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Speaker 1: All right, So this is from Trina on Steve HARVEYFM.

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Speaker 1: Trina says, after more than five years of hosting Thanksgiving, I.

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Speaker 2: Finally got it down to a science.

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Speaker 1: I used to stress over every detail, but now I

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Speaker 1: actually enjoy it because I know what works. This year, though,

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Speaker 1: my husband thinks we should quote switch it up and

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Speaker 1: go non traditional with the menu, like no mac and cheese,

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Speaker 1: just French fries, fried catfish instead of turkey, no corn

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Speaker 1: breadge just white bread.

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Speaker 2: And for dessert, no pies, just ice cream.

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Speaker 1: I no, He says, it'll be fun, but I'm the

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Speaker 1: one who does all the cooking and planning, and I

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Speaker 1: know how easily fun turns into drama and chaos when

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Speaker 1: guests are expecting the classics. Am I being stubborn for

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Speaker 1: wanting to stick with tradition or should I roll with

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Speaker 1: it and risk my sanity over a Thanksgiving experiment gone wrong?

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Speaker 3: Thanksgiving is once a year. It's just once a year.

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Speaker 4: It's not to be played with, tampered with, experimented all.

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Speaker 4: We won't turkey, we won't dress it, we won't give

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Speaker 4: the gravy on candy yams. We want waking cheese. Come on,

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Speaker 4: some greens. We want some dessert. Boom we potato pie. Okay,

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Speaker 4: Now you can put some other meats in there. You

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Speaker 4: can have a ham if you want one. We don't

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Speaker 4: want no cat and all this here cat any time,

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Speaker 4: catfish always bluebell and brises for sale every dog all day. Man,

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Speaker 4: get it out of here. Turkeys ain't gonna be here

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Speaker 4: all year long.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: So that's that's your answer. Great answer. Okay, we have

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Speaker 1: time for another one. Steve from DK on Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: FM DK says, out of nowhere, someone I briefly dated

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Speaker 1: over a decade ago added me on social media. I

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Speaker 1: clicked her profile and saw she has a son who's

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Speaker 1: about the exact age that lines up with when we

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Speaker 1: were together, and he looks a lot like me. I'm

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Speaker 1: married now, and my wife and I have been struggling

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Speaker 1: to have kids, so the thought that I might already

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Speaker 1: have one is throwing me off.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if.

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Speaker 1: She reached out to reconnect or if it's just a coincidence,

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Speaker 1: but now I can't stop wondering should I message her

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Speaker 1: to ask or would that just stir up unnecessary trouble

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Speaker 1: for everyone involved.

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Speaker 3: Well, brother, listen to me. Here's a deal. The last

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Speaker 3: statement is true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when you.

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Speaker 4: Reach out, it is going to stare up trouble for

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Speaker 4: everybody involved. That's one thousand percent true. But you are

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Speaker 4: curious about something you're wondering if she reached out. You

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Speaker 4: looked at this boy, and he looked like you. I

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Speaker 4: think it's noble of you to want to know if

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Speaker 4: you have a son. You're excited too. So yeah, because you'

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Speaker 4: all been struggling to have a kid, you might already

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Speaker 4: have one. Now, let me tell you what's gonna happen

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Speaker 4: when you.

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Speaker 2: Make this phone.

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Speaker 3: When your wife find out who is Jesus.

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Speaker 4: Let me just say this, homie, homie, listen to me.

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Speaker 4: Do this after the holidays. Okay, don't do this now?

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Speaker 3: Hey, can'all ask you something because.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to ask your wife to get on

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Speaker 4: a plane to fly somewhere to go see your boy.

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Speaker 3: This is what's gonna happen, big dog.

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Speaker 4: If that's his boy, do he old child support?

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Speaker 3: I just care? Yes he does? Is god? Oh wow?

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Speaker 2: Even if you didn't know, because yeah, ignorance.

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Speaker 3: Yeah she can even live. There's ten years in the

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Speaker 3: rears right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And they just stated briefly ignorance.

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Speaker 4: Is not excusable by the law. They don't they Okay,

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Speaker 4: I ain't know. Okay, well you know the law.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I ain't know. Yeah I ain't know. I ain't

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Speaker 4: No speed limit was twenty that time I got here

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Speaker 4: with this check.

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Speaker 1: Wow man, all right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show