1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Coming. Yeah, they talk better than excited. 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on The Fresh Show running 3 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,159 Speaker 2: in our diaries, except we say them a loud We 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 2: call the blogs. You leaving this one, all right, Paulina, Yes, peaky. 5 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: Oh, I like that. 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 3: I like peaky speaky. 7 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 4: All right, take it away, guys, all right, dear blog, 8 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 4: I just want to send this out to all of 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 4: the kids who are raising their parents. Okay, it is 10 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 4: very hard out here for us. 11 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 1: All right. 12 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 4: Helena is the lady that raised me, my big sister, 13 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 4: but she's like a mom, and I'm just starting to realize, like, 14 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 4: as we both get older, this thing is not. 15 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 3: Going to work. 16 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 4: Somebody got to be in control, and I feel like 17 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 4: it should be me. 18 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: Okay, because you want to reclaim I think so. 19 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, because when I give clear direction, I need her 20 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 4: to follow direction, but she just does not listen. And 21 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 4: I'm like, how do how's supposed to work? For instance, 22 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,039 Speaker 4: my yard and my house has been a hot mess 23 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 4: all summer. Okay, I got things to do, tiktoks to make. 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 4: I'm not a yard girl, so what as long as 25 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 4: the grass is cut, we good. 26 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, but she was. It was not to her liking. 27 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:13,279 Speaker 1: So I'm like okay. 28 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,040 Speaker 4: She's like, you needed to get this yard together. You 29 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 4: need to get this I'm like okay, okay. So one 30 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 4: day last week she just decides I'm on my way 31 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 4: to come get your yard together. And I'm like, no, no, no, 32 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,160 Speaker 4: no no, I don't need to do that, Like, you know, 33 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 4: you need to be rash. You have other things you 34 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 4: need to focus on. She's like, oh, I'm up down 35 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 4: the street. I'll be there in a minute. I'm like, 36 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 4: oh God. So she comes and she completely takes over 37 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 4: the yard. She got my nephew out there helping her. 38 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 4: It looks beautiful from you know what it was. Fast 39 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 4: forward to a couple of days later, this lady has 40 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 4: gotten bidden by some poisonous bug in my yard. 41 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: Yes, And I'm just like okay. 42 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 4: So then she doesn't even tell me that this has happened. 43 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: Okay. 44 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 4: She she's just got all these this rash on her 45 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 4: never said a word to me. I have to find 46 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 4: out everything for my sister in law. That's a whole 47 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 4: nother story. So when I finally find out that something's wrong, 48 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 4: I call her. 49 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, by what are you doing? 50 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 4: Oh mom, I'm at the er. 51 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 3: What ma'am? 52 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: You didn't think I needed to know this. It's your yard, 53 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: it's my life, it's not even just my yard. But 54 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 1: books back there. 55 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, she knows I'm not going back there, so she's 56 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 4: not worried about it. But it's like, why are you 57 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 4: at the er and you have not run this past me? 58 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 4: That is insane. Then I'm like, okay, we go through 59 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 4: the whole er thing. She gets her prescription or whatever. 60 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 4: I'm like, you need to rest, like you need to 61 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 4: be at home. You don't need to be your grandkids. 62 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 4: Just rest and heal. I'm looking at her location yesterday. 63 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 4: This lady is all around town. She's a oh Brooks, 64 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 4: she just dreaded. The little car just drives. So I 65 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 4: just want to say, you know, it's very hard raising 66 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 4: your pace. 67 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: It sounds like my mom too, Yes, and I know 68 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,679 Speaker 1: every like you guys can relate. Your mom is this 69 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 1: way MARTA's is? 70 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 2: I can Your mom and my mom, uh, Martha very similar. 71 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: Your mom's a little more stoic. 72 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 2: My mom's a little small smiley, but the stubbornness and 73 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 2: then the steadfastness is no different. 74 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, those who could run a small country, a large country, 75 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 5: a large country, no one hundred percent. My mom growing 76 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 5: up has always been like that. And I now that 77 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 5: I'm an adult and I'm raising my own child, I 78 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 5: feel like Marta. I'm also raising Marta likes to do 79 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 5: what Marta likes to do, and you cannot change her mind. 80 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 3: Is no, there's no other way. 81 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 82 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 5: Recently she she didn't like fall fall, but she kind 83 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 5: of had like a little incident with the cooler and 84 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 5: she's like, look what happened at your baptism And she 85 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 5: lifted her shirt up. 86 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: Her whole arm. 87 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 5: Is bruised, and I was like, mo, why are you 88 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 5: not asking for help? She's like, well, it was really 89 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 5: heavy and this and that. I'm like, ask for help. 90 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: She was, yes she was. 91 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 6: And then she just went on like a secret trip 92 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 6: and didn't like tell you where she yea on her location, 93 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 6: like yeah, she took a bus to somewhere. 94 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 3: She won't tell me where she went. I like these grandparents, 95 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 3: I don't know. 96 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 5: She won't tell me these I call grandparents because she's 97 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 5: a grandma's and my daughter are out of control, like absolutely, 98 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 5: we are raising them. And then she about her location 99 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 5: on me when she's mad, like she doesn't care. 100 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: I love my mom, so much. 101 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 2: I owe her for everything and that will never change 102 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: and she will never not be my mom. But there 103 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: is something in my dad same way. But there is 104 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: something that happens, and my sister and I are realizing 105 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 2: it more and more. You're never going to be equal 106 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 2: to them. But there does come a point where you're 107 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 2: old enough, and it happened a while ago, but it's 108 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: certainly not there's no shortage of this where like your 109 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 2: perspective is tantamount to theirs. Like you're old enough to 110 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 2: see the same things they're seeing. You're old enough to 111 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: know enough to know that what they're doing is not right. 112 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:39,839 Speaker 2: You're old enough and smart enough and experience enough in 113 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 2: life to realize some of the things they say just 114 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 2: aren't true. And also you have a different life experience 115 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 2: that might be a little more connected than theirs, and 116 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: so like you try and help, but they don't necessarily 117 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 2: want to hear it because you're still their kids. They 118 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 2: still see you as the little kid, you know, riding 119 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 2: the bike with the training wheels. But yet there is 120 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 2: kind of a role reversal that happens. Yes, yeah, and 121 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,720 Speaker 2: it's twofold because they don't want it to happen and 122 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,039 Speaker 2: I don't want it to happen like I want mom 123 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 2: and dad to be mom and dad forever. I don't 124 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 2: want them to be fragile. I don't want them to 125 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 2: not know more than me. I don't want them to 126 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 2: not be the figures they've. 127 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:23,080 Speaker 1: Always and they are. 128 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: But you know what I mean, it's a very strange 129 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 2: thing that starts to happen where it's like what are 130 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 2: you doing? 131 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 1: Like mom? 132 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 2: Like stop? You know what I mean? Like like slow down? 133 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 2: Like everything I mean, like you know, or hey, you 134 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 2: know my mom will do something. I'll like, Mom, you 135 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 2: can't do that. She Wait, you mean I can't do that? 136 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 2: Why so hard on me? I'm not hard on you. 137 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 2: I'm just telling you it's different out here. It's different, 138 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 2: and you don't have to like it, but it's just different. 139 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 2: And I'm telling you this because I love you and 140 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 2: because I don't want you to walk into a buzz 141 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 2: saw that I know one hundred percent you don't mean 142 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: to walk into because that's not who you are. But 143 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 2: I can totally relate to this. And you're not going 144 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:03,279 Speaker 2: to stop them. 145 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,239 Speaker 4: You're not going to stop them. 146 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 2: What does someone just say stop? Coming from both a 147 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: mother and a grandmother. We don't need to be told 148 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 2: what to do and not to do. It's frustrating, yes see, 149 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 2: but I that's that's the response that you get. And 150 00:06:17,560 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 2: I understand that there's a there's a certain lease that 151 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 2: you have to give. And my sister is not very 152 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: good at this, and I think she would admit, you know, 153 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 2: because well that's also because we're talking about two of 154 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 2: the exact same individuals. My mom and my sister are 155 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: the same person. But like it's the kids trying to 156 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 2: help and then the parents still trying to be parents. 157 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: But I think from this woman's man or whoever just 158 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: texted us, had stop you Also, I feel like have 159 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: to sort of accept your shortcomings too. 160 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 161 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 2: Like it and I don't mean that as a negative, 162 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 2: but it's like, you don't need to go as hard 163 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 2: as you did when we were kids. You don't need 164 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: to be everything for everybody, because now it's time for 165 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:58,039 Speaker 2: us to be that for you too. Like it's a transition, yes, 166 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: And so that's I don't I think most kids are 167 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 2: coming after their parents critically. I feel like what they're 168 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: doing is saying you don't have to you know, you 169 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: don't have to do everything for us anymore. Now we 170 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 2: need to start doing some things for you, and let 171 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 2: us let us write these like don't come mow my lawn, 172 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like let my lawn suck, 173 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 2: because look what happened. You were trying to help me 174 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 2: and now and then you don't want me to know 175 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 2: about it, and then you're still out helping all these 176 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 2: other people. 177 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: And it's amazing that it's amazing. But at the same time, yeah. 178 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 6: Please, I mean, I would lose my nana and she 179 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 6: wouldn't have her phone on her and I would have 180 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 6: to call every bar I know she frequents to find her. 181 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 1: I'm not even the post malone. 182 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 6: Anyway, Like you need your phone and you need to 183 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 6: not be going places all the time. 184 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 2: Didn't she call you one day and say, I'm sitting 185 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 2: next to a guy who looks homeless and he says 186 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: he's famous. 187 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: But I'm really not sure it. 188 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 3: Was the call. 189 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, she called and she said I just had drinks 190 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 6: with the loveliest man. 191 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,239 Speaker 3: He was lovely, but he had, you know, described his appearance. 192 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 6: And then I looked up the schedule for the place 193 00:07:58,160 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 6: that she said he was performing, said, Nana, you were 194 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 6: sitting with post Malone and she's like, I showed her 195 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 6: a picture and yeah, yeah, and she said all the 196 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 6: women at this bar are acting like he has something 197 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 6: they can catch, you know, because of his appearance. He 198 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 6: wasn't that big at the time, but she said she 199 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 6: walked him to a super and told him not to 200 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 6: be nervous because she knows the owner of that venue 201 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 6: and he'll be just fine. 202 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 3: And it was freaking Postmo. He's like, not nervous. 203 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, yeah, that's a good story. 204 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 3: Yeah anyway, but yeah, she's wild. 205 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: So we love these people. We're grateful for them. 206 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 6: But yes, yes, when I get old Bellican white, I'm 207 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 6: letting her wipe my boy. 208 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 3: Like she can do whatever for me. I'm not going 209 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 3: to fight her same. I've earned it. Yeah, Like. 210 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 5: And you know what, even a really good point, and 211 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 5: I have just just kind of say, I feel like 212 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 5: maybe it's because we're different generations. Like you said, like, mommy, 213 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 5: you can't do that anymore. And I think that's what 214 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 5: we argue about a lot, right, especially raising a kid. Right, 215 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 5: my mom thinks we can you know, do this and 216 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 5: you know, leave the doors unlocked, all these things that I. 217 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 3: Wouldn't do anymore. 218 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 5: So now I'm thinking, so we kind of are raising 219 00:08:58,360 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 5: our parents, just in a different generation. 220 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:01,079 Speaker 3: It is a form of race. 221 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 2: So it's a weird role reversal that happens, because I 222 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,839 Speaker 2: saw it with my mom and my grandmother and my grandfather. 223 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 2: It's like they raise you and then you're kind of 224 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 2: equal for a while, and then you kind of raised them, 225 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 2: or not raise them, but you kind of care for them, 226 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 2: and then the cycle starts again. 227 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 6: It's an honor though, Like it was my honor to 228 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 6: take care of my grandpa when he was dying, you know, because. 229 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 3: He took care of me, you know, I was. I 230 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 3: thought that was a very sweet. 231 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 6: But the psychology for them, I could understand why it 232 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 6: would be very difficult. 233 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 2: But it's like you raised my parents, raised us to 234 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 2: be strong, opinionated, self serving individuals, and then when we 235 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: do that sometimes they're like annoying. I'm like, but I'm you, 236 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 2: you created this, so like we have to I guess 237 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 2: we have to have patience with one another. 238 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 1: But well, I hope, I hope Helena is good. Yeah, 239 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: I mean she's gonna be good. 240 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 2: But I got some yardwork on on my condo, My 241 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 2: high rising. 242 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 4: We'll come redecorate your whole house. 243 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 2: I got the plants that need watering. Oh god, oh god, 244 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 2: don't show her my house. I don't know what she'd 245 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 2: do with that. Before long i'd come back, the whole 246 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 2: thing would be redesigned, new paint, everything. Really, maybe it's disaffected. Yeah, 247 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 2: well i'd start. I'd started with a new mattress, for sure. 248 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 2: Let's do waiting by the phone. It's new in next 249 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 2: front show