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Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels Second date Update. One thing I've learned from
Speaker 1: doing these second date updates over and over again is
Speaker 1: sometimes you shouldn't put too much effort into a first date.
Speaker 1: We hear stories about guys doing way too much and
Speaker 1: then not getting a callback, but it's also possible to
Speaker 1: not do enough. Yeah, there's a sweet spot when it
Speaker 1: comes to effort on a date. That's true. And Adam
Speaker 1: is on the phone today to do a second date update.
Speaker 1: He thinks that he got the latter. He thinks he
Speaker 1: didn't do enough for his first date, and now he's
Speaker 1: not getting a call back. What's up, Adam? Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: have it going good? Good? So reading your email, it
Speaker 1: sounds like you don't know how to plan for anything
Speaker 1: at all. Not always the biggest I following through on stuff,
Speaker 1: but it's good. But by the way, if I just
Speaker 1: say I'm a huge fan of the show, um, I
Speaker 1: really I like you quite a bit appreciative. Man, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't enjoy that much. Yeah. Okay, well, thank you
Speaker 1: for your email. The girl that you want to call today,
Speaker 1: what's her name? Stephanie? Stephanie? All right, tell us a
Speaker 1: little bit about Stephanie. Then. Stephanie is just really cool.
Speaker 1: I met her. She's taller than me. I don't know
Speaker 1: if that has any that's the one quality you bring
Speaker 1: up about Stephanie when you that's awesome though? Are you
Speaker 1: like me? I like dating tall girls. I'm a short
Speaker 1: guy and I love girls taller than me. Do you
Speaker 1: like taller girls? Yeah? Man, I'm a good climber, so
Speaker 1: am I? All right? So you met Stephanie, this tall girl?
Speaker 1: Where I met her at a bar? I had gone
Speaker 1: out with some folks and basically she was introduced to
Speaker 1: me by a mutual friend. Okay, and we talked and
Speaker 1: it was really cool. I think we really kind of
Speaker 1: hit it off in the bar, mainly because it was
Speaker 1: just a terrible bar. Like we were kind of laughing
Speaker 1: at how crappy the bar was. So when you did
Speaker 1: you ask her out on a date or was just
Speaker 1: hanging out at the bar that night? Is what you're
Speaker 1: considering the first date. No, that wasn't the date. Eventually
Speaker 1: I asked her out, but it kind of like nug
Speaker 1: up on me because we were talking. I was a
Speaker 1: good dime and it was like time to go, and
Speaker 1: so I just I did the last second. Hey, you
Speaker 1: got to get your number. We exchanged numbers and then
Speaker 1: you know, we texted after that. Most of our conversations
Speaker 1: were kind of kind of text and then eventually that's
Speaker 1: when I asked her if she kind of wanted to
Speaker 1: come over to my place and maybe watch TV the date. Hey,
Speaker 1: big first date plans. I want to come watch TV. No,
Speaker 1: you don't do that with a girl. Like if you're
Speaker 1: really excited about somebody, you sound like you were into
Speaker 1: this chick. I want. I actually I wanted. So. I
Speaker 1: love this TV show on AMC called Turn. Have you
Speaker 1: gut seeing that? No? Okay, it's kind of geeky. It's
Speaker 1: like a revolutionary war shows. Are you telling me that
Speaker 1: this girl that you met that you thought was awesome
Speaker 1: you invited her over to watch a little bit revolutionary
Speaker 1: war documentary? Wow? I mean if I'm into it and
Speaker 1: then she's into it, that seems like it would be
Speaker 1: a good fit. Guess yeah, I think your problem is
Speaker 1: how old was she? How old she? Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: you'd like probably in her like mid to late twenties. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you need to be like sixty year olds. Sounds like
Speaker 1: I've definitely seen some candidates, but I'm not there yet.
Speaker 1: So what was her response when she figured out that
Speaker 1: you didn't have anything else planned that night? Is what
Speaker 1: it sounds like to me, like no dinner or no nothing. Well,
Speaker 1: first of all, that's not entirely true. I made a
Speaker 1: bunch of snacks, because how do you even make snacks?
Speaker 1: What you cut cheese and put some crackers on the plate.
Speaker 1: Oh well, no, it's just stuff in a jar. I
Speaker 1: mean I opened, I opened, you know, I have a
Speaker 1: few dips, and I had to I get scoops because
Speaker 1: it was a date, So I like, you know, he
Speaker 1: pulls out the scoop. Yeah. Yeah. How did the evening go? Then?
Speaker 1: Once she got to your place and you guys watched
Speaker 1: TV with all your snack foods, Well, I'll be completely honest,
Speaker 1: I don't think she was stoked when she walked in
Speaker 1: and she realized that we weren't going out from there,
Speaker 1: but she settled in. She ended up liking the TV
Speaker 1: show I think she was asking me questions about it
Speaker 1: because the we're like in the second season now, and
Speaker 1: so the show itself is kind of evolved. The characters.
Speaker 1: There was basically these three main characters that the show
Speaker 1: started out with. And then are we talking about your date? Now?
Speaker 1: Are we just breaking down the show? Oh? Sorry? Um,
Speaker 1: we just got so into the show, like so quick,
Speaker 1: and we just binge watching like all these episodes. And
Speaker 1: then next thing you know, it's like one am, and
Speaker 1: she's like, I gotta go because I got to work.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe
Speaker 1: we just watched so much of this, you know, and
Speaker 1: it was great. Obviously at least she was into the show, right,
Speaker 1: she liked it, Yeah, And I feel like we were
Speaker 1: kind of cuddled up on the couch and and and
Speaker 1: she was asking questions and enjoying it. But then you know,
Speaker 1: she had to go pretty quick. And that's actually the
Speaker 1: part that I'm concerned about because it felt weird. I
Speaker 1: didn't want to go in for a kiss right there
Speaker 1: at the door because it was like she was off
Speaker 1: the couch and she had to get home because so
Speaker 1: she get some rest for work. And now here we
Speaker 1: are like, I don't know, I don't know where to
Speaker 1: go from here. You're telling me hours of television watching
Speaker 1: and you didn't even kiss her. What's well? I mean,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of stuff happening in the story that
Speaker 1: had not been happening previously. Yeah, I feel you on that. Man.
Speaker 1: I'm the same way with Dounton Nabby. Don't try to
Speaker 1: touch my fun stuff when I'm watching Downton Abbey, hands off.
Speaker 1: How long has it been since you heard from her? Though?
Speaker 1: It's been like a week now and I haven't. I
Speaker 1: haven't heard back from her. I mean, I you know,
Speaker 1: I texted some more and I mean, look, there's there's
Speaker 1: new episodes that have come online, you know. So I
Speaker 1: was thinking, you just invite her back to watch more TV?
Speaker 1: Is that your plan? Well, she liked it. I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess that's kind of why we're here, because maybe
Speaker 1: she's not calling me back because it was like a
Speaker 1: boring date and I feel kind of like maybe I
Speaker 1: made a wrong choice with Well, we'll play a song, comeback,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on brooking jubil in the morning. If
Speaker 1: you're just joining us for today's second date update. Adam
Speaker 1: is on the phone and his first date was action
Speaker 1: packed with muskets and cannons, and over six hundred thousand
Speaker 1: people died on his first date. How did that happen? Well,
Speaker 1: he decided to invite a girl named Stephanie to his
Speaker 1: house and watch a civil war documentary. I believe it
Speaker 1: was revolutionary. Need to get that straight. Adam is a
Speaker 1: revolutionary or civil It's a definitely revolution revolutionary. Okay, well whatever,
Speaker 1: That's exactly what Adam decided to do on his first date.
Speaker 1: Now he thinks he's not getting a call back because
Speaker 1: it was a boring date and he should have maybe
Speaker 1: gone to dinner and just done the regular date thing
Speaker 1: instead of inviting her over to just watch TV a
Speaker 1: little while. Yeah, that's that's pretty much shit. If she
Speaker 1: does actually want to go out with you again, do
Speaker 1: you have bigger plans or are you just planning on
Speaker 1: watching the next season of the show that you're so
Speaker 1: into with her? You know what, I don't think I
Speaker 1: will make the same mistake twice. Okay, Okay, here you
Speaker 1: go through all this, you get a second day and
Speaker 1: then just do the same thing to go Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonna come over. I forgot I should mention you did
Speaker 1: have snacks. You made sure to point that out when
Speaker 1: I first talked to you. I mean, I'm no, I'm
Speaker 1: no slacker, but I think I could do better. All Right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dollar phone number right now and get her
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out if that is in
Speaker 1: fact the problem. Okay, thank you. You appreciate this guy. Yep,
Speaker 1: you're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Stephanie? Is she? Hey Stephanie?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jebil. I host a morning
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: nice to meet you. I'm sorry, I'm sick whirre calling.
Speaker 1: I'm calling because I was wondering if I could talk
Speaker 1: to you about something real quick. One of our listeners
Speaker 1: sent an email about you and asked if we could
Speaker 1: get you on the phone. Okay, that sounds really weird. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm actually at work. So is this important for I
Speaker 1: think it's important. If you have just like a few minutes,
Speaker 1: I would appreciate it. Okay, let me just um close
Speaker 1: me to work for thanks. Okay, So what is it?
Speaker 1: Why are you calling again? Well, we recently got an
Speaker 1: email to the show about someone who you have gone
Speaker 1: on a date with. His name is Adam, and Adam
Speaker 1: has been trying to get a hold of you because
Speaker 1: he'd like to go on another date, but you haven't
Speaker 1: returned to any of his phone calls. So he asked
Speaker 1: us if we could get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out if you didn't like your first date with him. Well,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't really call it a date. Yeah, how do
Speaker 1: you know about that? Because we talked to Adam before
Speaker 1: we make these kind of phone calls, we always talk
Speaker 1: to the person, and we asked him about your date,
Speaker 1: and he told us how he just sort of invited
Speaker 1: you over to watch the TV. Well, if you talk
Speaker 1: to him, you should know what happened. Was it just
Speaker 1: not in definitely can't think it was a good date.
Speaker 1: He did tell us that he thinks he screwed up
Speaker 1: by planning a date to do nothing but watched TV.
Speaker 1: But he also said that he liked you a lot.
Speaker 1: That matters. Well, he didn't even talk to me. Oh
Speaker 1: you mean he like he was watching his show the
Speaker 1: whole time. He did seem like he was super into
Speaker 1: that show. Yeah, I mean it was all very confusing
Speaker 1: because he texts me do you want to netflix and chill?
Speaker 1: And have been dating long enough to know what that means?
Speaker 1: And we'd hit it off and he was really cute,
Speaker 1: so I was down and she went over there. But
Speaker 1: maybe he didn't know what it means. Think that means
Speaker 1: watching Netflix. Yeah, so you were prepared to netflix and
Speaker 1: chill in the traditional meaning of it. Yeah, and he
Speaker 1: actually just wanted to netflix. Yes, the whole thing was super,
Speaker 1: super weird. Was it weird or was it just that
Speaker 1: he's like a little naive and that's almost kind of cute, right,
Speaker 1: It would have been cute. But it went on for
Speaker 1: like six hours. You were there for six hours. We
Speaker 1: watched like six hours of this and we kept watching it,
Speaker 1: kept thinking is he gonna make the move? Is you
Speaker 1: gonna make the move? There were even fart where characters
Speaker 1: were kissing and I thought, oh, you know, this is it.
Speaker 1: We were like definitely netflixing, but there was no chill part.
Speaker 1: By the way, it was also season two, so I
Speaker 1: had no idea what was going on. And every time
Speaker 1: like I would sort of ask, you know, to clarify
Speaker 1: something that was happening, he would just shish me. So
Speaker 1: you were there prepared to not watch TV at all,
Speaker 1: if it came down to it, and he was so
Speaker 1: into the show and shishing you when you try to
Speaker 1: talk to him, that it was a turn off. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I tried really hard to and I don't the whole
Speaker 1: thing was such a oh like it was. I just
Speaker 1: didn't understand what was happening. So, but you were attracted
Speaker 1: to him going into this where I would have been
Speaker 1: almost even more attracted to him because he was so
Speaker 1: I don't know, innocent, he was an ignored or he
Speaker 1: just maybe what he was. He didn't have to say
Speaker 1: plans as you you know, I do get that. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not. It's not like I'm disappointed we didn't hook
Speaker 1: up and then not talked again. Like I do get that,
Speaker 1: because you don't see Netflix and chill and then not
Speaker 1: make a move. I agree with you on that. I
Speaker 1: guess if you're gonna say Netflix and chill, you should
Speaker 1: follow through and try to make a move on somebody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I just figured it wasn't into me, and
Speaker 1: so that's why I'm not really responding. But again, it's
Speaker 1: not like he called me, which would show me that
Speaker 1: he likes me, right, It just texts me. That was
Speaker 1: really fun. You know, we should like watch the rest
Speaker 1: of the episode. Yeah, his definition of fun is definitely
Speaker 1: different than yours. Well, he does want to talk to you. Well,
Speaker 1: that's great. Then he can call me. He kind of
Speaker 1: is because he's actually on the other line. Listen, wait
Speaker 1: for what, Yeah, Adam, you there. He is on the
Speaker 1: other line, like on holder. He heard our conversation. No,
Speaker 1: he was listening the whole time. Hey, seventy, how's it going.
Speaker 1: I don't even well, I mean, I'm honestly, I'm embarrassed.
Speaker 1: I didn't know what netflix and chill man. I thought, No,
Speaker 1: I don't know why they I don't know why they
Speaker 1: say that they should call it next Netflix and like
Speaker 1: do stuff. But none of your guy friends have told
Speaker 1: you what that means. Well, no, I've heard him to
Speaker 1: term like a million times. I thought that it actually
Speaker 1: just watching Netflix and didn't chill out. It means much
Speaker 1: more than that, Adams. Adams, I haven't even been in
Speaker 1: the dating world and forever because an old married lady
Speaker 1: and I even know what that is. Well, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I guess I guess you're better than me. I don't
Speaker 1: I just didn't tell I didn't know what it means
Speaker 1: kind of sweet a story story. Didn't just ask me
Speaker 1: out on a date. I'm so sorry. This is the
Speaker 1: type of thing I just I've I wanted to ask
Speaker 1: you on a date, and honestly, I thought if I
Speaker 1: invited you to take part in something that I really
Speaker 1: knew a lot about and liked that it would it
Speaker 1: would show you more that I just have interest. I
Speaker 1: don't know. For some reason, I just cut in in
Speaker 1: front of myself and I should have. I should have
Speaker 1: asked you to dinner. I don't care about dinner. I
Speaker 1: just want to like, come over and hook up with you.
Speaker 1: That's what Netflix and She's directs. Yeah, you missed out
Speaker 1: on a big opportunity, Adam. No, I know, and next
Speaker 1: time if we, if we, if you would want to
Speaker 1: go out with me again, if you want to Netflix
Speaker 1: and chill, I promise no. Minie. Well, Stephanie, would you
Speaker 1: like to Netflix and chill with Adam? Oh god, this
Speaker 1: is the real way you're supposed to do it? Will
Speaker 1: normally I always pay for people to go on a
Speaker 1: second date. Update. I guess I'll pay for his Netflix
Speaker 1: subscription for the months. That would be awesome. Stephanie, would
Speaker 1: you like to go out with him again. Well, Adam,
Speaker 1: you missed your chance for Netflix and Chill, so if
Speaker 1: you do want to go out again, you can take
Speaker 1: me to dinner and you know, we can see how
Speaker 1: it goes. It will probably be about, I don't know,
Speaker 1: four months until we can Netflix and so on. So
Speaker 1: now you have to work for it, Adam. I'm totally
Speaker 1: okay with that, and I would love to buy you dinner.
Speaker 1: And if for some reason you could ever find it
Speaker 1: within your heart to once in Netflix and Chill again, okay,
Speaker 1: well how about just call me and can go out again?
Speaker 1: And well, hey, successful second date update. Congratulations Adam, you
Speaker 1: got your second date. Thank you so much. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: a little thing called urban dictionary, before you use any
Speaker 1: phrases with people, figure out what they are. Well in
Speaker 1: the morning, it's Brooke and Jewil in the morning. I
Speaker 1: didn't know how many people didn't know what Netflix and
Speaker 1: Chill meant. I'm talking about today's second date update. This guy, Adam,
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named Stephanie who wasn't calling
Speaker 1: him back. We found out that she wasn't calling him
Speaker 1: back because he invited her to come watch some Netflix.
Speaker 1: He said, Netflix and Chill but he didn't know that
Speaker 1: Netflix and Chill actually means Netflix and let's kind of
Speaker 1: mess around a little bit. So they actually just watched Netflix,
Speaker 1: and she thought maybe he wasn't interested if we all
Speaker 1: thought he was ridiculous, like how could you know what
Speaker 1: that is? But we're getting a lot of text messages
Speaker 1: in at seven eight five to nine two saying they
Speaker 1: had no idea what Netflix and Chill meant. I texted
Speaker 1: said I found out what Netflix and chill meant from
Speaker 1: my fourteen year old daughter when I unknowingly asked her
Speaker 1: if she wanted to Netflix and chill with me. It's embarrassing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's gotten to the point where I literally asked. I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, you want to Netflix and chills some time?
Speaker 1: And they're like, why don't we start like coffee first?
Speaker 1: Can we just like go on a next real date.
Speaker 1: But a lot of people are Texican at seven eight,
Speaker 1: five and nine two like I just went to Urban
Speaker 1: Dictionary and learned a new phrase. Well, I thought everybody
Speaker 1: knew what that man. I guess I was wrong. It's
Speaker 1: like I gotta stopped acking my mom to Netflix and chill.
Speaker 1: I think she already understood what that mean, though, she does,
Speaker 1: and she knows that I mean it in the real way.
Speaker 1: Remember if you on a second day up, they just
Speaker 1: emailed the show, and we'll call the person who didn't
Speaker 1: call you back