WEBVTT - Conversations with Katie Austin

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<v Speaker 1>This is Conversationous with Olivia Jade in My Heart Radio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello everybody, welcome back to another episode of Conversations with

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<v Speaker 1>Olivia Jade. I am really stoked for today's guest, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's actually a longtime friend when I had my app.

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<v Speaker 1>I had an app when I was like, I think

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen or sixteen, and we did a video way back

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<v Speaker 1>in the day. Her name is Katie Austin. She's an

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<v Speaker 1>amazing fitness and health connoisseur, influencer, and um, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>really excited to have her on to give us some

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<v Speaker 1>insight on all things health and wellness. So please welcome

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<v Speaker 1>Katie Austin. Hi, Katie, Hello, thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 1>coming on my podcast. I'm so excited. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>when I was introwing you, I was like, so when

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<v Speaker 1>I was like fifteen or sixteen, I had an app

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<v Speaker 1>and Katie and I phoned the video. Do you remember that?

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that. You're actually unlocking a memory for me

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<v Speaker 1>right now, because I didn't remember it before. You just

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<v Speaker 1>said that, like, I actually don't remember, and now I do.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so funny you came to my apartment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was your old place college. I know. I just

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<v Speaker 1>grated from college and you came over and we cleared

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<v Speaker 1>out the living room and we shot like how many

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<v Speaker 1>workout videos. I don't know, but I remember I was

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<v Speaker 1>super young and I had no idea what I was doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I never worked out. I was probably what fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>or fifteen? You were so young? Oh my god, so

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<v Speaker 1>crazy crazy. So we go way back. But for those

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<v Speaker 1>um listening that don't know who you are, can you

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<v Speaker 1>give like a little intro as to who you are

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<v Speaker 1>and what you do? Yes? So long story short. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I am from Virginia. I went to USC and then

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<v Speaker 1>after college, I became a sports broadcaster at Fox Sports West.

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<v Speaker 1>Then um, the last like I would say three ish years,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been really focusing on my fitness brand and being

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<v Speaker 1>like more like a fitness personality and doing you know

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<v Speaker 1>more in homeworkouts especially that ramped everything up too. So

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<v Speaker 1>I have my own app. It's called the Katie Austin App.

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<v Speaker 1>I have over a hundred and seventy workout classes there.

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<v Speaker 1>I have my own show called Austin a f I

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<v Speaker 1>have my own um snapchat show too. It's a cooking show.

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<v Speaker 1>So I do like I show like different recipes of

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<v Speaker 1>the week, and then I just became a Sports Illustrated

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<v Speaker 1>swimsuit model. So the issue comes out in a month.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, I don't know if I'm lat today, but

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<v Speaker 1>it comes up. I'm really excited. Oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so proud of you. That's huge. Thank you. It's been

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<v Speaker 1>a really really long process and it's like so kind

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<v Speaker 1>of crazy to say, and I guess I'll officially be

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<v Speaker 1>a rookie when it comes out. I already shot in

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<v Speaker 1>Europe and in Montenegro, which was crazy. It's been the

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<v Speaker 1>longest journey ever to get to be an s I.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to audition. I first audition in two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen and then I don't remember seeing this, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>then in two thousand and twenty, I auditioned again and

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<v Speaker 1>it was a year and a half process and then

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up winning, and so I am going to

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<v Speaker 1>be in the magazine, which is crazy. That's insane. What's

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<v Speaker 1>that process? Like? Did you? Did you do? They just

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<v Speaker 1>host auditions and you go somewhere and then so basically

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<v Speaker 1>they opened up to the public. Anyone online can join

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<v Speaker 1>if you like. That's the whole reason for swim Search.

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<v Speaker 1>They opened it up to you know, everyone who doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have an agent, So for someone like me who is

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<v Speaker 1>not a real model in quotes per se. So I

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<v Speaker 1>auditioned online. I turned in my tape, I posted on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>and then about six months later, I got a call

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<v Speaker 1>back and there was twenty two thousand girls auditioning and

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<v Speaker 1>I got a call back. I think it was like

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<v Speaker 1>two girls, and then it narrowed it down to thirteen

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<v Speaker 1>girls and then um, yeah, it was a year and

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<v Speaker 1>a half process and then I ended up winning it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's just been really wild, a lot of different

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<v Speaker 1>like little things here and there, like little milestones of

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<v Speaker 1>the year and a half, like I shot in Atlantic

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<v Speaker 1>City and then I walked in Sports Illustrat and swim

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<v Speaker 1>Suit runway show for Miami Swim Weeks, and then yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just kept doing like social stuff and yeah, it's crazy. Still,

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<v Speaker 1>that's incredible. Congratulations, that's huge. I can't wait to see

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<v Speaker 1>the photos. I haven't even seen them. They haven't sent

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<v Speaker 1>you any No, I mean, I got one debut photo.

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<v Speaker 1>But when I opened the magazine along with the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the public, is when I will find out what photos.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, they're gonna look amazing. So you've been

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<v Speaker 1>into fitness obviously for a while because you grew up

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<v Speaker 1>around it. Yes, So do you want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>that a little bit? Yeah, I would love to. So

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up honestly in the fitness industry. It sounds crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>but since I was six weeks old, or you could

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<v Speaker 1>even say like in the womb, because I was in

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<v Speaker 1>my mom's pregnancy videos and so she was doing workout

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<v Speaker 1>videos with me in her belly. So literally, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>in the fitness industry forever. At my first workout video

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<v Speaker 1>when I was like actually learning a choreograph routine was

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<v Speaker 1>when I was seven years old. I had to go

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<v Speaker 1>through like so much practice to learn workouts, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I've really been in the industry for a while because

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<v Speaker 1>my mom Denny s Austin. But a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>listening to us right now will probably not know who

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<v Speaker 1>she is because she is a lot longer than us

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<v Speaker 1>because we were so young. She was like in the

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<v Speaker 1>eighties and nineties with like Jane Fonda, um and so

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<v Speaker 1>basically she had her own show on ESPN for eleven years,

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<v Speaker 1>Lifetime for about fifteen years, and um, so she has

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<v Speaker 1>like the record for like most workout vhs is sold

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<v Speaker 1>which is not possible these days. Obviously no one's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>buy a VHS. So yeah, I'm in the industry for

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<v Speaker 1>a while, but I never really thought about it as

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<v Speaker 1>a career because it's just I don't know, you just

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<v Speaker 1>don't really think about it all. So you're like you're

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<v Speaker 1>younger and stuff, and I don't really know how it

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<v Speaker 1>happened in the fitness industry. And so I graduated college

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<v Speaker 1>and thank goodness, like social media was a thing when

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<v Speaker 1>I was graduating, and that's how I really got started.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you go to school for fitness or did you

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<v Speaker 1>just grow up around it? And then that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like self taught. So honestly, I don't I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>a actual like degree in college for fitness. I emphasized

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<v Speaker 1>in health, but I am a certified group first personal

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<v Speaker 1>trainer and stuff. And I also have you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>my health degree um in a in a separate thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, like I went to USC

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<v Speaker 1>for broadcast journalism and because I was athlete there. I

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<v Speaker 1>was an athlete my entire life and it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like very instilled in me from a young age. My

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<v Speaker 1>dad's a professional athlete, my mom is, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>fitness guru. My sister was never one of the nation

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<v Speaker 1>for lacrosse, so we just come from a very athletic background. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so honestly, guys are built different. Being an athlete my

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<v Speaker 1>whole entire life, you know, it was like I always

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<v Speaker 1>had a coach training me and like really putting me

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<v Speaker 1>through workouts, and my mom, obviously, um, you know, taught

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<v Speaker 1>me everything I need to know about teaching workouts. And

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<v Speaker 1>so when I graduated and I stopped playing lacrosse, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like a really weird thing for me to not

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<v Speaker 1>work out with the coach anymore. And I really struggled, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell do I do in the gym? How

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<v Speaker 1>do I work out at home? I don't really feel

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable going to the gym because I always had a

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<v Speaker 1>set routine of like my coach telling you what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I decided, like other girls will probably feel

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<v Speaker 1>the exact same way eight and so I just started

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<v Speaker 1>creating workouts that and thank god, I've gotten better at them,

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<v Speaker 1>because if you go back to like two thousands fifteen,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm prob, I'm sure I'm just on my app

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know. I think they're gone like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what happened to that app. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what company that was with. I don't remember anything

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<v Speaker 1>about it, but I do remember doing some workout videos

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<v Speaker 1>with you in your apartment and it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Um did you ever feel like because for me personally,

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<v Speaker 1>it took me a while to get to a point

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<v Speaker 1>which I feel like I just got to recently where

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh my dog, Um, I just started to

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<v Speaker 1>like enjoy working out where it's not a chore anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And anytime I talked to my sister, she's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like working out because I have such a negative

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with it because I correlated with losing weight and

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like I'm not good enough and just anything in

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<v Speaker 1>that realm. And I kind of want to just like

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<v Speaker 1>hear your advice to maybe somebody listening that like what

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<v Speaker 1>was that mental switch or if you even ever had that,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe you did an you always loved it extremely

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<v Speaker 1>relatable and for someone like me coming from an athlete,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually didn't work out after I moved on from lacrosse.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't work out for like ten months because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, and I know this word sounds very extreme,

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<v Speaker 1>but it is really extreme. When you've been in a

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<v Speaker 1>Division one sport and it's like every day at five am,

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<v Speaker 1>it's traumatizing. I would work out till I threw up,

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly, that's not good for anyone's body. I'd work

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<v Speaker 1>out for four hours a day, and that was my

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<v Speaker 1>entire life. Like middle school, I had run tests and

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<v Speaker 1>lift test and I would max out lifting, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I had a very bad relationship with working out because

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<v Speaker 1>it was always training way too hard and so intimidating.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be an anxiety ball because I hated working

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<v Speaker 1>out so much. And so once you find out that

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<v Speaker 1>working out isn't about losing weight unless you want it

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<v Speaker 1>to be, or working out isn't about training your absolute hardest,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't need to be so intimidating. It's really just

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<v Speaker 1>to make you feel you're like your best self, and

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<v Speaker 1>also it's to boost your confidence. It's for your heart health.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, going on a thirty minute walk is working out.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing a five minute at routine is working out. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to work out for an hour every day

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<v Speaker 1>a and max out lifting and push yourself to extreme limits.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, some people aren't really built like that, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is totally okay. It's all about working out for

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<v Speaker 1>how you feel on the inside and not really working

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<v Speaker 1>out to, you know, for the aesthetic or for training

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<v Speaker 1>for something unless you are and to switch that mindset

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<v Speaker 1>takes a lot of time. So give yourself place, because

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<v Speaker 1>it took me years to get out of the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the traumatized state, and I still to this day can't

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<v Speaker 1>go to Barry's boot camp because it still reminds me

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<v Speaker 1>of my practices and I'm like, hell no, not for me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't really I don't really respond well. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm a trainer myself, but I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>respond well to being yelled at to push myself to

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<v Speaker 1>absolute extremes throwing up, and I don't think anyone should

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<v Speaker 1>if you're not really training for something. So um, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just about switching the mindset to having fun. And I

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<v Speaker 1>know that sounds so cliche, but it's true. It is true.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that is like the most important thing

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<v Speaker 1>when you're working out or when you're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>into like a good routine, because I think always, at

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<v Speaker 1>least for me, it's kind of hard to start, but

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<v Speaker 1>once you're in it, you really do mentally feel so

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<v Speaker 1>much better that it kind of becomes like an addiction

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<v Speaker 1>where even it's like I don't push myself in the

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<v Speaker 1>gym for over an hour, like I go when I

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<v Speaker 1>walk on the trail for thirty minutes and I leave,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, and that's like perfect, and that's great,

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<v Speaker 1>and you actually, yeah, you brought up a really good

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<v Speaker 1>point of like once you start, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>the hardest thing is just starting. And so for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I always lie to myself and I say, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna do this for like five minutes, for ten minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I lied to myself to get me motivated to

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<v Speaker 1>just start. And then once you're five ten minutes, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're just gonna keep going because you realize that you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting so much more positive, you're getting more energetic, you're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling more confident, and you feel really good about doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>So just not pushing yourself to places that you feel

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<v Speaker 1>so intimidated by it right Sadly, these days, social media

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<v Speaker 1>effects body confidence crazy amounts um. Is this something that

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<v Speaker 1>you've ever faced or learned to overcome or do you

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<v Speaker 1>have like any special tips or are you still dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with it like I am. Yeah. Yeah, I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>very normal to especially in your teens in your twenties,

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<v Speaker 1>to go through waves of confidence to some days you

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<v Speaker 1>feel absolutely amazing some days or just not your best.

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<v Speaker 1>And as females, we have a lot of hormones and

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<v Speaker 1>mood switches, so that just in turn doesn't help us.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say for me, going back to like say

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<v Speaker 1>my college days, it was really hard for me, especially

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<v Speaker 1>after I graduated, because I had a different muscular body type,

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<v Speaker 1>and then once you stop training, it's like, well, why

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<v Speaker 1>do I have this? I want to fit in with

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<v Speaker 1>like in quote l A girls and they're skinnier, and

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<v Speaker 1>you have that like body image issue because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>you're not training anymore, and then you're what do you like?

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<v Speaker 1>You're just hard to really um understand how your body

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<v Speaker 1>is supposed to look and how you're supposed to work

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<v Speaker 1>out afterwards, especially after college, and like what to do

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<v Speaker 1>and figuring that all out and so to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>that was probably my hardest body image issues, and it

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<v Speaker 1>takes a very very long time to figure out what's

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<v Speaker 1>right for you and your body. I will say, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>social media is the number one um harmful things you

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<v Speaker 1>could do to yourself if you are having body comparison

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<v Speaker 1>issues and stop comparing yourself to everyone aligne because it's

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<v Speaker 1>first up, just like not real. And unfortunately, sometimes there

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be, you know, always prettier girls than you,

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<v Speaker 1>skinnier girls, fitter girls than You're smarter, there's always gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be someone smarter than you. And my mom always told

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<v Speaker 1>me growing up growing up, like there's always gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that's or something that's like better than what you're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>or something that's a little bit more skilled, but nobody

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<v Speaker 1>is you. That she would always say, like when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>literally exactly what I was about to say, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so freaking true, but I will say it takes a

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<v Speaker 1>lot a long time. I'm twenty eight now, so it

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<v Speaker 1>takes like a long time to really realize that. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the beauty of growing up because you

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<v Speaker 1>start to a care less about what people think. You

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<v Speaker 1>start to really just focus on yourself, and you also

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<v Speaker 1>realize that those flaws you're so worried about are so natural,

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<v Speaker 1>like cellulite for example, or like acne on your skin.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so normal, It is so okaycent of women

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<v Speaker 1>out there habit, and that's like the beauty of the

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<v Speaker 1>female body too, and embracing all those things. Again it's

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<v Speaker 1>so cliche, but it's so freaking true. It's like cellulite

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the reasons we can bear children because

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<v Speaker 1>we have enough fat on our body to go through that.

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<v Speaker 1>And so it's switching the perspective and realizing how grateful

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<v Speaker 1>you are. I think, if you ever do go through

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<v Speaker 1>those days, and obviously I do too, it's like switching

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<v Speaker 1>the perspective. It's like, get all social media, remind yourself

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<v Speaker 1>what is amazing about you and why you're so grateful,

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<v Speaker 1>Like anyone would kill to be in your shoes, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And I also think that you have to remember guys,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you're seeing everybody's best moments. And I always

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this, but take it from somebody like me

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<v Speaker 1>who puts out photos of their best moments and of

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<v Speaker 1>the angles that look good and bikini photos of like

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<v Speaker 1>a certain angle, because I'm like, oh, I look really

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<v Speaker 1>cute in that, But if you saw the other ten

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<v Speaker 1>photos that are after it, like I look like a

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<v Speaker 1>normal human being because I'm not perfectly sat up with

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<v Speaker 1>like my stomach sucked in and twisted a certain way.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's so easy to think like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>she just looks perfect all the time when it's like, Nope,

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<v Speaker 1>that went through severe angles and different types of like

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<v Speaker 1>photo shoots, and like you have to remind yourself of that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so true. Um. One thing that I love is

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<v Speaker 1>you balance fun and health really really well. How important

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<v Speaker 1>is balanced for you? And like a typical day in

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<v Speaker 1>your life, what does it look like. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>some people might be shocked at how much I balance

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<v Speaker 1>my life and indulge. I will say I'm really lucky

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<v Speaker 1>in a sense that um genetics also play a really

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<v Speaker 1>huge role that I'm able to um eat a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, unhealthy foods at the same time while

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<v Speaker 1>enjoying my healthy foods. And I think it's all again,

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<v Speaker 1>the word balance is so vague, but it's the truth

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<v Speaker 1>of how I live my life. And it's like eating.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom always said to like eat good eighty percent

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<v Speaker 1>of the time and enjoy your treats and indulge twenty

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<v Speaker 1>percent of the time, and life is meant to be lived.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can still lose weight if you're trying to.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can still maintain your weight as well

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<v Speaker 1>and still be really healthy by living life in moderation.

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<v Speaker 1>And so living life in moderation means, you know, still

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<v Speaker 1>having those moments where you want to eat chocolate at

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<v Speaker 1>night because you freaking can. And if you restrict yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't let yourself eat what you want and

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<v Speaker 1>intuitively eat, you're just gonna go to the opposite direction

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<v Speaker 1>and start to binge and then feel really filthy about Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's crazy how much it happens, because like, you

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<v Speaker 1>just have to learn about you and your body. Like

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<v Speaker 1>some people always say, like, oh, try internet, a fascinating

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<v Speaker 1>really helps for me. I cannot intermitte it fast because

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<v Speaker 1>if I skip breakfast, I am eating ten times more

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<v Speaker 1>dessert at night. And so you just learn how your

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<v Speaker 1>body works, and that comes with growing up as well

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<v Speaker 1>and trying different things out. Um, and once you learned

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<v Speaker 1>that if you have a cheeseburger on a Tuesday night,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not going to set you back a month or

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<v Speaker 1>even a week where you are totally fine. You're human

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<v Speaker 1>and to just not be so damn hard on yourself exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's really funny actually is you just said the

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<v Speaker 1>twenty rule, and that's a question I had written down

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<v Speaker 1>for you was going to say, do you believe in that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that something you like live by? Because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people always there's all these different fads and diets and

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<v Speaker 1>things that people should and shouldn't do, And that was

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<v Speaker 1>a big one. But I think so like the overall

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<v Speaker 1>messages moderation. And my mom always told me that growing up.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just like, not with food because she doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about fitness and health, but just with like anything

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<v Speaker 1>in life, she's like, yeah, everything a moderation, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean a twenties a little strict. I would say, like

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<v Speaker 1>what if one week you're like fifty or sixty, just

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<v Speaker 1>know that you're human and it's not like a strict rule.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really believe in really strict rules or guidelines

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like that. I just think, you know, eating

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<v Speaker 1>what makes you feel good, and looking at food is fuel,

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<v Speaker 1>and not looking at is anything like, okay, so this

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<v Speaker 1>has how many calories in this? Right here? It's looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it and like, how will this feed and fuel

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<v Speaker 1>my body? What nutrients is in this right now that

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to either energize me or exhaust me or

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<v Speaker 1>what's good for me in this? And looking at it

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<v Speaker 1>that way and like the antioxidants the vitamins in it,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of like looking at it being like, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's thirty grams of carbs. Because also carbs are really

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<v Speaker 1>good for you. Um, that is so weird. You just

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<v Speaker 1>said that. You took the way I was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we please talk about carbs and how they aren't scary?

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<v Speaker 1>They're not scary. I have a toast. They're good. Especially

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<v Speaker 1>if you work out, you need carbs. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>piece of sour dough toast every single day. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna eat bread, I say, eat sour dough bread. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually literally just had a piece of toast like ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes before this. You and I need it to Carbs

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<v Speaker 1>are the one thing that like a leave me feeling

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<v Speaker 1>very energized, um and be full for longer. At the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, it's a fiber, and carbs really helped me

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<v Speaker 1>feel full for longer. Whenever I go with like just

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<v Speaker 1>having salad in a meal, I'm like, Okay, what's my

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<v Speaker 1>next meal? Like an hour brier. So don't restrict yourself

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<v Speaker 1>because then you're just going to you know, do the

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<v Speaker 1>opposite of what you wanted to do. In the end exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so with you on that because people that are

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<v Speaker 1>scared of carbs, I'm like, I don't get it, because

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<v Speaker 1>if I have a salad, just what you said, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>eating snacks on snacks on snacks right after not even

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour, like I'm right after into my country,

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<v Speaker 1>like which obviously a salad sometimes it's great and I

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<v Speaker 1>love it, but like every like if you're so terrified

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<v Speaker 1>of it, I feel like it can do the exact

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<v Speaker 1>opposite effect of what you're trying to do. And also

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<v Speaker 1>like it's if you find healthy ones. Obviously we're not

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<v Speaker 1>saying like every day if you're trying to get in

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<v Speaker 1>maximum like best shape of your life having pizza and

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<v Speaker 1>pasta and like but like rice and bread and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I feel like people there's such a negative

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<v Speaker 1>connotation just because it is a carb when it's like

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<v Speaker 1>I eat that literally every day totally. I I fully,

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<v Speaker 1>fully agree. And if you are the type of person

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<v Speaker 1>who wants to, you know, obviously eat pasta because pasta

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<v Speaker 1>is not bad for you whatsoever. But there's always like

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<v Speaker 1>little things you can do to make it a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit healthier. I'm a huge believer and still eating like

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<v Speaker 1>pizza and pasta, but doing little fixes and switches, so

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<v Speaker 1>like in your pasta, maybe adding three vegetables or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>switching it out for like chippy pasta, So like little

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<v Speaker 1>things that you guys can still enjoy your life, but

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<v Speaker 1>making sure you're still getting into nutrients. Right, Okay, switching

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<v Speaker 1>the topics from carbs and food. I want to get personal.

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<v Speaker 1>You just moved in with your boyfriend. I did. Yes, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>how is that? I think this might be the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I'm talking about it like on um an interview.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's really great because have you ever been in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship where you are scheduling out when you can

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<v Speaker 1>see them like constantly. Yeah, and it's not fun. It

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<v Speaker 1>kind of takes like the fun and it's like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stressful. It's like, okay, wait, so if we're hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out on Tuesday, then I could do something with my

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<v Speaker 1>friends on a Wednesday and then you go to town

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<v Speaker 1>for a week. It's just like taking all that stress

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<v Speaker 1>away of you know, like living together. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see each other. When we see each other, I

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<v Speaker 1>will say, you hang out a lot less than you

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<v Speaker 1>think you do. Like he goes to work every day

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<v Speaker 1>he travels and stuff, and I do my own thing too,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's really just like reduced stress in both of

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<v Speaker 1>our lives. We are on the same page about everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And also you just get that point to your life

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<v Speaker 1>where you know that it's time to move in with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>And got to age seven and we were very much

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<v Speaker 1>so in love and we bought a house together. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of crazy because I feel so old. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but I age. I age so much by

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<v Speaker 1>living in this house with him. Because it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>other day we're like looking for a lint roller. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>when did this happen? I was just partying at Warwick Wednesdays.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know what is going on. But so I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking to somebody recently. Oh, we were like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>they just opened this smoothie shop down the street and

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, it does that. We're excited about like a

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<v Speaker 1>little random smoothie shop being opened. And we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a vacuum and we were like me and my

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<v Speaker 1>friends and we were like, oh my god, this vacuum

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<v Speaker 1>is so good. We're like, this is this adulting. We're

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<v Speaker 1>excited over a vacuum? Was going on? Yeah, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>little things, and I've truly what's some advice you have

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<v Speaker 1>for people that are thinking about moving in with their

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<v Speaker 1>significant other, Like anything you've learned from it learned is

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<v Speaker 1>space is definitely necessary and doing your own thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>what I think about like living together is being so

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<v Speaker 1>independent by still like doing your own thing and not

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<v Speaker 1>fully basing your life off of someone else, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>i mean, obviously when you're in love with someone too,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be with them, but also remember like

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<v Speaker 1>your friends, your best friends are You're really really important

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<v Speaker 1>to your family, your career, So like still doing things

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<v Speaker 1>that make you you and not coming fully dependent on

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<v Speaker 1>the person um. And something also to like if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to watch a different show, watch a different show,

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<v Speaker 1>like do your own thing, go to that earlier if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to. You don't have to do everything that

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<v Speaker 1>your partner does. And that took a few months because

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<v Speaker 1>we're just so excited to live together. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>literally was like I want to go up and nine.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, well I want to go up to ten.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what the hell am I doing? Go upstairs,

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<v Speaker 1>go to sleep, right. It takes a little while to

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<v Speaker 1>learn that, but still being independent is really important. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like my thing. If I were to live

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody like a significant other, the only thing I

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<v Speaker 1>think that would really get on my nerves is if

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<v Speaker 1>they were like really messy. Because when I lived with

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<v Speaker 1>my sister, she is so messy and she would disagree

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<v Speaker 1>with me, but I'm just gonna say she was the

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<v Speaker 1>messy one and I could not stand it. So props

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<v Speaker 1>two couples that and I'm talking about my sister who's

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<v Speaker 1>my blood, and I would be so annoyed to like,

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<v Speaker 1>props to couples that lived together one's a mess because

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<v Speaker 1>that's one thing I could not it's me. It's at least. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So my boyfriend is so clean to the point where

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how he does it. He's like very

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<v Speaker 1>very cleanly, and I'm the messy one and he keeps

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<v Speaker 1>me in check. Like that's our I think that's our

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<v Speaker 1>main problem. I'm messy. That's honestly good though, for you,

0:23:20.160 --> 0:23:22.720
<v Speaker 1>because like, at least it doesn't bother you. You You don't

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<v Speaker 1>know it bothers me that he bothers me to clean,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, yeah, I probably should, I probably should. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, but yeah, you'll figure it out as

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<v Speaker 1>time goes on what's next for you, like career goals,

0:23:35.400 --> 0:23:39.000
<v Speaker 1>dreams obviously of Sports Illustrated coming out, which is crazy

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<v Speaker 1>and huge, and do you have anything else that's like

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<v Speaker 1>bucket list, So I would say Sports Illustrators at the

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<v Speaker 1>top of the list right now, just in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>like a career milestone, and it's like really cool to

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<v Speaker 1>finally be a part of the family in the community

0:23:52.600 --> 0:23:54.960
<v Speaker 1>and like going to Sports Illustrators MS to launch and

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<v Speaker 1>like being a part of all the day like the

0:23:57.160 --> 0:24:00.720
<v Speaker 1>rookie debut which is really crazy. Um, kind of just

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<v Speaker 1>celebrating little by little, like where I've come, how far

0:24:06.440 --> 0:24:09.240
<v Speaker 1>I've come. Because I'm always the type of person to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my entire twenties, I basically would be like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's next, What's next? How can I get further? Like

0:24:14.520 --> 0:24:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing enough, I'm not working hard enough. I

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<v Speaker 1>need to do this as this And to be honest,

0:24:18.720 --> 0:24:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm finally at a place where I'm like, hey, you

0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:23.840
<v Speaker 1>can chill out. You don't need to always think about

0:24:23.880 --> 0:24:25.840
<v Speaker 1>like the next thing. You can be proud of yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and celebrate the small winds and the milestones and look

0:24:28.760 --> 0:24:31.000
<v Speaker 1>back how far you've come. Like my one year old

0:24:31.000 --> 0:24:33.280
<v Speaker 1>self would be so proud of where I am today,

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<v Speaker 1>So taking a little flower of being patient. But also

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<v Speaker 1>I love that starting um season two of my show

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<v Speaker 1>Austin a f soon And honestly I really love Snapchat.

0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:52.480
<v Speaker 1>Continuing on Snapchat, is I lost my Snapchat um obsession? Oh?

0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:55.199
<v Speaker 1>I still like Snapchat my friends like privately, but I

0:24:55.240 --> 0:24:57.159
<v Speaker 1>don't ever like I forgot. I think I still have

0:24:57.200 --> 0:24:59.320
<v Speaker 1>a public Snapchat, but I don't know how to use

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:04.320
<v Speaker 1>it just basically repost everything that you do on Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>to Snapchat. Do people still use Snapchat to you get views?

0:25:08.359 --> 0:25:12.200
<v Speaker 1>On Snapchat? I get about nine million impressions a day.

0:25:12.440 --> 0:25:15.320
<v Speaker 1>So that's why I love Snapchat so much. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>like my child baby. And also there's so much money

0:25:19.080 --> 0:25:21.320
<v Speaker 1>in Snapchat that people don't really understand. This is like

0:25:21.400 --> 0:25:24.520
<v Speaker 1>my hidden secret because everyone's focusing on TikTok right, Like

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:26.880
<v Speaker 1>literally every creator is like, how can I grow on TikTok?

0:25:27.200 --> 0:25:29.640
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, you know what, I'm gonna go A

0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:32.160
<v Speaker 1>path that I don't think a lot of people know about.

0:25:32.200 --> 0:25:35.679
<v Speaker 1>Is Snapchat has the same type of like you know,

0:25:35.800 --> 0:25:39.160
<v Speaker 1>algorithm where new creators can be found. My friend post

0:25:39.280 --> 0:25:42.000
<v Speaker 1>on Snapchat for the first time she got on exploring,

0:25:42.040 --> 0:25:43.960
<v Speaker 1>she got two k views in a day for the

0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:47.520
<v Speaker 1>first time ever. Because less creators are using it, so

0:25:47.560 --> 0:25:50.879
<v Speaker 1>you always want to use a platform that less creators

0:25:50.960 --> 0:25:52.560
<v Speaker 1>but the same amount of users. So you're still on

0:25:52.600 --> 0:25:54.479
<v Speaker 1>Snapchat because you like to do it with your friends,

0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:56.719
<v Speaker 1>but you're not a create If you're not creating anymore,

0:25:56.720 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 1>you're not a creator. So there's still don't same amount

0:25:59.040 --> 0:26:01.439
<v Speaker 1>of users, but less create leaders. So if your creator

0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 1>out there, I highly suggested that's really really smart. Catch

0:26:06.680 --> 0:26:10.119
<v Speaker 1>me posting all over Snapchat again, see on my pom

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:14.800
<v Speaker 1>on notre page, my spore page. But literally, I'm gonna

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 1>have no idea what I'm doing, but I'm just gonna

0:26:16.320 --> 0:26:18.760
<v Speaker 1>be trying it for whatever. But I love what you

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<v Speaker 1>said about being patient because I really resonate with that,

0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 1>especially right now. I feel like I've put so much

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on myself, and I think so many young girls

0:26:27.880 --> 0:26:30.880
<v Speaker 1>and boys as well that maybe follow us or here

0:26:30.960 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 1>or watch our stuff. That um. Obviously, with social media,

0:26:34.359 --> 0:26:36.120
<v Speaker 1>it's so easy to compare yourself, like we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about earlier, but it's so easy to be so hard

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:40.360
<v Speaker 1>on yourself if you feel like you're not doing enough.

0:26:40.400 --> 0:26:43.120
<v Speaker 1>And I was taking a drive, like a long drive

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:45.919
<v Speaker 1>by myself yesterday. I literally started talking out loud to

0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:48.359
<v Speaker 1>myself and I was like, you're twenty two, Like you

0:26:48.440 --> 0:26:50.680
<v Speaker 1>need to stop being so hard on yourself. You need

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:52.879
<v Speaker 1>to stop feeling like your world is over and that

0:26:53.000 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 1>like everything up and you're never going to get anything back,

0:26:55.560 --> 0:26:58.320
<v Speaker 1>and like everything is done. Like you were doing great

0:26:58.359 --> 0:27:00.919
<v Speaker 1>and you're you're kind to people, like that's what matters,

0:27:01.000 --> 0:27:03.440
<v Speaker 1>and like continue doing that, and just like it's so

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<v Speaker 1>hard to, like I think for so many people to

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<v Speaker 1>that aren't even in this space but watch people in

0:27:08.480 --> 0:27:09.959
<v Speaker 1>this space and want to be a part of it

0:27:10.000 --> 0:27:13.080
<v Speaker 1>and feel like so lost. And I just always want

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.359
<v Speaker 1>to remind people like we can relate to that to

0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 1>a certain degree too, because even though we're in this

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:20.200
<v Speaker 1>space that so many people dream of, we're humans and

0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:22.240
<v Speaker 1>we're looking at other people that are further along and

0:27:22.280 --> 0:27:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, damn, I'm not doing that, you know

0:27:24.560 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. So true, and I think feeling lost

0:27:27.760 --> 0:27:32.120
<v Speaker 1>is a really relatable thing, especially in your twenties, because

0:27:32.800 --> 0:27:36.440
<v Speaker 1>you go through so many different life moments and changes.

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:41.040
<v Speaker 1>Your brain essentially changes as well. Your twenties, Your passions change.

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:43.680
<v Speaker 1>Some people might not know their passions or what they

0:27:43.680 --> 0:27:46.080
<v Speaker 1>want to do as well. So, um, you know, in

0:27:46.119 --> 0:27:49.200
<v Speaker 1>your twenties, your friend could be married. I have three

0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:53.520
<v Speaker 1>friends married and pregnant and I'm just in a relationship.

0:27:53.640 --> 0:27:55.439
<v Speaker 1>Or you could be single and my best friend is

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:58.359
<v Speaker 1>dirty and single, And so you literally go through so

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<v Speaker 1>many different stages of your life, and you also try

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out who you, who your friends are still,

0:28:03.520 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 1>what your passionate, what you really want out a career,

0:28:05.280 --> 0:28:08.280
<v Speaker 1>and so don't be too hard in yourself because no

0:28:08.320 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 1>one hasn't figured out and if they do, they are

0:28:10.359 --> 0:28:14.119
<v Speaker 1>lying and they're lying and it's so Yeah, there's so

0:28:14.200 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 1>much pressure. I feel like also with people coming like around,

0:28:17.320 --> 0:28:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like my age demographic is around, like college

0:28:21.240 --> 0:28:23.479
<v Speaker 1>kids or people that are just about to graduate, and

0:28:23.520 --> 0:28:27.439
<v Speaker 1>that's a really frightening time. Um for you. Did you

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:29.680
<v Speaker 1>know when you were graduating, like this is what I wanted.

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna like fully indulge in fitness now or were

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:34.439
<v Speaker 1>you like a little like to figure this out? Not

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.199
<v Speaker 1>at all? And I think it's absolutely absurd because I

0:28:37.320 --> 0:28:40.040
<v Speaker 1>committed to my college and they were pressuring me at

0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:42.960
<v Speaker 1>age fifteen. How the heck, are you supposed to know

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:44.960
<v Speaker 1>what to do an age fifteen? Even people who are

0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:47.400
<v Speaker 1>going to college at age eight teen, you don't even

0:28:47.440 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 1>know who you are. You are literally so young, you

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:52.640
<v Speaker 1>have an entire life to live, and so taking that

0:28:52.720 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 1>pressure off you is just so important because every single

0:28:55.840 --> 0:28:58.360
<v Speaker 1>person in the world is going through it too. And

0:28:58.400 --> 0:29:00.040
<v Speaker 1>if you do know exactly what you're going to do

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 1>with your life, congratulations, because you are the point zer

0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:04.920
<v Speaker 1>zero zero one percent as well, like, how are you

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:07.200
<v Speaker 1>even supposed to know your major of college? Yet? These

0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>colleges make you decide your major, even which is absolutely insane.

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:13.320
<v Speaker 1>And so just to not be too hard on yourself

0:29:13.600 --> 0:29:17.160
<v Speaker 1>and everything you do is for a reason. I truly

0:29:17.200 --> 0:29:19.560
<v Speaker 1>believe that, like, everything you do will lead you to

0:29:19.720 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 1>somewhere that you need to be. Even if you think, like,

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I did this in the last for

0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 1>two years and now I am switching my mind, I

0:29:26.160 --> 0:29:29.680
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do this anymore. You did whatever that

0:29:29.880 --> 0:29:31.920
<v Speaker 1>was that you disliked to find out that you didn't

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:36.120
<v Speaker 1>like it. So finding out what you don't like is

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:38.640
<v Speaker 1>just as important as finding out what you do like.

0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 1>Like For example, I always relate this back to my dad,

0:29:41.360 --> 0:29:43.680
<v Speaker 1>because my dad has like a crazy story. He basically

0:29:43.720 --> 0:29:46.800
<v Speaker 1>was a professional tennis player. At age he was like,

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be in and I don't want

0:29:48.880 --> 0:29:50.600
<v Speaker 1>to be a professional athlete. You moore what I'm gonna do.

0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 1>Went to law school at twenty nine, graduated by like

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:56.560
<v Speaker 1>thirty three. Thirty three. He became a divorce lawyer and

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<v Speaker 1>he like hated his life, and then became a criminal

0:29:59.080 --> 0:30:01.120
<v Speaker 1>lawyer and he was like thirty eight, and he was

0:30:01.160 --> 0:30:03.640
<v Speaker 1>thirty eight years old and still didn't have a passion.

0:30:04.000 --> 0:30:07.760
<v Speaker 1>And so after that he decided to get into representing

0:30:07.760 --> 0:30:11.520
<v Speaker 1>tennis players, like combining his love for law and his

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:14.520
<v Speaker 1>tennis background. So again, you don't do anything in like

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:17.120
<v Speaker 1>in vain for no reason. And then from there became

0:30:17.160 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 1>a basketball Asian and now he represents at age seventy

0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:22.960
<v Speaker 1>years old, he represents the top basketball players in the

0:30:23.080 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>entire world. And so I want to just like always

0:30:25.680 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 1>say that because at twenty eight he didn't know what

0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:30.320
<v Speaker 1>he was doing. He had just quit his sport that

0:30:30.360 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 1>he was doing his entire life. He graduated from law

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:35.920
<v Speaker 1>school at thirty three. Like it just happens for a reason,

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<v Speaker 1>and when it makes me feel Yeah, that makes me

0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:43.000
<v Speaker 1>feel so much better. Yeah, you're right, and he always

0:30:43.240 --> 0:30:46.520
<v Speaker 1>reminds that to me too, which is so kind to him. Wow,

0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:49.160
<v Speaker 1>that makes me feel really good actually, because I'm at

0:30:49.160 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 1>a point in my life right now where I'm low

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:53.160
<v Speaker 1>key in my had just like what am I doing?

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:58.360
<v Speaker 1>Like figure it out? But it's okay, twenty eight. And

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<v Speaker 1>also you're gonna look back like I look back. I'm

0:31:00.480 --> 0:31:02.040
<v Speaker 1>twenty eight now, and I look back at my toy

0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>two year old self and not that I like feel bad,

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 1>but I feel so bad for myself for putting so

0:31:07.120 --> 0:31:09.360
<v Speaker 1>much pressure on me. I feel so bad with myself

0:31:09.360 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 1>for rushing things, and I just wish I gave myself

0:31:13.200 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 1>more grace. So if you are younger than twenty five

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:22.320
<v Speaker 1>out there, give yourself grace, I mean yourself slat. Yeah totally.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to end it on that note because I

0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 1>really love that. So thank you so much for coming

0:31:26.600 --> 0:31:29.840
<v Speaker 1>on my podcast and spinning out all this wisdom and

0:31:29.880 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 1>great advice. And I know so many young girls and

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 1>boys that listen are going to really benefit, so I

0:31:34.960 --> 0:31:39.080
<v Speaker 1>appreciate you so much. Thank you, Thank you guys for listening,

0:31:39.080 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 1>and thank Loia for having me on of course, is

0:31:41.360 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 1>there anything else you want to plug, like your show,

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:48.200
<v Speaker 1>your Instagram? Yeah, sure, follow me on Instagram at Katie Austin.

0:31:48.280 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm literally at Katie Austin on every platform, And if

0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:52.560
<v Speaker 1>you guys want to follow me on Snapchat to go

0:31:52.640 --> 0:31:55.560
<v Speaker 1>for it. I do recipes on there. Yeah. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much, Katie, Thanks Olivia. All right by most