WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Flirt and Observe

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<v Speaker 1>All right, starting your week with the brand new Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date podcast. Thank you so much for being here. It's

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<v Speaker 1>broken Jeffrey, Please like, subscribe, comment, do all the things

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<v Speaker 2>Before we start today's we do have to put a

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<v Speaker 2>disclaimer that we do not approve of this woman's actions.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah the people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a great way to say what we mean. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you can understand real quick, I'll tell you that. But

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<v Speaker 2>before we get to this brand new podcast, what are

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<v Speaker 2>our comments?

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<v Speaker 4>I saw see?

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<v Speaker 5>Garyerra three said Jeffrey's intros are unmatched. He can make

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<v Speaker 5>the most uninteresting situations into a five star story.

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<v Speaker 3>I love it for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for leaving your comments, and let's get this podcast started.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody always says, gosh, I wish I could meet someone

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<v Speaker 4>in real life?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but really.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you actually want that? Why wouldn't it sounds so scary?

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<v Speaker 4>There's no block button in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>Good.

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<v Speaker 6>You can't Google searchabile and they're standing right in front

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<v Speaker 6>of you.

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<v Speaker 5>Can't work with your friends just send a message.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, or forward the rest of your conversation to voicemail.

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<v Speaker 3>You're out there on an island all by yourself. That

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<v Speaker 3>would be awesome. If your friends were in the other

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<v Speaker 3>room though, Yeah, and you're like, what did you just say?

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on, I'll be right back. Yeah, tell them.

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<v Speaker 4>You could ask Siri for like a flirty compliment to

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<v Speaker 4>give to them, but it is kind of awkward when

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<v Speaker 4>they're sitting right in front of you.

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<v Speaker 3>So nobody knows that better.

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<v Speaker 4>Like our listener Stacy, who, according to her email, says she.

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<v Speaker 3>Met a guy out in the real world.

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<v Speaker 6>Was it frightening, Stacy?

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<v Speaker 2>Were you so scared?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, thanks for being on the show with us today, Stacy,

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<v Speaker 4>tell us about this guy you met.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, basically, I was going to get a coffee and

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<v Speaker 8>it was full and there was only one chair open. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>and when I went to sit in the chair. I mean,

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<v Speaker 8>it sounds like cliche, like I'm making it up, but

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<v Speaker 8>it really happened, like this guy went at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>And he was a hot guy.

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<v Speaker 6>Huh, very hot.

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<v Speaker 8>I thought my prayers had been answered. I thought the

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<v Speaker 8>universe heard me because I couldn't believe it. We were

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<v Speaker 8>both like, literally we decided to share the chair. He

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<v Speaker 8>was that cool we were sitting You.

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<v Speaker 6>Did sit on his last then? Is that what you're

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<v Speaker 6>saying now?

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<v Speaker 8>We shared the chair next to each hips next.

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<v Speaker 3>To each other, one chair video.

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<v Speaker 1>Cheek. Did you discuss it or was this a silent agreement,

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<v Speaker 1>like how did you introduce yourself?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I don't know how it happened. It just was

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<v Speaker 8>so natural. We started talking and then I just honestly

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<v Speaker 8>wanted to read my book, so I just pulled out

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<v Speaker 8>my book Catcher in the Rye And then he turned

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<v Speaker 8>to me and he said, I read that book. I

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<v Speaker 8>love it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like we all read that in high school. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it was required reading, but you had to do it

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<v Speaker 3>in order to pass.

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<v Speaker 6>I read it for fun, and I don't think I

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<v Speaker 6>read that.

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<v Speaker 4>One plains a lot about Brooke.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, did you catch his name at any

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<v Speaker 3>point during this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, his name was Tyler Okay, and I bet he

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<v Speaker 1>was impressed with you. You're reading like a literary classic

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<v Speaker 1>instead of some like smut romance, which is.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a muscular guy. Is that something that is a

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<v Speaker 3>turn on to you out in the world.

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<v Speaker 4>If you see a woman reading like a really fancy book,

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<v Speaker 4>you're like, oh yeah, hot. After you said see a woman,

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<v Speaker 4>oh yeah, sorry immediately, No, if a girl's reading a

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<v Speaker 4>book that is good.

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<v Speaker 3>You want a little bit of.

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<v Speaker 6>Intellect, right, dumb, so I need to hear it.

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<v Speaker 3>Be a little smart so we can balance you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>all right.

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<v Speaker 4>So you guys are sitting there at the coffee table,

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<v Speaker 4>two butts, one chair, and what happens?

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<v Speaker 8>And then he suddenly he's like, hey, I have to

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<v Speaker 8>go for my workout.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh he's telling you where he's going.

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<v Speaker 1>I always feel like that's kind of a I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see you again, or an invite or something smart.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like when I say I have to go to

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<v Speaker 3>the bathroom, that's like an.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, why would he tell a complete stranger where

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<v Speaker 6>he's going.

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<v Speaker 3>Why wouldn't he tell her where he's going? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>honestly have an appointment.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, he just said, hey, it was nice, meaning you

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<v Speaker 8>I have to head to my workout. It means he's

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<v Speaker 8>in shape but sexy.

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<v Speaker 6>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But how did you get his phone number? Like it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like that's the end, like he doesn't you know?

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<v Speaker 8>No. I said, oh wow, I no wonder you're in

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<v Speaker 8>such great shape. I love to work out too. And

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<v Speaker 8>then he's invited me. He said, really, you know I

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<v Speaker 8>do power yoga And I said, oh my gosh, not

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<v Speaker 8>a lot of guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Do that soon it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, So wait, so you went to his workout with him?

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<v Speaker 9>Uh huh?

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<v Speaker 2>You on the spot to work out. Don't lie. You

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<v Speaker 2>never go to a coffee shop without wearing yoga pants.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean no, I hadn't know.

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<v Speaker 7>I had him in my bag.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you guys are working out together. That seems a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit more intimate.

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<v Speaker 3>How did that got's and it went great?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, it wasn't that intimate. It was just a class,

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<v Speaker 8>so I just jumped in.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, did you guys get spots next to each other?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, but we were just doing yoga.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you can't talk.

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<v Speaker 5>But I love the bonding when you bring a friend

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<v Speaker 5>to make the contact like this post is hard, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like if you the.

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<v Speaker 4>Look they were, they were making out the whole class

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<v Speaker 4>across the room.

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<v Speaker 3>So's so fun.

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<v Speaker 6>That sounds so friendly. You know, when do we get

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<v Speaker 6>to the romance?

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<v Speaker 3>Is there a big romantic moment at the end of this?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, like I got a number and he took my number?

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<v Speaker 6>Was there a talk of a date?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you his workout buddy?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, he talks about getting together again, So.

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<v Speaker 4>No, maybe, but it could just be like to talk

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<v Speaker 4>about catchering the rye and like discuss plot points and

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<v Speaker 4>stuff that could be really sexy.

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<v Speaker 6>I enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 1>She didnt do it for fun as long as they Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as there's one involved.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So what's happened since you guys said goodbye to

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<v Speaker 4>each other?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, we basically texted. I'd stay back and forth about

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<v Speaker 8>three times and it was going really good at the start,

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<v Speaker 8>super easy texting back and forth sounded like we were

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<v Speaker 8>going towards setting something up. And I haven't heard from

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<v Speaker 8>him since.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, sometimes your hands like something else could have

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<v Speaker 4>happened in his life, and so.

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<v Speaker 9>What do I do?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, we call him us for help.

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<v Speaker 4>That was a smart move. We're going to try and

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<v Speaker 4>call this guy Tyler. We'll see if he picks up

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<v Speaker 4>the phone, and hopefully he has an answer for why

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<v Speaker 4>he's not setting up a second meet up for the

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<v Speaker 4>two of them.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not in the middle of power yoga. We're going

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<v Speaker 3>to embarrass him.

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<v Speaker 1>He will bring you to the studio rights Okay, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, we'll do it right after this. Hold on second

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<v Speaker 3>date update?

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<v Speaker 4>What else do you need for a steamy first date

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<v Speaker 4>besides hot coffee? Power yoga and catch her in the rye.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sweaty just thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 3>It hardcover, first edition. Oh you studious stud.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, that would be worth so much money that oh

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<v Speaker 6>my god.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's the impromptu date that our listener Stacey went

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<v Speaker 4>on recently after randomly meeting a guy named Tyler at

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<v Speaker 4>a coffee shop. And even though they worked out together

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<v Speaker 4>and seemed to have a lot in common, there didn't

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<v Speaker 4>seem to be a ton of romantic chemistry happening.

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<v Speaker 3>So, like Jose was saying, it's possible.

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<v Speaker 4>That Tyler sees you more as a workout study buddy,

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<v Speaker 4>but we don't know. That's the whole reason that we're

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<v Speaker 4>about to call him in.

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<v Speaker 1>And even if that's the case, then maybe we can

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<v Speaker 1>help turn his mind into a more romantic thing. I mean, sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>especially with guys, they just don't see.

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<v Speaker 6>It unless it like slaps him in the face.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, Brook is ready to slap Tyler right across

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<v Speaker 4>the face till he sees the sexy side of Stacy

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<v Speaker 4>and figuratively, yeah, but physically too if it comes to Okay, Stacy,

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<v Speaker 4>are you cool with that?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you condone that?

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>I just really don't meet people in real life.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, that's a common sentiment. I mean romantically, right, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>You're probably most people. Yeah, that's just how it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll bring that up to Tyler too. That's a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't meet people like this every day, So he

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<v Speaker 4>shouldn't let it pass him by.

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<v Speaker 8>He really shouldn't let this pass him by.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's a confidence we need Stacy going into this.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, first, let's see if he picks up, because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>downing his number right now.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, Hello, Hey is this Tyler?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, hey man, how are you doing today? You're on

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<v Speaker 4>a radio show right now called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Welcome to the show, Tyler Man, good morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I'm on the radio right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, well yeah, okay, say hi to millions of people.

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<v Speaker 8>What is this about.

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<v Speaker 4>We wanted you to do all the shout outs for

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<v Speaker 4>the day on the show, so we'll get to that

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<v Speaker 4>in a second.

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<v Speaker 8>Second.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a lot of.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, let's not do this then we have a

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<v Speaker 3>great voice for it.

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<v Speaker 4>Before we get to that, we want to talk to

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<v Speaker 4>you a little bit about your dating life in a

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<v Speaker 4>segment that we do called second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>Mine, Yeah, yeah, you've been dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Well, this isn't really a date meet day like

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<v Speaker 1>this may be because you know, you may not categorize.

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<v Speaker 3>It that way.

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<v Speaker 4>We're not sure if you felt like it was a

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<v Speaker 4>romantic hangout. But you met a woman recently named Stacy

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<v Speaker 4>at a coffee shop.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, yes, the girl with the book right, Yeah, that that.

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<v Speaker 6>You shared a chair with.

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<v Speaker 4>So we heard about you guys like meeting up and

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<v Speaker 4>you had coffee, did a little workout afterwards.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, yeah, I remember her?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I mean what did you think about her? She's cute.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, she's a beautiful girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Stacey told us that after you guys met up, you

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<v Speaker 4>were texting about possibly hanging out a second time, but

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<v Speaker 4>nothing happened, right, She's just not sure where your head's at.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, And you want you want me to tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>On the air that it'd be a lot better than

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<v Speaker 3>off the air for all the use the phone, and

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<v Speaker 3>we're just gonna listen, Okay, I'm just kidding, And that's

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<v Speaker 3>okay with you, all right?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, uh yeah, there's a reason, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were.

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<v Speaker 7>Texting back and forth and scheduling a first real gate yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>she said that, And so I was suggesting we get

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<v Speaker 7>together the following weekend and she comes back with, yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>that's great. I'm excited, but we can't do Friday because

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<v Speaker 7>it's your birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, okay, does.

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<v Speaker 6>She mean her birthday? How would she know your birthday?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it came up when you guys were talking at coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you mention that to her? No?

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<v Speaker 7>I never did, and I was racking my brain to

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<v Speaker 7>see if I could figure out where she would have

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<v Speaker 7>learned my birthday. The yoga studio would never say that.

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<v Speaker 4>But isn't that, like Alexis, isn't that normal if you

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<v Speaker 4>meet a guy that you like, you like immediately stalk

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<v Speaker 4>him online everywhere he just talk him on.

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<v Speaker 5>You probably see some's birthday, but you don't mention it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah Facebook?

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<v Speaker 1>Or are you sure you're not like misremembering that, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe somehow you mentioned it in conversation.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean we didn't have a lot of deep talks.

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<v Speaker 7>That's why we're going to get together for another date.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, but she's not trying to date you on your birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a good sign.

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<v Speaker 7>But just her knowing when my birthday was kind of

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<v Speaker 7>freaked me out, so I just stopped responding to her.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, like, if you stalk a guy and you know, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>two brothers, you don't mention the brothers still, you know you.

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<v Speaker 6>Think Alexish maybe did it on accident.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's possible, and we can find out because Tyler,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, this isn't going to be a great look

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<v Speaker 4>for her when.

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<v Speaker 3>I tell you this.

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<v Speaker 4>But Stacy is quietly listening on the other line to

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<v Speaker 4>this conversation, waiting for her chance to talk to you,

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<v Speaker 4>not like.

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<v Speaker 2>A stock man.

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<v Speaker 7>No, that's not creepy at all.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just it's just how the segment works.

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<v Speaker 6>That's our bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Stacy, are you there?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh god?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 8>I just want to say I missed your birthday, so

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<v Speaker 8>happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 6>Doubling down. That's kind of funny. You mean that as

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<v Speaker 6>a joke, And.

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<v Speaker 8>No, it's not a joke. I really did miss his birthday.

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<v Speaker 8>And say, hide a little Buster for me. Your dog.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait, how do you how do you know my dog's name?

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<v Speaker 3>I never told you Buster's name.

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<v Speaker 8>I have a confession to make.

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<v Speaker 6>What are you inside his house right now?

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<v Speaker 8>This whole meeting of ours was not an accident?

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<v Speaker 9>What what.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you wait?

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<v Speaker 7>Explain what's going on right now?

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<v Speaker 8>I did run across your dating profile about a week ago,

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<v Speaker 8>and I saw the logo for the coffee shop behind

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<v Speaker 8>you when you were seating, and I went to the

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<v Speaker 8>coffee shop and waited until I would run into you.

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<v Speaker 8>And I just hope that you can respect a girl

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<v Speaker 8>who does her homework.

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<v Speaker 7>All makes sense now, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>You lied to us too. You said that it was

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<v Speaker 2>like a chance in real life meeting.

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<v Speaker 8>It was a chance that I would meet him.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't know what day he was going to be

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<v Speaker 3>in the coffee shop.

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<v Speaker 2>Day.

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<v Speaker 6>This is not normal behavior.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know what to say right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm kind of weirded out.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't blame you. And how do you know his

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<v Speaker 6>dog's name?

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<v Speaker 8>It wasn't on my dating profile.

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<v Speaker 6>That is nuts, Stacy.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't do that.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't do that, and I did.

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<v Speaker 8>He gave me the information on the app, and I

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<v Speaker 8>put myself in a situation to run into him.

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<v Speaker 2>I trust nothing that you're saying right now, Like what

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<v Speaker 2>was the book?

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<v Speaker 6>Were you actually reading that book?

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<v Speaker 9>Yes?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean after I saw that he liked it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I feel totally do care. Isn't it the thought

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<v Speaker 3>that counts behind the duke.

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<v Speaker 6>You stop it, you stub it.

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<v Speaker 1>If we would have known this, we would have not

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<v Speaker 1>called for Stacy.

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<v Speaker 8>Tyler, woman who was going to call for me? He

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<v Speaker 8>had blot.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't tell us.

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<v Speaker 5>That, and I'm sure you know his best friend's name.

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<v Speaker 8>You guys are really funny. I saw the guy on

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<v Speaker 8>the dating profile, and I just went the extra mile

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<v Speaker 8>to meet him.

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<v Speaker 6>It's sweet, so innocent that Okay, the extra miles.

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<v Speaker 4>A long mile. Yeah, Stacy, you clearly still want to

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<v Speaker 4>go out with Tyler here, but.

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<v Speaker 8>Before you, I do, But I have a problem with

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<v Speaker 8>something I have to clear up first.

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<v Speaker 3>You have a problem.

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<v Speaker 8>I noticed you paid someone named Trish three times last

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<v Speaker 8>week on a Venmo and I'm hoping you see the

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<v Speaker 8>dog walker.

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<v Speaker 3>But Venmo was kind of like public knowledge.

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<v Speaker 2>You cauld switch it to private.

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<v Speaker 3>Switch I'm switching it a private right now.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah. That's n that's not very nice, it's not polite.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't like that, Tyler.

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<v Speaker 6>Why is that the creepiest thing she said?

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<v Speaker 3>But it's still a yes as far as I understood that.

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<v Speaker 6>From Stacy.

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<v Speaker 2>From Stacy, are you actually going to ask Tyler?

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind to ask position jeff Well, Tyler, we would

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<v Speaker 4>pay for your guys to meet up again.

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<v Speaker 3>If she's not already waiting for you and you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Apartment, do check your closets.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not even lying serious.

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<v Speaker 7>I think I'm gonna respectfully pass.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not see this, Stacy.

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<v Speaker 6>You do understand that's a no right.

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<v Speaker 8>I maybe just have to work harder.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, this happening one day, guys, whether if it's against

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<v Speaker 4>our will or not, something's gonna.

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<v Speaker 3>Happens, Rookie Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>See, this is why we've always said you can't trust

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<v Speaker 4>anybody who reads a book in public.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it's a literacy, that was the problem.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a gateway activity. Brook First you're reading Ernest Henmy Way.

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<v Speaker 4>Next thing you know, you're reading a stranger's Venmo logue

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<v Speaker 4>and monitoring who is sending them money.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, read The Enemy.

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<v Speaker 5>The guy in the TV show you owned a bookstore.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people say that a lot of psychos

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<v Speaker 1>have come out of Catcher in the Rye.

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<v Speaker 4>Why do I feel like this isn't going to be

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<v Speaker 4>the last time that we hear from this Stacy Lady though.

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<v Speaker 6>She was like yeah too much, Yeah, too much.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we're gonna We're gonna hear from her again

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<v Speaker 4>during a laser story where she's being featured in it.

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<v Speaker 3>But didn't work out this time, probably for the best.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you want some help.

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<v Speaker 4>With your dating life, you can email the show. We'll

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<v Speaker 4>call that person who's not calling you back. Go check

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<v Speaker 4>out all of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 3>They're up at Brooke and Jeffrey