1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can'tley Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio and 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: the Black Effects. And just like that, we're back with 3 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: yet another Kabuli Kabilly Carefully Reckless episode with your girl 4 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: Joshailari's we got my girl tailor here, say hey the 5 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: tailor Taylor. 6 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 2: Say hey you Hey. 7 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: All right, y'all, so we're gonna jump straight in because 8 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,040 Speaker 1: and I did read this story. It may be some 9 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: grammatical errors, but I did read it. This is something 10 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 1: that I can relate to. I like when y'all write 11 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: me about things that I can kind of like relate 12 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,559 Speaker 1: to based off of my personal experiences or my previous 13 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: or prior experiences, y'all. I like when y'all do that, 14 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: because that's where the real advice comes from. If you've 15 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: lived it, or if you're able to relate to a 16 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: situation that somebody else may be going through, it's easier 17 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: for you to just give advice, okay, especially if you've 18 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: made out better and your relationship, you know, based off 19 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: of your or your experience. So here we are. Hey, Jess, 20 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm writing this to you because I feel like you 21 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: can help me with my mess. I know your son's 22 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: father has a lot of baby moms. So I know 23 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: you can help me and can understand how I feel. 24 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: You were once in my shoes. First of all, I 25 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: don't tell me that I don't know. You know, I 26 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: don't know about your shoes yet because I was the first, 27 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: the first baby mama, you know, to the other five 28 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: that he got, so so I know it is crazy. 29 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,400 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, what's crazy that he is five? Like? 30 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,119 Speaker 1: Oh girl, yes, Rome has kids on tops on kids 31 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 1: on kids on kids. But like another conversation, another conversation 32 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: you want me to resume, Yeah, because you asked some 33 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: questions from me because I just want to know. Well, 34 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: it's not really you, it's it's. 35 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 3: Where his head is that like, you know what, he 36 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 3: always want to have a lot of kids. 37 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: He always wanted a lot of kids. But I don't 38 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 1: think Rome planned to have that many baby moms. Just 39 00:01:57,160 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: when he realized that I wasn't going to allow him 40 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: to sit back and cheat on me and all that 41 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: type shit. 42 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 4: I wasn't popping out another baby. I wasn't. 43 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: And then we were young, you know, and you know 44 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: what you want, but you don't you know what I'm saying, 45 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: and the same things you want, what you want in 46 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: your early twenties will not be the same things that 47 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: you want your thirties all the. 48 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 4: Time, you know what I mean. 49 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: Heys, he always knew he wanted to get married and 50 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 1: have a big family, but he always still ended up cheating, 51 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: like he couldn't find Roma still to this day, exertion 52 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: for something. 53 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 4: That I don't think that he will find in women. 54 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: Because when his mother died when he was ten, Yeah, 55 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: that kind of like shaped the way he looked at 56 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: women because he was even upset with his mom for 57 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 1: a while for like dying, and she couldn't even control that, 58 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. She had health issues, so 59 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: it was like, yo, you know. So I just think 60 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: that from all that trauma, he has never gotten the 61 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: help that he needs, and it definitely played a big 62 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 1: role in how he looks at women, you know, and 63 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: how he processes love from women because hes still looking 64 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: for a mom and these women he wants to be 65 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,240 Speaker 1: nurtured and things like that, you know, And I'm like, yo, 66 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: that's two different types of love, you know. 67 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's so that's that. 68 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: Don't ever make me open up about Rome. I know, 69 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: that's right. That was like a little therapeuty for me today. 70 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be about to fucking cry. All right, Shaw, 71 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: were going to jump back into our story. Thank you, Taylor. So, 72 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: my boyfriend who was now my baby daddy is apparently 73 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: cheating on me with one of his previous baby moms 74 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: and have been since our first date. 75 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 4: Oh wow. 76 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: He told me he was past her and although they 77 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: have a young baby, red flag when you sing what. 78 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: I don't know how young the baby is, but if 79 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: they got a young baby, you know what I'm saying, 80 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: Like you, that's a red flag right there? 81 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 4: Come on now. 82 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: He assured me that he was never going back and 83 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: that she only kept that child because it was against 84 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: her religion to have an abortion. 85 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 4: I ain't hear that one before. That's a good one. 86 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 1: I went through his phone and saw messages that he 87 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: was sending to her telling her that he regrets having 88 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: a baby with me and wish that he would have 89 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: kept it honest the whole time with me, and told 90 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: me that he wasn't over her. Oh wow. 91 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 4: She saw this in the phone. 92 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: She does not give a fuck about him being in 93 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: a relationship with me, and I think that's fucked up 94 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: because she already went through him cheating and other bullshit 95 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: when she was with him. So why keep trying to 96 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: get back with him or entertained or entertain him if 97 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: you know he's in a relationship, Nowkery what? Either way, 98 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 1: I look like a fucking fool. I was just about 99 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: to say that. I'm glad you said it. You beat 100 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,840 Speaker 1: me to it. Either way, I look like the fucking 101 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: fool because we have a three month old and he 102 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,160 Speaker 1: doesn't know that I went through his phone yet. 103 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: Oh wow. 104 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: But we're supposed to go out of the country for 105 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: my birthday and I'm thinking about having that conversation with 106 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: him on the island. Oh no, betch you uh? Unless 107 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,360 Speaker 1: you're playing on killing them and drawing them in the ocean? 108 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,359 Speaker 1: Fuck no, why would you wait till y'all get all 109 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: the way out there? 110 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 3: Like? 111 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: That's crazy? 112 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 4: On vacation. 113 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 1: On vacation, there is no way for him to escape 114 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:05,239 Speaker 1: to or nowhere for him to run from there. M yeah, bitch, 115 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 1: I yeah, I was just joking about drowning them in 116 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: the ocean. I don't know how the trip will end, 117 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: but this shit sounds scary. I don't know how the 118 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 1: trip will end. Is crazy, but I need to get 119 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: this off my chest. 120 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 4: What do you think I should do? Jess? 121 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,479 Speaker 1: I do love him and I know he loves me, 122 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 1: but this just fucked my head up. First of all, 123 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: ma'am Taylor, before I jump on her ass, is anything 124 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: you want to say to her? Because I'm I'm. 125 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 4: Gonna jump all the way in there all the way. 126 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: Why would you go on vacation. 127 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 3: With him after seeing the messages? What is already planning? 128 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 3: Maybe the vacation either way that she would be canceled. 129 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, but. 130 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: I can't understand her feeling the type of way, like 131 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: that's her full words. 132 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 3: Whatever, but leave girl, Like that's easier said the times, 133 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 3: because I've pissed the funk off too. 134 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,359 Speaker 1: Yeah the fuck, it's definitely easier said that. But but 135 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,919 Speaker 1: this is what I will say. Let's even fast forward. 136 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: I mean, that's even rewind, like fuck going on, going 137 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: to on the island and shit, to have the conversation 138 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: with him when you met him, he had a little 139 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: baby already, you know what I'm saying. 140 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 4: That's a red flag. It's the only reason why she kept. 141 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: The baby is because it was against her religion to 142 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: get it an abortion. 143 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 4: What the fuck are we talking about here? Yeah, I 144 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 4: get that, but your child is here now. 145 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:43,280 Speaker 1: So even if that is the case, why even tell 146 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: her that she only kept the child, like I didn't 147 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: want to have a baby with her, She only kept 148 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: the child because it was against our religion. Still, your 149 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: baby's here. I just hate an excuse. The baby is here, 150 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: is done, it's dead whatever, Like no, no, no, it's 151 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: not done and dead because the baby's here. But I'm 152 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: saying like that that the sex is done, the baby's born. 153 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 1: There's nothing that you can do about it. 154 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 4: Now. 155 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: You can't turn back the hands of time, like you 156 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: can't put the baby back. He said that to his girlfriend. 157 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: The only reason why my last baby mother even had 158 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: this shout is because it was against her religion to 159 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: get an abortion to a little baby. So that was 160 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: red flag number one. That's why I said, that's a 161 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: new one. 162 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 3: But even still he has a that's a new baby too, though, right, 163 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 3: and then you get pregnant by him. 164 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: Your baby is three months. She ain't tell me how 165 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: old dead baby was, but how old is the baby 166 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: from his previous relationship was? But why why she got 167 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: the babies? Because yes, it's because that's stupid. But now 168 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: you're sitting here with a three month old, you know 169 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: what I mean. And you went through this guy's phone, 170 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: and you realize that's why you can't believe what they 171 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: tell you. Only reason why I hate that shit if 172 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: somebody tell you that the only reason why she had 173 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: And then you later on find Texas in his phone 174 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: to that same baby mother who you gave the reason 175 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: for the baby for and you see that she telling 176 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: that he telling the baby mother like, yo, I wish 177 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:18,679 Speaker 1: I would have kept it on this with my girl 178 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 1: now because now she got a baby. I didn't even 179 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: want to have another baby. I should have just kept 180 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: it on this with her to her wasn't over you. Yeah, 181 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: that's crazy how you keep something like that. But also 182 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: y'all get on the plane. I mean, so y'all get 183 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: in to another island. 184 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 3: I can also you can tell that that's already been 185 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 3: trust issues because you went through his phone. 186 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 4: You went through his phone. 187 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: And then also what I'm also looking at is the 188 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: fact that she said there is nowhere for him to 189 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: escape to or to run from there. Like so, y'all 190 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 1: been through this ship before, and every time you confront 191 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,839 Speaker 1: him about something, he runs away from it, or he 192 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: deflex or he flips it around on you, like, Hi, 193 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because I can tell a 194 00:08:58,360 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: lot in this story. 195 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 4: Like you said, she one, you're already going through the phone, 196 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 4: so he felt. 197 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you've been felt this shit like you've been 198 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: felt this way. Hold up, hold up, I know this 199 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: shit getting good. But listen to just a couple seconds 200 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. And 201 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: then also, she probably has postpartum depression, you know what 202 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: I mean? Three months and do you find this shit? 203 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 4: It's like fuck? 204 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 1: And do you have a baby, depending on how old 205 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: you are, depending on you know, because everyone is different. 206 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: You don't feel like yourself, you don't feel pretty, you 207 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: feel like you're trying to bounce back. 208 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 4: You got to go back to work. It's a lot. 209 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 1: And then you look in your man's phone that you 210 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: just had a baby by you. See. Damn, he he 211 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: denied me, and shit, he wished that he never even 212 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,719 Speaker 1: would have got with me because he's still over her. 213 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,439 Speaker 1: But he did tell this girl he's over he was 214 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: over the baby mother. 215 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 4: That's crazy. I think I think she will try to 216 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 4: kill him. 217 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: I think so because and then another thing that's screaming 218 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: crazy about her is you're a able to hold this 219 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: ship then until your birthday, that until y'll get into 220 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: the island, and y'all, yeah, so you got to fly 221 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: with the thing. 222 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 4: You got to get up and get on the point. 223 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: You got to pack and act happy like y'all about 224 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: to go ahead of time of. 225 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,559 Speaker 4: Y'all fucking lives. I don't know how to do that. 226 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 4: And then she said, I don't know how this trip 227 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 4: will end, you know, excuse. 228 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: Me the fuck? You haven't seen the movie Blink Twice? 229 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 3: Is that what? Yes? 230 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: On island and ship and they go over there and 231 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: they don't even know what the fuck. The women don't 232 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: even know what's before Yes, and she was there before. Gruh, 233 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: that ship sounded like some ship like that. Listeners, y'all 234 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: need to go see Blink Twice. I'm actually doing a 235 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: movie review on it, but y'all need to go see 236 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: that ship. Yeah it was good, It was good, but 237 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,760 Speaker 1: it was also crazy. Yeah, it was was very nuts 238 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: like girl, And you know what, when they do movies 239 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 1: like that, we're gonna get back to her mess. But 240 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: when they do movies like that, that shit just makes 241 00:10:55,400 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: me think, like about the Epstein ship and like the 242 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: Epstein like the list, Like what if people really do 243 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: have these secret islands where they go to and they 244 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: like the drug women and rape them and it's like 245 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:12,319 Speaker 1: a form of trafficking. What I did say, I'm saying, 246 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: what's that guy's names? Uh epsin, Jeffrey Epstein, that might 247 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: be talking about another one, because I'm telling you it's 248 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: probably a dark world where it's a bunch of the motherfuckers. 249 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: But another one, Harry Wanston, No, maybe it's Yeah, it is, 250 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: because remember it was supposed to have been a list 251 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: that came out with all the celebrities. 252 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's along that's in on it, and ship I 253 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 4: think there's a lot. 254 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,199 Speaker 1: Yes, that's a whole other world. And look, they don't 255 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: make these movies for no reason either. That's the movie. 256 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: So if you ain't never see it, I'm just going 257 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 1: spoiler alert, spoiler alert right now, y'all need to watch it. 258 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 1: But it's basically it's a movie. And Zoe Kravitz did 259 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: this movie. Lenny Kravitz and Lisa Benes's daughter did this movie. 260 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 1: And it it's basically like a remote island, right that 261 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: this billionaire owns and they do trips there him and 262 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: these other elite members of this group or whatever, like 263 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: a member's only thing, and they take five women over 264 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: there and it's five of them. They take five women 265 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: over there and they drug them, and then the ladies 266 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,079 Speaker 1: don't even know they're being drugged. They you know, it's kicking. 267 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 4: They killed one of them because she wasn't forgetting nothing. 268 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 1: So in the movie, the ship that they have the 269 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:34,839 Speaker 1: perfume that that they all right. So they get there 270 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: and the villa is already set up. They got clothes 271 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: already waiting for them and everything, and it just looks 272 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: like a great getaway, like a fucking luxury, fucking vacation. 273 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 1: But they're drugging you every night. On top are already 274 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,719 Speaker 1: taking drugs because they give them shrooms and LSD and 275 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 1: all this type of shit the ship that make you 276 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: all like open and happy and shit, right, but then 277 00:12:57,280 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: they also give you something to make you forget, and 278 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: you wake up the next morning like, oh my god, 279 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: we had a black last night, but you don't remember shit. 280 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: And what they're doing when they give you the drugs 281 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 1: that make you forget is raping you and like fucking 282 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 1: you up crazy. So you wake up tired and drained. 283 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: The next day, but you don't remember what the happened 284 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: past you being on high. I did not see that coming. 285 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: I did not, But he had to be in love 286 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: with that black because. 287 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 3: You didn't. You didn't even remember last time or something 288 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 3: like crazy. 289 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 1: Yep, she was able to remember. She had a fucking 290 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: head to you like. It was a lot. 291 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 4: So y'all just need to go and watch. 292 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: And I know it seemed like I just told y'all 293 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: the whole movie, but no, seriously, it is literally so 294 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: much more. It's so much more that y'all need to say, 295 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: y'all need to watch the whole fucking shit. Either way, 296 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: Love you guys, Love you girls. Oh no, wait, I 297 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: was about to say bye girl, because this girl dumba shit. 298 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 4: I hate giving given. 299 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: The fucking advice to people who I felt like should 300 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,599 Speaker 1: already know what to do. Baby girl, y'all. 301 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: Do you think she should just leave? 302 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: I think she should leave that nig I found I 303 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: found out that show asked didn't want this baby with me? 304 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: You wasn't even over this bitch, And I asked you 305 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: was you over her? And I believe that bullshit ask 306 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: excuse that she kept the baby because it was against 307 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: her religion to get an abortion. I can't believe, I 308 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 1: fucking believe that I'm here with this baby, this three 309 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 1: month old, and I had to go through your phone 310 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: to find out that you regret me and this baby, 311 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: like come to fuck on but you. 312 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 3: But the thing is, think about it though, and you 313 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 3: said it before, like when you and room were together 314 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 3: like that the day you guys want to like you 315 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 3: went in the family kept. 316 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,119 Speaker 2: She's probably trying to make that nigga have a fad. 317 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:53,280 Speaker 1: Like that's what that's what I learned. You cannot make 318 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: a nigga want his family. You cannot make a nigga 319 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: stay with you because y'all had a baby. Like a 320 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: man is not going to stay because you have a baby. 321 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 4: Honestly, sometimes the. 322 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: Man runs away even quicker when they feel like they're 323 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: going to be binded to a woman forever that they 324 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: don't even see a future with. But now you got 325 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: my child, so you thinking about the whole me shackled 326 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: to you like, nah, that that's not a tool. You 327 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: never use a pregnancy or a child as a tool 328 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: of attachment, like to keep connection with a person. That 329 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: is horrible. You don't do that. And because the only 330 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: one that really loses ultimately is not you, not the guy, 331 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:38,640 Speaker 1: but the fucking kids. The baby is the one who 332 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: pays for that, you know what I mean? Like, because 333 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: you know, I feel like all kids should be able 334 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 1: to see that both of their parents under one household, 335 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: under one roof. You know, That's why you got to 336 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: be very careful who you let, like who you create with. 337 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 4: Yo, you have to get to know these people. 338 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 1: She don't tell me how long she been knowing this nigga, 339 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: not like she is just she just said he already 340 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:00,040 Speaker 1: had a fucking baby. And don't ever tell me I 341 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: can relate to this one of rome other baby mothers 342 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: can relate to this shit. I can't relate to this 343 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: shit because the dumbest shit that I did for Rome 344 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: was the last dumb shit that I did for Rome. 345 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: And I tell y'all this story all the time, and 346 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna repeat it again for the people in the 347 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: motherfucking back. I thought I wanted my family, and he 348 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 1: I believe that fucking litter he sold me. 349 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 4: And I was dealing with this dude. I wasn't even 350 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 4: with Rome. 351 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: Our song was mad young, like real young, and I 352 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 1: was dealing with this guy who had came and swept 353 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: me off my feet. 354 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 4: He was everything that Rome wasn't. 355 00:16:30,600 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 1: He was actually doing right by Ash, and he treated 356 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 1: Ash as he as his own child. 357 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 4: He didn't have no kids, he didn't have no no 358 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 4: white laying around it. 359 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: And I went back to Rome. I let room get 360 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: in my air, but I want my family and I 361 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 1: just I want. I want to try it again. And yo, 362 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: I'm ready to be the man that you need me 363 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: to be. The whole time we talk, he talked like 364 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: this and we fucking twenty years old. Yeah, right, motherfucker 365 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: twenty one and shit, And I went to the guy 366 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: because I didn't want to cheat on a guy with Rome. 367 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: I went to the guy and I'm like, look, I 368 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 1: want to try. I think I'm gonna get wrong one. 369 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: We'll try to be a family. That nigga looked at 370 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:06,959 Speaker 1: me like what but you just set up here and 371 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: told me all the ship that he don't know you. 372 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:13,919 Speaker 1: I was probably with I was about to say his name. 373 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: I was with him for maybe about what six months? 374 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:24,800 Speaker 1: Domish fuck domb as fuck damn. I was with this 375 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 1: nigga for no, it was longer than that. 376 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. 377 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was with him for closer close to a year. 378 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: And I don't know, yo. 379 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 4: I don't. 380 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 1: I have no idea why, like why like why I 381 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: even did that goofy ship y'all? But I did, and 382 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 1: that nigga couldn't wait to cheat on me, couldn't wait 383 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:47,720 Speaker 1: to what was. 384 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:52,159 Speaker 2: I don't remember to come on here and talk about 385 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 2: his reasons. 386 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: You know what, We're gonna do a question there for 387 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: Rome developed the questions. Now he gonna look at you 388 00:17:58,359 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 1: when you're getting here pregnant. That's gonna trigger him because 389 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: he has a baby every year. If you love me, 390 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. 391 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 1: But you know one thing about Rome though, Rome, he 392 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 1: is a great dad, and he's always taking care of 393 00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: his kids the best that he knew how and the 394 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: best that he could afford, Like you know. 395 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 4: What I mean. 396 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 1: So that's one thing about my baby daddy or my 397 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: little baby father, y'all. I just want to always, you know, 398 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 1: commend him on that aspect because it's whether we want 399 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 1: to look at it for what it is or not. 400 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,879 Speaker 1: People really think black dads are like shit, you know 401 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like all black dad listen my father 402 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: was a great fucking dad to me, you know what 403 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: I mean? And yep, so you know, so is yours, 404 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 1: you know, and and and although all dads don't get 405 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 1: it right, all black dads don't get it right, you 406 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:52,440 Speaker 1: got some fucking white dads that don't get it right either. 407 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 1: You know, you got in every fucking race. 408 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:57,640 Speaker 4: You know you do. 409 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 2: Though, Yeah, I mean, I don't know why I like 410 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 2: a stigma not. 411 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 3: Saying that it should be no, it should be like 412 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 3: no more because everyone says that black baby daddy. 413 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. And honestly that has a lot to 414 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: do with the baby moms too, like because of how 415 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 1: they're talked about baby mom, they get a little crazy. 416 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: I get it, But no for sure because I you know, 417 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: I know something. But I know, yeah, all of them, 418 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 1: but they're not talking ship about their baby daddy's publicly either, 419 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. Like Chloe even listen, Chloe 420 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: even still is imaginarily married to hers, imaginarily married to hers, 421 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: and this nigga out here doing whatever. But she said, 422 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: for the sake of my child, I don't want my 423 00:19:55,880 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: child to know the traditional parents to parent's living in 424 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 1: one household. I don't want her to know that we're 425 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: not together. The children should not know what's going on. 426 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna keep letting my daughter think I'm married 427 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:11,159 Speaker 1: to her dad, which is gonna fuck her up, by 428 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 1: the way, when she gets older to be an adult 429 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: and ask you, Ma, I could have dealt without that lie. 430 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 1: I could have went without that lie, Like I'm fine, Yeah, 431 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 1: Like why didn't you just keep that shit honest with me? 432 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: Because that's what I always talk to my mother about mine. 433 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 1: If you weren't happy in your marriage, why would you 434 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: stay old? Because I just wanted to keep my family together. 435 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 1: I want to draw kids to know what traditional households 436 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,880 Speaker 1: were like. We never I never knew my parents had 437 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 1: issues or whatever until I became a grown woman who 438 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: was all who already had a child, Like you know 439 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, And I'm just like, man, like you've 440 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 1: been unhappy all this time, and like you're willing to 441 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,920 Speaker 1: be you were willing to be miserable and deal with 442 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: like all of that shit, yeah, and have to be strong. 443 00:20:56,600 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: Probably got mental illness to say the first right, just 444 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 1: for us to know what having both of our parents 445 00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: in the same house. 446 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 3: Was, like, yeah, everything about that and now was my 447 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 3: my parents are fine, but like I just wonder what. 448 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know they kept a lot of stuff. 449 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 3: From me at least, like I know my sister seen 450 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:19,880 Speaker 3: being the oldest, but like. 451 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:22,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, your parents are still together though, right, yeah so, 452 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 1: but even. 453 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 2: Still though, like guess we're all out of the house. 454 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 2: I just wonder, like, I know my mom is traditional as. 455 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 4: Well as my Yeah, my mom is traditional, and. 456 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 2: I just wonder her her mental. 457 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, like where is she at with it? Or has 458 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 4: she ever had to endure? Ship coming up? 459 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 1: And y'all just she just kept that smile on her face, 460 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: like like, what's her name, Melanie Fiona, Mona Lisa smiles. 461 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,120 Speaker 1: She literally was just talking about that in her interview 462 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 1: where she's just like, man, like you ever look at 463 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: that picture of Mona Lisa and you see that she's smiling. 464 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: I didn't even know she was smiling, because one, white 465 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: people don't have no lips, so I had no idea 466 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 1: that she was smiling until I zoomed all the way 467 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 1: in after talking to Melanie, and I'm like, damn, no, 468 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: she is smiling, but she looks so sad in her eyes, 469 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it's like fuck, you know, 470 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: all them smile back? 471 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 4: Then, who's them? 472 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 2: The white? 473 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: Oh? 474 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:21,800 Speaker 4: That's because the white. 475 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:26,679 Speaker 2: Honestly, humans in general, we never seen a smiling picture 476 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,880 Speaker 2: of like herriot telling. 477 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 4: Or what the fuck was it to smile for a tailor? 478 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 2: Right, you're right. Okay, that's bad, that's bad. 479 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:33,800 Speaker 1: You know what. 480 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 4: We're just gonna end. 481 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 2: Okay, let me see. 482 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 4: Something are you smiling for? I gotta kills and take 483 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:45,119 Speaker 4: the road every night, parties and rosa parks. 484 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 1: Are you serious? 485 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 4: There was nothing to smile about. 486 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 1: She used to get into it with her husband. That's 487 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: how she ended up on the bus that day. I 488 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: don't know, because her husband had a fucking card the 489 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 1: whole time. Joe Button already told us that. 490 00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 3: Okay, so look, but well it was sad time then that. 491 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: For everybody, Yes, something smiling like excuse me, you're right, 492 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 1: you're right. 493 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:15,120 Speaker 3: That's but women in general, we didn't have right then. 494 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 1: I know. We couldn't do ship, we couldn't vote, we 495 00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 1: couldn't speak up, We couldn't you know, say when we girl, 496 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,879 Speaker 1: Oh my god, imagine the perrairie crams. 497 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 4: Honey, what the funk would you like? 498 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? I can only imagine being 499 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: on my mother fucking Perrie and I'm a slave and 500 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 1: I'm outside of heat. What I like, I wonder what 501 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,400 Speaker 1: they were saying, master, like my cramps is. 502 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 2: Like when I went to the. 503 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 3: I've got the proper name for it, but basically like 504 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 3: where they kept the slaves and and. 505 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 2: What they were just saying, like how standing like the ship? 506 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 1: Yeah right exactly, And so who would smile Taylor, right, Yeah, 507 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: only the motherfucking white people. White people also were sad too. 508 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,200 Speaker 2: Their husband were. 509 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:12,800 Speaker 1: Cheating yep with the slaves. Yup, that was the one. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 510 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 1: there was nothing little small about Yeah. 511 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 2: Yeah. 512 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: Everybody was depressed. You you kind of think, huh damn 513 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:23,200 Speaker 1: except the men, except the white men mm hmm. 514 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 4: But they wasn't happy because their wife ain't had no ass. 515 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: So that's why the fuck they had to go cheat 516 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: with with big Bertha out in the yard, because she 517 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:36,919 Speaker 1: had ass sitting up on her back. How do we 518 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: get here? We are done? This is we've come to 519 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 1: yet another carefully Breakord's episode with your Girl. 520 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:44,159 Speaker 4: Just hilarious and my girl tailor. 521 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 1: Y'all, y'all go ahead and say by the tailor tail 522 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: say about them people probably. 523 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 4: Be nobody heavy back in the day. 524 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 5: Taking Madam. 525 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 1: Can't Fully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and The 526 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 1: Black Effect. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, 527 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.