1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:00,160 Speaker 1: Hi. 2 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 2: I'm Rashan McDonald's host this weekly Money Making Conversation Masterclass show. 3 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: The interviews and information that this show provides off for everyone. 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 2: It's time to start reading other people's success stories and 5 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 2: start living your own. I'm talking about you. If you 6 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 2: want to be a guest on my show, money Making 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: Conversations Masterclass, please visit our website, Moneymaking Conversation dot com 8 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 2: and click the be a Guest button. If you're a 9 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: small business owner, entrepreneur, motivational speaker, influence or nonprofit, I 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: want you on my show. Now let's get started. My 11 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: guess is the founder and CEO or peace on Patassink Incorporated. 12 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 2: They create sanctuaries for women battling life leveling cancers. Peace 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 2: On Potassink is a nonprofit respite and wellness organization located 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 2: in Prince George's County, Maryland, dedicated to affirming the worth 15 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 2: and well being of women diagnosed with life leveling cancers. 16 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: Please welcome the Money Making Conversation discuss all this masterclass. 17 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 3: Sanita m healed. How you doing, Sanita? 18 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 4: Well? Thank you? Thank you for having me. What an introduction. 19 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 2: Now let's talk about you, my friend. I'm very familiar 20 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: with Princess George. The first of all, let's tell us 21 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: talk to us about Prince because you said it in there, 22 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 2: Prince George's County, Maryland. What is that area and why 23 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: is it important to our conversation today? 24 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, I love it. 25 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: Prince George's County, Maryland is and was dean the number 26 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: one area for wealth in black in the black community 27 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 1: around the world. In the United States, they just rezoned it, 28 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: so changed a little bit, but it is. 29 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 4: It is the. 30 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: City right adjacent to the District of Columbia, Washington, d 31 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 1: C where we work. So we go and we go 32 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: back and forth to Washington, d C. It's just a 33 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: rocks throw As a matter of fact, where I grew 34 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: up was also zoned when I was a kid as 35 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: Washington d C. Before we when we started switching off 36 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: to give d C what it was. So it's very important. 37 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: It's very important to my younger brother lives in that 38 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 2: area down here is like a fool barber or in 39 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 2: a beauty salon. So I assume he's probably in that 40 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 2: erie down there, living good. 41 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:14,520 Speaker 3: Living good. 42 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: But let's talk about you. I would compably Upbet, I'm 43 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 2: a cancer survivor. Twenty fifteen, I was diagnosed with cancer 44 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 2: thyroid and it changed my perspective on life when I 45 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:26,399 Speaker 2: was as a business owner, as a family man, as 46 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 2: a husband, as a father, because when they say the 47 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: word cancer, it is it is life leveling, whether you 48 00:02:34,919 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 2: know the level of the severity of the cancer or not. 49 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 2: Every stereotype of every fear that you have heard or 50 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: been aware of, or we cancer jumps into your spirit, 51 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: jumps into your soul. Talk about this. Are you a 52 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 2: cancer survivor? Sanita m Hill. 53 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: I am a I am diagnosed with AMGUS and I 54 00:02:56,480 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: will say is the precursor to multiple maloma in the 55 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: African American community, specifically for women. However, when we talk 56 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: of when we hear amgess or when we hear of it, 57 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: usually we hear of it as leukemia, which is totally 58 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: different on outside of the spectrum. So since for twenty years, 59 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: I've been watched for the gene to make sure, because 60 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 1: you have to be watched, it will hit milestones and 61 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: it will switch over before you can catch it. So 62 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: I've been with an oncologist every six months, sometimes we 63 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: switch back and forth for the past twenty years. 64 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 2: Now I brought this up into conversation because there are 65 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 2: a lot of people are in the entrenial, entrepreneurial spaceball 66 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 2: business owner space influencers. 67 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:42,119 Speaker 3: Who are Type eight. 68 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 2: I'm a Type A person and because of that, you 69 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 2: know this, Every six months, do I have time or 70 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 2: how importantness? Talk about the whole process of your group 71 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: that you have around them, talking about your loved ones, 72 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 2: your coworkers, understanding the importantness for your sanity, for your 73 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: peace of mind. Why these six months to annual tests 74 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: are important. 75 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: So the annual tests are very important for me one 76 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: to it keeps me in touch with not being in denial, 77 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: because denial will cause me to just go and skip 78 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:23,920 Speaker 1: these appointments where my numbers will change. And so then 79 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: we go off and we don't talk about it, and 80 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: no one is talking about it but our oncologists, and 81 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: it helps us to get into groups and to get 82 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: more informed. That is what it does for me, and 83 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: that is what peace. 84 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 4: On Atuxant does for women. 85 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: It allows them to come together with the community of 86 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: women who are going through various types of cancers. 87 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 4: But the journey is the same, and it. 88 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: Doesn't mitigate the anxieties that we have from being diagnosed 89 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: as you just mentioned. 90 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 4: Although I may not look like I or I or the. 91 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: Other women may not look like they're going through cancer. 92 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:03,679 Speaker 1: But on an end side, there's always this fere yes, 93 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 1: when is it gonna When is it gonna jump up? 94 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: One of my numbers is gonna change? What does this 95 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: mean for my family? So all of that is there, 96 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 1: but people don't see it. 97 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 2: It gives you an amazing sense of mortality that you 98 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 2: you don't have it in your twenties, thirties, and then 99 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: when you you know, once you get past fifty, you know, 100 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 2: we all know the finish line is coming, okay, and it's. 101 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 3: Gonna be real. You should know there's a finish line. 102 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 3: You know, when you're twenty, you don't see the finish line. 103 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 2: You just literally your life, partying, going to college, you know, 104 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 2: having babies, having getting married out there, living to the 105 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,600 Speaker 2: next dream and investing in the stock market. You get 106 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 2: past fifty, you go, okay, what does my life look like? 107 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 2: And that's the mortality that cancer can bring onto you 108 00:05:45,640 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 2: in your twenties, in your thirties, in your forties, and 109 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: the reality that it can happen to you today. That's 110 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: why the family history is important. 111 00:05:55,320 --> 00:06:00,799 Speaker 1: Correctness Hill absolutely absolutely, and we talked We know about 112 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: sickle cell, which is one of the things that we discussed. 113 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 1: However we're not talking about the gene. My mother, who 114 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 1: transitioned from lung cancer, told me in her spirit she 115 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: knew she would bede. She would be the first who 116 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: in our family who had open cancer. She knew that 117 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: and heard her dad pass from cancer. So knowing that 118 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: that's there and we begin to talk about it, it 119 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: gives you a different understanding or just awareness like Okay, 120 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: this is here. And so when we talk about mingus 121 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: and multiple myeloma, it then again brings it to the forefront. 122 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: You have this dormant smoldering we called some call it smoldering. 123 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: There's this smoldering thing that's sitting in your blood. What 124 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: will it do and when will it do? So stress 125 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: has to be kept at a minimum in your life. 126 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 4: You have to try to maintain. 127 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:51,359 Speaker 3: It well stressed. 128 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 2: That's why I think it's important to hear the word 129 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: peace on patescent. 130 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 3: Peace. You're trying to get peace. 131 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 2: And I've talked to a lot of people and my 132 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: version of how I reacted cancer and how. 133 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 3: Women react to cancer two different days. 134 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:07,880 Speaker 2: So I'm not even gonna jump into this lane and 135 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 2: act like my conversation and my relatability to women who 136 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 2: are suffering from cancer or been diagnosed with cancer or 137 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 2: been cured from cancer. But when you've been cured, they 138 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 2: always tell you to check every six months to a year, 139 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: so that that sensibility or sense of a calm or 140 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 2: peace will always be on the edge. Can it come back? 141 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 2: Will it come back? If it comes back? If I 142 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 2: miss it? What's the severity? Will it be cured this 143 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 2: time around? So what inspired you to create peace on Potussic? 144 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: So, my mother, as I mentioned, was diagnosed with let 145 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 1: me start here first. I was diagnosed with AM and 146 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: about six months later, my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer. 147 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: And so in her journey, because I will share that 148 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: when my mother was diagnosed, I said on mine because 149 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: hers was more important for me to help her. I 150 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 1: felt like it was more important for me to help 151 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: her run her journey or to get treated. So, you know, 152 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: to help her get treated. She was my mother, So 153 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: I sort of sit on mine although watching it, but 154 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 1: it was more important. 155 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 4: So during her. 156 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: Journey, I saw our women and I again being here 157 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: in Bridge George's County. I saw how women of color 158 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: the resources were very nil. But I also saw what 159 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: was important to her. What was important was just sitting 160 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 1: in the garden, was sitting in the garden and just 161 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 1: being able to think about it and allowing her to 162 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 1: run her journey, her race, her way. Hearing her voice 163 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: was important. And I believe that a doctor or your 164 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 1: medical team, if they are not sympathetic and understanding to 165 00:08:55,920 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 1: you running your journey your way, can make or break 166 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: your treatment. And so peace on Patuxin is not connected 167 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 1: with any hospital or doctor, because we want the woman 168 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: to make to run her journey. I share with a 169 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: lot of people that when a woman is diagnosed, she's told, 170 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: when anyone is diagnosed, let's go that way. When a 171 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: woman is diagnosed, she's told she has choices. However, her 172 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: choices are already made for her. You will take this treatment, 173 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: you will go this place, you will do that, And 174 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: then you have your family who has expectations of how 175 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 1: they want you to do it. No one has asked 176 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 1: or given you the time to sit and just pause 177 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: and think about maybe I don't want chemo, maybe I 178 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:44,680 Speaker 1: don't want radiation. They don't give you that, and That's 179 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: what Peace on Patuxin offers, just a place to pause, 180 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 1: think and be honored for the woman that you are 181 00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: or you were, because you're still a wife, still a daughter, 182 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: still a coworker, all those things are still on your 183 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:58,319 Speaker 1: back while you're running that journey. 184 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 4: That is what Peace on Petuxin is. 185 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 2: I'm speaking to us, she said the founder and CEO 186 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 2: or Peace on Potetic. They create sanctuaries for women battling 187 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 2: life leveling cancers. Okay, let's go to those three words. 188 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 2: I just say, what exactly is life leveling cancers? 189 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: Life leveling cancer is any cancer, any cancer. It could 190 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: be skin cancer, because once you are told you have cancer, 191 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: it changes your life. You are on the floor, knocked down, 192 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: trying to figure out how I'm going to manage this thing. 193 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: So we have turned it life leveling. Actually, one of 194 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: our one of my betas in the beginning, who's also transition, 195 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: helped to define life leveling. So it's from the women 196 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: that we draw what is that we need to communicate? 197 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 1: How do we communicate this to the community and two 198 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 1: people who doesn't who don't. 199 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 2: Understand, let me get this clear now, are these are 200 00:10:55,080 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 2: individual with terminal cancer diagnosis or people who are hovering 201 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: from cancer through therapy, chemotherapy. So I'm just, I just, 202 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 2: I just want to clearly understand when you said life leveling, 203 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 2: because I could be a life leveler because in twenty 204 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 2: fifteen I was diagnosed, they gave me radition treatment and 205 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 2: I've been every test says comes back and says I'm negative. 206 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 3: So is it the. 207 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 2: Terminal side of it, that that terminate that that that 208 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 2: demonstrates life level of what exactly is it? 209 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 4: Life leveling is once you're diagnosed? 210 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 2: Mos okay, okay that I needed it because it was 211 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 2: life leveling for me. My life passed before my eyes. 212 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 2: I will literally tell you it was two life levelings 213 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 2: for me. One when he told me I was negative. 214 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 2: And I remember to this day, Anita, this, this doctor 215 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 2: walked in the room, he said, we looked at your test, 216 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 2: were fine, and walked out. 217 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 3: I went, what is he saying? What did we say find? 218 00:11:58,360 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 3: What does fine mean? 219 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 2: Because you have so many paths, so many emotions that 220 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 2: you have to deal with in dealing with cancer. I 221 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 2: remember chased them in the hall say hey, dude, do 222 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 2: do do dode? I need more clarity? What does fine mean? 223 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 3: In your book. When it comes to cancer, you know. 224 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 2: Fine fire, I find Hamburgers, I find cars. If they 225 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 2: define women, what does find mean? Okay, oh, I'm sorry, 226 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, meaning that you know negative, Just come and 227 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 2: see us every six months to a year, get on 228 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 2: the books, and you're the cancer that we saw. 229 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 3: We killed them with the radiation pill and you're good 230 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 3: to go. So that put me into life leveling. 231 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 2: But I am still I would tell everybody I am 232 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: still fearful that cancer can't come back. 233 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 3: Now I bring that up because I am a business owner. 234 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 3: I employ people. 235 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:51,040 Speaker 2: I am building a company that I would like to 236 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 2: be will be here five years, fifteen years, fifty years, 237 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 2: fifteen years. Employees have devoted their time because I've sold 238 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 2: them on the idea that this is a company that 239 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 2: has value and you should put your time in. You 240 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 2: should make this a career opportunity. How does the life 241 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:11,080 Speaker 2: leveling cancer people like me deal with that that you 242 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 2: interact with. 243 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: So what peace ontuxon does is it gives you the moment, 244 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: It gives you clarity. 245 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 4: It allows you to just pause on clarity. Many times. 246 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 1: You know, we come with women come with preconceived notions. 247 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: Once they get together in their communities, or they develop 248 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: these relationships or talk with other people. There are so 249 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: many different options out there. The option of I may 250 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 1: have come. I can share a story. I had a 251 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 1: young lady that when we were doing our beta process 252 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 1: and she didn't have anyone else, so she thought, I 253 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: have to leave all of my possessions to my family 254 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: who don't even talk to me. It wasn't until she 255 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: showed up that she could hear and hear that that 256 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: is not where you have to that's not what you 257 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: have to do. And in her transitioning she left it 258 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: to a church. But she couldn't hear the voice until 259 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 1: she came here, and she couldn't hear her voice until 260 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 1: she got still in her treatments and everything else. Until 261 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: she was still, she was able to make a sound 262 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: decision by herself. 263 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:27,920 Speaker 4: That's the voice. 264 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 2: Well, it gives you a sense of balance, absolutely clear understanding. 265 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 2: With that being said, how do we get in touch 266 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 2: with you? 267 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: You can reach me at Sanata m Hill dot com. 268 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 3: Please spell Outanita. 269 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 2: You know you just act like that SHERYLA Betty. 270 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 4: Let's try another way. 271 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: I am Sanita s E n I t A at 272 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: peace on tuxon and it's peace like stillness. P E 273 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 1: A c E on pat ux e n T dot 274 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: org And we are out there. We're on every social 275 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 1: media platform. 276 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 2: Please don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with more 277 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 2: Money Making Conversations master Class. Welcome back to Money Making 278 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 2: Conversations master Class with me Rashaun McDonald. 279 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 3: Awesome, Awesome. 280 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 2: Now, as a message to women everywhere, if you could 281 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 2: leave one message with women who are carrying the way 282 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: to work, okay, family and illness, what would you want 283 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: them to hear from you today, Zanita Hill, I would. 284 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 1: Say that they are worthy of a moment of peace. 285 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 1: They should allow every woman should allow herself the opportunity 286 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: to come to peace on protection. 287 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 4: Here. 288 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 1: Women look like you, They look like you, They are 289 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,560 Speaker 1: going through what you're going through. There is a you 290 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: can find the connection. That's what I want, And I 291 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 1: would say, and she deserves it. Just take the break 292 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 1: and is that no cost? 293 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: Now? Online? This is available online, This is on online. 294 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 4: We're getting ready to launch an online platform. 295 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 2: But you had to because you know I'm about to 296 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: I'm about to jump up or jump through this camera 297 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 2: like you know, this type of off information. There are 298 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:25,200 Speaker 2: people in California, that people in Texas and people in Chicago, 299 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 2: the people. 300 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 3: In the you know and woman who. 301 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 2: Need this this service. This uh, this homecoming, but it's 302 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 2: not a homecoming. But it also gives you a sense of 303 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 2: balance because you know, I would be honest with you 304 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 2: when I would. I became very selfish when I was 305 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 2: informed I had cancer because I didn't want to tell people. 306 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 2: And I want to talk about that. Because of the 307 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 2: fact that you get cancer at a certain age, you 308 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: can be stereotyped. You can you can may potentially think 309 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 2: you could lose your job, you potentially lose career opportunities. 310 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:00,239 Speaker 2: People look at you different way, and I really strive 311 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 2: to look different or the stereotype what a cancer victim 312 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 2: looks like. 313 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 3: You have to deal with that as well. 314 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:12,479 Speaker 1: Correct Yes, yes, yes, And what we see and what 315 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 1: I see is that in that how do we give 316 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 1: ourselves permission? How do we work again? That's the community. However, 317 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: what I see on the other side is the the 318 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: isolation I share with many people because we're we're we're 319 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:37,959 Speaker 1: intentionally with ethnicity in our ethnic community. First of all, 320 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: we African Americans haven't been out there. We have we 321 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: were hiding our families in the closet when they had. 322 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 4: Cancer years ago. So here we are. 323 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: We're trying to embrace it, but we need to be 324 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: able to step into it and own it as well. 325 00:17:52,359 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 4: And look at our other communities, our Asian communities, our 326 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 4: Indian communities. 327 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 1: How do they how do they how do we get 328 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 1: them our Latino community specifically, how do we get them 329 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 1: to come out and say it's okay, it's okay. 330 00:18:06,400 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 4: And you not be banished for it. So that is 331 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 4: what we're trying to do. I'm here. 332 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: I enjoyed these interviews because as far as the Black community, 333 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 2: we've that closet that you was talking about was pat 334 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 2: The gay community was in that closet, you know what 335 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 2: I'm saying. You know, mental health people issues was in 336 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 2: that closet. You know, old people in that closet, sick 337 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 2: people in that closet. As Black people, we have always 338 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 2: hidden the truth from ourselves, which prevented us from really 339 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 2: growing as a family and as a community because we've 340 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 2: always been a community of the night. Social media I 341 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 2: think has helped that and also hurt that in a 342 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:49,959 Speaker 2: lot of ways. But also note that this is a 343 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 2: male perspective, being that we're talking about a female issue. 344 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: Now the meaning of the word she matters. Talk about 345 00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 2: that affirmation. 346 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: She matters again, women have women are still daughters. I'll 347 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: start with myself. 348 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 4: Your daughter, your mother, your coworker, your friend. 349 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:15,360 Speaker 1: You have all of that and your diagnosed, and then 350 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: you have your diagnosis and. 351 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 4: You're moving through it. 352 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: And what we want them to know, what we want 353 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: women to know when they come to Peace on the 354 00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 1: Texan is that they matter. 355 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 4: She matters. 356 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 1: Not only do we provide an atmosphere that you can 357 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: just I tell everyone it's more of an atmosphere of 358 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: a bed and breakfast, but we send a limousine in 359 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: the state of Maryland to pick that woman up. So 360 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 1: we're not just telling her to come here because she 361 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: doesn't even know what she's getting into. We provide her 362 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: with a limousine door to door limousine, not uber and 363 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: it has to be a limousine service and understand the 364 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,640 Speaker 1: challenges that they're picking that woman up. Once she gets here, 365 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: she's greeted with the rig carpet and she has a 366 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: cheering squad, so then she's treated. Once she comes to 367 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: the door, she is then served. Our volunteers serve her 368 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: we have someone who prepares their meal. So for two 369 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: days you are prepared, your meals are prepared. You don't 370 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: pick up any any food. You don't take away your dinner, 371 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: you don't take your plate. You do nothing but stillness. Right, 372 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,480 Speaker 1: and we may have an activity and then we and 373 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: then we send and give you a sindoff. 374 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,399 Speaker 2: So I'll be fighting now, I'm telling you, missile. After that, 375 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 2: I've been picked up in a limbo. Two days of 376 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 2: whining and dining and my feet up in the air. 377 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 3: It has to be some people holding off to the 378 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 3: exit door. 379 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 4: And let me tell you, with their crowns, because we're crowned. 380 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 4: When they leave. 381 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: They are always saying they leave with their crowns on. 382 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 4: I've had a picture sent back. They tell me this 383 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 4: is what I have. 384 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: My feedback is that whenever they feel bad, they go 385 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,880 Speaker 1: put their crown on and they know that she matters, 386 00:20:55,920 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 1: like I don't have to hide and it's okay that 387 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: I have a have a still miss on the inside. 388 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 2: I think it's important that again, thank you for that story, 389 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 2: and thank you for how you're are you creating. 390 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 3: These moments because everybody needs a moment. 391 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,880 Speaker 2: I would tell people, you know, a memory is powerful 392 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 2: a memory and if you don't have good memories, then 393 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 2: you really it could leads you into depression. Because I'm 394 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 2: a type A person and I I only survive tied 395 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 2: to my memories that have good memories, have bad memories, 396 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 2: but the good memories outweigh the bad memories. 397 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 3: And there's there. 398 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 2: So it's so incredible that I can It's tied to music, 399 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 2: it can be tied to food, it can be tied 400 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 2: to vacation, a moment, but memories are powerful. And so 401 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 2: by giving these cancer victims a powerful memory that they can. 402 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,719 Speaker 3: Just pull up real quick with a crown. 403 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 2: Come on that you win it? You winning it in 404 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 2: my book? Now, now when is this? When is the 405 00:21:53,840 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 2: timeline or not exact day? This is a couple of 406 00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 2: months online? What happened? And when it becomes online? What 407 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,639 Speaker 2: is the website that we need to go to to 408 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:03,080 Speaker 2: find it? 409 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 1: So we have our website. Our website is online. We 410 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 1: are active website. We are going to launch a virtual 411 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: platform where for a woman who cannot come to peace 412 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 1: on Protuxant or during those moments, say from Christmas. We're 413 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:20,199 Speaker 1: going to launch the virtual sessions in January because we 414 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 1: know that after Christmas, we pause our sessions. 415 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 4: I'll start. Let me go back. 416 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 1: We pause our sessions from October from October last session, 417 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 1: and then we pick back up again in May. But 418 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 1: in between, how do we reach the masses? How do 419 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,920 Speaker 1: we reach those? So that is going to be an 420 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: online virtual session where women can gather and in the interim, 421 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 1: because we're not closed, we're just trying to figure out 422 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 1: how to make it better for you next year. That is, 423 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: and that will go live in January. 424 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 3: Okay, now you know me. 425 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 2: I'm in sponsorship mode here, you know, I'm trying to 426 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 2: figure out how this is an incredible relaxing Do you 427 00:22:58,880 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 2: have a press kit? 428 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 4: I have a press kit. 429 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: I just finished Speak Cell Shine, and so we have 430 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: a press kit because that was one of my guests 431 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: as the as the winner. 432 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 4: Uh, we were both there. 433 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 1: I won as the top woman's issue for this year 434 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,400 Speaker 1: was Speaks Sales Shine. So I do have a press 435 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,200 Speaker 1: kit and a PR person, doctor Pam Perry. 436 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 2: Okay, cool, we need to talk. Okay you're talking these 437 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,200 Speaker 2: these down times. We're talking to see when you get 438 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 2: uplifted if we can bring some nice things along the 439 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,480 Speaker 2: line based on people I know, you know let's let's 440 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 2: talk about vision to reality. And I'm talking to I 441 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 2: keep I keep referring back to to dreams and people 442 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:40,360 Speaker 2: who are I I'm under saying that people who work 443 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 2: forty hour week don't have do not have dreams, but 444 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 2: they're in a much more structured environment. And we're an entrepreneur, 445 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 2: small business owner, influencer and running nonprofits. That forty hour 446 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 2: week is on you. 447 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 3: And when you have. 448 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 2: These major life threatening hiccups that come into your life, 449 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: it also can impact your dream. 450 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 3: Now you were formed, you know. 451 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 2: That you have a potential that can happen in your life, 452 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 2: but you're still moving on. 453 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 3: How do you go from vision to. 454 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 2: Reality when you're when you're dealing with issues like this, 455 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 2: Sanita M. 456 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: Hill. So, I tell you my network keeps me grounded. 457 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 1: My support group keeps me grounded. Piece on Patuxent. When 458 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,360 Speaker 1: I started it, I thought I started it because. 459 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 4: Of my mom. 460 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 1: But when when When the first gathering came, the first gathering, 461 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: there were a bunch of us and they showed up. 462 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: The last car that pulled up and she double parked 463 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: her car. She double parked the car and she ran 464 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,199 Speaker 1: into the property. And when she ran in everybody that 465 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: was sitting there was like, and who is this woman? 466 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 1: And I looked up and it was my nurse. And 467 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 1: I had to tell the truth. I had to stand 468 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: in mind and say, this is my oncologist, this is 469 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: my uncologist, nurse who's been following me. So my team 470 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,240 Speaker 1: makes me stay and in my reality, where are you today, anito? 471 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: What is going on with you today? What are your numbers? 472 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:10,439 Speaker 1: So they're always checking me and when are you rested? 473 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: So what I do is I take every three months 474 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: and I take a break and I'll go somewhere, whether 475 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,560 Speaker 1: it be local, just to take a break from all 476 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 1: of this. 477 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 2: Can I take a page out of your book, the 478 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 2: resting page? You know, because my wife looks at me, 479 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 2: going okay, Rashaan. Two ways you can rest that the 480 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 2: one you one way you don't ever want to get 481 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 2: to because I can't talk to you no more. 482 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,679 Speaker 3: Women giving back to power palls? What exactly is the meaning. 483 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 2: Of the palls? 484 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 3: That's p A U S p A U S E. 485 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 1: SI absolutely and that, oh my gosh, that was that 486 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: was how do you just stop? As I said earlier, 487 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 1: women were told, women aren't told. 488 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 4: They think they have a choice. They think they have. 489 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: Choices because they lie all the choices out to you 490 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 1: when you when you get when you're diagnosed, you can 491 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,199 Speaker 1: do this, that you're gonna do this, you can and 492 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 1: it sounds like you have choices, but it's already mapped 493 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: out for you. And we're saying in that you can pause, 494 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: you can pause, and it's okay. We're not here to 495 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 1: tell you how to run your journey. We're just here 496 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: to allow you to pause your mind. 497 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 3: Am I hearing this correctly? 498 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 2: What you're telling us in this interview, Sanita, is that 499 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 2: first of all, the doctor's gonna say one thing, just 500 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 2: like the doctor told me, I was cured and walked 501 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 2: out the door because I was just another patient. You're 502 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 2: trying to put another voice in a person's head to 503 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 2: say there's a reality. There are people who you can 504 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 2: talk to, the people who have similar outcomes like you. 505 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 2: But we're not sitting over here being sad. We're not 506 00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 2: looking at life as over We're not afraid of life. 507 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 2: We're not fraid of planning. We're not running from potential love, 508 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,640 Speaker 2: we're not running from potential relationships, we're not running from 509 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 2: potential business opportunities. And that's what that diagnos dignosis can 510 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 2: do to you. It can make you stop, It can 511 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 2: make you run in the corner and you go and 512 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 2: feel sorry for yourself. And then also can stereotyping. Like 513 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 2: I was telling you earlyer, i'mmember run I was diagnosed. 514 00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 2: You know, I was like afraid to tell people out 515 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,120 Speaker 2: going well, you know, in my fifties. They might think, 516 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 2: I'm I can't do a certain job, or they might 517 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 2: not give me a future job opportunity because you tie 518 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 2: age and cancer. Why would I want that old person 519 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 2: around who's about to die. So when you hear those 520 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,719 Speaker 2: things coming out of my mouth, your motivation is to 521 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 2: do the exact opposite correct city. 522 00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, and I'll tell you and the African community, 523 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 1: African American community, and the Latin then the ethnic community. 524 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 3: Right, we only know. 525 00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: What they give us, what we get the information that 526 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:05,639 Speaker 1: we get, But there is so much more information out there. 527 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 4: There are so many different options. 528 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: I can't tell you what the options is only someone 529 00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,439 Speaker 1: who has been through it. Maybe someone lives on the 530 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: north side who has access to a different option that 531 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,239 Speaker 1: you're not getting over on the south side. So how 532 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,919 Speaker 1: are you gonna know if you don't come out and 533 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 1: have the conversation. Maybe there is someone who has been 534 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: into another group of another persuasion knows that they're doing 535 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,920 Speaker 1: a whole different treatment over there, but they're not giving 536 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,640 Speaker 1: it to us over here. The only way you're gonna 537 00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: get that information is if you come, sit down, be 538 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,600 Speaker 1: willing to talk, and then you may be interested, maybe 539 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: just maybe, but that's what's happening in your community. 540 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 4: You're only going to get what they give you. 541 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 3: And again, I gotta go through. I gotta got do. 542 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 2: We get in touch with you, go through the experience, 543 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 2: because I do want everybody be excited. 544 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 3: I'm just happy that. 545 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 2: Yet me tell you something, this is not turning around 546 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 2: in this circle. Everybody looking and sad, talk about what 547 00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 2: could have happened. I wish I'd have done this in 548 00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 2: my life. This is not what we're talking about in 549 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 2: this interview. When I got an opportunity to bring Saneita 550 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 2: m Hill on my show, I'm bringing on those shows 551 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 2: so I can kind of like share my story to 552 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 2: the men out there that Rashan McDonald was diagnosed in 553 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 2: twenty fifteen and have been running on fast. Not because 554 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 2: I feel their end is near. I'm enjoying my life. 555 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 3: I vacation more. 556 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 2: I smell the roses a lot more, and I understand 557 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 2: that I'm not I'm Type A, but I'm not a 558 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 2: loud type A like I used to be. And so 559 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 2: I value relationships a lot more because cancer will do 560 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 2: that to you. It makes you understand who you are, 561 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 2: what legacy you want to leave when you leave. But 562 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 2: with that being said, the process, how do they is 563 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 2: an application they submit Sanita hip? What is the requirements 564 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,200 Speaker 2: and why are people are selected? 565 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 1: Okay, so the application is online at www dot piece 566 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: on protection dot Org and you can say I think 567 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: it's a invite, I want to come or I want 568 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: to visit. So you can go to our website and 569 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: it's there you submit the application from there. What COVID 570 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 1: taught us, and what COVID taught was that let's do interviews. 571 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: So each woman self attests the only there are two requirements. 572 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: You have to be over eighteen and you have to 573 00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 1: be healthy enough to be independent, because we don't allow 574 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 1: any other persons here. 575 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 4: It's just you. 576 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: So you have to be healthy enough to be on 577 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: your own, feed yourself, walk around. We don't have we're 578 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: not wheelchair accessible. You have to be healthy enough. So 579 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,760 Speaker 1: a lot of times we understand that once when we 580 00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:58,040 Speaker 1: interview someone and it's on camera. We do our interviews 581 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: virtual and it's very easy. But we want you to 582 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: self a test. We don't ask you to bring in 583 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:10,280 Speaker 1: a doctor's a referral from your doctor or your social worker. 584 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 1: We want you to self a test and we trust 585 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 1: that you are within your two years because you the 586 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: most is two years post diagnosis, and that allows other 587 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:24,240 Speaker 1: women to come. And so with all of that, we're 588 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 1: able to say, okay, we can once we interview you. 589 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 4: And we accept you. 590 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: That's the process, and we have a social work team 591 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 1: that reviews the applications. We also understand that when you 592 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,440 Speaker 1: think you're doing well, if you're in the middle of 593 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: your treatment, you just want to reserve your spot. But 594 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 1: if you're not feeling well and that time comes, your 595 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: slot comes up and you're not feeling well, you can 596 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: come another day. 597 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 4: The team is not so rigorous like, oh, she can't come. 598 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: We understand, right, We respect your decision or you're not 599 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 1: feeling well, because that's what it's all about. 600 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:57,880 Speaker 4: We want you at your best. 601 00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 602 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 2: A name is Sanita Hill, founding CEO of Peace on 603 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 2: Protestant Incorporated. They create sanctuaries for women battling life leveling cancers. 604 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 2: Peace Ontesson is a nonprofit wellness organization located in Prince 605 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,000 Speaker 2: George's County, Maryland, and they are about to start an 606 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:21,240 Speaker 2: online service that allow you across the country to be 607 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 2: participants in this life. I want to say life serving, 608 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 2: but life a gracious way to understand what you're dealing 609 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 2: with and the community with people who want to continue 610 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 2: to uplift you despite your diagnosis of being involved in 611 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 2: a life threatening illness that most people consider terminal, but 612 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 2: a lot of people living a great life test to 613 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 2: that when they've been diagnosed with cancer. Again, Miss Hill, 614 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 2: thank you for coming on Money Making Conversation Masterclass. 615 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 3: Any closing thoughts, No closing. 616 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: Thoughts, I would tell every woman. First of all, we're 617 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 1: the only one, the only organization in the United States 618 00:32:56,520 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: that is founded by an African American woman. We are 619 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 1: and we provide transportation, so there is room here for 620 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,000 Speaker 1: you do use these services. 621 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 2: Thank you very much for coming on Money Making Conversation. 622 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 2: Her name Sanita, That's s. E. N. I. T. A. M. 623 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 3: Hill. 624 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:19,400 Speaker 2: Peace on Patescent Incorporated. That's a river that flows through Maryland. 625 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 3: I appreciate you. 626 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for jing. 627 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 2: This has been Money Making Conversations Masterclass with Rashaun McDonald 628 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 2: thanks to I guess and our audience. Visit Moneymakingconversations dot 629 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 2: com to listen and register to be a guest