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Speaker 1: And Kiki.

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Speaker 2: You have a demographic of fans that I never knew about. Really,

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Speaker 2: it is fifty plus year old white men. What did

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Speaker 1: Come give me right here?

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Speaker 3: Every day Fred's show is.

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Speaker 2: But as a young boy, if you were, if you

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Speaker 2: when I got to the NBA and it was you know,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't a little boy, but I still did it.

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Speaker 1: That was right next to you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did what sport were you playing? Because I was

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Speaker 2: doing It's like I was going to sign autographs for people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was going to Hollywood. Same, I was going

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Speaker 2: I was going to be That was your famous fantasy? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what was yours? Jason? Did you have a famous fantasy?

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Speaker 2: We're going to be like a backup dancer for Writtey.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like I was going to do something I think

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Speaker 4: I want to start off. I wanted to be Britney

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Speaker 4: spears like being an international pop superstar, but I couldn't dance.

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Speaker 2: You are an international you're an interstate pop superstar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, interstate as well.

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Speaker 5: You are.

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Speaker 2: You demanded that microphone that like Britney has, It comes

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Speaker 2: to have that. But it's fine. I'm still it is

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Speaker 2: the Fred Show. Good morning, Thanks for having us on

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Speaker 2: the radio, on the iHeart app live and anytime search

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Speaker 2: for a Fred Show on demand. The most annoying thing

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Speaker 2: that someone can do in an email, I know, Jason,

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I know, Jason. Probably you probably receive and

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Speaker 2: send more emails at times fifty than anybody on this show.

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Speaker 2: But eight five three five what comes to mind immediately

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Speaker 2: trying to set the mood like hey, I hope you're great.

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Speaker 2: And then here's the thing I want you to do

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Speaker 4: I've stopped that because I used to think like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, no, just get right to it because I

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Speaker 4: But I think like I hate and I think it's

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Speaker 4: Like hello, I did see this in an email that

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Speaker 2: So oh, so your email requires me to actually do something,

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Speaker 2: And like all the other emails, I get nope, but

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Speaker 1: And I don't think no one's mad at me, but

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Speaker 2: hope this email finds you well. I feel like I've

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Speaker 2: I'm not well and I can there's no point asking

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Speaker 2: I guess I don't know why that one's so bad.

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Speaker 2: Impatient repetition, per our conversation, confirming a receipt, just checking

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Speaker 4: It that lazy that you can't actually type your question

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Speaker 2: In theory, I could just I could just keep going

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Speaker 8: I think it's more of just like paper trailing yourself,

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Speaker 2: People don't like cheery responses Happy Monday, happy this and

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Speaker 2: But she uses like a curse up font and like

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Speaker 4: I will bold something that one thing about me is

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Speaker 4: I will bold.

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Speaker 1: Oh I've noticed condition, but you don't want to take it.

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Speaker 1: You know you bold back at me, but we can't

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Speaker 1: follow up today.

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Speaker 2: Let me see here. Lack of targeting. Like if you

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Speaker 2: You automatically, this is not an email that was even

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Speaker 9: Taylor Frankie Paul has lost temporary custody of her young

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Speaker 1: Heard radio up to search The Fred Show on demand.

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Speaker 2: It's a freend show. Good morning. Thanks for having us

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Speaker 2: search for The Fred Show on demand. Kiki's going to

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Speaker 10: So we're doing like a lunch one day. We're doing

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Speaker 4: No, we will have on swimsuits, just like kids aren't

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Speaker 1: Like, don't forget you. This looks nice.

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Speaker 2: I like my version of it. I like the Kiki's

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Speaker 2: That's what I like.

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Speaker 1: You know I'm not. I'm too small, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, So you're doing that? Are you hanging out with

442
00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:51,239
Speaker 2: my mom? Because nothing would surprise me more than if

443
00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,440
Speaker 2: you went to Arizona and then you wind up meeting

444
00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,480
Speaker 2: up with mom of Fred and and you know, moving

445
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Speaker 2: in on my inheritance.

446
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Speaker 10: I know I can't tell you because you will try

447
00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,720
Speaker 10: to fly there. No, I can't tell you.

448
00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,000
Speaker 2: Why would I try to think I would try to intervene?

449
00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,240
Speaker 2: She couldn't hang out with my mom.

450
00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:05,000
Speaker 1: Yes, you would.

451
00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:07,119
Speaker 2: You talk to my mom probably more than I do.

452
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,600
Speaker 1: You would try to get in the middle of our date,

453
00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:10,600
Speaker 1: and we can't have that.

454
00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:13,600
Speaker 2: Don't take my mom to be adult naked porny website,

455
00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,000
Speaker 2: water slide wherever you're going.

456
00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,399
Speaker 1: Oh, she didn't want to set it up. Set it

457
00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:18,880
Speaker 1: up with me.

458
00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:21,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's a regular.

459
00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:26,200
Speaker 4: There's my name at the door, she said, right, Oh

460
00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:27,480
Speaker 4: my god.

461
00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:31,879
Speaker 2: Have you ever found out something like that about your parents?

462
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Speaker 2: Have any of you were I'm just curious eight five

463
00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,320
Speaker 2: five five three five. Have you ever found out that,

464
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 2: like your parents, who you believe to be unassuming whatever,

465
00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,240
Speaker 2: you're you're grown up now you're not in the house anymore,

466
00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:45,560
Speaker 2: and you find out that like they go on vacation

467
00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,080
Speaker 2: to one of those hetonism places, or they go to

468
00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,080
Speaker 2: like a swinger's place, or I'm not even trying to

469
00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,639
Speaker 2: be like, right, well, yeah, there's a place. There's a

470
00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:57,800
Speaker 2: place in Illinois called the Ciberis, which is a hotel

471
00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,680
Speaker 2: that is exactly what I'm imagining Kiki going to, except

472
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,919
Speaker 2: hers has water slides, and then again I think this

473
00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:06,359
Speaker 2: one does too, actually, But essentially it's a hotel where

474
00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,640
Speaker 2: the rooms are. It's set up to go do that.

475
00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 2: It's set up to go that. That's the persons like

476
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,719
Speaker 2: hot tub in the room and like your ears, ceilings

477
00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 2: and whatever. Like if the ciberis it's intended for you

478
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:23,760
Speaker 2: to go just do grown up stuff. That's that. You

479
00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:25,840
Speaker 2: don't go there, like that's not the place you stay

480
00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:27,399
Speaker 2: on a road trip when you're on your way to

481
00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,359
Speaker 2: you know, Tuscaloosa or whatever. Like you you don't just

482
00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,520
Speaker 2: pull over there, you know, for a nice rest, like

483
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,480
Speaker 2: you're going there to have an affair. You're going there

484
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,360
Speaker 2: to do something crazy. It turns out Jason's parents used

485
00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:39,639
Speaker 2: to hang out there when he was growing up, and

486
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,159
Speaker 2: they had no idea frequent flyers or he had no

487
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 2: idea he had the rewards club card. I feel like

488
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 2: your dad, Kalin would be because your parents should divorce,

489
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:49,600
Speaker 2: you have your stepdad and then you have your dad.

490
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 2: I feel like the way that you describe your dad,

491
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,080
Speaker 2: he'd be the kind of guy that you would find out,

492
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 2: you know, goes on goes to one of these like

493
00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:59,439
Speaker 2: I don't know, has some sort of risque hobby or something.

494
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean my dad.

495
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 12: I can remember my dad going to raves like my

496
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:06,560
Speaker 12: dad is a partier. He was rather so, Yeah, I mean,

497
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 12: I definitely believe that, and he spares no detail, so

498
00:21:09,119 --> 00:21:11,320
Speaker 12: I do know about it. Unfortunately I didn't have to

499
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:12,760
Speaker 12: find out from anyone else.

500
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure that this person did. I'm pretty sure

501
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:22,199
Speaker 2: this person did not mean what they just texted. It

502
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,879
Speaker 2: surprises me to hear that Fred says an adult porn

503
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,040
Speaker 2: naked water park would be his fantasy, considering how homophobic.

504
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 2: But the next sentence is, imagine the nastiness. I'm assuming

505
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 2: you met germophobic. Oh my god, because I'm very much

506
00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 2: not homophobic. So again I went nothing on the text line,

507
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 2: which surprised me these days, except the next line says,

508
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 2: can you imagine the nastiness? I mean, I assume you mean.

509
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 2: I assume you mean germophobic.

510
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 1: Let's go with that.

511
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:55,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I am not the ladder or the former.

512
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 2: I am the ladder, so I assume yeah, And honestly,

513
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:01,159
Speaker 2: it is not, in fact my fantasy. And no, I

514
00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 2: would not go there because of the germs, because imagine

515
00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 2: if you went to a place where that's all that

516
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 2: they that's what it's intended to be, and that's all

517
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 2: they do. There you know then I mean hotels are

518
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:12,919
Speaker 2: like that anyway. But if you went to a hotel

519
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:16,360
Speaker 2: that's specialized in just being nasty, then yeah, you can

520
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 2: assume there's DNA everywhere. Oh so anyway, okay, So I

521
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 2: was just curious if anybody knew of any sort of like,

522
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 2: oh wait, we do Oh hold on a second, Lizzie,

523
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 2: Hey Lizzy, good morning, Good morning, Lizzie. So I was

524
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 2: just curious if you since we're talking about where Kik's

525
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: going this weekend, which is a quote unquote adult water park.

526
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:39,439
Speaker 2: I still don't know what that means. But did you

527
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,439
Speaker 2: ever And then Jason's parents went to like, you know,

528
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 2: the Freaky Hotel. Did your parents ever did you find

529
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 2: out that your parents are into something that you're like?

530
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 2: What on earth?

531
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Speaker 13: So my parents are the epitome of old people. Couple.

532
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 13: There's seventy four. They's at the Playboy.

533
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 7: Club in Chicago.

534
00:22:58,480 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

535
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 13: Day and apparently there was a hot salt and that's

536
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 13: where they met. And then they were engaged on their

537
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 13: second dage and my dad bought a ring to the

538
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 13: second day.

539
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 11: Wow.

540
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,439
Speaker 2: Wow wow. So they used to have these things all

541
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 2: over the country. My dad, my dad was a I

542
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: guess you got you were like a key member or something,

543
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 2: and you got a key, and the key got you

544
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 2: into these places all over the country. So my dad

545
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 2: had a membership to one of these, like in the seventies,

546
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 2: and so you'd go to you know, big cities and

547
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 2: they would have these Playboy clubs, right exactly, And so

548
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 2: I guess you'd go there and it was like a

549
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 2: bar and a hangout. Wasn't necessarily sallacious, but yeah, So

550
00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 2: your parents met at the Playboy Club and then look

551
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: at you. How long did it take to for them

552
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 2: to make you? Soundly, they didn't waste much time.

553
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 13: I actually am adopted, So twenty years later they adopted me.

554
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 13: And now they've been married for forty five years.

555
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 2: Wow. Okay, so romance starts at the at the Playboy

556
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 2: Club obviously, Yeah, boy club, we got it out. I

557
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 2: love that, Lizzie. All right, well I'll meet you there,

558
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 2: have a good day. Well, well, Keiky'll be there before me.

559
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,959
Speaker 2: But anyways, I will. I hate the same story, Debbie.

560
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,239
Speaker 2: I mean, that's love, by the way. That's I mean

561
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: when I when I think of like Cinderella stories, I

562
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 2: think of just the one she just told hey, Debbie, hey, hey,

563
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 2: good morning. Did you what did you find out about

564
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 2: your parents or people who were important to you later

565
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 2: at life? And you were blown away.

566
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 13: It was kind of my daughter finding out about me.

567
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 14: I went to an adult only, clothing optional resort with

568
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 14: a male friend of mine and my daughter was about

569
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 14: nineteen twenty and she had called me while I was

570
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 14: there and asked me how it was going, and I said,

571
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 14: it was really nice.

572
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 11: Solve it.

573
00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 14: And then I slipped up because she was really into tattoos,

574
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,360
Speaker 14: and I mentioned that there was a guy there, so, yeah,

575
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 14: you wouldn't believe it. There's this guy here and he's

576
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 14: literally got tattoos everywhere. He didn't, you know, down there.

577
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: And she's like, wait a minute, what I didn't know?

578
00:24:55,720 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 14: This place very nice, and I well, you know.

579
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 15: Never mind.

580
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 13: So yeah, it was.

581
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 6: It was a little awkward.

582
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 2: Wow, that's that guy. Must have been a good friend,

583
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 2: a good friend of yours.

584
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 14: He was a very well, yeah, my friend was a

585
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 14: very good friend. He got there by telling me when

586
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 14: I said I wasn't sure I could go to a

587
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 14: place and be naked in public, he said, well, it's

588
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 14: not like you're going to be naked in Walmart.

589
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 13: You know, he was right, Wow, it's different.

590
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 2: Now, were you guys? Now, when you you use the

591
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 2: term friend loosely, I mean in this case, I'm assuming

592
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 2: or do you? Were you actually friends with this guy?

593
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 2: And he was like, hey, Debbie, what are you doing

594
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 2: this weekend? We should go to a naked adult resort together.

595
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden you realize, oh, we're

596
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,119
Speaker 2: more than friends. I guess, well, no.

597
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 14: We were, you know, kind of friends with benefits thing.

598
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 14: You know, he's my fun friend.

599
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 2: Everybody needs a fun friend. Yeah, but plus, of course

600
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,399
Speaker 2: you're married or in a relationship. But anyway, Hey Debbie,

601
00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 2: thank you. I have a great day you too. One

602
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 2: of my favorite parts about doing this show is it

603
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 2: doesn't matter what we're talking about. I can, for the

604
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 2: most part, say call now and somebody can somebody can

605
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 2: tell us something about something, And it turns out we

606
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,719
Speaker 2: got a bunch of freaky people out there listening to us.

607
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 2: It makes me wonder how much stuff our parents have

608
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 2: done that we don't know about.

609
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 1: Though I'm good unknowing.

610
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,879
Speaker 2: Like Paulina, you know, I love Mama Marta deeply, but

611
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 2: I can see it. I can see a world where Mama,

612
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 2: Marta may have gone to a place like this and

613
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 2: you never knew.

614
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 8: About it, and she still might be You guys, she

615
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 8: tells me all the time, I am living my best

616
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 8: life right now in my.

617
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: Fifties, divorce like doing my thing.

618
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 8: You know, I got my little granddaughter, like she's really

619
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 8: living her best life.

620
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 1: And she goes missing on weekends. You guys know that. Yeah,

621
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: I where she goes sometimes. So she just might be

622
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,480
Speaker 1: get it Marta, Ohio, do.

623
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 2: You think she has a boyfriend she won't tell you about?

624
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:50,959
Speaker 2: And if she does, why wouldn't she tell you?

625
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 1: So Marta.

626
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 8: One thing about Marta that I knew before children, so

627
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 8: BC before kids or be yeah, before children. She used

628
00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 8: to get it like that, like she had these men

629
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 8: running circles around her. That's my aunt literally told me.

630
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 8: They're like, yeah, she was that girl obviously so and

631
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 8: she should be. So I feel like she's bringing that back.

632
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 8: So I don't think she would have a serious relationship

633
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 8: like a boyfriend, but she probably got a couple guys

634
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 8: in rotation, a couple of good morning texts.

635
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 2: Wow, she got a couple good morning texts.

636
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised. I would Yeah, should get married again.

637
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 8: She's a smart woman, like she's like I would it right.

638
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna tell my mom not to hang out

639
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 2: with you this weekend, Kiki, because I don't necessarily need

640
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 2: to know if you guys are going to the adult

641
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 2: water park together. It's really none of my business.

642
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 1: It is not your business.

643
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, Well up in the city. A word

644
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 2: of phrase that you've been saying wrong your entire life,

645
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 2: and maybe you just recently realized that you weren't saying it.

646
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 2: Colleena has got I mean, how about do we have

647
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 2: for you?

648
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 8: I think the one that I discovered was I called

649
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 8: it rostadaie chicken, but it's rotisserie chicken, and I'm going

650
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 8: to Costco looking for a rosatterie chicken.

651
00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: Bread show? Is what do you pretend to like? Because

652
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 2: someone that you love loves it action movies?

653
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 10: You know, I hate a ho out downstairs and everybody's

654
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 10: shooting and stuff blowing up, Like I hate those movies,

655
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 10: but I have to sit there with my little popcorn and.

656
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: Go wow, so good. That's why you got that ring, right?

657
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

658
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: I hate an action movie.

659
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 2: How does it go again?

660
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 1: Then everything is on fire?

661
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 10: Like you things EMTs everywhere, like.

662
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: What's some piece?

663
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 10: Like everybody's running all the time.

664
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: It's just I hate an action movie.

665
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting.

666
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 3: By the phone?

667
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 2: It's the Fred Shell. Hey, Trevor, good morning, Welcome to

668
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: the program. How are you.

669
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 11: I'm doing okay, man, I'm doing okay.

670
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 2: How you doing doing great?

671
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 3: Man?

672
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 2: What's going on with this woman Danielle? We got to

673
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 2: know everything on waiting by the phone? You met her?

674
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 2: We want to know how you met, about any dates

675
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 2: you've been on, and then why did you think you're

676
00:28:59,080 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 2: being ghosted?

677
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

678
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 11: So, like we met at a coffee shop, just very casual,

679
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 11: like she was ordering, I was ordering, and like we

680
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 11: just got to like talking because one of us made

681
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 11: like a comment or whatever, and it was just one

682
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 11: of those things where I don't know, we automatically kind

683
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 11: of clicked, and I took a chance and was like,

684
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 11: you want to go on a date, and she actually

685
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 11: said yes, which is not like me at all. So

686
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 11: I took her to this really nice spot for drinks,

687
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 11: which then turned into dinner, which then turned in her

688
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 11: coming over to my house and we hung out for

689
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 11: a while and then she left, but I like tested

690
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 11: her and called her and she like not responded at all,

691
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 11: and I don't know what's going on because I thought we.

692
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 2: Had a really great connection and.

693
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 7: Now I just feel like she's ghosting me.

694
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 2: All right, So from drinks back to your place, which

695
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 2: I mean again, let's like break this down a little

696
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: bit as we do. Yeah, a little play by play here.

697
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: I mean, you had the drinks that obviously went well

698
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: enough that she wanted to leave and go to your

699
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 2: house with you, and you're saying that went well.

700
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 11: We went from drinks to dinner like it was one

701
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 11: of those things where we met up for like a cocktail,

702
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 11: right A.

703
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 2: See that's a friend classic. That's from the playbook. You

704
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 2: can buy the book online. If you start with the drinks,

705
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 2: you commit to drinks, and then if that goes well,

706
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 2: week stend the evening and week stend the evening. But

707
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 2: we always have it out. Yes, yes, Trevor, thank you

708
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 2: for your support of my craft. I appreciate it.

709
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 11: It's brilliant.

710
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, thank you. I believe so too. So

711
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 2: you you have not heard from this woman since she

712
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: left your home, and you it's bothering you. You've you've texted,

713
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 2: you've called, I assume and nothing. Nothing. Okay, Well, let's

714
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 2: call Danielle in just a second. I'm going to play song.

715
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: We'll come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Danielle.

716
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:31,959
Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone. We're going to ask all

717
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 2: these questions on your behalf, and as always, we're gonna

718
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 2: try and straighten this out and then set you up

719
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 2: on another date that we pay for. Okay, awesome, good morning.

720
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 2: It's the Friend Show, Part two of Waiting by the Phone.

721
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: Hey Trevor, Hey, all right, let's suck by the way.

722
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 2: If there are a few Trevors in my life that

723
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 2: I really value and and you're neither of them, not

724
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 2: that ill. It's no, no, no, it's not that I don't

725
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 2: value you, now, hold on, It's not that I value you.

726
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 2: I value you, Trevor. I'm just saying you're not You're

727
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 2: not my close friend, Trevor. And you're also not Trevor

728
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: Jason's wanna be boyfriend in uh, you know, one of

729
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 2: our one of the suits that we really really like.

730
00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 2: So I just want to be very clear. We have

731
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 2: some Trevors in the Hall of Fame, uh, and this

732
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 2: is neither one of those guys. I'm just there are

733
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: some Trevors who have been discussed on this show, and

734
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 2: I just want to make sure that whatever happens here,

735
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 2: there's no confusion.

736
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: The girl will already won't call him back.

737
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: Protect Protect all the Trevors, is all I'm saying.

738
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 11: But not you.

739
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: I didn't say that this is a new Trevor unlike Trevor.

740
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 2: Do you understand what I'm saying, Trevor, these people are haters.

741
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 2: Do you understand what I'm saying.

742
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying.

743
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: Just a small ego hit. That's fine, that's not That's

744
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: not what I'm saying.

745
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: It's a party and you're not invited.

746
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 2: Is new Trevor unlocked? Is what I'm saying to you.

747
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 2: All Right, you understand. And by the way, this could

748
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 2: end in epic fashion and maybe you become the third

749
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 2: Trevor that we love.

750
00:31:58,680 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 1: You want to be a thing.

751
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll be in to the party. I got. I'm

752
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 2: just hanging out, not get ahead of ourselves. We're gonna

753
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 2: call Danielle right now and try and figure out why

754
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: maybe you have been ghosted. Good luck, man, appreciate it.

755
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 2: HI is this Danielle?

756
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, Danielle, good morning.

757
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 2: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show, the

758
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 2: Morning radio Show, and I have to tell you that

759
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now and I would

760
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 2: need your permission to continue with the call for just

761
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: a second. You can hang up anytime, but we'd love

762
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 2: to chat with you if that's okay, okay, okay, Well,

763
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 2: thank you so much. We're calling on behalf of a

764
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 2: dude who reached out to us. His name is Trevor.

765
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: Do you remember meeting Trevor?

766
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 6: Hi, Trevor.

767
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, that's good because we just had a nice

768
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 2: chat with Trevor and he had great things to say

769
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 2: about you, and he was excited to go on a

770
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 2: date with you. And he felt like the date went

771
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 2: well and kind of just kept going and going in

772
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 2: a good way. But he says he's reached out to

773
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 2: plan another one since then and he can't get a

774
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 2: hold of you. So what's going on with that?

775
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 13: Well, Uh, Trevor's a little high strung.

776
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 2: Let's say he's strong. What does that mean?

777
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 5: Well, so things things that weird when we get back

778
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 5: to his place, Like, okay, so when we got back,

779
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 5: he grabbed his.

780
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 16: Drinks, but then he went like right to the bathroom

781
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 16: and when he came out, he just like suddenly stopped,

782
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 16: like frozen in his tracks.

783
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 13: He puts his hand over.

784
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 6: His mouth and he's like, oh my god, Oh my god,

785
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 6: oh my god.

786
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: And then he ran out of the room.

787
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 6: So I'm like, I jump off.

788
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 17: I'm freaked out because I don't know what's going on.

789
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 7: Like he just he scared me.

790
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 18: Honestly.

791
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 17: He ran back into the room to put a coaster under.

792
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 6: My drink, and then he said something like.

793
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: He was like.

794
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 17: Panicking, right, and I was like, wow, like all that

795
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 17: for a coaster. Yeah, I was definitely the wrong thing

796
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 17: to say, because he started like pacing around trying to

797
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 17: calm himself down, and I swear.

798
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 16: He was legit talking to himself, like he was saying

799
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 16: stuff like it's okay, shouldn't mean it, it's okay, Like

800
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 16: it wasn't on purpose.

801
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: Just breathe just you know, everybody.

802
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 2: Knows you use a coaster. I mean that's not yeah,

803
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 2: I mean, you just say it first, call me out

804
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 2: by name next time, you know. Okay. So he he

805
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 2: was upset about the coaster and then he was sort

806
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 2: of like spinning out on his own and you're watching this,

807
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 2: going what is happening?

808
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, like, in my defense, I apologize for not he'sing

809
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 5: a coaster, like, like, I get it, you're these coasters,

810
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 5: but he like cool.

811
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 17: He turned around like really slow, and he looked at

812
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 17: me with this like deaths there basically, and he was like,

813
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 17: why don't you respect Wood? And I was like I

814
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 17: was it was ridiculous.

815
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 2: I know, Darth Vader here, why don't you respect Wood?

816
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 8: It sounds so ridiculous to say it out loud, But

817
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 8: the thing is, in the moment in that apartment, I

818
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,240
Speaker 8: was genuinely frightened, like I was sincerely scared.

819
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,400
Speaker 17: I thought we was having like this psychotic break or something.

820
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 2: Sounds like maybe, I mean, why don't you respect Wood?

821
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 2: Is my question? But oh, I forgot to mention. Trevor

822
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 2: is here. He might be melting down right now just

823
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 2: remembering this event. Trevor, I forgot. I've got to mention

824
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 2: that I'm sorry. Did this happen? Did you? Did you,

825
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,919
Speaker 2: you know, verbally accost her about not respecting Wood? Whoa whoa,

826
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 2: whoa whoa.

827
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 11: Okay, first of all, you're making it seem like I

828
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 11: turned around like the whole dark figure thing. That's not

829
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 11: how I said that. I turned around I lived at her,

830
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 11: and I was like, why don't you respect wood? And

831
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 11: I think we're kind of leaving on very big p

832
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 11: information here, and we're reading on a very big part

833
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 11: of information here, because my it was it wasn't like

834
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 11: cheap ikea wood. We're not talking about plastic wood. This

835
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 11: was zebra wood from Africa. That's what my thing is

836
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 11: made out of.

837
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 2: Zebra wood.

838
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 11: And it's very very expensive, Like this is a this

839
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 11: is something that I brought in from Africa, from another country.

840
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 7: This is expensive.

841
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 11: It's something that if you get if you get a

842
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,959
Speaker 11: ring on it due to your drink, because you didn't

843
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 11: want to put a coaster down even though they were

844
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 11: literally right next to you. Mind you, and you're going

845
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 11: to sit there and ruin like thousands of dollars worth

846
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 11: of like material, just because you decided I don't really

847
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 11: care about putting a coaster down to somebody's new place.

848
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, Danielle, it's clear you don't have an

849
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 2: appreciation for an African zebra wood. And I don't understand

850
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: why not. Everybody When you look at that, everybody knows.

851
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 11: What it is, and everybody knows, Oh that's hebrewood.

852
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,919
Speaker 13: Wow, that's from Africa. Wow, that's expensive, Like.

853
00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, like no, I mean, look, if you like you

854
00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 2: want someone to use you want someone to use a coaster, Trevor,

855
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 2: I got it. But if you have an item that

856
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 2: is that cherished that I think you got to be

857
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 2: like prepared to protect it without being rude to your people,

858
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like people are gonna come over,

859
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 2: they're gonna use your stuff, and I think you got to.

860
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 2: You know, you got this cherished zebra wood African table

861
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 2: thing that you imported from Africa. I guess from the

862
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 2: zebra wood factory. I don't know, And like you know,

863
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: you're you're obviously very proud of it. So I don't

864
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 2: know that you should be like yelling at people who

865
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 2: don't understand the value of a proper zebrawood table. Nobody

866
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 2: got yelled at.

867
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 1: Let's get be very clear, nobody.

868
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 2: Get no, you're basically threatened. You wouldn't like poultrygeist on

869
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 2: on her, You're not coming to the Treffor shop.

870
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 11: I don't think I'm making it seem like I did that,

871
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 11: but if not. But I turned around, I was like,

872
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 11: why don't you respect wood, because again, this is very

873
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 11: expensive zebrawood.

874
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 2: Well, there's a lot of passion here. There's a lot

875
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 2: of Okay, tell me one more time. What is it again?

876
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 2: What is it again?

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00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 11: No? No, I'm so sorry that I don't like cheap

878
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 11: I keel wood. The freaking Americans with your plastic crap.

879
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 2: Well, we're going to go down to it and play.

880
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 11: Can put it goether myself?

881
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 2: This is a real wood.

882
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 11: I'm sorry that I appreciate actual signe materials and I

883
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 11: don't sit there and go down to Ikea so I

884
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 11: can buy a thirty two.

885
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 2: Dollars piece of craft. Leave out of this, enjoy the

886
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 2: nice things and assassination. Okay, this Listen.

887
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:25,360
Speaker 16: When people are like, oh, the male willingness crisis, this

888
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 16: is it, This is it.

889
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 2: If you're going to be this, this is my thing.

890
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 2: And this applies, I think to any luxury item, whether

891
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:36,399
Speaker 2: it's clothing or shoes or something in your home. What's

892
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 2: the point in even owning something if you're going to

893
00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 2: be this passionate like this, sort of angered by other

894
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 2: people's use of it.

895
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 11: Okay, so I can go into your car and bring

896
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 11: a drink and spill it.

897
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,800
Speaker 2: Now, is that what you're saying all all time?

898
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,959
Speaker 11: So I can in ruin your stuff. I can ruin

899
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,919
Speaker 11: other people's stuff because I didn't explain, because you didn't

900
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 11: explain it to me what it was like. What if

901
00:38:58,000 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 11: you had an expensive car and I brought in a

902
00:38:59,520 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 11: drink and a.

903
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: Cold cab and dropped it.

904
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 11: I just went.

905
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 2: If I'm worried about that, then I either say to you,

906
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,479
Speaker 2: don't please bring the drink in here, or like, hey,

907
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 2: be careful with that, yell at people.

908
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 11: My man, they weren't My coasters were on the table,

909
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 11: they weren't like in the cab somewhere. He put the

910
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 11: drink right next to the coaster, literally right next.

911
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 1: I'm just glad she made it out alive.

912
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I am too, because an error like that. You

913
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 2: know that that's straight to jail. Are you like Nick

914
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,760
Speaker 2: Offerman where you can like tell what kind of wood

915
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 2: by the smell and the look? Are you that kind

916
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 2: of guy? Are you an enthusiast?

917
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 11: I mean, I'm not that good, but I will tell

918
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 11: you this, if I do appreciate a fine wood.

919
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 2: I've worked with my entire life. I like, I'm a carpenter.

920
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 2: He knows this, Yeah, I know he was working with

921
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 2: hear this?

922
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: The South African would yes.

923
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 11: The dynamicus of it, you probably wouldn't be laughing at me.

924
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 11: And honestly, it was a very expensive piece of material.

925
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:02,479
Speaker 11: And again, if only you understand poster was right next to.

926
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 2: Us, is right there? What's that made out of? Is

927
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 2: that made out of a reward of some kind? Or

928
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,280
Speaker 2: is that what are those.

929
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 6: Men were talking about?

930
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 2: Because I'm going to details. Okay, look, I'm not even

931
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: even here's the good news. I don't have to ask

932
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 2: the question like this is not going to work out, right,

933
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 2: I mean, well now he doesn't want it any yeah, right, exactly.

934
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 11: Hey, I know, but I didn't expect this to be

935
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 11: a situation where my passion for finer materials in my

936
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 11: home was going to become a character assassin.

937
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 2: Well you you hey, look you protect that with your life, Okay,

938
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 2: I mean because it's African zebrawood and everybody knows that

939
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 2: that's you know, yeah, it's going to be passed down

940
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 2: for generations, Kiki. So I got my African zebrawood in

941
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 2: my will use a customer. Wait, I'm that's wrapped in

942
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 2: plastic too, so nobody will touch it. But all right, look, Daniel,

943
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Speaker 2: thank you for answering it for your time, Trevor. I.

944
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 2: I wish you luck out there, man, thank you. It's

945
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Speaker 3: Calin's Entertainment report is on the Fresh Show.

964
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Speaker 9: Chaparone is once again in hot water over something.

965
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Speaker 1: A security guard did. So here's the deal.

966
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Speaker 9: It's kind of a he said, she said, at this point,

967
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 9: but June laws eleven year old daughter wanted to go

968
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Speaker 9: see chaperone at Lollapalooza in Brazil for her birthday.

969
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 1: Chapel also happened to.

970
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Speaker 9: Be staying at the same hotel, so this little girl

971
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Speaker 9: was literally there to see Chapel. The little girl walked

972
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Speaker 9: by Chapel's table to see if it was her, but

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Speaker 9: she all.

974
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Speaker 1: She did was looks. She said nothing.

975
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Speaker 9: Then a security guard approached their table she was with

976
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Speaker 9: her mother and kind of scolded the little girl for

977
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Speaker 9: allowing her to walk past and look at her.

978
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

979
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Speaker 9: He left the little girl in tears. Now, her stepdad

980
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 9: is also well known. He's Brazilian soccer star Georgino. I

981
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 9: think it's how you say it, and he took issue online,

982
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 9: so that's how we first like, that's how we first

983
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:39,240
Speaker 9: heard about.

984
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: This whole situation. He questioned why a child's.

985
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 9: Curiosity was treated as a problem now. His wife, Catherine Harding,

986
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 9: later spoke out as well, insisting their daughter had been respectful,

987
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 9: never tried to approach or disturbed the singer. She said

988
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 9: the situation could have been handled calmly, and the reaction

989
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 9: felt unnecessary now then.

990
00:42:58,000 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: Chapel entered the chat.

991
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 9: This security guard wasn't her personal security guard, but we

992
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 9: do know that he didn't.

993
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 1: Work for the hotel, so who was he? She claimed she.

994
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 9: Never told this man to say this to the family,

995
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,800
Speaker 9: But if he does work for her, or he was

996
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 9: hired to protect her, he should be in line with

997
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,280
Speaker 9: what she feels. So I don't know if we're buying

998
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 9: that she's stressed. She has no issues with fans or children,

999
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 9: but she felt like she was being unfairly blamed for

1000
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 9: something she didn't control. But last week we saw a

1001
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 9: fan try to get her autographed in Paris had dinner

1002
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 9: and she was mad about that too, So I don't know.

1003
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 11: She just have a.

1004
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 9: Great track record, but this one she's saying she didn't

1005
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 9: know about. She said she never saw the little girl

1006
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 9: or anything, so.

1007
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

1008
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 9: Like eating your room, baby girl, if you don't want

1009
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 9: people looking at you like this, she is like a

1010
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 9: breakfast place at a hotel. The bodycam footage of Justin

1011
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 9: Timberlake's DWI arrest has been released as part of a

1012
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 9: settlement in his privacy lawsuit against the police.

1013
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: Department Apartment in Long Island.

1014
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 9: The video shows him standing by his car, telling cops

1015
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 9: he's just following friends back to his house. When officers

1016
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 9: asked him to walk a straight line, he really struggled

1017
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 9: with the rules. It took him a while to understand

1018
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,240
Speaker 9: what he was supposed to be doing, and then he struggles.

1019
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: To keep balance and admits to being nervous.

1020
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Speaker 9: After feeling all sobriety tests that he was handcuffed and

1021
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 9: put in the back of a cop car.

1022
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Speaker 1: The footage had.

1023
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Speaker 9: A lot of people asking who was the woman with him.

1024
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 9: It seems like an assistant based on how much she

1025
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 9: was freaking out over whether or not to leave him

1026
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Speaker 9: with his phone.

1027
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 1: She also tried to schmooz the cops.

1028
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,840
Speaker 9: She was like, you're arresting Justin Timberlake right now, the

1029
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 9: dude who gave us bye bye bye.

1030
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Speaker 1: I was like, lady, like, what are you talking about.

1031
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 9: Justin also made a really weird joke about not being

1032
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 9: white when he was going over the paper work, like

1033
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 9: there was there were so many things going on in that.

1034
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 1: But yeah.

1035
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 9: His fans are really annoying in the comments, as well

1036
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 9: as saying like.

1037
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: Why is this being released? We shouldn't have seen this.

1038
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: He guys, it's always released it's always public. Like just

1039
00:44:58,920 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: because he gave us bye.

1040
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 9: Bye, he doesn't get to be exempt from this footage

1041
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 9: being out you're rich, get a car service like hello.

1042
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 9: He was initially charged with a DWI, but after a

1043
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,800
Speaker 9: plea deal, it was dropped to driving while ability impaired.

1044
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 9: So that's where being famous comes in. So yeah, look,

1045
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 9: he still got special treatment because you know, he tried

1046
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 9: to say he had won Martini's.

1047
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 1: If that's the case, then where did he get that?

1048
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 9: Because I'm gonna go visit and get that Martini because

1049
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 9: he was having.

1050
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: A time all right.

1051
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:32,320
Speaker 9: Lastly, as you know, ABC abruptly scrapped its upcoming season

1052
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 9: of The Bachelorette last Thursday, just days before it's premiere.

1053
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:41,240
Speaker 9: Last night, the controversy erupted, of course, around Taylor Frankie

1054
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 9: Paul and this new video that's been released.

1055
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 1: She was supposed to be the Bachelorette.

1056
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,399
Speaker 9: She was where it is now At least five contestants

1057
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 9: are considering legal action against ABC and Warner Brothers Discovery.

1058
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 9: The men believe they were being placed in an unsafe

1059
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,960
Speaker 9: environment due to her well documented history of domestic violence,

1060
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Speaker 9: which had already played out publicly during the first season

1061
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 9: of the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, so publicly, like

1062
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 9: the network knew about this arrest, the men a simple

1063
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 9: google or you know, the men would know about this arrest.

1064
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: So I'm a little confused, but.

1065
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:16,759
Speaker 9: That is what they are rocking with to try to

1066
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 9: get some money back. The plug was pulled and as

1067
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 9: you know, this video has just turned everything up on

1068
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 9: its head, and it was between she and her ex

1069
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 9: partner Dakota Mortenson. The followout, it has a ripple effect

1070
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Speaker 9: across the franchise. Traditionally, like I said last hour, the

1071
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 9: next Bachelor is selected from these contestants and now they're

1072
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 9: upset of course because we'll never meet them. So I

1073
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 9: don't know who it's going to be or what they're

1074
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 9: going to do. No word on the Secret Mormon Secret

1075
00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:47,480
Speaker 9: Lives of Mormon Wives either.

1076
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Speaker 1: She's on so many damn shows on ABC. I'm trying

1077
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: to figure it out.

1078
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,840
Speaker 9: But no word on if they're going to start filming

1079
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 9: again or what they're going to do with that situation,

1080
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 9: because that show very much is like honest about the

1081
00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 9: messy paths she's had.

1082
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Speaker 1: So we'll see what they decided to do.

1083
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,720
Speaker 9: And yeah, if you want to catch up on anything

1084
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 9: you missed from today.

1085
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Speaker 1: You want to hear those.

1086
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Speaker 9: Other reports The Fred Show on demand on the Free

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Speaker 9: I Heard radio app.

1088
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Speaker 2: It is the Fred Show. Good morning, Thanks for having

1089
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Speaker 2: us on the radio, on the iHeart app Live and

1090
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Speaker 2: anytime search for a freend show on demand. I want

1091
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Speaker 2: to know, and I think I know the answer, but

1092
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Speaker 2: I want to know if this gesture would ever work

1093
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 2: on really anybody. But this was from last week. I

1094
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: didn't get to it, but a plane passenger said she

1095
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 2: received a note from a pilot while waiting for a flight,

1096
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 2: So I guess this wasn't on the plane. This one

1097
00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 2: named Steph is from New Jersey. She shared the handwritten

1098
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 2: message and was flooded with comments. The content creator posted

1099
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 2: the video to her one million followers with a text

1100
00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 2: that read, I guess this was handed to her on

1101
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 2: a napkin by a pilot walking by, and it said

1102
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 2: I'm just what she said. I'm sitting at the airport

1103
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 2: and a pilot just placed this on my table and

1104
00:47:56,719 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 2: walked away. On the note, it said I've seen the

1105
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 2: whole world and you are the most beautiful woman in it.

1106
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,320
Speaker 2: And then he signed it with the signature that's not legible.

1107
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 2: And that was it. No phone number, no Instagram handle,

1108
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,240
Speaker 2: no email address, nothing. It was just that's what he wrote,

1109
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,319
Speaker 2: said it there and walked away. And I don't know

1110
00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: what the intent was. Was it simply to pay a compliment.

1111
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: It sounds a little romantic for just to compliment. Yeah,

1112
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 2: and also mean, calling a woman beautiful, saying you're the

1113
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 2: most beautiful woman in the world is clearly a line.

1114
00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 2: I mean, you're obviously like picking up on it. I mean,

1115
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 2: I don't know why you would just say that and

1116
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 2: walk away and that. I mean, there are a lot

1117
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,360
Speaker 2: of things you could say to somebody, right if you

1118
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 2: weren't trying to get with them. But then again, he

1119
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 2: didn't put any sort of identifying, truly identifying feature on

1120
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 2: the note, so she would have unless she chased him down,

1121
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 2: which I guess he was hoping maybe she would. I

1122
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 2: don't know, there would be no way for her. I

1123
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 2: mean I could see maybe put his phone number, no

1124
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,760
Speaker 2: exist right, right, no next steps none?

1125
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: How do I follow up?

1126
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 2: Right? Trying a circle back on this man, and I'm

1127
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,799
Speaker 2: not able to, so you know, viewers had all kinds

1128
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 2: of comments. Of course, he's probably married with five kids.

1129
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 2: He didn't leave a number because he's somebody's husband, me

1130
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 2: thinking he has three families in three different stays. Now,

1131
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 2: my question is does any of this kind of thing

1132
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 2: ever work? And I think I know the answer. Like

1133
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 2: most things, it would work for the right guy in

1134
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 2: the right situation. The problem is as a man, I

1135
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 2: don't know if I'm the right guy in the right situation.

1136
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 2: But here's the other problem is if you do stuff

1137
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 2: like this. Let's say this dude was actually just a

1138
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 2: sweet man who was single and thought she was the

1139
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 2: hottest thing he's ever seen. Now he's getting roasted online

1140
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 2: like he's got a wife and kids, and he probably does,

1141
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 2: because otherwise I think there would be a different process here.

1142
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 2: But then again, if you got a wife and kids,

1143
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:49,799
Speaker 2: and why you even put yourself at risk like this,

1144
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 2: and why would you even sign it?

1145
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, maybe he's part of my family and

1146
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 4: he just wanted to let her know that, Hey, girl,

1147
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,760
Speaker 4: you're killing it to stand right, we stand, you're eating

1148
00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 4: leaving no crumbs down boots.

1149
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: You know, here's a little note just to make you

1150
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: feel special.

1151
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 4: Uplift some of my female counterparts in this world because.

1152
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 2: The problem is a lot of guys are going to

1153
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 2: do this, even if they are in a position to

1154
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 2: get with you or date you or court you or

1155
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 2: whatever you want to say, because they're freddy getting roasted

1156
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: and so and I'm not saying like the plight of

1157
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 2: the man, it's so hard to be a man or whatever,

1158
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: but like that's the thing is if you do something creative,

1159
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 2: you know, and I hate to be this way, but

1160
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 2: you do hear women say all the time, I wish

1161
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:32,320
Speaker 2: guys would approach me. I wish guys were more creative.

1162
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 2: I wish guys would go, you know, try a little harder.

1163
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 2: I wish whish which But then and I think we're

1164
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 2: I don't think it's as much anymore. But there was

1165
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 2: a time period there where we were also talking about

1166
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:47,480
Speaker 2: stories about how normal, normal things were considered creepy, like

1167
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 2: dudes walking like like we've over the years talked about

1168
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 2: a guy walked up to me and started speaking to

1169
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 2: me and it was so creepy, and it's like, well,

1170
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 2: or a guy held the door for me and it

1171
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 2: was like so demeaning or something. We've heard these things

1172
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:02,799
Speaker 2: over the years where it's or a guy looked at

1173
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:04,640
Speaker 2: me on the sidewalk and he made me like he

1174
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 2: smiled at me and that was just so creepy. It's like, well,

1175
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 2: maybe he just was smiling at you because like he's

1176
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 2: a nice person, or maybe he held the door because

1177
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,239
Speaker 2: that's what his mom taught him to do. And no,

1178
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about myself, Like you know, I don't

1179
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 2: walk up to people, so it couldn't have been me.

1180
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 2: I don't talk to strangers, so it couldn't have been me.

1181
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:25,799
Speaker 2: But I will be honest, I'm I don't know what

1182
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 2: the proper etiquette is anymore, or what generation considers creepy

1183
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 2: and what another generation doesn't, because I do think there's

1184
00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 2: a whole generation of folks that think that just interacting

1185
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:38,520
Speaker 2: with people that you don't know is weird. But then again,

1186
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 2: how are you ever going to get the guy to

1187
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 2: walk up to you in the bar, you know, or

1188
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,399
Speaker 2: whatever else if that's what's being perpetuated. So I don't know,

1189
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 2: was this just a really sweet move or is this

1190
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,279
Speaker 2: guy a total creep and would it work? But here's

1191
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 2: the thing, be honest, would it work? Would it only

1192
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 2: work if you were wildly attracted to the guy who

1193
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 2: did it to you? Or would it be the kind

1194
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 2: of move where you might see guy to be more

1195
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 2: attractive because he did it because it was bold.

1196
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 1: I mean, there's nothing left to do with his situation.

1197
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:09,280
Speaker 9: Like he just said I was beautiful in this scenario,

1198
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 9: and so I'd be like, okay, thanks and like keep

1199
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 9: it moving. So I don't know about working quote unquote,

1200
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 9: but I would think it was very nice.

1201
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 2: Is there a world where you would have like stood

1202
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 2: up and follow the guy and be like, hey, wait

1203
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 2: a minute. Probably not, because that's the thing. I think

1204
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 2: this was a flawed tactic.

1205
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: He am creepy, But no, I don't.

1206
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 2: I think I don't. I don't know that I would

1207
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 2: have thought that was that was what I would have

1208
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 2: hoped you would have done if I did something like that.

1209
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: So here you are, like, you're thinking that it would

1210
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 2: be creepy for me to then follow up with the guy,

1211
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 2: But obviously, I mean I gotta think that's what he

1212
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:41,879
Speaker 2: was hoping was going to happen, that it would form

1213
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 2: some kind of dialogue.

1214
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 9: But because there was no number and there was no

1215
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 9: you know, other instructions, I would think he just wanted

1216
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:49,360
Speaker 9: me to know that he thought I was beautiful and I.

1217
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 2: Just move on, or you would have had to have

1218
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 2: stood up and gone and talked to him.

1219
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: Right, which I would not ever do.

1220
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 2: So there was a flawed tactic to begin with, so

1221
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:56,959
Speaker 2: that maybe that was it then I'm not sure.

1222
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but i'd be like, oh, that's so nice.

1223
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 2: I did something like that once and it did work.

1224
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 2: My sister was with me. Actually it was a long

1225
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 2: time ago. I can't remember. I have I took a

1226
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: picture of the note. I have it somewhere. I just

1227
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,960
Speaker 2: I was somewhere and I saw somebody and it was

1228
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 2: in a restaurant, but person worked at the restaurant, and

1229
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 2: then we, my sister and I went and had drinks.

1230
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,359
Speaker 2: She was like, that girl was cute. I'm like, she

1231
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 2: was cute, and she's like, write her.

1232
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:22,240
Speaker 1: A note, and you said, I've been all around the world.

1233
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, actually it was this note. This guy. Yeah, this

1234
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 2: guy copied me, like, what was it watching? Does he

1235
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 2: know this person?

1236
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 3: Now?

1237
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 2: I don't know if, because my sister was there when

1238
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 2: I went back and handed it to her, I don't

1239
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 2: know if like that made me feel disarming, even though

1240
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 2: for a long time people thought I was dating my sister.

1241
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 2: Because I don't know why, they did the same. Apparently

1242
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 2: every female and male that are together who might be

1243
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: in this similar age demographic, and they are maybe you know,

1244
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: attractive people. They must be getting it on. There's no

1245
00:53:51,640 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 2: way that they're like friends or coworkers or family, right,

1246
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 2: there's no way possible. But I worked, I mean probably

1247
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 2: three minutes later my phone went thing, but there was

1248
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 2: I put my number on it. Yeah, yeah, So I

1249
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 2: don't know, would does it ever work on anybody? And

1250
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 2: as as as womankind, would you encourage men to be

1251
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 2: this bold?

1252
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: I do?

1253
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 8: I think it's kind of cool, like I'm here for

1254
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 8: like the vintage of it, the vintage part of it

1255
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 8: of just you know, sliding a note, leaving your number.

1256
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 8: I need next steps though, because again, if I see

1257
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 8: a woman chasing a man down the whatever, the terminal,

1258
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 8: because you know, the pilot's areading down the terminal and

1259
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 8: he didn't leave next steps like no, mam, sit down,

1260
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,360
Speaker 8: because I feel like he just did it just surely

1261
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 8: to be nice or just I don't know, to leave

1262
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 8: a compliment or maybe he does have three families. I

1263
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 8: don't know, but it's not giving he wanted to pursue

1264
00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 8: this because he would have left, wouldn't you leave next

1265
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 8: steps of like here's my even here's my Instagram even

1266
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:47,720
Speaker 8: like anything, right, my email.

1267
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,440
Speaker 2: It's where that he signed it though, because somebody's like,

1268
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:54,440
Speaker 2: somebody out there knows what that signature looks like. So

1269
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 2: it does kind of say his name sort of only

1270
00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 2: if she posts it, you know what she did? Well, yeah,

1271
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 2: which he did, so someone knows that we're talking about

1272
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 2: this guy though. Someone knows who this guy is, and

1273
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 2: and there's probably somebody out there who looked at that.

1274
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,160
Speaker 2: But what if the guy is married? So I guess

1275
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 2: I don't know why you'd sign it if you were

1276
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 2: trying to be if you were trying to be discreet,

1277
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe you just have to know.

1278
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 8: Yeah, maybe I don't know. I need next steps if

1279
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 8: this is like something you're trying to pursue. If you

1280
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 8: want this, you need to come tell me and leave

1281
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 8: me a phone.

1282
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to run after him. I'm not running.

1283
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: And then it turns around and you have this romantic embrace.

1284
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: One's chasing me. Yeah, I'll never chase man that he

1285
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 1: doesn't want you to chase them.

1286
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 11: I guess.

1287
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 2: Someone's section. I've had men compliment me just to say

1288
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 2: I'm beautiful and nothing else. It's a nice feeling.

1289
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:49,280
Speaker 1: Okay, nice, that's nice.

1290
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 4: I don't know nice though. I always try to give

1291
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 4: compliments to girls. I wonder if they think I'm hitting

1292
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:55,919
Speaker 4: on them.

1293
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 1: We want to to you like you're like your new color.

1294
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,759
Speaker 2: I think that alone, just the way you said it

1295
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 2: right there gives yeah. Yeah, I would feel fairly confident

1296
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:09,879
Speaker 2: that you were not, in fact hitting on a woman

1297
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:11,919
Speaker 2: if you were to deliver the message in that way,

1298
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,360
Speaker 2: like just one more time, give me an example.

1299
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 1: Okay, like, girl, I love your nail color. It's so cute.

1300
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 2: Right, yes, so I'm confident that you are not right

1301
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 2: right exactly, there's nothing that right. I feel good about that,

1302
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,480
Speaker 2: not being threatening whatsoever.

1303
00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 1: Got it good? I'm glad.

1304
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,160
Speaker 2: But then do straight, Jason. Let's hear how that sounds.

1305
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: Hey, girl like them jeans? Let me get up in them,

1306
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:39,680
Speaker 1: you know.

1307
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 2: Also confident that nobody would believe me. Also quite confident that, yeah, no,

1308
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 2: I think you're fine all around. You can give all

1309
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 2: the compliments you want in whichever character voice you want

1310
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 2: more fread show next well in the city, But then

1311
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 2: do straight, Jason, Let's hear how that sounds.

1312
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,720
Speaker 1: Okay, girl like them jeans?

1313
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 2: Let me get film. Yeah, I would feel fairly confident

1314
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 2: that you were not, in fact hitting on a woman

1315
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 2: if you were to deliver the message in that way.

1316
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 2: Fread's show is why I choose who my future wife

1317
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 2: is going to be? That what could possibly go wrong?

1318
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:14,799
Speaker 1: We should ask it?

1319
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 2: I should ask Ai what I yeah, is the kind

1320
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 2: of person I'm looking?

1321
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 19: Uh huh?

1322
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: I think so Chad would know?

1323
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 2: Actually an extremely patient person that would be one for

1324
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 2: all of us need that someone who is maybe sedated

1325
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 2: twenty four to seven would also be someone who might

1326
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 2: get along well with me. What I mean by choice?

1327
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 8: Yeah, listen your dline.

1328
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 2: Exact meait, I love you for you, wake me up

1329
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 2: when it's over. Yeah, you know, by it, I mean

1330
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 2: the entire relation. Yeah, honor a Fread show. It's Geeky's Court,

1331
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 2: all rights, the honorable judge Kiki.

1332
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 1: He is all right, let's get in the courtroom. The

1333
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: gabble has been hit.

1334
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 10: It says, hey, Kiki, am I wrong for needing a

1335
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 10: little help with my kids?

1336
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 1: Even though I don't work.

1337
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 10: My name is Kim, I may stay at home mom

1338
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 10: with three kids, two in school and a toddler who's

1339
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 10: glued to me. Twenty four to seven. I love my kids,

1340
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 10: but I'm beyond burnt out. So in a moment of frustration,

1341
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 10: I wrote a post on Facebook about being tired, and

1342
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 10: I mentioned maybe hiring a part time sitter to come

1343
00:58:31,120 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 10: over a few times a week just so I can breathe.

1344
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 10: That's when my mother in law went insane on my post.

1345
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,600
Speaker 10: She wrote a long comment about how her son worked

1346
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 10: so hard and how she was a single mom and

1347
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 10: did it on her own.

1348
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 1: She went off.

1349
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 10: Then she called my husband, who came home mad and said,

1350
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 10: if I'm so stressed with one kid at home, his

1351
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 10: mom will help, or I can just.

1352
00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 1: Go get a job.

1353
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 10: Since the post, my mother in law is now at

1354
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 10: my house daily, being condescending and trying to teach me

1355
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 10: how to be a mother.

1356
00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: It is torture.

1357
00:59:05,360 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 10: Am I wrong for wanting a little paid help, because

1358
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 10: clearly now I'm being punished.

1359
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 1: So what you'll say, I can't wait?

1360
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 10: Fall I cannot wait because, first of all, girl, you

1361
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 10: better than me, because let me tell you something, the

1362
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 10: moment your mama would have pulled up, I would have

1363
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 10: booked me a vacation on your credit card.

1364
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 1: I would have left you.

1365
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 10: Know, like, you want to come teach me how to

1366
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 10: be a mother after I've raised two of your other

1367
00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,280
Speaker 10: grandchildren and I just need a little break.

1368
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:31,520
Speaker 1: I got mad on Facebook.

1369
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 10: Hey, come come on over here, mama and take these

1370
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 10: kids and let me go live my best life.

1371
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: Since that's what y'all, y'all would have act like, that's

1372
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 1: what I'm doing every day.

1373
00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 10: You know, I feel like, you know, everyone makes a

1374
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 10: mistake of getting frustrated and taking things to social media sometimes.

1375
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 10: But that doesn't mean that just because you're a stay

1376
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 10: at home mom, you don't deserve a break or you

1377
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 10: don't deserve a little help sometime.

1378
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 2: Right, Because it's twenty four to seven, yes, and it's

1379
00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 2: no one's saying here that one person's working harder than

1380
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 2: the other. That's not what this post was. This post

1381
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 2: was simply like man, every now and again, just like

1382
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 2: can break because you know, you can go to your

1383
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,920
Speaker 2: job and work hard for eight hours and and you know,

1384
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 2: compartmentalize and be around adults and do all that, and

1385
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 2: then you can come home and then that goes away.

1386
01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 2: This never goes somewhat. I'm not saying that dads or

1387
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 2: moms who work and then come home don't contribute once

1388
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:18,520
Speaker 2: they get home, because they do, but it's like, I

1389
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 2: don't know, It's two different things.

1390
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: Right, and we shouldn't compare it.

1391
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 10: But it gets messy when your mother gets in the

1392
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 10: comments and she's telling me about her life as a

1393
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 10: single mother, Like, girl, you should have picked a different

1394
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 10: bay daddy.

1395
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: It ain't got none to do with me.

1396
01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 10: I don't know, you know, So I just feel like,

1397
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 10: you know, you he should, he should stick up for

1398
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 10: his wife in this sense, and like, hey, Mom, I

1399
01:00:35,600 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 10: understand that triggered you, but you know we're going to

1400
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 10: handle it at home. And if your wife is crying

1401
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 10: out saying she needs a little help, a little assistant,

1402
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:45,160
Speaker 10: a break every now and then, see how you guys

1403
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:45,680
Speaker 10: can work that out.

1404
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not sure if you mentioned this, but how

1405
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 2: many kids did mom have? Oh?

1406
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 1: She didn't say.

1407
01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 2: And then did mom never hire a babysitter ever to

1408
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 2: go do anything? She never did one thing for herself ever.

1409
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 10: No, she took her and didn't her back.

1410
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 2: And I would argue that she needed to that she

1411
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 2: did the You know, you should prioritize yourself just a

1412
01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 2: little bit from time to time. You guys are the

1413
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 2: Jerry though, eight five five five nine three five What

1414
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 2: would you do if mom in law came around with

1415
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 2: an opinion about you wanting a little bit of relief

1416
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 2: from what three kids?

1417
01:01:16,120 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 11: Was it?

1418
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 3: Yes?

1419
01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 2: Hm hmm, Paulia the mom in the room.

1420
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, So thank you, first of all, yes for acknowledging

1421
01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 8: that being a say at home mom is work, and

1422
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:26,919
Speaker 8: it is a lot of work.

1423
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:27,360
Speaker 7: Me.

1424
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: I am Paulina Row.

1425
01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 8: I am on this radio every morning, but when I

1426
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 8: go home at ten oh one am, whatever time I'm

1427
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 8: off the radio, I am mom until bedtime. So I

1428
01:01:36,840 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 8: understand that being at home with a kid all day,

1429
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 8: every day, with my one child who was two years old,

1430
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:43,880
Speaker 8: it is a lot. And you guys know that I'm

1431
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,440
Speaker 8: an outsourcing queen. I will outsource and get me a babysitter.

1432
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 8: And I've got a couple in rotations. So if my

1433
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 8: mother in law is not available or my sister whatever

1434
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 8: at my sister in law, then I will have somebody

1435
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 8: calm watch my baby for a couple hours while I

1436
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 8: get things done around the house, do some work or

1437
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 8: whatever it is I gotta do, right, go to an

1438
01:01:57,240 --> 01:01:57,920
Speaker 8: event whatever.

1439
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: Now, my mother in law, I know I s this.

1440
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 8: I am blessed that she if she saw me put

1441
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 8: that on Facebook. She would probably call me and do

1442
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 8: the right thing and say, hey, honey, can I come

1443
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 8: help you. I saw your post like there's no need

1444
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 8: for that. I'll come help you now. And everybody has

1445
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 8: that relationship, and you know, I hope that I can

1446
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 8: be amazing mother, you know, a grandmom, mother in law

1447
01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 8: whatever in the future.

1448
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: My only issue with that is like, yeah, mother in

1449
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: law is wrong for that.

1450
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:23,880
Speaker 8: Just because she struggled as a single mom does not

1451
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 8: mean that I have to do the same.

1452
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: And I mean that respectfully, Like my mom was a.

1453
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 8: Single mom, but I will not endure the same struggles

1454
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 8: that she did because I how do I say this?

1455
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:37,960
Speaker 8: I believe in in a asking for help, but I

1456
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 8: also I also set up my life a certain way

1457
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 8: where it's like, no want I want the help, you

1458
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 8: know what I mean, Like, if I'm not there, somebody

1459
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 8: else will be there to watch my baby.

1460
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 1: I feel like that's so wrong, so wrong, so wrong.

1461
01:02:49,240 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 8: That mother is struggling three kids all day, every day,

1462
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 8: twenty four to seven.

1463
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 1: Is a lie.

1464
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 2: Well, it's projection, obviously, it is projection. Thank you. It's

1465
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 2: a mom who yes, who, I don't know. She had

1466
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,840
Speaker 2: a difficult time. I guess her kids, and that's respectable,

1467
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 2: and you did the best job she could. But now,

1468
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:06,479
Speaker 2: but this mom, this younger mom, wants to go about

1469
01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 2: it differently, right, And I think she has every right

1470
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 2: to do that. And I don't know anytime that the

1471
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 2: in law is get involved in the parental direction, especially

1472
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 2: if it's not about safety or well being, which this isn't.

1473
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 2: This is this has more to do with the adults

1474
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 2: than it does with the kids.

1475
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,120
Speaker 8: My moms could judge all the time, though, even if

1476
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 8: it's not by mother in law. If I was to

1477
01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:29,000
Speaker 8: post on social media or whatever, or just even vent

1478
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 8: to a friend, like, people can be so judgy because

1479
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 8: they'll say, like, you know, oh, you stay home all day,

1480
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 8: you don't need a break or whatever, you know what

1481
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 8: I mean. There's a lot of projection from moms to it,

1482
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 8: and it's sad.

1483
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: I don't like that.

1484
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 2: I also, I don't love the cry for help on Facebook.

1485
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't. I don't know that. I mean,

1486
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:45,520
Speaker 2: it's like, you handle it like if you want this,

1487
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 2: if this is something you want to do, then I

1488
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 2: would maybe not don't put it out there. Someone texted that,

1489
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 2: and I kind of agree. It's like Okay, well, then

1490
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 2: let's do what you want to do. If you want

1491
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:57,000
Speaker 2: to hire a babysitter, if you want some help, if

1492
01:03:57,040 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 2: you want some relief, then you have every right to that.

1493
01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 2: But I don't like it people go to Facebook first,

1494
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 2: because you are kind of opening yourself up.

1495
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 1: To everyone's opinion, right, Yeah.

1496
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,080
Speaker 2: And everyone is going to come at it from the

1497
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:11,640
Speaker 2: perspective of what they have available to them. True, and

1498
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:13,880
Speaker 2: if they can't afford a babysitter, or they don't have one,

1499
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:15,960
Speaker 2: or they're in a relationship or a dynamic where that

1500
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:18,439
Speaker 2: person doesn't think that, you know, whatever, so then they're

1501
01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 2: gonna get upset because of what they can have.

1502
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 1: Right, I'm guilty of that. You guys know. I love

1503
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 1: going to social media or love calling my husband's mom.

1504
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 8: Okay, I had to stop, But in this case, you're right, Like,

1505
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 8: if you open yourself up to that criticism or feedback

1506
01:04:30,760 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 8: on social media, you're going to get everyone's perspective and

1507
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,200
Speaker 8: opinions and a lot of mixed feelings.

1508
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 10: Somebody on it Take said the mom is spoiled. You

1509
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 10: only have one kid at home.

1510
01:04:40,160 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 1: That doesn't change anything. It's still hard.

1511
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 2: Mandy. How you doing.

1512
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 1: Good?

1513
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 2: How are you, Hi, Mandy, good morning. So you're stay

1514
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 2: at home mom and you hear this Kiky's chord and

1515
01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 2: you think what.

1516
01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 20: I think she is absolutely entitled to some paid help.

1517
01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 20: I think the mother in law is completely in the wrong.

1518
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:03,080
Speaker 20: She should not have gone and commented went.

1519
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 6: On a tie raid on her post.

1520
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 20: Every mom, every dad, whatever.

1521
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 6: You do inside or outside of the house, you deserve

1522
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 6: that break.

1523
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 2: What how about mom in law? To Paulina's point, being like, Wow,

1524
01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 2: she's going through it right now, Like let me, let

1525
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 2: me call and let me help her.

1526
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: It's a cry for help.

1527
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 2: I'll be the one. Let me come in and take

1528
01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 2: it over for a few hours.

1529
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 20: Yeah, I mean, I guess it depends on their relationship.

1530
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 20: I have a good relationship with my mother in law,

1531
01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:27,920
Speaker 20: so I would.

1532
01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 1: Love that, but it sounds like they may.

1533
01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 20: Not have the same type of relationship and now she

1534
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 20: feels like she's being tortured.

1535
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 6: So I don't know. I guess it depends.

1536
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:39,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I know you better off going to care

1537
01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 1: dot com.

1538
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 8: In my opinion, if your mother in law's going to

1539
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 8: treat you like that and say comments like that, if

1540
01:05:44,120 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 8: from your children, no, we're going to urbansitter dot com.

1541
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 1: We're going somewhere else.

1542
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:51,800
Speaker 2: Well that's what I'm saying at all. Well, she weren't

1543
01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 2: coming at it from a judgmental standpoints like, this isn't

1544
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:57,440
Speaker 2: about I don't need teaching someone how to parent. It's

1545
01:05:57,280 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 2: if she wants some help. Okay, well I'm I'm your

1546
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 2: mother right in law, but i'm a mother figure here.

1547
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 2: Let me come and do that, and then I get

1548
01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 2: more time with my grandkids. Anyways, so everybody wins it.

1549
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:09,960
Speaker 2: Thank you, Mandy.

1550
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do see.

1551
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 6: I do see whe you're coming arout with that, but.

1552
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want her there either, the way she's acting.

1553
01:06:16,440 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 2: I don't act that way, and just offered to be

1554
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 2: an asset. Thank you, Mandy. Have a good day, true,

1555
01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 2: Thank you too, Taylor. Good morning, Taylor. How are you?

1556
01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 1: I'm great?

1557
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 2: How are you doing great? Kiki's Court. This is a

1558
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 2: battle between a mom and a mother in law because

1559
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 2: mom wants some help, went to Facebook said hey, I

1560
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 2: want a babysitter or something for these kids because I'm

1561
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 2: driving me crazy. Mother in law is like, I never

1562
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 2: had that, and it's being very judgmental. What do you think.

1563
01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 18: Yeah, I can totally relate. I am a single mom.

1564
01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 18: I have three kids, and you absolutely need a break.

1565
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 18: I don't know about the mother in law thing, but

1566
01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:58,480
Speaker 18: I do have my mom who.

1567
01:06:58,280 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 13: Helps and it's great.

1568
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:02,640
Speaker 18: But at the same time, it's also nice if I

1569
01:07:02,640 --> 01:07:05,120
Speaker 18: can afford a babysitter, I would get one more often,

1570
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:07,840
Speaker 18: but just to have a babysitter where you know they're

1571
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 18: not going to be nagging at you like, Okay, well

1572
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:10,560
Speaker 18: when are you coming home?

1573
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 7: What do you need for?

1574
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 1: Like what do they need for this? What do you

1575
01:07:13,280 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 1: need to do with this?

1576
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:17,160
Speaker 18: Where it's like the babysitter, it's like here, I'm paying you,

1577
01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:18,000
Speaker 18: I'm going out.

1578
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 1: I will be unavailable.

1579
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:21,840
Speaker 18: Unless it's an emergency for a couple of hours, So

1580
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:23,600
Speaker 18: totally get it.

1581
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 2: I see. So, like, if you're gonna have to manage

1582
01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 2: the babysitter, then what's the point. I may as well

1583
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 2: just do it myself exactly.

1584
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:34,439
Speaker 18: Yeah, I don't need somebody nagging at me. Like I said,

1585
01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 18: I appreciate my mom and she helps me. But the

1586
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 18: same thing, I'm sure it's nice to just know, like, hey,

1587
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 18: I could call a babysitter and be like can you

1588
01:07:41,360 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 18: come over, versus maybe you have to arrange things.

1589
01:07:43,920 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 1: More with the mother in law.

1590
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:47,000
Speaker 2: Or mother in law.

1591
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 18: Gives her opinion, like she was saying, and maybe you

1592
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:51,160
Speaker 18: just don't want to hear it all the time.

1593
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:54,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I get it. Thank you, Taylor, Yeah, thanks

1594
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,480
Speaker 2: ever going too? I used to. I use this example

1595
01:07:57,560 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 2: all the time. But I have a friend. He works

1596
01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:04,200
Speaker 2: high paying job, is very successful. His wife put her

1597
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 2: career on the back burner to stay at home and

1598
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:10,400
Speaker 2: take care of their kids. But once a month she

1599
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:13,919
Speaker 2: goes out and does her job. I'm trying to keep

1600
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 2: this vague because I don't know that they want me

1601
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 2: to share their story. But and they lose money on that,

1602
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:20,559
Speaker 2: Like he could be out working and making more, but

1603
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 2: he stays home and watches the kids so she can

1604
01:08:22,920 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 2: go off and do her gig. And it's because she

1605
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:28,360
Speaker 2: now gets to go out because she wants to, like

1606
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:31,840
Speaker 2: she wants the separation, loves her kids, but now she

1607
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 2: gets to go out and do you know, be around

1608
01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:36,519
Speaker 2: adults and have another purpose other than being a mom

1609
01:08:36,520 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 2: and whatever. And it would be very easy to say,

1610
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 2: why don't you just quit your job entirely because I

1611
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 2: make a lot more money when i'm working than you do.

1612
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:44,760
Speaker 2: But that's not the point. The point is we can

1613
01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 2: lose money on this because it gives you a sense

1614
01:08:47,479 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 2: and identity other than being a mom, and that works

1615
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 2: for them and it makes a lot of sense. Now, Jay,

1616
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:56,120
Speaker 2: you bring up a good point. Hi Jay, Hey, how

1617
01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:59,639
Speaker 2: you doing? Hey man, say you say it? Say your piece?

1618
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 15: So my piece is this first off, finally got on

1619
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 15: the phone for the first time.

1620
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 2: They see you guys forever.

1621
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 1: H thank you guys.

1622
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 11: Uh.

1623
01:09:09,600 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 15: Here's the thing, Like everyone's talking about mom. I get

1624
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:12,799
Speaker 15: I grew up with a single mother with three kids.

1625
01:09:13,600 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 15: My mom was a you know, single mom.

1626
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:17,400
Speaker 1: I gave the mom needs a break.

1627
01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 15: Uh, But no one's talking to my dad. You know,

1628
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 15: how about dad happiness? Dad needs a break?

1629
01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:22,040
Speaker 11: Uh?

1630
01:09:22,120 --> 01:09:23,960
Speaker 15: You know the mother in law said that, Uh, he's

1631
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:26,559
Speaker 15: working a lot, he's working hard. You know, he comes home.

1632
01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 15: I mean, I'm sure he spends time with his you know,

1633
01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:31,440
Speaker 15: with family and his kids. You know, man with sacrifice

1634
01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 15: happiness to make a family happy. So when when did

1635
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:35,639
Speaker 15: when does his dad get a break?

1636
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 2: Mm hmm? Interesting, Well we didn't. We haven't really covered that.

1637
01:09:40,520 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 2: I guess what we've covered is the fact that he's

1638
01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:45,040
Speaker 2: mad that she's asking for help publicly, right. I Mean

1639
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 2: it's almost like this this mom is getting ganged up

1640
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 2: on by both her husband and her husband's mom. So no,

1641
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 2: I don't that's sure for sure, because I don't know

1642
01:09:54,120 --> 01:09:55,160
Speaker 2: what this guy does. I don't know.

1643
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 10: His stance was, if you want more childcare, then you

1644
01:09:58,520 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 10: can work, go to work.

1645
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 1: He his wife go to work, so you know, yeah, right,

1646
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: right right?

1647
01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:07,679
Speaker 15: I agree with mom mom. They need to time alone,

1648
01:10:08,000 --> 01:10:10,160
Speaker 15: you know, of course, to enjoy your life whatever. I mean,

1649
01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:12,639
Speaker 15: me and a mom, for sure, it is cough. I mean, uh,

1650
01:10:13,080 --> 01:10:15,880
Speaker 15: but maybe the husband and wife need to hire mom

1651
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:17,799
Speaker 15: as a sitter so they go spend time together.

1652
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 2: I mean to hire somebody else, because I don't that

1653
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 2: sounds like a lot of negativity, of negativity law anymore,

1654
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:30,160
Speaker 2: a lot of judgmental activities. Yeah, Jay, thanks, you have

1655
01:10:30,200 --> 01:10:33,439
Speaker 2: a good day too. I mean, dad does deserve a break,

1656
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:34,080
Speaker 2: We don't. I don't know.

1657
01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:36,720
Speaker 1: I don't see on Facebook. Also, I don't understand is

1658
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:37,840
Speaker 1: he break.

1659
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 2: I don't know that he does or doesn't get one.

1660
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 2: I guess we don't have any information about him.

1661
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 1: He didn't call us.

1662
01:10:46,160 --> 01:10:49,479
Speaker 2: Hey, Michelle, you have the same mother in law. Huh

1663
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:53,839
Speaker 2: I do? Okay, good morning, tell me your story.

1664
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 19: Yeah, so anytime if I post anything on Facebook. My

1665
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:02,240
Speaker 19: mother in law always had as an opinion about everything.

1666
01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 7: Especially my kids, and it drives me nuts. She is

1667
01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 7: she's very helpful with everything else, but when it comes

1668
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 7: to my kids, she drives me nuts.

1669
01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:15,519
Speaker 19: And I was a stay at home mom with.

1670
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,720
Speaker 7: My son, and then I have my daughter, and now

1671
01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 7: I work at a daycare. So but yeah, I have

1672
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 7: a job now and I was a stay at home mom,

1673
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 7: so I feel her.

1674
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:27,920
Speaker 1: She's not wrong.

1675
01:11:28,760 --> 01:11:30,240
Speaker 2: But why is Facebook the venue?

1676
01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 7: Do you think?

1677
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 2: Because it just I guess you kind of open yourself

1678
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 2: up for that a little bit.

1679
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 19: And I've learned no, and I've learned not to do

1680
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,799
Speaker 19: that anymore, just because I don't want everyone's opinion.

1681
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 6: But I think it's just like a like a like

1682
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:44,800
Speaker 6: a venting kind of thing that you do.

1683
01:11:45,560 --> 01:11:48,320
Speaker 19: So that's pretty much I guess why I would do it,

1684
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 19: but I don't do it anymore for that exact reason.

1685
01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 2: Just blocker, did you get anything?

1686
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 10: I was asking did you get a job? Because of

1687
01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 10: all the judgmentalness from the mother in law? Like, is

1688
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 10: that what made you go to work?

1689
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:03,679
Speaker 1: I wanted my own money.

1690
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 7: I was tired of asking my I was tired of

1691
01:12:06,320 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 7: asking my husband for.

1692
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 19: Money, but I also got a job because I was

1693
01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:12,200
Speaker 19: tired of being at home all the time and only

1694
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 19: talking to a toddler.

1695
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 1: Yeah that's real.

1696
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah it makes sense. So yeah, thank you Michelle,

1697
01:12:18,320 --> 01:12:19,639
Speaker 2: Thanks guy, have a good day.

1698
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 1: In law.

1699
01:12:21,040 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 2: By the way, is it Tasa, Yes, it's Tasia Hi

1700
01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:29,320
Speaker 2: Taysia Kiki's course. So basically it's a battle between daughter

1701
01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 2: and mother in law because daughter posted on Facebook that

1702
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:34,599
Speaker 2: she wants a little bit of free time away from

1703
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:36,599
Speaker 2: being a stay at home mom, and mother in law's

1704
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:39,240
Speaker 2: got a problem with that because mother in law apparently

1705
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:40,840
Speaker 2: never got a moment alone.

1706
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 11: Yeah.

1707
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 21: I feel like it's a sign of the times and

1708
01:12:44,120 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 21: if everything has to be a convenience these days, and

1709
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:50,519
Speaker 21: this is not all about that. People have it much

1710
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 21: much harder than she does, including myself, So to have

1711
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:57,360
Speaker 21: like to be at home with monkey, that would be

1712
01:12:57,400 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 21: like a breath of fresher. I have four children in

1713
01:13:00,640 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 21: and I'll put that what they were in four different schools,

1714
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:06,560
Speaker 21: but it was actually at one point six different schools,

1715
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:10,160
Speaker 21: not commuting them too, because they're all four years aparts.

1716
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:11,080
Speaker 6: I had one in high.

1717
01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 21: School to when grammar school, one in daycare, and then

1718
01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:17,800
Speaker 21: one of my kids that was in high school also

1719
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 21: be at the duel enrollment where they went in college

1720
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:23,720
Speaker 21: as well, And so it was just five and a

1721
01:13:23,760 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 21: half hours of commuting every day on top of work

1722
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 21: in eighty hours a week. And this is me myself

1723
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:31,639
Speaker 21: doing alli day now.

1724
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 2: But let me ask you this, does that mean that

1725
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:37,840
Speaker 2: this mom or that you don't deserve a little bit

1726
01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 2: of a break just because just because you have a

1727
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:42,519
Speaker 2: little bit of a struggle to find it, you know

1728
01:13:42,560 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 2: what I mean? Like, I hear what you're saying, but

1729
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:46,760
Speaker 2: and you're coming at it from your perspective, and it

1730
01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 2: sounds like your hands are full and you're doing the

1731
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 2: very best you can, which is admirable. But like, I

1732
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,200
Speaker 2: don't think this mother is saying she doesn't want to

1733
01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:55,200
Speaker 2: be a mom or doesn't want to do this the

1734
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:57,320
Speaker 2: same way you're not saying that and that you're making

1735
01:13:57,360 --> 01:13:59,880
Speaker 2: all these sacrifices. I think what she's saying is she

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01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 2: wants to break. And Tasha, if you could have one,

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Speaker 2: wouldn't you take it?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 21: Yeah, for sure? And you know everybody deserves to break.

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01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:08,720
Speaker 21: But sometimes the only breaks come when you're sleep. It's

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01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:10,680
Speaker 21: you get a chance to sleep, even when I go

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01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:12,639
Speaker 21: to the bathroom, I don't get a moment from myself.

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Speaker 6: I tell them all the.

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Speaker 21: Time, I said, why does it turn into a found

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01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:18,720
Speaker 21: redellion every time I want to go to that? Everybody

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01:14:18,760 --> 01:14:20,960
Speaker 21: wants to talk about this actually that I'm like, can

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01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:22,040
Speaker 21: I get two seconds?

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01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 2: Let me tell you right right? No, I get it

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01:14:26,960 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 2: to me though it sounds and I wish that you

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01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,160
Speaker 2: did have that opportunity, But it does sound like mom

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01:14:31,280 --> 01:14:34,559
Speaker 2: is It's like it's it's oh, I had to walk

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01:14:34,560 --> 01:14:37,240
Speaker 2: to school in the snow uphill both ways, so asso

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01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:40,920
Speaker 2: should you. And it's like, but maybe you don't want

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01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:43,599
Speaker 2: that for your kids because you had to do it

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01:14:43,680 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 2: kind of thing.

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Speaker 21: Right, And that's kind of like you have to, you know,

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01:14:47,280 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 21: just appreciate what you have and understand that there's so

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01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 21: many people that which they could be in your shoes.

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01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:55,520
Speaker 21: And then my children, they have no grandparents, Your grandparents

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01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 21: all four have passed, so I have nobody to say, hey,

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01:14:58,400 --> 01:14:59,160
Speaker 21: Grandma's house the.

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Speaker 2: Weekend, or yeah I really are Yeah you hang in there,

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01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 2: thank you, I'm glad you called.

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Speaker 3: Cawen's entertainment report is on the Fresh Job.

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Speaker 9: The new wave of legal trouble is hitting the Dugger

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01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:17,679
Speaker 9: family after Joseph Dugger's wife, Kendra was rested and charged

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01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 9: with multiple misdemeanor counts related to child endangerment and false imprisonment.

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01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:24,679
Speaker 1: So cops say.

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01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 9: That she faces four counts of each charge, though official

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01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 9: stress the case is separate from the more serious allegations

1771
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:34,080
Speaker 9: her husband is already facing. I'm sure you've heard about

1772
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:36,160
Speaker 9: them by now if he needs to watch the show.

1773
01:15:36,280 --> 01:15:40,679
Speaker 9: Kendra has briefly taken into custody in Arkansas, later released,

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01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 9: while Joseph. Joseph remains detained over allegations involving a child

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01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:48,679
Speaker 9: from a past family family trip. The details are gross,

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01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:51,439
Speaker 9: I will spare you of them, but investigators say the

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01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 9: Arkansas charges against Kendra came as part of a broader,

1778
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:59,559
Speaker 9: ongoing investigation that has drawn, of course, intense public attention

1779
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 9: due to the family's reality TV fame on TLC's Nineteen

1780
01:16:04,280 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 9: Kids in Counting and all the spinoffs. Kendra will appear

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01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:11,320
Speaker 9: in court soon as they figure everything out, and.

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01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 1: He's in big trouble.

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01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 9: It looks like, allegedly, Christina Applegate is opening up about

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01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 9: how seriously she's thinking about the future as she continues

1785
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:23,960
Speaker 9: to live with MS during a recent interview, the actress

1786
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 9: shared that she's already bought multiple burial plots or her

1787
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:29,840
Speaker 9: loved ones won't have to deal with those decisions later.

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01:16:30,280 --> 01:16:32,720
Speaker 9: She said that death feels like something that looms in

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01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 9: the background when you're living with a chronic illness, and

1790
01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:38,640
Speaker 9: explain that she chose a peaceful final resting place she

1791
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:42,400
Speaker 9: admired for years, even plans to plant some trees there

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01:16:42,439 --> 01:16:45,720
Speaker 9: to make visiting more comfortable. Thinking about this is very

1793
01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 9: practical for her family, so they don't have to handle

1794
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 9: it while they're grieving, but it's obviously very emotional. She

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01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:55,559
Speaker 9: does have a teenage daughter and so she thinks about

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01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:58,160
Speaker 9: how it will affect her when she's gone. It's very sad,

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01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 9: but you know she's she's thinking about it and she

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01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,240
Speaker 9: doesn't want her family.

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01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:06,559
Speaker 1: To have to add that on to everything that will

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01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 1: be happening.

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01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:11,280
Speaker 9: Nicole Kidman is sparking fresh romance rumors months after her

1802
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:12,719
Speaker 9: divorce from Keith Urban.

1803
01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:15,600
Speaker 1: Keith Eben, the Oscar winner.

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01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:19,759
Speaker 9: Has been seen spending time with fellow Australian actor Simon Baker,

1805
01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 9: her co star in the new show Scarpetta on Prime,

1806
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 9: including moments where they were holding holding hands at an

1807
01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:29,559
Speaker 9: event in New York. You may know him for playing

1808
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:32,599
Speaker 9: I think you played the lead in The Mentalist. And

1809
01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 9: then they play a married couple in Scar Pattis. So

1810
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:38,559
Speaker 9: they kiss and stuff. Apparently they've known each other for years,

1811
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:42,639
Speaker 9: but I don't know. They're sparking some rumors and.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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01:17:44,560 --> 01:17:48,000
Speaker 9: Maybe you hold hands with your friends of a different

1814
01:17:48,479 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 9: sexual orientation, but well, I guess they would have the

1815
01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 9: same sexual orientation, you know what I mean. I don't

1816
01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 9: hold hands with my guy friends and Lay's fingers, But

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01:17:56,400 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 9: I don't know. Whatever she wants to do, she can

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01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:01,160
Speaker 9: do no wrong. Also, I started watching Scar. Can you

1819
01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:02,880
Speaker 9: guys text me if I should keep watching? Because I

1820
01:18:02,920 --> 01:18:05,719
Speaker 9: love everything she does and I'm not loving it anyways. Lastly,

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01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:10,160
Speaker 9: Project hail Mary, the science fiction movie starring Ryan Gosling,

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01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 9: earned around like eighty million last weekend. In its first

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01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:17,920
Speaker 9: weekend in the box office, not accounting for inflation, Project

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01:18:17,960 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 9: Hail Mary scored the second biggest opening for a non

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01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 9: franchise movie, behind only Open Heimer, So it's gotta be good.

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01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,240
Speaker 9: The other big opener, ready or Not to Here I

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01:18:28,320 --> 01:18:30,639
Speaker 9: Come came in a distant fourth.

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Speaker 1: If you want to catch up on anything from our show.

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01:18:32,680 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 1: You can do so all the reports from today.

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01:18:35,439 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 9: I got an email The Fred Show on demand on

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01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:38,760
Speaker 9: the Free I Heard Radio app.

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Speaker 3: Fred Show is on Fred's Fun Fact fredwand.

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01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:57,640
Speaker 2: Learn so much. Guys. Did you know that humans we glow.

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01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 1: In the dark, especially right now now? My goodness?

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01:19:01,840 --> 01:19:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, same. I always see I'm always you know,

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01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:08,719
Speaker 2: like in an albino state. But no more than that, uh,

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01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,599
Speaker 2: more than just being the whitest person ever. Humans glow

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01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:14,799
Speaker 2: in the dark. It's just too faint for our eyes

1839
01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:18,599
Speaker 2: to see. Our bodies emit visible light because of chemical

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01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:22,080
Speaker 2: reactions happening in our cells. So it's not that I

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01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 2: need a spray ten. I really do well well, same,

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01:19:26,479 --> 01:19:29,719
Speaker 2: but you glow in the dark nomatter. One more Pread

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Speaker 2: Show next,