1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: I welcome to episode one sixteen of the Bobby Cast. 2 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 1: This guest is Scott Hamilton's who won the Olympic gold back. 3 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: We talked about adopting and by the way, A Namy 4 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: isn't here for this pre thing cause we just I'm 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: doing the pre show before. Well, but yeah, and we 6 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 1: talked about you in this coming up podcast because his 7 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: wife is your mentor. Yes, because they adopted two older 8 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: kids from Haiti, and so did we, so they've been 9 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: a huge help to us. So not only is it 10 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: super inspirational, but it gets really cool too because we're talking. 11 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: We start talking about I don't want to ruin it, 12 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 1: but when he came back, he's, like he said, overnight 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: he was nobody who he came back from the Olympics 14 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: and then his five thousand people waiting for him. It's crazy. 15 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,680 Speaker 1: So Scott Hamilton's uh. And the first time I knew 16 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: of Scott Hamilton, I wasn't alive. I guess I wasn't alive, 17 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 1: but I was little. I don't know him from that, 18 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: but I know him from something else, and that's what 19 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: I told him. You'll see, you'll hear it. This is 20 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: episode one sixteen of the Bobby Cast. He has a 21 00:00:56,080 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: book called Finished First, Winning Changes Everything. Other Podcas has 22 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 1: to check out include Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson, her 23 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: latest episodes, up with Amy, which is why I have 24 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: Amy here. You guys can talk about all kinds of 25 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 1: stuff on Everything Bobby, Yes, you want disgust, There we go. 26 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: There's also Good Company with Jaco and Jake's got a podcast, 27 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: Uh He's got a funny with his mom, and then 28 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 1: geeking Out with Christian Bush. Upcoming guests of this here 29 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: include Kimberly Slatman from a Little Big Town, Jason al Dean, writer, 30 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 1: Jesse Fraser, Ashley Gorley. Yeah, it's like if somebody else 31 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: to it forgetting that's coming as a that's a big deal. Yeah, 32 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of people come by. So 33 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: there you go. This is episode one sixteen. Tell your 34 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: friends about the Bobby Cast if you like it. This 35 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: is Scott Hamilton's all right, Welcome to another episode of 36 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: the Bobby Cast with Scott Hamilton's someone that you know. 37 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: It's been cool for me getting to know you over 38 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: the past couple of years. You've been on the show 39 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: a couple of times. You were introducing into my personal 40 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: life through Amy, yes, and through her adoption process, because 41 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: she calls your wife her mentor. You know, yeah, it's 42 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: almost like sister in crime. You know, it's it's a 43 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:08,679 Speaker 1: tough process, you know that navigating all the politics and 44 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 1: you know, just the enormity of what international adoption is, 45 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: especially in Haiti. I mean, man, that's a that's a 46 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,959 Speaker 1: complicated place. We were talking about this morning. Amy and 47 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: I were and I had mentioned San Tracy, your wife, 48 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: and I can see her name right, Okay, that's right here, 49 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: and she was like, yeah, Tracy's my mentor. She's been 50 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: my mentor through the adoption process. And it was the 51 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: first time I heard Amy describe her as that. I 52 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: knew that you guys have helped and that's how I've 53 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: got to know you guys, But I didn't know that 54 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: she actually considered her like the person that she looked 55 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: up to. Well, I think and when you're doing something 56 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: like that, especially you know, um, Amy and Ben went 57 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 1: from zero to two older kids. You know, they don't 58 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: get him as babies. It's you know, there's a lot 59 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 1: of challenges that come with that. Kids are imprinted wherever 60 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: they are and that's their behavior, that's their code and 61 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: then when you got language barriers and everything else, you 62 00:02:57,520 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: need somebody that's gonna stand with you in a situation 63 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: like that. You know, it's kind of been there, done that, 64 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: and I think Tracy has really been. Um. I think 65 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: it means a lot to Tracy to be able to 66 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: offer that to Amy. Just getting through it and there's 67 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: tough days, you know, even if it's it's perfect right. 68 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: And you know, birth children and you know we brought 69 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: them up since you know you're gonna have those those 70 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: bumpy parts, and um, you know we've seen that all 71 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 1: the way through with not only our two birth children, 72 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: but are too adopted children from Haiti. It's it's a 73 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: wild ride. And you know, I I've lived through enough 74 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: where I can kind of like you know, live with 75 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,400 Speaker 1: more than an open hand and say, Okay, that wasn't 76 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: a great choice. Let's let's talk about when you know 77 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: through a little bit and uh, you know, Tracy is 78 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: much more you know, direct, and you know we're gonna 79 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: take this, nip it in the bud and move on. 80 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 1: It's like okay, okay, uh, you're the boss. Listen, I'm 81 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: glad you're here. You and Trace are super nice, but 82 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: you know, you have such interesting life. And you know, 83 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: the first time I was introduced to you. So I 84 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: was born in the eighties, so I didn't get to 85 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: see you when the gold medal, right, but you know 86 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: how I was introduced to you was watching you come 87 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: in at the end of Roseanne and whenever you were 88 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: doing the thoughts skating on the kitchen. But I still 89 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: get to I get a check every month for about 90 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: thirty four cents, you know, in residuals for and that 91 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: was the first That's when I started actually looking you 92 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: up and be like, who is this Scott Hamilton's guy 93 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 1: was so much fun, you know. We um, I was 94 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: really working too hard and there was all this crazy 95 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: stuff going on, and uh, I got a call from 96 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: Roseanne saying we want to do Linoleum socks skating and 97 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: it's like, I'm in, Well, we want to get Vernon Lundquist. 98 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: He's in. Do you think we should ask him first? 99 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: I go, no, no, he's in. So Burne was really 100 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 1: happy to do it. And then I got um Kevin 101 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: Quinn and I did that that skit and I kept 102 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: running and Kevin all over the place, and uh, he 103 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 1: was a really niat guy. You know, he had a 104 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 1: lot of demons that you know, ended up taking him. 105 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: But um, we had a really nice friendship and it 106 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: was really funny doing that because Roseanne's like, that's not funny, 107 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: now do that? No, that does and so uh yeah, 108 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: it was there last show before they broke for Christmas, 109 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 1: and there was a big party afterwards, and did you 110 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: go to the Roseanne party? Yeah? They let It was fun. 111 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: Yeah what happened at the Roseanne bar rat party because 112 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: that was when the show was really kicking its first time, 113 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: like really doing great. It was. It was awesome. You know, 114 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: everybody with you. Johnny Glacia was there, and then um, 115 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: I ended up with John Goodman. Um that was back, 116 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 1: you know, a long time ago, and I occasionally might 117 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: misbehave a little bit, and I ended up sitting with 118 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: him like for hours and uh laughing because um uh 119 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: there's a guy that works with Dick Button named Dennis Grimaldi, 120 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: and um, Dennis gave John his starting skating So we 121 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: had that, you know, I had Dick Button on my 122 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: skating side and he had Dennis Grimaldi on the acting side, 123 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: and we just sat there and just laughed about all 124 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: the create the stories of those guys and all the 125 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 1: partnership and all the shows they produced, and a lot 126 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:06,799 Speaker 1: of people don't know that. You know, Dick Button created 127 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 1: Superstars the Superstars, which is the show with that athletic 128 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 1: competition where they put all the people from all the 129 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 1: different sports together, all competing one on one. I don't 130 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: remember that show. Oh my god, it was huge. And 131 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: Battle the Network Stars, he didn't. I've seen some Battle 132 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: the Networks was on YouTube, and I guess I'm dating 133 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: myself a bit. I don't know, I'm dating myself. A 134 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: lot of bit went with Superstars on. It was in 135 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: the seventies and eighties, and they would bring in people 136 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: from baseball, football, boxing, basketball, soccer and then all compete 137 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: against each other and in these kind of more Olympic 138 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,239 Speaker 1: kind of sports, and it was it was really entertaining. 139 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: The ratings were huge and people thought, oh, Dick Button 140 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: created that. And you know, Dennis was a big part 141 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: of Dennis's theatrical side and John Goodman I had that 142 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: in common. We just it was fun. It was a 143 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: big night. It's funny you bring up ratings and television 144 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: shows from back even when I was a kid, there 145 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: weren't there were I or six outlets, and so everything 146 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: had a lot of eyeballs, where now there's a million 147 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: outlets and fighting for a few eyeballs on all of them. 148 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: It's been tough. You know, when you look at trust 149 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: real um kind of networks, you know, and it was ABC, 150 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: CBS and NBC and they owned everything, and they were 151 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: just they were burning through money, and it was kind 152 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: of this gigantic, huge, you know, infrastructure that just they 153 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: just printed money. It was just gigantic. And then cable 154 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: television came through and the network guys from we understand it, 155 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: We're kind of stiff armed and say, no, we got this. 156 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: If you want to come on, then you have you're 157 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: gonna have to pay. You know, they're not gonna We're 158 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: not gonna pay you. You're gonna have to pay to 159 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: get on our systems. And it was like wait, wait, wait, 160 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: it's up fair. And then all of a sudden, there's 161 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: all these choices and network television now is a completely 162 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: different business model than it was before. I mean, they 163 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: still have a lot of money, and they still have 164 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: a lot of eyeballs, but it's not nearly what it 165 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: was back when. I mean, we had three stations when 166 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 1: I was growing up. And here's how old I am. 167 00:07:57,720 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: We waited until six o'clock when the BC went from 168 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 1: black and white to color. Wait. So television did that, 169 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: and that's where the Peacock was so amazing, because they 170 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: would do the Peacock would all of a sudden, all 171 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: the colors would come on and would be this wow. 172 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: And you know, my parents were really big into like, 173 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: they loved music, and they and you know it professors 174 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: in school. They love music, and they loved television. They 175 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 1: loved you know, media and and um. So we had 176 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: this big kind of console in our living room where 177 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 1: we had a color TV. And it was awesome and 178 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: we're we just sit there and staring and all the 179 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: shows that we used to watch back then. We're just 180 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 1: so much fun. I didn't know, and I con sider 181 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: myself a TV nerd. I didn't know it went from 182 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: color or from black and white to color in the 183 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,959 Speaker 1: middle of the day. It was read at prime time. 184 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: It was just I guess, right before the news. You know, 185 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: sometimes the news in black and white, and when the 186 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: news was important, like the news it's still a thing, 187 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:56,400 Speaker 1: you know, the news kind of isn't news anymore. It's opinion. 188 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 1: It's all these opinion chat shows right where. So you're 189 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: talking about able news, Yeah, I'm talking about I'm even 190 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: talking about the local news. Yeah, the local news used 191 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: to be a big deal. If it bleeds, it leads. Yeah. 192 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: Weather a tiny Arkansas town and the weatherman in Arkansas 193 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: when I was a kid was named ned Permy. He's 194 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: still there. And I'm starstruck by the local lear Rock 195 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: weather guy because the TV local TV news was such 196 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: a big deal where I grew up, I don't So 197 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: where did you grow up? Bowling Green, Ohio? Okay, so 198 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: that's not a big city. It's it was really small. 199 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:30,719 Speaker 1: Like the joke about Bowling Green is it's in that 200 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: really flat part of Ohio. You can actually stand on 201 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:37,079 Speaker 1: a chair and see Detroit, Michigan. You know, it's that flat, 202 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: and really, you know it's it's it's a lot of 203 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: farm country. It was a university center, so the population 204 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: was kind of like a third college families, a third locals, 205 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 1: and a third agriculture. And it was a really odd 206 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 1: mix growing up and um but you know, it was 207 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: still rooted in the college and so everything we did 208 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: was kind of at the university and all the fun 209 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: things like the ice arena was part of the university 210 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: and and that's where we got started there. But um, 211 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: it's a great way to grow up. You know. We 212 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: had big weather, huge weather, tornadoes coming through there all 213 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: the time, and I remember just be home before the 214 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:14,200 Speaker 1: tornado hits, pushing my bike because I couldn't ride it 215 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,600 Speaker 1: into the wind. And it was awesome. It was really 216 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: fun to grow up that way. You got a new book, 217 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: Finished First, Winning changes everything. It came back, came out 218 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: back in February, and so tell me what this over 219 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:27,719 Speaker 1: art because I've read most of it at this point, 220 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: tell me what this overarching theme of Finished First is. Well, 221 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: you know, I've been doing a lot of speaking, a 222 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: lot of you know, and I've done a couple of books, 223 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,839 Speaker 1: and and I was, you know, I really wanted to 224 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 1: you know there. I felt there was something in there 225 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 1: that needed, you know, to come out, that that was 226 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: a new platform for me to share. And I sat 227 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 1: down with Donald Miller, who's an author, and and I 228 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 1: just said, you know, what do you what do you 229 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 1: What's what's my next message? And he goes winning, Okay, 230 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: I figured that went out, but what do you mean? 231 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,560 Speaker 1: He goes we live in an in a time where um, 232 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: everything is based on participation, trophies and sparing our you know, 233 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: sparing everybody's feelings, and we don't want to do this 234 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: one to that, and and I really feel like we're 235 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: in trouble. And you know, competition is good. Competition allows us, 236 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: you know, I mean you hear that every day you're 237 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: competing with all these other you know, radio shows and 238 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: YouTube channels, radio show everything. You're competify everything, but it 239 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: makes you better. I mean metal still sharp and steel, yeah, 240 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: you know, and better things make me better. So a 241 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: lot of you know that has been pushed out of 242 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:33,680 Speaker 1: our culture. So we got you know a lot of 243 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: people that are in business looking for you know, how 244 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: do I get better? How do I you know, win 245 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: the next job? Or you know, people in school, how 246 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: do I you know, how do I put myself in 247 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: a great position to succeed? And then you've got you know, 248 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: kids in sports and and I've even found the book 249 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: has a big audience with with senior citizens where they 250 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: go I was given up, and now you've given me 251 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 1: permission to kind of go do some things I've always 252 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: wanted to do. So you know, the whole idea behind 253 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: Finished First is that you know, we all have dreams, aspirations, 254 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,080 Speaker 1: we all have things that we want to do, we 255 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:06,560 Speaker 1: all have things that we need to do. You know, 256 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: we all have purpose. We all have talents and skills 257 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 1: that allow us to do things in a really special 258 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: and remarkable way. But it doesn't just happen. You've got 259 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: to un roll up your sleeves and and you know, 260 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: put the time into really uh advance your you know, 261 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:26,080 Speaker 1: advance your skills, learn how to lose and win, and 262 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: learn how to you know, put yourself out there. And 263 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: when you do, everything changes. You know, if you're able 264 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: to you know, build that foundation of a million different 265 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 1: victories of just showing up, of just doing the work 266 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: of being you know, leaving the last one to leave, 267 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: and all those really great concepts of understanding that you're 268 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,280 Speaker 1: not quite who you need to be. And there's probably 269 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: something they're just dying to get out and it's it's 270 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 1: it's taking stock of your skill set and what you're 271 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: you're drawn to and then being able to leverage that 272 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: into something really significant. And and I've I've always felt 273 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 1: that when I see people that are kind of can 274 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 1: bad choices it's like, uh, it's crazy you mentioned so 275 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,319 Speaker 1: the this is not a plug from my book. My 276 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: book comes out in June, my second book, and I 277 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: say it's the least uplifting motivational book ever. It's a 278 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: lot like because I wrote my first book and I 279 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 1: didn't really have interest in writing a book. I didn't 280 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: and I wanted to write a kid's book, and so 281 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: I ended up they said, hey, the kid's book. It's 282 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: so saturated that market. That don't write a kid's book, 283 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: write a memoir. And I thought, what have I done? 284 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: I haven't won a World Series or a gold medal 285 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 1: or been on the movie. So I write this book's guy, 286 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,719 Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is just terrible. I think this 287 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: is a turd. That yeah, and it sells like unbelievably, 288 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 1: and so even it was unbelievable to me, and I 289 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: didn't want to write a second book. It just was 290 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 1: not going to do it. So I did a Ted 291 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: talk and it was called winning by Losing, okay, and 292 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:57,839 Speaker 1: so they said, hey, would you write that? I thought, 293 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: that's about the only thing that enters to me. And 294 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: so what you're thing is a lot of what I 295 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: wrote in my book, and how it's if you can't 296 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: do the little things like beyond time, then you can't 297 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: do the big things like stop begging to get the 298 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 1: big jobs. If you can't do the little jobs right well, 299 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: and it's it's also you know, sometimes we you know, 300 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: I see people that are putting themselves in the wrong place. 301 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: It's like, Okay, I know you really want to do that. 302 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: Like I would love to be a rock star. All right, Um, 303 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: too short, too bald, can't sing, can't play an instrument 304 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: that's gonna be Those are challenges. Those are big challenges. 305 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: And so it's like, you know, you find your way, 306 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: you bump around and then you find things. You know. 307 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: I like to tell the story of when I was 308 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: in Korea for the Olympics. Um the venue manager there 309 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 1: and I got to be really good friends, and he said, 310 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: I want you to talk to my staff because a 311 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 1: lot of the young Korean people have given up. They're 312 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: just basically told to be obedient, do what we tell 313 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: you to do and you'll be fine. But don't you know, 314 00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: it's like they're they're crushing dreams basically as a culture. 315 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: And I gave my little you know, spiel on finished 316 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: first and then a girl came up to me and 317 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: she was about eighteen. I guess, and she goes, I 318 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 1: don't understand what you mean about purpose? And I go 319 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: really well, I mean, what do you mean? He shows 320 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: I'm not good at anything? And she said it just 321 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: like that. And it's like, who's who's pouring into this 322 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: girl that she's not good at anything? And so I go, well, 323 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: let's just break it down. I go, what do you 324 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: like to do? What brings you joy? And she goes, 325 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: I like to read? And I go, wow, what do 326 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: you read? And she goes, well, the last two books 327 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: I read where Jane Eyre and Withering Heights, And I go, oh, 328 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: you like the classics? And I finally got a smile 329 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:37,400 Speaker 1: out of her and shows I do, and I go, 330 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 1: maybe you're an author and her eyes just popped. That's 331 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: that little, like, you know, thing of recognition where like that, 332 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 1: and it was like I felt like I I gave 333 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 1: her permission to dream just for that second. And maybe 334 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: it was a seed. I don't know, but it's just 335 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: like there are so many people out there just looking 336 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: for direction and looking for a path forward, and you 337 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 1: know they're stuck behind all these parts. As a patient trophies, 338 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: and we don't want anybody to win or anybody to lose. 339 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: And that's just lazy parenting. You know. It's like when Max, 340 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: my youngest, you know, a great kid, funny you know, 341 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: wants to be a great hockey player. He has Ryan Ellis' 342 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 1: number on his back because he sees himself as Ryan Ellis, 343 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: all right, because he's a little guy and he wants 344 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 1: to play d and score and all that stuff. And 345 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 1: he played his first few games and they got killed. 346 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: I mean, they just got destroyed. And I'm like, buddy, 347 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: what what, what's wrong? And he goes, I don't like 348 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: losing like this. I don't like it. And I go, okay, okay, 349 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:31,360 Speaker 1: well what did you learn today? And he goes, well, 350 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: I I gotta skate better, and I gotta stick in 351 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: a little bit better. And I want to I want 352 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: to get my shot up. I really want to hit 353 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: that top corner of the net. It's like, that's great, Max, 354 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: what would you have learned if you won? And he 355 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 1: looked at me like is that a true question? Because 356 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: I don't have an answer. And that's it. I mean, 357 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 1: if we can learn learn from losing, if we can 358 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: look at losing his information and not this debilitating, horrible, 359 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: painful scar on our psyche. We're probably gonna be better 360 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: up it, like all the haters on Twitter, you know, 361 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,199 Speaker 1: during the Olympics, I got roasted bunch, and so I 362 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 1: put them all, not all, I put about seven of 363 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,640 Speaker 1: them in a talk I gave to this college leadership program. 364 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: And when I started playing them one after another, these 365 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: college kids were covering their eyes, covering their face, and 366 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 1: it's like, are you kidding me? This is nothing, you know, 367 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:21,919 Speaker 1: because criticism comes down to is it fact or is 368 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 1: it opinion. If it's opinion, you can delete it right away. 369 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,479 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean anything. It's just noise or just nothing. 370 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 1: And if it's fact, then you've got now you have 371 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: something to work with, right, and you can like totally 372 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: figure out how to deal with that that, you know, 373 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: maybe as a weakness that you can worry, you know, 374 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: worry about and really, you know, sharpen and and get 375 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 1: better at things. Right. So, when I was skating, dick 376 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 1: Button was always telling me how bad I was at 377 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 1: this or how bad I was at that, And so 378 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 1: my goal every year was to give him one less 379 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: thing to talk about, to the point where if I 380 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: made it to the Olympics and eighty four, he couldn't 381 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: say anything bad about me and that was it. It's like, 382 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: the greatest strength is a lack of weakness where we week, 383 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,160 Speaker 1: that's what we need to work on. And you know, failures, 384 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: information and and and criticism is edited, just edited, And 385 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 1: it's amazing how powerful that can be for people that 386 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: fear taking that first step forward. You know, part of 387 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,160 Speaker 1: your book is one of the things that I resonated 388 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: with me was we talk about editing your critics. I 389 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: hope I'm staying that right. Edit your credits. It's what 390 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,360 Speaker 1: you're talking about there. But when I was reading it, 391 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: and that was a part to meet the stuck out 392 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: and you and you just hit it. But that's what 393 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,159 Speaker 1: when you're in the public eye or you have a 394 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: job that a lot of people see. It doesn't have 395 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:33,440 Speaker 1: to be a radio personality, could be the head of 396 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: an office. There are a lot of people with a 397 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: lot of opinions and you have to edit what you're 398 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:41,119 Speaker 1: going to take in from them because I don't melt you. 399 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: We have right now in US figure skating, there's a 400 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: situation where you have as many as twelve judge, twelve 401 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: judges coming to evaluate your skating. Now, if if I 402 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 1: were making chicken soup and I had twelve people working 403 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 1: on the chicken soup, you know, edible, that would be 404 00:18:57,680 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be. It would be awful. And oh, you know, 405 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: I need to work with people and how we you know, information, 406 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: how it's given, and and really make it so it's 407 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: it's nutritious and not just a bunch of opinions going 408 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: back and forth, because it confuses people. And these are 409 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: people of authority. So yeah, we have to really look 410 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 1: at what the information is, how it's coming in, and 411 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: how best we can utilize it. And if we can't, 412 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: it's okay to I give you permission to throw it away. Right. 413 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 1: I had a judge tell me one time, an international 414 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 1: and judge, when I'm on that just that little bit 415 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: of a slow pop, you know, I'm starting to kind 416 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: of look like I'm gonna actually be okay. And she said, 417 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,720 Speaker 1: it's really good that Scott's doing better, but he's too 418 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 1: short to be competitive internationally. And I looked at that 419 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 1: and I was like, how am I going to fix that? 420 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 1: It's like, what do you do with that? So I 421 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 1: realized that that was just opinion because I went back. 422 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: I look back in history and there's a guy in 423 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: nineteen sixty his name was David Jenkins. He was my height, 424 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 1: and he won the Olympics and three World championships. I go, 425 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:00,399 Speaker 1: if if David Jenkins can do it, I'll probably be Okay, 426 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 1: it's it's our you know, it's just somebody's opinion. They 427 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:05,679 Speaker 1: don't maybe like short skaters. But hopefully she won't be 428 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 1: on my panel and I'll be able to press on. 429 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: And as it turns out, it was just one judge's opinion. 430 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 1: And I could have allowed that to, you know, really 431 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 1: just slay me and knock me down and like I 432 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:17,560 Speaker 1: might as well quit, you know, But it was one 433 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,199 Speaker 1: of those things where it's just okay, that's good. I 434 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: now know that I have permission to edit what anybody 435 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: tells me, so that I can look at it realistically 436 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 1: and say, yeah, I need to work on that, or 437 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: that's just somebody's opinion. When you get on social media, 438 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,400 Speaker 1: none of those people would ever say it to your face. 439 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: That's edit number one, finished first Winning changes Everything. Check 440 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 1: out Scott Hamilton's book, Let Me Talk About one of 441 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: our sponsors here for a second. It's hard to find 442 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: a bigger fan of you than your mom. Through all 443 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: the teenage mischief and tough first steps of adulthood, She's 444 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,719 Speaker 1: been there supporting you every step of the way. This 445 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 1: Mother's Day show her just how much you appreciate all 446 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 1: of her dedication. With one flowers dot com. 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But the only the thing that 465 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: stuck out to me was, and I don't know if 466 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 1: this is true or not, but you at the first 467 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: World Championships, you felt like five times that true. My 468 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 1: first Nationals, ever national Yeah, I came in dead last. 469 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 1: It was it was, you know, because I looked at 470 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,640 Speaker 1: this and went the gold medal winner at one time 471 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 1: A lot, no, I a lot, a whole bunch. I 472 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: came into um novice my first Nationals. They scheduled the 473 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 1: novice men, which is the lowest level event that goes 474 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 1: to Nationals. They scheduled it as the event right before 475 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 1: the Senior Ladies Championship. And the single most popular woman 476 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,200 Speaker 1: athlete in the world was Janet Lynn and it was 477 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 1: her last Nationals. So it was standing room only in 478 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: this build. Everybody was there. Everybody was there, and I 479 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 1: never saw that many people in my life. I grew 480 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,120 Speaker 1: up in a town of fifteen thousand. I skated as 481 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 1: in a town of two thousand people, and there's seventeen thousand, 482 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 1: five hundred people in this packed auditorium, and I choked. 483 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 1: I mean I couldn't even feel my legs. I felt 484 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: five times, came in dead last, and then I thought, okay, 485 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: I'm after I got done crying for like a week, 486 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: I said, I'm gonna go next year. I'm gonna just 487 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: show everybody what I made of. And next year I 488 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 1: was ninth again, but there were ten guys there. Actually 489 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 1: get a guy, and so, you know, and I'm killing 490 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: it a novice. You know, might as well move up 491 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: to the junior level because you know, what's the worst 492 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: thing that can happen. I can come in ninth again, right, 493 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: And that summer I got my double axel, which is 494 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: a huge deal, and I actually beat two guys at nationals. 495 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: So I was seventh. That's the best I could do. 496 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 1: You were seventh, but you were seventh at a higher 497 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 1: class as well. Well. Yeah, I found a way to 498 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: beat two guys, right, And so, um, the next year, 499 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 1: my mom was diagnosed with cancer and then she said, UM, 500 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: we're gonna have to stop because we're broke, but we 501 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 1: can get you through this year. But this is it 502 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 1: your senior year in high school. Um, you know you 503 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 1: can go out and just get one more year and 504 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,680 Speaker 1: that's it, and then we have to stop because we're 505 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,720 Speaker 1: out of money. And I said, okay. So my main 506 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: coach retired and a new coach came on board, and 507 00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: he was kind of a slave driver in a big, long, 508 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 1: very painful whip and he would crack it all the time. 509 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 1: And I just said, I got nothing to lose, I 510 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,200 Speaker 1: might as well listen to this guy, and so I 511 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,920 Speaker 1: did everything he told me to do, and I I 512 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,800 Speaker 1: worked really hard, and about two weeks before the Nationals, 513 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: I landed my first triple and he told me in 514 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: the warm up before the long program, he said, don't um, 515 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: don't do it in warm up. We don't want to 516 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,640 Speaker 1: know if it's there or not. Just throwing the program 517 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: if you feel like so, if you feel like it, 518 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: so you have the option to not even try it. Yeah. 519 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I had nothing to lose. It was gonna 520 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 1: be my last competition ever, and so I figure it's 521 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,239 Speaker 1: my last competition ever, I might as well, and so 522 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,320 Speaker 1: I threw it. And I actually, normally i'd have a 523 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: nice view of the ceiling when I do a jump 524 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: like that, but this time I was standing on one 525 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: foot perfectly landed triple south. Kind I was like, tell 526 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 1: me about this because you're talking language now that I've seen, 527 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: and they say it, but I'm too uneducated even question 528 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 1: about it. Well, the triple jump, like it goes up 529 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,119 Speaker 1: from doubles the triple. So doubles are when you rotate 530 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 1: twice in the air, and then triples are three times 531 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: in the year. So what's the actual of it. The 532 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 1: axle is only forward takeoffs, so that adds a half 533 00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,159 Speaker 1: a revolution to the jump, which makes a little harder. 534 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,439 Speaker 1: So you jump forward, land backward. You always land backwards 535 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 1: three and a half the Yeah, the jumps are always 536 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 1: the same in the air and they always land the same, 537 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:16,320 Speaker 1: so nobody can tell the difference between the jumps. It's 538 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 1: the takeoff that makes them different, either backward or forward. 539 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,360 Speaker 1: And the axle you start forward and land backward. And 540 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 1: so to land a triple axle, yeah, three and a 541 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,360 Speaker 1: half turns. That's hard, is it not? Anymore? I mean 542 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 1: the guys you know, I mean, you can't even get 543 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,440 Speaker 1: out of juniors without a triple axle. It's now it's 544 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: quads um four times four times. And there's guys that 545 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,119 Speaker 1: can do almost every takeoff the quad. There's six different 546 00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 1: takeoffs and each one of them has its own challenges. 547 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 1: When you were landing your triple, though, is that was 548 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,719 Speaker 1: that a huge deal to the entire community. It was. 549 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 1: It was kind of where a lot of the guys 550 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: in the event we're doing triples. But I was able 551 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:55,720 Speaker 1: to kind of entertain a little bit, and I was 552 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: I was probably a little bit better with handling music 553 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 1: and all in all this clueless about most things. In 554 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 1: that competition, I landed the triple sund I got to 555 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 1: the rest of the program clean, and I won Junior Nationals. 556 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 1: So the year before and then you want and so 557 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 1: you get to stay, you get a sponsor. That what 558 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: happened was coach saw that I was um winning junior 559 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:18,719 Speaker 1: Nationals and he goes, I can get I can get 560 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 1: him a sponsor if he'll come to coach with me 561 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: or take from me. And so the coach that year 562 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,199 Speaker 1: coach Dorothy Hamill and John Curry to Olympic gold medals. 563 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: So I was in pretty good hands. So I just 564 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: moved to Denver. I was sponsored. I turned eighteen that 565 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: summer and the next year was my first year on 566 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,000 Speaker 1: the senior level, and I returned to my old days 567 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,440 Speaker 1: of glory. I wiped up the ice and then came 568 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: in ninth, and uh, what was bad about that was 569 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 1: that was the last time my mom ever saw me skate. 570 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: And so the morning that I lost her, and she 571 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 1: was I mean everything to me. She was the center 572 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 1: of my universe everything. I love this woman. Um. I 573 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 1: just decided that from then on I was going to 574 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: honor her sacrifice and I was going to be the 575 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: person that she thought I could be. And so I 576 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 1: took her with me wherever I went. I was always 577 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 1: accountable to her, and if I was on the ice, 578 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 1: I worked every harder than I've ever worked. And UM 579 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: ended up getting a really difficult triple um that summer 580 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 1: that I was so horrific um the previous nationals and 581 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: I went from a ninth the Nationals to third at 582 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,919 Speaker 1: Nationals and then eleventh in the world, and then two 583 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:26,119 Speaker 1: years later I'm on the Olympic team. So when you 584 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,680 Speaker 1: won the gold, was that your first Olympics? Eighty four? 585 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: And okay, so eight So I came in fifth, So okay, 586 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 1: that was a finished first for me. That's what I 587 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 1: was gonna add. So you go to the Olympics and 588 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,400 Speaker 1: eighty like that's gotta be a thing. You know, you're 589 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,479 Speaker 1: talking about your mom, that's gotta be a thing too, 590 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:44,399 Speaker 1: where you're like, man, like, you just did well, did you? 591 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: And in fifth? Little did you know? Four years now 592 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: I wanted to be eight. I thought if I if 593 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 1: I came in eighth, that's a win. That's like gigantic. 594 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 1: How many guys are there? Uh? And I don't even 595 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 1: remember I was the third guy to three men us 596 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 1: teams eighth. What was significant about the eighth? You know? 597 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: I just I did the math and I looked at 598 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 1: all the other skaters, and I thought, if I could 599 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 1: beat just enough guys, I could come in eighth. I 600 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: never anticipated coming in fifth ever. And then I went 601 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: to Worlds. Right after that, I came in fifth again, 602 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 1: and so um A month month later, I woke up 603 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: to have breakfast and the top three guys all retired. 604 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 1: So all I had to do is wake up one 605 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,280 Speaker 1: morning and I'm rank second in the world and rom 606 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: then on it was like, Okay, what do I gotta 607 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 1: do in order to win? And that was you hate 608 00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,160 Speaker 1: compulsory figures. You have to fall in love with your 609 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: weakest element. It was only like I like doing half 610 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,240 Speaker 1: the job. I didn't like doing the other half at all, UM, 611 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: And so I just got to work. And I fell 612 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: in love with compulsory figures. And I don't know what 613 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 1: they're like, the figure eights, like if you always see 614 00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: those figure eights, like when you see people tracing things, 615 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: I can you know, I don't. They don't even really 616 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: exist anymore. But back then that was kind of the 617 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: foundation of all skating. And they're boring because all you 618 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: do is you trace circles for hours. And I hated 619 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: it because it wasn't fun, and so I just had 620 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: to make it a contest with myself and and I 621 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 1: ended up getting pretty good at figures, and I ended 622 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 1: up from October nineteen eighty until March of I never 623 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,959 Speaker 1: lost a competition because I figured it out. You figured 624 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,200 Speaker 1: what out? I figured out how to prepare myself to win. 625 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 1: And and that was after a lot of beta testing 626 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 1: and losing. You know, my coach was the perfect coach. 627 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: I ended up leaving that um the Olympic champion coach, 628 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: and going to an unknown coach pretty much in Philadelphia, 629 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: and he packaged me and he taught me how to 630 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 1: discipline myself, and he taught me how to be accountable, 631 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 1: and he taught me how to show up every day 632 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,840 Speaker 1: with a real um path to winning. And Um, that 633 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 1: summer I won my first international competition. That I went 634 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 1: to the Olympics, and then from then on I just 635 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: never lost. Tell me about not so much winning the gold. 636 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 1: But after you win the gold and you come back home, 637 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 1: are you famous? Then? Well, you know, here's the deal. 638 00:29:58,160 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: When I was on my way to Sarajebo, I was 639 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: in Chicago airport and I was reading because we had 640 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 1: a long day over and I was just like reading 641 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: to kind of relax, and I lost track of time. 642 00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god. I was like like 643 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: half a concourse away from my gate, and I got 644 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 1: up and I asked a guy walk and I go, 645 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: what time is it? Can you tell me times? And 646 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 1: he goes and he just dissed me and walked away, 647 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, that was unpleasant. I can't 648 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 1: get the time of day on my way to the Olympics. 649 00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 1: It's really rough. And then on the way back, UM, 650 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: I was in baggage claim UM and I ended up 651 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 1: getting stuck there for two hours signing autographs that quick, no, 652 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 1: it's overnight. And and then I went back to Denver 653 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,640 Speaker 1: the next day and um, there was a parade through 654 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,840 Speaker 1: downtown Denver and ended up being in Larmer Square. Five 655 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,240 Speaker 1: thousand people were in Larmer Square to welcome you back 656 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: from parade. It's no, it's crazy, it's it was insane. 657 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 1: So life changes that quickly. The director of the telecast 658 00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:01,000 Speaker 1: for ABC was one of the original um My World 659 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: of Sports guys. You know, his name is Doug Wilson. 660 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: And he said, oh, by the way, your life is 661 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 1: completely different. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, 662 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: I got it all right. And I went home and 663 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: sure enough, I you know, i'd want all those years 664 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: and nothing really and then I come back from the 665 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 1: Olympics and it's like, oh man, this is really different. 666 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: So when you come back and now you're famous, do 667 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: you start to make a little more money when you 668 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 1: come back, because the people were going, hey, we want 669 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: to give you a deal, a car, that kind of stuff. Well, 670 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,000 Speaker 1: I was broke, like broke. I was living in one 671 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: of my my best friend's parents basement, you know, because 672 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 1: I didn't have any money, and they just sort of 673 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 1: looked after me. And then, um, I got a first 674 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 1: thing was I got an endorsement opportunity for Coca Cola, 675 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: and I didn't really want to miss the World Championships. 676 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: And if I took the endorsement, I realized that that's money. 677 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 1: Titles are forever. Money is like it goes really fast. 678 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: So I said no to Coca Cola. You can't take money, 679 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 1: because then you can't. That was then you can now, 680 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 1: but then then you can't. Couldn't then. So I decided 681 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: to go to the World because I figured if I 682 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: went a fourth World Idol and if I do it 683 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,200 Speaker 1: in Canada against you know, my biggest competitor, then you know, 684 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: I can kind of like, you know, okay, I'm done. 685 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: And um. My first job was with the Ice Capades 686 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 1: and I was with them for two years. They went 687 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 1: through a sale and uh, the new owner didn't want 688 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 1: any guy skaters and so I was let go. So 689 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 1: you can work, you just can't take money. That was 690 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 1: during the Olympics. I turned pro right after the World 691 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: Championships that that March. I I went pretty much from 692 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 1: Worlds to a press conference where I said I'm retiring 693 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: and I'm i'm I'm I'm up forbid. If anybody wants me, 694 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: And at that point there wasn't any guys making money 695 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 1: and skating, so I had to kind of figure it out. 696 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: And I had a really good agent, UM. He was 697 00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 1: with IMG and he I signed with him because I 698 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,320 Speaker 1: liked him, because I thought he was pretty humble guy. 699 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: But he was also representing UM Chris Everett and my 700 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 1: favorite athlete in the world, Bjorn Borg. He was representing him, 701 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 1: and I go, can I meet him? Yes? Absolutely, You're 702 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: my guy. I don't. I just loved his temperament. I 703 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 1: loved how he always won, and UM, I just there 704 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 1: was something about him that was just allowed me to 705 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,480 Speaker 1: be calm, cool and collected when I competed, you know, 706 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 1: because he was kind of a great role model that way. 707 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: It's like you don't have to get all crazy, you 708 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 1: just do your job. And so UM I signed with 709 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 1: Bob and then he he did really well and giving 710 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 1: me some of UM giving me some work. And then 711 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,959 Speaker 1: when I was like from Ice Capades, Bob and I 712 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 1: sat down and he goes, what do you want to do? 713 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:32,719 Speaker 1: And I go, let me take my calendar. But they 714 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: let you go. They fired you from Yeah because they 715 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 1: didn't want any mail skaters. They didn't want a gold 716 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 1: medal ska. Did you cost too much though? Was that 717 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,440 Speaker 1: just their thing? Like we don't but really it was like, 718 00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,920 Speaker 1: well paying too much? Well, you know, they offered me 719 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 1: one week of shows in Minneapolis, which is the new 720 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 1: owner's hometown, for one fifth what I was making. And 721 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:56,640 Speaker 1: I said, I don't really think that's a good idea 722 00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 1: because I got this other opportunity to build a tour. 723 00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 1: It's my tour and um, and he goes, where's your loyalty? 724 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: It's like, oh, good question. So I started a show 725 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 1: called Stars on Ice and it's still going. I mean 726 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 1: it was great you started Stars on Ice. Yeah, that 727 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 1: was a lot of hard work. It was I was 728 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 1: unloading trucks when crews didn't show up, and I was 729 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 1: I was doing everything possible to keep this thing alive. Wow, 730 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,799 Speaker 1: So you started that and it runs, it's doing its 731 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,279 Speaker 1: thing now. Yeah. I don't own it. I just started it. 732 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,920 Speaker 1: I founded it with I am G. I m G 733 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 1: doesn't really partner with clients, so um, I said, you know, hey, 734 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:35,880 Speaker 1: just give me half the show and you don't have 735 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:37,880 Speaker 1: to pay me anything till it's profitable. And they're like, no, 736 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,000 Speaker 1: we don't really want to do that. And it's still out, 737 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,280 Speaker 1: it's still going. I just hosted the NBC television special 738 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 1: Stars in Ice in Orlando about a month ago, and 739 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: it's a really good show. I'm really proud of the skaters. 740 00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 1: I was reading as I was watching the Olympics. Because 741 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,399 Speaker 1: I grew up in Arkansas. We had a brief winter. 742 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 1: There was no hockey, and I grew up very poor. 743 00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,399 Speaker 1: There was no ice anything, you know, And unless you're 744 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 1: in a region and where the ice already exists, it 745 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 1: cost a lot of money to get to ice, if 746 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: that makes sense. Like if I lived in Colorado, I 747 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 1: wouldn't need to be rich to ski. But because I 748 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: lived in Arkansas, you had to be rich to ski. 749 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:16,360 Speaker 1: You aren't getting It's called access barriers. Huge access barrier. 750 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 1: So I didn't know anything. And and I'm learning about 751 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,239 Speaker 1: hockey because the preads over the last five or six years. 752 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: I'm learning, and I'm watching the that that the Winter Olympics, 753 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,319 Speaker 1: and I'm watching the ice skating And what was there 754 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: drama with you and the new broadcast team they were 755 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 1: making into a whole story. Know what happened? Was um, 756 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,320 Speaker 1: this reporter from the New York Times. Um sat me 757 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 1: down and at the US Figure Skating Championships in San 758 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 1: Jose and she goes, I want to know how you 759 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 1: feel about this change. Because I was the lead analyst 760 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:53,920 Speaker 1: for NBC for four Olympics and three with NBCO. So UM, 761 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 1: when Johnny and Tara we did all this stuff in Sochi, Um, 762 00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 1: they just you know, Johnny was really being our but 763 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 1: it got to be such a huge deal that they're like, oh, yeah, 764 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 1: we need to bring those guys up. And so when 765 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 1: I left so chi I thought I'm done. I'm never 766 00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 1: gonna do another Olympics. And then they they reached out 767 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 1: and they said, um, we're gonna move you out of 768 00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 1: the lead commentary position and we're gonna bring them up. 769 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,560 Speaker 1: And I go I figured that was going to happen. 770 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,120 Speaker 1: I'm a smart guy, can see where the tides are going. 771 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 1: And um, and I go well, and they go, we 772 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 1: want to keep you and I go, oh why, and 773 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,239 Speaker 1: they go, well, because you know you've done a good 774 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 1: job for us, we want to keep you around. And 775 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,440 Speaker 1: so the the New York Times reporter was trying to 776 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 1: she we talked for a long time. She was grilling me, 777 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,479 Speaker 1: and she was waiting for me to crack and say 778 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: this is a horrible thing, and I'm just like going, 779 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: you know what, it's I'm there by their invitation. It's 780 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 1: not my job, it's their's to give. And you know what, 781 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 1: when they told me I wasn't gonna be the lead 782 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 1: analyst anymore, for about ten minutes, I was kind of 783 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,960 Speaker 1: like morning, you know, kind of what was and and 784 00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:01,439 Speaker 1: after that it's like, all right, let's suh, Let's see 785 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:04,759 Speaker 1: what happens next. And so they brought me to UM 786 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 1: every nationals from there on to be kind of like 787 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:11,360 Speaker 1: the voice of I don't know, historical perspective or whatever, 788 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: or to get to the heart of with what the 789 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 1: competition was. And then UM I went to the Olympics 790 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: and they gave me an hour long pregame show called 791 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 1: Olympic Ice on NBCSN and it was a blast and 792 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 1: I loved it. And I got to go to the 793 00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 1: events and watch and not have to be under the 794 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 1: pressure of having to come up with things to say, 795 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 1: and it was really great to be able to appreciate 796 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,399 Speaker 1: that and be able to talk about it the next day. 797 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,920 Speaker 1: So you know, it's change is gonna happen. It's just 798 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: like it's much drama as Twitter. Because I was reading it, 799 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: I was like, dry, you know, I don't know enough 800 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 1: about it. Like I said, I don't know enough about 801 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:47,240 Speaker 1: the feet the Winter Olympics. That doesn't sound as dramatic 802 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,520 Speaker 1: as they try to make the well. And then with 803 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 1: the New York Times article was you know I was 804 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: demoted and don't feel sorry for me, and that was 805 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 1: basically I said. I go, I'm I'm great. I'm just 806 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 1: I get to be in another Olympic. So I did 807 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:04,520 Speaker 1: this last Olympics and I was on NBCs N and 808 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: you know, the audience there is much smaller because it's 809 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 1: a it's a cable kind of situation. And um, one 810 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 1: of the guys that was kind of with us was 811 00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: one of the NBC executives that goes, we're not allowed 812 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,000 Speaker 1: to talk to telling about ratings, and I go, well, 813 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 1: you don't have to. I don't want to know. I 814 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 1: don't really care. It doesn't that's kind of gonna change 815 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,240 Speaker 1: my job at all. I'm gonna do the same work. 816 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 1: And he goes, you're doing five times bigger rating than 817 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 1: any show that's ever been on this network. And it's like, okay, 818 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:37,000 Speaker 1: what that that, Okay, what do you do with that? Yeah, 819 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,719 Speaker 1: I mean it's like nothing. And I thought, well, that's 820 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,000 Speaker 1: really nice. People are and you know, we're at least 821 00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 1: not underperforming, you know, and so that's good. So we 822 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 1: just did our job and then about him Matt. Three 823 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 1: weeks after I got back, I got a call from 824 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 1: NBC and they want me to do another four years. 825 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 1: Wow is that right? Yeah? So, I mean it's it's like, 826 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,400 Speaker 1: you don't know, it doesn't always have to be exactly 827 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: the way it always was for it to be enjoyable. 828 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,919 Speaker 1: I had a blast in peng Cheng. I really did. 829 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 1: I love my work. All I did was work, you know. 830 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:09,440 Speaker 1: I I would do the event in the morning, I 831 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,560 Speaker 1: do the show and then watch the event, and then I, 832 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: um go to practice and watch some practices, and I 833 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:16,719 Speaker 1: go back grabbed in and then go to my room 834 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 1: and watch YouTube videos, go through all the protocols of 835 00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:21,959 Speaker 1: all the marks they've got an all year, right down, 836 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,279 Speaker 1: every note, go over the show format, go to bed 837 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,080 Speaker 1: was my existence at the Olympics, and it was awesome 838 00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:31,920 Speaker 1: because when I first got there and um, it was 839 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 1: kind of wild. I was panicking. I couldn't sleep because 840 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 1: I don't know enough stuff, Like I don't know. There's 841 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 1: no way in the world I'm gonna be labeled to 842 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,200 Speaker 1: fraud because I don't know enough stuff to get through 843 00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:43,759 Speaker 1: an hour of television every day for a month. And 844 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 1: then I looked over and my book was because I 845 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 1: took it to kind of start promoting it, my book 846 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 1: was like sitting up staring right at me, and it's like, yeah, 847 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,719 Speaker 1: I get to work. So I got to work, and 848 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 1: it was I used everything that I put in the book, 849 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: and it was like it works, Like it got me 850 00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,280 Speaker 1: through that Olympics really well, and I got another four years. 851 00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 1: Let me talk about one of our sponsors here for 852 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,960 Speaker 1: a second. So here's this. If there's a vulnerability, cyber 853 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 1: crooks can find it. Recently, hackers accessed a smart thermometer 854 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: at a casino to hack into their database of high rollers. 855 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,840 Speaker 1: Information stolen may have included private details of the casino's 856 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:25,879 Speaker 1: biggest spenders. It's just people's private information they hacked at thermometer. 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Does that make you nervous that 873 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 1: North Korea is just right at the time, and you 874 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 1: know that the news has got attentions and well, the 875 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:24,360 Speaker 1: thing is is, yeah, if you're here, the news tells 876 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 1: you that, you know, like and going into socci Jack 877 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 1: and Jill, the terrorists are going to disrupt the Olympics. 878 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:34,280 Speaker 1: People are going to die. I was scared to death, 879 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,240 Speaker 1: and then I got there and I looked around, It's like, okay, 880 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: we're good. You know what, it's the same thing with 881 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: you know what our security was at the it called 882 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 1: the Coastal Cluster, and the Coastal Cluster was all the 883 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:51,720 Speaker 1: indoor buildings for curling, speed skating, UM, figure skating, UM hockey. 884 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 1: They were all on this big cluster with a couple 885 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,440 Speaker 1: of sponsor houses and in a big superstore and that 886 00:41:56,520 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 1: was the Coastal Cluster. And then all the television, UH 887 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,839 Speaker 1: trucks and everything to cover the event that was all 888 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 1: on this this Coastal cluster. So going through security every 889 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,000 Speaker 1: single morning, we had to go in through bag and 890 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:13,720 Speaker 1: mag type of thing. And our security was three college girls. 891 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 1: That's like my kind of security there. But it's like 892 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 1: there was no no dogs, no like you know, there 893 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,359 Speaker 1: was no snipers on the roofs, and it was just 894 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,720 Speaker 1: the opposite of what we would expect about what we're seeing. 895 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:31,080 Speaker 1: And the North Koreans were everywhere. Everywhere you looked, you 896 00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:34,120 Speaker 1: saw the North Korean cheerleaders. The little pair team that 897 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 1: was from North Korea were so warmly um appreciated by 898 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 1: the audience and they were really good. And then they 899 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,720 Speaker 1: marched in together under the same flag. How much trouble 900 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,279 Speaker 1: are we gonna have here? Really? I mean, come on, 901 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:51,359 Speaker 1: none like And it's almost the point where now I 902 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:54,799 Speaker 1: can't even watch news anymore. I just can't because I 903 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 1: just there's nothing real about it. It's just it's it's 904 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,160 Speaker 1: almost like they're trying to hook You remember the old 905 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:04,400 Speaker 1: soap operas. Did you ever watching those old Yeah, So 906 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,480 Speaker 1: back in the day when I was training, I would 907 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:09,279 Speaker 1: I would go from seven in the morning until about noon, 908 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,239 Speaker 1: and then I go make myself lunch, and then i'd 909 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:13,479 Speaker 1: watch a couple hours of soap operas to relax because 910 00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,360 Speaker 1: I was resting for the night stuff. And you know, 911 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 1: I would realize that i'd leave to go to competition, 912 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,319 Speaker 1: and I go, oh, I hate to miss this week 913 00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: because there was so much that's gonna happen. And I 914 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,799 Speaker 1: came back and it was, oh, nothing happened. And it's 915 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,160 Speaker 1: the same with the recycle. It's like, you know, you 916 00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,240 Speaker 1: come back and it's like, oh, yeah, they're still talking 917 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: about that and nothing's really changed. So I don't really 918 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 1: I don't wait or waste my time anymore, you know, 919 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,839 Speaker 1: because it's it's all meant to kind of. Also, if 920 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 1: you watch like CNN or MSNBC, or Fox. They all 921 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: have a different point of view and you have to 922 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:46,600 Speaker 1: have a radical opinion and that's it. And I don't 923 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,960 Speaker 1: have a radical opinions. I have opinions, but they're not radical. 924 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 1: And if you're not just upset, it's almost like you 925 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,120 Speaker 1: don't have a voice, like the voices that are heard, 926 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: the ones that are I'm so left, I'm so right. 927 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:00,640 Speaker 1: That's all there is that exists, and you feel like 928 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,040 Speaker 1: you have to be a part of that, and it 929 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 1: brings people to it. Like I see people gravitate to 930 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 1: the polar side because they feel like they're supposed to 931 00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,680 Speaker 1: be on a side, and I'm going, you don't have 932 00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:13,319 Speaker 1: to do that. I'm not like that. Like I live 933 00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,719 Speaker 1: here and I'll go to West Coast to New York 934 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: and all the it's a completely different population, a completely 935 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 1: different point of view, a completely different sensitive me. It's like, Wow, 936 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 1: this this is really happening in this country and there's 937 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,400 Speaker 1: no reason, you know. It's like when I was in Sochi, 938 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 1: we went to lunch at this really expensive place. It 939 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:33,400 Speaker 1: was on the mountain. You had one day to go 940 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 1: up to the mountain. We went up. We found this restaurant. 941 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 1: It was the restaurant to go to, and it was 942 00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:40,239 Speaker 1: me and one of the lead producers from NBC, and 943 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,080 Speaker 1: then next to us was three Russian guys and a 944 00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,360 Speaker 1: Korean guy and it was a Korean guy's fiftieth birthday. 945 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,200 Speaker 1: So they're all and the Russian guy we're talking these 946 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 1: big personalities, big burly guy. And he goes, let me 947 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,799 Speaker 1: ask you something. And when you were a little boy, 948 00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 1: we're about same age, right, And I I think so, 949 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,400 Speaker 1: And he goes, did they teach you to fear us Russians? 950 00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,279 Speaker 1: And all I could think of was duck and hover, 951 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:05,080 Speaker 1: you know, yeah? And I go, yeah, I did pretty much. 952 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 1: He goes, When I was a little boy, a right, 953 00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,840 Speaker 1: probably seem like you. They with bells would ring and 954 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,080 Speaker 1: the teachers would scream it as get down in the basement. 955 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 1: The Americans are coming to destroy us. He goes, isn't 956 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,279 Speaker 1: it amazing that you and I and just minutes can 957 00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:21,960 Speaker 1: become friends and our leaders act like children. And I 958 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: was like, oh, bing, you know, it's so I don't 959 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 1: want to get political or anything. Yeah, it's it's meant 960 00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 1: to um. It's to you know, kind of dopamine and 961 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,160 Speaker 1: all that other stuff. And the colors that you all that, 962 00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 1: and you know, it's kind of it seems like I 963 00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:40,960 Speaker 1: don't know, I none of it. It just seems so 964 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 1: funny to me that I can't participate. I just can't. 965 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,800 Speaker 1: It makes me tired too, because everyone wants my opinion 966 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: on things. I just did this long, three four hour 967 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,680 Speaker 1: interview with the magazine to say, how do you feel politically? 968 00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 1: And I have no problem talking about my politics. People 969 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,359 Speaker 1: just don't come to me from my politics like there's 970 00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: a there's a difference if you want to have it, 971 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,040 Speaker 1: and if you want to ask me like, I will 972 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 1: tell you, but I'm not gonna get on my radio 973 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 1: show and say. And so they say, hey, did you 974 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,359 Speaker 1: vote for Donald Trump? And I said I did not. 975 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 1: I said, but I think he's done some things that 976 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:10,400 Speaker 1: are good and I also think he's other things that 977 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 1: aren't good. And they were just shocked that someone could 978 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 1: say both things inside the same paragraph. I said that 979 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,720 Speaker 1: musician will never just be No one's gonna be perfect 980 00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:20,120 Speaker 1: or awful. And I said, I think he's done some 981 00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 1: fantastic some really terrible things, but who is perfect? And 982 00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 1: that's my point. And they were so stunned that I 983 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:30,080 Speaker 1: didn't just jump on one side and go her or whoo. 984 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 1: They're like, wow, no one either they don't talk about it, 985 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: or they pick a side. No one ever goes. You know, 986 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:39,800 Speaker 1: actually there's some duality in this and you know it's 987 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,120 Speaker 1: um I mean, it's crazy. And that's why all I 988 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 1: really want to do is encourage people. And you are Mr. 989 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:47,799 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, tell when you're not here. You're 990 00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 1: so inspirational. You come in this show or just let's 991 00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,200 Speaker 1: say Amy's Kitchen and we talk. I leave from talking 992 00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,239 Speaker 1: to you, and I'm like, man, I'm so inspired you. 993 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 1: And not just because of your story, but when you 994 00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,880 Speaker 1: were a kid, how old were you did you have 995 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,040 Speaker 1: an illness? You couldn't diagnose it, and you didn't you 996 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 1: didn't grow. I didn't grow for about four years. So 997 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 1: what was that? Well, you know, they couldn't figure it out, 998 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 1: and they couldn't figure it out, and then I started 999 00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,600 Speaker 1: skating and then all the all of the symptoms went away. 1000 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:22,400 Speaker 1: And then in two thousand four, I had cancer in 1001 00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:25,240 Speaker 1: ninety seven, which was chemo and surgery and all that stuff. 1002 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,279 Speaker 1: And then in two thousand and four, I'm diagnosed with 1003 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,439 Speaker 1: a brain tumor. It's like, oh, come on, I did. 1004 00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: I did the other thing, right, so as a kid, 1005 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: and then you get pesticular cancer and then you get 1006 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,879 Speaker 1: a brain tumor. Right, so um, I joked that I'm 1007 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:40,799 Speaker 1: gonna be much much more well known for my my 1008 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 1: collection of life threatening illness than I ever did anything 1009 00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 1: on the ice. Right. But here's the crazy thing was 1010 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 1: when they went in they did the biops. You have 1011 00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,680 Speaker 1: to dig a hole in your skull and go through 1012 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: and take a piece. And they came back and they 1013 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:56,280 Speaker 1: handed my wife Um all the information on the brain tumor, 1014 00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,840 Speaker 1: and my Tracy goes, oh, listen to this. Cranio fringio 1015 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 1: was are usually detected early in a child's life. I 1016 00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,880 Speaker 1: was born with a sprain tumor due to a lack 1017 00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 1: of growth and development. And so it's like, see you now, 1018 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 1: if you live long enough, all questions will be figured out. 1019 00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:15,840 Speaker 1: So they're all trying to go why did it stop? 1020 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 1: And maybe it was when I crashed Gary Walker's bike 1021 00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,719 Speaker 1: into the telephone pole. Maybe I just, you know, the 1022 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,400 Speaker 1: brain tumor just got pummeled or something. I don't know, 1023 00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,960 Speaker 1: you know, it's just we don't know how things happened. 1024 00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,880 Speaker 1: But for those years that I I skated, I didn't 1025 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 1: have any of the symptoms anymore. But the second I stopped, 1026 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,360 Speaker 1: the brain tumor showed itself. And it was like, wow, 1027 00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 1: that's crazy. And so the last time you were here, 1028 00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:42,160 Speaker 1: I think you had been maybe read two thousand sixteen. 1029 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,399 Speaker 1: It's many a year and a half. Did they rediagnosed 1030 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:49,000 Speaker 1: that they found? Yeah, there's another one. Yeah, two thousand 1031 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:52,719 Speaker 1: four was radiation. It came back in two thousand ten surgery, 1032 00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 1: and then it came back in two thousand and sixteen. 1033 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 1: Do we have a pattern here? You know? It's like, yeah, 1034 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,359 Speaker 1: this is gonna be every dingy years. But this time 1035 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,279 Speaker 1: I just sort of tapped the brakes and I just said, 1036 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: you know what, I just something in me is just 1037 00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,440 Speaker 1: telling me to get strong. And I didn't know if 1038 00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,760 Speaker 1: it was physical, mental, emotional, spiritual. I had no idea. 1039 00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,640 Speaker 1: So I decided, yes, I'm gonna get strong every way 1040 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,480 Speaker 1: I possibly can get strong, and and I just cut 1041 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,680 Speaker 1: out things in my diet. I added some things that 1042 00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: were more you know, healthy, and and I just, you know, 1043 00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,360 Speaker 1: I just got to work. And I went back for 1044 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:28,920 Speaker 1: the first scan and they they said it it hasn't grown, 1045 00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:32,279 Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, that's miraculous, and I go, I'm 1046 00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 1: gonna keep doing what I'm doing. So I kept doing 1047 00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,959 Speaker 1: what I was doing. I went back months later and 1048 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 1: they pulled me in. They go, um, it's shrunk, and 1049 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:46,960 Speaker 1: I go, as has one ever shrunk before without treatment? 1050 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:51,399 Speaker 1: And they go no, And I go, can you explain that? 1051 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 1: And they go, god, I don't know, and I go, okay, 1052 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:59,240 Speaker 1: it's good enough for me. So um it was wild. 1053 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:03,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I just was. And my endochronologists had the 1054 00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:06,960 Speaker 1: same brain tumor as me, taken out the same surgery, 1055 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 1: same surgeon, everything. When she was fourteen, only became an 1056 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 1: end of chronologist because she was underserved. And my first 1057 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 1: visit with her, she changed all my meds and I 1058 00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,720 Speaker 1: felt like a normal person in four days. It was perfect. 1059 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,719 Speaker 1: It was unbelievable. And I called her and I go, 1060 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,240 Speaker 1: have you ever heard of a crania fingeroma shrinking without treatment? 1061 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:27,000 Speaker 1: She goes, no, okay. Then I went on the Doctorage 1062 00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 1: show and I'm like talking to him and I go, 1063 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: you don want a crania French Joma's right? He goes, 1064 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:32,480 Speaker 1: of course I do. I go, have you ever heard 1065 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:36,640 Speaker 1: of one that shrank? Without treatment, he goes never So 1066 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:40,040 Speaker 1: then I went back months later and it shrunk again. 1067 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,400 Speaker 1: It's insane. No one can explain it. But it's like, 1068 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that I get a pass, like I 1069 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,239 Speaker 1: don't have to deal with it, like I haven't. It's 1070 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,520 Speaker 1: it's really invasive and it's your brain, right, so you 1071 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,480 Speaker 1: don't want anybody touching it. And uh so I'm just 1072 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:59,240 Speaker 1: you know, just trying to stay in my lane and 1073 00:50:59,239 --> 00:51:01,880 Speaker 1: and um, you know again, trying to be light and 1074 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:05,120 Speaker 1: encourage people and and do the best I can to 1075 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:10,520 Speaker 1: advance UM cancer research and and to do good while 1076 00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,640 Speaker 1: I'm here. You know, i'd much really do that then 1077 00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 1: you know anything else. You know, I've got a great wife, 1078 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:20,560 Speaker 1: I've got phenomenal healthy kids, and um, if I if 1079 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,160 Speaker 1: this is something I have to take on so they 1080 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:25,680 Speaker 1: don't get it, I'm okay with that too. So um 1081 00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:28,840 Speaker 1: you know here we are. So tell me, after you 1082 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,839 Speaker 1: come out of your first brain surgery, do you start 1083 00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:34,759 Speaker 1: to go, let me see what I feel. Do I 1084 00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,479 Speaker 1: feel the same? Do I I know? I I knew 1085 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:42,320 Speaker 1: um first because what happens with radiation is they pretty 1086 00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,399 Speaker 1: much radiation goes through your whole brain and I really 1087 00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 1: feel like sometimes I'm in a fog, you know, I 1088 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,279 Speaker 1: had chemo, and the chemo brain from that, you know, 1089 00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:53,200 Speaker 1: where you can't remember things, and you know, I'll be 1090 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,839 Speaker 1: talking about somebody I've known for twenty years and it's like, oh, 1091 00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,879 Speaker 1: what's his name, name name, and I'll do that right, 1092 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 1: and so I remember, you know, kind of how I 1093 00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:06,239 Speaker 1: was before radiation. And I feel like I've lost more 1094 00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:09,120 Speaker 1: than a step, you know, but I'm still here and 1095 00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:12,480 Speaker 1: that's great. And I'm still doing the work to advance 1096 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,759 Speaker 1: the science so that you know, there isn't so much 1097 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:18,880 Speaker 1: collateral damage as the status quo, you know. And so 1098 00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 1: that's why you know Cares is Cares. That's my cancer foundation. 1099 00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna continue to do the work until you know, 1100 00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 1: we can find enough science to change the game. And 1101 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,719 Speaker 1: and right now there's enough science out there that you know, 1102 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,600 Speaker 1: it's the the game is being changed. You know. Cart therapy, 1103 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,640 Speaker 1: which is a immunotherapy, is working on lymphoma, and we 1104 00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 1: just need to create more for every kind of cancer. Mr. Inspiration, 1105 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,560 Speaker 1: That's why I call you never to your face. It's 1106 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,160 Speaker 1: someone call you something behind your back that's better than 1107 00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:51,960 Speaker 1: what they would call you to your face. I've been 1108 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,400 Speaker 1: calling a lot of things to my face. Man. Okay, 1109 00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:59,040 Speaker 1: so the book, check out the book finished first, Winning 1110 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,360 Speaker 1: changes every thing. The true story is when I started 1111 00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:03,719 Speaker 1: your book, I had to stop because I was writing 1112 00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:06,160 Speaker 1: my book, and I was like, were too similar? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 1113 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,879 Speaker 1: computer virus. You can't. Yeah, you put it down, You'll 1114 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:10,279 Speaker 1: pick stuff up. And I do this in stand up. 1115 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:11,600 Speaker 1: You'll pick stuff off and not know you picked it 1116 00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:15,000 Speaker 1: up until someone goes, oh, that's similar to go no, 1117 00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:18,040 Speaker 1: it's not the sequel. You go, oh it is. So 1118 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 1: I didn't put it down. No, no, no no, it's good. 1119 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 1: But I'm done now, so now I can get back 1120 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: to it. But I did have to stop, and I 1121 00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:26,000 Speaker 1: would be honest with you, I would say I finish 1122 00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,560 Speaker 1: it in lof That was a great ted talk. Thanks. 1123 00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:32,399 Speaker 1: You know, I just feel like I've only learned because 1124 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:36,839 Speaker 1: I've lost a lot. You know. You tell your stories 1125 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:38,919 Speaker 1: about falling. I feel like that's, you know, my whole life, 1126 00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,359 Speaker 1: and people see the glamor of it all and go, oh, 1127 00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,880 Speaker 1: you're good at something, so you're at the top. No way, man, 1128 00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 1: do you know how many times I saw all the times, 1129 00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:50,279 Speaker 1: all the time, like winning is not glamorous. The only 1130 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 1: part of glamor is that you get to see the 1131 00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,600 Speaker 1: Instagram picture or the on TV part or that you know, 1132 00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:57,879 Speaker 1: and so, but if you're rooted in that, you know, 1133 00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:00,839 Speaker 1: if you're rooted in that the idea that this came 1134 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,319 Speaker 1: out of a lot of that, it has so much 1135 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:07,000 Speaker 1: more value, you know, because you work through it, you 1136 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:10,240 Speaker 1: didn't give up, you didn't allow your conditions to knock 1137 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:15,200 Speaker 1: you down, and stronger once we get to maintain, you know, 1138 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:16,920 Speaker 1: it's like some of these kids, these viral kids, with 1139 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:18,600 Speaker 1: these people that get on a TV show with all 1140 00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,600 Speaker 1: of a sudden they're thrust up and they didn't put 1141 00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 1: all It's not the fact that they didn't put the 1142 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 1: work into get there, it's that they don't have the 1143 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:28,800 Speaker 1: work ethic embedded into them to continue at that level 1144 00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:31,640 Speaker 1: more so than it is well and then you know 1145 00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:33,759 Speaker 1: all the other stuff. You know. I tell people all 1146 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:37,399 Speaker 1: the time that we're wired for challenge much more than 1147 00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 1: good fortune, you know, because I've seen so many people 1148 00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,520 Speaker 1: that are, you know, given really a horrific situations and 1149 00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 1: they rise up and they're better than it's stronger, more 1150 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,520 Speaker 1: in touch and everything they've ever been. And then you 1151 00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:50,960 Speaker 1: see people that come across great fortune all at once, 1152 00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 1: you know, whether it being an entertainment or winning the 1153 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,640 Speaker 1: lottery or whatever, and all of a sudden, all these 1154 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:58,359 Speaker 1: demons come flying out and they're doing things that they 1155 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 1: never could have imagined doing back when they were, you know, 1156 00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,879 Speaker 1: fighting so hard to you know, kind of just stay alive. So, 1157 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:07,960 Speaker 1: you know, I I'll encourage anybody that's going through it 1158 00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:11,399 Speaker 1: right now. I mean, if you're really struggling, you're way 1159 00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:14,200 Speaker 1: better off than if you're just at that at you know, 1160 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:16,800 Speaker 1: standing on the podium shaking your fast right now, without 1161 00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:20,560 Speaker 1: all that other stuff that allows you to be fortified 1162 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,600 Speaker 1: for that moment, Because once you at that moment, man, 1163 00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:27,319 Speaker 1: it changes everything. You know. I agree, I couldn't do 1164 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:29,920 Speaker 1: what I do now at the level and with the 1165 00:55:29,960 --> 00:55:32,600 Speaker 1: sincerity that I do it now without all the crap 1166 00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,239 Speaker 1: that happened to be before, and without me being able 1167 00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:36,759 Speaker 1: to have the sincerity that I have, I wouldn't be 1168 00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 1: able to maintain it. So I'm grateful. What I used 1169 00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:41,839 Speaker 1: to look at as a setback, I now see as 1170 00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,759 Speaker 1: a strength because I go, oh, what was me? You know, 1171 00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:48,720 Speaker 1: you know, my mom died early was by my grandma 1172 00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:51,719 Speaker 1: was adopted like you know, like you oh, I feel bad, 1173 00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,120 Speaker 1: but then you go, do you know all the strength 1174 00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:59,480 Speaker 1: I've gathered from that, And that's why I'm staying where 1175 00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:02,040 Speaker 1: I am. And it's made me a better person. Do 1176 00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:04,680 Speaker 1: you know, have you ever heard of Barry Gibbs first 1177 00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:08,439 Speaker 1: fame thing? So from from the Barry GiB the last 1178 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 1: remaining brother of the bgs. Uh. You know, he just said, 1179 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:17,120 Speaker 1: first fame. If you can survive first fame, you're gonna 1180 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:21,919 Speaker 1: be great. It's just getting through that first taste of 1181 00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:24,600 Speaker 1: all that coming at you. If you can survive that, 1182 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 1: you're probably gonna be okay. And I was blessed that 1183 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 1: when I came home from that Olympics, you know, I 1184 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,000 Speaker 1: get the parade and all this other stuff. The government, 1185 00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,400 Speaker 1: the government, the governor of Colorado called me into his 1186 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 1: office and I thought it was, you know, in my 1187 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:38,959 Speaker 1: jacket and tie, I thought it was a photo op, 1188 00:56:39,040 --> 00:56:41,319 Speaker 1: you know. And I walk in and there was a 1189 00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,239 Speaker 1: guy in the office with him, and he goes, um, 1190 00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,759 Speaker 1: just wait outside, I'm just gonna talk to Scott. And 1191 00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:49,600 Speaker 1: he gave me a lecture on hometown hero syndrome. He said, 1192 00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 1: you know, I go, what is that and he goes, 1193 00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,719 Speaker 1: it's when you're the captain of the quarterback of the 1194 00:56:53,800 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 1: high school football team and you throw that strike into 1195 00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,320 Speaker 1: the end zone to win the state championship, and everybody 1196 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:00,680 Speaker 1: carries you off the field and their should yours, and 1197 00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:03,720 Speaker 1: you expect the rest of your life to be that way. 1198 00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,240 Speaker 1: He says, I don't want that to happen to you. 1199 00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:09,080 Speaker 1: I just want to make you aware of it. Enjoy 1200 00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:12,120 Speaker 1: the fruits of your labor, enjoy everything that comes to you. 1201 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:13,879 Speaker 1: But I want you to know that it will end 1202 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:16,480 Speaker 1: some day, and when it doesn't, want you to be 1203 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,600 Speaker 1: prepared for it, and I want to. I just think 1204 00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:22,200 Speaker 1: about what a generous gift that was at that time 1205 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,840 Speaker 1: of my life, and it's like wow, I think about 1206 00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:27,640 Speaker 1: that all the time. It's like, yeah, all just go 1207 00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:31,000 Speaker 1: away in a heartbeat, all of it. And that's okay, 1208 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:33,520 Speaker 1: because that's so that's supposed to be my journey. But 1209 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:35,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna work as hard as I can to do 1210 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:39,240 Speaker 1: everything I can until that moment happens. We shall say 1211 00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:44,440 Speaker 1: no more. I shall leave inspired yet again. Scott, It's 1212 00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,440 Speaker 1: always a pleasure of mind. You're a good man. Thanks 1213 00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:48,760 Speaker 1: for doing this, Thanks for having me. Are you kidding me. 1214 00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:50,760 Speaker 1: I haven't tried to get you off for we've been 1215 00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 1: bouncing and you're out of town. I'm out of town, 1216 00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:54,960 Speaker 1: like I've been looking forward this one for months. We've 1217 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,280 Speaker 1: been trieding to this for months. Well, you know, let 1218 00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,800 Speaker 1: me know how I can help you in any way. 1219 00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:06,880 Speaker 1: A perform and I'm you know, I'm here to serve alright, 1220 00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:11,040 Speaker 1: Scott Hamilton's check out the book finished first and uh wow, 1221 00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,840 Speaker 1: wow wow, there you go. There you got another episode. 1222 00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:15,640 Speaker 1: I appreciate your time. There's a good that's an hour. 1223 00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:18,400 Speaker 1: We did an hour. Look look at us. How are 1224 00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:22,920 Speaker 1: you gonna edit that? There's no there's no editing? Right up? 1225 00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:24,440 Speaker 1: All right, thank you. We'll see you next time on 1226 00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:25,040 Speaker 1: the Bodycast