1 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: Ruby. I had a client who ended up using movers 2 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: and he lost an entire wardrobe box. There was I 3 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,639 Speaker 1: believe thirteen Gucci shirts in there. His entire collection of 4 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 1: ties was in the bottom of the box, and his 5 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: collection of belts Man. So not only was his move 6 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: twenty five hundred dollars, he also lost thirty thousand dollars 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: worth of products. 8 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 2: WHOA Welcome back to grown Up Stuff, the podcast where 9 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: we figure out all of the things you feel like 10 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: you should know by now but maybe don't, because I 11 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,519 Speaker 2: know I certainly don't. I'm Leah Palmery and I. 12 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 3: Met Stillo, and today we're talking about moving, which can 13 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: be so exciting until you realize you have to move. 14 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: I think moving is the universe's way of making you 15 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 2: a question every single thing you. 16 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: Own, especially when you're carrying a box labeled miscellaneous that 17 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 3: weighs seventy five paths. And then come all the adult 18 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: things that no one talks about, like transferring utilities, changing 19 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 3: your address, setting up your Internet. 20 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 2: Which, by the way, somehow the Wi Fi appointment is 21 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: always at least three days after you've already moved in 22 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: always yeah. 23 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:20,839 Speaker 3: Every time. Today we're getting the ultimate moving checklist from 24 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 3: relittered Dag Larsen, So your next move can be a 25 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:26,319 Speaker 3: little bit more organized and a lot less chaotic. 26 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 2: Well, we look this up and found that affordability is 27 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 2: the number one reason people in the US relocate. Moving 28 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 2: for a job is the second reason. So with affordability 29 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: top of mind, let's talk about the hidden or unexpected 30 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 2: costs of moving, because I think one of the first 31 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 2: things people think when I think about moving is just, oh, 32 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 2: this is going to get expensive. So, Dag, what are 33 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: some of those costs that people often overlook or don't 34 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: know about. 35 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: Ooh, my first three? Remember utilities and starting utilities. People 36 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: always forget that you have to go and get your 37 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: heat and you're cooling. Those can be three four hundred 38 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: dollars initiation fees all the time. Same with if you're 39 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: setting up internet for the first time, you're moving from home. 40 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 1: You've never had internet that could have an upfront charge. 41 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 1: Hopefully you have good credit that you can actually get 42 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:25,559 Speaker 1: approved and get that. I would say those are big surprises. 43 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: And then people also forget little expenses that you have 44 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: right when you move in, like key deposits. I've seen 45 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: them up to three hundred dollars nowadays. Wow, So you 46 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: start to factor in that, and I think people underprice 47 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: how much moving costs and what you're quoted and what 48 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: you actually pay are rarely the same. 49 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 2: I also factor in things like how much am I 50 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 2: going to spend at the container store when I want 51 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 2: to organize myself, So that's also one thing that. 52 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: I keep in mind. 53 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 3: Yet, Yeah, I hadn't even thought about that. I'm just like, oh, yeah, 54 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 3: I'm going to get a new couch. But yeah, I 55 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 3: mean the utility fees, the Keith deposit, all kinds of stuff. 56 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, those are the small ones that definitely count. And 57 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: also in this type of day and age, there's a 58 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: lot of people who might need to put down more 59 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: than first and last. And I do tell people, you know, 60 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: you should be ready for that. Yeah, it's not a 61 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: mandatory thing, but if you really need to move when 62 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: other people need to move, sometimes that can happen too, 63 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: So be ready for that. 64 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 3: Do you have like a number you recommend setting aside, 65 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 3: like three thousand dollars? 66 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: I have two numbers. Okay, I have a number for 67 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: a person just moving for the sake of moving, and 68 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: then I have a number for a person who's moving 69 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: out for the first time. So for the person moving 70 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: out for the first time who's not used to paying 71 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: a monthly rental bill, you don't think about it until 72 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: you start paying it. I always say, within your budget, 73 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: have an extra month of rent ready because you just 74 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: don't know what will happen. You really don't, and you 75 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: might be lined up for your second month of rent. 76 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: But once you move in and you're paying these initial 77 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: startups for everything, the money is depleted. So I would 78 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: say you want that, And I always say, if you're moving, 79 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: try to have a buffer of fifteen hundred to two 80 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: thousand dollars just incidentals. Your first initial buy. You need 81 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: to get some detergent, some toilet paper, the most simple 82 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 1: you know, oil, salt, pepper, basics, and that's all going 83 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: to add up for sure. 84 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 3: So let's think about moving as three separate parts, packing 85 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 3: and getting ready moving day, and then the early days 86 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:36,359 Speaker 3: at a new place. So what are some packing up 87 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:37,239 Speaker 3: the house tips? 88 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: Get really clear in what you like and don't like 89 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: that's in your existing home, And why are you spending 90 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 1: time moving stuff that you don't want? Why are you 91 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: paying movers to move things you have no use? For 92 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: you're moving clutter from one place to another that will 93 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: just go down a garbage choot or into a donation bin. 94 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: Number one, declutter and b ruthless. You already know that 95 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: you winter coats you have no use for yep out, 96 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: don't move them to your new place. Start fresh. 97 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 3: I love that Marie condo it and then whatever is 98 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 3: left you can just pack up. And another tip I 99 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 3: heard you can leave clothes on their hangars and in 100 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 3: dresser drawers to make packing and unpacking easier. Oh and 101 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 3: if you're taking a part in any furniture, to make 102 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 3: it easier to move, keep all those little bolts and 103 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 3: screws and things together in a little baggy and tape 104 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 3: it to the piece of furniture they belong to so 105 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 3: it all stays together. But then if you hire movers 106 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 3: you can pay a little more and have them pack 107 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,559 Speaker 3: everything for you. They usually assume the liability of something 108 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 3: they pack gets broken and transit, but if you packed it, 109 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 3: it's on you. 110 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 111 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 2: So that makes me wonder if I spend the money 112 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 2: and hire movers or am I really a boss lady 113 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 2: and I can do this all myself? So dag, what's 114 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 2: your advice for like movers or not movers. 115 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: I've said this before in a video, and I was 116 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: very clear in how I worded this. If you are 117 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: physically able to move boxes and do your own move, 118 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:08,119 Speaker 1: do it. Just do it, especially in a first move. 119 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, you will spend thousands 120 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: of dollars on movers. There is no guarantee that things 121 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,680 Speaker 1: will not break, so it is out of your hands. 122 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: And I also, again outside of finance, I'm a big 123 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 1: believer that says, you know, stretch yourself to the limit, 124 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 1: and if you can do something, do it. If you 125 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 1: know how to make yourself a coffee, make yourself a coffee. 126 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 1: If you can lift a box and you're kind of strong, 127 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 1: do it. I mean call it exercise, and call it 128 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: an effort in using your will to do the most 129 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: you can. 130 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 3: When I was a kid, I moved myself all the time. 131 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 3: I lived in Manhattan, and I kind of moved around 132 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 3: to different dorms and stuff. And I always moved myself 133 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 3: because I was a kid and I had no money, 134 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 3: and I had a lot of friends. 135 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: And so friends and a pizza party, yes the way 136 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: to move. 137 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 3: And we actually we carried a couch one time through 138 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 3: Washington Square Park. One of my favorite photos that I 139 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 3: have of me and my friends will helping me move, 140 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 3: like sitting on that couch in front of the arch 141 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 3: in Washington Square Park. But now that I'm older, and 142 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,760 Speaker 3: because they do rank moving up there with one of 143 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 3: the most stressful things that you can do in your life, 144 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 3: and now that my knee doesn't really work that well more, 145 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 3: I would probably go the hiring movers right perfect, you 146 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 3: have your out. 147 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is actually a perfect thing. And this was 148 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: going to be my next segue. Outside of physically able, 149 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: there are also people who are physically able, but they 150 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 1: work around the clock NonStop, so that is where there's 151 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: always an exception. And then another thing I would say 152 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: is there's so many different tiers of movers. So maybe 153 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: if you have the heavy couch and you have the 154 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: heavy table, you can find movers that will just move 155 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: these large items, but they do not pack, They are 156 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: not wrapping your things, and you're holding onto all of 157 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: your valuables yourself. So I would say you can always 158 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: use movers for the heavy lifting and then do the 159 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: light stuff yourself. Nothing wrong with that, and lots of 160 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 1: companies do that. 161 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 2: So what are some things that people should definitely not 162 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 2: pack to put in the mood being truck? Like, what 163 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 2: are some things that I should like maybe put in 164 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 2: a box and carry it myself or put it in 165 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 2: my car? Like, what are the things I should keep 166 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 2: not necessarily on my person, but kind of like in 167 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 2: my eyesight for the whole time I'm, you know, doing 168 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: this move. 169 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: Any important personal documents those are key. Your passport right 170 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: should be with you, insurance should be with you, and 171 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: anything of like true sentimental value. Yeah right, anything that 172 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: is really personal identifiers, keep that on your person. And 173 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: then medications. 174 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 2: Ooh yeah good. 175 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 4: Okay. 176 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 3: When I was a kid, I moved across the country 177 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 3: and I remember like a big thing was that we 178 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 3: got to our house way before the moving truck did. 179 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:45,719 Speaker 3: So for those who are going to have kind of 180 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 3: like a first night in their house before the truck arrives, 181 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: what should be in that first night box? And why 182 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 3: is it important people pack one? 183 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: Okay? So number one, I think every single human being 184 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: needs to have a blow up mattress. They fold down 185 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: to nothing. Those are the best. Obviously, your medications, a toothbrush, 186 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: and I always say you can keep the same clothes, 187 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: but maybe your undergarments, like one of each. Like maybe 188 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,679 Speaker 1: bring some underwear, some socks, maybe a little, you know, undershirt. 189 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 3: I always say paper towels. I don't know what you 190 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 3: feel like. You get into a new place, you don't 191 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 3: have anything, you need to cook, you order a pizza. 192 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: Maybe things are a little dusty in the bedroom, and 193 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 3: you want to do some cleaning up before before the 194 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 3: boxes get there. 195 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: So I'm the person who goes before the moving truck 196 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: to do the thorough clean first, because I don't want 197 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,959 Speaker 1: to put my things in other people's dust. Yes, So 198 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: I say, your first night, you should probably also bring 199 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: a bunch of cleaning products and you should just go 200 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 1: and be like a great cleaning person for the day 201 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,439 Speaker 1: because you are moving your stuff in there. And also 202 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: when you do a deep clean, you can discover all 203 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: kinds of things that you maybe didn't notice before. Here 204 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: is a fun thing that people don't realize. You could 205 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: move into a place that has carpet and everything looks wonderful, 206 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 1: and the second you put a heavy box on the carpet, 207 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: termites can start to come out of the carpet, or 208 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: cockroaches can come out of the carpet. I've seen this 209 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 1: happen before, and this has been in places that are 210 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: like brand new, newly renovated, and maybe have some original 211 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: carpet in one part of the house. So you want 212 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: to clean and know everything in your house before you 213 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: start moving your stuff in. 214 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:21,559 Speaker 2: No thank you to bugs. 215 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:24,120 Speaker 4: Yeah new fear unlocked. 216 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, new fear unlocked for sure. Yeah. 217 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 2: I want to add a few things to our first 218 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 2: night box. Some betting to throw on that blow up mattress, 219 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 2: something to cover the windows with, and maybe coffee and 220 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 2: my coffee maker. But the most important thing might be 221 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 2: the phone and device chargers. Put those in that box 222 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 2: and mark the box with some different color packing tape 223 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 2: or make sure it's like really labeled in large print. 224 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 2: I also think you're going to want to tell your 225 00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 2: movers if you're using movers, to put that box on 226 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 2: the truck last so that it comes off first. 227 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 4: And if you know you're going to beat the movers 228 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 4: to your new home, just keep the. 229 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 3: Bucks with you. 230 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 4: Okay. 231 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 2: So the other thing about moving, I'm a big post 232 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: it gal myself. I love a to do list and 233 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 2: I'm always making big ones. 234 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: I'm a cue carter. 235 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 2: Oh see look at you. Okay, great, wonderful. 236 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 1: Mine are always color coded. 237 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 2: Yes, good, okay. So on that list is going to 238 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 2: be everything that I need to take care of, when 239 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 2: do I start changing my address and who are the 240 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 2: companies that I really need to let them know, like hey, 241 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 2: by the way, I'm leaving this one place and I'm 242 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: going to this other one, so charge me accordingly and 243 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: make sure you have my information up to date. 244 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: I would say the two most important ones are your 245 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: driver's license okay, And I always suggest to people for 246 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 1: mail forwarding. Once you have your least signed in an 247 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: order you're moving at the end of the month, get 248 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: mail forwarding, And I always suggest do it for six months, 249 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 1: just so that you can slowly, one by one go 250 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: into the apps and you can change your stuff. But 251 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: you know, something might just go on the wayside. You 252 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 1: don't really think about it and then you're like, oh, right, 253 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: like I needed to change that. I would say, once 254 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 1: you know your move and start doing that. But number 255 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: one license and then let your bank know. Oh yeah, 256 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: those are the key ones and also really important if 257 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: you're ever moving in with another person, let's say, into 258 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: their least property, make sure you're getting all of your 259 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: mails sent there, so there is proof that you are 260 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: somebody who lives there. 261 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 3: That's a great point. You typically need proof of address 262 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 3: for government and financial services, things like getting a real 263 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 3: ID at the DMV, registering to vote, opening a bank account, 264 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 3: applying for loans, setting up local utilities, or enruling children 265 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 3: in public school. 266 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: This is very important for people for sure, and again 267 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: that is for your own protection of going into a home. 268 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 1: If there's no mail in your name going there, it's 269 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:44,400 Speaker 1: hard to prove you live there. 270 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 2: Let's talk about setting up utilities, because one of the 271 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 2: easiest ways to avoid moving day headaches is to do 272 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 2: that before you arrive. 273 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 3: About two to three weeks before you move. Contact your 274 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 3: providers to schedule services at your new home, aiming to 275 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 3: have electricity, gas, and water turned on at least a 276 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 3: day before you move in. Don't forget trash and recycling 277 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 3: pickup if you're moving into a house, and don't forget 278 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 3: internet services either. Installation appointents can book. 279 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 4: Up quickly, so schedule yours as early as possible. 280 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then leave your old services active until the 281 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 2: day after you move out. You're gonna want things like 282 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: water and electricity while you're doing that last clean so 283 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 2: you get your security to. 284 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: Paus it back. 285 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 3: And another tip I heard was to snap pictures of 286 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 3: the electric, gas and water meters before you leave your 287 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 3: old home and when you arrive at your new one. 288 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 2: Wait, how come? 289 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 4: Oh, just so you have proof in case you get 290 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 4: charged for the previous or future person's usage. 291 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 2: Okay, that makes sense. I'm not paying for them, only 292 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 2: for me. 293 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:50,080 Speaker 3: Thinking about logistics paperwork, what documents, receipts or records should 294 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 3: people keep throughout the process that might come in handy 295 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 3: down the line. 296 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: You should always maybe have a monthly bank statement and 297 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: have a clear line of where your rent came out, 298 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 1: your utilities came out, and all of that, just because 299 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: then you can always explain it down the line. If 300 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: you're moving again, it's like, hey, here's all of my 301 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 1: proof of rent. That's what you want to hold on to. 302 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 5: We'll be right back after a quick break, and we're 303 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 5: back with more grown up stuff. 304 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 4: How do I don't? 305 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 2: So we talked about getting ready to move and then 306 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 2: moving day, But now I want to talk a little 307 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 2: about what you do once you get your keys. What 308 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 2: are the first three things that you should do? Like, okay, 309 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 2: this is where I'm going to be living. So what 310 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 2: do I check off right away? 311 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: The second I'm walking into the door. One, I'm going 312 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: to check all of the keys work and they've all 313 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 1: been cut properly. Quick tip, and then we'll circle back 314 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 1: to that. We always pay key deposits. If you're paying 315 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:58,359 Speaker 1: a key deposit, don't ask for one key, ask for multiples. 316 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: I don't care. You tell them I need one, my 317 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 1: wife needs one, and I need one for the dog walker. 318 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: You were pre paying them two hundred dollars for keys. 319 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 1: They don't cost that much, so that would be number one. 320 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 1: Number two. Once I go in, the first thing I'm 321 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: checking is the furnace. I'm checking that the air conditioning works. 322 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to go to the furnace and I'm going 323 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: to make sure the filter is fresh and good. And 324 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: then I'm going to go to every single water anything. 325 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to run a sink to confirm the pressure 326 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: and make sure it's running smoothly. I'm going to check 327 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,080 Speaker 1: the showers and run them a few minutes, and I 328 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: might run some of my water ten to fifteen minutes 329 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: and go watch around, maybe have somebody in the lower 330 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:42,360 Speaker 1: level make sure there's no leaking and no surprises. And 331 00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: then also check your electrical plugs because if you notice 332 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: a whole panel is off, it's a great way for 333 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: you to learn how to use your fuse box. Or 334 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: it's your first move and day, so your landlord is 335 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 1: going to be more accessible than two months down the line. 336 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: And then there's never a oh, maybe you broke it. No, 337 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 1: I just moved in. I open the door, it doesn't work. 338 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: So make sure the moving components of the home are working. 339 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: That is your key. And make sure the furnace and 340 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: heating and cooling are in good order, super important. And 341 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: also I'm a firm believer you got to live in 342 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: space to know what works for you. 343 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm one of those people that's like, I just 344 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 2: want to be settled right away, But until you're in 345 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 2: the space, you really don't know how your body moves 346 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: in it, sort of like where you want to put 347 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 2: your coffee cup down each day, or where the sunlight 348 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 2: is going to be strongest at different times. And so 349 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 2: like I do think a little bit of time living 350 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 2: somewhere first then helps give you a better idea of 351 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 2: like what furniture you're going to need and where absolutely. 352 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 3: One thing I wanted to talk about is what are 353 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 3: the services that people should be thinking about around this time. 354 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 3: I'm thinking like home insurance, lawn care, past control, security. 355 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: If you rent a place that has grass, it's not 356 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: your problem. That's the problem of a landlord, unless you 357 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: work out a deal where they're kind of like, are 358 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: you good with this this, and then it becomes a 359 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 1: tenant landlord together thing, and a lot of people are 360 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 1: good with it. They're like, well, of course I live here, 361 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to shovel my snow. You're not legally obligated. 362 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: And because you don't own the home, it makes sense, 363 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: right because at the end of the day, it's if 364 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: somebody trips on property. I'm not the existing owner of 365 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 1: the property, so you can't tell me you need to 366 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 1: salt your stairs on property that isn't mine. 367 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: And then renters insurance or homeowner's insurance, that's definitely something 368 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 3: to look into. Renterer's insurance is designed to protect you, 369 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 3: not the building you live in, so it typically covers 370 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 3: your personal belongings if they're stolen or damaged, provides liability 371 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 3: coverage to someone who's injured inside your home, and can 372 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 3: help pay for temporary housing if your rental becomes unlivable 373 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:57,199 Speaker 3: after a covered event. What it doesn't cover is the 374 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: building itself. That's your landlord's responsibility, or certain disasters like 375 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 3: floods and earthquakes, which usually require separate insurance. And renter's 376 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 3: insurance is generally pretty reasonable for what it covers. 377 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 2: I think I paid twelve dollars a month. 378 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. Like I like to think it's 379 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 1: all pretty manageable. 380 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 3: A lot of people use like home security systems and 381 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 3: stuff when they set up, you know, like locks on 382 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 3: the doors and the windows and alarm systems. 383 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,639 Speaker 1: Oh, if you're renting in a home, security for the 384 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: wind for sure. If you're in a condo or apartment building, 385 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: I guess that's optional. But the thing is you already 386 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: have a lot of cameras coming, Like they're going to 387 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: notice if somebody I don't know comes with the big 388 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,360 Speaker 1: acts in the elevator and they got off in fourteen 389 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 1: they know they're on the fourteenth floor. Yeah, but I 390 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 1: would say, oh, yeah, you definitely want some version of 391 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: recording of something. I have internal cameras in my house 392 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 1: because I'm really neurotic, And I've also had a person 393 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:01,439 Speaker 1: break into my home while I was there, so I 394 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:04,120 Speaker 1: keep myself very safeguarded. 395 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 2: While we're talking about safety, what are checks that every 396 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,000 Speaker 2: homeowner should do during their first week in a new home. 397 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 2: What should we be doing with our locks and with 398 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 2: our garage door openers and security codes and things like that. 399 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 1: I would always want to change everything. You want to 400 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,360 Speaker 1: change that garage coach, your own unique new one. If 401 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: there's existing cameras, you want them to be signed out 402 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: and you want to resign in. You do not know 403 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,959 Speaker 1: who's watching that other side. Yep, you just don't know. 404 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 1: Locks and doors kind of hard and a rental because 405 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 1: you can't do much about it, Like you can't change 406 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 1: the locks, right, so that would be kind of tricky. 407 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 1: And then one thing I always suggest to people too, 408 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: especially if you're new to an area, is while you're 409 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: looking at an area, my strongest suggestion is go during 410 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 1: the day and see it, to see the light in 411 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: the place. But you really need to go to your 412 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: local neighborhood when it's dark out. You need to go 413 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: there at ten at night, and you need to see 414 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: what your neighborhood is. Yeah, because you know stuff comes 415 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 1: out at night that we don't see during the day, 416 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 1: so know what you're getting into. Take an hour or 417 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: two walk around the neighborhood and maybe try to get 418 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: a glimpse of who the neighbors are, because it could 419 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 1: be very different living beside a group of twelve people 420 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: in one house or living beside this little elderly couple 421 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:27,480 Speaker 1: and their cat. Yeah. 422 00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 2: I would also say, we have things like the next 423 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 2: door app or like the Citizen app here where it's 424 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 2: like next Door's supposed to be like neighborhood, like hey, 425 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 2: we're having a tag sale, come whatever. Citizen is more 426 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 2: like somebody is punching something over here on this block, 427 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 2: like it's a little more crime driven. But all that 428 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: is to say, maybe glance at the apps to where 429 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 2: the neighbors are commenting on what's happening in the neighborhood, 430 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 2: so that you can sort of get a feel for 431 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:57,919 Speaker 2: like what's happening and who your neighbors are going to be. 432 00:20:58,280 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 1: And Facebook can also be your friend because there's so 433 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: many condo buildings that will have these like little groups. Yeah, 434 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: so for sure that I totally agree. Know where you 435 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,080 Speaker 1: are moving, yeah, and also make a list of your 436 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,919 Speaker 1: essentials that you need, Like if you are a daily 437 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 1: grocery shopper. The nearest grocery store cannot be twenty minutes away, 438 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:18,960 Speaker 1: right right. 439 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,160 Speaker 2: Also, just on the technology front too, are there any 440 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:27,879 Speaker 2: smart home devices like security systems or other apps or 441 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 2: technology upgrades that you recommend setting up right away when 442 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:31,479 Speaker 2: somebody moves in. 443 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,640 Speaker 3: One of the things I would be so just about 444 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 3: if I moved into a new place is to get 445 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 3: a smart thermost at thing, so let me control my 446 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 3: home from my phone. 447 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 4: That's how that I want to do. 448 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 1: Absolutely that keeps heating and cooling really cost effective. You 449 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 1: don't need to crank it when nobody's there, and then 450 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: if you know you're home at I don't know, seven 451 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 1: at night, you can go on your phone and adjust 452 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 1: at six and get your home ready. But just never 453 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,680 Speaker 1: turn them off completely. 454 00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 4: Exactly. 455 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 3: A smart thermste that is one of those grown up 456 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 3: purchases you don't get excited about until the first time 457 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,479 Speaker 3: you cool off or warm up your house before you 458 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 3: even get home, and it saves you money. You don't 459 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 3: have to remember to ride the thermostat, you can just 460 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 3: automate it. 461 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 2: Speaking of making things more cost effective, I'm curious to 462 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,919 Speaker 2: hear your advice to egg about some affordable ways to 463 00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 2: make a new home feel like a home quickly. 464 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: So I'm an old school sucker for anything monogrammed. I 465 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: think a couple monogram towels are really really sweet, or 466 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: a couple like monogram slippers feel really really special. And 467 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 1: then I think you need to have some like texture 468 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: and happy going through your house. So you might have 469 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: like wonderful roller blinds. But if you're really old school 470 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: and you like really bold print and like you want 471 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: this on your windows, do it. And also don't be 472 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: allergic to doing light improvements in your space. I understand 473 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: you don't own it, but if you have permission to 474 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,199 Speaker 1: paint and they've agreed to a color, you might live 475 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 1: there a year or two years that one hundred dollars 476 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: can of paint. When you divide it over, let's say 477 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: seven hundred and thirty days your two year lease at 478 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,479 Speaker 1: twenty five cents a day, you can live in this 479 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: kind of wonderland that you love and the color you 480 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 1: like that you're happy about. So you know, sometimes you 481 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,119 Speaker 1: have to just do those little upgrades. If they approve 482 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: you to change your faucet to something nicer and it 483 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 1: doesn't bust the bank or you found a great deal, 484 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: be open to it. This is your home. Whether it's 485 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: your trade of blastt or not, this is your home. 486 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 2: I'm also a fan of like a little bouquet of 487 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 2: flowers too, as a little treat for me because I 488 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 2: just went through a hard move. But also then like 489 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:34,880 Speaker 2: you can put it on your table and even though 490 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,480 Speaker 2: your walls might be bare, at least you got a 491 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 2: little flower. 492 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: Going on in there. So I do weekly flowers in 493 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,919 Speaker 1: my house, and I also have a full garden in 494 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 1: the back that is completely pesticide free, and those are 495 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 1: my summer flowers. And then in the winter I swap 496 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 1: it out and my whole house's roses because that works 497 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,880 Speaker 1: with my cat. Yes, but my pestified free plants, those 498 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: all fill my house. So my house last month was 499 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 1: all paeonies. This month is all going to be daffodils 500 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 1: and mums. It just keeps changing, and then roses will 501 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 1: be in like three weeks. 502 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 2: Perfect love a plant. 503 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, flowers are the best if you can squeeze them 504 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 1: into the budget. They're the cheapest indoor fit possible. They 505 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 1: really are. 506 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,880 Speaker 3: I'm also a big fan of lighting. People don't really realize, 507 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 3: like you can get like some pretty affordable lighting online bulbs, yeah, 508 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 3: even just like the bulbs Christmas lights or like string bulbs, 509 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 3: and they can really transform a room for cheap. 510 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 1: And I love those bulbs, like those huge bulbs that 511 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 1: you can change the colors and manage from your phone. 512 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 1: They're energy efficient, but also you can make it a vibe, 513 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,360 Speaker 1: so you could have a party room. You could turn 514 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 1: your whole entire place into red light district with red 515 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 1: light just for the day to have fun, you know, 516 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 1: like whatever. So yeah, I like definitely those. And then 517 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 1: don't be afraid of going to vintage shops to find 518 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: really cool lamps. Yeah, you could find some of the 519 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:59,719 Speaker 1: most darling things. And like table lamps, they're always like perfect, 520 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: right because we don't ruin table lamps. 521 00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, when it's not just you moving, but it's a 522 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 2: whole family. Do you have any advice for really trying 523 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 2: to make a move less stressful on kids? I mean everyone, 524 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 2: but really like kids that are going through this, that's 525 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 2: like a whole new experience for them. 526 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,119 Speaker 1: Honestly, sometimes I think you just have to give your 527 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 1: kids like little adult jobs and make them feel like 528 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: they're one of the adults. Yeah, It can be as 529 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,840 Speaker 1: simple as if you know that you're dismantling all kinds 530 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 1: of things in your house, like ease into their imagination. 531 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 1: Go to your hardware store and get like the world's 532 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: tiniest toolbox with the world's tiniest lightest hammer, and just 533 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 1: let your kids be part of that adventure. Maybe you're 534 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,399 Speaker 1: boxing up stuff and maybe you just want them to 535 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,119 Speaker 1: go and set up the boxes and they'll feel like 536 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 1: they're a part of the project. Yeah. I know it 537 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: sounds like tricking your kids, but if you engage their imagination, 538 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: kids are very resilient and kids are very exciting. 539 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 2: They want to feel like they're helping too, So like, yeah, 540 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 2: let it very a light box like here you. 541 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: Go absolutely the littlest of things. It could be as 542 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: simple as you put a big box in their room 543 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: and you tell them, like, you know, whatever toys you 544 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,919 Speaker 1: want to give to the other kids, put them here. Yeah, 545 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: it's something, And then it also teaches kids about sharing 546 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: we love, which could be good. 547 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 4: I love that. I think that's a great piece of advice. 548 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 3: And then looking back on all of the moves that 549 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 3: you've helped coordinate, what's something you picked up from someone else? 550 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 3: That you were like, oh my god, that is an 551 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 3: amazing idea. 552 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,920 Speaker 1: Best thing I've ever seen are people getting those movable 553 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 1: storage containers and kind of setting up house in their 554 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: driveway before they go in, where everything's settled in, and 555 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: they have this box in front of their house for 556 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 1: two three weeks and they move in as they are ready. 557 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,439 Speaker 1: Kind of smart. And then also when you move in 558 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,560 Speaker 1: and you have that storage container, it becomes this kind 559 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: of extra storage space that if you're like, okay, you 560 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 1: know not, I actually don't need this table anymore, you 561 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 1: kind of have your built in place to store it 562 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 1: as you try to sell it online. Perfect. And then 563 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,440 Speaker 1: one of my strongest suggestion uestions is if you can 564 00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: afford to do it and have a little bit of 565 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: a carryover of like an extra week in between where 566 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 1: maybe like your last month went to one place in 567 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: that having that extra bit of time between two places 568 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 1: can be wonderful, especially if you work a lot, especially 569 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: if you have children or just a lot of moving parts, 570 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 1: or you know you need to have some extensive things 571 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 1: in order before you can move in. 572 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we got a lot of amazing tips from 573 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 2: you today, deg but is there anything that we didn't 574 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 2: touch on that. You want to make sure people think 575 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 2: about or realize or are just aware of if they 576 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 2: are preparing or you know, God forbid in the middle 577 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 2: of a move right. 578 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,879 Speaker 1: Now, just keep an eye on your expenses and get 579 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: really honest with yourself, get really honest with your capabilities. 580 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 1: Listen to professionals, and never hear a price and assume 581 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 1: that is your final price. It never is. That goes 582 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,479 Speaker 1: with your utilities, that goes with your moving call, that 583 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: goes with going and buying a couch, Like I think 584 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 1: people forget sometimes, especially when you move out for the 585 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 1: first time, They forget that even the most like basic 586 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,800 Speaker 1: streamlined on that big maze Ikia tour that you do, 587 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 1: your most affordable couch is still five hundred dollars. So 588 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 1: if you've never bought a couch, you've never bought a 589 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: piece of furniture, now is a really good time to 590 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: go and learn how much furniture costs. Yeah, and some 591 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: things you can't find in a thrift shomp, like it 592 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 1: might be very hard to find a couch in a 593 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 1: thrift shomp. True, so know what you're getting yourself into. 594 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,919 Speaker 3: Amazing wow, dag so much great stuff. Thank you so 595 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 3: much for your time today. We really appreciate you spending 596 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 3: it with us. 597 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Thank you so much for having me. 598 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:48,760 Speaker 3: So the secret to moving is start early, label your 599 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 3: boxes and don't pack your phone. 600 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 2: Charger or your coffee maker. Future you deserves coffee on 601 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 2: moving day and you're gonna need a lot of it. 602 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 4: Future You deserves so much, so much more. 603 00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 2: That's kind of what this show is all about. 604 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 3: Hopefully today's tips make moving day a little less stressful. 605 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 3: So thank you for listening, and we'll see you next 606 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 3: time on grown up stuff, how to adult and. 607 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 2: If you want to learn how to invest like a 608 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 2: grown up, join us again in two weeks where we'll 609 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,440 Speaker 2: be talking to author and investment expert Hailey Sachs aka 610 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 2: Missus dow Jones. 611 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 3: This is an episode you literally can't avoid to miss. 612 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 3: This is a production of Ruby Studio from iHeartMedia. 613 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 2: I'm Matt Stillow, I'm Leah Palmery. 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