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Speaker 1: How you eat a banana. There is no other way.

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Speaker 1: Please tell me tell five people today and that will

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the program, Paul, stay or go? Thank you

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Speaker 1: Let me take some phone calls on this, paul I.

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Speaker 8: Yes, here's his two Yeah, wears sexy clothes, she walks,

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Speaker 1: And you know what's funny is he is he has

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Speaker 3: Say, like, am I'm working in an office I don't

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Speaker 1: He doesn't want Adams.

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Speaker 1: You know the texture overwhelmingly that this guy is insecure.

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Speaker 2: don't know if he's telling her, you know, put those

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Speaker 2: puppies away.

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Speaker 3: You know, we're going to preschool, but because she.

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Speaker 1: Did, right, did he meet her at a preschool? I

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Speaker 1: don't know why he was. I don't know why this

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Speaker 1: man Paul is at a preschool. But if he was

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Speaker 1: at a preschool and that's how she dressed and like

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Speaker 1: and he thought that was hot, and then you know,

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Speaker 1: he got a number. I don't know. Again, not sure

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Speaker 1: why falls at the preschool, but that's a different topic altogether.

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Speaker 1: But you know then that I think you'd be hard

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Speaker 1: pressed to say, like, I need you to be totally

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Speaker 1: different now, das, Yes, that's okay, turn the radio down,

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Speaker 1: all right, all right, well anyway, what do you think

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Speaker 1: about this? And by the way, if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 1: this guy in stair ago, he says his girlfriend, he's

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Speaker 1: really into her, but she dresses provocatively for everything, and

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Speaker 1: he wishes that, you know, that she would tone it

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Speaker 1: down a little bit, and he doesn't know how to handle.

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Speaker 10: It right, So he should have came out the gate saying,

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Speaker 10: I'm concerned that when she meets my parents she's not

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Speaker 10: going to dress appropriately. I'm concerned when wearing kid friendly environment.

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Speaker 10: He should keep out of the conversation. She's wearing sweatshirts

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Speaker 10: at home and she has like tight clothes on and

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Speaker 10: stuff like that, Like address the concern head on if

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Speaker 10: he is concerned about the parent thing. He should have

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Speaker 10: started with that, not with I don't like the clothes

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Speaker 10: she's wearing. That, the clothes that when I met her,

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Speaker 10: that she was wearing that, she's still wearing them because

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Speaker 10: she's not going to buy a new wardrobe now that.

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Speaker 5: She's a relationship. Right when she doesn't.

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Speaker 10: Adjust her wardrobe for the environment, that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I do think address that way as mankind

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Speaker 1: is male kind, I should say, I do think that

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Speaker 1: sometimes some men have a way of communicating this in

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Speaker 1: a way that's not productive. You know, Oh, guys are

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Speaker 1: going to look at you, and they're going to know

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Speaker 1: because you're sexualizing it as opposed to and maybe maybe

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Speaker 1: the person wearing the clothes isn't necessarily sexualizing. They're just

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Speaker 1: confident in their body or proud of their body, or

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Speaker 1: maybe they've gone through a transformation or whatever. So I

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Speaker 1: did think, to everyone's point, there's a way to do

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Speaker 1: this that doesn't make you come off like a scumbag.

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Speaker 1: But dajah, thank.

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Speaker 4: You, You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: Every day.

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Speaker 1: Glad you call. Hey, Cassidy, he's doing too much? Okay, Cassidy,

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Speaker 1: that's great, call excellent, Cassidy. Yeah, I'm here, okay, we

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Speaker 1: got to learn how to use our phones. Called before

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Speaker 1: we call the radio stating I love you so much, Cassidy.

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Speaker 1: So he's doing too much.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, he's doing too much. Why wasn't it a concern

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Speaker 11: in the beginning? And then you know what, guys, he

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Speaker 11: threw the mother pardon after he said he's takes her

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Speaker 11: out and it bothers him.

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Speaker 3: So it's not really a concern about the mom.

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Speaker 11: It's a concern about how she's getting attention. If she

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Speaker 11: got the attention before, why is it a problem now?

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you can't handle me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah I do. I do agree that. It does sound like,

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden now like he feels threatened because

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Speaker 1: the very same things that attracted her to him are

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Speaker 1: and he's noticing on other people and he But yeah, again,

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Speaker 1: I think it's all in how you communicate this. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: have a great day. I'm glad you called. Hey, Lucy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I hey, good morning. I gotta give you a final

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Speaker 1: say on this. What do you think?

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Speaker 12: So? Yeah, I agree with you, bred. I think obviously

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Speaker 12: a lot of people are gonna call and kind of say, like,

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Speaker 12: see all the other guys, didn't you care whatever it is.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, I.

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Speaker 12: Think there's like a time and a place. Obviously it's

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Speaker 12: fun to, you know, wear what you want, but were

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Speaker 12: place at burkes or around things like that, I think

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Speaker 12: it's totally normal to kind of want your partner to

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Speaker 12: dress appropriately. So yeah, that's that's why I putting on

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Speaker 12: and I agree.

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Speaker 1: With you, Lucy. Why is this guy complaining about we're

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Speaker 1: on the couch and she's wearing short short it's like weird, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I need you to put that forever lazy on, okay

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Speaker 1: that I need you to put your uh moment, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I need you to put the suggy on the burka

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Speaker 1: like I told you to put your you gotta put

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Speaker 1: your winter coat on when you're in the house, Like

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Speaker 1: what are you doing? Like that doesn't make any sense?

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Speaker 1: That's that to me was crazy?

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Speaker 3: What's he wearing a tox right right?

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Speaker 1: I thought that was kind of nuts. Lucy. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for calling and for listening. Have a good day. Glad

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Speaker 1: you call. Like that was a really bad example, like oh,

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Speaker 1: to me, my mom. But then when she's in the

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Speaker 1: house right, well, she's in there. I mean I I'd

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Speaker 1: be grateful for that