1 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: When I got dropped from Big Machine, I gave myself 2 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: fourteen days. On the last day, at five pm the ACMs, 3 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: he said, we're not supposed to call you right now, 4 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: but I just felt like you needed to know this today. 5 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: We're not announcing it till like mid January, but you've 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 1: been nominated for an ACM. I saw our massive van 7 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 1: slash almost tour bus slash. I don't know, it was 8 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: just awesome, Like I need one of these. I don't 9 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: know why. It's like a mini home on wheels. Yeah. 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: I saw it drive into the driveway and I was like, 11 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 1: who is that? And it turns out it was Sunny Yeah. 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: And it's got like a big battering ram on the 13 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: front of it, and she talks about kind of why 14 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: but not a real battering ram, but it does have 15 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: a look, you know, something on the front there that 16 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: if anybody messed with her, she can just drive into you. 17 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: But Sunny Sweeney is our guest episode three eighty nine, 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: and so there's a lot we get into. Really enjoyed 19 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: this and it's rare that I get to talk to 20 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: somebody that back in the day I bought tickets to 21 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: watch and so I guess tickets. I think I just 22 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: paid at the door for her shows. Yeah, whatever it was. 23 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 1: It was in Austin, and she was in Austin, so 24 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: I would just go pay at the door and we 25 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 1: went in. So but regardless, I paid money to watch 26 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: her sing. And Sonny Sweeney talks a lot about, you know, 27 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,039 Speaker 1: how her career started in Texas and then she came 28 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 1: to Nashville, and she talks about getting dropped and how 29 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: hard that was for her, like dropped from a label 30 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: and you know what's happened, Like she got signs that 31 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 1: you know, she's this person who believes in signs from 32 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 1: the universe. I don't know that I'm that person. The timing, though, 33 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 1: is yeah, I agree, yeah, the timing with those and 34 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: they're not just like a leaf blows in front of 35 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: you signs. She's like, give me a sign and that's 36 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: something massive happens. So I really enjoyed this Sonny Sweeney. 37 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: She's at getting sweenered on Instagram. By the way, we 38 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: always linked to socials in those notes where if you 39 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: gets a little drop down you can see it in there. 40 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: But she's got a couple of new songs. There is 41 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: Red Dirt Girl. It's an Emulu Harris cover that we 42 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: talk about here you go. When I say new, I 43 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: mean she put out a record in September last year, 44 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 1: so newish. But she's also got a whole dealt to 45 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: cut your music Hall of Fame, which we'll talk about. 46 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 1: So here we go. Also, let me shout out Jamie 47 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: Lyne Wilson because she's also on Red Dirt Girl with 48 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: Sunny Sweeney. There, but let's do it. She's on tour 49 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: right now. Got to Sunny Sweeney dot com. It's episode 50 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: three eighty nine. Here she is, Sonny Sweeney. Sonny, when 51 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: did you live in Austin. That's a funny question. Well, 52 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: my stuff is still in storage there right now. I'm 53 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 1: kind of not living anywhere. But I moved there in 54 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: ninety six for college, and you were there until kind 55 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: of like the last the last couple of months. Yeah, 56 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 1: I was thinking about just you. And I've listened to 57 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: your music for years, and I lived in Austub for 58 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: twelve years. I listened to you when I were there, 59 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: and I've been to a couple of your shows, but 60 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: I never met you. So weird. Yeah, And when I 61 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: walked in, you said, and I was thinking the same thing, like, 62 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: I don't think we've ever met. I've been to at 63 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: least two of your shows. That's so weird, and so 64 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: until now, I don't think we've ever actually spoken to 65 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 1: each other. We've been in the same city in the 66 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: same place a couple, and I literally listened to you 67 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: like as a fan. Oh you did in Austin. Well 68 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 1: that's so at some point this was going to happen. Yeah, 69 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 1: of course it was fine. So the big van out there, 70 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 1: that's mine, baby, that's a that's a big, awesome van. Okay, 71 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: So that's our touring van and UM. In June of 72 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: this past year, we were driving UM from Ohio. We 73 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: were in my car though, thank god, but we were 74 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: coming from Ohio to Nashville and an eight like eighty 75 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: miles an hour driving down the interstate, and this deer 76 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: decides to commit suicide and walked in front of us, 77 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: blew the deer up. It was terrible. It totaled the car. 78 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: It was really bad, really tragic. So my dad and 79 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: my stepdad bought me that big grill guard on the 80 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: front of it for the van. So it looks like 81 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:16,279 Speaker 1: it's got a like some sort of protection system on it. 82 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 1: It is, and my dad and my stepdad are like, baby, 83 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: if you're driving down the road, you are protected, not 84 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 1: just from deer, like I think you can run through 85 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: a building with that thing and of those transformers. Yeah, 86 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 1: did you have trouble get that thing in the gate? No? Okay, 87 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: Oh I can park that in a regular spot. I can't. 88 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: I can't park my car in a regular spot. I'm terrible. Also, 89 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: here's what I was thinking about you. I went to 90 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: the country He's to Call of Fame four days ago, 91 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 1: and some of your stuff is there listening. If you 92 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: didn't know this, I'm telling you now, I think you 93 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: do know. But we saw we saw some of your stuff, 94 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: and I knew you were coming in and I was like, oh, 95 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: I should bring that up. Oh, trust me, I knew 96 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,239 Speaker 1: and had like a shen dig around it. Um. So, 97 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,119 Speaker 1: I've been doing this for a long time, like eighteen years, 98 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: and there's been so many times where I've just been 99 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: like I'm quitting, Like I can't do this anymore. It's 100 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: too hard, which of course is not ever going to 101 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: be the case. Something will always pull me back in 102 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: and I love it. And it's the only job that 103 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: I've ever loved. However, getting validation like that after eighteen 104 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: years and having them just randomly call when it was 105 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: I have a story for you that I'll tell you later, 106 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: but like, this is one of the moments in my 107 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: life where my mom was like, you know, I bounce 108 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: things off her all the time, and I was like, Mama, 109 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm just done. I can't do this anymore. COVID was 110 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: too hard, like all this it just it sucked, Like 111 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:40,679 Speaker 1: I don't want to do it anymore. She's like, baby, 112 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: please don't don't do this yet. Just you need to 113 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: say a prayer and you need to like beg for 114 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: a sign that you're supposed to keep doing this. This 115 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: is the second major thing that's happened in my life 116 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: when I've done this. They called me. They had already 117 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 1: mailed me a package with all of the invite and 118 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: everything saying they're going to put my stuff in there, 119 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 1: but I never got it because I moved. So then 120 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: the guy just randomly calls me one day and says 121 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: the curator or whatever, and he goes, hey, I don't 122 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 1: know if you ever got this message, but I said, 123 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: I didn't ever get a message. I never got an email, 124 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: I never got anything. Well that's why I was calling you. 125 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: I thought you would be excited about this. But it 126 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: was literally two days after I had told my mom 127 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: I was quitting. And so then I thought, O, well, 128 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 1: now I've got stuff in the country music Call of Fame. 129 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: Now this was just like last weekend. So my whole 130 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: family came up to Texas. Yeah, there was a sort 131 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: a hat there. There's one of my hats, like a 132 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: cool looking hat. Yeah, standard hat works from Waco, Texas. Um, 133 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: it's my friend Cameron. He makes the best hats. He's 134 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 1: like the only hat that I'll wear, probably because he 135 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: just he knows how big my like actually circumference, not 136 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: how figuratively big my head is, but like the circumference 137 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: of my head and um, and so he just will 138 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,640 Speaker 1: sometimes just bust out like a really cool hat. And 139 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: he made one for me to wear to that with 140 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: these cactuses on the side. It was really cool. But anyway, yeah, 141 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: he's got one in I've got in the display. There's that, 142 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: and then my guitar did I have a bunch of 143 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: signatures on and then um, a piece of woodwork that 144 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: my dad made in reference to one of my songs 145 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: called Poets prayer and then um my, because I'm trashy, 146 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: I guess, but I have like a dream holder that 147 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 1: goes into my mic stand and I put that in there. Well, congratulations, 148 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: that's super cool. And we were going through my wife's grandpa. 149 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: I had never been to the opera or the country 150 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: means to Call of Fame, so we did all that 151 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: this weekend. I love that, And what's cool is it? 152 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes myself I take it for granted because 153 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: it's here and I work at the opera and I 154 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: perform at the opera. And then we did the countries 155 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 1: to Call of Fame and walk through everything, and I 156 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: saw your and I knew you were coming in, and 157 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 1: I was like, dang, I should remember the teller I saw. 158 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: That makes me so happy. American the American American Currents 159 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: are the really cool new room build out. Yeah, congratulations. 160 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: So was that a sign to you? Was that the 161 00:07:55,920 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 1: sign you're absolutely? I mean yes, absolutely. And you know 162 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: the other one that happened so dramatically was I'm a 163 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: very open book with my life and how this whole 164 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: like music thing has transpired over the years. But in 165 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: two thousand and twelve, at the end of We'll get 166 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: into this later, I'm sure, but what I call my 167 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 1: time on the Artist Protection Program. When I got dropped 168 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: from Big Machine, I was devastated. I was like, I 169 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: didn't know what to do. I didn't. I was like, 170 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: do I feel like a loser? Do I feel proud 171 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 1: that they thought I was too country? Like? I mean, 172 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 1: what are my feelings? You know? And I couldn't never 173 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: get really my head wrapped around anything. I just knew 174 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: that I was super depressed and I couldn't I couldn't 175 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: really figure out what my plan was. And I was like, 176 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: am I Am I gonna need to like get a job, Like, 177 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 1: am I gonna need to like go I have a 178 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: college degree. I don't know if I can get a 179 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: job doing that. But I mean, what do I do? 180 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 1: And I was just like panicking. And I told my mom. 181 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: This was in two twelve, and I was like, Mama, 182 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: I just I'm gonna quit, you know whatever. She's like, 183 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: please beg verst sign, Please beg for a sign. She goes, 184 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: give yourself like a date, you know, like give yourself 185 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: fourteen days. And if you don't get that sign, she goes, 186 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: you know that I will stand behind you no matter 187 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: what you do, but please do this for me because 188 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: I know this is what you're supposed to do. It's like, okay, fine, 189 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: you know, roll my eyes. So I gave myself fourteen 190 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: days and um, this was in December, and you know, 191 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: the music business like shuts down. And on the last 192 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: day at five pm, um, the ACMs called me during 193 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: everything being shut down and said that I had a 194 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: They weren't. He said, we're not supposed to call you 195 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: right now, but I just felt like you needed to 196 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: know this today. Um, we're not announcing it till like 197 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: mid January, but you've been nominated for an ACM without 198 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 1: a label, without a song on the radio. It was 199 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: wild twelve. So for this after you've been dropped the 200 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: two three months after I got that quick wow. Yeah. 201 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: And they called you when they weren't I supposed to 202 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: at a time where you were giving yourself fourteen days 203 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: and it was on the fourteenth day at five pm. Two. 204 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: So what do you do when you hang up that call? Well, 205 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: I was sobbing hysterically first, and I immediately called my 206 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: mom and I was like, well, you're not You're not 207 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: gonna believe this. Actually, you are going to believe this 208 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: and I told her what happened, and she just she 209 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: was so excited and she's like, I told you, And 210 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: for you know, honestly, for for years, that little thing 211 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: carried me through, knowing like all the hard nights and 212 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: all the hard because this is a hard business, like 213 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: I mean, you know as well as I know, like 214 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: it is is not for the faint of heart. And 215 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 1: I ultimately kind of think maybe I'm like a cockroach 216 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:51,559 Speaker 1: because I just I keep like people keep trying to exterminate, 217 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 1: you know, like use different extermination methods and all this. 218 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: But I think my love for music just honestly like 219 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: keeps me going a lot of times. And then those 220 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:03,319 Speaker 1: two events like the Hall of Fame thing and then 221 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: that ten years apart. By the way, you know, most 222 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: people probably wouldn't admit that they tried to quit. But 223 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: also like it's hard. I don't want people to think 224 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: this is easy. You know. There's too many people that 225 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 1: are trying to do this that come up and ask 226 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: for advice, and they say, like, what's your advice for 227 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 1: getting started in the music business. I'm like, well, there's 228 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: two things. Either don't or be prepared to work harder 229 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: than you've ever worked in your life at anything, and 230 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: be prepared to be alone even though you're with people 231 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 1: all the time. Put your head down and just focus 232 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: on what you want to happen, and then prepare. You know. 233 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: It's like I saw a meme once that said, like 234 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,439 Speaker 1: grind now so that your dog can have a good 235 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: yard later, sort of like that, like grind now, you know, 236 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: and then enjoy the fruits of your labor, like later 237 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: after you have been busting your ass for however long 238 00:11:55,880 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: you said something, be prepared to be alone even though 239 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: there will be people around you. What do you mean 240 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: by that? I mean like working, Like I have a band, 241 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 1: I have employees, I have all of that, and my 242 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: partner is actually in my band. He's my guitar player. 243 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 1: So I'm you know, I'm not alone so to speak. 244 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: But in theory this is the joke. And my band 245 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: is name on the door, so they're like your name's 246 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: on the door, Like if there's like a bad promoter 247 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: or something, you know, and I have to go deal 248 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: with something, it's me that has to go deal with something. 249 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: So like you know, and I still do my own merch, 250 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,559 Speaker 1: I ship my own merch, I store my own merch 251 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: like I do literally everything. I'm back a trailer better 252 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 1: than anyone ever in the band, and like I want 253 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: to kind of have like a contest. I've thought about 254 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 1: having a contest because there's all these like men that 255 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: are pretty chauvinistic, not in my band, but where they're like, 256 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: y'all gonna let that little lady drive the band, and 257 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 1: they're like, letter let her my dad would My dad's 258 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: been teaching me how to drive a band. I was, 259 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: you know, seven, So anyway, like I do, it's on me. 260 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: Your job is on you, no matter who your employees are, 261 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 1: no matter it's always on you. Your name is the 262 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: one that's on the door. If they mess up, it's 263 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: your responsibility exactly, and if they do something bad, it 264 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: comes back on you, which is why I don't have 265 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: people that party too hard or do weird shit on 266 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 1: the road or whatever, you know, Like I don't do that. 267 00:13:24,160 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: This is a business. It's a business like first and foremost, 268 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: and it always has been, and I've always looked at 269 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 1: it like that, and I just feel like, honestly, I 270 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: mean even this morning I was over there ship and 271 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 1: March I was just like, I don't want to give 272 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: twelve percent of the merch away just because someone I'm 273 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: capable of doing this, So it's all on me. That's 274 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 1: what I mean by being alone, like in the sense of, 275 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,959 Speaker 1: you know, I'm doing I'm doing the things that are 276 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: making the thing work, you know, and I've been doing 277 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 1: it for eighteen years. Yeah, you're the CFO, the CEO. 278 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: You're also the face. You're all I mean. And if 279 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: anybody messes up, it's also on you. You can't really 280 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 1: blame anybody else either. They don't come to you and 281 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,960 Speaker 1: say if some drunk drummer or whatever is being a 282 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 1: jerk someone. They don't say the drunk drummer from this band. 283 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: They go, we're not having Sunny Squeeney's band back. That 284 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: guy was an asshole, you know, like or whatever. That 285 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 1: comes back on me, and that is never going to happen. 286 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 1: So I choose to put wonderful people around me. And 287 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: the people that I have around me are, oh my gosh, 288 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: you found a good group. Now. It's everything is so 289 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 1: good right now. So I let everyone go fifteen months 290 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: ago and started again from the ground up, new, all 291 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: the way across, all the way across. Why do you 292 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: think or what I'm gonna ask you this, and this 293 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: may make you have a little bit of a big head, 294 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 1: but you really it won't sound like that. But why 295 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: do people believe in you in your band? Um? Honestly, 296 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, I heard I heard Rick 297 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 1: Rubin do an interview before, and you know, he doesn't 298 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 1: play in intruments, and people are like, why do you 299 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: think that you are so sought after as a musician 300 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: or as a producer, And He's like, because people believe me, 301 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: they believe in my vision. And I feel like that's 302 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: what it is with me too, because I have been 303 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: doing this for so long and I will give anyone 304 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: advice if they ask for it. I'm not one of 305 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:22,520 Speaker 1: those people that just like puts it out there, but 306 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: they're Lately, there have been a lot of young women 307 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 1: that are in this business that have like that I 308 00:15:28,120 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: don't know, that have reached out to me and asked 309 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: like crazy, like kind of weird, intense questions, and I'm like, oh, 310 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: let's go. Let's like I want to give you. I 311 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 1: want a corner cut for you if I can, in 312 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: any way, shape or form. And I just feel like, 313 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: you put good out into the world, and you get 314 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 1: good back. That's what I think it is. Did you 315 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 1: have anybody that helped you like that? Oh? Absolutely when 316 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: you were young you said, hey, help me out or 317 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 1: let me know what you know, and that would help 318 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: me out. Who was that for you? I have like 319 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: a couple of them and I call them my corner creditors. 320 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: Red Vulcart, he's a guitar player in Austin Or he 321 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: moved to Virginia now, but he was one of the 322 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: guys that I would share a Tuesday night with him 323 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: at Egos and he taught me guitar a little bit, 324 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 1: and he was just a really good friend. And he 325 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 1: was he played with Merle Haggard, which is my hero, 326 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 1: and so I was kind of like, man, this guy's 327 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: so cool and he's he's willing to help me and 328 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: give me advice, you know, unsolicited sometimes him. And then 329 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: Dallas Wayne, who's a radio DJ now also on series 330 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: Sex in which I do that also. But he was 331 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: actually at my first gig ever, first gig ever, Like 332 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 1: he randomly showed up at my first gig ever because 333 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: he was old, oh, twenty seven and how does he 334 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 1: randomly show up? He was playing after me. I was 335 00:16:47,800 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: like the band that was playing, and he came up 336 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 1: to me, Dallas did, and he said, he goes, I 337 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 1: don't know how long you've been doing this, but you 338 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 1: have really good potential and I'd love to help you 339 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 1: anyway that I can. And I said, oh, tonight, it's 340 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: my first gig. And he's like, oh, like your first gig. 341 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 1: I go, no, like really, this is like my first 342 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:14,120 Speaker 1: gig ever. And it was at the Carousel in um Austin, 343 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 1: you know, across from that halfway house. And I know 344 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,640 Speaker 1: exactly where Egos is, and I worrying. I'm sure we're 345 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 1: talking about things that, yeah, Mike and I know really well. Yeah, 346 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 1: I mean I lived there twenty years, so I mean 347 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:27,879 Speaker 1: or twenty some years, so yeah, yeah. I was like, 348 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't get into music until my first 349 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,639 Speaker 1: gig was two thousand and four, which, yeah, which is 350 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: older than most to do a first gig. YEP. I 351 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: think definitely you had something inside you that made you 352 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 1: sound really educated quickly music music wise, because when I 353 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: saw you, it wasn't two maybe two years after what 354 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 1: you just said. I didn't know you don't be doing 355 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: a couple of years and I educated. I mean it 356 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 1: felt like you had just learned a whole lot in 357 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: a short period of time. Then I feel like when 358 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 1: you're starting all the way with this song, I feel 359 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: like songs are written with who they're supposed to be 360 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 1: written with. I feel like, you know, things that you 361 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: learn are learned when they're supposed to be learned. I 362 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,400 Speaker 1: could have learned guitar. When I was twelve. My stepdad 363 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: and you know, begged me to let him teach me guitar, 364 00:18:19,320 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, it's for old people. It's 365 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 1: because him and my uncles would sit around and play guitar, 366 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 1: and I thought it was for old people. So when 367 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: I went to college, I went to Southwest And then 368 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 1: when I went to college, I graduated and had a 369 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:32,199 Speaker 1: job for like twenty one day something like this is 370 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 1: not what I worked at UM. I worked in a 371 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 1: cubicle at this place called Support Kids, and it's basically 372 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,400 Speaker 1: where you would get deadbeat parents to pay their child support. 373 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 1: It was, it was rough, and it was it broke 374 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: my heart more than anything, like dealing with some of 375 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: the parents that just wanted nothing to do with their kids. 376 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 1: And I, I, thank god, have never had to deal 377 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,439 Speaker 1: with that, but I have plenty of friends that you 378 00:18:56,480 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 1: know have parents in similar situations, and it just broke 379 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 1: my heart, like it's really tragic, and so I just 380 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: I just called my stepdad and was like, hey, man, 381 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 1: I think I'm ready to learn guitar. Wow. What did 382 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:12,919 Speaker 1: he say to that? He said, I'm sorry, could you 383 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: repeat yourself? And so he went and bought me a guitar, 384 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 1: taught me three chords, and we were coincidentally going on 385 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:25,399 Speaker 1: a family vacation that weekend. So from Austin all the 386 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: way to red River, New Mexico or wherever we were 387 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,880 Speaker 1: going skiing, I played those three chords in the back 388 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:34,159 Speaker 1: of the suburban, just over and over, and they laughed 389 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 1: now because they were like, you were literally driving us crazy, 390 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: but we were so happy that you found something that you, 391 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 1: you know, enjoyed doing. And and I've always sang like 392 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: I would sang in church and you know, choir and 393 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 1: all that, and then a minor or. I was going 394 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 1: to minor in musical theater, but then I moved to 395 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 1: New York for two years tool side note, and I 396 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 1: wanted to be a Broadway star. And that's a lot 397 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: harder than seems. Everything is, honestly, of course, especially when 398 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: you have to be a creative yes, consistent, and different, 399 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 1: because to do all of those to do one of them, 400 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 1: all right, you can be creative, but how are you 401 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: going to be different? How are you going to be special? 402 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,399 Speaker 1: How are you going to be consistent? And also with 403 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:23,120 Speaker 1: creative people, it's really hard to find consistency because because 404 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 1: we're nuts. Absolutely we have. You have to be nuts 405 00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 1: to even get in this business. Yep. And so you're 406 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 1: already nuts if you've decided I'm in and I'm going 407 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: to keep going, and so those kind of people like myself, 408 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: like you, it's hard to find consistency there, even within ourselves. 409 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: You were talking about just to throw some in there, 410 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:43,920 Speaker 1: you're you can tell you're an og like me because 411 00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: you called a Southwest. It's Texas State, you know, yeah, 412 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: it's Southwest, right, Yeah? That When you said that, I 413 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 1: was like, dang, that's og. That's like I went the 414 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 1: last semester before they changed the name, and they asked 415 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:55,680 Speaker 1: if I wanted a new diploma. I was like, no, 416 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 1: I didn't go to Texas State. I went to Southwest's 417 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 1: the collector's item too. You grew up and your childhood 418 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:08,640 Speaker 1: years like five to twelve. What was homelike then? So 419 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 1: my parents got divorced when I was like four, and 420 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: so then the family unit was different, do you know 421 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,399 Speaker 1: what I mean? And as an adult, it's easier for 422 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 1: me to see how and I've been divorced twice, so 423 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 1: like I see now that, like not all marriage is 424 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 1: meant to be you know, you think it is, you 425 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: have this like whatever. So my parents were not meant 426 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: to be married, and then they got married to other 427 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: people and they're still married to those people a couple 428 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: of years after that. And I've always had four parents, 429 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: you know. And I sometimes feel selfish saying that because 430 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: there's so many people that don't even have like one parent. 431 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 1: But I feel like each of them gave me something, 432 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like, do you feel 433 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 1: like your stepmom and your stepdad obviously two from both units, 434 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: do you feel like they both love you? Yes? My 435 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: stepfather is I mean, one of my favorite people in 436 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: this entire universe. He's his artwork is the one that's 437 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 1: in the Hall of Fame, Like, he means a lot 438 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 1: to me, and he's the one that taught me how 439 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 1: to play guitar. He's the one that you know, the 440 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 1: family life on my mom and my stepdad's side was 441 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 1: bluegrass and country and like Kenny Rogers and Conway Twitty 442 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: is my mama's favorite. And then like my dad's house 443 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: was more like Crosby Steels, Nash and Young and Tom 444 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: Petty and Stevie Nicks, and so I feel like a 445 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:40,159 Speaker 1: lot of both households. It's like by osmosis almost like 446 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 1: when you learn what you like as a child, you 447 00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 1: may not even really like it, you just know what 448 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 1: you're exposed to, which is how country music is now. 449 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 1: I feel like people like what they're exposed to. If 450 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: they were exposed to my music, I feel like more 451 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 1: people would. You know, it's more like Americana, you know 452 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 1: what I mean? But I think is the world country music? 453 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 1: If we're basing I do too what country music used 454 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: to be. I also believe in fluidity and not really 455 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: a signing. But when people go, oh, it's American, it's 456 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: not country, I'm like, man, it's the countryest thing there is. Well, 457 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 1: so here's the weird thing, and this is the weird thing? 458 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 1: Is this? So I used to say I'm a country 459 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: artist and I am. I mean, I'm from East Texas, 460 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 1: I would agree you're a country artist. Yes, yes, But however, however, 461 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 1: the country that is current now is not what I do. Correct. 462 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 1: So when I say I'm a country artist to a 463 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: random person on a plane, when they see me with 464 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 1: a guitar and they're like, what do you do? And 465 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm you know, I'm a secret shopper. I mean, 466 00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: I'm you know, what do you think? I am? Like, 467 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 1: I'm just carrying this guitar around for fun. But I'm like, 468 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: I'm a you know, country singer. And I used to 469 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 1: say that and now I just say, um, I'm a 470 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: singer songwriter because I don't want I am. I have 471 00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: so many beliefs about the way that I make music 472 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 1: and I want people to give it a chance. So like, 473 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,959 Speaker 1: if there's someone that doesn't like current music and they 474 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: only like older music, I don't want them to not 475 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: give me a chance just by putting a label, because 476 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm kind of with you, like, I don't think it 477 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: should have a label necessarily. But but I am country 478 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: and I will always be a country artist. I'll always 479 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: you know, my kind of country at least. So it's 480 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 1: a really hard I say your country. I think so 481 00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 1: countries could be I think I think so too, But 482 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: then for sure that the popular standard of country is 483 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 1: based on who the most popular artists are right now exactly. 484 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 1: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor. 485 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 1: This is the Bobby Cast. Your mom. You've mentioned her 486 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:48,120 Speaker 1: probably four times and we've been talking for twenty three minutes. 487 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,119 Speaker 1: I want to know about your mom because it sounds 488 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: like she's still a great influence in your life. She is, 489 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 1: She's awesome. Um, she's actually an israel right now. They 490 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,119 Speaker 1: went to Israel to do to go like to the 491 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: Holy Land? Wow? Has she ever been before? Now? And 492 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,719 Speaker 1: what motivated that? They were at church one day and 493 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: their preacher was like, Hey, we're gonna have a trip 494 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 1: to Israel. Who wants to go? And before they even 495 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,120 Speaker 1: left church, my stepdad told my mom, Hey, I signed 496 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: us up for that. We're going to Israel. My mom 497 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:22,120 Speaker 1: was like, we are, so I am thrilled for them. 498 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 1: Like they went to Nazareth today, it's like eight hours ahead. 499 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: I think they went to Nazareth today and then tomorrow 500 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: they're going to see Jesus's tomb and like stuff like that. 501 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: I think that traveling is the reason that I continue 502 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: doing this job. I love traveling. It is my favorite 503 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 1: thing on this planet. Nothing will ever compare to it, 504 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,199 Speaker 1: no edge process of it. Though you're like getting to 505 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 1: these places. I don't mind either of it. Really, I'm 506 00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,159 Speaker 1: not one of those it's so weird. I know, I 507 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 1: don't care as long as I'm in motion. I'm one 508 00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,880 Speaker 1: of those people that's like a motion person. And like 509 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: today when we leave here, I'm literally getting in the 510 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: van going into hatching the trailer and then we're driving 511 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: a Little Rock and I'm so excited to go to 512 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: Little Rock. Hey, nothing on that route. I do it 513 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: about six times a year. But good luck to you. 514 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:11,920 Speaker 1: But you know what I mean. So they're in they're 515 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: in a Israel and and and my mom is, you know, 516 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:20,120 Speaker 1: clearly my best friend and time every day, all the time, 517 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 1: more more than more than every day. What about what 518 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 1: about her makes her a great friend and a great mom? 519 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: And what are you happy that you got from her? 520 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 1: I think she's the one that always told me. You know, 521 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,199 Speaker 1: it sounds cliche, but like you can do whatever you 522 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: want to do. As long as you really really want 523 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: to do something, you can figure out a way and 524 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: do not ever let anyone tell you otherwise. So I 525 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 1: think the persistence aspect of it is what I got 526 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: from her, like just not giving up the cockroach aspect, 527 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 1: I guess is what we should call it. And you 528 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 1: know her, her humor is really good and like she 529 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,920 Speaker 1: she can she can get it no matter what I'm 530 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: talking about. We can have like a conversation with our 531 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: eyes in a room full of people without even talking. 532 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: So to me, that's a pretty big deal. You know, 533 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: to have that first call if something goes wrong, oh yeah, 534 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 1: like something like real, like like yeah, fundamentally it's something's wrong, 535 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: you call her, absolutely yeah. And is she your first 536 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 1: call and something goes right? Absolutely? Yeah? Her? And I 537 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: mean my partner, I call him. I call him, you know, 538 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: unless we're together somewhere also with him a lot too, 539 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,520 Speaker 1: right Yeah. So I mean, you know, but if if 540 00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 1: I'm like by myself and I get good news, I'll 541 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 1: usually text both of them first and be like, can 542 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 1: y'all call me back? You know, I like Sharon good news. Yeah, 543 00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:51,159 Speaker 1: And does she text? I don't know, Yeah, she text her? 544 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeahcause she was a lot of emojis I had 545 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,119 Speaker 1: to have the talk with because I would imagine she's 546 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 1: over sixty, she's seventy. Okay, now what's her emoji use? Like? 547 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 1: These are great questions. I love this. I had to 548 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 1: have a talk with her. I was like, mom, one 549 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,400 Speaker 1: emoji's fun. You don't have to do you don't have 550 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:17,320 Speaker 1: to do literally seventeen lines of emojis, all different. You know, 551 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: I know you know what I'm talking about, and that's 552 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: why I ask. And I was being sensitive about you know. 553 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,879 Speaker 1: I don't old she was, but I got to the 554 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: text question that I was like, I'm going in for 555 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:29,480 Speaker 1: the emojis because I feel like anybody over sixty, like 556 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:33,119 Speaker 1: sixty three, they either don't know how to use somebody 557 00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: use way too many, and it's either one of the two. 558 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 1: So she uses way too many. She did, and then 559 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 1: I had to have the talk with her because I 560 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 1: was like, if you're doing this to me, you're probably 561 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 1: doing this to other people too. So this is annoying, 562 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: So don't do that. And then what do you call it? 563 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,160 Speaker 1: A y'all? Or is it a gift or a Jeff? Yeah, 564 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 1: Jeff like a j but it's with a g. Okay, 565 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 1: so a Jeff. She has found the jef. So she 566 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 1: hits a little little work I were glass. It pulls 567 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: up all the jeffs you could send. Yeah, oh yeah, 568 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: so she is a Jeff user. And she sent me 569 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 1: one the other day and it was so she didn't 570 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 1: watch it all the way through, you know how it's 571 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 1: tough times has words at the end, like a penis 572 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: comes up from me. You didn't even see. It's because 573 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: I'll do that. I'll send some sometimes too. Well I'm like, oh, 574 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 1: this is hilarious, and I send it. Then I don't 575 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: watch it. Why did she send you? Um? It was 576 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: it was not good. Um. And I had to call 577 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: her and be like, mom, do you remember when because 578 00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: there was this one time, like back when vhs was 579 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 1: a thing, So she would buy vhs like at garage 580 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: sales because you could tape over them, you know, and 581 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 1: she would she would tape her shows on them, you know, 582 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: like when you could tape shows before DVR or whatever 583 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 1: it's called DVR. And um, anyway, so I am not 584 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: kidding when I say this, this is a joke. In 585 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: my family. She was recording stuff and sending it to 586 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,479 Speaker 1: her sister, to me, to whoever. Like, you know, she 587 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 1: was like so proud that she could record whatever shows 588 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: we wanted, they had porn on them. So oh whoas 589 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 1: at the end, she just didn't get far. It did 590 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 1: not get far. She just like hit record. So it's 591 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: a joke in our family now, like she's so like, 592 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 1: thank god her sisters were the ones that saw it. 593 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: And then my mom called everyone that she had sent 594 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: a thing to and was like, what's in turn it 595 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 1: off five minutes before it's over. I'll tell you how 596 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: it ends. That's funny. I was going through your music 597 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,560 Speaker 1: a little bit ago and I saw a new song 598 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: I popped up and it was Emily Harris cover. And 599 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 1: I'm not familiar with Jamie Lynn Wilson, but I know 600 00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: you guys did that song together? Why that song? What 601 00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 1: about that song stood out? And why her? So Jamie 602 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: and I have been friends a long time and we 603 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: were touring together in Switzerland in twenty sixteen and it 604 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,719 Speaker 1: was just me and her just doing a solo you know, 605 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 1: song swap thing for two weeks and um, we just 606 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,520 Speaker 1: on trip, did a lot of driving and we would, 607 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: you know, plug the iPod in and just start listening 608 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: to music. And we always were leaning towards Emmy and 609 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 1: so we realized that we both had this infatuation with 610 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 1: that record, the Red Dirt Girl record, and it talked 611 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:19,280 Speaker 1: about procrastinator. It took us like what seven years to 612 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: actually record it, after we had initially decided, let's should 613 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: the song. Sorry, yeah, just the song. No that I'm 614 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 1: saying that you didn't take seven years to record. It's 615 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 1: one song you're talking about. We didn't restart recording it 616 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 1: until about three months ago, So I'm saying it took 617 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: seven years to come to fruition. And so then we 618 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 1: just put it out and um, and we I threw 619 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 1: threw it all out there because every answer is going 620 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: to be no unless you ask. And so I contacted 621 00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 1: Buddy Miller, who is, in my opinion, one of the 622 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: greatest musicians and people on this earth. And I was like, hey, Buddy, UM, 623 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:56,640 Speaker 1: I know this is a shot in the dark and 624 00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: you're probably gonna say no, but if you would possibly 625 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 1: let Emmy hear this, because I know Yellow really close 626 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 1: and if she's interested, would you ask her if she 627 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: would maybe want to sing harmony? He goes, oh, I'll hey, 628 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: I will get it to her. I will, I will 629 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 1: definitely get it to her. I will let her hear it. 630 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 1: But I don't think she's doing much right now other 631 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 1: than what's kind of on her calendar. I was like, okay, 632 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 1: well if you would just send it to her anyway, 633 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 1: just see so Emmy Lou Harris is a huge dog person, 634 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: as am I, and so I wrote her a letter 635 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 1: and I sent her a picture of my dog wearing 636 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 1: a bow tie and she this. Two days later, Buddy 637 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: called me. He goes here, you're not gonna believe this. 638 00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: She's gonna take a swing at it. So and I 639 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: was like what, and he I go win and he 640 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 1: said tomorrow. I said tomorrow, okay, And he said would 641 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 1: you like to come over and meet her? And I'd 642 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: met her like backstage, you know, fifteen years ago somewhere, 643 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: but never like really talk to her. And he goes, yeah, 644 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: if you come over at one, we're going to record it. 645 00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 1: Come over at one and then you know, you can 646 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 1: meet her. I was like, okay. I went and sat 647 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 1: in a laundry matt parking lot for two hours before 648 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: the time when he told me to be there in 649 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: case they got finished early, so that I could be there, 650 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 1: And then when I showed up, I was like, oh hey, 651 00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: oh yeah. I was like I know, I had a 652 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,520 Speaker 1: friend that lives near here and me and the laundry 653 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 1: matter my friend, but I was so excited to meet 654 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 1: her and she was so gracious and so sweet and um, actually, 655 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 1: do you know who Radney Foster is? So Radney actually 656 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 1: texted me yesterday and said that he had run into 657 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 1: Emmy Lou a couple days ago and that she was 658 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,320 Speaker 1: really really happy with how that turned out. And she came, 659 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 1: you know, saying on it and she said, I'm just 660 00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 1: so glad that they wanted to cut my song. That's 661 00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: just so you know, flattering. And of course my heart's 662 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: exploding while I'm reading that text message because I love her. 663 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: I just she's the coolest. She's like the ultimate cool, 664 00:33:58,440 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 1: you know, and it cut me to call a fan. 665 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: The whole thing about her too. I don't know if 666 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 1: you if you saw it, but just spending time breaking 667 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 1: down her early life and how different because now we 668 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 1: just go, oh, the great Emma Lou Harris, but what 669 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: she was doing was kind of radical at the time. Yeah, 670 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: and how she was doing her music and who she 671 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: was doing it with and who and I would encourage 672 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: anybody just to look her up. I mean, she kind 673 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 1: of at times was like a hippie total like California 674 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 1: but country, and was taking that there and bringing that here, 675 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 1: and like working with Doll. I mean she had the 676 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 1: Albert League guy playing guitar with her too, which was 677 00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: a totally like I mean, he has a bad ass 678 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 1: and he's just like he's guy's such a great guitar player. 679 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,600 Speaker 1: But like that Luxury Liner. Just I mean, if anyone 680 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:46,160 Speaker 1: is caring at all what I'm saying, you should listen 681 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,279 Speaker 1: to a Luxury Liner because it is it is like 682 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,879 Speaker 1: so radical, like you said, just like it's it's so 683 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 1: above it's time. Yeah. I can only imagine people were like, 684 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: what is she doing when she first started doing it, 685 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 1: and then she was so great at combining styles where 686 00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: it didn't feel like she was combining styles. I felt 687 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,640 Speaker 1: like she created her own path. Yeah, that she became 688 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: what people tried to be like, and then it just 689 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:14,320 Speaker 1: became normal because she was so wonderful at it. Yeah, 690 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 1: that's very true. It's very true. I never thought about that, 691 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,879 Speaker 1: but yeah, that's I recently, I mean, I just spent 692 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 1: a bunch of time like I was at the Hall 693 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 1: of Fame, and then I went back and kind of 694 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,319 Speaker 1: deep dove a little more. And it's funny you bring 695 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,080 Speaker 1: her up, and I didn't even know that that she 696 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 1: would that she's saying the harmonies on that. Yeah, she's 697 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 1: on the end of it. She's on the bridge and 698 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: the last chorus. That's really cool that she agreed to 699 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: do that. And it was a dog with a bow 700 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,360 Speaker 1: tie for sure, because whatever you wanted for me, if 701 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 1: you had a dog with Boti picture, I was say, yes, 702 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 1: what do you need to Kidney? Yeah, absolutely sing it. 703 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:46,320 Speaker 1: Absolutely a dog in bow tie. I'm in the Bobby Cast. 704 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:51,720 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Welcome back to the Bobby Cast. 705 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,319 Speaker 1: You mentioned your very first ever performance. You said you 706 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,880 Speaker 1: were twenty seven. Why did it take until twenty seven 707 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,959 Speaker 1: or maybe twenty four? I don't even four. Yeah, even 708 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: if you were to say nineteen, yeah, for most folks there, 709 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 1: And I say this working on America, and I hope 710 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 1: for four years. I'll be like, I've a waiting a 711 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: whole life for this, And I'm like, bro, you're fourteen. 712 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,160 Speaker 1: That's what I mean, your whole life. I got an 713 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:16,840 Speaker 1: armpit hairs long older than you. So when did the 714 00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,280 Speaker 1: music bug bite you? For lack of a better question 715 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: about that. Well, so my performance my first performance I 716 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 1: mean that with a band, like yeah, but like a 717 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:28,839 Speaker 1: pay with with a band, where yeah, you're like, this 718 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: is my show. I mean I always have done like stage, 719 00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 1: like stage has always been where I've been most comfortable. 720 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 1: You know, I did um, you know high school would 721 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 1: you do? Oh every play that was available and um, 722 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,800 Speaker 1: but even younger than that, like middle school plays. Um, 723 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 1: That's why I wanted to do musical theater. What was 724 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 1: the dream then? I didn't really I didn't really have 725 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 1: a certain dream. I just knew that my hometown wasn't 726 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,240 Speaker 1: where I needed to be to do what I wanted 727 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 1: to do. Your hometown it wasn't specifically Houston. Did you 728 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,879 Speaker 1: have one of the suburbs? Law View, Texas is where 729 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: I'm from. So Houston's where I was born, and then 730 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,319 Speaker 1: we moved up to northeast Texas like when I was two. 731 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,680 Speaker 1: Got it. So you don't really remember Houston as far 732 00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:13,919 Speaker 1: as like growing up. Yeah, because my whole family still 733 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: lived there, so I went there all the time. Got it. 734 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: But lawn View is very small and and it's very quaint, 735 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 1: and it's cute, and there's a small little county airport 736 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,880 Speaker 1: and I knew that I needed something bigger than that. 737 00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,359 Speaker 1: How did you know that? Why did you know that? 738 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's the weird thing. So I have 739 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 1: a friend actually that passed away last year. His name 740 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 1: was Heath, and me and him, when we were still 741 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 1: in high school, we both had this whatever this was 742 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 1: where we had this like vision of us leaving this town. 743 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 1: And there was a booking agent over on Gilmour Road, 744 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,879 Speaker 1: a booking agent in my hometown. Like, we don't even 745 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: know really what she booked, like we laughed about it 746 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 1: as adults, but anyway, he and I went there, I 747 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 1: think our junior year of high school, and we just 748 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,720 Speaker 1: sat in her office and it was like Joey from Friends, 749 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 1: you know, with the agent smoking the cigarettes. She was 750 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,080 Speaker 1: literally smoking cigarettes talking to me in Heath and she's like, so, 751 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 1: do you have a resume, and we're like a resume? 752 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,759 Speaker 1: We don't know. So that was our first experience. We 753 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,480 Speaker 1: wanted to talk to her about booking us in movies. Yeah, 754 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: but what was she booking? We don't know. I still know, 755 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,959 Speaker 1: I'm curious, like what was I don't know that either, 756 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,799 Speaker 1: And he's not with us anymore, so we can't even 757 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 1: really honestly figure it out. But um, she was this. 758 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,439 Speaker 1: It probably was like a casting agency for who knows 759 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,680 Speaker 1: what really, But I mean I remember where it was, 760 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,759 Speaker 1: and it was in this like strip center and we 761 00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 1: go in there and and Heath and I laughed about 762 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 1: it until you know, the last time I saw him 763 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:51,279 Speaker 1: was twenty nineteen. We laughed about it then because he 764 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,839 Speaker 1: is he was an actor, and all of his friends 765 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:56,520 Speaker 1: or actors out in LA and so he was like, hey, yo, 766 00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 1: we're the ones that actually left. We're following our dreams. 767 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: And so he was kind of like my first person 768 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:04,319 Speaker 1: that gave me the courage to figure out what I 769 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 1: wanted to do. I didn't know what I wanted to do. 770 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 1: So then when I went to college, I did entertainment 771 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,919 Speaker 1: pr because I thought, well, I'll be a publicist. That'd 772 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,879 Speaker 1: be a great job for me. I'd be great at this. 773 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,759 Speaker 1: But then that didn't work out because I got bit 774 00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,239 Speaker 1: by the wanting to do the performance part of it. 775 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:25,840 Speaker 1: And did you do that at Southwest? No? But productions 776 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,960 Speaker 1: there no, because I was just there to finish school, 777 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: like my parents really wanted me to finish school, and 778 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,319 Speaker 1: I did not want to be there. But I had 779 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 1: an internship at Lone Star Music and the guy that 780 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,360 Speaker 1: owned the company's name is Chad, and he's in a 781 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:46,040 Speaker 1: wheelchair and he's a paraplegic, and so he would have 782 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 1: me go out to the venues to find people to 783 00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:54,360 Speaker 1: put their merchandise on our website to sell artist. So 784 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:56,439 Speaker 1: I went to this club one night and I called 785 00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 1: Chad and I was like, hey man, this guy, Like 786 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 1: I could do what this guy is doing. I just 787 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:03,680 Speaker 1: have to learn to play guitar. Chack goes do it, 788 00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, no, I mean, like, I have 789 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,919 Speaker 1: to learn to play guitar. He goes do it. So 790 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:13,800 Speaker 1: that's you know, I just kind of got really interested in, like, oh, 791 00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: all these people are they're they're writing songs, they're writing 792 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: stories and then they're putting them to music. And I 793 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,280 Speaker 1: already wrote stories because I'm an English miner in college, 794 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I've written stories, you know for however 795 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 1: long I've been in college six years. If I can 796 00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,399 Speaker 1: just play guitar, I ben I can figure this out. 797 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,680 Speaker 1: So that's when I called my dad, like after I graduated, 798 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:37,719 Speaker 1: and was like, I can I know I can do this, 799 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,920 Speaker 1: and Paul, my stepdad, that's his name. He was like, 800 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I know you can do it. It's like 801 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 1: no question in my mind. Well how long did it 802 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,000 Speaker 1: take you to find it? And obviously your voice and 803 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about your physical voice, but your your voice, 804 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,719 Speaker 1: who you are, what you say, what you stand for musically? 805 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 1: How long until you kind of found what that was? Initially? 806 00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:03,319 Speaker 1: Pretty much since I started, because I know what I like. 807 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,240 Speaker 1: I've always known what I like, which is classic country music, 808 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:11,880 Speaker 1: Waylon Jennings, Merle Haggard. I love that stuff. Now that 809 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:15,440 Speaker 1: being said, I really love Tom Petty. I think he 810 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:19,640 Speaker 1: was the everything. There is a Tom Petty song for 811 00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:24,400 Speaker 1: every situation. And Stevie Nicks. I just feel like it 812 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 1: is the biggest style icon that's ever walked on the planet. 813 00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:31,360 Speaker 1: And so kind of Lauretta Lens talking about she was 814 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 1: so ahead of her time. Even now, if her songs 815 00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 1: came out they came out in the sixties, even if 816 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,239 Speaker 1: they came out now, people would still be show I 817 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 1: mean the pill look, dude, I can't imagine that. Then, 818 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,120 Speaker 1: I know, you know what kind of uproar that calls no? 819 00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,480 Speaker 1: I yes, but no, it's I think in my head, 820 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,719 Speaker 1: I do I know but I can't imagine we're in 821 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. You're talking about the sixties, I know. 822 00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:57,240 Speaker 1: Putting that out, I know, I would imagine every super 823 00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 1: conservative and you're talking about a time when everybody's can servative, 824 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:04,279 Speaker 1: just generally because it was the sixties. Yeah, that they 825 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:05,600 Speaker 1: had to be shutting doors and no where you're not 826 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:10,040 Speaker 1: listening to that, yeah, breaking it, turning the radio. That's culture. 827 00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 1: That's as punk as you could possibly be, I know. 828 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:17,120 Speaker 1: And she was. She she's the one that that spoke 829 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:20,960 Speaker 1: for all of us. And she's the she's the reason 830 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: that I will write about stuff that's that's taboo. Sure, 831 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,680 Speaker 1: she's the one that told me to write about stuff 832 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,640 Speaker 1: that's taboo. Well, you know, it was not comfortable for her, 833 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 1: and she kicked down so many kicked up at so 834 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,720 Speaker 1: many doors and down so many walls for other female artists. 835 00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, because of what she put herself through 836 00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 1: doing that. She's literally the queen for any woman that 837 00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:46,799 Speaker 1: walked behind her. Now that being said, she'll tell you 838 00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 1: that Kitty Wells was the queen that kicked every you know, 839 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:53,080 Speaker 1: door down for her. And it just shows me that, 840 00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:56,920 Speaker 1: like it's always been a thing with women. It's always 841 00:42:56,920 --> 00:43:00,320 Speaker 1: been a thing. It still is. Oh yeah, yeah, and 842 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,560 Speaker 1: in twenty years it still will be and there'll be 843 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 1: people like yourself. Like in Katy Walls, you have the 844 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 1: first number one song as a female artist ever. Is that? 845 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, but yes, it wasn't Guy Too Made 846 00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:14,359 Speaker 1: Honky tonk Angels was her big and I think that 847 00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,920 Speaker 1: was the first. I'd be interested to know that. I 848 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,320 Speaker 1: actually don't know that if I know that, Mike, because 849 00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,680 Speaker 1: we were listening to Jake Ohen and I are big 850 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,760 Speaker 1: classic classic. There's classic country, and there's like classic classic 851 00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 1: where sometime people forget Kitty Walls is in that and 852 00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 1: we we were just listening to that song a few 853 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,919 Speaker 1: weeks ago. Is that the first it is? I'm trying 854 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,279 Speaker 1: to find the exact song, but she was Katy Walls 855 00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:37,120 Speaker 1: was first woman to have a number one. Well, so 856 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:42,680 Speaker 1: whenever Luretta died, um, you know, it was hard for 857 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:46,560 Speaker 1: me to not say, you know the queen, But I 858 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:51,239 Speaker 1: mean for me, she's my queen um and she will 859 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 1: always be and I had the pleasure of meeting her 860 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,799 Speaker 1: and she she's the one that gave me so much 861 00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,160 Speaker 1: advice about writing and like write what you know, right, 862 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:03,799 Speaker 1: what you know? It's that simple, right what you know? Really? Yeah? Right? 863 00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 1: What you know? Because if if you know it, then 864 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:08,279 Speaker 1: there's other women that know it. Sure, So why would 865 00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 1: you hesitate what's saying calling her the queen? Oh? Because 866 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,319 Speaker 1: because she would. She would probably laugh at that and 867 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,799 Speaker 1: be like and say somebody else's She was like, oh, baby, now, 868 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,280 Speaker 1: Keaty Whales is the queen, you know, But like, Lauretta 869 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:23,200 Speaker 1: is my queen, hands down, She's she She kicked down 870 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 1: every door. Um that I could have ever wanted kicked down, 871 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,520 Speaker 1: because I don't think that there should be any I 872 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,480 Speaker 1: think just because I'm female, maybe it is considered crass 873 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,239 Speaker 1: if I sing about some of the things I sing about, 874 00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:41,600 Speaker 1: or maybe it's considered taboo or maybe like I remember, 875 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:48,440 Speaker 1: I had a song UM on my label when I 876 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,720 Speaker 1: had a label, UM, Big Machine was my record label. UM. 877 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 1: I remember the the A and R person When we 878 00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,839 Speaker 1: were discussing songs to go on my record. She said 879 00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:03,400 Speaker 1: to me, Um, nobody wants to hear from the other woman. 880 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:09,320 Speaker 1: Someone just want a Grammy. Yeah, Carly and Nashley mcbrian 881 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, So I feel like it was just a 882 00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 1: little early, you know, and that's fine, Like I am 883 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 1: so excited for them like to win that. But I 884 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: mean there's been many songs about that, but I remember 885 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:26,800 Speaker 1: ply on the same label. Yeah, no, no, no, that's ironic. Yeah, 886 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,720 Speaker 1: but I remember her saying that, and I remember saying, 887 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:34,200 Speaker 1: like it's country music, like you think that? Do you 888 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,920 Speaker 1: do you think that just because I'm a female, that 889 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:39,680 Speaker 1: nobody's gonna want to hear me talk about that, because 890 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 1: there are plenty of women over the last ten years 891 00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,799 Speaker 1: that have come up to me saying, you know, oh, 892 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 1: thank you for that song. You know, so it kind 893 00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,959 Speaker 1: of does sting a little bit. But also I'm so 894 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 1: excited that there is a time now where there are 895 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:59,279 Speaker 1: women speaking like that, you know, and saying things that 896 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 1: I feel like to be said, you know, And I mean, 897 00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 1: we go out, girls go out, girls party. You know, 898 00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:10,759 Speaker 1: it's not like tell me more, do you know what 899 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:14,840 Speaker 1: I mean? Like, it's it's um, especially in this business, 900 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,920 Speaker 1: like you kind of have to adapt and it's a 901 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,480 Speaker 1: it's a male dominated business and you have to kind 902 00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:24,200 Speaker 1: of adapt as a woman in this business. And um, 903 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 1: A couple of my friends say that when they go 904 00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,399 Speaker 1: home to their families that they their their husband will 905 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,640 Speaker 1: be like, oh, I see that you've got road mouth, because, like, 906 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,879 Speaker 1: you know, girl, it's like you're in a different world 907 00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 1: when you're on the road and then you go home. 908 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:39,759 Speaker 1: You know, I don't have a family at home, so 909 00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 1: like my life kind of just stays pretty consistent. But um, 910 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,920 Speaker 1: that's the joke with them. And but I mean, girls, 911 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 1: girls have we have things to say, we have things 912 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,440 Speaker 1: to talk about. I know, I do, you know, and 913 00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,200 Speaker 1: I don't hold back on those things. And if if 914 00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,799 Speaker 1: it's uncomfortable for you, I'm very sorry, not you, but 915 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 1: whoever's listening. That's what music is supposed to do, is 916 00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:06,920 Speaker 1: bring up emotions. Right, So if I have a song 917 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 1: about one of my friends committing suicide, it's uncomfortable for 918 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 1: me to sing it. It was uncomfortable for me to 919 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,800 Speaker 1: write it. But there have been people that have tattooed 920 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,440 Speaker 1: these lyrics on their body, you know. So it's just 921 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,920 Speaker 1: a very it's a weird dynamic being a woman in 922 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,480 Speaker 1: this business, it really is. It's very interesting to navigate. 923 00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 1: Hank Tye, the Bobby Cast will be right back. Wow, 924 00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:37,560 Speaker 1: and we're back on the Bobby Cast. You signed a 925 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,080 Speaker 1: record deal with Big Machine in two thousand and seven, 926 00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:47,560 Speaker 1: six six, So did you develop a base through the Texas, Oklahoma, 927 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,520 Speaker 1: Arkansas kind of area, touring around and that's why they 928 00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 1: found you? Or did somebody hear you and go we 929 00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,400 Speaker 1: should sign you. This is the weirdest story and you 930 00:47:56,440 --> 00:48:00,920 Speaker 1: probably won't believe me, but so I was doing music 931 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:04,239 Speaker 1: down at played at the Poodle Dog Lounge every Sunday night, 932 00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 1: you know where that is Jenny's little Longhorn, all the 933 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 1: little dives in Austin, played at Central Market, played at 934 00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:11,719 Speaker 1: the grocery store, played anywhere they would let me set 935 00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:16,239 Speaker 1: up my pa and um. Then my fans that would 936 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,839 Speaker 1: come come to these shows, what they would say, like, 937 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 1: you need to make a CD. I was like, came 938 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: a CD. Like They're like, no, really, you need to 939 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,279 Speaker 1: make a CD. I had no intentions. I wanted free 940 00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:28,640 Speaker 1: beer and burgers, you know, like, and that's I was. 941 00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 1: I was eating for free and drinking for free, and 942 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 1: like I was living the high life and um. Anyway, 943 00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 1: so I ended up making a CD and somehow, and 944 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,520 Speaker 1: I to this day do not know how this happened 945 00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 1: because I did not even know this guy. My CD 946 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,919 Speaker 1: ended up on Scott Borshat's desk. No clue. How still 947 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't like, had not been to Nashville, 948 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 1: and um, so he sends me a message on my Space. 949 00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:58,799 Speaker 1: He's like, hey, I own a record label. And I 950 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 1: was like, this sounds creepy. Sound creepy. Totally sounds creepy. 951 00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:03,480 Speaker 1: It didn't have a picture. It was just like the 952 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,440 Speaker 1: Little Gray Head and I was like, this sounds super creepy, 953 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:10,080 Speaker 1: but um wow. So I looked up the record label 954 00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:11,880 Speaker 1: he was talking about and I saw that Jack Ingram 955 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,680 Speaker 1: was on that record label. And I've known Jack since 956 00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 1: I was fifteen. So I called Jack and I was like, uh, 957 00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:19,400 Speaker 1: this dude just sends me a message. He's like, Sonny, 958 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,680 Speaker 1: call him back. He's like what are you crazy. He's 959 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 1: like yeah, that's the head of my record label. Call 960 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:28,319 Speaker 1: him back. And I was like, okay, this is kind 961 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,840 Speaker 1: of weird. So I called him and I was like, hey, 962 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,640 Speaker 1: it's sunny. And he's like, hey, um, could you send 963 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 1: me another copy of this? Um My wife won't let 964 00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: me have this one back, but we would really love 965 00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:40,799 Speaker 1: to see you play. Are you ever going to play 966 00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:42,480 Speaker 1: in Nashville? And I was like, Oh, it's funny that 967 00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 1: you mentioned that I'm going to play there in like November, 968 00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 1: and this was like July. He goes, we're coming. I 969 00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 1: was like, okay. He goes, can you put us on 970 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:57,759 Speaker 1: the list? And I was like, which is Billy Block lit? 971 00:49:57,800 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 1: It was the Billy Block Show. Do you remember Billy Block? 972 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: He did like A. It was like A, I don't 973 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:04,880 Speaker 1: even know what. So you did have a plan to 974 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,160 Speaker 1: be here in November though, you didn't make that part up? No, No, 975 00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:08,960 Speaker 1: it was already planned. Yeah, I was coming to the 976 00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,799 Speaker 1: Billy Block Show. It was like a showcase. So I 977 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:16,560 Speaker 1: come to this gig, they come and this was one 978 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 1: month before I turned thirty years old. And because I 979 00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,919 Speaker 1: was born in nineteen seventy six, so two thousand and six. 980 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:27,879 Speaker 1: And at that gig he said, I'd like you signed 981 00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,240 Speaker 1: to my record label. At that time, it was Jack 982 00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:36,399 Speaker 1: and Justin Moore and Taylor and like one or two 983 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:42,880 Speaker 1: other people. And and I said, oh, okay, I mean cool. 984 00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: I had no idea what I was doing. You have 985 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 1: no like Bobby, I really did not know what I 986 00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,160 Speaker 1: was doing. I still don't know what I'm doing. I 987 00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,960 Speaker 1: really didn't know what I was doing. That all being said, 988 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,160 Speaker 1: he did everything he said he was going to do. 989 00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 1: He re released my album that I had already put out. 990 00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,400 Speaker 1: He didn't change anything on it, he rereleased it regionally. 991 00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 1: I continued touring around Texas and that I jokingly call 992 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,080 Speaker 1: that time because I was there for six years and 993 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 1: only put out one record, So I call it my 994 00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 1: time on the artist Protection program. Why do you feel 995 00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 1: like that happened? I don't know. I wish that someone 996 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:21,400 Speaker 1: could explain it to me. He gave me opportunities that 997 00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:24,840 Speaker 1: I never would have had otherwise. He did everything he 998 00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:28,920 Speaker 1: said he was going to do. He he moved I 999 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 1: think the tragic mistake that happened because I know Scott 1000 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:37,759 Speaker 1: believed in me one hundred percent. He was like, I 1001 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 1: really believe in my heart that he believed in me. 1002 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:44,360 Speaker 1: He moved me over to Republic and the new guy 1003 00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:47,440 Speaker 1: did not like anything about me, and you weren't his 1004 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:51,200 Speaker 1: find exactly, which happens all the time, all the time, 1005 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:54,600 Speaker 1: and not just in music but anything creative. Yea, even 1006 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,799 Speaker 1: in sports it happens like a new general manager goes 1007 00:51:56,800 --> 00:51:59,040 Speaker 1: in well gate my quarterback. I'm gonna go get my 1008 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:01,560 Speaker 1: own guys to get an allogy. Wow, So you get 1009 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:04,920 Speaker 1: it was that? Yeah, so so I was there from 1010 00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:10,080 Speaker 1: two thousand and six to two thousand ten or nine 1011 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,520 Speaker 1: on Big Machine, and then Scott called me into his 1012 00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 1: office when Dan said, oh, there's this new sister label 1013 00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,000 Speaker 1: we're opening, and I'm gonna move you over there. It's 1014 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 1: going to be great for you. And I remember the 1015 00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,319 Speaker 1: sinking feeling in my stomach going like, no, no, no, 1016 00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 1: I've already put in time with you. I want you 1017 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:30,759 Speaker 1: to believe in me. And then, as I predicted from 1018 00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:33,759 Speaker 1: minute one of meaning the person that was the head 1019 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,719 Speaker 1: of the other label, he didn't like anything about me. 1020 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 1: He didn't like my look, he didn't like my voice, 1021 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,319 Speaker 1: he didn't like like my actual voice, he didn't like 1022 00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,359 Speaker 1: my songs. I wonder why you get put over there 1023 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:47,279 Speaker 1: if I don't. It wasn't a conversation, and whomever was 1024 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 1: running it, I was hoping you would be able to 1025 00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,960 Speaker 1: tell me, Yeah, it's weird to me that that would happen, 1026 00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:56,640 Speaker 1: because there had to be a conversation between whomever the 1027 00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 1: governing bodies of those labels are a lot of times, 1028 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:04,120 Speaker 1: you know, things just happen, you know, like choices just 1029 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,239 Speaker 1: get made, and it was made for you obviously, absolutely, 1030 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:12,520 Speaker 1: and you know Um, I'm a big girl. I'm I'm okay. 1031 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 1: Like I survived, I continue to survive. That's my whole 1032 00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 1: thing is survival. What was wrong? What was what was 1033 00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,279 Speaker 1: wrong with you? Um? I didn't sell enough because I 1034 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,960 Speaker 1: was country. That's why I got drowned. So your style 1035 00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,240 Speaker 1: then was, in my opinion, ahead of its time. I hope, 1036 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 1: I hope that I would take that as a compliment honestly. 1037 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,920 Speaker 1: Oh for sure. You know, people that are so early 1038 00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:39,400 Speaker 1: are often penalized when they're so right and so progressive 1039 00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,440 Speaker 1: at the time. But it literally is what's about to 1040 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 1: be the biggest thing. God, You're you're so spot on. 1041 00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:48,440 Speaker 1: They're often penalized and treated like they're just garbage being 1042 00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,000 Speaker 1: thrown out because people don't get it yet. It actually 1043 00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 1: takes other people consuming it over a period of time 1044 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:55,799 Speaker 1: to go we like it, we get it for even 1045 00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:59,239 Speaker 1: them to go, Oh, I mean, Bobby, I feel like, 1046 00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:02,920 Speaker 1: tell me if you think I'm wrong. People like what 1047 00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,759 Speaker 1: they're exposed to for sure, Like it doesn't matter if 1048 00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:09,920 Speaker 1: it's what or what it's like. If you listen to 1049 00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:14,839 Speaker 1: something enough times, it's going to get in your brain right, yes, yes, 1050 00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:18,279 Speaker 1: with the caveat of it just it just can't be bad. 1051 00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,200 Speaker 1: Well sure, but yes, anything that is in that upper 1052 00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:24,440 Speaker 1: I've had the conversation with my bosses and I don't 1053 00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,239 Speaker 1: program music anymore. I just go. I just try to 1054 00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,319 Speaker 1: do compelling content, right, I tried it funny. I try 1055 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,400 Speaker 1: to be compelling in many ways. But I've had the 1056 00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 1: argument with them, like, if you really believe in a song, 1057 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:34,839 Speaker 1: you just played enough time, it's going to be a hit. 1058 00:54:34,960 --> 00:54:36,759 Speaker 1: That's what I think to you. If you believe in 1059 00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:38,600 Speaker 1: it and and you literally just play it enough times, yep, 1060 00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,440 Speaker 1: you can pound it into people's head. So I agree 1061 00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:46,240 Speaker 1: with you in that way. Yes, okay, so that all happens. 1062 00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,839 Speaker 1: So this is when Concrete, my album was out with 1063 00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:52,040 Speaker 1: it had like from a table away on there. There 1064 00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:54,640 Speaker 1: was stains worse than Leaving, which I was also told 1065 00:54:54,760 --> 00:54:57,000 Speaker 1: was needing to be pitched to a man, that no 1066 00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:58,920 Speaker 1: one would want to hear a woman sing about leaving. 1067 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,399 Speaker 1: I've made a career on that. Um and then um. 1068 00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,439 Speaker 1: The next one that was on the radio was Drink 1069 00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:08,600 Speaker 1: Myself single, which is a bar like honky Tonk super 1070 00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,799 Speaker 1: country song. Even for my standards, it's country. So those 1071 00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:16,800 Speaker 1: are my three singles that were out and um, I 1072 00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:21,080 Speaker 1: did not. I didn't. I learn as I go with 1073 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:27,360 Speaker 1: pretty much everything, and um, in two thousand and twelve, also, 1074 00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:31,520 Speaker 1: you know, the whole New Faces showcase or whatever. So 1075 00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what that is. I have no clue 1076 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 1: what that is at this point. And I know that 1077 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:42,240 Speaker 1: the labels, the label that I was with, were pushing 1078 00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,800 Speaker 1: other artists. I guess the labels kind of barter or 1079 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:49,480 Speaker 1: not barter, but like guard for a jockey, for a position, 1080 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:55,520 Speaker 1: they'll put more of their promotion time, money and right. Yeah, 1081 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:57,920 Speaker 1: So they did that with a couple of artists that 1082 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:02,879 Speaker 1: were on Big Machine and public and not me. And 1083 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,000 Speaker 1: I had radio people that I had met over the 1084 00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:07,680 Speaker 1: you know year that i'd been on the road promoting 1085 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,680 Speaker 1: my single that I had kind of really liked and 1086 00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,400 Speaker 1: like stayed in touch with. And I think I'm pretty 1087 00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,680 Speaker 1: easy to get along with and I love meeting people 1088 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,080 Speaker 1: and making friends, and so I had stayed in touch 1089 00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 1: with some of these people. Well, some of these people 1090 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:22,680 Speaker 1: were calling me, going, why is your label not putting 1091 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,560 Speaker 1: you up for these things? And I was like, I 1092 00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,960 Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about, but I mean, whatever, 1093 00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,400 Speaker 1: you know, it happens. I'm not gonna be mad about it, 1094 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,839 Speaker 1: like my time will come. That's always think that. And 1095 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:39,600 Speaker 1: so the nomen or whatever it's called come out and 1096 00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:47,680 Speaker 1: I'm on the showcase without anything nothing, no help, no bartering, 1097 00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 1: no nothing, and whatever it's called. And so I remember 1098 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 1: at that showcase that was when does that happened in 1099 00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,359 Speaker 1: the spring? Happens now it's like in two days here 1100 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 1: or now. Okay, so it's spring. So I remember we 1101 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:08,359 Speaker 1: did this showcase. It was awesome, and I remember I 1102 00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:12,000 Speaker 1: had already put three songs out and I knew it 1103 00:57:12,080 --> 00:57:14,760 Speaker 1: wasn't doing what they wanted it to do. And Scott 1104 00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:19,120 Speaker 1: came backstage like, you know, oh my god, this was 1105 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,800 Speaker 1: the greatest show I've ever seen. If you play, we're 1106 00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:26,080 Speaker 1: gonna put another single out, And I said, really, like, 1107 00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:30,120 Speaker 1: because I thought I had already kind of felt that, 1108 00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:32,440 Speaker 1: like I have a little bit of discernment where I 1109 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,880 Speaker 1: can kind of read people and feel the next move 1110 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 1: sort of, and I kind of felt that they weren't 1111 00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,040 Speaker 1: feeling it anymore. And so when he said that, it 1112 00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:43,000 Speaker 1: kind of gave me a second burst of energy where 1113 00:57:43,000 --> 00:57:46,120 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, maybe this is gonna work, you know, 1114 00:57:46,240 --> 00:57:49,200 Speaker 1: And I got really excited about it, and then he 1115 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,400 Speaker 1: didn't never do it, and I'd asked. I asked about it, 1116 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:54,760 Speaker 1: and he's like, yeah, we decided not too cool, okay, 1117 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,440 Speaker 1: all right, and then kind of back to square one. 1118 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:02,200 Speaker 1: Well then two months later he drops me after I've 1119 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:06,600 Speaker 1: been on the news and the two months later, Yeah, 1120 00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:15,680 Speaker 1: new Faces means that radio label promote that they believe 1121 00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:17,640 Speaker 1: in you and they've kind of annointed you as one 1122 00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,240 Speaker 1: of the big new faces, like together that I've never 1123 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,920 Speaker 1: heard of that happening, and then do that show. And 1124 00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:25,080 Speaker 1: then three months after that is or four months after 1125 00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:28,080 Speaker 1: that is when I got the ACM nomination without a label, 1126 00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 1: without a song on the radio. Yeah, that is a weird, 1127 00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:34,320 Speaker 1: like CRS New Faces, big deal, huge deal. Usually people go, 1128 00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 1: we need to invest more in that person because obviously 1129 00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:39,680 Speaker 1: people believe in them. We drop you two months after 1130 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,680 Speaker 1: that ACMs we shall lift you up again. That's a 1131 00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 1: pretty up and down a little span of months there. Yeah, 1132 00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:49,920 Speaker 1: So it was pretty heavy on my heart. I get it, 1133 00:58:50,040 --> 00:58:52,360 Speaker 1: you know, and it was pretty like if I can 1134 00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:55,760 Speaker 1: survive that, that's why I laugh now. When you know, 1135 00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,560 Speaker 1: people try to like, um, give you the lowdown on 1136 00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,080 Speaker 1: something that's about you know this person you're about to meet. 1137 00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:05,280 Speaker 1: Blah blah. I'm like, I got it. Please, I'm good. 1138 00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:08,320 Speaker 1: I have handled so much worse than this, Like, you 1139 00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:11,160 Speaker 1: have no idea. Do you enjoy playing shows? Now? It 1140 00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,040 Speaker 1: is my favorite thing on this earth. I feel like 1141 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:16,520 Speaker 1: it's almost like when you talk about certain things, your 1142 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:18,360 Speaker 1: eyes light up, and when you talk about playing now, 1143 00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:22,440 Speaker 1: it's almost like you've been reintroduced to how awesome it is. 1144 00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:26,880 Speaker 1: It is the only thing on this planet. Okay, I 1145 00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:31,560 Speaker 1: play guitar and I write songs. If my entire world 1146 00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:37,440 Speaker 1: is taken away from me tomorrow, my band, my house, 1147 00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:42,160 Speaker 1: my car, you know, my friends, my family. I still 1148 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:45,920 Speaker 1: have a guitar and I still have a brain, so 1149 00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:51,080 Speaker 1: I can literally do this for the rest of my life. 1150 00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:54,760 Speaker 1: As long as my fingers work and my brain works, 1151 00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:58,520 Speaker 1: I can travel the world and play music. Now that 1152 00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:00,880 Speaker 1: being said, I would much prefer to do that with 1153 01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:03,960 Speaker 1: my friends. You know, we have a great time together. 1154 01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,840 Speaker 1: And I'm one of those people that I don't really 1155 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,920 Speaker 1: care if I mean, I do care if it's not 1156 01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:13,200 Speaker 1: a great like crowd, but I I will do the 1157 01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,680 Speaker 1: same show whether you're the only person there or if 1158 01:00:16,880 --> 01:00:19,880 Speaker 1: you brought three thousand friends with you. I love my job. 1159 01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:22,320 Speaker 1: I like six friends, but if I had three thousand, 1160 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,400 Speaker 1: we would come. I just don't want you to get confused. 1161 01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,640 Speaker 1: I don't have that many friends, have like six friends too. 1162 01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,800 Speaker 1: So I was just in theory saying that if there's 1163 01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:34,960 Speaker 1: three thousand people there or three people there, I think 1164 01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:41,840 Speaker 1: starting out in bars with drunks, and you know, I 1165 01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:45,720 Speaker 1: never assumed that. I when I started, I never assumed 1166 01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 1: that would have different kinds of fans. I thought it 1167 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 1: would be like the one lonely guy in the back 1168 01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 1: and his drunk girlfriend screaming Tanya Tucker songs at me 1169 01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:00,440 Speaker 1: from across the bar, or you know. I thought it 1170 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,560 Speaker 1: would be like the random kind of hipsters that would 1171 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:09,080 Speaker 1: show up at the carousel. I never imagined that fans 1172 01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:14,520 Speaker 1: would become so instrumental in my life, especially during COVID. 1173 01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:18,200 Speaker 1: These people kept us on our they kept a roof 1174 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,960 Speaker 1: over my head. I am not exaggerating, like I am 1175 01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:26,320 Speaker 1: really not exaggerating. We did they I sold more merch 1176 01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 1: Darren COVID then I probably sold the year before that. 1177 01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:36,880 Speaker 1: People got you, we got you, you know, And I 1178 01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 1: just never figured that. I always knew that fans were 1179 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,040 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously the only reason that any of us 1180 01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:45,440 Speaker 1: do our job, because if you don't have people listening 1181 01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,600 Speaker 1: to you, what happens you don't I don't get to 1182 01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:49,640 Speaker 1: talk anymore. So I'm saying, if I don't have people, 1183 01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:53,400 Speaker 1: you know, listening to me, buying things, whatever, it makes 1184 01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:56,160 Speaker 1: it really hard to do things. So I know how 1185 01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:59,640 Speaker 1: important they are. I never knew how important they are, 1186 01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:03,000 Speaker 1: and COVID really made me see that and made me 1187 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,000 Speaker 1: feel it more than anything, and it is. It is 1188 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 1: the best feeling on this planet, knowing that there's random 1189 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:13,080 Speaker 1: people in this world that I've never met, that somehow 1190 01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:17,320 Speaker 1: maybe have been touched by anything that I've done, even 1191 01:02:17,360 --> 01:02:19,720 Speaker 1: if it's just one thing. Right, I used to have 1192 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:25,120 Speaker 1: guilt about that. Where why Well, and here's the reason why. 1193 01:02:25,200 --> 01:02:27,640 Speaker 1: But here's how I figured out that I shouldn't have guilt. 1194 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:32,040 Speaker 1: But I used to have guilt because, like the listeners 1195 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,760 Speaker 1: of the show, people who read my books or whatever 1196 01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:37,160 Speaker 1: the case is, they've been so generous with lots of 1197 01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,320 Speaker 1: stuff over my career. And again, I'm just a trailer 1198 01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:41,760 Speaker 1: for our kid. I grew up in a really ruled town, 1199 01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:46,800 Speaker 1: didn't have anything, and they would always come to shows 1200 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 1: or donate to causes that I believed in and using 1201 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:51,479 Speaker 1: their own time and their own money, and I would 1202 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 1: feel really guilty for the same reason, going, man, they 1203 01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:57,720 Speaker 1: don't even know me and they're doing this, but they 1204 01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 1: know parts of me that I put out there, and 1205 01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:04,000 Speaker 1: I would go mad, just feel bad that they're doing anything. However, 1206 01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:06,160 Speaker 1: then I started to go, Okay, well, let me just 1207 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,160 Speaker 1: flip the perspective. Here are there people in my life 1208 01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:11,439 Speaker 1: that I don't really know that if they were like, hey, 1209 01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:14,320 Speaker 1: of course, yeah, there are people that have been an 1210 01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:17,000 Speaker 1: influence in my life that I've never met, and if 1211 01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:20,440 Speaker 1: they were having a difficult time or a different time, 1212 01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:23,080 Speaker 1: and then yeah, and I saw it coming from a 1213 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:25,439 Speaker 1: really authentic place, heck yeah I would have. I would 1214 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:28,200 Speaker 1: have done that for them. So I think that's that 1215 01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:30,400 Speaker 1: has a lot to do with heart, your heart too, like, 1216 01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:33,160 Speaker 1: because I have a sensitive heart and I feel that 1217 01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,600 Speaker 1: way too. I feel I think that may be actually 1218 01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:37,240 Speaker 1: nail on the head for me. Why I feel that 1219 01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:40,720 Speaker 1: way because it's like I wish that I knew them 1220 01:03:40,800 --> 01:03:43,240 Speaker 1: all by names so that I could do something for them. 1221 01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:45,760 Speaker 1: I struggle with accepting it for a long time. Oh God, 1222 01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:49,000 Speaker 1: even accepting accepting them giving to things I cared about 1223 01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:50,840 Speaker 1: that were like charities. I still was like, that's your money. 1224 01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:52,680 Speaker 1: I can't believe. I couldn't believe I feel guilty or 1225 01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:56,080 Speaker 1: even doing it now until I said, well, what I 1226 01:03:56,120 --> 01:03:57,680 Speaker 1: do this for people that have been instrumental to me 1227 01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:00,439 Speaker 1: and I would if I had it. Yeah, And so 1228 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:03,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. Sometimes I think will have a black heart, 1229 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,600 Speaker 1: like a deadheart, like there's just a just been through, 1230 01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:09,880 Speaker 1: been through some crap and it's all numb at this point. 1231 01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,400 Speaker 1: But that to me was what made me feel like 1232 01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:18,440 Speaker 1: it's okay. I can one hundred percent get behind that 1233 01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:20,560 Speaker 1: because I think that's what it is for me, and 1234 01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:24,520 Speaker 1: like you know, I did. I've done fundraisers before for 1235 01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:28,720 Speaker 1: I'm a huge animal person. I mean, oh god, um, 1236 01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:31,480 Speaker 1: we worked with the Austin Pets Alive on a lee 1237 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:33,919 Speaker 1: me too, Bobby. I mean years and years and years 1238 01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 1: and years and years. So good. Yeah, it's an animal 1239 01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:40,000 Speaker 1: is like a baby and like it's the most helpless 1240 01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:43,600 Speaker 1: thing on this earth. And they don't have a mouth, 1241 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,080 Speaker 1: so they don't have words, so they can't tell you 1242 01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 1: what's wrong. And it's our job as humans, I think, 1243 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:51,240 Speaker 1: And that's why I feel like I was put on 1244 01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:55,280 Speaker 1: this earth is to figure out a way to help animals, 1245 01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,880 Speaker 1: like I just love animals. And I saw this little 1246 01:04:57,920 --> 01:04:59,800 Speaker 1: kittie in Baton Rouge one time and it had been 1247 01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:03,560 Speaker 1: hit back car. Its leg was all mingled, Oh oh no, 1248 01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:06,920 Speaker 1: this is the best story ever. Okay, and my band 1249 01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:14,400 Speaker 1: Sarah McGlocklin starts playing in the background. Go ahead, so um, 1250 01:05:15,480 --> 01:05:19,040 Speaker 1: my band goes. I said, y'all, this cat screaming at me. 1251 01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:21,200 Speaker 1: It's only looking at me. They were all standing there 1252 01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:24,280 Speaker 1: and it's this big, it's like five pounds and it 1253 01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:26,120 Speaker 1: was screaming. And I have video of it that I 1254 01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:29,320 Speaker 1: will not show you. And and I said, if it's 1255 01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:33,480 Speaker 1: alive in the morning, we're doing something. This is on 1256 01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:36,800 Speaker 1: its deathbed. And so these two girls pull up and 1257 01:05:36,840 --> 01:05:38,400 Speaker 1: we don't have any food in our car. We're in 1258 01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:41,920 Speaker 1: the middle of like somewhere, no no gas station, nothing, 1259 01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:44,280 Speaker 1: there's no food. None of us had food ad granola bar, 1260 01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 1: which wouldn't eat. So I asked these girls panicky. I 1261 01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:48,880 Speaker 1: was like, hey, do you have any food for this 1262 01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:50,520 Speaker 1: little cat? I think it's about to die. And they 1263 01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:52,880 Speaker 1: gave me a waffle, so I got it some water, 1264 01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:56,080 Speaker 1: gave it a little waffle, broke it up in little pieces, 1265 01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,600 Speaker 1: and my drummer called me the next morning at like 1266 01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:02,520 Speaker 1: seven o'clock. He goes, yo, your little friend is still outside, 1267 01:06:02,560 --> 01:06:06,480 Speaker 1: and I was like, damn, so all right? So I 1268 01:06:06,520 --> 01:06:10,920 Speaker 1: got up and I put on Facebook. Hey y'all, there's 1269 01:06:10,920 --> 01:06:14,520 Speaker 1: this cat. Here's a picture of it. Do what you do? 1270 01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:18,400 Speaker 1: I need. I need a cat rescue in Baton Rouge, 1271 01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:22,800 Speaker 1: you know. So within ten minutes this guy has written 1272 01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:26,000 Speaker 1: me back. He said, oh, I'm a cat rescue comes 1273 01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:27,800 Speaker 1: and gets it. He goes, man, this cat's on its 1274 01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:31,320 Speaker 1: last leg literally, and I go, yeah, I know, but 1275 01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:33,640 Speaker 1: I can't leave it here to die. It cannot happen. 1276 01:06:33,920 --> 01:06:36,480 Speaker 1: I can't do anything with it. Can you just take it? 1277 01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:38,160 Speaker 1: And he goes, you know what, I'm gonna call Angel 1278 01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,720 Speaker 1: Rescue and see if they'll take it. So they take 1279 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:44,760 Speaker 1: this cat. They called me two hours later and like 1280 01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:46,840 Speaker 1: the cat needs its leg amputated, and I think will 1281 01:06:46,840 --> 01:06:49,040 Speaker 1: be good to go. So I go on Facebook and 1282 01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:52,240 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, all aren't gonna believe this. Wow, 1283 01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:54,880 Speaker 1: the cat's gonna be fine as long as they get 1284 01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:56,600 Speaker 1: its leg amputated. I was ready to put it on 1285 01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:59,880 Speaker 1: my credit card. Someone started a fun thing for it. 1286 01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:03,479 Speaker 1: Within minutes, I had six thousand dollars for this cat. 1287 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:08,640 Speaker 1: Long story, short cat is now living the high life. 1288 01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:13,440 Speaker 1: It is named Sunny Sweeners and it is living with 1289 01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:18,240 Speaker 1: my friend John, who we flew it to DC to 1290 01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:20,520 Speaker 1: live with him. He's now moved to Nashville as of 1291 01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:23,280 Speaker 1: like two weeks ago, but the cat now lives in Nashville. 1292 01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:27,040 Speaker 1: It is the man of the house. It is the 1293 01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:29,680 Speaker 1: most gorgeous cat. It has three legs. It walks on 1294 01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:35,320 Speaker 1: a leash outside. It is the most gorgeous story. And 1295 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:38,560 Speaker 1: we made T shirts that were you know, I have 1296 01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:40,640 Speaker 1: a fan page called the Trophy Room because one of 1297 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:45,000 Speaker 1: my records it is called Trophy And anyway, we made 1298 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:46,920 Speaker 1: these little trophy t shirts for the cat and we 1299 01:07:46,960 --> 01:07:50,360 Speaker 1: sold those to give the Animal Rescue that did all 1300 01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:54,520 Speaker 1: the work the profits from that and anyway, it's a 1301 01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:56,720 Speaker 1: totally story. That's a great story. That's what I needed 1302 01:07:56,720 --> 01:07:58,800 Speaker 1: to hear. Yeah, I don't need a mangle cat legged 1303 01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:01,360 Speaker 1: in like that. Well, last we saw of it mangle 1304 01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:05,360 Speaker 1: then we drove off. Wait what we left it hungry? 1305 01:08:05,040 --> 01:08:10,280 Speaker 1: I'm feel sad after the Sunny interview. Mike, you're headed 1306 01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,320 Speaker 1: to Little Rock because you have a show there. I'm 1307 01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:13,800 Speaker 1: gonna just read off some of the cities you're gonna 1308 01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:17,280 Speaker 1: be in, Um, Little Rock, Stonewall, Texas, Albany, Fort Worth, 1309 01:08:17,280 --> 01:08:20,800 Speaker 1: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, Houston, Galveston. We're doing a lot of 1310 01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,800 Speaker 1: a lot down there. Huh. Just actually that's weird this 1311 01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:27,040 Speaker 1: month we're in Texas. We're usually not but Galveston though. Oh, 1312 01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:29,160 Speaker 1: we're doing a cruise. That's why so many days in 1313 01:08:29,160 --> 01:08:32,200 Speaker 1: a row. I was like thank four night, or in Galveston, Austin, 1314 01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:34,600 Speaker 1: San Antonio. Listen, you're all over the place. And we 1315 01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:37,559 Speaker 1: had talked about the record and the song with Vince 1316 01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,200 Speaker 1: Gill married alone before you came in. And I love 1317 01:08:40,280 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 1: Vince Doo. He's the greatest. He's the best singer on 1318 01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:47,240 Speaker 1: the planet. Yeah, he's just in just his presence soft 1319 01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:54,040 Speaker 1: and also not like reading, not a skin presence. It's 1320 01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:58,360 Speaker 1: also like strong and like comforting, and you just know 1321 01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:00,160 Speaker 1: he's seen it all. I mean, he plays his was 1322 01:09:00,200 --> 01:09:02,120 Speaker 1: the Eagles and then he goes to them. I saw 1323 01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:03,840 Speaker 1: him with the Eagles at the Irwin Center. I saw 1324 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:06,320 Speaker 1: him with the Eagles at Bridge. It blew my freaking mind. 1325 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:09,680 Speaker 1: I know. So you guys check out Married Alone. We 1326 01:09:09,680 --> 01:09:11,679 Speaker 1: talked about it earlier before you were here. But those 1327 01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:13,559 Speaker 1: are a lot of those, if not all of them 1328 01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,800 Speaker 1: were unreleased songs that you had had Is that is 1329 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:17,320 Speaker 1: that right? Or some of them were what do you 1330 01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:20,439 Speaker 1: mean on my album? Yeah? On that married was it 1331 01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,439 Speaker 1: all new stuff? That Married Alone? Um? It was all 1332 01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:25,639 Speaker 1: new songs? But had you had any of them written 1333 01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:28,160 Speaker 1: for a long time? Oh? Yeah, yeah, I Um, I 1334 01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:32,440 Speaker 1: have a running list of in my phone of songs 1335 01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:35,240 Speaker 1: that just some of them are fifteen years old. That's 1336 01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:36,760 Speaker 1: what I mean. Like you had him for a long time, 1337 01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:39,559 Speaker 1: you just hadn't cut them yet. Yeah. But Mary the 1338 01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,960 Speaker 1: oldest song you had on there? Um, like that you 1339 01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:44,519 Speaker 1: held for so long because it meant so much to you. 1340 01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:46,760 Speaker 1: You just could easy. Someday you'll call my name. And 1341 01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:48,880 Speaker 1: when do you think you wrote that? I know when 1342 01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:50,880 Speaker 1: we wrote it, Me and my friend Brittan wrote that 1343 01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:54,519 Speaker 1: in like two thousand and eight. And why did it 1344 01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:57,479 Speaker 1: take so long to cut? Because it wasn't good and 1345 01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:00,640 Speaker 1: so we rewrote it during COVID. We literally took the 1346 01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:02,920 Speaker 1: title and rewrote it during COVID. Well, there was something 1347 01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:05,400 Speaker 1: about it that just the chorus was there and we 1348 01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:08,800 Speaker 1: knew the chorus was good. Um, but I wanted it 1349 01:10:08,840 --> 01:10:11,160 Speaker 1: to be about something else. It was about something and 1350 01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 1: we wanted to change the topic of it and so um, 1351 01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:16,880 Speaker 1: so we rewrote it over zoomed during COVID and the 1352 01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:18,800 Speaker 1: day we wrote it, I was like, cool, that's going 1353 01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:21,679 Speaker 1: on our record, Like, it's so weird how that happens? 1354 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:26,080 Speaker 1: Sometimes you just know. And then um, before it even 1355 01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:29,600 Speaker 1: came out, that was in that. Do you remember the 1356 01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:31,680 Speaker 1: movie that came out over the summer called Vengeance with 1357 01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:34,960 Speaker 1: bj Novak? Yes, he's a posts a podcast. Yeah. I 1358 01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:38,519 Speaker 1: didn't watch it, but right, yeah, me too, So it 1359 01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:40,400 Speaker 1: was in that. They put it in that movie. Well, 1360 01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:41,920 Speaker 1: I have to for sure what Mike keep telling me. 1361 01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:44,200 Speaker 1: The movie is really good. It's great. And my dad 1362 01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: and I went for Father's Day last year to New 1363 01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:48,519 Speaker 1: York to try back a film festival to see it 1364 01:10:48,560 --> 01:10:52,320 Speaker 1: for the first time. That was like the premiere of it. Huh, 1365 01:10:52,680 --> 01:10:54,760 Speaker 1: how how do you get in that movie? Who pitches that? 1366 01:10:54,880 --> 01:10:58,880 Speaker 1: How's that happened? Um? Somebody hear it. I honestly, it 1367 01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,120 Speaker 1: was one of those things where I was like, what's 1368 01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:04,479 Speaker 1: not even out like how yeah on Earth? How on Earth? 1369 01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:09,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, it just got pitched and the music supervisor 1370 01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:11,320 Speaker 1: liked it and put it in the rodeo scene. So 1371 01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:14,160 Speaker 1: it's pretty wild. That's super cool. How I was really excited. 1372 01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:15,880 Speaker 1: That's what I would love to get into, is you 1373 01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:19,120 Speaker 1: know that kind of stuff, like get into you know, 1374 01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:22,840 Speaker 1: SYNC and like do um TV and film. I have 1375 01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:24,840 Speaker 1: a friend who is a songwriter in town and he's like, 1376 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:26,360 Speaker 1: you know, I'm just gonna take this year and dedicate 1377 01:11:26,400 --> 01:11:29,240 Speaker 1: it to SYNC. And I was like, so what does 1378 01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:31,000 Speaker 1: that mean. He goes, well, I'll started to create these 1379 01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:34,599 Speaker 1: relationships with these and so he he kills it. Now 1380 01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:40,080 Speaker 1: he writes songs for cruise commercials or movies or whoa, Yeah, 1381 01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:42,679 Speaker 1: that's awesome. He was like, you know, I was writing 1382 01:11:42,720 --> 01:11:44,800 Speaker 1: a lot of songs and some of them would get 1383 01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:47,920 Speaker 1: on hold, maybe one would get cut. Yeah, I'm in 1384 01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:50,200 Speaker 1: a pub deal. And he's like, I'm just gonna write 1385 01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:51,720 Speaker 1: for SYNC for a year. And now it's like five 1386 01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:53,800 Speaker 1: times when he was making and he's also still getting 1387 01:11:54,280 --> 01:11:57,400 Speaker 1: control of his life. Yes he does, and he's got 1388 01:11:57,439 --> 01:11:59,120 Speaker 1: good joal. Yeah, but if you come off the road, 1389 01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:00,720 Speaker 1: you're not gonna be the same, you want us down 1390 01:12:00,760 --> 01:12:03,200 Speaker 1: the road. Oh, look, I do everything on the road. 1391 01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:06,400 Speaker 1: Everyone's always like, for since day one, people have always 1392 01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:09,240 Speaker 1: you know, I do, you know, writing appointments when I'm 1393 01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:12,360 Speaker 1: in Nashville or in Austin or whatever. And people are like, 1394 01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:14,639 Speaker 1: when you're off the road or when you're on the road, 1395 01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:16,680 Speaker 1: do you need to like, you know, just be on 1396 01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:18,559 Speaker 1: the road. I was like, no, I do a radio 1397 01:12:18,560 --> 01:12:22,000 Speaker 1: show every morning from the road. I write songs on 1398 01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:25,920 Speaker 1: the road. I've when I'm under pressure, I am a 1399 01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:31,080 Speaker 1: much more like productive person. So the more that I 1400 01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:34,000 Speaker 1: can do. That's why I think I don't mind honestly 1401 01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:38,000 Speaker 1: doing all of the things because freak though I mean 1402 01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:40,160 Speaker 1: probably I am because I'm scared if I don't do 1403 01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:41,680 Speaker 1: it won't get done, and if it doesn't get done, 1404 01:12:41,680 --> 01:12:43,280 Speaker 1: I'll fail. I'll be a failure again. Do you want 1405 01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:45,840 Speaker 1: me to tell you one thing? Though, I definitely am 1406 01:12:45,840 --> 01:12:49,240 Speaker 1: a control freak in it's because it's my name. I 1407 01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:50,960 Speaker 1: want it done right, and I know if I do 1408 01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:55,120 Speaker 1: it, it it will be done right. I have found there 1409 01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:58,960 Speaker 1: is my tour manager now is the first person that 1410 01:12:59,080 --> 01:13:03,200 Speaker 1: I have ever trust did to do certain things. And 1411 01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:06,880 Speaker 1: not only does she do them, she kicks their butt. 1412 01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:13,160 Speaker 1: She is It is like having another brain and two 1413 01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:15,839 Speaker 1: more sets of hand, you know, like she is a machine. 1414 01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:19,400 Speaker 1: She has changed my life so and just so dramatically. 1415 01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:22,559 Speaker 1: And her name is Elisa. If you're listening to Lisa, 1416 01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,680 Speaker 1: she is the best thing that's happened to me as 1417 01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:29,800 Speaker 1: far as like being able to delegate something and I 1418 01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:33,040 Speaker 1: know with no question in my mind that it will 1419 01:13:33,080 --> 01:13:35,760 Speaker 1: get done properly. And if she has a question, she'll 1420 01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 1: call me and be like, is this how you want 1421 01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:39,800 Speaker 1: it done? Like, actually, no, could you try this? And 1422 01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:41,840 Speaker 1: she'd be like, oh my gosh, yeah, that's perfect. It 1423 01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,120 Speaker 1: is awesome. I feel the same way about Mike, except 1424 01:13:44,120 --> 01:13:45,960 Speaker 1: he doesn't ask me if that's how I want it done. 1425 01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:47,040 Speaker 1: He just does it better than I would have done 1426 01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:50,160 Speaker 1: at the beginning. But I never trusted anybody with anything 1427 01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:52,120 Speaker 1: with shows or anything. I was doing that weird ever, 1428 01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:53,600 Speaker 1: and I was like, Okay, I'm finally gonna give this 1429 01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,360 Speaker 1: baby bird to Mike and say yes, but you but 1430 01:13:56,520 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 1: you then you see it surviving and then all of 1431 01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:02,599 Speaker 1: a sudden, not only driving, it's flying around and beating 1432 01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:05,280 Speaker 1: people over the head with its wings. Hey I'm here, 1433 01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:07,800 Speaker 1: And then I feel less end because Mike's better than 1434 01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:12,679 Speaker 1: I am. And he's like, well I would do I dodd. Well, look, 1435 01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:15,839 Speaker 1: we've we've been here for hour fifteen minutes. I've enjoyed 1436 01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:19,360 Speaker 1: this so much too. You're just a jar of fun. 1437 01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:24,519 Speaker 1: You just it's so your spirits just there. Thanks, you know. 1438 01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:28,240 Speaker 1: So here's what I'm gonna say. You guys, go follow Sonny. 1439 01:14:28,560 --> 01:14:31,519 Speaker 1: She's you know, getting sweenered on Instagram, but you're your 1440 01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:36,000 Speaker 1: own name on TikTok, right, yeah, and Facebook, and getting 1441 01:14:36,000 --> 01:14:39,400 Speaker 1: sweenered is Twitter and Instagram. Yeah, I'm confused, but I 1442 01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:41,599 Speaker 1: got you. It's all on my website. If it's all, 1443 01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:44,439 Speaker 1: it's linked on my website, just because I didn't realize 1444 01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:46,360 Speaker 1: when I made those names that those would be like, 1445 01:14:46,840 --> 01:14:49,439 Speaker 1: I know, so stupid. I wish I could change it now, 1446 01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:52,720 Speaker 1: I know. But it's been years in the making that 1447 01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:55,120 Speaker 1: we finally met. I know the two of your shows, 1448 01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:58,080 Speaker 1: and I've listened to you way before you ever did this. 1449 01:14:58,640 --> 01:15:01,000 Speaker 1: When you're back in Austin and mikel was like, hey, 1450 01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:03,439 Speaker 1: Sonny's gonna be and I was like, really that, I'm 1451 01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:05,120 Speaker 1: so happy, super cool. And then when I saw your 1452 01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:06,680 Speaker 1: stuff with the country to call of fame. I was 1453 01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:08,839 Speaker 1: going to remember to say it, and then I forgot 1454 01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:11,519 Speaker 1: and then we start of talk and then I was like, oh, yeah, 1455 01:15:11,600 --> 01:15:14,360 Speaker 1: that's right, and then it got us on to Dami 1456 01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:17,200 Speaker 1: Lou Harris. This is all kind of happened organically, which 1457 01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:19,760 Speaker 1: is super cool. Yeah, so thank you. You ask really 1458 01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:22,920 Speaker 1: good questions too. I don't know that asks anything. I 1459 01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:24,400 Speaker 1: just kind of live. But I mean, like you, you 1460 01:15:24,439 --> 01:15:27,920 Speaker 1: don't you do ask like the Actually you ask the 1461 01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:31,479 Speaker 1: right things. You ask things that make people want to talk. Well, 1462 01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:33,360 Speaker 1: I appreciate That's what I When I listened to you, 1463 01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:37,639 Speaker 1: I'm always like, oh, that question is going to make 1464 01:15:37,680 --> 01:15:40,240 Speaker 1: this person say this. You know, like it's it's good. 1465 01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:42,160 Speaker 1: You're really good at your job. I know you know that, 1466 01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:44,439 Speaker 1: but like it's really fun. Same to you, You're really 1467 01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:47,320 Speaker 1: good at your job. Thank you. So, Mike, anything you 1468 01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:49,639 Speaker 1: want to say, could you teach me how to back 1469 01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:52,840 Speaker 1: up a trailer? Yes, I want to do it. I 1470 01:15:52,880 --> 01:15:55,519 Speaker 1: want to do it on a live feed. I want 1471 01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:57,439 Speaker 1: to do that. I mean I have troubled my forward focus, 1472 01:15:57,439 --> 01:15:59,519 Speaker 1: so I oh no, it's much easier to back a 1473 01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:02,559 Speaker 1: trailer into back a regular car. Yeah, I don't think so, 1474 01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:08,599 Speaker 1: because i'd had I'd pull trailers, boats, mowers, and I sucked. 1475 01:16:08,840 --> 01:16:11,440 Speaker 1: Really yeah, yeah, I messed up a couple of them. 1476 01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:14,040 Speaker 1: I think I could give you some pointers. I'm sure 1477 01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:15,960 Speaker 1: you could watch me and like hit your gate on 1478 01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:19,400 Speaker 1: the way. Hilarious, hilarious. All right, you guys go follow Sonny. 1479 01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:21,720 Speaker 1: Go to Sunny tweeney dot com. The song they just 1480 01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:24,320 Speaker 1: went up, Red Door a Girl. It's in Immlu Harris cover. 1481 01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:26,599 Speaker 1: And then also her album which we just talked about, 1482 01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:31,720 Speaker 1: which came out Middlelisi end of last year September. Yeah, okay, yeah, 1483 01:16:31,720 --> 01:16:33,400 Speaker 1: I'm Middleshi end of last year. They kind of last 1484 01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:36,479 Speaker 1: that term lash end. Yeah, married alone, and that song 1485 01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:38,240 Speaker 1: also has Vince Gill on it and is not only 1486 01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:40,080 Speaker 1: just the name of the album. Sonny, thank you, Thank 1487 01:16:40,120 --> 01:16:43,080 Speaker 1: you so much. Thanks for listening to the Bobby Cast. 1488 01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:46,080 Speaker 1: Share this episode with a friend because they don't pay 1489 01:16:46,120 --> 01:16:46,920 Speaker 1: to advertise us.