1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: And if you ever put my name on that goddamn 2 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: JumboTron and propose to me, it is a hard no. 3 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Calm Down Podcast. Are you seeing devil? 5 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: Or did we both decide to wear our creme brulet 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 1: colored sweat shirts today? It's amazing the great color for me, 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: but here we are, Yes, it is so what up girl? 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: Hey boo Aaron. If you guys are watching on YouTube 9 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: or her video, this gallon has got a tight bun 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: and looking chic as the day, give me a side profile. 11 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 1: You've got a great bun situation. Oh, I was going 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: to say this way, it looks like I have a 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: bit of a phallic symbol as a This is my 14 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: better way. Wait, I'm going to give a I'm going 15 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: to give a plug R and Co. Ryan, if you 16 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 1: want to let them know we're discussing them. Are and Co. 17 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 1: They have fantastic hair products. They have a stick for flyaways. 18 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 1: I use it right before sit down, so I use 19 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: it on this, I use it on my ponytails. I'm 20 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: gonna look it up and let you know. Ron Co 21 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: put it in your bag for work. It's so good. Okay, 22 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you exactly why I need that, because 23 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: I have discovered this is well, this is why Dominique 24 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 1: told me I have to stop wearing hats. I wear 25 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: hats all the time, and I go to bed with 26 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: wet hair. You know that I need to like shower 27 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: to before I go to bed. So what happens is 28 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: that hair is fragile and it's just breaking off already 29 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: on top of all the blonde breakage up here, the 30 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: flyaways are crazy. And so I've been taking like like 31 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: whatever oil that I use like on my body and 32 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 1: been going like this, and now we got an oil 33 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: slick and it's not a good look. So I need 34 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 1: a stick stick stick aroo. So here it is. It's 35 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: called the ron rn Co minus the phlem Dart palm 36 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: made stick. It's about yay big. It's not even as 37 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:49,559 Speaker 1: big as your hand. You can throw it in your purse, 38 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: you can throw it in your You don't carry it backpack. 39 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,559 Speaker 1: I do. But it's awesome. It's awesome for the top, 40 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: it's awesome for a little bunny buns, all of that. There, 41 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: you go, Okay, I need that because that's exactly what 42 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: I had this weekend where I was like not wanting 43 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: to do my hair, but then I'm noticing all of 44 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: the crazy fly which and okay, well great, but wellah 45 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: there where Aaron is here for hair advice and everything else. 46 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: It's game week for us people, it is. We have 47 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: so much to discuss on the full podcast, So buckle 48 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: up everyone. But in the meantime, if you're if if 49 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: ten minutes it's all you can handle of us, no problem. 50 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: Think of it as an appetizer you're not ready for 51 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: the main course or dessert. I get it. Uh, we 52 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: have an anonymous submission. This is the first time. And Ryan, 53 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 1: our wonderful producer, told us that we need to make 54 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,239 Speaker 1: the announcement that if you would like to submit anonymously, 55 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: that's okay. We end up batching your handle anyways, So 56 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: anonymous submission totally. I kissed my best guy friend. Give 57 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: it a shot or stay friends. Don't want to ruin 58 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: our friendship, okay, shot. I've had a situation like this. 59 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: I was not romantically involved with this person. He was 60 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: like my best guy friend, my go to, my you know, 61 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: plus one on everything didn't and was not even in 62 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: like the realm of possibility to be more than that. 63 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: I mean I wish that I could have because I 64 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is a perfect setup, but just 65 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: it's not there. If you don't have it, you don't 66 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: have it. But if you if she went in for 67 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: the kiss, like and there was something there, a little 68 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: tingled single, I say, go for it. Same, I mean, 69 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 1: why not. The basis of a relationship is best friends. 70 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: Now I caution this though, and I did. The girl 71 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 1: that I used to get spray tands from, she probably 72 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: won't carry said this. She ended up dating her best 73 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: guy friend like dating dating, and then they broke up, 74 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,640 Speaker 1: and then you lose the guy friends. So you have 75 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: to be This is like like a rom com waiting 76 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: to happen. What's the one with Kate Hudson, my best 77 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: She's like getting married and then the it's based off 78 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: of a book, and then the friend ends up kissing 79 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: and hooking up at the fiance. Not how to lose 80 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: a guy in ten days? No, I know I know 81 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: how to lose a guy quicker than that, but that's 82 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: by my own submission for another time, maybe the long 83 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: version have you ever had? I've lost two guy best 84 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: friends because they've told me they have crushes on me, 85 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 1: and I don't. I didn't they told you that. Wait, 86 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,839 Speaker 1: write this down for the longer thing. Okay, I haven't 87 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: had that happen. You haven't. No, I'm such a hard 88 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Where's Mariah Carey when you need her? 89 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: You know what? You know what? We do need Mariah 90 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 1: carry on this Calm Down podcast because I have a 91 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: lot of things to discuss with her. All right, So 92 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 1: anonymous sbmission, go for it, Please keep us, keep us updated. Yeah, 93 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: all right, Well, golf for Sarah, golfer, Sarah, thank you 94 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: for having a very easy name. When you're out with coworkers, 95 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: do you say goodbye or leave without saying anything? Well, 96 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 1: I mean, this isn't scandalous, but I'm staying at the 97 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: same hotel with my coworkers, so we usually all go out. 98 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: Then we go in the elevator and be like, see letter, 99 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: have a good night. All right, that's it. So yeah, 100 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: we say good night in the elevator. But my producer 101 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 1: is really good at Irish goodbyes? Are they Irish? I 102 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: could see that? Yeah, and Irish goodbye? You just sneak out. 103 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 1: I'm kind of into those now I didn't used to be. 104 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 1: I felt like I needed to, like, like, oh, I'd 105 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: feel bad if I don't go around saying goodbye to everyone. 106 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: First of all, do you think that they even care 107 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 1: that I'm saying goodbye? What I also then was doing 108 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: as I was doing double goodbyes, saying goodbye once? Then 109 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: I end up seeing someone else now here again now 110 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: doing a round two. I mean, my god, I got 111 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: you in five hours. Jesus, Enough's enough? Uh? Just oh 112 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: my god. These are the ones that get me because 113 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 1: it's like, am I not reading it right? Uh? Just 114 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 1: tall lee love, just a lee love, just a little love, 115 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: no idea, Okay, I'm sorry girl or guy curus o. 116 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: After what you've been through in love? Do you trust again? 117 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: Really bad last two years and have no desire to 118 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: ever put myself out there again? Well, let me just 119 00:05:55,279 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: take Steve. I did. I was. This has been my problem. 120 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: I totally believe in love, which is why I have 121 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: jumped into things way too quickly without a vetting process. 122 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: After my last situation, I was like, I'm going to 123 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,799 Speaker 1: just take a hard time out, not a twenty second 124 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: time out, a hard time out, and then you just 125 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 1: never know when someone's going to come into your life. 126 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,239 Speaker 1: I was terrified to start dating again because I didn't 127 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: want to have to like go back into that cesspool 128 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: and all the nightmare stories that we hear from our 129 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: girlfriends about dating. I got really lucky and got set 130 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: up in this situation, so he was already vetted. But 131 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:36,040 Speaker 1: I think that you can't be afraid because, like anything, 132 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 1: if you want, if that's what you want, then like 133 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 1: it sucks. Heartbreak is terrible, and divorce is terrible and 134 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: all those things. But what's worse is being in something 135 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: that doesn't make you happy or just being like it's okay, 136 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: I'll just be alone forever. Like I don't want to 137 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: be alone. I am like a teammate kind of gal. 138 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: I want to have a partner with And like there's 139 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 1: literally I was thinking about this today as I was 140 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: walking into CVS to like pick up travel stuff. You'll 141 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 1: be so proud of me. I've already packed my little 142 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: travel things. This is the new nal. But I was 143 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: thinking about this and it was kind of obnoxious. So 144 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: justinie love, here's a side tangent. When you get it right, 145 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: there's literally nothing better in the world. And like I 146 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: was so envious of Aaron and Jarrett and I was like, 147 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: I'm never going to find that. Or like my old 148 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,360 Speaker 1: boss Lisa, she always called like her husband Gary. She's like, 149 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: you have to find a Gary. And there's nothing better 150 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: in the world than finding your Jarrett, finding your Gary, 151 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: because everything in life is better. Like every day I 152 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: wake up and I try to act like this is 153 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: like some perfect relationship, but like my whole life is 154 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: better and I'm so infinitely happy, and I think about 155 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: how much time I wasted staying and things that I shouldn't. 156 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: So the very very long winded answer to your question is, 157 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: don't be afraid, because on the other side could be 158 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: the greatest thing that could ever happen. Yeah, and we're 159 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: your friends too, because we had a really really fun 160 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: adult dinner last week. Chris and See came over to 161 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: see Mac and then we went asked and had a 162 00:07:56,760 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: really great dinner and I had I had only had 163 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: one cocktail and I was just like, guys, before I 164 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: order my second, I just want to say I love 165 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: Steve so much. I'm so happy and like selfishly like 166 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,240 Speaker 1: I'm in the in the relationship as well, but it's 167 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: like I feel like I have gained another best friend. 168 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I no offense. I call him just as 169 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: much as I call you. Yeah. No, And but there's 170 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: something I've never had that I've never had that in 171 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: a relationship. So and when you said that, it meant 172 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 1: so much to me because friends are part of a relationship, 173 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: because there's a lot of times that I wasn't able 174 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: to go out with a lot of my friends because 175 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: they couldn't stand the other person on the other side 176 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: of the table. So it's better a point is just 177 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: lee love and to Aaron's sweet sentiment, it's better for 178 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: the whole group. So you put yourself out there, sister, 179 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it's way better than the alternative. Kelsey Bench, 180 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: You're up, sister, Kelsey Bent seventeen. Aaron, which Disney princess 181 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: would you be? Great? Question all of that. I know 182 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: I love a little Cinderella action, but I identify more with 183 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: tinker Bell. And I know she's a faery, but I 184 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: love her so much. So there's that I didn't know 185 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: this why I just love tinker Bell because it was 186 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 1: Walt's like first kind of like you know, a female 187 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: like he loved tinker Bell. It's kind of. It's she 188 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: I'm fixing my life over Here's She's based off of 189 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 1: Marilyn Monroe. So there's so much little history. See, there's 190 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: so much to Disney except for the crowded park and 191 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: the rides that I want to teach you. And you're 192 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: gonna go, and you're gonna have a cocktail with me 193 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: and Mack and you're gonna have the best time. I 194 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:35,079 Speaker 1: love the going only with Mac. Yeah, obviously that's adorable. 195 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know that there was a connection there, Okay. 196 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: I do like little history. So if you supply the 197 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,839 Speaker 1: history and the cocktails and your child, I'll go to Disneyland. 198 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: That is the only time I will agree to go. 199 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: And Walt loved a cocktail. Loved a cocktail. And in 200 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: his little house that I got to go to above 201 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: Main Street, USA, the fire station. It was his little 202 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: apartment that he kept there for his families, like and 203 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 1: if he was entertaining guests and so forth, he had 204 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: a grilled cheesemaker and I ton of alcohol. Walt was 205 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: a time there was a hard part of me that 206 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: wanted to name Mac wall I'm not gonna lie to you. 207 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: I was not in our rotation of names, but I 208 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: don't know. I mean, the more I start to learn 209 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 1: about Walt, the more in I am, Oh he's great, 210 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: uh m three prize like or dislike surprises. I love surprises. 211 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: Don't throw me a surprise birthday party ever, ever, ever, ever, 212 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to. As much as I like being 213 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: the center of attention, it's such a weird thing, like 214 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 1: I like, I'm this is probably some psychology thing where 215 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: it's like, okay, Chris is, sit down. You don't need 216 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: to like take over the room. You don't need to 217 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 1: always tell a story, you don't need to be loud, 218 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: like sit the fuck down. But so I like doing that, 219 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: like I like being like, but I don't like being 220 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: the center of attention. Like That's why even in my 221 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: weddings plural, I never had a wedding, big wedding. I 222 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 1: never had like a big birthday party. I've never had 223 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: any of that stuff because I don't want it to 224 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: be about me. I don't want to feel obligated. I 225 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: don't want to disappoint anyone. I don't want to feel 226 00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 1: like to go around and talk to everybody, so that 227 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: I'm not into. But I love a surprise, like if 228 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: you like random, like you'll do this, like because you're 229 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: so generous, like if it's flowers or if it's anything 230 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: like that, like my massage, Like I love things like that. 231 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: I'm into a surprise, but not a surprise party. And 232 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: if you ever put my name on that goddamn JumboTron 233 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 1: and propose to me, it is a hard No. I 234 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: would be mortify, mortified if I was one of those women. 235 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: And if you're doing that, then you don't know me, 236 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: will you? Or the kiss cam? God, no, do you 237 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 1: like surprising? I'm big smooch on your cheek on a 238 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: kiss cam. I'm not afraid you're I don't feel like 239 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 1: you're a surprise gal. No, I'm so by the book 240 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: annoying and boring. I know. Fuck no, I'm not interested. 241 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: Not today. Oh my god, Ryan from left Field, welcome back. 242 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:56,480 Speaker 1: Something Borrowed is the name of that movie. Thank you, Ryan. 243 00:11:56,600 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: I just opened up my chat Ryan, something by missed him. 244 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: It's an Emily Griffin book. Now I remember I read 245 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: the book and like, these are like these like rom 246 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: com books that they make into movies and I loved it. Yeah, 247 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 1: if you guys haven't seen it. Kate Hudson adorable. I 248 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: can't remember the other actress's name in it, but it 249 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: has to do with the kissing the best friend that 250 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: will do all right. Well, we have more to talk about, 251 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: including Aaron being a heartbreaker or our hair advice, and 252 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,079 Speaker 1: the season is starting. Ladies and gentlemen join us on 253 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: the full length podcast now. Thank you for submitting your 254 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: questions and remember you can do them anonymously. Calm Down 255 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:36,719 Speaker 1: with Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 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