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Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You're listening to the boys, come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: radio show. Yoh man. God is in the blessing business

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Speaker 1: all day every day. God got hundreds of millions of

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Speaker 1: I just want God's favor, and I go. I want

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Speaker 1: God's blessings. You know, of course I need his mercy

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Speaker 1: his favor. I want. I want that in my life

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Speaker 1: because it does things for me that I'm absolutely incapable

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Speaker 1: many of those, and you can be the recipient of

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Speaker 1: them too. You already are, really, really, you already are.

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Speaker 1: If you're getting up every morning, that's a blessed. If

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Speaker 1: that's a blessing. But now let me talk to you

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Speaker 1: about this part right here, folks, because this is the

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Speaker 1: part that messages people up a great deal. What happens

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Speaker 1: that mean? When you get off track? See, I've been

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Speaker 1: off track. I can't tell you how many times, and

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Speaker 1: it happens in so many aspects of your life. But

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Speaker 1: what is it that makes getting off track so debilitating

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Speaker 1: want to stay off track. They off course, they off

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Speaker 1: You can't tell you something. Everybody gets off track. There

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Speaker 1: are people who are living their life's dreams in spite

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Speaker 1: Because see, people, when you get off track, here's some

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Speaker 1: of the things that happened. See you get the here

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Speaker 1: It ain't meant to be. You can hear it all,

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Speaker 1: don't matter what other people say out there. It takes

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Speaker 1: You know what I do, y'all. I have two goals

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Speaker 1: You know, the two things I try to do, go

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Speaker 1: you know. Like I asked audiences sometimes, I say, how

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Speaker 1: well I do know this, Carlin. You you can attest.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure when we first went to Vegas with Steve,

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Speaker 1: time to start your morning off with run that Prank Back? Now,

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Speaker 1: Steve is in for Junior, who is in for the nephew.

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Speaker 1: So what you got for Steve? I don't like being

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Speaker 1: being for myself. Here together, it's a little bumping grind right. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying Marcus. Uh Marcus, Yeah, this is hey. Can

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Speaker 1: I actually got your number from the leasing office. I

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Speaker 1: First of all, thank you, brother, I appreciate it. But

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Speaker 1: we'll see whatever the reason why, I mean, I really

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm with you, Steve and lighting the circles

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, we'll have some

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Speaker 1: entertainment news where you're right after this, you're listening to

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Speaker 1: the String Show. Queen Elizabeth, the second, Britain's longest serving monarch,

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Speaker 1: died Thursday at the age of ninety six at her

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Speaker 1: Scottish country estate. Her funeral will be held in London

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Speaker 1: on September nineteenth. Her son, seventy three year old Charles

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Speaker 1: Prince Charles, is now King Charles the Third. There is

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Speaker 1: still some royal drama though, between King Charles, his sons,

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Speaker 1: Prince William and Prince Harry. Prince Harry is truly devastated

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Speaker 1: by the death of his grandmother he was very close

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Speaker 1: to her. Harry's wife, Meghan Markle, received a nice hug

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Speaker 1: from a teenage girls supporter who said that she just

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Speaker 1: wanted to hug the Duchess to let her know that

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Speaker 1: she is welcomed in London, you know, because after they

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Speaker 1: to the to the US, you know, Um, I'm going

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Speaker 1: At least that one young lady wanted her to know

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Speaker 1: see how that develops. You know, what they decide to

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Speaker 1: how it goes. It seems like there's trying to be

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Speaker 1: some healing now in that situation. Meanwhile, President Biden and

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Speaker 1: First Lady Jill Biden will attend the Queen's funeral on

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Speaker 1: September nineteenth at Westminster Abbey, and you know that'll be

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Speaker 1: the telecasts. Also, what you all don't know as Earl

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Speaker 1: he here? Yeah? Okay, so right now. He told me

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Speaker 1: to let you know, but after the funeral he's gonna

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Speaker 1: come in it. Oh he told you that. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't you speak with him? Wudn't you speak with him

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Speaker 1: the last Thursday when it happened. Oh, he called me.

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Speaker 1: He was devastating, He said after the funeral he'd liked

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Speaker 1: and what did you tell him? You told him? Okay,

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Speaker 1: is always open always. I think he may be coming

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Speaker 1: he's got a special announcement to make. I hope that. Okay, Royal,

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Speaker 1: We're moving on, moving definitely, uh, moving on to um

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Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton and her docuseries with her daughter Chelsea, premiered

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Speaker 1: this past Friday on Apple TV Plus. During the interview,

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Speaker 1: Hillary and Chelsea are hanging out with none other than

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Speaker 1: Megan the Stallion. They're hanging out, They're painting with Megan

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Speaker 1: and uh. They discussed the criticism and misogyny they faced

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Speaker 1: this is Megan the Stallion, Mega Stallion. Hillary Clinton, former

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Speaker 1: presidential candidate Hillary Clinton, former Secretary of State Hillary Clinton

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Speaker 1: and her daughter Chelsea are hanging out with Mega Stallion. Girl.

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Speaker 1: Never said this before, but I say Big Stallion. I

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Speaker 1: just I just clapped uncontrollably. I don't know what happens

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Speaker 1: to me the Stallion. I just I just started clapping

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Speaker 1: for her. Well, yeah, And I'd never thought i'd say

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Speaker 1: this that Mega Stallion, Hillary Clinton and Chelsea Clinton were

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Speaker 1: discussing Megan Cardi B song Whop. I never thought i'd

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Speaker 1: say that. Take a listen, but I kind of came

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Speaker 1: she sent me the song, I think I sent it

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Speaker 1: back to her like the next day and it was

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Speaker 1: just so exciting. The men. They seem so confident in

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Speaker 1: what they're saying, and they don't have no problem with

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Speaker 1: talking about their sexuality and how they're gonna have sex

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Speaker 1: with you. So I was like, well, I can do that,

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Speaker 1: and it's gonna sound fire coming from a woman. It's

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Speaker 1: great to see women be so fierce. That is my

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Speaker 1: life's mission to make sure that I'm always unapologetically met

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Speaker 1: girls saying Okay, there you got clapping uncontrollably told you

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Speaker 1: I don't remember what I'm sorry. Sorry, it wasn't really

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Speaker 1: be clappable. But this is Megan. Uh yeah. But I

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Speaker 1: do like the fact that, like she says, she's unapologetically her.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't matter who it is, She's going

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Speaker 1: to be Meg the Stallion. You know she Yes, she

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Speaker 1: has a song call as Hillary called it wap, but

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Speaker 1: we call it wop. Yes. Yeah, And she explain why

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Speaker 1: she did it, and here it is, you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: here it is, take it, leave it all right, and

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Speaker 1: that's what she's doing. Finally, in Entertainment News, Chris Jenner,

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Speaker 1: you guys heard about this took a light detective test

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Speaker 1: during the Late Late Show with James Cordon. Okay, Chris

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Speaker 1: was asked if she leaked, because this was a big thing,

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Speaker 1: if she leaked the sex tape of Kim and ray J.

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Speaker 1: Chris on the light detector test, said no and apparently

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Speaker 1: passed the test. Okay. Ray J heard about this was

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Speaker 1: really upset, really mad. He said, Steve, pay attention because

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Speaker 1: there was some cussing going on. Ray J said, y'all

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Speaker 1: have blanked with the wrong one. Ray J then went

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Speaker 1: live on Instagram and said, there is there is a

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Speaker 1: third sex tape called Santa Barbara Sex her Mama, meaning

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Speaker 1: Chris made us go shoot it for safety. Chris watched

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Speaker 1: the blank word. That's the big one right there. Chris

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Speaker 1: watched it and said, well, then ray J's live Instagram

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Speaker 1: got shut down because he was going in. He wasn't

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Speaker 1: going I watched. I saw ray J with the receipts,

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Speaker 1: laughed so hard. I was with ray J. Ray J

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Speaker 1: he was trying to show it on live right, and

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Speaker 1: with the instructions. What if ray J had me laughing

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Speaker 1: so hard? Had all he ever do? Yeah, he did,

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Speaker 1: He had all the receipts all right. Coming up in

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes after the hole, we're gonna switch gears because yes,

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Speaker 1: it is Tuesday, and we're going to talk about voting

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show well, we previously

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Speaker 1: told you that every Tuesday until the midterm elections, we

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Speaker 1: are going to remind you to go vote, Please register,

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Speaker 1: whatever you have to do well Today there are primary

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Speaker 1: elections in Delaware, in New Hampshire, and in Rhode Island.

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Speaker 1: The midterm elections are Tuesday, November eighth, and the countdown

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Speaker 1: is on all right. The Senate returned to work last Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: and the House is back this week. If Democratic leaders

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Speaker 1: if not all, of October, all of the month of

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Speaker 1: October to let lawmakers go home and campaign ahead of

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Speaker 1: a high stakes midterm election that will decide which party

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Speaker 1: controls Congress for the next two years. Democratic leaders are

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Speaker 1: also urging voters to support as many of President Biden's

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Speaker 1: judicial nominees as possible. There are currently seventy eight vagancies

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Speaker 1: on federal trial and appellate courts. Biden has issued four

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Speaker 1: nominations for appeals court and thirty three for district courts.

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Speaker 1: After the latest with the actions of the Supreme Court,

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Speaker 1: you now know how important it is to vote. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you have to vote for these judges. You have to vote.

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Speaker 1: register to vote, go right now to when we all

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Speaker 1: So it's when we all vote dot org or vote

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Speaker 1: vote right now. We don't have any time for you

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Speaker 1: all to waste. A lot of deadlines are coming up

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Speaker 1: for registration in October. Telom See. I'm telling you what

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Speaker 1: the ladies are saying. Listen to me, Steve Harvey Nation,

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Speaker 1: we got to get serious this trip around. These Meda

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Speaker 1: turns are important. For the first time ever because of

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Speaker 1: But these mid terms we should have the same type

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Speaker 1: of celebrations. For the first time ever, the state of

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Speaker 1: Georgia was turned blue. And that can happen again. We've

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Speaker 1: got to get Stacy Abrams in office running for governor

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Speaker 1: in Georgia. But to all those big cities that listen

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Speaker 1: to us, Philly, Detroit, Milwaukee, all of you that listened,

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Speaker 1: that went out to the post and changed. The election

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Speaker 1: changed Michigan, Milwaukee changed Wisconsin, Philly changed Philadelphia, Atlanta changed Georgia.

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Speaker 1: Brunswick changed Georgia. Valdosta changed Georgia. We can do it, man,

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Speaker 1: We have the power. We have got to get out

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Speaker 1: here and vote. We have stop allowing the minority to

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Speaker 1: vote matters. Go to when we all vote dot org

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Speaker 1: and you can also register at vote dot org. Go today.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: we're Steve. We're gonna check your voicemail at eight seven

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Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Step right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it is

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Speaker 1: time to check Steve's voicemail. If you want to leave

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Speaker 1: a message for Steve, give us a call. Please eight

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Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine, Steve, Uh, Steve. This caller's name

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Speaker 1: is don J w W. Thank you. That's where where

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Speaker 1: my head Maybe that's where my head is, right, I

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Speaker 1: put it all together. This caller's name is Dejah Won Steve.

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Speaker 1: He's asking for advice for young men. Steve, my name

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Speaker 1: is Dave jun and I was looking for some advice,

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Speaker 1: pretty young black man out that that's just trying to

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Speaker 1: make it to have this ambition, just to be successful

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Speaker 1: in life. Like, what's the best advice you got besides

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Speaker 1: just keep moving forward, he says, besides keep moving forward? Yes,

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Speaker 1: besides saying that keep moving forward. Well he started saying that,

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Speaker 1: say something else or he's tired of hearing that from

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Speaker 1: somewhere else. Well, here's the deal. Two things help you

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Speaker 1: become successful. It's the motivation of what it is you're

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Speaker 1: doing it for. And it's the discipline, the willingness to

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Speaker 1: apply the work ethic and the faith necessary to make

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Speaker 1: it come true. Motivation changes some days. You won't be

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Speaker 1: If you're motivated to become successful, okay, cool. But you

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Speaker 1: wake up this morning and you're having a family emergency,

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Speaker 1: your motivation isn't to become successful right now. Your motivation

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Speaker 1: becomes to solve the family emergency. Your emergency comes becomes

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Speaker 1: let me go see what my wife really needs for me.

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Speaker 1: Your motivation becomes could become that day, let me go

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Speaker 1: down here and get these bills paid so I can

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Speaker 1: get this light turned on. So motivation to become successful

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Speaker 1: it wanes from time to time. The thing that can

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Speaker 1: never wane is your discipline. You must remain discipline to

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Speaker 1: stay the course. So even though young man, you don't

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Speaker 1: The discipline can never wane even if the motivation changes,

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Speaker 1: So the motivation changes. I got to go down here

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Speaker 1: When that is handled, the discipline causes you to either

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Speaker 1: before you go do that, to do the things that

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Speaker 1: you committed to do, or after you handle that, get

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Speaker 1: right back to doing the thing that you was committed

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Speaker 1: to do when you don't want to do it. All right,

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Speaker 1: all right. That's different from keep moving forward. It is

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00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: you've got to get discipline. And I work on that

633
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: all the time myself. And I'm older and I have

634
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: become successful, but I still have to remind myself to

635
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: be disciplined at all times or else even I can

636
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 1: go off track. That's all right, all right, de Juan

637
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: call her name Tricia. Steve says she loves Cedric the entertainer. Heyeia,

638
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:59,280
Speaker 1: I just want to get a shout out to your boy, said,

639
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,520
Speaker 1: said Seady said to the entertainer. He was by my

640
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: office the other day and he got off to take

641
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 1: a selfie with me because I couldn't do it. It's

642
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: by the carcase. It was too dark in there, and

643
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,879
Speaker 1: he was too dark for the seat. So he got

644
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: out of the car, took a seat belt off and

645
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: everything because he was read to go. But he still

646
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: did that for them. They gonna Trump was bag to

647
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: getting this practice fight, and he didn't care about that.

648
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 1: I just think he's a cool guy, and I got

649
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 1: pictures and video of him doing that. I just love,

650
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 1: Seady said to the entertainer. He's a good guy, and

651
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 1: I know you know it. Play job Seed Morning Show. Yeah,

652
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: the best guy know. But what you're not gonna do

653
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 1: is calling him and talk about how dog he because

654
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: it wasn't enough light in that car black leather and

655
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: then his dog ass was in there and you couldn't

656
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: see him because of the seats and the interior of

657
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: the car. That what you're not gonna do, boball So

658
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:00,040
Speaker 1: what do you get a lot of people got to

659
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: get out and get into light, light sky, and people

660
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: need light too. Yeah, not just gonna put this off.

661
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: Full said, thank you for calling, but you just hung

662
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: out with him and you guys had a blast. Yeah

663
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 1: all right, Trisha, Yeah, all right. Coming up next, we

664
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 1: have a prank phone call for it today. Right after this,

665
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

666
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

667
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is

668
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 1: get somewhere and sit down. How many times have I

669
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: heard that in my life? We'll figure out what that's

670
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 1: all about, I know, in just a few but right

671
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,959
Speaker 1: now Steve is in to bring us today's prank phone

672
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: call from the nephew. Can I paint your wife? Nick?

673
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:56,359
Speaker 1: That doesn't even sound right? Coming from you one more

674
00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: time though, Yeah, no way. I would say this, Hey man,

675
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:07,280
Speaker 1: can I paint your wife Nick? And then just prepare

676
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:19,399
Speaker 1: for this answer this man put on me bring a cat. Hello. Hello,

677
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: I wish to speak with a mister please, Hello, sir.

678
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: My name is Sebastian. I am with the Art Institute

679
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: and I wanted to give you a call about Um.

680
00:45:33,320 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: I have a huge showing coming up where I am

681
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: going to be displaying my portfolio and all of my

682
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 1: drawings within it. But I have one drawing that I

683
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: am looking to display that I have not put on

684
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:49,320
Speaker 1: canvas yet, and I'm looking to take something of essence

685
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: to put on canvas, and I wanted to call you

686
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: about getting permission. We wait, hold oner, dog, Just to

687
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 1: stop you right now. I don't do that, all right.

688
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm not a model. That's not my profession, So you

689
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: would not waste your time no more. You know what

690
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Just go ahead, mister. I don't think you

691
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 1: understand that my showing is gonna have some very important

692
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 1: people there. I am, like I said before, with Art Institute. Yeah,

693
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 1: I said, I don't do that. That's not me. I mean,

694
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:18,919
Speaker 1: I hate you know what would you just calling folks

695
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: up to you as solicitor or something. I mean, y'all

696
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: just randomly picking out folks and trying to trying to

697
00:46:23,120 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: get them the model. Look man, sir, mister, no, I'm

698
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: not just randomly calling people. I actually have done research

699
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: in order to get your number. What I'm doing is,

700
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm not calling you as far being a model that

701
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 1: I'm going to portray on canvas, but you have something

702
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: far more greater visually that I would like to hold

703
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:49,879
Speaker 1: on canvas. Now you're married to your wife? Is am

704
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: I correct? The whole whoa whoa whoa dud? No for

705
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: who is it? Seriously? Because I can get my number?

706
00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: How you get my number? Because you're talking about my

707
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: wife and stuff my me on my wife? My name

708
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 1: is Sebastian. I am with Art Institute. What I'm trying

709
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:09,320
Speaker 1: to do with capturing and mortalize the beauty of essence

710
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: on cana lize. Okay yo, for real, though, you just can't.

711
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: You don't talk about my wife all right, So I'm not.

712
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: I'm not calling in a negative manner towards your wife.

713
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: I want to I want to mortalize her and capture

714
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 1: her on canvas. The beauties that she beholds. I've seen

715
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: your wife several times, you guys reside, whoa, whoa, whoa,

716
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 1: you see my wife? But wait, what do you see

717
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: my wife at? Why are you? Why are you? Why

718
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 1: are you watching my wife? I've seen her. She she

719
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:39,919
Speaker 1: shops on one hundred and twenty fifth Street in Hallam.

720
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: I've seen her so many times there, and she holds

721
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 1: all the beauty that an artist would like to put

722
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: on Kansas. Like I said before, I have a huge

723
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 1: showing in May. You're welcome to come out as well.

724
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 1: There's going to be so many important people there. But

725
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,280
Speaker 1: I want to call and get permission from you about

726
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: painting your wife. No, you ain't got that permission. Play well,

727
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: you just can't. You just can't go around following my

728
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: wife and trying to mortalize or whatever. I just said,

729
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: all right, so so, but I would like to let

730
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: you know I have taken the liberty myself. I have

731
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: painted your wife's head. What, Joe, you have lost your

732
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,400
Speaker 1: damn mind. You can't be just walking around here Peyton

733
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 1: folks headed you gotta get permission for that. What's wrong

734
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 1: with you? But if you are crazy, you don't understand

735
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: your wife holds the essence that every artist wants. I

736
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: don't care what he holds. You can't be going around

737
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: Peyton folks heads wrong with you, sir. That's the reason

738
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 1: why I'm calling, trying to get permission from you. I

739
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: Sebastian want to put your wife on canvas because she

740
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 1: holds the essence that every artist wants to behold. She

741
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,919
Speaker 1: mortalized the beauty of Oh whoa hold of God? Hold

742
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:49,960
Speaker 1: of the hold of God? You're telling me you walking

743
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:55,759
Speaker 1: around pom Peyton, my wife's head? Is that? What are

744
00:48:55,800 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: you doing, dude? I'm only trying to complete my portfolio.

745
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: Oh no, your portfolio here? Listen it is if I

746
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: see my wife's head anywhere, I don't care. A new

747
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 1: type of magazine. I don't care where a bill or whatever. Yo,

748
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna find Joe. I'm gonna whoop. Yo. Do you

749
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying to you. I'm gonna suit. Do

750
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: you you understand that? Sure? I don't want to have

751
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 1: a duel with you, sir. A duel, here's a duel.

752
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: Who they due? What they do? In fact? What name?

753
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: It's a bashi? Who come name is? That's a bashiit, Sir,

754
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: all I want to do is paint your wife in

755
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 1: her rawoust and purest foe that there's law and purist

756
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: for me. What do you want? Seriously, I want to

757
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: paint your wife. I want to paint her in the nude.

758
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: How do you want so? Now he's run. That's what

759
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 1: you should do. Tell me where you as you want

760
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: to paint something, I'll give you something to paint. Tell

761
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 1: me where you at? What twenty fifth? Meet me one

762
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: twenty fifth? That's what's up? I want to whoop you'r

763
00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: read me? Meet me, paint me, paint me? You want

764
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 1: your mind telling about? You want to paint my wife

765
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: in a new It's gonna take them brush. She's a

766
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 1: stick them up your MISSI. She los the essence that

767
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: every person should. I'll give up. What's she hold asked?

768
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:24,399
Speaker 1: I don't give a man to ask me some like that, Sir,

769
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: I must ask you. Do you think that you are

770
00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: the only person that has seen your wife in the

771
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 1: new ula that has been men before you to have

772
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: seen her in the name that for you and my

773
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,400
Speaker 1: wife ain't no more? You call my wife up? Is

774
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: that what you're saying? Are you calling my wife before you.

775
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 1: I want to paint my wife and the beauty that

776
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 1: she bought and on cannabis. Did you not understand? I

777
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 1: just said, you know, I told you meet me on

778
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 1: the corner of one twenty fifth and claim power. I

779
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 1: got one more thing I do want to say, wife

780
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 1: the same, said him from the Steve arm In Morning Show.

781
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 1: You just got paint my your boy. What what this is?

782
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: This is nephew, This nephew timing from the Steve Harmy

783
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: Martin Joe Oh oh oh man, y'all man, y'all yeah,

784
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: I was moving fashion man, dude, I mean you got

785
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:33,479
Speaker 1: me yab oh man, y'all got it was Sebastian. Yeah, dude,

786
00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 1: let you get some bashard. Brother. I was about to

787
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 1: move for y'all. Answer bashard. I was paintbrushes and I

788
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:48,920
Speaker 1: always about the paint autumn with y'all. He told me, man,

789
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 1: he said, man, he said he loved his wife. I said,

790
00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 1: let me let me say this right now, loves you.

791
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: Let me get one more thing from you. Man. What

792
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:07,359
Speaker 1: is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show

793
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: in the land. Yeah, man, it's Steve Harvey in the

794
00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Baby, the duel with you? Right? Who says that?

795
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 1: Who the hell a duel? Matter of fact, who the

796
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 1: hell names bad? Rob was working through just the sense

797
00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 1: that this was duel, a duel Game of Thrones type,

798
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:41,399
Speaker 1: beat your ass? Just ain't I got your duel? Right?

799
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: Maybe I'll do it twice. Wow, that was crazy. He's

800
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: always always into something like franking folks, frank the wh

801
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,439
Speaker 1: Just I don't know how he comes up with the stuff, Yeah,

802
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 1: he said, just in his head. Just he thinks of

803
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:11,280
Speaker 1: it in his head. A lot of stuff small here, Okay,

804
00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: so crowded though, because his head is so small. Yeah,

805
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:23,480
Speaker 1: it's crowded in there to hit the small brains, all right.

806
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the Strawberry Letter for today

807
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: and the subject is get somewhere and sit down. We'll

808
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: get into that right after this. You're listening to the

809
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 1: Steven Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

810
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,880
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: FM dot com. Yeah right, us. We're gonna try to

813
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Speaker 1: help you. We love to help you. All you have

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Speaker 1: to do is click submit Strawberry Letter we could be

815
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:57,239
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

816
00:53:57,280 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, right that's right, buckalong,

817
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: hold on tight, it's the Strawberry Ladder. Go Shirley, A

818
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 1: little extra. That was like coming in hot. Okay, right right,

819
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: thanks Carla. Subject get somewhere and sit down, Okay, Dear

820
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm a sixty year old single mother. My

821
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: son is thirty two, and he has been a single

822
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,879
Speaker 1: father since his first wife passed away four years ago.

823
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 1: My granddaughter is fourteen years old, and she's with me

824
00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:33,360
Speaker 1: during the week and she goes back to her dad's

825
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:36,760
Speaker 1: house on the weekend. My son has started back dating

826
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: and he wants to be married again. He says he

827
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 1: doesn't function well as a single man. I have nothing

828
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: to do with his love life, but I have everything

829
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: to do with how his daughter is raised, and I

830
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,439
Speaker 1: don't think he should be introducing her to all kinds

831
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 1: of women while she's still in the grieving process. This

832
00:54:55,440 --> 00:55:00,359
Speaker 1: new girl he's dating is very simplistic and materialistic. She's

833
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 1: got her own money, so she's not asking for anything

834
00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: from my son. But it's the way she carries herself

835
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 1: that is on my nerves. She and I don't see

836
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,759
Speaker 1: eye to eye on a lot of things. She has

837
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 1: a sixteen year old daughter that she leaves alone overnight

838
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: to go play house with our sons. Her daughter has

839
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 1: a brand new car and she lets her run wild

840
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:23,960
Speaker 1: with her friends all over town. The only time my

841
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 1: granddaughter has quality time with her with her dad is

842
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,720
Speaker 1: on the weekend. And this new woman is always around

843
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: and in the way. My granddaughter sees through her and

844
00:55:34,160 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 1: gets irritated when this woman plays rap music and knows

845
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,760
Speaker 1: all the lyrics. She feels like the woman is trying

846
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:43,919
Speaker 1: too hard. She's visited at my house with my son

847
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:46,720
Speaker 1: and runs around waiting on my son hand and foot,

848
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 1: and I had to tell her to get somewhere and

849
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: sit down. I have never seen a woman try so hard,

850
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: and her intentions may be good, but she has to

851
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,520
Speaker 1: fall back a bit. I think my son is falling

852
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: for her representative and not the real woman. How can

853
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:07,359
Speaker 1: I get him to pump the brakes. Okay, grandmother, your

854
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: intentions might be right, but you need to fall back

855
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: a little bit. I mean, I agree your son doesn't

856
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 1: need to introduce her daughter or his daughter. I should

857
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: say to a lot of random women. Because grief is

858
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,879
Speaker 1: a process and it takes time. And although it has

859
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: been four years, grief is different for everyone. And your granddaughter.

860
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: His daughter is only fourteen, so that means her mother

861
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 1: passed when she was just ten years old. So let

862
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: her have a moment. Okay, she's obviously still working through

863
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,399
Speaker 1: some things in her young life. Now, your son wants

864
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 1: to remarry, you said, but he's got to make sure

865
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: his daughter is good and he has to make sure

866
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 1: this woman is a good fit for their family. His

867
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:54,280
Speaker 1: daughter needs him, Yes, she has you, grandmother, thank god,

868
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,320
Speaker 1: But daddy has to learn how to divide his time

869
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:00,439
Speaker 1: and make his time count and make quality any time

870
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:03,800
Speaker 1: between his new girlfriend and his daughter, who again is

871
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:07,800
Speaker 1: only fourteen. Is this new woman even trying to connect

872
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 1: with the daughter? Is she doing that? Is she ready

873
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 1: to take on the role of stepmon mom or is

874
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 1: she just concentrating on being with the dad. It doesn't

875
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:19,120
Speaker 1: sound like she is according to your letter. It sounds

876
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: like according to you, she's only interested in your son

877
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 1: and not his daughter. But again, all you can do

878
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 1: is talk to your son. You can try to reason

879
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: with him and make suggestions on how he should handle this.

880
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: Very delicate situation. You can't go in too hard against

881
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 1: this woman because your son does like her and he's

882
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: considering marriage. He wants to remarry, and it sounds like

883
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: it she might be the one. So he needs your

884
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 1: non emotional voice of reason right now. That might make

885
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: a difference in the woman he chooses to be with.

886
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:57,880
Speaker 1: And if it's her, you know, just be reasonable talk

887
00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 1: to him. Don't be all emotional talking about the woman

888
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: and all that, because again he likes her. Steve, well,

889
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 1: get somewhere and sit down. This is a letter about

890
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: a mother that doesn't like the choice of women her son.

891
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:17,760
Speaker 1: It's made. That's all this letter is about. Now it's

892
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,919
Speaker 1: masked with a lot of other stuff, and I will

893
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 1: point this out to you as we go along. First

894
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: of all, I'm a sixty year old single mother. What

895
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: I didn't know that was a turn. I thought that

896
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: when your son is thirty two and you sixty. But

897
00:58:39,640 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 1: I think you can stop saying that at one point.

898
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 1: It's like when the baby is thirty eight months old.

899
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: Come on, now, we need some years. We got we

900
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 1: got to quit doing moss now, you know, we gotta

901
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 1: stop doing you know, you know I'm seven weeks pregnant.

902
00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: That's good. At one point you got to be seven moms,

903
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,480
Speaker 1: you know, we just it's just a conversion. So I'm

904
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:08,080
Speaker 1: confused with that. I'm a sixty year old single mother.

905
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 1: Refer to yourself as a single mother, meaning that you

906
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,440
Speaker 1: have to raise a child on your own. That's what

907
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: being a single parent a mother represents to me. It's

908
00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: just maya pick. She may be single and a mother.

909
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: That's cool, But don't use that because the boy thirty two,

910
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, even be stuck on that, like you

911
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 1: gotta take his ass to soccer practice. You got to

912
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 1: come up with field trip money. You're just struggling with it.

913
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: So what should she have said? Just a sixty year

914
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: old single woman. My son is thirty two, that's all.

915
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 1: Don't try to draw us in with that. I'm a

916
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 1: sixty year old single mother to draw like all while,

917
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: how long she's been doing that? All right, here we go.

918
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 1: She said that we'll have person You'll see what I'm

919
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 1: saying in we'll have first two of Steve's response because

920
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: he's just stuck on the first line on the strawberry letter.

921
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 1: Can't get off of it. It's gonna tail tail the

922
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 1: rest of the letter. All right, we'll have firt two

923
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 1: of your response coming up Steve at twenty three minutes

924
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's title is one that's close to

925
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,919
Speaker 1: my heart of the Strawberry letter, Get somewhere and sit down.

926
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it with Steve's response right after this.

927
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Come on, Steve,

928
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject get somewhere and

929
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: sit down. Well, this sixty year old single mother. That

930
01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: didn't have to mention that to us, because when you're

931
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 1: single mother, I'm thinking of you're raising children on your own.

932
01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: Her boy is thirty two, so that's the term I

933
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: disagree with. My son is thirty two and he's been

934
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 1: a single father. This his first wife passed away four

935
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: years ago. Very important. My granddaughter is fourteen and she's

936
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 1: with me during the week and she goes back to

937
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 1: her dad's house on the weekend. My son has started

938
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:11,000
Speaker 1: back dating and he wants to be married again. He

939
01:01:11,080 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 1: says he doesn't function well as a single man. I

940
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 1: have nothing to do with his love life. This is

941
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: not true, because you do. I have nothing to do

942
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: with his love life. But the rest of his letter

943
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: is all about his love life. But I have everything

944
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:27,920
Speaker 1: to do with how his daughter is raised, and I

945
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: don't think he should be introducing her to all kinds

946
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 1: of women while she's still in the grieving process. Now,

947
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: I understand that statement that this woman is making, and

948
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:42,400
Speaker 1: I understand that the little girl is still dealing with

949
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:45,200
Speaker 1: it even after four years, because it's something you almost

950
01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: never get over. I understand that. But this man has

951
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 1: been grieving for four years too, but he's ready to

952
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 1: move forward. He should be allowed to date. Now, you

953
01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:00,480
Speaker 1: made a statement that I don't think he should be

954
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 1: introducing her to all kinds of women while she's still

955
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 1: in the grieving process. But that ain't what this letter

956
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: is about. You immediately go This new girl he's dating

957
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: is very simplistic and materialistic. Excuse me, make up your mind, Mama.

958
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: She's either simplistic or materialistic. Simplistic means very simple things essential,

959
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:32,920
Speaker 1: very doesn't care about extra. Materialistic is the direct opposite.

960
01:02:33,160 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: So I'm not really sure you even know what you're

961
01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 1: talking about. She's got her own money, okay, so she's

962
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 1: not asking for anything for my son. So what you're

963
01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 1: saying is. This woman brings plenty to the table outside

964
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: of being what could be a very good woman. But

965
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: it's the way she carries herself that gets on my nerves.

966
01:02:55,400 --> 01:03:00,200
Speaker 1: He just said in the letter that you don't You

967
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: don't want to get into your son's love life. It's

968
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 1: none of your business. Just raising the daughter is. But

969
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: now I don't like the way the way she carries

970
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: herself gets on my nerves. She and I don't see

971
01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 1: eye to eye on a lot of things. She has

972
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 1: a sixteen year old daughter that she leaves alone overnight

973
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 1: to go play house with my son. Sixteen year olds

974
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: can stay home by this self, sixteen year olds can

975
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 1: stay home. Technology now makes it where sixteen year old

976
01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: can stay home by this sel. I didn't. We didn't

977
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 1: have to. Hell yeah, I had to stay home and

978
01:03:31,800 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: be not And I'll tell you what he was the

979
01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 1: rule when I get back to this house, better be

980
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: just like I left him. Right. Her daughter has a

981
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: brand new car and she lets her run wide with

982
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 1: her friends all over town. Does she really or does

983
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 1: the girl just have a brand new car and con

984
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: drive to visit her nothing? Girl ain't no reputation or none?

985
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 1: You letting her run that's not the only time my

986
01:04:01,840 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 1: granddaughter has quality time with her dad is on the weekends,

987
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 1: and this new woman is always around and in the way.

988
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 1: Excuse me, but this man's every weekend can't be for

989
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 1: his daughter. I'm sorry, that's not y'all can say that

990
01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:20,480
Speaker 1: if you want to, but don't nobody do that. The

991
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: girl is fourteen, She probably has friends, has a life

992
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 1: on her own FaceTime, probably got a phone. All this hill,

993
01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 1: I got news for you. Once they reached that teenage years,

994
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 1: they don't really want to be sitting around your ass

995
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:37,920
Speaker 1: that much. They really don't. So they're busy. Yes, they

996
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:41,120
Speaker 1: have their own friends, and the new woman is always

997
01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:43,680
Speaker 1: around and in the way. My granddaughter sees through her

998
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 1: and gets irritated when this woman plays rap music and

999
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: knows all the lyrics. Well, you can't know the lyrics

1000
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 1: unless you know the lyrics. You know. They in their thirties,

1001
01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 1: that's all. She grew up on hip hop. Yeah, she

1002
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 1: feels like the woman is trying too hard. Yeah, it's

1003
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 1: called effort. She's visited at my house with my sons

1004
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 1: and runs around waiting on my son hand and foot,

1005
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,080
Speaker 1: and I had to tell her to go somewhere and

1006
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 1: sit down. Okay, So now the woman caters to your son.

1007
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:19,160
Speaker 1: You don't like that. She got her own money, you

1008
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: don't like that. Okay, she's simplistic, you don't like that.

1009
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 1: And she materialistic, you don't like that. And now she

1010
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: come over to your house running around waiting on your son,

1011
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 1: and you don't like that. I have never seen a

1012
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:39,360
Speaker 1: woman try so hard, and her intentions may be good.

1013
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: I think her intentions are just fine. And if you

1014
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: don't want her to try hard, what you want her

1015
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: to do, but she has to fall back a bit.

1016
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:50,919
Speaker 1: And I think my son is falling for her representative

1017
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 1: and not the real woman. Well, time will tell, because

1018
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: the representative can't stay forever. How can I get him

1019
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: to pump the brakes. Well, let's start with you need

1020
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: to pump debreak. Yeah, that's what I said. Your son

1021
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:11,640
Speaker 1: wants to be married, let him figure it out. Every weekend, Kate,

1022
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:14,919
Speaker 1: be for the kids. Her sixteen year old can stay

1023
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: home alone. And you're wrong because you don't even really

1024
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 1: know this woman. And that's why your ass is a

1025
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 1: sixty year old single mother. That's exactly why your ass

1026
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:32,160
Speaker 1: is a sixty year old single Mama Poster comments and

1027
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 1: Steve on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on

1028
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:39,640
Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

1029
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,520
Speaker 1: on demand now coming up at forty six minutes after

1030
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:45,240
Speaker 1: the hour. A young college man on Facebook said his

1031
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: parents are upset that he and his girlfriend are having

1032
01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: sex and he needs advice from you, Steve about an

1033
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 1: upcoming trip. We'll talk about it right after this. Okay,

1034
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:58,720
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, the Emmy

1035
01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: Awards were last night, Steve. It was hosted by your

1036
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 1: good friend Keenan Thompson did a great job. He even

1037
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:09,640
Speaker 1: reunited with his old buddy kel who played a drunk

1038
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:13,040
Speaker 1: at the bar that they had on set. So Keenan

1039
01:07:13,120 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 1: and Cal reunited. We have to say congratulations to Zendaea

1040
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:22,880
Speaker 1: who won for Euphoria, Quinta Bronson who won for Abbot Elementary,

1041
01:07:23,040 --> 01:07:26,840
Speaker 1: and Cheryl Lee Ralph. Yes, this show is so great.

1042
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,640
Speaker 1: It's just greatness that show. Cheryl Lee Ralph, who's been

1043
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 1: in the business for quite some time. We love her.

1044
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: She's a friend of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Cheryl

1045
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 1: Lee Ralph also won for Abbot Elementary for her role

1046
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 1: in that show, and she gave one of the greatest

1047
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:47,960
Speaker 1: acceptance speeches ever. Take a listen to anyone who has

1048
01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 1: ever ever had a dream and thought your dream wasn't, wouldn't,

1049
01:07:55,600 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: couldn't come true. I am here to tell you that

1050
01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: this is what believing looks like, this is what striving

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01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 1: looks like. And don't you ever ever give up on you?

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01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 1: Oh am an in danger species, but I see no

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01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:32,640
Speaker 1: victim song. I am a womana. I am antist, and

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01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 1: I'm not where suck belwe yes thing and Cheryldlee, Ralph, congratulations, congret,

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01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:02,280
Speaker 1: so deserving, so deserving. It looked Yeah, it just looked

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01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 1: like a good time was had by all. We want

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01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,920
Speaker 1: to say congratulations to all the nominees and to all

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01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 1: the winners. Steve, it was Yeah. From now when Cheryl

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01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: Lee Ralph, oh, it's up for nomination for any awards,

1060
01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:18,439
Speaker 1: they're gonna make her category last. Why do you say that?

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01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody fit to follow all that? So you know,

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01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,760
Speaker 1: the next the next person that got the award it

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01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: was up there, just go hey, I just want to

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01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 1: say thanks to everybody. It's great, you know, you know,

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01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 1: you know I wanted to do what Cheryl did, but

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01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:37,320
Speaker 1: I can't. You don't even know who I am at

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01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: this point. Thank you guys. New York Cashion Week is back,

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01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 1: Yes it is. We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations Cheryl Lee. Yeah, you're listening to show, all right.

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01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:04,520
Speaker 1: So New York Fashion Week is back. According to Vogue magazine,

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01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 1: there is a schedule of over one hundred brands that

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01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:12,400
Speaker 1: will have traditional runways, appointment only viewings, immersive experiences, and

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01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 1: enough dinners to almost make up for two pandemic years

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01:10:16,080 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 1: of barely going out. There will be street bears from Valenciaga, Gucci, Dior,

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01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:25,800
Speaker 1: and Valentino Fende who we saw Lori sport and over

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01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 1: that she was rocking from Fendy looking good. Findy is

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01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: celebrating his twenty fifth anniversary of the iconic Fendi baguette

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01:10:33,880 --> 01:10:37,560
Speaker 1: bag that everyone wanted after watching episodes of Sex in

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01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:41,880
Speaker 1: the City. Remember that? Yeah? Yeah, And Laurie, your daughter

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01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 1: Steve looked beautiful in her Fendy and everything she wore

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01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 1: for fashion week. Actually that was crazy, because I mean

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01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: lunch with Lorie in New York because I had to

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01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 1: go up there Sunday for a meeting, so on Sunday,

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01:10:56,600 --> 01:11:03,280
Speaker 1: I had lunch with Lorie. Okay, that Findy outfits she

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01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 1: wore was actually done by Ellie. It's actually a coat.

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01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 1: It's one coat. She pulled it off her shoulders, folded

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01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:18,400
Speaker 1: it and cinched it and made it look like a

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01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:21,880
Speaker 1: dress under it and a coat on top of it.

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01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: Actually just one piece and Findy. She didn't want to

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01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 1: dress her at first after this, and they gave us

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01:11:34,320 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 1: stuff she didn't want to wear. After Ellie straighten it out,

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01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:41,599
Speaker 1: she became the most photographed person for Findy that night.

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01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 1: They're gonna treat her a little bit different. Okay, recognized,

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01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:52,599
Speaker 1: recognize they should. Yeah. Sports athletic brand Puma will feature

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01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:57,440
Speaker 1: men's and women's collections with remixed retro signatures and collaborations

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01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:01,360
Speaker 1: from the likes of Dapper Dan and created designer June Ambrose.

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01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,800
Speaker 1: So um, Steve, what did you and your side? What

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01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:06,560
Speaker 1: do you all have going on? I mean, what you

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01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 1: guys do? You said you went to dinner with Laurie.

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01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:10,600
Speaker 1: What else did you do for fashion week? Now? I

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01:12:10,640 --> 01:12:12,400
Speaker 1: ain't go up there for fashion week. I went up

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01:12:12,439 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 1: there for business. Oh yeah, all this fashion icon stuff.

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01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:21,400
Speaker 1: That thing pretty much fleeting for me. But you always

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01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 1: dressed the part though. Yeah, yeah, I dressed myself. You know,

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01:12:25,200 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 1: Ellie was up there with Lord. I know how to

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01:12:26,920 --> 01:12:28,360
Speaker 1: dress myself. Don't why I try to tell it a

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01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 1: little skinny ass, Hey, Broy, I'm putting on clothes for

1108
01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 1: you with bone dog. I know how to go in

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01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 1: my closet and put stuff together. So you know, I

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01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 1: just went up there for business meeting. Man's very well

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01:12:41,240 --> 01:12:43,840
Speaker 1: received meeting I went to. I wasn't up there for

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01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,600
Speaker 1: fashion week at all. I just went up there for me.

1113
01:12:46,760 --> 01:12:51,120
Speaker 1: But it looked like you were yeah, you're yeah, No,

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01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:54,000
Speaker 1: I had on let me tell you now. I had

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01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:58,040
Speaker 1: on just a track suit with a black T shirt

1116
01:12:58,479 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 1: or white track suit with a black T shirt. I

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01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:04,920
Speaker 1: had on the Findy bucket hat, but I had on

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01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 1: Findy sneakers that I had bought and only old war

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01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 1: once and then I just put them all together. Eli pressed,

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01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:18,639
Speaker 1: but I was, you know, Alie talking. Oh, mister Harvey,

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01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 1: you put it together so nice. I want made a

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01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:26,639
Speaker 1: fair squench on my face up like a little stupid.

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01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:32,120
Speaker 1: I really think I just started dressing when I met

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01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:39,840
Speaker 1: Yosslie does senses Oh no, no, no, no, no no no,

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01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 1: this boy is over the top off the chain. He's super,

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01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:45,679
Speaker 1: super talent. He's gonna be one of the great fashion

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01:13:45,760 --> 01:13:50,360
Speaker 1: people in the world. Yeah, he will be one of

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01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 1: the next fashion greats in the world. Yeah, I mean

1129
01:13:54,400 --> 01:13:56,840
Speaker 1: one day he will be. I'm not saying he's next,

1130
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 1: but I predicted that he will be a Virgil before

1131
01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:07,639
Speaker 1: us openly. Oh wow, Ses, he does everything. This dude.

1132
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 1: He just needs more experience with everything. But this dude

1133
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 1: right here, when it comes to understanding it, he's immersed

1134
01:14:14,120 --> 01:14:18,640
Speaker 1: in it. He's very committing. Yeah, very talented, Yeah, very stylish,

1135
01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 1: very knowledgeable, yeah, all of that. Yeah. But and he

1136
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 1: he dressed your girl. He addressed our girl, Laurie. I

1137
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: feel like she's one of our little babies on the

1138
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 1: show too, because we've seen her grow up and become

1139
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:35,000
Speaker 1: this fashion icon that she is now. So congratulations. We'll

1140
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:37,840
Speaker 1: have more of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey

1141
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:40,240
Speaker 1: Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour.

1142
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So,

1143
01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 1: even though the economy is unpredictable and supply chain issues

1144
01:14:51,439 --> 01:14:57,160
Speaker 1: are still affecting consumers, luxury car sales, Steve are booming.

1145
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:03,720
Speaker 1: It seems rich Americans are justesing record numbers of Tesla's, Bentley's, Ferrari's,

1146
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 1: and Lamborghini's, among other luxury car brands. So here's the question, Steven.

1147
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: This is kind of a crazy question, but we're gonna

1148
01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 1: ask you anyway, if money was no object, what car

1149
01:15:16,760 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 1: or truck would you purchase? What's your dream car? I

1150
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 1: mean dream car. The only card is missing that I've

1151
01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:28,720
Speaker 1: got to get is a nineteen fifty seven Chevy bel

1152
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 1: Air convertible. Oh that has to happen now that No,

1153
01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 1: I got a forty Cadillac. I had a forty two

1154
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:41,439
Speaker 1: that I took it to the shop and the dude

1155
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 1: disappeared with it. What. Oh, that happened out in La

1156
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:48,759
Speaker 1: I took a t shop trying to support this brother

1157
01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:53,960
Speaker 1: disappeared with the shop to car everything. Never saw anyone. Wow. Wow.

1158
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 1: So what's so special about the car that you want?

1159
01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: The bel Air Convertible? Because I was born in nineteen

1160
01:16:00,720 --> 01:16:05,080
Speaker 1: fifty seven and it's one of my favorite old cars.

1161
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 1: The way it looks, it's just a big bad thing.

1162
01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get one. Though I wanted to be beautiful.

1163
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it. Already made. I fixed up my Cadillac.

1164
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:14,720
Speaker 1: I don't want to fix I want to buy it

1165
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 1: already made. And I don't want no man queels. I

1166
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:24,560
Speaker 1: don't want no hot rod ass car. Coming up in

1167
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play around if

1168
01:16:27,040 --> 01:16:30,560
Speaker 1: would you rather? Right after this? You're listening to the

1169
01:16:30,720 --> 01:16:34,000
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Here we are, it is time

1170
01:16:34,080 --> 01:16:37,200
Speaker 1: for would you rather? All right, so think back to

1171
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:40,479
Speaker 1: your school day, Steve. Now, would you rather get the

1172
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:45,439
Speaker 1: worst grades in an honors class? Okay? Or would you

1173
01:16:45,560 --> 01:16:49,559
Speaker 1: rather get the best grades in a remedial class. Oh,

1174
01:16:49,880 --> 01:16:53,280
Speaker 1: I've had the best grades in remediate. One of the

1175
01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:57,920
Speaker 1: highlights of my elementary school period, I was accidentally put

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01:16:58,000 --> 01:17:01,759
Speaker 1: into remedial class for a week straight. Eighte greatest school

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01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 1: experience I've ever had. Is there anything you haven't done? No?

1178
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:07,960
Speaker 1: I was in the reminial class. They didn't play good

1179
01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:10,960
Speaker 1: at recess. I was a little upset about recess with

1180
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 1: the kids. But oh, they didn't play good. You know,

1181
01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:18,400
Speaker 1: why were you accidentally? I don't know that they had

1182
01:17:18,479 --> 01:17:20,720
Speaker 1: just missed read a test or something. They put me

1183
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:24,000
Speaker 1: in a remedial class and it was an outstanding I

1184
01:17:24,200 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 1: was I was in the fourth grade, and it was

1185
01:17:27,160 --> 01:17:31,040
Speaker 1: just wonderful. Anybody know what two plus two fold? Just

1186
01:17:31,280 --> 01:17:36,280
Speaker 1: killing it? Six eight? I knew all that was going,

1187
01:17:36,360 --> 01:17:39,560
Speaker 1: this is great all I was getting aged thing. And

1188
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:41,679
Speaker 1: then teacher took me down to the Prinspal's office ship.

1189
01:17:42,080 --> 01:17:44,599
Speaker 1: I think we've made a mistake. This ship should again

1190
01:17:46,320 --> 01:17:49,160
Speaker 1: a remedial class. And I was looking upside of head

1191
01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 1: like yes I should. She was ahead from me. Man

1192
01:17:56,120 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 1: put me back in that record class. I went on

1193
01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:01,439
Speaker 1: back of getting them d So I've already had that

1194
01:18:01,600 --> 01:18:05,479
Speaker 1: experience right there. All right, you got these nude pictures?

1195
01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 1: They were leaked? Okay, so would you rather them? Uh,

1196
01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:12,879
Speaker 1: your nude pictures be leaked to everyone at work? Everyone

1197
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:17,599
Speaker 1: at work, or everyone at your family reunion. I need

1198
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 1: y'all to see this at Yeah, I need you. I

1199
01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:24,240
Speaker 1: need y'all to see who your boss really is. YA

1200
01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:29,439
Speaker 1: need y'all have a whole new respect level overhead, y'all

1201
01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: going Monica covering her eyes? We can't, Oh, I see

1202
01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:44,840
Speaker 1: not he Steve hard Ye, Yeah, speak to me different

1203
01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:54,439
Speaker 1: in the morning, okay, King of comedy on All right, Steve,

1204
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:57,479
Speaker 1: would you rather get a small tattoo on your face?

1205
01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:01,479
Speaker 1: Have a wall tattoo on a small tattoo on your face?

1206
01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:05,120
Speaker 1: Would you rather a tattoo that covers your entire but

1207
01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:14,720
Speaker 1: which Now I'm gonna get that ass tattoo. That's my

1208
01:19:14,800 --> 01:19:18,080
Speaker 1: whole ass tattoo. I'm gonna just make it like a

1209
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 1: like put it in a honeycomb patty. All right, that's

1210
01:19:24,439 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 1: a little captured at the bottom of a sweet meat.

1211
01:19:28,720 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 1: That's today's round pat and tattooed on my ass. Look

1212
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 1: walk here right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show.

1213
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:44,200
Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

1214
01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:48,240
Speaker 1: the day on this Tuesday. It's been a good day.

1215
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:53,920
Speaker 1: Fun day went by rather quickly. Huh yeah, yeah, September, Yes,

1216
01:19:54,000 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 1: it is right. Man, Hey, what's today September? Uh? Huh oh,

1217
01:20:02,120 --> 01:20:06,559
Speaker 1: but I gotta call my boy, hey man, September thirteenth.

1218
01:20:07,040 --> 01:20:11,080
Speaker 1: Happy birthday to Ricardo Prue. See all of us that

1219
01:20:11,200 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 1: grew up on one hundred and twelve, we know we

1220
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:21,599
Speaker 1: know each other's birthday. Manny Calhoun is uh February fourth, Uh,

1221
01:20:22,360 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 1: butch is February first, a lens d Summer twenty one.

1222
01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:34,720
Speaker 1: Jeff Golds January thirteenth, and uh and uh did I

1223
01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 1: say al Alnes Dcmmer twenty one and I'm the seventeenth,

1224
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:40,960
Speaker 1: and all of us know each other's birthdays because we've

1225
01:20:40,960 --> 01:20:46,960
Speaker 1: been friends now for sixty one years. Wow. So today

1226
01:20:47,160 --> 01:20:51,080
Speaker 1: is Ricardo Prue's birthday up in Cleveland, Ohio, one of

1227
01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:55,960
Speaker 1: the top all state agents up there. My dog. We

1228
01:20:56,120 --> 01:21:00,320
Speaker 1: grew up together. We went to elementary school together, junior

1229
01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:03,880
Speaker 1: high together, we went to high school together. We was

1230
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:08,920
Speaker 1: roommates in college together. I helped him in his pledged program,

1231
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 1: then I pledged under him. Big ass mistake. We are

1232
01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:17,519
Speaker 1: both frat brothers. Almighty old maker sci Fi, one of

1233
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 1: the great cues, ladies and gentlemen. If you see him today,

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01:21:22,040 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 1: call him and tell him that is hominge or sixty

1235
01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 1: one years. This go deeper than the frat. Now, me

1236
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:33,600
Speaker 1: and Ricardo Prude were deeper than Omega sci Fi. We

1237
01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:38,520
Speaker 1: knew each other before that was any idea that Omega existed.

1238
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:43,719
Speaker 1: So our love and friendship was formed before the greatest

1239
01:21:43,760 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 1: frat brought into our life. The true meaning a friendship

1240
01:21:49,640 --> 01:21:53,719
Speaker 1: is essential to the soul. Happy birthday, Ricardo Prude, sixty

1241
01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 1: six years old today, my dog, your boy wonder love

1242
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 1: a maiden man, appreciate the love and support. Huh yeah,

1243
01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:09,720
Speaker 1: that's nice. That's real nice. Yeah, it's that's that's some

1244
01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:12,479
Speaker 1: amazing stuff. Man, them cats. I grew up with Man

1245
01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:16,720
Speaker 1: the Comboys, This loyalty, loyal man. We've been friends a

1246
01:22:16,760 --> 01:22:19,280
Speaker 1: long time. One hundred twelve Street Crew, the one hundred

1247
01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:22,000
Speaker 1: twelve Street Board and these are my clothing remarks. I

1248
01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:26,639
Speaker 1: was talking with my trainer and we both sat down.

1249
01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 1: We had a long conversation and its kind of ties

1250
01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:33,120
Speaker 1: back to the question that one of the callers called

1251
01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:35,280
Speaker 1: in today, and I just wanted to take some time

1252
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:41,080
Speaker 1: to reiterate two of the things that are required for

1253
01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:45,560
Speaker 1: just two. There are several things that you need to

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Speaker 1: be successful. But people talk about motivation. What is your motivation?

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Speaker 1: I want you to understand something about motivation because people say, well,

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Speaker 1: you should stick to the has because you got to

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Speaker 1: focus on your motivation. So they expect you to come

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Speaker 1: to the gym every day and be motivated to be there.

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Speaker 1: But what a person has to understand is your motivation changes.

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Speaker 1: You can wake up one morning and be so motivated

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Speaker 1: to go to the gym, but then this thing occurs

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Speaker 1: called light a love. One needs you an emergency happens.

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Speaker 1: You wake up and there's something that's prominent in your

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Speaker 1: life that has to be dealt with. Well, guess what

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Speaker 1: happens to that motivation. The motivation shifts. It shifts to

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Speaker 1: that more immediate problem. I got you on to work out,

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Speaker 1: and I got your motivation is to look good for

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Speaker 1: your health and to stay strong and get healthy and

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Speaker 1: live longer and look better. But right now, there's an

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Speaker 1: emergency that has happened in your life and you gotta

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Speaker 1: put that workout to the side to deal with this

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Speaker 1: new motivation. The new motivation is to solve this problem

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Speaker 1: that's in front of you. So as motivated as you

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Speaker 1: want to choose to be about working out or losing

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Speaker 1: weight or becoming successful, when life happens, your motivation oftentimes

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Speaker 1: has to shift to address something that's happening in your life.

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Speaker 1: That's the reality of the world. When new kids need you, man,

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Speaker 1: your motivation has to shift. When your spouse or loved

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Speaker 1: one needs you. Your motivation has to shift. When the

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Speaker 1: house on fire, your motivation has to shift. When you

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Speaker 1: get the call that somebody you care about was in

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Speaker 1: a cart, your motivation has to shift. So Steve, what

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Speaker 1: happens when your motivation shift kid square. One of the

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Speaker 1: most important things about becoming successful in weight loss, career, money, climbing,

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Speaker 1: the corporate letter, going to school, getting your education. The

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Speaker 1: one thing that cannot waiver is your discipline. You have

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Speaker 1: to remain discipline to the goal you have to do.

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Speaker 1: The true definition of discipline for me is doing what

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Speaker 1: you have to do even when you don't want to.

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Speaker 1: So after you address the more immediate motivation, you must

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Speaker 1: now find a way to still accomplish the goal. The

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Speaker 1: discipline of wanting to see it through and accomplish the

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Speaker 1: goal is so critical. You must remain discipline through all

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Speaker 1: the hardship, all the shifts in motivation, all the emergencies. Discipline.

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Speaker 1: You have to do what you have to do even

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Speaker 1: when you don't want to remain discipline through it all.

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks. Happy birthday, Ricardo proved my

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Speaker 1: dog SACI fire always. Hey, y'all talk to God today.

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