1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:09,840 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to stump Mom? Never told 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: you from house Stop works dot com. Hey there, and 4 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: welcome to the podcast. Is this Kristen Mrs Molly? So Molly, 5 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 1: today we are talking about circumcision. Yes, and um. You 6 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: know another episode we did what is the lipstick index 7 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: or the lipstick indicators that's sometimes called UM, which is 8 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: basically and we've talked about this in multiple episodes now, 9 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: but for those of you who haven't heard about it, 10 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: it's UM this idea that lipstick sales are correlated to 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: the economy. Basically, when the economy goes down, lipstick sales 12 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: go up because women buy it as a small luxury. 13 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: So with our circumcision research, Molly, I've come up something 14 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: new that I think economist seem to pay attention to. 15 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: That's called the circumcision index. Yes, Chris has already looked 16 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: into trademarking this term, patenting it so that if anyone 17 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: else says circumcision index, they have to pay her. Yeah, 18 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:10,320 Speaker 1: pay up people, Um. Because the reason why I came 19 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:13,960 Speaker 1: up with a circumcision index, aside from my innate brilliance 20 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 1: is because circumcisions are actually down in the down economy, 21 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: because it's an extra few hundred dollars on top of 22 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: the medical bills for having a little baby boy. So Ever, 23 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:31,919 Speaker 1: since um insurance companies started cutting off payments for circumcisions, 24 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: they've seen a drop in the number of boys getting 25 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: their foreskin removed. Right, and in the states where it's 26 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: still a covered procedure they're having um there's the rates 27 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: of circumcision are still high. Basically, so that the thinking 28 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: goes that without health insurance, circumcisions, circumcisions drop. Yeah, and 29 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: this is um. This comes from a story in Newsweek 30 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: from April two thousand nine, and there was a report 31 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: by researchers at u c l A that said that 32 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: the circumcision right in states offering coverage was on average 33 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: higher than states that don't. So, uh, the economy might 34 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: be influencing men's foreskins. Now, perhaps at this point you're thinking, Hey, 35 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 1: it's mom's stuff. Why are they're talking about circumcisions because 36 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:19,919 Speaker 1: we're all about periods here, But you know, we heard 37 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: all about women's periods. We want to hear about men's penises. 38 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 1: You know, at the end of the day, foreskins effect us. All. Yes, 39 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: I mean, let's say your new mother, you've got to 40 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: make this decision. You've got three bucks at your disposal 41 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: to have the circumcision or do you do you skip that? Yeah? 42 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: And if you're a guy, you know it's part of 43 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 1: your anatomy, so obvious. Yeah. And I've talked about and 44 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: if you're a girl encountering that part of the anatomy 45 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: for the first time, you might be thrown. Yeah, what's 46 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: that like? Let's talk about circumcision, Mollie. Let's talk about 47 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: the wonderful world of the male foreskin, right, So let's 48 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: talk some anatomy first, Kristen. We've got the foreskin, which 49 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: is a portion of skin on the penis that covers 50 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: and text the tip of the penis, also known as 51 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: the glands, and the foreskin is basically a protective shield 52 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: for the flaccid penis. It protects it against Nixon cuts 53 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: and excess rubbage. Yes, as the writer of this article 54 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: house circumcision works. Tom She've put it. It's a tough 55 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: world out there for a flacc of penis because you've 56 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: got abrasion from undergarments, you've got cold weather and dry air. 57 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: Apparently a lot of things can hurt that sensitive organ. Yeah, 58 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 1: and it's a pretty significant part of male genitalia because 59 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: the foreskin can account for one third to nearly one 60 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: half of total penile skin. And uh, then on the 61 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: inside of the foreskin, uh, he describes it as similar 62 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: to the inside of your mouth because it helps keep uh, 63 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 1: the penis naturally lubricated. Yes, and it's also not dead skin. 64 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: It's got all these nerve bundles, blood cells. This will 65 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: be important later because our question today is our circumcision 66 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 1: is really necessary and some people say that those very 67 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: nerve bundles maybe the reason that it's not. And there 68 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 1: is a little piece of skin called the tissue I 69 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: should say called the frenulum, and that's what connects the 70 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: foreskin to the glands. And the frenulum will come more 71 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: into play when we talk about how a circumcision procedure 72 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: actually happens. Now, Kristen, just as all penises are different, 73 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 1: all four skins are different. Some men have foreskins that 74 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: just cover the entire glands, some only have partially covered. Yeah, 75 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:35,280 Speaker 1: and there are different conditions that can be associated with 76 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: that because sometimes in the case of a man who 77 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: has pomosis, his foreskin is not going to fully retract 78 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: when his penis becomes erect, which can be really painful. 79 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: And then on the flip side of that, you can 80 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: have paraphimosis, in which the foreskin will retract but it 81 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: won't cover the penis back up once it has gone 82 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: to wrist. Yeah, so it causes a lot of swelling. Um. 83 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: There are also there's also balin postphitis. Is that right, Christen? 84 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: Sure sounds good. That's a swelling of the mucous surfaces 85 00:05:06,279 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: of the foreskin, which can If that happens a lot, 86 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: then you may need a circumcision. And there's also a 87 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:15,720 Speaker 1: skin disease that affects that area called balonitis zerotica of 88 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 1: litterons perhaps I'm gonna call it b XO and um. 89 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: That can cause pain and it can also be linked 90 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: with fumosis. So there are a lot of medical reasons 91 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: why you might not want your foreskin around. And on 92 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: top of that, since we've got all this lubrication going 93 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: on on the underside of the foreskin, uh and bacteria 94 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: that can get caught up in their men need to 95 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: keep that area clean earls, they're going to have a 96 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: build up of something called smegma, which is a cheesy 97 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: discharge which doesn't sound very pleasant. So if you do 98 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: have your foreskin, you've got to clean it, basically, is 99 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: the point, because no one wants any smegma hanging around, 100 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: and that can lead to infections. You can get a 101 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 1: urinary tract infection. It does not sound. Does not sound 102 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: plus that which I think you know. These are just 103 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 1: a few of the reasons. We're gonna get into all 104 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 1: of them later. Why people thought, hey, let's just get 105 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 1: rid of this problem. Let's get rid of foreskin. Let's 106 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: do a circumcision. So let's talk about how you actually 107 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: get rid of the skin. Yes, let's go two into 108 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 1: the hospital room with that little little infant boy and 109 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: find out what doctors do. There's either they either use 110 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:28,839 Speaker 1: a clamp or something called a plasta bell device to 111 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: get rid of that foreskin. So here's how you use 112 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: a clamp. You separate, You separate the foreskin out and 113 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 1: then protect the rest of the penis. And then, as 114 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: the writer of this article puts it, you crush or 115 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 1: cut a ring of skin from the penis. And so 116 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: it happens really fast. And if you use that other device, 117 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: a plasta bill, it just kind of like you stay. 118 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: It stays in there, and then um, the skin just 119 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: falls off. It clings onto it for a while. Um. Now, 120 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: if you are an adult male and you decide to 121 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 1: get circumcised, things are a little bit different. It's a 122 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: little more involved of a procedure where they actually have 123 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: to snip off manually cut off the foreskin. Yes. On 124 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: the on the one hand, it's probably positive to know 125 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: you're not gonna have a clamp involved. On the other hand, 126 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: you're gonna have some scissors involved. Yes, I take your poison. Man. 127 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: So what they do is, um, they make a slit 128 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: in the foreskin and cut it away basically, and then 129 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: they make a stitch to hold it in place. And 130 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: it takes about thirty minutes. Now, and both procedures, both 131 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: for a child and for an adult, you're probably gonna 132 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: have some local anesthetic, little anesthesia. You're not gonna be under. 133 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: It's gonna be you know, it's gonna be awake, yeah, 134 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: for that, and it's gonna take some healing. Even for 135 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: for the child. I think the healing process is a 136 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: little shorter. But you know, for men. Obviously there's not 137 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: gonna be any sort of intercourse or anything like that 138 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: involved for the next little while. And you know, I 139 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: mean it's sensitive area, so it's not gonna be entirely painless. Now, 140 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie Kristen. When I read how the 141 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: actual procedure worked, even though its medical procedure, I was 142 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: just like, why would anyone do this? It seems it 143 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: seems like a bad thing. So let's talk about historically 144 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: why people have chosen to cut away the foreskin. Well, 145 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:21,320 Speaker 1: people have been circumcising penises for quite a while. There's 146 00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: a rich history of male circumcision, and a lot of 147 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: times we think of it as going back to the 148 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: story of Abraham and the Bible where he makes a 149 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:35,840 Speaker 1: covenant with God to protect the Jewish people. Um. And 150 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: you know, he goes ahead and circumcises himself if I'm 151 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: not mistaken, on the age of ninety nine. At the 152 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: age of ninety nine and then beyond that, um, he 153 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: was directed to circumcise mail males by the eighth day 154 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: of life. And if not uncircumcised men would have to 155 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: be cast away from the Jewish tribe. So he circumcises 156 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: his sons, and this sets this president that now about 157 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: of American Jews are circumcised, and of course goes through 158 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 1: and circumcises his son Ishmael. But um he gets cast 159 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: out and he becomes the forefather of the modern day 160 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: Arab people. And so he passes down that tradition to 161 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: his ancestors, which include the prophet Mohammed. Yeah, and since 162 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: Mohammed there, well, there's nothing in the Koran that's explicitly 163 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: says you must circumcise your male children. But since Mohammed 164 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 1: was known to have had a circumcised penis, a majority 165 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: of Muslims um will circumcise their sons. And in fact, 166 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: according to the World Health Organization, almost two out of 167 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: every three circumcised men on the planet are Muslim. Yeah. 168 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 1: Fun fact. Now, Muslims will differ when they actually do 169 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 1: the procedure. Some will do it when the baby is 170 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: an infant, like the Jewish people do, or they'll wait 171 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 1: till it can be more of like a rite of passage. Um. Now, 172 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: it's not so much a big deal. In Christianity, no one, 173 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 1: most Christian sex don't endorse the procedure. You kind of 174 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: do your own research and um. Other religions such as 175 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: Buddhism and Hinduism, they don't have a stance on it either. 176 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: But the thing is it did not start just with 177 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: Abraham and the Jewish people, because if you go back 178 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: and look at historical documents, the ancient Egyptians probably passed 179 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: the practice onto the Jews and they were practicing this 180 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: thousands of years before the birth of Christ. Yes, I 181 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: was reading about priests who would have like this golden thumbnail, 182 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: and that's how they would just like sort of press 183 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: off the foreskin was this big thumbnail. But so even 184 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: though we think of it as this ancient biblical directive, 185 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: it was probably practiced before then. There's evidence that Minds 186 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: and Aztecs did this. Um. It's it's in ancient history 187 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: going all the way back. Well, it's also interesting because, 188 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 1: like you mentioned, Minds and Aztecs also practiced this, but 189 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: it also um happens uh in native parts of Australia, Africa, Asia. 190 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: It's pretty global. It's pretty clow will except in a 191 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: few places. It looked like Europe and South America are 192 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: not really on the circumcision train. Yeah, so, ladies, if 193 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: you're traveling now, circumcision for medical purposes for those health 194 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: reasons that you and I touched on briefly really come 195 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 1: into vogue in the nineteenth century, when doctors begin treating 196 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: adult famosis. But one little fun fact too, is that 197 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: during the Victorian era, doctors became fans of circumcising men 198 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 1: to treat as a therapeutic treatment for masturbation because they 199 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 1: thought that masturbation led to insanity, and since the foreskin 200 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: is basically like a nice little lubricated sock, that can 201 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:46,319 Speaker 1: make it easier to do. According to some sources, obviously 202 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: I'm not a primary source on that um, they thought 203 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: that by circumcising and then it would make them less 204 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: likely to masturbate and then less likely to become insane. Yes, 205 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: as the article put it, it was a source of mischief. Yes, 206 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: and we need to nip that right in the bud 207 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 1: with a little snip SNeW. You gotta love Victorian era 208 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: medical practices, you really do. Yeah, you can't fault them 209 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: at all. They were creative. So that's when the number 210 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 1: of circumcisions really begins to spike, when it becomes sort 211 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: of like the default thing to do, even if you're 212 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: not religious. About your reasons for circumcising. They do at 213 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: this point, bringing anesthesia into which I think was a 214 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 1: great directive. Um And and you know, the sad thing 215 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: is that it was used as sort of a thing 216 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,559 Speaker 1: that you could do for all sorts of ailments, everything 217 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: from impotence to homosexuality. They thought, cut off the foreskin, 218 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:37,319 Speaker 1: everything will be better. Yeah, yikes, But Molly, in recent years, 219 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 1: the rate of circumcision has actually dropped in the U. S. 220 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: And it does I think has something to do with 221 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:46,839 Speaker 1: the circumcision index that I mentioned earlier, that extra two 222 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 1: or three hundred dollars that will be tacked onto the 223 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: tub that parents have to pay if they want to 224 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: have their child circumcised. But um in two thousand five, 225 00:12:55,679 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: the percentage of circumcised boys dropped from sixty five percent 226 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: of male infants to only fifty six percent, which I 227 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: was surprised at. I was more surprised about where the 228 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: breakdowns occur. Did you know that three out of four 229 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: Midwestern babies are circumcised, Well, only slightly more than half 230 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: of all Southern babies are circumcised. Yeah, but then in 231 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: the West, very little circumcision. Only about of infants are circumcised, 232 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: and the group that probably is least likely to circumcised 233 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 1: are Hispanics. But another fun fact there we go. It's 234 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: I when once I read this article, I started walking 235 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 1: around just look at people trying to guess, is that wrong? 236 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's odd, but not wrong, Molly. Okay. 237 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 1: So the next question, Molly, that we have to address 238 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: in this circumcision discussion is whether or not there are 239 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 1: any health benefits associated with removing the foreskin. Because we 240 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: have all of these religious traditions, these cultural traditions, But 241 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 1: is there really any medical point in putting that placid 242 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 1: bell clamp on that little baby penis and make and 243 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,959 Speaker 1: the fores can fall off a few days later. As 244 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: I mentioned, they avoid all those problems of pomosis of 245 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 1: an unclean penis, of this magma. And you've probably heard 246 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: about how in Africa they're making circumcision a huge part 247 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 1: of their campaign to lower HIV rates. Yes, they have 248 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: found that circumcised, circumcising men can lower the rate of 249 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: female to male HIV transmission. And this year the Bill 250 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: and Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation just donated fifty million 251 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: dollars um for I think it's up to six fifty 252 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: thousand male circumcisions in Africa to hopefully lower the rate 253 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: of HIV transmission. And the thinking behind this is that 254 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: the cells in the foreskin are particularly susceptible to binding 255 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: with HIV. Yeah, these are called langer Hans cells, and 256 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: they are present in the foreskin, and there are sentinel 257 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 1: cells that are supposed to detect anti or antigens which 258 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: are bad things coming into your body and then alert 259 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: the immune system to fight it off. But the problem 260 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: is they attached to UH these HIV cells and obviously 261 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: the immune system can't fight them off. And since the 262 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: foreskin is so sensitive to ripping and tearing UH, it 263 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: makes them a lot more susceptible to getting those HIV 264 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 1: cells um in the body and binding too those langer 265 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: Han cells, and then HIV spreads throughout the body. Right, 266 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: so it will cut down the rate. As Kristen said, 267 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:29,680 Speaker 1: a female to mail transition transmission. It has no effect 268 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: on mail to female transmission or on mail to mail transmission. 269 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 1: So some critics will um be against this practice, mainly 270 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: because isn't it better to educate them about things like condoms? 271 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: You know, once you circumcise the guys, you're going to 272 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: go out and just think that he's immune from this. UM. 273 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: So it's it's somewhat controversial, by the studies that they've 274 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 1: done it with have been like really effective, right um 275 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: and one studying from two thousand five in South Africa, UM, 276 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: they found a sixty three decrease in HIV transmission for circumcisement. 277 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 1: In a you gand and study, there was a forty 278 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: eight percent reduction in AIDS infection UM and then in 279 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 1: Kenya they had a fifty reduction. And because they had 280 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: such staggering results, they actually ended the study prematurely because 281 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: it was basically unfair to the uncircumcised control group because, uh, 282 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:23,440 Speaker 1: the circumcision was so effective against HIV transmission and it's 283 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: not just UM you know HIV in Africa. Also, uncircumcised 284 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 1: men are about twice as likely to be infected with 285 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: u HPV and they're also more risk for chlamydia and syphilis. 286 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: But then the people who are anti circumcision will say, hey, 287 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: just use a condom. Same diff Yeah, you just need 288 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 1: to practice good hygiene, keep the foreskin clean, keep the 289 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: bacteria out, put on a condom, and you're gonna lower 290 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: your rates of HIV and STD transmission anyway. Right, So 291 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 1: let's go through a few of the reasons why you 292 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 1: wouldn't circumcise the boy besides those. First of all, Molly, 293 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 1: and this is something we talked about a lot on 294 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: Mom Steff. Choice. Yes, if you circumcise the baby boy, 295 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: what choice does he have in the matter. Um, would 296 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: he make the same decision to cut off part of 297 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 1: his penis when he was twelve, twenty thirty? Um? And then, 298 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,160 Speaker 1: like I said, there are all those nerve bundles, So 299 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 1: some people think that an uncircumcised mail has a little 300 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 1: bit more fun when it comes to sex. Yeah, there's 301 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: the nerve bundles and that natural lubrication from the foreskin, 302 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: so they could be missing out on more sexual pleasure. 303 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,679 Speaker 1: And it also has a lot to do with whether 304 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 1: the father is circumcised or not. There's a study from 305 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 1: the World Health Organization that found that nine outton men 306 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: who are circumcised will have their son's circumcised as well, 307 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 1: and of uncircumcised men will have their sons stay natural. Right, 308 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,399 Speaker 1: And you know, while we talked about some of the 309 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: health problems that you could face if you know you 310 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: never have. My most instident is an unnecessary procedure. What 311 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: else would you put in baby and baby under the 312 00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: knife for that was unnecessary? And they think that it 313 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: could have psychological repercussions down the road of that childhood 314 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: trauma of pain and suffering. Yeah, it's a compelling argument, 315 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: it is. And you know, one thing, a topic that 316 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 1: Chris and I will cover at some point on mom 317 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:21,479 Speaker 1: stuff is female genital mutilation where they cut out you know, 318 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: you know, it depends how much they'll cut out, but 319 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: sometimes they'll cut out all of a woman's reproductive system. 320 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 1: And obviously that is wrong. And so they're saying that 321 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: if you think that's wrong, then this is sort of 322 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: the equivalent for a male is a circumcision. Now, I 323 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:37,880 Speaker 1: was reading one article that said a female general mutilation 324 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: is more like cutting off half the penis for a guy. Yeah, 325 00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: it's so it's the way all pleasure for a woman. 326 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: It's not like once you cut off the foreskinn, a 327 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: man can't become a rouse. Yea. So it's it's not 328 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: necessarily a one to one argument, but I do think 329 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 1: that that's interesting to think about. Is there's we really 330 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,440 Speaker 1: would frown upon just putting a girl under the knife 331 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 1: for the same reason. But like you said, we're gonna 332 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: save female genital mutilation for another podcast um at a 333 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: different time. But let's say, Molly, Um, a baby boy 334 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:10,439 Speaker 1: was circumcised and he grows up and he's really not 335 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: happy about the fact that he does not have his 336 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: for skin feels a little incomplete. For skin back, what 337 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 1: can you do? There are a few options. There are 338 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:22,399 Speaker 1: non surgical means, which means you stretch what you've got left. Um. 339 00:19:22,440 --> 00:19:26,199 Speaker 1: It involves using weights, straps, and manual stretching. So I 340 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:29,880 Speaker 1: don't know if it sounds exactly fun. I've never I've 341 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: never talked to anyone who has done this, but that's 342 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: one option to try and just get it to come 343 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: back up and cover a little bit more. Yeah, and 344 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: there's this other method that involves inflating tiny balloons under 345 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: the penile skin to prompt new skin cell growth, which 346 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 1: will results which will result in permanent skin gain. I 347 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:50,879 Speaker 1: don't really understand exactly how that happens with the tiny balloons. 348 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: But as a non surgical option, there are surgical options. 349 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 1: If you want plastic surgery on the penis, that is 350 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: an option they will take skin from another part of 351 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,400 Speaker 1: the body and graft it onto the remaining for skin. 352 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 1: They do say in this article that the one drawback 353 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:09,720 Speaker 1: is that the skin might be different colors and graft 354 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: so be sort of like a I would like to 355 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:15,400 Speaker 1: think of it as a rainboat for skin. That makes 356 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: it sound a little nicer than actually how the article 357 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: puts it. But I I probably shouldn't make jokes about foreskin, 358 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,400 Speaker 1: but you know, Molly, our listeners can make jokes about 359 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: foreskin if they'd like. If you guys have any opinions 360 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: about circumcision, whether or not you think that it is 361 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:33,680 Speaker 1: necessary or is not necessary, and then we definitely want 362 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 1: to hear your thoughts on circumcision because, like I said, 363 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 1: me and Molly are only secondary sources on this. We 364 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 1: we cannot personally relate, so we would like to hear 365 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: your thoughts. Um please email us with your foreskin jokes 366 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: or other and more elevated conversation at mom stuff at 367 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,919 Speaker 1: how stuffworks dot com. And in the meantime, let's read 368 00:20:56,160 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: some listener mail. All right, I'm gonna kick off a 369 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 1: list of mail today with an email from Russell, who 370 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,960 Speaker 1: wrote about our episode on whether women's magazines do more 371 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 1: harm than good. And I have to say, Krista, whenever 372 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: a guy wrote in on women's magazines, they always gave 373 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: them the big thumb down. Thumbs down they liked that 374 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,480 Speaker 1: Ben's magazines had the horribly embarrassing stories. But here's what 375 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: Russell writes. As for the sexual tips, more often than 376 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: not their way off base. And the best advice either 377 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 1: member of a couple when it comes to sex is 378 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,959 Speaker 1: to communicate with your partner. But that is only one 379 00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: line of text, and it would be tough to sell 380 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 1: a subscription based on that alone, even though that might 381 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:36,400 Speaker 1: be the only thing a couple really needs. Perhaps these 382 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: magazines should rely less on the idea that each new 383 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: episode will unlock secrets that your guy is just too 384 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 1: embarrassed to bring up himself. Perhaps they should dedicate their 385 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 1: sexual sections two ideas and things to do an experiment 386 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: with with your partner. And as for the idea of 387 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 1: them damaging the youth, I think it lies more with 388 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: how the child is raised. If a young girl sees 389 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 1: her mother treated Cosmo like a Bible, she will likely 390 00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 1: do the same. But if her mother says it's just 391 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,400 Speaker 1: trash your fluff with little or no real value, much 392 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,679 Speaker 1: like a new grocery store romance novel. She will hopefully 393 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: take on that same attitude. All right, Um, I've got 394 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 1: an email from Jackie and this is in reference to 395 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 1: our hair podcast. Says, Hello, Molly and Kristen. I've had long, 396 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 1: and I mean long hair my entire life. It was 397 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: ridiculously long as it went to my button. Sure, I've 398 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: known people was longer hair than that, but that was 399 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 1: the style that I maintained. I thought it was pretty 400 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: happy with my hair for the most part, but recently 401 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: my life had been feeling a little way down. I 402 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: felt as though there was something that wasn't right, so 403 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: she decided to cut her hair. Initially, I went to 404 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: the shoulder and donated all of my hair to Locks 405 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 1: of Love, and I adored my new hair, but a 406 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 1: lot of friends were very upset about it. None of 407 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: them knew me any other way, and a lot of 408 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: them acted as though I betrayed them and cutting off 409 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: the hair. They got over it, and once they did, 410 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: I went for a boy cut, not bothering to warn 411 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: them this time. I've got nothing but compliments since then. 412 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,480 Speaker 1: People say I look more mature unless princessy, which is 413 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 1: the word used to describe me in the past, more 414 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,360 Speaker 1: energetic and just all around more awesome, and most importantly, 415 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: I no longer feel way down. I love my hair, 416 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: and so does my boyfriend, not that his opinion would 417 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 1: have changed my mind in this case. After twenty one years, 418 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: I finally have a haircut I actually like, and not 419 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 1: one I was maintaining for everyone around me. It's short, 420 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: easy to take care of, it looks cute on me, 421 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 1: and I don't have to schedule my life around my hair. 422 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: I say foodie on people who shunned short hair on women. 423 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: It's made a better woman out of me. Sounds good. 424 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: Shall I read one more? Yes? Please? This is from Amy, 425 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: and her subject line caught my eye. It was nerdy 426 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: blonde has something to say about hair, She writes, I 427 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,679 Speaker 1: just finished listening to your podcast on hair and I 428 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: wanted to write you about this. Blonds have more fun stereotype. 429 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,879 Speaker 1: First of all, I was a very nerdy piano and 430 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: clarinet playing book reading completely unpopular library rat as a 431 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,560 Speaker 1: child and teenager. It really didn't seem to make a 432 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 1: difference that I had blonde hair at the time. My 433 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 1: teachers and peers always seemed to respect me, and they 434 00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: didn't seem to expect me to act like a blonde, mostly, 435 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 1: I believe because everyone had known me for a long time. 436 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 1: This changed, however, and really adversely affected me. In college 437 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: and especially in graduate school. All of the successful and 438 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 1: smart brunettes made snide comments about my hair, while my 439 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: male professors either dismissed me as stupid or asked me 440 00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: out on dates. In fact, eight different professors asked me 441 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 1: out over the course of four years in college and 442 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: graduate school. I was told by my advisors that my 443 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 1: students would like me more if I was more like 444 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: a cheerleader. How was I supposed to cheerlead my students 445 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,760 Speaker 1: to the history of Western music? Is beyond me? Give 446 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 1: me a B, A C H. I don't think so. 447 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: I might add that the men in my program could 448 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: be boring and dull, and no one ever thought twice. 449 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 1: When I meet new people, they seem to expect a fun, loving, 450 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,440 Speaker 1: not too serious, cheerleading blonde girl, and when they get 451 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: a dorky, serious, slightly sarcastic music historian either makes them 452 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 1: really angry or at least throws them for a loop. 453 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 1: My hair always seems to come up as a topic 454 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: of conversation, Kristin Amalie, will you please tell your listeners 455 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: that women with blonde hair can be just as serious 456 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,919 Speaker 1: and successful as you brunettes. You heard it. There you go. 457 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: It's um And if you guys want to write us again, 458 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: please feel free to Molly and I love listener mail. 459 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 1: Our email is mom Stuff at how stuff works dot 460 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: com and during the week you can check out our 461 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 1: blog called how to stuff, where we talk about how 462 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: to do stuff. And if you're if you want to 463 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:23,400 Speaker 1: read how circumcision works? Is circumcision really necessary? And why 464 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,919 Speaker 1: would circumcision decrease a man's risk of contracting aids? You 465 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: should head over two house stuff works dot com for 466 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: more on this and thousands of other topics. 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