WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Netflix and Bore?

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jebels Second date Update. One thing I've learned from

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<v Speaker 1>doing these second date updates over and over again is

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you shouldn't put too much effort into a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>We hear stories about guys doing way too much and

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<v Speaker 1>then not getting a callback, but it's also possible to

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<v Speaker 1>not do enough. Yeah, there's a sweet spot when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to effort on a date. That's true. And Adam

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone today to do a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>He thinks that he got the latter. He thinks he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do enough for his first date, and now he's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back. What's up, Adam? Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>have it going good? Good? So reading your email, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you don't know how to plan for anything

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Not always the biggest I following through on stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's good. But by the way, if I just

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<v Speaker 1>say I'm a huge fan of the show, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>really I like you quite a bit appreciative. Man, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't enjoy that much. Yeah. Okay, well, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your email. The girl that you want to call today,

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<v Speaker 1>what's her name? Stephanie? Stephanie? All right, tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about Stephanie. Then. Stephanie is just really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I met her. She's taller than me. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if that has any that's the one quality you bring

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<v Speaker 1>up about Stephanie when you that's awesome though? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>like me? I like dating tall girls. I'm a short

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<v Speaker 1>guy and I love girls taller than me. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>like taller girls? Yeah? Man, I'm a good climber, so

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<v Speaker 1>am I? All right? So you met Stephanie, this tall girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Where I met her at a bar? I had gone

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<v Speaker 1>out with some folks and basically she was introduced to

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<v Speaker 1>me by a mutual friend. Okay, and we talked and

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<v Speaker 1>it was really cool. I think we really kind of

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<v Speaker 1>hit it off in the bar, mainly because it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a terrible bar. Like we were kind of laughing

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<v Speaker 1>at how crappy the bar was. So when you did

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<v Speaker 1>you ask her out on a date or was just

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out at the bar that night? Is what you're

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<v Speaker 1>considering the first date. No, that wasn't the date. Eventually

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her out, but it kind of like nug

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<v Speaker 1>up on me because we were talking. I was a

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<v Speaker 1>good dime and it was like time to go, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I just I did the last second. Hey, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to get your number. We exchanged numbers and then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we texted after that. Most of our conversations

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of kind of text and then eventually that's

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<v Speaker 1>when I asked her if she kind of wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>come over to my place and maybe watch TV the date. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>big first date plans. I want to come watch TV. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't do that with a girl. Like if you're

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<v Speaker 1>really excited about somebody, you sound like you were into

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<v Speaker 1>this chick. I want. I actually I wanted. So. I

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<v Speaker 1>love this TV show on AMC called Turn. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>gut seeing that? No? Okay, it's kind of geeky. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a revolutionary war shows. Are you telling me that

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<v Speaker 1>this girl that you met that you thought was awesome

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<v Speaker 1>you invited her over to watch a little bit revolutionary

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<v Speaker 1>war documentary? Wow? I mean if I'm into it and

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<v Speaker 1>then she's into it, that seems like it would be

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<v Speaker 1>a good fit. Guess yeah, I think your problem is

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<v Speaker 1>how old was she? How old she? Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you'd like probably in her like mid to late twenties. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to be like sixty year olds. Sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>I've definitely seen some candidates, but I'm not there yet.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was her response when she figured out that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have anything else planned that night? Is what

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like to me, like no dinner or no nothing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, that's not entirely true. I made a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of snacks, because how do you even make snacks?

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<v Speaker 1>What you cut cheese and put some crackers on the plate.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, no, it's just stuff in a jar. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I opened, I opened, you know, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>few dips, and I had to I get scoops because

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<v Speaker 1>it was a date, So I like, you know, he

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<v Speaker 1>pulls out the scoop. Yeah. Yeah. How did the evening go? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Once she got to your place and you guys watched

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<v Speaker 1>TV with all your snack foods, Well, I'll be completely honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think she was stoked when she walked in

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<v Speaker 1>and she realized that we weren't going out from there,

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<v Speaker 1>but she settled in. She ended up liking the TV

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<v Speaker 1>show I think she was asking me questions about it

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<v Speaker 1>because the we're like in the second season now, and

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<v Speaker 1>so the show itself is kind of evolved. The characters.

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<v Speaker 1>There was basically these three main characters that the show

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<v Speaker 1>started out with. And then are we talking about your date? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Are we just breaking down the show? Oh? Sorry? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we just got so into the show, like so quick,

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<v Speaker 1>and we just binge watching like all these episodes. And

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<v Speaker 1>then next thing you know, it's like one am, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, I gotta go because I got to work.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>we just watched so much of this, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was great. Obviously at least she was into the show, right,

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<v Speaker 1>she liked it, Yeah, And I feel like we were

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cuddled up on the couch and and and

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<v Speaker 1>she was asking questions and enjoying it. But then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she had to go pretty quick. And that's actually the

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<v Speaker 1>part that I'm concerned about because it felt weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to go in for a kiss right there

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<v Speaker 1>at the door because it was like she was off

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<v Speaker 1>the couch and she had to get home because so

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<v Speaker 1>she get some rest for work. And now here we

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<v Speaker 1>are like, I don't know, I don't know where to

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<v Speaker 1>go from here. You're telling me hours of television watching

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<v Speaker 1>and you didn't even kiss her. What's well? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of stuff happening in the story that

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<v Speaker 1>had not been happening previously. Yeah, I feel you on that. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the same way with Dounton Nabby. Don't try to

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<v Speaker 1>touch my fun stuff when I'm watching Downton Abbey, hands off.

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<v Speaker 1>How long has it been since you heard from her? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>It's been like a week now and I haven't. I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard back from her. I mean, I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I texted some more and I mean, look, there's there's

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<v Speaker 1>new episodes that have come online, you know. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking, you just invite her back to watch more TV?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that your plan? Well, she liked it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's kind of why we're here, because maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling me back because it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>boring date and I feel kind of like maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>made a wrong choice with Well, we'll play a song, comeback,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on brooking jubil in the morning. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're just joining us for today's second date update. Adam

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone and his first date was action

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<v Speaker 1>packed with muskets and cannons, and over six hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 1>people died on his first date. How did that happen? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he decided to invite a girl named Stephanie to his

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<v Speaker 1>house and watch a civil war documentary. I believe it

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<v Speaker 1>was revolutionary. Need to get that straight. Adam is a

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<v Speaker 1>revolutionary or civil It's a definitely revolution revolutionary. Okay, well whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what Adam decided to do on his first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he thinks he's not getting a call back because

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<v Speaker 1>it was a boring date and he should have maybe

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<v Speaker 1>gone to dinner and just done the regular date thing

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<v Speaker 1>instead of inviting her over to just watch TV a

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<v Speaker 1>little while. Yeah, that's that's pretty much shit. If she

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<v Speaker 1>does actually want to go out with you again, do

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<v Speaker 1>you have bigger plans or are you just planning on

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<v Speaker 1>watching the next season of the show that you're so

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<v Speaker 1>into with her? You know what, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>will make the same mistake twice. Okay, Okay, here you

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<v Speaker 1>go through all this, you get a second day and

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<v Speaker 1>then just do the same thing to go Yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come over. I forgot I should mention you did

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<v Speaker 1>have snacks. You made sure to point that out when

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<v Speaker 1>I first talked to you. I mean, I'm no, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>no slacker, but I think I could do better. All Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dollar phone number right now and get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and find out if that is in

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<v Speaker 1>fact the problem. Okay, thank you. You appreciate this guy. Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>you're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Stephanie? Is she? Hey Stephanie?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jebil. I host a morning

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>nice to meet you. I'm sorry, I'm sick whirre calling.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling because I was wondering if I could talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about something real quick. One of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>sent an email about you and asked if we could

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone. Okay, that sounds really weird. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm actually at work. So is this important for I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's important. If you have just like a few minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>I would appreciate it. Okay, let me just um close

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<v Speaker 1>me to work for thanks. Okay, So what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you calling again? Well, we recently got an

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<v Speaker 1>email to the show about someone who you have gone

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with. His name is Adam, and Adam

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<v Speaker 1>has been trying to get a hold of you because

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<v Speaker 1>he'd like to go on another date, but you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>returned to any of his phone calls. So he asked

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<v Speaker 1>us if we could get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out if you didn't like your first date with him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't really call it a date. Yeah, how do

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<v Speaker 1>you know about that? Because we talked to Adam before

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<v Speaker 1>we make these kind of phone calls, we always talk

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<v Speaker 1>to the person, and we asked him about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and he told us how he just sort of invited

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<v Speaker 1>you over to watch the TV. Well, if you talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him, you should know what happened. Was it just

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<v Speaker 1>not in definitely can't think it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 1>He did tell us that he thinks he screwed up

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<v Speaker 1>by planning a date to do nothing but watched TV.

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<v Speaker 1>But he also said that he liked you a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>That matters. Well, he didn't even talk to me. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you mean he like he was watching his show the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. He did seem like he was super into

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<v Speaker 1>that show. Yeah, I mean it was all very confusing

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<v Speaker 1>because he texts me do you want to netflix and chill?

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<v Speaker 1>And have been dating long enough to know what that means?

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<v Speaker 1>And we'd hit it off and he was really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was down and she went over there. But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he didn't know what it means. Think that means

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<v Speaker 1>watching Netflix. Yeah, so you were prepared to netflix and

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<v Speaker 1>chill in the traditional meaning of it. Yeah, and he

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<v Speaker 1>actually just wanted to netflix. Yes, the whole thing was super,

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<v Speaker 1>super weird. Was it weird or was it just that

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<v Speaker 1>he's like a little naive and that's almost kind of cute, right,

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<v Speaker 1>It would have been cute. But it went on for

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<v Speaker 1>like six hours. You were there for six hours. We

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<v Speaker 1>watched like six hours of this and we kept watching it,

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<v Speaker 1>kept thinking is he gonna make the move? Is you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make the move? There were even fart where characters

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<v Speaker 1>were kissing and I thought, oh, you know, this is it.

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<v Speaker 1>We were like definitely netflixing, but there was no chill part.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, it was also season two, so I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea what was going on. And every time

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<v Speaker 1>like I would sort of ask, you know, to clarify

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<v Speaker 1>something that was happening, he would just shish me. So

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<v Speaker 1>you were there prepared to not watch TV at all,

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<v Speaker 1>if it came down to it, and he was so

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<v Speaker 1>into the show and shishing you when you try to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him, that it was a turn off. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried really hard to and I don't the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing was such a oh like it was. I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't understand what was happening. So, but you were attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to him going into this where I would have been

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<v Speaker 1>almost even more attracted to him because he was so

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, innocent, he was an ignored or he

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<v Speaker 1>just maybe what he was. He didn't have to say

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<v Speaker 1>plans as you you know, I do get that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. It's not like I'm disappointed we didn't hook

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<v Speaker 1>up and then not talked again. Like I do get that,

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't see Netflix and chill and then not

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<v Speaker 1>make a move. I agree with you on that. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess if you're gonna say Netflix and chill, you should

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<v Speaker 1>follow through and try to make a move on somebody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just figured it wasn't into me, and

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<v Speaker 1>so that's why I'm not really responding. But again, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like he called me, which would show me that

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<v Speaker 1>he likes me, right, It just texts me. That was

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<v Speaker 1>really fun. You know, we should like watch the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of the episode. Yeah, his definition of fun is definitely

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<v Speaker 1>different than yours. Well, he does want to talk to you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's great. Then he can call me. He kind of

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<v Speaker 1>is because he's actually on the other line. Listen, wait

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<v Speaker 1>for what, Yeah, Adam, you there. He is on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line, like on holder. He heard our conversation. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he was listening the whole time. Hey, seventy, how's it going.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even well, I mean, I'm honestly, I'm embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know what netflix and chill man. I thought, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why they I don't know why they

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<v Speaker 1>say that they should call it next Netflix and like

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<v Speaker 1>do stuff. But none of your guy friends have told

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<v Speaker 1>you what that means. Well, no, I've heard him to

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<v Speaker 1>term like a million times. I thought that it actually

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<v Speaker 1>just watching Netflix and didn't chill out. It means much

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<v Speaker 1>more than that, Adams. Adams, I haven't even been in

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<v Speaker 1>the dating world and forever because an old married lady

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<v Speaker 1>and I even know what that is. Well, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I guess you're better than me. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't tell I didn't know what it means

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sweet a story story. Didn't just ask me

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date. I'm so sorry. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>type of thing I just I've I wanted to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you on a date, and honestly, I thought if I

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<v Speaker 1>invited you to take part in something that I really

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<v Speaker 1>knew a lot about and liked that it would it

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<v Speaker 1>would show you more that I just have interest. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. For some reason, I just cut in in

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<v Speaker 1>front of myself and I should have. I should have

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<v Speaker 1>asked you to dinner. I don't care about dinner. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to like, come over and hook up with you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what Netflix and She's directs. Yeah, you missed out

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<v Speaker 1>on a big opportunity, Adam. No, I know, and next

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<v Speaker 1>time if we, if we, if you would want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with me again, if you want to Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>and chill, I promise no. Minie. Well, Stephanie, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to Netflix and chill with Adam? Oh god, this

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<v Speaker 1>is the real way you're supposed to do it? Will

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<v Speaker 1>normally I always pay for people to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update. I guess I'll pay for his Netflix

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<v Speaker 1>subscription for the months. That would be awesome. Stephanie, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out with him again. Well, Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>you missed your chance for Netflix and Chill, so if

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<v Speaker 1>you do want to go out again, you can take

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<v Speaker 1>me to dinner and you know, we can see how

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<v Speaker 1>it goes. It will probably be about, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>four months until we can Netflix and so on. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you have to work for it, Adam. I'm totally

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<v Speaker 1>okay with that, and I would love to buy you dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>And if for some reason you could ever find it

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<v Speaker 1>within your heart to once in Netflix and Chill again, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well how about just call me and can go out again?

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<v Speaker 1>And well, hey, successful second date update. Congratulations Adam, you

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<v Speaker 1>got your second date. Thank you so much. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>a little thing called urban dictionary, before you use any

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<v Speaker 1>phrases with people, figure out what they are. Well in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, it's Brooke and Jewil in the morning. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know how many people didn't know what Netflix and

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<v Speaker 1>Chill meant. I'm talking about today's second date update. This guy, Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a girl named Stephanie who wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back. We found out that she wasn't calling him

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<v Speaker 1>back because he invited her to come watch some Netflix.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, Netflix and Chill but he didn't know that

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix and Chill actually means Netflix and let's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>mess around a little bit. So they actually just watched Netflix,

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<v Speaker 1>and she thought maybe he wasn't interested if we all

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<v Speaker 1>thought he was ridiculous, like how could you know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is? But we're getting a lot of text messages

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight five to nine two saying they

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea what Netflix and Chill meant. I texted

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<v Speaker 1>said I found out what Netflix and chill meant from

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<v Speaker 1>my fourteen year old daughter when I unknowingly asked her

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<v Speaker 1>if she wanted to Netflix and chill with me. It's embarrassing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's gotten to the point where I literally asked. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, you want to Netflix and chills some time?

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<v Speaker 1>And they're like, why don't we start like coffee first?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we just like go on a next real date.

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<v Speaker 1>But a lot of people are Texican at seven eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five and nine two like I just went to Urban

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<v Speaker 1>Dictionary and learned a new phrase. Well, I thought everybody

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<v Speaker 1>knew what that man. I guess I was wrong. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like I gotta stopped acking my mom to Netflix and chill.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she already understood what that mean, though, she does,

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<v Speaker 1>and she knows that I mean it in the real way.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember if you on a second day up, they just

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<v Speaker 1>emailed the show, and we'll call the person who didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back