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Speaker 1: My husband snapped and is threatening divorce, and I never

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Speaker 1: would have guessed this is the reason why.

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Speaker 2: Well, now I want to know.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm about to tell you. Okay, freaking sit down,

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Speaker 3: I'm leaving. Someone's story brought my buns on a seat.

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Speaker 2: Let me just just fucking just fucking drop out your parents,

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Speaker 2: your yeah, and leave your wife for a weird reason.

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Speaker 3: Bro, he ucked his wife for a weird reason, right,

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Speaker 3: didn't he like? Oh, he's dating like a like a

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Speaker 3: twenty year old. Yeah, yeah he did. He did fuck

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Speaker 3: your parents and your marriage. We've been married for two years,

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Speaker 3: dating for five. We are both thirty four. I'm a woman,

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Speaker 3: he's a man. If it matters, I am not a

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Speaker 3: picky eater. In fact, I'm quite adventurous. Oh so many

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Speaker 3: adventurous eater too. Oh God, I've had to esk cargo,

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Speaker 3: and every time I've traveled, I've always made a point

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Speaker 3: to try dishes with unusual, uncommon ingredients just say I've

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Speaker 3: tried them. There are very few foods I won't eat.

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Speaker 3: One of them, though, is mustard. Oh I hate the condiments.

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Speaker 3: Oh I don't like it. I just don't. The taste

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Speaker 3: I've tried yellow, I've tried stone ground, I've tried honey,

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Speaker 3: artists in, brown, spicy, you name it. I've tried them all,

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Speaker 3: and I just don't like them. That's that's a lot

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Speaker 3: of mustards, A lot of mustards, a lot of mustard.

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Speaker 3: I know what kind of weird foods have you tried?

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to think, like, I've eaten some foot, chicken.

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Speaker 2: Foot, chicken foot. I've had chicken foot, I killed the chicken.

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Speaker 2: Have you had escargo? Have anything else? No? No, let's go.

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Speaker 2: I've tried it, though. Have you ever hunted lobster? I've

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Speaker 2: eaten the lobster fresh out of the sea like a boss.

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Speaker 2: Have you hunted it? And I haven't hunted it? Am

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Speaker 2: you doing that? This weekend?

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Speaker 3: Last weekend, I at like like ten at night, I

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Speaker 3: went like snorkeling with a like a wetsuit and went

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Speaker 3: lobster diving and hunted lobsters and then and then cook them.

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Speaker 3: You're joking, not joking in our ocean, I'm gonna have

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Speaker 3: to do that. Where are you holding him? Bro Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm doing this. That is absolutely nuts. Lobsters too, expensive

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Speaker 3: in these streets. Oh dude, it would have been like

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Speaker 3: a crazy amount. Wow, I'm being crazy. Okay, I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: have to get that location. It was in Orange County area.

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Speaker 3: My husband, for some reason, never understood this. He loves mustard,

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Speaker 3: especially honey mustard. He puts it on all his sandwiches,

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Speaker 3: dips his fries in it, and every time he tries

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Speaker 3: to force me to try it, he'll insist I'll like

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Speaker 2: But we're grown ass woman, I'll say though.

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Speaker 3: And it'll devolve into a mini argument and he'll call

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Speaker 3: me picky. Well, last night we were on the road

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Speaker 3: home from a weekend trip we took together, and he

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Speaker 3: stopped at a gas station to get us a quick bite.

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Speaker 3: He got a hot dog, slap blirred and mustard. I

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Speaker 3: got one, but decided to eat a plane. I don't

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Speaker 3: really love hot dogs to begin with, but I will

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Speaker 3: eat it in a pickle, but not with pickles.

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Speaker 2: I will eat a plane. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, we waited in the line. He as what I

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Speaker 1: got in mind, and I'd pulled them nothing. The plane dog.

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Speaker 2: He actually got furious and grabbed it for me.

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Speaker 1: He marched over to the convent station and began putting

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Speaker 1: mustard all over my dog?

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Speaker 2: Why telling me to grow up and stop being so picky.

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Speaker 2: I hate this mustard dog gotten brother? You grow up?

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Speaker 2: Who cares? What would you do?

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Speaker 3: Like if someone what would you do if we were

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Speaker 3: getting hot dogs together? You got no mustard on it?

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, good, you insultly idiot, can't believe you

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Speaker 3: to get buster on your hot dog and just freaking

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Speaker 3: slathered it all in bustard the thread her face.

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Speaker 4: I would be like, tell me, you idiot, I'd be like,

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Speaker 4: you're buying me a new hot dog, Like I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna eat this, Like it's I could have just eaten

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Speaker 4: the dog and we would just be chilling.

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Speaker 2: But what if I brought to you another hot dog

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Speaker 3: You just kept you keep buying it and like like

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Speaker 3: I'm just forced feeding, like this time, I promise I

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh I got you yet, I got your

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Speaker 2: get eating. You end up just like thirty four dogs around.

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Speaker 3: And you're just like covered in mustard. Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: trying to toss these things in your mouth. I mean, John,

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Speaker 3: what do you think op should do in this situation?

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Speaker 3: Definitely be like I'm not eating that first step, second step.

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Speaker 3: I'm getting something I want and you're gonna pay for

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Speaker 2: I don't like like why so Opie just walked out

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Speaker 3: I didn't even want the hot dog anymore. My appetite

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Speaker 3: was gone. He came back and began screaming at me

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Speaker 3: for embarrassing him even further, the word divorce was said

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Speaker 3: for the first time ever in our relationship. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I secretly recorded his screaming because I was genuinely afraid

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Speaker 1: Like why is he like acting like this over a

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Speaker 3: Dots just beyond insanity, beyond beyond, beyond beyond. I'm in

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Speaker 3: and then the call started ring, ring, ring ring. I

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Speaker 3: ignored them. Then he realized I wasn't coming home. NonStop

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Speaker 3: voicemails and texts, ping ping ping, cent effects.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like your sound designing yourself.

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Speaker 3: He then sent me a screenshot of a Google search

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Speaker 3: for local divorce lawyers. Wow, you can google six whoa,

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Speaker 3: my god, I haven't eaten all day I've been sobbing

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Speaker 3: in my room. I don't want to get divorced, and

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Speaker 3: I wish I had just eaten the fucking mustard. Can

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Speaker 3: someone give me an explanation of what's happening? Why would

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Speaker 3: he react this way to a preference of mine? I

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Speaker 3: still don't want to divorce. It's so permanent. I just

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Speaker 3: never pictured myself to be a divorce a and I

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Speaker 3: never pictured it being over mustard.

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Speaker 2: So John, that's the story it is. I want to know.

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Speaker 3: What you guys would do in this situation. Also, this

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Speaker 3: has ever happened to you? But John, what should OPI do?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Dump his ass right now?

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Speaker 3: It's so sad because she is completely not in the wrong,

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Speaker 3: but she's you know, like, oh, like I never saw

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Speaker 3: myself as a divorce a and like all these things

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Speaker 3: which like, oh my heart just hurts for her, you

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Speaker 3: and I think she's maybe just used to this or

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Speaker 3: used to the behavior you know, your prior but now

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Speaker 3: maybe it's like it's just like clicking for her more at.

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Speaker 2: Least more than it was. It sounds like an asshole.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he is, without a doubt, the a hole. And

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Speaker 3: you deserve way better, like way better.

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Speaker 2: That's our that's our that's our decision. That's our take.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for turning in a school

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Speaker 1: project that shows that I live in a crap hold

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Speaker 1: neighborhood where everyone sucks. Okayop, this is Okayop. I'm samuel

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Speaker 1: daughter and I'm not from and we tell the funniest

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Speaker 1: stories on the internet. And John, if you were to

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Speaker 1: give like a tour and like this is your direct neighborhood,

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Speaker 1: what would you've seen?

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Speaker 2: What would you find? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Man, we have some interesting houses. We have one that

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Speaker 3: has a mosaic museum inside of it really not even joking. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's like legally a museum, but also a house or

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Speaker 2: Right right around the Is it like around the corner

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Speaker 2: from your place?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's walking distance in my little back neighborhood area.

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Speaker 3: We have a house with like we thought for sure

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Speaker 3: that it was like one hundred percent abandon there's like

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Speaker 3: so we thought it was like one hundred percent of bandon.

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Speaker 3: Put up like really crappy like Christmas lights on this

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Speaker 3: like giant overgrown tree in front of their house.

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Speaker 2: So we're like, like, I guess someone lives there and

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Speaker 2: they're in the Christmas spirit. Yes they are.

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Speaker 3: And then there's there's someone who literally has like the

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Speaker 3: plants straight out if you just copy and pasted like

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Speaker 3: an island jungle that like is there like surrounding area

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Speaker 3: Your neighborhood's done, super super interesting. This story is a

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Speaker 3: story about a neighborhood that is maybe not as inviting

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Speaker 3: as you.

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Speaker 2: It's not as interesting.

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Speaker 3: Okay, am I the a hole for turning in a

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Speaker 2: Hmmm.

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Speaker 1: I'm a high school student in a Spanish class and

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Speaker 1: to be conversational, like you were showing it around to

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Speaker 1: a friend, like, hey, look at this planned.

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Speaker 2: Look at this mosaic. It was pretty cool. Don'dsta l planto?

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Speaker 3: Yes, you know, John is very uh I Spanish speak

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Speaker 3: these Spanish speech yo ah blo Espaniol or pooa bla Sespanol.

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Speaker 2: How coat? Okay.

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Speaker 1: I decided to just walk around my street and make

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Speaker 1: So this is what I filmed. A neighbor's house when

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Speaker 1: like usual, and I said, here are the neighbors. They

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Speaker 1: and night. Buenosdes. The next neighbor's house, Joe and Tammy

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Speaker 1: At that moment, someone drives by and Kat calls me profanely,

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Speaker 1: hey ayod, No one thots something like that would probably worse,

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Speaker 1: as I joke, I yelled back and stupid dol perro ha,

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Speaker 1: I said to the camera, this man is very stupid.

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Speaker 1: He is a man, but acts like a dog. Also

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Speaker 1: I'm white, but I think this idiot assumed I was

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Speaker 1: ten other mundane things like flowers, a bird, et cetera.

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Speaker 1: responding to several of your classmates videos. One of my

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Speaker 1: friends from class recognized the racist guy as someone who

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Speaker 1: volunteers with the middle school soccer team. So the guy

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Speaker 1: What So she texted me like, hah, should I say something?

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Speaker 1: And I said sure, So she posted in Spanish in

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Speaker 1: the car is mister Jones who coaches the children. I

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Speaker 1: learned from your video that he hates women and is racist.

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Speaker 1: I replied to say, does he teach the girls or

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Speaker 1: She said she'd taken down the video and it was

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Speaker 1: Who police is the police? I have a meeting with

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Speaker 2: First off? Man, can we have a little humor? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, watching that video, I would have cracked up. I

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Speaker 3: And she did do the assignment that she did. She

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Speaker 1: But there's an update, John Oh, I had a meeting

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Speaker 1: So when I called in, everyone said good morning, and

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Speaker 1: really appreciate how proactive you are about addressing the sexual

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Speaker 2: Report, that is how it's done.

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Speaker 1: Principle seemed kind of caught out instead a report had

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Speaker 1: weekend might have complicated things. Perhaps there was a miscommunication

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Speaker 1: sorry I brought this to their attention in a school

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Speaker 2: So that's over.

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Speaker 1: I'm still kind of freaking out how big of a

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Speaker 1: deal it turned out to be. Also, I want to

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Speaker 1: say thanks to everyone who had suggestions about how to

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Speaker 3: OPI is literally a hero, like OPI is a freaking lawyer,

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Speaker 3: bro a lawyer, like just bowling out just this incredible, wow,

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Speaker 3: wow wow wow.

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