I wish I was. Wait,

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Speaker 1: when's your birthday again?

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Speaker 2: April second? You're aries yeah, and then what are you?

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Speaker 5: Jared Libra?

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh your birthday just passed?

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah October seventh.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh yeah, happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: But we haven't been sleeping in like we had our

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Speaker 1: daughters sup with us for a long ast time, so

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Speaker 1: we've been like sex outside of our own bed.

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Speaker 2: The other day we had sex in the bed. Jared

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Speaker 5: I was like, what is like the like, oh our

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 5: So that's how it felt, but it was nostalgic. It

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Speaker 5: felt like high school all over.

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Speaker 1: Again, not the bed. Like that. We don't have sex

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Speaker 1: reinvent sex a lot. But where do you usually in

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Speaker 3: Does it like or it's like Shan is like hanging

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Speaker 5: No, it's just like it's yeah, essentially, yeah, but it's

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Speaker 5: just like we're we'll find a moment both kids down

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Speaker 1: So it just kind of we would make it.

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Speaker 5: Do we can.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying to this joke is like, now I feel

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Speaker 1: more confident with people laying on my bed. If you're

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Speaker 1: like what splashed there last night? If you're on my bed,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is the safest space in the house.

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Speaker 1: The most wholesome place in the house is our bed.

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Speaker 3: As I'm sitting on this chair.

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Speaker 5: Right, No, I mean this is a little uncomfortable, So

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Speaker 4: You're outside in here, this is a good You can't

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Speaker 2: No, you don't have a monitor with the voices on it.

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Speaker 5: We do, but we always know ever turn it on.

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Speaker 1: You got to turn the cameras on and just hit play.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, oh there we go. This might be a

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Speaker 4: Only fans here. She doesn't if she goes south. There's

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Speaker 4: always only fans I would pay. I don't know what

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Speaker 4: I would pay to see it. It was three camera angles.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why I would pay. I would just

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Speaker 2: It would be vague. Now i'm thinking about you guys

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Speaker 2: having sex.

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Speaker 5: You should in this exact setup shan.

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Speaker 1: Shirt.

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Speaker 3: If you guys are watching, did they both have our

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Speaker 3: shirts on? And they look like they're going to disney Land.

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Speaker 3: It's very it's beautiful. It's a giving like Kanye Disney. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we are going to you know the brown nudes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know we're right now.

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Speaker 2: We trying to recruit.

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Speaker 4: You guys are going to Disneyland together, Like we should

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Speaker 4: just go together because there's no point to go as

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Speaker 3: Yes, well, apecially, if we have to all pay for

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Speaker 3: a show, if we all pay a thousand dollars, then

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Speaker 3: we all can get cool.

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Speaker 2: One of those people.

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Speaker 4: I can't confirm that it's five thousand dollars, but the

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Speaker 4: last time I went.

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Speaker 1: Like five thousand dollars a ticket, I'm.

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Speaker 4: Pretty sure it's five thousand dollars for the special escort.

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Speaker 4: But I went that way like five times, and I like,

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Speaker 4: literally never want to go. I just have like a

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Speaker 4: really rich friend. She was a fucking bitch, but those

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Speaker 4: Disneyland perks. I was like, maybe I should keep the friendship.

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Speaker 3: She did keep the friendship for a while, literally for

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Speaker 3: the Disneyland I'm not kidding.

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Speaker 1: To Disney World.

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Speaker 2: She's like, you can't be friends with her anymore.

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Speaker 1: Else.

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Speaker 2: She's like she's a horrible person.

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Speaker 1: I was like, she's like.

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Speaker 2: Just one more Disney season. I was like, no, I did.

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Speaker 2: I fought for it.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, she sleeps.

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Speaker 3: With your lovers.

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Speaker 3: So it was your marriage was obviously because you love

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Speaker 5: Why are we not getting married? Why are we not

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Speaker 5: But it was a situation where I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 5: When I introduce Shan, hey, this is my wife, it

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Speaker 1: Our podcast is gonna be more successful if we get married.

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Speaker 2: We'll get me more respectful. It'd be like, I'll they

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Speaker 1: Like maybe some people. Yes, isn't It doesn't married in private.

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Speaker 5: It's individual rights, it's individual, but it's at the same

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Speaker 5: it's easier for the government to access that bank account

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Speaker 5: So I just look at it like, yeah, is where

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Speaker 1: It is a business deal anyway to me, that's gonna

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Speaker 2: That's a way bigger commitment to me than marriage. It

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Speaker 2: Having kids change our dynamic, but like getting married, it

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Speaker 5: It changed everything for the way people viewed us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which is why the decision ugly jury was all

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Speaker 1: and shared. I knew that Jared was my life partner

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Speaker 1: I remember we were driving, like explicitly. I can't remember

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Speaker 2: The rest of my life when did you know, Jared?

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Speaker 5: So mine wasn't as magical as this. But there was

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Speaker 1: Were you?

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Speaker 2: Were you sub tweeting? They get in a reaction. No, Twitter,

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Speaker 2: it's not what you mean. I would have gone on

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't have gone on Twitter is the place everybody

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Speaker 1: I know they're not there, Like Twitter is my place

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't just get busy Jared.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I did not subweet that.

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Speaker 2: Did you want to let us start off this fuck buddies?

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Speaker 1: No, we just went right in like he huh. I

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Speaker 2: Jared gave a sound effect.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I'm like, is the wrong answer?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: He said, hey, like, oh we he came out here.

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Speaker 4: He came out here, and I was not like, I

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Speaker 2: He's really extra. Was he wearing a crop up?

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Speaker 1: He was?

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Speaker 1: And then I didn't think he was going to take

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00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,240
Speaker 1: the bait. And then a like eleven o'clock.

448
00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:17,320
Speaker 5: Did mushrooms with him for his first time.

449
00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:18,679
Speaker 4: And he I thought he was going to like cancel

450
00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,280
Speaker 4: because he was in Santa Monica. I was in the

451
00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,399
Speaker 4: valley and he's like I'm ready and I was like fuck.

452
00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:24,960
Speaker 4: I was like okay, And then he came over and

453
00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:26,880
Speaker 4: he's being so strange, and he was like.

454
00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:27,920
Speaker 1: Well, he's on mushrooms.

455
00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I was I guess I wasn't that mushroom.

456
00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:31,720
Speaker 1: Now. I was like, I can't wait to like Erica

457
00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,680
Speaker 1: about this ship tomorrow. I was literally like, notice to self,

458
00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,080
Speaker 1: tell eric about it. I came over the.

459
00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:42,439
Speaker 3: Stopped talking about himself and how I deserved him. I

460
00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,960
Speaker 3: was like, it was so strange. And then two days

461
00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:47,639
Speaker 3: later I was like, I really fucking like him. I

462
00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:48,399
Speaker 3: was like, what happened.

463
00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:51,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, I don't know. It

464
00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:53,840
Speaker 2: was all that talk self information is talking so much.

465
00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,560
Speaker 4: And then yeah, by the end of the trip, before

466
00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,240
Speaker 4: he left, I was like, we have sex, and I

467
00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:00,960
Speaker 4: was like, Hey, I'm going to Mexico for a week

468
00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:03,080
Speaker 4: next month. Do you want to come? And he's like okay,

469
00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,359
Speaker 4: And then I was like and then I was like,

470
00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 4: why did I do that? I don't even know this motherfucker.

471
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,480
Speaker 4: I want to spend a week in Mexico with them,

472
00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 4: and it just so happened. We had like the best,

473
00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:14,800
Speaker 4: most magical fucking time in Mexico with like all of

474
00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,520
Speaker 4: my friends, my closest friends, minus Erica. And then like

475
00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:20,080
Speaker 4: by the end of the trip, we're like, listen, I

476
00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,080
Speaker 4: don't know, we're not going to be together.

477
00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:22,600
Speaker 1: We're going to different sides of the country.

478
00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:26,879
Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know why. I thought you weren't there.

479
00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:29,560
Speaker 4: And by the end of the trip we're just like

480
00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,800
Speaker 4: it kind of I was like, I know, we're going

481
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,120
Speaker 4: our separate ways, but we kind of had an understanding

482
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,600
Speaker 4: that like we were bonded for life because I am

483
00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:41,159
Speaker 4: he had a blood kink, and I like, yeah, I.

484
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:42,520
Speaker 2: Let him put I let him pour.

485
00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:44,399
Speaker 4: I didn't know that was you though his blood on

486
00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,720
Speaker 4: my chest and put his initials on my chest. I

487
00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,159
Speaker 4: don't know why. I was like, okay, you want to

488
00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:49,760
Speaker 4: do that. And after that, I was like, we have

489
00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,359
Speaker 4: a blood bond. So basically you're with me forever.

490
00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:57,200
Speaker 1: This is a real Pam Anderson and tell me Lee stories. Yeah,

491
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:59,320
Speaker 1: going to Mexico, Like didn't that happen for them?

492
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:03,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were recover Yeah, and yeah he puts blood

493
00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 4: on his initials and blood on my chest. And then

494
00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,560
Speaker 4: for a year we like dated long distance, but like

495
00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,120
Speaker 4: I was seeing other people, he was saying other people.

496
00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,680
Speaker 4: We were like talk on the phone and ship and

497
00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:14,200
Speaker 4: and then a year later we ended up being in

498
00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 4: a relationship.

499
00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 1: You haven't a bloodink.

500
00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,360
Speaker 4: Now I do, I guess, I mean, then I did.

501
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:24,680
Speaker 4: I returned the favorite you did back my period blood? Yeah, okay,

502
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,639
Speaker 4: well I felt like, what the fun You're gonna be

503
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:27,680
Speaker 4: bonded to you now you.

504
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:28,360
Speaker 2: Need to do?

505
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah? But can he cut himself?

506
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 2: He cut himself. I just just got the.

507
00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,080
Speaker 1: The next you gonna are you going to do it?

508
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 1: I don't really want to cut myself. I'm not like

509
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:45,560
Speaker 1: an email teenage girl trigger warning. It's not necessary. Well

510
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:48,680
Speaker 1: that's interesting. Yeah. Yeah, so it's kind of pretty immediate,

511
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:50,000
Speaker 1: but also not exclusive.

512
00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,240
Speaker 4: And also it was open for a minute. And then

513
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,160
Speaker 4: in June we decided to be monogamous.

514
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 1: Oh, congratulate, you guys are monogamous. Now, not congratulations, I get,

515
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:02,000
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah we are. We are so you guys

516
00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:05,200
Speaker 1: can get married soon in probably yeah, he said, giving

517
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:05,679
Speaker 1: the thumbs up.

518
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 2: I just got my ring finger. The first I've heard

519
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 2: of it.

520
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 3: I told you I didn't know married soon, you know,

521
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 3: I mean relaxed. You just said yeah.

522
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 2: I said, it's happening.

523
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 1: Just like the kids.

524
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:26,679
Speaker 2: It's happening. I time is relative, but that's beautiful.

525
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:28,520
Speaker 3: Not the fear coming in again. Love is what she

526
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 3: did for like six months every time someone asked, you

527
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 3: had a boyfriend.

528
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,159
Speaker 1: Relax, Relax, I love this. I love this. Cool.

529
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 2: Wait, so what's your story? How'd you guys.

530
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 5: Meet at a club? I was promoting at the club.

531
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:44,399
Speaker 1: You're a club promoter?

532
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:45,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I was promoting.

533
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 2: It was at the club. She was, actually, yes, what

534
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 2: club were you guys? A?

535
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 5: This was like this was it's already closed down now,

536
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 5: but it was called Bobby London and Ktown.

537
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 1: Actually the party that Bobby Lardy is that that because

538
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 1: wasn't Bobby London And also it does No, I don't

539
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: know about it.

540
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,719
Speaker 3: I always thought, No, I know he had a probably

541
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 3: furniture store, which I think was upstairs, and then then

542
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 3: there was the club downstairs.

543
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 5: No, I don't know problem maybe maybe maybe not this

544
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,720
Speaker 5: spot it was and now it's a paper Tiger.

545
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 2: Yeah melon, yeah, yeah, So I used to.

546
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,439
Speaker 5: Promote there and back then we got shut down by

547
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 5: the place because we got too crazy. And Chan came

548
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 5: with a mutual friend and that's how we met. And

549
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 5: you're like, yeah, I'll give me that number, baby.

550
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: No, I remember meeting me that night, like I remember him,

551
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:39,959
Speaker 1: and I like got this because I was in a

552
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 1: long distance on and off relationship, a terrible relationship with

553
00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: the person of a kid. We talked with this a

554
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:47,760
Speaker 1: second ago, but he Jared was just like giving me

555
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 1: major like revenge vibes, like he would be the perfect person.

556
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,199
Speaker 1: You're like, yes, he's the one. He was just like

557
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: there was just the way that he was moving. It

558
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 1: was so he was so sexual and so sex you see.

559
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 5: Is it that everybody everybody when they hear this story,

560
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 5: I think I'm back because I don't remember. I'm like,

561
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 5: at least I wasn't like looking at a bit, but

562
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,640
Speaker 5: oh yeah, that one right, there's my ex.

563
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 2: You're not visibly giving husband.

564
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: Not the wife said you don't visibly give husband, especially

565
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 1: that now he was wearing like a pleathor based based No,

566
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:25,440
Speaker 1: I wasn't visibly displaying husband. Picture. I have a picture,

567
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,159
Speaker 1: Yeah I do. I gotta find it. I actually just

568
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:28,199
Speaker 1: seen it the other day too.

569
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 5: It was me a like, I think you're you're not

570
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,400
Speaker 5: in the picture, but I know you're probably close.

571
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 2: By something that over who might need that.

572
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 5: I'm like a real boyage. So I got like the

573
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 5: eyebrows thing and everything, yeah.

574
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 2: Exact, but not the biaber eyebrow. The light skin Biaber like.

575
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 1: I don't know if I told you this, but really

576
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 1: early on in our arrangement, I took pictures of you

577
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:53,719
Speaker 1: putting up blinds for me topless. But I posted that

578
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: on purpose and my ex would see it, so I

579
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 1: definitely got my Like it took a year.

580
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,679
Speaker 5: But you didn't know you were doing stuff like that.

581
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,439
Speaker 5: I said, you put my tattoos, just my hand on

582
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 5: your things. You were doing the classic you know what

583
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 5: I'm talking about. Yeah, you know what I'm talking about.

584
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: Basic.

585
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 2: You know we do it too.

586
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, you got you have my I have my hand

587
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:15,679
Speaker 5: on your thigh or something, and you take a picture

588
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:17,160
Speaker 5: of it and you're like.

589
00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: I always got pictures in the beginning of Jared doing handiwork,

590
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: putting up light fixtures, all that. Ship. That's and I

591
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 1: knew it was real. We were fun buddies. And I

592
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 1: was hanging dripes. I was like, hold on, look a,

593
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: you're getting your goddess experience. You were hanging drapes really early.

594
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just don't make no sense drapes watering water plants.

595
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly.

596
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 2: That's how he was like, this is arrows. Yeah, I'm

597
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 2: talking about on Twitter.

598
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: But I was giving it back to him because I actually,

599
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: really intentionally I went to school for to be serpervi

600
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: as a sexologist. While I was in this long term

601
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 1: negative relationship and sometimes in shitty relationships to sex is

602
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 1: good because it's toxic and sometimes you're having no sex.

603
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: So that was the latter. We were not having sex

604
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: at all. It was really negative and resentful, and so

605
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: I was learning all this cool shit about my body

606
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 1: and I had no one to practice on. So I

607
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 1: intentionally wanted a fuck buddy, and so I knew when

608
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: Jared came in into my life, I wanted to be

609
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 1: really good at sex. So I like invested. I bought robes,

610
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 1: I bought like candles, I had that projector I always

611
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,639
Speaker 1: played whenever he came over. I was like, I'm going

612
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: to create this like goddess womanly experience. I think I

613
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: felt comfortable asking to be served because I was like, I'd.

614
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 2: Cooked for you, hang my drapes. He exchange.

615
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 3: I agree with that shit?

616
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 1: Do you think that?

617
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 3: Okay? So, now that you guys have two kids, like,

618
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 3: how has your sex life changed? I mean, besides that,

619
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 3: it's probably less.

620
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:40,800
Speaker 1: Well, it's interesting enough.

621
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 5: We still have a lot of sex, but I think

622
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 5: where it is now, it's like we just got we're

623
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 5: either fighting back on life because we're tired, but we're like,

624
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 5: I'm horny so we should do this, or we're in

625
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 5: like these very tight windows that don't really have a

626
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 5: lot of time, and we're doing it in the closet.

627
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: So the sex life is still there.

628
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 2: It's more teenager ish, yeah.

629
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: Just is not.

630
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 5: It's not as like.

631
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 3: Romantical and long like loud, we're gonna go to sleep

632
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 3: and loud, not long.

633
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 1: Not long, because also too, they can't distinguish what sex

634
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: sounds are yet, so we're still in the face where

635
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 1: it's like.

636
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,439
Speaker 2: It might be like what's wrong with mommy?

637
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 1: Right? Or just like okay, do you think that?

638
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 5: Though I'm not gonna lie whenever like that, I'm always like,

639
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 5: they're sleeping. This does not sound good.

640
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 2: But they're not going to know what the sound is.

641
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know how you got here there

642
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: that place yet, but I definitely think that it's it's

643
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 1: kind of teenager ish. But I do miss long sex.

644
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: I miss like a day of sex. Yeah, build up.

645
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 2: You have that ever, even.

646
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 1: Our kids are I think we talked about this when

647
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: you were on lovers and friends at time wherein that Like,

648
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: that's one of the being a single mom is that

649
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: when your kid is with the father, you get that

650
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: time to yourself, so you still have like designated freedom.

651
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 5: Time for sure.

652
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,199
Speaker 3: And having friends and sometimes co parent that can kind

653
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 3: of take the kid allows me to have long periods

654
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 3: of sex and all day sex if I want. And

655
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 3: I mean I have sex with my daughter at home

656
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 3: as well. It's definitely more reserved sex. And she's asleep

657
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:28,240
Speaker 3: sex and.

658
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 2: She knows what those sounds are.

659
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 3: I don't think she knows what those sounds are.

660
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 2: Mind does she's confirmed recently.

661
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 3: You're loud and those walls are thin?

662
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: How does she confirm it?

663
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: She made a comment recently. She was like basically like, oh.

664
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 4: I know you guys are in love, and my kind

665
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 4: know are in love because you're always like kissing and like,

666
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 4: and I.

667
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: Was like, how did you feel?

668
00:27:58,400 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 2: Ever found embarrassed?

669
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 4: And then the other she said to Orlando, she said, oh,

670
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 4: they're watching a movie or something.

671
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 2: I don't and she was like, oh, I know.

672
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 1: I know they're in love. Like how do you know

673
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: they're in love? She's like, cause you guys have sex.

674
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 4: I haven't even talked to her about that comment yet,

675
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 4: and I was just I was like, she.

676
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 2: Said sex, Yeah, she says it, she'll say it. I

677
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 2: try not to. Like she said, it's to Orlando.

678
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: Have you told her about sex? No?

679
00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:23,120
Speaker 4: But then when she said it one time, I said

680
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 4: what does sex mean? What does that mean? And she

681
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:31,199
Speaker 4: said when you kiss with naked and I just I'm like,

682
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:31,920
Speaker 4: what am I gonna say?

683
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: No, it's when you insert the penis, and I was

684
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: just like, I'm just gonna leave it there.

685
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, I didn't argue.

686
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: I just just looked away. Yeah, I did like that.

687
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 4: I'm not prepared for this part. I know, I want

688
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 4: to be honest about it, but also I'm not prepared.

689
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 4: And also I'm like, I are gonna tell it.

690
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 3: Like you well, but if you let her watch certain

691
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 3: things that have sex in them, do you have to

692
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 3: know that she's going to know.

693
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: I'm okay with her being curious. I'm okay with like

694
00:28:58,840 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: talking about it. I don't.

695
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 2: I don't she wasn't necessarily wrong.

696
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: I just don't know. But I'm just saying, like, go

697
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 1: that she No.

698
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 4: I'm a big advocate of not like covering her eyes

699
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 4: when the sex comes on because like inevitably it's going

700
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 4: to be like it all happened to us as kids,

701
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 4: and then your parents did that thing, and then you're like,

702
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 4: what the fuck am I missing? And you're curious about it.

703
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 4: So I don't really do that. I try to like

704
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 4: have conversations. I don't know if this is a good

705
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 4: plan or not, but we're going to find out eventually.

706
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 2: My eyes got closed. I was super curious.

707
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,239
Speaker 4: I started fucking very early and I didn't have no

708
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 4: context to it, and hopefully she won't, you know. I mean,

709
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 4: I I don't have the answers. She's almost a I

710
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 4: don't know if I'm doing.

711
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: I mean I think that I don't know whether and

712
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 3: whether or not covering your eyes was the reason why

713
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 3: you started having sex with me, But I think that

714
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: if that, it's a conversation that has to be had,

715
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 3: especially if you are allowing her and exposing her to

716
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 3: those things, then then you also have to follow up

717
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 3: with well.

718
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 4: I think in the context of whatever we're watching. Yeah, Like,

719
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 4: for instance, we watched The Crowd After a long time ago,

720
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 4: and there's a part where the guy she like puts

721
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 4: the spell on the guy and he's like aggressively coming

722
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 4: at her and we talked about it. I'm like, this

723
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 4: is what this is not okay, this can happen, and

724
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 4: this is when you just like tell people no and

725
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 4: people like, you know, having conversations in the context of

726
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 4: what we're watching.

727
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 2: But am I like breaking shit down like no, I'm not.

728
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 2: I'm just like she she's very mature.

729
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 4: Girls are mature, and she can like feel the like

730
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 4: understanding of the what we're watching. And even for her

731
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 4: to say, I know you guys are in love, so

732
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 4: you're having sex. That for me, I'm like, okay, well

733
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 4: that sounds good. That sounds like, at least what you

734
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 4: know of it sounds pretty like healthy. So I'm not

735
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 4: gonna like go too much now. When it becomes the things,

736
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 4: I'm gonna pull out my Yoni books, my Little Yoni books,

737
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 4: and hopefully that's gonna help. But at this point I'm

738
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 4: not ready to answer those questions. And kissing naked sounds

739
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 4: about accurate, so I'm just gonna get that ride for me.

740
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: You have a good amount.

741
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it's great because some people have these experiences

742
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: when they're kid's like sixteen, and by that time, like

743
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 1: it takes them three years to get comfortable, and it's

744
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: just too late. I think you're point and I'm not like.

745
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,560
Speaker 4: Fucking loud in my house, you know, but obviously she

746
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 4: heard something that sounds like moms.

747
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: So I don't know, shut up putting me on the

748
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: spot yourself.

749
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 5: We got we got two daughters, so I know, you

750
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 5: know there's going to be awkward, and that's parenting right for.

751
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 1: You, actually, because our daughter Ryu is going to be too.

752
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: So she speaks, and she's known volva since I don't know,

753
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 1: maybe like a year and some change. Like she knows

754
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: her body parts. If you know what your elbow is,

755
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: know what your volva is. And the other day I

756
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 1: was toddling telling her about, you know, vlvas because she

757
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: pointing to mine, I said, I have ava and daddy

758
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 1: is a penis and jars, like, don't teach you that. Well,

759
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: I just think right now penis does not exist yet.

760
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 1: My thinking is, I don't know.

761
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 5: My whole thinking business is that, like I want her

762
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 5: to be uh, you know, prepared enough to use the

763
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 5: word because right now, whatever she learned, she just says

764
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 5: them out loud in public and stuff.

765
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: So I don't.

766
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 5: Mind her learning that her own anatomy right now, and

767
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 5: I wanted to focus on her, but like, until she

768
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 5: understands what a penis.

769
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 3: Is, Like, are you naked in front of her?

770
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 5: No, I try not to be. I'm naked, but I

771
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 5: don't like.

772
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:20,239
Speaker 1: You didn't want me to say no, I don't like.

773
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 1: I don't like.

774
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 5: I'm like, I'm not like hiding it, but I'm not

775
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 5: like walking around the house naked.

776
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 1: Like I'll be reserved about it.

777
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 5: But if we're in the shower or we're you know,

778
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 5: getting dressed, I'm not going to be like, get out

779
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 5: the room.

780
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: I'm not like that.

781
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 5: But I'm not just like walking around the house naked.

782
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 5: But for me, it's like it's about understanding what the

783
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 5: word is and how to use it. Just the other

784
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 5: day understand yeah, just the other day she yelled out fuck,

785
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 5: and you know that's where I was like, hey, you

786
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 5: can't use this word. Like, and I'm trying to teach

787
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 5: a one and a half year old not what words

788
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 5: to use and what not to use. I'm just like,

789
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 5: let's just keep penis out the vocabulary for now until

790
00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 5: she's able to understand, and then I can actually have

791
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 5: a dialogue on what that means and how to use it,

792
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 5: you know what?

793
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 4: Like for us to be new age parents, there's like

794
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 4: all these uncharted territories. We're like, we're sex positive, we're cool,

795
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 4: and then it's like time we're like, I don't know,

796
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 4: I don't know.

797
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, girl, Seriously, that's that's me.

798
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 3: Literally every week I'm like, I'm also have a platform

799
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 3: where I'm giving women advice about things that I don't

800
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 3: know if I've figured out myself all the way. I'm

801
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:27,479
Speaker 3: like literally figuring it out day by day and honestly

802
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 3: leaning on my community because there's a lot of other

803
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 3: seasoned parents there where I'm like, what the fuck am

804
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 3: I supposed to do with this?

805
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I think that's expertise. Yeah, perpetual curiosity.

806
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 1: I think it's expertise. That's true, and seeking like answers

807
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: like hey, what are you doing? Resources like your older

808
00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,719
Speaker 1: your friends who have you know you think are sex positive,

809
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 1: have older kids. I think that is important to just

810
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: like go to the community like, hey, what do I

811
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 1: do now? Yeah?

812
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 4: Someone said dick on TV and Lin my other daughter's

813
00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 4: very like I know that.

814
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, what is that? She's like, it's a penis

815
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, you and the you know,

816
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: somebody have to I'm not going to encourage the I

817
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:14,359
Speaker 1: was gonna like, yeah, yeah, girl, leave it there. Oh

818
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:14,840
Speaker 1: my god.

819
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 3: So we have been playing a game with our couples

820
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: that we've had on and just like the little game

821
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 3: to see how well you guys know each other. You

822
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 3: guys have known each other?

823
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: What's seven, six, seven.

824
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 2: Fifteen to know?

825
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: Seven years?

826
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're at that place where we should not be

827
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 3: in love anymore.

828
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, seven years I invented.

829
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, who said seven years is the moment?

830
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: It's actually scientifically backed because that's amount of time it

831
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 1: takes for a couple to get together, get familiar, have

832
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: a baby, and then raise that baby through that infancy

833
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 1: and that very vulnerable stage. And then now the kid

834
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: in essence can join like a toddler pack and then

835
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: go on about their life and you can start the

836
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 1: process of a game with somebody else.

837
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 3: Oh well that makes sense. My relationship ended at seven years,

838
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,919
Speaker 3: and I was, yeah, it was, it was over.

839
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:03,320
Speaker 5: Got to reinvent it.

840
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:04,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm glad we didn't.

841
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: Some ship doesn't need to be revived.

842
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 1: Back to that, do you want to start?

843
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 6: I do?

844
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 4: But I wanted to ask you guys before we test you,

845
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 4: do you guys have an affirmation?

846
00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 2: We asked. We like to ask her, did we tell

847
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 2: you guys this?

848
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,720
Speaker 5: No, but I from last time I came on, Yeah, surprise.

849
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 4: You like to ask our guests that they have affirmation

850
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 4: that they use that like you want to share with

851
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 4: the audience that like pumps you up or keeps you going,

852
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 4: pertaining to whatever.

853
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: Experience I want to hear.

854
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna I'm gonna change mine. I did.

855
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,520
Speaker 5: I did last time. I said I want to be

856
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 5: synonymous with enjoy. But I think this one, this is

857
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 5: gonna be an inside joke kind of you can.

858
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 2: Let our conquers here.

859
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 5: All right. I don't know if this is truly my

860
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 5: My affirmation right now is I'm the prize.

861
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 2: I'm the prize.

862
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 3: I like that. Why are you laughing? What is this

863
00:35:59,320 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 3: inside joke?

864
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: It's from DJ academics. Oh, that's anything from him. You

865
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: should never be inspired by yelling fighting on the prize. No,

866
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: but which it feels like that's what Orlando did to you,

867
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 1: which is why you guys talk together.

868
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 2: I'm on, I'm the prize, plant shaking aggressively. I'm the prize.

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00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,680
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Speaker 5: Just as far as it went, what's your affirmation?

897
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I don't know.

898
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 2: I mean, hey that hop Yeah, I don't even know

899
00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: what would be an affirmation?

900
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: What do you tell yourself to be?

901
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 5: Great?

902
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: Man? Just get through the day, listen, that's just make

903
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: one up, right, just get let's make up an affirmation

904
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 1: right now?

905
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:38,479
Speaker 2: Like feel like you're enough and you've done enough?

906
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 1: What about?

907
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 5: What about I'm Michael Jackson, bitch.

908
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 3: Sure, Jared, that applies, But I like that I feel

909
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 3: like I'm enough and I've done enough.

910
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I always feel like even right now, like I

911
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: can hear them. There's always a sense of guilt of

912
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: like I'm not doing the right thing, Like I'm not

913
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: spending my time the right way I should be with

914
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: my kids, or I should be put this out Like

915
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 1: I always feel like I'm not investing my time in

916
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: the right way and I should be doing something different.

917
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: So I think that that's if I could have a

918
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: day where I was like I did everything exactly right,

919
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: that would be a good day.

920
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 3: You know, I relate to that a lot, and I

921
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 3: think I think a lot of working parents, not just

922
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 3: even mothers, can relate to that feeling of like am

923
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,919
Speaker 3: I investing my time right? Am I doing this right?

924
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 3: I feel pleasure here, but then I feel like I'm

925
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 3: lacking in this other space, or like I feel like

926
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 3: you're doing good here, but you're taking away from here,

927
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 3: And it's just like trying to find balance essentially and

928
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 3: can feel daunting and impossible.

929
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just never right. It's just never right. It's

930
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 2: just never enough.

931
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: Never did, That's just it's just wait.

932
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 3: Your kids start talking. I'm telling you you're not doing enough.

933
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 3: Just wait for that shit.

934
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 2: All you care about is work. I feel like that's

935
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 2: what her coming out here was communicating.

936
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 5: All you care about is gymnastics and what do you

937
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 5: think pay for.

938
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 3: I literally the conversations. No, I'm in that space with

939
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 3: my daughter too, because now she's gotten into the habit

940
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 3: of knowing that that kind of that triggers me, and

941
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 3: so she uses it against me, even in even in

942
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,720
Speaker 3: instances where I know I've done enough that day with her,

943
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 3: and she knows that that's gonna hurt my feelings and

944
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 3: make me question whether I've done enough. So master manipulators now,

945
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 3: and you got two girls.

946
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm hoping they're gonna cancel each other out.

947
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if it works like.

948
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 2: A machine gun it is with each other.

949
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:39,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so now to our test questions.

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00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: Okay, I thought that was supposed to be a positive moment.

951
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:43,240
Speaker 2: I now feel deeply sad.

952
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 5: No, just stop mind you say you're the prize.

953
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: Okay, just that part out on the prize.

954
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 3: I'm the prize. I'm the prize, and I'm doing just

955
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:56,919
Speaker 3: fine and enough.

956
00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, I'm gonna ask some questions about Jared Shan.

957
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 5: Okay, We're gonna probably do really bad.

958
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: I can already feel that. Okay, are you ready? Yeah, Okay,

959
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 2: what is Jared's favorite color? Oh my god, blue, he said,

960
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, it changes every day.

961
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: Oh I should have said that. I should have said

962
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 1: that. That is the truth. That's why I made the face.

963
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 1: I made that meal the face.

964
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 5: That I thought that out of all the questions that

965
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 5: we had, that this one she's gonna.

966
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 2: Get like, yes, it is a ring. He's he's a

967
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 2: mood ring.

968
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

969
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 2: What is his overall pet? Peeve? I would say mean people, rudeness,

970
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 2: being rude, unkind to others.

971
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 4: A world, A wordsmith, semantics what Okay, I can see

972
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 4: that some one of the wordsmith is.

973
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 2: Your pet peeve.

974
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 5: Someone who's a semantic key like who says big no semantics.

975
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: That's like if I say, if I say, hey.

976
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 5: I'm always advocate no no, no semantics is like it's like, say,

977
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 5: let's say you you come in and you're like, oh man,

978
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 5: I came in and the evening and they're like, no,

979
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 5: you came in at night.

980
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 2: To stickler to like this dumb shit.

981
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: I get that I may have.

982
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,719
Speaker 5: Came in a little bit later than you think, but

983
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 5: I'm telling you that I came in late or you know,

984
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 5: I mean it just it gets to the point where

985
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:15,320
Speaker 5: we start fighting about words and not like the actual issue, right.

986
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 4: Yea, what pet peeve is? What is his pet peeve?

987
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:25,839
Speaker 4: When it comes to you, I really think we able

988
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 4: to get this one.

989
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: Really, tea in the sink, A tea bag in the sink. Yep,

990
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,439
Speaker 1: that's just to show you how perfect I am. That's

991
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: an issue. A tea back in the sink. Why does

992
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: that bother you so much? Put? I think at this

993
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: point it becomes like a lack of listening because he's

994
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 1: communicated so many times and it grosses him out and

995
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 1: then it bothers him. So if I think it's a

996
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 1: symbol of me not respecting how he wants to live

997
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 1: and what matters to him.

998
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 5: Because the fucking it's the top of the food chain.

999
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 3: Damn, don't ever do that ship again, Shan, No.

1000
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 5: It's gonna happenin I've had to accept it, how I know.

1001
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: And then he put it in the trash eventually else

1002
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 1: the trash will melt the bag. It's just gonna get

1003
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: all messy.

1004
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 2: That makes sense. What is Jared's childhood pet name? Cody? Yes? Correct,

1005
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 2: you know I'll get that one.

1006
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know.

1007
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 4: What would Jared say? Is your best quality, quality or intelligence? Adaptability?

1008
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: Oh really, do you think I'm adaptable?

1009
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1010
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:31,479
Speaker 2: Thanks, bab.

1011
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 1: What would he say is what is his worst quality?

1012
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: What would he say is his worst quality?

1013
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 2: What would Jared say?

1014
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 1: Too nice? It's his worst quality? Yeah, he said he

1015
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:45,880
Speaker 1: can't take criticism.

1016
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 5: Okay, you got that one too. I actually answered that

1017
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,520
Speaker 5: one that you were answering this question.

1018
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: So I was like, I'm going to.

1019
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:53,440
Speaker 2: Your worst quality.

1020
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 1: No, I know, but you can win. I'm trying to win. Okay.

1021
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 2: Sorry.

1022
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jared definitely has a hard timeticism. But the fact

1023
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: that you said that is starting. He said it only

1024
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 1: because he knew that that's what you were going to say. Yeah,

1025
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: I don't really feel that way.

1026
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,760
Speaker 4: I'm not going to take a criticism. What is something

1027
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 4: that he's most sensitive about?

1028
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 2: Music?

1029
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: Yes, his music, sensitive about his ship? Come on, I

1030
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: had not take offense to that, actually, because in our relationship,

1031
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 1: when I've seen I've seen Jared cry a small handful

1032
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: of times, and I'm pretty sure they've all dealt with music,

1033
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, we've gone through some ship. Why have

1034
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,319
Speaker 1: you now? But I don't cry.

1035
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 5: I don't cry that often when it comes to like

1036
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 5: things like that, I'd rather just handle it right. The

1037
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 5: music thing seems so out of control in our relationship.

1038
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 5: I feel like we can work there. You know what.

1039
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 3: It's so funny to say that because I was I

1040
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 3: was my partner. I was asking him. I was like,

1041
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 3: almost like do you cry? When was the last time

1042
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 3: you cried? I'm like, would you cry if like we

1043
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 3: broke up? And He's like, why do you want me

1044
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 3: to cry so bad? I was like, I don't know.

1045
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 3: I equate crying to like you that you care. And

1046
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 3: I was like, as women, I we do that, like

1047
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 3: you don't cry, and what the fuck are we doing here?

1048
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 5: Right?

1049
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah? Right?

1050
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 5: But men men cry for the women a lot of

1051
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 5: times to manipulate them. So it's like, yeah, you you

1052
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 5: value it, and we know that you value it, so

1053
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 5: we're gonna use it against you. So actually you should

1054
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 5: take it like he hasn't cried in front of me

1055
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:15,439
Speaker 5: like that.

1056
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: You cry in private? No, I don't.

1057
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,880
Speaker 5: I'm trying to fix the issues whatever we're talking about.

1058
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 2: That private over me.

1059
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:25,959
Speaker 5: I don't.

1060
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to. I'm trying to make it. There's no time.

1061
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: There's no time for crying right now.

1062
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 2: Jared cry in the shower.

1063
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 3: No, like a welling of tears, not like like misty eyes.

1064
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: Did you cry at their wedding? No, I just like

1065
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: I noticed there's trying things. You just know about your

1066
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: partners so well. I knew Jared was not going to

1067
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:54,920
Speaker 1: give me the reaction I wanted to come down the

1068
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: aisle so like we're going on the aisle together, you

1069
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 1: give me a chance. I knew didn't even a chance

1070
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: because I don't want to set myself up for that

1071
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: moment where everybody in the audience turned to Jared to

1072
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: see if he's gonna give.

1073
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 2: He's not gonna get.

1074
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: Gonna that moment.

1075
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 4: I'm gonna give he just like I've never heard that

1076
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:14,479
Speaker 4: someone change the wedding, like.

1077
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 1: Myself down. I want to set myself up to get

1078
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:20,359
Speaker 1: pissed off.

1079
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 3: So it's like there on the aisle, you like, let

1080
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 3: me surprise you.

1081
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: You know what it is though to because I did

1082
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 1: wedding photography before, like years before, and I always had

1083
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: the camera on the bride come in the aisle and

1084
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: then you switched to the husband zoomed in to get

1085
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: that crying moment, and you knew if you didn't get it,

1086
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: it was like.

1087
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 2: Is that shot.

1088
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 1: That's right, I forget.

1089
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 5: Give me some room to surprise you, give me some

1090
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 5: blank pages, as you call it.

1091
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: Well, listen, you could have written in there, or you

1092
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: could have just lied just now and said, yes, I cried.

1093
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,280
Speaker 3: It's the seventh year. We need you to cry. Okay,

1094
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,720
Speaker 3: do some new ship Have I Sai mushrooms together?

1095
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: Helloa?

1096
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 2: Yeah we have? And he didn't cry. No, mushrooms usually

1097
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 2: really helped crying.

1098
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 5: Hi, I actually never actually have cried one time on mushrooms.

1099
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 5: But not no, No, I wasn't any I didn't even

1100
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 5: know that.

1101
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:25,959
Speaker 1: That's not even there. I didn't even know exist thought

1102
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 1: of your future wife and how much we revere and

1103
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: worship her.

1104
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 2: I have a couple of mushrooms in my purse.

1105
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: I can give them. I don't want to set myself up.

1106
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: He's not going to cry.

1107
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 3: Listen, if there's any man listening, fucking cry. Even if

1108
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 3: I do push out of here, I cry out.

1109
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 1: I do cry.

1110
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 3: We need it women, we need our men cry or

1111
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:43,760
Speaker 3: cry post sex.

1112
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 1: That's not me. I don't. I don't need to cry,

1113
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:48,160
Speaker 1: do that.

1114
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 2: I cry all the time me too.

1115
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 5: So do I have you ever had a man cry?

1116
00:47:52,920 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: Yes? You have? Yes? I have. You're just making it

1117
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 1: up for the podcast. I'm not.

1118
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 2: I'm not. It has happened, is happy. Well, I'm not

1119
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:02,959
Speaker 2: going to share the details of this.

1120
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,719
Speaker 1: Because this isn't that wrong. That is an intimate moments

1121
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: and a previous partner, and we got we got there.

1122
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: We were very much.

1123
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 5: Y'all not together because you wanted the men not to

1124
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 5: cry at the end of that second.

1125
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,399
Speaker 3: It's so crazy about women. It's like, we only want

1126
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 3: our men to cry only at certain times. If they

1127
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 3: quite at the wrong time, then you're a bitch, Like,

1128
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 3: stop crying. What the fuck are you crying?

1129
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: How many boyfriends cry? And I want to laugh.

1130
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: I've done it, and I've done it.

1131
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 2: Stop being a bitch, And I'm like.

1132
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, literally, I'm so sorry crying. I'm like, I'm

1133
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 7: not going to text Erica like this, I can only

1134
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 7: cry at certain moments.

1135
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 3: You love me, when we're having sex, act it. But

1136
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 3: like maybe when we have a baby and I pushed

1137
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 3: the baby out, I.

1138
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 1: Cried on it. You did?

1139
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 2: You did cry when you gave birth, the first one,

1140
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:56,399
Speaker 2: the second one? Did you guys have a home birth?

1141
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 2: I noticed.

1142
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 6: Your flavor and she.

1143
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: Did not cry?

1144
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,760
Speaker 2: Five twelve baby tears.

1145
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 1: Let me she's she's see I've learning she's a scorekeeper.

1146
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: That's the first one, not the second. What has Jared

1147
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: accomplished that he's most proud of owning a home?

1148
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 5: It's kind of close, I said.

1149
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 2: Our business and our kids.

1150
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I'm gonna say, your credit score, you're just

1151
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: so Oh yeah I am.

1152
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 5: I'm actually fucking proud of that. I should have wrote

1153
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 5: that down. I'm actually all the time.

1154
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 3: What's your credit scord? Uh? Is up there?

1155
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: It look? Look I'm gonna say.

1156
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,279
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say it's like seven ninety five right now,

1157
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 5: And I'll be honest right now, Like I started, like

1158
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 5: the five is that Shan's doing?

1159
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 2: Or you did that by yourself?

1160
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 5: I myself? Wowf I mean, I mean coincidentally it happened

1161
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 5: once I met Shanna, had to get serious and like,

1162
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:00,879
Speaker 5: hey need to take care of this dead over here.

1163
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 5: And then yeah, I looked up one day. I didn't

1164
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:04,959
Speaker 5: even know. I just checked it one.

1165
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 1: Day and now you're over in the streets bragging about it. Yeah,

1166
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: I didn't even know.

1167
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,879
Speaker 5: I was like, I was like, you know, just living life,

1168
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 5: and I was like, I wonder what my credit score

1169
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 5: is it used to be in the five and then

1170
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 5: I opened it was just.

1171
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: Living Also a lie though, too, because he touched the

1172
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: credit score really often. Up he's checking it like two

1173
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: years ago. No, I don't.

1174
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 5: I just experienced something like that.

1175
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

1176
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 2: It's worth it for not a person.

1177
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,320
Speaker 1: Credit card story short.

1178
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,399
Speaker 5: I am proud of it, especially where I came from.

1179
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, hell yeah, that's yeah.

1180
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 3: I'm proud of you.

1181
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 2: I inspired to be like Jared's do it. What is

1182
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,960
Speaker 2: Jared's biggest insecurity.

1183
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 5: Height?

1184
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:48,359
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm insecurity? I don't like his height.

1185
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: Yeah it's not short, He's not that short, but I

1186
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:56,280
Speaker 1: feel like that's not like, sorry, why incurity?

1187
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,439
Speaker 5: Let me find out the nigga that cried with sex

1188
00:50:58,520 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 5: seven or something like that.

1189
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 2: His insecurity? You try again? Yeah, I really like biggest insecure.

1190
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,479
Speaker 2: I wouldn't know. I don't know his spelling. Oh god,

1191
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 2: hell yeah, but I think that you are. You don't care,

1192
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1193
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 5: I didn't know what to put, but I knew that

1194
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 5: I was saying.

1195
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 2: To be honest with you.

1196
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: If you asked this question year ago, I would have

1197
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: said his intelligence easily, deeply insecure about people thinking he's

1198
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: dumb or assuming he's dumb, and so you have done

1199
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 1: so much work on that in the past year that

1200
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 1: I know that that's changed for you. Yeah. I feel

1201
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: like the thing that I would write usually for my

1202
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:34,240
Speaker 1: biggest in security, I would not write anymore, you know why.

1203
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: So we like, I think that maybe we have to

1204
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: reevaluate we're at, where we're at now, what we have

1205
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: to work on.

1206
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's something you really aggressively.

1207
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, definitely.

1208
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 2: My spelling still cannot spell. I'm gonna get spell there disclosure.

1209
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 2: I'm writing a book.

1210
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: I wrote a book.

1211
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 2: I can't spell ship check.

1212
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:50,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it right?

1213
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 4: Why bother, why did you think you're dumb? Because you

1214
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 4: just think you're cute and people thowing saw like you're no.

1215
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: I actually was. I don't anymore.

1216
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 5: I was aware and like I was able to like

1217
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,879
Speaker 5: understand things, but I couldn't describe it like I didn't

1218
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 5: have Yeah, I didn't.

1219
00:52:07,640 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: Have the way to like tell it.

1220
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 2: And you started like having more conversation, reading books.

1221
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, started reading books, started listening to audiobooks, you know,

1222
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,280
Speaker 5: being around people that were smarter than me often.

1223
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 1: And I'm sure even having a podcast helped you a lot,

1224
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 1: because you hear yourself back and you see your perspectives critiqued,

1225
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: and then you want to research, and then when you

1226
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 1: before you say something, you want to have an informed perspective.

1227
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, that helped a lot. Yeah, you still have

1228
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 1: your podcast.

1229
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 2: What would Jared say? It's his deal breaker in a relationship.

1230
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 5: I don't even remember what I put.

1231
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 1: Jared will never leave me?

1232
00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 2: So the price?

1233
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: All right?

1234
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 6: What?

1235
00:52:56,640 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 1: I don't remember what I said? Having no ambiss I

1236
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:00,800
Speaker 1: didn't get done.

1237
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:02,840
Speaker 2: All ambitions.

1238
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:08,840
Speaker 1: So writing, you know, there are a million questions answer.

1239
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: I'm just an I didn't go in the right direction.

1240
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 2: I gave what you're saying here. Maybe you're saying like

1241
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 2: a white girl, like he has no ambition.

1242
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 1: And that's exactly what I'm yeah, straight up.

1243
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 2: Oh my, some valley asked people over here.

1244
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: Where does he like to go?

1245
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 2: Grocery shopping?

1246
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:40,399
Speaker 4: Sprouts? Yep, classy. He didn't answer this one, so I'm

1247
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 4: skip it. Oh did I not do your favorite musical

1248
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 4: artists of all time?

1249
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:44,399
Speaker 1: Oh?

1250
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was a hard question. That's that's that's actually

1251
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 5: a very high one for me. But but but but

1252
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 5: like all time when you slapped the all time on there,

1253
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 5: like I need I need more than an hour to yeah,

1254
00:53:58,520 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 5: to think about that?

1255
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 2: Off this fan, I'm getting cool. I got okay, what uh?

1256
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 2: What is this guilty pleasure?

1257
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:16,759
Speaker 1: Ice cream bread? Watching bare knuckle fighting? Oh? Yeah, what

1258
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:21,560
Speaker 1: what does that mean? Like?

1259
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 5: Bro, okay, there's a there's a second of YouTube. There's

1260
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 5: a sector of YouTube. I forget the name of, like

1261
00:54:32,280 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 5: the the actual place. I think it's called like TD

1262
00:54:35,480 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 5: or something like that. They fight no gloves in like

1263
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,240
Speaker 5: a circle of like fight clubs. It's like fight clubs.

1264
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 2: Did you know that he's doing this on his free time?

1265
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: No idea?

1266
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:47,600
Speaker 2: How the fun was she supposed to guess that?

1267
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1268
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, but it was the

1269
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: first deal breaker you I didn't know, yo, they'd be

1270
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: going at it.

1271
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 2: Why do you like that?

1272
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,000
Speaker 5: It's a guilty pleasure supposed to be it's supposed to

1273
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 5: to be something you've.

1274
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 2: Never seen somebody killed on camera before, like a real

1275
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:04,359
Speaker 2: life killing. I can't, I can't.

1276
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:06,359
Speaker 4: I didn't never, But I was like, remember like back

1277
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 4: in the day, in like high school or whatever, they

1278
00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 4: had that like black internet, like they and.

1279
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: Then you could I also want to get beheaded once. No,

1280
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 1: it is that website like dark Yes, with that website.

1281
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I don't know. I went on

1282
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 2: that one time.

1283
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: I was obsessed.

1284
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1285
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 2: I looked at every single time. I'm a cancer.

1286
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: I can't. I'll be crying and ship I could barely.

1287
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 1: Like I fucking watched like an animation today and I

1288
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 1: was crying. It's like it was, I can't. No, have

1289
00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: you watched death online? I would never Jared obviously would. No. No,

1290
00:55:35,360 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 1: it's like why whatever?

1291
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,439
Speaker 5: Why I obviously would because you like to watch people

1292
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:41,800
Speaker 5: fight with baar enough, that's not killings.

1293
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,480
Speaker 1: Even like Jared has watched like the Nipsey Hustle like

1294
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,200
Speaker 1: security footage. I would never watch that.

1295
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:47,880
Speaker 2: People are curious, I guess that.

1296
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:52,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's circle. Yeah, that is not the circle.

1297
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: That is not the right word to describe that circle.

1298
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:58,399
Speaker 1: That's like the nature bitch. It's not good people kill

1299
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 1: each other. That's why it's called a guilty pleasure.

1300
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 3: I'm gonna remember what that website is called.

1301
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:03,760
Speaker 2: Okay, Jared?

1302
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: What is what is? I mean? What is Jared's favorite

1303
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 1: porn category? Like Big Big Butts.

1304
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 2: Amateur, which is.

1305
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 5: One I like the solo, like the like it's like

1306
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 5: like it's almost like they could have sent it to

1307
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:22,959
Speaker 5: me privately.

1308
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:24,919
Speaker 2: Or Okay, yeah, I think you like to watch people

1309
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 2: masturbate too, right, like.

1310
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 3: So like I'm kind of cheating, but not, this is

1311
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 3: the thing.

1312
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 2: Actually, to be honest with you, I wish we watched

1313
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 2: more porn together.

1314
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should do that. I don't know.

1315
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 2: I think Jared has like a separate, separ relationship with porn.

1316
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 2: He can't he can't cross you can.

1317
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 5: We've done it before, but it's just like I can't

1318
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 5: focus on the porn and then us what we're doing

1319
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,680
Speaker 5: right now at the same time, Like you just wash it,

1320
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 5: rub her leg a little bit of like multiple it's

1321
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 5: a lot of it's a lot of stimulus.

1322
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 3: Probably will watch a lot of it. You'll come into

1323
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 3: the sax and it'll just be there in the background.

1324
00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 3: You should start there.

1325
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,439
Speaker 2: I think we did it once with the projector oh yeah,

1326
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 2: they like they're bigger than life.

1327
00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 5: I liked it.

1328
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will say I find it very hard to

1329
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: find a good porn and so like if you're doing

1330
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 1: it and you're searching.

1331
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,080
Speaker 3: It's true, like cue it up. You gotta like you

1332
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 3: got to prepare or like know what films work especially.

1333
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 3: I feel like women we are like particular, like things

1334
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 3: were like particular.

1335
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm like I don't like her.

1336
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, why there was this one girl and the

1337
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 3: way she fucking talked irritated me so much.

1338
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: And she keeps popping up.

1339
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 3: I don't know if there's like an algorithm porn I

1340
00:57:30,000 --> 00:57:33,160
Speaker 3: watch she keeps showing her and she keeps why would

1341
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 3: she be talking? She's just like the way she talks,

1342
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 3: like like I don't remember what specific thing that she says,

1343
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 3: but it's just this one thing that she says repetitive,

1344
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 3: repetitively that oh daddy, No, it's not that that.

1345
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:48,720
Speaker 1: How how old was.

1346
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: Jared and he lost his virginity? And where was he? Thirteen?

1347
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 2: His dad's shed?

1348
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: You lost your virginity in the shed too? Yeah? Me too. Wow.

1349
00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:01,640
Speaker 5: It was like it was like a shed that had

1350
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 5: like a couch and stuff. It wasn't like like there

1351
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 5: wasn't like shovels and.

1352
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 2: Ship Yeah yeah, okay, what moment did he know he

1353
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 2: loved you?

1354
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 1: Well?

1355
00:58:12,720 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 2: We talked about this, yep, she.

1356
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: Said she does have a copy love. What is Jared's

1357
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:26,120
Speaker 1: biggest fear?

1358
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:29,919
Speaker 2: The kids dying?

1359
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 1: Whoa you were dark?

1360
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 2: As obvious that is.

1361
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:39,439
Speaker 1: That's true.

1362
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 5: That's ye. That is a major fear.

1363
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:43,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't write that one.

1364
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 2: Spiders no going broke. Okay, that's a good one. Yeah,

1365
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 2: that's a good I don't even fear that.

1366
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

1367
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 2: What's Jared's favorite sex position?

1368
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:00,200
Speaker 5: Oh? This is our one.

1369
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: I don't know the name of it. I think it's

1370
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: like we're both sitting up right, that's right, Yeah, IDK

1371
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: what the name is.

1372
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:12,360
Speaker 5: I told you I was on your on the other

1373
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 5: part where she's sitting and I got my hands on

1374
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 5: the ass.

1375
00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I forgot you told thisosition.

1376
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 5: Kind of Yeah, we could even it's better like on

1377
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 5: a chair or something.

1378
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 1: I gotta pick her up.

1379
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:26,240
Speaker 2: And that's like her writing, you know, essentially it is.

1380
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 5: But there's something about that mutual rock too. Yeah, there's

1381
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 5: something about like the ass, like I'm cupping it.

1382
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: You know. That just doesn't doesn't mean to would Jared

1383
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: prefer to save or spend money these days? Spends say

1384
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 1: you got to spend a kick?

1385
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:51,960
Speaker 2: Who is his celeb crush?

1386
00:59:52,520 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: Oh that's.

1387
00:59:54,840 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 4: Lori Harvey, he wrote because gets asked beat after this no,

1388
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:02,040
Speaker 4: honestly available.

1389
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1390
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 5: I don't. I don't know which one.

1391
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1392
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 2: I don't think of a celebrity. You probably have an

1393
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:07,480
Speaker 2: Instagram model.

1394
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I did.

1395
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 5: There was there was something that popped in my head.

1396
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 5: I was like, I don't know the handle in the

1397
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 5: name of him. I just remember seeing scrolling him.

1398
01:00:14,280 --> 01:00:16,800
Speaker 4: That would irritate me. A bitch on Instagram. Irritate me better.

1399
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:19,920
Speaker 4: Let the bitch have a talent, like we're bigger a celebrity.

1400
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 2: At least, bit is your celeb talent.

1401
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: I'm glad. Getting Jared to admit that other women are

1402
01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 1: attractive is very difficult because he might you probably beat him.

1403
01:00:28,360 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 1: I don't beat him. Why.

1404
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:32,720
Speaker 2: I don't even know why. You don't ever just be

1405
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 2: like like, yeah, she's really fucking hot. I have about

1406
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 2: name one. I'm very comfortable saying you just brought it

1407
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:39,280
Speaker 2: due to my house.

1408
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: He was fine, as that's fine. I would say the

1409
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 1: same thing. But the celebrity right now, I don't know.

1410
01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know right now, I don't know.

1411
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,720
Speaker 2: Color to Lory Harvey.

1412
01:00:51,640 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 5: Yes I am.

1413
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You're telling me, Ask me

1414
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: what my favorite color is.

1415
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 3: Let's laurynn pir pressure us.

1416
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 1: Fine, I love her lust for someone. Let me tell

1417
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,240
Speaker 1: you who I think it's hot. How does Jared feel

1418
01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 1: about non monogamy? Loves for it for it? Are you

1419
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 1: guys still not monogamous?

1420
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 2: For fake? Are you guys just we're fake?

1421
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: Okay, we're not fake, We're real, but we're fake because

1422
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 1: nobody does anything about it.

1423
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 2: Okay, So it's like monogamous by default.

1424
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: So people who buy bikes but never go biking have

1425
01:01:33,400 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 1: all the equipment. I can't even I can't even like sleep.

1426
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 2: I went on tour, you have time went on tour.

1427
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, you could have totally non monogamous while my pregnant

1428
01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 5: wife just had baby at the house.

1429
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 6: He doesn't wait for babies.

1430
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah, well it just hitting the group, be

1431
01:01:54,800 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 1: right quick.

1432
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 5: While she's at home with two babies and she just

1433
01:01:58,760 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 5: gave birth.

1434
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: Like, tell me, we had a couple come on who's

1435
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 1: non monogamous, and she had a side boyfriend and she

1436
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:08,200
Speaker 1: was fucking like a little bit while she was pregnant

1437
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 1: until she was like okay, this might be too much,

1438
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:14,120
Speaker 1: but like she was pregnant and everybody knew. I was like, wow,

1439
01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: that is like it's where it gets a little it's

1440
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 1: just like a little like well he he. He later

1441
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 1: admitted that it did bother him a bit and he

1442
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 1: was drinking. Oh my gosh. We are honest to God,

1443
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: talk about blood worshiping. We are giving everything to these mosquitoes.

1444
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: I know she was a fan back on.

1445
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 3: I think this man sucked it up, fucked us up.

1446
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 3: What is his favorite put it on rotate then, so

1447
01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 3: it's not just on Yeah, what is uh? What is

1448
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 3: his favorite memory of your relationship?

1449
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I would think like yesterday right now,

1450
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 1: every moment, every moment.

1451
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 5: Now, if I would, if I would have wrote that ship,

1452
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:58,959
Speaker 5: you know y'all would have got right now, what's your memory?

1453
01:02:59,280 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: Every moment with you? A moment in my favorite moment yesterday, today.

1454
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 2: Next week?

1455
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1456
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay like that, No, it makes perfect sense. Yeah,

1457
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 4: it's coast Rica like your anniversary.

1458
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 2: It was kind of our honeymoon. I mean your honeymoon,

1459
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 2: That's what I mean. Yeah, Yeah, who does he wish?

1460
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 2: What do you wish your partner saw more?

1461
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:25,920
Speaker 1: Oh?

1462
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 3: This is my last question?

1463
01:03:27,240 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 4: Or if I wrote up okay, what does what does

1464
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 4: Jared wish that you saw more of yourself? What does

1465
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 4: Jared wish you saw more in yourself that he sees

1466
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 4: in you. Oh, I want to say kindness now that

1467
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 4: you are motherfucking Oprah bitch.

1468
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:49,560
Speaker 1: You wrote that I put the motherfucking in the bitch. Yeah,

1469
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,240
Speaker 1: he wrote that she is Oprah. Oh, I kind of

1470
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,439
Speaker 1: see that though you're the bomb.

1471
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 2: I kind of know that myself.

1472
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 1: Okay, good, I'm glad. I'm glad, I'm glad.

1473
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:04,040
Speaker 6: Okay, well, let's do it's in your back.

1474
01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: Oh, I was not trying to hide them. I say

1475
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:09,960
Speaker 1: kindness because I feel like I'm always like I'm evil,

1476
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm a bitch, and you're like you're not.

1477
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:13,640
Speaker 2: Why do you think you're evil? Because you have boundaries?

1478
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,840
Speaker 1: No, I'm a I have a Some people are born

1479
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: a little cruel. I'm born a little cruel.

1480
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:20,080
Speaker 2: I think Ryu is also born.

1481
01:04:19,960 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: A little cruel.

1482
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Jared's not cruel at all.

1483
01:04:25,120 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 3: Maybe I'm born a little cruel.

1484
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 1: It is admitted that I cried and some boyfriends were laughed,

1485
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 1: and boyfriends are crying, So maybe I'm a little crul Yeah,

1486
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 1: I just know. Yeah, You're just born in a way.

1487
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

1488
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 3: Okay, Jared, what is Shan's favorite color?

1489
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with.

1490
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:44,920
Speaker 2: Hint, it's around.

1491
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 1: Peach.

1492
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:50,920
Speaker 3: Yes, I was gonna say peach anyways, yeah, overall pet.

1493
01:04:51,000 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 3: What's her overall pet?

1494
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 2: Peeve?

1495
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 1: Ah, you wouldn't guess this talking too much? Yeah, too

1496
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 1: much communic in there.

1497
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 6: I know.

1498
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: What's her pet?

1499
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 2: When it comes to you.

1500
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:14,480
Speaker 1: Uh uh. If you get this, you get aheaded right now.

1501
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 1: I'd like to watch think, let me think, let me

1502
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:19,680
Speaker 1: get this right.

1503
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 2: I can't take criticism, no head for silence when we

1504
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:30,040
Speaker 2: should chat.

1505
01:05:30,600 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 1: Oh I could see that. Yeah, yeah, that's right.

1506
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 3: That's what is Shan's childhood pet's name?

1507
01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 1: Uh?

1508
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 2: It was like, yeah, yeah, baby.

1509
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 3: What would Shan say is her best quality?

1510
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 5: Her intelligence?

1511
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 1: Yep?

1512
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 3: What is her worst quality? What would she think is

1513
01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 3: her worst quality?

1514
01:05:58,080 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 1: She's mean?

1515
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:03,959
Speaker 3: Criticalness, critical? What is something she's most sensitive about?

1516
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 5: Her education?

1517
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 3: Motherhood, motherhood?

1518
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 2: What write that for your dint write the fatherhood or parenting?

1519
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 3: He's surprised.

1520
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 2: He's a prize.

1521
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 1: That the kids killing it.

1522
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 2: Everyone everyone in the family knows killing You.

1523
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 5: Know, I'm not gonna share.

1524
01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 1: Because there's mon.

1525
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 5: When Zia was smiling at me, they were like, I

1526
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 5: don't think she knows who I am. She doesn't give

1527
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 5: that smile.

1528
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:37,120
Speaker 2: To me, know, who I am.

1529
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 1: She does she does and Jared did do that. He's like, no, no,

1530
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 1: she she knows you.

1531
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 3: She was inside of you.

1532
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got time together, she's got familiars trying to

1533
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 1: people out right now, Oh my god, you.

1534
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 2: Have to stop.

1535
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,440
Speaker 3: Your dad is a being too critical of your motherhood.

1536
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:59,160
Speaker 3: She knows you, Okay, she loves you, she is you. Okay,

1537
01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 3: thank you for the app information.

1538
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 5: That's a new one.

1539
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:05,440
Speaker 3: What have you accomplished? What is she accomplished that she's

1540
01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:08,440
Speaker 3: most proud of? Uh?

1541
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 5: Do you think it was your degree? Your business relationship?

1542
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, yeah, your relationship? Yeah, yeah, with love with Jared?

1543
01:07:22,000 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 3: You now we know the order of what, like, how

1544
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,040
Speaker 3: you think of Shan's like it's business degree?

1545
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 1: Is that how you like?

1546
01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:33,840
Speaker 5: I guess the conversations that we would have mostly will

1547
01:07:33,960 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 5: revolve around business or you know, relationships.

1548
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 1: It wouldn't.

1549
01:07:37,800 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 5: I don't know if we talk like I I before, Yeah,

1550
01:07:40,720 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 5: like that. I don't know if it was a dirty

1551
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 5: talker like something.

1552
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I would do that.

1553
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 2: Accomplishment doesn't really roll off the tongue.

1554
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:57,160
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, this is my greatest Yes, yeah it does.

1555
01:07:57,760 --> 01:07:58,880
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna do it tomorrow.

1556
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 1: You guys do accomplish atomlish like me.

1557
01:08:04,760 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 3: What would Shan say as a deal breaker in her relationship.

1558
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,960
Speaker 1: Is uh, probably.

1559
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:23,720
Speaker 5: Laziness. I don't know what it's not mean?

1560
01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 1: What is it?

1561
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 2: Bored? I'm stunted growth, stunted growth.

1562
01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, if I felt like we got to a place where.

1563
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 5: It ain't going nowhere is it?

1564
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 2: There's nothing else I can learn from you?

1565
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:34,600
Speaker 1: Aspire me.

1566
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm bored around you. I always want the TV

1567
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:39,560
Speaker 2: on or an AirPod in.

1568
01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:44,400
Speaker 3: That's one, yeah, done, just one though, because I'm kind

1569
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 3: of ten, sort of listening.

1570
01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 1: You're not dying, leaving hope a lot.

1571
01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:51,639
Speaker 3: I'm really listening for the kids. But where does Shan

1572
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 3: like to shop? Grocery shop?

1573
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 5: Sprouse?

1574
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:59,800
Speaker 1: You got back it up? Back it up, back it up.

1575
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 1: You're talking about before sprouts. There's oh, before you can

1576
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:08,640
Speaker 1: get to sprouts, you gotta go to How does she.

1577
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:09,759
Speaker 3: Get the sprouts delivered?

1578
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 1: How does she get the you're talking about? You talking

1579
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 1: about the apes?

1580
01:09:17,360 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 5: That's not a grocery store.

1581
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 2: It is It's all it is, girls, It's stupid how

1582
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:29,400
Speaker 2: low the delivery fee is?

1583
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 1: So you just do it? Episode of sponsored But yeah,

1584
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 1: favorite musical artists of all time. There's only two, could

1585
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:46,799
Speaker 1: possibly be no Prince close, Prince closes Michael Jackson.

1586
01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:47,720
Speaker 5: Michael Jackson is.

1587
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:49,720
Speaker 1: Why would you say Prince like that? I know, not

1588
01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: not nearly like yon Michael Jackson. Okay, young Thug before Prince. Really,

1589
01:09:56,240 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 1: that's disrespectful.

1590
01:09:57,040 --> 01:10:00,200
Speaker 2: I'm going to take what Orlando removed that from the little.

1591
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,639
Speaker 1: I wrote that from the audio. We're believing that out

1592
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 1: for sure. I like Prince. Don't forget who you are,

1593
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: the reason why, the reason why I named it. I

1594
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 1: like Prince a lot.

1595
01:10:13,800 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 2: I'm trying to side with you. Are trying to isolate me. Yeah,

1596
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 2: she said that she'll choose young Thug over Prince, your

1597
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:20,719
Speaker 2: favorite artist.

1598
01:10:20,760 --> 01:10:22,880
Speaker 1: I never said that was the favorite artist of all time.

1599
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,000
Speaker 1: I like him a lot. You said he's the most

1600
01:10:25,040 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: influential artist on you.

1601
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,840
Speaker 5: Yeah that's true, But that doesn't mean I'm against Prince,

1602
01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:32,439
Speaker 5: not saying you're a gem, but I would never scoff

1603
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 5: at Prince. You can't play young Thug above Prince.

1604
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:39,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did it for you. Look at the sacrifice making.

1605
01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:43,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to be publicly shame and amiliated.

1606
01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 1: Now, No, we love Prince. We love Prince.

1607
01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:49,120
Speaker 2: This is a prince and young loving family.

1608
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:51,680
Speaker 3: I don't know what what princess fans are called, but

1609
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:55,080
Speaker 3: they're coming for you. The purple rains I have not yet.

1610
01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:58,840
Speaker 3: What is her what is her guilty pleasure?

1611
01:10:59,360 --> 01:10:59,559
Speaker 1: Oh?

1612
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 5: Icing?

1613
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1614
01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 2: You really do love icing?

1615
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:08,719
Speaker 1: I really do do. Why are we talking about this camera?

1616
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 3: She's like, I got really excited we're going to talk

1617
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 3: about cake now.

1618
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't have a scoop of icing a day.

1619
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:18,320
Speaker 3: Probably probably asked me the oddest question one's ever asked me.

1620
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:20,559
Speaker 3: She's like, so, do you do you like icing?

1621
01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,000
Speaker 2: Like you do you need icing on your cake? And

1622
01:11:24,080 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm like, I was like, is this

1623
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:28,559
Speaker 2: a trick question?

1624
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 3: Like talking about cake and ice code for do you

1625
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:37,639
Speaker 3: like icing? I do like icing on my Shan.

1626
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: Anyway, I established that you can be satisfied with the

1627
01:11:42,400 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 1: piece of cake without icing. That separates us. I know

1628
01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,040
Speaker 1: it's true, but icing is the cake for me.

1629
01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:49,080
Speaker 3: It's true. I do the cake has to be extra

1630
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:51,800
Speaker 3: sweet like icing. I just I don't. Yeah, I like

1631
01:11:51,840 --> 01:11:53,759
Speaker 3: I I even like fond it, which is not taste

1632
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:54,960
Speaker 3: like anything, it's just fair.

1633
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 1: I like that too. Yeah.

1634
01:11:57,479 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 3: What is Shan's favorite porn category?

1635
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:06,200
Speaker 1: Is it?

1636
01:12:11,080 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 6: Is it?

1637
01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:13,519
Speaker 1: Like, if we watch porn together, you wouldn't be so

1638
01:12:13,560 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 1: stumped right now.

1639
01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:25,800
Speaker 5: You didn't get money either, What would it be? Uh, storylines?

1640
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:28,360
Speaker 5: I don't know the story, so you.

1641
01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:29,560
Speaker 1: Watch I don't know. You tell me.

1642
01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:32,760
Speaker 3: I want to search storyline porn today when I get

1643
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 3: home media, what.

1644
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:36,679
Speaker 1: Do you watch? What you don't want to go to? Second?

1645
01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:37,879
Speaker 5: What's your category?

1646
01:12:38,400 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 2: Lesbian orgy outside slash?

1647
01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 5: These are that's very specific?

1648
01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:44,880
Speaker 2: Solds are mine? Yeah?

1649
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1650
01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:49,679
Speaker 1: Public? I like yeah, public, lesbian, Like my favorite porn

1651
01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:51,639
Speaker 1: was like a bunch of lesbians at a water park

1652
01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:54,920
Speaker 1: or a bunch of lesbians. They should say a bunch

1653
01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:57,320
Speaker 1: of lesbians. They're not necessarily lesbians. A bunch of people

1654
01:12:57,400 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: with all of us having sex together who are paid

1655
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,360
Speaker 1: to do so, we're not even be like attracted to

1656
01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 1: each other. You're so click in a Thanksgiving kitchen setting.

1657
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 3: Well, mine is lesbians who had sex in a gym

1658
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 3: together on a mat. It was great.

1659
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 1: I don't know if their leve fans, but they were

1660
01:13:13,560 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: on that. They were then they were we have to

1661
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:15,920
Speaker 1: do that now.

1662
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 5: But well, if you watch lesbian porn, you have to

1663
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 5: be like, they're probably not lesbian, but they got paid

1664
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:23,720
Speaker 5: to do we.

1665
01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:24,120
Speaker 1: Don't have to.

1666
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 3: I'm going off what the title search was. Okay, that's

1667
01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 3: what the search says. That's what you signed up category.

1668
01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 1: You probably like, that's not really Verene.

1669
01:13:35,200 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 5: That's just like the guy playing the worlde.

1670
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 1: You know, it's like, yeah, we get it.

1671
01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:43,680
Speaker 3: How old was Shan when she lost her virginity? And

1672
01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 3: where was it?

1673
01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:47,320
Speaker 1: I know it was that a track? Is you that

1674
01:13:47,360 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 1: a track somewhere?

1675
01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:52,000
Speaker 5: I'm going to say, like seventeen eighteen on a track,

1676
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:55,560
Speaker 5: like a real track. No, like they were competing. I

1677
01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:56,719
Speaker 5: don't remember the age.

1678
01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:58,800
Speaker 1: But I know I know where was you know it

1679
01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 1: was in America, both more a lot more exotic, some

1680
01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: respect on.

1681
01:14:04,120 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 2: It got Baltimore.

1682
01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:07,599
Speaker 1: This has Sean been to Baltimore.

1683
01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:13,519
Speaker 2: I went to university in Baltimore. Yeah, I was sixteen

1684
01:14:13,640 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 2: in Hungary.

1685
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 1: I was memorable.

1686
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:18,919
Speaker 2: Was he Hungarian?

1687
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 6: No?

1688
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:23,240
Speaker 2: He was British. Were hungry for track?

1689
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:24,000
Speaker 1: Ye?

1690
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 3: She was out the country fucking okay, I got part

1691
01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:31,759
Speaker 3: of it. She Wow, it's very that's very elevated losing virginity.

1692
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 1: First, I'm not it wasn't. It wasn't elevated, but it

1693
01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:37,640
Speaker 1: was just like yeah, but it was like in a

1694
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,599
Speaker 1: hotel room. Like my own hotel room. I brought him

1695
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: back to my hotel room. I like seduced him.

1696
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:45,160
Speaker 2: It was like really like it was actually you know what,

1697
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:46,440
Speaker 2: it was elevated.

1698
01:14:49,760 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: Wine.

1699
01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:59,640
Speaker 2: Actually it was actually actually pretty bad bitch of me

1700
01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:00,439
Speaker 2: to do it. Sixteen.

1701
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:04,759
Speaker 1: So I was I did photography, so I was running,

1702
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 1: but I was like, I'm taking a picture of all

1703
01:15:06,080 --> 01:15:07,760
Speaker 1: the hot dudes because I fucking love a hot dudes.

1704
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:09,519
Speaker 1: I'm taking shots of all the hot dudes. So I

1705
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 1: went to him, I'm like, you are so sexy and

1706
01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:13,200
Speaker 1: can take a picture. And he was like, oh, like

1707
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm I'm really doing it right now, so if you

1708
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,680
Speaker 1: can come back light and I was just like, I

1709
01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 1: don't have later right now, and he's like I've got

1710
01:15:19,600 --> 01:15:21,240
Speaker 1: to go, Walsh. I'm like, come back to my place

1711
01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: and shower. I'll pick your photo.

1712
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:25,879
Speaker 2: Wow, right, okay sixteen.

1713
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:28,160
Speaker 1: So he comes back to my place.

1714
01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 3: Did you know you want to have sex?

1715
01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:32,800
Speaker 2: I had never had sex before. I think I had

1716
01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 2: must have it. Come back to my place at my hotel.

1717
01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 1: He showered, and then he comes out and he was like,

1718
01:15:39,439 --> 01:15:42,120
Speaker 1: I need a shirt now, and so then I handed

1719
01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: him a shirt, but he was only cracking the door open,

1720
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:46,800
Speaker 1: and then he grabbed the shirt and then I pulled him.

1721
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:52,640
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, right, I want This was sixteen also, yes, and.

1722
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:54,800
Speaker 1: I was fuck. I know I was his first.

1723
01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 2: I didn't know that till ten years later.

1724
01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 5: But and it was like a first first yeah.

1725
01:15:59,120 --> 01:16:04,800
Speaker 3: J Cole, Yeah, wow, I'm proud of you, said, she's

1726
01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:07,800
Speaker 3: a young woman. Yeah that's great.

1727
01:16:07,840 --> 01:16:08,040
Speaker 1: Wow.

1728
01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 3: What moment did you know you loved him? What moment

1729
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:13,160
Speaker 3: did she know she loved you?

1730
01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:14,000
Speaker 1: Oh?

1731
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:15,880
Speaker 5: When we were sitting in the car.

1732
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:20,240
Speaker 1: No, wrong, wrong, that's what she said. I know, I know.

1733
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:25,040
Speaker 2: That's the one I knew you were my life partner.

1734
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:26,400
Speaker 2: That's when I was like, I'm going.

1735
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:26,960
Speaker 1: To bury him.

1736
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 5: I don't know when did you? When did you know you?

1737
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:31,759
Speaker 1: When did you know you you love me? I wrote

1738
01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:35,360
Speaker 1: sex only because technically Jared was the first person to

1739
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 1: say I love you to me, But oftentimes when we

1740
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:40,560
Speaker 1: were having sex, I would like have the urge to

1741
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:42,280
Speaker 1: say I love you, and I would say something like

1742
01:16:42,280 --> 01:16:44,040
Speaker 1: I want to say some crazy ship to you right now,

1743
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:47,040
Speaker 1: and he would never follow up. So I feel like

1744
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:48,680
Speaker 1: he knew it was I love you. You didn't want

1745
01:16:48,720 --> 01:16:52,559
Speaker 1: to hear it. Yeah, I've definitely said that before.

1746
01:16:52,600 --> 01:16:52,720
Speaker 5: Too.

1747
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:59,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, roma'sun What is Shan's biggest fear?

1748
01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 5: Uh, well, it's not me working with you.

1749
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 3: Don't leave me?

1750
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:11,240
Speaker 1: Now, it is don't leave me?

1751
01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 2: Well, there's you dying?

1752
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:19,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, well for real, that's scary. There's I love you?

1753
01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:19,679
Speaker 2: If you die?

1754
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:22,160
Speaker 1: Can you fucked up? It'd be so fucked up?

1755
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 2: I know, it's like the darkest dark fears.

1756
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:25,320
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1757
01:17:26,040 --> 01:17:30,439
Speaker 1: What's your favorite sex position? Guess the only way you're

1758
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:33,639
Speaker 1: is going to leave me? What dying?

1759
01:17:33,840 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, just hammered that home.

1760
01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 5: Big Your favorite sex position?

1761
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1762
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:47,479
Speaker 5: Would it be like you on your side?

1763
01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1764
01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:50,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, on your side and like me behind you, like

1765
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:52,720
Speaker 5: laying next to you. What is it called? I don't know.

1766
01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:56,040
Speaker 3: On my side for uninterrupted clip access is what it's called?

1767
01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 2: Maybe o S?

1768
01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:59,400
Speaker 1: Is that your favorite position? Like your favorite?

1769
01:17:59,439 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 5: Like that's the.

1770
01:17:59,880 --> 01:18:03,280
Speaker 1: One, Yeah, I mean it's my favorite for different reasons,

1771
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:07,400
Speaker 1: like if I want clip plus dick for my best orgasm,

1772
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 1: it's that it's that. Yeah, But I think even favorite

1773
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 1: favorite color, like we all favorite colors, Like it's within

1774
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:14,519
Speaker 1: what like to wear?

1775
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 2: Maybe what brings you joy? It's a favorite position.

1776
01:18:17,640 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: My favorite positions that I just like for us bonding

1777
01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:22,080
Speaker 1: some that I like because I like the mirror, the

1778
01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: way it looks in the mirror. Something I like because

1779
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 1: it feels like you get a good angle. And I

1780
01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 1: like for uninterrupted click click access. Okay, it's like a

1781
01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:32,760
Speaker 1: it's a holy girl. You know you can go to

1782
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:35,760
Speaker 1: it and it needs to do. I was having that

1783
01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 1: conpetation today actually with this that couple that was here,

1784
01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 1: and we were talking about best sex, and it's like,

1785
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:44,880
Speaker 1: as you get older, like good sex has such a

1786
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 1: wide definition because sometimes your best orgasm it's not your

1787
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:52,240
Speaker 1: best sexual experience, and sometimes your best sexual experiences don't

1788
01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 1: have orgasms, like they're great for different reasons. Yeah, that's true.

1789
01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 3: That is true. Okay, what is uh? Does sham like

1790
01:19:02,320 --> 01:19:03,400
Speaker 3: to save or spend money?

1791
01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:07,720
Speaker 1: I mean she probably put save, but I don't think

1792
01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 1: that's true.

1793
01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:11,639
Speaker 3: She did put the same she's she likes to spend.

1794
01:19:11,479 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 1: That John, I check our bank account like you check

1795
01:19:14,200 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 1: your credit score. I was like seeing it like Scrooge McDuck.

1796
01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:20,200
Speaker 1: I like seeing that ship. I like looking at it

1797
01:19:20,479 --> 01:19:21,920
Speaker 1: like like.

1798
01:19:22,040 --> 01:19:22,759
Speaker 5: You like flexing.

1799
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:26,360
Speaker 1: Now, I like spending, but I like having there's a

1800
01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:28,479
Speaker 1: limit where I'm let's stop spending because I want to

1801
01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: look and.

1802
01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:30,600
Speaker 5: Let it grow a little. Yeah, yeah, I know.

1803
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:33,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, makes money makes me wet?

1804
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:34,240
Speaker 5: Sure?

1805
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:37,679
Speaker 3: What is who is her celebrity crush?

1806
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:40,519
Speaker 5: You neither?

1807
01:19:40,680 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 3: I don't know who.

1808
01:19:42,160 --> 01:19:45,080
Speaker 2: He's actually involved in a pretty heavy scandal right.

1809
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:45,640
Speaker 5: Now, is he?

1810
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1811
01:19:46,720 --> 01:19:47,800
Speaker 3: This is this one person?

1812
01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1813
01:19:48,680 --> 01:19:49,639
Speaker 3: What is a long name?

1814
01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:50,679
Speaker 2: Oh there's two names?

1815
01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 1: Okay.

1816
01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:53,680
Speaker 5: I was like, hm, I have no idea who your

1817
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 5: lavery crush is.

1818
01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:56,599
Speaker 2: You wouldn't know, Naymar Junior?

1819
01:19:57,840 --> 01:19:59,439
Speaker 1: Who soccer player?

1820
01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:00,639
Speaker 5: Sorry player?

1821
01:20:00,920 --> 01:20:05,200
Speaker 2: Is he in the scandal? So fine, he's in the scandal,

1822
01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 2: but he's in court right now, some kind of gambling scandal.

1823
01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:10,080
Speaker 1: Lou are L? Yeah?

1824
01:20:10,200 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 3: Who is Laurel?

1825
01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:13,720
Speaker 2: He's one of my I'm really into Denbo right now?

1826
01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:18,160
Speaker 1: To what Denbo? It's like Dominican Republic Soka. Oh okay,

1827
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:21,000
Speaker 1: so he's an artist, Yeah, he's an artist, Laurel lay.

1828
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:24,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, I got check out the Spanish guys.

1829
01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:30,120
Speaker 2: Brasilient. So maybe yeah. How do you feel?

1830
01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:33,320
Speaker 3: How does she feel about nominogamy? She's for it, she

1831
01:20:33,400 --> 01:20:37,880
Speaker 3: put her heart. What is her favorite memory of your relationship?

1832
01:20:40,800 --> 01:20:40,920
Speaker 1: Was it?

1833
01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:42,599
Speaker 5: Is it when we were walking and that guy fell

1834
01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 5: on the stairs?

1835
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:52,040
Speaker 1: What you think? I'm real evil? You saw that guy

1836
01:20:52,160 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 1: fall down the stairs. What's your favorite memory that? Why

1837
01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:58,040
Speaker 1: would that be your favorite?

1838
01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:01,920
Speaker 5: Jared harder than I've ever seen or laugh in an

1839
01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 5: entire relationship.

1840
01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:04,320
Speaker 2: So what was it?

1841
01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:06,519
Speaker 6: That's fair?

1842
01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:09,479
Speaker 5: What does she write? What does she write?

1843
01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:14,920
Speaker 3: The beach and Turks? Okay, romantics? It was more romantical.

1844
01:21:15,280 --> 01:21:18,559
Speaker 2: It was me, No, it was me and him and yeah,

1845
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:21,840
Speaker 2: we go every single day. We were like quarantining in

1846
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:23,360
Speaker 2: a house for a month in Turks.

1847
01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 1: And Caicos and the only place you could go to

1848
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:27,680
Speaker 1: is the beach, and we would go every day and like,

1849
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:28,559
Speaker 1: I always remember that.

1850
01:21:28,640 --> 01:21:29,280
Speaker 5: That's beautiful.

1851
01:21:30,520 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 2: What do you think?

1852
01:21:32,160 --> 01:21:35,439
Speaker 1: How you so well? Last time I wouldn't write this question?

1853
01:21:36,000 --> 01:21:36,360
Speaker 5: What do you think?

1854
01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:36,920
Speaker 1: What do you wish?

1855
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 5: I saw myself that more? You see me?

1856
01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:39,720
Speaker 1: Yes?

1857
01:21:39,800 --> 01:22:06,160
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, answering this. I thought you was answering this.

1858
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 2: That's what was happening this whole time.

1859
01:22:13,120 --> 01:22:15,400
Speaker 1: I thought you was answering this. I thought you was answer.

1860
01:22:18,520 --> 01:22:22,160
Speaker 2: I swear, I was like, are they I starring? I

1861
01:22:22,240 --> 01:22:25,040
Speaker 2: didn't really think of the deepest answer all the time

1862
01:22:25,240 --> 01:22:25,839
Speaker 2: I thought.

1863
01:22:25,680 --> 01:22:29,800
Speaker 1: He was doing I was like I thought I thought that.

1864
01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:31,519
Speaker 2: I was like, is he doing what? She said?

1865
01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:33,040
Speaker 1: Oh? Oh you okay?

1866
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 2: Now understand, he said so confidently, like he knew the

1867
01:22:36,000 --> 01:22:36,959
Speaker 2: question about.

1868
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 5: What's your answer? Okay, all right, wall I saw myself,

1869
01:22:43,240 --> 01:22:44,360
Speaker 5: which you see in me?

1870
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,439
Speaker 1: What What do you wish you saw?

1871
01:22:47,520 --> 01:22:47,680
Speaker 6: More?

1872
01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:50,719
Speaker 1: What? Sis? What a sham?

1873
01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 5: Wish that I see in myself more?

1874
01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:52,880
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1875
01:22:54,600 --> 01:23:00,040
Speaker 5: Uh that I'm.

1876
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:04,320
Speaker 1: Yeah intelligent.

1877
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:06,360
Speaker 2: I don't know I could have put that.

1878
01:23:06,640 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 5: What did you put?

1879
01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:10,120
Speaker 2: I put sex face, Jared, sex face Jare What does

1880
01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 2: that mean? There is like a level of I want

1881
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:21,880
Speaker 2: to call it cruelty and confidence and just like mastery

1882
01:23:22,280 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 2: that is on your face when we have sex that

1883
01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 2: I wish I saw elsewhere.

1884
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:32,720
Speaker 1: In the world on wallpaper. Yeah, something like if I

1885
01:23:32,880 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 1: saw that more like when you're talking to people and

1886
01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:39,720
Speaker 1: just like a like a firmness, like yeah, it's like

1887
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:42,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I can fuck you up, but I'm going

1888
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:44,240
Speaker 1: to fuck you up. Okay.

1889
01:23:45,360 --> 01:23:46,360
Speaker 3: I like I like that.

1890
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 2: I like that.

1891
01:23:48,240 --> 01:23:50,400
Speaker 3: I feel like, well, I think also because people feel

1892
01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:52,639
Speaker 3: most because I feel like I've seen that in men too,

1893
01:23:52,720 --> 01:23:54,599
Speaker 3: Like women and men it's like where we feel most

1894
01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:56,639
Speaker 3: vulnerable and like most empowered sometimes too.

1895
01:23:57,040 --> 01:23:58,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's a mix, right, like you're letting go,

1896
01:23:59,200 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 2: but you're also lights vulnerable.

1897
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:07,160
Speaker 3: Vulnerable, basically your exposed vulnerability, which is in its essence

1898
01:24:07,640 --> 01:24:09,519
Speaker 3: masculine and alpha and dominant.

1899
01:24:10,400 --> 01:24:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if you cried, extra bonus, Jared, if you

1900
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:19,599
Speaker 1: have that confident, hot sex face and then a tear

1901
01:24:19,720 --> 01:24:20,280
Speaker 1: dropped down.

1902
01:24:20,960 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 5: Damn, what is this like?

1903
01:24:22,760 --> 01:24:23,879
Speaker 1: My digit? Washington?

1904
01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:25,080
Speaker 5: And what's that movie?

1905
01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:26,639
Speaker 1: You seen that movie?

1906
01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:28,479
Speaker 2: No, but I will watch it tonight.

1907
01:24:29,680 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 5: I'm not that guy.

1908
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 1: Okay.

1909
01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:36,320
Speaker 3: Well, that's the that concludes the questions. Guys, are pretty good,

1910
01:24:37,120 --> 01:24:39,040
Speaker 3: do we win? I think you have to start watching

1911
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:42,400
Speaker 3: porn together. I'm gonna I'm not a sexologist yet, and

1912
01:24:42,439 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 3: then school to become one. That's the prescription. But I'm

1913
01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:51,400
Speaker 3: prescribing porn watching for sure. Feeding Shan icing at any

1914
01:24:51,400 --> 01:24:54,439
Speaker 3: given moment, you need to stop putting the tea bags

1915
01:24:54,439 --> 01:24:58,519
Speaker 3: in the goddamn sink, Shan Okay, it's.

1916
01:24:58,400 --> 01:24:58,960
Speaker 1: Not gonna melt.

1917
01:25:01,920 --> 01:25:03,519
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, before we get out of here, we pulled

1918
01:25:03,600 --> 01:25:05,120
Speaker 3: cards at the top of the show, and we just

1919
01:25:05,200 --> 01:25:06,519
Speaker 3: want to see if they resonate with you.

1920
01:25:06,600 --> 01:25:09,920
Speaker 2: Guys who pulled yea the Awakening.

1921
01:25:11,040 --> 01:25:14,280
Speaker 1: It's a pregnant woman with the dolphins in the sunset

1922
01:25:14,320 --> 01:25:16,280
Speaker 1: behind me. I know this can't happen. This can't happen.

1923
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:18,559
Speaker 5: I just gotta have a secondy. It's not happening. Nobody

1924
01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:19,280
Speaker 5: getting pregnant.

1925
01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:21,799
Speaker 3: You can impregnate yourself.

1926
01:25:22,040 --> 01:25:25,480
Speaker 2: Oh h embodiment.

1927
01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:28,400
Speaker 4: You are vibrating at a higher frequency, so you see

1928
01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:29,639
Speaker 4: everything differently.

1929
01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:31,559
Speaker 2: This is Goddess rising.

1930
01:25:31,840 --> 01:25:34,560
Speaker 4: You're waking up, and once you have experienced awakening, you

1931
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 4: can never go back to not knowing. The path of

1932
01:25:37,400 --> 01:25:40,840
Speaker 4: awakening is not straight, comfortable or easy. You have chosen

1933
01:25:40,920 --> 01:25:43,040
Speaker 4: to lift the veil and have a real relationship with

1934
01:25:43,120 --> 01:25:46,920
Speaker 4: the divine. You didn't come to transcend, transcend this world

1935
01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:49,120
Speaker 4: while you're living in it. You came here to dig

1936
01:25:49,200 --> 01:25:51,280
Speaker 4: into the soil, plant yourself and grow.

1937
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:54,479
Speaker 5: You hit the record, but the red Bunton.

1938
01:25:54,479 --> 01:25:56,360
Speaker 2: The ascension is your divine purpose.

1939
01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then all of.

1940
01:26:00,840 --> 01:26:07,200
Speaker 3: Them didn't stop recording second ago thirty minutes. Okay, do

1941
01:26:07,600 --> 01:26:11,960
Speaker 3: we need to read that back. They're getting crazy.

1942
01:26:13,520 --> 01:26:17,240
Speaker 4: You're vibrating at a higher frequency, so you see everything differently.

1943
01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:18,679
Speaker 1: This is Goddess rising.

1944
01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:21,680
Speaker 4: You're waking up, and once you've experienced awakening, you can

1945
01:26:21,760 --> 01:26:24,439
Speaker 4: never go back to not knowing. The path of awakening

1946
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:27,200
Speaker 4: is not straight, comfortable or easy. You have chosen to

1947
01:26:27,280 --> 01:26:29,920
Speaker 4: lift the veil and have a real relationship with the divine.

1948
01:26:30,360 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 4: You didn't come to transcend this world while you're living

1949
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:34,519
Speaker 4: in it. You came here to dig into the soil,

1950
01:26:34,640 --> 01:26:38,240
Speaker 4: plant yourself and grow. This ascension is your divine purpose.

1951
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:41,280
Speaker 4: That feel, does that resonate with you?

1952
01:26:43,360 --> 01:26:43,839
Speaker 2: Everybody?

1953
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:45,920
Speaker 5: Everybody should want that.

1954
01:26:50,120 --> 01:26:50,920
Speaker 3: I put a little tear.

1955
01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:57,000
Speaker 1: Do you see that in me? I think I'm so

1956
01:26:57,200 --> 01:27:00,160
Speaker 1: committed to not investing in this type of stuff that

1957
01:27:00,640 --> 01:27:06,560
Speaker 1: it makes it difficult for me. That's me admitting that

1958
01:27:06,840 --> 01:27:08,280
Speaker 1: I have to have a bias.

1959
01:27:08,479 --> 01:27:10,799
Speaker 2: I have a bias that I have to check myself.

1960
01:27:10,800 --> 01:27:11,719
Speaker 5: I have an awakening.

1961
01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:14,400
Speaker 2: You are happy to wait? You really are?

1962
01:27:15,040 --> 01:27:16,519
Speaker 3: He's really he's awakening.

1963
01:27:20,920 --> 01:27:21,840
Speaker 1: Let me have my moment.

1964
01:27:22,760 --> 01:27:24,000
Speaker 2: We do the show, shut.

1965
01:27:26,840 --> 01:27:27,280
Speaker 1: Our shop.

1966
01:27:30,120 --> 01:27:31,560
Speaker 2: He is awakening. I can see it.

1967
01:27:32,320 --> 01:27:37,559
Speaker 3: I believe now today. Okay, okay, you got I don't

1968
01:27:37,600 --> 01:27:38,760
Speaker 3: even know how to say this. This is These are

1969
01:27:38,840 --> 01:27:40,720
Speaker 3: new cards, guys. This is the This is the is

1970
01:27:40,800 --> 01:27:46,920
Speaker 3: the African Goddess rising that the radical rebirth. Dust yourself off,

1971
01:27:47,040 --> 01:27:49,799
Speaker 3: move forward and go forward again. Life is about transition

1972
01:27:49,920 --> 01:27:51,600
Speaker 3: and change. You will fall in your face, change your

1973
01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:53,479
Speaker 3: mind and need to and need to make a comeback

1974
01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:56,080
Speaker 3: again and again. Release the idea that you messed up things.

1975
01:27:56,120 --> 01:27:59,040
Speaker 3: If you aren't perfect, stop wanting to be ready, make

1976
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 3: new choices and just decisions. And the affirmation is still

1977
01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:03,280
Speaker 3: I rise.

1978
01:28:11,840 --> 01:28:14,200
Speaker 1: Screenshot that every morning.

1979
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:17,600
Speaker 2: You guys have transitions.

1980
01:28:17,720 --> 01:28:21,240
Speaker 1: I resonates this to me, feels like you fucked up

1981
01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:23,200
Speaker 1: and now you gotta toutch yourself up and try again.

1982
01:28:26,160 --> 01:28:28,439
Speaker 1: I heard like, hey, your buds get canceled. No, no,

1983
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:33,400
Speaker 1: oh my god, she has she has social media anxiety.

1984
01:28:34,120 --> 01:28:36,000
Speaker 6: She's like, god, the comments section.

1985
01:28:37,960 --> 01:28:38,400
Speaker 1: Cancel me.

1986
01:28:40,680 --> 01:28:43,200
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you know the cars are just a reminder,

1987
01:28:43,320 --> 01:28:45,760
Speaker 3: not even necessarily always for you, sometimes the messages for

1988
01:28:45,840 --> 01:28:48,160
Speaker 3: other people in the room, people who are listening. If

1989
01:28:48,200 --> 01:28:50,519
Speaker 3: that resonates with you, take it for what it's worth.

1990
01:28:50,800 --> 01:28:54,720
Speaker 3: And you know, all you can do is choose what

1991
01:28:54,840 --> 01:28:56,720
Speaker 3: works for you and what you believe in. And we

1992
01:28:56,840 --> 01:28:58,680
Speaker 3: definitely don't want to force shit over here.

1993
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Speaker 1: So there was nothing to not like. No, it was

1994
01:29:01,120 --> 01:29:04,439
Speaker 1: a beautiful reading and experience. And I'm not a deeply

1995
01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:07,360
Speaker 1: so I'm the problem. Okay, Jerry's surprised.

1996
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Speaker 2: I forgot chance a little bit evil, so.

1997
01:29:11,280 --> 01:29:13,160
Speaker 1: Evil like you don't know because you don't.

1998
01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:14,040
Speaker 3: Said to send it song.

1999
01:29:14,080 --> 01:29:17,200
Speaker 2: I was listening fucking do you want to be evil?

2000
01:29:17,439 --> 01:29:18,040
Speaker 5: Have you said song?

2001
01:29:19,320 --> 01:29:20,200
Speaker 1: I know all about this.

2002
01:29:21,680 --> 01:29:23,120
Speaker 3: When he said I'm a little cool, That's a song

2003
01:29:23,160 --> 01:29:24,720
Speaker 3: that came in my head and I just saw like

2004
01:29:25,160 --> 01:29:29,320
Speaker 3: Shan with a witious outfit, like maybe because it's almost Halloween.

2005
01:29:30,400 --> 01:29:33,840
Speaker 2: Anyway, thank you guys, Thank you guys for coming on

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Speaker 2: the show.

2007
01:29:34,640 --> 01:29:37,080
Speaker 3: And before we leave, we've been asking all of our

2008
01:29:37,120 --> 01:29:39,760
Speaker 3: guests if you could offer one piece of advice for

2009
01:29:39,880 --> 01:29:43,000
Speaker 3: people that are married or are considering getting married. What

2010
01:29:43,080 --> 01:29:43,439
Speaker 3: would it be.

2011
01:29:46,120 --> 01:29:48,559
Speaker 2: I would say, fall in love with someone who you're

2012
01:29:48,800 --> 01:29:51,360
Speaker 2: excited to change.

2013
01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:56,040
Speaker 1: That makes sense. I chose Jared's a life partner because

2014
01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:59,800
Speaker 1: I get turned on by the idea of who he'll become,

2015
01:30:00,320 --> 01:30:02,599
Speaker 1: not because of his potential, but I'm like, every version

2016
01:30:02,640 --> 01:30:04,800
Speaker 1: of you has been so exciting and new and cool

2017
01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:07,040
Speaker 1: that I want to grow old with you, and I

2018
01:30:07,120 --> 01:30:09,560
Speaker 1: want to see what that looks like because it's like

2019
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:12,840
Speaker 1: been the hell of a ride. So I'm never afraid

2020
01:30:13,200 --> 01:30:15,160
Speaker 1: that Jared's going to change or switch up. I'm like

2021
01:30:15,240 --> 01:30:18,679
Speaker 1: excited by that, So I think I'll be switching change

2022
01:30:18,680 --> 01:30:18,960
Speaker 1: a lot.

2023
01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:21,719
Speaker 2: I'll be changing Jared changes as much as he change

2024
01:30:21,760 --> 01:30:22,040
Speaker 2: his hair.

2025
01:30:22,240 --> 01:30:22,679
Speaker 1: That's true.

2026
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:24,640
Speaker 5: I like this hair though it looks like thank you,

2027
01:30:24,800 --> 01:30:28,880
Speaker 5: I've been moving to shaken. Yeah, all right, advice, man,

2028
01:30:29,479 --> 01:30:34,400
Speaker 5: I hate giving advice. I think if I had one

2029
01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:41,559
Speaker 5: piece of advice for someone that's married, right, I would say, make.

2030
01:30:41,520 --> 01:30:46,840
Speaker 1: Sure that you can always.

2031
01:30:47,960 --> 01:30:50,920
Speaker 5: Speak through your emotions, like don't let the emotion talk.

2032
01:30:51,400 --> 01:30:53,080
Speaker 5: I think a lot of times when you're in relationships,

2033
01:30:53,080 --> 01:30:55,479
Speaker 5: it's really easy for your emotion to take over and

2034
01:30:55,560 --> 01:31:00,679
Speaker 5: you say things that you may regret. The pause button

2035
01:31:00,760 --> 01:31:03,320
Speaker 5: is the greatest weapon because you guys chose to be married,

2036
01:31:03,400 --> 01:31:05,200
Speaker 5: so you're not going anywhere. It's okay to pause a

2037
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:07,720
Speaker 5: fight and then come back to it later, which I

2038
01:31:07,800 --> 01:31:11,040
Speaker 5: had to learn and and come back to it. We're

2039
01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:13,679
Speaker 5: not emotional anymore. We can actually have a discussion.

2040
01:31:14,560 --> 01:31:16,120
Speaker 1: You don't want to say. I'm actually inspired by what

2041
01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:18,600
Speaker 1: you're doing. And even this interviews, I'm like, oh, like

2042
01:31:18,840 --> 01:31:21,639
Speaker 1: you're not jumping to answer questions, you know what I mean,

2043
01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:24,240
Speaker 1: Like you're giving yourself the space to process because these

2044
01:31:24,280 --> 01:31:26,519
Speaker 1: are not sometimes simple questions. You're giving the space to

2045
01:31:26,600 --> 01:31:29,200
Speaker 1: process it and then approach it with like your truth.

2046
01:31:29,360 --> 01:31:31,640
Speaker 2: So I think that that's like a small example of that.

2047
01:31:32,439 --> 01:31:32,680
Speaker 5: Thank you.

2048
01:31:33,800 --> 01:31:34,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's he's living it.

2049
01:31:35,040 --> 01:31:36,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that long ass pose, that one question.

2050
01:31:38,640 --> 01:31:42,920
Speaker 1: I just know it was all right, I can't because

2051
01:31:43,000 --> 01:31:46,280
Speaker 1: the longer you pause to the higher the invitation for

2052
01:31:46,439 --> 01:31:47,280
Speaker 1: like you have to come.

2053
01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:47,840
Speaker 2: In some real ship.

2054
01:31:47,920 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 1: Now he was looking like he was really like.

2055
01:31:50,320 --> 01:31:51,400
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god.

2056
01:31:53,880 --> 01:31:56,479
Speaker 1: I was the confidence that it is taking to do this.

2057
01:31:56,960 --> 01:32:00,960
Speaker 1: I was in who told him this is good traumatic work.

2058
01:32:03,280 --> 01:32:04,240
Speaker 3: Wow, I love it.

2059
01:32:06,080 --> 01:32:06,599
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

2060
01:32:06,640 --> 01:32:08,120
Speaker 3: Well, thank you guys so much for coming on.

2061
01:32:08,680 --> 01:32:09,680
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming over.

2062
01:32:10,640 --> 01:32:11,120
Speaker 2: Anytime.

2063
01:32:11,160 --> 01:32:11,680
Speaker 1: We'll come over.

2064
01:32:11,880 --> 01:32:14,840
Speaker 3: Okay, order car, order food and stuff. Because I don't

2065
01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:16,519
Speaker 3: like to cook much either, Shan, we can make me

2066
01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:17,760
Speaker 3: Jamila and Orlando cook.

2067
01:32:17,920 --> 01:32:18,600
Speaker 2: We cooked.

2068
01:32:20,160 --> 01:32:23,559
Speaker 1: A cooking couple. That's a waste. We got to switch

2069
01:32:23,600 --> 01:32:24,040
Speaker 1: you guys out.

2070
01:32:24,400 --> 01:32:25,479
Speaker 2: And I know it's crazy.

2071
01:32:25,560 --> 01:32:27,600
Speaker 3: Orlando texts me the other day He's like, hey, do

2072
01:32:27,600 --> 01:32:29,640
Speaker 3: you want any salt fish and ay? And I was like,

2073
01:32:29,880 --> 01:32:30,840
Speaker 3: what's It's.

2074
01:32:30,760 --> 01:32:33,479
Speaker 1: Just a good order I can make deliver this to me.

2075
01:32:34,120 --> 01:32:35,439
Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck?

2076
01:32:35,520 --> 01:32:36,080
Speaker 1: This is great?

2077
01:32:36,120 --> 01:32:36,840
Speaker 2: And then we get back.

2078
01:32:36,840 --> 01:32:38,639
Speaker 3: So this is why we have the tribe element, because

2079
01:32:38,680 --> 01:32:41,040
Speaker 3: there's certain leads of certain things in the tribe, and

2080
01:32:41,560 --> 01:32:43,120
Speaker 3: Orlando's got food on deck.

2081
01:32:44,920 --> 01:32:46,360
Speaker 1: So we gotta put you guys up. It's got to

2082
01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:48,320
Speaker 1: be like me and Orlando now and you.

2083
01:32:49,160 --> 01:32:51,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess it's an organ is all conjure one

2084
01:32:51,800 --> 01:32:52,719
Speaker 4: house and then everybody.

2085
01:32:53,080 --> 01:32:56,439
Speaker 1: We'll start at Disneyland. See where we go from. We're

2086
01:32:56,439 --> 01:32:57,960
Speaker 1: going to Disneyland. We're going to see how much of

2087
01:32:57,960 --> 01:32:58,759
Speaker 1: that private person?

2088
01:32:59,240 --> 01:32:59,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, we need that.

2089
01:33:00,800 --> 01:33:01,599
Speaker 3: That's happening.

2090
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:04,360
Speaker 1: So tell our people where they can find you, guys,

2091
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:07,560
Speaker 1: my podcasts Lovers and Friends. You guys will be a

2092
01:33:07,600 --> 01:33:10,960
Speaker 1: guest on there and repeat guests, which is very rare.

2093
01:33:11,080 --> 01:33:13,920
Speaker 1: You're phenomenal. I adore you and that's my space that

2094
01:33:14,040 --> 01:33:14,599
Speaker 1: I bring people.

2095
01:33:14,640 --> 01:33:18,920
Speaker 5: I love, thank you, enjoyed Jared Brady across all platforms,

2096
01:33:19,880 --> 01:33:21,760
Speaker 5: and that's where you can find me and all.

2097
01:33:22,200 --> 01:33:25,640
Speaker 3: Oh and you guys can find us obviously here but

2098
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:28,720
Speaker 3: also on Instagram at Good Mom's Bad Choices. Wait, Good

2099
01:33:28,760 --> 01:33:30,960
Speaker 3: Mom's Underscore Bad Choices. You think I know that after

2100
01:33:31,000 --> 01:33:34,680
Speaker 3: a fucking five years? Yeah, Jesus Christ. Make sure you

2101
01:33:34,760 --> 01:33:39,439
Speaker 3: follow us on Twitter at good Moms Moms.

2102
01:33:40,160 --> 01:33:40,320
Speaker 1: Right.

2103
01:33:41,680 --> 01:33:42,800
Speaker 2: And lastly, you.

2104
01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:46,960
Speaker 3: Guys, we announced our retreat in Costa Rica come through February.

2105
01:33:47,120 --> 01:33:48,840
Speaker 3: You have time to plan if you want to get

2106
01:33:48,920 --> 01:33:52,759
Speaker 3: free hang out with like minded women. It's just a vibe.

2107
01:33:52,840 --> 01:33:57,240
Speaker 3: It's just beautiful, releasing, healing, all the things, every little

2108
01:33:57,240 --> 01:33:59,439
Speaker 3: thing that you can think of. It's the good Vibe retreat.

2109
01:33:59,560 --> 01:34:02,040
Speaker 3: So hit the link in this episode description and check

2110
01:34:02,080 --> 01:34:03,720
Speaker 3: out the video because you can kind of see for

2111
01:34:03,800 --> 01:34:06,519
Speaker 3: yourself and see you guys next time.

2112
01:34:06,800 --> 01:34:18,720
Speaker 2: Bye bye, m.

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Speaker 1: M hm hm