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Speaker 1: Brooking Jewels Second d d Hey, what's up? What's your name?

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Speaker 1: My name's Dunk. But would you say let me take

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Speaker 1: this compression sleeve off my ears? You know it helps

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Speaker 1: you work out right, helps the blood stay in your ears.

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Speaker 1: Anyway you want to go out sometime? Hold on, I'll

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Speaker 1: be right back. I'm gonna go lift my body weight

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Speaker 1: like two times my body weight, and then I'll be

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Speaker 1: to you. All right, cool? None of my name is Dunk.

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Speaker 1: Nice seeing you. I'm assuming that's what happened for the

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Speaker 1: guy on the phone today who wants to do a

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Speaker 1: second date update. He said that he met the girl

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Speaker 1: is not Donk, his name is Robert. What's up, Robert? Hey?

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good man, how are you? I'm

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Speaker 1: doing well, doing well, hoping you can help me. So

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Speaker 1: you're email in said that you met a breezy while

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Speaker 1: you're at the gym, right dead? I did hold that

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Speaker 1: go down, bro. Well, I was at the gym and

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Speaker 1: you know, I, you know, noticed this girl and I thought,

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Speaker 1: you know, she was over there rafting. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: that's a while. I'll go over and I'll try to

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Speaker 1: flex my muscles next to her. Joking. I mean, you're

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Speaker 1: I wish, but the mail ego is a scary thing

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes, and I realized this in hindsight, but

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Speaker 1: that's what I did. Did you really actually go flex

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Speaker 1: working out? I was working out next, Okay, I pictured

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Speaker 1: all right, thankfully to not do that. So what was

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Speaker 1: your opening line? I'm always interested in that. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: I saw her over the drinking fountain and I just

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Speaker 1: Yeah I did. Yeah, you could tell that she works

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Speaker 1: really hard. She works really hard on those glutes. I mean,

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Speaker 1: no offense who I want to see it like that?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what do you want, Jim right, I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it determines. No meat head to compliment,

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Speaker 1: I work hard. I got you live in a world

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Speaker 1: that I will never enter in my life, and not

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Speaker 1: for lack of wanting to. It's just I don't have

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Speaker 1: You know, she's great glutes, but she was learning this

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Speaker 1: so you think she's lying to you about that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: sounds like she switched Jims just to avoid you. To me,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll find out right, I'm gonna doll the phone.

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Speaker 1: I'm get your second day out date. Okay, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Dared calling from what Brooke and Jubil in the Morning

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Speaker 1: Why are you calling me? Well, I'm actually calling you

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Speaker 1: don't understand. Well, there's a guy that listens to our show.

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Speaker 1: the second Date Update. So Robert's wondering if he did

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Speaker 1: can already see what's coming. And I can't say that.

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Speaker 1: but that's all I could think of. That's amazing. I

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Speaker 1: gonna do that. Use your imagination. He was talking about

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Speaker 1: there was no sexual talk at all before this statement,

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Speaker 1: I was talking about being on the swim team. Well,

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Speaker 1: You're welcome. It was horrible. I wish I could forget it. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: talk to you. Wait, what, yeah, do you serious? Robert, Hey, Shandra,

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Speaker 1: I'll be honest with all of you. We were talking

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Speaker 1: I can't believe. I mean, I think he was the

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Speaker 1: at least at all intrigued if I was good at that, right,

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Speaker 1: deep down in the research. Okay, okay, Robert, hold on, Robert, Robert, listen.

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Speaker 1: Does it seem like I was a little intrigued. Well

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Speaker 1: kind of team player that I am. All. I think

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Speaker 1: like one. Well, i'll concede the location. I'll concede the location,

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Speaker 1: but I do not apologize for my ability alogize. Oh wow, Look,

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Speaker 1: what I can promise you in that department, I can

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Speaker 1: probably see a lot of other departments too. Oh my god, Sandre,

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Speaker 1: was there anything charming about Robert on the day outside

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Speaker 1: of this moment? Yeah. I mean, if you listen to him,

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Speaker 1: he's funny, but he's just like wildly inappropriate, also way

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Speaker 1: too much. Hey, Robert, let me ask you a question

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I would have loved her to say no,

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Speaker 1: that's inappropriate. Then I know now I know what the boundary.

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Speaker 1: So there you go, Chandra. He just doesn't know if

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Speaker 1: now to tell him, hey, don't say stuff like that,

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Speaker 1: this was a good match. That sucks. I was really

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Speaker 1: hoping to get a second date and see what happened

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Speaker 1: after it. Yeah, that's exactly what I'm trying to avoid.

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Speaker 1: So sorry, Robert, but there are a lot of women

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Speaker 1: interested in your particular skill set and I think you're

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Speaker 1: good luck, good luck out there, you too, buddy. Remember

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Speaker 1: who's number one in your heart? All right? Oh God,

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Speaker 1: broken Jupil in the morning.