WEBVTT - Baby Mama Drama 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:03.320 Welcome to Can'tley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and 0:00:03.360 --> 0:00:17.720 the Black Effects. And just like that, we're back with 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:22.120 yet another Kabuli Kabilly Carefully Reckless episode with your girl 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.200 Joshailari's we got my girl tailor here, say hey the 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:25.639 tailor Taylor. 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:26.759 Say hey you Hey. 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:29.480 All right, y'all, so we're gonna jump straight in because 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.040 and I did read this story. It may be some 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:34.360 grammatical errors, but I did read it. This is something 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:36.160 that I can relate to. I like when y'all write 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:38.680 me about things that I can kind of like relate 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:41.559 to based off of my personal experiences or my previous 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:44.120 or prior experiences, y'all. I like when y'all do that, 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:47.640 because that's where the real advice comes from. If you've 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:50.040 lived it, or if you're able to relate to a 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:52.880 situation that somebody else may be going through, it's easier 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:56.000 for you to just give advice, okay, especially if you've 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:59.560 made out better and your relationship, you know, based off 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:03.520 of your or your experience. So here we are. Hey, Jess, 0:01:03.680 --> 0:01:05.800 I'm writing this to you because I feel like you 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:08.080 can help me with my mess. I know your son's 0:01:08.080 --> 0:01:10.679 father has a lot of baby moms. So I know 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:13.680 you can help me and can understand how I feel. 0:01:13.959 --> 0:01:16.120 You were once in my shoes. First of all, I 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:18.800 don't tell me that I don't know. You know, I 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:21.560 don't know about your shoes yet because I was the first, 0:01:21.600 --> 0:01:23.920 the first baby mama, you know, to the other five 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:27.880 that he got, so so I know it is crazy. 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.400 Wait a minute, what's crazy that he is five? Like? 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:34.119 Oh girl, yes, Rome has kids on tops on kids 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:39.959 on kids on kids. But like another conversation, another conversation 0:01:40.240 --> 0:01:42.120 you want me to resume, Yeah, because you asked some 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:44.440 questions from me because I just want to know. Well, 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:45.679 it's not really you, it's it's. 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.480 Where his head is that like, you know what, he 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:49.840 always want to have a lot of kids. 0:01:49.920 --> 0:01:53.520 He always wanted a lot of kids. But I don't 0:01:53.520 --> 0:01:57.040 think Rome planned to have that many baby moms. Just 0:01:57.160 --> 0:02:00.880 when he realized that I wasn't going to allow him 0:02:00.920 --> 0:02:02.640 to sit back and cheat on me and all that 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:03.120 type shit. 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:05.200 I wasn't popping out another baby. I wasn't. 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:07.920 And then we were young, you know, and you know 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:09.799 what you want, but you don't you know what I'm saying, 0:02:09.840 --> 0:02:11.680 and the same things you want, what you want in 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:13.640 your early twenties will not be the same things that 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:14.840 you want your thirties all the. 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:15.480 Time, you know what I mean. 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:17.280 Heys, he always knew he wanted to get married and 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:21.040 have a big family, but he always still ended up cheating, 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:23.680 like he couldn't find Roma still to this day, exertion 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:24.440 for something. 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:27.600 That I don't think that he will find in women. 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:31.919 Because when his mother died when he was ten, Yeah, 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:34.720 that kind of like shaped the way he looked at 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:37.840 women because he was even upset with his mom for 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:40.960 a while for like dying, and she couldn't even control that, 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:43.560 you know what I'm saying. She had health issues, so 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:46.560 it was like, yo, you know. So I just think 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:50.160 that from all that trauma, he has never gotten the 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:53.440 help that he needs, and it definitely played a big 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:57.440 role in how he looks at women, you know, and 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:00.480 how he processes love from women because hes still looking 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.760 for a mom and these women he wants to be 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:06.240 nurtured and things like that, you know, And I'm like, yo, 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:08.000 that's two different types of love, you know. 0:03:08.040 --> 0:03:10.120 Yeah, that's so that's that. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.560 Don't ever make me open up about Rome. I know, 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:14.280 that's right. That was like a little therapeuty for me today. 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:17.400 I'm gonna be about to fucking cry. All right, Shaw, 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:21.640 were going to jump back into our story. Thank you, Taylor. So, 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.120 my boyfriend who was now my baby daddy is apparently 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:26.640 cheating on me with one of his previous baby moms 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:29.000 and have been since our first date. 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:29.720 Oh wow. 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:33.880 He told me he was past her and although they 0:03:33.880 --> 0:03:37.240 have a young baby, red flag when you sing what. 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.080 I don't know how young the baby is, but if 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:42.760 they got a young baby, you know what I'm saying, 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:44.600 Like you, that's a red flag right there? 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:45.240 Come on now. 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:48.480 He assured me that he was never going back and 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:50.920 that she only kept that child because it was against 0:03:50.920 --> 0:03:52.480 her religion to have an abortion. 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.800 I ain't hear that one before. That's a good one. 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:59.400 I went through his phone and saw messages that he 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:02.480 was sending to her telling her that he regrets having 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.640 a baby with me and wish that he would have 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:07.760 kept it honest the whole time with me, and told 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:10.600 me that he wasn't over her. Oh wow. 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.120 She saw this in the phone. 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:14.640 She does not give a fuck about him being in 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:17.320 a relationship with me, and I think that's fucked up 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:20.080 because she already went through him cheating and other bullshit 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:22.440 when she was with him. So why keep trying to 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.240 get back with him or entertained or entertain him if 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:29.719 you know he's in a relationship, Nowkery what? Either way, 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:31.600 I look like a fucking fool. I was just about 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:32.960 to say that. I'm glad you said it. You beat 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:34.840 me to it. Either way, I look like the fucking 0:04:34.880 --> 0:04:36.920 fool because we have a three month old and he 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:39.160 doesn't know that I went through his phone yet. 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:39.760 Oh wow. 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:42.200 But we're supposed to go out of the country for 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:44.839 my birthday and I'm thinking about having that conversation with 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.320 him on the island. Oh no, betch you uh? Unless 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.360 you're playing on killing them and drawing them in the ocean? 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.359 Fuck no, why would you wait till y'all get all 0:04:52.400 --> 0:04:52.960 the way out there? 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:53.960 Like? 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:54.760 That's crazy? 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:56.160 On vacation. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:59.839 On vacation, there is no way for him to escape 0:04:59.839 --> 0:05:05.239 to or nowhere for him to run from there. M yeah, bitch, 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:07.720 I yeah, I was just joking about drowning them in 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:10.920 the ocean. I don't know how the trip will end, 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.200 but this shit sounds scary. I don't know how the 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:19.479 trip will end. Is crazy, but I need to get 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:20.520 this off my chest. 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:22.960 What do you think I should do? Jess? 0:05:23.080 --> 0:05:25.479 I do love him and I know he loves me, 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:28.280 but this just fucked my head up. First of all, 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:32.400 ma'am Taylor, before I jump on her ass, is anything 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:33.880 you want to say to her? Because I'm I'm. 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:38.240 Gonna jump all the way in there all the way. 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.880 Why would you go on vacation. 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:47.839 With him after seeing the messages? What is already planning? 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:51.080 Maybe the vacation either way that she would be canceled. 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:52.080 Yeah, but. 0:05:55.240 --> 0:05:57.240 I can't understand her feeling the type of way, like 0:05:57.320 --> 0:05:58.560 that's her full words. 0:05:58.600 --> 0:06:04.360 Whatever, but leave girl, Like that's easier said the times, 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:05.880 because I've pissed the funk off too. 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:09.359 Yeah the fuck, it's definitely easier said that. But but 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.919 this is what I will say. Let's even fast forward. 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:16.560 I mean, that's even rewind, like fuck going on, going 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:20.520 to on the island and shit, to have the conversation 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:23.440 with him when you met him, he had a little 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:25.919 baby already, you know what I'm saying. 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:30.479 That's a red flag. It's the only reason why she kept. 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:33.359 The baby is because it was against her religion to 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:34.480 get it an abortion. 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:38.520 What the fuck are we talking about here? Yeah, I 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:40.440 get that, but your child is here now. 0:06:40.480 --> 0:06:43.280 So even if that is the case, why even tell 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:45.880 her that she only kept the child, like I didn't 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:48.600 want to have a baby with her, She only kept 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.760 the child because it was against our religion. Still, your 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:54.880 baby's here. I just hate an excuse. The baby is here, 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:58.040 is done, it's dead whatever, Like no, no, no, it's 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.240 not done and dead because the baby's here. But I'm 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:04.480 saying like that that the sex is done, the baby's born. 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:05.760 There's nothing that you can do about it. 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:05.920 Now. 0:07:05.960 --> 0:07:07.680 You can't turn back the hands of time, like you 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:10.760 can't put the baby back. He said that to his girlfriend. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:13.800 The only reason why my last baby mother even had 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.000 this shout is because it was against her religion to 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:24.680 get an abortion to a little baby. So that was 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:27.760 red flag number one. That's why I said, that's a 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:28.160 new one. 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:33.240 But even still he has a that's a new baby too, though, right, 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:35.360 and then you get pregnant by him. 0:07:35.400 --> 0:07:37.000 Your baby is three months. She ain't tell me how 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:40.480 old dead baby was, but how old is the baby 0:07:40.520 --> 0:07:44.280 from his previous relationship was? But why why she got 0:07:44.320 --> 0:07:48.640 the babies? Because yes, it's because that's stupid. But now 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:51.320 you're sitting here with a three month old, you know 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.000 what I mean. And you went through this guy's phone, 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:57.480 and you realize that's why you can't believe what they 0:07:57.480 --> 0:07:59.680 tell you. Only reason why I hate that shit if 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:02.080 somebody tell you that the only reason why she had 0:08:02.320 --> 0:08:05.720 And then you later on find Texas in his phone 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:09.720 to that same baby mother who you gave the reason 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:13.400 for the baby for and you see that she telling 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:17.080 that he telling the baby mother like, yo, I wish 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:18.679 I would have kept it on this with my girl 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:21.080 now because now she got a baby. I didn't even 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.040 want to have another baby. I should have just kept 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:26.000 it on this with her to her wasn't over you. Yeah, 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:30.560 that's crazy how you keep something like that. But also 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:33.360 y'all get on the plane. I mean, so y'all get 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:34.120 in to another island. 0:08:34.120 --> 0:08:36.240 I can also you can tell that that's already been 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:37.720 trust issues because you went through his phone. 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:38.760 You went through his phone. 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.160 And then also what I'm also looking at is the 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:42.840 fact that she said there is nowhere for him to 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:48.120 escape to or to run from there. Like so, y'all 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:50.439 been through this ship before, and every time you confront 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:52.839 him about something, he runs away from it, or he 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:56.520 deflex or he flips it around on you, like, Hi, 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:58.360 you know what I mean, because I can tell a 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.040 lot in this story. 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:01.520 Like you said, she one, you're already going through the phone, 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:05.000 so he felt. 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:08.800 Yeah, yeah, you've been felt this shit like you've been 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:11.000 felt this way. Hold up, hold up, I know this 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:13.520 shit getting good. But listen to just a couple seconds 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:16.560 of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. And 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:20.000 then also, she probably has postpartum depression, you know what 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:22.240 I mean? Three months and do you find this shit? 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:23.040 It's like fuck? 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:25.079 And do you have a baby, depending on how old 0:09:25.120 --> 0:09:26.880 you are, depending on you know, because everyone is different. 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:28.480 You don't feel like yourself, you don't feel pretty, you 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:29.720 feel like you're trying to bounce back. 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:31.400 You got to go back to work. It's a lot. 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:34.320 And then you look in your man's phone that you 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:37.960 just had a baby by you. See. Damn, he he 0:09:38.040 --> 0:09:39.840 denied me, and shit, he wished that he never even 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.719 would have got with me because he's still over her. 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:46.439 But he did tell this girl he's over he was 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:47.240 over the baby mother. 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:52.040 That's crazy. I think I think she will try to 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:52.920 kill him. 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:57.920 I think so because and then another thing that's screaming 0:09:58.000 --> 0:10:00.920 crazy about her is you're a able to hold this 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:05.000 ship then until your birthday, that until y'll get into 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:07.600 the island, and y'all, yeah, so you got to fly 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:08.040 with the thing. 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:09.440 You got to get up and get on the point. 0:10:09.440 --> 0:10:12.200 You got to pack and act happy like y'all about 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:12.960 to go ahead of time of. 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.559 Y'all fucking lives. I don't know how to do that. 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:17.480 And then she said, I don't know how this trip 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:19.880 will end, you know, excuse. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:23.200 Me the fuck? You haven't seen the movie Blink Twice? 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:26.199 Is that what? Yes? 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:28.520 On island and ship and they go over there and 0:10:28.520 --> 0:10:29.760 they don't even know what the fuck. The women don't 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:33.360 even know what's before Yes, and she was there before. Gruh, 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:37.880 that ship sounded like some ship like that. Listeners, y'all 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:41.000 need to go see Blink Twice. I'm actually doing a 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:43.120 movie review on it, but y'all need to go see 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:45.360 that ship. Yeah it was good, It was good, but 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:48.760 it was also crazy. Yeah, it was was very nuts 0:10:48.920 --> 0:10:51.480 like girl, And you know what, when they do movies 0:10:51.520 --> 0:10:53.120 like that, we're gonna get back to her mess. But 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:55.360 when they do movies like that, that shit just makes 0:10:55.400 --> 0:11:00.160 me think, like about the Epstein ship and like the 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.480 Epstein like the list, Like what if people really do 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.520 have these secret islands where they go to and they 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.560 like the drug women and rape them and it's like 0:11:08.600 --> 0:11:12.319 a form of trafficking. What I did say, I'm saying, 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:17.640 what's that guy's names? Uh epsin, Jeffrey Epstein, that might 0:11:17.679 --> 0:11:19.520 be talking about another one, because I'm telling you it's 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:21.800 probably a dark world where it's a bunch of the motherfuckers. 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:29.480 But another one, Harry Wanston, No, maybe it's Yeah, it is, 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:31.080 because remember it was supposed to have been a list 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:32.920 that came out with all the celebrities. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.480 Yeah, that's along that's in on it, and ship I 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:36.280 think there's a lot. 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.199 Yes, that's a whole other world. And look, they don't 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:42.200 make these movies for no reason either. That's the movie. 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:44.160 So if you ain't never see it, I'm just going 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.760 spoiler alert, spoiler alert right now, y'all need to watch it. 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:51.240 But it's basically it's a movie. And Zoe Kravitz did 0:11:51.280 --> 0:11:56.840 this movie. Lenny Kravitz and Lisa Benes's daughter did this movie. 0:11:59.000 --> 0:12:03.360 And it it's basically like a remote island, right that 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:08.240 this billionaire owns and they do trips there him and 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:12.920 these other elite members of this group or whatever, like 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:17.040 a member's only thing, and they take five women over 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:18.800 there and it's five of them. They take five women 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:21.400 over there and they drug them, and then the ladies 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:24.079 don't even know they're being drugged. They you know, it's kicking. 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.000 They killed one of them because she wasn't forgetting nothing. 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:30.800 So in the movie, the ship that they have the 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:34.839 perfume that that they all right. So they get there 0:12:34.880 --> 0:12:36.960 and the villa is already set up. They got clothes 0:12:37.000 --> 0:12:38.920 already waiting for them and everything, and it just looks 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:43.640 like a great getaway, like a fucking luxury, fucking vacation. 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:47.680 But they're drugging you every night. On top are already 0:12:47.679 --> 0:12:50.719 taking drugs because they give them shrooms and LSD and 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:52.880 all this type of shit the ship that make you 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:57.120 all like open and happy and shit, right, but then 0:12:57.280 --> 0:13:00.760 they also give you something to make you forget, and 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:02.360 you wake up the next morning like, oh my god, 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:04.400 we had a black last night, but you don't remember shit. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:06.240 And what they're doing when they give you the drugs 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:09.160 that make you forget is raping you and like fucking 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:12.800 you up crazy. So you wake up tired and drained. 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:14.720 The next day, but you don't remember what the happened 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:18.560 past you being on high. I did not see that coming. 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:20.840 I did not, But he had to be in love 0:13:20.880 --> 0:13:22.960 with that black because. 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:26.800 You didn't. You didn't even remember last time or something 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:27.920 like crazy. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:31.000 Yep, she was able to remember. She had a fucking 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:32.920 head to you like. It was a lot. 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:34.120 So y'all just need to go and watch. 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:35.480 And I know it seemed like I just told y'all 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:38.480 the whole movie, but no, seriously, it is literally so 0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:41.400 much more. It's so much more that y'all need to say, 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:45.400 y'all need to watch the whole fucking shit. Either way, 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:49.120 Love you guys, Love you girls. Oh no, wait, I 0:13:49.160 --> 0:13:52.800 was about to say bye girl, because this girl dumba shit. 0:13:52.920 --> 0:13:54.559 I hate giving given. 0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:57.640 The fucking advice to people who I felt like should 0:13:57.679 --> 0:14:00.599 already know what to do. Baby girl, y'all. 0:14:00.559 --> 0:14:01.680 Do you think she should just leave? 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:06.240 I think she should leave that nig I found I 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:10.320 found out that show asked didn't want this baby with me? 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:12.400 You wasn't even over this bitch, And I asked you 0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:16.880 was you over her? And I believe that bullshit ask 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.840 excuse that she kept the baby because it was against 0:14:19.920 --> 0:14:23.720 her religion to get an abortion. I can't believe, I 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:27.360 fucking believe that I'm here with this baby, this three 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:29.320 month old, and I had to go through your phone 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:32.600 to find out that you regret me and this baby, 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:34.560 like come to fuck on but you. 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:38.920 But the thing is, think about it though, and you 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:43.080 said it before, like when you and room were together 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.560 like that the day you guys want to like you 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.360 went in the family kept. 0:14:47.760 --> 0:14:50.119 She's probably trying to make that nigga have a fad. 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:53.280 Like that's what that's what I learned. You cannot make 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:56.320 a nigga want his family. You cannot make a nigga 0:14:56.360 --> 0:15:00.200 stay with you because y'all had a baby. Like a 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:03.680 man is not going to stay because you have a baby. 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:06.320 Honestly, sometimes the. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:10.880 Man runs away even quicker when they feel like they're 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:14.080 going to be binded to a woman forever that they 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:15.680 don't even see a future with. But now you got 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:17.640 my child, so you thinking about the whole me shackled 0:15:17.720 --> 0:15:20.960 to you like, nah, that that's not a tool. You 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:24.280 never use a pregnancy or a child as a tool 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:29.000 of attachment, like to keep connection with a person. That 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:32.160 is horrible. You don't do that. And because the only 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:35.520 one that really loses ultimately is not you, not the guy, 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.640 but the fucking kids. The baby is the one who 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:41.280 pays for that, you know what I mean? Like, because 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:43.200 you know, I feel like all kids should be able 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:46.600 to see that both of their parents under one household, 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:48.160 under one roof. You know, That's why you got to 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:51.160 be very careful who you let, like who you create with. 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:53.160 Yo, you have to get to know these people. 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:55.320 She don't tell me how long she been knowing this nigga, 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:57.920 not like she is just she just said he already 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:00.040 had a fucking baby. And don't ever tell me I 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:03.840 can relate to this one of rome other baby mothers 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:05.640 can relate to this shit. I can't relate to this 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:09.320 shit because the dumbest shit that I did for Rome 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:11.760 was the last dumb shit that I did for Rome. 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:13.800 And I tell y'all this story all the time, and 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:15.280 I'm gonna repeat it again for the people in the 0:16:15.280 --> 0:16:18.600 motherfucking back. I thought I wanted my family, and he 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:21.160 I believe that fucking litter he sold me. 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:23.120 And I was dealing with this dude. I wasn't even 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:23.600 with Rome. 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:26.320 Our song was mad young, like real young, and I 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:28.680 was dealing with this guy who had came and swept 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:29.240 me off my feet. 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:30.600 He was everything that Rome wasn't. 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:33.280 He was actually doing right by Ash, and he treated 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.240 Ash as he as his own child. 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.040 He didn't have no kids, he didn't have no no 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:39.960 white laying around it. 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:42.920 And I went back to Rome. I let room get 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:44.800 in my air, but I want my family and I 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:47.120 just I want. I want to try it again. And yo, 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:48.680 I'm ready to be the man that you need me 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:50.600 to be. The whole time we talk, he talked like 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:53.160 this and we fucking twenty years old. Yeah, right, motherfucker 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:56.440 twenty one and shit, And I went to the guy 0:16:56.440 --> 0:16:58.640 because I didn't want to cheat on a guy with Rome. 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:00.680 I went to the guy and I'm like, look, I 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:02.400 want to try. I think I'm gonna get wrong one. 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:04.840 We'll try to be a family. That nigga looked at 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:06.959 me like what but you just set up here and 0:17:06.960 --> 0:17:08.800 told me all the ship that he don't know you. 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:13.919 I was probably with I was about to say his name. 0:17:14.880 --> 0:17:17.359 I was with him for maybe about what six months? 0:17:20.240 --> 0:17:24.800 Domish fuck domb as fuck damn. I was with this 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:27.240 nigga for no, it was longer than that. 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:27.840 I'm sorry. 0:17:28.480 --> 0:17:30.800 Yeah, I was with him for closer close to a year. 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:32.560 And I don't know, yo. 0:17:32.480 --> 0:17:32.800 I don't. 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:37.520 I have no idea why, like why like why I 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:42.560 even did that goofy ship y'all? But I did, and 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.399 that nigga couldn't wait to cheat on me, couldn't wait 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:47.720 to what was. 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:52.159 I don't remember to come on here and talk about 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:53.040 his reasons. 0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:54.720 You know what, We're gonna do a question there for 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:58.320 Rome developed the questions. Now he gonna look at you 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:00.320 when you're getting here pregnant. That's gonna trigger him because 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:02.800 he has a baby every year. If you love me, 0:18:02.920 --> 0:18:05.440 you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. 0:18:06.960 --> 0:18:09.840 But you know one thing about Rome though, Rome, he 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:12.359 is a great dad, and he's always taking care of 0:18:12.359 --> 0:18:15.280 his kids the best that he knew how and the 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:17.879 best that he could afford, Like you know. 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:18.280 What I mean. 0:18:18.320 --> 0:18:21.119 So that's one thing about my baby daddy or my 0:18:21.160 --> 0:18:23.760 little baby father, y'all. I just want to always, you know, 0:18:24.280 --> 0:18:27.640 commend him on that aspect because it's whether we want 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:29.159 to look at it for what it is or not. 0:18:29.840 --> 0:18:32.879 People really think black dads are like shit, you know 0:18:32.920 --> 0:18:35.520