WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: The Happy Maker

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jewels Second d d Hey, what's up? What's your name?

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Dunk. But would you say let me take

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<v Speaker 1>this compression sleeve off my ears? You know it helps

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<v Speaker 1>you work out right, helps the blood stay in your ears.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway you want to go out sometime? Hold on, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be right back. I'm gonna go lift my body weight

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<v Speaker 1>like two times my body weight, and then I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>back around at this corner of the gym to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. All right, cool? None of my name is Dunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice seeing you. I'm assuming that's what happened for the

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<v Speaker 1>guy on the phone today who wants to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. He said that he met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he wants to call at the gym. His name

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<v Speaker 1>is not Donk, his name is Robert. What's up, Robert? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm good man, how are you? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing well, doing well, hoping you can help me. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're email in said that you met a breezy while

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<v Speaker 1>you're at the gym, right dead? I did hold that

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<v Speaker 1>go down, bro. Well, I was at the gym and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I, you know, noticed this girl and I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she was over there rafting. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a while. I'll go over and I'll try to

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<v Speaker 1>flex my muscles next to her. Joking. I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 1>kidding at that point when you're telling us this, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish, but the mail ego is a scary thing

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes, and I realized this in hindsight, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I did. Did you really actually go flex

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<v Speaker 1>or you like we're working out next or just trying

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<v Speaker 1>working out? I was working out next, Okay, I pictured

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<v Speaker 1>you standing next or just flexing your muscles in the

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<v Speaker 1>mirror extra loud like. I didn't do that, thank thankfully,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, thankfully to not do that. So what was

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<v Speaker 1>your opening line? I'm always interested in that. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>I saw her over the drinking fountain and I just

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<v Speaker 1>went up to her and I was just just said,

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<v Speaker 1>you have some really nice glutes. You did not say that,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did. Yeah, you could tell that she works

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<v Speaker 1>really hard. She works really hard on those glutes. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>was she kind of like a meathead like you are,

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<v Speaker 1>no offense who I want to see it like that?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what do you want, Jim right, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it determines. No meat head to compliment,

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<v Speaker 1>no doubt about it. That's what That's what I am,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I do. Absolutely And yes, she same deal,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean she was rocking some very expensive

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<v Speaker 1>athletic wear, um head to tell, so I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>was definitely feeling her okay. And what did she say

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<v Speaker 1>after you complimented her glutes? Thanks? She said? She said, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>I work hard. I got you live in a world

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<v Speaker 1>that I will never enter in my life, and not

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<v Speaker 1>for lack of wanting to. It's just I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the effort that you guys have. So did you ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out right there? I wanted to go go after the workout,

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<v Speaker 1>trying not to be complete creep o, and UH waited

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<v Speaker 1>until she was leaving the gym, and I went up

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<v Speaker 1>to her and the parking lot, which sounds creepier, but

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<v Speaker 1>it really was. You followed her out to her car.

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<v Speaker 1>I did. I did do the following of the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Women love when big, muscle bound men follow them into

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<v Speaker 1>dark parking lines. What did you say? They're like, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to drive a car with those big glues?

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<v Speaker 1>Like keep fit in the seat? That's pretty good. I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I had said that. No, I just said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing tomorrow night? You're gonna go get dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty simple, pretty straightforward, and she obviously said yes

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<v Speaker 1>to that. Otherwise you wouldn't be doing a second day

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<v Speaker 1>update right now. How did dinner go? I was good?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I rocked my good luck button down shirt,

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<v Speaker 1>which always makes me feel good. You know, sometimes the

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<v Speaker 1>shirt makes the man I feel okay, and dinner went great.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she's great glutes, but she was learning this

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<v Speaker 1>Whotle outfit where her calves were really accentuated. I would

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<v Speaker 1>super feeling on her. What about her personality? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>like personality wise? She was cool? Yeah, it's good conversation. Conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you guys talk about? I told her that

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<v Speaker 1>I've run a couple of different businesses is and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of went on a bit of a rant. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm afraid that maybe it was too much, which is

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<v Speaker 1>like one time, but it was kind of went on

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a rant about my businesses. When

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<v Speaker 1>you mean rant, I automatically think, like angry rant about

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<v Speaker 1>your businesses. What do you mean by rant? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>did talk about a guy that had screwed me over

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<v Speaker 1>in business once. That's why I think it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>a rant. Yeah, are you an angry guy? Not particularly,

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<v Speaker 1>but I am when I'm crossed, you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm pretty happy guy day to day, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if somebody, somebody screws me over, then yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get pretty fired up. I mess with the bull,

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<v Speaker 1>get the horns. Yes, exactly. What was her reaction to

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<v Speaker 1>you going off about this dude? It would seemed fine

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<v Speaker 1>at the time. I didn't think anything of because it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like I said, it was like one time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a freef little moment in the date.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I'm thinking that maybe that's what what

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I don't know what's she awkward after that?

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<v Speaker 1>Not particularly, but she didn't say a lot. She was

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of looking down kind of. She crossed her

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<v Speaker 1>legs a couple of times, which I liked the calves,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was just birth fidgety BG. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>women don't tend to like it when guys rage at

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<v Speaker 1>the dinner table. Well, it wasn't a rage. It was

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<v Speaker 1>it was a rant. You know, the ranch's to a

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<v Speaker 1>degree less than a than a rage. Yeah, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't going totally crazy. That makes it better. How'd

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<v Speaker 1>you guys end everything? Well? I asked her if she

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go get a drink somewhere else. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I was going pretty well. Um, she said no, she

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<v Speaker 1>need to go home. So I walked her to her

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<v Speaker 1>car and gave her a hug, hug goodbye. I thought it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, keep white, And that was it. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>talked to her since? I texted her once and I

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<v Speaker 1>said I'm headed to the gym. Are you gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>there today? And then she just said, I worked out yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. That's all she said. That's all she said.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm like, I was at the gym yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>and I was there for a good period of time

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<v Speaker 1>when you would have been there, and I didn't see her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you think she's lying to you about that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I do. You haven't seen her at all in person

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<v Speaker 1>at the gym? I have not. No. All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update all right, awesome, thank you. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on looking jubil in the morning if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us for today's second date update. Robert is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, and today he wants to call a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Chandra. What do we know about Chandra. She's got

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<v Speaker 1>an okay personality and some great gluts and some calves,

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<v Speaker 1>some wonderful calves as well. That's what Robert liked about her.

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<v Speaker 1>They met at the gym, he complimented her gluts, they

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<v Speaker 1>went out for dinner, and now she's not calling him back. Robert,

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<v Speaker 1>We're about to call her and see if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get her on the phone and find out what went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything else that you'd like to add before we call

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<v Speaker 1>her other than the gluts and the calves. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to say thank you, thank you. I'm very

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<v Speaker 1>curious to see what she says. It's awesome. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's going to be something pretty extreme because it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like she switched Jims just to avoid you. To me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, you haven't seen her there. Whoa U yikes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's bad. We're gonna hope that's not the case the case,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, we'll find out right, I'm gonna doll the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm get your second day out date. Okay, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Chandra please?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she Hey Chandra? How are you? My name is

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<v Speaker 1>Jubil and I'm calling from Brooke and Jubil in the Morning. Um, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Dared calling from what Brooke and Jubil in the Morning

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show? Uh? Okay, how are you today? Fine? That?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you calling me? Well, I'm actually calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners emailed us and asked if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get a hold of you. What. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand. Well, there's a guy that listens to our show.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Robert, and you went out to dinner

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<v Speaker 1>with him. Oh okay, yeah, so you know Robert. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Robert listen to our show and emailed asking if I

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<v Speaker 1>could call you to find out why you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back after you guys went out on your date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a segment that we do on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>the second Date Update. So Robert's wondering if he did

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<v Speaker 1>something wrong. I mean I did text him back the

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<v Speaker 1>other today and he like texted me and I texted

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<v Speaker 1>him back. He actually told us that yeah, but it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't sound like a text from somebody who wants to

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<v Speaker 1>see him again. It sounded like you were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>blowing him off. Yeah, I'm glad he picked up on that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you are blowing him off? Yeah, I mean actually

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<v Speaker 1>I would really be fine to never see him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you mind telling us? Why so that we

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<v Speaker 1>can share it with him? Well, he's uh, he's just

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<v Speaker 1>really forward, meaning yeah, a little too forward. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>at first, at first, like I thought it was attractive,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've dated a bunch of guys who are like

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<v Speaker 1>really shy, and I was like, I always have to

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<v Speaker 1>make the move and like start the conversation, and so

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<v Speaker 1>it was nice. He wasn't shy or timid, and he

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<v Speaker 1>seemed really confident. He told us how you guys first met,

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<v Speaker 1>and when he saw you at the gym, he walked

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<v Speaker 1>up and complimented you on your glutes. Is that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what you mean by too forward? Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>at that point I thought it was just kind of funny,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, um, and I appreciated that honesty, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like he didn't seem that weird. But once he went out,

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<v Speaker 1>he just he just crossed the line. Was too much?

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<v Speaker 1>It was too much? Did he say something or was

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<v Speaker 1>he acting aggressive towards you? Yeah, he said something something

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<v Speaker 1>really bad. What did he say? Uh? I really rather

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<v Speaker 1>not say what he said. I don't want to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes it makes you that uncomfortable to repeat what

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<v Speaker 1>he said. Yes, definitely. Can you give us a hint? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about our interests and uh, we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about sports that we like, and you know, he likes

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<v Speaker 1>basketball and football, like you know. And I mentioned that

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<v Speaker 1>I like swimming and that I'm really good at swimming.

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<v Speaker 1>I was swimming in college, and I was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>how I'd probably like it because I was really good

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<v Speaker 1>at it. And then he goes, you know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>good at and he leans into the table. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>can already see what's coming. And I can't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't say that. He doesn't know like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he literally thinks that he did nothing wrong on this date.

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<v Speaker 1>He thinks he did nothing wrong. Yeah, we're talking, said

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<v Speaker 1>he thinks he said nothing inappropriate. Yep. Yeah. When we

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<v Speaker 1>talked to him about your date, he was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool. We just had a fun conversation. I may

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<v Speaker 1>have got a little ranty at some point about my business,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's all I could think of. That's amazing. I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, totally clueless. All right, the anticipation is killing me.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he say? Oh? God, well, I can't say this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll try to give you the idea. Okay. He

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<v Speaker 1>leans into me and he says, I'm good at um

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<v Speaker 1>doing things for others that make them happy. I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>you don't mean charity work. Noah. He was like vulgar

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<v Speaker 1>about it? Really? Wow? Yeah, like how vulgar? He used

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<v Speaker 1>some pretty disgusting words. Can you just do like a

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<v Speaker 1>rhymes with here? No, I'm not gonna know. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do that. Use your imagination. He was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>how he is good at servicing women. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>understand what he was saying. And he really thought he

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<v Speaker 1>was going to impress you with this, can you? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on a lot of dates. Nobody has ever

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<v Speaker 1>said anything like that to me. And you weren't interested

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<v Speaker 1>in putting his skills to the test, huh. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>this was a first date, okay, Like we hadn't even

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<v Speaker 1>kissed or anything. We're talking about sports and that comes

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<v Speaker 1>out of no and there is no I mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>there was no sexual talk at all before this statement,

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about being on the swim team. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for telling us your story. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. It was horrible. I wish I could forget it. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to be able to forget it just yet,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's on the other line listening and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Wait, what, yeah, do you serious? Robert, Hey, Shandra,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing? Oh? Yeah, I'm I'm a little confused.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest with all of you. We were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about things that we were good at. She said she

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<v Speaker 1>was good a swimming. I'm really good at that. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not a sport, Robert, inappropriate, it is for some people.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe. I mean, I think he was the

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<v Speaker 1>first seat. You don't say that kind of thing out

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner. At the dinner table, we're eating. I hear

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying, But you can't tell me you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>at least at all intrigued if I was good at that, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there was a little part of you somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>deep down in the research. Okay, okay, Robert, hold on, Robert, Robert, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>Does it seem like I was a little intrigued. Well

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<v Speaker 1>you should have been, because I'm really good. I'm really good.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to meet the women who told

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<v Speaker 1>you that. Well, I mean you got to give him

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<v Speaker 1>some credit. He likes to put a lot of effort

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<v Speaker 1>into police. Thank you, thank you were up there. Yeah, look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not about me. I didn't talk about me. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about you. I love here for you. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of team player that I am. All. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you need to take a little bit of that effort

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<v Speaker 1>and move it towards how to be appropriate. Eye. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think. I don't think she's mad at exactly

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<v Speaker 1>you wanting to do that, But maybe the time and

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<v Speaker 1>the place was bad and the way you said it,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like she wouldn't tell us the exact way

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<v Speaker 1>you described it. But I can imagine it's probably not

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<v Speaker 1>language like come on, like you're not fourteen year olds

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<v Speaker 1>like one. Well, i'll concede the location. I'll concede the location,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do not apologize for my ability alogize. Oh wow, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>everything I do, I try to do the best of

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<v Speaker 1>my god given abilities. I give one hundred and ten

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<v Speaker 1>percent and I am the best at that. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I can promise you in that department, I can

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<v Speaker 1>probably see a lot of other departments too. Oh my god, Sandre,

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<v Speaker 1>was there anything charming about Robert on the day outside

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<v Speaker 1>of this moment? Yeah. I mean, if you listen to him,

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<v Speaker 1>he's funny, but he's just like wildly inappropriate, also way

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<v Speaker 1>too much. Hey, Robert, let me ask you a question

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<v Speaker 1>next time. If you went out on a date with Chandra,

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<v Speaker 1>if she actually said yes, and you said something inappropriate,

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<v Speaker 1>would you have a problem with her telling you to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely not. I would have loved her to say no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's inappropriate. Then I know now I know what the boundary.

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<v Speaker 1>So there you go, Chandra. He just doesn't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with him again. You have the freedom

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<v Speaker 1>now to tell him, hey, don't say stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and he'll stop. I kind of feel like he has

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<v Speaker 1>learned nothing from this conversation. I don't want to have

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<v Speaker 1>to be telling him every time he says something inappropriate,

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to monitor yourself. No, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>this was a good match. That sucks. I was really

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<v Speaker 1>hoping to get a second date and see what happened

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<v Speaker 1>after it. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid.

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<v Speaker 1>So sorry, Robert, but there are a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>interested in your particular skill set and I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be okay. All right, thanks guys, I appreciate sand

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<v Speaker 1>good luck, good luck out there, you too, buddy. Remember

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<v Speaker 1>who's number one in your heart? All right? Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>broken Jupil in the morning.