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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels Second d d Hey, what's up? What's your name?
Speaker 1: My name's Dunk. But would you say let me take
Speaker 1: this compression sleeve off my ears? You know it helps
Speaker 1: you work out right, helps the blood stay in your ears.
Speaker 1: Anyway you want to go out sometime? Hold on, I'll
Speaker 1: be right back. I'm gonna go lift my body weight
Speaker 1: like two times my body weight, and then I'll be
Speaker 1: back around at this corner of the gym to talk
Speaker 1: to you. All right, cool? None of my name is Dunk.
Speaker 1: Nice seeing you. I'm assuming that's what happened for the
Speaker 1: guy on the phone today who wants to do a
Speaker 1: second date update. He said that he met the girl
Speaker 1: that he wants to call at the gym. His name
Speaker 1: is not Donk, his name is Robert. What's up, Robert? Hey?
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good man, how are you? I'm
Speaker 1: doing well, doing well, hoping you can help me. So
Speaker 1: you're email in said that you met a breezy while
Speaker 1: you're at the gym, right dead? I did hold that
Speaker 1: go down, bro. Well, I was at the gym and
Speaker 1: you know, I, you know, noticed this girl and I thought,
Speaker 1: you know, she was over there rafting. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: that's a while. I'll go over and I'll try to
Speaker 1: flex my muscles next to her. Joking. I mean, you're
Speaker 1: kidding at that point when you're telling us this, right,
Speaker 1: I wish, but the mail ego is a scary thing
Speaker 1: I think sometimes, and I realized this in hindsight, but
Speaker 1: that's what I did. Did you really actually go flex
Speaker 1: or you like we're working out next or just trying
Speaker 1: working out? I was working out next, Okay, I pictured
Speaker 1: you standing next or just flexing your muscles in the
Speaker 1: mirror extra loud like. I didn't do that, thank thankfully,
Speaker 1: all right, thankfully to not do that. So what was
Speaker 1: your opening line? I'm always interested in that. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: I saw her over the drinking fountain and I just
Speaker 1: went up to her and I was just just said,
Speaker 1: you have some really nice glutes. You did not say that,
Speaker 1: Yeah I did. Yeah, you could tell that she works
Speaker 1: really hard. She works really hard on those glutes. I mean,
Speaker 1: was she kind of like a meathead like you are,
Speaker 1: no offense who I want to see it like that?
Speaker 1: I don't know what do you want, Jim right, I
Speaker 1: don't know what it determines. No meat head to compliment,
Speaker 1: no doubt about it. That's what That's what I am,
Speaker 1: That's what I do. Absolutely And yes, she same deal,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean she was rocking some very expensive
Speaker 1: athletic wear, um head to tell, so I was. I
Speaker 1: was definitely feeling her okay. And what did she say
Speaker 1: after you complimented her glutes? Thanks? She said? She said, thanks,
Speaker 1: I work hard. I got you live in a world
Speaker 1: that I will never enter in my life, and not
Speaker 1: for lack of wanting to. It's just I don't have
Speaker 1: the effort that you guys have. So did you ask
Speaker 1: her out right there? I wanted to go go after the workout,
Speaker 1: trying not to be complete creep o, and UH waited
Speaker 1: until she was leaving the gym, and I went up
Speaker 1: to her and the parking lot, which sounds creepier, but
Speaker 1: it really was. You followed her out to her car.
Speaker 1: I did. I did do the following of the car.
Speaker 1: Women love when big, muscle bound men follow them into
Speaker 1: dark parking lines. What did you say? They're like, how
Speaker 1: are you going to drive a car with those big glues?
Speaker 1: Like keep fit in the seat? That's pretty good. I
Speaker 1: wish I had said that. No, I just said, hey,
Speaker 1: what are you doing tomorrow night? You're gonna go get dinner.
Speaker 1: It's pretty simple, pretty straightforward, and she obviously said yes
Speaker 1: to that. Otherwise you wouldn't be doing a second day
Speaker 1: update right now. How did dinner go? I was good?
Speaker 1: You know, I rocked my good luck button down shirt,
Speaker 1: which always makes me feel good. You know, sometimes the
Speaker 1: shirt makes the man I feel okay, and dinner went great.
Speaker 1: You know, she's great glutes, but she was learning this
Speaker 1: Whotle outfit where her calves were really accentuated. I would
Speaker 1: super feeling on her. What about her personality? Did you
Speaker 1: like personality wise? She was cool? Yeah, it's good conversation. Conversation.
Speaker 1: What did you guys talk about? I told her that
Speaker 1: I've run a couple of different businesses is and I
Speaker 1: kind of went on a bit of a rant. And
Speaker 1: I'm afraid that maybe it was too much, which is
Speaker 1: like one time, but it was kind of went on
Speaker 1: a little bit of a rant about my businesses. When
Speaker 1: you mean rant, I automatically think, like angry rant about
Speaker 1: your businesses. What do you mean by rant? Well, I
Speaker 1: did talk about a guy that had screwed me over
Speaker 1: in business once. That's why I think it feels like
Speaker 1: a rant. Yeah, are you an angry guy? Not particularly,
Speaker 1: but I am when I'm crossed, you know what I mean? Like,
Speaker 1: I think I'm pretty happy guy day to day, but
Speaker 1: you know, if somebody, somebody screws me over, then yeah,
Speaker 1: I get pretty fired up. I mess with the bull,
Speaker 1: get the horns. Yes, exactly. What was her reaction to
Speaker 1: you going off about this dude? It would seemed fine
Speaker 1: at the time. I didn't think anything of because it
Speaker 1: was just like I said, it was like one time.
Speaker 1: It was like a freef little moment in the date.
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm thinking that maybe that's what what
Speaker 1: it was. I don't know what's she awkward after that?
Speaker 1: Not particularly, but she didn't say a lot. She was
Speaker 1: just kind of looking down kind of. She crossed her
Speaker 1: legs a couple of times, which I liked the calves,
Speaker 1: but it was just birth fidgety BG. Okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: women don't tend to like it when guys rage at
Speaker 1: the dinner table. Well, it wasn't a rage. It was
Speaker 1: it was a rant. You know, the ranch's to a
Speaker 1: degree less than a than a rage. Yeah, okay, so
Speaker 1: you weren't going totally crazy. That makes it better. How'd
Speaker 1: you guys end everything? Well? I asked her if she
Speaker 1: wanted to go get a drink somewhere else. I thought
Speaker 1: I was going pretty well. Um, she said no, she
Speaker 1: need to go home. So I walked her to her
Speaker 1: car and gave her a hug, hug goodbye. I thought it,
Speaker 1: you know, keep white, And that was it. Have you
Speaker 1: talked to her since? I texted her once and I
Speaker 1: said I'm headed to the gym. Are you gonna be
Speaker 1: there today? And then she just said, I worked out yesterday.
Speaker 1: That's it. That's all she said. That's all she said.
Speaker 1: And then I'm like, I was at the gym yesterday
Speaker 1: and I was there for a good period of time
Speaker 1: when you would have been there, and I didn't see her. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you think she's lying to you about that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I do. You haven't seen her at all in person
Speaker 1: at the gym? I have not. No. All right, well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update all right, awesome, thank you. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: hold on looking jubil in the morning if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's second date update. Robert is on
Speaker 1: the phone, and today he wants to call a girl
Speaker 1: named Chandra. What do we know about Chandra. She's got
Speaker 1: an okay personality and some great gluts and some calves,
Speaker 1: some wonderful calves as well. That's what Robert liked about her.
Speaker 1: They met at the gym, he complimented her gluts, they
Speaker 1: went out for dinner, and now she's not calling him back. Robert,
Speaker 1: We're about to call her and see if we can
Speaker 1: get her on the phone and find out what went wrong.
Speaker 1: Anything else that you'd like to add before we call
Speaker 1: her other than the gluts and the calves. No, I
Speaker 1: just want to say thank you, thank you. I'm very
Speaker 1: curious to see what she says. It's awesome. I feel
Speaker 1: like it's going to be something pretty extreme because it
Speaker 1: sounds like she switched Jims just to avoid you. To me,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you haven't seen her there. Whoa U yikes,
Speaker 1: that's bad. We're gonna hope that's not the case the case,
Speaker 1: all right, we'll find out right, I'm gonna doll the phone.
Speaker 1: I'm get your second day out date. Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Chandra please?
Speaker 1: Did she Hey Chandra? How are you? My name is
Speaker 1: Jubil and I'm calling from Brooke and Jubil in the Morning. Um, Hi,
Speaker 1: Dared calling from what Brooke and Jubil in the Morning
Speaker 1: the radio show? Uh? Okay, how are you today? Fine? That?
Speaker 1: Why are you calling me? Well, I'm actually calling you
Speaker 1: because one of our listeners emailed us and asked if
Speaker 1: we could get a hold of you. What. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't understand. Well, there's a guy that listens to our show.
Speaker 1: His name is Robert, and you went out to dinner
Speaker 1: with him. Oh okay, yeah, so you know Robert. Well,
Speaker 1: Robert listen to our show and emailed asking if I
Speaker 1: could call you to find out why you're not calling
Speaker 1: him back after you guys went out on your date.
Speaker 1: It's a segment that we do on our show called
Speaker 1: the second Date Update. So Robert's wondering if he did
Speaker 1: something wrong. I mean I did text him back the
Speaker 1: other today and he like texted me and I texted
Speaker 1: him back. He actually told us that yeah, but it
Speaker 1: didn't sound like a text from somebody who wants to
Speaker 1: see him again. It sounded like you were kind of
Speaker 1: blowing him off. Yeah, I'm glad he picked up on that. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you are blowing him off? Yeah, I mean actually
Speaker 1: I would really be fine to never see him again.
Speaker 1: Why do you mind telling us? Why so that we
Speaker 1: can share it with him? Well, he's uh, he's just
Speaker 1: really forward, meaning yeah, a little too forward. I mean
Speaker 1: at first, at first, like I thought it was attractive,
Speaker 1: Like I've dated a bunch of guys who are like
Speaker 1: really shy, and I was like, I always have to
Speaker 1: make the move and like start the conversation, and so
Speaker 1: it was nice. He wasn't shy or timid, and he
Speaker 1: seemed really confident. He told us how you guys first met,
Speaker 1: and when he saw you at the gym, he walked
Speaker 1: up and complimented you on your glutes. Is that kind
Speaker 1: of what you mean by too forward? Well, I mean
Speaker 1: at that point I thought it was just kind of funny,
Speaker 1: you know, um, and I appreciated that honesty, you know,
Speaker 1: like he didn't seem that weird. But once he went out,
Speaker 1: he just he just crossed the line. Was too much?
Speaker 1: It was too much? Did he say something or was
Speaker 1: he acting aggressive towards you? Yeah, he said something something
Speaker 1: really bad. What did he say? Uh? I really rather
Speaker 1: not say what he said. I don't want to say that.
Speaker 1: It makes it makes you that uncomfortable to repeat what
Speaker 1: he said. Yes, definitely. Can you give us a hint? Well,
Speaker 1: we were talking about our interests and uh, we're talking
Speaker 1: about sports that we like, and you know, he likes
Speaker 1: basketball and football, like you know. And I mentioned that
Speaker 1: I like swimming and that I'm really good at swimming.
Speaker 1: I was swimming in college, and I was talking about
Speaker 1: how I'd probably like it because I was really good
Speaker 1: at it. And then he goes, you know what I'm
Speaker 1: good at and he leans into the table. Oh, I
Speaker 1: can already see what's coming. And I can't say that.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't say that. He doesn't know like I mean,
Speaker 1: he literally thinks that he did nothing wrong on this date.
Speaker 1: He thinks he did nothing wrong. Yeah, we're talking, said
Speaker 1: he thinks he said nothing inappropriate. Yep. Yeah. When we
Speaker 1: talked to him about your date, he was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: it's cool. We just had a fun conversation. I may
Speaker 1: have got a little ranty at some point about my business,
Speaker 1: but that's all I could think of. That's amazing. I
Speaker 1: just said, totally clueless. All right, the anticipation is killing me.
Speaker 1: What did he say? Oh? God, well, I can't say this,
Speaker 1: but I'll try to give you the idea. Okay. He
Speaker 1: leans into me and he says, I'm good at um
Speaker 1: doing things for others that make them happy. I'm assuming
Speaker 1: you don't mean charity work. Noah. He was like vulgar
Speaker 1: about it? Really? Wow? Yeah, like how vulgar? He used
Speaker 1: some pretty disgusting words. Can you just do like a
Speaker 1: rhymes with here? No, I'm not gonna know. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna do that. Use your imagination. He was talking about
Speaker 1: how he is good at servicing women. I think I
Speaker 1: understand what he was saying. And he really thought he
Speaker 1: was going to impress you with this, can you? I mean,
Speaker 1: I've been on a lot of dates. Nobody has ever
Speaker 1: said anything like that to me. And you weren't interested
Speaker 1: in putting his skills to the test, huh. I mean
Speaker 1: this was a first date, okay, Like we hadn't even
Speaker 1: kissed or anything. We're talking about sports and that comes
Speaker 1: out of no and there is no I mean, like
Speaker 1: there was no sexual talk at all before this statement,
Speaker 1: I was talking about being on the swim team. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you for telling us your story. I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: You're welcome. It was horrible. I wish I could forget it. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: you're not going to be able to forget it just yet,
Speaker 1: because he's on the other line listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. Wait, what, yeah, do you serious? Robert, Hey, Shandra,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Oh? Yeah, I'm I'm a little confused.
Speaker 1: I'll be honest with all of you. We were talking
Speaker 1: about things that we were good at. She said she
Speaker 1: was good a swimming. I'm really good at that. That's
Speaker 1: not a sport, Robert, inappropriate, it is for some people.
Speaker 1: I can't believe. I mean, I think he was the
Speaker 1: first seat. You don't say that kind of thing out
Speaker 1: to dinner. At the dinner table, we're eating. I hear
Speaker 1: what you're saying, But you can't tell me you weren't
Speaker 1: at least at all intrigued if I was good at that, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, there was a little part of you somewhere
Speaker 1: deep down in the research. Okay, okay, Robert, hold on, Robert, Robert, listen.
Speaker 1: Does it seem like I was a little intrigued. Well
Speaker 1: you should have been, because I'm really good. I'm really good.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to meet the women who told
Speaker 1: you that. Well, I mean you got to give him
Speaker 1: some credit. He likes to put a lot of effort
Speaker 1: into police. Thank you, thank you were up there. Yeah, look,
Speaker 1: it's not about me. I didn't talk about me. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about you. I love here for you. That's the
Speaker 1: kind of team player that I am. All. I think
Speaker 1: you need to take a little bit of that effort
Speaker 1: and move it towards how to be appropriate. Eye. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think she's mad at exactly
Speaker 1: you wanting to do that, But maybe the time and
Speaker 1: the place was bad and the way you said it,
Speaker 1: it sounds like she wouldn't tell us the exact way
Speaker 1: you described it. But I can imagine it's probably not
Speaker 1: language like come on, like you're not fourteen year olds
Speaker 1: like one. Well, i'll concede the location. I'll concede the location,
Speaker 1: but I do not apologize for my ability alogize. Oh wow, Look,
Speaker 1: everything I do, I try to do the best of
Speaker 1: my god given abilities. I give one hundred and ten
Speaker 1: percent and I am the best at that. And that's
Speaker 1: what I can promise you in that department, I can
Speaker 1: probably see a lot of other departments too. Oh my god, Sandre,
Speaker 1: was there anything charming about Robert on the day outside
Speaker 1: of this moment? Yeah. I mean, if you listen to him,
Speaker 1: he's funny, but he's just like wildly inappropriate, also way
Speaker 1: too much. Hey, Robert, let me ask you a question
Speaker 1: next time. If you went out on a date with Chandra,
Speaker 1: if she actually said yes, and you said something inappropriate,
Speaker 1: would you have a problem with her telling you to stop.
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I would have loved her to say no,
Speaker 1: that's inappropriate. Then I know now I know what the boundary.
Speaker 1: So there you go, Chandra. He just doesn't know if
Speaker 1: you went out with him again. You have the freedom
Speaker 1: now to tell him, hey, don't say stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and he'll stop. I kind of feel like he has
Speaker 1: learned nothing from this conversation. I don't want to have
Speaker 1: to be telling him every time he says something inappropriate,
Speaker 1: like you have to monitor yourself. No, I don't think
Speaker 1: this was a good match. That sucks. I was really
Speaker 1: hoping to get a second date and see what happened
Speaker 1: after it. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid.
Speaker 1: So sorry, Robert, but there are a lot of women
Speaker 1: interested in your particular skill set and I think you're
Speaker 1: gonna be okay. All right, thanks guys, I appreciate sand
Speaker 1: good luck, good luck out there, you too, buddy. Remember
Speaker 1: who's number one in your heart? All right? Oh God,
Speaker 1: broken Jupil in the morning.