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Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels Second date Update. One thing I've learned from

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Speaker 1: doing these second date updates over and over again is

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Speaker 1: sometimes you shouldn't put too much effort into a first date.

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Speaker 1: We hear stories about guys doing way too much and

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Speaker 1: then not getting a callback, but it's also possible to

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Speaker 1: not do enough. Yeah, there's a sweet spot when it

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Speaker 1: comes to effort on a date. That's true. And Adam

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Speaker 1: is on the phone today to do a second date update.

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Speaker 1: He thinks that he got the latter. He thinks he

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Speaker 1: didn't do enough for his first date, and now he's

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Speaker 1: not getting a call back. What's up, Adam? Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: have it going good? Good? So reading your email, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you don't know how to plan for anything

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Speaker 1: at all. Not always the biggest I following through on stuff,

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Speaker 1: but it's good. But by the way, if I just

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Speaker 1: I don't enjoy that much. Yeah. Okay, well, thank you

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Speaker 1: for your email. The girl that you want to call today,

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Speaker 1: what's her name? Stephanie? Stephanie? All right, tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit about Stephanie. Then. Stephanie is just really cool.

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Speaker 1: I met her. She's taller than me. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if that has any that's the one quality you bring

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Speaker 1: up about Stephanie when you that's awesome though? Are you

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Speaker 1: like me? I like dating tall girls. I'm a short

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Speaker 1: am I? All right? So you met Stephanie, this tall girl?

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Speaker 1: Where I met her at a bar? I had gone

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Speaker 1: me by a mutual friend. Okay, and we talked and

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Speaker 1: it was really cool. I think we really kind of

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Speaker 1: hanging out at the bar that night? Is what you're

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Speaker 1: considering the first date. No, that wasn't the date. Eventually

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Speaker 1: I asked her out, but it kind of like nug

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Speaker 1: so I just I did the last second. Hey, you

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Speaker 1: you know, we texted after that. Most of our conversations

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Speaker 1: when I asked her if she kind of wanted to

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Speaker 1: big first date plans. I want to come watch TV. No,

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Speaker 1: you don't do that with a girl. Like if you're

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Speaker 1: this chick. I want. I actually I wanted. So. I

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Speaker 1: love this TV show on AMC called Turn. Have you

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Speaker 1: gut seeing that? No? Okay, it's kind of geeky. It's

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Speaker 1: like a revolutionary war shows. Are you telling me that

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Speaker 1: it sounds like to me, like no dinner or no nothing. Well,

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Speaker 1: How long has it been since you heard from her? Though?

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Speaker 1: all right, hold on brooking jubil in the morning. If

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Speaker 1: you're just joining us for today's second date update. Adam

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Speaker 1: packed with muskets and cannons, and over six hundred thousand

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Speaker 1: people died on his first date. How did that happen? Well,

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Speaker 1: he decided to invite a girl named Stephanie to his

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Speaker 1: revolutionary or civil It's a definitely revolution revolutionary. Okay, well whatever,

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what Adam decided to do on his first date.

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Speaker 1: you're welcome. Hello. Hi is this Stephanie? Is she? Hey Stephanie?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jebil. I host a morning

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Speaker 1: nice to meet you. I'm sorry, I'm sick whirre calling.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't really call it a date. Yeah, how do

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Speaker 1: watching Netflix. Yeah, so you were prepared to netflix and

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