1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 1: million bucks things and it's too good. Guys together, Please, 4 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You got turn out? You're going 5 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: to do? You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn 6 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:47,199 Speaker 1: you got to turn them out, then turn the water 7 00:01:47,480 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: the water go. Come come on your tha uh huh, 8 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:06,559 Speaker 1: I show will good morning everybody, y'all listening to the bars, 9 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: come on dig me not wanting on it. Steve Harvey 10 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: got a radio show, Man on Man on man, grateful 11 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: for it comes with a huge amount of responsibility. I 12 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: didn't really know I was gonna have to be this responsible, 13 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 1: you know, Um, can I share something with y'all? I 14 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: started out to Finally I had gotten on track and 15 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: was able to see a way to even pursue my dream. 16 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: It has been a long, a long trip that I've 17 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 1: been on, and I've gone through so many phases of it. 18 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 1: It is rewarding along the way to accomplish your dreams. 19 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is this, let me, let me put 20 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: it together because I got so much running through my 21 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: head right now. You know, it's it's one thing to 22 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: accomplish your dream, But there's joy in the process of 23 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: achieving it. See, some people are so caught up in 24 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: the goal, the final goal, that they find no joy, 25 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: no enjoyment in the process. If you have found what 26 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: it is you want to do and you strike out 27 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: on that journey, please understand you are far more blessed 28 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:28,040 Speaker 1: than the average person to know what it is you 29 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 1: really want to do. To find your work in life, 30 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: your purpose, to find out what direction you want to 31 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: go in is such a blessing. The average person, if 32 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: you sit down and talk to them, oftentimes don't have 33 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: their life on track. And it'd be some people that 34 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: you're looking at you think God it going on because 35 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 1: of their appearance, their swagger, or they walk like it, 36 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: they talk like it, they look like it. But if 37 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: you sit down and talk to the average person, the 38 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: average person man does not know what their purpose is, 39 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: has not discovered what they want to do, and have 40 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: no idea how to get there. If you are on 41 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 1: the other side of that, if you understand your purpose, 42 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: if you have an idea of what you want to be, 43 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: and you are on your way there, you are truly blessed. 44 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 1: And in that blessing. You must recognize it as a blessing. 45 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: You must recognize the fact that you are on the 46 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: right side, and that there should be a sense of 47 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: accomplishment and a feeling of pride in you that you 48 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: are on track to accomplish your goal. See what used 49 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 1: to happen was sometimes I used to keep my nose 50 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: so on the grindstone that I wouldn't even look up 51 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: and realize. Man, hey, man, I know you're trying to 52 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: get here, but Steve, hold on, man, can't you see 53 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: what you've done so far? Can't you find there's some 54 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: joy in the process. See, a lot of us lose 55 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 1: the joy of the blessings God has given us because 56 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: we're looking at the end. Tomot, I ain't there yet. 57 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,799 Speaker 1: You on your way. I'm gonna give you an example. 58 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,560 Speaker 1: I had a friend who told me that they wanted 59 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: to be a million now, and they asked me some 60 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: questions and I told him, so they started the process, 61 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: and I am telling you, this dude works extremely hard. 62 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 1: So about a year later we were talking. He had 63 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: found this business, he had set his goal, and he 64 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: was working towards it. Then about two years later I 65 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: ran up into him again. We were talking about it 66 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: and everything. It's a man. Really really appreciate the advice. 67 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: He said, Man, but this is all jacked up, man, 68 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: because I still ain't made that million I was talking about. 69 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: I said, well, hey, man, just just keep at it. 70 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: It's coming. He's a man. Keep at it. Man. You 71 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,920 Speaker 1: know how long I've been doing this? Been two years now. 72 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 1: And I didn't say that to him, but I said 73 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: to myself, yeah, two years. He said, Man, I've been 74 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: grinding so long. Man, it's just it ain't having it 75 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: from me. I said, wait a minute, man, hold on, 76 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 1: hold on. I said, about how much you're making right 77 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: now a year? Man, about two hundred and fifty thousand. 78 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:29,479 Speaker 1: I quit breathing. I said, well, my man, two years 79 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: ago you didn't have a clue. Two years later, you're 80 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: making a quarter of a million dollars. I said, man, 81 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: do you understand how blessed you are? I said, man, 82 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: your family was about to get put out two years ago. 83 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: You don't bought a house? Yeah, man, but this ain't 84 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 1: the house. I really won't. Ohh Pardner, whoa, I got that. 85 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: I got that house. You really won't make Mike call 86 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: five eight million. I don't know but man, all got 87 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: a house, you're making a payments, you drive it. You 88 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: ain't out no more. I said, hold on, man, you 89 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: got to stop. I said, you got to stop. I said, man, 90 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 1: because right now, man, you you coming across as real 91 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: ungrateful to me. And so he said, man, why are 92 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: you tripping like that? Man? Man, you act like don't 93 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: nobody want to have nothing but you? I said, whoa man, 94 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: where are you going with this conversation? I said, Oh, 95 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 1: I didn't come to you. I just came to you 96 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: and ask you how you doing. And I'm trying to 97 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: point out to you that the journey that you started on, 98 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: that you are on your way, and you are in 99 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: the process of accomplishing your goals. And can you not 100 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: feel some joy and some pleasure in your accomplishment. Quit 101 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 1: tripping on the fact that you ain't made a million yet. 102 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 1: You on your way. You don't went from your He thought, 103 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: this dude was making fifteen thousand dollars a year. You 104 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 1: making quarter of a million dollars in two years. May 105 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: come on, man, can't you see? Can't you see? So 106 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: he said eventually a man, I kind of see what 107 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: you're saying. But that ain't about nothing to me because 108 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: I ran up into him a year and a half later. 109 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 1: How you doing, man, Man, I showed, wish I'd appreciate 110 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: it my life when I had it like that? I said, 111 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: what you mean, had it like that? Man? Just fell 112 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: on some hard times, Man, I'm right back why I was. 113 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: And then we talked. I said, hey, man, don't worry 114 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 1: about it. I said, Once you know how to accomplish something, 115 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: I said, you just reapply the same principles and start 116 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: on over again. Man, you know how hard it is 117 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 1: or be to start over. Okay, my man, Hold up, partner, 118 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: you can't do yourself like this again. First you wasn't 119 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: grateful for what you had. Now you're looking at the 120 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 1: fact that you might have to start over, and you 121 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: know how hard it is to start over. Maybe God said, okay, 122 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: you ain't happy with this. Okay, didn't handle it your way? 123 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 1: You obviously ain't happy with the way I'm bringing it 124 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: into your life. You want to handle it your weight, 125 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: Go ahead and handle it because he will let you 126 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,559 Speaker 1: have it your way. Can I tell you that he 127 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: will let you do it exactly the way you want 128 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: to it because He gives us all the power of choice. 129 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: So then maybe he said, Okay, you don't appreciate the 130 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 1: way I'm doing it. You don't like the favor I'm 131 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 1: showing you. You think it's take it too long. I'm 132 00:09:03,480 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: gonna let you do it your way. I'm not gonna 133 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: turn my back on you. I'm just gonna let you 134 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: do it your way. Just just say. Maybe he said that, 135 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: and now he right back where it was. So what 136 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: I try to get the young cat to understand was, man, 137 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:20,680 Speaker 1: appreciate your life for what it is. Because like life, 138 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: Jenny's got that song that he got out off this album. 139 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 1: Still I still believe it could have been worse. And 140 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: now that it is worse, what's on your mind now, folks, 141 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 1: If you are on that side of life where you 142 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: have figured out what you want to do, you know 143 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: how you're gonna get that, and you know your purpose. 144 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: You're accomplishing what the majority of people never ever do. 145 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 1: So be grateful for your process. Don't tumble yourself, don't 146 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: throw yourself off the cliff. It's gonna be all right. 147 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: Success takes a measure of time. It is not easy. 148 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 1: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. You're listening 149 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 1: to show ladies, and gentlemen, here we are. It is 150 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,520 Speaker 1: time for the Steve Harvey Morning Show. And who better 151 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: can tell me and wake you up to what time 152 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: it is than the legendary brother duo of Casey and 153 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 1: Joe Joe. Here is their version of It's time. It's 154 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: slipping away from me? Yeah, Hi, slipping away man. Hi, 155 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, ask Casey and Joe Joe's Internet version 156 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: of life. I heard it the other day and I 157 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: think I stopped saying it all day yesterday. And if 158 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: you want to, just them two in the studio and 159 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 1: it sounds exactly like keep flipping away, Rob Stupid. So 160 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: that's how we're doing it this morning. I couldn't I 161 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 1: couldn't stop saying, Ladies, Jim, Charley Strawberry, callin for real 162 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 1: mouth the South, Junior and the legend of Nephew Tommy 163 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,480 Speaker 1: My people been riding with me, Junior. What's on your 164 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: mind to day? Let me ask this, how old was 165 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: you uncle when you discovered the power of no? I mean, 166 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: you know, the terrible tools is when children first started 167 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: doing no. That's when I discovered the consequences of note. 168 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,720 Speaker 1: Because I wasn't raised in the family where we weren't 169 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: alive to have terrible twos. Terrible twos was a very 170 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: short time for me. I think mine was two days. 171 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: I had two days until the two before I found out, Hey, 172 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 1: you you ain't white, get yourself together. Now, as I 173 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: grew older, it's crazy, I understood the power of no. 174 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: What I first started liking girls, and that was early 175 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 1: in my life because, and I tell people, I never 176 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: went through the phase of not liking girls. I never ever, 177 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: I can't remember not liking little girls kindergarten. I had 178 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:36,479 Speaker 1: valentized cause I had little sweethearts. I wanted a girlfriend 179 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: from the time I could remember. I never went through 180 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:44,959 Speaker 1: the faith girls what. So asking a girl to be 181 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: your valentine and them saying no was devastate. But what 182 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: I learned was it made me won't one even more. 183 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:05,079 Speaker 1: And so the power of no gives you a moment 184 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:11,199 Speaker 1: of pause, a moment to understand your true power. And 185 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: it also taught me the value of things. And that's 186 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: how I learned about no. From the little girl who 187 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: did not want to be my valentine. You know how 188 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 1: you checked the block be my Valentine? Yes? Yeah? And 189 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 1: I got back six of them cars and five of 190 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: them head no owner. Yeah, you know, I was playing 191 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: a numbers game back then. I just didn't want all right, 192 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: coming up next at thirty two minutes after the hour, 193 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: we'll run that break back the nephew right after that. Man, 194 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: you're listening, all right, It is time now, guys for 195 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,079 Speaker 1: the nephew and run that break back. What you're running 196 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:55,960 Speaker 1: back today? Now what you got barely? I come humbling 197 00:13:56,440 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: stupid this morning. I come bearing nothing but stupid to 198 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 1: Tim in the best form of comedy that I can 199 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: h present this right here is Jean. I got your girl, Jean, 200 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: I got your girl, cat dog. If you whod hello, 201 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: sweet of Jean, my name Vernon brother was playing. What's 202 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: going on? I need to huh let you for a minute, 203 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: my man. I want to let you about your wife. 204 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: So you got a minute. Yeah, I'm listening. I don't 205 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:49,800 Speaker 1: even know how to break this to your dog. I 206 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: just want to be straight up with you, man, Me 207 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: and your wife have been kind of seeing each other, 208 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: and really she want to let you go. But she ain't, 209 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: you know, she really ain't out of it, got it 210 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: up in it to say she want to let you go. 211 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: So I'm coming to you like a man and letting 212 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: you know, you know that she really wanted to shut 213 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: it down with you. We've been seeing each other for 214 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: a minute now, so I don't know how we can. 215 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: You know, I'm just coming at you like a man brother, 216 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: trying to let you know she don't even really want 217 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: you no more. You know, we've ben't talked about it, 218 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: talked about it, and I'm just trying to get it all. 219 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: I know. I'm tired. I'm tired of hiding with it. Really, okay, okay, 220 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: Well you know it's a lot smoother than I expected. Player, 221 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: I man, it is what it is. It is what 222 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: it is. I mean, as long as long as you 223 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: as long as you cool, I thought, you know, I 224 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: just want to be a man called how I let 225 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: you let you know. Have you seen her today? And 226 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,720 Speaker 1: where are you from? From Jersey? I'm up around Nork. 227 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: I mean, you said it's a lot smoother than you 228 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 1: thought I was gonna be. Well, you know, anytime I'm 229 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:01,200 Speaker 1: another man from the car, another man about his wife. 230 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, you don't expect it to be nothing, 231 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 1: you know, pretty simple, that's for sure. I didn't contemplate 232 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 1: it a long time by calling you saw you know, 233 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: the day I just said to head whatever, I get 234 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 1: my number. So I've been hand your number. I had 235 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: your number a long time. All right, now you say 236 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: you're looking U there's a lot smoother than you thought 237 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: its gonna be. It ain't that smood. But you know 238 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: you don't want you know, the thing is, you got 239 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: one up on it because you know my information. Now 240 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 1: I's gonna come find you. Okay, wait wait wait wait 241 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: wait wait wait hold up? Now good? You feel like no, 242 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 1: hold up, okay, you feel like you need to be 243 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 1: looking for me or something. Brother, Look look ahead, let's 244 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: check this out. This is a decision that the wife 245 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: has made. You understand what I'm saying. So you have 246 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: no reason to be mad at me about anything. You 247 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 1: have no reason to be coming looking for me or 248 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: any information on me, because see, when that happens, then 249 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: it's gonna really get stinky up in here. And I'm 250 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: trying not to let that happen. That's why I'm calling 251 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:04,679 Speaker 1: you like a man. Brother. Trust me, Man, ain't nothing 252 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: that I'm never worried about. Okay, Well, I'm just letting 253 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: you know, man, I'm letting you know up front sheet 254 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:12,440 Speaker 1: with me and how contemplated a long time y'all to y'alla, 255 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: so now you know here we are. So I said, 256 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: you know, what the hell with it? I'm calling to 257 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 1: day y'all should have did this on the phone together. 258 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: I respect both of y'all a lot more. Okay, Well, 259 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: you know, and then you know, if that's what it's 260 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: got to be, we be face to face together whatever 261 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: it's gotta be, man. Okay, So, but but let me 262 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 1: ask you this here where it's going in. Once we're 263 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 1: both staying flat footed and tell you how it is. 264 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: Then what I ain't gonna never be flat footed? Okay? 265 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: What flat footed or upside down ain't where you want 266 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: to look at it. Bro. I'm trying not to get 267 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: into this physical part, but it seemed like you're leaning 268 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 1: that way with me. It could be whatever you know. 269 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 1: It could be on this side of the other side. 270 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: And don't make it difference. It never does, brother, It 271 00:17:54,119 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 1: never does. When two bulls come together, one of them 272 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 1: got to go down. No, guess what we are doing 273 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: too much? You got my information. Guess what Now I'm 274 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 1: lock loaded than hunter for you. You lock and loaded. 275 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 1: There's no need for you to say there's no need 276 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 1: for us discussing anymore. Okay, cool, you know why why 277 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: we at it? Man, let me go and drop it 278 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: all on you then, because it's it seemed like we 279 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: need to go and get it all out the way. 280 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,879 Speaker 1: You cool? You know what I'm saying. I think you 281 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: need you know, matter of fact, if you want to 282 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: just keep it all the way real, you might want 283 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: to go take a blood test about a line and 284 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: make sure you to Papa to that. All right, feel me? 285 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:39,479 Speaker 1: Got it? So I'm gonna have your wife getting your car, man, 286 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: because we didn't contemplate it or too long and it's time. Yeah, 287 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 1: you do that. You know my information? Like I said, 288 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,360 Speaker 1: you said enough, you're hit enough bones yet now I'm 289 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:51,959 Speaker 1: really loading hunter for somebody. So you know what I mean, 290 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,119 Speaker 1: somebody's got to go. What you mean? Wait? Wait, what 291 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: was all this? Somebody got to go? What you're saying, 292 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: somebody got to go? Okay, you're trying about either me 293 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 1: or you. One of us got to go because you're 294 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: saying the wrong thing. Because what you must understand is 295 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 1: if I've given you as much information as I already have, 296 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 1: that means I have enough information to know where you 297 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: are brother. You know nothing about me norway I reside. 298 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: So if you're gonna talk about locking load and somebody 299 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 1: got to go, then you're saying it to the wrong person, 300 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: because I'm already up on you. Player. You got a 301 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: first off, they ain't really annoyed because it got a 302 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: country action. So second off, like you've done them on 303 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: the real street. So however you want to handle it, 304 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: you know my information. Guess what, I don't reside in 305 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 1: the more. I ain't doing more and that's what. Now 306 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: you've got to start from scratch like me. He'll go 307 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: to math. Man, you're ready for that. You're ready for 308 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: this math, You're ready to player, He'll go to math. 309 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 1: This nephew, Timmy from the Steve Harvey mart And Show. 310 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 1: You've been pranked by your wife? Yeah, black man until 311 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: I but you you kind of had me scared for 312 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,440 Speaker 1: a minute because you really wasn't flinching. You whatever you 313 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 1: eating over there, you never did stop eating on it. Oh, 314 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna stop eating. I'm keeping I listen to 315 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 1: you every morning. What's the baddest radio morning show in 316 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 1: the land, Steve Harvey Show. What y'all think? Oh? I mean, 317 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: you know that's a run that prank back you're here 318 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,120 Speaker 1: to yesterday? But what what? What do you really think? 319 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 1: He don't prank a gangster? What? What? What? What? Vastly 320 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: while they're eating, Yeah, thanks's knee pranking too. He never 321 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: stopped chewing. I was scared for you, still am. If 322 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: you want another I prank from a distance. You know 323 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't nobody, Thank you, thank you 324 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,439 Speaker 1: for that. Coming up next, it has Asked the CLO 325 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,959 Speaker 1: with our Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, 326 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:56,200 Speaker 1: ready for your love questions. Right after this, you're listening 327 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,360 Speaker 1: morning show. Coming up at the top of the hour, 328 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:04,119 Speaker 1: we have a very special guest. R and B superstar 329 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 1: Tank will be joining us. He needs to talk about 330 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: his brand new album and his final album. It's called 331 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: R and B Money. But right now, can't wait for that. 332 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: Right now, it is time for Ask the CLO Chief 333 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 1: Love Officer Steve Harvey right here for you, all right. 334 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: Teresa in Long Beach writes, I have a male friend 335 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 1: that brought me a lot of nice jewelry and he 336 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: helped me get a car. I wanted to date him exclusively, 337 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: but he didn't want that. Now if I miss his 338 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,920 Speaker 1: call or don't want to go out with him. He 339 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 1: loves to mention what he's given me. I am not 340 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 1: given any of the gifts back, So how do I 341 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: deal with him? No? Are you kidding me? You know 342 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 1: why he gave you to Gilts. You know what he 343 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 1: wanted when he gave you the guilt. You know what 344 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 1: you did to get to Gilts. So now what's the deal. 345 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 1: You don't want him exclusively? She said, she don't want 346 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: him exclusively. No, he doesn't want her. He doesn't want 347 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: to date. She wanted to date him exclusively. He doesn't 348 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: want that. Okay, so what does she want now? Sure, 349 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 1: maybe I'll misunderstood the question. Well, she you know he 350 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 1: doesn't want that, so she's gone on with her life. 351 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: She he doesn't want her to miss a phone call 352 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 1: or she if she can't go out with him or 353 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: doesn't want to go out with him, then he'll mention 354 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 1: you know, well I bought you this, I bought It's 355 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: just like thank you, always be gracious, thank you. I 356 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: really appreciate it. I'm enjoying the jewelry, I'm loving the car, 357 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: but I want more, and until you are willing to 358 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: give me more then this is what I'm giving you. 359 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: You want the rest of it, just like he wants 360 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 1: the rest of it. Well, if you've given all you're 361 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 1: gonna gill, then you got to draw a line with 362 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 1: all you gonna give. And it's fair that way. I'd 363 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 1: love to not miss your call and call you right back. 364 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 1: But it's not because you bought things. I wanted it 365 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 1: because I wanted an exclusive relationship. You don't want an 366 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 1: exclusive relationship. Then when your phone rang, I might be 367 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 1: doing something else. But I love you though, and I 368 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: wish we could be. But obviously it's not what you want. 369 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: You're not getting your gifts back. No, no, you can't 370 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: get none of this stuff back now. But stay that's right, 371 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: that's a that's a good point, Steve. That's a good point. Um. 372 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 1: Justine and Paramas says, I'm dating a man that has 373 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 1: two small dogs and he expects me to love them 374 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: as much as he does. They're his ex wife's dogs 375 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 1: that he's keeping for her because she's developed allergies. He 376 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: needs to cut ties with her and the dogs. Am 377 00:23:55,119 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 1: I wrong? Nope? No, no, no, nobody damn about some 378 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: dogs but him and huh no, Now you got to 379 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 1: love something that he supposedly used to love the ex wife, 380 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 1: and now she still got control and ties to him 381 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 1: through them too. Damn dogs. Now you got to get 382 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 1: in their relationship and he wants you to love the 383 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: dogs that really belonged to her. That this sounds so 384 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 1: stupid to me. If I was you, I just go, hey, 385 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: listen to me. It's the dogs on me and it's 386 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: real silfle cool. I choose me because I don't like 387 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 1: the tide that keeps you bound to that. And obviously 388 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 1: you're not ready to move on because you know they 389 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: got kennels all as we love the dogs like family. 390 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: Well they ain't, damn it. You know they just like kids. 391 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: No they not dogs. Is not like kids. No they don't. No, no, No, 392 00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:01,879 Speaker 1: I've had both. It ain't close. And you begged to differ, 393 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:07,440 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Emberley in Chattanooga, Emberley writes, 394 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 1: I went on a first date with a guy that 395 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 1: only drinks wine. I don't drink wine. When I ordered 396 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 1: a mixed drink, he commented that classy women drink wine. 397 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 1: I only had one drink, but he drank a whole 398 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 1: bottle of wine, So how can he judge me? Am? 399 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: I not classy for ordering what I like to drink? 400 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,679 Speaker 1: Is it a turn off for men? Wine has nothing 401 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: to do with you being classy or not. It has 402 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,960 Speaker 1: nothing to do. It's nothing wrong with you have in 403 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:40,399 Speaker 1: a cocktails. That's a rule. He came a wit because 404 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,120 Speaker 1: that's what he drink. Classy women drank wine. Well, then 405 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: some people say classy women don't drink at all, and 406 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,920 Speaker 1: then some people can say classy women only drink martinis 407 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: or Cosmo. Who is this food coming along? Because it's alcohol. 408 00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:02,640 Speaker 1: It's a damn glass alcohol right now? Which one you like? Business? 409 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: He drank a whole bottle of wine. And then you 410 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,159 Speaker 1: want to just tell him real men drink Scotch and 411 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 1: see what he's say. Oh, I like it. I like it. 412 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 1: You know, real men drink bourbon. See what he's say. 413 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 1: Because I ain't got no friends except one. It used 414 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 1: to every time order glass of shamblee everywhere we went. 415 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 1: He wanted to get glass of shabbleep. But let me 416 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 1: tell you something. He was all the man you could 417 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 1: won't And I'll say something to him, crazy, get slapped 418 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: with the bottle of shably. That's how he was. And 419 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: I've seen it almost happened before. All right, so moving on, 420 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: this is our last one. Steve Lexie and Gaithersburg says, 421 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,879 Speaker 1: my sixteen year old daughter has a body like a 422 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 1: thirty five year old woman, but she acts like a 423 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 1: nerdy kid. I'm seeing text messages on her phone from 424 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 1: read different boys. She loves the attention. But I burst 425 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 1: her bubble and told her what boys really want. She's 426 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 1: very upset with me, and how do I fix this? 427 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 1: You don't what are you trying to fix it? For? 428 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 1: Truth is truth? You know? My daddy always told me this, 429 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 1: he says, son, if somebody, if you tell somebody the 430 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: truth and they don't believe you, that ain't your fault. Yeah, 431 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: so now I've had to tell my children the truth. 432 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,200 Speaker 1: My daughter, she was telling me dad, he just want 433 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: to be friends. Girls. Stops, dumbass boy want to be 434 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,480 Speaker 1: your friend. Fault. You don't play video game, you don't 435 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 1: play no sport, you don't do nothing he do. Now 436 00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,120 Speaker 1: you could do something he want to do, and that's 437 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:54,399 Speaker 1: why y'all friends. But right now you currently don't do 438 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: anything he do with his friend. Nothing in common. So now, no, 439 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: you don't fix it. You stay persistent and you teach 440 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 1: and if you can get one of your brothers or 441 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,879 Speaker 1: uncles to come in here and double down on what 442 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: you just said so she'll understand. All boys want the 443 00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: same thing. My job was just to make it hard 444 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 1: for you to get it over here. That's all. I 445 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 1: put a wall around my daughters. Now. Now I can't 446 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,160 Speaker 1: do nothing with it now, but I had a wall 447 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,879 Speaker 1: around them when they lived at the house, and I 448 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 1: made it difficult to get to. I know what you want. 449 00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 1: I know what you want. I know their last one 450 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: of y'all want. I just like her cause we're friend. 451 00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 1: What's your ass out of here than you're talking to like? 452 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 1: I ain't been a boy at the folks man. Please 453 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: all right, Cello nailed it today. Thank you. Coming up 454 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, Steve, family member and 455 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: friend of the show Tank right after you. You're listening, 456 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: she show Hey, y'all, that's promise. We got special guests 457 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: this morning. We got a family member. We've actually been 458 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: around for the release of all his album and today 459 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: he's dropping his tenth and final album of his career. 460 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,280 Speaker 1: But Lord her Mercy, this boy can say, yes, he's 461 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:26,000 Speaker 1: a singer, he's a songwriter, actor, all around talented brother, 462 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 1: and we invited him so he could introl the new 463 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: album here on the show because he's family. So we're 464 00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: gonna get into it. Ladies and general, please put your 465 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: hands together for family member, our man Tank. Come on now, 466 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 1: come on yeah, yeah, yeah, take a celebrators, now, come 467 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:04,320 Speaker 1: on get to Yeah. Let me have flowers while I 468 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:09,280 Speaker 1: can stroll. Hey, how you being? Man? I've been good man. 469 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 1: You know, it's been a long time coming in y'all. 470 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 1: Y'all have beenness to day one, just like you said, man, 471 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 1: and the love and the support has been unwavering. And 472 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 1: you know I expect that same same support and love 473 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:25,680 Speaker 1: as I moved into this new chapter of just doing 474 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: more things man, and just trying to keep R and 475 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: B in the place where I know, I know it 476 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 1: should be. Well, we appreciate it, man. We got this 477 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: new one now, this is the final album. It's called 478 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: R and B Money. It's got two number one singles already. 479 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us about this new music? Man? 480 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 1: Is this classic Tank with the ballance what we're looking at? Yeah? Man, 481 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 1: you know, you know you you made that tape back 482 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: in the day that's set the mood tape. You know 483 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It was uninterrupted. Yeah, you know, so 484 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 1: you so you could get some real work done, you 485 00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Kind of really, boy boy, you 486 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 1: could focus as soon as soon as you press play. 487 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,959 Speaker 1: Nobody really had to say anything because the intentions were 488 00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 1: clear based on the music in the in the mood, 489 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 1: and the tone of what that music was saying. So 490 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,960 Speaker 1: for the first I want to say, nine songs, somebody's 491 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 1: in trouble, you know, somebody's somebody's gonna get touched. Hey man, Yeah, 492 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: you got to say somebody heard in a long time? 493 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 1: What Yeah, Yeah, there'll be some touching and some agreeing. Uh, 494 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 1: because we we gotta agree. We have to agree. Ain't 495 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: agree all nine clear? Thing clear. But from the tone 496 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: of the album, from song number one through nine, everybody 497 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 1: hit know what need to occur? No, what need to 498 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 1: We're in here. You you know what you see is 499 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 1: stop all this. We gotta get back to that. We 500 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,160 Speaker 1: got to get focused, you know what I mean. And 501 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: R and B music has always been a place that 502 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: you could go to to, you know, to to introduce yourself. Hey, 503 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: how you doing, I'm such and such for you know, 504 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 1: to reintroduce yourself. I know you remember me, you know 505 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 1: what I mean, or to just rekindle um that flame 506 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 1: and music would have that conversation for you that you 507 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 1: probably didn't know how to have yourself. So I just 508 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 1: you know, for this first three quarters of this album, 509 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: I wanted to be able to speak into those relationships, 510 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and speaking to those moments 511 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 1: m uninterrupted uninterrupted break. We started talking about Slow, so 512 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 1: we're about to hear it now. Tank set up Slow 513 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: for me in the LS play. Slow is really amazing record, 514 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 1: a record that you know, I can proudly say I 515 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: didn't write or produce, But when I heard this record, 516 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,520 Speaker 1: I said, these young fellas is onto something and in 517 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: a space R and B music needs to be in 518 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 1: because you know, we got to get back to taking 519 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: our time. Social media has spared us up and we 520 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:14,920 Speaker 1: no longer take the time to appreciate the nuances, you 521 00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Are we still running bubble bass? 522 00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what they're doing in twenty I don't 523 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: know if we still running bubble bass, you know, I 524 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: don't know if they're still heating the oil up. You 525 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, were just not pouring it on 526 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 1: you out the bottom. You know we're gonna we're gonna 527 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 1: put that in a night shore like yeah, are they 528 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 1: still heating up? I got a microwave in the bathroom 529 00:33:38,240 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 1: thought for playing with rosy? Are you in the mot 530 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 1: when you see the look on my face? That's my 531 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 1: type of few? Can I swim many other rotion? Can 532 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:41,080 Speaker 1: I drown in it? To baby? When I come do yours? 533 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 1: I'll make you running over and over and dover and lota. 534 00:34:51,760 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 1: Just slow and that you slow. We ain't gonna tackle 535 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:06,320 Speaker 1: time out. Get me up, get up, show me what 536 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: I need to know. Now I think it's about the 537 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:14,520 Speaker 1: go down and you ain't control so sexual how we 538 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,800 Speaker 1: end up on the floor. Now, I think we on 539 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: the full ground. On't your back throwing back? It's breaking 540 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 1: things you do makes me proud of you. It's stamina, 541 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 1: it's so for you. I'm a grabbing nigh smag. It 542 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 1: can't get it. I gonna we'll be right back. You're 543 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 1: listening Harpy Morning show. Light everybody, We're back. And before 544 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: the break we heard tanks newest single slope. Well, everybody, 545 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 1: you know this is tanks tenth and final out. So man, 546 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: let's just I mean, so after this, I mean, what's 547 00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 1: the next fight. You know, as I speak to my 548 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: last album in my retirement, it's getting to a place 549 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 1: to where somebody got to hold the gate. Somebody has 550 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: to be able to go into these officers and have 551 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 1: these conversations, whether it be for new record deals for 552 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,240 Speaker 1: real R and B artists, whether it be a touring 553 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 1: for real R and B artists, whether it be endorsements 554 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 1: and all these things that have gotten away from real 555 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 1: R and B artists, Like we need the next generation 556 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:31,320 Speaker 1: of R and B artists, songwriters, producers. They got to 557 00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:33,239 Speaker 1: have a place to go, you know what I mean. 558 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: Like the last great R and B label was the 559 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 1: Face Records with La Read and Babyface and and it's 560 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: no mystery as to why they were that, but they 561 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,920 Speaker 1: were that because they were that. And so you know, 562 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:48,840 Speaker 1: I feel like it's my responsibility to put myself in 563 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: a splace to where I can build this R and 564 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 1: B label, all things R and B. That's all we need. 565 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 1: Want to you want to make money come to you, Well, 566 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 1: hey man, that's what we need. We appreciate you, man, 567 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 1: don't look even though your last album, we know we 568 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,120 Speaker 1: ain't gonna we have Harley seen or heard the last 569 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 1: of you, because you in this business for the long haul, 570 00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: and I'm hearing the label talking the place far and 571 00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 1: be the live. We wish you well with everything. Man. 572 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 1: You know you got a home here for whatever you 573 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 1: decide to do. And slow has motivated me, and I 574 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 1: suggest y'all do the same. Go in your bathroom and 575 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 1: clear off all that counter space and all that stuff 576 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 1: that ain't doing nothing, all that bad beads that you 577 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 1: ain't never opened, and that damn lotion you don't stole 578 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,440 Speaker 1: from them hotels. Get all that stuff off the counter. 579 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 1: Get yourself from microwave up there. Put a microwave on 580 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:46,319 Speaker 1: the counter. Get you a spatchler out to kitchen. Get 581 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,759 Speaker 1: you some stuff you can work with in there. Put 582 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,440 Speaker 1: the other minting. Now, get you some stuff in there 583 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: that there's some some utential, your rolling pin, stuff that 584 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,320 Speaker 1: you already got in the house that could come in 585 00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 1: handy some honey over there, Get some flowers. Start yea 586 00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 1: what caring starts they put card starch one babies for 587 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,799 Speaker 1: die for rash Back in the day, you can ask 588 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:15,240 Speaker 1: what else to do? Yeah, yeah, Steve, we're going full size, 589 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 1: Michael Webb. We're going like a half size like the hotel. 590 00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we just need a small one because a 591 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:25,800 Speaker 1: lot of people bathroom ain't got all that room. You 592 00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 1: don't want a hot place. You're gonna mess out the 593 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: engine yourself. You're gonna injine yourself with that hot place. 594 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,839 Speaker 1: Steve Harvy Nation, here's a deal. This is the tenth 595 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,720 Speaker 1: and final album of his career. The album is called 596 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 1: On and B Money. It got two number one singles 597 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,399 Speaker 1: on it already. We heard slow. There are others want 598 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 1: you all to do what we do best. That the 599 00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 1: Steve Harvy Nation. It's on all downloading streams to all 600 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 1: of the real old people out there. Get your nephews 601 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 1: and grandkids that come in there and downloaded fighting and 602 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,960 Speaker 1: and I'm an album to Steve Harvey Nation. We owe 603 00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:03,719 Speaker 1: it to Tank. He's given us so many years the 604 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,839 Speaker 1: great music. Everybody, go get it, ladies and gentlemen, put 605 00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,759 Speaker 1: your hands together for the legend Tank. Okay, we'll be back. 606 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. There he is there 607 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:20,880 Speaker 1: all the time. Sam names the names. Even all you 608 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:25,239 Speaker 1: gotta do all the you know what, like yeah, yeah, 609 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: rock over bam here you are? Yeah heah, man, you 610 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:35,480 Speaker 1: know what man, everything everything went old? H Hello Roscoe, however, 611 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 1: what's up? Roscoe as the girl? Then Roscoe my hero, 612 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:50,400 Speaker 1: my man on one time a dog boy over and 613 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,719 Speaker 1: then going over the rim man. What's y'all do? Mother 614 00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 1: to day? What y'all need? Roscoe? We're not surprised you're 615 00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 1: here because we just had a special guests family member 616 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 1: U Tank about this new album surprise he's here, Yeah, no, 617 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:09,400 Speaker 1: I'm not by will have me here so I can 618 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:13,560 Speaker 1: explain the new album Tea. The new album is R 619 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,600 Speaker 1: and B Money. But he's got a new single. It's 620 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 1: called Slow, So I gotta ask you. I know you 621 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 1: heard it? What do you think about that? And Tank 622 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,320 Speaker 1: said he didn't write the song? So do you know 623 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,600 Speaker 1: who wrote it? We all we know good Hair where 624 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:29,440 Speaker 1: he ain't wrote it? And here you think I'm here 625 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,840 Speaker 1: for this goes into the right back into the lawsuit 626 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,760 Speaker 1: that I had early in this year. Through it. Everybody 627 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 1: now what they doing it? They're trying to be slick 628 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 1: Tall my day ain't wrote it. I know Gooda here 629 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,080 Speaker 1: where you ain't wrote it. Everybody knew I wrote slow, 630 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: Yeah I wrote I wrote slow, What are you? What 631 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,760 Speaker 1: are you thinking about? The inspiration for that song I wrote? 632 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:03,000 Speaker 1: I wrote, h huh, Well, let me ask what year 633 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:10,840 Speaker 1: was a man's patient proclamation? Eighteen sixty? I wrote slow 634 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:17,399 Speaker 1: in eighteen sixty eight? Were you alive? Then? Really right, 635 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,080 Speaker 1: y'all was lying here? I wrote the song for that 636 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,880 Speaker 1: because it took them so damn long to sign the 637 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 1: damn paper. And when I wrote slow, you know what 638 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,879 Speaker 1: you need to realize? Stop? You need to really really 639 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:34,960 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, we'll go ahead and really stop. 640 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,759 Speaker 1: Why because nobody believes that, Roscoe. You're just popping up 641 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,560 Speaker 1: after ten kids been our special. I ain't pop up. 642 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 1: Whoa y'all called me? Y'all call me, let me jall 643 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:54,360 Speaker 1: you something? I wrote Slow right after man's fatal proclamation. 644 00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: But I got news for you? What fast coming out next? 645 00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 1: Aclim it out right out of it right here? You 646 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 1: I know how to write a hit, baby, because rocket 647 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 1: go ahead? What what was your inspiration for the song slow? 648 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 1: Since you wrote it, you ain't literally what was your inspiration? 649 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:22,440 Speaker 1: White folks sold long to free the slaves that it 650 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:28,360 Speaker 1: inspired the song slow. I told it to Tink Tank 651 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 1: turned it into a love song. It was sexy. It 652 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,680 Speaker 1: wasn't what sexy when I wrote it? You know, Tank 653 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 1: a and being the here the dand one what he 654 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 1: gonna do? He can't write a slave song? Right? No? 655 00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 1: You know, do you really know Tank though? The bigger dude? 656 00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:58,479 Speaker 1: Tank know me? Who had a Tank? Thank you? Gotta 657 00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,200 Speaker 1: be crazy. I knew all in religions. I knew his 658 00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:12,960 Speaker 1: uncle helicopter U. I knew it that air folks now 659 00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 1: where naked got the name? Air folk? Who was what calling? 660 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,440 Speaker 1: I have a question, have you ever thought about instead 661 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 1: of suing all of these people Tank, all of these singers, 662 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,440 Speaker 1: have you ever thought about just Collabo doing it? You know? 663 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 1: You know that hand had had crossing my mind. It 664 00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:38,120 Speaker 1: had not it had it had done crossing my mind? Okay, 665 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 1: to do what you do? Ellabor with these people? Collabor? 666 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:48,799 Speaker 1: So what happened? You know? Just everybody won't be I'm 667 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 1: always getting fought over. They end up don't go in 668 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 1: with none of these people, and they just stealing, stealing Rusco. 669 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to say. We're out of China. You're listening, 670 00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,319 Speaker 1: coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's 671 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 1: my strawberry letter for today. And the subject is why 672 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 1: is he in my brother's house? We'll find out in 673 00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,680 Speaker 1: just a little bit. We'll get into it, but right 674 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,399 Speaker 1: now it is time for the nephew and the prank 675 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,840 Speaker 1: phone call for today. Now what you got? So the 676 00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: title of the Strawberry letter is why is he in 677 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: my brother's house? Right? Right? Yeah? This prank here because 678 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,320 Speaker 1: I left my medicine in your house. You see what 679 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Oh kind of goes together. Yeah, yeah, we're 680 00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 1: gonna you know, we want to have a title fight. 681 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, We have a title fight. 682 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:44,920 Speaker 1: I left my medicine in your house. All right? That 683 00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 1: is a cat dog if you would We're going to 684 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 1: strategically dive into this one. If you're driving right now, 685 00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 1: I think you should pull over because this one right here, 686 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,799 Speaker 1: this home running hitter, this classic nephew Tom, I left 687 00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 1: my medicine in your house. Let's go Hello Clarence, Yeah 688 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 1: this see it was just hey Clarence. Uh hey mon 689 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: named Sherman dog. Your house is the one that uh 690 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 1: got broke into last week? Right yeah? Man, just waiting 691 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 1: on the police to get back women Tim if they 692 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,440 Speaker 1: found these people or not. Man. So now hold on, 693 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 1: what's your name again? No, Surman, Sherman. How you here 694 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,839 Speaker 1: about it? Oh? No, you know, I stay a couple 695 00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:30,799 Speaker 1: of streets, so everybody in the neighborhood kind of heard 696 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:33,840 Speaker 1: that y'all had got broke in on. Damn man, everybody 697 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,920 Speaker 1: being kind of kind of real good around him. Man. 698 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:38,120 Speaker 1: Just don't make no sense. Man. You go out here 699 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,319 Speaker 1: and work hard for stuff, and then you know, people 700 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 1: just do you like this? Man, It's just I'm just 701 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 1: glad what nobody hurt. Man. My wife and my son 702 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,600 Speaker 1: they alive, and that's you know, that's the best thing. Man. 703 00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 1: So you know, trying not to custom like this happened. 704 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: You know, I understand. Man, you stay a couple of 705 00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:01,560 Speaker 1: streets over you say yeah, yeah, yeah, hey hey, let 706 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 1: me let me let me say this to you. Man. 707 00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 1: I want to say for I hate what happened, you 708 00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:10,399 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, And uh I do, man, 709 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,879 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm glad y'are your family and stuff. Yeah, 710 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:18,200 Speaker 1: I said, well, hey, man, can I just can I 711 00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 1: just say this here? Man? Uh? And I don't really 712 00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:25,880 Speaker 1: know how to say it, but uh, I was. I 713 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,880 Speaker 1: was with the two dudes that had broken there. I 714 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 1: was with them when they did that. Okay you did? 715 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:36,800 Speaker 1: You just say you was with them that broke in 716 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 1: my house? Oh so you were broke in my house? 717 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,399 Speaker 1: No seeing, no see see that's why I'm to see 718 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,840 Speaker 1: the clear. That's what I'm I'm calling you trying to 719 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,279 Speaker 1: tell you. I was trying to talk them out of it. 720 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Well, what the happening? Because 721 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 1: they did this, I couldn't talk about it, but you 722 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 1: know I was what I wasn't there taking nothing. It's 723 00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:59,239 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Hey, okay, okay, okay, who was any 724 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,000 Speaker 1: attention then? And I can't I can't be doing I 725 00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:04,120 Speaker 1: can't do that. I can't see. I ain't trying to 726 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 1: get in the middle of that. No, no, no, you 727 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:09,600 Speaker 1: can't do that. You just called my damn phone. Oh 728 00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 1: you can tell me who broke any is you was 729 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 1: one of them? Do what I was wanted with you? 730 00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,800 Speaker 1: That ain't this? That ain't even the reason why I 731 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,879 Speaker 1: called man. I don't give a damn what the reason 732 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:23,440 Speaker 1: you call me? You called me broken? Who who was 733 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 1: with you? Who was with you? Man? I'm matter fact 734 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,560 Speaker 1: what streets you stay on? Let me say this to you, man, 735 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 1: this is really why I called ain't when we was 736 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 1: in there, and then they started screaming at all and 737 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,359 Speaker 1: in each other, then saying we got to hear him 738 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 1: get out. You know. Like I said, I was in 739 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 1: there trying to talk to them out of that. I 740 00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 1: don't give it. If you tried to talk them into it, 741 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:50,000 Speaker 1: you broke into my man, broken my heart you and 742 00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:54,120 Speaker 1: got the my dadhit to call me. Okay, but listen, man, listen, listen, 743 00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:57,840 Speaker 1: listen to me, man. I'm listening to you fucking while 744 00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 1: I was in there, man, and know it was we 745 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,240 Speaker 1: was getting out of there in a hurry. I actually 746 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 1: love I my uh my pills fell out my pocket, 747 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:11,000 Speaker 1: my bottle of pills, man, my medicine, and I don't. 748 00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: I don't got no more repells on it, man, and 749 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,279 Speaker 1: I need my medicine. That's why I'm calling you to 750 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,200 Speaker 1: see if you don't man, me coming back over there 751 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,240 Speaker 1: to get my pie. I don't go about your medicine. 752 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 1: Who gives us about I'll tell you what I tell you. 753 00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:30,320 Speaker 1: I can ask me about some medicine. I was just 754 00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:34,200 Speaker 1: caught up in a bad situation. Man. I swear to God, 755 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,319 Speaker 1: if I see you over I swear to God, I'm 756 00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 1: gonna beat yours. I'm gonna beat your You better be 757 00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: glad my sean. I wasn't in my house. Man. Listen, man, 758 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to get have no problems with nobody. 759 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:50,919 Speaker 1: I just need my medicine. Man, your medicine. You got 760 00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,640 Speaker 1: problems with me, but I don't have no more repills 761 00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,719 Speaker 1: on that medicine. I need my medicine now. I get said, 762 00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,080 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what. Come come 763 00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,000 Speaker 1: get you. You know exactly where I said. I'm gonna 764 00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 1: have to get the front door open. You ain't got 765 00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,320 Speaker 1: the break in this time. Come get your buy medicine. 766 00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,879 Speaker 1: I spear to God, gonna need more than just that game. 767 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 1: I'm medicine. I put some on your I smell, why 768 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,360 Speaker 1: are you down? And I don't on man. Man, And 769 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:14,920 Speaker 1: I'm the one that was in there trying to talk 770 00:49:15,040 --> 00:49:17,399 Speaker 1: him out of it. He was with them because that's 771 00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 1: the point. I don't know that's bringing them to telling 772 00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 1: them to help you. Come get your medicine. So all 773 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 1: I want to do is get my medicine and be 774 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 1: through with this. That's all I'm trying to say to you. 775 00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:32,240 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to start. No trouble with you start, 776 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 1: No bay, some trouble you'll bron get to my You 777 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 1: know what, I tell you what I all this? You know, 778 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,520 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Come get the medicine. Come come, come, 779 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:47,000 Speaker 1: get the medicine. Right now. I'm at what what street 780 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:49,719 Speaker 1: you stay on? I bring it to you. Hey, man, 781 00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,080 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go back and form arguing with you. Man, 782 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come over and get my medicine. And man, 783 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna be through with each other. You ain't got 784 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,800 Speaker 1: to go back and forth. I tell you what, Come on, 785 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 1: gonna get your some medicine right now. This anymits you're 786 00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:06,400 Speaker 1: gonna need some moments your medicine. They're gonna come breaking 787 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 1: my from house. You both get to my shoe. I 788 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 1: take care on my wife and my kids in this house. 789 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,000 Speaker 1: I understand that. And I would not be back in 790 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 1: your arms. I can get my mouth gives you houling 791 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 1: that dog. I'll tell you what you know. No, no, no, 792 00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:24,840 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be back in my house. After you 793 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,799 Speaker 1: get you medicine. You're gonna have a permanent new residence. 794 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,320 Speaker 1: I swear to God, you're gonna be living in the cemetery. 795 00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,960 Speaker 1: I gotta lie my friend. I need to see before 796 00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,920 Speaker 1: I get over there. The man say this on your 797 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 1: way over here, I'm gonna. I'm no, I want my friend. 798 00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 1: I need to say it. Who say that's what I say? 799 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:49,440 Speaker 1: It is? That's my prop from the stem harm In 800 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:55,880 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just god pray by your sister bright. Hello? 801 00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:03,080 Speaker 1: Who the is this a man? And class? This nephew? 802 00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 1: Tell me man from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You'll 803 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,840 Speaker 1: supster breed got me to prank you man boy? You 804 00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:13,560 Speaker 1: you oh, you play too so much. I don't believe this, 805 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 1: Missy say, man, they broke in my brother Owes he 806 00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 1: needs spirits, he said, come on calling me and get it. 807 00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:27,239 Speaker 1: You know what you damn that had you a well 808 00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:31,439 Speaker 1: with bad? Oh man, why y'all wrong for this? Here? 809 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 1: Oh man? Hey, man, let something. What is what is 810 00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land. It is the 811 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:44,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Listen, bro hey, And if then 812 00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 1: that that broke in my house is listening, Uh, you 813 00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 1: come back over here. If you left your medicine, come on, 814 00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:51,920 Speaker 1: come back and get it. I'm at home right now. 815 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,839 Speaker 1: If they listening, they come on back over the now yeah, 816 00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:59,480 Speaker 1: right right now, bring your boy, y'all roll for that. 817 00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 1: I don't know nobody better than me. I hate to say, 818 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:06,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? I am the I am 819 00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:10,799 Speaker 1: the I am the Steph Curry lebron of Price. When 820 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,520 Speaker 1: you leave your medicine and somebody house that y'all broke into. 821 00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 1: Come on, man, come on, and you called back for yours. 822 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,200 Speaker 1: You was with them blanketed banks and what it got? 823 00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:29,279 Speaker 1: The nerd a call boy? Boy? You are really a 824 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 1: dumb criminal? Yeah yeah, yeah, what are you? You're sick 825 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 1: for any right? Right right? But let's not let me 826 00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:44,040 Speaker 1: go through any more complications. You know what I'm saying. 827 00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:46,840 Speaker 1: I understand they stole your stuff. I got there, but 828 00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,719 Speaker 1: help me out here with my medicine, right, do me 829 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:54,239 Speaker 1: a solid? I have a heart, brother, have a heart. Wow, 830 00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:59,600 Speaker 1: catch me tonight baby on the Own Network. Ready to 831 00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,560 Speaker 1: Love a style The Nephew coming straight at your baby 832 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,480 Speaker 1: tonight on the Own Network nine eight tenth. You don't 833 00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 1: want to miss me. That is Ready to Love Miami, 834 00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:12,359 Speaker 1: hosted by yours truly nephew. Tell me, get it get 835 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,919 Speaker 1: it in, get you some loving, come on, can't wait? 836 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 1: Thank you? Nephew coming up next Strawberry Letter. The subject 837 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,800 Speaker 1: is why is he in my brother's house? We're gonna 838 00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 1: find out right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show. 839 00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,239 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 840 00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:33,680 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting and more, 841 00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:37,239 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 842 00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air, 843 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,040 Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now, 844 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. It could 845 00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,960 Speaker 1: be yours. Buckle up and hold on type be guided 846 00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:52,400 Speaker 1: for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter, Thank you nephew. 847 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:57,760 Speaker 1: Subject why is he in my brother's house? Dear Stephen Shirley. 848 00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm writing for my brother because he is too upset 849 00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,839 Speaker 1: to do it for himself. My brother is thirty eight 850 00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:06,760 Speaker 1: and his wife is thirty five, and she has planned 851 00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,520 Speaker 1: a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and a 852 00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:12,480 Speaker 1: guy that has been her friend since they were eighteen 853 00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,839 Speaker 1: years old. This guy was married before and he has 854 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:20,000 Speaker 1: one child. Now he's no longer dating women. He told 855 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,239 Speaker 1: my brother that he is a great new man in 856 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,000 Speaker 1: his life, but he keeps him away from his friends 857 00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:28,239 Speaker 1: because it is not serious yet. My brother told this 858 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 1: guy it's imperative that he meet the boyfriend. And here's wife. 859 00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:36,239 Speaker 1: My sister in law is always with this guy, and 860 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,719 Speaker 1: my brother thinks she's cheating on him right in his face. 861 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,960 Speaker 1: Now the guy is going on vacation with his wife, 862 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:47,000 Speaker 1: so my brother got really skeptical. But that's not the 863 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:50,279 Speaker 1: biggest issue. We need to know how far another man 864 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:54,360 Speaker 1: is allowed up in another man's house. Last week, my 865 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,880 Speaker 1: brother came home and this man was sitting in a 866 00:54:56,960 --> 00:55:00,360 Speaker 1: shirt and shorts on the patio, his wife being on 867 00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,320 Speaker 1: the couch. The guy said they had gone running in 868 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:05,840 Speaker 1: the neighborhood and he jumped in the shower while she 869 00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:09,160 Speaker 1: took a nap. The biggest issue is that he took 870 00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,719 Speaker 1: a shower in my brother's bathroom. My brother uses the 871 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:16,520 Speaker 1: upstairs bathroom so his wife can have the primary bathroom 872 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:20,279 Speaker 1: all to herself. There is a shower downstairs in the 873 00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:24,000 Speaker 1: other guest room, but this guy went upstairs and used 874 00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:27,759 Speaker 1: my brother's shower. My brother feels that this guy is 875 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 1: way too comfortable in his house and it's his wife's 876 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:33,560 Speaker 1: fault for letting him do it. I agree with my 877 00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,000 Speaker 1: brother and his wife needs to be checked and this 878 00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:39,480 Speaker 1: guy should not go on vacation with her. What if 879 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,120 Speaker 1: his boyfriend doesn't even exist. I am trying to stay 880 00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,399 Speaker 1: out of it, So I need your advice on how 881 00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:52,360 Speaker 1: my brother should handle this situation. Okay, Sis, it just 882 00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:56,120 Speaker 1: sounds like someone might get hurt in this situation. I 883 00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:58,480 Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel that in my spirit somehow. 884 00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:03,439 Speaker 1: Huh of course. Yeah, a lady writer's letter or guy. 885 00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 1: A sister wrote the letter for her brother because her 886 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,719 Speaker 1: brother's too upset to write it, and I was just 887 00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 1: going to get to that, Steve. It's confusing. This letter 888 00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:16,760 Speaker 1: is really confusing. But from what I gather, the wife 889 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:20,760 Speaker 1: you guys suspect is cheating on her husband your brother 890 00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,359 Speaker 1: with the guy who she said is gay to throw 891 00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:28,680 Speaker 1: everyone off. That's kind of what she's trying to say here. 892 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,680 Speaker 1: And not only is your brother mad about the cheating 893 00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:34,959 Speaker 1: he thinks that he thinks is going on, he really 894 00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,319 Speaker 1: is angry that the guy is in his house using 895 00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,960 Speaker 1: his shower and acting like it's okay because his wife 896 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:45,719 Speaker 1: gave him permission, especially when there are other bathrooms in 897 00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:49,960 Speaker 1: the house. You're also asking for yourself and your brother. 898 00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:53,239 Speaker 1: How far should another man be allowed in a man's house. 899 00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,080 Speaker 1: And I'm going to tell you right now, you shouldn't 900 00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:58,399 Speaker 1: even have to ask that question because at your house 901 00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:01,839 Speaker 1: it's simple. You set the rule. It's a respect thing. 902 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 1: I don't care who it is. If you don't want 903 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,480 Speaker 1: him in there, he shouldn't be in there, as simple 904 00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:09,399 Speaker 1: as that. I mean. And your wife, his wife, your 905 00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 1: sister in law, should know better. She should never let 906 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:17,080 Speaker 1: another man or anyone disrespect the household, especially your husband's things, 907 00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:21,280 Speaker 1: your husband's bathroom. She's wrong for this. I think it's 908 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 1: just a matter of time before the truth about her 909 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:28,240 Speaker 1: and her so called gay best friend comes out. So 910 00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:32,480 Speaker 1: tell her you're going on the trip too, and that 911 00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:34,480 Speaker 1: will be nice time for the two of you to 912 00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:37,840 Speaker 1: reconnect and have some fun. That's what the husband should say. 913 00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,080 Speaker 1: See how she reacts. If she protests just a little 914 00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:45,040 Speaker 1: too much, that then you'll know that your instincts are 915 00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:48,640 Speaker 1: right and you can deal with her accordingly. But all 916 00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 1: signs are pointing to she's cheating with this guy, the 917 00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 1: so called gay friend of hers. I mean, he has 918 00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:58,439 Speaker 1: too much leeway in the house. All of that. It's 919 00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:01,760 Speaker 1: just too much. It's way too much. Steve, and it's 920 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:07,200 Speaker 1: very confusing. I know that you know what. I'm so 921 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,880 Speaker 1: damren confused him. It is very confused because let me 922 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,160 Speaker 1: read this letter with y'all and let me just go 923 00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:16,920 Speaker 1: as I'm feeling this letter. Okay, we may not ever 924 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:21,960 Speaker 1: even get to the end. Why is he in my 925 00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:27,560 Speaker 1: brother's house? I'm confused with I'm not a girl. Let 926 00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,960 Speaker 1: me see just Stephen Shelley, I'm writing for my brother 927 00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:35,240 Speaker 1: because he is too upset to do it for himself. Well, 928 00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:37,520 Speaker 1: as we go through this letter, we're gonna find out 929 00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:41,200 Speaker 1: that your brother is incapable of doing several things for himself, 930 00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:45,400 Speaker 1: not only write this letter, but he's too upset to 931 00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:48,440 Speaker 1: do it for himself. Okay, you've been calling in this 932 00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:52,000 Speaker 1: little boy. My brother thirty eight, his wife thirty five. 933 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:55,120 Speaker 1: She's playing a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends 934 00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:57,840 Speaker 1: and a guy that has been her friends since they 935 00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,120 Speaker 1: was eighteen years old. How many times have I got 936 00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:06,600 Speaker 1: to tell y'all about these male friends that y'all keep thinking, 937 00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 1: just want to be your friend? How many times we 938 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 1: got to go over there? How many letters do we 939 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:16,800 Speaker 1: need for y'all to get off this trick trail and 940 00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:21,439 Speaker 1: quit thinking this marriy go around, don't come around. I'm 941 00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:26,120 Speaker 1: so sickly yup. This guy was married before, he has 942 00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:33,000 Speaker 1: one child. Now he's no longer dating women. Hello. Now 943 00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:37,960 Speaker 1: I've heard of this, We've seen it in famous people. 944 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:43,760 Speaker 1: A person starts living their truth later on in life. 945 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:51,479 Speaker 1: That's lowable, that's doable, that's fine. But now I don't 946 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:57,000 Speaker 1: know at what point he decided he no longer dating 947 00:59:57,080 --> 01:00:01,600 Speaker 1: women because he was making kids of men. So there 948 01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:07,080 Speaker 1: had to be some type of Steve oh girl at 949 01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:14,080 Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty three minutes, half coming up today's 950 01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,280 Speaker 1: strawberry letter? Why is he in my brother's house? We'll 951 01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:21,520 Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening show, all right? 952 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,360 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, the subject 953 01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,800 Speaker 1: why is he in my brother's house? This letter is 954 01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:29,560 Speaker 1: beyond me ridiculous, y'all. I ain't even touched on any points. 955 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 1: So let me try to do it quickly. Why is 956 01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,360 Speaker 1: he in my brother's house? I'm writing for my brother 957 01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,320 Speaker 1: because he's too upset to do it for himself. Your 958 01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:41,480 Speaker 1: brother too upset to write? He too upset to do 959 01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:44,640 Speaker 1: a lot of things in this letter. Let's get to it. Ye, 960 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,200 Speaker 1: my brother thirty eight is wife thirty five. She's playing 961 01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:49,120 Speaker 1: a trip for Labor Day with two girlfriends and a 962 01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 1: guy that's been her friends since they were eighteen years old. 963 01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,960 Speaker 1: I'd have told y'all about these opposite sex friends. I 964 01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:59,840 Speaker 1: have told y'all about this, but y'all don't believe me. 965 01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:04,400 Speaker 1: So this is another strawberry letter to help you understand. 966 01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:09,480 Speaker 1: This guy was married before, he has one child. Now 967 01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:14,360 Speaker 1: he's no longer dating women, but he's still friends with 968 01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:18,720 Speaker 1: your your wife though jo on date women no more. 969 01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:22,919 Speaker 1: But he didn't cut your your wife out. He told 970 01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:26,680 Speaker 1: my brother that he has a great new man in 971 01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:29,920 Speaker 1: his life, but he keeps him away from his friends 972 01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:38,919 Speaker 1: because it is not serious yet. Man, what First of all, 973 01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:43,920 Speaker 1: if you are my wife's friend me and you ain't 974 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:48,320 Speaker 1: that cool you telling me about a new man you got, 975 01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:51,640 Speaker 1: but you don't bring him around your friends yet because 976 01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:56,200 Speaker 1: it ain't that serious. Wait a minute, we ain't all 977 01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:59,920 Speaker 1: discovered the news yet that you don't date women no more, 978 01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:04,080 Speaker 1: So then you ain't brought him round your friends because 979 01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 1: you don't know if it's serious yet. Have you told 980 01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,080 Speaker 1: your new friend that you don't date women no more? 981 01:02:11,720 --> 01:02:14,400 Speaker 1: Or maybe you've been running in this circle the whole time. 982 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:19,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening right here, but because of HR, 983 01:02:19,560 --> 01:02:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna comment. I'm just gonna try to keep moving. Okay, 984 01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:29,720 Speaker 1: Then my brother, your brother told this guy's imperative that 985 01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:34,160 Speaker 1: he meet the boyfriend and his Why what, man, I 986 01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,040 Speaker 1: don't give a damn what you doing. I ain't gonna 987 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:43,200 Speaker 1: meet your damn boyfriend. But here's why. Though my sister 988 01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:46,680 Speaker 1: in law is always with this guy that didn't stop 989 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:51,720 Speaker 1: liking women and date men now and got a child 990 01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:55,160 Speaker 1: and used to be married. My sister in law is 991 01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:57,560 Speaker 1: always with this guy. My brother in law thinks he's 992 01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,800 Speaker 1: cheating on him right in his hold up. So your 993 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:06,000 Speaker 1: brother think that his wife is cheating with the guy 994 01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:10,160 Speaker 1: that don't don't date women. Know more that that came 995 01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:13,120 Speaker 1: up to him, and now he wants to meet this 996 01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:16,000 Speaker 1: guy's new guy, but he'd have told him, and he 997 01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:17,840 Speaker 1: don't want him to meet yet because he don't know 998 01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 1: if it's seriously that fam missed me with this Just ay, 999 01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 1: why is the ass whipping not started yet? Because I'm 1000 01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:26,040 Speaker 1: trying to figure out if I think my wife is 1001 01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 1: cheating with a man. And then he come up in 1002 01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,520 Speaker 1: my face and strike up any conversation. I want to 1003 01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:34,000 Speaker 1: meet this new guy. Well, it ain't serious yet, so 1004 01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:36,560 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna bring him. Man flick pop dead in 1005 01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:42,280 Speaker 1: your jaw, Dead in your damn jaw. Now the guy 1006 01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: is going on vacation with his wife, So my brother 1007 01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:53,320 Speaker 1: got real skeptical. But that's not the biggest issue. What's more, 1008 01:03:56,640 --> 01:03:59,360 Speaker 1: we need to know how far another man is allowed 1009 01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 1: up in another the man's house. Wait a minute, much. 1010 01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 1: I needn't know how you ain't allowed in my house, 1011 01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,640 Speaker 1: not how far you ain't. You can't knock on the door, 1012 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:15,120 Speaker 1: rang the doughbell, You can't call my damn house. I 1013 01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:19,040 Speaker 1: wish I would come home and you in it. Pardon 1014 01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:22,120 Speaker 1: I can't take in all right, let's go. Last week, 1015 01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,880 Speaker 1: my brother came home and this man was sitting in 1016 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,760 Speaker 1: the shirt and shorts on the patio. His wife was 1017 01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:33,440 Speaker 1: sleep on the couch, knocked out. Probably that's she sleep 1018 01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:37,040 Speaker 1: on the couch knocked out. The guy said they had 1019 01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:39,720 Speaker 1: gone running in the neighborhood and he jumped in the 1020 01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:44,600 Speaker 1: shower while she took a nap. What right hold of dun? 1021 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:49,960 Speaker 1: You're so cool and comfortable, you and my wife weren't running. 1022 01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:55,280 Speaker 1: You didn't took a shower in my house. In my house, 1023 01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 1: this ain't our house no more. See when it comes 1024 01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:01,240 Speaker 1: to a man of the man, No, it's the other 1025 01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:04,440 Speaker 1: man's house. I don't care what the wife say. You 1026 01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,360 Speaker 1: already know you need to check with this man. The 1027 01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 1: biggest issue is that he took a shower in my 1028 01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:13,920 Speaker 1: brother's bathroom. Hold on, dog, you're in my room, oh pardoner, 1029 01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:18,200 Speaker 1: this man, my brother uses the upstairs bathroom to his 1030 01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,840 Speaker 1: wife can have the primary bathroom all to himself. There's 1031 01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,160 Speaker 1: a shower downstairs in the other guest room. But this 1032 01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 1: guy went upstairs and used my brother's shower. Yeah, ain't 1033 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,200 Speaker 1: want upstairs because that's where the bad room. Man. Might 1034 01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:30,880 Speaker 1: as well go around the corner. Why you think she 1035 01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:35,200 Speaker 1: downstairs knocked out on the couch, right man, I'm in here. 1036 01:05:35,240 --> 01:05:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm in here whooping so much ass. I'm telling you 1037 01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:41,520 Speaker 1: right now, you can't count the asses just getting whoop. 1038 01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,840 Speaker 1: Everybody got some, the lawn boarding, got something on the 1039 01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:47,200 Speaker 1: way in the milkman, the mail man that got some. 1040 01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:51,080 Speaker 1: Ask car repair dude and got to ask whoopen? You 1041 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,320 Speaker 1: got to ask whoopen? From right man? He don't even 1042 01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:57,040 Speaker 1: have ass no boat. My brother feels that this guy's 1043 01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,640 Speaker 1: way too comfortable in this house, and his wife's fought 1044 01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:02,560 Speaker 1: for him. Do it. No dog is your fault because 1045 01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:05,000 Speaker 1: you letting him do it. You let this man come 1046 01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:06,919 Speaker 1: up in your house and sit around and you ain't 1047 01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:09,000 Speaker 1: at the house. Oh man, this ain't on your wife, 1048 01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,680 Speaker 1: just on you. You being disrespected on so many levels. 1049 01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 1: It's an ignorant ass letter. I agree with my brother 1050 01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,080 Speaker 1: and his wife needs to be checked and this guy 1051 01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,600 Speaker 1: should not go on vacation with her. What is his 1052 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:22,760 Speaker 1: boyfriend doesn't exist. I'm trying to stay out of it, 1053 01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,840 Speaker 1: so I need your advice on her. My brothers can't 1054 01:06:24,840 --> 01:06:30,080 Speaker 1: handle this situation. Your brother need to start woman somebody 1055 01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:34,760 Speaker 1: all right? Thank you, Steve. Coming up next, it is 1056 01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:40,800 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this you're listening Stry 1057 01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,840 Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time now, ladies and gentlemen, for 1058 01:06:44,080 --> 01:06:47,920 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk, which you got junior. Thank you, Shirley. 1059 01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:51,800 Speaker 1: Don't forget September first, Huntsville, Alabama. Stand up laugh here 1060 01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:55,320 Speaker 1: I come, Oh, I can't wait September first. You take 1061 01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:57,440 Speaker 1: your favorite play cousin gonna be in to build it. 1062 01:06:57,600 --> 01:06:59,960 Speaker 1: I can't wait to do this show for y'all Huntsville 1063 01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:01,840 Speaker 1: stand up, laugh, We're gonna do that. But uncle, let's 1064 01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:05,600 Speaker 1: talk about it. Lebron James, man lit'ten. I just need 1065 01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:08,880 Speaker 1: to put this in perspective. Lebron James signed an extension 1066 01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:11,680 Speaker 1: to stay with the Lakers for two more years, but 1067 01:07:11,800 --> 01:07:19,120 Speaker 1: they panned this boy. Ninety seven million? Wait a million? Wait, 1068 01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:28,480 Speaker 1: wait a minute, perspective. Tell me ninety seven million making 1069 01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:37,520 Speaker 1: that's what his wife said at the house, ninety seven millions, 1070 01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:42,960 Speaker 1: making him the highest NBA player paid NBA player ever ever. 1071 01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:47,640 Speaker 1: Nobodies made more money in the NBA did Lebron Jack? 1072 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:53,960 Speaker 1: He ain't. But what dude, ninety seven million dollars to do? 1073 01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:59,360 Speaker 1: We don't know? Millions? What this? Dude? How you how 1074 01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:02,760 Speaker 1: you deal with nine seven me? Well? How you act? 1075 01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:06,760 Speaker 1: First of all, let's let's break it down. That's over 1076 01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:11,640 Speaker 1: two years. That's forty eight point five a year, Yes, sir, 1077 01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:18,439 Speaker 1: I'm I understand, yes, yeah, but how are you acting? 1078 01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:22,040 Speaker 1: How many games? Is it? Though? Let me just explain 1079 01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:25,320 Speaker 1: it to you. What the cutoff points is that? Yeah, 1080 01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:34,200 Speaker 1: once you make two hundred thousand dollars, you're in the well, 1081 01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:38,040 Speaker 1: in the upper realm of what the average person makes 1082 01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:41,960 Speaker 1: in the world. So understand that if you're making two 1083 01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:46,479 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars, it catapolts you into the upper end 1084 01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:49,080 Speaker 1: of what the average person makes. I don't know the 1085 01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 1: exact percentage, but it's up there. Once you make anything 1086 01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:58,400 Speaker 1: over two hundred, you you in the stratosphere. Once you 1087 01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:03,280 Speaker 1: get into the millions, you are into percentages of percentage 1088 01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:07,920 Speaker 1: of people. Wash, you get into the tens, you are 1089 01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:12,080 Speaker 1: into the percentage of the percentages of that percentage of people. 1090 01:09:12,760 --> 01:09:16,200 Speaker 1: You follow what I'm saying, Wash, you get up there 1091 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:20,640 Speaker 1: where lebron ad who is a billionaire? Huh, you just 1092 01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:23,040 Speaker 1: it's a magazine. You can just start flipping through and 1093 01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:26,760 Speaker 1: looking at him. They can put them all on a 1094 01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:28,840 Speaker 1: sheet of paper. Everybody that's a billion now can get 1095 01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:35,040 Speaker 1: on a piece of paper one sheet. Yeah, all right, 1096 01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:39,960 Speaker 1: he buying stuff you can't even look at You got 1097 01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:42,680 Speaker 1: that Michael Jackson money where you just buying stuff. You 1098 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:45,880 Speaker 1: don't even know what's sale the heir You didn't bought 1099 01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:50,639 Speaker 1: this giraffe from Michael Marinade on that for a bit, 1100 01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:52,880 Speaker 1: because coming up at the top of the hour, we 1101 01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:55,600 Speaker 1: have a Facebook question from a listener right after this 1102 01:09:56,360 --> 01:10:02,479 Speaker 1: You're listening show? All right, So guys, this is a 1103 01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:07,960 Speaker 1: Facebook question from j M and Lafayette, Louisiana. J M says, 1104 01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,639 Speaker 1: I found out that my husband has a side piece, 1105 01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:14,200 Speaker 1: and I confronted him. He admitted that he has tried 1106 01:10:14,280 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 1: to leave the woman alone, but he can't. I have 1107 01:10:17,200 --> 01:10:19,679 Speaker 1: a good life with him and he is a great dad. 1108 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:23,320 Speaker 1: We haven't had sex in two years, and I'm okay 1109 01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 1: with that. I don't want to leave him, and he's 1110 01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,799 Speaker 1: promised me that he won't ever leave me and the kids. 1111 01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:33,120 Speaker 1: Am I crazy for accepting this lifestyle? What do you 1112 01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:35,880 Speaker 1: think about that? Steve Harvey? Well, you ain't hair sex 1113 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:40,640 Speaker 1: what he meant to you? So what what did you 1114 01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,600 Speaker 1: want him to do? Please tell me you having it, 1115 01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:48,720 Speaker 1: she said with him. But see, I don't if you 1116 01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:53,840 Speaker 1: all are not having sex, and you're not having sex 1117 01:10:53,960 --> 01:10:58,360 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, you've lost your desire, you got medical issues. 1118 01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:00,920 Speaker 1: I don't know what the case is. He he don't 1119 01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:04,920 Speaker 1: have none of that. He's good. But let me tell 1120 01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:07,400 Speaker 1: you something. When you got the nerve to tell your 1121 01:11:07,439 --> 01:11:15,519 Speaker 1: wife I've tried to leave her, No, that's what you're 1122 01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:19,360 Speaker 1: seeing this man. Listen to me, baby, I've tried to 1123 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:25,040 Speaker 1: leave her. Lord him, mercy, I'm telling you right now, 1124 01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:29,560 Speaker 1: this woman is doing some things to him where his 1125 01:11:29,800 --> 01:11:35,400 Speaker 1: confession is inclusive of the thing she's doing. All right, 1126 01:11:35,680 --> 01:11:42,240 Speaker 1: he is surely asked me about you found out about us? Um? 1127 01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:45,920 Speaker 1: So baby, um, I is this true? Please tell me 1128 01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:47,960 Speaker 1: this isn't true. I heard you have a side piece. 1129 01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:55,160 Speaker 1: Oh you how'd you find that out? Back? Um? You know, 1130 01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:58,280 Speaker 1: word gets around a social media all that. I saw 1131 01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:04,880 Speaker 1: you guys together? U huh? Well can you leave her alone? Please? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 1132 01:12:04,880 --> 01:12:12,360 Speaker 1: I gotta side people. So it's true. Yeah, yeah, Well 1133 01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,639 Speaker 1: you do realize we're married? Can you please leave her alone? 1134 01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:21,240 Speaker 1: Well we've been telling about two years now? How how 1135 01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:25,800 Speaker 1: long to do you? Why am I just not funding? Well? 1136 01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:28,080 Speaker 1: Well you you found out when you told me we 1137 01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:32,240 Speaker 1: wasn't having sex more. Well that's only been two years. 1138 01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:35,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, well that's how long I started seeing her, 1139 01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:37,439 Speaker 1: because when you said we're not having sex no more? 1140 01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:42,000 Speaker 1: So we meet? We to me, met me and you long. 1141 01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:48,040 Speaker 1: I didn't sign up for this, I honestly think the 1142 01:12:48,120 --> 01:12:52,000 Speaker 1: wife says she Next question, sir, you have a question. 1143 01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:55,519 Speaker 1: I'm very calm. I was hoping to let you know that. 1144 01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:57,519 Speaker 1: I was just gonna let you know, dog, tell her, 1145 01:12:57,600 --> 01:12:59,800 Speaker 1: don't don't, don't. Don't call this side piece no more 1146 01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:03,200 Speaker 1: at all. Don't don't do that, do not call her. 1147 01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:06,880 Speaker 1: I could call her and tell her stop messing with 1148 01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:11,400 Speaker 1: my husband. No, you don't know you're gonna I've tried 1149 01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:17,000 Speaker 1: to stop seeing her. I've already tried that. I've tried 1150 01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:22,360 Speaker 1: into two years. I've actually set her down fifteen times. 1151 01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,760 Speaker 1: You're not trying hard enough, and said we can no 1152 01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:30,240 Speaker 1: longer do that. As soon as I got through talking, 1153 01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:35,080 Speaker 1: she did it to me again, and I said, what 1154 01:13:35,280 --> 01:13:39,120 Speaker 1: is she doing to you? That? Excuse me? Yeah? What 1155 01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:49,719 Speaker 1: is it? What is what? What is she doing? Yeah? Girl, girl, girl, baby, 1156 01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:53,640 Speaker 1: you don't need to notice. You sure you want to know? 1157 01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:56,400 Speaker 1: Because I don't think you're gonna be I don't think 1158 01:13:56,439 --> 01:13:58,880 Speaker 1: you're gonna be able to do nothing. You all are missing. 1159 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:03,280 Speaker 1: The wife doesn't care. They've already said you don't you're missing. 1160 01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:08,760 Speaker 1: He don't care. I'm not. The wife says she's going 1161 01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:12,360 Speaker 1: along with this a great dad and they have a 1162 01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:16,439 Speaker 1: great light. He ain't had sex in two years with him. Yeah, 1163 01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:19,800 Speaker 1: because I'm upset and Shirley is saying the wife doesn't care, 1164 01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:25,600 Speaker 1: wife doesn't care. Everybody is take happy. Let's not bother you. 1165 01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:28,880 Speaker 1: Boo Yeah. Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, 1166 01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna tell you how you can register to win 1167 01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:39,519 Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars. Right after this you're listening show, Guys, 1168 01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 1: we have teamed up, in case you didn't know, with 1169 01:14:42,000 --> 01:14:46,120 Speaker 1: Seagram's Escapes to give away one thousand and five hundred 1170 01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:49,240 Speaker 1: dollars in cash. That's right. We want you to create 1171 01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:52,880 Speaker 1: your own summer escape. To enter and get the rules, 1172 01:14:53,120 --> 01:14:55,679 Speaker 1: all you have to do is visit Steve Harvey FM 1173 01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:59,240 Speaker 1: dot com. I'm talking about fifteen hundred dollars cash that 1174 01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:02,080 Speaker 1: could be your wars. Get all the info at Steve 1175 01:15:02,120 --> 01:15:06,439 Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com. Sip happiness with Seagrim's Escapes your new 1176 01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:09,400 Speaker 1: summer favorite. Okay, and guys, I have to ask you this. 1177 01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:15,800 Speaker 1: It is Friday. What are your weekend plans? Plans? It's 1178 01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:24,520 Speaker 1: my anniversary the three teens Tony Tony is my anniversary, 1179 01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:29,040 Speaker 1: that's right. What are your plans? Well, my husband said, 1180 01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:32,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna go to dinner and have a nice night 1181 01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:35,680 Speaker 1: out and then maybe kick it on Sunday hang out 1182 01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:37,720 Speaker 1: by the pool, stay cation. You know we won't hand 1183 01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:39,920 Speaker 1: them on money, stay cation. I need to sign up 1184 01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:46,160 Speaker 1: a secret to get this fifth money. How many years, Carlo? 1185 01:15:46,240 --> 01:15:52,400 Speaker 1: How many years? Eighteen years? Congratulating eighteen that's all right, 1186 01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:56,640 Speaker 1: you're doing well eighteen yeah, yes, so let me say congratulations, 1187 01:15:57,240 --> 01:16:01,680 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you? Words? What what's this? How many 1188 01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 1: years you guys? Sir? Oh, look at the time. We 1189 01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:10,080 Speaker 1: gotta get out in here, show you girls, Dan, Lord 1190 01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:13,720 Speaker 1: of mercy. I don't think i'd make it one. Let 1191 01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:16,160 Speaker 1: me say how anniversary to my husband mar The Steve 1192 01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,559 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after 1193 01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:20,479 Speaker 1: the hour, we'll play a round of would you rather? 1194 01:16:20,880 --> 01:16:25,800 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to morning show? It's time 1195 01:16:25,840 --> 01:16:29,360 Speaker 1: now for a round of would you rather? Would you 1196 01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:33,960 Speaker 1: rather get a prostate exam? Or attend a spoken word 1197 01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:49,200 Speaker 1: poetry show? Bin't if all the poets is Junior, the 1198 01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:53,080 Speaker 1: poet laureate that he is on this show. Man, I'll 1199 01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:55,519 Speaker 1: be in the pay close, just paying attention to happen. 1200 01:16:55,640 --> 01:17:04,240 Speaker 1: Popping fingers, oh, Junior, not to example, but yeah, we're 1201 01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:08,680 Speaker 1: gonna do that. But we're gonna stop this finger actually okay, man, 1202 01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,320 Speaker 1: but you want to be healthy, right, yeah, I'll be healthy. 1203 01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:18,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to test. Hell if I could sit 1204 01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:21,040 Speaker 1: through two hours of Junior's point, so I must be 1205 01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:24,240 Speaker 1: all right? All right? You know how strong I have 1206 01:17:24,360 --> 01:17:28,720 Speaker 1: to be for that? Yeah? All right? Would you rather 1207 01:17:29,120 --> 01:17:32,439 Speaker 1: skip a bath and wear cologne or skip brushing your 1208 01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:36,080 Speaker 1: teeth and just use mouthwash? Be? We got to get 1209 01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:39,400 Speaker 1: that bath though, No, I'm sorry, Yeah, no, I'm gonna 1210 01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:43,280 Speaker 1: skip that bath and use this deodor than cologne. I 1211 01:17:43,439 --> 01:17:48,160 Speaker 1: talk who damn much? No, dog, I talk all day 1212 01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:53,080 Speaker 1: hell and smelling like oh kind of stuff. You can 1213 01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:58,120 Speaker 1: stay back away from people. I got to talk. You 1214 01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:00,559 Speaker 1: go through a drive through and just cry the window. 1215 01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:02,920 Speaker 1: You ain't stay back way for you. You can stay 1216 01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:05,960 Speaker 1: back way from You can stay back way from people. 1217 01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:08,680 Speaker 1: And it's up, dog, you give me some dapt no, no, 1218 01:18:08,880 --> 01:18:14,080 Speaker 1: not to day. Dog broke my hands be over here 1219 01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:16,479 Speaker 1: on what's up? Hey girl? What's gonna hey baby? I'll 1220 01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:18,640 Speaker 1: be up in a minute. Man. If I walk up 1221 01:18:18,680 --> 01:18:22,920 Speaker 1: to Marjorie and I've been smoking a cigar, man, the 1222 01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:26,000 Speaker 1: conversation I got to hear about my breath on no law, 1223 01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:29,800 Speaker 1: no law, no law, y'all have no idea. I got 1224 01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:33,080 Speaker 1: two brushes all around my house. Yeah, now you got 1225 01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:36,559 Speaker 1: She don't do that. Now, she don't do that? Though 1226 01:18:37,120 --> 01:18:40,720 Speaker 1: high teen is everything? All right? Would you rather eat 1227 01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:43,880 Speaker 1: baby food for a week or would you rather eat 1228 01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:49,719 Speaker 1: Vienna sausages and crackers? I can't do take that, baby foot. 1229 01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:52,480 Speaker 1: I can't do the Vienna sausage. Wind up Vienna sausages 1230 01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:55,000 Speaker 1: and crackers. That's that's a postal. I'll just swow off 1231 01:18:55,280 --> 01:18:58,679 Speaker 1: Vienna sausage. I haven't even be on the sausage since 1232 01:18:58,720 --> 01:19:02,240 Speaker 1: I was in high school. I mean apple sauce pair, 1233 01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:05,000 Speaker 1: I mean all that this in there. Baby food is good. 1234 01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:07,599 Speaker 1: It's tasty baby food. If you eat the sweet don't 1235 01:19:07,600 --> 01:19:13,719 Speaker 1: eat them green beans, don't Brandon Corli should just spit 1236 01:19:13,840 --> 01:19:16,920 Speaker 1: the green beans in my face. That's how. And it 1237 01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:18,559 Speaker 1: would be funny as hell to me, because they were 1238 01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:20,800 Speaker 1: they were highly offended. And then I messed around and 1239 01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:23,360 Speaker 1: tasted them one day, and I spit the green beans 1240 01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:26,639 Speaker 1: in the face. Oh no. All right, we'll be back 1241 01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:29,200 Speaker 1: with our last break of the day and some closing 1242 01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:32,040 Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. 1243 01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, guys, here we are our 1244 01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:40,439 Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Friday. We gotta 1245 01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:43,960 Speaker 1: say thank you to our very special guest family member Tank. 1246 01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:50,760 Speaker 1: Make sure you check out that single slow while you're 1247 01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:54,000 Speaker 1: added to his last album. We're gonna miss you, Tanks 1248 01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:56,920 Speaker 1: in that capacity, such a talent. Sure, then you be 1249 01:19:57,040 --> 01:19:59,160 Speaker 1: careful when you sech stuff like that because you kill 1250 01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:04,240 Speaker 1: awful person in heart. Oh yeah, you be careful. We're 1251 01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:09,920 Speaker 1: gonna miss you. Yeah. Yeah, we'll say that funeral now 1252 01:20:09,960 --> 01:20:13,200 Speaker 1: because your ass will write a person all your ass 1253 01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:17,320 Speaker 1: to be junior. I can't tell you how many times 1254 01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:20,280 Speaker 1: you didn't have one of them. Crisis and comment Shirley 1255 01:20:20,400 --> 01:20:25,160 Speaker 1: made really rather permanent. You're so I'm not telling the 1256 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:29,040 Speaker 1: truth right now? Well, I show hope. You want to 1257 01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,680 Speaker 1: see him in the hospital. What did you do? I'm 1258 01:20:31,720 --> 01:20:34,400 Speaker 1: not going down to see your sick down that fall? 1259 01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:36,720 Speaker 1: He called it hung up. They didn't even have a 1260 01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:38,720 Speaker 1: cure for sick or what is i'thing to do down 1261 01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:41,519 Speaker 1: at the hospital? He called it hung up? Yeah, and 1262 01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:43,439 Speaker 1: the stuff I want to bring him, they won't let 1263 01:20:43,479 --> 01:20:47,680 Speaker 1: me take him. You need a sick guard. Come on, yeah, 1264 01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:49,320 Speaker 1: hey man, I got a sick off for you. Y'all 1265 01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:54,679 Speaker 1: want some Scott gonna let you do that in the hospital. 1266 01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,000 Speaker 1: So what is I'm going down to the hospital fall? 1267 01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:01,600 Speaker 1: Clearly there's no cure for that. Damn. Hey do you 1268 01:21:01,640 --> 01:21:05,840 Speaker 1: want ham saying which is something? Yeah, you know, I 1269 01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:15,080 Speaker 1: just do stuff make you feel good? Right now? Right Steve, 1270 01:21:15,240 --> 01:21:18,120 Speaker 1: Steve could have been Remember the role John Goodman played 1271 01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:22,680 Speaker 1: in flight, Remember when he was coming to that's that's 1272 01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:25,200 Speaker 1: a role for him right now, coming through with all 1273 01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:30,400 Speaker 1: the goodies. Yea, hey, y'all my closing remarks. Let me 1274 01:21:30,560 --> 01:21:33,599 Speaker 1: give you something that I was thinking the other day. Okay, 1275 01:21:34,800 --> 01:21:37,240 Speaker 1: this has been good for me because in my life 1276 01:21:37,360 --> 01:21:42,680 Speaker 1: I've had a series of setbacks, and just like everybody 1277 01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:48,479 Speaker 1: that's listening, everybody has storms in their life, all of us, 1278 01:21:49,000 --> 01:21:51,720 Speaker 1: all of you listening, Some of you are in the 1279 01:21:51,760 --> 01:21:55,280 Speaker 1: middle of a storm right now. You can't live in 1280 01:21:55,400 --> 01:22:00,439 Speaker 1: this life storm free. But the thing about the storm 1281 01:22:00,600 --> 01:22:03,240 Speaker 1: that I've had to learn and grow to appreciate about 1282 01:22:03,280 --> 01:22:06,719 Speaker 1: the storm is that you will not be the same 1283 01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:11,160 Speaker 1: person when you come out on the other side of 1284 01:22:11,320 --> 01:22:16,439 Speaker 1: the storm. You won't be the same. The storm changes you. 1285 01:22:17,200 --> 01:22:20,760 Speaker 1: And see, the storm can be anything, y'all, because the 1286 01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:24,520 Speaker 1: storms come along with warning. See, it ain't like a hurricane. 1287 01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:28,840 Speaker 1: You know, the National Bureau gives you a warning. There's 1288 01:22:28,880 --> 01:22:31,760 Speaker 1: a storm brewing out on the coast, and you get 1289 01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:35,000 Speaker 1: a warning, and they give you evacuation route, and they 1290 01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:36,760 Speaker 1: tell you about the day that it will arrive, and 1291 01:22:36,840 --> 01:22:40,599 Speaker 1: they give you expected winds and all of that. Every 1292 01:22:40,760 --> 01:22:42,960 Speaker 1: storm that will come up in your life ain't like that. 1293 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:45,200 Speaker 1: Some of them just a tornado. They just drop out 1294 01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:48,880 Speaker 1: the sky. Sometimes you walk home and it's a storm. 1295 01:22:49,080 --> 01:22:52,000 Speaker 1: Sometimes you leave a house and this a storm. Sometimes 1296 01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:54,880 Speaker 1: you get it working, it's a storm. Sometimes you get 1297 01:22:54,920 --> 01:22:59,200 Speaker 1: a phone call and it's just a storm. Everybody gets 1298 01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:02,040 Speaker 1: And like I said, the thing about life is that 1299 01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:04,000 Speaker 1: they don't get to be pre announced like on the 1300 01:23:04,080 --> 01:23:08,120 Speaker 1: weather channel. Sometimes they show up. But if you notice, 1301 01:23:08,640 --> 01:23:13,519 Speaker 1: if you pay close attention, these storms that happen are 1302 01:23:13,600 --> 01:23:16,720 Speaker 1: actually vets in your life that you have no control over. 1303 01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:20,240 Speaker 1: For the most part, I mean, nobody wants a storm, nobody. 1304 01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:23,400 Speaker 1: I wish I could live my life storm free, but 1305 01:23:23,520 --> 01:23:26,600 Speaker 1: that's not how it works. These storms come up so 1306 01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:32,519 Speaker 1: unexpectedly and it and sometimes the storm stays in your 1307 01:23:32,680 --> 01:23:37,320 Speaker 1: area way longer than you want it to. But the 1308 01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:41,080 Speaker 1: thing about this storm when you do come out of it, 1309 01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:43,720 Speaker 1: and you will come out of it, because that is 1310 01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:47,360 Speaker 1: the nature of things. You've survived every storm you've been 1311 01:23:47,400 --> 01:23:51,360 Speaker 1: in so far, you've gotten to the other side. Now 1312 01:23:51,479 --> 01:23:55,400 Speaker 1: if you don't dway all on the storm, if you 1313 01:23:55,479 --> 01:23:58,679 Speaker 1: don't dway all on it, and you allow the storm 1314 01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:04,160 Speaker 1: to leave something behind, because behind every storm that is 1315 01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:08,240 Speaker 1: a lesson and a blessing. You will be changed when 1316 01:24:08,320 --> 01:24:10,840 Speaker 1: you get to the other side of the storm. But 1317 01:24:11,080 --> 01:24:14,400 Speaker 1: you got to be open to the change. See, you 1318 01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:17,840 Speaker 1: can't do nothing about the things that's happening in your 1319 01:24:17,920 --> 01:24:22,320 Speaker 1: life oftentimes, but it's how you respond to it that 1320 01:24:22,520 --> 01:24:26,840 Speaker 1: determines who you are, who you will be, how you 1321 01:24:27,000 --> 01:24:30,120 Speaker 1: move forward, or how you get tossed and laid down. 1322 01:24:30,840 --> 01:24:33,679 Speaker 1: Have you ever seen somebody go through something and then 1323 01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:36,040 Speaker 1: you got to hear about it every time you talk 1324 01:24:36,080 --> 01:24:39,720 Speaker 1: to him. I know a woman that's in a relationship, 1325 01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:43,480 Speaker 1: and every time I talk to her, it's that relationship. 1326 01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:46,759 Speaker 1: If I had never met him, if we hadn't spend 1327 01:24:46,800 --> 01:24:50,120 Speaker 1: all them years together, I can't get those years back. 1328 01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:53,760 Speaker 1: I wasted these many years of my life. She has 1329 01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:57,160 Speaker 1: allowed the event and the way she responded to it 1330 01:24:57,479 --> 01:25:00,960 Speaker 1: to effect the person that could be changed. So instead 1331 01:25:01,000 --> 01:25:06,000 Speaker 1: of changing, she remains the same and worse off because 1332 01:25:06,120 --> 01:25:09,560 Speaker 1: now she didn't let the storm determine her life. The 1333 01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:13,000 Speaker 1: storm is here to throw you forward, not to throw 1334 01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:16,280 Speaker 1: you backwards. Even if a storm come along and causes 1335 01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:19,640 Speaker 1: us a setback, a setback is just a set up 1336 01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:23,519 Speaker 1: for a comeback. You got to understand what the storm 1337 01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:26,679 Speaker 1: is for. It's not the storm, it's how you respond 1338 01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:29,720 Speaker 1: to the storm. You've got to start responding differently to 1339 01:25:29,840 --> 01:25:33,519 Speaker 1: these storms in your life. Man, when you get thrown back, 1340 01:25:33,840 --> 01:25:36,640 Speaker 1: it becomes a setback, but it's just a set up 1341 01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:39,960 Speaker 1: for the comeback. Come on, man, you got to start 1342 01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:42,280 Speaker 1: responding better. Talk to God the day he loved to 1343 01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:44,880 Speaker 1: hear from you. Okay, that's for real. I wish I 1344 01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:57,280 Speaker 1: had more time, but we got to. 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