1 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, the show that takes 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment, 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: and culture. The discussion starts with headline news and journeys 4 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: into deeper conversations, highlighting the life lessons that are presented 5 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: in every story. I'm ourselves, Wally, that dude, and today 6 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,120 Speaker 1: let's chop up some woods, starting in Dallas with Oh 7 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: b J. We're all talking about it, Oh b J 8 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 1: and Dallas a star maybe wearing the star. I wore 9 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: the star one year, so I know exactly where he's 10 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: landing in terms of what that team, that franchise, that 11 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: organization looks like. That's if he can get there, because 12 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: we all know about this airplane story. Oh Dal wake up. 13 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: I'll tell y'all what I think happened on that plane 14 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:52,839 Speaker 1: in a second. But Odell, it's two parts right now, 15 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: to Odell coming to Dallas. If he lands in Dallas, 16 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: it's your imagination versus reality. Lade, your imagination takes you 17 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: to man O'Dell Beckham, one of the few superstars our 18 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: league has seen in recent years. And that's real. Like 19 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: guys who are ballers, players, all pros, pro bowlers, all 20 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: revered Odell Beckham Jr. For what he was able to 21 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: do on that football field and magnify that off the 22 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: football field, Like that's something that resonates for guys like 23 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: just dude, touch some height stead none of us have 24 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: touched in terms of how you resonated with the public, 25 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: in terms of his Q rating and in terms of 26 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: his production, like them early years, those are hall of 27 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: fame years. Nobody going to slit that Hall of Fame 28 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: Odell Beckham junior years are behind him, But in your 29 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 1: imagination you still hold onto that. So you're like, yeah, 30 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna text him if I'm Dak Prescott, Yeah I 31 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: want him on our roster. But then reality is gonna 32 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: kick in, And what's the reality about Odell Beckham Jr. 33 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: The reality is he's safely a number two wide receivers 34 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: safely Now if he comes back and he's hampered by 35 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: those two knee injuries to the same knee to a 36 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: c LS, he's hindered by that, He's not the same 37 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: old Odell Beckham Jr. Okay, you can drop down to 38 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,359 Speaker 1: be your number three, but I think he can easily 39 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: challenge as a number two, and more importantly, keep Ceedee 40 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: Lamb on his toes as the number one, and he's 41 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: not taking Ceedee Lamb's job, and he's not going to 42 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: take Ceedee Lamb's reps. But he can't apply that gentle 43 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: pressure to Ceedee Lamb to make sure that young superstar 44 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: into making stays on track to be that young superstar. 45 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: And that's who Odell Beckham is. He comes into your 46 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: locker room with an imagination reality balance and if you're 47 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: a player, and then you're like living legend. Is Odell 48 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: Beckham like one of the living legends of the game 49 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: of this era? Right for real? Y'all don't understand how 50 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: much this dude was a start Like I saw it firsthand. 51 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: I was at the super Bowl a couple of years ago, 52 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: and at every table there was a general every single table. 53 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: One table Peyton manning the Sheriff, you know, King of 54 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: All Kings, and another table. You look, you see Cam 55 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: Newton at the time, you see uh Kristin McCaffrey and 56 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: Odell Beckham Jr. You know, when Odell Beckham Jr. Was 57 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:35,119 Speaker 1: walking through there was electricity. There were people clamoring to him, 58 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 1: there were people his peers looking at him with reverence. 59 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: Dudes different and he's gonna bring in leadership. Why because 60 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: he's been through it. He's taking his lumps. Dude that's 61 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: been bawling and bawling through sabotage like playing with Baker Mayfield. Well, 62 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: he may have raised his hand to do that in 63 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: the beginning, but he also kept his hand up to say, 64 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: can I get dismissed from this class? And we saw 65 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: what happened when he finally got out of Cleveland. So 66 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: it will be a tremendous acquisition to get Odell Beckham Jr. 67 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 1: On that Dallas squad, especially a team that has faltered, 68 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: trying to get over that hump, trying to materialize all 69 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: that talent and to make that finally a true super 70 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: Bowl contending team instead of just, oh, a real talented 71 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 1: team that could win the Super Bowl. Big difference. So 72 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: I love that for the Dallas Cowboys. But I don't 73 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: love this story about Odell Beckham Jr. On this airplane. 74 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: But I know where it's coming from. Odell Beckham Jr. 75 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: Is supposedly was in and out of consciousness. That's a 76 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: way to term it. That's one way to say somebody 77 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: was nodding off or going to sleep in and out 78 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: of consciousness. All right, So two hour flight delay, Paramedics 79 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 1: show up, ambulance shows up, police shows up, O'Dell has 80 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: to get off the plane, and then they take off. 81 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: What happened there? All right? Let me do my best 82 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: guess work. This used to happen to me as well. 83 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 1: And I don't know if this is gonna really map 84 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: onto what happened with Odell, But I do know from 85 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: taking charter flight after charter flight in the NFL, even 86 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: private planes, you get desensitized to the rules. Matter of fact, 87 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 1: you become flipping to the rules, you know, whatever they're saying, 88 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 1: and f a A You're like, what buckle my seatbelt? 89 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 1: What man? I'm getting on this flight? Throwing the blanket 90 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: on my head and night night night knocking out. Don't 91 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: bother me. I don't need no warm peanuts, don't need 92 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: no drink, probably because already have some drink. I don't 93 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 1: need nothing else. Wake me up in five hours. And 94 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 1: I used to be that guy, and y'all know me. 95 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 1: I'm not an outlaw, you know, ain't no bad guy. 96 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: I'm actually more of a rule stickler than anything. But 97 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: fly at the flight when you're on your cell phone 98 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: during takeoff. Fly at the flight you don't have to 99 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: wait for ten thousand feet before you open up your laptop. 100 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 1: Flight at the flight where you don't even put on 101 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: your seatbelt. You're walking through the through the oss, through 102 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: the walkway while you're taking off. That's used to be 103 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: our flights when I used to ball out in the NFL. 104 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: And now these cats doing that, coupled with these private planes. 105 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: They always one. I think O'Dell may have had a night, 106 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: may have had a good time, came in a little 107 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: under the weather. Let's just call it that, because I 108 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: don't know if he was smoking, he was dranking, he 109 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: was doing something else, whatever he was doing in Europe 110 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 1: that time, remember that flower, that substance by the pizza. 111 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: I don't know what Odell was doing, and I'm not 112 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: even gonna project that on him. But I do know 113 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: that Odell Beckham playing in the league. And if a 114 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 1: flight attendant is trying to wake you up and you 115 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: don't wake up, oh, something's helping you stay sleep. That 116 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: ain't naturalial, That ain't just tire boss, that's something else. 117 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: So if if I had two guests on this one, 118 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: Odell already just outside the rules because that's how we travel. 119 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 1: Like being real, I'm I don't know how many times 120 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: a flight attendant has nudged me. Had to remind me 121 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: the fifteenth time, dude, just like put your seatbelt on, dude, 122 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: like just keep your seat back up, Like I'll be 123 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: like what And it's literally because I was like raised 124 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 1: in the bad airplane home or airplane childhood. Like I 125 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: just became a guy who just couldn't follow the rules. 126 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: Hell y'all talking about like lead me alone, And I 127 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: think Odell may have had a little bit of lead 128 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: me alone cologne on on top of like, I ain't 129 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: bothering nobody ever been there that person? I ain't bothering nobody. 130 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: Why y'all mess with meet you? H? I think it 131 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: might add up like that. We'll see how this story develops, 132 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: and hopefully that picture develops fully. In Dallas and speaking 133 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: of ain't doing nothing and not bothering anybody, but still 134 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: that ain't enough. You might be in the wrong. Jerry 135 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,840 Speaker 1: Jones speaking of Dallas and the owner, my man, Jerry Jones. 136 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: The dude too gave me a five thousand dollar pin 137 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: when I signed with the Cowboys. Yep, And I don't 138 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: know where the hell that pen is? But oh man, 139 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: what the hell Jerry give me a five dollar pin? 140 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: He should have just added that to my signing bones, 141 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 1: you know, five thousand dollar pin for I need this 142 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: bonus to go up. But Jerry Jones was in the 143 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:38,479 Speaker 1: news because Jerry Jones had a picture circulating of him 144 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:45,199 Speaker 1: as black students were trying to integrate a school. Oh man, 145 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: so we know we're going back in time obviously. And 146 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: Jerry Jones response to this was, Hey, I was just 147 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: curious to what was going on, not knowing the magnitude 148 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: of that moment, right, and I know people were on 149 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: his head. I need a response. You need to own 150 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: up to this. Yeah, own up to your teenage years, 151 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: own up to a picture of you standing on the 152 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: wrong side of history. You need to own up to 153 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 1: what were you thinking then and how are you thinking 154 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: now in perspective in relationship to that picture. So basically 155 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: people trying to dance around and say you look like 156 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 1: a racist then, or you're a racist now. Here's what 157 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: I want to say. First, who, I hope you all 158 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: don't start going into my teenage years finding pictures. Damn, 159 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,719 Speaker 1: I hope you'all don't start doing that. I remember there 160 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: was a picture or me, and thank god I'm before 161 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: social media. Thank god I'm before all of this. Y'all 162 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: take a picture and it's permanent and concrete for life. 163 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: You know. We had the one ten cameras with the thumb, yeah, 164 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: to slide the thumb under went to thirty five millimeter cameras, 165 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 1: and nobody had film money. Nobody had enough money for them, 166 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:02,440 Speaker 1: Kodax and Minota. So I remember being the guy and 167 00:10:02,480 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: we had a race right at school. Yep, I said 168 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 1: it race right, real talk. And in that race right, 169 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: it was the Mexicans versus the Blacks, and y'all know 170 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 1: what side. I was naturally on the side of my people, right, 171 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 1: black people, right, at least that's what they thought. I 172 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: was not in the fight. And I remember my my 173 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: black friends was like, dog, we're going at it with 174 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 1: the Mexicans. I was like, for what, oh man uh man, 175 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: dude was tripping and then the dude over there, and 176 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: you know, it ain't never a real story, just like this, this, this, 177 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: and they're trying to put it together to make one 178 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 1: real story. I was like, I was like food, some 179 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: dudes on my team don't the homies. What you're talking about, 180 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:46,719 Speaker 1: I ain't about to fight them, fight all of them, 181 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: fight the group for what for? You have an issue 182 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: with one or two? And I remember that, But imagine 183 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: that snapshot, imagine that divide. I'm on one side and 184 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 1: you're on the other side, and I'm not even against 185 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: your side. I'm just on this side, right. I remember that, 186 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: And I didn't fight. Actually, I was a peacemaker, but 187 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 1: there were moments where I could have looked like in 188 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 1: a steel shot, who mar souls is going against the 189 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: Mexican players and Mexican students. I remember that vividly, how 190 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: to play peacemaker, and finally talking to everybody out of it, 191 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: I was like, what y'all fighting for? And then in 192 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: two hours we're about to go fight on the football 193 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: field together, trying to do something bigger silliness, right. And 194 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: then I also remember, maybe a year later, being in college, 195 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: and I've seen these pictures. Y'all ain't seen them yet, 196 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: so I ain't gonna post them. Me straight up with 197 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 1: a fake gun, acting like I'm like gangster Onyx on 198 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 1: death Row Records or something like that, just being gangster. 199 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: I was in the dorm room with my my homeboys 200 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: on the team. I protect the guilty, So I'm gonna 201 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:56,839 Speaker 1: say their names unless I say something positive first. And uh, 202 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: here I am with pictures of me looking gangster, pointing 203 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: the gun, all this kind of stuff that I would 204 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: be ashamed that my son would see as he grows older. 205 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: But that's what adolescence is, man. So when Jerry responded 206 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: saying he was just curious and he was like in 207 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: the third row, you know, he wasn't the cheap seats 208 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: in terms of this hatred towards the integration, I remember 209 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: just thinking about how much foolery I was involved in 210 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 1: in terms of snapshots and hoping that Jerry Jones doesn't 211 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: get snapshot into one mindset from everybody who knows Jerry Jones. 212 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: I know Jerry Jones personally, and a few people out 213 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 1: there may know Jerry Jones personally or had an interaction 214 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 1: with him. But the thing is it kind of attaches 215 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: to the narrative of racist NFL owner, and I know 216 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: that was something that was running wild a couple of 217 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: years ago for sure, especially after Colin Kaepernick. And it's 218 00:12:56,360 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: crazy because if you look at the demographics, it's hardest 219 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: support the NFL owners are racists, not just saying what's 220 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: on the field in terms of how many players, what 221 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: two thousand players and over are black over minorities, not that. 222 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 1: And I understand you're gonna say, well, he's the Boston 223 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 1: their employees. Well, I mean, we raised our hand to 224 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: be an employee, and you know, if we ball out 225 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: and take care of our finances and pull our resources together, 226 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: we can also raise our hand to be an owner. 227 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 1: But that's a different conversation for a different day. But 228 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: what I don't understand is look at the demographic of 229 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 1: Jerry Jones, a billionaire white man in Dallas. So I 230 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: don't know how many other billionaires are in Dallas that 231 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: are white. Maybe a couple of other Robert Stallback, you know, 232 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: a couple others. I'm sure some oil money out there, 233 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: et cetera. But Jerry Jones is in a community of 234 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: a very few that interacts with black people minorities like 235 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: Jerry Jones interacts with them. Think about that, Like, of 236 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: all the people that you want to say is racist, 237 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: it wouldn't necessarily be the guy who interacts with black 238 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: people every single day in the dozens, employs them, and 239 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 1: more importantly, has heartfelt relationships and bonds with them, Like 240 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: if you're gonna kind of sell that one, sell that 241 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: one up a different stream. Think about it. There are 242 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: thirty two teams and thirty one owners, and green Bay's 243 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: own his own doing something weird? Um, thirty two teams, right, 244 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: and they're billionaires and they're white. M hmm. They have 245 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: more contact with their demographic of being a white billionaire 246 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: with black people than anybody else. So it's kind of 247 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: weird that we pick on them. Are we run with 248 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:05,240 Speaker 1: this narrative about them when they may be the ones 249 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: that are most helpful. What I think is crazy is 250 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: Jerry Jones, representing a white owner, is doing more, doing 251 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 1: greater in general then most people in that community in 252 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: terms of race relations. Like he got forty black people, 253 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 1: making them millionaires, employing them, interacting with them, having relationships 254 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 1: with them, bonds with them. Like there's an easier pool 255 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: of people in every one of these NFL cities we 256 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: can grab and potentially want a term as racist. Then 257 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: the guy who has that much interaction, that much in common, 258 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: that much integration with people that he's supposed to be 259 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: deemed racist towards a little weird to me a little 260 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: weird to me. What's not weird to me is Russell 261 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: Wilson looking as bad in Denver. It's not that foreign, 262 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 1: not that weird to me. I can't say I predicted 263 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: this one, but I saw this one coming. I didn't 264 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 1: predict it because I didn't want to wish any ill 265 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 1: on Russell Wilson. But I was like, Yo, this is 266 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: not gonna add up the way y'all think this is 267 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: gonna add up. You got a first year head coach, 268 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: you got Russell Wilson leaving for quote unquote greener pastors 269 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 1: and a team that thought all they needed was a quarterback. 270 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: A quarterback away. Yeah, okay, now you see him getting 271 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: yelled at by his defensive tackles before even going to 272 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: the game. Russell Wilson went out there and through for 273 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: a hundred forty two yards. I said, through for it, y'all. 274 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: Jay Hurst ran for more yards than that. I mean, 275 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: this is getting ugly and ugly fast. And those Seattle 276 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: players warned us. He said, he ain't the leader y'all 277 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: think he is. He ain't the dude y'all think he is. 278 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna get caught up in that because 279 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: I wasn't there, even though I know Russell Wilson is 280 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 1: a little to my no in terms of how he 281 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: expresses himself as a leader, like one mode one version, 282 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:14,640 Speaker 1: and you know, you gotta be able to reach people 283 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: where they are, reach your teammates where they are, and 284 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if Russell Wilson has that in him 285 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 1: in terms of leadership. So when you face adversity like 286 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 1: he does right now, oh, it's gonna be a problem 287 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: because you gotta reach everybody and you haven't shown that 288 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 1: band with you haven't shown that reach before. But what 289 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 1: we all saw in Seattle is showing his ugly head 290 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 1: in Denver one inaccuracy, you know, be real, when Russell 291 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: was cooking or not cooking or whatever he was doing 292 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: in that kitchen, inaccurate at times. But that wasn't the 293 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 1: glaring issue. The glaring issue was Russell Wilson. I wanted 294 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 1: to plays to break down so he can show up 295 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: and show out. And that's something that is not replicable. 296 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: That's not something that you can repeat as a coordinator. 297 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 1: That's not a play you can call, Hey, hey, we're 298 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 1: gonna run forty two x breakdown play on three like 299 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 1: stay on script stick to the script, and Russell Wilson 300 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: is actually better off script. And imagine, if you're the 301 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: coordinator of the coach, what player are you calling off script? 302 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 1: So it's inaccuracy, is showing his ugly head. But more importantly, 303 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 1: that broken inner clock that he always had. He couldn't 304 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 1: feel the rush or he wanted the rush to come, 305 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:40,199 Speaker 1: so he can activate Russell Wilson and go out there 306 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: and just run around in circles and seven seconds later 307 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 1: complete a pass. That is not how you build an offense. 308 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,640 Speaker 1: That is not how you build a team. And right now, 309 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: since he's a first year starter in Denver with a 310 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 1: first year head coach, oh, y'all need to build like 311 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 1: this thing ain't he made. These are new pieces at 312 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 1: the foundational level, and they finding out how hard it is, 313 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 1: told about how hard it is, how hard it's been, 314 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: and how heard it's gonna be. For Deshaun Watson, he's back, 315 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 1: Oh man, Deshaun Wasson. I know that people have asked 316 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 1: me about him off air and on air, and my 317 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: response has always been, look, I know what Deshaun Wasson 318 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 1: was up to. Everybody knows what Deshaun Washson was up to. 319 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,639 Speaker 1: How did he get in this position and what to 320 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: expect from him going forward? Well, he got in this 321 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 1: position because frankly, he got full of himself and he 322 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 1: is not alone in that line. I raised my hand. 323 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 1: I was full of myself when I played as well. Ah, 324 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: And this is how it goes, that whole dynamic of 325 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,879 Speaker 1: when you're feeling yourself and you're full of yourself, and 326 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: all of a sudden you gotta meet the real world 327 00:19:56,560 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: and you gotta deal with people out there, vendors, massi therapists, 328 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 1: you know, commoners, the layman, whatever you wanna call it. 329 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:08,479 Speaker 1: Because it is such a privileged life to be a 330 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:11,439 Speaker 1: professional athlete, to be an NFL player, and then all 331 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 1: of a sudden you have these interactions with people who 332 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 1: don't even live on the same planet. It feels like, 333 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:21,400 Speaker 1: as you and imagine you're that guy, and I don't 334 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 1: have to imagine I've been this guy, and I protect 335 00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 1: the guilty when it's somebody else. But I tell them myself, 336 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 1: let me tell you what I used to do. The 337 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 1: massage therapist kind of broke down into a couple maybe 338 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 1: a few different buckets. It was one who was super professional, 339 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: and I'm talking male or female. Trust me, y'all. It 340 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 1: goes both ways. Male or female. Super professional. Got their 341 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 1: local business so excited and doing great work, got the resume, 342 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,640 Speaker 1: got people who are testified for how great their services are. 343 00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: And they come in there and they are on the ground, 344 00:20:56,640 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 1: great workers. Hello more so hey on. So what seems 345 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,880 Speaker 1: to be telling you today? Oh yeah, my hamstrings, man, 346 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, my calf is a little sore, 347 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: and you know, shoulder, left shoulder, left shoulder a little hurt. Okay, okay, 348 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,400 Speaker 1: we get to that. We can get to that, all right. 349 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 1: Um uh can you lay face down and I will 350 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 1: come back after you, uh get undressed? Thank you tinking. 351 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 1: You got that guy, you got that girl, then you 352 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 1: got the one in the middle. They're on the fence 353 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: like they're enamored because they are rubbing on Deshaun Watson, 354 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 1: they are rubbing on me, Marcel Swidy, somebody that they're like, Yo, 355 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: I've seen them on TV, Yo, I've watched them play. Yo, 356 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 1: I got their jersey. Yo, my fiance loves them, blah 357 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: blah blah. So they come in and since they're on 358 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,920 Speaker 1: the fence, they're trying to see how you're gonna receive 359 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: how star struck they are, and they come in, Hey, 360 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: how's it going, and their questions are not all professional, 361 00:21:55,720 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 1: their conversation is not all professional, right, okay, yeah, so 362 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 1: what seems to be Ellen? You you said, oh yeah, 363 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 1: my ham stream of calfrom my shoulder. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, man, 364 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: that was a good game you played last week. And 365 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 1: you're sitting there like, face face down, Okay, all right, 366 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: hear you? Oh yeah, I remember you from Clemson, you 367 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 1: from Columbia. I remember that. You're like, okay, fan, fan, 368 00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: I hear it. You're trying to keep it close to 369 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 1: the vest because you're like, oh, if I keep talking 370 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: to this food, we're gonna be talking about my Pop 371 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: Warner days and highlight tapes. So you're like short answers. 372 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: This is where people start saying, oh, athletes, assholes and arrogant. Well, 373 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: they're responding to the fact that you're about to take 374 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 1: them on a History Channel version of their life and 375 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 1: they don't want to go through all that. They all 376 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,359 Speaker 1: need to hear their pomp palms shaking in the wind. 377 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: They they've already been through that. Oh yeah, yeah yeah. 378 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: So how is it like being Deshaun Wasson and you're like, 379 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 1: oh god, so that's the fence writer. And based on 380 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 1: your response, based on what you want, do you want 381 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: to mess with them? Is she fine? Do you want 382 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: to be cool to the dude? Do you want to 383 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 1: sign his jersey out there? The hour and a half massage? 384 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: You open up or you shut it down. And then 385 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,679 Speaker 1: there's the other one. And I used to mess with 386 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 1: the other ones. I'm mess what the ones in the 387 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 1: middle too, depends on how fine they were. But thought 388 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: this one coming in hot, straight hot, right off the bat. 389 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, excuse me, hey Marcela's wine. Oh um, yes, 390 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 1: um yeah, I'm I'm with the team and I'm here 391 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: to give you a massag. And you're like, okay, okay, 392 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: what's wrong, saying, oh, you know, the cab, the hamstring, 393 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 1: the shoulder. Okay, I'll be right back and you can 394 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: take off your clothes and face outright back, come back 395 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 1: in immediately, not even focusing on what you just told him. 396 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,639 Speaker 1: What areas you just start rubbing your back immediately, just 397 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 1: start talking talking about their life, their kids, their family, 398 00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 1: their fiance, and don't let her be fine. Then you're listening, 399 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 1: not only listening, you're talking back and for I can't 400 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 1: even guess how many massage therapists I had from the league, 401 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 1: like league massage therapist. Dirty, that's guess dirty. That seems hot, though, 402 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 1: Um I messed with at least ten, like at least 403 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:23,680 Speaker 1: ten of them, like hello, you know, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 404 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,400 Speaker 1: are you local? Of course? Uh? Where do you live? Oh? 405 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 1: Right there in Incidena's Oh that's not far at all. 406 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 1: I make house calls. Oh yeah, yeah, you make house calls. 407 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 1: I bet you make bear one calls to the way 408 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 1: we're talking. And it went down. Man, Now where does 409 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: it go wrong? It goes wrong here. You don't read 410 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:53,360 Speaker 1: the cues, the telltale signs, or you're not blatantly honest, 411 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 1: you're not forth right, you don't say what it is. 412 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,880 Speaker 1: And that's the craziest thing about intimacy, whether you date 413 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 1: somebody or not, whether you're trying to convert the massage 414 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 1: therapist to your next girlfriend or somebody's just gonna mess 415 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 1: around with the next night, whatever it is, we'll walk 416 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 1: a path but not talk a path. Right, So you're 417 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 1: just like, oh, she just bro my my hamster. Oh 418 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: she on the growing Oh oh she on she on 419 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 1: me versus, Hey, what is this, what are you doing? 420 00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,399 Speaker 1: What are we going to do? What are we doing? 421 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: And the trickery comes when you don't talk through it, 422 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 1: you just walk through it because now you're at the 423 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: mercy of the other person. And not only the miscommunication, 424 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 1: but the lack of note communication. Right, the lack of 425 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 1: communication gets most people and most of us in trouble 426 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:55,239 Speaker 1: relationship or not my size therapists or not. Let's talk 427 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 1: about this communication though. What happened to Michigan State. Y'all 428 00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 1: hear about the story hockey player racial slur against him, 429 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 1: Ohio State player kicked off the team. Uh, it's interesting 430 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,920 Speaker 1: when you talk about hockey, immediately your mind racist to 431 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:16,640 Speaker 1: lack of diversity. Damn right, Um, black folks ain't trying 432 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:21,360 Speaker 1: to play hockey like that. Actually, y'all know it's regional. 433 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: Y'all know it's by whether. Y'all know it's by local proximity. 434 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 1: I go deep. I can talk to sociology of it all, 435 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: but at a lot of black players in the sport 436 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:36,359 Speaker 1: of hockey. But this story takes me to why I 437 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: don't use the N word in the first first place, 438 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: and why I think that's appropriate to talk about right now, 439 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 1: because I don't know what slur, what's said, but I 440 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: do know that I don't give license to anybody in 441 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 1: my world to use the N word. Now. I will 442 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: have a lot of fights in my life if I 443 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,919 Speaker 1: told everybody stop saying the INN word around me, because 444 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 1: everybody uses it around me. And I used to use 445 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: it up to a certain point, maybe like five ten 446 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:09,119 Speaker 1: years ago or so. Now I I stopped using it 447 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: because my wife was like, what are you doing, Like, oh, 448 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 1: you're the one that's converting something that's poisonous into something 449 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: that's quote unquote a term of endearment, less venomous, and 450 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: thinking that, oh, that's fine. And then you know, I 451 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 1: was like, man, I'm comfortable with this word. This word 452 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,679 Speaker 1: doesn't mean anything to me. It doesn't mean anything to 453 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 1: what I'm talking to, what you're talking about. But then 454 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: after deeper discussions, more discussions, I started to realize going 455 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: back to like oh, physics class and and and and 456 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: talking about how energy can't be created or destroyed, just transferred, 457 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, snam, I am not the 458 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 1: one who created this word, and being real, nobody's gonna 459 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,399 Speaker 1: destroy this word. This word will always breathe present and 460 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: maybe prevalent in our world, in our society. But I 461 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,480 Speaker 1: don't have to be the conduit that transfers this word, 462 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: which I know was intended with harm. I don't have 463 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,159 Speaker 1: to be the one that they use, manipulate to transport 464 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 1: their poison. And I used to be that guy. And 465 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: when you give that license to somebody else, because hey, 466 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,199 Speaker 1: in your house, you gotta follow the rules. If not, 467 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 1: nobody else coming in your house gonna follow the rules. 468 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 1: You gotta be territorial in terms of what words, what thoughts, 469 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 1: with actions, what do you lend yourself towards, and what 470 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: do you allow attached to attach to you, attached to 471 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 1: your culture, attached to who you want to represent, what 472 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: you want to represent. You gotta be real careful. And 473 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: this is something like fully mature, dopte a DoPT stuff. 474 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 1: And these kids don't get it. These kids like whatever 475 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 1: is just the word, not knowing the power of it. 476 00:28:56,880 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 1: My only cautionary tale would be for anybody who uses 477 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:05,680 Speaker 1: this word to be careful how you try to police 478 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 1: that same word you use, or else you may be 479 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 1: deemed a hypocrite. All right, speaking of hypocrisy, y'all see 480 00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: my boy char Various Ward. First, of all, your mama 481 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 1: need to stop playing chart various. That's I know how 482 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: to go. That's that's Granddaddy's like first name, your favorite 483 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 1: uncle's middle name. And that's crazy. I didn't combine these names. 484 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 1: Make him up. Come on, Ma'm gonna do better. Played 485 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 1: against DeAndre Hopkins and call that dude. Ah, steroid boy said, 486 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 1: I don't respect anything he does. I don't give a 487 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 1: damn I good game he had against me. Oh, steroid boy, man, 488 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm with him. I'm with him, even though I love 489 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 1: me some d hop even though I love guys who 490 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 1: got busted for steroids. Rodney Harrison, my dog. Everybody knows 491 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: how much I love Big Nose. That's what we call 492 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 1: each other, Big nose. Um. Everybody knows I love Antonio Gates, 493 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: but anybody get caught on them Royd's. Hey, man, you're 494 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: in a different column from me. You're in a different 495 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 1: place mentally and in terms of respect for me. I 496 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: wouldn't go to the point of calling you steroid boy 497 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: because I think it's already stated. I think it's already known. Uh, 498 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: he was on that thing. So while you're gonna be 499 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 1: out here trying to clown it, but I don't have 500 00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 1: respect for guys who got caught on it, even if 501 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 1: they tell me, oh man, it wasn't me, it was 502 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: a dirty sample, or or I was using something that 503 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 1: I thought was good and clean, but the manufacturing line 504 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 1: and the way that they were making it, it got laced. 505 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 1: Like I'm sorry, dog, I played in the league. I 506 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: gave him all my years, a decade, I played all 507 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 1: my whole life. They never caught me. They never caught 508 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:49,680 Speaker 1: me because I never did it. It's just that simple 509 00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 1: these dudes. Man. I know track and field cats. I 510 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,120 Speaker 1: know cats that did it then get busted in line 511 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: say they didn't do it. So I don't think you 512 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,080 Speaker 1: get the benefit of the doubt. But in terms of 513 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 1: calling him out like that, you're more than me on 514 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: that one. I ain't going to that point. But I 515 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: don't have a respect for guys who get caught doing it, 516 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,479 Speaker 1: because you don't get caught if you ain't doing it. 517 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna live an example, right y'all. See Pat Beverley 518 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 1: catch DeAndre Agen. I'll protecting my teammate. Boy. Nothing crazier 519 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 1: than when a guy bleeds the colors of his uniform 520 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: like all in and I mean, Pat Bev has to 521 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: do that. We know Pat Bev is compromised in other ways, 522 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: so he makes up for it by his loyalty. He 523 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: makes up for it by going and in a few 524 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: ways that he can. And then one of them ways 525 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: is being the enforcer. One of them ways is I'm 526 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: bringing that pain and he good lord, if Chris Paul 527 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 1: wasn't enough, here we go again, Patrick Beverley out there 528 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 1: given DeAndre eight in the business. It was all for nothing, 529 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 1: Like we know what it is. NBA players, most players, 530 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 1: but certainly NBA players ain't trying to fight because you 531 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: know why watch the video again. Watch Anthony Davis after 532 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: seeing Pat Beab do that, he wasn't even looking at 533 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 1: DeAndre Ayton, who could retaliate, who could have came back 534 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 1: with the with the hay maker, could have came back 535 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: with the with the one to hit a quitter right? 536 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: Instead he looking at Pat Bab like dog. He wasn't 537 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: that serious, was it. You're looking at Pat Bev like 538 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: what the hell are you doing? So imagine your teammates 539 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: looking out for your team, and instead of you looking 540 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 1: at who we just pushed, who may come back with 541 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 1: some hell, you're looking at your teammate, like what you're doing? 542 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: Hands are open, fists not even clints. Silliness out there. 543 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 1: I saw all that, but you want to know whose 544 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: fist was clinched? TiO. TiO had a fight trying to 545 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: go to CVS. T O out there putting hands in 546 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 1: some fans world, and all that was scary to watch. 547 00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: Do y'all see it? Tell you I was scary to watch. 548 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 1: Let me tell you why that was so scary to 549 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 1: watch because t O m hm. This how fickle life 550 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 1: is is outside of a CVS and Inglewood fighting some 551 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 1: dude over what because he was disrespectful over what? Because 552 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: he says something over what? Because the dude started it. 553 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 1: But damn, I didn't seen that go the wrong way 554 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: so fast, No matter how right you are, I've seen 555 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: that go the wrong way too fast. We've all seen that, right, 556 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,280 Speaker 1: I've unfortunately experienced it. And watching t O out there 557 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: fighting the guy for no reason, if you really boil 558 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 1: it down, makes me think so glad that this didn't 559 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: get worse than it was. Uh, you go to CVS, 560 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: a fan comes up to you, y'all chop it up, 561 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: and then somebody starts wolfing. I don't know how fast 562 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: wolves are, but I'm gonna be faster than that. I'm out. 563 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm out. I got more to live for. I'm out. 564 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: I can't do it. I can't give it to you 565 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 1: because I don't know what you want to do with this. 566 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 1: I don't know how far are you gonna go? And 567 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,359 Speaker 1: that fan must have wanted to go far because he's 568 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 1: sitting out front. Want to throw hands on TiO? The 569 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:18,799 Speaker 1: hell is that so in that position? Y'all one, don't 570 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: instigating to um, don't don't outstay. You're welcome either to 571 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: get yourself out of there. All right, let's wi some 572 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:32,080 Speaker 1: gears and get to maybe the story of the week. 573 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 1: But Lanciaga, oh my god, it was perverted what they 574 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 1: put out there. And I love how everyone's passing the buck. 575 00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 1: But Lanciaga is blaming the photographer, the photographers blaming them, 576 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:50,880 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, accountabilities out the window and 577 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: responsibility never entered the room. It's all about I can't 578 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,439 Speaker 1: believe this happened on our watch. Can't believe this. Let's 579 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 1: takedown all of the socials. Let's take down all of 580 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:07,600 Speaker 1: the images. Okay, that's part of it. Yeah, we we 581 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: we can obviously erase what you did, even though you 582 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 1: can't erase it from our mind. And with the internet today, 583 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 1: we all seen it. But ownership own up to it. Bro, 584 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: Why all I want is why, boy, let me be 585 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: a reporter in front of them. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 586 00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 1: you took it down. Yeah yeah yeah, you sorry? But 587 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:29,319 Speaker 1: why did you do it in the first place? Why 588 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: did you do it in the first place? You gotta 589 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 1: press them in this situation. Why Because one thing we 590 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 1: all can unite on, one thing we can all stay 591 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 1: united on and unified in, is protecting the innocent right, 592 00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 1: protecting our kids. And to see kids in an ad 593 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 1: with wine glasses, champagne glasses, alcohol being implied in their setting, 594 00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,400 Speaker 1: the b d S M and face down and sexual 595 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:07,359 Speaker 1: suggestions kids, y'all can't let kids say kids like this 596 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 1: whole world is blurring of the line of what's adult 597 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,920 Speaker 1: and what's kid is starting to not only be excessive, 598 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 1: but obvious, so obvious, like agenda like we're intending to 599 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,880 Speaker 1: try to bring fully mature adult conversations and choices to kids, 600 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,759 Speaker 1: and you gotta protect kids. You protect kids in so 601 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,879 Speaker 1: many other ways. Can a kid drink alcohol legally? No? 602 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,440 Speaker 1: And a kid fighting the military. Legal No, well, then 603 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 1: the kids shouldn't be allowed to make some of these moral, 604 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: ethical social choices as well, But not in today's world, 605 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 1: because it's going unchecked, and Balenciaga is going unchecked. Even 606 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,640 Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian finally has a response to it and saying 607 00:36:56,960 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 1: their relationship is under review. You know that's bull you 608 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 1: know that's that BS. Basically, I'm gonna wait this one out, 609 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 1: see how y'all feel about it. More likely y'all gonna 610 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 1: forget about it then will be back better than ever. 611 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 1: And we gotta stay on people who do such excessive, 612 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 1: egregious things, especially to the innocent, because my kids are 613 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: not going to grow up in the world where it's normalized, 614 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 1: where it's suggested were they're gonna be desensitized to not 615 00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 1: only stay in a child, but having to make adult 616 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 1: decisions as a child. It's insane what's going on. Like, 617 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 1: it's beyond stupidity for someone to green light what they 618 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 1: saw in terms of that photo shoot, what they saw 619 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 1: in terms of that imagery. And I've been a part 620 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:55,359 Speaker 1: of photo shoots. You gotta check every box. There's so 621 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,839 Speaker 1: many things to manage. But since you're managing so much 622 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,600 Speaker 1: and you're paying so much for that, you're paying attention 623 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,839 Speaker 1: to all of that. So don't act like you didn't 624 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,200 Speaker 1: see it. Don't act like, oh, there was a disconnect. 625 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:12,240 Speaker 1: Don't act like there was miscommunication. There was huge, nasty, 626 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:16,839 Speaker 1: perverted intention that to me is still going unchecked because 627 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,919 Speaker 1: these celebrities got quiet. It's crazy how these celebrities would 628 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 1: rather post about a criminal getting shot. Oh, this criminal 629 00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,880 Speaker 1: got shot. All the police messed with this criminal and 630 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,960 Speaker 1: he ran for the police and he got shot. They 631 00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 1: rather post about that then somebody trying to wink wink, 632 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: if not more to your kids that hey, perversion like 633 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 1: this is okay, boy, we better do the checking because 634 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,560 Speaker 1: right now they're not checking for any ethical line. They're 635 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 1: crossing all of them. Alright, y'aller get out of here 636 00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:56,680 Speaker 1: on Tiki time and Widy is ums. My Tiki Time 637 00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:01,200 Speaker 1: question this week is how did you meet your spouse 638 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 1: your significant other? Oh, glad, y'all asked me instead of 639 00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,880 Speaker 1: asking her because he always lies about this. She always 640 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:11,479 Speaker 1: got a different story. The girl. Reality is reality, all right. 641 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 1: I met her going to my boy Dennis north Cutt's 642 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: birthday party, and I had a limousine at the time, 643 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:21,680 Speaker 1: but not a normal limousine with the boomerang in the back. 644 00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:25,760 Speaker 1: I had a limo that was a converted excursion truck 645 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 1: and it was silly. Oh it went down in the 646 00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: back of that thing. Yes it did. I'm talking without 647 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 1: the music, y'all. Get your head out to the gutter 648 00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 1: winning big screen TV Wolfer's Everywhere bar in the back 649 00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,360 Speaker 1: plus carpet. It was silly. But I'm pulling up to 650 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 1: his party and um about to jump out in TMZ 651 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 1: bow hits me. Now, ain't that famous? But you know, 652 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,800 Speaker 1: if I go out to certain spots, yeah, yeah, lights, 653 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,799 Speaker 1: camera action. So I'm getting interviewed by tim Z and 654 00:39:55,840 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: then I stop looking at the camera, stop looking and 655 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 1: getting blinded by the flash, and all of a sudden, 656 00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:08,760 Speaker 1: something brighter than the flash was walking by my wife. 657 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 1: Fine one arm out, one arm in some dress she 658 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,040 Speaker 1: had on flow Joe. I call it flow Joe dress. 659 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 1: She had to flow Joe on and she got muscle 660 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 1: muscle muscles, and I was like, damn. But she was 661 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,960 Speaker 1: going into the general mission line, the long line right now, 662 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, if tim Z and interviewed me, 663 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 1: I'm going straight in, so I'm like, whoa. I said, 664 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 1: excuse me, you come on in with us, like hello, 665 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 1: how are you? Uh? And the first thing I said, 666 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 1: for real was where'd you get your muscles from? I know, Lane, 667 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,720 Speaker 1: just let you know. I'm a marrier because my worst 668 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,120 Speaker 1: game ever is the one I'm married. Right, I was like, 669 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:50,399 Speaker 1: where you get your muscles from? And she started laughing 670 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: getting I said you should come in with us, and 671 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,440 Speaker 1: she's like, oh, thank you, that'd be nice. Boom go inside. 672 00:40:56,160 --> 00:41:01,959 Speaker 1: That night, I'm hydrated, I'm in the situation of dration. Um, man, 673 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,759 Speaker 1: I'm running around. I got glasses on towel on thirteen 674 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 1: chains on and my boy Jabari was there with me, 675 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 1: my best friend, my Ace, and he held it down 676 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 1: for me. I said, look, you know, I'm leaning right 677 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 1: now and I'm with Dino. So it's his birthday. I 678 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:22,160 Speaker 1: can't ruin his birthday. Make sure Anna Marie is good. 679 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,960 Speaker 1: Had a little security to the the table to make sure 680 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 1: no other dudes holler hey. Wasn't even for like safety purposes, 681 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 1: just make sure nobody else holler um. But in all seriousness, man, 682 00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: I was lit. I just kept checking on her every 683 00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 1: five to ten minutes. Stalker like but also real. Um, 684 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: and when I kept checking on her, it made her 685 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 1: just feel like, Wow, this dude, really it's interested, because 686 00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,400 Speaker 1: you know how we used to do it in the club. 687 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 1: You get a girl number if you get it, especially 688 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:54,520 Speaker 1: walking in early. Oh, that's just the first of many. 689 00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 1: Five ten minutes later she looking at you at the bar, 690 00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:58,960 Speaker 1: you Holland and somebody else. Ten minutes later, you want 691 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 1: to dance floor holder and some body else. I didn't 692 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,560 Speaker 1: do none of that because no, Lie, I was besmarage dog. 693 00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,000 Speaker 1: I was in that zone. So that's how I met 694 00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: Anna Marie. And then after that I'm lit. We go 695 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:14,279 Speaker 1: to Berry's Pizza four in the morning, whatever it may be. 696 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 1: I'm leaning on her shoulder. She feeded me pizza. I'm 697 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,240 Speaker 1: so gone. She had to buy she had to body breakfast, 698 00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 1: body dinner by whatever the hell that is. At four 699 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,440 Speaker 1: in the morning, you're eating and uh, she was like 700 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,439 Speaker 1: this dude all over the place. But you know me, 701 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 1: I woke up eight in the morning ring hello, and 702 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 1: I let her know that all that checking in before 703 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,479 Speaker 1: wasn't just at the club, that I was for real, 704 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 1: that I was in love, that I was gonna be 705 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,800 Speaker 1: her husband. Look at me. Let's end it with the wily. 706 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 1: Isn't today principal over principal Principal would have a L 707 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:02,080 Speaker 1: over principle would have el E. M. That's what the 708 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,680 Speaker 1: world is right now. We gotta flip that principle with 709 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:08,359 Speaker 1: an L E over principle with a L. We gotta 710 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:12,359 Speaker 1: have dogma over dollar. Stop putting this dollar first, because 711 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:18,000 Speaker 1: what's happening But in Siaga silence, these cats are not 712 00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:22,919 Speaker 1: being bought, They're not being paid for celebrities, elites, all 713 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:27,800 Speaker 1: that stuff. What happens is it's the social currency that 714 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 1: is paying for them. They don't want to be disruptors. 715 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 1: They don't want to be the one at the cocktail 716 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 1: party being the oddball who actually stood up on principle 717 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:41,080 Speaker 1: with the L E to protect their principle with a 718 00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 1: a L. They don't stand on principle with an L E. 719 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 1: And thankfully, I'm built the opposite way. Thankfully, I know 720 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:51,600 Speaker 1: a lot of you listeners out there are built the 721 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,120 Speaker 1: opposite way. But you have to express yourself. You have 722 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:59,840 Speaker 1: to express your principle with the L E because if not, 723 00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 1: that silence, it's going to allow this ecosystem to continue 724 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,920 Speaker 1: to grow. To continue to prosper. Where they're putting the 725 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:14,040 Speaker 1: A L before the L E. Dogma over dollar. Let's 726 00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,359 Speaker 1: stand for something. We're gonna fall for everything, not just 727 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:22,399 Speaker 1: anything that's gonna do it. For More to It, check 728 00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,280 Speaker 1: the show notes for all the information on our topics today. 729 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,719 Speaker 1: I want to keep the conversation going. Of course you do, 730 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:31,359 Speaker 1: let's talk. You can find me on all socials at 731 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 1: Marcellus Wiley at Marcellus Wiley. More to It is a 732 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:40,280 Speaker 1: production of Dan Patrick Productions, that Dude Entertainment and Workhouse Media. 733 00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 1: The show is executive produced by Dan Patrick, mars Sellis Wiley, 734 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 1: Paul Anderson, and Nick Panella. I'm Marcellus Wally. Thanks for listening, 735 00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,399 Speaker 1: Thanks for those reviews, to keep them coming. There's more 736 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,319 Speaker 1: coming for More to It, talk to you next week 737 00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,279 Speaker 1: out