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Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Rachel Zoe, and you're listening to Work for Us,

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Speaker 1: where we talk to people about what works for them

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Speaker 1: in their relationships and of course what doesn't okay. So

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Speaker 1: when it comes to love and relationships, people are always

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Speaker 1: using expressions like I think I can see the future

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Speaker 1: with this person, or we were absolutely destined to be together.

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Speaker 1: But the truth is nobody can really see the future

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Speaker 1: except perhaps today's guest. Chris Medina is a natural born

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Speaker 1: psychic medium who comes from a long line of Apache

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Speaker 1: Native American psychics, and he started giving informal readings at

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Speaker 1: just three years old. But Chris is not your average

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Speaker 1: psychic with his talent like it is approached to spiritual advice,

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Speaker 1: his goal is to help them masses overcome their blocks

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Speaker 1: to evolve their lives and souls. So hopefully he can

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Speaker 1: help us do that today. So welcome to Works for

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Speaker 1: Us for us, Oh my god, thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for having me on. What an honor, Seriously, what an

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Speaker 1: honor to be just to be sitting somewhat in front

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Speaker 1: of you. Thank you are in front of me, like

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Speaker 1: I feel like work in that same room, and you

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Speaker 1: know I am. I'm so excited to actually meet you,

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Speaker 1: and I'm I'm a huge believer in what you do

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Speaker 1: and and um, all of this, and I think, um,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a real gift. It really is. And

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Speaker 1: I think, um, you know, on works for us. We

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Speaker 1: really like to try to start a little bit at

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Speaker 1: the beginning, just to give our listeners some sort of background.

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Speaker 1: And you know, in your case, I think it makes

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Speaker 1: sense to talk about your psychic gift. And do you

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Speaker 1: remember when you sort of realized that you had this

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Speaker 1: gift and you had this ability that was different than

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Speaker 1: everybody else. Oh, my god, as far back as a kid,

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Speaker 1: I mean I was talking a ghost at like three

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Speaker 1: or four years old. That's as far back as I

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Speaker 1: could remember. And also giving readings to my dad's friends.

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Speaker 1: I mean, my dad's a biker, complete opposite for me.

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Speaker 1: I am so the way that I am. And he's

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Speaker 1: got this long hair, beard, mustache. It's like Harley Davidson.

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Speaker 1: And you know miers do they get together, they smoke weed.

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Speaker 1: And that's what he did in the back room growing

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Speaker 1: up in Palmdale, and he would bring me in there.

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Speaker 1: He thought it was funny for me to give his

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Speaker 1: friends readings. So that's the very first time that I

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Speaker 1: remember giving readings and then the ghost stuff came afterward.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it's three four years like actual ghosts, like

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Speaker 1: you literally were talking to ghosts. Yeah. I had this

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Speaker 1: ghost that used to come viscent me when I was

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Speaker 1: living with my father on the weekends over at his

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Speaker 1: would want to play with my toys and talk to me.

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Speaker 1: And I know this sounds so weird to say, guides,

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Speaker 1: I never used to say, but my guides would come

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Speaker 1: in and say, don't talk to it. It's not real.

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Speaker 1: Don't just leave it alone. Just ignore it, pretend it's

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Speaker 1: not even there. So I'm sitting there, three four years old,

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Speaker 1: playing with my toys, looking at this thing and trying

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Speaker 1: to ignore it. That's my first memory of that. Wow.

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Speaker 1: So when you say your guides do they have visual

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Speaker 1: do you see them visually or is it more just

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Speaker 1: in your mind? It's all in my mind. I never Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'd never, I'd let a normal life. I've worked in

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Speaker 1: the insurance industry for almost twenty years. I've always been

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Speaker 1: a psychic medium, but did not start doing this for

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Speaker 1: a profession until about twenty fourteen and that's when my guides.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's so much to it. I was like

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Speaker 1: remember dying in there like like being like, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: not afraid to die anymore. I'm so sick. I'm tired

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Speaker 1: of being poked. And my guides were like, it's just

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Speaker 1: a voice that came in and said, no, you're going

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Speaker 1: to get better. You need to get some rest, lay down.

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Speaker 1: We will come back and tell you when it's time.

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Speaker 1: So you have to fast forward from five years old

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Speaker 1: all the way up until like my mid thirties twenty fourteen,

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Speaker 1: and they said, remember what we told you sitting in

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Speaker 1: all auditory. This is all like I can pick up

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Speaker 1: like they'll tell me like what's to kind of give

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Speaker 1: me like glimpses of like scenery or like you know, hits,

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Speaker 1: for the life of me. They've never introduced themselves, and

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Speaker 1: I've never said guides. I would always say they and

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Speaker 1: people are like who are they? Your guides, your angels,

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Speaker 1: And I'm a huge believer in genetics and DNA. I mean,

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Speaker 1: is this is this a gift that's present in other

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Speaker 1: a chosen No. My dad's side of the family is

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Speaker 1: don't know that side of the family too well. Have

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Speaker 1: the ability in some way, shape or form, whether they

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Speaker 1: choose to use it for the right ways. A totally

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Speaker 1: different story, Like my dad has a fame blow medium,

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Speaker 1: me up and say, why is this motherfucker coming to

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Speaker 1: visit me? What do they want? Tell me? Yes? Stop? Yes,

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Speaker 1: And if you saw him, it's really hard, it is

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Speaker 1: it is. That's that's really hard. And so hold on,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go back there. So have you ever like

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Speaker 1: walked over there. He's like hanging out in bed with

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Speaker 1: someone else, but you can't see it, or you could

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Speaker 1: He has the ability. Him and my son both have

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Speaker 1: the ability to see it in form. I can see

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Speaker 1: pick up on their presence or they'll talk to me directly,

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Speaker 1: So seeinging form. Is it even like theoretically more evolved

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Speaker 1: almost because you could see the image or is it

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Speaker 1: just a different way. It's just a different way. I

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Speaker 1: think with me. The reason why I don't get to

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Speaker 1: I'm still human too, I still I have these fears

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Speaker 1: and phobias too, and to see something like that, I mean,

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Speaker 1: never leave my mind. So I feel like the way

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Speaker 1: And then my father comes in with his and my

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Speaker 1: son being able to see it. That works for them,

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Speaker 1: but they don't get the hits necessarily the same way

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Speaker 1: could be that. It could be every person in my life.

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Speaker 1: I know they're pregnant. Sometimes before they know they're actually pregnant,

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Speaker 1: I just have to be really careful because I saw

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Speaker 1: The one thing I would say is I do really

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Speaker 1: because sometimes it's not great, you know, it's sometimes it's

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Speaker 1: you know, I've always gotten read. I've done different ways

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Speaker 1: of you know, from cards to just literal really just

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Speaker 1: readings of every kind of psychics, and some have really

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Speaker 1: has happened, what does happen, what will happen. And Roger

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Speaker 1: actually hasn't done it because because he doesn't want to know.

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Speaker 1: don't really want to know. Yeah, of course I think

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Speaker 1: we'd run things for me. Yeah, but I will say

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Speaker 1: what I always stated Rachel is it's a good thing

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Speaker 1: she always knows, She always shook quick. I wouldn't really

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Speaker 1: don't know. She's a very showing intuition. It could be that,

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Speaker 1: it could be woman's intuition. I think it's a lot

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Speaker 1: deeper than that. You have to understand something I see.

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Speaker 1: I've watched you grow, you know, and N B and

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Speaker 1: much going on inside of her head, no wonder, no wonder,

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Speaker 1: she is the way that she is here. And I'm

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Speaker 1: going to throw your intuition in there because I feel

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Speaker 1: like with you, you have such a strong intuition, but

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Speaker 1: you're also very intelligent. So what you're trying to do

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Speaker 1: you're getting. And you don't like surprises. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: the best surprises that my girl Rachel likes is either

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Speaker 1: diamonds in a shoe box or money in a shoe box.

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Speaker 1: But don't you dare sweep that rug out from underneath her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And that's where I feel like you your motto to me,

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Speaker 1: even the early two thousands, watching you with Nicole and

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Speaker 1: parties and like and people love to get read and

429
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,560
Speaker 1: all of those things. And you know, I've hit some

430
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,200
Speaker 1: that are total nonsense and some that are pretty incredible.

431
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,879
Speaker 1: But I think what's so unique about you is, and

432
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 1: correct me if I'm wrong, but I think you approach

433
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,920
Speaker 1: your gifts in a way that use them almost a

434
00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,360
Speaker 1: little bit more like a therapist, like a little bit

435
00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:33,680
Speaker 1: like how can I help these people sort of navigate

436
00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:38,080
Speaker 1: their situation or their future potentially, But I think you're

437
00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:42,480
Speaker 1: more about embracing present than past or future. Correct, absolutely,

438
00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:44,879
Speaker 1: because let's let's be truthful here. I used you as

439
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:49,880
Speaker 1: an example. Rachel's a phenomenal celebrity stylist right amongst other

440
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 1: things too. She has that drive, she has that determination,

441
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 1: that determinations, she has that ambition, she knows where she

442
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,920
Speaker 1: wants to go. Somebody that's on a little bit lower

443
00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 1: end of the spectrum, who doesn't have all that that

444
00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 1: confidence or a vision or whatever, is sitting at home

445
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 1: crying or wanting to get in that position, but doesn't

446
00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:06,520
Speaker 1: know how to get themselves there. And the one thing

447
00:21:06,560 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 1: that's always in everybody's way nine out at ten times

448
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 1: out at ten times is themselves, their own fears and

449
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,560
Speaker 1: their own insecurities. How can I predict five years into

450
00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 1: the future for you and tell you that you're going

451
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 1: to be this great celebrity stylist when you can't even

452
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 1: get off your couch, you're afraid or your insecureits are

453
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 1: screaming louder than anything else here. I can't predict that

454
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,240
Speaker 1: for you. And I feel like what shar peaks do

455
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,080
Speaker 1: is they come in here and they want to blow

456
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 1: The biggest thing a psychic wants to do is blow

457
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 1: people's minds. They forget that the reading is not for them,

458
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,200
Speaker 1: The reading is for the client. I'm just simply delivering

459
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: a message, and I want to deliver in a very direct,

460
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: practical way. I came out here saying I want to

461
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 1: change the game. I want to change the way that

462
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,199
Speaker 1: people view psychics. I want everybody to get out of

463
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 1: their own way, embrace their own power, put the keys

464
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 1: back in their own hands. Right, So I was going

465
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Speaker 1: to say, so that's something I wanted to ask you know,

466
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: obviously people are going to be skeptical obviously, right, Two

467
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 1: things things can you tell I'm a believer? First of all,

468
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm definitely a believer in energies, And you know, I

469
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 1: have my own share of just things things like it's

470
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 1: not that I see things, but you know, I think

471
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,400
Speaker 1: I have good I see the I don't know about

472
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: to see the future. At least in business, we're pretty

473
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: we're a little forward looking, so at least that's good. Um,

474
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 1: I kind of see what's happening in media and things

475
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:28,760
Speaker 1: like that. But anyway, um, but by no means and

476
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 1: my psychic can you tell when someone isn't and just

477
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 1: says they are, Like do you guys like have a

478
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 1: secret club or like you like wink at each other

479
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:42,159
Speaker 1: and you could like like kind of like telepathically like

480
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 1: say hello, do you know I'm kind of being serious

481
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 1: about Yeah, I've witnessed a lot of it. That's why again,

482
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't do these events anymore. I don't do right,

483
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 1: it's fair. It's just you're not a party psychic anymore, exactly.

484
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 1: It's it's just I feel like these people have more

485
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,360
Speaker 1: problems on the people that they're reading and what they're

486
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 1: doing is they're these people. And the biggest thing that

487
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,719
Speaker 1: they'll tell me is I like doing this because it

488
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: makes me feel good. No, what's a distraction. That's all.

489
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: That is the distraction. And you like hearing other people's

490
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: problems and what ends up happening, youse, guys sit there

491
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:12,880
Speaker 1: and you guys cry together, and you wallow in each

492
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: other's self pity. I want to keep this moving. Let's go,

493
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 1: let's go. It's like nutritionists with eating disorders making the

494
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 1: clients more crazy exactly. And I tell people all the

495
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 1: time too, I don't want to be known as being

496
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: a guru. I don't want to be your leader. I

497
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 1: don't want to be Jesus. What I wanted to do

498
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 1: is again, put the power back in your hands. I

499
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 1: don't care about a following. And that's what, that's what.

500
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: That's where again I see these people I've had, I've

501
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: had them, you know. To answer your question, Roger, pull

502
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:38,879
Speaker 1: me out of my own sessions at these events and

503
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 1: be like, I'm stuck on this session. I don't know

504
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:45,880
Speaker 1: what to tell this person exactly. So I'm like, ah, yeah,

505
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: really wow. So do you think these people either must

506
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: have some ability or must think they have some ability

507
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 1: or no. But I think it would be hard to

508
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 1: go through your whole life really just pretending like I

509
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: really do. So either they're convinced that they do, and

510
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 1: they're you know, and they're convinced that they can. Maybe, like,

511
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,159
Speaker 1: I don't know, do you think people are really just

512
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,400
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously the people that are you know, those

513
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: you walk down the street and you know, psychic readings.

514
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: I mean, they're there to take your money. That's obvious.

515
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: That's pomader. Yeah, yeah, the poder I mean, that's obvious

516
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: what they're there for. But I'm talking about people that

517
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 1: will hold themselves out that you might see on a

518
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 1: TV show or you know, Bravo or whatever. You know.

519
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: I feel like real people out there like you for sure,

520
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,800
Speaker 1: I've I've witnessed it. There's actually kids that are more

521
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: powerful than I am, or have it more, have it

522
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 1: more together than I do. Here's the thing them and

523
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 1: maybe you can appreciate this. Nobody has the heart to

524
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 1: tell somebody that they're wrong. That's why we live in

525
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 1: the world that we live in now, because nobody's being

526
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: direct with people. So they'll get a psychic and they'll

527
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: say thank you very much for the insight. That was great.

528
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: Never call them and dinner see them. But a person's

529
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: none the wiser. This is what I always tell the people.

530
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 1: The idiot's the idiot, because nobody tells the idiot that

531
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: he's the idiot, so they keep on going to moment

532
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: of course, and I'm not going to call anybody saying yeah,

533
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to call anybody out or make waves

534
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:06,439
Speaker 1: or I don't want I don't want to disrespect the

535
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,239
Speaker 1: ones that came before me. What I do is what

536
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: I do, and what you do is what you do. Yeah, yeah,

537
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 1: And so what world does astrology play and if any

538
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: I love love astrology, but I'm obsessed. I learned from

539
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: one of the best um. She actually taught me astrology

540
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: in a very weird way. She did not teach me

541
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 1: at how to do like the like the houses and

542
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 1: like the sex tiles and all that stuff. But she

543
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: told me, here's the natal chart. I want you to

544
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: tell me. I told you what the planets mean. I

545
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: want you to give me your psychic impression of this chart.

546
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 1: And that's how I read charts is I'll use my

547
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 1: psychic ability with that, knowing what the houses meet and

548
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 1: the planet's but none of these degrees and things like that.

549
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: But I accorporate it because it's a very it's a

550
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: very technical way. I can tell you, oh, you know

551
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 1: your your your sun is in Taurus, your moon is

552
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: in Pisces. You go read up on that. It gives

553
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: you something right there. So we can also make plans

554
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 1: with it too. I can tell you when the best

555
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: time is there. But I usually just stick to the

556
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: psychic stuff. But I love astrology for myself. That's how

557
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 1: I give myself readings. Right obsessed, I'm so so, let's

558
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: say I become a client. How does this work? Or

559
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: how you are you becoming a client? Well? Obviously, and

560
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: we're doing it right now. I'm Chris. That would be

561
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: amazing because he's never He's literally never done it. Never

562
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: let's do it now's never done it. I've never done

563
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: a reading. So I'm gonna treat you like a client.

564
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you right now. I'm gonna You're gonna

565
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 1: pick up the phone. Yeah, yeah, so I so what Yeah,

566
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,239
Speaker 1: tell me what happens we'll do. Yeah. The first thing

567
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: I ask you is I say, I picked up the phone,

568
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 1: call you your answer, Hello, I say, here we go,

569
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: you're ready for your session. I do not discuss to

570
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 1: death and I do not discuss anything that's going to

571
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: scare the shit out of you. So what that being said,

572
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: is there anything that you want me to stay away from? Right?

573
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: The session thing is for the first couple minutes of

574
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,199
Speaker 1: the reading, I'm going to go in and give you

575
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: what my guides give me directly, and then I'll open

576
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 1: the reading up to any questions that you have in

577
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: regards to what I said, or if you want to

578
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,199
Speaker 1: know about something that we didn't get a chance to

579
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 1: touch on, we can do that at that time. Does

580
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: that work? Yeah? That was a little quick for me,

581
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: A little slow listener. I'm very fast talk. I'm a

582
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: slow listener because I don't guess Roger's biggest problem with

583
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: the reading as he talks to match, I don't know

584
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: how do you even stay quiet for two minutes? Don't

585
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: don't worry about it. How long are your readings, Chris?

586
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 1: Anywhere from a half an hour to an hour long?

587
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: But since we're doing the show, I'll make it. I'll

588
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,719
Speaker 1: condense it intil like three or four minutes for you.

589
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,719
Speaker 1: But the final final thing is your time is very

590
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,199
Speaker 1: impost is what I tell people on a daily Your

591
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 1: time is very important and expensive to me. Feel free

592
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: to jump in to call bullshit at any time, Do

593
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: not hold back, to not worry about trying to be polite,

594
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 1: not want to term my feelings done of it. If

595
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,439
Speaker 1: it doesn't resonate or if it sounds off, let me

596
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 1: know when I do hit stuff. Simply confirm yes, but

597
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: do not give me any additional details. Okay, Okay, I

598
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: hope you understood all that. So it's interesting that you

599
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: said you don't want to talk about death or whatever.

600
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: And that's the thing. I have no interest Like my

601
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: parents are both dad. I have no interesting communicating like

602
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: I don't know how to explain it, but I don't

603
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 1: really have that interest. It's that funny that you say that,

604
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 1: because I was thinking while I was taking the shower

605
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 1: getting ready for this interview, I was thinking, I'm not

606
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: getting anything from the other side as like people coming in,

607
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: both you and both you and Rachel. I feel like

608
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 1: everything spiritual about you comes in from your past lives.

609
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 1: I don't feel a lot of death around you or

610
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 1: a lot of spirits around you in this lifetime. Right here,

611
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: I feel I feel the past more present than anything else,

612
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: especially with you, Rachel. So so what does that mean?

613
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: That means so we believe in reincarnated souls. I definitely

614
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 1: believe that. I got so many stories. I can sit

615
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: here and while you Rachel, I mean until the cows

616
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: come home when it comes to that. But yeah, if

617
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: I was to give you a reading, I would I

618
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: would simply tell you that again, I basically did it

619
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: earlier as far as like the bounce between you and Rachel,

620
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: And you know, I'm going to steal from what you said.

621
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:37,000
Speaker 1: I feel like you, guys, it has to be difficult

622
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: for you sometimes because your mindset and you said this rogers,

623
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: so I'm going to steal it from you, is that

624
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: when it comes to business, I could be so far

625
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 1: ahead of the game that you know that that's where

626
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: I can see. That's where my ability comes in. And

627
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: it has to be difficult for the truth of you guys,

628
00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: because you guys see so far in the future, or

629
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: you guys can kind of you guys can kind of

630
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 1: map out what's going on here. But the hardest part

631
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: is waiting for everybody else to catch up to you guys.

632
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: That's a pain in the ass. Because yeah, you couldn't

633
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 1: be more spot on. And I would say almost nightly

634
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: as we eat dinner together, like the kids are asleep

635
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: and it's like really late, and we're like, but we

636
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: don't mean it that way. We don't. We don't stop.

637
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Stop stop doing that, because I'm telling

638
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: you the reason why is, you guys, look at the

639
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: position that you guys are in. Jesus, I mean you could.

640
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: You guys are already have a seat at the table,

641
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: and you guys are getting these hits. And that's what

642
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: I tell people sometimes, people that have that quick mindset,

643
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: like the two of you, you guys aren't the problem.

644
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,959
Speaker 1: You guys are always one step ahead of the game.

645
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 1: You gotta wait for all these assholes to catch up

646
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 1: and see where you're at. That's what it is. So

647
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: don't don't lose. Oh my god, you're literally chriss your rogers.

648
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: H Can we have them as a permanence. I think

649
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: that we need readings at everyone of our podcasts. This

650
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: is fascinating. And also my ego is just getting so much.

651
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: I just please, he'll get to the t. And so

652
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: with that being said, there, I feel like the both

653
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: of you are getting ready to go on to a

654
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: couple of new business ventures here. I feel like I'm

655
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: gonna use that clean slate term here, especially for you, Rachel.

656
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: And I know Roger comes as a package shield with

657
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: the boat, do you, guys both come as a package deal.

658
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: But this clean slate is coming for you guys. Don't

659
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: taint it. I'm gonna say this very loudly here with

660
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: your insecurities and fears, don't over obsess or worry about it.

661
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: Try here. Here's another thing both to you guys, And

662
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna I'm gonna jump on Roger here.

663
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: I feel like Roger is very intuitive and I also

664
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: feel like he also picks up on Rachel's energy as

665
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: well and can read her like a book. So you

666
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: probably cause him anxiety sometimes because he feels that, and

667
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: he probably gets a really bad stomach ache or has

668
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: issues with his digestion at times there. But I feel

669
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: like I feel like he this is somebody that tries

670
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: to keep it in that zone there, and this is

671
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: I feel like everything's catching up to you guys as

672
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: far as again with that clean slate new business ventures

673
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: coming in there. Have some fun with this. Cheez I

674
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: mean like, I feel like Rachel, I don't know how

675
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 1: you feel about this, but the both of you guys,

676
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if you guys are

677
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: holding yourself back out of like this is more for Rachel,

678
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: holding yourself back out of fear of coming across a

679
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: certain way and then regretting it later because you you

680
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: kind of like feel backpedal sometimes with your own thought

681
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: cross Nobody else will see this, but she'll overthink it.

682
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 1: Fuck did I say that right? How did I? How

683
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: did this looking? How did this feel? And I feel

684
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: like with you, like I'm going to have in this

685
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: podcast is such a great at tactic for you because

686
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,840
Speaker 1: it showcases that vulnerable side for you anyways, and I

687
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: feel like what that's going to do for Rogers also

688
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: incorporate his personality and also he's doing a lot of

689
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: talking out there, so there's a lot of network coming in,

690
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: a lot of opportunities that are coming into play for

691
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: both of you. One last thing, I know I'm talking

692
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: really fast here, but as a collective as the world

693
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: that you guys already know that we're going through this pandemic,

694
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: I'm telling everybody in the industry right now there's a

695
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: major universal shuffle going on here to where the cards

696
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: have not even been dealt yet. You're singing it in

697
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: the news, people falling off, but the people that are

698
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: in positions of power are no longer being there, so

699
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: everything's being shuffled around here. What a perfect time, What

700
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: a perfect time to come through the back door and

701
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: be like, here's what we got, because let me tell

702
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: you something. You you creative types, the both of you, guys,

703
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: it has to be fucking infuriating to see all these

704
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: people kind of jump up there with no with nothing

705
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: to back it up for. It's just a flash in

706
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 1: the pan here, and my girl and my guys, this

707
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: is the craziest thing of all times. The way this

708
00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: this reading is really really Rachel like the reading that

709
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: we're getting. So basically what you said is the biggest

710
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: issue I have with the biggest argument we have is Rachel,

711
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: my insecurities. You're just getting negative. She's like, oh yeah,

712
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: but we can't. I'm like, I go, sweetheart, I'm friend,

713
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm that thinks no one's coming to my partner And

714
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, come on, like because of this event, and

715
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: she's like, I'm sure no one's kind of like there's

716
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: eight rs VP. She's like, I'm sure they're gonna all

717
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: drop the I'm like, they're not dropping out the day

718
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: of Like, oh, what is wrong with you? You know

719
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 1: what Rachel's problem is that she picks up this, this

720
00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: is this is known for everybody here, and I'm gonna

721
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: say this, will the cows come home? You pick up

722
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 1: on the intention of other people. So what they they

723
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: when they're Let me tell you something, you you are

724
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: a very I don't care what anybody says, and I'm

725
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: not kissing your ass right now, but you are a

726
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: very good judge of character. You do not you can

727
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: glance at it really fast there and within one second,

728
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: but you've already made that mental note. You've you've already

729
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: like locked everything down about that person because you've trained

730
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,239
Speaker 1: your mind that way. So when you start getting down

731
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: about yourself and you start talking shit like nobody's gonna

732
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: come or whatever, blah blah blah, because you don't trust

733
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: anybody but yourself, because can you know that you know

734
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: what you're capable of doing. It's the other person that

735
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: worries you. Sure, But at the end of the day,

736
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: how often I'm gonna I'm gonna throw this in your face.

737
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: How often are you wrong about that? Always? People? No, no, no,

738
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 1: no no, she's always like I don't know, I don't

739
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: like that, Like she's always dead right. I'm always right

740
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: about always. So as soon as I let that guard down,

741
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: that's when I get hurt, you know what I mean.

742
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 1: Like it's I can say I'll look at Roger probably

743
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: anywhere from a year or two years about somebody. It

744
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: can be someone that works with us, and I'll look

745
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: at him and just be like, it's somebody's not right,

746
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: Like it's just not right. I'm telling you it's not right.

747
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: Their intentions, they have an agenda. I see it, I

748
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: smell it, I feel it. I just they's made one

749
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: comment that just to me defined exactly who they probably are.

750
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 1: And don't let them tell you that they didn't say

751
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 1: that or that they're wrong, because your memory you now, Oh, so,

752
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:35,240
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm gonna I'm gonna manipulate you. I'm

753
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: letting your audience. Do I want to manipulate Rachel right

754
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 1: now here with this being said, love, with everything that

755
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,320
Speaker 1: you're telling me, now, start stepping into your power, because

756
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: that's an amazing gift that you have there. Don't be afraid.

757
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: No one's telling you to be emotional, be too vulnerable here.

758
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: You do that with the people that you that you

759
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: really want to do it. You're very selective on who

760
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: you have around you. Stay that way if that works

761
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 1: for you. But also don't be afraid to flex because

762
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, for whatever reason, your guy,

763
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 1: both of you guys, is this clear slate that's coming

764
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 1: up here. You guys have been through a lot. So

765
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, I just feel like you guys,

766
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: are you not more wise or knowledgeable? Here? Go do

767
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: what you came here to do? Yeah? Yeah, I feel

768
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,880
Speaker 1: like that right now. I do. I feel I feel

769
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 1: like we have like a new beginning right now. I

770
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: said to Roger. I'm like, with the amount of stuff

771
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: we're doing, with the amount of stuff my team, with

772
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: the amount of business opportunities I have right now, and

773
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: all these new ventures that I'm working on, I'm like, Wow,

774
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: all this sudden feels like two and ten again. You

775
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: know it's it's it's really bizarre. Our whole team's feeling. Yeah,

776
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: we're all feeling like it is to be, but we're grateful.

777
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: Like I mean, coming off this pandemic. We're just like, Okay,

778
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 1: if the minute you can start complaining about being tired

779
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: or whatever. It's just like, because I can run on

780
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: fumes like I can run on nothing, We don't mind.

781
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,840
Speaker 1: What are we going to do? Just sit around exactly, Roger,

782
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: get ready for it, because again I already gave Rachel

783
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: her reading here. And yes, you guys come as a

784
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: package shield, but you guys are on two separate paths.

785
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 1: You guys have two different roads of life there they

786
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: will intersect, obviously, But Roger, get ready for a new

787
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: ways of thinking, innovative ideas coming in. I just feel

788
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: like I'm on and I feel like I feel like,

789
00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: in some way shape or form, your guide's angel's message,

790
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 1: whatever is that you choose to call them, are going

791
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 1: to be very hands on and pushing you in a

792
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: certain direction. So and I feel like with you, you

793
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: know what that is. Don't hold yourself back, and also too,

794
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: don't be afraid to flex sometimes. I know Rachel again,

795
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm senior butt here. I know Rachel

796
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 1: can give you pointers on how to do things. I

797
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 1: always tell people I'm not trying to create you as

798
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,760
Speaker 1: a Chris Medina I'm trying to give you these ideas

799
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,439
Speaker 1: and I want Roger to come up with his own

800
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: way of executing them, but in a more direct way.

801
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 1: So with you, I'm not saying that you that you

802
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: hold back here, but I just feel like with you,

803
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: your eyes are opening up even more than they were

804
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,760
Speaker 1: they were before as far as like new new ideas

805
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: coming in. So you might have a little bit of

806
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,839
Speaker 1: anxiety coming onto or feeling like a little bit more

807
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 1: nervous about stuff. But if I was to ask you,

808
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: do you feel like it's a bad thing? Would you

809
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: tell me that you feel it's bad. This podcast is

810
00:36:55,719 --> 00:37:00,279
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811
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,480
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00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: actually quite excited. Um my whole strategist, Well, yeah, he

848
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: gets anxious when he feels like people aren't keeping up

849
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: to go to your earlier point. He Roger's way faster

850
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: than a lot of people that he's with, and he

851
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: gets very frustrated when people can't keep up. But he's

852
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 1: got he's got to be able to execute or deliver

853
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,359
Speaker 1: that in a way that that that I'm not saying

854
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: that he's not direct there, but I feel like what

855
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: ends up happening to him is that he can kind

856
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,879
Speaker 1: of be a little bit of a softy too too much,

857
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: not not not overly sensitive, like like a push over here,

858
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: but I feel like sometimes he can like he can

859
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 1: overthink that and and not um maybe give people too

860
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: many chances. The fact that he's weak. It's not it's

861
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: not that you're weak, they're just I feel like I

862
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: feel like you he's forgetting. He's very people to want

863
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: people to show who they are. There. You're giving them

864
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:54,280
Speaker 1: there we go, You're giving them the benefit of the doubt.

865
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 1: I do that a lot. But I do think that

866
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 1: I don't care about anyone else. There's there's success, they're fat.

867
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 1: I only really care about us. And it's weird because

868
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,759
Speaker 1: I think, like Rachel's was like, oh this person, and

869
00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 1: it's like to me, it's all noise. Like I used

870
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: to care maybe, but like I literally don't care. I

871
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,920
Speaker 1: only care about what we're doing and like what it

872
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:18,879
Speaker 1: means to us. I don't know how to explain that,

873
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 1: but I feel like that's a really good thing because

874
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's just it's there's no distraction. It's

875
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: just like and there's no comparisons because yeah, between what

876
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm doing and everybody else is doing. Stick to that

877
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: because when people ask me the same thing too, Chris,

878
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: you know, doesn't it bother you that you know? Or

879
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: or how do you feel about these other psychics coming up,

880
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: these medium shows or whatever that's them? What do you

881
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: want me? Do you want me to get mad at that?

882
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: How does that affect me? Here? I just got a

883
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: grind harder, I got a showcase what I do ten

884
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 1: times better. Sure, but stay in that zone. I'm telling

885
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: you again, I feel like I have nothing negative here

886
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:56,280
Speaker 1: with this reading. I don't even want to bring anything

887
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,440
Speaker 1: in here that would that would that would even potentially

888
00:40:58,480 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: throw you guys off, because I just don't see that,

889
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: especially with you Rachel. I feel like, again I know this.

890
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: You guys come as I'm gonna say it's over and

891
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: over again. You guys come as a package deal. But

892
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 1: it's it's difficult for you sometimes to kind of let go.

893
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 1: So I feel like the universe is telling you, look,

894
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 1: look at all these briefings that are going on here,

895
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:14,720
Speaker 1: you can afford to let go a little bit longer

896
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: or a little bit more here. Yeah, I mean, that's

897
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: our biggest I'm definitely my own worst enemy. I always

898
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,080
Speaker 1: have been. That's our biggest fight. I'd rather deal biggest

899
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 1: than have than have twenty enemies on the outside. There

900
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 1: at least you can control you and you're responsible for you. Yes,

901
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: what is the number one question that people ask you?

902
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 1: What am I going to find love? Oh? See, that's

903
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 1: so interesting because yeah, I you know, we've been together

904
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 1: so long but like I've never like I sort of

905
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: always had that. Yeah, we both did. We both were

906
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: like relationship people. But that's but I feel like it

907
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,800
Speaker 1: really helped us because it's it frees up your energies

908
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: for everything else, you know, relationship energy peoples and finding

909
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: a verson, Giving a verson like super easy for us.

910
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 1: If there's another thing, here's some animulation tactic. I used

911
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 1: to get codependency mixed up with somebody that feels like

912
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: they shine a lot brighter when they're in a relationship

913
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: that's not being codependent. That's just like I feel more

914
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 1: secure when I have somebody riding along with me there, right,

915
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: you know, I just I feel whole or more complete there.

916
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: Like I said, this is a good balance here. Sure,

917
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: yeah you need me? What why? Why anything for me?

918
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: I just need a red so Chris. So, why do

919
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,959
Speaker 1: they call you the Howard's Stern of psychics. I don't

920
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,479
Speaker 1: see Howard's sterning you at all. You have not seen

921
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: me mad yet. I'm not challenged or having to deal

922
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: with people that are going to come from a place

923
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 1: of bullshit. I am definitely not one of those people.

924
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,840
Speaker 1: I get. I get ship all the time because I

925
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 1: tell people I'm not a love enlighten mentality. I want

926
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 1: to help other people, but not before I help myself.

927
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: What good is that going to do if I'm going

928
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 1: to break my back trying to you know this whole

929
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 1: phrase we rise by lifting up not thing. You can't

930
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 1: be your brother's keeper, but if it's keeping you from

931
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: doing what you need to be doing, you need to

932
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: leave them alone for a little bit. Right. Also, not

933
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 1: somebody that's going to allow you to sit in your

934
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 1: own victim in your own victimhood. Right, I'm not. I'm

935
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: not like fel like a good majority of psychics want

936
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 1: to keep people there. And I'll tell people the reason why,

937
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,360
Speaker 1: the reason why they're telling you these certain things is

938
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 1: because one, they want you to come back for money.

939
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: They want your money, and they want to keep you

940
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 1: level there in some play shape or form. They're looking

941
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: for validation. I can give a shit about all that. Right,

942
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: I want to tell you what's going on. I want

943
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,239
Speaker 1: you to be real. I want to if if, if

944
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,800
Speaker 1: I feel like your attitude or whatever this is holding

945
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: you back, I'm going to speak on that. And I'm

946
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,320
Speaker 1: all about you know, holding you accountable. No, nothing outside

947
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,479
Speaker 1: of you has power. I am not a genie during

948
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:43,879
Speaker 1: this reading. I can't make things happen for you, but

949
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: you can right? So interesting? And what about couples sid

950
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 1: you mostly? Do you get a lot of couples to

951
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: get readings together. I've never had a reading with him,

952
00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 1: is my first. I bet the if so many fights

953
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: happened if they read reading. How about the ones that

954
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: come to you with their side chick or their side

955
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: guy and they don't tell me anything, They don't say shit.

956
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: They come into and the woman comes in and she's

957
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: like holding his hand, holding his arm and like looking

958
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: at him and what that what that doe look? And

959
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 1: my guide said uh and I sat there, Yeah, how

960
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: to tell one of the guy? How to tell one

961
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: of the guys? Can you go outside firstecond? I want

962
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 1: to kind of talk to her in private here because

963
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: I was reading in my home and I said, what

964
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: the fuck are you doing? And she's like what And

965
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: I was like, there is no I go, I go,

966
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: this is not your husband, and she's like, uh no,

967
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 1: and I said he's married, and she goes yeah. And

968
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: then my guys are showing me somebody laying in the

969
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: bed sick and his wife is sick and she says,

970
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: She's like, I feel bad for him. He hasn't had

971
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 1: sex in two years. Blah blah blah. I was like,

972
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 1: what's going on? Yeah, God, yes, or the or the

973
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: guys that come in you get, you get that, you

974
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 1: get the woman that brings her, you know, soon to

975
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:57,720
Speaker 1: be fiance here and you know we're doing couples therapy

976
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: and they'll tell me the guy. I'll say, you know,

977
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: how come? You know, I just wish that she would

978
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: communicate with me a little bit more, you know, use

979
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 1: her words and tell me what she's looking for. I said,

980
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute. How come she doesn't

981
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: have to ask you what you want or what you need?

982
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: But she knows, I said, if you want to know

983
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 1: how she knows that because she pays attention to your ass.

984
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: Would it kill you to put your phone down and

985
00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 1: pay attention to her? Yeah? Right? And by the way,

986
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:26,759
Speaker 1: but I feel like you have to do that. Look,

987
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: the best therapists or therapists that are straight up you know,

988
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the reality, right, I mean, what are

989
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: you going for? It's exact. By the way, It's the

990
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,320
Speaker 1: same thing with me when I'm styling. If I'm not honest,

991
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 1: Why how am I doing my job? Right? It's up

992
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 1: to them what they want to do with the information

993
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 1: I give them, right, But like I'm going to say, like,

994
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: you're going to get killed in the press for that look.

995
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: But if you love it and you should wear it.

996
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 1: I just want you to know going out there, it's

997
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: not going to be well received. You can do that information, yeah,

998
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 1: but how much? But how much shit do you get

999
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: for being direct? Rachel? Not a lot, because it's I

1000
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: always explain this to Roger, it's not what you say,

1001
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: it's how you say it. I'm a terrible communicator, terrible.

1002
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: He's very direct, because that's what's interesting. You're like, you're not.

1003
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: I'm like the most direct. He's really interact, and I'm

1004
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, you know, honey, like softening things in

1005
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: a delivery, because it's not I find it's never actually

1006
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 1: what you say, it's how you say it. So I'll

1007
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: say to a client, Okay, listen, if that's your favorite

1008
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:29,400
Speaker 1: then and that's what you feel better in, that's what

1009
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 1: you should wear. I just need to do my job

1010
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: and tell you it's not going to be well received

1011
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 1: in the press. And if you're okay with that and

1012
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: you don't give enough, then let's do it. So but

1013
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But I think as long

1014
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 1: as you're kind about it, they get it. Yeah, you

1015
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: know what I mean, because listen, the truth does hurt sometimes,

1016
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: you know. But again, that's why I tell people all

1017
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: the time, like I'm not here to take your hopes

1018
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: and dreams away. I just want I just want to

1019
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 1: be as open as I possibly can't hear. People have

1020
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 1: a hard time telling you certain things here, so I

1021
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: want to be that person to tell you in a

1022
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 1: very loving way. So go back to the number one

1023
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: question is will I find love? Or when will I

1024
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 1: find love? Or some love question? Now that would theoretically

1025
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 1: these people probably be there alone, right right, you know,

1026
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: they're having a reading with you alone. What if your guy,

1027
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 1: I mean, so you're guy soon? Just how it works.

1028
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: So you're sitting there, this person's asking me a love

1029
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: You're like thinking, you're sort of going into your mind,

1030
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: right You're like hmmm, and you're waiting for some sort

1031
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 1: of uh message I guess from you know, oh she's

1032
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:37,320
Speaker 1: Now what if you're like, oh my god, this person's

1033
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: never find love? Like, what do you do? A good

1034
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 1: question that's a toughie because I'm also still human there,

1035
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: so I will I will tell you, I just don't

1036
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 1: see it in the near future. Whatever this is what's

1037
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 1: going on here, right, I mean because nine out of

1038
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 1: ten times, again it's their fierce their insecurities or they

1039
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: the worst thing is that again I'm going to put

1040
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:58,799
Speaker 1: you in a position of power here, like like as

1041
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: you already are, you have women like you that are

1042
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: in these huge positions, positions of power that have a

1043
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: lot of like that. I'm not saying masculine energy, energy,

1044
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 1: but a very dominant energy that pick meets for lovers

1045
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: that are on the feminine side, so not gay, but

1046
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: they're more emotional, the more vulnerable. It's like, man, what

1047
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 1: ends up happening is that you'll you'll end up taking

1048
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 1: care of these people that the strong person'll take care

1049
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,400
Speaker 1: of this person and when Rachel or Chris or Roger

1050
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: needs a shoulder to lean on. But because because we've

1051
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,879
Speaker 1: been cuddling people this whole way, they don't know how

1052
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: to receive us. They're used to looking at us as

1053
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 1: being like that this pillar of strength, right, And I'll

1054
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: tell people stop doing that. You are not somebody's counselor

1055
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,800
Speaker 1: you're the one that's suffering and needs love. Stop picking

1056
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: these these these lower energy type of people evolved from that. Yeah,

1057
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 1: that's that's one of the biggest things where is telling

1058
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: somebody stop doing that. Because they see their worth and

1059
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:50,439
Speaker 1: they see their validation and their appreciation buy the look

1060
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: on their lover's face. That's how they get their validation,

1061
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: but it does nothing for them because they're not getting

1062
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: that back in a return. So right, Like, Roger's totally

1063
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,760
Speaker 1: not like a dude. It's weird. I'm not a dude

1064
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,399
Speaker 1: like in that sense like soft. I'm sorry, I don't

1065
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 1: like like, I'm not like into like I'm not like

1066
00:49:05,719 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 1: a matuois like I hate that. He's not virealous. He's

1067
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: not like what sign is he? He's a Libra about

1068
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: dear god? Oh wow, can you imagine I'm a virgo.

1069
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:22,800
Speaker 1: He's a libra. I've gotten sagant, I've gotten very thank God.

1070
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: I have my airy son, my capricorn son, But I

1071
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 1: am a virgo. My mother, my father, and my sister

1072
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 1: are all cancers. I am a virgo in a sea

1073
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 1: of cancers. Can you imagine? Poor thing? No wonder you

1074
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 1: didn't have a chance. I mean I didn't have a chance.

1075
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 1: I have a chance. Why do you think I'm living

1076
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:42,439
Speaker 1: my independent life as a control freak throwing things out

1077
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: of the refrigerator. Well, libra, libra. I'm a man. I

1078
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,760
Speaker 1: always say, I mean that that's venus, that's that's feminine energy,

1079
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,400
Speaker 1: that's it could be very It makes a very feminine

1080
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,960
Speaker 1: man not gay. But somebody that kind of like doesn't

1081
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: doesn't really know. I get into arguments, somebody that kind

1082
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: of wants to kind of keep the piece gifts over.

1083
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 1: They talk a lot of shit, but then get over

1084
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: it easily, get mad and like five minutes later, so

1085
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: what's going on? What are we eating? That's exactly well,

1086
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: that's what we always say about us. We're like Lucy

1087
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 1: and Ricky. We'll like, well, bicker, we'll have the sickest

1088
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: fight for like, I don't know, four or five minutes,

1089
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: and then literally five minutes later he'll come up, He'll

1090
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:18,640
Speaker 1: be like, I'm so hungry? What are we eating? Like,

1091
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 1: there's no we have the quickest recovery time. If any people. Yeah,

1092
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 1: if Rachel's feet get out of here. Literally I'm like,

1093
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,879
Speaker 1: don't look at me. She's really mad at me like,

1094
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: I know she's really mad at me, and she won't

1095
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 1: make me a frozen. I won't like make him as

1096
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: ice cream in it, like she'll like usually make me

1097
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: like frozen. You're gonna if I'm really best, I'll make

1098
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,919
Speaker 1: him start. Yeah, she's like, I ain't here. I would

1099
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: just go, miss me. I will leave the bowl of

1100
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: the cart and the spoon. They're here making yourself. Basically

1101
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 1: you're on your own. But then, but you know, even

1102
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: if she's mad at me, she'll do it because the

1103
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 1: thought of me doing it, it's so much, so much

1104
00:50:52,680 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 1: worse because she has to do it, and that crazy's

1105
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: in the same way, I'm the same. I'm gonna get mad,

1106
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 1: but then I'm gonna bitch. They're gonna make a huge

1107
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:01,720
Speaker 1: men in the kitchen. I'm gonna have to clean that up. Anyways,

1108
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 1: Let's just go do it and get it over with

1109
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: and just throw it out. And here you got I'd

1110
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:08,319
Speaker 1: rather just do it. I'd rather just do it. It's

1111
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 1: easier for me, Honestly. That's why I'm sorry to say.

1112
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 1: Telling you moving forward, Rachel again, you you you're very

1113
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 1: much in control of who you are. You know all

1114
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 1: you're an adequacies. You know, your fears and your insecurities.

1115
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 1: This is all something that that that you're very well

1116
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: aware of. But that being said, like I said, I

1117
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 1: don't see anything. I mean, you're gonna get stuck in

1118
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:27,879
Speaker 1: traffic and have deal dumb ask people on a daily

1119
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:29,680
Speaker 1: It's just like everybody else here. But as far as

1120
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: like you know, loosening up and and and better energy,

1121
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: better vibes, coming enjoy it. Yes, I love Rachel. We're

1122
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: gonna have some fun maybe though she's looking at yeah,

1123
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:42,880
Speaker 1: because again you're your smile. I mean, I love the

1124
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: way that you smile. It's it's one smile away from

1125
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: a laugh all the time. Look at you. Yeah, it is,

1126
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: so I'd enjoy enjoy it. You can be good vibes.

1127
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,479
Speaker 1: I was I'm not gonnae I was really nervous coming

1128
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: into this, really really I was saying that, and I'm no,

1129
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: I no, I'm the easiest, most chill I really am.

1130
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 1: Like I think that's the thing that every person that

1131
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: meets either like not what I expected because you're scared

1132
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 1: coming in and like you couldn't be less scary. I

1133
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: think I'll carrying your power, you know, like product like

1134
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,879
Speaker 1: that she's not like that at all. I just don't

1135
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: think I'm no disrespect to men out there, but I

1136
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: just I mean, you're a very strong female presence. I

1137
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: mean you carry yourself in a very in a very

1138
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: powerful way. That's what's intimidating is that I know that

1139
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: if we get into an argument, I'm not leaving there

1140
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: without a couple of scratches on my face or a clap. Yeah,

1141
00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna give it to me. You're gonna give it

1142
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: to me good. And that's what I love about you

1143
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: is that you're going to keep it real. I will

1144
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: keep it. I want you to keep it real with

1145
00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: yourself and just let go a little bit here, enjoy

1146
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: these blessings that are coming in, because again, I know

1147
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: you've been through some shit. You've worked so hard, You've

1148
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 1: seen the good and the bad side of things. Here,

1149
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: start saying, let's get back into that zone here, but

1150
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 1: let's bring it back. Let's bring it back twenty years

1151
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,920
Speaker 1: or ten years back. Oh bless you. I love that. Okay,

1152
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: So I just have another question. So that was your

1153
00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: first question asked the most what's your second most asked,

1154
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 1: second most asked question? Um, I would have to be

1155
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: a career. What am I going to do with? What

1156
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,200
Speaker 1: am I going to do here by see this happening?

1157
00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: Am I going to be poor for the rest of

1158
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,960
Speaker 1: my life? My question wouldn't money? Money? Focus money, Let

1159
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,439
Speaker 1: me focus? Yeah, of course, because those are the things

1160
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 1: not in control for people, you know, money and love,

1161
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:29,839
Speaker 1: right and health? I guess right. If you can look

1162
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: at it that way, you can look at it this

1163
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 1: being out of your control. But you can also look

1164
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: at this like, you know, what do I have to

1165
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: do to get there? So back? Yeah, well, people are

1166
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: waiting for things to fall in their lives and happen.

1167
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: That's the issue. And I think that's the biggest thing

1168
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 1: that I've also learned. You know, you were I think

1169
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 1: what you were alluding to earlier, at least with my reading, God,

1170
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 1: I how to read yourself. No, I think you know,

1171
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 1: I always say that I was. I was a little deferential,

1172
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: just like oh no, it's fine, you guys, Like I

1173
00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 1: would help someone and then like oh no, I don't

1174
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 1: need a piece of that, don't worry you got you know,

1175
00:53:57,360 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 1: I would always just like give it away. You know.

1176
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: It's passive, And I think I'm so much passive? Is

1177
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: it would be kind of like, well, if I do,

1178
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 1: you know, kind of the mentality if I do this year,

1179
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 1: here's hoping that you'll scratch my back later, you know

1180
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But they never absolutely exactly and they

1181
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 1: never do. So what happened was, I think over the

1182
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:16,920
Speaker 1: last couple of years I just started looking around at me, like,

1183
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm actually like better than like I'm better,

1184
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 1: but like nobody really decided had to become an asshole.

1185
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: I kind of had to just like take it on

1186
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, you know what, no one's really sing,

1187
00:54:26,719 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: I'll watch out, and I just sort of just started doing.

1188
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 1: And that's why I've been on that. It seems like

1189
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: I'm leaving you out of these readings here because then

1190
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 1: I can't. You have to understand something. This is not

1191
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: a manipulation tactic. But I can't also give you too

1192
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:40,839
Speaker 1: much of the future and take the lesson away from

1193
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: you because you you're coming into your own power right now.

1194
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you were powerless before. You might

1195
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 1: definitely feel it. And it's also interesting. I'm very zen

1196
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 1: about it. I'm not I'm not like putting pressure on it.

1197
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: I agree with you though whereas I came from, I

1198
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 1: have always had the thing of like, no one's going

1199
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 1: to have my back. So I bet that's more of

1200
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: how I think. I think, not in a negative way,

1201
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 1: but like, assume no one has your back and then

1202
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 1: forward and if they do, that's the happiest surprise of

1203
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 1: all and you love them so much, and you think that,

1204
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:13,879
Speaker 1: Like for me, when people do have your back, I'm

1205
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: like blown away, blown away. That's why I know, like

1206
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:18,920
Speaker 1: you come back, you you've come with a lot of

1207
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: your own past life energy. I bet you anything that

1208
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 1: you were probably in the same position that you're in

1209
00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 1: now in a past life, but way worse to where

1210
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 1: you didn't even have your own life. So coming back

1211
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: in this lifetime and getting married, having children and and

1212
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: bringing that side in that that that that harmic side

1213
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: of things here, you had to learn that lesson. And

1214
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:38,359
Speaker 1: you've also learned too. I'm tired of putting myself out

1215
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: there and tired. I'm tired of like you know, doing this,

1216
00:55:40,000 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 1: going doing all the stuff here and getting shitted on.

1217
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: She kind of you kind of had a regroup and

1218
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 1: kind of I mean, I don't know whether exactly you

1219
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:51,760
Speaker 1: realize sometimes your own progression. I think you're amazing questions.

1220
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, Chris. Let's do some fun questions. Okay, UM,

1221
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: a few quick rapid fires Chris. If you were going

1222
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: to get arrested, did you get arrested for geez? Probably

1223
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 1: talking to ghosts? Yeah, talking to ghosts while while smoking

1224
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:12,200
Speaker 1: weed in the car, get arrested for the weed. You'd

1225
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 1: get arrested for the gay exactly. Okay. So where do

1226
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:22,400
Speaker 1: you see yourself in twenty years from now? Like what

1227
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: I mean, you probably your own stuff. You probably can

1228
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: I can see a limited amount of it. They were

1229
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 1: really careful I'm doing that. I messed up with that,

1230
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 1: getting involved in relationships where I would literally break up

1231
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: with a person if I knew that it was going

1232
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 1: to be for a two month thing. And my guys

1233
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: were like, no, you're missing the lesson here. They're coming

1234
00:56:39,520 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: to you with something you need to learn there. If

1235
00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 1: you don't stop doing that, we're going to take it

1236
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: away from you. So when I started getting glimpses in

1237
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 1: the future for myself, my guys usually say, do you

1238
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: have a bad feeling about this or a good feeling?

1239
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 1: It's a good feeling. That's all you need to know,

1240
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,840
Speaker 1: because you're going to mess this up. So yeah, but

1241
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:55,480
Speaker 1: in twenty years from now, I plan I plan on

1242
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,680
Speaker 1: taking this on the road. I plan on hitting a

1243
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:01,160
Speaker 1: lot more people giving release all at one time, like

1244
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:04,399
Speaker 1: a Tony Robbins kind of thing. Exactly. Yeah, I could

1245
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:09,680
Speaker 1: see that. Chris. You're awesome, Thank you very much, incredible.

1246
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,919
Speaker 1: Do you have any questions for us? No, I don't

1247
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 1: have any questions. I just want to say any questions

1248
00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: I already know. I'm mister answer. I'm just I'm just

1249
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: incredibly grateful and I mean bless for this wonderful opportunity

1250
00:57:21,040 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: to speak to both of you. Are amazing, Chris, That's it.

1251
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 1: It was so amazing to have you. And also the

1252
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: best part for me is that Roger engaged with you

1253
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 1: because he really has always been hesitant because he was afraid.

1254
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: He was afraid. You want to reach out for a session?

1255
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: You want, you want to anytime either one of you

1256
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 1: guys need anything, Do not hesitate to reach out the best.

1257
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 1: Here we go, same same here, Chris should like so much. Okay,

1258
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:51,520
Speaker 1: we got to call our psychic. We could do that.

1259
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:54,479
Speaker 1: I think we do after big decisions before we sign

1260
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: the contracts. Let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do it.

1261
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 1: Thank you, chriss awesome, have a wonderful week. Thank you

1262
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:08,440
Speaker 1: you too. Take care. Okay, So that was incredible. Actually,

1263
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: I kind of think I'm going to call him again.

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Speaker 1: I think you need to have a weekly session with

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Speaker 1: Chris Medina because I've never seen you so into something.

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Speaker 1: You're so but I don't call you when I tell

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Speaker 1: you what call me. But he basically said he'd like

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Speaker 1: I think the reading would be really like short because

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Speaker 1: he said he couldn't tell me anything but the fact

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Speaker 1: that he didn't know you and was like, your biggest

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Speaker 1: frustration is you feel like people can't keep up and

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Speaker 1: you're not said that he didn't really see He said

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Speaker 1: that verbatim, what are you talking about? And I lost

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Speaker 1: my mind because I was like, that's exactly here. That

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Speaker 1: was like a that was incredible. That was honestly incredible. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: I think he's amazing and he was so sweet and endearing.

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Speaker 1: Kind of wanted to give him a hug through the phone,

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Speaker 1: I mean through the computer. Hold on a site he

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Speaker 1: sees dead people. Yeah, I didn't go there. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you really think about it, I don't like

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Speaker 1: to think about check this out look now he also

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Speaker 1: sits there with people well, he said, he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: to talk about this. I guess you could probably pay

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Speaker 1: for um bet I bet you if you hired and

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Speaker 1: sad like I want to communicate with like whatever I

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Speaker 1: have some unseats. He's a medium, he would, I guess

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Speaker 1: do that? Well? Like what if they're just like not home? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So if you like what you heard so far, please

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Speaker 1: to one, and we just might share your story or

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Speaker 1: answer your question. On the show. We want to leave

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Speaker 1: you with a little highlight and a low light from

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Speaker 1: our So of course, in relationships, the bad comes with

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Speaker 1: the good. So this is our time every week to

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Speaker 1: mention a little bit of both of those things. Babe,

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Speaker 1: what's your highlight? I think the sun is shining. The

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Speaker 1: highlight for me was going on the beach. The highlight

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Speaker 1: for me is nighttime beach walk. I love it just

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01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: going to the beach. It really makes me so anxious

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Speaker 1: when you leave here at eleven o'clock and I just

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Speaker 1: feel like you're going to get hit by a car

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Speaker 1: or something. It's just really freaks me out. It's very dark,

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Speaker 1: no street lights, there's nobody. I have my little I

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Speaker 1: totally I turned my flashlights, the phone and I put

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Speaker 1: it out of my back. I just feel like you're

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Speaker 1: my other child. And I don't like you wandering around alone,

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Speaker 1: A wandering You're wandering. You're wandering like if you get

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Speaker 1: washed out to see nobody knows, Like honestly, well, I

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Speaker 1: don't like your late at the beach. So you know

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Speaker 1: where to look. But you could go missing, like you

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Speaker 1: could what if the tide comes, you could swept away? Anyway?

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Speaker 1: What's your low light? Um? What's my lowlight? I've had

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Speaker 1: a pretty damn good week. I don't know, okay good,

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Speaker 1: I mean there's no I mean there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: loving happening. Not just kidding. I didn't say that because

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Speaker 1: there's none ever happening. You I don't even hold your hand. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's my hello? What's my hello? What's my highlight? Honestly,

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Speaker 1: our kids keep coming home with like Camper of the

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Speaker 1: Day award. It's very cute, like that's just a mom highlight,

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Speaker 1: like proud mom moment. They keep coming home with like

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Speaker 1: best Camper of the Day award kind of things. You're like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god. When they're not with us, they're good kids. Um,

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Speaker 1: they're actually better kids. I don't know. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: they're way better kids. Low light low light, Um, honestly,

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Speaker 1: lack of sleep. Yeah, I'm really exhausted, and I feel

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Speaker 1: like I shouldn't be exhausted right now. But then on

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Speaker 1: the flip side of that, I'm very grateful to be

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Speaker 1: busy doing so many things I love. So I think

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Speaker 1: my low lad is just sheer an utter mom and

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Speaker 1: like working mom exhaustion. You know, it's nothing, you know, groundbreaking,

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Speaker 1: but it's truth. Oh, I know you're not trust Thanks

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Speaker 1: for listening. Everyone. We will see you next week with

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