Speaker 1: And if you ever put my name on that goddamn
Speaker 1: JumboTron and propose to me, it is a hard no.
Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the Calm Down Podcast. Are you seeing devil?
Speaker 1: Or did we both decide to wear our creme brulet
Speaker 1: colored sweat shirts today? It's amazing the great color for me,
Speaker 1: but here we are, Yes, it is so what up girl?
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Speaker 1: that hair is fragile and it's just breaking off already
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Speaker 1: It's game week for us people, it is. We have
Speaker 1: so much to discuss on the full podcast, So buckle
Speaker 1: up everyone. But in the meantime, if you're if if
Speaker 1: ten minutes it's all you can handle of us, no problem.
Speaker 1: Think of it as an appetizer you're not ready for
Speaker 1: the main course or dessert. I get it. Uh, we
Speaker 1: have an anonymous submission. This is the first time. And Ryan,
Speaker 1: our wonderful producer, told us that we need to make
Speaker 1: the announcement that if you would like to submit anonymously,
Speaker 1: that's okay. We end up batching your handle anyways, So
Speaker 1: anonymous submission totally. I kissed my best guy friend. Give
Speaker 1: it a shot or stay friends. Don't want to ruin
Speaker 1: our friendship, okay, shot. I've had a situation like this.
Speaker 1: I was not romantically involved with this person. He was
Speaker 1: like my best guy friend, my go to, my you know,
Speaker 1: plus one on everything didn't and was not even in
Speaker 1: like the realm of possibility to be more than that.
Speaker 1: I mean I wish that I could have because I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is a perfect setup, but just
Speaker 1: it's not there. If you don't have it, you don't
Speaker 1: have it. But if you if she went in for
Speaker 1: the kiss, like and there was something there, a little
Speaker 1: tingled single, I say, go for it. Same, I mean,
Speaker 1: why not. The basis of a relationship is best friends.
Speaker 1: Now I caution this though, and I did. The girl
Speaker 1: that I used to get spray tands from, she probably
Speaker 1: won't carry said this. She ended up dating her best
Speaker 1: guy friend like dating dating, and then they broke up,
Speaker 1: and then you lose the guy friends. So you have
Speaker 1: to be This is like like a rom com waiting
Speaker 1: to happen. What's the one with Kate Hudson, my best
Speaker 1: She's like getting married and then the it's based off
Speaker 1: of a book, and then the friend ends up kissing
Speaker 1: and hooking up at the fiance. Not how to lose
Speaker 1: a guy in ten days? No, I know I know
Speaker 1: how to lose a guy quicker than that, but that's
Speaker 1: by my own submission for another time, maybe the long
Speaker 1: version have you ever had? I've lost two guy best
Speaker 1: friends because they've told me they have crushes on me,
Speaker 1: and I don't. I didn't they told you that. Wait,
Speaker 1: write this down for the longer thing. Okay, I haven't
Speaker 1: had that happen. You haven't. No, I'm such a hard
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Where's Mariah Carey when you need her?
Speaker 1: You know what? You know what? We do need Mariah
Speaker 1: carry on this Calm Down podcast because I have a
Speaker 1: lot of things to discuss with her. All right, So
Speaker 1: anonymous sbmission, go for it, Please keep us, keep us updated. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, golf for Sarah, golfer, Sarah, thank you
Speaker 1: for having a very easy name. When you're out with coworkers,
Speaker 1: do you say goodbye or leave without saying anything? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, this isn't scandalous, but I'm staying at the
Speaker 1: same hotel with my coworkers, so we usually all go out.
Speaker 1: Then we go in the elevator and be like, see letter,
Speaker 1: have a good night. All right, that's it. So yeah,
Speaker 1: we say good night in the elevator. But my producer
Speaker 1: is really good at Irish goodbyes? Are they Irish? I
Speaker 1: could see that? Yeah, and Irish goodbye? You just sneak out.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of into those now I didn't used to be.
Speaker 1: I felt like I needed to, like, like, oh, I'd
Speaker 1: feel bad if I don't go around saying goodbye to everyone.
Speaker 1: First of all, do you think that they even care
Speaker 1: that I'm saying goodbye? What I also then was doing
Speaker 1: as I was doing double goodbyes, saying goodbye once? Then
Speaker 1: I end up seeing someone else now here again now
Speaker 1: doing a round two. I mean, my god, I got
Speaker 1: you in five hours. Jesus, Enough's enough? Uh? Just oh
Speaker 1: my god. These are the ones that get me because
Speaker 1: it's like, am I not reading it right? Uh? Just
Speaker 1: tall lee love, just a lee love, just a little love,
Speaker 1: no idea, Okay, I'm sorry girl or guy curus o.
Speaker 1: After what you've been through in love? Do you trust again?
Speaker 1: Really bad last two years and have no desire to
Speaker 1: ever put myself out there again? Well, let me just
Speaker 1: take Steve. I did. I was. This has been my problem.
Speaker 1: I totally believe in love, which is why I have
Speaker 1: jumped into things way too quickly without a vetting process.
Speaker 1: After my last situation, I was like, I'm going to
Speaker 1: just take a hard time out, not a twenty second
Speaker 1: time out, a hard time out, and then you just
Speaker 1: never know when someone's going to come into your life.
Speaker 1: I was terrified to start dating again because I didn't
Speaker 1: want to have to like go back into that cesspool
Speaker 1: and all the nightmare stories that we hear from our
Speaker 1: girlfriends about dating. I got really lucky and got set
Speaker 1: up in this situation, so he was already vetted. But
Speaker 1: I think that you can't be afraid because, like anything,
Speaker 1: if you want, if that's what you want, then like
Speaker 1: it sucks. Heartbreak is terrible, and divorce is terrible and
Speaker 1: all those things. But what's worse is being in something
Speaker 1: that doesn't make you happy or just being like it's okay,
Speaker 1: I'll just be alone forever. Like I don't want to
Speaker 1: be alone. I am like a teammate kind of gal.
Speaker 1: I want to have a partner with And like there's
Speaker 1: literally I was thinking about this today as I was
Speaker 1: walking into CVS to like pick up travel stuff. You'll
Speaker 1: be so proud of me. I've already packed my little
Speaker 1: travel things. This is the new nal. But I was
Speaker 1: thinking about this and it was kind of obnoxious. So
Speaker 1: justinie love, here's a side tangent. When you get it right,
Speaker 1: there's literally nothing better in the world. And like I
Speaker 1: was so envious of Aaron and Jarrett and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm never going to find that. Or like my old
Speaker 1: boss Lisa, she always called like her husband Gary. She's like,
Speaker 1: you have to find a Gary. And there's nothing better
Speaker 1: in the world than finding your Jarrett, finding your Gary,
Speaker 1: because everything in life is better. Like every day I
Speaker 1: wake up and I try to act like this is
Speaker 1: like some perfect relationship, but like my whole life is
Speaker 1: better and I'm so infinitely happy, and I think about
Speaker 1: how much time I wasted staying and things that I shouldn't.
Speaker 1: So the very very long winded answer to your question is,
Speaker 1: don't be afraid, because on the other side could be
Speaker 1: the greatest thing that could ever happen. Yeah, and we're
Speaker 1: your friends too, because we had a really really fun
Speaker 1: adult dinner last week. Chris and See came over to
Speaker 1: see Mac and then we went asked and had a
Speaker 1: really great dinner and I had I had only had
Speaker 1: one cocktail and I was just like, guys, before I
Speaker 1: order my second, I just want to say I love
Speaker 1: Steve so much. I'm so happy and like selfishly like
Speaker 1: I'm in the in the relationship as well, but it's
Speaker 1: like I feel like I have gained another best friend.
Speaker 1: I mean, I no offense. I call him just as
Speaker 1: much as I call you. Yeah. No, And but there's
Speaker 1: something I've never had that I've never had that in
Speaker 1: a relationship. So and when you said that, it meant
Speaker 1: so much to me because friends are part of a relationship,
Speaker 1: because there's a lot of times that I wasn't able
Speaker 1: to go out with a lot of my friends because
Speaker 1: they couldn't stand the other person on the other side
Speaker 1: of the table. So it's better a point is just
Speaker 1: lee love and to Aaron's sweet sentiment, it's better for
Speaker 1: the whole group. So you put yourself out there, sister,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it's way better than the alternative. Kelsey Bench,
Speaker 1: You're up, sister, Kelsey Bent seventeen. Aaron, which Disney princess
Speaker 1: would you be? Great? Question all of that. I know
Speaker 1: I love a little Cinderella action, but I identify more with
Speaker 1: tinker Bell. And I know she's a faery, but I
Speaker 1: love her so much. So there's that I didn't know
Speaker 1: this why I just love tinker Bell because it was
Speaker 1: Walt's like first kind of like you know, a female
Speaker 1: like he loved tinker Bell. It's kind of. It's she
Speaker 1: I'm fixing my life over Here's She's based off of
Speaker 1: Marilyn Monroe. So there's so much little history. See, there's
Speaker 1: so much to Disney except for the crowded park and
Speaker 1: the rides that I want to teach you. And you're
Speaker 1: gonna go, and you're gonna have a cocktail with me
Speaker 1: and Mack and you're gonna have the best time. I
Speaker 1: love the going only with Mac. Yeah, obviously that's adorable.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that there was a connection there, Okay.
Speaker 1: I do like little history. So if you supply the
Speaker 1: history and the cocktails and your child, I'll go to Disneyland.
Speaker 1: That is the only time I will agree to go.
Speaker 1: And Walt loved a cocktail. Loved a cocktail. And in
Speaker 1: his little house that I got to go to above
Speaker 1: Main Street, USA, the fire station. It was his little
Speaker 1: apartment that he kept there for his families, like and
Speaker 1: if he was entertaining guests and so forth, he had
Speaker 1: a grilled cheesemaker and I ton of alcohol. Walt was
Speaker 1: a time there was a hard part of me that
Speaker 1: wanted to name Mac wall I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 1: I was not in our rotation of names, but I
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, the more I start to learn
Speaker 1: about Walt, the more in I am, Oh he's great,
Speaker 1: uh m three prize like or dislike surprises. I love surprises.
Speaker 1: Don't throw me a surprise birthday party ever, ever, ever, ever,
Speaker 1: I don't want to. As much as I like being
Speaker 1: the center of attention, it's such a weird thing, like
Speaker 1: I like, I'm this is probably some psychology thing where
Speaker 1: it's like, okay, Chris is, sit down. You don't need
Speaker 1: to like take over the room. You don't need to
Speaker 1: always tell a story, you don't need to be loud,
Speaker 1: like sit the fuck down. But so I like doing that,
Speaker 1: like I like being like, but I don't like being
Speaker 1: the center of attention. Like That's why even in my
Speaker 1: weddings plural, I never had a wedding, big wedding. I
Speaker 1: never had like a big birthday party. I've never had
Speaker 1: any of that stuff because I don't want it to
Speaker 1: be about me. I don't want to feel obligated. I
Speaker 1: don't want to disappoint anyone. I don't want to feel
Speaker 1: like to go around and talk to everybody, so that
Speaker 1: I'm not into. But I love a surprise, like if
Speaker 1: you like random, like you'll do this, like because you're
Speaker 1: so generous, like if it's flowers or if it's anything
Speaker 1: like that, like my massage, Like I love things like that.
Speaker 1: I'm into a surprise, but not a surprise party. And
Speaker 1: if you ever put my name on that goddamn JumboTron
Speaker 1: and propose to me, it is a hard No. I
Speaker 1: would be mortify, mortified if I was one of those women.
Speaker 1: And if you're doing that, then you don't know me,
Speaker 1: will you? Or the kiss cam? God, no, do you
Speaker 1: like surprising? I'm big smooch on your cheek on a
Speaker 1: kiss cam. I'm not afraid you're I don't feel like
Speaker 1: you're a surprise gal. No, I'm so by the book
Speaker 1: annoying and boring. I know. Fuck no, I'm not interested.
Speaker 1: Not today. Oh my god, Ryan from left Field, welcome back.
Speaker 1: Something Borrowed is the name of that movie. Thank you, Ryan.
Speaker 1: I just opened up my chat Ryan, something by missed him.
Speaker 1: It's an Emily Griffin book. Now I remember I read
Speaker 1: the book and like, these are like these like rom
Speaker 1: com books that they make into movies and I loved it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you guys haven't seen it. Kate Hudson adorable. I
Speaker 1: can't remember the other actress's name in it, but it
Speaker 1: has to do with the kissing the best friend that
Speaker 1: will do all right. Well, we have more to talk about,
Speaker 1: including Aaron being a heartbreaker or our hair advice, and
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