1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia, Judice, Daisy. 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 2: Kent, and Jennifer Kessler. 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 3: All right, guys, so here we are here, we're back 5 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 3: talking to There are four of us here talking about sororities, 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,280 Speaker 3: different times, different generations, young old. 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 4: I was in the middle because like, I think my 8 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 4: mom is the grandma. Now we're middle, and then Lily 9 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 4: is young. 10 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 3: You keep telling yoursel phone. 11 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 2: I think you're wrong. 12 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 4: I think your mom is the whatever the gigi. 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 2: Okay, whatever your thing is, Lily the gigi. Right, we're 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 2: the grandma's. 15 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 4: So Jen, give us the next lingo. But I wanted 16 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 4: to talk about something that Nikki brought up in our 17 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 4: last episode, which was back in the day, in the nineties. 18 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 4: And we'll see what Lily thinks of this. You had 19 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 4: a landline in your room, some people did. How we 20 00:00:56,920 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 4: communicated was through these payphones and so at Kappa we 21 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 4: had these two phones. Now in our era, it would 22 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 4: just ring and you hope someone would answer it. In 23 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 4: my mom's era, fledges were assigned time. 24 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 2: That's hazing, literally, that's hazing, right. 25 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 4: No, so to answer so I can remember the phone ringing. 26 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 4: You know this payphone, an old timey payphone. You'd answer 27 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 4: it and they would say, this is you know, Bob, 28 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 4: Can I talk to Nicki? And then you'd get on 29 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 4: the intercom and you would say NICKI oh four, Niki 30 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 4: O two. 31 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 3: And then those phones, those were like house phones. 32 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,279 Speaker 4: You had to use a quarter or like your dad's 33 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 4: calling card if you wanted to call out. Now, you 34 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 4: might have a phone in your room, but there would 35 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 4: be no way to really know the number. Although I 36 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 4: have this vague memory of a Greek phone book, Nicki, 37 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 4: do you have any memory of some sort of a 38 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 4: phone book that had everyone's landlord. 39 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 2: Thomas side or what do we call yellow pages? 40 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 5: Baby? 41 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 3: No, I mean I just remember a bathe phone with 42 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 3: life like there are all different lines and lights would 43 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 3: be blinking. 44 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 6: No, that's from the movie Love Story back in the 45 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 6: day that you're in the fifties on that. 46 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 4: That's fancy, Jen. We had a payphone, like an actual 47 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,679 Speaker 4: hanging on the wall payphone. 48 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: Two with a booth that you would go into. 49 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 4: Correct and then there was a booth. Yeah, so if 50 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 4: you and if you were upstairs and you would say NICKI, 51 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 4: oh four, you'd have to wait for Nikki to pick 52 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 4: it up downstairs. Then you would hang up and then 53 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 4: she could like shut the payphone door downstairs. I'm happy 54 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 4: to we use card and there were actually yeah, or 55 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 4: did we use credit cards or collect calls? 56 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 2: Like we're in jail? All of it? 57 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 4: We had all that stuff, Minnie Dorms, I remember that. 58 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: What if someone was hogging it? Like Nicki's on the 59 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: phone with her long distance boyfriend one freshman year and 60 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: she's hogging it. 61 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 5: What do you guys do? 62 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 4: We also had phones in our room, so you'd have 63 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 4: a landline with an answering machine with a cassette tape 64 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 4: in it. So you would have a landline and like 65 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 4: you and your roommate would share the landline and you 66 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 4: would come in and you'd hit oh we got three 67 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 4: message and hit play oh my god, and your roommate, 68 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 4: I had this overwhelming memory come back to me the 69 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 4: other day. Your roommate would totally mess up the call. 70 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 4: So I come back into the room and my roommate 71 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 4: Karen said, so and so called, and I said, okay, 72 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 4: like it was really random, like she basically said, like 73 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 4: Teddy called, So I called back this guy Teddy and 74 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 4: it was this awkward, weird conversation because really Eddie called, 75 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 4: but she said Teddy and it was so am I 76 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 4: still to this day, thirty years later, I'm like, I 77 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 4: called Teddy. 78 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 2: Like Lily, we didn't even have computers. 79 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 6: We had brother word processors that were like huge suitcases. 80 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: Do you remember those, Amy? We would sit up. 81 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 4: I mean I actually had a computer. I was kind 82 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 4: of advancing. 83 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 7: I had. 84 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 2: You were a very fancy because I had I. 85 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 4: Had a computer. What that had discs? And I would 86 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 4: take the disc down to this thing on bank Craft 87 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 4: and print out my papers floppy discs. 88 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: I can't even think about what that looks like. I 89 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: can't even have you ever heard of it? Typewriter, Lily, Yes, yes, 90 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: but you guys didn't use typewriters. 91 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 4: We did some people, sure did they? 92 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 3: Sure? 93 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 5: Jen? You use it for what? 94 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: Mine was almost a type type I. 95 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 3: Mean so, I mean it was close there in terms 96 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 3: of like computers starting to use computers for papers. But 97 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 3: like I'm talking about, like I when I had a 98 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 3: big paper, even in college, if I was I would 99 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 3: take it, I would write it out, take it to 100 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 3: my mother, she was a secretary. She would type out 101 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 3: the paper away so I could turn it in. Yeah, totally. No. 102 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 4: There was only a few of us that had computers. 103 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 4: So I had this Apple two E and it would 104 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 4: be this big monitor and then there was a computer, 105 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 4: and then you would put the disc in save your 106 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 4: stuff onto this disc and then some people maybe had 107 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 4: a printer, but I had to take it down and 108 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 4: get it printed, and then I would turn my paper in. 109 00:04:57,400 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 4: But I had the advantage because I could edit and 110 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 4: make changes, whereas poor Nikki the brother only had like 111 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 4: a small screen. So if you if you printed that 112 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 4: never wide out. 113 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 5: You have to you. 114 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 3: Have to like wide out it and then blow on 115 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 3: it so you can go over it. 116 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: I think about this all the time, like what if 117 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: if you were running late or you had to cancel 118 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: on something, how would you get ahold of someone you 119 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: just did it? 120 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 5: You just couldn't. 121 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 2: I had a pager a beeper in high school, but 122 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 2: I don't know Amy did we have one? 123 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 5: But does it page? What's a pager? What does that do? 124 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 5: Is that connected to your landlord? 125 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 6: Well, the other person had to have a beeper too, 126 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 6: So if Amy didn't have a beeper and I had 127 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:41,840 Speaker 6: a beeper and I was beeping, she wouldn't get it, 128 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 6: so I guess we were maybe never late or we just. 129 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 2: I don't know. 130 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:50,040 Speaker 4: Crazier thing is how we ever met up with the 131 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 4: fraternity boys. 132 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 5: Want to regnize, So you would basically. 133 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 4: Hope for the best. So you would go with your 134 00:05:55,760 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 4: sorority sisters to Henry's or kIPS or Rawley's or some 135 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 4: other bear's layer, and you would just hope for the best. 136 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 4: You would hope that the guy you kind of had 137 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 4: a crush on or the couple guys would be there too, 138 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 4: and you would just sort of hope. Now, maybe you 139 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 4: would landline to landline, so you might call Mike at 140 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 4: SAE and be like, hey, you guys going down the hill, 141 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 4: and then you would just hope for the best. 142 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:26,919 Speaker 6: But here's the I mean, look, here's the reality of 143 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 6: it is. Greek life is multi generational, despite the different lingo, 144 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 6: despite the different electronics we all have, despite I mean, 145 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 6: the truth is is it's an institution that has spanned many, many, 146 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 6: many decades, right, even though things have changed with the world. 147 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 6: So going back to that kind of sisterhood concept or 148 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 6: word that we used, but it's interesting that that almost 149 00:06:54,720 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 6: doesn't translate on as deep of a level, right, like 150 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 6: it was it clickier in later years. 151 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 2: Would you say, like how many people were in your pledge. 152 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 5: Class sixty six? 153 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well, I mean we had thirty maybe. 154 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I think it depends on school. I 155 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 5: think it's still very clique. 156 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: I think there's still but there's there's friendships between sororities, 157 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 1: like my freshman year roommate, because of who your roommates 158 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: are freshman year, who you meet freshman year. I think 159 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: the later rush at different schools, it makes it so 160 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: you have a lot of different friends in your stories. 161 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: But totally there's still a clique aspect, but it's not uncommon. 162 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: It was almost if you were only friends with girls 163 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: in different sororities from your own and those were your 164 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: main best friends, that was almost that's a red flag. 165 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 6: Well, no different than somebody who doesn't have friends from 166 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 6: their past and they're only friends within the chapter that 167 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 6: they're existing. 168 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 4: It right, right, that kind of But I think it's 169 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 4: interesting to say, like, I have a lot of good 170 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 4: friends that were pi Fi's, DG's couple tried ELTs maybe 171 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 4: a kayah, that's. 172 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 2: It why because the lower tier didn't. 173 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 4: Speak to you, tag Amy, I'm just telling the truth. 174 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 4: This is a truthful place. 175 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: That still rings very true because all the same sororities 176 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: hang out with all the same fraternities, right. 177 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 3: I always say this, it's a very funny thing. Texas 178 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: at the University of Texas. Let me show you that 179 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 3: Jewish people are a minority, oh time, big time. When 180 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 3: I went to University of Texas, it felt like everybody 181 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 3: in Texas was Jewish because that's exactly I Everybody I 182 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 3: knew was either in DBT, Sammy a fire STT and 183 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 3: that's just how we rolled, and so every party ever 184 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 3: so so you know, I didn't feel I feel like 185 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 3: sometimes even growing up in Texas, I felt more Jewish there. 186 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 3: I know it sounds weird, but because everyone I knew 187 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 3: I was always surrounded by Jewish people. 188 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 6: I have a question on Lingo, Lily to ask you, 189 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 6: as I was looking at Jen wondering if she's married 190 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 6: to her college boyfriend or not. No, no, okay, just 191 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 6: check in because a lot of my friends are Lily. 192 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 2: Did they This is going to really age me. It's 193 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: going to sound super old fashioned. Did they ever have pinnings? 194 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 5: I've had a pinning with my college boyfriend. 195 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 2: Are you still pinned? Are you still attached? 196 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,079 Speaker 5: No, sadly, Oh. 197 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 4: No, thanks for bringing that up, Nikki, thanks for bringing 198 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 4: that up. 199 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 5: No, no, no, we're good. We're good. 200 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,680 Speaker 4: Here's something that's interesting about Nicky's era. At her school, 201 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 4: there was an extraordinary amount of couples her age that 202 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 4: married each other that are still Married's like amazing, very 203 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 4: very I know some like I could name ten couples 204 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 4: from Nicky's class and maybe the class below, class above 205 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 4: that married each other and are still married and still 206 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 4: like happy. End quotes. 207 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,440 Speaker 3: Do you guys have candlelighting? So we'd sit in a circle, 208 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 3: there'd be a lit candle and it was very sacred. 209 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: And you were wearing all white. 210 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 3: You were all white, and you passed the candle around 211 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 3: and it was like it was engagement that somebody was 212 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 3: now engaged to be engaged to. The girl had been 213 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 3: I guess pinned and she blew out the candle and 214 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 3: it went crazy. It's just so funny. But Rachel, if 215 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 3: I find out that you're engaged to be engaged to 216 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 3: be engaged to be engaged, you're dead. 217 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: Okay, l shes twenty three and she's in New York. 218 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 4: He was in New York. 219 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:50,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm like, don't even think about it, sweetheart. 220 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 4: Because I think it's interesting to talk about boys in 221 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 4: the sorority. So Lily will Nicky and I will tell 222 00:10:58,160 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 4: you about boys in our sorority, and then you tell 223 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 4: us what it's like. 224 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 6: Now. 225 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 4: We actually were allowed to have boys, which was kind 226 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 4: of like, oh, they're allowed to have boys. We're allowed 227 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 4: to have boys for lunch. You could have boys upstairs till. 228 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 2: Ten No you couldn't. Yeah, we could, No, we could not. 229 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 4: We could. You would go up they could go upstairs 230 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 4: till ten pm at night and you would go on 231 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 4: to the floor and you would say, man on, man on, 232 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 4: that's a big lingo thing. 233 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 5: Man on, Wait, what is there. 234 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 4: Is a boy in the hallway, So like don't come 235 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 4: out of your room and a towel, or don't come 236 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 4: out of the bathroom. You had to shout out man on, 237 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 4: which meant there's a man on the floor, and. 238 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 6: Vaguely, I'm menopause, hold on, it's fine, vaguely remembering this 239 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 6: and that at ten no boys. 240 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 4: And the other thing that was interesting was when a boy. Okay, 241 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 4: so we had a front door and you'd ring the 242 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 4: doorbell and we called it a foyer. I know some 243 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 4: people say foyer, but it was called a foyer and 244 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 4: the boy or your guest would come in. So say 245 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 4: I go to the front door, open the door, and 246 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 4: a boy is there for NICKI. I would get on 247 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 4: the intercom and say, NICKI, you have a caller on two. 248 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 4: So that way she knew it was a boy. If 249 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 4: it was her friend from PYTHEI I would say, NICKI, 250 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 4: you have a guest on two. That way she knew 251 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,559 Speaker 4: she could like run down looking like, you know, do 252 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 4: doo and then take the girl back up or eat 253 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 4: lunch or whatever. So that way, there was an indicator 254 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 4: on the intercoll right if it was a you know, 255 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 4: a girl or a boy, and people would pop over. 256 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 4: There also was like all of a sudden, a boy 257 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 4: would just like ring the door and they'd be like, 258 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 4: you have a caller on too, and you'd be like, 259 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 4: who is it? And then it would be some friend 260 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:41,199 Speaker 4: or could they sleep over? No, boys could not sleep over. 261 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 4: They had to leave at ten. 262 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 3: Boys could move mast the foyer foyer. I think that 263 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 3: there was a room right there, like a living room 264 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 3: that they can go into, maybe into the dining room, 265 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 3: but I don't remember them so. 266 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 4: We had a living room, a TV room, and a 267 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 4: date room. It was called the date room. I think 268 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 4: we've talked about this on this show show before now. Weirdly, 269 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 4: I don't remember anyone like really using the date room. 270 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 4: It was always empty. 271 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 6: We used to watch in my time Beverly Hill's nine 272 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 6: or two hours. 273 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 4: That was the TV room, General Hospital. 274 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:16,240 Speaker 2: Melrose Place. Where was the Where was it? 275 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 4: If you were in the TV room and you looked 276 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 4: out those doors towards the mailboxes. The date room was 277 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 4: that fancy room right near the mailbox room. 278 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I remember that. 279 00:13:27,880 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 5: A date room. 280 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 4: And you could have a boy for lunch. I think 281 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 4: you could have a boy for dinner. Not on Mondays, 282 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:37,960 Speaker 4: no breakfast if a boy strolled. 283 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 3: I can't believe you. You have such a good memory, you. 284 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 4: Really, you really do. I don't know if I'm acting, 285 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 4: but I do the best I can. 286 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 5: You were allowed to have boys for lunch and dinner. 287 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:50,000 Speaker 5: Breakfast too was like technical. 288 00:13:50,040 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 4: Could you have boys in your bedrooms? 289 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 5: Yes? 290 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:53,079 Speaker 2: Could they sleep over? 291 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 4: But yes, but this they oh they could sleep over 292 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 4: or you snuck them. 293 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: Over everyone else like all the other in this was 294 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 1: a real thing. Like at my school. 295 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 5: It was really. 296 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 1: Everyone was pretty mad at us because we had a 297 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: very young house mom who let a lot of things, 298 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 1: a lot of sister house Yeah. She she was twenty five, 299 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: like right out of college and started being her house mom. 300 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: And she was really young, Like. 301 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 4: Why would she even want that job? 302 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: I think, I mean like free rent money and then 303 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: living in la and she was doing other things. 304 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 2: Was she in your sorority? 305 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 5: She went to Syracuse. But she was like a friend. 306 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 5: I don't know. We loved her. 307 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 4: Our house mom was definitely a grandma and somebody aunt 308 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 4: Billie or something. 309 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 2: We had Marge. 310 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: Everyone else other every other house had that, but we 311 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: had the young house mom so we could kind of 312 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, she didn't care. 313 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 5: We had always. 314 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 4: Sairly ever saw the house mom. She would like hop 315 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 4: out of that apartment once in a blue moon. But 316 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 4: she was definitely more like a grandma. And she had 317 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 4: this room. It was like she had a little apartment 318 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 4: within the roty house. 319 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 5: Yeah. 320 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, she ate her room I think too, didn't she. 321 00:15:04,120 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 4: Oh she never came down for like meals. She probably 322 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 4: was like what am I doing. 323 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 5: With these crazy ours would hang out? 324 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: We would, but like we would do I mean, we 325 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 1: had a courtyard and we would people would like smoke 326 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: pot in the courtyard. 327 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 7: Oh no, and like but they can't use the word rush, right, Nikki, 328 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 7: do you remember how we got in trouble, Like the 329 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 7: whole house was in trouble in not in a like 330 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 7: you're busted, but like almost in an embarrassing way, because 331 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 7: people would take their lunch upstairs, eat their lunch and 332 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 7: put their dishes outside their door, like we were at 333 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 7: a hotel and just expect somebody to come pick up 334 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 7: their their plates. 335 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 4: And then also there would be like somebody would have 336 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 4: fourteen cups in their room, they'd like take their cups upstairs. 337 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 4: We had at one hasher, but back in the day, 338 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 4: what's a hasher? The hasher was the guy that was 339 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 4: doing the dishes and he worked at a fraternity, right yeah, 340 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 4: or he was like a guy making money. On Mondays 341 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 4: you had formal dinner, so you would sit and I 342 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 4: think he would clear your plates, sure, like a server. 343 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 4: But back in the day, there would be like ten 344 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 4: hashers and they My dad was a hasher and my 345 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 4: mom was in the sortie and that's how they met 346 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 4: and got married. They came from the law school and 347 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 4: they would I think they had formal dinner, like many 348 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 4: nights a week, so they were always like serving and 349 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 4: clearing like you were at like a four five star restaurants. Crazy. 350 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 6: Really, did you guys have father daughter dances and mother 351 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 6: daughter launcheins? 352 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 7: No? 353 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 4: What? 354 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 5: No, you had? Oh here's another lingo. We could not. 355 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: We no longer had mom's weekend, which I think this 356 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: is for the best because I had a friend who 357 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: lost her mom. But if you have two dad's, right, 358 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: so you call it role model weekend and you could 359 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:07,040 Speaker 1: bring you know, usually people would bring their moms or 360 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 1: their dads. 361 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 4: I like that you didn't have like a father daughter 362 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 4: dinner auction dance. 363 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 3: My dad didn't come, we did. 364 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 5: No, no one did that. 365 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: What what your father would fly in just for this dance? 366 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 6: Yes, we have pictures with like the sure printed pictures. 367 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 4: And it was like a big fundraiser too. There was 368 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 4: like a big auction and they would like auction off 369 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 4: items and then all the dads would like bid on them. 370 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,160 Speaker 3: You don't like Texas? Oh you weekend? 371 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 2: Oh they're going this weekend, Jen, it's the it's this weekend. 372 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:41,920 Speaker 2: It's still a thing tomorrow first overnight. 373 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 3: It's huge Texas, So use a big this weekend. 374 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 5: This is so fun. I never knew about the father 375 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 5: daughter thing. 376 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 2: Well, not only that, we do mom's mom. 377 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:57,199 Speaker 6: There's parents weekend, and there's mom's weekend, and there's dad's weekend. 378 00:17:57,480 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 4: And parents came to I cannot remember what it was called. 379 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 4: There was bid day presence. Was it called presence? 380 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:11,320 Speaker 6: Said at still before you get your bid at least 381 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 6: in the South or Texas. Gen Literally the moms and 382 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 6: the grandma's are waiting at the hotel for the call, 383 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,800 Speaker 6: and they all are a part of that bid day. 384 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 4: And we had this thing where it was mid day 385 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 4: and then a few weeks later you would get dressed 386 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 4: up in like more of a like a sun dressy 387 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 4: type dress and there would be sort of like a 388 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 4: tea and crumpets type of vibe in the courtyard. And 389 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 4: I think moms came, but I think maybe dads came, 390 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 4: I don't know, and they would like present the pledges, 391 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 4: but definitely like moms were there. My mom wasn't. 392 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 3: I don't remember her. 393 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: This is this is still a thing with us too, 394 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: Like your mom and your mom and dad come and 395 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 1: watch you, Yeah, get presented for presents. Yeah, and it's 396 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:56,360 Speaker 1: like and it's after initiation. You have to be initiated. 397 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 1: So there's it's you know, like within the first two months. 398 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:00,440 Speaker 3: They get so different school to school. So I didn't 399 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,479 Speaker 3: do that for Rachel either. I don't remember how I mean, 400 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 3: I was there for her. There was a red dress charity, 401 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 3: and there's parents Weekend, but there wasn't I remember any 402 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:09,439 Speaker 3: of that. 403 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 4: Was there any other lingo we haven't gotten to today. 404 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 3: Oh let's see, we talked about house Mother just now. 405 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 6: We did Hometown Pro and conn nice. 406 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 3: You talked about pr risk, which we didn't have it 407 00:19:21,960 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 3: back in the day. 408 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 4: But oh yeah, I can't tell, Like is it good 409 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:29,240 Speaker 4: or bad to be like popular on social media? 410 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 5: I think it depends on what you post on social media. 411 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 6: But Lily, I was told with my friend's daughters that 412 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 6: were going through rush that you have to have a 413 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:42,120 Speaker 6: social media following. So I had many young daughters who 414 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 6: had to like literally take days of changing outfits and 415 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 6: posing and this not to like build a social media 416 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 6: almost campaign. 417 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, because if you only have like five posts in 418 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 1: their kind of random, they're they're like, who is this girl? 419 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 5: Where our friends? 420 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,040 Speaker 4: And no love your posting? 421 00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 6: Yeah? 422 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:00,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, But if you have, yeah, Like, if you have 423 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: like a few thousand followers, and you know people are 424 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: like twenty eight to fifty or whatever, people are commenting 425 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: on each post and liking them, then it's yeah, I mean, 426 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,639 Speaker 1: that's that that bodes well for sure. If there's not 427 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 1: a lot, there's not a lot to look at. 428 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I see. I think it would be the opposite, 429 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 4: Like I would want the girl that has no social media. 430 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 4: I'd be like, I want her. She seems cool, girl, 431 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 4: she's mysterious. 432 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 5: I mean, you're going against your I feel like you're going. 433 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 4: I'm an anomaly. 434 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 3: Actually, Well, when it comes to boys, she wants to 435 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 3: make sure that they're cool. When it comes to girls, 436 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 3: they should be misteraious. 437 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,200 Speaker 4: They really need to be top tier. There you go, 438 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 4: I'm gonna hang out with them. 439 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,439 Speaker 6: Amy, It's probably good you didn't have a daughter that 440 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 6: went through RUSH, because let me tell. 441 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,160 Speaker 4: You, my niece went through RUSH and I didn't sleep 442 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 4: for a week. And this is a thing we will 443 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 4: talk about this in a future episode, because it is 444 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 4: universal that I think the moms these days are stressing 445 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 4: more than the kid. Like I had a friend whose 446 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 4: daughter just went through and she ended up in a 447 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 4: top house. It went great. 448 00:20:58,440 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 2: Did you have a rush coach? 449 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 3: No, we talked about that weeks a few weeks ago. 450 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 4: Down we've talked about that and it's still sort of 451 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 4: a debate. But no, she just did her thing. She 452 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 4: got a top house. But the poor mom, who's like 453 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:12,440 Speaker 4: one of my best friends, was just sick all week. 454 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:15,480 Speaker 4: It's just so stressful. And then finally on midday they 455 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 4: just couldn't take it anymore and they're just following the 456 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 4: find my Phone app to see where she's going because 457 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 4: obviously she's too busy to call, and they're just like, 458 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 4: her phone is at this sorority and I go, yeah, 459 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 4: you guys, she's in. Like, no one's taking her phone to. 460 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 6: The house with that school where my friend's daughter did 461 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:35,919 Speaker 6: not get a house. 462 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we can shout it out. Cal Poly 463 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:40,359 Speaker 4: is a rough rush. 464 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 2: Now, so is San Diego State. 465 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 4: I mean it's oh, San Diego Steita I heard is 466 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:45,000 Speaker 4: like one of the worst. 467 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,640 Speaker 5: It's so rough. Yeah, cal Poly is super rough, bolder. 468 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 2: It happened to a friend of mine's daughter. 469 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 3: Happened to a friend of mine's too. This year. She 470 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 3: didn't get in, and then she got in genuous open. Yeah, 471 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 3: so she didn't get in, and then my other friend 472 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 3: there's like two best friend. So my other friend's daughter 473 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 3: did get into her top whatever. Then this friend the 474 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 3: daughter didn't get in anywhere and then got in on 475 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 3: whatever that's called. 476 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 4: Cob is way bigger now than it was. All right, Jen, Well, 477 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 4: I think we're out of time. Sorry to be the producer, 478 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 4: but I think we're out of time. But we'll continue this. 479 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 4: And also I think that for people listening, like it 480 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 4: is our goal, even though we sometimes sound icky, I 481 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,639 Speaker 4: don't know what to say to really make it truthful 482 00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 4: for people listening because we watch these documentaries and you 483 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 4: watch TikTok and you see all these things about rush 484 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 4: out in the universe now, but they're all curated where 485 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 4: we're trying hard to like really answer your questions. So 486 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 4: send us your questions and your criticism. We will read 487 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 4: the you know, we will read the good and the bad. 488 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 3: Amen, you guys, Thank you so much. This was really 489 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 3: I have to say, it's really it makes me feel 490 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 3: really old. This is the topic of lingo, but I'm 491 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 3: both okay, we still love you, lil. 492 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 6: Look at all these words like uber tender ways, ghosting breadcrumbs. 493 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 2: I mean, that's there's just. 494 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 3: One that I don't care. And my kids can roll 495 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,680 Speaker 3: their eyes. I'm still saying, is that your big sister. 496 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure. I think we're old just calling it lingo. 497 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:16,439 Speaker 4: I think, just by the very fact that we use 498 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 4: the word lingo, Lily's rolling her eyes at us. 499 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,639 Speaker 1: I think you guys are great, and I love hearing 500 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,439 Speaker 1: your stories about your typewriters and you're white out and 501 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: your kids. 502 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 3: Okay, that's enough, Okay, see you guys soon. 503 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 5: Bye.