Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it's Lala Kent. Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hello, gorgeous,
Speaker 1: Welcome to the bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. You know,
Speaker 1: I was sitting around thinking about all the things that
Speaker 1: I need to change in my life and how I
Speaker 1: move and what I do, and how I go about things,
Speaker 1: how I release things, and it just made me think
Speaker 1: of all the advice that I've received that has been
Speaker 1: great that I've never fucking taken because I want control
Speaker 1: and I think that you know, I know best. I
Speaker 1: do not. I should have taken the advice for my
Speaker 1: mother when she said be done with it, just be
Speaker 1: done with it, but I didn't want to hear it. No,
Speaker 1: I needed to touch the stove a few more times,
Speaker 1: a lot and more times. We've all been there. We've
Speaker 1: all been there, and you know what, there will be
Speaker 1: another man that appears that is going to put me
Speaker 1: to the test again, and I better pass or else
Speaker 1: I'm going to continue attracting these fucking duds until I
Speaker 1: pass the test. That's just the nature of this. We
Speaker 1: all understand that, right.
Speaker 2: It's funny.
Speaker 3: Some people just have to keep touching that stuff, and
Speaker 3: others learn the first time.
Speaker 4: No, I don't learn the first time, not at all.
Speaker 4: I think there's very few people that learn the first time.
Speaker 2: Maybe that don't listen.
Speaker 1: What that's not learning? That sounds like just uh, that
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like living at all. You know, like the
Speaker 1: whole point of life is to go and experience, because
Speaker 1: if you just listened to every piece of advice from
Speaker 1: someone who's experienced, you just have a lot of great
Speaker 1: advice with literally no experiences.
Speaker 4: We're gonna get a lot of great advice when we
Speaker 4: get older, to get to people.
Speaker 1: And we have to expect that they will not take
Speaker 1: it and that's okay, that's true. That's okay, Like it's
Speaker 1: going to be really hard, Like you're in it right
Speaker 1: now with your girls because they're of that age. H Easton,
Speaker 1: Do you have a piece of advice that someone has
Speaker 1: given you that has always.
Speaker 2: Yeah, very first meeting a.
Speaker 5: Good things take.
Speaker 1: Time that advice.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's advice. It's words of wisdom. That's advice.
Speaker 6: Like if I'm talking to you and you look at it,
Speaker 6: like if I was telling you and you said, good
Speaker 6: things take time, that's advice for me to go, Okay,
Speaker 6: I need to just sit back and wait.
Speaker 4: But like ver much time because life goes by really fast,
Speaker 4: and it's like I don't have that much time.
Speaker 1: Oh so you need to learn My advice to you
Speaker 1: would be learned. You need to practice patients, m which
Speaker 1: is my worst quality. I'm so impatient. How do you
Speaker 1: practice patients?
Speaker 2: Just pause, raise tins.
Speaker 1: There's a big difference between practicing patients conquering patients that
Speaker 1: you may practice it daily.
Speaker 6: How would you conquer it just putting yourself in? Like
Speaker 6: it's almost like, what is it trauma therapy? Going in
Speaker 6: and like two things you can't control to just still.
Speaker 1: You're talking about exposure therapy.
Speaker 5: Exposure therapy, that's maybe.
Speaker 1: How you my life every day tells me this is
Speaker 1: good exposure therapy for you. I'm like, no, it's just
Speaker 1: giving me massive amounts of anxiety. It's hard to tell.
Speaker 5: But that's where your patients have to come in.
Speaker 1: This person said, never accept criticism from someone, you would
Speaker 1: never accept advice from I like it. If you said done.
Speaker 1: Eitherer said, than done. Don't try to control your kids
Speaker 1: control yourself.
Speaker 5: No no no no no no no no no.
Speaker 6: You got to control those kids else we're gonna have murderers.
Speaker 6: On our hands control your kids.
Speaker 5: Please, No, but I do.
Speaker 1: I do understand what they're saying, because as we know,
Speaker 1: we cannot control other people, right, including our own children.
Speaker 1: Our job is not to control our children, but refine
Speaker 1: all the times.
Speaker 2: Them.
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 6: But also for her, like, I get what she's saying,
Speaker 6: because you are product, like be the product of the environment,
Speaker 6: so they look up to you.
Speaker 5: So that's what you're supposed to be, like, if that
Speaker 5: makes sense.
Speaker 4: That's setting in an example, setting an example and controlling
Speaker 4: your kids. If you're in a restaurant and your kids
Speaker 4: screaming and you're sitting there just eating your cheeseburger not doing.
Speaker 1: Anything, that's really gonna piss me off. It's like, be
Speaker 1: considerate people, take your kid out of the restaurant. Yes,
Speaker 1: I agree. I don't think control of the situation. Yeah, yeah, totally.
Speaker 1: This one's this one's a head scratch her.
Speaker 4: I'm not I need more specivity on that particular question
Speaker 4: or what.
Speaker 1: It's just advice you got. Don't don't try to control
Speaker 1: your kids, just control yourself.
Speaker 5: That's a control yourselves controlling your kids.
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily know that I would have taken that advice.
Speaker 5: No, no, you can't.
Speaker 1: Maybe her kids are older. Oh that's what it is.
Speaker 5: We didn't ask.
Speaker 4: Okay, rewind You're right, when they're out living their lives.
Speaker 1: There's nothing you can do about it. What can you control.
Speaker 1: I'm here to love you and support you through you
Speaker 1: know what. It makes all the sense now, it makes sense.
Speaker 1: I'm taking the advice. It's great advice, great advice. You
Speaker 1: can't take enough pics with friends and family.
Speaker 5: I disagree.
Speaker 1: I disagree too.
Speaker 5: Every time in the.
Speaker 6: Moment, I'll take pictures and I'm like, oh, perfect, and
Speaker 6: then I never revisit those photos, and then why don't
Speaker 6: I have so many guy damn photos? And then I
Speaker 6: just like, you know how you put your finger on
Speaker 6: it and you just slide down, and I just yeah,
Speaker 6: go on, never to be seen again.
Speaker 5: What was in them?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: But if I don't know, there are times where I
Speaker 1: look back, like I want to go through that computer
Speaker 1: that we had when we were kids, because there's so
Speaker 1: many pictures on there, and like ones of dad and
Speaker 1: ones of us when we're like in high school. You
Speaker 1: know where I want to remember.
Speaker 5: That would be really yeah, because my phone.
Speaker 6: I don't know what's wrong with it, but it stopped
Speaker 6: at twenty Like my last picture is like twenty seven
Speaker 6: around the same. Yeah, so I don't know if it's
Speaker 6: something with like a ten year span of it, if
Speaker 6: that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but we should pull out that because I agree.
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm missing a lot of.
Speaker 1: Really good at capturing content. Please, photos, videos, and even
Speaker 1: voice notes of ocean. I haven't been as good with Sosa.
Speaker 6: Can we please get the film that you recorded with
Speaker 6: your friends?
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, Beanie.
Speaker 1: Girls in California.
Speaker 5: That has to be if boards.
Speaker 1: Are out, and that you should the house boards are in.
Speaker 5: The house was a full on production, they would. There
Speaker 5: was one like.
Speaker 3: So cute core memory that I have productions for your
Speaker 3: new company.
Speaker 5: I just read a core memory. Is you chewing saltiness?
Speaker 2: What's it called?
Speaker 5: To try to do? Vomit? You?
Speaker 6: You guys were in the kitchen and you were like,
Speaker 6: the consistency isn't right? We were, and then she vomited
Speaker 6: it all in the sk and then my dad got pissed.
Speaker 5: He was like, this doesn't fucking go down.
Speaker 6: Lauren said he didn't, but he was like, Lauren, it
Speaker 6: doesn't go down, Like I have to drain this now,
Speaker 6: getting a pea trap.
Speaker 1: Like, you build houses down, you'll figure it out.
Speaker 5: He did.
Speaker 1: If you can build a house, you can certainly unclog
Speaker 1: a drain.
Speaker 6: Okay, Like it's so simple, Like it's hard, you do it.
Speaker 1: I love my dad.
Speaker 6: Yeah, after you fake vomited, he's up there with a
Speaker 6: pea trap trying to get the saltae outmer.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's a core memory of mine. I'll never forget it.
Speaker 1: Oh that makes me so happy.
Speaker 6: Because I watched you vomit into there, and then an
Speaker 6: hour later I just see Dad with a ranch under there.
Speaker 5: And I go, what are you doing? And he's like, well,
Speaker 5: she spit out saltines in here.
Speaker 1: I think it was Ali Daalstrom that we made the vomitter,
Speaker 1: but I came up with that's untraditional, traditionally unconditional, that's
Speaker 1: what I say. I literally just looked at the mic
Speaker 1: and said, un traditional.
Speaker 2: We'll have the amber for viewing.
Speaker 1: I would love to watch it. We need to convert
Speaker 1: it over because you I did it on a cam
Speaker 1: quorder and then there's a VHS that you got me
Speaker 1: that you then take the thing out and put it
Speaker 1: into the VHS and it's hooks to the back of
Speaker 1: the TV, and I remember those.
Speaker 2: Watch goddamn TV.
Speaker 5: To do it. We're gonna have to do a whole
Speaker 5: bunch of ship for now.
Speaker 1: No, I have a DVD player that I bought for
Speaker 1: Ocean off Amazon so that she could watch the Spice
Speaker 1: Girls movie, which is going to be streaming soon. By
Speaker 1: the way, Spice World, you are currently living in the
Speaker 1: good old days. Live in the moment.
Speaker 2: God damn, I.
Speaker 1: Like that too. It feels good. Oh, but it's so
Speaker 1: easy to go back to the good old days and
Speaker 1: then have bills to pay.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's the one thing she's saying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, live in it, like it's who knows.
Speaker 5: How long ago? Yeah, these are the good old days.
Speaker 5: You just don't know it yet.
Speaker 1: When Ocean tells me that she wants can't wait to
Speaker 1: be older, I turned into fucking Billy Madison when he's
Speaker 1: in class and he's like, I was squeezing. I think
Speaker 1: it's yes, And he's like, I can't wait to go
Speaker 1: to high school too, Billy, Yes, don't ever say that.
Speaker 4: That's another movie I watched like five thousand times.
Speaker 1: We would be driving would be like rules, rules, and
Speaker 1: they fly? Are they the bus?
Speaker 4: When the death bus?
Speaker 6: My favorite is just like that because when he's in class,
Speaker 6: like in the kindergarten with all the kids, and he's
Speaker 6: sitting looking up at the teacher, so many people because
Speaker 6: they're like TikTok, there'll be a hot teacher and like
Speaker 6: the first one is just like him in there because
Speaker 6: it's I'll be in that class with you, kid.
Speaker 1: Stop plugging your eyebrows. Uh no, keep actually just started again?
Speaker 5: What does she want you to do?
Speaker 1: Okay, so no, what are you doing? Thread? No?
Speaker 2: It pulls your skin.
Speaker 4: If there's one thing I learned in modeling school, oh
Speaker 4: maybe that's what's wrong with my eyes.
Speaker 1: Called a bone amber. We've already talked about this with
Speaker 1: doctor Diamond. The skin right here.
Speaker 5: I don't want to hear it from your amber yet.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. No, Remember they told us there is
Speaker 1: very little elasticity up here. So if you wax every
Speaker 1: time it pulls that it's not going to go back
Speaker 1: in and before you know it, you got yield droopy eyes.
Speaker 1: You should not wax. You should pluck. But I think
Speaker 1: what they're saying or thread red. Yeah yeah, but pluck
Speaker 1: and threading are the only way to go.
Speaker 5: But she said, don't pluck.
Speaker 1: She said don't pluck your eyebrows. But I'm assuming because
Speaker 1: a lot of us got a little carried away. Do
Speaker 1: you remember when you took a full razor down the
Speaker 1: center where your unibrow would be e'sn nott eyebrows they started?
Speaker 5: Those were the good old days.
Speaker 1: I remember learning that you did that at Cammie Hair
Speaker 1: across the street from Cottonwood Mall.
Speaker 5: They did it to me.
Speaker 1: No, you did it, and you I was telling you
Speaker 1: had come in, and I told my girl that was
Speaker 1: doing my hair that you had.
Speaker 5: Just to let everyone know that one moment.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think about it often because now I do
Speaker 6: it really simple.
Speaker 5: You, No, I just take a razor.
Speaker 1: This is the greatest advice. You can't control what happens
Speaker 1: to you, but you can control what you do next.
Speaker 7: That yeah, But then if I control what I do next,
Speaker 7: but hold on signage?
Speaker 5: What yeah?
Speaker 2: For sure?
Speaker 1: Like maybe like a little knitted pillow or something instead
Speaker 1: of live laugh again.
Speaker 6: I can't control what happens to me, but I can
Speaker 6: control what I do next.
Speaker 5: But what if I do? Whatever I do next is
Speaker 5: still out of my control.
Speaker 1: We're just in again, current moment.
Speaker 2: Make the right decision.
Speaker 1: It resonates very very true to the present moment of
Speaker 1: my life. What I can't control what happens, but I
Speaker 1: can control what I do next. I'm not giving you
Speaker 1: my time anymore.
Speaker 4: And by the way, there's a follow up to that
Speaker 4: from my childhood ctr she's the right.
Speaker 1: Amen. I want one of those rings. Let's get on
Speaker 1: Amazon one Mormon, Yeah, choose, she'd really be universal.
Speaker 5: Yeah, CTG, choose the God.
Speaker 1: Never tell your kids they are bad. Always just say
Speaker 1: what they've done wrong. Yeah, you have to say you're
Speaker 1: not a bad person.
Speaker 5: You made a.
Speaker 4: Bad boy, wouldn't you agree?
Speaker 1: You don't want to say, like you're a bitch.
Speaker 2: I tell you.
Speaker 3: My mom always said, tell a child they're good, they'll
Speaker 3: be good.
Speaker 2: Tell them they're bad, they'll be bad.
Speaker 1: You know what, though, I do that with Ocean. I'm like,
Speaker 1: she never I she what do we say? She never
Speaker 1: talks back or whatever. And she's in the middle of
Speaker 1: talking back. You say she would never do that, and
Speaker 1: she I know what you're doing, and I do talk
Speaker 1: back doing it right now, And I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I cannot hustle you. I've seen some ship she's been around.
Speaker 1: She's like, I dealt with this in my past life. Bitch,
Speaker 1: get some new material, isn't she like she always goes
Speaker 1: to bed on time? She always listens. I always fight
Speaker 1: you on it because I hate going to bed.
Speaker 3: But you know what, there are children that beam when
Speaker 3: you tell them stuff like that.
Speaker 1: Well, ocean beams. But she knows when you're trying to
Speaker 1: Can you tell me that I'm gonna beam? Yeah, if
Speaker 1: you tell me, I'm If you tell me that I'm
Speaker 1: doing great at something, I'm like, watch how much greater
Speaker 1: anything you could do? I could do better?
Speaker 4: And I'm really fucking good at it.
Speaker 1: It's not your job to make other people comfortable.
Speaker 5: I really should listen to that one. I always worry
Speaker 5: about everybody else.
Speaker 6: I'm like, if they're not talking that much, and talk
Speaker 6: to them, make them a part of the conversation.
Speaker 4: I think you learn that as you get older, and
Speaker 4: you just like, you know what.
Speaker 1: No, it's called treating people the way I want to
Speaker 1: be treated. If I notice that someone is I like
Speaker 1: people feeling comfortable because I know that feeling of feeling
Speaker 1: uncomfortable that I never want someone to experience that. But
Speaker 1: then you come for me and I will fuck you up. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like I always have to state that because
Speaker 1: when I talk about me as a nice person, people like,
Speaker 1: you're a fucking bitch. Did you watch yourself Season sixty
Speaker 1: seven nine? I'm like, no, that was a five hundred
Speaker 1: years ago.
Speaker 5: There was a moment in time.
Speaker 1: That's when I go and I tell them you're currently
Speaker 1: living in the good old days. You don't need to
Speaker 1: explain yourself. Ever, how do you feel about that? Oh,
Speaker 1: that's the next one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to explain yourself sometimes.
Speaker 1: It's called communication. Have I decided to goho steal and
Speaker 1: you want to know why? I'm going to need to
Speaker 1: explain why. Yeah, I don't love that one. Once you're eighteen,
Speaker 1: never sign anything unless you know exactly what you are signing.
Speaker 1: This person has experience in that. Who's signing documentation of eighteen?
Speaker 2: Cars? Leases?
Speaker 5: Credit cards?
Speaker 1: You know? Take your mom with you, Take your mom
Speaker 1: with you, so you're never done parenting. That would be
Speaker 1: my advice.
Speaker 6: You just remember, guys, first time to in this situation.
Speaker 5: I don't think parents get that.
Speaker 2: What do you mean profound?
Speaker 6: Yeah, like this is mom's first time still, Yeah, like
Speaker 6: she's never you know, like you look up to your
Speaker 6: parents and you're like hell, but it's like their first
Speaker 6: time too, you know, being a parent to someone up
Speaker 6: to somebody at this age, this experience, like that's the thing,
Speaker 6: no matter what you're gonna.
Speaker 1: Wow, that is very, very profound. The point of the
Speaker 1: index to Houston.
Speaker 2: Yes we're walking.
Speaker 1: So Sor because she does something good and actually she'll
Speaker 1: do something so she is the best. Let me tell you.
Speaker 1: I feel so badly at the reunion being like Sosa
Speaker 1: is kicking my ass because at that point in time,
Speaker 1: you guys.
Speaker 5: It was shocked, shocked, shocked.
Speaker 1: It was really hurtful.
Speaker 5: But where we were coming from.
Speaker 1: I still don't like hearing someone else say, yeah, we
Speaker 1: are allowed to say that, but even I didn't say
Speaker 1: but she was just she was a lot for me.
Speaker 1: She like, I'm in the corner fully obsessed. And I
Speaker 1: get it, we're all obsessed with our kids, but sometimes
Speaker 1: it's like you're really hard right now, Like I can't
Speaker 1: say I'm enjoying this. I'm doing it because I quite
Speaker 1: literally have to a choice. So choice, but I'm like
Speaker 1: in it an excited mouth. Yeah, but she's at a
Speaker 1: cute age. That is a cute age.
Speaker 2: But in June she wasn't in that age.
Speaker 1: She was tough about how quickly June was just a
Speaker 1: couple months ago.
Speaker 2: I know I had to tell our friends that she's changed.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because you had to tell Sosa's friends.
Speaker 5: You can hang out with her now, Guys, she's changed.
Speaker 1: Can you tell some of my old friends that about me?
Speaker 1: I could do that for you.
Speaker 2: Please don't.
Speaker 1: I'm good, No, I'm good, I'm solid. That's funny, Mom,
Speaker 1: you had to tell our friends because they experienced her
Speaker 1: in the beach house that we show.
Speaker 3: I don't think they didn't bite us back. That's why
Speaker 3: I had to make that is.
Speaker 1: So not true, Mom, They love her. This one is
Speaker 1: so good and I love it, and I love this
Speaker 1: person who wrote it. If it if you smell shit,
Speaker 1: there's probably shit.
Speaker 2: I agree, Only that's your intuition.
Speaker 7: That really is I agree. The only time that isn't
Speaker 7: true it allows breath what because it smells like shit?
Speaker 7: But it isn't ship if that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Oh, you're going for the more literal I think.
Speaker 5: But no, I agree with her.
Speaker 1: Yes, I well, yeah, it's like where there's smoke, there's fire.
Speaker 1: But I like this one better. But Jewel said it
Speaker 1: best when she came out with that fabulous album where
Speaker 1: she's like, follow your hard into sure it will.
Speaker 5: Lead you in the insurrection.
Speaker 1: And I still to this day.
Speaker 5: Smells like ship.
Speaker 1: There can't be ship. Yeah, but your your sniffer is
Speaker 1: off al little No, my sniffer is spot on, and
Speaker 1: I don't know you guys later my last my sniffer
Speaker 1: is spot on, and I ignore it.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, that's a there's a difference there.
Speaker 1: I get it.
Speaker 2: You had three disagreements.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know when I smell shit and then I
Speaker 1: continue to steal. Continue.
Speaker 5: You're kind of like a fly.
Speaker 1: I'm a fly.
Speaker 5: You're a fly just walked into the ship. Fly?
Speaker 1: Wow, what profound that humbling, profound moment. I'm a fly?
Speaker 5: Yeah, So what do we do to not make you
Speaker 5: a fly? Because you're going to jump ship to ship?
Speaker 1: We got an electrocute them.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, let's make a zapper and then you're
Speaker 4: going to turn into a beautiful butterfly.
Speaker 1: Wow, Easton, I'm taking this in. Should we get a
Speaker 1: tattoo of a fly emoji? Hold on, I do like
Speaker 1: this one.
Speaker 5: Do a couple more.
Speaker 1: If you can't buy it with cash, you can't buy
Speaker 1: it with credit.
Speaker 2: That's not true, pay off your credit card at the
Speaker 2: end of the month.
Speaker 1: It's not that it's just gonna. Wow, what a luxury
Speaker 1: you have.
Speaker 5: I know, pay it off.
Speaker 1: The reason I'm using the credit bitch because I can't.
Speaker 1: I like to get the points, another luxury for you.
Speaker 1: Keep swiping, I get the points.
Speaker 5: Fuck it right, every time I'm about to buy something,
Speaker 5: put it on this card. I'll get pints. You know.
Speaker 5: I'm no, we don't, am.
Speaker 4: I did go shopping at Bloomingdale's yesterday to get a
Speaker 4: new bra, and I used your phone number for Bloomy,
Speaker 4: So you're gonna get points. Oh no, Norms, sorry that
Speaker 4: this one's good.
Speaker 1: Garbage takes itself out? Ooh, I really like you too.
Speaker 6: But how long is the garbage gonna sit there before
Speaker 6: it takes itself out?
Speaker 5: Is that up to me?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Probably it does take itself out, But like what time.
Speaker 2: The stench takes you out? Right?
Speaker 1: Right, we're going quite literally on this podcast today. Garbage
Speaker 1: takes itself out? No, because I have to do it
Speaker 1: every Monday, and then who's gonna take out the bins
Speaker 1: if I don't? You know, that's how we all think. Logical.
Speaker 1: I like it. I like where I'm gonna leave it.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave it on this one. Follow your gut,
Speaker 1: not your heart or your vagina when it comes to dating.
Speaker 1: That's hard. I only think with my heart in my
Speaker 1: vagina when i'm dating.
Speaker 5: For perfect amber. What about you? I think your heart
Speaker 5: in vagina too.
Speaker 1: I've had a second date last night after she told
Speaker 1: me on repeat that she's not going to date for
Speaker 1: a while. But I did not sleep with.
Speaker 4: Him, and I'm not going to date for you date
Speaker 4: with Yes, you would.
Speaker 1: Have already sucked him after two dates if I liked him?
Speaker 5: Where I gotta find more?
Speaker 1: Are you judging me?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 6: I just.
Speaker 1: Judge clarity. I'm not judging you think I'm judging you?
Speaker 1: Are you joking? I don't know? Are you No? I'm
Speaker 1: gaining clarity. Okay, what's your clarity? Where do you need clarity?
Speaker 1: Clarity on you not wanting to date, but then you're dating,
Speaker 1: but then you're not fucking him. But it's only been
Speaker 1: two days. I'm just wondering. I'm figuring it out.
Speaker 3: And I wanted to pump the brakes altogether and not
Speaker 3: date for a minute and just kind of.
Speaker 1: Let me let me tell you something. I think this
Speaker 1: is the end of the podcast. I would never judge you.
Speaker 1: After every situation I have found myself in. This is
Speaker 1: a judgment free zone. Trust me, it is not lost
Speaker 1: on me where my head has been at on money occasion.
Speaker 1: Judge free zone. I'm gaining clarity and I'm just a
Speaker 1: curious little cat. Okay, what curiosity killed the cat? I'm
Speaker 1: not curious fucking do you boo? All right, do you boo?
Speaker 1: But let me ask you. You said you have a suda.
Speaker 1: You don't like him?
Speaker 4: No, No, I actually really like him, So I'm not
Speaker 4: going to fuck him.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's a good call. Yes, the ninety
Speaker 1: days I'm so down with. I'm going to do that too. Yes.
Speaker 1: Can I say one other thing that's profound that I
Speaker 1: didn't mention on? Untraditionally, la la, I continue to go
Speaker 1: into any situation with a man where I let them
Speaker 1: know in some sort of way that I don't require
Speaker 1: a lot, that I'm very easy. And I actually just
Speaker 1: came to this realization. I require the hardest thing for
Speaker 1: someone to give, which is your time. The easy shit.
Speaker 1: It's very easy for someone to go buy you a gift.
Speaker 1: Here you go. I have to state when I meet
Speaker 1: somebody and I'm like, okay, I like you. Well, actually,
Speaker 1: I've learned if I'm attracted to you, I should run
Speaker 1: because I have a bad picker. Then you go for
Speaker 1: people that I don't like. But when I get into
Speaker 1: that situation, I have to be very true, transparent that
Speaker 1: I require a lot. I require healthy communication, which is
Speaker 1: hard for a lot of people, even though it seems
Speaker 1: very easy. I require your time, your attention, and your consistency.
Speaker 1: If you cannot offer those things and don't tell me,
Speaker 1: this is going to be months of you showing me
Speaker 1: before I put my guard down by it.
Speaker 2: To you, What when do you present all this.
Speaker 1: When I feel that there's a connection and I need
Speaker 1: to like the constant communication, big red flag. We should
Speaker 1: not be at the very beginning communicating every single day,
Speaker 1: very beginning. You should be trying to figure out a
Speaker 1: time that we can see each other. And let's see
Speaker 1: if that happens. Let's see how your follow through skills are.
Speaker 1: If your follow skills are not on point, guess what
Speaker 1: I'm going with this thing I saw on reels You
Speaker 1: put their name in every time you see something that
Speaker 1: you don't like, it's not really maybe not even a
Speaker 1: red flag, but something that just don't work for you, right,
Speaker 1: delete a letter of the name. Once that name is
Speaker 1: completely deleted, we're done here. I need to talk. I
Speaker 1: love that. So Joe and you've got three strikes and
Speaker 1: you're out.
Speaker 2: I was going to say, too, No, it's baseball.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm yeah, how many I think you? Yeah? They
Speaker 1: should all just be named Joe. Three strikes and you're yeah,
Speaker 1: because what if his name is my single new dude?
Speaker 1: Yeah no, every single new dude is going to be
Speaker 1: named Joe. Let's see how this goes. Take me out
Speaker 1: to the oh. Yeah yeah. That song slaps, especially when
Speaker 1: I think about a hot dog in my hand. What
Speaker 1: does baseball season starting.
Speaker 2: About?
Speaker 1: Listening to another bonus episode of Untraditionally La La, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna catch you guys next week. Bye,