WEBVTT - Good Things Take Time 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:08.760 Hello, gorgeous, it's Lala Kent. Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hello, gorgeous, 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:13.119 Welcome to the bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. You know, 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:16.120 I was sitting around thinking about all the things that 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:18.360 I need to change in my life and how I 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:20.599 move and what I do, and how I go about things, 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:24.200 how I release things, and it just made me think 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:27.360 of all the advice that I've received that has been 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:31.320 great that I've never fucking taken because I want control 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:34.559 and I think that you know, I know best. I 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.360 do not. I should have taken the advice for my 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:40.680 mother when she said be done with it, just be 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:43.360 done with it, but I didn't want to hear it. No, 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:45.760 I needed to touch the stove a few more times, 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:49.000 a lot and more times. We've all been there. We've 0:00:49.000 --> 0:00:51.320 all been there, and you know what, there will be 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:53.440 another man that appears that is going to put me 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:56.160 to the test again, and I better pass or else 0:00:56.160 --> 0:01:00.200 I'm going to continue attracting these fucking duds until I 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:02.240 pass the test. That's just the nature of this. We 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:03.080 all understand that, right. 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:03.760 It's funny. 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.399 Some people just have to keep touching that stuff, and 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:07.760 others learn the first time. 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:11.639 No, I don't learn the first time, not at all. 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:14.199 I think there's very few people that learn the first time. 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:16.319 Maybe that don't listen. 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:26.039 What that's not learning? That sounds like just uh, that 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:28.560 doesn't seem like living at all. You know, like the 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:31.360 whole point of life is to go and experience, because 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:35.080 if you just listened to every piece of advice from 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:37.559 someone who's experienced, you just have a lot of great 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:41.040 advice with literally no experiences. 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:43.440 We're gonna get a lot of great advice when we 0:01:43.440 --> 0:01:44.920 get older, to get to people. 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:48.920 And we have to expect that they will not take 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:52.280 it and that's okay, that's true. That's okay, Like it's 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.680 going to be really hard, Like you're in it right 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:58.440 now with your girls because they're of that age. H Easton, 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:00.520 Do you have a piece of advice that someone has 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:02.960 given you that has always. 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:07.920 Yeah, very first meeting a. 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:11.240 Good things take. 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:12.760 Time that advice. 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:17.120 Yeah, that's advice. It's words of wisdom. That's advice. 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:18.679 Like if I'm talking to you and you look at it, 0:02:18.800 --> 0:02:20.560 like if I was telling you and you said, good 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:23.280 things take time, that's advice for me to go, Okay, 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:26.720 I need to just sit back and wait. 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:30.120 But like ver much time because life goes by really fast, 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:31.800 and it's like I don't have that much time. 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:35.799 Oh so you need to learn My advice to you 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:41.760 would be learned. You need to practice patients, m which 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:45.480 is my worst quality. I'm so impatient. How do you 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.000 practice patients? 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:51.239 Just pause, raise tins. 0:02:57.000 --> 0:03:01.520 There's a big difference between practicing patients conquering patients that 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:03.680 you may practice it daily. 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:06.480 How would you conquer it just putting yourself in? Like 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:10.000 it's almost like, what is it trauma therapy? Going in 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:12.600 and like two things you can't control to just still. 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:14.920 You're talking about exposure therapy. 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:17.120 Exposure therapy, that's maybe. 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.480 How you my life every day tells me this is 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.040 good exposure therapy for you. I'm like, no, it's just 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:27.320 giving me massive amounts of anxiety. It's hard to tell. 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:29.600 But that's where your patients have to come in. 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:33.239 This person said, never accept criticism from someone, you would 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:37.840 never accept advice from I like it. If you said done. 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:41.000 Eitherer said, than done. Don't try to control your kids 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:42.120 control yourself. 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.600 No no no no no no no no no. 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:48.400 You got to control those kids else we're gonna have murderers. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.640 On our hands control your kids. 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:52.600 Please, No, but I do. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:56.360 I do understand what they're saying, because as we know, 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:59.240 we cannot control other people, right, including our own children. 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:02.880 Our job is not to control our children, but refine 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.320 all the times. 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:08.440 Them. 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:11.240 Yes, absolutely, yeah. 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:13.280 But also for her, like, I get what she's saying, 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:17.080 because you are product, like be the product of the environment, 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:18.080 so they look up to you. 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:20.640 So that's what you're supposed to be, like, if that 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:21.040 makes sense. 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.840 That's setting in an example, setting an example and controlling 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:25.680 your kids. If you're in a restaurant and your kids 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:28.560 screaming and you're sitting there just eating your cheeseburger not doing. 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:30.880 Anything, that's really gonna piss me off. It's like, be 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:35.680 considerate people, take your kid out of the restaurant. Yes, 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:41.599 I agree. I don't think control of the situation. Yeah, yeah, totally. 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:43.440 This one's this one's a head scratch her. 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:47.240 I'm not I need more specivity on that particular question 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:48.840 or what. 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:52.000 It's just advice you got. Don't don't try to control 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:53.840 your kids, just control yourself. 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:56.640 That's a control yourselves controlling your kids. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.160 I don't necessarily know that I would have taken that advice. 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:01.599 No, no, you can't. 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:07.640 Maybe her kids are older. Oh that's what it is. 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:08.400 We didn't ask. 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:12.000 Okay, rewind You're right, when they're out living their lives. 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:15.039 There's nothing you can do about it. What can you control. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:17.440 I'm here to love you and support you through you 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:21.080 know what. It makes all the sense now, it makes sense. 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:24.760 I'm taking the advice. It's great advice, great advice. You 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.919 can't take enough pics with friends and family. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:29.680 I disagree. 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:30.720 I disagree too. 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:32.120 Every time in the. 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:35.240 Moment, I'll take pictures and I'm like, oh, perfect, and 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:38.200 then I never revisit those photos, and then why don't 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:40.440 I have so many guy damn photos? And then I 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:42.640 just like, you know how you put your finger on 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.800 it and you just slide down, and I just yeah, 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:47.159 go on, never to be seen again. 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:47.800 What was in them? 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:48.159 I don't know. 0:05:48.720 --> 0:05:50.120 But if I don't know, there are times where I 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:53.000 look back, like I want to go through that computer 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:55.200 that we had when we were kids, because there's so 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:58.880 many pictures on there, and like ones of dad and 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:01.400 ones of us when we're like in high school. You 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:02.440 know where I want to remember. 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:04.280 That would be really yeah, because my phone. 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:06.000 I don't know what's wrong with it, but it stopped 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:08.920 at twenty Like my last picture is like twenty seven 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:11.480 around the same. Yeah, so I don't know if it's 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.000 something with like a ten year span of it, if 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:14.560 that makes sense. 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:16.560 Yeah, but we should pull out that because I agree. 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:18.120 I feel like I'm missing a lot of. 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:23.680 Really good at capturing content. Please, photos, videos, and even 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:27.239 voice notes of ocean. I haven't been as good with Sosa. 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:30.560 Can we please get the film that you recorded with 0:06:30.600 --> 0:06:31.120 your friends? 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:32.560 Oh yeah, Beanie. 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:33.440 Girls in California. 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:36.040 That has to be if boards. 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:41.120 Are out, and that you should the house boards are in. 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:46.400 The house was a full on production, they would. There 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:47.720 was one like. 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:50.800 So cute core memory that I have productions for your 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:51.440 new company. 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:56.640 I just read a core memory. Is you chewing saltiness? 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:57.599 What's it called? 0:06:57.720 --> 0:07:03.920 To try to do? Vomit? You? 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:05.560 You guys were in the kitchen and you were like, 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:11.080 the consistency isn't right? We were, and then she vomited 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.160 it all in the sk and then my dad got pissed. 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:15.440 He was like, this doesn't fucking go down. 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:21.320 Lauren said he didn't, but he was like, Lauren, it 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:23.440 doesn't go down, Like I have to drain this now, 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:25.400 getting a pea trap. 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:28.240 Like, you build houses down, you'll figure it out. 0:07:28.880 --> 0:07:29.200 He did. 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:31.560 If you can build a house, you can certainly unclog 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:31.920 a drain. 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:37.840 Okay, Like it's so simple, Like it's hard, you do it. 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:39.800 I love my dad. 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:43.400 Yeah, after you fake vomited, he's up there with a 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:46.160 pea trap trying to get the saltae outmer. 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:49.360 Yes, it's a core memory of mine. I'll never forget it. 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:52.320 Oh that makes me so happy. 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.520 Because I watched you vomit into there, and then an 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:56.920 hour later I just see Dad with a ranch under there. 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:58.040 And I go, what are you doing? And he's like, well, 0:07:58.160 --> 0:07:59.800 she spit out saltines in here. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.120 I think it was Ali Daalstrom that we made the vomitter, 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:12.520 but I came up with that's untraditional, traditionally unconditional, that's 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.840 what I say. I literally just looked at the mic 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:15.760 and said, un traditional. 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:17.280 We'll have the amber for viewing. 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:21.120 I would love to watch it. We need to convert 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:23.280 it over because you I did it on a cam 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:26.000 quorder and then there's a VHS that you got me 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:28.200 that you then take the thing out and put it 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.520 into the VHS and it's hooks to the back of 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.000 the TV, and I remember those. 0:08:31.880 --> 0:08:35.640 Watch goddamn TV. 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:37.560 To do it. We're gonna have to do a whole 0:08:37.559 --> 0:08:38.280 bunch of ship for now. 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.920 No, I have a DVD player that I bought for 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.760 Ocean off Amazon so that she could watch the Spice 0:08:43.760 --> 0:08:47.520 Girls movie, which is going to be streaming soon. By 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:51.679 the way, Spice World, you are currently living in the 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:53.319 good old days. Live in the moment. 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:55.800 God damn, I. 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.280 Like that too. It feels good. Oh, but it's so 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:02.280 easy to go back to the good old days and 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:03.440 then have bills to pay. 0:09:03.559 --> 0:09:05.559 Yeah, but that's the one thing she's saying. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:08.040 Yeah, live in it, like it's who knows. 0:09:07.800 --> 0:09:10.320 How long ago? Yeah, these are the good old days. 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:11.400 You just don't know it yet. 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:14.960 When Ocean tells me that she wants can't wait to 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.480 be older, I turned into fucking Billy Madison when he's 0:09:17.480 --> 0:09:26.720 in class and he's like, I was squeezing. I think 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:29.960 it's yes, And he's like, I can't wait to go 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:38.960 to high school too, Billy, Yes, don't ever say that. 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:42.200 That's another movie I watched like five thousand times. 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:46.920 We would be driving would be like rules, rules, and 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:52.240 they fly? Are they the bus? 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:55.560 When the death bus? 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:57.960 My favorite is just like that because when he's in class, 0:09:58.000 --> 0:09:59.640 like in the kindergarten with all the kids, and he's 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:02.400 sitting looking up at the teacher, so many people because 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:04.480 they're like TikTok, there'll be a hot teacher and like 0:10:04.520 --> 0:10:06.920 the first one is just like him in there because 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:08.680 it's I'll be in that class with you, kid. 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:14.800 Stop plugging your eyebrows. Uh no, keep actually just started again? 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:18.040 What does she want you to do? 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:26.280 Okay, so no, what are you doing? Thread? No? 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:27.240 It pulls your skin. 0:10:27.880 --> 0:10:31.840 If there's one thing I learned in modeling school, oh 0:10:32.080 --> 0:10:33.920 maybe that's what's wrong with my eyes. 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:36.920 Called a bone amber. We've already talked about this with 0:10:37.000 --> 0:10:38.559 doctor Diamond. The skin right here. 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:40.839 I don't want to hear it from your amber yet. 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:45.520 Oh my god. No, Remember they told us there is 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:48.400 very little elasticity up here. So if you wax every 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:50.320 time it pulls that it's not going to go back 0:10:50.360 --> 0:10:53.320 in and before you know it, you got yield droopy eyes. 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:56.800 You should not wax. You should pluck. But I think 0:10:56.840 --> 0:10:59.880 what they're saying or thread red. Yeah yeah, but pluck 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:03.320 and threading are the only way to go. 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:05.199 But she said, don't pluck. 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:07.520 She said don't pluck your eyebrows. But I'm assuming because 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:08.959 a lot of us got a little carried away. Do 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:11.440 you remember when you took a full razor down the 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:16.160 center where your unibrow would be e'sn nott eyebrows they started? 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.760 Those were the good old days. 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.160 I remember learning that you did that at Cammie Hair 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:26.240 across the street from Cottonwood Mall. 0:11:26.880 --> 0:11:27.680 They did it to me. 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:31.200 No, you did it, and you I was telling you 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:35.120 had come in, and I told my girl that was 0:11:35.160 --> 0:11:36.400 doing my hair that you had. 0:11:36.600 --> 0:11:39.440 Just to let everyone know that one moment. 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:39.960 Yeah. 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:42.920 Yeah, I think about it often because now I do 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:43.880 it really simple. 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:46.680 You, No, I just take a razor. 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:02.240 This is the greatest advice. You can't control what happens 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:05.880 to you, but you can control what you do next. 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:11.480 That yeah, But then if I control what I do next, 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:13.719 but hold on signage? 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:15.720 What yeah? 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:16.120 For sure? 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:20.120 Like maybe like a little knitted pillow or something instead 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:21.760 of live laugh again. 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:23.960 I can't control what happens to me, but I can 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:25.200 control what I do next. 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.640 But what if I do? Whatever I do next is 0:12:27.679 --> 0:12:28.840 still out of my control. 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:35.920 We're just in again, current moment. 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:37.560 Make the right decision. 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:43.560 It resonates very very true to the present moment of 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:46.880 my life. What I can't control what happens, but I 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.920 can control what I do next. I'm not giving you 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:51.200 my time anymore. 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:52.600 And by the way, there's a follow up to that 0:12:53.080 --> 0:12:57.240 from my childhood ctr she's the right. 0:12:57.400 --> 0:12:59.319 Amen. I want one of those rings. Let's get on 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:04.640 Amazon one Mormon, Yeah, choose, she'd really be universal. 0:13:04.920 --> 0:13:07.760 Yeah, CTG, choose the God. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.600 Never tell your kids they are bad. Always just say 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:14.760 what they've done wrong. Yeah, you have to say you're 0:13:14.800 --> 0:13:15.880 not a bad person. 0:13:15.960 --> 0:13:16.400 You made a. 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:25.120 Bad boy, wouldn't you agree? 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:27.040 You don't want to say, like you're a bitch. 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:28.560 I tell you. 0:13:28.600 --> 0:13:31.080 My mom always said, tell a child they're good, they'll 0:13:31.120 --> 0:13:31.480 be good. 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.160 Tell them they're bad, they'll be bad. 0:13:33.320 --> 0:13:36.560 You know what, though, I do that with Ocean. I'm like, 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:41.600 she never I she what do we say? She never 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:44.400 talks back or whatever. And she's in the middle of 0:13:44.440 --> 0:13:46.120 talking back. You say she would never do that, and 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:49.320 she I know what you're doing, and I do talk 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:51.920 back doing it right now, And I'm like, oh my god, 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:54.840 I cannot hustle you. I've seen some ship she's been around. 0:13:54.840 --> 0:13:57.600 She's like, I dealt with this in my past life. Bitch, 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:02.080 get some new material, isn't she like she always goes 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:06.920 to bed on time? She always listens. I always fight 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:08.360 you on it because I hate going to bed. 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:11.080 But you know what, there are children that beam when 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:12.280 you tell them stuff like that. 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:14.760 Well, ocean beams. But she knows when you're trying to 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:17.719 Can you tell me that I'm gonna beam? Yeah, if 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:19.360 you tell me, I'm If you tell me that I'm 0:14:19.400 --> 0:14:21.320 doing great at something, I'm like, watch how much greater 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:24.040 anything you could do? I could do better? 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:28.400 And I'm really fucking good at it. 0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:31.080 It's not your job to make other people comfortable. 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:35.360 I really should listen to that one. I always worry 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:36.360 about everybody else. 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.880 I'm like, if they're not talking that much, and talk 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:40.920 to them, make them a part of the conversation. 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:42.960 I think you learn that as you get older, and 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:44.240 you just like, you know what. 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:46.720 No, it's called treating people the way I want to 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.840 be treated. If I notice that someone is I like 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:53.120 people feeling comfortable because I know that feeling of feeling 0:14:53.240 --> 0:14:57.280 uncomfortable that I never want someone to experience that. But 0:14:57.360 --> 0:15:02.280 then you come for me and I will fuck you up. Yeah, Yeah, 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:04.240 I feel like I always have to state that because 0:15:04.240 --> 0:15:06.720 when I talk about me as a nice person, people like, 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:10.600 you're a fucking bitch. Did you watch yourself Season sixty 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:14.320 seven nine? I'm like, no, that was a five hundred 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:14.840 years ago. 0:15:15.240 --> 0:15:16.440 There was a moment in time. 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:21.160 That's when I go and I tell them you're currently 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:26.400 living in the good old days. You don't need to 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:33.160 explain yourself. Ever, how do you feel about that? Oh, 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:33.960 that's the next one. 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:38.560 Yeah, you have to explain yourself sometimes. 0:15:38.360 --> 0:15:41.680 It's called communication. Have I decided to goho steal and 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:43.000 you want to know why? I'm going to need to 0:15:43.040 --> 0:15:47.480 explain why. Yeah, I don't love that one. Once you're eighteen, 0:15:48.000 --> 0:15:51.000 never sign anything unless you know exactly what you are signing. 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:57.640 This person has experience in that. Who's signing documentation of eighteen? 0:15:58.480 --> 0:15:59.680 Cars? Leases? 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:01.560 Credit cards? 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:05.280 You know? Take your mom with you, Take your mom 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:07.400 with you, so you're never done parenting. That would be 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:07.960 my advice. 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:14.720 You just remember, guys, first time to in this situation. 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:17.360 I don't think parents get that. 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:20.520 What do you mean profound? 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:24.840 Yeah, like this is mom's first time still, Yeah, like 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:27.360 she's never you know, like you look up to your 0:16:27.400 --> 0:16:30.800 parents and you're like hell, but it's like their first 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:33.800 time too, you know, being a parent to someone up 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:37.160 to somebody at this age, this experience, like that's the thing, 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:38.520 no matter what you're gonna. 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:43.720 Wow, that is very, very profound. The point of the 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:45.000 index to Houston. 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:49.640 Yes we're walking. 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:56.960 So Sor because she does something good and actually she'll 0:16:57.000 --> 0:17:03.880 do something so she is the best. Let me tell you. 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:07.040 I feel so badly at the reunion being like Sosa 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:10.720 is kicking my ass because at that point in time, 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:11.520 you guys. 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:19.000 It was shocked, shocked, shocked. 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:20.040 It was really hurtful. 0:17:20.400 --> 0:17:23.280 But where we were coming from. 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:26.920 I still don't like hearing someone else say, yeah, we 0:17:27.000 --> 0:17:29.200 are allowed to say that, but even I didn't say 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:31.399 but she was just she was a lot for me. 0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:37.879 She like, I'm in the corner fully obsessed. And I 0:17:37.920 --> 0:17:39.680 get it, we're all obsessed with our kids, but sometimes 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:41.240 it's like you're really hard right now, Like I can't 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:43.560 say I'm enjoying this. I'm doing it because I quite 0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:49.439 literally have to a choice. So choice, but I'm like 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:52.000 in it an excited mouth. Yeah, but she's at a 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.159 cute age. That is a cute age. 0:17:54.720 --> 0:17:57.080 But in June she wasn't in that age. 0:17:57.359 --> 0:18:00.080 She was tough about how quickly June was just a 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:00.960 couple months ago. 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:03.440 I know I had to tell our friends that she's changed. 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:06.520 Well, yeah, because you had to tell Sosa's friends. 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:11.000 You can hang out with her now, Guys, she's changed. 0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:15.320 Can you tell some of my old friends that about me? 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:18.439 I could do that for you. 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:19.119 Please don't. 0:18:19.400 --> 0:18:23.440 I'm good, No, I'm good, I'm solid. That's funny, Mom, 0:18:23.640 --> 0:18:26.280 you had to tell our friends because they experienced her 0:18:26.320 --> 0:18:27.400 in the beach house that we show. 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:29.520 I don't think they didn't bite us back. That's why 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:30.680 I had to make that is. 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:35.679 So not true, Mom, They love her. This one is 0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:37.399 so good and I love it, and I love this 0:18:37.440 --> 0:18:40.320 person who wrote it. If it if you smell shit, 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:41.800 there's probably shit. 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:46.960 I agree, Only that's your intuition. 0:18:47.160 --> 0:18:50.679 That really is I agree. The only time that isn't 0:18:50.680 --> 0:18:56.360 true it allows breath what because it smells like shit? 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:58.560 But it isn't ship if that makes sense. 0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:01.480 Oh, you're going for the more literal I think. 0:19:02.760 --> 0:19:04.520 But no, I agree with her. 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:07.280 Yes, I well, yeah, it's like where there's smoke, there's fire. 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:09.800 But I like this one better. But Jewel said it 0:19:09.840 --> 0:19:12.400 best when she came out with that fabulous album where 0:19:12.400 --> 0:19:17.760 she's like, follow your hard into sure it will. 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:20.280 Lead you in the insurrection. 0:19:21.359 --> 0:19:22.800 And I still to this day. 0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:25.240 Smells like ship. 0:19:26.200 --> 0:19:29.199 There can't be ship. Yeah, but your your sniffer is 0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:32.640 off al little No, my sniffer is spot on, and 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:41.120 I don't know you guys later my last my sniffer 0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:43.600 is spot on, and I ignore it. 0:19:43.720 --> 0:19:46.600 Okay, okay, that's a there's a difference there. 0:19:46.600 --> 0:19:47.040 I get it. 0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:49.720 You had three disagreements. 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:54.560 Yeah, I know when I smell shit and then I 0:19:54.640 --> 0:19:57.720 continue to steal. Continue. 0:19:57.880 --> 0:19:58.800 You're kind of like a fly. 0:20:00.080 --> 0:20:00.560 I'm a fly. 0:20:00.800 --> 0:20:03.920