WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Kids Party Problem 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.600 He today is proof that we're not always about just 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:05.720 relationship dramama. 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:10.520 Yeah, brother sister drama. Yeah, yeah, that's right. Welcome to 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:11.240 the podcast. 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:13.040 Of course, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and 0:00:13.080 --> 0:00:16.439 you have found the Second Date podcast. But today it's Tuesday, 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:18.759 which means you we've got your awkward Tuesday phone call 0:00:18.800 --> 0:00:19.200 coming up. 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:21.160 It's brand new. We think you're gonna love it, but 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:23.280 we love to start. How's your voice, by the way, 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:23.840 today better? 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:24.080 Right? 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:26.720 Oh you sound sound pretty good. I say you sound 0:00:26.840 --> 0:00:30.479 ninety five percent Alexis. Yeah, yeah, that's what I thought too, like. 0:00:30.840 --> 0:00:32.720 A seventy year old man to like a twenty year 0:00:32.760 --> 0:00:34.560 old maybe. 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.520 Yeah, that's better. What do you got for comment? 0:00:37.200 --> 0:00:39.680 I saw one from Isaac who said, why do I 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:41.000 feel like Jeffrey wears a suit? 0:00:41.040 --> 0:00:45.120 Whenever he's talking? He does give that air, doesn't he? 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:45.600 Yeah? 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:47.680 I can see that, which is funny because he talks 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:51.560 like he wears a suit, but he dresses the opposite. 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:54.000 I think he has four shirts. I think that's all 0:00:54.080 --> 0:00:57.040 he owns, and one hat. There's always a hole in 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:57.400 them too. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:57.720 Yeah. 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:00.840 Yeah, very fancy that. 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:01.040 Man. 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:03.240 You're just lucky, you know that addresses that's true. 0:01:03.440 --> 0:01:04.000 That's true. 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:06.000 All right, we're gonna get your brand new awkward Tuesday 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:07.200 phone call started right now. 0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:10.960 It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, and we've dealt 0:01:11.000 --> 0:01:15.160 with family drama on this show before. Has just last month, 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:18.080 I volunteered to give Alexis's younger brother the Birds and 0:01:18.120 --> 0:01:18.920 the Bees talk. 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:22.039 I love that. And now high school now. 0:01:22.200 --> 0:01:25.000 We already know, well now he just calls me, Dad, 0:01:25.160 --> 0:01:33.000 what you really got close after that conversation. We understand 0:01:33.200 --> 0:01:37.920 awkward family dynamics clearly, and we're dealing with one today 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:41.640 after something didn't go so right at a children's birthday 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:44.480 party a year ago. It was so bad that it's 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:48.240 still causing a rift in the family that we're being 0:01:48.400 --> 0:01:52.160 asked to settle today. I'm probably gonna have to get 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:56.360 ready to explain how certain things work. But you'll find 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:59.280 out what happened in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:00.400 call right after this. 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:03.800 It's awkward, It's Tuesday. 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:09.080 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. A few months ago, you 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.480 all might remember we did an awkward call for one 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:14.480 of our listeners who needed help, asking the best man 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:18.920 at her wedding to politely back out because they used 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:23.640 to date and her fiance wasn't aware of that past relationship. 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:24.560 Yes, she. 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:27.960 Want to tell us, right. 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:30.679 So we called the guy. Eventually they worked it out. 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:34.359 But now fast forward to today and guess who's emailed 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.560 the show asking for our assistance. 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:39.120 Does that mean we get an update on the wedding? 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:40.079 Did the wedding happen? 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:43.079 No, we're not going back. He has a new problem 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:47.400 that he wants to deal with. The best Man Brad 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:50.280 has called in for help with a different situation in 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:53.239 an awkward call, Brad, welcome back to the show Man. 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:56.120 Hey, thank you. Yeah, you guys kind of surprised me 0:02:56.160 --> 0:02:58.079 on that last ones. I figured, you know what, it 0:02:58.120 --> 0:02:59.960 could probably be helpful on this situation. 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:02.760 Yeah, you were kind of the victim of the last 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:07.160 Awkward Tuesday, and now you're more the protagonist here. 0:03:07.160 --> 0:03:09.640 I hope. So I don't really know what's going on. 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:12.640 He's not sure what protagonist means, Brooks. 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:13.200 So you got it. 0:03:13.280 --> 0:03:15.400 Yeah, you're the person who's calling needing help. 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:16.280 Thank you. 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:18.400 Yeah, character energy, that's what I'm saying. 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:22.440 You're the main character of this Awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.000 So what's the situation that you're dealing. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:27.400 With So this is a little more tame than last time, 0:03:27.400 --> 0:03:29.320 for sure. But I'm just having an issue with my 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:34.480 sister Jenna right now. Quick backstory, I guess I'm divorced. 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:37.680 I have two kids, two boys, four and six. I 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.360 love them. They're awesome, hang out with them all the time. 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:41.160 They're my buddies. 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:42.600 Awesome. 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:46.240 Yeah you have to say that though pretty much, but. 0:03:47.800 --> 0:03:50.800 Just in case the court's listening, I love them still, 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:52.400 I'm kidding. 0:03:52.480 --> 0:03:54.440 It also has to do with the situation. So, like 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:56.760 I found out my sister's having a birthday party for 0:03:56.920 --> 0:04:00.760 her daughter at her house. Uh huh, Well, like my 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:03.280 mom's the one that told me about it. She's just 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.400 like mentioning it, like obviously, like I was going, but 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:08.440 I didn't get any invitation about it. I didn't hear 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:09.520 anything about it. 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:12.400 Are you sure, because my husband's always like, I didn't 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:13.680 see that birthday invite. 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:18.400 Yes, that's what I'm saying. So I figured she's my sister. 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.480 She sucks at communicating anyway, So like I texted her, 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:24.359 I didn't like outle like say it, but I was 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:26.560 hinting at it. I was dropping some huge hints and 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:29.520 she didn't say anything, which made it even more obvious. 0:04:29.800 --> 0:04:32.799 What you feel like you weren't invited to the party 0:04:32.839 --> 0:04:33.400 on purpose. 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.480 I feel like I know the reason, and that's what's 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:37.839 so upsetting about it. 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:39.200 Really, there's a reason. 0:04:40.760 --> 0:04:43.520 So like she's probably upset because last time there was 0:04:43.560 --> 0:04:46.240 like any like birthday event in our family, Like I 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:51.119 brought my kids and they were rowdy, I want to say, 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:56.360 a couple of boys. I mean, yeah, they were loud. 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:59.040 Yes they were knocking everything over. Yes, they have to 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:02.360 trash their trus on everything and whatever they is they do. 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:06.000 Like I don't get it, he asks, Like the four 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.640 year old he's throwing tantrums because he didn't win a game. 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.280 He's like screaming how he wants to be the rotten egg, 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.880 Like it doesn't even make sense. And then my four 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:16.599 year old is just pouring candy on the floor and 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:18.040 then eating it off the floor. 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:19.359 Your kid is doing that. 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:21.880 Both of my kids are doing both of those. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:24.200 Off the floor. 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:27.760 So you're saying you think your sister isn't inviting your 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:32.320 kids to the birthday party because they're so misbehaved. 0:05:32.920 --> 0:05:35.160 Yeah, And I mean, like maybe I'm making it sound 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:36.880 like it's not like they were like lighting things on 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:42.240 fire or anything like God forbid. But no, obviously I 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:44.200 know they're misbehaving and like I know, I've had to 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:46.039 talk to them and stuff about that. It's hard to 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:48.800 crall to boys when they're running around by yourself, believe me. 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:52.000 But their kids and like their family, like, really, you're 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:54.880 gonna exclude them because like they were bad ones? 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:57.120 What do you think she'd tell you that, like sibling 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:57.640 to sibling. 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.160 But I think that's why, Like I don't have kids, 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.600 but when you see bad kids, you tend to blame that. 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:05.000 Yeah, but if it's your family, you just have to 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:08.440 accept no matter what the behavior is. So wait, because 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:11.000 this is their cousin's birthday, right that they're not getting 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:11.560 invited to. 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:14.120 Saying I want them to see their cousin, like I 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:16.279 want them to be able to hang out. Like I 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:18.120 just need help convincing changing your mind. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:20.200 I think, okay, okay, you're not going to do the 0:06:20.200 --> 0:06:22.840 thing where you just show up uninvited and crash the 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:24.440 party like a lot of family. 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:24.800 Members would do. 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:27.040 Yeah, that's such a little brother. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:30.359 I want to they have a pool, like it'd be 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.520 really okay. 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.400 You want to do the polite thing, And actually it 0:06:35.440 --> 0:06:38.000 sounds like call your sister and ask permission to bring 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:38.599 your children. 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:41.760 Yes, I would like to squash the beef as we 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:42.320 would say. 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:45.039 Okay, that's I feel like that's a mature move, like 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:47.719 actually talk about it in a family instead of just 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:52.440 everybody talking behind each other's backs. Your mom, you got 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.880 like four other group chats, don't include. 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:55.160 Each other in it. 0:06:55.240 --> 0:06:57.200 Okay, but you feel like you're going to get pushed 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:59.359 back from your sister, and that's what you're looking for 0:06:59.400 --> 0:06:59.839 advice on. 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:05.440 Uh yeah, my sister can be terrifying a little bit. Yeah, 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:09.160 so wait, so what's the like mission, I get to 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:11.640 put it all out there so it's not awkward, and 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:13.400 then like I guess, like I would assume then it 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:14.880 would just be business as usual. 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:18.200 It's a little touchy too, because you don't want to 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:20.640 start more drama from a phone call like this. 0:07:20.720 --> 0:07:23.040 There's already enough, it sounds like in your family. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.160 Yeah, I don't want to be like I'm sorry and 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:26.920 then just assume I'm invited either. 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:29.800 Oh, you you actually want to apologize for your kids 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:30.680 behavior last time? 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:32.920 I mean, if you guys think I need to do that, 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.280 like that's what I'll do, But like I'll take your advice, 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:37.840 but I've tried that route and she's pretty stuck in 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:38.200 her way. 0:07:38.400 --> 0:07:40.120 Okay, I mean it sounds delightful. 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:44.240 It is her party, her house, her rules, so her pool. 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:47.080 We're looking for her blessing to get them over and 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:50.360 if she says no, then we'll unleash your children on 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:52.560 her house to finish the job that they started. 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:53.400 It's time of fire. 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:56.640 Yes, yeah, don't get out when you got to go 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:58.160 to the bathroom in that pool. 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.400 What their kids are going to pee in the pool? 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:05.920 Didn't get that, but I got it. 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.760 Anyway, We'll come with some advice for you and let 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.240 you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to your sister 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:14.000 to get your children invited to her daughter's party. 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:16.960 And your awkward Tuesday phone call coming up right after this. 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:17.960 Thank you? All right? 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:21.040 Man, hold on, it's awkward. 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:27.320 It's it's awkward Tuesday phone call. Scientists once claimed it 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:33.120 was impossible, MythBusters refuse to even test it. Wow, the 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:38.120 question could candy infuse children spend three hours at a 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:41.319 birthday party and be somewhat well behaved? 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:44.079 It's scary, you know. 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:46.839 Answer we do because it happened a year ago for 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:50.640 Brad when he brought his children, four and six years old, 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:52.200 over to their cousin's. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:54.040 Birthday party and the two. 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:57.959 Of them ended up causing chaos and mischief. Yeah, it's 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:01.480 all the stuff little boys tend to do, so little kids, right, 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:04.720 And I need to ask you, Brad, didn't your children. 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:07.559 Break anything while they were over at their aunt's house. 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:12.439 I mean, there was a broken lamp when we were leaving, 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:13.960 but I didn't see what happened to it. 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:19.559 You're just like the boys watch responsibilities. 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:24.040 And She's like, yeah, own and his children did leave 0:09:24.040 --> 0:09:26.160 with a light bulb that day, but you can't connect 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:26.880 the two of them. 0:09:27.160 --> 0:09:29.000 Okay, Yeah, that's fine. 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:32.280 Now, maybe Brook has some advice for you before we 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:34.360 call your sister and try to convince her to let 0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:37.520 your children attend this year's party, hopefully, Brook, What do 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:38.400 you think I mean? 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:41.040 I think when it comes to an older sister, what 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:42.800 you need to do is butter her up. 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:45.600 And this is getting really greass. 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.120 I'm saying, make or feel good, make or feel wanted needed, 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:54.000 that's what all. Yeah, you need to take the angle 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:58.880 of You need parenting advice, okay from her the expert. 0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:01.320 Yeah right, you like to know that they're smarter too. 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:01.720 Yeah. 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:04.360 Have you been doing things to help correct your boys behavior? 0:10:05.120 --> 0:10:06.960 Yeah, I mean I've been trying to do like some 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.240 stuff here and there, like really trying to like get 0:10:09.280 --> 0:10:10.520 them to hone in and stuff. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:12.640 But okay, that might be worth bringing up to your 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:14.640 sister if we can get her on the phone. But Jose, 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:15.880 what do you think? Do you have advice? 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:16.960 Well, kind of the same. 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:20.719 Anytime I want something from my sister, I buy her present. Oh, 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:26.720 during the call, just tell her you have a bunch 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:30.480 of chocolate covered strawberries for anytime she wants, and immediately 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:32.000 she'll be like, oh yeah. 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:35.240 Come on over chocolate covered strawberries to your sisters. Yeah, 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:36.040 every Mother's Day. 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:36.880 I sent her her birthday. 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:40.920 It's kind of a sexy gift too. Yeah. 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:42.280 Chocolate. 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:47.280 Okay, so maybe, yes, bribe your sister with some sexy chocolates. 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:47.719 What do you think? 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:50.000 Yeah, I don't think I want to leave the sexy 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:50.880 chocolates out of it. 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:53.600 Okay, normal, normal chocolates and normal for us. 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:56.840 I'm gonna take a combo platter from each of y'all's like, 0:10:57.440 --> 0:11:00.079 she's smarter than me. She loves to rub that in 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:02.120 my face. So let's just put that angle. 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:04.679 Okay, we're getting an invite at the end of this. 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:07.679 The boy Brook wants to see if her kids can 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:10.040 be invited too, so we'll work on that afterwards. 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:12.640 It sounds like though his sister has some good goodie bags. 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:14.480 I'm not gonna lie. She sounds very type A. 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:17.080 Okay, well, we'll get your invite after we do this 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:17.880 call with Brad. 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:19.800 So I'm gonna dial your sister's number. 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.160 You can use whatever advice you want to, but we'll 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:23.720 back away and let. 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:23.920 You do this. 0:11:24.000 --> 0:11:24.559 You ready, ma'am? 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:25.840 All right, fingers crossed. 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:27.199 Okay, good luck, Here we go. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:40.400 Hello, Hey, Jen, what's up? 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:41.920 Hi? 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:42.600 Brad? 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:44.400 Yeah, it's Brad. 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:46.720 What memory are you calling from? 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:47.920 Did you get a new phone or something? 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:52.719 No, no, that's not important right now. Look, I you 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:54.880 have a stack real quick. I threek if I could 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:56.160 just talk to you real quick? 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:01.400 Yeah, sure, go ahead. 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:02.600 Okay, cool, Yeah, she only take a few minutes. 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:04.280 Like, so. 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:11.760 I heard from mom you're having a party. Oh she 0:12:11.920 --> 0:12:17.400 told you? Yeah she did, because like I was just 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.280 talking to her about that and then like it kind 0:12:20.280 --> 0:12:23.400 of just came up and she was asking what time 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:24.280 I was going to get there? 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:29.520 Well, yeah, yeah, we are having a party. 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:36.960 Okay, So like long pause again, I uh, did my 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:38.760 invite get like lost or something? 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:45.120 Well no, no, non, exactly. Come on, Brad, you remember 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:47.160 what happened last year when when the kids were over. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:51.080 Dude, I know, but like listen, that's not gonna happen again. 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:53.640 Come on, Oh can I trust that. 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:57.839 The kids are older now? They're a whole year older. 0:12:57.880 --> 0:13:00.199 They're four and six. Now. A lies changed in the 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:05.880 past year. Come on, Brad, dude, I know it wasn't good. 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:07.079 I'm telling you that. 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:12.600 They literally attacked our room bow with the tennis rackets, but. 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:16.880 Like that was actually funny. Come on, how was that funny? 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:19.760 Because they hit it a bunch and it was making 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.000 weird noises and stuff. I thought you were laughing. What 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:23.319 are you talking about, Brad? 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.560 No, that's not okay, Like, look, that's not the point. 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:29.240 The point is we are family, Like we should have 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:30.960 talked about this a long time ago and not let 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.640 it fester like this. I want our kids to hang 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:34.480 out like they're. 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:36.880 Literally cousins, Like what are we doing here being petty? 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:41.319 I mean I want that too, but it's just your voice, 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.360 Brad of offense. But they're like walking little nightmares. 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:49.760 I want to say you're wrong, but they are. And like, Okay, 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:52.440 I've done some stuff about it, and they've made a 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:55.120 lot of progress. Like I was looking on YouTube a lot, 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:57.720 and I found these awesome, like dog training videos that 0:13:57.840 --> 0:14:01.720 they actually love. So I've just been using that. It works. 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.880 Brad. You cannot train your kids like dogs. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:08.800 They act like dogs sometimes, So why wouldn't I just 0:14:08.840 --> 0:14:14.199 watch these videos? Honestly, I can't imagine them licking themselves 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:14.960 in a corner. 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:18.680 You're talking about your own children. 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:21.080 Doos, Brad? 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:21.880 What is going on? 0:14:21.960 --> 0:14:22.880 Who are these people? 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:29.440 Respond to? 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:32.120 Jenna? 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:34.920 I need to actually tell You're on the radio right now. 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:36.880 We're a show called Brook and Jeffrey. 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:36.960 In the Morning. 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:43.280 Oh yeah, Brad, Brad, he reached out to us for 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:44.160 this segment we do. 0:14:44.200 --> 0:14:46.120 It's called an awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:48.960 Okay, yeah, yeah. 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.560 He just didn't know how to handle this situation going 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:56.160 on where his kids weren't invited to your daughter's birthday party. 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:58.720 Well, if you saw what his kids did last year, 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:03.560 you would understand. People literally left the party early because 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:06.400 his kids were causing such a wreckage because of them. 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:10.120 Wait a minute, yes, listen and you are the aunt 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:11.200 in this situation. 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:13.080 I think it takes a village. 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.000 You have to take some responsibility, right, it's also your 0:15:16.040 --> 0:15:17.520 family exact in that way. 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:19.920 I only have so much control over these kids. I'm 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:22.320 trying to run a party. I can't be babysitting. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:23.120 That's his job. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:27.200 But not asking you like co parent or anything. But like, 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:29.600 if you have any like helpful hyinnts, that would be 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:30.280 super helpful. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:34.400 I tell them the lead with that part. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:38.680 But well, let's start by not using YouTube dog training videos. 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:40.960 Yeah, good club, there might. 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:42.600 Be some merit in that you tell your kid to 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:43.320 sit and stay. 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:47.680 No, Jeff, No, no, no. 0:15:47.240 --> 0:15:50.160 Okay, okay, fine, But Jenna, can you help out your 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:54.200 brother here because he's kind of heartbroken over the fact 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.360 that your guys' kids aren't going to be able to 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:57.520 hang out for a birthday party. 0:15:57.520 --> 0:15:59.680 It's important. They're family, and yeah. 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:02.600 They're yours nephews. Don't you want to help guide them 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:03.560 in the right way? 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:06.000 I mean, I would love to, but I also don't 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:09.880 want to lose precious, valuable furniture like the lamp Auntie 0:16:09.920 --> 0:16:11.320 gave us before she passed. 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:13.760 Oh no, you can't prove that. 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:16.040 No one of us heard it break, So how did 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.880 it break? I didn't do it. He didn't do it. 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:21.080 The apple doesn't fall far from. 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:23.840 Bra. 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:25.320 Yeah, I see where they get it from. 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:27.440 Really, Bra, you talk to your sister. 0:16:27.920 --> 0:16:30.120 You really want to have them be those the strange 0:16:30.200 --> 0:16:32.600 cousins that don't even know each other like these. 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:34.480 No, I want to be the cousins that we meet 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:36.440 at the park where. 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:36.760 They can't break. 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:38.960 Not your house, right. 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:42.480 Maybe maybe maybe like get a bounce house or something 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:44.200 and they can just kind of like run alock in 0:16:44.280 --> 0:16:46.320 that bounce house. 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:49.400 Curiously, That's all I need. Then the tip over that 0:16:49.480 --> 0:16:51.240 bounce house with everybody else's kids. 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:51.720 I'm sorry. 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:53.840 Okay, yeah, okay, okay. 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.840 Is there any time before the party where the four 0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:58.320 of you could get together. 0:16:58.360 --> 0:16:59.320 And like party. 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:02.160 I'll even bring talk with covered strawberries if you want, 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:03.000 like anything. 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:06.800 Oh you know how much I love topic cover strawberry. 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:09.200 Oh my god. 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:11.119 Okay, looks Brad. 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:14.879 You can bring the kids, but they cannot go in 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:17.639 the house, and that's your responsibility to make sure they. 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:18.920 Do not go in my house. 0:17:20.680 --> 0:17:23.240 No, they can sing happy Birthday through the windows. 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:30.000 She has a pool, all right, Well that's. 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:32.440 That's a nice compromise that she's offering for you, Brad, 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:36.480 you're at least allowed on the premises bathroom outside. 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:38.359 I mean, we'll take it for now, and we'll just 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.240 figure out a way to get inside or something. 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:43.960 I don't kids know. They're going to do the opposite. 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:48.040 Yeah, you mean those dog training videos don't work, all right. 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:50.080