WEBVTT - Accountability Is Sexy Feat. Sarunas J. Jackson 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:24.240 Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:29.120 I'm Nila. Happy Wednesday, Hose, Happy Wednesday, Hose. How are 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:34.600 you feeling? I feel great? I feel great. 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:34.879 I do. 0:00:34.960 --> 0:00:40.440 I feel good today. I'm good. I feel energized. I'm 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:41.199 not tired. 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.159 I've been feeling tired for like it feels like weeks 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:48.360 and months. I feel like getting over a hump of 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:52.479 like workshit. Like we've been like working, working, working. We 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:54.000 still have a lot of work to do, but I 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:58.760 feel like it's starting to be more manageable. My daughter's great, 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:03.000 she's Thriving's fucking cute as shit, she's fly as shit. 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:07.360 She's finally listening to me about fashion choices and finally yes, 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.600 although we did have an argument the other day because 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:12.720 like she I bought her this like little like scarf 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.920 to put on her head, like a hipster scarf, and 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.200 she was like trying to fight me on it, and 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:20.679 then she finally wore it. Then the other day we 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:22.320 did a faux hawk right, and she was like, oh 0:01:22.319 --> 0:01:25.720 my god, mommy, it's so cute. Went the moment we 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:28.760 walked on campus at her school, She's like, I don't 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.240 want to take my hair out. I was like no, 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:33.440 she was like, Lemmie, take it out. I was like, 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:35.680 she's getting excited. I was getting anxiety. And she was 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:37.280 walking to the classroom like her friends were going to 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:39.280 see her and judge her. And she was like no, 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:40.440 she's like take it out, take it out. And I 0:01:40.480 --> 0:01:42.520 was like no, we just we just were hyping the car, 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:44.399 saying how fly it was. And she was like, Mommy, 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:46.120 take it out. And I thought she was like gonna 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:50.480 get over it. She started dragging me, like dragging me, 0:01:50.600 --> 0:01:53.080 like I was like basically pulling me to the floor. 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:55.880 So then we finally I dragged her ass to the 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:58.040 classroom because I was not about to let her change 0:01:58.080 --> 0:01:58.800 this fucking hairstyle. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:01.640 It was fucking cute. So she dragging you, you were dragging her, yeah, 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:03.160 And then I showed her. I was like, look at 0:02:03.160 --> 0:02:05.360 this picture of me. You see I have a full 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:07.240 hawk too. We look fucking cute. She's like, it's not. 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:10.280 You don't have to know how to write now, looking 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:14.040 for a picture right now, And I was like, I'm 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:15.040 going to the gym right now. 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:16.400 I don't have it right now because I'm going to 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.200 the gym, but after this I will have it and 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:20.280 then she's like no. And then her teacher like she 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.919 sees us arguing outside of the class and she comes 0:02:22.960 --> 0:02:25.120 out and she's like okay, and I was like, no, 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:29.600 it's not it's not okay. Tell her hair looks good now, right, 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:31.880 Tell her looks good and she was like oh, She's 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:32.840 like she looks so beautiful. 0:02:32.840 --> 0:02:35.760 I said of her hair. Tell her hair looks good, 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:40.840 and she's like, hair looks good and she starts crying. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.720 And then and then I was like, oh my god. 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:45.359 So I was like, I'm going to be that mom 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.720 and she's traumatized. It's gonna be that thing that she's again. 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:52.360 So then I go in the bathroom and I fucking 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:53.880 take the half down. 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:55.000 I'm like, is this okay? 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:59.160 And she's like like, hey, babe, I just I do 0:02:59.240 --> 0:03:01.840 want you to feel compting cute. 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:04.720 You're good. And then so she goes in and then 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:06.520 I pick her up from school and I was like, so, 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:08.280 what's up. 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:13.680 You're still pissed. You're still pissed. Eight hours later she 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.960 was like, I was like, so what's up? Like, did 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:19.800 you tell anybody? Did anyone compliment your hair? She's like, 0:03:20.800 --> 0:03:23.120 Carter said that she's glad I didn't have the flu 0:03:23.200 --> 0:03:25.360 hawk because I'd be taking her style. And I said, 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:28.119 that's why I told you, Carter is a fashion icon 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:30.000 and you are fucking up. 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:32.600 You need to step your game up. And she was like, mommy, 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:34.839 I just I was like, not ever cars. 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:38.400 Carter is a fashion icon. That's this Carter actually, like 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:39.960 she always has cool hair. 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:43.760 Carter is my daughter's best friend and they both have afros. 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:47.000 But Carter be like taking her fashion risks, why you know, 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:49.200 and I real be playing it safe and it be irritating. 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:50.880 Just hit a little earlier. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:51.800 Yeah, I mean. 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:54.560 She's getting it together, but that but that did bother me. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:57.760 I was annoyed. But anyway, other than that, everything's great. 0:03:58.280 --> 0:04:02.760 It is pretty annoying. Respect your kids non stylish early 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:05.160 too early. They don't get it, Yett, And now I 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:06.839 get it because my mom used to do the shit 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:08.240 to me, like you don't get it. 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:11.800 And I was like, it's ugly not wearing these rhinestone pants, like. 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:13.880 You know, she'd buy me shit from like you go 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:15.880 out of town to like Europe and bring me all 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:17.280 this cool shit that I didn't want to wear. 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:21.200 Linna told me we should go to the mall. I said, 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:23.520 it's Mother's Day. She said, we can go shopping together. 0:04:24.279 --> 0:04:26.480 And she said, didn't you learn your lesson? Like Nana, 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:28.919 you need to take me shopping with you when you 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:29.680 buy me stuff. 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:33.720 I learned my lesson. No, I did it because I'm 0:04:33.720 --> 0:04:34.599 the fashion queen. 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.520 Anyway, Where is your kid stylish? 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:40.880 Yes she is. She likes to like dress up. 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.840 She likes to design her clothes, but sometimes she doesn't 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:47.080 listen to my styles, which are obviously superior, which is 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:48.280 very frustrating. 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:50.279 But you know, how old are your girls again? 0:04:50.360 --> 0:04:50.680 Seven? 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:55.640 Yeah? Both of y'all? Seven? Okay, okay, all right, right 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.360 now I'm still early. So it was just princess stage. 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:01.880 Oh yeah, you're ready, just really girly. If it's a dress, 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:04.599 she likes it. Yeah, yeah, she wasn't. She's in this 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.479 dance uh class, dude. It's like more it's like a 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:13.160 performing arts little school. And at first she was so 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:16.000 shy to join the class and dancing. Once they pulled 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:18.159 the little dresses out so they could do their little dance, 0:05:18.480 --> 0:05:22.320 she was like, then yeah, I was like, we'll put 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:23.120 it on and dance with them. 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:28.080 And then girls were so basic yeah, like alert ship yeah, 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:31.680 flowy ship facts like it's like in our dna. Yeah, 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:35.760 the divine feminine is in our dna. There's no around, 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:36.680 that's true. 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:39.640 True. Where you got stylish kids or you were, you were. 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.039 Basically you just I felt like I was Actually I 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:43.960 was stylish. I was, but I just me and my 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:46.279 mom and my mom to this day have different even now, 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:50.480 we have different style like preferences. So I don't think 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:51.840 I was tripping back then, and the stuff she was 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:53.479 bringing me back just wasn't it wasn't it? 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.640 You know, it was same I was. I've always been stylish. 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:57.400 I've just been like a little houcci. So that was 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:00.520 always an issue growing up. Oh you know, like I'm 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:02.120 trying to like take off stockings. I'm like, I'm not 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:04.520 fucking wearing stockings to that prom. It's not happening. 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:07.280 That's a week. 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:09.440 Yeah, She's like, you are a young lady. 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:11.960 Like I'm a grown ass thirteen year old and I'm 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:15.760 not wearing this fucking stockings trying to fucking embarrass me. 0:06:15.800 --> 0:06:17.360 I took this ship off so fucking fast. 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:18.920 I feel like I was on top of it when 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:20.240 I was younger, but I had a older brother. 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:23.359 Because you got like influence. So yeah, so I was 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:25.240 just pearls on you're a fashion icon. 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:28.000 Wow, you are wearing the pearl That's very that's very 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:28.760 Hollywood of you. 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:30.600 He's wearing pearls. 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:31.440 If you have. 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:35.799 First of all, let's introduce our guests. Just talking talking 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:38.919 so much ship today. I don't know if you recognize 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:42.120 his voice. He's been here before. If you guys remember 0:06:42.440 --> 0:06:46.760 two Miles One Dilf many moons ago, an epic episode. 0:06:46.800 --> 0:06:52.719 Today we have father, actor, entrepreneur, style, extraordinary model. 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:55.160 He's a model. 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:57.120 Model. 0:06:57.880 --> 0:06:59.479 She'd be like, look at your own ass. I like, 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:00.599 look at him with that face. 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:04.280 That face, I'm like, oh my god, that's the half 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:05.640 out open mouth it. 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:08.880 Once I got that note during a photo shoot, I 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:10.800 ran with it. I was like, okay, well that's what 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:11.120 it is. 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:13.880 You breathing. It reminds me of that Justin Bieber. 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:20.120 Like I do that, but his face is be on 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:23.880 point though. Actually I'm a believer. I'm a believer believe. 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:28.640 We have Sharona Jackson on. Y'all, welcome to the back 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.840 to the show. Sharona's my friend. Thank you for coming 0:07:30.880 --> 0:07:31.160 back on. 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.080 First of all, I mean, this is different. 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:36.400 It's a levels at the house. 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:41.600 I was at the house right in the background. Yeah, 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:44.280 I love it. It's nice, thank. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.720 You, thank you. I'm excited to have you. 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:48.720 Although I don't get to see you often, but I 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:51.200 do listen to your voice often and masturbate to it. 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:55.280 She's been very adamant. She's talked about this many times. 0:07:55.720 --> 0:07:56.040 Really. 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:58.320 Yeah, so if you don't know, I think we had 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.760 a newsletter that said I had sex with Shrutus. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:03.720 Jackson last night. I did, actually, but that was I 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:06.520 was like, that was a great subject one, that's amazing. 0:08:06.840 --> 0:08:07.640 We didn't send it to you. 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:09.240 I wish I would. 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:16.320 Email marketing, you know, to support your objectifying configured you supported. 0:08:17.640 --> 0:08:20.600 The word. Yeah, you guys haven't heard of Gypsy. 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:25.080 It's an app that they have like exotic storytelling and 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:32.520 erotic is one of the one of the voices on there. 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:36.040 And he has a good wait so actually, so it 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:36.960 actually does something? 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:39.680 Yeah, Actually, can you give us a little example? 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:42.320 Can we play? 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:42.760 Come on? 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:45.839 The thing is man, I'll be real, it's actually really 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:49.360 hard doing that ship because you have to breathe so much. 0:08:49.400 --> 0:08:51.920 You know how lightheaded you get? What? How do you 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:56.000 have sex me? When I have But it's not like 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:59.920 so every sometimes I'm even holding it with like certain 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:01.680 you know, and then I let it like loose. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:02.439 That's not healthy. 0:09:02.520 --> 0:09:04.640 Depends it depends not you're not. 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:07.959 You're not like maximizing your climax if you're holding I. 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:10.480 Do breathe, I really do. I'm just saying like it's so, 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:13.160 but like even like. 0:09:13.480 --> 0:09:14.959 Are you in the room with the girl while you're 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:16.760 doing it, you're doing we're. 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:21.960 Doing especially when like the male engineers right there. Obviously 0:09:22.000 --> 0:09:24.360 I'm hetero, so I'm just like I see them in 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:27.360 like the window like this right, So I just like that. 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:32.520 But but I do have all like they're like kind 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:35.120 of on the zoom so I hear them, and there 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:38.480 is like women on it because the app is ran 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:42.160 by women the platform, and so they're just there there 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:44.480 and they some like a lady will read with me, 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:49.280 you know. The people It would be like okay, allright, 0:09:49.360 --> 0:09:54.920 wow wow, what would be something like I'm trying to 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:59.960 remember one of our lines style like something would be 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:02.280 all right, all right, so right before I say you go, 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:08.000 like so you right, and then you have to make 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:11.439 sure you swallow your spit right, swallow it so it's 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:14.480 not so solid in the bike breathe and then you'll 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:24.480 be like take those off and like, you know, just 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:26.319 like I don't know, you know, like I don't know. 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:29.960 I'm trying to lie. I'm trying to remember. It's like 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:30.880 hard on a spot. 0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:31.360 I don't know. 0:10:31.400 --> 0:10:32.720 But can you just put a good way for the 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:34.240 good moms. We need to be on tipsy because I 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:35.439 have some things I need to say. 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:39.720 Love you guys should actually have something with them type 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:40.040 of stuff. 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.920 Have three with good moms some tipsy. 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:46.280 Wow, look at that, look at that. 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:54.520 Experience two of the deal. 0:10:54.679 --> 0:10:56.320 Actually, yeah, I love it. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:11:00.520 Walked in and then I slowly down her panties. Wow. 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:01.800 I wasn't expecting that. 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:11.200 You guys actually be good for this actually auditioned audio, 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:14.720 you know. I think the thing is like why something 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:17.440 like this does very well, especially with women, is like 0:11:17.520 --> 0:11:20.480 the imagination women have. I there's know so many women 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:23.400 that masturbate. They can masturbate to nothing, to themselves in 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:25.840 the mirror, to just the thought of the last experience 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:30.760 they had or any time, like I feel like I 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:34.520 mean majority, like on average, like the average I would 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:36.680 watch porn or met. 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:40.480 Are visual women more imaginative, like I would rather have 0:11:40.600 --> 0:11:43.040 like a scenario in my head and masturbate before I 0:11:43.080 --> 0:11:43.400 turn on. 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.880 I like both, but I will say that because I've 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:48.440 been watching porn so long, like sometimes it takes me 0:11:48.480 --> 0:11:50.480 out of it, like someone does one. 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:54.760 Wrong move exactly. Really, I'm like real, I like slowly, 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:55.160 I'm like. 0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:58.360 Find it, like find the plot. 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:01.800 It's really like form that four minute stretch. 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:06.240 Like and then I breaks my concentration where this app 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:08.800 like I can just imagine the whole thing exactly, and 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:10.840 it's just it's just I get to stay in it 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:11.480 the whole time. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.120 So I feel when I was younger. 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:14.280 Thank you so much. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:17.440 That's actually makes me feel good. I'm like, this is 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:19.880 actually a thing that's used. I do get some nice dms, 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:23.760 but or even you know, you're used to being recognized 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:25.720 for you know, your work on TV. But I've had 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:27.920 women come up to me like I was listening to 0:12:28.000 --> 0:12:29.240 you this week, so thank you all. 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:32.600 Was like, let's just underestimate the voice, and you have 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:35.079 a deep voice, so like a deep voice and make 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:38.000 a pitchicken come out those panties real quick, like something 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:41.080 about like the vibrations in the air. You're like, I 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:42.880 think I like you. We didn't like them five minutes ago. 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:43.280 But now. 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:48.160 That's funny. Is there a difference like when if like 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:49.760 a guy with a de voice to say, if he's 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:51.680 eating you out and he I. 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:55.319 Don't know, like do you like that ship like a 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:59.000 little ground? I like doing that, So I'm just some animalists. 0:12:59.040 --> 0:12:59.240 Yeah. 0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.520 I had a growl in my ear and I was like, it's. 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:05.200 So well, yeah, it takes our animalistic Yeah like you said, 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:11.040 that's yeah, I think that's impregnant. Yeah, right now pro 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:12.240 create we're here. 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:15.720 That's what it is. Because I'm primate it is. 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:19.280 You should call Yeah, it is. It is because even 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:21.199 like yeah, even when a when a woman does that 0:13:21.360 --> 0:13:23.800 like you know, or she just lets out like certain 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:26.520 noise where it's almost it seems like she is like 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:29.640 she's like kind of speak saying that she can't like 0:13:29.760 --> 0:13:31.680 oh she can't take or she loving it so much 0:13:31.760 --> 0:13:34.199 like that ship like that should drive me crazy to And. 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:35.200 That's what I'm wondering. I wonder. 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:37.679 I always wonder that I know everyone's different because some 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:42.360 some women like men that don't say ship like, or 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:45.199 some women like a lot of talking, you know, whereas 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:48.120 men I often wonder because I think like a lot 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:52.480 of men learn how to fuck watching porn? So like, 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.920 is is there a level of too much talking? Is 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:57.559 there a level of too much moaning? 0:13:57.800 --> 0:14:00.360 Like, it depends if you're not if you're not good 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:01.040 at it. 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.679 It just as long as it feels as long as 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:06.839 everything is authentic, I'm good with anything. But as long 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:08.720 as if I feel There was one time where I 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:10.720 felt this girl was excessive with her money where I 0:14:10.760 --> 0:14:12.720 was like, all right, like I know, I know what 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:15.560 I'm doing and ship, but come on, it was like 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:18.600 it was like a kind of a sense to performance, right, 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:21.960 like I'm not even stronger, Like yeah, it was like 0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:24.000 it felt performative, and that kind of took me out 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:26.560 of it where I was starting to like I was like, girl, 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.040 so that I would that's all as long as it 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:30.680 feels authentic that I'm good with anything. 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:33.000 Can you give the girls the ground? Like what is 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:34.960 your ground? 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:38.000 I'd have to be like buried in but like like 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:42.280 especially like eating pussy, like and you know, if I'm 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:45.720 like in the stride of it, like if I'm into it, 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.400 I mean I'm always into it, but like when I 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:50.800 feel myself really getting ramped up, like I really will 0:14:50.840 --> 0:15:01.920 be like like I really would growling that ships No, 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:04.960 that's that. Yeah, for me, it's exciting. 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:09.000 I'm glad you're like eating pussy. It's very important that 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:13.400 men more men know that. That's really important. It's kind 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:15.560 of a non negotiable. I mean it's not for some women. 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:16.800 Actually, you know what. 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:18.360 Women who say they don't like their pussy. 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:20.720 I blows my mind. I don't like it. You can't 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:21.920 go far if that's I think. 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:25.600 It's like, I mean, if you're listening and this resonates 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:27.720 with you, I'm sorry I'm about to offend you. But 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:31.480 are you insecure about the way your pussy looks? 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:31.640 Is? 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:33.720 Are you insecure about the way you might smell? 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:37.160 Like that's where I've learned that you've been shamed along 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:37.440 the way. 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:39.840 So you just feel like, I don't know, rather not 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:44.200 you've been abused in a way orally or done right. 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:46.760 It was a control thing too, if you feel like 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:49.720 women who don't feel like they can't have control over 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:51.680 their bodies when someone's doing they don't they stay away 0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:51.920 from it. 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.400 But oh yeah, like what are they're going to come 0:15:54.400 --> 0:15:54.800 in their mouth? 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:55.080 Like? 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:59.160 They just don't like that, like really relinquishing that much control. 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:01.960 Yeah, that's saying I didn't run into one woman like 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:04.240 that where that too like she gave up too much, 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:05.720 she had to try. It was like always, it was 0:16:05.720 --> 0:16:07.480 like a battle of the wholetel. It was fun the 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:09.520 first few times, then after come down. 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:13.680 I always feel like, if a man, this is probably offensive. 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:16.720 So I'm just gonna this that I always feel like 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:18.120 everyone I don't know. 0:16:19.320 --> 0:16:22.280 Notice, you don't like your pussy, you don't like yourself. 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:26.880 You're not a good person, you don't like your pussy, 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:37.320 you suck. 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:36.640 Your prefacing. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:37.760 Oh okay. 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:40.320 First of all, I want to say we are not 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:43.360 politically correct. I hope no one ever considers this show 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:45.880 and says you said this wrong. Yeah, you goddamn right. 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:50.480 It wasn't probably perfect. Second, I really my idea about 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:52.760 niggas you don't eat like a lot of like pussy 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:55.480 like eagerly, is that they're gay. 0:16:56.480 --> 0:16:59.440 I know what I said that, I said it. They 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:02.640 have traumas too. Men can have traumas to okay, get paid. 0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:05.119 Performer's anxiety is a real thing with men, so like 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:06.240 thinking they're not gonna do a good job. 0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:08.040 They feelings we actually let me, I don't know, I 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:09.920 don't know, not a man actually, and you guys. 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:14.040 This month we're interviewing men, which is like, find that's June. 0:17:16.320 --> 0:17:18.359 This is something new for us because we don't of 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:20.320 course we have met on our show, but not very often, 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:22.840 but we wanted to highlight the men's and so I'm 0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:26.000 just we're really interested in, yeah, your perspective, because we 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:27.960 be just making up shit like niggas. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:31.040 Think this that's funny. I feel like everybody does that though, 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:33.439 I'm like, because you know how women are, maybe I'm like, 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.560 you don't know, we're just saying ship. Yeah. Well as 0:17:36.560 --> 0:17:39.320 far as like from what I gather, I know, early 0:17:39.440 --> 0:17:43.480 on for me, when I was younger, like it was weird, 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:47.840 like at the first few times I had sex, I 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:50.520 went forever. Sometimes I could even come whatever that was, 0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:52.800 and so I'm thinking like, oh, like you know, I'm 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:55.399 the man whatever that is. And then I hit a 0:17:55.440 --> 0:17:57.320 stride in my life. For like a year a year 0:17:57.320 --> 0:18:00.280 and a half, We're like, man, it was like every 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:02.800 other time it was getting brief and I was like, 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:05.440 oh my god, is this my life now? So then 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:12.480 now like when like there was there's particularly like two 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:14.640 women I could think about, and I'm glad that they 0:18:15.800 --> 0:18:18.320 stuck it out, like I'm I'm close. I'm close with them, 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:20.600 like because at first, like I couldn't get hard because 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:23.440 I got nervous about that ship. So I wasn't able 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:27.760 to coming too quick. I wanted to, I wanted to 0:18:27.800 --> 0:18:31.560 please them, and I mean these beautiful, thick women. I 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:33.480 was like yes, and then I was like, oh fuck, 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:35.800 but what if I bust too quick? Because you know 0:18:35.800 --> 0:18:38.720 what I mean? So then I couldn't get hard, And 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:41.239 then I don't know, just out of nowhere, I just 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:45.119 I think it was maybe I just for some reason mentally, 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:47.320 I was getting myself out out of that for some reason, 0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:49.760 and being in a relationship for a while hurt, I 0:18:49.800 --> 0:18:54.679 mean helped hurt too, helped it hurt, but like you know, 0:18:54.760 --> 0:18:56.480 it just when you're in a relationship and stuff. He 0:18:56.520 --> 0:19:01.520 started exploring, you just get better sexually, you know my mind. 0:19:01.840 --> 0:19:04.480 So after that, for some reason, and then I just 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:08.320 wasn't coming as fast anymore. And that then that kind 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:10.600 of just took a lot of stress off of myself 0:19:10.840 --> 0:19:12.800 and I was able to just get back to my 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:13.680 old self. 0:19:13.960 --> 0:19:16.879 Do men talk about like sex with one another or 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:19.040 like do you yeah, man, I'm having this problem, like 0:19:19.200 --> 0:19:19.840 are you familiar? 0:19:19.840 --> 0:19:24.120 Because like we do, like you know, like I mean, 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:26.760 I have a like a very tight circuit group of 0:19:26.760 --> 0:19:31.240 friends where we've so you know, all these like products 0:19:31.240 --> 0:19:32.960 come out right, you got like you know, where it's 0:19:32.960 --> 0:19:35.119 the honey or whether it's like you know, pills, whatever 0:19:35.160 --> 0:19:38.080 it is, so that gets brought up and then you know, 0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:40.120 you'll have someone be like, you know, shit, my problem 0:19:40.160 --> 0:19:41.760 ain't getting hard is busting too fast? If this sh 0:19:41.760 --> 0:19:44.080 it only helped me last longer, then you know, what 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:46.000 the fuck am I taking it for it? Right? You'd 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:47.639 be like I'll get hard when the blows on my 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:49.919 face like whatever, like you'll just you know, they we 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:51.679 so we'll say things and we'll talk about it in 0:19:51.680 --> 0:19:55.040 that way, not like too often, know we go in 0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:58.679 too deep detail. You know, it's it's usually just about 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:02.280 like if we're talking about someone, you know, it's you know, 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:06.080 or so about what that happened with this person. 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:09.400 It's not too much of like hey man, having the struggle, 0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:12.240 but do you have any advice for me that's happened? 0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:14.639 I guess when like we are like, well, and what 0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:16.120 do you think about? Like how why do you think 0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:17.800 you so brief all telling me? What are you thinking about? 0:20:17.800 --> 0:20:19.800 Like are you nervous thing? Or like the girls really 0:20:19.840 --> 0:20:21.959 make you like, you know, are you putting on a pedestal? 0:20:22.000 --> 0:20:24.240 Like we tried and we had that one conversation or 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:29.119 two and that was that, Yeah, I don't know how 0:20:29.119 --> 0:20:32.960 it's going over there? Good nay? When not much changed 0:20:33.040 --> 0:20:35.040 unless he said because you probably would say something, but 0:20:35.080 --> 0:20:35.479 I don't know. 0:20:35.720 --> 0:20:37.480 I think men need to talk about this more often 0:20:37.520 --> 0:20:40.560 because I think this that's the case more often than not. 0:20:40.800 --> 0:20:43.240 Like the gus get nervous too, you know what I'm saying. 0:20:43.359 --> 0:20:43.879 Like and and. 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:45.879 I think because you guys are so it could be 0:20:45.920 --> 0:20:48.520 heady and like women, you just do a couple of things. 0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:50.840 The pussy's gonna get wet for the most part, for sure, 0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:52.000 you know what I mean. But for a man, you 0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:54.760 literally have to be like ready to go have something 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:55.879 physical has to happen. 0:20:56.040 --> 0:20:58.359 You just keep nudging and the bitches pussy is going 0:20:58.440 --> 0:20:59.159 to open up. 0:20:59.200 --> 0:21:06.480 Not nudgings right now, right, just going until it opens. 0:21:06.760 --> 0:21:08.240 But it's true, you know, if you've nudged you a 0:21:08.240 --> 0:21:09.240 couple of times, it gets swet. 0:21:10.440 --> 0:21:13.720 But I dated this guy and he would get hard 0:21:13.800 --> 0:21:16.600 but then never come and I was like, what the fuck? 0:21:16.680 --> 0:21:18.520 Is going on? I thought, was it me? I'm like, 0:21:18.560 --> 0:21:20.760 this is what what? But he was in his head 0:21:20.760 --> 0:21:23.240 a lot. He was like counting the songs and. 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:25.920 Shit, you just you be doing things just to make 0:21:25.960 --> 0:21:28.280 yourself that Like, I mean, there's times where I'm like, 0:21:28.440 --> 0:21:31.439 especially like if I'm hit it from the back and 0:21:31.480 --> 0:21:33.360 she got all this as it was. Times like when 0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:35.320 I was younger, I was like, I'm looking at the 0:21:35.320 --> 0:21:38.280 ceiling and show my breathing and like and I'm like, 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:40.280 I want her to get hers. I don't want to 0:21:40.320 --> 0:21:43.480 bust so fast because like I said, that stride spooked me. 0:21:43.560 --> 0:21:46.080 I was I was in this bitch like for thirty seconds, 0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:47.960 like you know, from the back, and I'm like, whoa, 0:21:48.320 --> 0:21:50.920 I'm about to know already what the fuck? So then 0:21:51.000 --> 0:21:52.800 I just started doing things like that and then, like 0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:54.680 I said, gradually getting out of that. So I mean, 0:21:55.000 --> 0:21:59.199 but for women, I feel like, because man, the vagina 0:21:59.240 --> 0:22:01.440 is so sensitive. Man, like the pH could get thrown 0:22:01.440 --> 0:22:03.920 off by anything. Is that something that's constantly on your mind, 0:22:03.960 --> 0:22:06.159 like where you're like, okay, we're good, like you already 0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:08.200 know going into it. You good. Because there's been times 0:22:08.200 --> 0:22:11.840 where I'm like, I'm like, she had to know, right. 0:22:11.880 --> 0:22:15.639 She absolutely knew something was that she had just decided 0:22:15.640 --> 0:22:16.560 to have sex and surprise. 0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:17.600 It's not up on everybody to. 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:18.239 Know, that's all. 0:22:18.240 --> 0:22:19.760 I'm like, I don't think that every girl. 0:22:20.200 --> 0:22:22.160 I don't think so. I really think there's there's women 0:22:22.240 --> 0:22:23.600 are really unaware where. 0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:25.200 Like maybe their nose doesn't work good. 0:22:26.200 --> 0:22:28.000 Maybe they just don't think they're saying is maybe. 0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:30.320 The only their scent is off. Maybe maybe that's not 0:22:30.400 --> 0:22:32.399 off until the juices start flowing. 0:22:32.640 --> 0:22:35.800 So oh yeah, okay that has surprised me before too, 0:22:35.800 --> 0:22:37.640 where it seemed like it was fun and then once 0:22:37.720 --> 0:22:39.600 the pumping starts and then like a little bit more 0:22:39.600 --> 0:22:42.040 into my oh like it wasn't like bad, but it 0:22:42.320 --> 0:22:45.520 just like it wasn't it just wasn't what it was. 0:22:45.600 --> 0:22:48.120 I was just like, oh, that that's a different different Yeah. 0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:49.720 Well, I think, well, I think because a lot of 0:22:49.720 --> 0:22:51.840 women there's because there's a lot of shame and stuff 0:22:51.880 --> 0:22:54.560 like people we don't talk about that part, but we 0:22:54.560 --> 0:22:57.119 don't talk about how normal it actually is for women's 0:22:57.160 --> 0:22:59.480 PhD be off. When you have your period, your pH 0:22:59.560 --> 0:23:02.359 gets off right before your period of PhD. A condom 0:23:02.359 --> 0:23:03.439 can make your pH go up. 0:23:04.359 --> 0:23:11.520 Niggas honestly the reason why a lot of times. 0:23:08.800 --> 0:23:11.320 Your Jesus and your things. 0:23:11.119 --> 0:23:15.679 Just don't touch you. Dirty fingernails and ship Yeah. 0:23:15.800 --> 0:23:17.520 But yeah, so then you know that niggas like her 0:23:17.560 --> 0:23:23.320 pussy Sam nigga, you made washing hands the name before you. 0:23:23.440 --> 0:23:23.920 This is fault. 0:23:24.880 --> 0:23:26.840 I would usually like, if a woman's about to have 0:23:26.880 --> 0:23:29.320 sex with someone, you're gonna do like the test. 0:23:29.400 --> 0:23:31.840 Yeah, we always do, Like, yeah, facts, we do. 0:23:32.680 --> 0:23:47.160 I'll be real texty whatever, okay. 0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:45.359 Right right right, we can find it's been out all 0:23:45.440 --> 0:23:48.760 day and we're gonna we're like gonna find the rid. 0:23:48.800 --> 0:23:51.200 We're gonna hide it under the dresser of the sink. 0:23:51.760 --> 0:23:56.240 No god, oh you know what happened. Facts, I'll be. 0:23:56.160 --> 0:23:58.160 Doing it, and I'm like, I hope no one will 0:23:58.240 --> 0:24:01.120 wipe their hands on this for like the last three months. 0:24:01.000 --> 0:24:03.800 It's little niggas don't wash. Oh my god. 0:24:03.800 --> 0:24:06.760 I saw this study that like men, most men don't 0:24:06.880 --> 0:24:10.440 wash their sheets for four months on average. 0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:12.840 That's an average. That's disgusting. 0:24:13.520 --> 0:24:16.000 It is. I definitely have done that before now I'm 0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:17.000 thinking about it, but. 0:24:17.600 --> 0:24:18.680 Four months is a long time. 0:24:19.160 --> 0:24:22.280 You get older though, But see maybe because I wasn't 0:24:22.280 --> 0:24:23.879 that active, So that's why you're. 0:24:23.760 --> 0:24:25.600 Just like you're still sweating and there rolling around. 0:24:25.760 --> 0:24:28.200 Yeah, no, for sure, for sure, Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure. 0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:29.840 I mean that was definitely I think that was. I mean, 0:24:29.880 --> 0:24:32.040 I don't that was a younger thing to me, but 0:24:32.119 --> 0:24:34.320 like I think as you get older, you're a little better. 0:24:34.400 --> 0:24:35.000 I would assume. 0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:36.440 I don't know if that's forget. 0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:38.959 I've asked my nigga, like, you're going to change these 0:24:38.960 --> 0:24:41.000 sheets between me and whoever else has been here, like 0:24:41.040 --> 0:24:41.760 change the sheets. 0:24:41.800 --> 0:24:42.119 I'm not. 0:24:43.800 --> 0:24:45.800 I don't really like to go to men's houses either. 0:24:46.119 --> 0:24:48.719 I like going to women's houses, so you don't, I do, 0:24:48.880 --> 0:24:50.320 like I want to see how they. 0:24:50.280 --> 0:24:54.239 Live one yeah, I mean I do, like not not 0:24:54.320 --> 0:24:56.000 just that, but you can't tell a lot. I like, 0:24:56.040 --> 0:24:58.440 you know, seeing how kept everything is, because there's been 0:24:58.440 --> 0:25:00.800 times where I was like, I need it's. 0:25:00.640 --> 0:25:02.960 Always like you know, it's always it's always a fine 0:25:03.000 --> 0:25:08.200 ass bitch, a dirty as house. It's always the finest 0:25:08.200 --> 0:25:11.200 bitch with the nicest ship, who has the dirtiest Funny. 0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:14.159 It's funny because usually like for the like for the 0:25:14.160 --> 0:25:16.320 most part, when they're like their house is great, but 0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:18.200 the car is a fucking tornado. 0:25:18.920 --> 0:25:19.600 My cars. 0:25:20.880 --> 0:25:25.720 Cars are tornado, your mom, like I got here, Like 0:25:26.680 --> 0:25:27.640 can I sit inside? 0:25:27.720 --> 0:25:30.199 Or day three of my car after a car wash? 0:25:30.240 --> 0:25:31.400 It's like, did you even wash? 0:25:31.440 --> 0:25:35.280 It gives no fucks man. And also I don't give 0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:37.080 a fuck. I've just been throwing it in there. I'll 0:25:37.119 --> 0:25:37.879 come back and get it. 0:25:37.960 --> 0:25:40.240 I'm carrying forty thousand things in the car with me 0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:42.280 at once and then forgetting at least half of them 0:25:42.560 --> 0:25:43.119 on exit. 0:25:43.720 --> 0:25:45.960 I feel you, but you're right. You know, men really 0:25:45.960 --> 0:25:48.160 care about cars. I feel like women are not. You know, 0:25:48.760 --> 0:25:51.200 like men really the opposite. Right, men will wash their 0:25:51.200 --> 0:25:53.679 car way or they'll ever wash their sheet. 0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:58.200 Gross, I need you to apply the same sheep. 0:25:58.320 --> 0:25:58.879 That's true. 0:25:59.080 --> 0:26:01.760 Men, Please, I beg of you wash your sheets. At 0:26:01.880 --> 0:26:04.320 least you just like do two weeks like that's I 0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:06.119 don't feel like. Let's ask me a lot. That's literally 0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:09.240 twice a month, like yeah, it really it should be 0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:10.880 once a week, it really should be. 0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:14.560 And so many partners you're having, Yeah, I'll switch some. 0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:17.840 She just buy some buy three pairs so you don't 0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:18.040 have to. 0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:22.200 Yeah, yeah, that's definitely yeah, that's definitely no, not at all. 0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:24.320 That should get dingy quick, bro. I learned that in 0:26:24.359 --> 0:26:26.080 college I was like, I probably would get some new ships, 0:26:26.080 --> 0:26:27.520 but like a year it washed me over. 0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:29.439 You me, I'm a squirt on them, so like you 0:26:29.520 --> 0:26:31.880 really got to wash these because it's not gonna it's 0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:32.600 not gonna work. 0:26:34.040 --> 0:26:36.960 That's yeah, that's why I remember there's one girl I 0:26:36.960 --> 0:26:39.040 was messing with and she was a squatter. I was like, 0:26:39.040 --> 0:26:40.520 we're gonna have to go to a hotel because you're 0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:41.760 gonna fuck all my ship up. 0:26:42.200 --> 0:26:45.880 Hotel the hotel. 0:26:46.280 --> 0:26:49.560 I like hotel sex a lot. I don't know, it 0:26:49.600 --> 0:26:51.639 brings a level of nastiness out of us, right. You 0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:54.760 just feel like you're like there's no restrictions for whatever reason, 0:26:54.840 --> 0:26:55.239 I don't know. 0:26:55.680 --> 0:26:58.280 Before we started this episode, we were sharonas asked me 0:26:58.359 --> 0:27:02.240 if I've ever had sex and in this office face and. 0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:07.120 No, I have not my mom, but office sex is hot. 0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:09.600 But I have had sex at my workplace, just not 0:27:09.680 --> 0:27:13.280 this workplace. When I worked at Starbucks. I definitely Starbucks bathroom. 0:27:13.359 --> 0:27:17.000 Also in the back, also in the like in the front, 0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:18.720 like when it's closed. 0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:22.520 Inside this like righte by the Frappucna machine. 0:27:23.000 --> 0:27:25.199 I love it now. Was this a co workers? 0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:32.040 He was my boss, he was the leader. I'm sucking 0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:35.280 the lead very still at the jest wasn't in stories 0:27:35.359 --> 0:27:37.040 you know that you know that Starbucks over there in 0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:38.480 Sina and Louise turned. 0:27:41.000 --> 0:27:45.760 That was me. I love it. Okay good. 0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:48.240 So when I work, I was an intern at Geffen 0:27:48.320 --> 0:27:54.359 Records definitely fucked my other boss in the stairwell and 0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:55.960 he was He's like, I have a project for you, 0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:59.520 like I want I like got all these magazine covers 0:27:59.560 --> 0:28:01.840 and I like started, you know, like like this window, 0:28:01.880 --> 0:28:04.359 there's like a door and there's a window. I like 0:28:05.400 --> 0:28:08.480 magazine covers all over them, specifically so that we could 0:28:08.480 --> 0:28:09.639 funk in his office. 0:28:10.440 --> 0:28:12.720 It was it was like, oh stylish, but really it 0:28:12.800 --> 0:28:13.120 was like. 0:28:13.040 --> 0:28:14.960 It was yeah, it was intern. I was like, let 0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:17.520 me let me make your door look more fashionable. 0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:20.520 Can I ask you how this sparked up between you? 0:28:20.880 --> 0:28:22.360 Like all this I love this ship? So how did 0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:24.840 it like being the intern in the boss, like how 0:28:24.880 --> 0:28:27.639 did that spark up? Like what was the moment? What 0:28:27.680 --> 0:28:29.880 did he say or did you press him? Like? What 0:28:29.960 --> 0:28:30.119 was it? 0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:33.359 It was just it was probably me. 0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:40.800 He was kind of shy, it's a nerd. 0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:42.560 And I was like I want to conquer you. 0:28:43.680 --> 0:28:45.600 Andrew my boss and you told me what to do, 0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:50.240 and I'm sexually so not any not in my break 0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:52.280 everyday life, don't ever try to tell me what to do. 0:28:52.280 --> 0:28:54.560 But which I find that to be a common thing. 0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:57.840 It's like because we just don't want to be in control. Yeah, 0:28:58.120 --> 0:29:02.240 people around all day long. So yeah, I definitely probably 0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:04.200 took advantage of that. And then he was my boyfriend 0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:05.040 for like three years. 0:29:05.280 --> 0:29:08.000 It was a little crazy. Can we actually interviewed him? 0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:09.200 Really? 0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:11.840 Oh yeah, what was that episode called? Like, let's work? 0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:13.880 I guess I'm getting I got back with my ex 0:29:13.920 --> 0:29:15.520 Oh yeah, we got back with our exes? 0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:18.440 Wait do I? Oh wait? Do I know this person? 0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:22.720 I don't think so maybe I don't know, okay not director, Yes, 0:29:23.080 --> 0:29:23.480 yes I do. 0:29:24.440 --> 0:29:27.400 Was on the phone with him, right right? Yeah? Okay, 0:29:27.440 --> 0:29:34.000 well now yeah yeah Matt yep he does. I've known 0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:35.680 him for like over decad. Yeah. 0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:37.360 Shout out to Matt. 0:29:37.880 --> 0:29:42.920 Wow that makes me so proud. Yeah, it's right, Yes 0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:45.400 he is. You know directors, they're visualism and they like 0:29:45.440 --> 0:29:48.520 a little nerdy. Yeah my visual treatment. Good shout out 0:29:48.560 --> 0:29:51.080 to man. I love it. 0:29:51.800 --> 0:29:54.440 But you were sharing that you have had sex on 0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:56.800 the job, and you know, as you know, Sharonas is 0:29:56.800 --> 0:29:58.880 a famous actor tour. 0:29:59.440 --> 0:30:01.680 It's not like I said, it's not something I really 0:30:04.600 --> 0:30:07.760 it's harder for me, Like you know, doing that, you're 0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:10.440 always there's constantly people knocking and knocking. 0:30:11.880 --> 0:30:14.959 Also that's the fun of it. 0:30:15.120 --> 0:30:17.360 Yeah, that's that's that's what it was. But to be fair, 0:30:17.440 --> 0:30:18.800 to be honest, though I don't want to get people 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:22.040 to exit. It wasn't like on nothing big that people 0:30:22.320 --> 0:30:23.240 Now this is years. 0:30:23.400 --> 0:30:31.080 Let people dream, shun God, let them think you got 0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:34.400 your baby while I'm pregnant. 0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:41.640 They did it made a baby in my trailer? Now no, 0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:43.880 but yeah, this but it was like to me that 0:30:44.000 --> 0:30:45.840 was that was the fun of it too, because you know, 0:30:45.920 --> 0:30:48.240 you had like but they're like, okay, we're gonna come 0:30:48.280 --> 0:30:52.400 get you in like eight minutes, okay, and we just 0:30:52.480 --> 0:30:54.520 like sneak away and then get a little quickie in 0:30:54.600 --> 0:30:58.360 and you know, lift up her skirt and then just 0:30:58.560 --> 0:30:59.320 picked her up and. 0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:02.400 Just you're a big nigga. Though that trailer must have 0:31:02.400 --> 0:31:03.160 been rocking. 0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:09.959 It's very true, to be honestly, So the way I 0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:12.720 wasn't in it, I was outside of it because my 0:31:12.800 --> 0:31:17.080 trailer was against like a building and there was like 0:31:17.200 --> 0:31:21.320 space in between and like you'd have to like, no 0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:23.720 one's really going back there, right, So we would hear 0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:26.120 them coming from like because of the gravel from over there, 0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:29.480 and so I just kind of had her like on 0:31:29.520 --> 0:31:32.840 the wall and we were in between and outside we 0:31:32.840 --> 0:31:34.280 could have been seen, but like there's like a parking 0:31:34.320 --> 0:31:40.360 structure right there, whatever's protection. Absolutely not. I didn't. I didn't. 0:31:40.400 --> 0:31:41.160 I didn't have that time. 0:31:41.240 --> 0:31:43.840 I mean, nobody likes condoms, fact, right. 0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:45.440 But I also we were like, you know that was 0:31:45.480 --> 0:31:46.680 what you did. 0:31:47.000 --> 0:31:50.200 You're in the Yeah, what's what's the right amount of 0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:52.160 time to take off a condom with someone? 0:31:52.600 --> 0:31:54.240 Great question? Right? I feel like. 0:31:55.800 --> 0:31:56.920 Like, are you let the woman do it? 0:31:56.960 --> 0:31:58.520 Are you just kind of like go in just like 0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:01.320 feel the vibe and just like it's hope she doesn't say ship. 0:32:01.520 --> 0:32:07.000 Like it's funny. I feel like I've done both. But like, honestly, 0:32:07.400 --> 0:32:11.320 especially like that, like I wanted to be this mutual thing. 0:32:11.880 --> 0:32:13.400 I kind of it's like this thing where you know, 0:32:13.440 --> 0:32:15.239 you both are kind of playing cow mouse with it. 0:32:15.360 --> 0:32:17.520 There's been times, oh my god, there's been times with 0:32:17.600 --> 0:32:20.440 the condoms in the fucking hand, right, and you're like 0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:21.400 all right, like you know and. 0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:23.960 You guys look responsible. 0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:26.240 It was all no. The thing was like one time 0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:28.120 there was like all intentions to but I could feel 0:32:28.160 --> 0:32:29.600 her like, you know, you guys do the thing, you 0:32:29.600 --> 0:32:31.760 grab and you start like that. 0:32:32.560 --> 0:32:34.680 She said that was that is like nigga, don't put 0:32:34.680 --> 0:32:42.600 that ship on the rack at the entrance. 0:32:42.640 --> 0:32:46.120 That means that, Like I was like, how do you 0:32:46.560 --> 0:32:49.600 feel this? And then you ever seen that like Kermit 0:32:49.600 --> 0:32:52.080 the Frog mean where he's like, we're the rains on 0:32:52.120 --> 0:32:54.440 the window. That's how you being the condom and ship 0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:59.000 like you rather like to me, I'm good using the 0:32:59.040 --> 0:33:00.920 condam for a long time, as long as I don't 0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:03.840 feel like it. We're all like, don't let me feel it, 0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:05.640 because once we do, there's no turning bag. 0:33:05.800 --> 0:33:06.040 Never. 0:33:06.240 --> 0:33:10.200 There's no turning bag ever again ever again. 0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:12.040 And then like in our minds, if you do it 0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:13.600 one time, you're like, okay, well we're. 0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:18.080 Fine, right, we're good now. 0:33:20.080 --> 0:33:23.320 If you have something already got continued six months, but 0:33:23.560 --> 0:33:23.920 we're good. 0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:26.760 I'm your last one right so close. 0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:29.280 That's so funny, man, that's so true. You go back, 0:33:29.320 --> 0:33:31.040 you swing it back around, You're like, well we've already 0:33:31.120 --> 0:33:34.320 established we don't use those right. 0:33:34.320 --> 0:33:37.360 Yeah, yeah, we know we're responsible. We know you know 0:33:37.400 --> 0:33:39.560 that we're the only ones that do this. Yeah, we 0:33:39.560 --> 0:33:40.360 don't do this with anymore. 0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:42.920 I do, Unlike a lot of men, I do get 0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:46.720 like tested pretty regularly. Like I don't I've even done 0:33:46.720 --> 0:33:48.920 it for some reason. We're like I haven't. Let's just 0:33:48.920 --> 0:33:52.600 say I have section three months and I'm like, let 0:33:52.640 --> 0:33:55.560 me just maybe they missed something that first time. To 0:33:55.640 --> 0:33:59.440 make sure. So I do get tested for sure, I try, 0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:05.240 like especially like if I know if I'm sitting some 0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:07.000 up and I'm like, all right, this seems like this 0:34:07.080 --> 0:34:09.480 is about to be a new thing going on here. 0:34:09.960 --> 0:34:12.520 I'm like, I'm gonna get tested because I'm gonna be like, 0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:14.279 oh I was clean, What the fuck is going on 0:34:14.320 --> 0:34:15.919 with you? Don't put this on me? Like, I get 0:34:15.960 --> 0:34:18.239 my ship ready, I get my arguments ready, Like what 0:34:18.280 --> 0:34:20.719 the you know what I'm saying? 0:34:21.200 --> 0:34:22.360 Argument documents? 0:34:22.480 --> 0:34:24.919 Yeah, yeah, I go through the files and ship here 0:34:24.960 --> 0:34:26.880 you go. Because this was a week before we have. 0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:29.399 I do nothing that last week. 0:34:29.480 --> 0:34:30.080 Yeah exactly. 0:34:30.239 --> 0:34:37.480 So yeah, I'm so shreness. We have a game on 0:34:37.520 --> 0:34:38.839 our show. I think we might have played it last 0:34:38.880 --> 0:34:43.560 time with here ohgger yeah yeah, yeah, okay, okay, and 0:34:43.560 --> 0:34:45.759 it's a game where we say a word and you 0:34:45.760 --> 0:34:48.120 say the first thing that comes to your mind. 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I usually make them die. 0:38:37.000 --> 0:38:37.560 Oh okay, got it. 0:38:37.719 --> 0:38:40.120 You're really good at getting rid of those co parenting 0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:43.080 solid are you single? 0:38:43.840 --> 0:38:44.160 Yes? 0:38:44.719 --> 0:38:45.959 Fatherhood? 0:38:49.440 --> 0:38:50.880 Sheesh? You for it. 0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:57.719 I only I've heard AGAs a long time spirituality a 0:38:57.840 --> 0:39:14.440 necessity religion. Think you most toxic trait, impatient, very impatient. 0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:18.560 Get rid of the pride. 0:39:20.239 --> 0:39:21.680 We'll just throw back of joints at me. 0:39:23.000 --> 0:39:30.920 Monogamy doable, open relationship, doable, pre. 0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:39.480 Nup mhm mhm, possibility not. 0:39:39.520 --> 0:39:40.160 One hundred percent? 0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:41.200 Mm hmm. 0:39:42.400 --> 0:39:47.440 Like what is she? What is She's richer than you? 0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:49.000 I'll sign hers. 0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:54.480 Yeah, favorite R and B artist right now, Lucky Day, 0:39:55.480 --> 0:40:00.759 favorite alcoholic beverage, Harry Pussy. 0:40:01.200 --> 0:40:03.000 Vintage. 0:40:05.320 --> 0:40:09.000 It was a good one period head. 0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:13.120 Down, period, sex down. 0:40:13.160 --> 0:40:14.600 Like that favorite sex position. 0:40:16.239 --> 0:40:19.520 How do I explain it? I don't know the name. 0:40:19.920 --> 0:40:21.920 You need to to reenact it. Guys, you we can 0:40:21.920 --> 0:40:23.360 help you help that. We're professional. 0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:25.080 Got who's you want me to? 0:40:26.200 --> 0:40:26.560 Come on? 0:40:28.560 --> 0:40:30.600 All right, I'm gonna show you exactly what is so? 0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:42.240 Oh yeah, so it's gotta be on the table. 0:40:42.840 --> 0:40:46.000 I just want to you gotta get like you gotta 0:40:46.000 --> 0:40:47.839 get on your stomach first and then and then. 0:40:50.280 --> 0:40:54.239 You need to move the candle. Oh my god, oh 0:40:54.280 --> 0:41:11.920 my god, your waves gonna So you are okay, okay, 0:41:11.960 --> 0:41:15.799 but that's I think they call that the barrel the wheelbarrow? 0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:24.240 Uh is that like the backwards cancer. 0:41:24.400 --> 0:41:25.840 So I feel like I want to call like the 0:41:25.960 --> 0:41:28.040 jack knife or something like I'll give you something cool. 0:41:28.080 --> 0:41:30.200 But like yeah, she was like you know like that, well. 0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:31.520 Thank you for that. I'm gonna have to use that 0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:31.839 at home. 0:41:31.960 --> 0:41:35.359 It's great, Okay, it's great reviews too, so. 0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:37.759 Because you can really get in there. Really to go 0:41:37.800 --> 0:41:39.440 to YouTube because you didn't have to see the jack. 0:41:40.040 --> 0:41:40.799 Jack kne jack. 0:41:42.400 --> 0:41:44.000 You want to seem to me like a jack knife 0:41:44.800 --> 0:41:45.920 YouTube right now. 0:41:47.920 --> 0:41:52.680 Topless doing jack knife skark cavell. 0:41:52.840 --> 0:41:53.879 Go to YouTube. I read it off. 0:41:54.160 --> 0:41:55.120 My titties are also out. 0:41:55.880 --> 0:42:00.279 Yeah, uh hard know. 0:42:02.880 --> 0:42:06.920 Uh no anal to me, No, no, you don't wan 0:42:06.920 --> 0:42:09.800 anything nothing, not even like a finger. 0:42:11.440 --> 0:42:14.960 The most I've let was like around it say around. 0:42:15.040 --> 0:42:18.920 It's just oh de sensitive, feel good. It's too sensitive. 0:42:19.080 --> 0:42:20.120 I can't even enjoy it. 0:42:21.440 --> 0:42:22.160 You're gonna like it? 0:42:22.960 --> 0:42:25.840 No, you just relax. You ever tried breathing? He's not breathing. 0:42:26.200 --> 0:42:29.359 I have I did all that. I took all the notes. Yo, 0:42:29.480 --> 0:42:30.480 I took all the notes. 0:42:30.560 --> 0:42:32.359 Do you not trust? Is it? Is it a trust thing? 0:42:33.520 --> 0:42:34.480 Level of trust? Right? 0:42:34.520 --> 0:42:37.880 Maybe? Also like I feel like I have a like 0:42:37.960 --> 0:42:43.520 a fragile like I care pretty easy when I go 0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:46.080 to the like Google and I'm just kind of like, 0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:49.000 I just don't want to mess with that anymore than 0:42:49.080 --> 0:42:51.080 you have to have like it? 0:42:51.239 --> 0:42:53.319 What about do you do? Do anal women? 0:42:54.760 --> 0:42:59.359 I eat that. I put my thumb in there. I 0:42:59.440 --> 0:43:00.200 thought myself in it. 0:43:07.760 --> 0:43:07.880 Uh. 0:43:08.080 --> 0:43:13.000 Pet peeve, uh, pet peeve. 0:43:13.840 --> 0:43:20.040 Lack of communication, machority, celebrity crush, that's. 0:43:19.920 --> 0:43:24.480 Just oh, I have a celebrity crush right now. 0:43:24.719 --> 0:43:24.839 Uh. 0:43:25.600 --> 0:43:28.000 For a while, it was make the stallion mm hmm. 0:43:28.800 --> 0:43:30.120 I was wanting her to suffocate me. 0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:32.520 Yeahs like sit on your face. 0:43:33.080 --> 0:43:36.200 Yeah, just sit on my face and crush me with 0:43:36.239 --> 0:43:36.800 her thighs. 0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:40.080 She has strong thighs. Yeah, I have a crush on her. 0:43:40.080 --> 0:43:42.400 Man. He's very talented. 0:43:43.520 --> 0:43:44.799 I saw him one time in New York. 0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:48.040 It's a big guy. He is like they makes sense. 0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:50.040 I saw him picking her up today on like the 0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:53.480 shade room. I was like, you must be strong. Was 0:43:53.480 --> 0:43:55.160 a little turned on its like he's a strong man. 0:43:55.480 --> 0:44:06.000 Yeah, that's you. Mushrooms, Oh, mushrooms, freeing. 0:44:08.200 --> 0:44:15.000 Married women, untouchable, masturbation. 0:44:16.320 --> 0:44:20.520 Hm hmm, masturbation up moderately, Like I do it moderately. 0:44:21.239 --> 0:44:22.920 Why why are you so many rules. 0:44:23.080 --> 0:44:25.919 Because you could get desensitized, like I said, I watched 0:44:26.000 --> 0:44:29.360 poorn to masturbate, but or I watch my own, my 0:44:29.360 --> 0:44:34.759 own archives, which I prefer. You can get desensitized and 0:44:34.920 --> 0:44:37.400 like your loads a lighter, you don't get as hard, 0:44:38.000 --> 0:44:40.640 and so to do it moderately is fine because then 0:44:40.680 --> 0:44:43.680 it just keeps my stamina up, like I get a 0:44:43.719 --> 0:44:46.520 relief whatever, and then that just holds me over until 0:44:46.520 --> 0:44:47.080 the next time. 0:44:47.280 --> 0:44:48.320 Are you a male sex sport? 0:44:51.719 --> 0:44:54.920 I do? I do, Yeah, I do. I don't know. 0:44:54.920 --> 0:44:56.839 I kind of enjoy having like a big load, because 0:44:56.880 --> 0:45:00.239 when you edge that, I think women enjoy it. Yeah. 0:45:01.000 --> 0:45:06.680 Yeah, it's sexy. It's very sexy. Cannabis. Oh, lovely therapy. 0:45:08.120 --> 0:45:15.440 We did biggest regret, biggest regret. 0:45:16.920 --> 0:45:29.680 Wow, I would say, oh man, how I responded to 0:45:29.719 --> 0:45:36.160 the toxicity of of of of a past relationship. I 0:45:36.200 --> 0:45:38.719 would say, how we both handled that? That was a 0:45:38.760 --> 0:45:43.440 regret that we're thankfully good now. It took a while 0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:46.640 to be cool. How how we both were. It was 0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:49.360 very volatile. It was like, you know, nasty place in 0:45:49.360 --> 0:45:52.600 our lives. We were young and didn't know. We thought, 0:45:52.719 --> 0:45:54.200 you know, you think you know what love is at 0:45:54.200 --> 0:45:56.400 one point, but you didn't really know what it was. 0:45:56.440 --> 0:45:58.960 Nothing healthy about it. You never had good examples both 0:45:58.960 --> 0:46:00.480 of us growing up with our love. So how we 0:46:00.560 --> 0:46:03.160 both respondent was very very nasty. 0:46:03.520 --> 0:46:06.440 Now what you're like big non negotiable in a relationship? 0:46:12.120 --> 0:46:14.920 Wow? I mean a couple like if you don't want 0:46:14.960 --> 0:46:16.440 to have kids, it's tough. 0:46:17.080 --> 0:46:18.080 Oh so you want more kids? 0:46:18.120 --> 0:46:22.239 Absolutely? I love you father definitely want like like two 0:46:22.239 --> 0:46:27.920 more too. And this time if my if like you know, 0:46:28.000 --> 0:46:31.560 my one is down for it and I'm pretty close 0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:36.279 together if she knows up for it because the zim 0:46:36.400 --> 0:46:42.719 is going to be I'm assuming, uh, significantly older, but 0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:47.320 life to I think she will be, which in a 0:46:47.400 --> 0:46:49.440 sense I think could be nice because you have a 0:46:49.480 --> 0:46:53.120 little helper, you know, But then it'd be nice to 0:46:53.160 --> 0:46:55.160 have them too closer. 0:46:55.680 --> 0:46:58.839 Yeah, biggest turn off in a relationship. 0:47:02.440 --> 0:47:13.400 The biggest turn off two I would just say hypocrisy 0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:18.520 and low sex drives. He was turned off from me? 0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:23.960 Amen. I think those are two, at least one of them. 0:47:24.000 --> 0:47:26.080 I never really thought about low sex drive I have. 0:47:26.320 --> 0:47:26.960 I can't do that. 0:47:27.040 --> 0:47:29.200 I never said it was a non negotiable day I have. 0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:30.600 How could I forget? 0:47:31.239 --> 0:47:34.600 I don't know how right it was someone such appetite. Yeah, 0:47:34.719 --> 0:47:37.960 not yet, absolutely not. No, that's going through strides like 0:47:38.000 --> 0:47:40.040 that you have you guys ever went through like a 0:47:40.080 --> 0:47:42.280 pocket with some money where it was just not happening. 0:47:42.600 --> 0:47:44.440 I was that I was that person. 0:47:45.000 --> 0:47:49.200 I was super unsexual at one point in a certain relationship. 0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:52.960 For a while. Yea. And this was all internal or 0:47:53.440 --> 0:47:56.799 at first it was like it was like didn't have 0:47:56.800 --> 0:47:58.120 to do with you or was it a mixture of 0:47:58.200 --> 0:47:59.880 him and what you were going on? 0:48:00.080 --> 0:48:02.080 He wanted to fuck me, but I just yeah, it 0:48:02.120 --> 0:48:04.719 was I realized that it was definitely a lot more 0:48:04.920 --> 0:48:07.319 of a mental It was a mental block because and 0:48:07.400 --> 0:48:09.279 I started questioning myself like, am I just like I'm 0:48:10.080 --> 0:48:10.560 this fresh. 0:48:10.400 --> 0:48:14.719 After a baby though it was his postpartum yeah, okay, no. 0:48:15.040 --> 0:48:20.200 Kind of postpartum also before the baby. So I know 0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:22.560 that it was like a mental thing, like it was 0:48:22.600 --> 0:48:24.239 something that that I didn't want to accept. It was 0:48:24.280 --> 0:48:27.760 like in my subconscious that this person, I can't trust 0:48:27.760 --> 0:48:30.279 this person, and so because I couldn't trust them, my 0:48:30.320 --> 0:48:33.160 body didn't trust them and didn't get around, wouldn't get 0:48:33.160 --> 0:48:35.400 aroused in the ways that it did initially, because there 0:48:35.440 --> 0:48:37.040 was a time where like all I wanted to do. 0:48:37.080 --> 0:48:38.279 Was this person right? 0:48:38.320 --> 0:48:39.600 And then I was like what the fuck? Then I 0:48:39.600 --> 0:48:40.640 was like, is something wrong with me? 0:48:40.680 --> 0:48:40.799 Am? 0:48:40.800 --> 0:48:44.520 I just like an warny now, like my priorities have changed, 0:48:44.719 --> 0:48:47.120 like no, right? 0:48:47.320 --> 0:48:48.680 And then we broke up. 0:48:48.600 --> 0:48:50.239 And then I started in sex with other people and 0:48:50.280 --> 0:48:52.600 I was like, oh, no, bitch, it was it was 0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:55.800 that fast situation. Yeah, okay, probably there was a mixture 0:48:55.840 --> 0:48:57.160 of probably postpartum this. 0:48:57.440 --> 0:49:01.320 For sure, and maybe whatever he was doing. 0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:04.480 Distress recipe for fucking sex. 0:49:04.280 --> 0:49:06.880 Disaster of course, course course nothing. 0:49:06.719 --> 0:49:08.600 Would make your pussy dryer, at least in mine. 0:49:10.440 --> 0:49:11.879 Yeah. I mean, I feel like the number one thing 0:49:11.920 --> 0:49:15.960 for a woman in relationship would be security. Feeling safe 0:49:16.040 --> 0:49:18.640 in all aspects right there could be emotionally, physically, whatever 0:49:18.680 --> 0:49:22.360 that means. And if she doesn't feel one hundred percent 0:49:22.360 --> 0:49:26.240 secure with her partner, I feel that a pussy turns 0:49:26.239 --> 0:49:29.520 into a barbie and closes up. I would feel like 0:49:29.800 --> 0:49:31.359 I would imagine it. 0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:32.960 Does some, but for some it doesn't. 0:49:32.960 --> 0:49:35.440 Because some women like that's how they that's how they 0:49:35.480 --> 0:49:37.600 feel like they're going to like I don't know, like. 0:49:37.840 --> 0:49:41.040 Oh, like oh fix it, or going to say yeah, 0:49:41.040 --> 0:49:41.279 there you. 0:49:41.280 --> 0:49:44.480 Go, you know, I don't know but for me, it 0:49:44.640 --> 0:49:48.200 just it just wasn't but I think that But now 0:49:48.200 --> 0:49:49.359 I'm like, wow, I don't. 0:49:50.040 --> 0:49:52.040 Now I know that that's a sign of unhappiness for me. 0:49:52.080 --> 0:49:53.680 So now moving forward, if that were to ever happen 0:49:53.760 --> 0:49:55.600 with someone, I'm like, for sure something's not right. 0:49:55.640 --> 0:50:00.880 Here. Was he expressing his frustrations about that, or he 0:50:01.040 --> 0:50:02.400 was like kind of just keeping it in. 0:50:03.520 --> 0:50:06.040 Wow, yeah he was getting it out though. 0:50:08.440 --> 0:50:12.399 I'm getting it out somewhere else and like shit, I mean, 0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:14.440 obviously better ways to handle it. 0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:18.279 But look, for sure, I'm not. I like, I just 0:50:18.320 --> 0:50:20.000 remember having a boy. He was like, man, me and 0:50:20.040 --> 0:50:22.560 my grand hand sections. It was like seven or eight months. 0:50:22.960 --> 0:50:26.680 I was like, in relationships, I ain't that crazy. 0:50:26.800 --> 0:50:28.319 Mary find that insane. 0:50:28.480 --> 0:50:30.400 A lot of married people don't have to be married. 0:50:30.480 --> 0:50:32.480 He just you don't they weren't married. But like he 0:50:32.600 --> 0:50:34.840 was like seven eight months. I was like, I was 0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:37.319 like okay. I was like, I was like, are you cheating? Bro? 0:50:37.560 --> 0:50:40.359 And he was just like no, I haven't cheated. I said, oh, 0:50:41.640 --> 0:50:45.759 pretty solid. Because I'm out of there, I will step out, 0:50:45.800 --> 0:50:48.560 I know me, like, because one I'm going to communicate 0:50:48.560 --> 0:50:51.040 this over and over and I will say hey, I'm 0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:53.719 just letting you know. Now, if we're not fucking here, 0:50:54.360 --> 0:50:57.759 I'm fucking somewhere else. At some point you get you 0:50:57.800 --> 0:51:00.279 get warnings, right, and if she's not community, but she 0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:02.160 has to be communicating with me what she's going through. 0:51:02.920 --> 0:51:04.840 If it's just like not really being communicated, I'm like, 0:51:04.840 --> 0:51:07.319 I don't know what you expect from me. Like if 0:51:07.400 --> 0:51:09.560 I'm not if I'm not aware about what you're going through, 0:51:10.480 --> 0:51:13.400 how can I empathize or sympathize with the situation and 0:51:13.440 --> 0:51:15.560 trying to figure that out together? So then now we 0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:17.239 both get our needs met, you know what I mean, 0:51:17.360 --> 0:51:19.120 Because I don't want to feel like a fucking chore. 0:51:19.239 --> 0:51:22.040 And there's been times where I remember it was a 0:51:22.080 --> 0:51:23.440 stretch one time where I felt like it was a 0:51:23.719 --> 0:51:27.239 chore for the girl, and I was just like, yeah, right, 0:51:28.040 --> 0:51:34.440 right right, I'm just like, you know what, you're welcome 0:51:34.560 --> 0:51:38.759 first out the fuck. Yeah yeah. So yeah for me, 0:51:38.880 --> 0:51:41.040 I don't know, like if that was if it was 0:51:41.040 --> 0:51:43.120 flip for y'all, if you guy's not giving you no 0:51:43.239 --> 0:51:45.040 date for like six months. 0:51:45.360 --> 0:51:49.360 Oh, I would would take less than that. I cheated 0:51:49.360 --> 0:51:51.600 actually on that guy that didn't come. He wasn't very 0:51:51.600 --> 0:51:53.680 sexual I feel like I was like leading it. I 0:51:53.719 --> 0:51:57.719 am a sexual person, and I associate a physical touch 0:51:57.920 --> 0:51:59.600 with like intimacy. 0:51:59.239 --> 0:52:02.760 And I do that's your that's your top language. 0:52:02.760 --> 0:52:03.359 It's one of them. 0:52:03.600 --> 0:52:06.479 It's important to me, Like I want, I like long 0:52:06.640 --> 0:52:09.920 for a relationship that's very intimate and like be kiss 0:52:10.120 --> 0:52:12.319 and we make out and I look at you and 0:52:12.680 --> 0:52:13.560 time like that. 0:52:13.600 --> 0:52:15.360 That's high on the list for me. 0:52:15.400 --> 0:52:15.960 Absolutely. 0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:18.880 So Yeah, even the guy we weren't dating along, but 0:52:18.920 --> 0:52:20.399 I was like, oh, you're not that sexual and you're 0:52:20.440 --> 0:52:21.480 kind of old nigga. 0:52:21.280 --> 0:52:23.200 Like this is just not We're not gonna get any better. 0:52:23.239 --> 0:52:25.200 It hasn't been on the forefront of your mind for 0:52:25.239 --> 0:52:27.480 a reason. So I am not about like and I tried. 0:52:27.520 --> 0:52:29.399 But it's also like, and I said, I could fuck 0:52:29.480 --> 0:52:31.279 other people. How about you? How do you feel like 0:52:31.360 --> 0:52:34.279 fuck other people? Because if you're if this is not 0:52:34.320 --> 0:52:36.400 your thing, I don't understand how you're not thinking about it, 0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:37.719 But like I'm thinking about it. 0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:38.960 That's how I feel. 0:52:39.000 --> 0:52:42.560 I would that would be the next thing. So I'm 0:52:42.560 --> 0:52:46.560 going to have sex with other people now. And I 0:52:46.600 --> 0:52:51.360 love you you We are going to work through this, baby. 0:52:51.760 --> 0:52:54.520 How good I need And at some point I'm gonna 0:52:54.520 --> 0:52:56.560 be like, do you fuck with me? Because I also, 0:52:56.760 --> 0:52:59.120 I don't know if this is area either I associate that. 0:52:59.080 --> 0:53:01.920 I would think that I'm gonna be real it's in 0:53:02.520 --> 0:53:04.719 and I've found a way to not. Like, I just 0:53:04.800 --> 0:53:07.759 realized there's a way to not I stop viewing that 0:53:07.840 --> 0:53:09.799 as a negative because at some point I think I 0:53:09.800 --> 0:53:12.640 did because I felt in America like sex is kind 0:53:12.640 --> 0:53:15.360 of shamed in certain ways versus other countries, which is 0:53:15.400 --> 0:53:17.600 way way more sexual. I just learned through that through 0:53:17.600 --> 0:53:21.640 like advertisement stuff, right, But I just realized, like, you know, 0:53:21.640 --> 0:53:24.080 if I'm talking about top three most important things and sex, 0:53:24.239 --> 0:53:26.759 I mean sex and relationships, sex is in there, right, 0:53:27.080 --> 0:53:30.240 And I realized, well, it's because I'm a sexual person 0:53:30.239 --> 0:53:32.520 and being and it's not attached to like trauma or anything. 0:53:33.200 --> 0:53:35.680 So I know that about me. So I'm a sexual 0:53:35.719 --> 0:53:40.239 person being, and why wouldn't I want something that fulfills 0:53:40.239 --> 0:53:42.439 me in that way? And so there is a sense 0:53:42.480 --> 0:53:44.839 where like, because to love someone, I want to give 0:53:44.840 --> 0:53:46.680 you what you need. Right, You're gonna tell me what 0:53:46.680 --> 0:53:49.520 your needs are. I'm asking for that in return. If 0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:51.160 sex is one of them and you're not giving me that, 0:53:51.239 --> 0:53:53.279 I feel like there's no consideration here about what we 0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:56.400 both wanted, especially if we communicated clearly. 0:53:56.640 --> 0:53:58.160 Wait, I have a question for you. 0:53:58.320 --> 0:54:00.719 Yeah, because I'm starting, I'm thinking I can't help but 0:54:00.760 --> 0:54:05.360 think about our episode with self proclaimed asexual you know, 0:54:05.400 --> 0:54:08.040 and like, there are a sexual people and I think 0:54:08.080 --> 0:54:11.600 also maybe you might shift into a sexuality within a relationship. 0:54:12.000 --> 0:54:16.279 Does that mean the relationship end? It does? Like a 0:54:16.400 --> 0:54:18.600 sexual Wow? 0:54:18.680 --> 0:54:21.040 What did I do? That's why I'm a thing. Yeah, 0:54:21.160 --> 0:54:23.480 like it's done. I'm gonna be like, damn, I've really 0:54:23.520 --> 0:54:28.600 sent her over the edge. Gay, I'd rather you turn gay? 0:54:29.200 --> 0:54:32.239 Like you a sexual? That means you want none of 0:54:32.320 --> 0:54:35.200 us or women like that? Might? 0:54:35.239 --> 0:54:36.000 Okay, okay, okay. 0:54:39.239 --> 0:54:42.480 What if it's just someone is like going through something 0:54:42.640 --> 0:54:44.480 and then they're cut off from their sexuality. 0:54:44.480 --> 0:54:46.319 It really has nothing to do with you, per se. 0:54:46.760 --> 0:54:48.600 It doesn't mean they'll always stay that way. 0:54:48.719 --> 0:54:51.239 How do you work through that with someone that is 0:54:51.280 --> 0:54:52.520 going through that in a way? 0:54:52.600 --> 0:54:53.399 That's one thing. 0:54:54.200 --> 0:54:56.600 And then maybe I'm going to support you because I 0:54:56.640 --> 0:55:00.319 love you and I'm gonna maybe get some summer else. 0:55:00.600 --> 0:55:02.600 I don't have to tell you the details. I'm just 0:55:02.600 --> 0:55:04.280 gonna let you know. It may or may not happen. 0:55:04.360 --> 0:55:07.319 It may not, but it may I feel yeah, because 0:55:07.360 --> 0:55:11.120 like like, here's my thing? Am I So while this 0:55:11.160 --> 0:55:13.480 is going on, I'm trying to be supportive and talk 0:55:13.560 --> 0:55:16.279 this out with you, and I'm over anything. I'm like, 0:55:16.320 --> 0:55:19.359 are we going to therapy? Are we? You know? Are we? 0:55:19.680 --> 0:55:21.919 How are we outsourcing this? Is it just in house? 0:55:21.960 --> 0:55:25.839 What are we doing here and throughout that time? If 0:55:25.880 --> 0:55:28.799 it's a long period of time, I'm an asshole. I 0:55:28.880 --> 0:55:32.319 go like, you know what I mean? 0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:33.759 I mean, it's true. It's like, why do I have 0:55:33.800 --> 0:55:36.080 to go through what you're going through? Like I can 0:55:36.120 --> 0:55:39.600 support you? How do I have to? Why do I 0:55:39.640 --> 0:55:41.560 have to be self deprived in a way and not? 0:55:42.239 --> 0:55:44.600 You know, I think that does sound selfish, but it's 0:55:44.640 --> 0:55:47.600 not really. I think like someone as much as you 0:55:47.719 --> 0:55:50.240 can until it then really feels. 0:55:49.880 --> 0:55:52.759 Like exactly pouring a threshold, right, there's a ceiling to 0:55:52.800 --> 0:55:55.560 certain I'm like, how long am I here for this? 0:55:55.640 --> 0:55:58.440 How Like? At some point if it's not being figured out, okay, 0:55:58.719 --> 0:56:02.000 I'll try. Oh damn, I. 0:56:02.320 --> 0:56:02.800 Want to. 0:56:06.920 --> 0:56:07.360 Wipe me. 0:56:11.000 --> 0:56:11.760 What is she doing? 0:56:14.960 --> 0:56:17.040 Yeah? I mean I don't know. I just I'm on 0:56:17.160 --> 0:56:19.239 for trying to help your partner get through anything. But 0:56:19.360 --> 0:56:22.160 I mean, it's not like there's a time saying you 0:56:22.160 --> 0:56:23.839 can put on something because you're you're in it, right, 0:56:23.880 --> 0:56:25.400 you don't know, you're just looking up the next thing. 0:56:25.440 --> 0:56:26.080 You know, you're like this. 0:56:27.200 --> 0:56:30.120 But there's also like this crazy expectation that when you're 0:56:30.120 --> 0:56:33.960 in a relationship that then I am somehow responsible. 0:56:33.600 --> 0:56:36.399 For your all things right, And like I I'm one. 0:56:36.320 --> 0:56:38.000 Of the people, Like I get scared if you said, 0:56:38.040 --> 0:56:43.160 like people start having to like emotional issues, right, I'm 0:56:43.160 --> 0:56:45.360 already responsible for my own feelings. I have a child 0:56:45.360 --> 0:56:49.800 who's is developing feelings that I'm responsible for. I don't 0:56:50.040 --> 0:56:52.840 have a lot. For three people, that's a lot, And 0:56:54.000 --> 0:56:56.239 naturally it happens. When you care about someone, You're going 0:56:56.400 --> 0:56:58.359 you're going to give yourself, you know, as much as 0:56:58.440 --> 0:57:00.799 you can. But there comes a point where I think 0:57:00.840 --> 0:57:03.680 it's important to be intentional when growing a relationship. 0:57:03.160 --> 0:57:05.560 That we are aware that I am not going through 0:57:05.640 --> 0:57:06.120 what you're. 0:57:06.000 --> 0:57:08.000 Going why communication and vice person. 0:57:08.040 --> 0:57:09.640 I can be happy for you, we can celebrate together, 0:57:09.680 --> 0:57:10.960 and I can be sad for you, and I can 0:57:11.080 --> 0:57:14.319 hold space for you, but I cannot consume myself and 0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:17.040 whatever it is you know, and that that needs to 0:57:17.080 --> 0:57:20.760 be normalized more often because right like that, that type 0:57:20.760 --> 0:57:21.440 of shit scares me. 0:57:21.480 --> 0:57:23.760 You know, it could help, but think but like I'm 0:57:23.760 --> 0:57:25.760 not going through what you're going through, and like, but 0:57:26.520 --> 0:57:28.520 that should be an added plus, Like maybe I'm gonna 0:57:28.520 --> 0:57:30.280 stay right here in this vibration where. 0:57:30.120 --> 0:57:32.760 You need to be you need to get back to, 0:57:32.880 --> 0:57:35.760 so let me stay here. Yeah, while you're there, and 0:57:35.800 --> 0:57:37.040 I'm going to keep pulling you up. 0:57:37.520 --> 0:57:42.439 That's yeah. That Yeah, now you like verbalize it like that. Yeah, 0:57:42.440 --> 0:57:44.520 that makes sense. I guess like as long as I 0:57:44.560 --> 0:57:46.600 feel like my behavior is not triggering them in any way, 0:57:46.720 --> 0:57:48.880 then yeah, I guess that would be some type of 0:57:49.040 --> 0:57:50.920 finish line for you to look at, Like all right, 0:57:51.000 --> 0:57:52.800 like as long as I keep running this race, right 0:57:54.080 --> 0:57:56.480 what you said something about like when someone's like going 0:57:56.520 --> 0:57:59.440 through emotional stuff, like when someone's like erratic with their emotions, 0:57:59.480 --> 0:58:03.480 like especially in the past couple of years, I see 0:58:03.680 --> 0:58:07.600 like I tap all the way out like because I 0:58:07.640 --> 0:58:10.680 find it some immaturity and that and some irresponsibility with that, 0:58:11.040 --> 0:58:13.600 and it gets poured onto me. I'm thinking about one 0:58:13.600 --> 0:58:16.360 person in particular, and she's just like it would be 0:58:16.480 --> 0:58:21.960 so like just very all over the place where emotions. 0:58:22.280 --> 0:58:25.680 She's great, right, and then you know, you have a 0:58:25.720 --> 0:58:28.440 great day, you know, and then you know she'll leave 0:58:28.520 --> 0:58:30.280 go home the next day. You know, maybe you don't 0:58:30.320 --> 0:58:32.640 text her that morning, and then it's just like all 0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:35.920 this stuff and I'm just like, what man makes me 0:58:35.920 --> 0:58:38.160 want to throw my fucking phone. I'm just like, bro like, 0:58:38.680 --> 0:58:40.880 and that happened, and that happened really often. We never 0:58:40.880 --> 0:58:43.160 actually got to a point of a relationship. That's because 0:58:43.200 --> 0:58:45.959 I was like, I could never do that. 0:58:45.880 --> 0:58:47.360 Well, because you couldn't get to that point. 0:58:47.480 --> 0:58:50.760 No, and she and but also my problem is the 0:58:50.840 --> 0:58:53.320 ironic thing is she wants me like She'll say, like 0:58:53.360 --> 0:58:56.280 she wants me to take accountability for hurting her. But 0:58:56.320 --> 0:58:59.120 I'm like, okay, but what did I do? I need 0:58:59.120 --> 0:59:01.080 to know what I'm taking account of because she doesn't 0:59:01.080 --> 0:59:03.880 want to take accountability for her erratic emotions, and that 0:59:03.960 --> 0:59:05.840 it drives me in saying to the point I don't 0:59:05.840 --> 0:59:07.480 even know why. I'm like, why am I still entertaining 0:59:07.520 --> 0:59:09.480 these conversations? But it's just I guess there's a part 0:59:09.520 --> 0:59:10.240 of it wants to get through. 0:59:11.280 --> 0:59:14.000 She wants you to say that you made her feel this. 0:59:13.960 --> 0:59:17.280 Way, yeah, exactly, And I'm like there's a general if 0:59:17.280 --> 0:59:20.120 I ask the people around you, I'm going to get 0:59:20.280 --> 0:59:22.880 something along the lines more like with what I've dealt. 0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:24.120 With, everyone knows you're crazy. 0:59:25.400 --> 0:59:26.040 We all know it. 0:59:27.920 --> 0:59:36.240 I don't even know it's crazy. It's true. Take responsibility 0:59:36.280 --> 0:59:37.000 for your ship, you. 0:59:36.960 --> 0:59:39.480 Know, when you're the common denominator. Like some Thmese people 0:59:39.520 --> 0:59:42.200 just don't want to take responsibility for that. Like everyone 0:59:42.240 --> 0:59:44.320 has to go through that. There's been times where I've 0:59:44.320 --> 0:59:46.480 had to realize that I'm the common denominator in a 0:59:46.520 --> 0:59:47.320 situation right. 0:59:47.360 --> 0:59:50.280 Right right, I'm a same that's happened to me because 0:59:50.280 --> 0:59:53.439 I'm like I've literally said to somebody before, I'm like, okay, 0:59:53.480 --> 0:59:56.280 tell about like I've said this about you, and like 0:59:56.560 --> 0:59:58.960 so you're telling me all these people are lying and 0:59:58.960 --> 0:59:59.760 tripping right. 1:00:00.360 --> 1:00:04.480 Everyone everybody, But it was that situation, it was different, 1:00:05.400 --> 1:00:06.000 and I'm just. 1:00:05.920 --> 1:00:08.840 Like, oh gosh, man. And I mean because when you 1:00:08.880 --> 1:00:10.600 even deal with that, like with a family member or 1:00:10.600 --> 1:00:12.960 something like that, you're just like wow, like you know, 1:00:13.440 --> 1:00:14.640 we're stuck here. 1:00:15.480 --> 1:00:16.000 It's crazy. 1:00:16.080 --> 1:00:19.480 Yeah, it is much which took me forever. I actually 1:00:19.560 --> 1:00:23.760 understand what that gaslighting because I felt like there was 1:00:23.800 --> 1:00:26.120 a time where I was reading it so much on 1:00:26.160 --> 1:00:29.000 social media where I said like, okay, okay, like one 1:00:29.000 --> 1:00:31.120 of my I'll tell you big pet people in mind, 1:00:31.520 --> 1:00:34.160 there's so many women out there that says that their 1:00:34.360 --> 1:00:36.600 X is a narcissist, and you're going to say that 1:00:37.080 --> 1:00:41.960 what all everybody? All these men, yeah, all these men 1:00:42.160 --> 1:00:46.280 are No, he could be an asshole and a piece 1:00:46.320 --> 1:00:49.880 of ship. I give you that, miss misdiagnosed, yes, And 1:00:49.920 --> 1:00:52.919 I'm just like, let's not loosely throw these turns because 1:00:52.920 --> 1:00:55.880 I met diagnosed people that are and I'm like, wow, 1:00:56.400 --> 1:00:57.919 you know, and I get there's levels to it. Maybe 1:00:57.920 --> 1:00:59.800 you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever, but I'm like, 1:01:00.360 --> 1:01:09.400 we all can't you know, really, just like we got 1:01:09.600 --> 1:01:13.080 five to all seven of the niggas listening to this. 1:01:13.160 --> 1:01:16.480 We gotta find a diagnosis for all the women, Like. 1:01:16.520 --> 1:01:20.160 From nineteen eighty seven to ninety five, all all the 1:01:20.200 --> 1:01:21.400 males born were not. 1:01:22.880 --> 1:01:24.640 There are something, Yeah, there's something. 1:01:24.440 --> 1:01:27.640 That actually yea eighties. 1:01:27.240 --> 1:01:31.320 And eighties and nineties, We'll see what happens with the 1:01:31.360 --> 1:01:32.200 two thousand babies. 1:01:33.240 --> 1:01:38.120 Male narcissis specifically black maybe not, you know, I don't know, 1:01:38.200 --> 1:01:39.479 but the whites there, you know. 1:01:39.480 --> 1:01:41.640 I don't know, you might have to be narcissist, right, 1:01:41.840 --> 1:01:45.120 white men's I mean, entitlement has to be like you know, 1:01:45.360 --> 1:01:47.040 there has to be a marriage with it, right. 1:01:47.320 --> 1:01:53.640 Yeah, Jesus, they taught us, they've taught us. 1:01:55.560 --> 1:01:57.120 No, I don't know, but we're gonna. I'm gonna find 1:01:57.120 --> 1:01:58.400 something for for women. 1:01:58.920 --> 1:02:00.919 There's a female narcisses this, but we don't get called 1:02:00.960 --> 1:02:01.320 that a lot. 1:02:01.480 --> 1:02:02.760 No, I know, but I'm gonna try to. 1:02:03.040 --> 1:02:05.160 Just get called crazy. You know, psycho. 1:02:04.960 --> 1:02:07.680 Orderline, personality disorder words. 1:02:07.800 --> 1:02:09.400 I don't think you usually say that. 1:02:09.600 --> 1:02:12.160 Brandon Marshall has that. You got no burning Marshall football player. 1:02:12.560 --> 1:02:14.439 Well, I know the thing I'm just saying, like, oh yeah, 1:02:14.560 --> 1:02:19.200 narcissism kind of blows off the orderline personalities too much? 1:02:19.440 --> 1:02:21.360 Are your doctor, my nigga? What was going on? Like, yeah, 1:02:21.400 --> 1:02:22.680 it's too much l. 1:02:23.160 --> 1:02:24.680 D BLD got. 1:02:26.120 --> 1:02:33.120 Sounds sexual that maybe she had that BLD. 1:02:33.640 --> 1:02:43.880 You don't do your sexualizing personality disorder. Look at us 1:02:43.680 --> 1:02:44.280 that what. 1:02:44.160 --> 1:02:47.040 We do, make it sexy, make it sexy, make everything 1:02:47.800 --> 1:02:48.680 personality disorder. 1:02:48.720 --> 1:02:50.400 But making sex, how do. 1:02:50.440 --> 1:02:51.760 You write narcisism sexy? 1:02:53.000 --> 1:02:54.439 Make narcissm sexy again? 1:02:54.520 --> 1:02:56.240 But she was so into himself. 1:02:57.760 --> 1:03:04.800 Just like, like, what is talking all day all night? 1:03:05.080 --> 1:03:07.160 Then he made me feel crazy. He was like, you 1:03:07.200 --> 1:03:09.959 didn't say that. I was like, yes, I did. 1:03:11.800 --> 1:03:13.200 I just said it. No, you did it. 1:03:15.200 --> 1:03:17.640 And then he bought me everything at the store and 1:03:17.680 --> 1:03:18.600 then he cursed me out and. 1:03:18.560 --> 1:03:19.320 Took it back. 1:03:21.640 --> 1:03:26.040 And then he ruined the trip because he had to 1:03:26.040 --> 1:03:28.560 make it about himself at some point, and my family 1:03:29.240 --> 1:03:30.800 had a conversation about it. 1:03:32.240 --> 1:03:35.480 But the point is he flew me out. 1:03:36.400 --> 1:03:40.720 It was free, but it was there's no price on 1:03:40.960 --> 1:03:42.040 free like that. 1:03:42.040 --> 1:03:43.760 Made me sleep in the hallway. But then he sucked 1:03:43.800 --> 1:03:45.400 me like crazy. Twenty four hours later. 1:03:45.720 --> 1:03:49.360 The policia did come, but like we did them and 1:03:49.400 --> 1:03:51.520 we were good. He sucked me on night. Girl. We 1:03:51.600 --> 1:03:53.360 got in a fight at the airport again, but he 1:03:53.440 --> 1:03:54.400 did fuck me all night. 1:03:54.800 --> 1:03:59.240 I had to buy my flight back actually, but damn, 1:03:59.320 --> 1:04:00.320 this is wow. 1:04:00.440 --> 1:04:02.600 And then he sent me back to the States. 1:04:03.080 --> 1:04:07.960 This happens. I'm sorry for a man gone through this shit. Jeez, 1:04:08.720 --> 1:04:10.400 we'll make it sexy, but. 1:04:10.440 --> 1:04:12.360 You got to really listen to the signs when somebody 1:04:12.400 --> 1:04:15.320 is crazy, you'd be knowing you know is crazy. 1:04:15.400 --> 1:04:18.600 The two second time, she sure, all right, niggas forgive 1:04:18.640 --> 1:04:19.840 the fat ass for a little bit. 1:04:20.640 --> 1:04:24.600 Some women will be that you do you get men? 1:04:24.720 --> 1:04:29.600 Do men get pussymatized sematized what like I. 1:04:29.560 --> 1:04:31.600 Know people call it pussy with but yeah that's what 1:04:31.760 --> 1:04:33.000 you in love or just. 1:04:33.120 --> 1:04:35.960 Want to fuck all the time. Like I feel like 1:04:36.000 --> 1:04:39.520 men can compartmentalize a little bit. Women both really will 1:04:39.520 --> 1:04:42.040 not even like ani and get fucked good. I mean 1:04:42.240 --> 1:04:44.560 love like this niggas not my type. 1:04:45.400 --> 1:04:49.840 You know what you could be right, I'm strict, she's 1:04:49.840 --> 1:04:52.000 not my type, but geez, I will be going back 1:04:52.000 --> 1:04:55.439 to her Thursday night. So like, yeah, we do compartmentalize. Yeah, 1:04:55.440 --> 1:04:58.520 that is true. But you know there is levels to it, 1:04:58.560 --> 1:05:02.200 because I mean there is you could be sexy attracted someone, 1:05:02.280 --> 1:05:03.800 but then there's like a whole other level with someone 1:05:03.840 --> 1:05:08.040 where you're just like like you feel like I in 1:05:08.080 --> 1:05:10.800 a sense, I don't know, does that is that? Is 1:05:10.800 --> 1:05:11.760 that not a thing with women? 1:05:11.880 --> 1:05:14.840 Like you need like you just need that, Like. 1:05:14.440 --> 1:05:18.120 Yeah, there's a difference, Like you could be sexuy, like 1:05:18.160 --> 1:05:19.760 you know, you would have sex with someone or you'd 1:05:19.800 --> 1:05:21.600 want to have sex with this person, like you know, 1:05:21.880 --> 1:05:23.200 like I would have sex, you know, but then there's 1:05:23.200 --> 1:05:26.600 a there's another level where his whereas it's like just 1:05:26.640 --> 1:05:28.600 like on your mind, like. 1:05:28.760 --> 1:05:31.439 For sure, like you know when you're in heat, women 1:05:31.440 --> 1:05:31.880 are in heat. 1:05:32.160 --> 1:05:38.280 Yeah, I have felt extreme ounce of heat where I'm like, 1:05:38.320 --> 1:05:41.200 this is crazy, this is crazy. 1:05:41.400 --> 1:05:42.080 Everybody told you. 1:05:42.120 --> 1:05:43.400 I was in the car and it's like a Nigga 1:05:43.440 --> 1:05:49.080 drive by and I was like, you can't stop the 1:05:49.080 --> 1:05:54.760 car with your mind right, It's like, Wow, something is 1:05:54.880 --> 1:05:55.360 really wrong. 1:05:56.000 --> 1:05:58.960 Man. Yeah, that's it's a strong thing. But I mean, 1:06:02.640 --> 1:06:06.360 I don't know have I I don't know what I mean. Look, 1:06:06.400 --> 1:06:08.080 there has been a time where you know, I was 1:06:08.120 --> 1:06:10.520 liking someone and that sex is really great, and I 1:06:10.600 --> 1:06:13.840 was like, oh shit, I think I'm parking it here 1:06:13.840 --> 1:06:14.360 for a while. 1:06:15.080 --> 1:06:16.000 Did you think you're in love? 1:06:16.800 --> 1:06:21.520 I was like, you know, no, but a long period 1:06:21.520 --> 1:06:22.080 of time. 1:06:21.920 --> 1:06:24.960 Though difference between men and women, because women. 1:06:24.760 --> 1:06:27.400 When we are in love, I have seen there's been 1:06:27.400 --> 1:06:30.720 places where I'm like, there where I envisioned the potential 1:06:30.760 --> 1:06:34.200 of it. I was like, because, like, but it could 1:06:34.280 --> 1:06:36.360 only be like, it could only be like the sex 1:06:36.400 --> 1:06:38.080 has to be good, the pussy has to be good 1:06:38.120 --> 1:06:41.080 attached to like and like she was like she's done 1:06:41.240 --> 1:06:44.120 as fun right, And then you're like, oh my god, 1:06:45.920 --> 1:06:50.000 this is yeah, we go like, you know so, but yeah, 1:06:50.120 --> 1:06:52.120 like that's funny as far as how women go through 1:06:52.120 --> 1:06:55.440 that yet not but also that has I think that 1:06:55.480 --> 1:07:01.280 speaks more on a level I just on average, when 1:07:01.320 --> 1:07:03.480 I hear women talk about men and their sex and 1:07:03.520 --> 1:07:06.640 their abilities, I just feel like they grasp onto the 1:07:06.680 --> 1:07:08.520 nigga that knows what the fuck they're doing, you know, 1:07:08.600 --> 1:07:14.400 when they're like, oh, like because with men like to have, 1:07:14.640 --> 1:07:17.479 I don't necessarily have bad sex. I don't, like not 1:07:17.480 --> 1:07:18.840 not for a long time. 1:07:18.880 --> 1:07:20.280 You're saying you've never had bad sex. 1:07:20.360 --> 1:07:22.480 I have. I'm just saying, like, now like where I 1:07:22.520 --> 1:07:24.320 feel like I'm way more aware of my body. 1:07:24.360 --> 1:07:25.920 I'm more in tune with Do you think you make 1:07:26.120 --> 1:07:28.160 sex good? You can make any sex good? 1:07:28.400 --> 1:07:39.840 Yeah, I think something thirty two follow up, She gave 1:07:39.880 --> 1:07:50.560 me a nod. Yeah. I just wanted to know, I 1:07:50.600 --> 1:07:52.080 felt because when I be talking about when. 1:07:51.920 --> 1:07:55.440 I was younger, when I was younger and now I 1:07:55.480 --> 1:07:57.080 know my body, I just wanted to know, from my 1:07:57.160 --> 1:07:59.120 experience in man years, what that looks. 1:07:59.160 --> 1:08:03.280 I just wanted to know. I'm sorry, I smoked like 1:08:03.320 --> 1:08:05.200 twelve days guys, and this is the first time. This 1:08:05.280 --> 1:08:07.000 is a fresh clean hand. 1:08:07.240 --> 1:08:15.200 Right rights if I mean I don't know you? So okay, 1:08:15.280 --> 1:08:17.679 like like my boy, you know I have a mutual 1:08:17.720 --> 1:08:20.360 friend right that you've had. You know I'm talking all right, 1:08:20.600 --> 1:08:22.719 he's older than me, don't you feel? 1:08:25.160 --> 1:08:27.720 What did you say? We have a mutual friends. 1:08:27.720 --> 1:08:29.559 So he's older than me one of his friends. 1:08:29.600 --> 1:08:31.000 I know, but I was just trying to see how. 1:08:30.880 --> 1:08:32.120 He was a long time ago. 1:08:32.240 --> 1:08:34.559 I know, but I just thought uncomfortable already. Just tell 1:08:34.600 --> 1:08:35.320 me I fucked your. 1:08:35.200 --> 1:08:38.640 Friend on No, we know this, we didn't know. 1:08:38.680 --> 1:08:43.840 This is his podcast, this mini partner. 1:08:44.040 --> 1:08:50.920 Sorry, yeah, talk to. 1:08:50.920 --> 1:08:53.519 Me my podcast. You know my friend that. 1:08:53.479 --> 1:08:55.960 We know that we have. I will cut you. 1:08:56.439 --> 1:08:58.200 What then is wrong with you? Don't ever come from 1:08:58.200 --> 1:08:58.800 my friend this way? 1:08:58.840 --> 1:09:01.719 Yes, like you know I have a question that goes 1:09:01.920 --> 1:09:02.559 on topic. 1:09:02.760 --> 1:09:06.200 Okay, okay? 1:09:06.280 --> 1:09:08.840 And like he's older, do you I mean compared to 1:09:08.920 --> 1:09:10.800 like maybe the younger he's older than me. I'm saying 1:09:10.800 --> 1:09:12.800 I'm thirty two. I feel he's in thirty, I don't know, 1:09:13.040 --> 1:09:16.360 mid upper mid thirties something like that. You you don't 1:09:16.400 --> 1:09:18.200 find like as far as just in general, like men 1:09:18.240 --> 1:09:23.080 that are I don't know, in the thirties compared to 1:09:23.160 --> 1:09:25.360 someone that's a little younger than you have you on 1:09:25.439 --> 1:09:27.200 average feel like there is a difference. 1:09:28.200 --> 1:09:30.320 Ye, for sure, the older you are, I mean hopefully 1:09:30.360 --> 1:09:32.439 like you're a little bit more in tune with your body. 1:09:32.520 --> 1:09:34.160 I'm more in tune with my body at thirty, Like 1:09:34.240 --> 1:09:37.160 I'm not going to fucking probably don't quote me here, 1:09:37.439 --> 1:09:39.400 fuck like a twenty five year old and expects you 1:09:39.439 --> 1:09:41.479 know what I mean, like but my might. 1:09:41.920 --> 1:09:44.599 But also like I do expect, even thirty two. 1:09:44.439 --> 1:09:46.559 To me can be young, Like I think a lot 1:09:46.560 --> 1:09:49.120 of times men who thirty two are fucking still immature 1:09:49.120 --> 1:09:51.479 as shit, Like I call it man years, like fucking 1:09:51.479 --> 1:09:54.160 seventeen and man years. You know, we're women. We are 1:09:54.200 --> 1:09:57.519 just more intune periods. Actually, you know we're more mature. 1:09:57.600 --> 1:10:01.000 Not all the time, but yeah, So when you ask 1:10:01.080 --> 1:10:03.360 me if your friend has like mature sex or like, well, 1:10:03.800 --> 1:10:04.360 I guess. 1:10:04.120 --> 1:10:06.040 I grouped them into that question as far as like 1:10:06.080 --> 1:10:08.000 do you feel do you find that men that are 1:10:08.240 --> 1:10:10.360 in you know, thirties or whatever? 1:10:10.680 --> 1:10:13.240 I would say generally, but honestly not always like it 1:10:13.240 --> 1:10:15.280 was a biased question just because like that nigga that 1:10:15.280 --> 1:10:17.759 wouldn't come and couldn't stop counting songs was like forty 1:10:17.760 --> 1:10:20.240 fucking four and like, you know, like I have really 1:10:20.280 --> 1:10:22.320 bombed sex with a nigga that's like thirty three. But like, 1:10:22.479 --> 1:10:26.920 and it just it depends how much you've prioritized being 1:10:26.920 --> 1:10:28.320 in touch with your sexuality. 1:10:28.640 --> 1:10:31.479 That's also true. Yeah right, yeah, yeah, I guess I 1:10:32.080 --> 1:10:35.519 guess they're not prioritized being in touch with their sexual No, 1:10:35.640 --> 1:10:36.360 that's straight, man. 1:10:36.840 --> 1:10:39.280 They literally think they could like to show up and 1:10:39.360 --> 1:10:42.680 like pump and I would. That's fucking old nigga. I 1:10:42.720 --> 1:10:45.120 was appalled that this was all he had. I'm like, 1:10:45.120 --> 1:10:47.280 you don't think about this, you haven't done anything freaky. 1:10:47.280 --> 1:10:49.479 What's your fantasy, what's your poorn categories? What the fuck 1:10:49.479 --> 1:10:51.840 are you doing over there? There's forty four years of fucking. 1:10:51.840 --> 1:10:54.160 Very selfish like yeah, you just think I. 1:10:54.160 --> 1:10:55.880 Don't know, Like, yeah, I get into it. 1:10:55.920 --> 1:10:58.320 But like we said, some people are just not sexual 1:10:58.360 --> 1:11:01.840 beings and that's just and that's cool. You know, you're 1:11:01.880 --> 1:11:05.200 in the with the asexuals or the little bit sexuals or. 1:11:05.120 --> 1:11:08.240 Whatever, a little bit sexuals, you have it. 1:11:08.360 --> 1:11:13.440 You have shot with a little bit sxuals, a little bitnixuals, medium. 1:11:13.040 --> 1:11:14.600 Sexuals and. 1:11:16.320 --> 1:11:22.720 Performing it's high performing. And then there's nymphos. I'm a 1:11:22.800 --> 1:11:23.880 high performance nypho. 1:11:24.400 --> 1:11:27.439 Right, I'm in I'm in the between that right. 1:11:27.520 --> 1:11:28.160 What's turbo? 1:11:30.040 --> 1:11:31.160 I do hit turbo? Yeah? 1:11:31.200 --> 1:11:34.000 Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna I'm a turbo sexual. 1:11:36.240 --> 1:11:38.800 Right seasons you have to be you have to. 1:11:38.720 --> 1:11:41.280 Be realistic about we get a relationship with because just 1:11:41.280 --> 1:11:42.400 because the bitch is fine. 1:11:42.240 --> 1:11:44.639 She might want not Like there's all these things that matter. 1:11:44.880 --> 1:11:47.200 They could have a good job and be like down 1:11:47.240 --> 1:11:48.840 the earth, But if they're not fucking you and you're 1:11:48.880 --> 1:11:50.519 not satisfied, you're gonna get fucking bored. 1:11:51.000 --> 1:11:53.720 Yeah you gotta if you're a sexual person like us, 1:11:53.720 --> 1:11:58.200 and yeah, that definitely that you so because you said 1:11:58.680 --> 1:12:01.120 obviously all the love languages matter, right, I feel like 1:12:01.160 --> 1:12:02.680 that's the thing with people. What you love is like 1:12:02.720 --> 1:12:04.559 all of them. But I think we lean in a 1:12:04.560 --> 1:12:06.479 little bit more like if I put it, you know, 1:12:06.520 --> 1:12:08.360 wait to it. There's some that are heavier than others. 1:12:08.560 --> 1:12:11.200 And I know, like for me, like touch, acts of service. 1:12:12.120 --> 1:12:14.679 Aren't you that come to mind that how I receive, 1:12:15.439 --> 1:12:18.960 how I give is touch. And then I think, as 1:12:18.960 --> 1:12:20.680 of recent years, which I never thought it'd be, I 1:12:20.680 --> 1:12:26.080 find like gifts being away, how I express love as well, 1:12:26.400 --> 1:12:29.200 and I mean not not necessarily like or no, I 1:12:29.200 --> 1:12:31.400 guess action service and gifts could kind of like overlap. 1:12:31.439 --> 1:12:34.639 It depends what you're different, right when it's tangible ones 1:12:34.680 --> 1:12:35.559 like I'm doing one thing. 1:12:35.960 --> 1:12:38.000 Yeah, well okay, so here's my thing. Though, Let's just 1:12:38.040 --> 1:12:42.000 say I help you with financial need because I just 1:12:42.040 --> 1:12:43.680 care for you, and I don't want you to struss rich. 1:12:43.720 --> 1:12:44.400 Now that's why it's. 1:12:45.960 --> 1:12:50.200 I don't I don't want this to make it seem 1:12:50.280 --> 1:12:52.160 like I'm out here, I'm not check daddy, none of that. 1:12:53.040 --> 1:12:55.360 This is obviously something I'm talking about, like I'm you 1:12:55.360 --> 1:12:57.200 know what I'm saying, But like, so, what would you 1:12:57.200 --> 1:12:59.160 category that's act of service? Like let's just say if 1:12:59.200 --> 1:12:59.559 you're like. 1:12:59.600 --> 1:13:01.800 I think it, it depends what it's the money's for. 1:13:02.200 --> 1:13:04.599 If let's just say your car got wrecked or like something, 1:13:04.640 --> 1:13:05.599 that act of service. 1:13:05.760 --> 1:13:10.120 If you're buying me something me you're. 1:13:10.000 --> 1:13:14.840 Supporting, those are my Those are my love languages too, 1:13:14.880 --> 1:13:18.719 for sure, acts of service and physical touch. But recently 1:13:18.800 --> 1:13:21.080 I've realized I kind of like had this at the 1:13:21.080 --> 1:13:24.600 bottom of my list and now it's number three is 1:13:24.760 --> 1:13:25.639 words of affirmation. 1:13:26.720 --> 1:13:30.040 It hasn't always been that way. I would actually get annoyed. 1:13:30.080 --> 1:13:34.800 I'd be like, but if they know, actually, I guess 1:13:34.840 --> 1:13:38.360 because sometimes like I've had it before where it did 1:13:38.360 --> 1:13:39.960 annoy me too, and I've had it before where it 1:13:39.960 --> 1:13:41.880 actually feeled me. And I think it's how she was 1:13:41.920 --> 1:13:45.240 doing it, how authentic it felt, and it wasn't just 1:13:45.320 --> 1:13:47.480 like an auto pilot. 1:13:47.160 --> 1:13:48.599 Response for me. 1:13:48.760 --> 1:13:50.479 I think it became when I when I got more 1:13:50.520 --> 1:13:55.439 confident in my like self worth and I'm smart, because 1:13:55.439 --> 1:13:57.439 I've always you're. 1:13:57.320 --> 1:13:59.840 So pretty, and I'm like, I don't want. 1:13:59.760 --> 1:14:02.400 To feel I feel you, like, and so when yeah, 1:14:02.439 --> 1:14:04.960 it would actually irritate me, I feel you. But now 1:14:05.040 --> 1:14:08.960 I feel like I've let that that that go, or 1:14:09.000 --> 1:14:13.400 that fear of like that's all, that's all I am go. 1:14:13.680 --> 1:14:15.920 And now I really enjoy it, especially if it's from 1:14:15.920 --> 1:14:18.960 someone I care about. I'm like, yeah, I was like 1:14:18.960 --> 1:14:20.640 like this, I'm seeing this guy right now and he 1:14:20.680 --> 1:14:23.200 does it. He's very much awards of affirmation lover, and. 1:14:23.160 --> 1:14:27.439 I'm like, it feels nice. I like that. Oh well, I. 1:14:27.400 --> 1:14:30.680 Love that this feels different, right, I receive that? Yeah, right, 1:14:30.800 --> 1:14:35.479 right to actually receive it yourself. Yeah, Sometimes maybe I 1:14:35.520 --> 1:14:37.920 never even thought of it, And they say something and and 1:14:37.920 --> 1:14:40.479 and just like you like for me, especially if they're 1:14:40.520 --> 1:14:42.719 talking about anything else to do with my MoMA intellect 1:14:42.720 --> 1:14:43.280 and my spirit. 1:14:44.439 --> 1:14:47.519 I really love that. I do really love that. Or 1:14:47.600 --> 1:14:50.439 now being a father, I love that's one of the 1:14:50.479 --> 1:14:52.760 best compliments you could get. People are actually not like 1:14:52.800 --> 1:14:54.240 to saying like, oh, you seem like such a good 1:14:54.240 --> 1:14:55.760 mom or such a good dad, Like I get the 1:14:55.800 --> 1:14:57.760 surface of them. When people have actually observed and say 1:14:57.760 --> 1:15:00.920 something really like a detailed the and I'm just like wow, 1:15:01.200 --> 1:15:03.880 like and it was lower for me too. I mean 1:15:03.920 --> 1:15:05.840 I don't know it like they they switch around depending 1:15:05.840 --> 1:15:09.200 on the season, right, But like before I used to 1:15:09.280 --> 1:15:11.360 it wasn't really something I felt like affected me like that. 1:15:11.479 --> 1:15:14.479 But now I feel how positive I feel and how 1:15:14.479 --> 1:15:16.560 my day goes after that, and there was actually a 1:15:16.600 --> 1:15:19.439 really good positive fay be more positive. People say nice things. 1:15:19.680 --> 1:15:20.960 You have to say nice things. 1:15:21.280 --> 1:15:23.400 Yeah, it makes me feel good to say nice things 1:15:23.400 --> 1:15:23.799 to people. 1:15:24.320 --> 1:15:29.040 Speaking of people, we asked the people to write in 1:15:29.160 --> 1:15:34.200 questions they have for a father, a man who has children. 1:15:35.479 --> 1:15:35.719 Yeah. 1:15:35.720 --> 1:15:37.800 This month we are trying to explore the male mind 1:15:37.880 --> 1:15:41.040 and understanding your way you think. And so the tribe 1:15:41.040 --> 1:15:46.920 has written in one of the questions is how big 1:15:46.960 --> 1:15:50.080 of a role model do their parents play in their lives. 1:15:51.240 --> 1:15:57.439 Oh, my dad is somebody. I mean we all, obviously, 1:15:57.720 --> 1:16:03.920 you know, have our shortcomings and stuff. But he the 1:16:04.000 --> 1:16:08.760 way he loves being a father made me want to 1:16:08.760 --> 1:16:11.400 be a father. Such a young man, I was young, 1:16:12.640 --> 1:16:13.920 really really young. 1:16:16.080 --> 1:16:18.280 Wow, years older to daddy. 1:16:18.280 --> 1:16:21.080 Did you have a little baby, you know, or like 1:16:21.120 --> 1:16:23.680 when I would see even like actual babies from like 1:16:23.840 --> 1:16:26.400 I just remember gravitating towards baby and be like, my 1:16:26.439 --> 1:16:28.080 son's gonna be this, my daughter's gonna be this, like 1:16:28.080 --> 1:16:30.400 whatever I would like just be excited, just because if 1:16:30.439 --> 1:16:32.479 you ask anybody that's really close to my dad or 1:16:32.520 --> 1:16:35.760 people that worked with him, and you ask, what's what 1:16:35.840 --> 1:16:37.840 is he most proud of his life? And not in 1:16:37.880 --> 1:16:39.679 a sad way. It's not a sad way because he's 1:16:39.720 --> 1:16:41.960 accomplished enough in his life, like you know, he has 1:16:42.160 --> 1:16:45.840 he has a good life. Him being a father to 1:16:45.920 --> 1:16:49.880 his three sons is is he was a type of 1:16:49.960 --> 1:16:52.120 dad like where he worked so much, like you know 1:16:52.200 --> 1:16:54.240 where so he could kind of control schedule on the 1:16:54.320 --> 1:16:57.519 days He's like, all right, I'm off Monday. My son 1:16:57.560 --> 1:17:00.200 has a game, you know, I'm picking on my something 1:17:00.200 --> 1:17:03.719 from practice, whatever it was. He was just so present 1:17:03.880 --> 1:17:07.559 and so there and so enthusiastic about being a father 1:17:07.960 --> 1:17:11.040 because he didn't have that from my grandfather. Resting peace. 1:17:11.040 --> 1:17:14.479 William P. Passed away last October, and I get with 1:17:14.600 --> 1:17:16.599 my grandfather the generation he came from, and he've been 1:17:16.600 --> 1:17:19.240 a war, seen a lot of things, so he couldn't 1:17:19.280 --> 1:17:24.240 fully be but my dad and my uncle and my 1:17:24.280 --> 1:17:27.519 aunts needed, you know, and my grandmother. You know. So 1:17:29.000 --> 1:17:33.160 my dad, he I remember he vigically talking about this 1:17:33.439 --> 1:17:36.040 like sometimes should make me emotional kind of talking about this, 1:17:36.160 --> 1:17:42.200 like he he talked about, Wow, this is was unexpected. 1:17:42.200 --> 1:17:51.600 What the fuck? Wow? Okay, yeah, damn. My dad he 1:17:51.640 --> 1:17:59.479 said he saw his friend with his dad. What he said, 1:17:59.520 --> 1:18:01.760 he saw his friend with his dad one time he 1:18:01.920 --> 1:18:05.760 was like five or six, and his friend was on 1:18:05.800 --> 1:18:08.400 his dad's lap and they were like laughing. He went 1:18:08.400 --> 1:18:09.600 to go see if he could played like during the 1:18:09.600 --> 1:18:11.120 screen door, and then his friend was on his dad's 1:18:11.200 --> 1:18:13.559 lap and they were like just like laughing and his 1:18:13.640 --> 1:18:15.280 dad was just with him. I love it. And my 1:18:15.400 --> 1:18:19.479 dad was like oh wow, like he hitting me, like damn, 1:18:19.479 --> 1:18:22.639 I don't have that. And he was like make him sad, 1:18:23.040 --> 1:18:25.679 and he always felt like they felt like they were 1:18:26.439 --> 1:18:29.920 bothering him. And I give grace to my grandfather, you know, 1:18:30.040 --> 1:18:34.320 I really do, but I also know it's tough for 1:18:34.479 --> 1:18:38.240 how my aunts and my uncle and my dad were 1:18:38.240 --> 1:18:43.000 in that environment, my grandmother, and so for him to 1:18:45.240 --> 1:18:46.840 really he made it us point And it's like my 1:18:46.920 --> 1:18:48.439 dad caught everything out. He knew he was gonna have 1:18:48.479 --> 1:18:52.080 three sons. He damn there guests our birthdays like two 1:18:52.160 --> 1:18:57.479 or the three, and like he just was like that, 1:18:57.640 --> 1:18:59.360 I'm not gonna be like that with my sons. Right, 1:18:59.600 --> 1:19:02.080 not to say, you know, obviously we all have our things, 1:19:02.120 --> 1:19:05.559 you know, but for what he did from that situation 1:19:05.680 --> 1:19:07.680 environment is why like, when I look at life, I'm 1:19:07.720 --> 1:19:14.679 like it, I get people. I get people, y'all healed 1:19:14.720 --> 1:19:19.120 differently or some of us don't. But when I see 1:19:19.160 --> 1:19:21.800 things like that, I'm just like, it's very possible to 1:19:22.880 --> 1:19:24.000 really change the course of. 1:19:23.920 --> 1:19:26.640 Your mind, right, the generational I love hearing that too, 1:19:26.760 --> 1:19:29.599 and I think too, like you love your dad so much. 1:19:30.120 --> 1:19:32.080 The reason you're getting emotional, I mean, I would assume 1:19:32.160 --> 1:19:35.479 is because, like you, you want that for your parents, 1:19:35.479 --> 1:19:38.360 because of the laments love they give you. You're like, damn 1:19:38.560 --> 1:19:42.120 that you have the capacity to be able to share 1:19:42.120 --> 1:19:43.439 this with me even though you didn't get it. 1:19:43.560 --> 1:19:47.639 Yeah, for sure exactly. And and I love how because 1:19:47.680 --> 1:19:49.360 I know my brothers once they become fathers, I know 1:19:49.400 --> 1:19:51.600 they're going to be amazing fathers. They're amazing uncles. Like 1:19:52.320 --> 1:19:56.000 they're very loving brother We're very close, like like us 1:19:56.000 --> 1:19:57.720 for my father and my brothers. I mean, we're very close. 1:19:57.720 --> 1:20:01.040 And my brothers are like my best friends. And I 1:20:01.120 --> 1:20:03.200 know when it's their time to have a child, like, 1:20:03.240 --> 1:20:05.320 they're going to be amazing. And then just the men 1:20:05.360 --> 1:20:06.960 around me in general, all the men in my life 1:20:06.960 --> 1:20:10.400 who are fathers, I mean, they're all amazing fathers, all 1:20:10.439 --> 1:20:15.839 these amazing black men. It just gives me because growing 1:20:15.960 --> 1:20:18.679 up that wasn't necessarily what we always saw. So I'm 1:20:18.720 --> 1:20:22.920 just how I love how a lot of obviously, you know, 1:20:22.920 --> 1:20:24.400 we still got to do better, but I love how 1:20:24.439 --> 1:20:28.760 a lot of these men have taken their situation and 1:20:28.840 --> 1:20:30.720 just kind of basically just do what my dad did. 1:20:31.520 --> 1:20:34.080 And it's a beautiful thing to see. I just you know, 1:20:34.200 --> 1:20:35.680 I just want to keep seeing more of that. And 1:20:35.760 --> 1:20:37.920 I can't wait till my brothers have kids, like you know, 1:20:38.120 --> 1:20:40.599 my and then my dad Obviously he loves being a grandfather. 1:20:40.920 --> 1:20:42.280 If I said him a pot run, it's going to 1:20:42.320 --> 1:20:44.400 make his day. My daughter is he just loves seeing 1:20:44.439 --> 1:20:46.519 his little princess and stuff as just how it is 1:20:46.600 --> 1:20:52.200 and it's yeah, so my dad is a definitely as 1:20:52.240 --> 1:20:54.760 far as the fatherhood, definitely been a big role model 1:20:54.800 --> 1:20:59.080 in my life and particularly like fatherhood. 1:20:59.680 --> 1:21:03.439 Answer, that's great, No, that's I feel like that's I 1:21:03.439 --> 1:21:05.840 don't want to say it's rare because like that's not fair, 1:21:06.000 --> 1:21:11.280 but it is. And like I think that you being 1:21:11.360 --> 1:21:15.639 able to also like acknowledge that and really be receptive 1:21:15.640 --> 1:21:18.080 and understand the gift you have. That is a fucking 1:21:18.120 --> 1:21:20.679 gift that you're that you get to receive. 1:21:20.760 --> 1:21:23.800 I'm very grateful that to have the awareness for that, 1:21:23.880 --> 1:21:25.840 to receive that and to take that in for sure 1:21:26.000 --> 1:21:26.400 for sure. 1:21:28.040 --> 1:21:32.240 Okay, So next question, how would you feel about being 1:21:32.240 --> 1:21:35.080 a step parent and what are the qualities of a 1:21:35.080 --> 1:21:35.840 good step parent? 1:21:36.920 --> 1:21:40.720 Oh? Yeah, I think obviously it's all starts with the 1:21:40.760 --> 1:21:42.720 connection of the person who connected with just happens to 1:21:42.720 --> 1:21:47.040 be an then yeah, also I don't know in particular, 1:21:47.120 --> 1:21:49.920 like is there is there their father absence as a 1:21:50.000 --> 1:21:51.639 father there. It actually doesn't matter. 1:21:52.360 --> 1:21:53.599 It's not very it's. 1:21:53.400 --> 1:21:59.719 Not very well. No, well, actually that it doesn't matter 1:22:00.720 --> 1:22:04.120 because I think to be a step father, if you're 1:22:04.120 --> 1:22:06.800 going to be living in the same house with your 1:22:06.840 --> 1:22:12.360 partner's child, I think one, I guess I'll give two 1:22:12.360 --> 1:22:17.080 different answers if the father is not there. I do 1:22:17.439 --> 1:22:20.680 believe that once you have chosen this partner, it is 1:22:20.720 --> 1:22:26.080 your responsibility to step in and care for this child. 1:22:26.640 --> 1:22:29.000 It's so important that there's a father figure in the 1:22:29.040 --> 1:22:33.519 household or around. You know, it's not necessarily like when 1:22:33.560 --> 1:22:34.920 I say it doesn't have to necessarily because you know, 1:22:35.200 --> 1:22:37.840 I'm co parenting, so she splits houses. But as long 1:22:37.840 --> 1:22:39.920 as that father figure is around and present, I think 1:22:39.960 --> 1:22:43.000 it's so important. I mean, if you look up all 1:22:43.000 --> 1:22:46.240 the numbers that all the incarceration, or you talk about 1:22:46.400 --> 1:22:49.280 abuse all that, like how many of them hate the 1:22:49.320 --> 1:22:51.080 files or a peace by the files, or don't have 1:22:51.120 --> 1:22:56.479 a father. It's theres are outrageous. So I do believe 1:22:56.800 --> 1:22:59.120 if you're this person you love and your step into 1:22:59.120 --> 1:23:01.320 your life and this is gonna there's gonna be your 1:23:01.320 --> 1:23:03.559 life partner, you're taking a responsibility to care for her child. 1:23:03.560 --> 1:23:05.479 That's an extension of her, you know what I mean. 1:23:05.840 --> 1:23:08.800 So not only like you know, earlier I talked about 1:23:08.840 --> 1:23:12.400 women feeling safe and secure. That child has to be 1:23:12.439 --> 1:23:14.240 a part of that, you know what I mean. So 1:23:14.320 --> 1:23:17.760 I think you definitely have to step in and try 1:23:17.760 --> 1:23:21.519 to be as positive and loving as possible. And even 1:23:21.520 --> 1:23:24.880 if the father is present, hopefully that father is mature 1:23:24.960 --> 1:23:26.719 enough and you guys are good. 1:23:27.200 --> 1:23:29.320 I was gonna say, what if she got to like, like, 1:23:29.360 --> 1:23:32.720 I don't know what your child's mother's dating life is like, 1:23:33.160 --> 1:23:36.080 but if she had a boyfriend or she was getting married, 1:23:36.280 --> 1:23:39.720 like like and yeah, like is there is there a 1:23:39.800 --> 1:23:41.439 level of like have you navigated that yet? 1:23:41.479 --> 1:23:42.719 Like do you have rules? 1:23:42.720 --> 1:23:44.800 Because I feel like sometimes at least I don't know, 1:23:44.840 --> 1:23:47.040 Like you guys seem like you guys get have gotten 1:23:47.080 --> 1:23:50.600 along for like pretty much the entire time of your relationship. 1:23:51.200 --> 1:23:53.000 But I know for me, like I remember when I 1:23:53.080 --> 1:23:55.360 first became single. Now I laugh at it because it's 1:23:55.439 --> 1:23:57.200 just I mean, I would never do this now, but 1:23:57.240 --> 1:23:58.400 I was like, I need. 1:23:58.280 --> 1:24:01.599 To meet the girl, like right I do. 1:24:01.720 --> 1:24:05.160 It's not about like necessarily meeting the girl, like knowing her, 1:24:05.479 --> 1:24:08.800 like knowing her character, and like you at least acknowledging 1:24:08.880 --> 1:24:12.640 the thing, whereas like I think I definitely need to 1:24:12.680 --> 1:24:13.840 know who this person is who is going to be 1:24:13.840 --> 1:24:16.360 around my child. But it was like I wanted an introduction, 1:24:16.520 --> 1:24:19.720 like yeah. 1:24:19.520 --> 1:24:22.800 I get you, Like we don't need like this official meeting, like. 1:24:23.439 --> 1:24:28.000 It could just be a thing. Yeah, you know, Like 1:24:28.040 --> 1:24:32.120 to me, it's funny like trying to lightweight talk about it. 1:24:32.800 --> 1:24:34.680 She's just like I will talk when we get there, 1:24:34.680 --> 1:24:37.519 Like she's not like we haven't necessarily talked about it 1:24:37.520 --> 1:24:42.960 too much. But for me, I think I trust her 1:24:43.080 --> 1:24:47.000 enough to not giving something bad ass dude, and so 1:24:47.120 --> 1:24:50.679 I want to say I trust her judgment. But yeah, 1:24:50.680 --> 1:24:52.519 it would be nice just to you know, it's gonna 1:24:52.520 --> 1:24:53.800 be one day. If you guys are getting serous, I'm 1:24:53.800 --> 1:24:55.599 gonna pick up my daughter, let me meet the guy. 1:24:56.479 --> 1:24:58.439 Doesn't have to be the official set up, like you know, 1:24:58.520 --> 1:25:01.559 hey at two o'clock, make sure that niggas are like, nah, 1:25:01.600 --> 1:25:04.160 I don't have to, but like you know, I'm a 1:25:04.800 --> 1:25:06.280 you know, I'm talking to talk to dude. Just want 1:25:06.320 --> 1:25:08.120 to gauge to dud just at least, you know, you know, 1:25:08.120 --> 1:25:09.759 see who's around my child and stuff. 1:25:11.320 --> 1:25:13.639 How soon is too soon to introduce your child. 1:25:13.920 --> 1:25:16.320 Like on your maybe on your hand right, Like do 1:25:16.360 --> 1:25:18.000 you have you ever introduced your child to anybody that 1:25:18.000 --> 1:25:18.439 you're dating? 1:25:19.479 --> 1:25:23.960 Uh? Yeah, yeah I did. But I think, to me, 1:25:24.080 --> 1:25:28.680 it's about I don't know if there's a time, it's 1:25:28.680 --> 1:25:30.360 it's all about what you feel, like do you feel 1:25:30.360 --> 1:25:32.400 this is about to be serious? You know? And then 1:25:32.439 --> 1:25:34.720 I don't think I don't feel off the bat though 1:25:35.600 --> 1:25:39.280 it needs to be serious, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1:25:39.280 --> 1:25:40.880 it has to be headed that direction. I have to 1:25:40.880 --> 1:25:43.679 see potential in that for me, you know what I mean, 1:25:45.120 --> 1:25:46.880 that's just what I would prefer. I don't want to, 1:25:47.479 --> 1:25:51.880 you know, you know, being a girl dad, Like, I 1:25:51.880 --> 1:25:57.000 don't want my daughter necessarily just to meet just anybody 1:25:57.040 --> 1:26:00.519 and see me have this girl and this girl. I 1:26:00.520 --> 1:26:02.000 don't know how she's gonna internalize that. 1:26:02.360 --> 1:26:04.600 Does she knows you have female friends? Like if you 1:26:04.600 --> 1:26:05.599 have you have female friends? 1:26:05.960 --> 1:26:06.400 Yeah? I have. 1:26:08.040 --> 1:26:10.240 Just I asked that because I feel like a lot 1:26:10.280 --> 1:26:12.559 of times I feel like sometimes we overthink it because 1:26:12.560 --> 1:26:15.040 I'm like, yeah, for sure we have. Hopefully you're building 1:26:15.080 --> 1:26:17.960 a friendship with someone that you would not only see 1:26:18.000 --> 1:26:19.479 as a serious partner, but like. 1:26:19.840 --> 1:26:22.920 That is your friend, you know, right of course. 1:26:22.800 --> 1:26:25.360 And like I don't know, Like we Meela talk about 1:26:25.360 --> 1:26:26.559 this a lot on our show, and I'm interested in 1:26:26.600 --> 1:26:30.120 your perspective because you're a guy. And for me early on, 1:26:30.200 --> 1:26:32.400 like I was like, no, we need to wait, like 1:26:32.479 --> 1:26:35.080 I had time periods and ship you know, eight months, 1:26:35.120 --> 1:26:37.960 six months, and now it's more of like a feeling 1:26:38.280 --> 1:26:41.639 like on FaceTime, I like somebody like, hey, mommy's friend, 1:26:41.680 --> 1:26:44.559 Like mommy has friends that like, yeah, you know. 1:26:44.680 --> 1:26:46.720 I feel you Yeah. To me, I feel like there's 1:26:46.760 --> 1:26:48.960 so many. There's not one right way, right, there's so many, 1:26:49.200 --> 1:26:51.960 like because like, for instance, let's just say if me 1:26:52.040 --> 1:26:54.040 and you were on the intimate level and data and 1:26:54.080 --> 1:26:56.200 then me and you are just friends and I've had 1:26:56.240 --> 1:26:59.920 you both come over, She's going to see different interactions though, right, well. 1:26:59.800 --> 1:27:00.920 No you don't think so. 1:27:02.240 --> 1:27:05.200 Maybe because I'm touching a Levey like it would be different. 1:27:05.240 --> 1:27:06.439 I mean I think I think at least for me, 1:27:06.600 --> 1:27:08.920 like then any of the men that I've dated that 1:27:09.000 --> 1:27:11.559 have met my daughter, like we are friends in her 1:27:11.560 --> 1:27:13.960 in front of her, you know what I mean? Oh okay, 1:27:14.320 --> 1:27:18.439 like off the bait, off the bat, just like okay. 1:27:18.960 --> 1:27:23.360 Well absolutely, but like yeah, all. 1:27:23.320 --> 1:27:25.759 Right, mommy's new friends. 1:27:29.640 --> 1:27:34.679 It's wondering Pizzazza one buddy, Okay, I see. 1:27:34.720 --> 1:27:36.320 I guess I never thought about the approach. I just 1:27:36.360 --> 1:27:38.920 always felt like, you know, whatever it is, that's just 1:27:39.320 --> 1:27:43.559 I mean, obviously I'm discretion, right, I'm not like, you know, uh, 1:27:43.880 --> 1:27:46.479 appropriate in front of my daughter. But there's a different energy, right, 1:27:46.520 --> 1:27:47.400 you know if I'm. 1:27:48.760 --> 1:27:50.040 Like, yeah, I don't know. 1:27:50.080 --> 1:27:52.280 I just think it's important for I even think it's 1:27:52.400 --> 1:27:54.680 I think it's important for like girls to know their 1:27:54.720 --> 1:27:57.960 fathers have female friends that they aren't necessarily sleeping with, 1:27:58.000 --> 1:28:01.160 and sometimes those become those relationships anyway. And then I 1:28:01.200 --> 1:28:04.920 think it's also important for boys to see moms also 1:28:05.080 --> 1:28:08.479 have male friends and like know that not every men 1:28:08.479 --> 1:28:09.439 and women can be friends. 1:28:09.520 --> 1:28:11.280 Yeah, and that's I think it'll be a positive effect 1:28:11.320 --> 1:28:12.280 down the line with their relationships. 1:28:12.320 --> 1:28:14.280 Yeah, absolutely, And that's essentially what you're doing is like 1:28:14.280 --> 1:28:16.240 you're trying to figure out do you want to make 1:28:16.240 --> 1:28:17.080 you a friend that I fuck? 1:28:17.720 --> 1:28:19.000 Do I want to love you long term? 1:28:19.280 --> 1:28:21.960 Right? Right? Yeah? Definitely. But yeah, she's been like because 1:28:22.160 --> 1:28:26.360 I have got kids and their parents are family to me. 1:28:26.640 --> 1:28:31.759 So and as Jane Beyonca they're married to have two kids, 1:28:32.200 --> 1:28:36.599 and Beyonca she's also my personal assistant because I trust 1:28:36.600 --> 1:28:40.840 her the most with everything, right, So you know, big 1:28:40.880 --> 1:28:44.639 Auntie Vibe, she's there and she'll be there and take 1:28:45.040 --> 1:28:46.559 watch this in for me if I if need be. 1:28:46.640 --> 1:28:50.920 I've had, you know, women I'm very close with I've 1:28:50.920 --> 1:28:53.360 known for a long time if I needed someone to 1:28:53.360 --> 1:28:55.479 watch her, be there and watch them you know what 1:28:55.520 --> 1:28:57.120 I mean, because they're. 1:28:57.000 --> 1:28:59.519 Basically like, yeah, I know that, I love that you 1:28:59.520 --> 1:29:03.200 have a try yeah, exactly of women, which is really important. 1:29:04.200 --> 1:29:07.960 That I just I can't I just when I trace 1:29:08.000 --> 1:29:10.040 back things, especially when because of black women I've had 1:29:10.080 --> 1:29:11.680 just like where I'm at my life, I'm so far 1:29:11.680 --> 1:29:13.640 in my life because of black women. So it's like, 1:29:14.280 --> 1:29:16.439 and also how nurturing black women have been in mean 1:29:16.560 --> 1:29:19.479 relationships I've been with friendships, just even friendships, how caaren 1:29:19.520 --> 1:29:22.920 and loving they are even talking about Beonca, she's like 1:29:23.160 --> 1:29:28.040 basically my sister. How she is you know, even before 1:29:28.120 --> 1:29:29.880 I mean, the transition of making her my sister was 1:29:30.000 --> 1:29:32.800 very seamless. She was already doing things before, like all right, 1:29:32.840 --> 1:29:34.400 you know you and Jay, you guys have your flights 1:29:34.439 --> 1:29:36.040 at this time, but make sure you know, and she'll 1:29:36.080 --> 1:29:39.519 take care of all that. She was very she like 1:29:39.640 --> 1:29:42.000 she's a lyingness as a mother, you know what I mean, 1:29:42.040 --> 1:29:47.200 she's very protective too, So me feeling that can only 1:29:48.320 --> 1:29:50.240 just translate that to my daughter who was a black woman. 1:29:50.360 --> 1:29:52.479 You know, I just think it's and she on in 1:29:52.640 --> 1:29:55.840 Dominique side, A lot of women on her side, right, 1:29:55.920 --> 1:29:58.880 she has a sister, cousins and her mother and grandma 1:29:58.960 --> 1:30:00.799 all that, a lot of women. So she's just surrounded 1:30:00.800 --> 1:30:03.240 by so much love. And then when she comes outside, 1:30:03.240 --> 1:30:04.800 were with a lot of guys on our side. So 1:30:04.880 --> 1:30:05.800 it's a good bounce for her. 1:30:05.880 --> 1:30:07.519 You have a horry for us to do. 1:30:07.600 --> 1:30:10.559 You have any updated hoorries, any horrish things you've done lately, 1:30:12.240 --> 1:30:14.920 young single hot lad in Hollywood. 1:30:16.080 --> 1:30:18.920 Right, any hot hot horries. 1:30:24.160 --> 1:30:24.680 Stories. 1:30:25.439 --> 1:30:27.160 I don't know how exciting it is, but like for 1:30:27.200 --> 1:30:32.479 some reason recently, I've I've had a string of you know, 1:30:32.720 --> 1:30:36.400 I really enjoy coming on my face. 1:30:37.160 --> 1:30:39.560 Oh my god, I was just talking about this recently, 1:30:39.680 --> 1:30:41.720 Like you've had like a string of women that want 1:30:41.720 --> 1:30:43.720 this to happen, or you've been doing it recently? Are 1:30:43.760 --> 1:30:44.479 you just been doing it? 1:30:44.680 --> 1:30:47.080 You know? I've been intuitive and I've felt it where 1:30:47.080 --> 1:30:49.800 I'm like, she will, like, especially when you get a 1:30:49.800 --> 1:30:53.320 submissive woman. Man, it's just like what they want, you know, 1:30:53.360 --> 1:30:57.200 they're just allow so much, and so you know you 1:30:57.200 --> 1:31:00.800 you know one time, Yeah, I'm pready dominated, I think, 1:31:00.800 --> 1:31:03.519 so I feel like I am. I will say that 1:31:05.800 --> 1:31:07.519 there's a there's a girl I know. We're from the 1:31:07.520 --> 1:31:09.599 same area, and we knew each other for years and 1:31:10.200 --> 1:31:14.720 we uh had We've always been attracted to each other, 1:31:14.720 --> 1:31:17.719 but it never went there. My first love, my first girlfriend, 1:31:17.760 --> 1:31:20.920 she she knew her. They weren't like tight, but she 1:31:21.200 --> 1:31:23.519 you know, they were like you know, lightweight friends or 1:31:23.560 --> 1:31:26.719 associates in the sense, and then she was with somebody 1:31:26.760 --> 1:31:30.840 and whatever whatever all that the fast four years down 1:31:30.880 --> 1:31:38.840 the line, we finally linked up and uh and the 1:31:39.040 --> 1:31:42.280 very first time we had sex, I pull that move out. 1:31:43.439 --> 1:31:43.799 Damn. 1:31:45.680 --> 1:31:49.599 Usually I do, but recently I haven't. And but I 1:31:49.640 --> 1:31:52.960 have had like just nasty ass partners so like they're 1:31:53.080 --> 1:31:56.479 just like owning when it's happening, and that turns me 1:31:56.560 --> 1:31:59.320 on so much it's insane where I'm like, damn, I 1:31:59.360 --> 1:32:01.240 might be ready to go again with the fuck like, 1:32:01.880 --> 1:32:04.240 but I will say, this is the only the only 1:32:04.280 --> 1:32:08.000 time I ever had in my life where like when 1:32:08.000 --> 1:32:10.839 I did it the first time, she was like interesting, 1:32:12.160 --> 1:32:13.960 she was like, she was like I like that, But 1:32:14.120 --> 1:32:17.280 first time she was like interesting, go wrong. 1:32:17.400 --> 1:32:20.840 I was like after like right, immediately after this was 1:32:20.840 --> 1:32:22.880 like after thought one I can tell, like you can 1:32:22.920 --> 1:32:25.720 tell her face like I don't know. 1:32:25.760 --> 1:32:27.320 I explained it like it's not like she didn't like it, 1:32:27.360 --> 1:32:29.720 but she was just like she was shocked that I 1:32:30.000 --> 1:32:32.559 was because she I guess she was like also shocked 1:32:32.600 --> 1:32:35.400 like you know with you know, when women are freak 1:32:35.439 --> 1:32:37.479 stage sometimes are like, all right, is he gonna match my? 1:32:37.760 --> 1:32:39.840 Do I fe it back for this motherfucker? You know 1:32:39.920 --> 1:32:41.559 some girls can be like that. Some girls. I'm not 1:32:41.600 --> 1:32:43.920 ruinning it back? So is he gonna catch up? So 1:32:43.960 --> 1:32:46.320 I guess she was like, oh, you're going to play 1:32:46.400 --> 1:32:48.320 Like now, I got to pick this shit up. 1:32:48.320 --> 1:32:50.280 If you're gonna if you're gonna go listen to women, 1:32:50.320 --> 1:32:52.040 if you are going to go to level ten freaky, 1:32:52.080 --> 1:32:54.960 then you got to be prepared to come on her face. 1:32:55.120 --> 1:32:57.519 I mean, because we're exploring all types of ship, right, 1:32:57.640 --> 1:32:59.920 I just feel like that you have to be open 1:33:00.080 --> 1:33:00.280 to all. 1:33:00.400 --> 1:33:02.120 Give me, give me a non negotiables, because I do 1:33:02.200 --> 1:33:04.280 ask non negotiables. If I don't hear, that's not not 1:33:04.439 --> 1:33:05.439 like if I hear, that's not a no. 1:33:05.640 --> 1:33:08.040 That's been on my list of nose forever. I know 1:33:08.080 --> 1:33:10.799 I was gonna say, I told, I told my niggs. 1:33:10.880 --> 1:33:12.599 I let you call my faces? Like, was that a boundary? 1:33:12.640 --> 1:33:15.280 I was like, yeah, I can't believe that's your bound. 1:33:15.400 --> 1:33:19.760 I let you come on my fey. Why are you 1:33:19.840 --> 1:33:21.120 telling me this like it's special? 1:33:21.680 --> 1:33:24.360 It is for you though it isn't. That's a boundary. Yeah, 1:33:24.439 --> 1:33:27.920 for sure, it's not for everybody. For a while, I 1:33:27.960 --> 1:33:30.040 wasn't doing that. I never really thought to do it. Also, 1:33:30.120 --> 1:33:31.519 I thought I was like, that's just some points of 1:33:31.960 --> 1:33:32.880 women really like this. 1:33:33.000 --> 1:33:34.960 If somebody asked me, I'm going to say no. But 1:33:34.960 --> 1:33:36.519 maybe if I was in the moment and you just 1:33:36.560 --> 1:33:38.320 did it, maybe I would just be like, Okay, how do. 1:33:38.240 --> 1:33:41.040 You do that sexually? Like sexy? I didn't. It's not 1:33:41.080 --> 1:33:45.439 sexy like no, I literally said it no. 1:33:46.920 --> 1:33:49.679 And rarely say that passion and hard. 1:33:51.960 --> 1:33:54.560 Are you a su Yeah, I'm a switch, but I 1:33:54.720 --> 1:33:54.960 like to s. 1:33:55.080 --> 1:33:58.360 Okay, okay, okay, you so I tend to like these. 1:33:58.520 --> 1:34:01.320 I guess these women that I've been like switching. 1:34:02.640 --> 1:34:03.599 Can you can feel that? 1:34:03.880 --> 1:34:04.320 Yeah? 1:34:05.680 --> 1:34:08.320 Yeah, I was always a phrasing getting my eye. 1:34:08.720 --> 1:34:13.360 I'm like, I mean I'm pretty good with it. Also 1:34:13.479 --> 1:34:18.599 also right here, like I like this and then oh 1:34:19.880 --> 1:34:25.800 but I haven't like there, Uh, there's a I've never 1:34:25.960 --> 1:34:27.360 tried that with older women. 1:34:28.960 --> 1:34:30.719 You think there's like a demographic like a dumb age. 1:34:31.000 --> 1:34:38.720 I don't know why funny that's wanted to have. I'm 1:34:38.720 --> 1:34:42.920 talking about like older decent stuff for some reason I happened. 1:34:43.840 --> 1:34:45.120 I know. I'm thinking about like. 1:34:45.439 --> 1:34:51.120 The eighties, what's the oldest woman you've had sex. 1:34:51.040 --> 1:34:55.400 With at that time? Well, you would be proud of 1:34:55.439 --> 1:35:01.080 me too, but at that time she is. And then 1:35:01.120 --> 1:35:04.440 after her forty eight okay, okay. 1:35:05.280 --> 1:35:06.120 How was it good? 1:35:06.800 --> 1:35:07.040 Yes? 1:35:07.240 --> 1:35:08.400 Do older women fuck better? 1:35:09.400 --> 1:35:13.280 I just love that ship. There's no but with it. 1:35:14.240 --> 1:35:17.080 They have their ship together, nice ast house. I got 1:35:17.080 --> 1:35:18.800 like you could lift this house for me afterwards? And ship? 1:35:19.200 --> 1:35:20.719 Could you be? Do you think you can see yourself 1:35:20.720 --> 1:35:21.800 long term with an older woman? 1:35:22.520 --> 1:35:26.120 I don't know, Like I think there's a certain age 1:35:26.160 --> 1:35:29.760 gap where I'm like, they don't have all my kids now, 1:35:29.840 --> 1:35:33.200 because you know that that comes into consideration. Like but 1:35:33.280 --> 1:35:34.640 I think there's a certain point where I was like 1:35:34.760 --> 1:35:38.280 exceeded where I'm like, I'm not sure. I'm not sure 1:35:38.760 --> 1:35:43.120 because I don't know. Like I'm like now, I'm like, 1:35:43.240 --> 1:35:45.040 when does it turn off for her? Which was like 1:35:45.439 --> 1:35:46.960 I don't Yeah. 1:35:46.840 --> 1:35:49.200 I feel like we are always a lot. Our prime 1:35:49.360 --> 1:35:52.960 lasts for a long time. It's true, that are the problem. 1:35:53.080 --> 1:35:56.479 I know. They say thirties. Yeah, they say thirties, right, 1:35:56.520 --> 1:35:57.680 like that's when it starts for men. 1:35:57.920 --> 1:35:58.960 Yeah, be healthy. 1:35:59.000 --> 1:36:00.800 I found it to be Benja and button for me, 1:36:02.160 --> 1:36:06.639 my shit get stronger. It just feels like it's been 1:36:07.200 --> 1:36:09.080 I don't know. Maybe because I'm eating healthy, I'm taking 1:36:09.120 --> 1:36:10.920 care of myself better, That's what it is. I'm just 1:36:10.920 --> 1:36:12.880 taking care of myself better. But I'm like, I hope 1:36:12.880 --> 1:36:14.360 this lasts for a long time because I don't see 1:36:14.360 --> 1:36:17.920 it slowing down. I just don't see. I'm only thirty two, 1:36:18.080 --> 1:36:18.519 and I don't. 1:36:18.360 --> 1:36:21.040 Think that happens to all men. You don't want to happen. 1:36:21.560 --> 1:36:22.800 You don't want to happen to all men. 1:36:22.960 --> 1:36:28.240 Please God, this chance, please please? 1:36:29.040 --> 1:36:31.880 Okay, So let's we forgot to do the taro today. 1:36:32.160 --> 1:36:37.160 So Sharona's hold the Five of Swords and the Five 1:36:37.200 --> 1:36:41.440 of Swords turns up when you have had a falling out, disagreement, 1:36:41.600 --> 1:36:43.840 or conflict and you're walking away with a sense of 1:36:43.880 --> 1:36:47.120 sadness or loss. You may be upset and resentful over 1:36:47.160 --> 1:36:49.320 the heated words you said and now wish you could 1:36:49.360 --> 1:36:53.640 take back. Bad blood, and a general ickiness hangover you 1:36:53.680 --> 1:36:57.800 as your relations have turned sour even if you won 1:36:57.840 --> 1:37:00.240 the argument or came out the parent victory, or you 1:37:00.280 --> 1:37:02.639 realize that you have lost as much as or more 1:37:02.680 --> 1:37:06.240 than your opponent. This battle has cost you trust, respect, 1:37:06.280 --> 1:37:10.120 and did big nity, dignity, and isolated you. As you 1:37:10.160 --> 1:37:12.320 try to pick up the pieces and set the conflict behind, 1:37:12.360 --> 1:37:15.200 you find it's more difficult than you thought. Others have 1:37:15.280 --> 1:37:17.559 lost faith in you and you're keeping your distance. You 1:37:17.560 --> 1:37:19.599 will need to decide whether your point of view is 1:37:20.160 --> 1:37:22.280 so important to you that you're willing to put your 1:37:22.280 --> 1:37:25.400 relationship in jeopardy, or if you can compromise and see 1:37:25.439 --> 1:37:28.519 eye to eye. The advice for Five of Swords is 1:37:28.560 --> 1:37:30.920 to pick your battles. You may be tempted to fight 1:37:30.960 --> 1:37:33.360 every conflict to ensure you get your way, to prove 1:37:33.360 --> 1:37:35.160 that you are right, or defend yourself when you are 1:37:35.160 --> 1:37:39.240 feeling challenged or threatened. However, more experts agreed choosing your 1:37:39.240 --> 1:37:42.280 battles wisely is a much better way of life than 1:37:42.320 --> 1:37:44.680 engaging in every disagreement. 1:37:44.920 --> 1:37:45.120 Yeah. 1:37:45.680 --> 1:37:47.559 Not only will it lead you to more peaceful existence, 1:37:47.600 --> 1:37:50.400 but your interpersonal relationships are likely to come out stronger. 1:37:50.680 --> 1:37:52.439 Yeah. Wow, that's great. 1:37:52.720 --> 1:37:53.800 Is that resonate with you? 1:37:53.880 --> 1:37:58.759 Yeah? It does. I think there's like another half that's missing, 1:37:58.800 --> 1:38:03.320 but so much of that because even growing up, I mean, 1:38:03.360 --> 1:38:07.880 I come from like we are aggressive, confrontational, shut away 1:38:07.920 --> 1:38:10.200 from me. I'm all like for some reason, I'm like 1:38:10.840 --> 1:38:12.720 like I have to hold people accuntable when they do 1:38:12.800 --> 1:38:15.680 something wrong and funx it up. And just recently I 1:38:15.680 --> 1:38:18.000 started that picture of battle type of I'm gonna be 1:38:18.040 --> 1:38:19.639 angry about everything to be like you know what I mean, 1:38:19.920 --> 1:38:22.680 it's just like you're gonna exhaust yourself. Yeah, because I 1:38:22.680 --> 1:38:27.040 could be like, anger is an emotion that's like I 1:38:27.200 --> 1:38:32.360 explained it so without like I'm not an angry person anymore, 1:38:33.439 --> 1:38:35.600 Like I don't have anger issues I do when I 1:38:35.640 --> 1:38:40.639 was younger. Anger is an emotion that's so quick to channel. 1:38:40.840 --> 1:38:43.840 Like acting if I haven't seen that involves anger, don't 1:38:43.840 --> 1:38:46.280 even prepare because I'm like, you guys are gonna get 1:38:46.280 --> 1:38:49.880 a lot already, So give you guys on that day. 1:38:49.920 --> 1:38:52.200 When the day comes you when to get all that. Like, 1:38:52.600 --> 1:38:56.200 it's so it's so easy to channel. Thankfully, I have 1:38:56.240 --> 1:38:58.719 a very good control on it. Not that it doesn't 1:38:58.720 --> 1:39:00.320 peak out any once in a while, but. 1:39:02.080 --> 1:39:04.479 Yeah, I have Is it because you want things? You 1:39:04.479 --> 1:39:06.160 have like want things to be fair? 1:39:07.040 --> 1:39:11.400 Like I get frustrated when people just like I'm like, 1:39:11.520 --> 1:39:13.920 I guess sometimes it can be subjective. I'm just like, man, 1:39:14.040 --> 1:39:16.000 be a fucking good person. Why are you doing this? 1:39:16.080 --> 1:39:18.559 You know, like when people are wrong, here's my thing. 1:39:19.160 --> 1:39:22.000 You can fuck up. You could be wrong. Take accountability 1:39:22.000 --> 1:39:24.600 for this shit, you know, Like there's so much to 1:39:24.680 --> 1:39:27.080 be honest, Like on the flip of that, like there's 1:39:27.080 --> 1:39:31.000 one particular battle that I'm the main one that you 1:39:31.000 --> 1:39:33.400 know that I'm thinking about. It's the only one really 1:39:33.439 --> 1:39:37.960 like where it's like so much damage was done and 1:39:37.960 --> 1:39:40.840 there's no accountability taken, and so it's hard for me 1:39:42.600 --> 1:39:45.400 to just ignore all that and be like, well just 1:39:45.400 --> 1:39:47.840 to pass things up, you know, especially because in relation 1:39:47.960 --> 1:39:52.400 of who this person is to me, everyone thinks like whatever, 1:39:52.479 --> 1:40:00.120 Like it's just like for me I am willing to 1:40:00.880 --> 1:40:04.200 lay things to rest, but I have to be med, 1:40:04.280 --> 1:40:06.800 you know what I mean. Like, I'm so open minded today. 1:40:07.160 --> 1:40:08.000 Every time we have. 1:40:08.080 --> 1:40:12.160 We've had, everybody's gonna show up. 1:40:12.200 --> 1:40:15.320 But see that now though, even about the isolations, right, 1:40:15.400 --> 1:40:18.240 even when we talk about the is isolated. But now though, 1:40:18.920 --> 1:40:21.400 I am finding that piece though with having a separate 1:40:21.400 --> 1:40:23.040 because I can't force everything. I'm like, you know what 1:40:23.080 --> 1:40:24.519 if this is what it is, this is what it is. 1:40:24.760 --> 1:40:28.719 And yeah, there's a couple of people, like two in particular, 1:40:28.760 --> 1:40:34.040 that are mad about that, you know. But I'm also like, one, 1:40:34.160 --> 1:40:38.800 first of all, this is not your ship, So why 1:40:38.840 --> 1:40:41.800 are you you know, why are you taking this on? 1:40:42.520 --> 1:40:44.280 I you know, I don't judge nobody. I'm like, you 1:40:44.280 --> 1:40:46.840 guys are good, that's great. I'm not getting in the 1:40:46.880 --> 1:40:48.800 way of that. Be good. I'm not talking no, I'm 1:40:48.800 --> 1:40:51.320 not speaking no ill will on anybody do that. But 1:40:51.640 --> 1:40:54.160 you're not in my shoes. You don't take things out 1:40:54.160 --> 1:40:56.160 I take because I could judge easily be like oh well, 1:40:56.160 --> 1:40:58.040 I wouldn't have real collect that when this happened, Like 1:40:58.080 --> 1:41:00.000 I could do that. Everybody could do that all the time. 1:41:00.479 --> 1:41:04.639 So I'm like, for me, for that relationship to turn around. 1:41:04.680 --> 1:41:09.479 It's like, damn, I don't know. I just feel like 1:41:09.520 --> 1:41:12.720 there has to be just a little bit more maturity 1:41:12.800 --> 1:41:16.599 and an honest conversation because anytime I've tried to have 1:41:16.640 --> 1:41:20.200 the conversation, I mean, boy, just those triggers come up. 1:41:20.920 --> 1:41:23.360 You talk about gaslighting, I mean man, and like very 1:41:23.400 --> 1:41:27.920 purposely saying things they know to rile you up. If 1:41:28.000 --> 1:41:30.400 the situations is just like man, I'm just like, what 1:41:30.560 --> 1:41:36.160 is the person? So it's like things like that exactly, 1:41:37.680 --> 1:41:39.640 I guess, And I guess that for me though, when 1:41:39.640 --> 1:41:41.160 you talk about trus the battles, I guess it was me, 1:41:42.120 --> 1:41:45.120 Like you know what I tried. I did, I really did. 1:41:45.360 --> 1:41:48.639 I really put real liffe into it for years now, 1:41:48.720 --> 1:41:53.080 I'm like, I've put my hands on my pizza forg Okay, 1:41:53.560 --> 1:41:56.320 I'm gonna let's stop being so angry at it. But 1:41:56.439 --> 1:41:59.280 I think picking that card is like because sometimes we're 1:41:59.280 --> 1:42:04.360 still me mm hm practicing you can't help it. 1:42:04.360 --> 1:42:06.040 I do a lot of talking out loud. 1:42:06.040 --> 1:42:08.960 It helps, just have a lot of conversations with them 1:42:09.200 --> 1:42:11.080 but not there, but just have them not be there. 1:42:11.120 --> 1:42:14.479 I curse people out so much. It really helps. If 1:42:14.520 --> 1:42:15.200 you do it a lot. 1:42:15.320 --> 1:42:17.800 That's so true. I realized it's a life hack. It's 1:42:17.800 --> 1:42:19.240 a really big release for me. 1:42:19.840 --> 1:42:20.680 You gotta get it out. 1:42:21.080 --> 1:42:27.240 What's your sign? Ask you that should be the whole 1:42:27.280 --> 1:42:28.320 nigga and give you all three. 1:42:28.680 --> 1:42:35.240 Yeah, I'm I love a nigga that knows this ship. 1:42:36.040 --> 1:42:38.680 I just I like this ship too. But like Pisces 1:42:39.240 --> 1:42:45.280 rising the Scorpio and yeah, what about you. 1:42:45.280 --> 1:42:47.800 Guys, that's where that turbo sex comes from. I know 1:42:48.080 --> 1:42:49.479 Scorpio learned. 1:42:52.800 --> 1:42:53.559 What about you guys. 1:42:54.200 --> 1:42:57.799 I'm a double scorpio, so I'm a sun Scorpio rising scorpio. 1:42:57.960 --> 1:43:05.519 And then the moon is sage and you guys have shared. 1:43:05.520 --> 1:43:12.439 What are you? Are you sensitive? I'm surrounded by a 1:43:12.439 --> 1:43:16.840 lot of cancers and yeah, I feel okay. I don't 1:43:16.840 --> 1:43:22.479 know this makes sense. I find cancers to be sensitive. Yeah, 1:43:22.840 --> 1:43:25.160 I'm expressive. I wear my motions on my sleeve. For sure. 1:43:25.760 --> 1:43:27.800 I'll pretend like I'm not bothered, but I'll cry in 1:43:27.800 --> 1:43:34.160 my room. Oh my god, Well, thank you so much 1:43:34.680 --> 1:43:39.439 coming on this show again. You appreciate our resident Dad. 1:43:39.880 --> 1:43:44.800 We proclaimed Sharona's our resident Dad. Resident Dad is back. 1:43:45.400 --> 1:43:48.200 He's taken residency one last time. I actually know you're 1:43:48.240 --> 1:43:49.200 in divided all the time. 1:43:49.280 --> 1:43:52.920 Yeah, I'm always going to bother you whenever you guys 1:43:52.960 --> 1:43:56.120 want to expect to cry. Geez, this is a good 1:43:56.120 --> 1:43:58.360 little session. Have a good day. Got it out. 1:43:58.400 --> 1:44:03.000 You're in the you're in the company, mothers' safety. 1:44:03.080 --> 1:44:04.240 We've been crying all the time. 1:44:04.439 --> 1:44:05.400 Yeah. 1:44:05.600 --> 1:44:07.920 I literally cried the other day. I told you to. 1:44:08.080 --> 1:44:10.280 I was like, I ate these little mushrooms. It wasn't 1:44:10.280 --> 1:44:11.960 even a lot. And I got in the car. She 1:44:12.040 --> 1:44:13.960 left and I cried the whole way home and I 1:44:14.000 --> 1:44:15.559 was like, she's like why. I was like, I don't know. 1:44:17.120 --> 1:44:19.920 I was like, residual pent up cries that come out. 1:44:20.280 --> 1:44:28.519 We've made NARCISSM sexy today and b l D. Wow, 1:44:28.680 --> 1:44:30.360 what a day. It was great. 1:44:30.439 --> 1:44:32.280 Oh my god. Can you tell the people where they 1:44:32.280 --> 1:44:32.840 can find you? 1:44:33.400 --> 1:44:36.840 Yes? On Twitter and Instagram. It's the same at Rome 1:44:37.000 --> 1:44:38.400 j R. O n. 1:44:41.360 --> 1:44:48.320 Oh and Ted talk TikTok oh you check it out. 1:44:49.040 --> 1:44:52.439 You know, I don't really dance, no, honestly, A lot 1:44:52.479 --> 1:44:57.280 of times it's really my boy and behind it's things 1:44:57.439 --> 1:44:58.840 my hand. I'm not really young. 1:44:59.280 --> 1:45:02.880 Oh okay, I'll live here. I'll check it out. Does 1:45:02.880 --> 1:45:05.200 that TikTok I'm listending the TikTok with the mins. 1:45:05.240 --> 1:45:06.519 I should do a Ted talk some point. 1:45:06.680 --> 1:45:07.479 It was like a Ted talk. 1:45:09.360 --> 1:45:11.720 You know where to find us good Mom's underscore, Bad 1:45:11.800 --> 1:45:15.479 Choices on Instagram and we're going to Costa Rica and my. 1:45:15.400 --> 1:45:19.360 God, we're almost going. There's still time to book. 1:45:19.600 --> 1:45:21.439 There's still time to book when you're doing it. 1:45:21.600 --> 1:45:24.679 July thirty first is the first trip and August tenth 1:45:24.760 --> 1:45:25.479 is the second trip. 1:45:25.520 --> 1:45:26.040 It's a week. 1:45:26.080 --> 1:45:28.919 It's in the jungle. It's going to be fun. Sexual 1:45:29.000 --> 1:45:31.680 essentials will be there. Second week, Trap Yoga by will 1:45:31.680 --> 1:45:36.000 be their week. Trap Yoga, Chaff Yoga bay. 1:45:36.439 --> 1:45:41.040 Our titties will be out. It'll be great. I Sharona's 1:45:41.080 --> 1:45:43.840 commented on the post and it was like, can the 1:45:43.880 --> 1:45:46.200 father deliver one of the mothers to this retreat? 1:45:47.040 --> 1:45:48.800 You can drop off in the front. You never know. 1:45:48.840 --> 1:45:50.920 We have findings that light joints. 1:45:50.560 --> 1:45:52.800 And uh we reached them up and they do. Like 1:45:52.800 --> 1:45:55.400 maybe we'll have a celebrity guest, celebrity male guest. 1:45:55.760 --> 1:45:56.840 Sharonas might be there. 1:45:56.840 --> 1:45:59.879 Oil our oil ladies. 1:46:00.200 --> 1:46:02.360 I'm just saying it or might not happen. You'll only 1:46:02.400 --> 1:46:06.320 know if you come give it. Shielder massages. You know, 1:46:06.400 --> 1:46:10.599 we know people, Yes, please pluck it all. 1:46:11.360 --> 1:46:13.479 I'm on an HBO Max show called Made for Love 1:46:13.520 --> 1:46:15.639 and it's out now season two, so you can binge 1:46:15.680 --> 1:46:19.479 all season one super quick episodes half hour and season 1:46:19.520 --> 1:46:21.400 two is out and four is out so far they're 1:46:21.439 --> 1:46:24.760 dropping two per week. And yeah, first season, I'm only 1:46:24.760 --> 1:46:29.080 in their one episode. You established your character exactly, Okay, 1:46:29.120 --> 1:46:31.320 second season in every episode. 1:46:31.320 --> 1:46:34.120 That means you did a good job that first episode 1:46:34.720 --> 1:46:38.640 whole time. Yes, that's so dope. Congratulations, I got to 1:46:38.680 --> 1:46:40.000 check that out. I've been watching a lot more on 1:46:40.200 --> 1:46:41.200 HBO Max lately. 1:46:41.360 --> 1:46:41.840 It's great. 1:46:43.800 --> 1:46:46.320 All right, y'all, Well, we'll see you next week. Ye who. 1:46:54.000 --> 1:46:59.160 H m hmmm. 1:47:02.800 --> 1:47:06.680 L s Is Yo, Ellen J. 1:47:07.280 --> 1:47:11.280 Solo, BAA recorder, Lalos and Elasa 1:47:18.920 --> 1:47:19.000 Hm