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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Nila. Happy Wednesday, Hose, Happy Wednesday, Hose. How are

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Speaker 1: you feeling? I feel great? I feel great.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 3: I feel good today. I'm good. I feel energized. I'm

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Speaker 3: not tired.

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Speaker 4: I've been feeling tired for like it feels like weeks

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Speaker 4: and months. I feel like getting over a hump of

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Speaker 4: like workshit. Like we've been like working, working, working. We

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Speaker 4: still have a lot of work to do, but I

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Speaker 4: feel like it's starting to be more manageable. My daughter's great,

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Speaker 4: she's Thriving's fucking cute as shit, she's fly as shit.

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Speaker 4: She's finally listening to me about fashion choices and finally yes,

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Speaker 4: although we did have an argument the other day because

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Speaker 4: like she I bought her this like little like scarf

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Speaker 4: to put on her head, like a hipster scarf, and

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Speaker 4: she was like trying to fight me on it, and

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Speaker 4: then she finally wore it. Then the other day we

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Speaker 4: did a faux hawk right, and she was like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, mommy, it's so cute. Went the moment we

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Speaker 4: walked on campus at her school, She's like, I don't

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Speaker 4: want to take my hair out. I was like no,

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Speaker 4: she was like, Lemmie, take it out. I was like,

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Speaker 4: she's getting excited. I was getting anxiety. And she was

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Speaker 4: walking to the classroom like her friends were going to

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Speaker 4: see her and judge her. And she was like no,

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Speaker 4: she's like take it out, take it out. And I

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Speaker 4: was like no, we just we just were hyping the car,

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Speaker 4: saying how fly it was. And she was like, Mommy,

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Speaker 4: take it out. And I thought she was like gonna

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Speaker 4: get over it. She started dragging me, like dragging me,

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Speaker 4: like I was like basically pulling me to the floor.

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Speaker 4: So then we finally I dragged her ass to the

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Speaker 4: classroom because I was not about to let her change

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Speaker 4: this fucking hairstyle.

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Speaker 3: It was fucking cute. So she dragging you, you were dragging her, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And then I showed her. I was like, look at

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Speaker 3: this picture of me. You see I have a full

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Speaker 3: hawk too. We look fucking cute. She's like, it's not.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to know how to write now, looking

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Speaker 3: for a picture right now, And I was like, I'm

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Speaker 3: going to the gym right now.

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Speaker 4: I don't have it right now because I'm going to

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Speaker 4: the gym, but after this I will have it and

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Speaker 4: then she's like no. And then her teacher like she

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Speaker 4: sees us arguing outside of the class and she comes

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Speaker 4: out and she's like okay, and I was like, no,

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Speaker 4: it's not it's not okay. Tell her hair looks good now, right,

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Speaker 4: Tell her looks good and she was like oh, She's

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Speaker 4: like she looks so beautiful.

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Speaker 3: I said of her hair. Tell her hair looks good,

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Speaker 3: and she's like, hair looks good and she starts crying.

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Speaker 3: And then and then I was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, I'm going to be that mom

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Speaker 3: and she's traumatized. It's gonna be that thing that she's again.

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Speaker 4: So then I go in the bathroom and I fucking

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Speaker 4: take the half down.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, is this okay?

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Speaker 4: And she's like like, hey, babe, I just I do

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Speaker 4: want you to feel compting cute.

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Speaker 3: You're good. And then so she goes in and then

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Speaker 3: I pick her up from school and I was like, so,

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Speaker 4: You're still pissed. You're still pissed. Eight hours later she

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Speaker 4: was like, I was like, so what's up? Like, did

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Speaker 4: you tell anybody? Did anyone compliment your hair? She's like,

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Speaker 4: Carter said that she's glad I didn't have the flu

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Speaker 4: hawk because I'd be taking her style. And I said,

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Speaker 4: that's why I told you, Carter is a fashion icon

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Speaker 4: and you are fucking up.

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Speaker 3: You need to step your game up. And she was like, mommy,

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Speaker 3: I just I was like, not ever cars.

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Speaker 2: Carter is a fashion icon. That's this Carter actually, like

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Speaker 2: she always has cool hair.

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Speaker 4: Carter is my daughter's best friend and they both have afros.

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Speaker 4: But Carter be like taking her fashion risks, why you know,

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Speaker 4: and I real be playing it safe and it be irritating.

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Speaker 2: Just hit a little earlier.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 4: She's getting it together, but that but that did bother me.

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Speaker 4: I was annoyed. But anyway, other than that, everything's great.

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Speaker 4: It is pretty annoying. Respect your kids non stylish early

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Speaker 4: too early. They don't get it, Yett, And now I

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Speaker 4: get it because my mom used to do the shit

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Speaker 4: to me, like you don't get it.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, it's ugly not wearing these rhinestone pants, like.

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Speaker 4: You know, she'd buy me shit from like you go

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Speaker 1: Linna told me we should go to the mall. I said,

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Speaker 1: it's Mother's Day. She said, we can go shopping together.

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Speaker 1: And she said, didn't you learn your lesson? Like Nana,

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Speaker 1: you need to take me shopping with you when you

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Speaker 1: buy me stuff.

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Speaker 3: I learned my lesson. No, I did it because I'm

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Speaker 3: the fashion queen.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, Where is your kid stylish?

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Speaker 3: Yes she is. She likes to like dress up.

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Speaker 1: She likes to design her clothes, but sometimes she doesn't

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Speaker 1: listen to my styles, which are obviously superior, which is

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Speaker 1: very frustrating.

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Speaker 2: But you know, how old are your girls again?

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Speaker 3: Seven?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Both of y'all? Seven? Okay, okay, all right, right

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Speaker 2: now I'm still early. So it was just princess stage.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you're ready, just really girly. If it's a dress,

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Speaker 2: she likes it. Yeah, yeah, she wasn't. She's in this

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Speaker 2: dance uh class, dude. It's like more it's like a

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Speaker 2: performing arts little school. And at first she was so

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Speaker 2: shy to join the class and dancing. Once they pulled

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Speaker 2: she was like, then yeah, I was like, we'll put

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Speaker 2: it on and dance with them.

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Speaker 3: And then girls were so basic yeah, like alert ship yeah,

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Speaker 3: flowy ship facts like it's like in our dna. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: the divine feminine is in our dna. There's no around,

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Speaker 3: that's true.

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Speaker 2: True. Where you got stylish kids or you were, you were.

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Speaker 4: Basically you just I felt like I was Actually I

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Speaker 4: was stylish. I was, but I just me and my

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Speaker 4: mom and my mom to this day have different even now,

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Speaker 4: we have different style like preferences. So I don't think

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Speaker 4: I was tripping back then, and the stuff she was

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Speaker 4: bringing me back just wasn't it wasn't it?

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Speaker 1: You know, it was same I was. I've always been stylish.

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Speaker 1: I've just been like a little houcci. So that was

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Speaker 1: always an issue growing up. Oh you know, like I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to like take off stockings. I'm like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: fucking wearing stockings to that prom. It's not happening.

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Speaker 2: That's a week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, you are a young lady.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm a grown ass thirteen year old and I'm

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Speaker 1: not wearing this fucking stockings trying to fucking embarrass me.

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Speaker 1: I took this ship off so fucking fast.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I was on top of it when

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Speaker 2: I was younger, but I had a older brother.

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Speaker 3: Because you got like influence. So yeah, so I was

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Speaker 3: just pearls on you're a fashion icon.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you are wearing the pearl That's very that's very

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Speaker 1: Hollywood of you.

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Speaker 3: He's wearing pearls.

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Speaker 2: If you have.

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Speaker 1: First of all, let's introduce our guests. Just talking talking

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Speaker 1: so much ship today. I don't know if you recognize

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Speaker 1: his voice. He's been here before. If you guys remember

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Speaker 1: two Miles One Dilf many moons ago, an epic episode.

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Speaker 1: Today we have father, actor, entrepreneur, style, extraordinary model.

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Speaker 3: He's a model.

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Speaker 2: Model.

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Speaker 1: She'd be like, look at your own ass. I like,

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Speaker 1: look at him with that face.

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Speaker 4: That face, I'm like, oh my god, that's the half

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Speaker 4: out open mouth it.

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Speaker 2: Once I got that note during a photo shoot, I

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Speaker 2: ran with it. I was like, okay, well that's what

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Speaker 2: it is.

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Speaker 3: You breathing. It reminds me of that Justin Bieber.

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Speaker 2: Like I do that, but his face is be on

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Speaker 2: point though. Actually I'm a believer. I'm a believer believe.

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Speaker 4: We have Sharona Jackson on. Y'all, welcome to the back

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Speaker 4: to the show. Sharona's my friend. Thank you for coming

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Speaker 4: back on.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I mean, this is different.

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Speaker 3: It's a levels at the house.

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Speaker 2: I was at the house right in the background. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I love it. It's nice, thank.

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Speaker 3: You, thank you. I'm excited to have you.

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Speaker 4: Although I don't get to see you often, but I

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Speaker 4: do listen to your voice often and masturbate to it.

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Speaker 3: She's been very adamant. She's talked about this many times.

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Speaker 2: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so if you don't know, I think we had

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Speaker 1: a newsletter that said I had sex with Shrutus.

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Speaker 3: Jackson last night. I did, actually, but that was I

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Speaker 3: was like, that was a great subject one, that's amazing.

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Speaker 3: We didn't send it to you.

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Speaker 2: I wish I would.

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Speaker 1: Email marketing, you know, to support your objectifying configured you supported.

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Speaker 3: The word. Yeah, you guys haven't heard of Gypsy.

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Speaker 4: It's an app that they have like exotic storytelling and

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Speaker 4: erotic is one of the one of the voices on there.

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Speaker 2: And he has a good wait so actually, so it

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Speaker 2: actually does something?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Actually, can you give us a little example?

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Speaker 2: Can we play?

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Speaker 3: Come on?

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Speaker 2: The thing is man, I'll be real, it's actually really

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Speaker 2: hard doing that ship because you have to breathe so much.

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Speaker 2: You know how lightheaded you get? What? How do you

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Speaker 2: have sex me? When I have But it's not like

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Speaker 2: so every sometimes I'm even holding it with like certain

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Speaker 2: you know, and then I let it like loose.

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Speaker 3: That's not healthy.

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Speaker 2: Depends it depends not you're not.

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Speaker 1: You're not like maximizing your climax if you're holding I.

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Speaker 2: Do breathe, I really do. I'm just saying like it's so,

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Speaker 2: but like even like.

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Speaker 3: Are you in the room with the girl while you're

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Speaker 3: doing it, you're doing we're.

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Speaker 2: Doing especially when like the male engineers right there. Obviously

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Speaker 2: I'm hetero, so I'm just like I see them in

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Speaker 2: like the window like this right, So I just like that.

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Speaker 2: But but I do have all like they're like kind

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Speaker 2: of on the zoom so I hear them, and there

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Speaker 2: is like women on it because the app is ran

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Speaker 2: by women the platform, and so they're just there there

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Speaker 2: and they some like a lady will read with me,

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Speaker 2: you know. The people It would be like okay, allright,

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Speaker 2: wow wow, what would be something like I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: remember one of our lines style like something would be

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Speaker 2: all right, all right, so right before I say you go,

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Speaker 2: like so you right, and then you have to make

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Speaker 2: sure you swallow your spit right, swallow it so it's

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Speaker 2: be like take those off and like, you know, just

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Speaker 2: like I don't know, you know, like I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to lie. I'm trying to remember. It's like

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Speaker 2: hard on a spot.

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Speaker 1: good moms. We need to be on tipsy because I

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Speaker 2: Love you guys should actually have something with them type

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Speaker 3: Have three with good moms some tipsy.

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Speaker 2: Wow, look at that, look at that.

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Speaker 3: Experience two of the deal.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 3: Walked in and then I slowly down her panties. Wow.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting that.

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Speaker 2: You guys actually be good for this actually auditioned audio,

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Speaker 1: Are visual women more imaginative, like I would rather have

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Speaker 4: I like both, but I will say that because I've

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Speaker 2: Wrong move exactly. Really, I'm like real, I like slowly,

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Speaker 3: Find it, like find the plot.

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Speaker 2: It's really like form that four minute stretch.

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Speaker 4: Like and then I breaks my concentration where this app

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Speaker 2: So I feel when I was younger.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: That's actually makes me feel good. I'm like, this is

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Speaker 2: actually a thing that's used. I do get some nice dms,

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Speaker 2: but or even you know, you're used to being recognized

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Speaker 1: Was like, let's just underestimate the voice, and you have

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Speaker 1: about like the vibrations in the air. You're like, I

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Speaker 3: But now.

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Speaker 2: That's funny. Is there a difference like when if like

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Speaker 3: Don't know, like do you like that ship like a

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Speaker 3: little ground? I like doing that, So I'm just some animalists.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I had a growl in my ear and I was like, it's.

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Speaker 2: So well, yeah, it takes our animalistic Yeah like you said,

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Speaker 3: That's what it is. Because I'm primate it is.

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Speaker 2: You should call Yeah, it is. It is because even

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Speaker 2: oh she can't take or she loving it so much

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Speaker 2: like that ship like that should drive me crazy to And.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm wondering. I wonder.

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Speaker 4: I always wonder that I know everyone's different because some

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Speaker 4: some women like men that don't say ship like, or

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Speaker 4: men I often wonder because I think like a lot

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Speaker 4: is is there a level of too much talking? Is

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Speaker 4: there a level of too much moaning?

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Speaker 3: Like, it depends if you're not if you're not good

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Speaker 2: It just as long as it feels as long as

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Speaker 2: as if I feel There was one time where I

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Speaker 2: was like, all right, like I know, I know what

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Speaker 2: I'm doing and ship, but come on, it was like

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Speaker 2: like I'm not even stronger, Like yeah, it was like

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Speaker 2: it felt performative, and that kind of took me out

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Speaker 2: so that I would that's all as long as it

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Speaker 3: Can you give the girls the ground? Like what is

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Speaker 2: I'd have to be like buried in but like like

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Speaker 2: like in the stride of it, like if I'm into it,

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm always into it, but like when I

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Speaker 2: be like like I really would growling that ships No,

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Speaker 2: that's that. Yeah, for me, it's exciting.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad you're like eating pussy. It's very important that

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Speaker 4: men more men know that. That's really important. It's kind

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Speaker 4: of a non negotiable. I mean it's not for some women.

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Speaker 2: Actually, you know what.

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Speaker 3: Women who say they don't like their pussy.

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Speaker 2: I blows my mind. I don't like it. You can't

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Speaker 2: go far if that's I think.

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Speaker 4: It's like, I mean, if you're listening and this resonates

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Speaker 2: Is?

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Speaker 3: Are you insecure about the way you might smell?

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Speaker 4: Like that's where I've learned that you've been shamed along

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Speaker 3: So you just feel like, I don't know, rather not

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Speaker 3: you've been abused in a way orally or done right.

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Speaker 1: It was a control thing too, if you feel like

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Speaker 1: women who don't feel like they can't have control over

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Speaker 1: their bodies when someone's doing they don't they stay away

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Speaker 3: But oh yeah, like what are they're going to come

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Speaker 3: in their mouth?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: They just don't like that, like really relinquishing that much control.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's saying I didn't run into one woman like

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Speaker 2: that where that too like she gave up too much,

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Speaker 2: she had to try. It was like always, it was

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Speaker 2: like a battle of the wholetel. It was fun the

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Speaker 1: I always feel like, if a man, this is probably offensive.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna this that I always feel like

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Speaker 1: everyone I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Notice, you don't like your pussy, you don't like yourself.

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Speaker 5: You're not a good person, you don't like your pussy,

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Speaker 5: you suck.

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Speaker 2: Your prefacing.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I want to say we are not

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Speaker 1: politically correct. I hope no one ever considers this show

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Speaker 1: and says you said this wrong. Yeah, you goddamn right.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't probably perfect. Second, I really my idea about

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Speaker 1: niggas you don't eat like a lot of like pussy

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Speaker 1: like eagerly, is that they're gay.

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Speaker 3: I know what I said that, I said it. They

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Speaker 3: have traumas too. Men can have traumas to okay, get paid.

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Speaker 2: Performer's anxiety is a real thing with men, so like

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Speaker 4: They feelings we actually let me, I don't know, I

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Speaker 4: don't know, not a man actually, and you guys.

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Speaker 3: This month we're interviewing men, which is like, find that's June.

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Speaker 4: This is something new for us because we don't of

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Speaker 4: course we have met on our show, but not very often,

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Speaker 4: but we wanted to highlight the men's and so I'm

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Speaker 4: just we're really interested in, yeah, your perspective, because we

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Speaker 4: be just making up shit like niggas.

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Speaker 2: Think this that's funny. I feel like everybody does that though,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, because you know how women are, maybe I'm like,

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Speaker 2: you don't know, we're just saying ship. Yeah. Well as

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Speaker 2: far as like from what I gather, I know, early

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Speaker 2: on for me, when I was younger, like it was weird,

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Speaker 2: and so I'm thinking like, oh, like you know, I'm

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Speaker 2: now like when like there was there's particularly like two

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Speaker 2: stuck it out, like I'm I'm close. I'm close with them,

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Speaker 2: like because at first, like I couldn't get hard because

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Speaker 2: I got nervous about that ship. So I wasn't able

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Speaker 2: was like yes, and then I was like, oh fuck,

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Speaker 2: but what if I bust too quick? Because you know

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Speaker 2: I think it was maybe I just for some reason mentally,

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Speaker 2: I was getting myself out out of that for some reason,

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Speaker 2: and being in a relationship for a while hurt, I

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Speaker 2: mean helped hurt too, helped it hurt, but like you know,

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Speaker 2: it just when you're in a relationship and stuff. He

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Speaker 2: So after that, for some reason, and then I just

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Speaker 2: and I was able to just get back to my

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Speaker 1: Do men talk about like sex with one another or

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Speaker 1: like do you yeah, man, I'm having this problem, like

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Speaker 1: are you familiar?

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Speaker 2: Because like we do, like you know, like I mean,

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Speaker 2: friends where we've so you know, all these like products

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Speaker 2: come out right, you got like you know, where it's

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Speaker 2: the honey or whether it's like you know, pills, whatever

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Speaker 2: it is, so that gets brought up and then you know,

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Speaker 2: you'll have someone be like, you know, shit, my problem

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Speaker 2: ain't getting hard is busting too fast? If this sh

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Speaker 2: it only helped me last longer, then you know, what

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Speaker 2: the fuck am I taking it for it? Right? You'd

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Speaker 2: be like I'll get hard when the blows on my

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Speaker 2: face like whatever, like you'll just you know, they we

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Speaker 2: so we'll say things and we'll talk about it in

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Speaker 2: that way, not like too often, know we go in

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Speaker 2: too deep detail. You know, it's it's usually just about

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Speaker 2: like if we're talking about someone, you know, it's you know,

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Speaker 2: or so about what that happened with this person.

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Speaker 3: It's not too much of like hey man, having the struggle,

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Speaker 3: but do you have any advice for me that's happened?

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Speaker 2: I guess when like we are like, well, and what

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Speaker 2: do you think about? Like how why do you think

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Speaker 2: you so brief all telling me? What are you thinking about?

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Speaker 2: Like are you nervous thing? Or like the girls really

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Speaker 2: make you like, you know, are you putting on a pedestal?

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Speaker 2: Like we tried and we had that one conversation or

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Speaker 2: two and that was that, Yeah, I don't know how

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Speaker 2: it's going over there? Good nay? When not much changed

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Speaker 2: unless he said because you probably would say something, but

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think men need to talk about this more often

440
00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:40,560
Speaker 1: because I think this that's the case more often than not.

441
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 3: Like the gus get nervous too, you know what I'm saying.

442
00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:43,879
Speaker 3: Like and and.

443
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:45,879
Speaker 1: I think because you guys are so it could be

444
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 1: heady and like women, you just do a couple of things.

445
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,840
Speaker 1: The pussy's gonna get wet for the most part, for sure,

446
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But for a man, you

447
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 1: literally have to be like ready to go have something

448
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:55,879
Speaker 1: physical has to happen.

449
00:20:56,040 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 3: You just keep nudging and the bitches pussy is going

450
00:20:58,440 --> 00:20:59,159
Speaker 3: to open up.

451
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 2: Not nudgings right now, right, just going until it opens.

452
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 3: But it's true, you know, if you've nudged you a

453
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 3: couple of times, it gets swet.

454
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,720
Speaker 1: But I dated this guy and he would get hard

455
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,600
Speaker 1: but then never come and I was like, what the fuck?

456
00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 1: Is going on? I thought, was it me? I'm like,

457
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 1: this is what what? But he was in his head

458
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 1: a lot. He was like counting the songs and.

459
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,920
Speaker 2: Shit, you just you be doing things just to make

460
00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 2: yourself that Like, I mean, there's times where I'm like,

461
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,439
Speaker 2: especially like if I'm hit it from the back and

462
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,360
Speaker 2: she got all this as it was. Times like when

463
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: I was younger, I was like, I'm looking at the

464
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 2: ceiling and show my breathing and like and I'm like,

465
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 2: I want her to get hers. I don't want to

466
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 2: bust so fast because like I said, that stride spooked me.

467
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 2: I was I was in this bitch like for thirty seconds,

468
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:47,960
Speaker 2: like you know, from the back, and I'm like, whoa,

469
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: I'm about to know already what the fuck? So then

470
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 2: I just started doing things like that and then, like

471
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,680
Speaker 2: I said, gradually getting out of that. So I mean,

472
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:59,199
Speaker 2: but for women, I feel like, because man, the vagina

473
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,440
Speaker 2: is so sensitive. Man, like the pH could get thrown

474
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 2: off by anything. Is that something that's constantly on your mind,

475
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 2: like where you're like, okay, we're good, like you already

476
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 2: know going into it. You good. Because there's been times

477
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 2: where I'm like, I'm like, she had to know, right.

478
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:15,639
Speaker 1: She absolutely knew something was that she had just decided

479
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 1: to have sex and surprise.

480
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 3: It's not up on everybody to.

481
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,239
Speaker 2: Know, that's all.

482
00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't think that every girl.

483
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,160
Speaker 2: I don't think so. I really think there's there's women

484
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 2: are really unaware where.

485
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:25,200
Speaker 3: Like maybe their nose doesn't work good.

486
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,000
Speaker 2: Maybe they just don't think they're saying is maybe.

487
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,320
Speaker 4: The only their scent is off. Maybe maybe that's not

488
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 4: off until the juices start flowing.

489
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: So oh yeah, okay that has surprised me before too,

490
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 2: where it seemed like it was fun and then once

491
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 2: the pumping starts and then like a little bit more

492
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 2: into my oh like it wasn't like bad, but it

493
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 2: just like it wasn't it just wasn't what it was.

494
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,120
Speaker 2: I was just like, oh, that that's a different different Yeah.

495
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 4: Well, I think, well, I think because a lot of

496
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 4: women there's because there's a lot of shame and stuff

497
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 4: like people we don't talk about that part, but we

498
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 4: don't talk about how normal it actually is for women's

499
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 4: PhD be off. When you have your period, your pH

500
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 4: gets off right before your period of PhD. A condom

501
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:03,439
Speaker 4: can make your pH go up.

502
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:11,520
Speaker 2: Niggas honestly the reason why a lot of times.

503
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 3: Your Jesus and your things.

504
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 2: Just don't touch you. Dirty fingernails and ship Yeah.

505
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 4: But yeah, so then you know that niggas like her

506
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 4: pussy Sam nigga, you made washing hands the name before you.

507
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 2: This is fault.

508
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 1: I would usually like, if a woman's about to have

509
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: sex with someone, you're gonna do like the test.

510
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, we always do, Like, yeah, facts, we do.

511
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 1: I'll be real texty whatever, okay.

512
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 4: Right right right, we can find it's been out all

513
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 4: day and we're gonna we're like gonna find the rid.

514
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 3: We're gonna hide it under the dresser of the sink.

515
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 2: No god, oh you know what happened. Facts, I'll be.

516
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 4: Doing it, and I'm like, I hope no one will

517
00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 4: wipe their hands on this for like the last three months.

518
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 3: It's little niggas don't wash. Oh my god.

519
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 4: I saw this study that like men, most men don't

520
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 4: wash their sheets for four months on average.

521
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 3: That's an average. That's disgusting.

522
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 2: It is. I definitely have done that before now I'm

523
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 2: thinking about it, but.

524
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 3: Four months is a long time.

525
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 2: You get older though, But see maybe because I wasn't

526
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 2: that active, So that's why you're.

527
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 3: Just like you're still sweating and there rolling around.

528
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, for sure, for sure, Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.

529
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 2: I mean that was definitely I think that was. I mean,

530
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 2: I don't that was a younger thing to me, but

531
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 2: like I think as you get older, you're a little better.

532
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 2: I would assume.

533
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's forget.

534
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,959
Speaker 1: I've asked my nigga, like, you're going to change these

535
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: sheets between me and whoever else has been here, like

536
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: change the sheets.

537
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 2: I'm not.

538
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 3: I don't really like to go to men's houses either.

539
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,719
Speaker 3: I like going to women's houses, so you don't, I do,

540
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 3: like I want to see how they.

541
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:54,239
Speaker 2: Live one yeah, I mean I do, like not not

542
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: just that, but you can't tell a lot. I like,

543
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 2: you know, seeing how kept everything is, because there's been

544
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 2: times where I was like, I need it's.

545
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: Always like you know, it's always it's always a fine

546
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:08,200
Speaker 1: ass bitch, a dirty as house. It's always the finest

547
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: bitch with the nicest ship, who has the dirtiest Funny.

548
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 2: It's funny because usually like for the like for the

549
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 2: most part, when they're like their house is great, but

550
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 2: the car is a fucking tornado.

551
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 3: My cars.

552
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 2: Cars are tornado, your mom, like I got here, Like

553
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 2: can I sit inside?

554
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 3: Or day three of my car after a car wash?

555
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 3: It's like, did you even wash?

556
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 4: It gives no fucks man. And also I don't give

557
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 4: a fuck. I've just been throwing it in there. I'll

558
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 4: come back and get it.

559
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 3: I'm carrying forty thousand things in the car with me

560
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 3: at once and then forgetting at least half of them

561
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 3: on exit.

562
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 4: I feel you, but you're right. You know, men really

563
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 4: care about cars. I feel like women are not. You know,

564
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,200
Speaker 4: like men really the opposite. Right, men will wash their

565
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 4: car way or they'll ever wash their sheet.

566
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:58,200
Speaker 3: Gross, I need you to apply the same sheep.

567
00:25:58,320 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: That's true.

568
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 4: Men, Please, I beg of you wash your sheets. At

569
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 4: least you just like do two weeks like that's I

570
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 4: don't feel like. Let's ask me a lot. That's literally

571
00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 4: twice a month, like yeah, it really it should be

572
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 4: once a week, it really should be.

573
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 3: And so many partners you're having, Yeah, I'll switch some.

574
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 3: She just buy some buy three pairs so you don't

575
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 3: have to.

576
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's definitely yeah, that's definitely no, not at all.

577
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 2: That should get dingy quick, bro. I learned that in

578
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 2: college I was like, I probably would get some new ships,

579
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 2: but like a year it washed me over.

580
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 4: You me, I'm a squirt on them, so like you

581
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,880
Speaker 4: really got to wash these because it's not gonna it's

582
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 4: not gonna work.

583
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's why I remember there's one girl I

584
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: was messing with and she was a squatter. I was like,

585
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 2: we're gonna have to go to a hotel because you're

586
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: gonna fuck all my ship up.

587
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 3: Hotel the hotel.

588
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 2: I like hotel sex a lot. I don't know, it

589
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 2: brings a level of nastiness out of us, right. You

590
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 2: just feel like you're like there's no restrictions for whatever reason,

591
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:55,239
Speaker 2: I don't know.

592
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 3: Before we started this episode, we were sharonas asked me

593
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 3: if I've ever had sex and in this office face and.

594
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:07,120
Speaker 4: No, I have not my mom, but office sex is hot.

595
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 4: But I have had sex at my workplace, just not

596
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 4: this workplace. When I worked at Starbucks. I definitely Starbucks bathroom.

597
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 4: Also in the back, also in the like in the front,

598
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 4: like when it's closed.

599
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 3: Inside this like righte by the Frappucna machine.

600
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 2: I love it now. Was this a co workers?

601
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 3: He was my boss, he was the leader. I'm sucking

602
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 3: the lead very still at the jest wasn't in stories

603
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 3: you know that you know that Starbucks over there in

604
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 3: Sina and Louise turned.

605
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 2: That was me. I love it. Okay good.

606
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 4: So when I work, I was an intern at Geffen

607
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 4: Records definitely fucked my other boss in the stairwell and

608
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 4: he was He's like, I have a project for you,

609
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 4: like I want I like got all these magazine covers

610
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 4: and I like started, you know, like like this window,

611
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 4: there's like a door and there's a window. I like

612
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 4: magazine covers all over them, specifically so that we could

613
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 4: funk in his office.

614
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 3: It was it was like, oh stylish, but really it

615
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 3: was like.

616
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 4: It was yeah, it was intern. I was like, let

617
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 4: me let me make your door look more fashionable.

618
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 2: Can I ask you how this sparked up between you?

619
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 2: Like all this I love this ship? So how did

620
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: it like being the intern in the boss, like how

621
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 2: did that spark up? Like what was the moment? What

622
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 2: did he say or did you press him? Like? What

623
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 2: was it?

624
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 3: It was just it was probably me.

625
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 4: He was kind of shy, it's a nerd.

626
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 3: And I was like I want to conquer you.

627
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 4: Andrew my boss and you told me what to do,

628
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 4: and I'm sexually so not any not in my break

629
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 4: everyday life, don't ever try to tell me what to do.

630
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 2: But which I find that to be a common thing.

631
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 4: It's like because we just don't want to be in control. Yeah,

632
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 4: people around all day long. So yeah, I definitely probably

633
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 4: took advantage of that. And then he was my boyfriend

634
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 4: for like three years.

635
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 3: It was a little crazy. Can we actually interviewed him?

636
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 2: Really?

637
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, what was that episode called? Like, let's work?

638
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 4: I guess I'm getting I got back with my ex

639
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we got back with our exes?

640
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 2: Wait do I? Oh wait? Do I know this person?

641
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 3: I don't think so maybe I don't know, okay not director, Yes,

642
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 3: yes I do.

643
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 2: Was on the phone with him, right right? Yeah? Okay,

644
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: well now yeah yeah Matt yep he does. I've known

645
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 2: him for like over decad. Yeah.

646
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 3: Shout out to Matt.

647
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 2: Wow that makes me so proud. Yeah, it's right, Yes

648
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 2: he is. You know directors, they're visualism and they like

649
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 2: a little nerdy. Yeah my visual treatment. Good shout out

650
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: to man. I love it.

651
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 4: But you were sharing that you have had sex on

652
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 4: the job, and you know, as you know, Sharonas is

653
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 4: a famous actor tour.

654
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 2: It's not like I said, it's not something I really

655
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 2: it's harder for me, Like you know, doing that, you're

656
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: always there's constantly people knocking and knocking.

657
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,959
Speaker 3: Also that's the fun of it.

658
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's that's what it was. But to be fair,

659
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 2: to be honest, though I don't want to get people

660
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 2: to exit. It wasn't like on nothing big that people

661
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 2: Now this is years.

662
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 3: Let people dream, shun God, let them think you got

663
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 3: your baby while I'm pregnant.

664
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 2: They did it made a baby in my trailer? Now no,

665
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 2: but yeah, this but it was like to me that

666
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 2: was that was the fun of it too, because you know,

667
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 2: you had like but they're like, okay, we're gonna come

668
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 2: get you in like eight minutes, okay, and we just

669
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 2: like sneak away and then get a little quickie in

670
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:58,360
Speaker 2: and you know, lift up her skirt and then just

671
00:30:58,560 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 2: picked her up and.

672
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 3: Just you're a big nigga. Though that trailer must have

673
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 3: been rocking.

674
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:09,959
Speaker 2: It's very true, to be honestly, So the way I

675
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 2: wasn't in it, I was outside of it because my

676
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 2: trailer was against like a building and there was like

677
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 2: space in between and like you'd have to like, no

678
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: one's really going back there, right, So we would hear

679
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 2: them coming from like because of the gravel from over there,

680
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: and so I just kind of had her like on

681
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: the wall and we were in between and outside we

682
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 2: could have been seen, but like there's like a parking

683
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 2: structure right there, whatever's protection. Absolutely not. I didn't. I didn't.

684
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: I didn't have that time.

685
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 3: I mean, nobody likes condoms, fact, right.

686
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 2: But I also we were like, you know that was

687
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: what you did.

688
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: You're in the Yeah, what's what's the right amount of

689
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 1: time to take off a condom with someone?

690
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 2: Great question? Right? I feel like.

691
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: Like, are you let the woman do it?

692
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 4: Are you just kind of like go in just like

693
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 4: feel the vibe and just like it's hope she doesn't say ship.

694
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 2: Like it's funny. I feel like I've done both. But like, honestly,

695
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: especially like that, like I wanted to be this mutual thing.

696
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 2: I kind of it's like this thing where you know,

697
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:15,239
Speaker 2: you both are kind of playing cow mouse with it.

698
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 2: There's been times, oh my god, there's been times with

699
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 2: the condoms in the fucking hand, right, and you're like

700
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: all right, like you know and.

701
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 3: You guys look responsible.

702
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 2: It was all no. The thing was like one time

703
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 2: there was like all intentions to but I could feel

704
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 2: her like, you know, you guys do the thing, you

705
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: grab and you start like that.

706
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 1: She said that was that is like nigga, don't put

707
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: that ship on the rack at the entrance.

708
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 2: That means that, Like I was like, how do you

709
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: feel this? And then you ever seen that like Kermit

710
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 2: the Frog mean where he's like, we're the rains on

711
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 2: the window. That's how you being the condom and ship

712
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 2: like you rather like to me, I'm good using the

713
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 2: condam for a long time, as long as I don't

714
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: feel like it. We're all like, don't let me feel it,

715
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,640
Speaker 2: because once we do, there's no turning bag.

716
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 3: Never.

717
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: There's no turning bag ever again ever again.

718
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 3: And then like in our minds, if you do it

719
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: one time, you're like, okay, well we're.

720
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 2: Fine, right, we're good now.

721
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: If you have something already got continued six months, but

722
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: we're good.

723
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 3: I'm your last one right so close.

724
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 2: That's so funny, man, that's so true. You go back,

725
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 2: you swing it back around, You're like, well we've already

726
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 2: established we don't use those right.

727
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we know we're responsible. We know you know

728
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 3: that we're the only ones that do this. Yeah, we

729
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 3: don't do this with anymore.

730
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 2: I do, Unlike a lot of men, I do get

731
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 2: like tested pretty regularly. Like I don't I've even done

732
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 2: it for some reason. We're like I haven't. Let's just

733
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: say I have section three months and I'm like, let

734
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 2: me just maybe they missed something that first time. To

735
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 2: make sure. So I do get tested for sure, I try,

736
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: like especially like if I know if I'm sitting some

737
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: up and I'm like, all right, this seems like this

738
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 2: is about to be a new thing going on here.

739
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna get tested because I'm gonna be like,

740
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 2: oh I was clean, What the fuck is going on

741
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,919
Speaker 2: with you? Don't put this on me? Like, I get

742
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 2: my ship ready, I get my arguments ready, Like what

743
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 2: the you know what I'm saying?

744
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:22,360
Speaker 3: Argument documents?

745
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I go through the files and ship here

746
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 2: you go. Because this was a week before we have.

747
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 3: I do nothing that last week.

748
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.

749
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm so shreness. We have a game on

750
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 3: our show. I think we might have played it last

751
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 3: time with here ohgger yeah yeah, yeah, okay, okay, and

752
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 3: it's a game where we say a word and you

753
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 3: say the first thing that comes to your mind. So

754
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 3: don't overthink it, okay and trigger.

755
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 2: Yeah.

756
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 3: Also, you guys, just note make sure you subscribe to

757
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:03,359
Speaker 3: your YouTube channel. Watch you play this game. He's looking

758
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 3: like a big sexy daddy. I was gonna say.

759
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 2: Not Candy Cord. I'll take you wax ass candy candle

760
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: wax with flavor.

761
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 4: He took his shirt off, his shirtless, he is shirtless.

762
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 3: Go to YouTube beat, ok, pull up a shirt.

763
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 2: Gay man your body roll? Oh man. First of all, man,

764
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 2: all those guys are like five three, they got to

765
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 2: be shredded.

766
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 3: They've got they've got.

767
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 2: They should be shredded. Right, you're like compact, right.

768
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta come with the shreds when you're

769
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: like five under five five better?

770
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:53,320
Speaker 3: What the pussy eating in shreds? Pussy eating that's actually

771
00:35:53,920 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 3: should be mixtpe. So you know, as moms, we're so busy.

772
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 1: We make sure our kids are fed, they're going to school,

773
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: they're staying healthy.

774
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 3: Happy, safe.

775
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: We do all this while working, earning a living and

776
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: taking care of the home. And I'm fucking pooped, Like

777
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: I have no time and space. It really gives me anxiety,

778
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: and lately I've been taking Swiss Navy Wow. It's a

779
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: natural mood enhancer and it keeps the kitty wet wet.

780
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 3: I know.

781
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 4: Listen, Sometimes getting in the mood for sex can feel

782
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 4: like a chore, but with Swiss Navy Wow, it gets

783
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,000
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784
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 4: all natural. It also has mood and energy ingredients like

785
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Speaker 4: cacao which helps increases your serotonin level, and it contains

786
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 4: ierrevetic ingredients that increase vaginal lubrication for faster arousal and

787
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 4: enhanced sensation. Listen, one in three women struggle with low libido.

788
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,799
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789
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:04,239
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793
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 4: the other night I was listening to Dipsy. You know

794
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 4: the dipsy app.

795
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know the Dipsey app. Okay, well, you guys.

796
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:29,240
Speaker 4: The Dipsy app is this app with hundreds of sexy

797
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 4: audio stories and when I tell you there was this

798
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 4: story about this couple that met a couple out in

799
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 4: the club, and it's like you're really in the room

800
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 4: with them, like the moaning, the sexy talk, and you know,

801
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 4: and we all know you love a dirty mouth.

802
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 1: Jamie, I love a dirty mouth. That's why I super

803
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 1: love Dipsy. And there's so many different types of stories

804
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: to choose from, whether you're lesbian, whether you're queer, there's

805
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 1: just like all the variety, and there's always new ones dropping.

806
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:57,960
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807
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808
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810
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,719
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811
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812
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813
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:26,919
Speaker 3: Good Moms, Happy listening, Okay, love, amazing marriage, scary, bad habits.

814
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 2: Die, Bad habits die?

815
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 3: Oh okay, you don't have any bad habbites.

816
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: They died. I usually make them die.

817
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 3: Oh okay, got it.

818
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 4: You're really good at getting rid of those co parenting

819
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 4: solid are you single?

820
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 2: Yes?

821
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:45,959
Speaker 3: Fatherhood?

822
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 2: Sheesh? You for it.

823
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:57,719
Speaker 3: I only I've heard AGAs a long time spirituality a

824
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 3: necessity religion. Think you most toxic trait, impatient, very impatient.

825
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 2: Get rid of the pride.

826
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 3: We'll just throw back of joints at me.

827
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 4: Monogamy doable, open relationship, doable, pre.

828
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 2: Nup mhm mhm, possibility not.

829
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 3: One hundred percent?

830
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

831
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 3: Like what is she? What is She's richer than you?

832
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 2: I'll sign hers.

833
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:54,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, favorite R and B artist right now, Lucky Day,

834
00:39:55,480 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 3: favorite alcoholic beverage, Harry Pussy.

835
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 2: Vintage.

836
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 3: It was a good one period head.

837
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 2: Down, period, sex down.

838
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 3: Like that favorite sex position.

839
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: How do I explain it? I don't know the name.

840
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: You need to to reenact it. Guys, you we can

841
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 1: help you help that. We're professional.

842
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 2: Got who's you want me to?

843
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 3: Come on?

844
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna show you exactly what is so?

845
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:42,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so it's gotta be on the table.

846
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 2: I just want to you gotta get like you gotta

847
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 2: get on your stomach first and then and then.

848
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 3: You need to move the candle. Oh my god, oh

849
00:40:54,280 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 3: my god, your waves gonna So you are okay, okay,

850
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 3: but that's I think they call that the barrel the wheelbarrow?

851
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 3: Uh is that like the backwards cancer.

852
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 2: So I feel like I want to call like the

853
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 2: jack knife or something like I'll give you something cool.

854
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 2: But like yeah, she was like you know like that, well.

855
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 3: Thank you for that. I'm gonna have to use that

856
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 3: at home.

857
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 2: It's great, Okay, it's great reviews too, so.

858
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 3: Because you can really get in there. Really to go

859
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 3: to YouTube because you didn't have to see the jack.

860
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 2: Jack kne jack.

861
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 3: You want to seem to me like a jack knife

862
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:45,920
Speaker 3: YouTube right now.

863
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 4: Topless doing jack knife skark cavell.

864
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:53,879
Speaker 2: Go to YouTube. I read it off.

865
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 3: My titties are also out.

866
00:41:55,880 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, uh hard know.

867
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: Uh no anal to me, No, no, you don't wan

868
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:09,800
Speaker 1: anything nothing, not even like a finger.

869
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 2: The most I've let was like around it say around.

870
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 2: It's just oh de sensitive, feel good. It's too sensitive.

871
00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 2: I can't even enjoy it.

872
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 3: You're gonna like it?

873
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 4: No, you just relax. You ever tried breathing? He's not breathing.

874
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 2: I have I did all that. I took all the notes. Yo,

875
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 2: I took all the notes.

876
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 3: Do you not trust? Is it? Is it a trust thing?

877
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 3: Level of trust? Right?

878
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 2: Maybe? Also like I feel like I have a like

879
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: a fragile like I care pretty easy when I go

880
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 2: to the like Google and I'm just kind of like,

881
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: I just don't want to mess with that anymore than

882
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 2: you have to have like it?

883
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 3: What about do you do? Do anal women?

884
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:59,359
Speaker 2: I eat that. I put my thumb in there. I

885
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 2: thought myself in it.

886
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 3: Uh.

887
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 2: Pet peeve, uh, pet peeve.

888
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 3: Lack of communication, machority, celebrity crush, that's.

889
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: Just oh, I have a celebrity crush right now.

890
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 3: Uh.

891
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 2: For a while, it was make the stallion mm hmm.

892
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 2: I was wanting her to suffocate me.

893
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 3: Yeahs like sit on your face.

894
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, just sit on my face and crush me with

895
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 2: her thighs.

896
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 3: She has strong thighs. Yeah, I have a crush on her.

897
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 2: Man. He's very talented.

898
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 3: I saw him one time in New York.

899
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 2: It's a big guy. He is like they makes sense.

900
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 3: I saw him picking her up today on like the

901
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 3: shade room. I was like, you must be strong. Was

902
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 3: a little turned on its like he's a strong man.

903
00:43:55,480 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's you. Mushrooms, Oh, mushrooms, freeing.

904
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 3: Married women, untouchable, masturbation.

905
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 2: Hm hmm, masturbation up moderately, Like I do it moderately.

906
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 3: Why why are you so many rules.

907
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,919
Speaker 2: Because you could get desensitized, like I said, I watched

908
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 2: poorn to masturbate, but or I watch my own, my

909
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 2: own archives, which I prefer. You can get desensitized and

910
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 2: like your loads a lighter, you don't get as hard,

911
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 2: and so to do it moderately is fine because then

912
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 2: it just keeps my stamina up, like I get a

913
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 2: relief whatever, and then that just holds me over until

914
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 2: the next time.

915
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 3: Are you a male sex sport?

916
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 2: I do? I do, Yeah, I do. I don't know.

917
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 2: I kind of enjoy having like a big load, because

918
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 2: when you edge that, I think women enjoy it. Yeah.

919
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's sexy. It's very sexy. Cannabis. Oh, lovely therapy.

920
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:15,440
Speaker 3: We did biggest regret, biggest regret.

921
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 2: Wow, I would say, oh man, how I responded to

922
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 2: the toxicity of of of of a past relationship. I

923
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 2: would say, how we both handled that? That was a

924
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 2: regret that we're thankfully good now. It took a while

925
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 2: to be cool. How how we both were. It was

926
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 2: very volatile. It was like, you know, nasty place in

927
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 2: our lives. We were young and didn't know. We thought,

928
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 2: you know, you think you know what love is at

929
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 2: one point, but you didn't really know what it was.

930
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 2: Nothing healthy about it. You never had good examples both

931
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 2: of us growing up with our love. So how we

932
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 2: both respondent was very very nasty.

933
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 3: Now what you're like big non negotiable in a relationship?

934
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 2: Wow? I mean a couple like if you don't want

935
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:16,440
Speaker 2: to have kids, it's tough.

936
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 3: Oh so you want more kids?

937
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 2: Absolutely? I love you father definitely want like like two

938
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 2: more too. And this time if my if like you know,

939
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 2: my one is down for it and I'm pretty close

940
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 2: together if she knows up for it because the zim

941
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 2: is going to be I'm assuming, uh, significantly older, but

942
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 2: life to I think she will be, which in a

943
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 2: sense I think could be nice because you have a

944
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 2: little helper, you know, But then it'd be nice to

945
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 2: have them too closer.

946
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:58,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, biggest turn off in a relationship.

947
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 2: The biggest turn off two I would just say hypocrisy

948
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: and low sex drives. He was turned off from me?

949
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 3: Amen. I think those are two, at least one of them.

950
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 3: I never really thought about low sex drive I have.

951
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 3: I can't do that.

952
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 4: I never said it was a non negotiable day I have.

953
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 4: How could I forget?

954
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 2: I don't know how right it was someone such appetite. Yeah,

955
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 2: not yet, absolutely not. No, that's going through strides like

956
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 2: that you have you guys ever went through like a

957
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 2: pocket with some money where it was just not happening.

958
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 3: I was that I was that person.

959
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 4: I was super unsexual at one point in a certain relationship.

960
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 2: For a while. Yea. And this was all internal or

961
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 2: at first it was like it was like didn't have

962
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 2: to do with you or was it a mixture of

963
00:47:58,200 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 2: him and what you were going on?

964
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,080
Speaker 4: He wanted to fuck me, but I just yeah, it

965
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 4: was I realized that it was definitely a lot more

966
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 4: of a mental It was a mental block because and

967
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 4: I started questioning myself like, am I just like I'm

968
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 4: this fresh.

969
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 2: After a baby though it was his postpartum yeah, okay, no.

970
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 4: Kind of postpartum also before the baby. So I know

971
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 4: that it was like a mental thing, like it was

972
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 4: something that that I didn't want to accept. It was

973
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 4: like in my subconscious that this person, I can't trust

974
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 4: this person, and so because I couldn't trust them, my

975
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 4: body didn't trust them and didn't get around, wouldn't get

976
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 4: aroused in the ways that it did initially, because there

977
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 4: was a time where like all I wanted to do.

978
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 2: Was this person right?

979
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 3: And then I was like what the fuck? Then I

980
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 3: was like, is something wrong with me?

981
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 2: Am?

982
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 4: I just like an warny now, like my priorities have changed,

983
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 4: like no, right?

984
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 3: And then we broke up.

985
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 4: And then I started in sex with other people and

986
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, no, bitch, it was it was

987
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,800
Speaker 4: that fast situation. Yeah, okay, probably there was a mixture

988
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 4: of probably postpartum this.

989
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:01,320
Speaker 2: For sure, and maybe whatever he was doing.

990
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 3: Distress recipe for fucking sex.

991
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 2: Disaster of course, course course nothing.

992
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 3: Would make your pussy dryer, at least in mine.

993
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:11,879
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, I feel like the number one thing

994
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 2: for a woman in relationship would be security. Feeling safe

995
00:49:16,040 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 2: in all aspects right there could be emotionally, physically, whatever

996
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 2: that means. And if she doesn't feel one hundred percent

997
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:26,240
Speaker 2: secure with her partner, I feel that a pussy turns

998
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 2: into a barbie and closes up. I would feel like

999
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 2: I would imagine it.

1000
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 3: Does some, but for some it doesn't.

1001
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 4: Because some women like that's how they that's how they

1002
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 4: feel like they're going to like I don't know, like.

1003
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: Oh, like oh fix it, or going to say yeah,

1004
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 2: there you.

1005
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 4: Go, you know, I don't know but for me, it

1006
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 4: just it just wasn't but I think that But now

1007
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 4: I'm like, wow, I don't.

1008
00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 3: Now I know that that's a sign of unhappiness for me.

1009
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 3: So now moving forward, if that were to ever happen

1010
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 3: with someone, I'm like, for sure something's not right.

1011
00:49:55,640 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 2: Here. Was he expressing his frustrations about that, or he

1012
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 2: was like kind of just keeping it in.

1013
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah he was getting it out though.

1014
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:12,399
Speaker 4: I'm getting it out somewhere else and like shit, I mean,

1015
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 4: obviously better ways to handle it.

1016
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 2: But look, for sure, I'm not. I like, I just

1017
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 2: remember having a boy. He was like, man, me and

1018
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 2: my grand hand sections. It was like seven or eight months.

1019
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 3: I was like, in relationships, I ain't that crazy.

1020
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,319
Speaker 2: Mary find that insane.

1021
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 3: A lot of married people don't have to be married.

1022
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 2: He just you don't they weren't married. But like he

1023
00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 2: was like seven eight months. I was like, I was

1024
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 2: like okay. I was like, I was like, are you cheating? Bro?

1025
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 2: And he was just like no, I haven't cheated. I said, oh,

1026
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 2: pretty solid. Because I'm out of there, I will step out,

1027
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 2: I know me, like, because one I'm going to communicate

1028
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 2: this over and over and I will say hey, I'm

1029
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 2: just letting you know. Now, if we're not fucking here,

1030
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 2: I'm fucking somewhere else. At some point you get you

1031
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 2: get warnings, right, and if she's not community, but she

1032
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 2: has to be communicating with me what she's going through.

1033
00:51:02,920 --> 00:51:04,840
Speaker 2: If it's just like not really being communicated, I'm like,

1034
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 2: I don't know what you expect from me. Like if

1035
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 2: I'm not if I'm not aware about what you're going through,

1036
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 2: how can I empathize or sympathize with the situation and

1037
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 2: trying to figure that out together? So then now we

1038
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 2: both get our needs met, you know what I mean,

1039
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: Because I don't want to feel like a fucking chore.

1040
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 2: And there's been times where I remember it was a

1041
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 2: stretch one time where I felt like it was a

1042
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 2: chore for the girl, and I was just like, yeah, right,

1043
00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 2: right right, I'm just like, you know what, you're welcome

1044
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 2: first out the fuck. Yeah yeah. So yeah for me,

1045
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 2: I don't know, like if that was if it was

1046
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 2: flip for y'all, if you guy's not giving you no

1047
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 2: date for like six months.

1048
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:49,360
Speaker 1: Oh, I would would take less than that. I cheated

1049
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: actually on that guy that didn't come. He wasn't very

1050
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: sexual I feel like I was like leading it. I

1051
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 1: am a sexual person, and I associate a physical touch

1052
00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: with like intimacy.

1053
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,760
Speaker 2: And I do that's your that's your top language.

1054
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:03,359
Speaker 3: It's one of them.

1055
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,479
Speaker 1: It's important to me, Like I want, I like long

1056
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 1: for a relationship that's very intimate and like be kiss

1057
00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 1: and we make out and I look at you and

1058
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: time like that.

1059
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 3: That's high on the list for me.

1060
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

1061
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 1: So Yeah, even the guy we weren't dating along, but

1062
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you're not that sexual and you're

1063
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:21,480
Speaker 1: kind of old nigga.

1064
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 2: Like this is just not We're not gonna get any better.

1065
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: It hasn't been on the forefront of your mind for

1066
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: a reason. So I am not about like and I tried.

1067
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 1: But it's also like, and I said, I could fuck

1068
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: other people. How about you? How do you feel like

1069
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 1: fuck other people? Because if you're if this is not

1070
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 1: your thing, I don't understand how you're not thinking about it,

1071
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: But like I'm thinking about it.

1072
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 3: That's how I feel.

1073
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 4: I would that would be the next thing. So I'm

1074
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:46,560
Speaker 4: going to have sex with other people now. And I

1075
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 4: love you you We are going to work through this, baby.

1076
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 3: How good I need And at some point I'm gonna

1077
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 3: be like, do you fuck with me? Because I also,

1078
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if this is area either I associate that.

1079
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 2: I would think that I'm gonna be real it's in

1080
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 2: and I've found a way to not. Like, I just

1081
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 2: realized there's a way to not I stop viewing that

1082
00:53:07,840 --> 00:53:09,799
Speaker 2: as a negative because at some point I think I

1083
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 2: did because I felt in America like sex is kind

1084
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,360
Speaker 2: of shamed in certain ways versus other countries, which is

1085
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 2: way way more sexual. I just learned through that through

1086
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 2: like advertisement stuff, right, But I just realized, like, you know,

1087
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 2: if I'm talking about top three most important things and sex,

1088
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 2: I mean sex and relationships, sex is in there, right,

1089
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:30,240
Speaker 2: And I realized, well, it's because I'm a sexual person

1090
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 2: and being and it's not attached to like trauma or anything.

1091
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 2: So I know that about me. So I'm a sexual

1092
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 2: person being, and why wouldn't I want something that fulfills

1093
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 2: me in that way? And so there is a sense

1094
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 2: where like, because to love someone, I want to give

1095
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 2: you what you need. Right, You're gonna tell me what

1096
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 2: your needs are. I'm asking for that in return. If

1097
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 2: sex is one of them and you're not giving me that,

1098
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 2: I feel like there's no consideration here about what we

1099
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:56,400
Speaker 2: both wanted, especially if we communicated clearly.

1100
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 3: Wait, I have a question for you.

1101
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'm starting, I'm thinking I can't help but

1102
00:54:00,760 --> 00:54:05,360
Speaker 4: think about our episode with self proclaimed asexual you know,

1103
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 4: and like, there are a sexual people and I think

1104
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 4: also maybe you might shift into a sexuality within a relationship.

1105
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 3: Does that mean the relationship end? It does? Like a

1106
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 3: sexual Wow?

1107
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 2: What did I do? That's why I'm a thing. Yeah,

1108
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 2: like it's done. I'm gonna be like, damn, I've really

1109
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 2: sent her over the edge. Gay, I'd rather you turn gay?

1110
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 2: Like you a sexual? That means you want none of

1111
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 2: us or women like that? Might?

1112
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:36,000
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay.

1113
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 4: What if it's just someone is like going through something

1114
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 4: and then they're cut off from their sexuality.

1115
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 3: It really has nothing to do with you, per se.

1116
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 3: It doesn't mean they'll always stay that way.

1117
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:51,239
Speaker 4: How do you work through that with someone that is

1118
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 4: going through that in a way?

1119
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:53,399
Speaker 3: That's one thing.

1120
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 1: And then maybe I'm going to support you because I

1121
00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 1: love you and I'm gonna maybe get some summer else.

1122
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 3: I don't have to tell you the details. I'm just

1123
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:04,280
Speaker 3: gonna let you know. It may or may not happen.

1124
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 2: It may not, but it may I feel yeah, because

1125
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:11,120
Speaker 2: like like, here's my thing? Am I So while this

1126
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:13,480
Speaker 2: is going on, I'm trying to be supportive and talk

1127
00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 2: this out with you, and I'm over anything. I'm like,

1128
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:19,359
Speaker 2: are we going to therapy? Are we? You know? Are we?

1129
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,919
Speaker 2: How are we outsourcing this? Is it just in house?

1130
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:25,839
Speaker 2: What are we doing here and throughout that time? If

1131
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 2: it's a long period of time, I'm an asshole. I

1132
00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:32,319
Speaker 2: go like, you know what I mean?

1133
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 3: I mean, it's true. It's like, why do I have

1134
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 3: to go through what you're going through? Like I can

1135
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 3: support you? How do I have to? Why do I

1136
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 3: have to be self deprived in a way and not?

1137
00:55:42,239 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 3: You know, I think that does sound selfish, but it's

1138
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 3: not really. I think like someone as much as you

1139
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,240
Speaker 3: can until it then really feels.

1140
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 2: Like exactly pouring a threshold, right, there's a ceiling to

1141
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 2: certain I'm like, how long am I here for this?

1142
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 2: How Like? At some point if it's not being figured out, okay,

1143
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 2: I'll try. Oh damn, I.

1144
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 3: Want to.

1145
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:07,360
Speaker 2: Wipe me.

1146
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:11,760
Speaker 3: What is she doing?

1147
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I don't know. I just I'm on

1148
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 2: for trying to help your partner get through anything. But

1149
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 2: I mean, it's not like there's a time saying you

1150
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:23,839
Speaker 2: can put on something because you're you're in it, right,

1151
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 2: you don't know, you're just looking up the next thing.

1152
00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 2: You know, you're like this.

1153
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: But there's also like this crazy expectation that when you're

1154
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 1: in a relationship that then I am somehow responsible.

1155
00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:36,399
Speaker 2: For your all things right, And like I I'm one.

1156
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: Of the people, Like I get scared if you said,

1157
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 1: like people start having to like emotional issues, right, I'm

1158
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:45,360
Speaker 1: already responsible for my own feelings. I have a child

1159
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:49,800
Speaker 1: who's is developing feelings that I'm responsible for. I don't

1160
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 1: have a lot. For three people, that's a lot, And

1161
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: naturally it happens. When you care about someone, You're going

1162
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 1: you're going to give yourself, you know, as much as

1163
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:00,799
Speaker 1: you can. But there comes a point where I think

1164
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 1: it's important to be intentional when growing a relationship.

1165
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 3: That we are aware that I am not going through

1166
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 3: what you're.

1167
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 2: Going why communication and vice person.

1168
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 1: I can be happy for you, we can celebrate together,

1169
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: and I can be sad for you, and I can

1170
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: hold space for you, but I cannot consume myself and

1171
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: whatever it is you know, and that that needs to

1172
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 1: be normalized more often because right like that, that type

1173
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: of shit scares me.

1174
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 4: You know, it could help, but think but like I'm

1175
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 4: not going through what you're going through, and like, but

1176
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 4: that should be an added plus, Like maybe I'm gonna

1177
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 4: stay right here in this vibration where.

1178
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 3: You need to be you need to get back to,

1179
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 3: so let me stay here. Yeah, while you're there, and

1180
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 3: I'm going to keep pulling you up.

1181
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:42,439
Speaker 2: That's yeah. That Yeah, now you like verbalize it like that. Yeah,

1182
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 2: that makes sense. I guess like as long as I

1183
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 2: feel like my behavior is not triggering them in any way,

1184
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 2: then yeah, I guess that would be some type of

1185
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 2: finish line for you to look at, Like all right,

1186
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 2: like as long as I keep running this race, right

1187
00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 2: what you said something about like when someone's like going

1188
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,440
Speaker 2: through emotional stuff, like when someone's like erratic with their emotions,

1189
00:57:59,480 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 2: like especially in the past couple of years, I see

1190
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 2: like I tap all the way out like because I

1191
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 2: find it some immaturity and that and some irresponsibility with that,

1192
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 2: and it gets poured onto me. I'm thinking about one

1193
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 2: person in particular, and she's just like it would be

1194
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 2: so like just very all over the place where emotions.

1195
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: She's great, right, and then you know, you have a

1196
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 2: great day, you know, and then you know she'll leave

1197
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 2: go home the next day. You know, maybe you don't

1198
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 2: text her that morning, and then it's just like all

1199
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 2: this stuff and I'm just like, what man makes me

1200
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 2: want to throw my fucking phone. I'm just like, bro like,

1201
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 2: and that happened, and that happened really often. We never

1202
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 2: actually got to a point of a relationship. That's because

1203
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,959
Speaker 2: I was like, I could never do that.

1204
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 3: Well, because you couldn't get to that point.

1205
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,760
Speaker 2: No, and she and but also my problem is the

1206
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 2: ironic thing is she wants me like She'll say, like

1207
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 2: she wants me to take accountability for hurting her. But

1208
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, but what did I do? I need

1209
00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 2: to know what I'm taking account of because she doesn't

1210
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 2: want to take accountability for her erratic emotions, and that

1211
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 2: it drives me in saying to the point I don't

1212
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 2: even know why. I'm like, why am I still entertaining

1213
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 2: these conversations? But it's just I guess there's a part

1214
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 2: of it wants to get through.

1215
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 3: She wants you to say that you made her feel this.

1216
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 2: Way, yeah, exactly, And I'm like there's a general if

1217
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,120
Speaker 2: I ask the people around you, I'm going to get

1218
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 2: something along the lines more like with what I've dealt.

1219
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 3: With, everyone knows you're crazy.

1220
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 2: We all know it.

1221
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 3: I don't even know it's crazy. It's true. Take responsibility

1222
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 3: for your ship, you.

1223
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 4: Know, when you're the common denominator. Like some Thmese people

1224
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 4: just don't want to take responsibility for that. Like everyone

1225
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:44,320
Speaker 4: has to go through that. There's been times where I've

1226
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 4: had to realize that I'm the common denominator in a

1227
00:59:46,520 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 4: situation right.

1228
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 2: Right right, I'm a same that's happened to me because

1229
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:53,439
Speaker 2: I'm like I've literally said to somebody before, I'm like, okay,

1230
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 2: tell about like I've said this about you, and like

1231
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 2: so you're telling me all these people are lying and

1232
00:59:58,960 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 2: tripping right.

1233
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 4: Everyone everybody, But it was that situation, it was different,

1234
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 4: and I'm just.

1235
01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 2: Like, oh gosh, man. And I mean because when you

1236
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 2: even deal with that, like with a family member or

1237
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 2: something like that, you're just like wow, like you know,

1238
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 2: we're stuck here.

1239
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 3: It's crazy.

1240
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is much which took me forever. I actually

1241
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 2: understand what that gaslighting because I felt like there was

1242
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,120
Speaker 2: a time where I was reading it so much on

1243
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 2: social media where I said like, okay, okay, like one

1244
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: of my I'll tell you big pet people in mind,

1245
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 2: there's so many women out there that says that their

1246
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 2: X is a narcissist, and you're going to say that

1247
01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 2: what all everybody? All these men, yeah, all these men

1248
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 2: are No, he could be an asshole and a piece

1249
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 2: of ship. I give you that, miss misdiagnosed, yes, And

1250
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,919
Speaker 2: I'm just like, let's not loosely throw these turns because

1251
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 2: I met diagnosed people that are and I'm like, wow,

1252
01:00:56,400 --> 01:00:57,919
Speaker 2: you know, and I get there's levels to it. Maybe

1253
01:00:57,920 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever, but I'm like,

1254
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 2: we all can't you know, really, just like we got

1255
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 2: five to all seven of the niggas listening to this.

1256
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 2: We gotta find a diagnosis for all the women, Like.

1257
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 3: From nineteen eighty seven to ninety five, all all the

1258
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 3: males born were not.

1259
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 2: There are something, Yeah, there's something.

1260
01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,640
Speaker 3: That actually yea eighties.

1261
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 2: And eighties and nineties, We'll see what happens with the

1262
01:01:31,360 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 2: two thousand babies.

1263
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 3: Male narcissis specifically black maybe not, you know, I don't know,

1264
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:39,479
Speaker 3: but the whites there, you know.

1265
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, you might have to be narcissist, right,

1266
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:45,120
Speaker 2: white men's I mean, entitlement has to be like you know,

1267
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 2: there has to be a marriage with it, right.

1268
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, Jesus, they taught us, they've taught us.

1269
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,120
Speaker 2: No, I don't know, but we're gonna. I'm gonna find

1270
01:01:57,120 --> 01:01:58,400
Speaker 2: something for for women.

1271
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:00,919
Speaker 3: There's a female narcisses this, but we don't get called

1272
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 3: that a lot.

1273
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 2: No, I know, but I'm gonna try to.

1274
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 3: Just get called crazy. You know, psycho.

1275
01:02:04,960 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 2: Orderline, personality disorder words.

1276
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 3: I don't think you usually say that.

1277
01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 2: Brandon Marshall has that. You got no burning Marshall football player.

1278
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,439
Speaker 4: Well, I know the thing I'm just saying, like, oh yeah,

1279
01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 4: narcissism kind of blows off the orderline personalities too much?

1280
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 2: Are your doctor, my nigga? What was going on? Like, yeah,

1281
01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 2: it's too much l.

1282
01:02:23,160 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 3: D BLD got.

1283
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 4: Sounds sexual that maybe she had that BLD.

1284
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 2: You don't do your sexualizing personality disorder. Look at us

1285
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:44,280
Speaker 2: that what.

1286
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 1: We do, make it sexy, make it sexy, make everything

1287
01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:48,680
Speaker 1: personality disorder.

1288
01:02:48,720 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 3: But making sex, how do.

1289
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 2: You write narcisism sexy?

1290
01:02:53,000 --> 01:02:54,439
Speaker 3: Make narcissm sexy again?

1291
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 2: But she was so into himself.

1292
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 3: Just like, like, what is talking all day all night?

1293
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 1: Then he made me feel crazy. He was like, you

1294
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,959
Speaker 1: didn't say that. I was like, yes, I did.

1295
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 3: I just said it. No, you did it.

1296
01:03:15,200 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 1: And then he bought me everything at the store and

1297
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: then he cursed me out and.

1298
01:03:18,560 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 3: Took it back.

1299
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 2: And then he ruined the trip because he had to

1300
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 2: make it about himself at some point, and my family

1301
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 2: had a conversation about it.

1302
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 3: But the point is he flew me out.

1303
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 2: It was free, but it was there's no price on

1304
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 2: free like that.

1305
01:03:42,040 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 4: Made me sleep in the hallway. But then he sucked

1306
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 4: me like crazy. Twenty four hours later.

1307
01:03:45,720 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 3: The policia did come, but like we did them and

1308
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 3: we were good. He sucked me on night. Girl. We

1309
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 3: got in a fight at the airport again, but he

1310
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 3: did fuck me all night.

1311
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:59,240
Speaker 2: I had to buy my flight back actually, but damn,

1312
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 2: this is wow.

1313
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 3: And then he sent me back to the States.

1314
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:07,960
Speaker 2: This happens. I'm sorry for a man gone through this shit. Jeez,

1315
01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 2: we'll make it sexy, but.

1316
01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 1: You got to really listen to the signs when somebody

1317
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 1: is crazy, you'd be knowing you know is crazy.

1318
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 2: The two second time, she sure, all right, niggas forgive

1319
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 2: the fat ass for a little bit.

1320
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 3: Some women will be that you do you get men?

1321
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 3: Do men get pussymatized sematized what like I.

1322
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 2: Know people call it pussy with but yeah that's what

1323
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 2: you in love or just.

1324
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 4: Want to fuck all the time. Like I feel like

1325
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 4: men can compartmentalize a little bit. Women both really will

1326
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:42,040
Speaker 4: not even like ani and get fucked good. I mean

1327
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 4: love like this niggas not my type.

1328
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:49,840
Speaker 2: You know what you could be right, I'm strict, she's

1329
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,000
Speaker 2: not my type, but geez, I will be going back

1330
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,439
Speaker 2: to her Thursday night. So like, yeah, we do compartmentalize. Yeah,

1331
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 2: that is true. But you know there is levels to it,

1332
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 2: because I mean there is you could be sexy attracted someone,

1333
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 2: but then there's like a whole other level with someone

1334
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 2: where you're just like like you feel like I in

1335
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 2: a sense, I don't know, does that is that? Is

1336
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:11,760
Speaker 2: that not a thing with women?

1337
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:14,840
Speaker 3: Like you need like you just need that, Like.

1338
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a difference, Like you could be sexuy, like

1339
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:19,760
Speaker 2: you know, you would have sex with someone or you'd

1340
01:05:19,800 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 2: want to have sex with this person, like you know,

1341
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:23,200
Speaker 2: like I would have sex, you know, but then there's

1342
01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 2: a there's another level where his whereas it's like just

1343
01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 2: like on your mind, like.

1344
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,439
Speaker 3: For sure, like you know when you're in heat, women

1345
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:31,880
Speaker 3: are in heat.

1346
01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have felt extreme ounce of heat where I'm like,

1347
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 4: this is crazy, this is crazy.

1348
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 3: Everybody told you.

1349
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: I was in the car and it's like a Nigga

1350
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:49,080
Speaker 1: drive by and I was like, you can't stop the

1351
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 1: car with your mind right, It's like, Wow, something is

1352
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 1: really wrong.

1353
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 2: Man. Yeah, that's it's a strong thing. But I mean,

1354
01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 2: I don't know have I I don't know what I mean. Look,

1355
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 2: there has been a time where you know, I was

1356
01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 2: liking someone and that sex is really great, and I

1357
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 2: was like, oh shit, I think I'm parking it here

1358
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:14,360
Speaker 2: for a while.

1359
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 3: Did you think you're in love?

1360
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 2: I was like, you know, no, but a long period

1361
01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:22,080
Speaker 2: of time.

1362
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 3: Though difference between men and women, because women.

1363
01:06:24,760 --> 01:06:27,400
Speaker 2: When we are in love, I have seen there's been

1364
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 2: places where I'm like, there where I envisioned the potential

1365
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 2: of it. I was like, because, like, but it could

1366
01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 2: only be like, it could only be like the sex

1367
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 2: has to be good, the pussy has to be good

1368
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:41,080
Speaker 2: attached to like and like she was like she's done

1369
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 2: as fun right, And then you're like, oh my god,

1370
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 2: this is yeah, we go like, you know so, but yeah,

1371
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:52,120
Speaker 2: like that's funny as far as how women go through

1372
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 2: that yet not but also that has I think that

1373
01:06:55,480 --> 01:07:01,280
Speaker 2: speaks more on a level I just on average, when

1374
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 2: I hear women talk about men and their sex and

1375
01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 2: their abilities, I just feel like they grasp onto the

1376
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:08,520
Speaker 2: nigga that knows what the fuck they're doing, you know,

1377
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 2: when they're like, oh, like because with men like to have,

1378
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:17,479
Speaker 2: I don't necessarily have bad sex. I don't, like not

1379
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 2: not for a long time.

1380
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 3: You're saying you've never had bad sex.

1381
01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:22,480
Speaker 2: I have. I'm just saying, like, now like where I

1382
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,320
Speaker 2: feel like I'm way more aware of my body.

1383
01:07:24,360 --> 01:07:25,920
Speaker 3: I'm more in tune with Do you think you make

1384
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 3: sex good? You can make any sex good?

1385
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:39,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think something thirty two follow up, She gave

1386
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:50,560
Speaker 2: me a nod. Yeah. I just wanted to know, I

1387
01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 2: felt because when I be talking about when.

1388
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 1: I was younger, when I was younger and now I

1389
01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 1: know my body, I just wanted to know, from my

1390
01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:59,120
Speaker 1: experience in man years, what that looks.

1391
01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 3: I just wanted to know. I'm sorry, I smoked like

1392
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 3: twelve days guys, and this is the first time. This

1393
01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 3: is a fresh clean hand.

1394
01:08:07,240 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 2: Right rights if I mean I don't know you? So okay,

1395
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:17,679
Speaker 2: like like my boy, you know I have a mutual

1396
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 2: friend right that you've had. You know I'm talking all right,

1397
01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:22,719
Speaker 2: he's older than me, don't you feel?

1398
01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:27,720
Speaker 3: What did you say? We have a mutual friends.

1399
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 2: So he's older than me one of his friends.

1400
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:31,000
Speaker 3: I know, but I was just trying to see how.

1401
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:32,120
Speaker 2: He was a long time ago.

1402
01:08:32,240 --> 01:08:34,559
Speaker 1: I know, but I just thought uncomfortable already. Just tell

1403
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: me I fucked your.

1404
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:38,640
Speaker 2: Friend on No, we know this, we didn't know.

1405
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 3: This is his podcast, this mini partner.

1406
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 2: Sorry, yeah, talk to.

1407
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 3: Me my podcast. You know my friend that.

1408
01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:55,960
Speaker 2: We know that we have. I will cut you.

1409
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 3: What then is wrong with you? Don't ever come from

1410
01:08:58,200 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 3: my friend this way?

1411
01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,719
Speaker 2: Yes, like you know I have a question that goes

1412
01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:02,559
Speaker 2: on topic.

1413
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 3: Okay, okay?

1414
01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 2: And like he's older, do you I mean compared to

1415
01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 2: like maybe the younger he's older than me. I'm saying

1416
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 2: I'm thirty two. I feel he's in thirty, I don't know,

1417
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:16,360
Speaker 2: mid upper mid thirties something like that. You you don't

1418
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 2: find like as far as just in general, like men

1419
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 2: that are I don't know, in the thirties compared to

1420
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 2: someone that's a little younger than you have you on

1421
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 2: average feel like there is a difference.

1422
01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: Ye, for sure, the older you are, I mean hopefully

1423
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,439
Speaker 1: like you're a little bit more in tune with your body.

1424
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:34,160
Speaker 1: I'm more in tune with my body at thirty, Like

1425
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm not going to fucking probably don't quote me here,

1426
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 1: fuck like a twenty five year old and expects you

1427
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 1: know what I mean, like but my might.

1428
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:44,599
Speaker 3: But also like I do expect, even thirty two.

1429
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:46,559
Speaker 1: To me can be young, Like I think a lot

1430
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:49,120
Speaker 1: of times men who thirty two are fucking still immature

1431
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 1: as shit, Like I call it man years, like fucking

1432
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:54,160
Speaker 1: seventeen and man years. You know, we're women. We are

1433
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:57,519
Speaker 1: just more intune periods. Actually, you know we're more mature.

1434
01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 1: Not all the time, but yeah, So when you ask

1435
01:10:01,080 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: me if your friend has like mature sex or like, well,

1436
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 1: I guess.

1437
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 2: I grouped them into that question as far as like

1438
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:08,000
Speaker 2: do you feel do you find that men that are

1439
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 2: in you know, thirties or whatever?

1440
01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 1: I would say generally, but honestly not always like it

1441
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: was a biased question just because like that nigga that

1442
01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,759
Speaker 1: wouldn't come and couldn't stop counting songs was like forty

1443
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,240
Speaker 1: fucking four and like, you know, like I have really

1444
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: bombed sex with a nigga that's like thirty three. But like,

1445
01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:26,920
Speaker 1: and it just it depends how much you've prioritized being

1446
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:28,320
Speaker 1: in touch with your sexuality.

1447
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 2: That's also true. Yeah right, yeah, yeah, I guess I

1448
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 2: guess they're not prioritized being in touch with their sexual No,

1449
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 2: that's straight, man.

1450
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 1: They literally think they could like to show up and

1451
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:42,680
Speaker 1: like pump and I would. That's fucking old nigga. I

1452
01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 1: was appalled that this was all he had. I'm like,

1453
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 1: you don't think about this, you haven't done anything freaky.

1454
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:49,479
Speaker 1: What's your fantasy, what's your poorn categories? What the fuck

1455
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: are you doing over there? There's forty four years of fucking.

1456
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:54,160
Speaker 2: Very selfish like yeah, you just think I.

1457
01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 3: Don't know, Like, yeah, I get into it.

1458
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: But like we said, some people are just not sexual

1459
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 1: beings and that's just and that's cool. You know, you're

1460
01:11:01,880 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 1: in the with the asexuals or the little bit sexuals or.

1461
01:11:05,120 --> 01:11:08,240
Speaker 2: Whatever, a little bit sexuals, you have it.

1462
01:11:08,360 --> 01:11:13,440
Speaker 3: You have shot with a little bit sxuals, a little bitnixuals, medium.

1463
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:14,600
Speaker 2: Sexuals and.

1464
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 3: Performing it's high performing. And then there's nymphos. I'm a

1465
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 3: high performance nypho.

1466
01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:27,439
Speaker 2: Right, I'm in I'm in the between that right.

1467
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 3: What's turbo?

1468
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,160
Speaker 2: I do hit turbo? Yeah?

1469
01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna I'm a turbo sexual.

1470
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 2: Right seasons you have to be you have to.

1471
01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 1: Be realistic about we get a relationship with because just

1472
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: because the bitch is fine.

1473
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:44,639
Speaker 3: She might want not Like there's all these things that matter.

1474
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 1: They could have a good job and be like down

1475
01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:48,840
Speaker 1: the earth, But if they're not fucking you and you're

1476
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: not satisfied, you're gonna get fucking bored.

1477
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 2: Yeah you gotta if you're a sexual person like us,

1478
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 2: and yeah, that definitely that you so because you said

1479
01:11:58,680 --> 01:12:01,120
Speaker 2: obviously all the love languages matter, right, I feel like

1480
01:12:01,160 --> 01:12:02,680
Speaker 2: that's the thing with people. What you love is like

1481
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 2: all of them. But I think we lean in a

1482
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 2: little bit more like if I put it, you know,

1483
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 2: wait to it. There's some that are heavier than others.

1484
01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 2: And I know, like for me, like touch, acts of service.

1485
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,679
Speaker 2: Aren't you that come to mind that how I receive,

1486
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 2: how I give is touch. And then I think, as

1487
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:20,680
Speaker 2: of recent years, which I never thought it'd be, I

1488
01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 2: find like gifts being away, how I express love as well,

1489
01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 2: and I mean not not necessarily like or no, I

1490
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 2: guess action service and gifts could kind of like overlap.

1491
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,639
Speaker 1: It depends what you're different, right when it's tangible ones

1492
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:35,559
Speaker 1: like I'm doing one thing.

1493
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, well okay, so here's my thing. Though, Let's just

1494
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 2: say I help you with financial need because I just

1495
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:43,680
Speaker 2: care for you, and I don't want you to struss rich.

1496
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:44,400
Speaker 3: Now that's why it's.

1497
01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:50,200
Speaker 2: I don't I don't want this to make it seem

1498
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 2: like I'm out here, I'm not check daddy, none of that.

1499
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 2: This is obviously something I'm talking about, like I'm you

1500
01:12:55,360 --> 01:12:57,200
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, But like, so, what would you

1501
01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,160
Speaker 2: category that's act of service? Like let's just say if

1502
01:12:59,200 --> 01:12:59,559
Speaker 2: you're like.

1503
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:01,800
Speaker 3: I think it, it depends what it's the money's for.

1504
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:04,599
Speaker 2: If let's just say your car got wrecked or like something,

1505
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 2: that act of service.

1506
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:10,120
Speaker 3: If you're buying me something me you're.

1507
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:14,840
Speaker 4: Supporting, those are my Those are my love languages too,

1508
01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:18,719
Speaker 4: for sure, acts of service and physical touch. But recently

1509
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,080
Speaker 4: I've realized I kind of like had this at the

1510
01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:24,600
Speaker 4: bottom of my list and now it's number three is

1511
01:13:24,760 --> 01:13:25,639
Speaker 4: words of affirmation.

1512
01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 3: It hasn't always been that way. I would actually get annoyed.

1513
01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:34,800
Speaker 2: I'd be like, but if they know, actually, I guess

1514
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 2: because sometimes like I've had it before where it did

1515
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:39,960
Speaker 2: annoy me too, and I've had it before where it

1516
01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 2: actually feeled me. And I think it's how she was

1517
01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 2: doing it, how authentic it felt, and it wasn't just

1518
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,480
Speaker 2: like an auto pilot.

1519
01:13:47,160 --> 01:13:48,599
Speaker 3: Response for me.

1520
01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 4: I think it became when I when I got more

1521
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:55,439
Speaker 4: confident in my like self worth and I'm smart, because

1522
01:13:55,439 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 4: I've always you're.

1523
01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 3: So pretty, and I'm like, I don't want.

1524
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:02,400
Speaker 4: To feel I feel you, like, and so when yeah,

1525
01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 4: it would actually irritate me, I feel you. But now

1526
01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:08,960
Speaker 4: I feel like I've let that that that go, or

1527
01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 4: that fear of like that's all, that's all I am go.

1528
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 4: And now I really enjoy it, especially if it's from

1529
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 4: someone I care about. I'm like, yeah, I was like

1530
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:20,640
Speaker 4: like this, I'm seeing this guy right now and he

1531
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:23,200
Speaker 4: does it. He's very much awards of affirmation lover, and.

1532
01:14:23,160 --> 01:14:27,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, it feels nice. I like that. Oh well, I.

1533
01:14:27,400 --> 01:14:30,680
Speaker 3: Love that this feels different, right, I receive that? Yeah, right,

1534
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 3: right to actually receive it yourself. Yeah, Sometimes maybe I

1535
01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 3: never even thought of it, And they say something and and

1536
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 3: and just like you like for me, especially if they're

1537
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:42,719
Speaker 3: talking about anything else to do with my MoMA intellect

1538
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 3: and my spirit.

1539
01:14:44,439 --> 01:14:47,519
Speaker 2: I really love that. I do really love that. Or

1540
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:50,439
Speaker 2: now being a father, I love that's one of the

1541
01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:52,760
Speaker 2: best compliments you could get. People are actually not like

1542
01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:54,240
Speaker 2: to saying like, oh, you seem like such a good

1543
01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:55,760
Speaker 2: mom or such a good dad, Like I get the

1544
01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:57,760
Speaker 2: surface of them. When people have actually observed and say

1545
01:14:57,760 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 2: something really like a detailed the and I'm just like wow,

1546
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 2: like and it was lower for me too. I mean

1547
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:05,840
Speaker 2: I don't know it like they they switch around depending

1548
01:15:05,840 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 2: on the season, right, But like before I used to

1549
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:11,360
Speaker 2: it wasn't really something I felt like affected me like that.

1550
01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:14,479
Speaker 2: But now I feel how positive I feel and how

1551
01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:16,560
Speaker 2: my day goes after that, and there was actually a

1552
01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 2: really good positive fay be more positive. People say nice things.

1553
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:20,960
Speaker 3: You have to say nice things.

1554
01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it makes me feel good to say nice things

1555
01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:23,799
Speaker 2: to people.

1556
01:15:24,320 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 4: Speaking of people, we asked the people to write in

1557
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:34,200
Speaker 4: questions they have for a father, a man who has children.

1558
01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:35,719
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1559
01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:37,800
Speaker 4: This month we are trying to explore the male mind

1560
01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:41,040
Speaker 4: and understanding your way you think. And so the tribe

1561
01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 4: has written in one of the questions is how big

1562
01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:50,080
Speaker 4: of a role model do their parents play in their lives.

1563
01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 2: Oh, my dad is somebody. I mean we all, obviously,

1564
01:15:57,720 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 2: you know, have our shortcomings and stuff. But he the

1565
01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:08,760
Speaker 2: way he loves being a father made me want to

1566
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,400
Speaker 2: be a father. Such a young man, I was young,

1567
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 2: really really young.

1568
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 3: Wow, years older to daddy.

1569
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:21,080
Speaker 2: Did you have a little baby, you know, or like

1570
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:23,680
Speaker 2: when I would see even like actual babies from like

1571
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:26,400
Speaker 2: I just remember gravitating towards baby and be like, my

1572
01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:28,080
Speaker 2: son's gonna be this, my daughter's gonna be this, like

1573
01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:30,400
Speaker 2: whatever I would like just be excited, just because if

1574
01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 2: you ask anybody that's really close to my dad or

1575
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 2: people that worked with him, and you ask, what's what

1576
01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,840
Speaker 2: is he most proud of his life? And not in

1577
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:39,679
Speaker 2: a sad way. It's not a sad way because he's

1578
01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 2: accomplished enough in his life, like you know, he has

1579
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:45,840
Speaker 2: he has a good life. Him being a father to

1580
01:16:45,920 --> 01:16:49,880
Speaker 2: his three sons is is he was a type of

1581
01:16:49,960 --> 01:16:52,120
Speaker 2: dad like where he worked so much, like you know

1582
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 2: where so he could kind of control schedule on the

1583
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 2: days He's like, all right, I'm off Monday. My son

1584
01:16:57,560 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 2: has a game, you know, I'm picking on my something

1585
01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:03,719
Speaker 2: from practice, whatever it was. He was just so present

1586
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:07,559
Speaker 2: and so there and so enthusiastic about being a father

1587
01:17:07,960 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 2: because he didn't have that from my grandfather. Resting peace.

1588
01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:14,479
Speaker 2: William P. Passed away last October, and I get with

1589
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 2: my grandfather the generation he came from, and he've been

1590
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:19,240
Speaker 2: a war, seen a lot of things, so he couldn't

1591
01:17:19,280 --> 01:17:24,240
Speaker 2: fully be but my dad and my uncle and my

1592
01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:27,519
Speaker 2: aunts needed, you know, and my grandmother. You know. So

1593
01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:33,160
Speaker 2: my dad, he I remember he vigically talking about this

1594
01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 2: like sometimes should make me emotional kind of talking about this,

1595
01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:42,200
Speaker 2: like he he talked about, Wow, this is was unexpected.

1596
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:51,600
Speaker 2: What the fuck? Wow? Okay, yeah, damn. My dad he

1597
01:17:51,640 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 2: said he saw his friend with his dad. What he said,

1598
01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:01,760
Speaker 2: he saw his friend with his dad one time he

1599
01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 2: was like five or six, and his friend was on

1600
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:08,400
Speaker 2: his dad's lap and they were like laughing. He went

1601
01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:09,600
Speaker 2: to go see if he could played like during the

1602
01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 2: screen door, and then his friend was on his dad's

1603
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,559
Speaker 2: lap and they were like just like laughing and his

1604
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 2: dad was just with him. I love it. And my

1605
01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 2: dad was like oh wow, like he hitting me, like damn,

1606
01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:22,639
Speaker 2: I don't have that. And he was like make him sad,

1607
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:25,679
Speaker 2: and he always felt like they felt like they were

1608
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:29,920
Speaker 2: bothering him. And I give grace to my grandfather, you know,

1609
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:34,320
Speaker 2: I really do, but I also know it's tough for

1610
01:18:34,479 --> 01:18:38,240
Speaker 2: how my aunts and my uncle and my dad were

1611
01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 2: in that environment, my grandmother, and so for him to

1612
01:18:45,240 --> 01:18:46,840
Speaker 2: really he made it us point And it's like my

1613
01:18:46,920 --> 01:18:48,439
Speaker 2: dad caught everything out. He knew he was gonna have

1614
01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:52,080
Speaker 2: three sons. He damn there guests our birthdays like two

1615
01:18:52,160 --> 01:18:57,479
Speaker 2: or the three, and like he just was like that,

1616
01:18:57,640 --> 01:18:59,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be like that with my sons. Right,

1617
01:18:59,600 --> 01:19:02,080
Speaker 2: not to say, you know, obviously we all have our things,

1618
01:19:02,120 --> 01:19:05,559
Speaker 2: you know, but for what he did from that situation

1619
01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:07,680
Speaker 2: environment is why like, when I look at life, I'm

1620
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:14,679
Speaker 2: like it, I get people. I get people, y'all healed

1621
01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 2: differently or some of us don't. But when I see

1622
01:19:19,160 --> 01:19:21,800
Speaker 2: things like that, I'm just like, it's very possible to

1623
01:19:22,880 --> 01:19:24,000
Speaker 2: really change the course of.

1624
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 4: Your mind, right, the generational I love hearing that too,

1625
01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:29,599
Speaker 4: and I think too, like you love your dad so much.

1626
01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 4: The reason you're getting emotional, I mean, I would assume

1627
01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 4: is because, like you, you want that for your parents,

1628
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:38,360
Speaker 4: because of the laments love they give you. You're like, damn

1629
01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:42,120
Speaker 4: that you have the capacity to be able to share

1630
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:43,439
Speaker 4: this with me even though you didn't get it.

1631
01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:47,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure exactly. And and I love how because

1632
01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:49,360
Speaker 2: I know my brothers once they become fathers, I know

1633
01:19:49,400 --> 01:19:51,600
Speaker 2: they're going to be amazing fathers. They're amazing uncles. Like

1634
01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 2: they're very loving brother We're very close, like like us

1635
01:19:56,000 --> 01:19:57,720
Speaker 2: for my father and my brothers. I mean, we're very close.

1636
01:19:57,720 --> 01:20:01,040
Speaker 2: And my brothers are like my best friends. And I

1637
01:20:01,120 --> 01:20:03,200
Speaker 2: know when it's their time to have a child, like,

1638
01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:05,320
Speaker 2: they're going to be amazing. And then just the men

1639
01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:06,960
Speaker 2: around me in general, all the men in my life

1640
01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:10,400
Speaker 2: who are fathers, I mean, they're all amazing fathers, all

1641
01:20:10,439 --> 01:20:15,839
Speaker 2: these amazing black men. It just gives me because growing

1642
01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:18,679
Speaker 2: up that wasn't necessarily what we always saw. So I'm

1643
01:20:18,720 --> 01:20:22,920
Speaker 2: just how I love how a lot of obviously, you know,

1644
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:24,400
Speaker 2: we still got to do better, but I love how

1645
01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:28,760
Speaker 2: a lot of these men have taken their situation and

1646
01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 2: just kind of basically just do what my dad did.

1647
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:34,080
Speaker 2: And it's a beautiful thing to see. I just you know,

1648
01:20:34,200 --> 01:20:35,680
Speaker 2: I just want to keep seeing more of that. And

1649
01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:37,920
Speaker 2: I can't wait till my brothers have kids, like you know,

1650
01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:40,599
Speaker 2: my and then my dad Obviously he loves being a grandfather.

1651
01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 2: If I said him a pot run, it's going to

1652
01:20:42,320 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 2: make his day. My daughter is he just loves seeing

1653
01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 2: his little princess and stuff as just how it is

1654
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:52,200
Speaker 2: and it's yeah, so my dad is a definitely as

1655
01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:54,760
Speaker 2: far as the fatherhood, definitely been a big role model

1656
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:59,080
Speaker 2: in my life and particularly like fatherhood.

1657
01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 4: Answer, that's great, No, that's I feel like that's I

1658
01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 4: don't want to say it's rare because like that's not fair,

1659
01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:11,280
Speaker 4: but it is. And like I think that you being

1660
01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:15,639
Speaker 4: able to also like acknowledge that and really be receptive

1661
01:21:15,640 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 4: and understand the gift you have. That is a fucking

1662
01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:20,679
Speaker 4: gift that you're that you get to receive.

1663
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:23,800
Speaker 2: I'm very grateful that to have the awareness for that,

1664
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:25,840
Speaker 2: to receive that and to take that in for sure

1665
01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 2: for sure.

1666
01:21:28,040 --> 01:21:32,240
Speaker 4: Okay, So next question, how would you feel about being

1667
01:21:32,240 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 4: a step parent and what are the qualities of a

1668
01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:35,840
Speaker 4: good step parent?

1669
01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:40,720
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, I think obviously it's all starts with the

1670
01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:42,720
Speaker 2: connection of the person who connected with just happens to

1671
01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:47,040
Speaker 2: be an then yeah, also I don't know in particular,

1672
01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:49,920
Speaker 2: like is there is there their father absence as a

1673
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:51,639
Speaker 2: father there. It actually doesn't matter.

1674
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:53,599
Speaker 3: It's not very it's.

1675
01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:59,719
Speaker 2: Not very well. No, well, actually that it doesn't matter

1676
01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 2: because I think to be a step father, if you're

1677
01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:06,800
Speaker 2: going to be living in the same house with your

1678
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:12,360
Speaker 2: partner's child, I think one, I guess I'll give two

1679
01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:17,080
Speaker 2: different answers if the father is not there. I do

1680
01:22:17,439 --> 01:22:20,680
Speaker 2: believe that once you have chosen this partner, it is

1681
01:22:20,720 --> 01:22:26,080
Speaker 2: your responsibility to step in and care for this child.

1682
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:29,000
Speaker 2: It's so important that there's a father figure in the

1683
01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:33,519
Speaker 2: household or around. You know, it's not necessarily like when

1684
01:22:33,560 --> 01:22:34,920
Speaker 2: I say it doesn't have to necessarily because you know,

1685
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,840
Speaker 2: I'm co parenting, so she splits houses. But as long

1686
01:22:37,840 --> 01:22:39,920
Speaker 2: as that father figure is around and present, I think

1687
01:22:39,960 --> 01:22:43,000
Speaker 2: it's so important. I mean, if you look up all

1688
01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 2: the numbers that all the incarceration, or you talk about

1689
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:49,280
Speaker 2: abuse all that, like how many of them hate the

1690
01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:51,080
Speaker 2: files or a peace by the files, or don't have

1691
01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 2: a father. It's theres are outrageous. So I do believe

1692
01:22:56,800 --> 01:22:59,120
Speaker 2: if you're this person you love and your step into

1693
01:22:59,120 --> 01:23:01,320
Speaker 2: your life and this is gonna there's gonna be your

1694
01:23:01,320 --> 01:23:03,559
Speaker 2: life partner, you're taking a responsibility to care for her child.

1695
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 2: That's an extension of her, you know what I mean.

1696
01:23:05,840 --> 01:23:08,800
Speaker 2: So not only like you know, earlier I talked about

1697
01:23:08,840 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 2: women feeling safe and secure. That child has to be

1698
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:14,240
Speaker 2: a part of that, you know what I mean. So

1699
01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:17,760
Speaker 2: I think you definitely have to step in and try

1700
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:21,519
Speaker 2: to be as positive and loving as possible. And even

1701
01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:24,880
Speaker 2: if the father is present, hopefully that father is mature

1702
01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:26,719
Speaker 2: enough and you guys are good.

1703
01:23:27,200 --> 01:23:29,320
Speaker 4: I was gonna say, what if she got to like, like,

1704
01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:32,720
Speaker 4: I don't know what your child's mother's dating life is like,

1705
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 4: but if she had a boyfriend or she was getting married,

1706
01:23:36,280 --> 01:23:39,720
Speaker 4: like like and yeah, like is there is there a

1707
01:23:39,800 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 4: level of like have you navigated that yet?

1708
01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:42,719
Speaker 3: Like do you have rules?

1709
01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:44,800
Speaker 4: Because I feel like sometimes at least I don't know,

1710
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 4: Like you guys seem like you guys get have gotten

1711
01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:50,600
Speaker 4: along for like pretty much the entire time of your relationship.

1712
01:23:51,200 --> 01:23:53,000
Speaker 4: But I know for me, like I remember when I

1713
01:23:53,080 --> 01:23:55,360
Speaker 4: first became single. Now I laugh at it because it's

1714
01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:57,200
Speaker 4: just I mean, I would never do this now, but

1715
01:23:57,240 --> 01:23:58,400
Speaker 4: I was like, I need.

1716
01:23:58,280 --> 01:24:01,599
Speaker 3: To meet the girl, like right I do.

1717
01:24:01,720 --> 01:24:05,160
Speaker 4: It's not about like necessarily meeting the girl, like knowing her,

1718
01:24:05,479 --> 01:24:08,800
Speaker 4: like knowing her character, and like you at least acknowledging

1719
01:24:08,880 --> 01:24:12,640
Speaker 4: the thing, whereas like I think I definitely need to

1720
01:24:12,680 --> 01:24:13,840
Speaker 4: know who this person is who is going to be

1721
01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:16,360
Speaker 4: around my child. But it was like I wanted an introduction,

1722
01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:19,720
Speaker 4: like yeah.

1723
01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:22,800
Speaker 3: I get you, Like we don't need like this official meeting, like.

1724
01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:28,000
Speaker 2: It could just be a thing. Yeah, you know, Like

1725
01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:32,120
Speaker 2: to me, it's funny like trying to lightweight talk about it.

1726
01:24:32,800 --> 01:24:34,680
Speaker 2: She's just like I will talk when we get there,

1727
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 2: Like she's not like we haven't necessarily talked about it

1728
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:42,960
Speaker 2: too much. But for me, I think I trust her

1729
01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:47,000
Speaker 2: enough to not giving something bad ass dude, and so

1730
01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:50,679
Speaker 2: I want to say I trust her judgment. But yeah,

1731
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 2: it would be nice just to you know, it's gonna

1732
01:24:52,520 --> 01:24:53,800
Speaker 2: be one day. If you guys are getting serous, I'm

1733
01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:55,599
Speaker 2: gonna pick up my daughter, let me meet the guy.

1734
01:24:56,479 --> 01:24:58,439
Speaker 2: Doesn't have to be the official set up, like you know,

1735
01:24:58,520 --> 01:25:01,559
Speaker 2: hey at two o'clock, make sure that niggas are like, nah,

1736
01:25:01,600 --> 01:25:04,160
Speaker 2: I don't have to, but like you know, I'm a

1737
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:06,280
Speaker 2: you know, I'm talking to talk to dude. Just want

1738
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 2: to gauge to dud just at least, you know, you know,

1739
01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:09,759
Speaker 2: see who's around my child and stuff.

1740
01:25:11,320 --> 01:25:13,639
Speaker 3: How soon is too soon to introduce your child.

1741
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:16,320
Speaker 4: Like on your maybe on your hand right, Like do

1742
01:25:16,360 --> 01:25:18,000
Speaker 4: you have you ever introduced your child to anybody that

1743
01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:18,439
Speaker 4: you're dating?

1744
01:25:19,479 --> 01:25:23,960
Speaker 2: Uh? Yeah, yeah I did. But I think, to me,

1745
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:28,680
Speaker 2: it's about I don't know if there's a time, it's

1746
01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:30,360
Speaker 2: it's all about what you feel, like do you feel

1747
01:25:30,360 --> 01:25:32,400
Speaker 2: this is about to be serious? You know? And then

1748
01:25:32,439 --> 01:25:34,720
Speaker 2: I don't think I don't feel off the bat though

1749
01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:39,280
Speaker 2: it needs to be serious, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1750
01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:40,880
Speaker 2: it has to be headed that direction. I have to

1751
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:43,679
Speaker 2: see potential in that for me, you know what I mean,

1752
01:25:45,120 --> 01:25:46,880
Speaker 2: that's just what I would prefer. I don't want to,

1753
01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:51,880
Speaker 2: you know, you know, being a girl dad, Like, I

1754
01:25:51,880 --> 01:25:57,000
Speaker 2: don't want my daughter necessarily just to meet just anybody

1755
01:25:57,040 --> 01:26:00,519
Speaker 2: and see me have this girl and this girl. I

1756
01:26:00,520 --> 01:26:02,000
Speaker 2: don't know how she's gonna internalize that.

1757
01:26:02,360 --> 01:26:04,600
Speaker 3: Does she knows you have female friends? Like if you

1758
01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:05,599
Speaker 3: have you have female friends?

1759
01:26:05,960 --> 01:26:06,400
Speaker 2: Yeah? I have.

1760
01:26:08,040 --> 01:26:10,240
Speaker 4: Just I asked that because I feel like a lot

1761
01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:12,559
Speaker 4: of times I feel like sometimes we overthink it because

1762
01:26:12,560 --> 01:26:15,040
Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, for sure we have. Hopefully you're building

1763
01:26:15,080 --> 01:26:17,960
Speaker 4: a friendship with someone that you would not only see

1764
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:19,479
Speaker 4: as a serious partner, but like.

1765
01:26:19,840 --> 01:26:22,920
Speaker 3: That is your friend, you know, right of course.

1766
01:26:22,800 --> 01:26:25,360
Speaker 4: And like I don't know, Like we Meela talk about

1767
01:26:25,360 --> 01:26:26,559
Speaker 4: this a lot on our show, and I'm interested in

1768
01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:30,120
Speaker 4: your perspective because you're a guy. And for me early on,

1769
01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:32,400
Speaker 4: like I was like, no, we need to wait, like

1770
01:26:32,479 --> 01:26:35,080
Speaker 4: I had time periods and ship you know, eight months,

1771
01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:37,960
Speaker 4: six months, and now it's more of like a feeling

1772
01:26:38,280 --> 01:26:41,639
Speaker 4: like on FaceTime, I like somebody like, hey, mommy's friend,

1773
01:26:41,680 --> 01:26:44,559
Speaker 4: Like mommy has friends that like, yeah, you know.

1774
01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:46,720
Speaker 2: I feel you Yeah. To me, I feel like there's

1775
01:26:46,760 --> 01:26:48,960
Speaker 2: so many. There's not one right way, right, there's so many,

1776
01:26:49,200 --> 01:26:51,960
Speaker 2: like because like, for instance, let's just say if me

1777
01:26:52,040 --> 01:26:54,040
Speaker 2: and you were on the intimate level and data and

1778
01:26:54,080 --> 01:26:56,200
Speaker 2: then me and you are just friends and I've had

1779
01:26:56,240 --> 01:26:59,920
Speaker 2: you both come over, She's going to see different interactions though, right, well.

1780
01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:00,920
Speaker 3: No you don't think so.

1781
01:27:02,240 --> 01:27:05,200
Speaker 2: Maybe because I'm touching a Levey like it would be different.

1782
01:27:05,240 --> 01:27:06,439
Speaker 4: I mean I think I think at least for me,

1783
01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:08,920
Speaker 4: like then any of the men that I've dated that

1784
01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:11,559
Speaker 4: have met my daughter, like we are friends in her

1785
01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:13,960
Speaker 4: in front of her, you know what I mean? Oh okay,

1786
01:27:14,320 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 4: like off the bait, off the bat, just like okay.

1787
01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:23,360
Speaker 2: Well absolutely, but like yeah, all.

1788
01:27:23,320 --> 01:27:25,759
Speaker 3: Right, mommy's new friends.

1789
01:27:29,640 --> 01:27:34,679
Speaker 1: It's wondering Pizzazza one buddy, Okay, I see.

1790
01:27:34,720 --> 01:27:36,320
Speaker 2: I guess I never thought about the approach. I just

1791
01:27:36,360 --> 01:27:38,920
Speaker 2: always felt like, you know, whatever it is, that's just

1792
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:43,559
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously I'm discretion, right, I'm not like, you know, uh,

1793
01:27:43,880 --> 01:27:46,479
Speaker 2: appropriate in front of my daughter. But there's a different energy, right,

1794
01:27:46,520 --> 01:27:47,400
Speaker 2: you know if I'm.

1795
01:27:48,760 --> 01:27:50,040
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I don't know.

1796
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:52,280
Speaker 4: I just think it's important for I even think it's

1797
01:27:52,400 --> 01:27:54,680
Speaker 4: I think it's important for like girls to know their

1798
01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:57,960
Speaker 4: fathers have female friends that they aren't necessarily sleeping with,

1799
01:27:58,000 --> 01:28:01,160
Speaker 4: and sometimes those become those relationships anyway. And then I

1800
01:28:01,200 --> 01:28:04,920
Speaker 4: think it's also important for boys to see moms also

1801
01:28:05,080 --> 01:28:08,479
Speaker 4: have male friends and like know that not every men

1802
01:28:08,479 --> 01:28:09,439
Speaker 4: and women can be friends.

1803
01:28:09,520 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's I think it'll be a positive effect

1804
01:28:11,320 --> 01:28:12,280
Speaker 2: down the line with their relationships.

1805
01:28:12,320 --> 01:28:14,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely, And that's essentially what you're doing is like

1806
01:28:14,280 --> 01:28:16,240
Speaker 4: you're trying to figure out do you want to make

1807
01:28:16,240 --> 01:28:17,080
Speaker 4: you a friend that I fuck?

1808
01:28:17,720 --> 01:28:19,000
Speaker 3: Do I want to love you long term?

1809
01:28:19,280 --> 01:28:21,960
Speaker 2: Right? Right? Yeah? Definitely. But yeah, she's been like because

1810
01:28:22,160 --> 01:28:26,360
Speaker 2: I have got kids and their parents are family to me.

1811
01:28:26,640 --> 01:28:31,759
Speaker 2: So and as Jane Beyonca they're married to have two kids,

1812
01:28:32,200 --> 01:28:36,599
Speaker 2: and Beyonca she's also my personal assistant because I trust

1813
01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:40,840
Speaker 2: her the most with everything, right, So you know, big

1814
01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:44,639
Speaker 2: Auntie Vibe, she's there and she'll be there and take

1815
01:28:45,040 --> 01:28:46,559
Speaker 2: watch this in for me if I if need be.

1816
01:28:46,640 --> 01:28:50,920
Speaker 2: I've had, you know, women I'm very close with I've

1817
01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:53,360
Speaker 2: known for a long time if I needed someone to

1818
01:28:53,360 --> 01:28:55,479
Speaker 2: watch her, be there and watch them you know what

1819
01:28:55,520 --> 01:28:57,120
Speaker 2: I mean, because they're.

1820
01:28:57,000 --> 01:28:59,519
Speaker 3: Basically like, yeah, I know that, I love that you

1821
01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:03,200
Speaker 3: have a try yeah, exactly of women, which is really important.

1822
01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:07,960
Speaker 2: That I just I can't I just when I trace

1823
01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:10,040
Speaker 2: back things, especially when because of black women I've had

1824
01:29:10,080 --> 01:29:11,680
Speaker 2: just like where I'm at my life, I'm so far

1825
01:29:11,680 --> 01:29:13,640
Speaker 2: in my life because of black women. So it's like,

1826
01:29:14,280 --> 01:29:16,439
Speaker 2: and also how nurturing black women have been in mean

1827
01:29:16,560 --> 01:29:19,479
Speaker 2: relationships I've been with friendships, just even friendships, how caaren

1828
01:29:19,520 --> 01:29:22,920
Speaker 2: and loving they are even talking about Beonca, she's like

1829
01:29:23,160 --> 01:29:28,040
Speaker 2: basically my sister. How she is you know, even before

1830
01:29:28,120 --> 01:29:29,880
Speaker 2: I mean, the transition of making her my sister was

1831
01:29:30,000 --> 01:29:32,800
Speaker 2: very seamless. She was already doing things before, like all right,

1832
01:29:32,840 --> 01:29:34,400
Speaker 2: you know you and Jay, you guys have your flights

1833
01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:36,040
Speaker 2: at this time, but make sure you know, and she'll

1834
01:29:36,080 --> 01:29:39,519
Speaker 2: take care of all that. She was very she like

1835
01:29:39,640 --> 01:29:42,000
Speaker 2: she's a lyingness as a mother, you know what I mean,

1836
01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:47,200
Speaker 2: she's very protective too, So me feeling that can only

1837
01:29:48,320 --> 01:29:50,240
Speaker 2: just translate that to my daughter who was a black woman.

1838
01:29:50,360 --> 01:29:52,479
Speaker 2: You know, I just think it's and she on in

1839
01:29:52,640 --> 01:29:55,840
Speaker 2: Dominique side, A lot of women on her side, right,

1840
01:29:55,920 --> 01:29:58,880
Speaker 2: she has a sister, cousins and her mother and grandma

1841
01:29:58,960 --> 01:30:00,799
Speaker 2: all that, a lot of women. So she's just surrounded

1842
01:30:00,800 --> 01:30:03,240
Speaker 2: by so much love. And then when she comes outside,

1843
01:30:03,240 --> 01:30:04,800
Speaker 2: were with a lot of guys on our side. So

1844
01:30:04,880 --> 01:30:05,800
Speaker 2: it's a good bounce for her.

1845
01:30:05,880 --> 01:30:07,519
Speaker 3: You have a horry for us to do.

1846
01:30:07,600 --> 01:30:10,559
Speaker 1: You have any updated hoorries, any horrish things you've done lately,

1847
01:30:12,240 --> 01:30:14,920
Speaker 1: young single hot lad in Hollywood.

1848
01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:18,920
Speaker 2: Right, any hot hot horries.

1849
01:30:24,160 --> 01:30:24,680
Speaker 4: Stories.

1850
01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:27,160
Speaker 2: I don't know how exciting it is, but like for

1851
01:30:27,200 --> 01:30:32,479
Speaker 2: some reason recently, I've I've had a string of you know,

1852
01:30:32,720 --> 01:30:36,400
Speaker 2: I really enjoy coming on my face.

1853
01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:39,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I was just talking about this recently,

1854
01:30:39,680 --> 01:30:41,720
Speaker 3: Like you've had like a string of women that want

1855
01:30:41,720 --> 01:30:43,720
Speaker 3: this to happen, or you've been doing it recently? Are

1856
01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:44,479
Speaker 3: you just been doing it?

1857
01:30:44,680 --> 01:30:47,080
Speaker 2: You know? I've been intuitive and I've felt it where

1858
01:30:47,080 --> 01:30:49,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, she will, like, especially when you get a

1859
01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:53,320
Speaker 2: submissive woman. Man, it's just like what they want, you know,

1860
01:30:53,360 --> 01:30:57,200
Speaker 2: they're just allow so much, and so you know you

1861
01:30:57,200 --> 01:31:00,800
Speaker 2: you know one time, Yeah, I'm pready dominated, I think,

1862
01:31:00,800 --> 01:31:03,519
Speaker 2: so I feel like I am. I will say that

1863
01:31:05,800 --> 01:31:07,519
Speaker 2: there's a there's a girl I know. We're from the

1864
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:09,599
Speaker 2: same area, and we knew each other for years and

1865
01:31:10,200 --> 01:31:14,720
Speaker 2: we uh had We've always been attracted to each other,

1866
01:31:14,720 --> 01:31:17,719
Speaker 2: but it never went there. My first love, my first girlfriend,

1867
01:31:17,760 --> 01:31:20,920
Speaker 2: she she knew her. They weren't like tight, but she

1868
01:31:21,200 --> 01:31:23,519
Speaker 2: you know, they were like you know, lightweight friends or

1869
01:31:23,560 --> 01:31:26,719
Speaker 2: associates in the sense, and then she was with somebody

1870
01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:30,840
Speaker 2: and whatever whatever all that the fast four years down

1871
01:31:30,880 --> 01:31:38,840
Speaker 2: the line, we finally linked up and uh and the

1872
01:31:39,040 --> 01:31:42,280
Speaker 2: very first time we had sex, I pull that move out.

1873
01:31:43,439 --> 01:31:43,799
Speaker 3: Damn.

1874
01:31:45,680 --> 01:31:49,599
Speaker 2: Usually I do, but recently I haven't. And but I

1875
01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:52,960
Speaker 2: have had like just nasty ass partners so like they're

1876
01:31:53,080 --> 01:31:56,479
Speaker 2: just like owning when it's happening, and that turns me

1877
01:31:56,560 --> 01:31:59,320
Speaker 2: on so much it's insane where I'm like, damn, I

1878
01:31:59,360 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 2: might be ready to go again with the fuck like,

1879
01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:04,240
Speaker 2: but I will say, this is the only the only

1880
01:32:04,280 --> 01:32:08,000
Speaker 2: time I ever had in my life where like when

1881
01:32:08,000 --> 01:32:10,839
Speaker 2: I did it the first time, she was like interesting,

1882
01:32:12,160 --> 01:32:13,960
Speaker 2: she was like, she was like I like that, But

1883
01:32:14,120 --> 01:32:17,280
Speaker 2: first time she was like interesting, go wrong.

1884
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:20,840
Speaker 3: I was like after like right, immediately after this was

1885
01:32:20,840 --> 01:32:22,880
Speaker 3: like after thought one I can tell, like you can

1886
01:32:22,920 --> 01:32:25,720
Speaker 3: tell her face like I don't know.

1887
01:32:25,760 --> 01:32:27,320
Speaker 2: I explained it like it's not like she didn't like it,

1888
01:32:27,360 --> 01:32:29,720
Speaker 2: but she was just like she was shocked that I

1889
01:32:30,000 --> 01:32:32,559
Speaker 2: was because she I guess she was like also shocked

1890
01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:35,400
Speaker 2: like you know with you know, when women are freak

1891
01:32:35,439 --> 01:32:37,479
Speaker 2: stage sometimes are like, all right, is he gonna match my?

1892
01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:39,840
Speaker 2: Do I fe it back for this motherfucker? You know

1893
01:32:39,920 --> 01:32:41,559
Speaker 2: some girls can be like that. Some girls. I'm not

1894
01:32:41,600 --> 01:32:43,920
Speaker 2: ruinning it back? So is he gonna catch up? So

1895
01:32:43,960 --> 01:32:46,320
Speaker 2: I guess she was like, oh, you're going to play

1896
01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:48,320
Speaker 2: Like now, I got to pick this shit up.

1897
01:32:48,320 --> 01:32:50,280
Speaker 4: If you're gonna if you're gonna go listen to women,

1898
01:32:50,320 --> 01:32:52,040
Speaker 4: if you are going to go to level ten freaky,

1899
01:32:52,080 --> 01:32:54,960
Speaker 4: then you got to be prepared to come on her face.

1900
01:32:55,120 --> 01:32:57,519
Speaker 4: I mean, because we're exploring all types of ship, right,

1901
01:32:57,640 --> 01:32:59,920
Speaker 4: I just feel like that you have to be open

1902
01:33:00,080 --> 01:33:00,280
Speaker 4: to all.

1903
01:33:00,400 --> 01:33:02,120
Speaker 2: Give me, give me a non negotiables, because I do

1904
01:33:02,200 --> 01:33:04,280
Speaker 2: ask non negotiables. If I don't hear, that's not not

1905
01:33:04,439 --> 01:33:05,439
Speaker 2: like if I hear, that's not a no.

1906
01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:08,040
Speaker 1: That's been on my list of nose forever. I know

1907
01:33:08,080 --> 01:33:10,799
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I told, I told my niggs.

1908
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:12,599
Speaker 1: I let you call my faces? Like, was that a boundary?

1909
01:33:12,640 --> 01:33:15,280
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I can't believe that's your bound.

1910
01:33:15,400 --> 01:33:19,760
Speaker 3: I let you come on my fey. Why are you

1911
01:33:19,840 --> 01:33:21,120
Speaker 3: telling me this like it's special?

1912
01:33:21,680 --> 01:33:24,360
Speaker 2: It is for you though it isn't. That's a boundary. Yeah,

1913
01:33:24,439 --> 01:33:27,920
Speaker 2: for sure, it's not for everybody. For a while, I

1914
01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:30,040
Speaker 2: wasn't doing that. I never really thought to do it. Also,

1915
01:33:30,120 --> 01:33:31,519
Speaker 2: I thought I was like, that's just some points of

1916
01:33:31,960 --> 01:33:32,880
Speaker 2: women really like this.

1917
01:33:33,000 --> 01:33:34,960
Speaker 1: If somebody asked me, I'm going to say no. But

1918
01:33:34,960 --> 01:33:36,519
Speaker 1: maybe if I was in the moment and you just

1919
01:33:36,560 --> 01:33:38,320
Speaker 1: did it, maybe I would just be like, Okay, how do.

1920
01:33:38,240 --> 01:33:41,040
Speaker 3: You do that sexually? Like sexy? I didn't. It's not

1921
01:33:41,080 --> 01:33:45,439
Speaker 3: sexy like no, I literally said it no.

1922
01:33:46,920 --> 01:33:49,679
Speaker 4: And rarely say that passion and hard.

1923
01:33:51,960 --> 01:33:54,560
Speaker 3: Are you a su Yeah, I'm a switch, but I

1924
01:33:54,720 --> 01:33:54,960
Speaker 3: like to s.

1925
01:33:55,080 --> 01:33:58,360
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, you so I tend to like these.

1926
01:33:58,520 --> 01:34:01,320
Speaker 2: I guess these women that I've been like switching.

1927
01:34:02,640 --> 01:34:03,599
Speaker 3: Can you can feel that?

1928
01:34:03,880 --> 01:34:04,320
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1929
01:34:05,680 --> 01:34:08,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was always a phrasing getting my eye.

1930
01:34:08,720 --> 01:34:13,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, I mean I'm pretty good with it. Also

1931
01:34:13,479 --> 01:34:18,599
Speaker 2: also right here, like I like this and then oh

1932
01:34:19,880 --> 01:34:25,800
Speaker 2: but I haven't like there, Uh, there's a I've never

1933
01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:27,360
Speaker 2: tried that with older women.

1934
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:30,719
Speaker 3: You think there's like a demographic like a dumb age.

1935
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:38,720
Speaker 2: I don't know why funny that's wanted to have. I'm

1936
01:34:38,720 --> 01:34:42,920
Speaker 2: talking about like older decent stuff for some reason I happened.

1937
01:34:43,840 --> 01:34:45,120
Speaker 2: I know. I'm thinking about like.

1938
01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:51,120
Speaker 3: The eighties, what's the oldest woman you've had sex.

1939
01:34:51,040 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 2: With at that time? Well, you would be proud of

1940
01:34:55,439 --> 01:35:01,080
Speaker 2: me too, but at that time she is. And then

1941
01:35:01,120 --> 01:35:04,440
Speaker 2: after her forty eight okay, okay.

1942
01:35:05,280 --> 01:35:06,120
Speaker 3: How was it good?

1943
01:35:06,800 --> 01:35:07,040
Speaker 2: Yes?

1944
01:35:07,240 --> 01:35:08,400
Speaker 3: Do older women fuck better?

1945
01:35:09,400 --> 01:35:13,280
Speaker 2: I just love that ship. There's no but with it.

1946
01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:17,080
Speaker 2: They have their ship together, nice ast house. I got

1947
01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:18,800
Speaker 2: like you could lift this house for me afterwards? And ship?

1948
01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:20,719
Speaker 3: Could you be? Do you think you can see yourself

1949
01:35:20,720 --> 01:35:21,800
Speaker 3: long term with an older woman?

1950
01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:26,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I think there's a certain age

1951
01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:29,760
Speaker 2: gap where I'm like, they don't have all my kids now,

1952
01:35:29,840 --> 01:35:33,200
Speaker 2: because you know that that comes into consideration. Like but

1953
01:35:33,280 --> 01:35:34,640
Speaker 2: I think there's a certain point where I was like

1954
01:35:34,760 --> 01:35:38,280
Speaker 2: exceeded where I'm like, I'm not sure. I'm not sure

1955
01:35:38,760 --> 01:35:43,120
Speaker 2: because I don't know. Like I'm like now, I'm like,

1956
01:35:43,240 --> 01:35:45,040
Speaker 2: when does it turn off for her? Which was like

1957
01:35:45,439 --> 01:35:46,960
Speaker 2: I don't Yeah.

1958
01:35:46,840 --> 01:35:49,200
Speaker 4: I feel like we are always a lot. Our prime

1959
01:35:49,360 --> 01:35:52,960
Speaker 4: lasts for a long time. It's true, that are the problem.

1960
01:35:53,080 --> 01:35:56,479
Speaker 2: I know. They say thirties. Yeah, they say thirties, right,

1961
01:35:56,520 --> 01:35:57,680
Speaker 2: like that's when it starts for men.

1962
01:35:57,920 --> 01:35:58,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, be healthy.

1963
01:35:59,000 --> 01:36:00,800
Speaker 2: I found it to be Benja and button for me,

1964
01:36:02,160 --> 01:36:06,639
Speaker 2: my shit get stronger. It just feels like it's been

1965
01:36:07,200 --> 01:36:09,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe because I'm eating healthy, I'm taking

1966
01:36:09,120 --> 01:36:10,920
Speaker 2: care of myself better, That's what it is. I'm just

1967
01:36:10,920 --> 01:36:12,880
Speaker 2: taking care of myself better. But I'm like, I hope

1968
01:36:12,880 --> 01:36:14,360
Speaker 2: this lasts for a long time because I don't see

1969
01:36:14,360 --> 01:36:17,920
Speaker 2: it slowing down. I just don't see. I'm only thirty two,

1970
01:36:18,080 --> 01:36:18,519
Speaker 2: and I don't.

1971
01:36:18,360 --> 01:36:21,040
Speaker 1: Think that happens to all men. You don't want to happen.

1972
01:36:21,560 --> 01:36:22,800
Speaker 3: You don't want to happen to all men.

1973
01:36:22,960 --> 01:36:28,240
Speaker 2: Please God, this chance, please please?

1974
01:36:29,040 --> 01:36:31,880
Speaker 3: Okay, So let's we forgot to do the taro today.

1975
01:36:32,160 --> 01:36:37,160
Speaker 1: So Sharona's hold the Five of Swords and the Five

1976
01:36:37,200 --> 01:36:41,440
Speaker 1: of Swords turns up when you have had a falling out, disagreement,

1977
01:36:41,600 --> 01:36:43,840
Speaker 1: or conflict and you're walking away with a sense of

1978
01:36:43,880 --> 01:36:47,120
Speaker 1: sadness or loss. You may be upset and resentful over

1979
01:36:47,160 --> 01:36:49,320
Speaker 1: the heated words you said and now wish you could

1980
01:36:49,360 --> 01:36:53,640
Speaker 1: take back. Bad blood, and a general ickiness hangover you

1981
01:36:53,680 --> 01:36:57,800
Speaker 1: as your relations have turned sour even if you won

1982
01:36:57,840 --> 01:37:00,240
Speaker 1: the argument or came out the parent victory, or you

1983
01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:02,639
Speaker 1: realize that you have lost as much as or more

1984
01:37:02,680 --> 01:37:06,240
Speaker 1: than your opponent. This battle has cost you trust, respect,

1985
01:37:06,280 --> 01:37:10,120
Speaker 1: and did big nity, dignity, and isolated you. As you

1986
01:37:10,160 --> 01:37:12,320
Speaker 1: try to pick up the pieces and set the conflict behind,

1987
01:37:12,360 --> 01:37:15,200
Speaker 1: you find it's more difficult than you thought. Others have

1988
01:37:15,280 --> 01:37:17,559
Speaker 1: lost faith in you and you're keeping your distance. You

1989
01:37:17,560 --> 01:37:19,599
Speaker 1: will need to decide whether your point of view is

1990
01:37:20,160 --> 01:37:22,280
Speaker 1: so important to you that you're willing to put your

1991
01:37:22,280 --> 01:37:25,400
Speaker 1: relationship in jeopardy, or if you can compromise and see

1992
01:37:25,439 --> 01:37:28,519
Speaker 1: eye to eye. The advice for Five of Swords is

1993
01:37:28,560 --> 01:37:30,920
Speaker 1: to pick your battles. You may be tempted to fight

1994
01:37:30,960 --> 01:37:33,360
Speaker 1: every conflict to ensure you get your way, to prove

1995
01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:35,160
Speaker 1: that you are right, or defend yourself when you are

1996
01:37:35,160 --> 01:37:39,240
Speaker 1: feeling challenged or threatened. However, more experts agreed choosing your

1997
01:37:39,240 --> 01:37:42,280
Speaker 1: battles wisely is a much better way of life than

1998
01:37:42,320 --> 01:37:44,680
Speaker 1: engaging in every disagreement.

1999
01:37:44,920 --> 01:37:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2000
01:37:45,680 --> 01:37:47,559
Speaker 1: Not only will it lead you to more peaceful existence,

2001
01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:50,400
Speaker 1: but your interpersonal relationships are likely to come out stronger.

2002
01:37:50,680 --> 01:37:52,439
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, that's great.

2003
01:37:52,720 --> 01:37:53,800
Speaker 3: Is that resonate with you?

2004
01:37:53,880 --> 01:37:58,759
Speaker 2: Yeah? It does. I think there's like another half that's missing,

2005
01:37:58,800 --> 01:38:03,320
Speaker 2: but so much of that because even growing up, I mean,

2006
01:38:03,360 --> 01:38:07,880
Speaker 2: I come from like we are aggressive, confrontational, shut away

2007
01:38:07,920 --> 01:38:10,200
Speaker 2: from me. I'm all like for some reason, I'm like

2008
01:38:10,840 --> 01:38:12,720
Speaker 2: like I have to hold people accuntable when they do

2009
01:38:12,800 --> 01:38:15,680
Speaker 2: something wrong and funx it up. And just recently I

2010
01:38:15,680 --> 01:38:18,000
Speaker 2: started that picture of battle type of I'm gonna be

2011
01:38:18,040 --> 01:38:19,639
Speaker 2: angry about everything to be like you know what I mean,

2012
01:38:19,920 --> 01:38:22,680
Speaker 2: it's just like you're gonna exhaust yourself. Yeah, because I

2013
01:38:22,680 --> 01:38:27,040
Speaker 2: could be like, anger is an emotion that's like I

2014
01:38:27,200 --> 01:38:32,360
Speaker 2: explained it so without like I'm not an angry person anymore,

2015
01:38:33,439 --> 01:38:35,600
Speaker 2: Like I don't have anger issues I do when I

2016
01:38:35,640 --> 01:38:40,639
Speaker 2: was younger. Anger is an emotion that's so quick to channel.

2017
01:38:40,840 --> 01:38:43,840
Speaker 2: Like acting if I haven't seen that involves anger, don't

2018
01:38:43,840 --> 01:38:46,280
Speaker 2: even prepare because I'm like, you guys are gonna get

2019
01:38:46,280 --> 01:38:49,880
Speaker 2: a lot already, So give you guys on that day.

2020
01:38:49,920 --> 01:38:52,200
Speaker 2: When the day comes you when to get all that. Like,

2021
01:38:52,600 --> 01:38:56,200
Speaker 2: it's so it's so easy to channel. Thankfully, I have

2022
01:38:56,240 --> 01:38:58,719
Speaker 2: a very good control on it. Not that it doesn't

2023
01:38:58,720 --> 01:39:00,320
Speaker 2: peak out any once in a while, but.

2024
01:39:02,080 --> 01:39:04,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have Is it because you want things? You

2025
01:39:04,479 --> 01:39:06,160
Speaker 3: have like want things to be fair?

2026
01:39:07,040 --> 01:39:11,400
Speaker 2: Like I get frustrated when people just like I'm like,

2027
01:39:11,520 --> 01:39:13,920
Speaker 2: I guess sometimes it can be subjective. I'm just like, man,

2028
01:39:14,040 --> 01:39:16,000
Speaker 2: be a fucking good person. Why are you doing this?

2029
01:39:16,080 --> 01:39:18,559
Speaker 2: You know, like when people are wrong, here's my thing.

2030
01:39:19,160 --> 01:39:22,000
Speaker 2: You can fuck up. You could be wrong. Take accountability

2031
01:39:22,000 --> 01:39:24,600
Speaker 2: for this shit, you know, Like there's so much to

2032
01:39:24,680 --> 01:39:27,080
Speaker 2: be honest, Like on the flip of that, like there's

2033
01:39:27,080 --> 01:39:31,000
Speaker 2: one particular battle that I'm the main one that you

2034
01:39:31,000 --> 01:39:33,400
Speaker 2: know that I'm thinking about. It's the only one really

2035
01:39:33,439 --> 01:39:37,960
Speaker 2: like where it's like so much damage was done and

2036
01:39:37,960 --> 01:39:40,840
Speaker 2: there's no accountability taken, and so it's hard for me

2037
01:39:42,600 --> 01:39:45,400
Speaker 2: to just ignore all that and be like, well just

2038
01:39:45,400 --> 01:39:47,840
Speaker 2: to pass things up, you know, especially because in relation

2039
01:39:47,960 --> 01:39:52,400
Speaker 2: of who this person is to me, everyone thinks like whatever,

2040
01:39:52,479 --> 01:40:00,120
Speaker 2: Like it's just like for me I am willing to

2041
01:40:00,880 --> 01:40:04,200
Speaker 2: lay things to rest, but I have to be med,

2042
01:40:04,280 --> 01:40:06,800
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like, I'm so open minded today.

2043
01:40:07,160 --> 01:40:08,000
Speaker 2: Every time we have.

2044
01:40:08,080 --> 01:40:12,160
Speaker 3: We've had, everybody's gonna show up.

2045
01:40:12,200 --> 01:40:15,320
Speaker 2: But see that now though, even about the isolations, right,

2046
01:40:15,400 --> 01:40:18,240
Speaker 2: even when we talk about the is isolated. But now though,

2047
01:40:18,920 --> 01:40:21,400
Speaker 2: I am finding that piece though with having a separate

2048
01:40:21,400 --> 01:40:23,040
Speaker 2: because I can't force everything. I'm like, you know what

2049
01:40:23,080 --> 01:40:24,519
Speaker 2: if this is what it is, this is what it is.

2050
01:40:24,760 --> 01:40:28,719
Speaker 2: And yeah, there's a couple of people, like two in particular,

2051
01:40:28,760 --> 01:40:34,040
Speaker 2: that are mad about that, you know. But I'm also like, one,

2052
01:40:34,160 --> 01:40:38,800
Speaker 2: first of all, this is not your ship, So why

2053
01:40:38,840 --> 01:40:41,800
Speaker 2: are you you know, why are you taking this on?

2054
01:40:42,520 --> 01:40:44,280
Speaker 2: I you know, I don't judge nobody. I'm like, you

2055
01:40:44,280 --> 01:40:46,840
Speaker 2: guys are good, that's great. I'm not getting in the

2056
01:40:46,880 --> 01:40:48,800
Speaker 2: way of that. Be good. I'm not talking no, I'm

2057
01:40:48,800 --> 01:40:51,320
Speaker 2: not speaking no ill will on anybody do that. But

2058
01:40:51,640 --> 01:40:54,160
Speaker 2: you're not in my shoes. You don't take things out

2059
01:40:54,160 --> 01:40:56,160
Speaker 2: I take because I could judge easily be like oh well,

2060
01:40:56,160 --> 01:40:58,040
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have real collect that when this happened, Like

2061
01:40:58,080 --> 01:41:00,000
Speaker 2: I could do that. Everybody could do that all the time.

2062
01:41:00,479 --> 01:41:04,639
Speaker 2: So I'm like, for me, for that relationship to turn around.

2063
01:41:04,680 --> 01:41:09,479
Speaker 2: It's like, damn, I don't know. I just feel like

2064
01:41:09,520 --> 01:41:12,720
Speaker 2: there has to be just a little bit more maturity

2065
01:41:12,800 --> 01:41:16,599
Speaker 2: and an honest conversation because anytime I've tried to have

2066
01:41:16,640 --> 01:41:20,200
Speaker 2: the conversation, I mean, boy, just those triggers come up.

2067
01:41:20,920 --> 01:41:23,360
Speaker 2: You talk about gaslighting, I mean man, and like very

2068
01:41:23,400 --> 01:41:27,920
Speaker 2: purposely saying things they know to rile you up. If

2069
01:41:28,000 --> 01:41:30,400
Speaker 2: the situations is just like man, I'm just like, what

2070
01:41:30,560 --> 01:41:36,160
Speaker 2: is the person? So it's like things like that exactly,

2071
01:41:37,680 --> 01:41:39,640
Speaker 2: I guess, And I guess that for me though, when

2072
01:41:39,640 --> 01:41:41,160
Speaker 2: you talk about trus the battles, I guess it was me,

2073
01:41:42,120 --> 01:41:45,120
Speaker 2: Like you know what I tried. I did, I really did.

2074
01:41:45,360 --> 01:41:48,639
Speaker 2: I really put real liffe into it for years now,

2075
01:41:48,720 --> 01:41:53,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, I've put my hands on my pizza forg Okay,

2076
01:41:53,560 --> 01:41:56,320
Speaker 2: I'm gonna let's stop being so angry at it. But

2077
01:41:56,439 --> 01:41:59,280
Speaker 2: I think picking that card is like because sometimes we're

2078
01:41:59,280 --> 01:42:04,360
Speaker 2: still me mm hm practicing you can't help it.

2079
01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:06,040
Speaker 3: I do a lot of talking out loud.

2080
01:42:06,040 --> 01:42:08,960
Speaker 4: It helps, just have a lot of conversations with them

2081
01:42:09,200 --> 01:42:11,080
Speaker 4: but not there, but just have them not be there.

2082
01:42:11,120 --> 01:42:14,479
Speaker 3: I curse people out so much. It really helps. If

2083
01:42:14,520 --> 01:42:15,200
Speaker 3: you do it a lot.

2084
01:42:15,320 --> 01:42:17,800
Speaker 2: That's so true. I realized it's a life hack. It's

2085
01:42:17,800 --> 01:42:19,240
Speaker 2: a really big release for me.

2086
01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:20,680
Speaker 3: You gotta get it out.

2087
01:42:21,080 --> 01:42:27,240
Speaker 2: What's your sign? Ask you that should be the whole

2088
01:42:27,280 --> 01:42:28,320
Speaker 2: nigga and give you all three.

2089
01:42:28,680 --> 01:42:35,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I love a nigga that knows this ship.

2090
01:42:36,040 --> 01:42:38,680
Speaker 2: I just I like this ship too. But like Pisces

2091
01:42:39,240 --> 01:42:45,280
Speaker 2: rising the Scorpio and yeah, what about you.

2092
01:42:45,280 --> 01:42:47,800
Speaker 4: Guys, that's where that turbo sex comes from. I know

2093
01:42:48,080 --> 01:42:49,479
Speaker 4: Scorpio learned.

2094
01:42:52,800 --> 01:42:53,559
Speaker 2: What about you guys.

2095
01:42:54,200 --> 01:42:57,799
Speaker 4: I'm a double scorpio, so I'm a sun Scorpio rising scorpio.

2096
01:42:57,960 --> 01:43:05,519
Speaker 3: And then the moon is sage and you guys have shared.

2097
01:43:05,520 --> 01:43:12,439
Speaker 2: What are you? Are you sensitive? I'm surrounded by a

2098
01:43:12,439 --> 01:43:16,840
Speaker 2: lot of cancers and yeah, I feel okay. I don't

2099
01:43:16,840 --> 01:43:22,479
Speaker 2: know this makes sense. I find cancers to be sensitive. Yeah,

2100
01:43:22,840 --> 01:43:25,160
Speaker 2: I'm expressive. I wear my motions on my sleeve. For sure.

2101
01:43:25,760 --> 01:43:27,800
Speaker 3: I'll pretend like I'm not bothered, but I'll cry in

2102
01:43:27,800 --> 01:43:34,160
Speaker 3: my room. Oh my god, Well, thank you so much

2103
01:43:34,680 --> 01:43:39,439
Speaker 3: coming on this show again. You appreciate our resident Dad.

2104
01:43:39,880 --> 01:43:44,800
Speaker 4: We proclaimed Sharona's our resident Dad. Resident Dad is back.

2105
01:43:45,400 --> 01:43:48,200
Speaker 4: He's taken residency one last time. I actually know you're

2106
01:43:48,240 --> 01:43:49,200
Speaker 4: in divided all the time.

2107
01:43:49,280 --> 01:43:52,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm always going to bother you whenever you guys

2108
01:43:52,960 --> 01:43:56,120
Speaker 2: want to expect to cry. Geez, this is a good

2109
01:43:56,120 --> 01:43:58,360
Speaker 2: little session. Have a good day. Got it out.

2110
01:43:58,400 --> 01:44:03,000
Speaker 4: You're in the you're in the company, mothers' safety.

2111
01:44:03,080 --> 01:44:04,240
Speaker 3: We've been crying all the time.

2112
01:44:04,439 --> 01:44:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2113
01:44:05,600 --> 01:44:07,920
Speaker 3: I literally cried the other day. I told you to.

2114
01:44:08,080 --> 01:44:10,280
Speaker 4: I was like, I ate these little mushrooms. It wasn't

2115
01:44:10,280 --> 01:44:11,960
Speaker 4: even a lot. And I got in the car. She

2116
01:44:12,040 --> 01:44:13,960
Speaker 4: left and I cried the whole way home and I

2117
01:44:14,000 --> 01:44:15,559
Speaker 4: was like, she's like why. I was like, I don't know.

2118
01:44:17,120 --> 01:44:19,920
Speaker 4: I was like, residual pent up cries that come out.

2119
01:44:20,280 --> 01:44:28,519
Speaker 2: We've made NARCISSM sexy today and b l D. Wow,

2120
01:44:28,680 --> 01:44:30,360
Speaker 2: what a day. It was great.

2121
01:44:30,439 --> 01:44:32,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Can you tell the people where they

2122
01:44:32,280 --> 01:44:32,840
Speaker 3: can find you?

2123
01:44:33,400 --> 01:44:36,840
Speaker 2: Yes? On Twitter and Instagram. It's the same at Rome

2124
01:44:37,000 --> 01:44:38,400
Speaker 2: j R. O n.

2125
01:44:41,360 --> 01:44:48,320
Speaker 3: Oh and Ted talk TikTok oh you check it out.

2126
01:44:49,040 --> 01:44:52,439
Speaker 2: You know, I don't really dance, no, honestly, A lot

2127
01:44:52,479 --> 01:44:57,280
Speaker 2: of times it's really my boy and behind it's things

2128
01:44:57,439 --> 01:44:58,840
Speaker 2: my hand. I'm not really young.

2129
01:44:59,280 --> 01:45:02,880
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I'll live here. I'll check it out. Does

2130
01:45:02,880 --> 01:45:05,200
Speaker 3: that TikTok I'm listending the TikTok with the mins.

2131
01:45:05,240 --> 01:45:06,519
Speaker 2: I should do a Ted talk some point.

2132
01:45:06,680 --> 01:45:07,479
Speaker 3: It was like a Ted talk.

2133
01:45:09,360 --> 01:45:11,720
Speaker 1: You know where to find us good Mom's underscore, Bad

2134
01:45:11,800 --> 01:45:15,479
Speaker 1: Choices on Instagram and we're going to Costa Rica and my.

2135
01:45:15,400 --> 01:45:19,360
Speaker 3: God, we're almost going. There's still time to book.

2136
01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:21,439
Speaker 2: There's still time to book when you're doing it.

2137
01:45:21,600 --> 01:45:24,679
Speaker 1: July thirty first is the first trip and August tenth

2138
01:45:24,760 --> 01:45:25,479
Speaker 1: is the second trip.

2139
01:45:25,520 --> 01:45:26,040
Speaker 3: It's a week.

2140
01:45:26,080 --> 01:45:28,919
Speaker 1: It's in the jungle. It's going to be fun. Sexual

2141
01:45:29,000 --> 01:45:31,680
Speaker 1: essentials will be there. Second week, Trap Yoga by will

2142
01:45:31,680 --> 01:45:36,000
Speaker 1: be their week. Trap Yoga, Chaff Yoga bay.

2143
01:45:36,439 --> 01:45:41,040
Speaker 4: Our titties will be out. It'll be great. I Sharona's

2144
01:45:41,080 --> 01:45:43,840
Speaker 4: commented on the post and it was like, can the

2145
01:45:43,880 --> 01:45:46,200
Speaker 4: father deliver one of the mothers to this retreat?

2146
01:45:47,040 --> 01:45:48,800
Speaker 3: You can drop off in the front. You never know.

2147
01:45:48,840 --> 01:45:50,920
Speaker 3: We have findings that light joints.

2148
01:45:50,560 --> 01:45:52,800
Speaker 1: And uh we reached them up and they do. Like

2149
01:45:52,800 --> 01:45:55,400
Speaker 1: maybe we'll have a celebrity guest, celebrity male guest.

2150
01:45:55,760 --> 01:45:56,840
Speaker 3: Sharonas might be there.

2151
01:45:56,840 --> 01:45:59,879
Speaker 2: Oil our oil ladies.

2152
01:46:00,200 --> 01:46:02,360
Speaker 3: I'm just saying it or might not happen. You'll only

2153
01:46:02,400 --> 01:46:06,320
Speaker 3: know if you come give it. Shielder massages. You know,

2154
01:46:06,400 --> 01:46:10,599
Speaker 3: we know people, Yes, please pluck it all.

2155
01:46:11,360 --> 01:46:13,479
Speaker 2: I'm on an HBO Max show called Made for Love

2156
01:46:13,520 --> 01:46:15,639
Speaker 2: and it's out now season two, so you can binge

2157
01:46:15,680 --> 01:46:19,479
Speaker 2: all season one super quick episodes half hour and season

2158
01:46:19,520 --> 01:46:21,400
Speaker 2: two is out and four is out so far they're

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01:46:21,439 --> 01:46:24,760
Speaker 2: dropping two per week. And yeah, first season, I'm only

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01:46:24,760 --> 01:46:29,080
Speaker 2: in their one episode. You established your character exactly, Okay,

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01:46:29,120 --> 01:46:31,320
Speaker 2: second season in every episode.

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01:46:31,320 --> 01:46:34,120
Speaker 4: That means you did a good job that first episode

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01:46:34,720 --> 01:46:38,640
Speaker 4: whole time. Yes, that's so dope. Congratulations, I got to

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01:46:38,680 --> 01:46:40,000
Speaker 4: check that out. I've been watching a lot more on

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Speaker 4: HBO Max lately.

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01:46:41,360 --> 01:46:41,840
Speaker 2: It's great.

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01:46:43,800 --> 01:46:46,320
Speaker 3: All right, y'all, Well, we'll see you next week. Ye who.

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01:46:54,000 --> 01:46:59,160
Speaker 2: H m hmmm.

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01:47:02,800 --> 01:47:06,680
Speaker 3: L s Is Yo, Ellen J.

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Speaker 1: Solo, BAA recorder, Lalos and Elasa

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Speaker 3: Hm