1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: with i R Radio. We're back, Yes we are, Ashley. Well, 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: what's good girl? Hey guys. Um, So, last week, you know, 4 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: we talked all about Claire and Tasia and what the 5 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 1: heck is going on in Palm Springs. I mean, you 6 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: guys obviously know that Ben and I are kind of 7 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: we kind of know what's going on because there are 8 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: some pictures of me that leaked, Okay, so I mean 9 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: I can't hide it from you guys. But I also 10 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: have to say that I don't think it's my place 11 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: to speak on what's going on down there until the 12 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: Bachelor ABC Warner discusses for themselves, because there has been 13 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: no confirmation from the Bachelor camp. Well, and I mean Ashley, 14 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, but we don't want to just 15 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: like spoil the whole season on this podcast, Like there 16 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: are some things that we we have to hold back 17 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: and less um, you know, they're going to be made public, 18 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: which obviously, this whole thing going on in Palm Springs 19 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: has been pretty public. It's been it's been pretty talked about. 20 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: What are you exactly talking about, Like, did you feel 21 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: like you didn't share enough or you shouldn't. Okay, So 22 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: there there is Obviously now people are like, oh, actual 23 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: was lying. She like it knows what's going on, right, 24 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 1: So I don't want people think that I'm lying, but 25 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 1: like I'm also I'm not at a will to be 26 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 1: able to like, I'm not going to spoil it right. Well, 27 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 1: and in your in your defense, um, you didn't lie 28 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: because when we did the podcast last week, a lot 29 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: of this was still unknown to you. That's very true. 30 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: That is very true because I had not seen the 31 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: Bachelorette or been on any sort of set at that point, 32 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: so that was something I wanted to say. But there 33 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: was also some stuff that I felt like I was 34 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: maybe hypocritical about last week because I was like, I'm 35 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: the girl who says you can fall in love, like 36 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,920 Speaker 1: I fell in love with Jared at first sight, And 37 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: then I was saying that Claire leaving after twelve days 38 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: with a guy seemed a risky. So I have like 39 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: a whole bunch that I wanted to say about that. Um, 40 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: let's say it actually okay, Okay, So last week I 41 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: seemed a little hypocrite critical when I was talking about 42 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: and Claire, we talked, we named him right last week 43 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 1: was the guy that she's rumored to leave with. That's right, yes, okay, Um, 44 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: after after all, you know, you guys did see me 45 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: fall head over heels in love with Jared immediately. Um, 46 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: the second I saw him, you know, he was like 47 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 1: the center of my whole world. And then I believe 48 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: that for love at first sight, Like when I saw Jared, 49 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: I thought like, oh, this is love at first sight 50 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: because I never felt anything like that before. Um, But 51 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: I also think that love at first sight needs time 52 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: to prove itself true. And last week I was speaking 53 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: with the assumption that Clarien Dale have never spoken before 54 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: the show before like actually filming the show, and that 55 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: she quit the show twelve days into being with him. Um, Like, 56 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: even in my vows with my anniversary tomorrow happy that 57 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: crazy things. But even my vows, I was like, every 58 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: day proves to me that little at first sight does exist. 59 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: And if Clarien Dale were having like hours long face 60 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: times for months, then I'd have a completely different feeling 61 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: on her wanting to leave and just be with him 62 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: after twelve days. That being said, I do also, um 63 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: believe that if I were in her position, I wouldn't 64 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: be able to fake being interested in other men. I 65 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: remember trying. UM. I remember people in Paradise telling me like, 66 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 1: just try to be open with that guy, or like 67 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: maybe you'll want to go on a day with that person, 68 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: or like maybe there's gonna be somebody that comes down 69 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: and you're gonna be really intimate. I'm like, no, no, 70 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: you guys, UM, I'm not going to be open with 71 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 1: anybody else right now. I was very adamantly like, no, 72 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 1: my eyes will not be open to somebody else in 73 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: this environment or in the state of mind that I'm in. Um, 74 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: I just get like very zoned in and I completely 75 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: relate with Claire in that way that like tunnel vision 76 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: when it comes to the romance department. I think what 77 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: I was trying to say, and maybe I'm over explaining myself. 78 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: Maybe it came across completely non hypocritical last week, but 79 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,920 Speaker 1: I think that it would just be safer and less risky. 80 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: It's a less risky bet if you end up with 81 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: somebody after spending the entire alloweded time on the bachelorte 82 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: with them instead of twelve days, um, and then like 83 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 1: at least going on and finishing the entire season, you 84 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: like eliminate the what ifs um you know that I 85 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 1: am like the big the big like eliminate all what 86 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: if scenarios in your life if possible. But you know, 87 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: I also know that love is not a safe game. 88 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: So those are all of my thoughts. Then, well, how 89 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 1: do you feel about my thoughts? I feel like something 90 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: has hurt you and it's personally offended you because you 91 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 1: do feel like you found love at first sight and 92 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: that you won't. I mean, here's the thing. Since the 93 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: very beginning, even when I questioned it, Uh, you've been 94 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 1: the biggest supporter of Claire. You've been a huge fan 95 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: of her being the bachelorette, and as we talked about 96 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: last week, like ultimately, as fans of the show, we 97 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 1: want people to find love, however and whenever it works. 98 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,799 Speaker 1: The concern though, is it just happen so freaking quick 99 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 1: on a show that already happens really quick, And so 100 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: I think everybody was like, what in the world's going on? 101 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: And that's a fair response is to then have the 102 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: follow up questions on how did you know he was 103 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: the one? Did you guys get to talk off camera? 104 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: And we'll find that out as we go, but I don't. 105 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: I don't think it's wrong to have the questions of 106 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 1: tell me more about how in twelve days you knew 107 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: this was worth leaving for and if and if they 108 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 1: both come and say yeah, because I just love at 109 00:06:29,640 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 1: first sight, then I know you, Ash, and I know 110 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 1: your response to then will be you'll probably cry, like 111 00:06:34,760 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: you'll get super emotional about it. So you're finding I 112 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: think I just the risk is stresses me out because 113 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: he cares because I care a lot about her finding 114 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: her person through this. Well here's the thing I care 115 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: more than any other season. Well here's the thing, Ash, 116 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,920 Speaker 1: I bet you that you won't be the only Bachelor 117 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: fan that has a similar action to this, And as 118 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: a similar and a similar hope for Claire going into 119 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: it is I really want you to find your person. 120 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: This is stressing me out. Tell me more. Which is 121 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: why this season is going to be so interesting and 122 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: in a sense enjoyable to watch because your your questions 123 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: will be answered and they're legitimate questions for you, like 124 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: these are you are personally invested into this season? Yes, 125 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: at this point these are my questions. You're right, And 126 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: then when I watch it, I'll be able to determine 127 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: whether or not I like really off base. I think 128 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: that I just I felt like I ended the podcast 129 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, I didn't really mention that. 130 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: I seemed very hypocritical. I even knew it when I 131 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: was saying it. I was like, because I am miss 132 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 1: fall in love hard and fast, but not very often. 133 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: And then um, but then at the same time, I 134 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: really do feel like Claire was very much there for 135 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 1: the right reason. Ends. I just want her to walk 136 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 1: away with somebody life, a lifelong partner. It's the hope. 137 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: It's really the hope. Out of I mean, I'll be honest, uh, 138 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: out of this like for her to leave in twelve days, 139 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: I'm I mean, I'm so confortation. We love Tasha. Um, 140 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: she's gonna be fantastic. I'm a little sad because I 141 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: was really excited to see clear story play out throughout 142 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 1: the season, the ups and the downs and the twists 143 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 1: and the turns and the heartbreaks and the celebrations, and 144 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 1: we from what it sounds like now, which nothing is confirmed, 145 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: we won't really get that. And as for as great 146 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: as Tassia will be, and for as great as that 147 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: season will be to watch, I was really invested into 148 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: claire story and now and now it's not gonna happen. 149 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: And and I think for all of us, like you know, 150 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 1: for Claire had the announcement obviously that some things changed, 151 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 1: seasons got pushed back. Um, and I think everybody was 152 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,720 Speaker 1: still really involved in seeing her love story playoffs. So Hey, 153 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: all we gotta do now is Ashley. You've mentioned it, 154 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 1: you you have clarified. Now let's sit back, Let's watch 155 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: this season, let's talk about it, let's discuss it. We 156 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: want to hear from you, so please email us at 157 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley at our heart media dot com or 158 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 1: just the hashtag the Almost Famous podcast. What are your thoughts? 159 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: What are your feelings? Are you excited about this season? Uh? 160 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: Does this you know rumor that has yet to be 161 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 1: confirmed by the Bachelor world? Does it make you intrigued? 162 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: And uh? Or maybe you're a little disappointed and that's 163 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 1: okay too, like the way you said clarified, Ben clarified. 164 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: Actually that would be a terrific tagline for this season. Hey, Ashley, 165 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: how about this. We've got some huge Bachelor headlines to 166 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:48,520 Speaker 1: talk about, um, some really uh hard ones to discuss 167 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 1: then some also someones that we want to celebrate. But 168 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: before we do, let's take a break. We come back, 169 00:09:53,080 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 1: we'll talk Bachelor headline. As promised, we'll come back with 170 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: the Bachelor hot topics of this week. We're gonna start 171 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: with one, Ashley. I know this will probably hit home 172 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,800 Speaker 1: for you based on what you were just discussing before 173 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: the break. But the headline reads, the bachelorettes Becka Koufern 174 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: and Garrett break up after two years together. Yeah, like 175 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: I was saying before, the whole bachelorette thing has not 176 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 1: been confirmed by the Bachelor itself, just like this story 177 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 1: which was everywhere this week that Becca and Garrett broke 178 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: up has not come directly from the source. Neither Becca 179 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: or Garrett has announced this. Becca even said underneath the 180 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: E News article in the comments interesting source quote. I mean, 181 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: if nothing else, you could at least spell the names 182 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: correctly in your article because apparently their names either, so 183 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: I would and take this as confirmation that they're over. 184 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: I've not heard from either of them, um, but yeah, 185 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: we just don't know. And this is obviously a very 186 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 1: sensitive topic and one that you know, we've been following 187 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: for a while. But let's uh, let's be slow to 188 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: say it's for sure until they confirm and it and 189 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: quite honestly, like, let them confirm, even if they have 190 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: to stretch it out for another six months. This is 191 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 1: their story to share. Let them have their store. Yeah. Uh. 192 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: Next article reads, there's a theory that ABC is secretly 193 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:36,679 Speaker 1: filming Bachelor in Paradise or Bachelor Pad down in Palm 194 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: Springs alongside the Bachelor at I'm gonna go ahead and 195 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: confirm to the best of my ability, even though this 196 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: might be hypocritical because I'm just saying you can't. You 197 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: need to confirm with the source. But I think I 198 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 1: have a close enough source to say that this is 199 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: not happening. Um, these these are truly just rumors. Do 200 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: is just the Bachelorette filming down there? And a lot 201 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 1: of people are saying that, like COVID's happening. Why are 202 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 1: there's so many people down there in Palm Springs? You guys, 203 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: the bachelor bubble down there is the safest place you 204 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: can be right now. There's so many tests going on 205 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: down there and so much quarantine and going on. Just 206 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: want to put that out there. They have definitely taken 207 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 1: their measures. Um, Sarah Highland, it's talking about COVID, which 208 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 1: feels like it has interfered with everything. But Sarah Highland 209 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: and Wells Adams celebrated there would be wedding day this 210 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: last week, wearing white, drinking wine and having a great 211 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: time together. They're supposed to be getting married. Obviously it 212 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: was postponed due to COVID, but they still celebrated, which 213 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 1: is awesome to see. UH and UH and we wish 214 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: the best, especially as the wedding will probably happen next year. Uh. 215 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 1: Final article reads, Rachel Lindsay says she's and I quote 216 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: thrilled about Tasia Adams becoming the next bachelorette. So we 217 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: know that earlier in this summer, Rachel was just wanting 218 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: to you know, she she was liking the changes that 219 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: the franchise was making, but she also wanted to make 220 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:08,760 Speaker 1: sure that it was a long term thing and it 221 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: wasn't just like a an immediate reaction to the Black 222 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: Lives Matter movement. And um, I feel like Rachel is 223 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: feeling like it's not just like a reaction. But now 224 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: that we have Tassia as the bachelorette, she says that 225 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: she's been fighting for inclusion and she said before that 226 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: Tassia would be an excellent bachelorette, so she's more than 227 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 1: happy to pass the torch to her. She said, I'm 228 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: excited to see what she's going to do and how 229 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: she will represent herself and her journey to find love. 230 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 1: Now she's in the driver's seat. I'm excited to see 231 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 1: her get this opportunity. Awesome, super great. We're all excited 232 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:51,199 Speaker 1: for Tassia. This will be the fantastic season. 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People will 261 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: be asking why Tanya will because, as we will hear, 262 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 1: she is a huge fan of Jason Mesnick and a 263 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: huge fan of that season. But before we bring Tanya on, 264 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: we are going to talk to Rudy from the Bachelor. 265 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: Listen to your Heart. She has a new single out, 266 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 1: uh So, Rudy, Welcome to the podcast. Hey guys, what's up? 267 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: Not much? So we hear that you have a new 268 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: single out called Stupid Boy. Is it about that? It's ah, yeah, obviously, 269 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 1: I feel like it's definitely about him. I also wrote 270 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: it about every other stupid guy in my life that 271 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: it was just like him, so um, yeah, it was 272 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: definitely inspired it for sure. Okay, She's so honest and 273 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: I love it. So if you guys don't remember, Matt 274 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: was her love interest and listen to Your Heart, which 275 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: aired back in April, we love the two of you together. 276 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: I feel like you may have had more fans support 277 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 1: than anyone else because you just like had You were 278 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 1: so relatable and your relationship was relatable. You guys are 279 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 1: just so cute, so talented together amazing. Thank you. Yeah, 280 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: it was fun. Where's your relationship with him at today? Um? 281 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: We're good friends now. I feel like, um, it kind 282 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 1: of took a minute to step away from that for 283 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 1: me because I really did like him, and um, you know, 284 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: my feelings still have not gone away if I'd be 285 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: lying at this so they did. But yeah, absolutely whatever, scum, 286 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: but we're friends. I actually met us all his family 287 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: yesterday and FaceTime he's in Connecticut right now, so um, 288 00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:13,199 Speaker 1: and they're all great. So I love him. We're just 289 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: you know, trying to figure it out. I haven't seen 290 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 1: him though, so that's the thing too. It's like I 291 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 1: literally got home, um March, and I haven't. I haven't 292 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 1: seen him since. Well. I was gonna say, if you 293 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 1: guys were gonna like kind of relight the flame, it 294 00:17:26,440 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: wasn't the best time because you both live in l A, 295 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 1: which I thought was amazing. I was like, oh, these two, 296 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: like they could be the next meeting. I can really 297 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: see this go in her way. Um, but but then like, yeah, 298 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,400 Speaker 1: COVID happened, So it wasn't like you could hang out. 299 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 1: But maybe like the time apart is good make the 300 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: heart grow fonder. Yeah, we'll see. I don't know. He's 301 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: so wishy washy. I never know of that guy, but 302 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:55,199 Speaker 1: um yeah, well yeah, become really good friends and then 303 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 1: get a boyfriend. Yeah. I literally the amount of times 304 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: that I get like, oh got years, just like Ashley 305 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: and Jared, I just have hopefull you. I'm like okay, yeah, literally, 306 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 1: like a daily thing of mine is that's in my 307 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 1: d M all the time. So we'll see if that 308 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: actually happens. But yeah, the how does he feel about 309 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:16,239 Speaker 1: a single written about him called Stupid Boy? Is that 310 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 1: good or bad for the relationship. I was honestly more 311 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:21,959 Speaker 1: worried about his parents because they like love me so 312 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: much and we like had a good conversation. I was like, Yo, 313 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: what's up, I'm releasing a song called Stupid Boy. And 314 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 1: I was like, the mom is probably like I don't 315 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: like her as much anymore. Um, But I mean I 316 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 1: was super open when I started writing it. I was 317 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 1: I like called him because we were still like on 318 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 1: decent times when I first started writing it, and um, 319 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 1: I was like, just by the way, I have a 320 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 1: song you inspired it. I think it's gonna be called 321 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: stupid Boy. He was like, are you kidding me? I 322 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: was like, you know, He's like, did everyone's gonna know 323 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 1: what's about me and they're gonna hate me? And I 324 00:18:48,119 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 1: was like, no, that's fine. Oh that's so amazing. We 325 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: know that you guys will both end up on Bachelor 326 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: in Paradise together if you don't get together in real life. 327 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, that's like that's so scary to me 328 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 1: because I'm such a jealous person, Like the thought of 329 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise and him and like that sounds terrifying 330 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,719 Speaker 1: And you're really selling it to the producers right now 331 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:19,360 Speaker 1: if they're listening. Yeah, you're doing a great job. Rudy. 332 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: Where can we hear your single? Yeah? Um, it's all 333 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 1: on streaming on all music platforms, Spotify, iTunes. I have 334 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: like a little link on my Instagram, UM that has 335 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 1: literally everywhere that you can stream it and listen all 336 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 1: my stuff. So so awesome. Hey, you're the best. Thanks 337 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 1: for coming on. Make sure you go check out. Rudy's 338 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: new single is called Stupid Boy. It is out now, 339 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: go listen. Hey, Rudy thinks a lot. Thank you guys. 340 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:59,439 Speaker 1: You'll take care by. We do have the Ferguson Twins 341 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,640 Speaker 1: on the on the from this podcast today, uh, chatting 342 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:07,479 Speaker 1: about you're entering into the Help I Suck At Dating World? 343 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: What are you doing with help I Second Dating? So 344 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 1: Emily and I have done We've hosted the first um 345 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: what a Girl Once Been off of Help I Suck 346 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: At Dating with Dean and Jared. I feel like our 347 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: episode is hilarious. So if you guys haven't listened yet, um, 348 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 1: please do. We're really excited about it. And we've had 349 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:33,679 Speaker 1: a lot of feedback and our d m s and 350 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: a lot of comments on our photos and people have 351 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:40,160 Speaker 1: been absolutely loving it. So we really appreciate the feedback 352 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 1: and the comments, and we're really glad you guys thought 353 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: it was funny and helpful and women empowerment and then 354 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:50,680 Speaker 1: also just kind of we're whacked. So yeah, I don't know. 355 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 1: It was a lot of fun to record it though, 356 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: So we would really appreciate if you guys could take 357 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 1: the time to go listen to it if you already haven't. 358 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 1: So it's interest sing all the hosts of Help I 359 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:07,680 Speaker 1: Suck at Dating have significant others. You guys can't suck 360 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 1: that bad. So yeah, you guys are kind of doing 361 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: a female spinoff episode so that like, you know, the 362 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 1: guys talk about girls and you girls are going to 363 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,479 Speaker 1: talk about guys. What do you talk about in this 364 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: first episode? That, um, that's relatable, that like I'll be 365 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: able to be like, oh my god, Darren does that 366 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: too well? I mean I feel like the most relatable 367 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 1: part was when in the beginning of our podcast we 368 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: talk about our ex boyfriends and like how we let 369 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: them treat us so poorly for like five and three years. 370 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 1: So that part is like how we sucked at dating, 371 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 1: but like relatable stuff like when we're in our relationships now. 372 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 1: I don't know if Jared plays a lot of video games, 373 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: but like our boyfriends played so many video games. But 374 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: we talked about how that saved our relationship during quarantine 375 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 1: because we needed some alone time. Actually, I don't why 376 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 1: what he plays video games at all. I'm like, okay, 377 00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 1: this is when I'll watch Investigate Discovery and watch files 378 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:04,520 Speaker 1: because exactly, exactly exactly, it was like annoying to have them, 379 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: like not annoying, but it was kind of annoying to 380 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: have them around all the time. So the video games 381 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 1: were kind of nice that they could have like boy 382 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 1: time and we could just you know, do what girls 383 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 1: needed to do. UM. We talked to our mom, so 384 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 1: she talks about dating in your fifties. UM, so she 385 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,399 Speaker 1: has some good insight about UM dating apps and what 386 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: it's like to go on dates with guys who are 387 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: in their fifties or have been married before and have 388 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: kids and ex wives and stuff. And then we interview 389 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: one of our girlfriends about dating professional athletes and how 390 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 1: like it's hard to like trust professional athletes especially in 391 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,199 Speaker 1: the beginning of the relationship when you don't really like 392 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: know them, so you have to like build the trust 393 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,399 Speaker 1: and they're gone all the time, so you have to 394 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,199 Speaker 1: be able to communicate, so all those important things on. 395 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: Like a lot of girls are interested in dating athletes, 396 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: but it's honestly really hard all at the same time, 397 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 1: but also if you meet a good one, it's like 398 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: the best thing. Ever, how often will this be happening? Like, 399 00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: how often will you be doing this spin off show? 400 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,120 Speaker 1: So they have a new host every week? I think 401 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: like next week gets trist up, But I think, you know, hope. 402 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 1: My sister and I would love to podcasts, like we 403 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: had so much fun doing it. We would love to 404 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 1: do our own podcast, So yeah, hopefully it can be 405 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 1: a more permanent thing. We would absolutely love that. If 406 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:26,240 Speaker 1: people also love that, that would be like our dream job, 407 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: staying at home and chatting all the time and really 408 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 1: just love to talk about everyone since so that would 409 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 1: be the perfect job for us. You guys, are you 410 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 1: gonna get your mom signed up for The Bachelor Senior 411 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 1: edition when that starts up again? Yeah? Is that a 412 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: real thing? Yeah, it's a real thing. That's definitely on 413 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,479 Speaker 1: hold right now because they're little backed up. It's like, 414 00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 1: are they like doing like fifty plus and olders? And 415 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 1: we were like, oh wow, I didn't even know about this. 416 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm on, I heard about it, but I wasn't sure. Yeah, 417 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: my my mom would be way too good at it. 418 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,680 Speaker 1: They should just make through the Bachelorette. Yeah, they never 419 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 1: really clarified whether it's gonna be like Bachelor in Paradise 420 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: style or whether it could be like Bachelor or Bachelorette style. 421 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 1: But either way, your mom should should be involved. I 422 00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: love that she would love to sign another first Our Screensazing. Hey, 423 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 1: last time you came on, you talked about moving, and 424 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: I know obviously with COVID things have changed a bit. 425 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: Are you still planning on moving? Have you moved? Where 426 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:36,120 Speaker 1: are you at today? Um? So, my boyfriend is currently 427 00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 1: in Sweden playing hockey, So I am still planning on moving, 428 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,360 Speaker 1: just as of right now, I can't get really good 429 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 1: a visa, so I am trying to get a visa 430 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 1: so I can get over there. But as of right now, 431 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 1: we're just waiting for the travel band to get lifted. Um. 432 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's still the plan. So I'm living with 433 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:55,880 Speaker 1: my sister for now until I can get over there. 434 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,560 Speaker 1: She might be married before me. No, I will not 435 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:03,640 Speaker 1: be married before her married. So I was gonna say, 436 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: that's our next spin off of fiance. There we go. 437 00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so funny. I'm not gonna lie. I'd 438 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 1: be a little pissed if she got married because Haley 439 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,399 Speaker 1: has been in the relationship for about nine months and 440 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,479 Speaker 1: then Emily, you've been in the relationship for like three years. Yep, yeah, 441 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 1: seven months for me, so still very new. Yeah, after 442 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:29,639 Speaker 1: seven months girl to another country. I'm like, I'm so 443 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,560 Speaker 1: I already know that he's the one. It's weird, high 444 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: kind of how it happened. I know, I feel like 445 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 1: it's I know, people just like it happened so fast, 446 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: and then there's other people it just doesn't happen, which 447 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 1: like there's I think benefits to both, Like if you're 448 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 1: older and you know that this person is the one, 449 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,399 Speaker 1: then just freaking do it. But then also I think 450 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: it's great to take your time and not rush into 451 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:54,159 Speaker 1: things if you're like younger and stuff. So I don't know, 452 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: I just feel ready. Yeah, I mean I'm ready to 453 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:02,640 Speaker 1: be married too. I'm just freaking waiting but he's he's 454 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: in a Canada right now playing finishing the playoffs, which 455 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: they're doing really really good there. They just wont like 456 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: the first seed for like the Western I don't know 457 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: much about it, but yeah, but yeah, so anyways, they're 458 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: still playing in the playoffs, and you know, I gotta 459 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 1: wait till he comes home to propose me. So he's 460 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 1: gonna get a Stanley Cup ring that I'm gonna get 461 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: an engagement ring. Is gonna finally be the best year ever? Okay, 462 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,239 Speaker 1: well that's gonna be how it works. I'm gonna have 463 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 1: to watch hockey more often so I can watch these 464 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: the Vegas nights when yes, yeah, you guys should just 465 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: come to Vegas once COVID isn't a thing anymore and 466 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,880 Speaker 1: we can all go to a game together. That'd be fun. 467 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:44,160 Speaker 1: That sounds fantastic. You guys are great. Thank you so much. 468 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: Thank you, guys, And make sure once again to tune 469 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 1: into the Help I Second Dating Uh spinoff show with 470 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,719 Speaker 1: the Ferguson Twins, which is out right now. It's hilarious. 471 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: They're great at it. Make sure you tune in and listen. 472 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 1: And Emily and Haley, you're the best we'll talk to 473 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 1: you soon. Thank you, guys. A good friend. She just 474 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 1: called us angels when she came on, but I think 475 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 1: she actually is is a real life, living, breathing angel. 476 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: Tanya from the Scrubbing In podcast is joining us right now. 477 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: Hi Ben Higgins, Hi Ashley. I love you guys. That's 478 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 1: so nice. Nice intro. Why do I smile so hard 479 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 1: when I see your face? What I love? Are you 480 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: in bed right now? Yeah? I recorded from bed from 481 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:49,320 Speaker 1: bed before. I've never recorded from bed before, but today 482 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: I decided to do. So what room here for? What 483 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 1: really happened was we just told Ashley, hey, you worked 484 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 1: so hard on the podcast. You are always you know, 485 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,440 Speaker 1: your mind is always going. We just need you to relax, 486 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: So curl up in a blanket, stay in bed all day, 487 00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: just grab your microphone and we'll make magic happen at 488 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,439 Speaker 1: the almost famous podcast. I think there's honestly there's something 489 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 1: to that, because I mean, we like went out. We 490 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: went to Palm Springs this weekend and we did our 491 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 1: podcast at ten pm at night, which you guys know 492 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 1: me like I'm asleep at nine o'clock, so it was 493 00:28:21,680 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 1: made for quite some interesting content. Well that's what I 494 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 1: want to start with. Yeah, so Tanya, I've heard rumors. Uh, 495 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,960 Speaker 1: we're obviously here a part of the I Heeart family. 496 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: The Scrubbing In podcast is our pride and joy. Uh. 497 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,840 Speaker 1: We we really love you guys. And here's what happened. 498 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,760 Speaker 1: Here's how okay, So here's how this is set up. 499 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 1: And I want to give my backstory to how I 500 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 1: even knew you're in Palm Springs other than social media. Uh, 501 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: my fiance was in town this weekend. She was visiting, 502 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 1: so we had a couple of date nights, and uh, 503 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 1: on our on our one date night on Friday night, 504 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 1: we were talking about, um, just some people in our 505 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: life who have huge roles or impacts and who have 506 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 1: just really like brightened up our day. So obviously I 507 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: go through like the Ashleys of the world, you know, 508 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 1: my podcast co host, and then we stop on Tanya 509 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: and Becca. We just started talking about you guys because, uh, 510 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: you were the one of the two first people to 511 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: to meet Jessica and to make her feel so loved 512 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: and just kind of welcomed in. And so we decided 513 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:27,600 Speaker 1: to to text. We sent out a text to Becca 514 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: and said, Becca, were just thinking about you. We want 515 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: to let you know that we love you, and and 516 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: Becca text us back right away that says, hey, I'm 517 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: a few spicy marguerite as deep. I don't know if 518 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 1: I can respond right now. And that is unlike Becca. 519 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: That is not a Becca character. That is not a 520 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 1: text I would expect from Becca. But I knew something 521 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: was up, So please Tanya, you're in Palm Springs with 522 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 1: your co host Becca Tilly. What was going on was 523 00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: that Friday night? She sent that her Saturday, I think 524 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: it was Friday. Oh, okay, okay, so Saturday was really 525 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: the debauchery one oh one. But I think what happened 526 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 1: is like we've all been super quarantined and we haven't 527 00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 1: really like I mean, we've seen each other and we 528 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 1: hang out with each other, but I mean Becca hasn't 529 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: really drank much all of quarantine, and it's like we 530 00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,719 Speaker 1: kind of felt like we were on I mean we 531 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:23,320 Speaker 1: were we were on vacation, and so you go and 532 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 1: you drink like what you normally when normally drink spicy 533 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 1: margaritas when we go out, but it was a hundred 534 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: and nine degrees, and we also hadn't really eaten much 535 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 1: like we had like a croissant and like some pistachios 536 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 1: and maybe some chips and salsa all day like we 537 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 1: hadn't and we just kind of kept drinking. I paced 538 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 1: myself just because I have been in the desert recently, 539 00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,719 Speaker 1: and I just I know he does to me. But 540 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 1: it really just like went from like stage one to 541 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 1: like stage a hundred. Really really like when you say 542 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 1: stage a hundred, you don't have any food in your belly. 543 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 1: It's degree Becca Tilly is let loose. And then you 544 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 1: have to record a podcast. So you're here there to 545 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: record a podcast. So at ten o'clock at night, you're 546 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 1: recording this podcast. After this this time that goes on 547 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 1: during the day where you guys are just like out 548 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,479 Speaker 1: of your mind. No, you guys, we we were supposed 549 00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 1: to record at five pm, So mind you, I'm like 550 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: a little I'm actually feeling good, like I'm like drunk 551 00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:29,479 Speaker 1: loose um. But Becca was just like gone. And so 552 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,280 Speaker 1: we had an interview with Sabrina Carpenter at five o'clock 553 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: and so we're doing an interview on Zoom like this, 554 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, halfway through the interview, Becca 555 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 1: just slowly goes out of the frame and like falls 556 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: to start yacking and start seeing beca growing up on 557 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: the mike babically no, no, no, you can't hear it. 558 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: I haven't listened back. I don't think you can hear it. 559 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: But you just see her like slowly just fall out 560 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: of the frame. And then I'm like, I'm like still 561 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 1: doing the interview with Sabrina and I'm kicking my boyfriend 562 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 1: under the table and like pointing to like have him 563 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: like help her. Do you know what I mean, Like 564 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: I can't do anything. So you can see it's so 565 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: fun like it's actually very unprofessional, not funny, but like 566 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: when you like if you have a sense of humor 567 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 1: and you can look back at it, like it was 568 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 1: just so wild. So this happens at five o'clock and 569 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 1: then she she gets better, she pizza and we like 570 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 1: get her, get her back, and um, we get her back. 571 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 1: He's really term we owned it, Like I was like, 572 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,000 Speaker 1: I was like, we can't, like we just need to 573 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: own it and say we started doing this at five. 574 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 1: We have to tell the story, you know. I was like, 575 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 1: I think we need to own this whole situation. I 576 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 1: think it turned out really funny because people are responding 577 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,920 Speaker 1: like people are messaging me that they're like paying their pants. Well, 578 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: because here's the thing. The scrubbing In like almost famous. 579 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:56,719 Speaker 1: We have a great following and it's like a terrific 580 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 1: group of people. But the scrubbing In we've always talked 581 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: about has like this your family esque following where they're 582 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 1: super supportive of each other. They really love you too, 583 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,600 Speaker 1: and so you share your sisterhood. Yeah, like it's your 584 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 1: most intimate moments, and so if you're not going to 585 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 1: share it during the scrubbing In podcast, it feels very appropriate, honestly, 586 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,800 Speaker 1: Like it feels unprofessional. It feels I'm sad for Becca, 587 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: like that, I love Becca. I know this is something 588 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 1: that she probably hates just and laughs about, Like she's 589 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: just one of my favorite people in the world. But 590 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 1: just like you would have through sorority sisters or your 591 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: aratornity brothers, you share those moments like you have to. Yeah, 592 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 1: And I think also everybody can relate, you know what 593 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 1: I mean, Like we've all been there, Like we've all 594 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,959 Speaker 1: been there, So it's just super super something that like 595 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: everybody can kind of relate to. You know, Mark is 596 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: their footage of this, There is footage of this and 597 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,160 Speaker 1: then think it's being negotiated as to whether or that 598 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: will be released. I know, it's so funny, you guys, 599 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 1: Like literally we all watched I think I've watched it 600 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: like ten times. It's so freaking funny. And I even said, 601 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 1: I was like, we don't need to put Sabrina in it. 602 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: It's even funnier, Like I just need to see the 603 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: two of us. And then all of a sudden, she 604 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:09,880 Speaker 1: just goes down, but then her like arm comes up, 605 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 1: like you see the microphone pop up. Becca, And by 606 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 1: the way, t it is audible. You have to listen 607 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 1: very closely, but it's in there. Oh you can hear her. 608 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: The best part. Everybody was kind of on listen like 609 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,600 Speaker 1: did everybody was like really, Like even my boyfriend was like, 610 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,160 Speaker 1: I think something happened, Like there's no way we all 611 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 1: got this drunk. And I was like, you guys a 612 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: hundred and fifteen degrees and we're drinking tequila all day, Like, yes, 613 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: this is what happens. Quarantine he tequila. It's a mixture. 614 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 1: So before we move on, because we did bring you 615 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 1: on to talk about the Jason Mesnick season, which I 616 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 1: know you're a big fan of um Speak for your 617 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 1: best friend. How is Becca handling this? And how is 618 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,839 Speaker 1: she doing now? I mean, she doesn't want to drink ever, 619 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,360 Speaker 1: I get it, And honestly, like she gets these Like 620 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: the last time I ever saw her like this was 621 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,040 Speaker 1: in two thousand sixteen at the iHeart Festival. Do you 622 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 1: guys remember my bathroom floor? And so it really doesn't 623 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,359 Speaker 1: happen to her very often where she gets like this. 624 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,360 Speaker 1: I mean, but yeah, and she's she's struggling. Well, we 625 00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,800 Speaker 1: love her, hey, send our send our support. Beck Attilly 626 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 1: is the one of our favorite people. He actually here. 627 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: Let's take a break. When we come back, we're gonna 628 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:35,919 Speaker 1: break down Jason Mesnick season with Tanya. Alright, We're back 629 00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:40,400 Speaker 1: with Tanya rat to talk about Jason Mesnicks season. Um, 630 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:44,000 Speaker 1: this is the first time I saw the season. I U, 631 00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,439 Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like it was the exact 632 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,759 Speaker 1: same thing as Oris, right, I mean, like could not 633 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:57,240 Speaker 1: be more parallel. Really, Yeah, did you watch Aris? Uh? 634 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 1: Yeah I did, And honestly I haven't. I mean I watched. 635 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 1: I was just so obsessed with Jason Mesnick. You guys, 636 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: like I was literally so I was. I was in college, 637 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,360 Speaker 1: I was a senior in college and my college sisters, 638 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,040 Speaker 1: like my stority sisters signed me up for when he 639 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 1: was the Bachelor because I loved him so much. I 640 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 1: love that he was like I knew that he was 641 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 1: committed to it. Does that make sense? Like I knew 642 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 1: he would watch in It the season before, correct, I 643 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 1: knew that he was like super in it. I love 644 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 1: that he was a dad. I just loved everything about him. 645 00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,680 Speaker 1: He just literally felt like such a stand up guy. 646 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:35,960 Speaker 1: I didn't even care about the entertainment value. I was 647 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 1: just like, I want to date this man. And I 648 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: was like twenty one at the time. Step I remember 649 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 1: like not having ever seen his season, so like, you know, 650 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 1: like twenty four hours ago and be like Jason is 651 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,280 Speaker 1: like what a weird Bachelor pick? Like he's like cutesie, 652 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 1: but he's not like a stud. And then okay, and 653 00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: then I watched the season and I was like, yeah, 654 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 1: Jason Zick, Now he's a cutie and look at him, 655 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,200 Speaker 1: and he and Molly are still together, like expanding their family, 656 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,840 Speaker 1: doing great. So I feel like my gut instinct on 657 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 1: this man was very accurate. Yeah, no, he he seems 658 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 1: like a real good one. I I just really got 659 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 1: cringe e watching feeling for Molly while I watched him 660 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 1: propose to Melissa, and like, of all of the seasons 661 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 1: that have reaired, this is the only one I feel 662 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,160 Speaker 1: like genuinely bad about re airing because I was like, 663 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: let's not put this woman through this again. This is 664 00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 1: just like so hurtful. I know, and you know what 665 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 1: those sometimes guys like, sometimes men don't get it right 666 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: at first, and that's okay. I'm married to one. Like 667 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 1: We've had similar ish situations, which is why I feel 668 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: like I was putting myself in molly shoes even more 669 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: yesterday watching it, and yeah, it's just like, oh um, yeah, 670 00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:07,560 Speaker 1: sometimes guys like really need to sit back and and 671 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 1: think about things. So Jason Mesnick is announced as a bachelor. 672 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: I think it was a great choice. I think he is. 673 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,439 Speaker 1: I get it, Like when you meet Jason, you love 674 00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 1: him more. Tanya, looking back now, as we start to 675 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: break down this episode, do you really believe that you 676 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:33,440 Speaker 1: and Jason could have been a good match? For sure? 677 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: For sure? On, I still think everything I thought about 678 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 1: that man was like super super spot on. And I 679 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:41,320 Speaker 1: mean I don't think it was in the cards. I 680 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 1: don't think we were meant to be because he is 681 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: he is where he is meant to be. But it 682 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,319 Speaker 1: really made me feel like my discernment on people is 683 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 1: is very spot on at an early age. At twenty one. 684 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 1: Do you remember the girl Stephanie from his season with 685 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,320 Speaker 1: a child? She had a four year old I can't 686 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:59,600 Speaker 1: say that I do. Oh really Okay, Well, Harrison interviews 687 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 1: her in this Goat episode and she seemed like the 688 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 1: sweetest person. She was so motherly. They had her daughter 689 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,799 Speaker 1: on as part of a date, and then during the 690 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 1: interview they don't ask if she's married or she had 691 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:20,360 Speaker 1: any more kids, and it really really irked me because 692 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: I wanted to know where this woman stands in her 693 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 1: love life. I guess I know, But do you think 694 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: that that means that she's like single? And that's why 695 00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 1: they didn't ask? Possibly, um no, because why would it 696 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,320 Speaker 1: matter if she was single? Because I've noticed a pattern 697 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 1: they only as I've only they've He's only asked people 698 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:49,160 Speaker 1: when they are like, oh, and happily ever after, here's 699 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: my spouse. That's very interesting because you know what, sometimes 700 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 1: happily ever after doesn't mean that you have a spouse. 701 00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 1: You don't need to have a spouse. You do not 702 00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:03,840 Speaker 1: need too. But at least they're in that is That's right. 703 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 1: But but as this is the Bachelor, I am still curious. 704 00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,279 Speaker 1: That's interesting if Chris does that, well, I think they 705 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 1: just don't keep it in. They don't keep it like 706 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 1: it's like edited out when he asked about their private life. Yeah, 707 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if anybody knows the update on Stephanie's 708 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: private life, I'd love to know. Um. Also, can we 709 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: talk about the fashion two thousand nine, because all these 710 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,840 Speaker 1: Goat episodes, I'm like, holy, I thought that we had 711 00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:37,319 Speaker 1: our stuff together by this decade or like by this year, 712 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,640 Speaker 1: and we apparently did not. Like these girls are like 713 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: wearing the cheapest looking dresses at the final Rows ceremony. 714 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 1: They look like I know, but that's like how it 715 00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: was back in the day, you know what I mean, 716 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,920 Speaker 1: Like it's like back in the day, Like I know 717 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,239 Speaker 1: it was eleven years ago, but two thousand nine, you know, 718 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,400 Speaker 1: I had a beautiful, what I thought was a beautiful 719 00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:02,280 Speaker 1: prom dress. Yeah, take a look back at your promtress 720 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,879 Speaker 1: and see how beautiful beautiful it really is now? I know, right, 721 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:08,479 Speaker 1: it's just so crazy. And then like all these girls 722 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 1: are like wearing these baby doll dresses. I'm like, I 723 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 1: can't believe this is what we chose to wear on TV, 724 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 1: Like this was our hottest outfits. I know, but it's 725 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,640 Speaker 1: also like before Instagram and like all that stuff was 726 00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:20,600 Speaker 1: a thing. So people I feel like just didn't I 727 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 1: don't want to say I didn't care, but it was 728 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,759 Speaker 1: just like you know, different time. Yeah, time before we 729 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 1: let you go here and a few if I gave 730 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: you like a minute now as we close to try 731 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 1: to convince our listeners that they should watch Jason Mesnick's 732 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: go An episode, how would you sell them? Okay, if 733 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:44,440 Speaker 1: you are just a true romantic at heart and you 734 00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 1: love love, and you believe and you have faith in 735 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,400 Speaker 1: great men. If you just want to see a great 736 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 1: man who was in a situation he is a single 737 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:58,080 Speaker 1: father wanting to remarry and create another family and just 738 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,160 Speaker 1: have a hopeful heart, that is this is the man 739 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,760 Speaker 1: for you. He's tried and true as salt of the earth. 740 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,040 Speaker 1: Great guy will make you have faith in men again. 741 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,319 Speaker 1: Jason Mesnick season, Ladies and gentlemen, we love it Ton 742 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:13,320 Speaker 1: You're the best. Hey, make sure if you're listening to 743 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:15,600 Speaker 1: tune into the Scrubbing In podcast, and also you can 744 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:20,240 Speaker 1: check Tanya all over the US on the Ryan Seacrest 745 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:24,440 Speaker 1: Show every morning. Right, that's right, baby, keep it going, Tanya, 746 00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 1: you're the best. We love you. We'll talk to you soon. 747 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,319 Speaker 1: I love you, guys. You more about Mesnick season, but 748 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 1: I'll let you go. Goodbye, bye bye, Jason Mesnick. Season 749 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:37,120 Speaker 1: of the Go is this week. We'll be back next 750 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 1: week with another breakdown, some more guests, Ashley and I 751 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,000 Speaker 1: will be here, Ashuley, You're the best. All you listening, 752 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:48,759 Speaker 1: um once again, tune into the Help I second dating spinoff. 753 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,360 Speaker 1: You gotta listen to Scrubbing In with Tanya and Becca, 754 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 1: and please don't forget to listen to Almost Famous every 755 00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,920 Speaker 1: week with that I've Been Been, I've Been Ashley. Thank you, guys. 756 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,880 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and nash Lee I Almost Famous podcasts 757 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 1: on I Heart Radio or subscribe wherever you listen to 758 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 1: podcasts