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Speaker 1: I'm Bobby Bones and I don't float.

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Speaker 2: All right, the guest will be Caitln Butts coming up.

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Speaker 2: I'm a big fan of Kaitlyn Butts. She has the

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Speaker 2: We talk about it. It's covers, but she did Jimmy

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Speaker 2: Eat World the Middle, which I thought was great. We

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Speaker 2: get into all that, but just so you have some

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Speaker 2: Tour two point zero in Europe and the United States,

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Speaker 2: there's for the y. So Tulsa Oklahoma native, and let's

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Speaker 2: talk to her now, super funny, love her music. It

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Speaker 2: is Kaitlin Buttes, Caitlyn Good to see you.

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Speaker 1: Got to see you too.

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Speaker 2: I gotta start by saying I never wear cowboy hats.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it looks good on you.

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Speaker 2: And this wasn't for you. It wasn't because I would

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Speaker 2: have thought perfect timing. Yeah, but I got a package

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Speaker 1: Ooh, that's perfect. You know we're in it backwards. It's perfect.

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Speaker 2: I'm from Arkansas, so I mean I wore cowboy hats

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Speaker 2: a little bit as a kid. Yeah, but I grew

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Speaker 2: up more white trash country than cowboy country. Yeah, there's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, truly, I didn't grow up either way. So I've

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like it felt kind of funny on

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Speaker 1: I wasn't. No, I was in musical theater growing up

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Speaker 2: It could I see where that could be confused though. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: My uncle Rick had a bunch of hogs and horses

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Speaker 1: And so that was my homework, was to print out

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Speaker 1: How old are you, Dan, I was fifteen.

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Speaker 2: Did you become obsessed with learning the guitar? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean it was more just I wanted I love

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Speaker 2: be for success for personal But I now do not

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Speaker 2: allow myself to look at any comments at all unless

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Speaker 2: it's on a Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Is it a Tuesday. I just had to pick a day,

440
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Speaker 1: just had one day.

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Speaker 2: I had to pick it a day that allowed me

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Speaker 2: to actually go over And it's almost like when I

443
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Speaker 2: would have a cheat day when I was super into fitness.

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Speaker 2: If I didn't have a cheat day, I would think

445
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Speaker 2: I'd always be on the edge, like maybe I should

446
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Speaker 2: just break down. But if I knew I had one coming,

447
00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,520
Speaker 2: I could always get through the next because Tuesday, I'm

448
00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 2: gonna have freaking cokecakes. So I don't hit the app

449
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,679
Speaker 2: replies on my Twitter. I don't look at comments in

450
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:12,960
Speaker 2: my Instagram unless it's on Tuesday, and then I'm just

451
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,879
Speaker 2: playing the odds because I've got to be in a

452
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Speaker 2: place too where I'm feeling sad or anxious or I've

453
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,840
Speaker 2: got to feel a bit vulnerable anyway to be affected

454
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Speaker 2: in that way. Normal me doesn't get affected by stuff.

455
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Speaker 2: But if the world's if that ven diagram of all

456
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Speaker 2: the things hits and it's right, and I'm in it. Yeah,

457
00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 2: I don't like the version of me that I turn

458
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Speaker 2: into because I get triggered and I fight and it's ugly.

459
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Speaker 2: I'll kill people on life.

460
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Speaker 1: And so but what you got to be perfect if

461
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Speaker 1: you're coming for me, is all I gotta say.

462
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Speaker 2: I think that if what I say to myself is

463
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:48,760
Speaker 2: I'm not going to listen to anybody, like I'm not

464
00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:50,639
Speaker 2: going to take your critique if I wouldn't take your advice,

465
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Speaker 2: So that's not worthy in affecting me positively. But also

466
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Speaker 2: I do feel bad for them as well, because I

467
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 2: don't have one, I'm gonna say, well adjusted, balanced friend

468
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 2: that gets on controls people. Yeah, and so there's something

469
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Speaker 2: missing from their life that makes them act this way,

470
00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,480
Speaker 2: and that them acting that way is just a symptom

471
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Speaker 2: of the disease of something I ain't going right for them, Yeah,

472
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Speaker 2: and they're taking it out on what they feel are

473
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Speaker 2: people that do have things going right for them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, completely unprompted. It's just great. It's crazy. Sometimes I'm like,

475
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Speaker 1: I mean, my response will be cutthroat, but I'll know,

476
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,439
Speaker 1: like there's never a time that I would just like

477
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 1: be mean, even if I hated the person or disagreed.

478
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,439
Speaker 1: There's that's such a waste of time to just sit

479
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:35,679
Speaker 1: there and type or just be ugly or I don't know,

480
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Speaker 1: it just like reflects who you are.

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Speaker 2: I love the song. All that to say, I'm not

482
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Speaker 2: glad that all happened to you, but I benefited by

483
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 2: them being mean to you on the internet because I

484
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Speaker 2: had a great song to listen to.

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Speaker 1: Well. I mean, like literally everything you know has a reason,

486
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Speaker 1: and I think that if something positive can come out

487
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Speaker 1: of all that negativity and just people being hateful, this

488
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Speaker 1: is just my response to all of that. And there's

489
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Speaker 1: not anyone that I've ever known that hasn't been bullied

490
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 1: or hasn't felt like they're enough. Like, so that was

491
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Speaker 1: the whole purpose, was like this is for me. All

492
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Speaker 1: of my music that I put out is like to

493
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Speaker 1: make myself feel good and get that artistry out and

494
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Speaker 1: because I feel uncomfortable whenever I hold it all in,

495
00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 1: but it really is to like to get it out

496
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Speaker 1: there and make people know that they're not alone and

497
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Speaker 1: feel in that way.

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Speaker 3: Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor,

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Speaker 3: and we're back on the Bobby cast.

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Speaker 2: I was a weird kid because I was a creative kid.

501
00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 2: And when you're a creative kid, and luckily I was

502
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,959
Speaker 2: a smart kid, but I was at a bad school,

503
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,000
Speaker 2: so I wasn't cool if you're like the art kid,

504
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 2: the performing kid. And also I got really good grades,

505
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Speaker 2: Like yeah, I got the crap beat out of me

506
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Speaker 2: for those reasons, because there wasn't really a part of

507
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Speaker 2: my school that allowed, accepted or promoted that, Yeah, you

508
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 2: grew up in Oklahoma. I wouldn't again, I wouldn't say

509
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,719
Speaker 2: that's like the mecca of Broadway. That's what a lot

510
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 2: of Broadway stars aren't coming from Oklahoma. Well, Chris and

511
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 2: chenaw with is, Yes, so were you accepted they'll being

512
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 2: a real artsy kid.

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Speaker 1: I mean I grew up man. I had so many

514
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Speaker 1: different friend groups. I had like friends that were in

515
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Speaker 1: like the robotics, class I have.

516
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Speaker 2: It was on the robotics class.

517
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I was at Tulsa Union. It was

518
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: a really big like sex huge football teams and like

519
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,640
Speaker 1: we were in state like almost every year, and and

520
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Speaker 1: I was on the Palm squad. I was a part of.

521
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Speaker 1: I didn't do theater in within the school. I did

522
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Speaker 1: it outside because it was like a bigger situation at

523
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Speaker 1: theater arts. But I definitely had just different friends and

524
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:51,439
Speaker 1: different friend groups, so I definitely did not and like

525
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Speaker 1: because Union was such a like healthy place where theater

526
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Speaker 1: kids were also pretty cool. I mean they're nerdy in

527
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Speaker 1: their own ways, but it wasn't like this like ugly thing.

528
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I was terribly nerdy. I was Danny Zuko

529
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Speaker 2: and Greece.

530
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Speaker 1: If they were making fun of me, I just didn't

531
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Speaker 1: know about it.

532
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Speaker 2: Did they let me fists?

533
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

534
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 2: I really got told dang, that's awful. I got my

535
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Speaker 2: head stuck in the toilet.

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Speaker 1: You got like old school bullied.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm also a little older school than you,

538
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 2: if we're just saying, but.

539
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Speaker 1: I mean that's like movie style bullied.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, it's great.

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Speaker 1: Like I didn't think that that really really, Like no

542
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 1: one I know that didn't happen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it happened. Yeah it sucked. But now I got

544
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Speaker 2: to be so funny because of it.

545
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: I mean everything has made me funnier.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't trade it for anything. Yeah, I got my head.

547
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Speaker 2: I got picked up in the hallway and taken in.

548
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Speaker 2: What I remember is this is gross. They were taking

549
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Speaker 2: me in in our bathrooms. They didn't allow doors on

550
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Speaker 2: the stalls because it was a bad school. And I

551
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Speaker 2: say that I love my school, like I have pride

552
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 2: for it. Yeah, but bad. We took gang members kicked

553
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Speaker 2: out of other schools into our school. So when I

554
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Speaker 2: say bad, I don't mean like the people are bad.

555
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Speaker 2: It just the environment wasn't good. Yeah, and so there

556
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 2: were no doors on the bathroom stalls, and so they

557
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Speaker 2: were taking me to put my head in the toilet.

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Speaker 1: What happened in the girls stalls too.

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Speaker 2: I didn't go in there. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh I know, but like, what if y'all had to

561
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Speaker 1: do something else in there?

562
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Speaker 2: But no, that's really you weren't allowed to because they

563
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,680
Speaker 2: would rather you have to poop with no door, then

564
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 2: you go behind the stall and be up to something.

565
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Speaker 2: So they removed all the doors.

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Speaker 1: My gosh, yeah, that is my worst nightmare.

567
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Speaker 2: So they were picking me up to put me in,

568
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Speaker 2: and I look in the toilet's full of pee and

569
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Speaker 2: so I'm fighting back and slapping the handle so it flushes.

570
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Speaker 2: And as soon as it I knew I wasn't gonna

571
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Speaker 2: win forever. But as soon as it totally flushed, I

572
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 2: was like, all right, take me, and so they dump

573
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Speaker 2: me in. I went back to class with the wet

574
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Speaker 2: heead and you can't You also can't tell.

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Speaker 1: Then then what does the teacher say when you walk

576
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Speaker 1: in there with the toilet heead?

577
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Speaker 2: Well, I didn't say it was toilet heead. I said

578
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,399
Speaker 2: I was fixing my hair, but I had water all

579
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Speaker 2: on my shirt collar too. I think, dude, I.

580
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Speaker 1: Think I would be such a snitch if that happened

581
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Speaker 1: to me. I'm not that cool.

582
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't want it to happen again, but I,

583
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 2: you know, not the best environment. But we had plays

584
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Speaker 2: and I was on the plays and so I was

585
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Speaker 2: Danny Zuko johns Folda's part in Greece nice and I

586
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 2: loved it. Yeah, I just couldn't sing like I had

587
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 2: everything else. The charisma, yeah, you name it, and I

588
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: c plus at best, and it had so much charisma.

589
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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever heard you sing.

590
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Speaker 2: I should check out a little something called Hobby Lobby Bobby.

591
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 2: One one of my better comedy.

592
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Speaker 1: Songs, Hobby Lobby. We've been talking about Hobby Lobby.

593
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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Oh so I wrote. Yeah, So I

594
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Speaker 2: have a song called Hobby Lobby Bobby. And I play

595
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Speaker 2: in a musical comedy group and I am the lead

596
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Speaker 2: singer of that group. But it's mostly about the comedy.

597
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Speaker 1: That's why you like you Ain't Got to Dies because

598
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Speaker 1: of the comedy.

599
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Speaker 2: I think I like the theater of it, Yeah, more

600
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Speaker 2: than just a comedy of it. And I like the theater,

601
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,399
Speaker 2: and I liked how non traditional it was in a

602
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: very traditional space. I liked playing it. And I have

603
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: a national radio show, obviously, but we don't play a

604
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 2: lot of music on the show. It's mostly us talking

605
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 2: for five hours. So we strategically have songs that we

606
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 2: play and I don't program the music, but I can

607
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 2: spike music if I want, and so I would play

608
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Speaker 2: your song and I would just see so many messages

609
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,399
Speaker 2: like what is that? And I like that. I like

610
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 2: what is that for? If I'm doing something and if

611
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 2: I'm playing something, I like that that song hit like

612
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: a freaking wrecking ball. Yeah, And I think I saw

613
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: it first on Ella Langley's TikTok? Is that what launched

614
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 2: that whole song?

615
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 1: It was Averyanna first and she started because we were

616
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: on upper next Stage Class of twenty twenty five together,

617
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,479
Speaker 1: and so she just started making tiktoks to it, and

618
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Speaker 1: I was like seeing a quit, like an a just

619
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Speaker 1: a reflection of a spike just everywhere, and I was like,

620
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Speaker 1: I need to play into this. This is going to

621
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Speaker 1: be this could pop off in any kind of way

622
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Speaker 1: or just feed into what she's doing. And because she

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Speaker 1: was like making You never want to make your own trend,

624
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Speaker 1: but you as an artist kind of have to like

625
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 1: encourage people. But she was like making the trend and

626
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: it was spiking. And then Ella did hers, and that

627
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: just like blew it out of the water.

628
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,199
Speaker 2: Because all this the finger quote stuff was happening. Yeah,

629
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 2: all the disc it was Riley and l and people

630
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 2: were wondering and Oh, I'm.

631
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Speaker 1: Like, happily feed me into this whatever drama that is

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00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 1: not even real or not, I don't know, just like

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Speaker 1: just help me.

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Speaker 2: Do people sing that song really loud when you play

635
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:05,880
Speaker 2: it shows.

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00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I after that went viral. I went

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00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: on tour with White Flores and it was the loudest

638
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: and like opening shows and stuff, you don't always people

639
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 1: don't always know who you are. They're not singing back

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00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: to you. And I knew whenever I got to that song, like,

641
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,400
Speaker 1: I was excited to see the reaction because people are talking.

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00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:30,880
Speaker 1: It's a social event. And when I got to that chorus,

643
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: man phones shot up. It was the first time that

644
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: I'd seen that for my own, for my own song.

645
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: To just see just like a wall of phones go

646
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Speaker 1: up and.

647
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 2: Just keep screaming. It's so cool.

648
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: It's so cool, and it feels so good that it's

649
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: a you don't get to choose your viral moment. You know,

650
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 1: it could just have been me doing something crazy or stupid,

651
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: or a song that you know doesn't like reflect me

652
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: as a human. I guess. I mean that song is

653
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Speaker 1: me to my core. It's country as all hell, there's

654
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Speaker 1: fiddle on it, there's like I mean, there's this message

655
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: of standing up for yourself and writing off someone in

656
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: your life that's toxic, or there's this like southern aspect

657
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 1: to it. And I just I'm so glad that that

658
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: is the song that like shot into outer space.

659
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 2: I think that would be such a cool moment the

660
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 2: first time everybody knows your song.

661
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, they might not know me, but they know that

662
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: that blurb.

663
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 2: For me, I was touring a bunch. I did a special,

664
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 2: a comedy special, and CMT bought it and it was

665
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 2: great and it was fun. And then I was like,

666
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,479
Speaker 2: I'm not on the road anymore. It was too much.

667
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 2: I was working, still am working every day doing all

668
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,239
Speaker 2: these podcasts, but I didn't want to tour any more

669
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 2: because I was exhausted because I would work five days

670
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: and then be on the road three that's eight days.

671
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 2: But one of the days I'd be doing both the

672
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: show and I would be out. And there have been

673
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: a couple of times, and the opera is always really

674
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 2: cool if this happens, but where I would tell a

675
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 2: joke and the people would laugh and then go into applause. Yeah,

676
00:29:58,040 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 2: it's just like you can't even it's like a dru.

677
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 2: I have even done a drug, but it's like, I

678
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 2: think that's what I think. That's what heroin is.

679
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: Is this an opiate?

680
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: Yes, It's like, do you hate it's like your tangles

681
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,360
Speaker 2: inside of your body. I just feel like that's what

682
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: it feel like when everybody knows your song, everybody pulls

683
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 2: out their phone to do that. On my show, I

684
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: played your version of Tulsa time.

685
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: Hm.

686
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 2: Again, I'm not trying to just build you up here.

687
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 2: It's awesome.

688
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: Thank you.

689
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 2: I love that song anyway, the original Yeah, obviously Keith

690
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:31,959
Speaker 2: recently Yes, yeah, and so there's a lot to live

691
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 2: up to with that. Yeah, I think you crushed it.

692
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. Thanks.

693
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 2: Why did you record that one? Because of Tulsa? And

694
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 2: it made sense pretty much.

695
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: I mean, they're all songs on the sessions. It had

696
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: been songs that we'd played on the Roadrunner tour for

697
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: probably the last year and a half or so, and

698
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: those songs we just have so much fun with and

699
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,479
Speaker 1: I just every we did red Wine super Nova by

700
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 1: Chapel Roan, we did, we did Tulsa Time, we did

701
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: the Middle, we did Sydwagon by The Chicks, and they're

702
00:30:57,800 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: all songs that I'd wish that I had written and

703
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: that we just love to play live. And I was like,

704
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: we need to deliver this so that they can have

705
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: like a portion a piece of the road Owner Tour

706
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,920
Speaker 1: to come home with, and those were the covers that

707
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: we kind of rotated. And now people are asking if

708
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: I'm a cover band. I'm like, no, I've got three

709
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: albums of original songs.

710
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: But I think that would annoy me just a little bit.

711
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 2: But I'd have to, like I talked to myself about

712
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 2: the earlier stuff, like yep, I got to tell myself

713
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 2: again they don't they.

714
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: Don't know how Yeah, that's not for them. Yeah, but

715
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: so I did Tulsa Time from Tulsa Love Don Williams,

716
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: love all of his music, and I just wanted again

717
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: to like change the tempo to to fit my vibe

718
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: because I definitely sped it up and just wanted to

719
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: feel a little bit more fiery. And band loves playing it.

720
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, what happened? Did you talked to labels? Did you?

721
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: Did you sign anywhere?

722
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: I signed with Republic Records.

723
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 2: That's a real one.

724
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: That's a that's a real label. One that's not like

725
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: someone it's.

726
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 2: Not Caitlin but sink. Sometimes it's not someone's I kind

727
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 2: of know, how did you decide who to sign with?

728
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: Or even now because the environment is so different, you

729
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 2: don't have to sign it's definitely a different hustle.

730
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: If you don't why, I mean it was. I think

731
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,760
Speaker 1: I needed more. I have such a great team, but

732
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: we're very small. It's really just me and a couple

733
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: people that run everything for me. And I've done the

734
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: smaller label thing, and I think I just really wanted

735
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: some fire. I really wanted to I as a country

736
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: female artist, like wanted some just wanted to give it

737
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: a go. I'd never done it before, never been asked,

738
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 1: and I had like over a dozen labels reach out

739
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 1: after you Ain't Got to Die?

740
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 2: Wow, did it feel weird to be wanted? After?

741
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 1: Oh? To be wanted? It didn't feel weird. It felt

742
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,719
Speaker 1: really awesome because for the first time I really felt

743
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: I used to think when I was like twenty two

744
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: or twenty three, like I'm ready, you know, like put

745
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: me on wherever. And I've been doing this for a

746
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 1: long time, and I truly feel like I'm ready for

747
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 1: you can put me anywhere. That's how I feel now.

748
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: And I feel really confident, confident in whatever stage I'm

749
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: in or or like not even in a musical setting,

750
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 1: like talking in an interview. I feel pretty confident, confident

751
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: in who I am and what I have to say,

752
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: like I know, I can entertain, and so I feel

753
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: really happy that it happened when it did because I

754
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,920
Speaker 1: truly feel ready for it. And so when it came

755
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 1: to picking I it was really hard.

756
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 2: How did you know who was telling you what they

757
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 2: wanted to tell you? Yeah, versus what you the truth?

758
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: I think it was hard. I mean, you can feel

759
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: really giddy about people because they see something in you,

760
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 1: and you can kind of be dangled here. Lots of

761
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: flattery goes on and lots of great ideas too. I

762
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: mean they're great teams. It just kind of felt there

763
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: was one deciding factor. I mean a couple really, but

764
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:57,959
Speaker 1: I already knew Mary Catherine, who they just put her

765
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: in charge of Nashville at Republic and she's signed Marcus

766
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: King and others that I really love, and I've always

767
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: had a good relationship with her. And she sought me

768
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 1: out just and told everyone about me before she could

769
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: even benefit from it, from probably like five six years ago,

770
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: and was like, I'm obsessed with Katelyn Butts. And she

771
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 1: would showed me a text the day that we signed

772
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: that it was before she had any reason to care

773
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: about what I was doing. She had sent sent like

774
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: several people, Caitlin Butts is a star and she's going

775
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 1: to be huge one day, so that was really cool,

776
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 1: and just someone who I really believed in and the

777
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: whole team, especially someone like Roppo who's over there at Republic.

778
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: I always try to determine how I feel about a person,

779
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 1: no matter who it is, based off of how I

780
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: act around them, and I felt like, if I'm acting

781
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: as my true, authentic self, that's how I kind of

782
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: determined my what I think about them, if that makes sense.

783
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,720
Speaker 1: If I'm over inflating my ego or trying to convince

784
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: them but I'm this person, or I'm shrinking myself or

785
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 1: being quiet or not saying the funny thing that comes

786
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: to my head, I obviously feel a certain way about

787
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:13,240
Speaker 1: that person. And so after reflecting after those label meetings,

788
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: I was like, I've felt like I could say, I

789
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: felt like my true self when I left, Like I

790
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: left being me and I didn't feel like I was

791
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: trying to convince them that I was something or I

792
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: was trying to, I don't know, be too humble or whatever.

793
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 1: I've felt like myself when I left, and that's who

794
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,319
Speaker 1: I want to work with. And yeah, that's why I

795
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: signed with them.

796
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 2: That's a good point. It's not just how they are, Yeah,

797
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 2: it's how you are when you're with them. I think

798
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 2: that's also in relationships.

799
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 1: Oh totally. I mean every relationship that I've ever had,

800
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: business or not. It's like that's something a tool that

801
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: I've found, like do I do I actually like this person?

802
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: Why am I trying to convince them to like me?

803
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: Like that's something that I've had to really reflect on,

804
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,840
Speaker 1: just doing business with anyone or just not or just

805
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: a relationship wise too.

806
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 2: My wife's from Tulsa, right near Tulsa.

807
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: And I forget that. That's so cool.

808
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:08,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, her favorite movies is Oklahoma. I'd never seen it

809
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: until now, well until she made me watch it. We

810
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 2: did a thing where we watched it when we were dating. Yeah,

811
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 2: we've now been married for almost five years. But when

812
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 2: we first started, and it was also because we dated

813
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:23,959
Speaker 2: for a bit and then COVID hit and we moved

814
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 2: in and at first we were just going to just

815
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 2: stay with each other during COVID. It'll be over in

816
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks. It wasn't over in a couple

817
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 2: of weeks, right, Yeah, And so we would just watch movies.

818
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 2: And so we did the thing where we watched each

819
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 2: other's favorite movies. And I had her watch Man on

820
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:39,919
Speaker 2: the Moon, which is about Andy Kaufman. Jim Carrey plays

821
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 2: Andy Coffman. He's like my favorite performer ever.

822
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: I think I've seen that.

823
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 2: It's amazing. Yeah, and she had me watch Oklahoma.

824
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

825
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: I didn't know some of those songs were from Oklahoma,

826
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 2: for you know, oh what a Beautiful Morning. Oh. I

827
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 2: had no idea that was from Oklahoma. Yeah. But also

828
00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 2: there's so many references like in pop culture that come

829
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 2: from real that I never realized. I just knew them

830
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,799
Speaker 2: as they were. And I thought it was good. The

831
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 2: dream scene. They should cut that.

832
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: Aesthetically. Aesthetically, it could definitely be sped up.

833
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,399
Speaker 2: I agree, way too long. Always not a big dream

834
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 2: scene guy, anyway, because I thought it waste of time.

835
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 2: I don't even know your dreams. I don't even want

836
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 2: to know my friend's dreams, much less people in a movie.

837
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 2: I thought it's symbolism, yeah, yeah, a little too much,

838
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 2: a little too heavy on the symbol. Other than that,

839
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 2: I thought it was pretty good. Yeah, because you don't

840
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 2: like black and white stuff.

841
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it's not black and white.

842
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 2: I'm colorblind, But is it not black and white? No,

843
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: I'm not that color like Wizard of Oz. Maybe maybe

844
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 2: you are color blind, it's not the dream sequence is

845
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 2: black and white.

846
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: No, it's definitely not it like goes. Are you sure

847
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,399
Speaker 1: there's a glimpse of it that might be black and white?

848
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 2: I know for a fact part of that thing is

849
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: black and white. And I say, for a fact, but

850
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 2: I am also extremely colorblind, but not so color blind.

851
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 2: I can't see those colors.

852
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 1: It's not there's no I've watched it one million times, Bob,

853
00:37:58,360 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 1: I know you're right.

854
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 2: I mean that's my wife, she says, maybe she just

855
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,399
Speaker 2: gave me a bad version. Yeah, I'm not seeing any

856
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 2: black and not even.

857
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: The dream the most colorful like scene in the whole thing.

858
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 2: Anyway, I still think it's supid, the dream sequence. I

859
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 2: did like the movie. And one of our friends, like

860
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 2: one of my closest friends is the singer Bret Eldridge,

861
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 2: and he was in Oklahoma when he was in high school,

862
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 2: and he performs that at my wife's birthday every year.

863
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 3: Wait.

864
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and there's a whole beginning part of it.

865
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a bride. Golden hayes on the meadow.

866
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,320
Speaker 2: That's it. There's a bright golden hay That's awesome. Yeah yeah,

867
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 2: And so he does that every year at our birthday.

868
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: And give me any song.

869
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the second most famous song in that movie?

870
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 1: I would say, Oh, Oklahoma where the wind comes up

871
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: and down the plane?

872
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you know that? At the end, always tell

873
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: my wife they all moved to Arkansas to get a

874
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 2: better life.

875
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: That is so not true.

876
00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 2: Where do you think they're moving at the end, you

877
00:38:58,840 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 2: tell me, because it's not so.

878
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 1: They're moving to Claremore or Kansas City. They want to

879
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,760
Speaker 1: go to Kansas City. I went to Kansas City on Friday.

880
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: They're like, they're like going up to the big city.

881
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 2: I think it's Arkansas.

882
00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: Well, agree to disagree.

883
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,800
Speaker 2: Did you ever go to Arkansas or anything for nothing?

884
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 2: The mall, for its met or anything. No.

885
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 1: And I've been begged to tour there, and I just

886
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: I've never. I don't think I've ever played a show

887
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: in Arkansas. Maybe once, maybe not. Fan I don't think

888
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: I have. I have, I don't know. I don't know

889
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:28,399
Speaker 1: where I've been.

890
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 2: You weren't an Oklaholma. You weren't an alcohol my top,

891
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 2: I got top.

892
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 1: He is top, he's a top. I can tell.

893
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm here, I'm here, I'm on my feet right now. Uh.

894
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: Did I just fluster Bobby Bones?

895
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 2: No, there's there's about four four jokes and I decided

896
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,919
Speaker 2: to pull all four of them back and just living.

897
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, just living it.

898
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: So when are you releasing new Caitlin Butt's music.

899
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 1: I have written now four songs for the next album,

900
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 1: and the goal is and labels like, uh, now would

901
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 1: be a great time if you have the songs and

902
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,879
Speaker 1: obviously that that's what labels want and people fands want.

903
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 2: Have you recorded which just written now?

904
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: No, I've Yeah, they're just like in my brain. At

905
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: this point, I need to go right that's my whole assignment.

906
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: But as soon as possible, as soon as I can.

907
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 4: The Bobby Cast will be right back. This is the

908
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 4: Bobby Cast.

909
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 2: Your husband's also in a band?

910
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think. So.

911
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 2: How's that going?

912
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 1: It's going good?

913
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

914
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

915
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:45,919
Speaker 2: Which part, the husband of the band part?

916
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 1: All of it? Yeah, I mean they do really well.

917
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 2: They do. Do you want to talk about that? I

918
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 2: don't want to make it about it. Of course, your

919
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 2: husband is Yeah.

920
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: He's a Cludic Cordero flatline Cavalry.

921
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 2: And they're doing pretty good.

922
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

923
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 2: Do you guys get to see each other?

924
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 1: We do sometimes.

925
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 2: Is it like a Tuesday Wednesday? Those are the days

926
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: you see it.

927
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 1: It's like Sunday through Wednesday sometimes. But I mean sometimes

928
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: I'm off and he is not off, or vice versa.

929
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 1: Or we'll meet each other, like we've had airport dates

930
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: before where he's going out of Austin and I'm coming

931
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 1: in and I've got to go somewhere else, and we

932
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 1: just have always made it work that way. It's definitely

933
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,320
Speaker 1: not easy and it's definitely not fun sometimes.

934
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 2: How long he has been married.

935
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: Five years but together ten?

936
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 2: Oh wow, you weregather five years before we got married. Yeah,

937
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 2: that's quite the long. Yeah, what's up, buddy? I know, Cooper,

938
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: get off the pot, That's what I say.

939
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I I think it was. I don't know

940
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: it really was. That is a long, you know, time

941
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,320
Speaker 1: to date. I mean, but the thing is, like I

942
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 1: look back in our dating and he was already sending

943
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: me rings like to that he wanted to buy, like

944
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: six months into it, and so it was never like

945
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: a I don't know, it just didn't feel like we were.

946
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: We were in different areas of our I mean, he

947
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,399
Speaker 1: lived in Lubbock at the time. I lived in Ardmore, Oakama.

948
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: And then we moved together. No, I live. I moved

949
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: here in twenty nine I started so I was traveling

950
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: here probably starting in twenty sixteen when we started dating.

951
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 1: I'd come here once every month or every couple of months,

952
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 1: and we were just both kind of doing our own thing.

953
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: And then in twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen, I moved here.

954
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: I left. We had moved in together into fort Worth,

955
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 1: and then I was like, you tour, I have a

956
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: publishing deal in Nashville. I'm going to go rent, go

957
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 1: get a couple of roommates and live in Nashville. You

958
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: can stay in fort Worth. And then COVID happened, and

959
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 1: then we both moved into my mother's house in Ardmore, Oklahoma,

960
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: and then moved back here in twenty twenty one and

961
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 1: bought a house.

962
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 2: How do you like it here?

963
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: I love it. Like I'm trying to convince everyone that

964
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: I know to move here. My mom's going to retire

965
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 1: at the end of this year and come moving with us.

966
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:53,720
Speaker 2: How about we keep them out?

967
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:57,280
Speaker 1: But there's so many cool Oky's that I'm maybe okay,

968
00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: here's the thing we need less like maybe West Coast

969
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,240
Speaker 1: and more like actual like Okies.

970
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: Maybe fair enough. Favorite Oklahoma band ever.

971
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,879
Speaker 1: Band ever turn Pitriy Badoers, you.

972
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 2: Know with those guys. They came and played my rhyme

973
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 2: and show too, and it was super fun. My wife

974
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 2: is a massive fan of them because she's from right

975
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 2: near Talaquah, which is where they're all from. And they

976
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 2: were so surprised. The even knew how to say that

977
00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 2: town's name. And I'm like, say it. We go to

978
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 2: the pizza place there. I think Carrie used to work

979
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 2: at the pizza place.

980
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: And will you ever float there?

981
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't float. I don't like to have

982
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 2: my I never liked to have my shirt off. I

983
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:33,439
Speaker 2: don't float now. I don't float.

984
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm Bobby Bones and I don't float.

985
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,760
Speaker 2: Thank you all to this message paid for by Bobby Bones.

986
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,399
Speaker 2: Should I'm not a big floater. It's not a big

987
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 2: water guy.

988
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: You got the perfect hat to float right now.

989
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 2: I just got the hat from Landman, though, so if

990
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 2: I would have had it previously, maybe I don't like

991
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 2: to get wet, just generally.

992
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 1: Bobby Bones doesn't like to get wet.

993
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 2: Unless they're like soap. I don't really see the need

994
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 2: to get wet.

995
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you can float to be wet.

996
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 1: You can just be in a tube that doesn't that floats.

997
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: And drink In't it?

998
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 2: Okay? Two things. One, I've never had drink of alcohol.

999
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: You are pale, so you guys. Yeah.

1000
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 2: I was in the middle of like telling you why

1001
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 2: you took a shot.

1002
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: So I am a redhead. I am more pale than.

1003
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 2: You, but you have red hair, yeah, which would make sense.

1004
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 2: I don't even like the beach.

1005
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 1: Something's wrong with you.

1006
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 2: I we didn't have a beach in Arkansas, and we

1007
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: never went on vacation.

1008
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 1: Would Why would anyone from Oklahoma be like, I'm gonna

1009
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: go where there's not a beach. We have plenty of

1010
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: beaches in Oklahoma.

1011
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 2: No, those aren't beaches.

1012
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 1: There's such beaches.

1013
00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 2: Those are called creeks. Lake you falla, Yeah, I've been.

1014
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 2: We stayed at Christmas on likeke you falla really. Yeah,

1015
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 2: we went and got a house and all because all

1016
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:47,680
Speaker 2: of our famis fm Oklahoma, so we went and stayed.

1017
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 2: I'm very much you're kind of oky yeah, a little bit.

1018
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 2: And my wife's a massive Oklahoma football fan, and I'm

1019
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 2: obviously a massive Arkansas fan, and you guys are way

1020
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 2: better than us, and it's so annoying.

1021
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure. Did she like, oh you're a OSU?

1022
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 2: Oh you okay? Okay ho, Yeah, that's why she likes this.

1023
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1024
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, so she's very Oklahoma. And we did buy a

1025
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 2: house in Arkansas though, yeah, which was right on the line. Okay,

1026
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:15,880
Speaker 2: so turn by, she got me into that. I was

1027
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 2: way late. So I'm not cool by any means when

1028
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: it comes to that. But I'm a big fan now.

1029
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 2: I just don't say that a lot because I'm not

1030
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 2: an og big fan and I feel like people will

1031
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 2: question me. I can't say, well, only started liking them

1032
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 2: two years ago, but even their music from you know,

1033
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 2: a decade ago, and those guys, when I was talking

1034
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,080
Speaker 2: to them, they felt a bit surprised that they had

1035
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: kind of popped off doing the same exact thing, like

1036
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 2: they didn't change. Yeah, no, they just took a.

1037
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 1: Break, but those boys will not change.

1038
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 2: They came back and they just kept going and it

1039
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 2: was like, how are we here? We haven't done anything different,

1040
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 2: And all of a sudden we're getting you know, we're

1041
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 2: playing these way bigger shows and new parts of America.

1042
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 2: It was super cool. Really love those guys. Give me

1043
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 2: another Oklahoma artist.

1044
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:57,439
Speaker 1: Man, I love so man.

1045
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 2: There's so many Yeah, I know read it.

1046
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: I literally I mean Reba.

1047
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 2: I don't go to your phone. This is from heart

1048
00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 2: only God, because I can do. I'll do Arkansas, John Can.

1049
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: I tell you like artists that are like kind of

1050
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 1: that are new, that like.

1051
00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 2: You didn't mind. There are no rules not to lose

1052
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 2: the game. I'm not taking your skylarsh of.

1053
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: I love a girl named Ken Pomeroy. She's one of

1054
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,959
Speaker 1: my good friends and I took her on tour last

1055
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: year and she's really really talented and she's very folky

1056
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 1: and mayer Conna, but she her voice is like unmatched

1057
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 1: and she's so good. I love Parker millsap. I love

1058
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:36,280
Speaker 1: John Morland, I love Oh my God, I love.

1059
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,280
Speaker 2: Kars There is all Oklahoma people, Yeah.

1060
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: These are all. I love Camille Hart, I love Kirsten.

1061
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:41,720
Speaker 2: Why he was name of cousins now.

1062
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: I feel like cousins. I love Samantha Cranes music. I

1063
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:48,720
Speaker 1: love Oh my God. I love Wink Bertram's music.

1064
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 2: I love.

1065
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, John Calvin. There's just so many talented

1066
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: people there that like live and exists there, and there's

1067
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 1: so much talent in Oklahoma, and I was kind of

1068
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: like the person that was put there, or like even

1069
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 1: like Cody Canada. Damn, Cody Canada. I love Cody Canada.

1070
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:11,280
Speaker 2: Which not the first CCR?

1071
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:11,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1072
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 2: The second?

1073
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, the second one.

1074
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 2: Do you know the first?

1075
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 1: I I've got to say, I.

1076
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:18,720
Speaker 2: Do you know the first CCR?

1077
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: I love Cody?

1078
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 2: Do you know the first CCR?

1079
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, what's the for you choose me or

1080
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 1: for accuse me?

1081
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 2: Take your loose? Yeah? Why are you singing that? Because

1082
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 2: that's CCR see right behind you, John Fogerty, it's my friends.

1083
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: Damn.

1084
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:41,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, thanks for being impressed.

1085
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: That's cool.

1086
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:43,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's his real signature.

1087
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 1: He's got some big lips.

1088
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 2: He's older now. I think his lips of shrank good

1089
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 2: for him.

1090
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, lots of girls would kill for those lips.

1091
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 2: He can still go. He's like eighty two? Is he eighty?

1092
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:52,879
Speaker 1: Mike?

1093
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 2: He can still sing like crazy. I was worried because

1094
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 2: anybody eighty, I feel like I'm gonna break. It's like

1095
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: a baby an eighty year old or a baby. I

1096
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 2: feel like I'm gonna break on and he came in

1097
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 2: and definitely, but man, he has a lot of energy.

1098
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 2: Yeah and still really great singer. Well, I'm glad you

1099
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 2: came over and God, we.

1100
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: Got to do this to thank you for asking me.

1101
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 2: Are you are you happy?

1102
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: It's most days, every twenty eight days though, Just pray

1103
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: for me same.

1104
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 2: I've been doing sympathy paints. I tell my wife I

1105
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 2: get her sympathy pains.

1106
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,399
Speaker 1: She's pregnant, and you're like and she's like, plea over.

1107
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're gonna piss me off because I'll go, Oh,

1108
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 2: I don't feel very good. My back hurts. She once

1109
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 2: she doesn't want to hear that she's pregnant.

1110
00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, can I tell you a tip that I saw

1111
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: on TikTok to come behind?

1112
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: I didn't say yes, I didn't say you did it.

1113
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 2: Now I'm just looking. I'm deciding if I want to

1114
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 2: hear it not hold on. You said I said nothing

1115
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 2: my wife is pregnant, But then you said can I

1116
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 2: tell you a tip? And I did not raise it.

1117
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 1: Yes, Well I don't care, so come up behind her.

1118
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: How pregnant is she?

1119
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 2: Very?

1120
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 1: Okay? So come up behind her and like, lift the belly.

1121
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 2: I'm already elbowed in the face.

1122
00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: No, no, it's gonna relieve the weight of it. So

1123
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 1: you pull up her belly and just give her the relief.

1124
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 2: If I surprise her by grabbing her belly from the back,

1125
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,240
Speaker 2: she's going to elbow me in the face.

1126
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: You're her husband.

1127
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 2: You should which is why she'll elbow me in the face.

1128
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: You should just let her and then then she'll ease

1129
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: into it. Tell her that I told you to do

1130
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: it or TikTok tip.

1131
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 2: A TikTok tip from Caitlin, but said I should come

1132
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 2: up behind you when you're not looking and grab your belly, just.

1133
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 1: Lift it, like to relieve pressure. Do you not touch

1134
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: your wife?

1135
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:31,240
Speaker 2: Less?

1136
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:34,240
Speaker 1: Now, don't to his wife doesn't like to get wet

1137
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 1: far less.

1138
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's very pregnant. Nice, we're gonna have a kid.

1139
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 1: How exciting?

1140
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,760
Speaker 2: Crazy? Crazy?

1141
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: Do you know if it's a boy or girl?

1142
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 2: We don't know yet.

1143
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you waiting?

1144
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 4: Uh?

1145
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 2: Actually you want to know the truth. Yeah, we do know.

1146
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 2: I just say that because my wife will say because

1147
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 2: she has no problem with I don't mind awkward. I

1148
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 2: like awkward, but I don't want to have to make

1149
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 2: the conversation continue longer than I want. So people you

1150
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 2: know what it is, and I'll go, nah, we're just

1151
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 2: waiting to find out.

1152
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 1: And you were about to do that to me.

1153
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,440
Speaker 2: I was, yeah, but I know what it is. But

1154
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 2: we're just not telling anybody, or we told like a

1155
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 2: select We've told a select few people. And if I

1156
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 2: said this, well, we've only told like ten percent of

1157
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 2: our friends, and those are the friends we like the most.

1158
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 2: And you don't make that ten percent. You shouldn't say

1159
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 2: that right then there's a whole different feeling about the

1160
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 2: whole conversation. So we do know, we're just not telling

1161
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 2: some people.

1162
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 1: The internet in Netflix, Yeah.

1163
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 2: That's it.

1164
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: I get that.

1165
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's pretty crazy. I didn't have a dad, so,

1166
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 2: like I have weirdness about dar.

1167
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 1: If there's anyone that is a dad, Me and Bobby

1168
00:50:40,040 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: are in the market for new dads.

1169
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:46,959
Speaker 2: Okay we are, I'm too old. I'm good you she'd

1170
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,479
Speaker 2: still like a dad for you out there, she'd still

1171
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:53,440
Speaker 2: like a dad. My dad's alive with a boat. Is

1172
00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 2: your dad alive? You're really?

1173
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: Yeah? He's dead to me?

1174
00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 2: No, I know, I know. That's why but he has

1175
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,880
Speaker 2: a lot of life because my real dad is alive.

1176
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1177
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,120
Speaker 2: I don't call him my dad, but he's dead to

1178
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 2: me too.

1179
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. In the market, if anyone has.

1180
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 2: A boat, I'll just take it. Did you ever have

1181
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 2: a stepdad?

1182
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: No?

1183
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 2: I had a stepdad for a while. He was awesome.

1184
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:14,479
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, that's sweet.

1185
00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 2: I had a papa. He was felt like, is that

1186
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:17,280
Speaker 2: a grandpa?

1187
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1188
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 2: Is that your biological grandpa?

1189
00:51:19,680 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 4: Well?

1190
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: No, so it was my he would be so pretty.

1191
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: My mom's dad passed when she was twenty one, and

1192
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: then my papa and grandma, their spouses were both simultaneously

1193
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 1: passing away in the hospital at the same time, and

1194
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 1: they became close. Wow, and then got married afterwards.

1195
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 2: Wow.

1196
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 1: And so that was my papa that I you know,

1197
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:43,879
Speaker 1: I didn't never knew anything else.

1198
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,399
Speaker 2: A couple final questions. Do you consider Oklahoma the South?

1199
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: I do. I know a lot of people don't.

1200
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:52,760
Speaker 2: But if you go there, my wife doesn't.

1201
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: That's crazy. I mean, you got to go to southern

1202
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,880
Speaker 1: Oklahoma maybe to see some south, but it is south

1203
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,879
Speaker 1: to me. It's wild.

1204
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 2: There's definitely parts where it feels like Arkansas, but also

1205
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 2: there's such a strong Native American presence there.

1206
00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1207
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,799
Speaker 2: And she's also like, we weren't the Confederacy, like we

1208
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 2: didn't lose the war.

1209
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true, but I guess but I wouldn't determine

1210
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: the South as like the Confederacy. I would just be

1211
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:22,840
Speaker 1: like Southern people.

1212
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,600
Speaker 2: But either though, because I'll try any way to lump

1213
00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 2: her in with us.

1214
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's how. But I feel like as an

1215
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: ident like that is something that Oklahoma like struggles with,

1216
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: is like the identity of what it is.

1217
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 2: And but it's like every Midwest.

1218
00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 1: No, it's every it's everything.

1219
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,839
Speaker 2: Not Southern. It's not really in the southern part of America.

1220
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:43,000
Speaker 2: That handle though that you guys have some bad stuff

1221
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 2: used to happen there. Yeah, the Panhandle.

1222
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: Everywhere there was bad stuff happens everywhere.

1223
00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 2: No, but this was like there were no rules, no laws. Yeah,

1224
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 2: it was like international waters. You just go to the

1225
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 2: Panhandle and do whatever you want, get wet, be a top.

1226
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:58,760
Speaker 2: There were no rules.

1227
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: There are no rules. Did you know that Oklahoma is

1228
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: the most like diverse like terrain in like the states.

1229
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:10,800
Speaker 1: We have a desert, we have lakes, we have mountains. Yeah,

1230
00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:13,440
Speaker 1: and there's like a it's a place called the Little Sahara.

1231
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: We've got so many different We've got lakes, mountains.

1232
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 2: You listed to rivers, like sand dunes.

1233
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: I mean, does Texas have like actual sand dunes?

1234
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1235
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 1: I don't think.

1236
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 3: So let's take a quick pause for a message from

1237
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 3: our sponsor.

1238
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 2: And we're back on the Bobby Cast. Do you like Texas?

1239
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fine, right, it's great, It's huge. Yeah, I

1240
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: love Texas. I like I like touring there because they

1241
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: are the most enthusiastic, like Lee country people ever.

1242
00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:58,399
Speaker 2: They love.

1243
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: They have an idea that's the they you know a

1244
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 1: Texan because they'll let you know that identity.

1245
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 2: They have beer named after them, they do, they have

1246
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 2: music named after them.

1247
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: I feel like Oklahoma gets a little jealous of that.

1248
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: But because we're just not we're not Midwest, I don't.

1249
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 1: We don't make tater Talk cast rolls, but we make

1250
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: cast roles.

1251
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:18,680
Speaker 2: But there's lots of other chicken.

1252
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:21,520
Speaker 1: Charlie's chicken. Oh my god, don't get me seople dar.

1253
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 2: I spend a lot of time in Oklahoma, and they're like,

1254
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 2: what's your favorite part Charlie's Chicken? That is it?

1255
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: If you have you sparked a whole childhood memory. Well,

1256
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 1: I can taste that.

1257
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 2: There aren't other Charlie's chickens. There's none here, none but

1258
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 2: Charlie's Chicken A plus and Oklahoma. Yeah, let me go

1259
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 2: two more questions. When you were in junior high would

1260
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,359
Speaker 2: you want to be when you grew up?

1261
00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 1: I had different careers that I wanted to be. I

1262
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: always love performing. It was truly the only thing that

1263
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:53,359
Speaker 1: I'm like so naturally just good at and love doing,

1264
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: like something that is cathartic in me. I wanted to

1265
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: be a party planner because that seemed fun. I wanted

1266
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 1: to be an designer. I like to decorate my spaces.

1267
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: I thought I was going to go to college for that,

1268
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: but I got a really small scholarship to a music

1269
00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 1: school in Oklahoma City, acm at UCO that kind of

1270
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:15,399
Speaker 1: do what to sing to sing? Yeah, vocal performance, that's cool. Yeah,

1271
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: I got my associate's degree. It was like the School

1272
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: of Rock, but I was like the only country person

1273
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: doing anything country there because the Flaming Lips manager was

1274
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 1: the CEO is the CEO of the school there, and

1275
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: so so rock and roll themed, and but I was

1276
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: like the country girl there from Tulsa.

1277
00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 2: Did you think you would do country music? Was that

1278
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 2: ever a part of your Not?

1279
00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: Not when I was little, but fifteen, like, I wanted

1280
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: to play guitar and sing and I love I knew

1281
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: I loved to do that. But the great thing about

1282
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 1: what I do now is I kind of do a

1283
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: lot of those things. Like I party plan, I like

1284
00:55:51,080 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: create events that and curate them, and I interior decorate

1285
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: for like my set and stuff like that. I just

1286
00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: get to be creative. I knew I wanted to be creative.

1287
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: I knew I wanted to be in an environment that

1288
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 1: was fun. And this is like kind of all of

1289
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,399
Speaker 1: those things into into one.

1290
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 2: Can you draw?

1291
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: Hell No, I can't.

1292
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 2: Draw, really I can.

1293
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,880
Speaker 1: I I can make lots of clawses on my iPad

1294
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 1: and tell graphic designers what to do. I have lots

1295
00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 1: of vision, but I know I can't. Can I paint,

1296
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: I mean I can, It's not it's not good. I

1297
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:28,280
Speaker 1: can do an I could do a sky colors.

1298
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:32,440
Speaker 2: A sky, Yeah, I just do blue. I could do that,

1299
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 2: do clouds on it.

1300
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: I could my one of my things I want to

1301
00:56:36,480 --> 00:56:37,640
Speaker 1: do during the spread.

1302
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 2: By doing a sky. That's the one thing we know.

1303
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: I'm telling you I can't. That's all. That's the extent

1304
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:44,840
Speaker 1: of it. I could do. I really want to do

1305
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:46,359
Speaker 1: like the Bob Ross thing where you like eat an

1306
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 1: edible and then you watch Bob Ross and try to

1307
00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 1: do his like his painting.

1308
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,759
Speaker 2: Is that called the Bob Ross thing? I thought you

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00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 2: were going to say the Bob Ross thing paint. I

1310
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 2: didn't know it was get high and watch him then

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00:56:57,960 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 2: try to paint that.

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00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:00,879
Speaker 1: That's my Bob Ross thing. I don't know if that's

1313
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:02,919
Speaker 1: a universal thing, but it's my thing that I want

1314
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 1: to do. I want to eat some edibles.

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00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 2: I feel like you could do that anytime.

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00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:09,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, some Howdy Delta nine ones that are legal in Tennessee.

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00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:13,399
Speaker 1: And have you heard of Howdy? By the way, how

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00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: doy do you do edibles? Ad Blaze? No, you can't

1319
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: say no, you're a father, he's a father.

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00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 2: No. No, No, I've done nothing. I've not I've never had

1321
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 2: a drink of alcohol. I've never had a drug. I've

1322
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 2: never done any I'm as straight edge as you can be.

1323
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I feel pretty straight edged. Like I've

1324
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: never been offered like hard drugs before in my life.

1325
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 2: And I don't know what I want to do stuff.

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00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god, well I'm not anti the stuff I

1327
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:39,680
Speaker 2: just have.

1328
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: I've never Bones who wants to do stuff.

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00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 2: I want to do. I have so many graphics from

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00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 2: this we can just put up Bobby Bones doesn't want

1331
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 2: to be wet.

1332
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1333
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I've never The only time I've ever been

1334
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 2: high and is one of the greatest moments in my

1335
00:57:51,680 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 2: life in the dentist chair.

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00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 1: I guess it was on the opry they all clapped

1337
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 1: at your joke and you're.

1338
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 2: Like, yep, that is one. That's heroin. Yeah, I guess

1339
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 2: messed up in the dinnist Did you love it? I

1340
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 2: love for the first time you're laughing, But I really

1341
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 2: got so high off the laughing gas.

1342
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: That you saw Jesus Like Noah, Cyrus says, I was floating.

1343
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 2: This is not a joke. I was floating. Everything around

1344
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 2: me was black except for the occasional star, and I

1345
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:25,200
Speaker 2: remember thinking to myself, WHOA life is all about relationships?

1346
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 2: And I had this moment of clarity. I was so fulfilled.

1347
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 2: I was so happy. I couldn't fill my lips.

1348
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 1: That's the whole point. And like an audience milkshake afterwards,

1349
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: I don't.

1350
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 2: I don't remember. I think my wife had to drive

1351
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 2: me home because it was it was obviously an intense surgery,

1352
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 2: intense for you. But I remember coming to and being disappointed.

1353
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 2: I was coming to oh Man, they were playing music

1354
00:58:52,760 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 2: on the I felt that in a little speaker beside

1355
00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 2: the dental chair, and the music start. I started to

1356
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 2: hear the music through space, and I slowly started crackling

1357
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 2: away from my space, and the music kept getting I

1358
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 2: could tell what the song was.

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00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 3: It was.

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00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 2: I think it was Lifehouse Wow. And then I came

1361
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 2: out of it. It was the greatest.

1362
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: So your experience with dental uh juice is my experience

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00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 1: with like mushrooms.

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Speaker 2: Or weed, and it's your Thursday night.

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00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:25,320
Speaker 1: No, I I really I I don't do it very

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00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 1: often because if I do it too often, it definitely

1367
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 1: like kind of makes me in a lower head space.

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00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't drink very often. I I have

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00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 1: never done anything hard in that way.

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00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:37,840
Speaker 2: I'd love to do hard drugs.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know some people that I would do

1372
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 1: it too.

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00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 2: I would just I'd be the best at I try

1374
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 2: to win.

1375
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 1: Do you feel offended that you tried to win?

1376
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 2: Try to win? Yeah, try to be the best. I

1377
00:59:48,720 --> 00:59:49,200
Speaker 2: would try to.

1378
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 1: That's scary, But like, do you ever feel if you

1379
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 1: haven't been offered them? Do you feel like a little

1380
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,400
Speaker 1: bit offended? Because I feel a little offended. I'm like,

1381
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: what is it about me? Is it a good thing

1382
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: that I haven't been offered hard drugs before? I've been

1383
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 1: offered weed a lot so Canada jar the other day

1384
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: at the merch table. I'm like Jesus Christ. So now

1385
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: we're in California, but put this down.

1386
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 2: In your mind. The cooler you are, the heart of

1387
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:16,479
Speaker 2: the drugs you get offered.

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01:00:17,840 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 1: I maybe I don't know. I'm sure. I think it's

1389
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:22,400
Speaker 1: a vibe that I put off.

1390
01:00:22,480 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 2: I think that maybe I'm your vibe to me would

1391
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 2: be a little whiskey, little weed.

1392
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:32,920
Speaker 1: Well am I or like cocktail? I'm like a gin person.

1393
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: But like I maybe they maybe I am like too

1394
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:37,560
Speaker 1: hyper and they're like, they don't she doesn't need any

1395
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: more uppers. Yeah, so we need her down horizontal preferably

1396
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: and shut up.

1397
01:00:43,280 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 2: And then now like people talk about heroin, though it

1398
01:00:45,320 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 2: seems I could be the greatest.

1399
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I've heard that black tar heroin is the greatest,

1400
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 1: or meth, you know, it's really great, you know, and

1401
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:57,680
Speaker 1: then it's really really not Caitlin but's meth is the greatest,

1402
01:00:57,800 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 1: but really really not.

1403
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 2: Well, I'm a fan, I really am. I'm a fan.

1404
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:05,919
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1405
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 2: I think you're super talented. I think more so than talented,

1406
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 2: I think you work extremely hard. I think that's very

1407
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:15,560
Speaker 2: evident by how long you've been doing what you're doing.

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01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:18,280
Speaker 2: And it's really cool to watch it grow now.

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01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.

1410
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 2: So I'm a genuine fan. I hope you know that.

1411
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:21,960
Speaker 2: I'm not just no.

1412
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 1: I feel that and I really really do appreciate it.

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01:01:24,320 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many years it's My mom

1414
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 1: and I after our first interview and I'm like calling

1415
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: her all the way home and stuff. She's like, isn't

1416
01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 1: it so crazy that someone that we've watched for so

1417
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:39,640
Speaker 1: long and like I knew that, they're like liking you

1418
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: and seeking you out. And it's kind of across the

1419
01:01:42,280 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 1: board with a lot of people who I'm working with

1420
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 1: now and who I call friends, like Elizabeth Cook or

1421
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:50,240
Speaker 1: Angelina Pressley or even Miranda Lambert texted me the other day,

1422
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: found my number through John Randall and like sought me out,

1423
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 1: and it's like all these people that I've watched and

1424
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 1: looked up to for a long time, like yourself, and

1425
01:01:57,960 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: just been, you know, hoping that one day, like our

1426
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:03,400
Speaker 1: past cross in a natural, organic way where I'm not

1427
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:07,160
Speaker 1: like a fan or like trying to get in your seat, Like,

1428
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: it's so cool that you've come across this in a

1429
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: really cool way in an.

1430
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 2: Marketing you love it. You've never been like me, Bobby Bones.

1431
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: But it just feels so good. It feels so good

1432
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:21,360
Speaker 1: to be wanted. And thank you for like blasting my

1433
01:02:21,440 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 1: music everywhere. I really like it makes a difference and

1434
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 1: I can see an actual spike every time that you

1435
01:02:26,520 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: say anything. So thank you.

1436
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 2: Well, whenever you have the new stuff, let me know.

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01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:31,120
Speaker 2: I can't wait.

1438
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: I'll like send you a work tape from my phone.

1439
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1440
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:37,440
Speaker 2: I know that's a nice thing to say, but I

1441
01:02:37,440 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 2: would never listen to it. Why because then I wouldn't

1442
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 2: think that our version of friendship that we have is real,

1443
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 2: because as soon as somebody real, because you would be

1444
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,240
Speaker 2: sending it. This is my mind. This is the last

1445
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,479
Speaker 2: thing I'm gonna say. Okay, I never listened to music

1446
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:55,920
Speaker 2: from and this is my last question from anybody ahead

1447
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 2: of time, because I'm really scared that people only want

1448
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 2: to be my friend because I can do things for them.

1449
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, that and what a what an awful feeling that is.

1450
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: And I hate that I feel that way sometimes and

1451
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 1: I'm not even in any kind of like power position,

1452
01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:16,560
Speaker 1: but like I've felt that way, even being like Kleto's wife.

1453
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:19,919
Speaker 1: Sometimes it just feels you really start to wonder things

1454
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: like that, and I think it sucks, Like I've I've

1455
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 1: felt this weird thing about like even paying like my

1456
01:03:27,440 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 1: friends to work with me, and it's such a weird

1457
01:03:29,840 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: dynamic and you wonder like are they being nice to

1458
01:03:31,760 --> 01:03:34,120
Speaker 1: me because I pay them or you know, it's there's

1459
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: such there's so many weird dynamics.

1460
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 2: I said, it's all my friends work for me, now

1461
01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:39,240
Speaker 2: I know, but weird.

1462
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:42,040
Speaker 1: Weird feeling. It is a weird feeling as a as

1463
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 1: a person doing it, and you just hope that the

1464
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 1: dynamic doesn't get weird or anything like that. I don't know,

1465
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 1: but I I understand, surely. But yeah, I just know

1466
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: that it's all it's all authentic and.

1467
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 2: Well, thank you for coming. Yeah, and don't call me Sharley,

1468
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 2: all right, there she is Caitlin Bites

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Speaker 3: Everybody, thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production.