WEBVTT - Episode 306: Define "Break" (Feat. Konshens) 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.080 What's up? What's up? It's lip service. I'm Angela Ye 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:06.160 and Luria and g G and as y'all know, we 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:09.039 always teast to a woman on top, a black woman 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:12.840 who is doing amazing things in this space of our 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:18.480 entrepreneurship or investing, and now we are toasting to Chante Lundy. 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:20.800 She is the founder of Black Girl Sunscreen. She founded 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:23.840 that company me back in tween. Do y' all use sunslock? 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:28.520 I do barely? Do? You actually do need to? And 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:31.080 it's very important for people of color to wear sunscreen, 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:33.839 and a lot of black people unfortunately don't believe that 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.240 they need to use sunscreen and therefore they simply don't 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:39.680 buy it. So she has managed to raise one million 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:43.320 dollars in funding, which is amazing. But you know, just 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:46.320 previously reported by Business Insider, they said female founders in 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:48.600 two seventeen just got two point two percent out of 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:52.200 eighty five billion dollars adventure capital funding, and within that number, 0:00:52.479 --> 0:00:55.480 women of color got even lower amount of funding. Just points. 0:00:56.600 --> 0:00:59.280 But what I love about about Black Girl Sunscreen their products, 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:02.720 So what are resisting it? It's made using natural ingredients 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:06.080 like avocado, carriages, sun flour oil. They also have a 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:09.440 kids on screen line that's hypoallergenic. There's no added fragrances, 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:13.120 no paramins, no silicones, and no aluminum. So I just 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:15.800 want to encourage everybody as it is now somtime people 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:18.120 are going on trips, make sure just some black but 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:21.360 make sure in particular you use black girls sunscreens. So 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:27.360 once again say Lundy's well deserving of this finding a 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:30.119 solution for something that we need in our community. Cheers. 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:35.080 What's up is lip service? I'm angel La Yi, I'm 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:43.840 g G maguire, I'm Lurial. Yeah, the legendary conscience is 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.720 with us and you are having an incredible year so far, 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:49.960 so we want to commend you on that. We're waiting 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:52.880 for the album though, Red Rain. So is there a date? No? 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:57.480 Not yet. Um, I think we're like done and we 0:01:57.640 --> 0:02:02.240 just go like as who has the last finished? You're 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:06.400 gonna drop? Why red Rain? All right? Red Rein is 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:09.120 like for for me is a personality and like in 0:02:09.200 --> 0:02:13.000 TWNNY twelve twenty that was like the first time I 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:18.600 put red color in my hair, aggressive and just vicious, 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:21.240 you know what I mean? For different things happen in 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:23.640 my life and you know what I mean so like 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:25.760 red Reen is like back to the red. I'm back 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:28.360 to the to that attitude. Who the idea was the red? 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:33.160 I lost the bet. I do remember what the bed 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:37.400 was like for me? I was I lost the damn bet. 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:40.440 I was never a personal likes to be in front, 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.080 that likes to be seen, so at that time was 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:45.960 a big move. And when I lost the bed, I 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:49.200 had to just go do it. Yeah, you like to 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:51.120 be at the back too. I always see you behind 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:57.640 a woman. How long did you keep the red hair for? 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:00.600 And what did you do it? Again? It like you 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:05.520 should look really close. It is kind of right. Yeah, 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:08.480 let's let's talk about winding, because you do a lot 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:11.000 of that winding, like or you can wind up on, 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:16.640 wind up on. So what happens if you're dating a 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.760 woman and you walk into the club and she winding 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:22.679 up on somebody else, like right at this moment or 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:27.799 we're talking right now, right that happened. It's just dancing. 0:03:31.840 --> 0:03:34.040 It's a little it's a little bit more than dancing. 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:38.000 But what about you and your video my songs, Like 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:40.920 it's not just oh yeah, that would be even worse. 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:44.400 It's really almost Yeah, but if she's an artist too. 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:48.040 I couldn't do it. I couldn't. I couldn't do with artists. Okay, 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:50.960 So does that mean then when you're in a relationship 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:59.240 that you don't do it either? Alright? I was never 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:02.880 I was never dancer, like, I was never like the 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:05.520 type of person to be dancing dancing looking the club. 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:09.400 So I me to not do it. It's easy, okay, 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:14.200 but you know it's kind of gets complicated right there. 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:17.760 But me to be whining, it's hard. You get aggressive 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:20.400 sometimes because I's seen you throw the girl over and 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:23.240 all kind of things. Yeah, you're in a popsicle where 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:28.560 you put the past coode. You listen. Honestly, that was 0:04:28.640 --> 0:04:31.680 all the director. That's that's not so you don't do 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:34.240 that in the bedroom. That's not That's not the same 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:37.400 way that you work in the bedroom. It's a hundred 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:43.600 after he got it from around, Like he said, how 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.880 do you think I learned? Now? During the pandemic, you 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:48.800 still were putting out a lot of material, a lot 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:51.360 of music. Was this stuff that you already had done. No, 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:55.520 it was therapy, Like when when was when when did 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.200 people that really get serious and be like you right, 0:04:58.560 --> 0:05:03.919 COVID is here April. April, I went to Jamaica and 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:06.120 I got stuck there because I didn't think it was 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.120 that serious. I got stuck there the close the borders 0:05:08.120 --> 0:05:12.680 and everything, and like three tours canceled. Jamerica was like 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:14.880 one of the first places to be really serious about it, 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.680 like shut down, stay home type of ship. I was 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:21.240 losing my mind. So like I did like seventy songs 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:25.800 between March and maybe October, just blocking the studio, drinking, 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:29.080 I mean, vibing, and just do music. So all of 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:33.320 them sounds like you know that space between March and October. Yeah, 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.200 you said you started with like fifteen or it was 0:05:36.279 --> 0:05:40.200 eight songs and then you ended up with like fifty seventy. Wow, 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.800 But do you can't stay sober during that time? So 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:45.680 I want to ask you, right, how do you know 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.719 when you're drinking too much? Because I think all of 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:52.680 us probably have had times in our lives when we're like, uh, 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:54.560 is this a problem? Is just getting out of hand? 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:58.760 Just being shipped faced every day like the next day, 0:05:58.960 --> 0:06:01.599 you know you're funked up, Like when you start getting 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:04.280 that every day for the week, Like what the funk 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:07.200 am I doing? You know? But I think in the 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.680 pamic when I did that, So it was like me 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:12.960 droning in the fucking stress of the pandemic, you know 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:14.520 what I mean. So it was for me, it was 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.760 in the music, in drinking or smoking, so like I 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:21.039 had to like, you're down real quick. Yeah, I know 0:06:21.120 --> 0:06:23.640 that feeling because look at I haven't been drinking as 0:06:23.680 --> 0:06:25.320 much as I used to. But the other night I 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:28.279 went out and first I went to the comedy club 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:30.080 right to see my guy down now, and then I 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:33.839 ended up at a strip club in Times Square. Really 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:37.279 random night, it's like, And it was so we ended 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.280 up at the strip club and we were out all 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.520 night and we got bottles, like I was doing the most. 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:43.440 And I think I was down for like two days 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:47.320 after that. I was that's cool, Like and I drink. 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.839 If you're not drinking every day for the week, and 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.000 you know what I mean, Like even if you're having 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:55.599 a drink but get fucked up every day every day, 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:58.520 you can go crazy one night for the month. Were 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:04.000 you locked down with anyone? No, rights, that might be 0:07:04.080 --> 0:07:09.080 part of it that you think that was like, Um 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:11.640 part of also are responsive like trying to get over 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:17.360 your relationship? Um? No, no, you're like, no, I'm over it. 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:22.840 No I'm not in the least, but whatever, Like not 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:26.240 being really close to anybody wasn't like trying to get 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:31.680 over I was. I couldn't get over, right, what about 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:39.680 the kids? Great if you've seen the smiling like so 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:42.040 as somebody that doesn't like being in the public eye 0:07:42.160 --> 0:07:45.640 like that as yourself. Right, Um, a few years ago 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:47.960 when you started getting really popular, how hard was it 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:49.960 for you to just have to be front and center? 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.800 Super hard? All right? That was really whole drinking started 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:57.400 for me because even to do our interviews, to do 0:07:57.480 --> 0:07:59.840 our video, to do anything, to do a show, like 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.560 had to be to be buzzed a little bit just 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:04.680 to be in front of people. But then I started 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:09.680 loving it because I think social media initially help with 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:13.120 with that because people starre chosen me and start short 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:16.680 like what my music does for them. So it's like, 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:20.800 start feel a responsibility to the people the lyrics on 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:24.080 their arms and send me to start feel like that 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:27.600 just and I mean so I think the connection with 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:30.680 people know on funds and I helped get me that 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:37.200 vibe being awkward in front, right, So you're not awkward about, 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:40.400 you know, talking to women because we see in your 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:47.240 video eye contact. You gave a number? How you give 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:49.720 a number out by blanket? And at first I didn't 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:51.480 know what the hell you were doing. I'm not gonna lie. 0:08:51.800 --> 0:08:53.720 And then when when I seen her putting the number, 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:55.760 and I'm like, look at this slick one right here. 0:08:56.040 --> 0:09:01.400 Have you ever do she stick too? If you? Because 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:04.320 she figured it out. She figured it out. She figured 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:06.200 it out, and I probably would have wrote down the 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:09.640 wrong number, but you were blinking to give her which 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:12.560 each digit was. Have you ever done anything sneaky like 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:17.400 that behind the person he was with that? Hell yeah, 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.400 not because it hits you on Instagram, right. I don't 0:09:20.400 --> 0:09:21.880 even I don't think I have a game, you know, 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:24.559 like call someone have M and the like and spit 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:27.440 the game and talk to a girl in like I 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.280 think I don't even have a game like for me, 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:32.320 it's my life has been set up for the last 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.600 like ten eleven years where it's just I don't think 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:39.960 I fucked any girls that I want to fuck because 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:43.160 of the game. I think most girls that are fun 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:46.160 and I'm sorry for any girl let's seeing this. It's 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:50.320 like an attraction to the artist, and then it grew 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:53.840 into something else. You know what I mean, except my wife, 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:56.880 I mean, you know what I mean, right, So I 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:58.720 mean that's how because why do you funk girls? Like 0:09:58.760 --> 0:10:01.120 what are you attracted to? Because obviously when you're first meet, 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:03.160 you don't know each other. So what is it that 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:09.600 you're looking at when you see somebody the bubble sex 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:14.760 to not just your physical attributes for like what you're doing, 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:18.000 like a girl can you can't do nothing and make 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.440 it and then do a lot of things and you know, 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:22.720 you know what you want to look. I mean, so 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:26.959 I think sex po is the main thing. And like 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:31.319 in saying that girls attracted to the artists, it's not 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:33.520 like that's not something negative. I don't see that. That's what. 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:38.280 It's just that I don't have game. It's not like 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:40.880 I mean it says some ship and he's like, oh 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:44.600 you're so nice and nah, you know, but your game 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:47.839 is that you don't have game? Yeah, because yeah, that 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:51.680 is just being naturally using that like NAS and something 0:10:51.720 --> 0:10:54.559 like that. Nasa and I got no game just a 0:10:54.640 --> 0:11:01.400 basis understand my story. But you have crossed over, right, 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:03.439 And so let's discuss that because that's not an easy 0:11:03.480 --> 0:11:04.960 thing to do. When we think about some of the 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.679 artists that you collaborated with, some of the biggest artists 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:11.240 you know around the world, like a Doja Cat, Nipsey Hustle, 0:11:11.760 --> 0:11:16.840 which is huge, Cardi B. So how do those connections happen? 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:18.559 Do they reach out to you? Did they reach out 0:11:18.559 --> 0:11:21.720 to your management? Three artists that the story has been different, 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:25.360 Like the Cardid By was just before she popped. I 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:27.920 was in New York. Somebody from her team reach out 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:29.600 to my team and I was like, yo, Cardi By, 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:31.040 want to do a song with you. I'm like, who's 0:11:31.040 --> 0:11:33.960 Cardi B? And I was there my wife and she's 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:42.600 like Cardio Cardid. She didn't know she was an artist. 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:44.719 She's like, yo, I just love her and like look 0:11:44.760 --> 0:11:46.920 at this through and I went and she was mad 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:49.680 cool and we did. Like every story has been different. 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:51.520 With lord Ja Cat. I was in in l A 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.160 working on my album and she was just about to break. 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:57.480 They were about to drop her preasure and like can't 0:11:57.480 --> 0:11:59.480 get a verse And I was like cool. So it's 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:03.079 like and the experiences also teach me taught me to 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:06.880 like not so much be about numbers, you know most 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:09.120 people in the industry, or if you walk, if somebody 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:10.640 walk in here right and be like, yo, can you 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:13.120 guys listen to the song? All of us pull up 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:15.920 Spotify or whatever and try to see how much the 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:18.080 streaming or whatever before you even give the person that here. 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.400 So like, sometimes we have to just bekoree and make 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:25.679 sure it happen. What about Nipsy? How did that happen? Nipsy? 0:12:26.360 --> 0:12:29.280 There's it was an epic story. His people reached out 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:32.520 to my people, and I was in a studio near Russia, 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:35.040 and Russia I didn't know need to either, but then 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:37.360 like when I started and I pull it up in 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:40.199 the studio Russian and pull up some YouTube clips and 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:43.199 started showing me who he was. And I'm like, yo, epic, 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:46.240 you know what I mean? But what connection was an epic? 0:12:46.520 --> 0:12:48.360 But when I started to figure out who it was 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:50.440 and then that this was even after the verse was gone, 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:53.480 you know I mean, and we were about to work 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.760 on something else, and then unfortunately, you know what happened? 0:12:56.360 --> 0:13:00.480 How did your Russian get so close down? King story? 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:02.760 Jemmy a car, you know, I mean, have a couple 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.280 of hits, a couple of couple of hardcore downsaw hits. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.200 I think I would say I'm one of the first 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:10.440 one of the first artists he hits with in Jamaica. 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:14.959 You know, I mean the connection was from then. Okay, 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:20.840 I want to get back to the relationship stuff. So okay, good, 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:24.120 okay when it comes because I know you just say, 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.960 women are like kind of attracted to the artist, right, 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.840 So what if she doesn't know who you are? Right? 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.480 And uh, maybe she's playing a little hard to get 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:35.440 Would you wait to have sex with her? Or do 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:37.920 you have like a deadline to the point where you're like, 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:39.760 all right, she's making me wait too long, I'm out 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.720 of here. Um, there have been cases what you don't 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:46.000 know who I am? But in terms of waiting to 0:13:46.120 --> 0:13:49.480 have six it's hard to say without sounding like I'm 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:54.000 being cocky say it. But they ain't making him wait 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:59.200 wait wait? What? Right? You haven't waited at all? Like ever? 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:03.240 Are you just it's not even lead like all right, 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:08.439 I've I've only been in like three relationships in my life. 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:11.640 I've been in loved once and I'm rid of the person. 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:16.400 So like for me, it's never felt like I'm leaving. 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:19.280 You get what I'm saying, Like, too long? Is I'm 0:14:19.280 --> 0:14:21.320 gonna leave it? Just gonna You're probably not gonna from 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:26.560 me for you go ghost. Do you take out your 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:28.360 clothes off when you have sex all the time? Or 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:30.240 are you the type of person at least stuff on? 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:35.000 I love nudie. I love to be like like someone 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:40.240 if you have time to what about four play? How 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:44.720 long do you fool around before you actually get into 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:47.920 having sex? Do you kiss? Yeah, there's no rules to that. 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:51.720 I don't think. I think everything is not sure, you know. 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:53.360 I mean, it's not like watching the clock and be 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:58.120 like okay, that's poor playful life, you know, I mean, 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.960 like everything is a vibe, but you feel the person 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:05.760 energy and get to it because sometimes some people like 0:15:05.880 --> 0:15:09.000 to get right to it and sometimes people like a 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.320 long more times unless you have to get to get 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:15.920 to it, like in my type of life, are you quick? 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:23.440 I can't be quick? What I wouldn't what's answer quick? 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:27.680 Is a five minutes? Like okay, that's to me if 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:29.360 you're sucking and you know all the time, like you're 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:34.280 not even sucking m right the time? When they are 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:36.560 you out of time with people like what's too long? 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:40.560 What is this? I can understand too long? But Michael 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:45.040 understand like people saying ship was quick because some of 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:47.640 the best sex ipart was like it didn't feel like 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:52.360 an hour an hours too long? Anyway? Have you ever 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:55.560 have you ever not been able to get hard? Yeah? 0:15:55.600 --> 0:16:01.880 Hell yeah? Why? Why? Why? Different reasons? Like what are 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:04.600 some reasons that you can't get hard? Because we need 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:09.800 to know, um, drinking too much? Maybe not all the 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:14.040 way attracted, like her not giving you what you need 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:17.000 with the sex appeal for you to really get there 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:20.360 one like for me, the only the only time sex 0:16:21.240 --> 0:16:27.400 often mentally is with my actual relationship, like any time 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:31.880 I'm just fucking, like fucking you know, like these stress 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:34.120 for entertainment and you know what I mean. So it's 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:38.320 not even that much she's not doing something right. If 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:40.160 if if we got to this moment, she did something 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:44.840 right already. Okay. If I don't get hard, then it's 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.120 a story, a story with that, I don't know. Why. 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:52.200 What about public sex, like have you ever had sex 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:56.840 and like the club or outside or bathroom, parking? Luck? 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:04.840 Actually out of the car or outside the car? Do 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:07.159 you guys? Okay? So being that you now you do 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:09.920 still have a wife. So do you guys have sex 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:11.960 when you're mad at each other? Or is it no 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:17.720 sex at all? Make them sex is the best sex, 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.080 make up, think about why they're mad at each other. 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:24.480 Some people would be like, manage you listen, comes up 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:31.560 this dick, yeah, and then's not your best Like I mean, 0:17:31.600 --> 0:17:34.320 some people be like, yo, make you just said names sex. 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:37.399 It's e been. Some pople say, um that get to 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:40.360 get a sex or hungry SEXYO, that's not the best sex. 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.800 The best sex is when you're in. For me is 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:48.640 when we're in perfect happiness. Fuker time, like really really 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:50.760 funker with them, were eating with the ship, you know, 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:53.800 I mean, that's the best time. Everybody's just like we're 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:58.720 both on the same level mentally. How hard is married 0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:03.560 for you? Because I'm it's not easy, super hard, super hard. 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:06.840 We for me and my wife, Like we've been trying 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:10.200 to break up for like two years, trying to break 0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:12.880 up there because I see, like you say you're not together, 0:18:13.080 --> 0:18:14.880 then you say I still have a wife, then you'll 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:19.359 get back together. Don't don't like people don't understand what 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:21.840 what in love is. You know what I mean, Like 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:24.240 in love is that is a different thing than you 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:27.480 see you love someone you you have love for someone 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:31.879 who's it's totally different from being in love. It's czy 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:34.760 something when when she go out in the meat or whatever, 0:18:35.119 --> 0:18:40.199 I'll see people and men who have, in comparison to me, 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:45.119 have zero experience with women, and then they're trying to 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.159 make it look as if I seem as if I 0:18:47.160 --> 0:18:49.639 am soft or some ship for being in love. And 0:18:49.680 --> 0:18:52.080 I'm laughing most of the times that your girl or 0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:58.440 your woman is in my dam in love real ding 0:18:58.480 --> 0:19:05.840 ding ding ding ding, always on different bind It's hard 0:19:05.359 --> 0:19:09.000 to so when y'all are during the little separation period 0:19:09.080 --> 0:19:12.159 that the break up period is dealing with other people 0:19:12.160 --> 0:19:15.560 a thing or no, there's no rules for that, you 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:18.879 can separate it. Mm hmm. Well sometimes people do for 0:19:19.080 --> 0:19:21.560 rules because they're like, we're still married at the end 0:19:21.600 --> 0:19:23.960 of the day. Just because we're taking a break from 0:19:23.960 --> 0:19:27.080 each other doesn't mean you break a union. So if 0:19:27.080 --> 0:19:30.400 that even a conversation or you don't even ask, I think, 0:19:30.400 --> 0:19:34.000 why are you taking a break? Like unless you guys 0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:36.000 sat down and be like the listen, we need a break. 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:38.200 And it was a case where we decided to take 0:19:38.240 --> 0:19:41.080 a break. That's not why happened. Why they should happened me? 0:19:41.480 --> 0:19:44.200 Why don't I should broke up my shop? Fuck? You, 0:19:44.320 --> 0:19:46.879 let's go, this is over. So it's not like with 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:49.040 some agreements and be like, yeah, this is what we're 0:19:49.080 --> 0:19:53.280 gonna be moving forward. Now we split up, so you 0:19:53.359 --> 0:19:56.080 can't you can't complete. You think it's mostly your fault 0:19:56.119 --> 0:19:58.119 because it's just not easy doing what you do and 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:01.720 I'm sure that's not that's not an easy thing to 0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:05.760 deal with either. Yeah, So how do you change moving forward? Like, 0:20:05.800 --> 0:20:08.200 what do you do differently? I mean, we have ship 0:20:08.320 --> 0:20:10.920 that we're trying to figure out now. I mean in 0:20:11.400 --> 0:20:14.000 recent times, we realized, like listen, like I said earlier, 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:17.320 we've been trying to break up for like two years 0:20:17.440 --> 0:20:20.040 going to work. So while we're you know what I mean, 0:20:20.640 --> 0:20:23.800 not that we we you know, I mean it's basically real. 0:20:23.880 --> 0:20:27.480 We've been trying to fucking ended and it's not working. Yeah. 0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:30.639 I just love it, tell it too much? Yeah. Yeah. 0:20:30.920 --> 0:20:32.800 And do you think the kids have something to do 0:20:32.840 --> 0:20:36.560 with that as well? No? Mm hmm, that's just so 0:20:36.800 --> 0:20:40.199 that's your so made. Yeah, they're they're good, like regardless 0:20:40.840 --> 0:20:43.919 whatever happens, she's she's gonna make sure they're good. I'm 0:20:43.920 --> 0:20:45.960 gonna make sure they're good, and we're going to protect 0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:50.920 emotionally and and thingsical like matter. But yeah, wife is 0:20:51.000 --> 0:20:54.760 very fly, so I know that too. She'd probably be 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:56.720 posting all kind of cute pictures on the ground where 0:20:56.760 --> 0:20:59.119 y'all are broken up to Does that does that work? 0:21:00.680 --> 0:21:03.440 Does that work? Like? What does that do? I mean, 0:21:03.680 --> 0:21:05.439 it does work. But you know what, when when I 0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:08.119 get into the cold heart mode, I get into that 0:21:08.200 --> 0:21:11.240 home like whatever you'd be doing it it's not even 0:21:12.400 --> 0:21:15.440 you know what I mean? But then there's some ship 0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:18.720 that should do with that, don't deal Who makes the 0:21:18.760 --> 0:21:22.960 first step usually to come back in recent times she 0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:26.080 didn't recent times, I didn't. Early it is that's interesting 0:21:26.119 --> 0:21:28.399 to me because a lot of times, like you have 0:21:28.520 --> 0:21:30.200 somebody that you're in love with, you know you would 0:21:30.240 --> 0:21:34.040 to be with them, right, and y'all are a great couple. 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:39.359 How do you resolve it? Resolve is hard? Like I 0:21:39.400 --> 0:21:42.480 think one of the biggest issues is like people are 0:21:42.560 --> 0:21:47.200 always growing, and like you're figuring yourself out what you're 0:21:47.280 --> 0:21:49.960 trying to give yourself somebody else, So it's not like 0:21:50.200 --> 0:21:54.000 a finished individual and another complete individual that's trying to 0:21:54.000 --> 0:21:56.960 make ship and like everybody like we evolved in so 0:21:57.080 --> 0:22:00.640 much and so quickly nowadays, how does it just reflected 0:22:00.640 --> 0:22:04.199 in the New music No, who do you talk to 0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:06.080 like when you have things that you want to talk 0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:08.439 about because I know it's not a popular thing. Like 0:22:08.520 --> 0:22:11.159 you said, people might you know, say things about you 0:22:11.200 --> 0:22:14.040 because you're in love and whatever. So who do you 0:22:14.080 --> 0:22:16.080 talk to when you're like, all right, I'm going through this, 0:22:16.280 --> 0:22:19.600 Like do you have friends, family members, anybody that you're like, Yo, 0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:23.719 I'm going through it. No, it's because it's a hard topic. 0:22:24.520 --> 0:22:27.640 Like people live and die without beIN in love. Yeah, 0:22:28.600 --> 0:22:33.760 sent the relationship. I've been ninety Like, people have love 0:22:33.840 --> 0:22:36.359 for each other and they'll go through with it. But 0:22:36.560 --> 0:22:38.800 in love it is a tortally different volume that there's 0:22:38.840 --> 0:22:41.080 not a lot of people that I can be like, yo, listening, 0:22:41.520 --> 0:22:43.720 you know what I mean? This is what's up. You 0:22:43.760 --> 0:22:45.879 think when you were younger, there's something affected how you 0:22:45.920 --> 0:22:49.720 feel about women, Like you said, you get this call. Hell, yeah, 0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:55.200